Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 634 - Lady Em has a Husband, a Boyfriend, a BBC Dom and More

Episode Date: May 15, 2023

Lady Em has a husband and a boyfriend, and a BBC Dom and more and she called in to talk all about it. How and why did she and her husband decide to open up their marriage? How id she meet her current boyfriend and her dom? And, how does her husband feel about all her other guys? Tune in to hear all the details including how he was poly in high school and dated a girl as well as multiple guys all at the same time, how and why she became heterosexual and monogamous when she met her husband, her relationship with her husband and when and how the sex went out the window, the ultimatum she gave her husband and how he initially reacted, the rules they set up in regards to her hooking up with other guys, how and where she started looking for her side guys, her first encounter with her BBC bedroom dominant and how and why he was so into her, how she realized she was poly and how that led her into the bdsm community, her first mmf threesome with her boyfriend and her bedroom dominant and what exactly went down, how her husband and her swinger boyfriend have met and how her husband feels about him, how she feels about her boyfriend, how she felt the first time she swapped with her boyfriend and saw him with another woman, her ffm threesome with her bedroom dom and his female “pet” and exactly what went down, how she is a BBW and how and when she realized a lot of guys are into her curves, the full swap foursome she recently had with boyfriend and bbc bull and his ‘pet” and what went down, who knows about her poly life and who doesn’t, what her children know and what they don’t know, her husbands lack of interest in sex and why she chooses to stay with him plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of LADY M and my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The description, the link is in the description. Now, today I have on Lady M. Lady M started out Polly in high school before she even knew what fucking Polly was. was and she's currently living a Polly life, but in between those two things, she wasn't always Polly. She did settle down and get married and was monogamous to a guy, but it was like, I don't know, I don't think it was ever conventional, even though they set out to be conventional, because she did marry a guy that had this, like, that was a virgin at like 27. I mean, here was this girl who

was very open sexually when she was younger in high school. She had a girlfriend and she had threesomes and she was, you know, openly into men and women. And then she winds up meeting a virgin and marries him. And eventually the sex and their relationship went out the window. And she kind of gave him an ultimatum. And he took the offer of staying together and letting her go play. And she goes and plays. She, when he gave her the okay, she went on to the apps and she started meeting people. She's a BBW. She's a curvy girl. She wound up finding out that, you know, Black guys were really into her. She had her first BBC.

She was so into him. She still sees him to this day. He's her Dom. He's got a pet. Another female, curvy female, that she's played with. They've had threesomes there. She also currently has a boyfriend where she met that boyfriend and how he came about is very interesting story.

But she's currently with him. She's had threesome with the two guys, her BBC Dom guy, as well. as her boyfriend. They've played together with his pet. They've had foursums. She's at threesomes. The situation that she has with her husband is he doesn't really know the details, but he knows the details. You're going to have to listen to the episode to get the details because it all kind of sounds like she's having her cake and eat it too. But I really think when you listen to the episode and you listen to the details about her husband, I think he has everything he needs to, which doesn't sound right when you hear me saying it. That's why you're going to have to listen

to the episode, but after you listen to it, you're going to be like, okay, that's why Kathy said that. Her husband's an interesting character. I was slightly obsessed with him, asking a lot of questions about him. But anyway, you get the whole story from Lady M. She sent me in anonymous picks of her. I have those on my Patreon. There are rated. X-rated stuff goes on in the Discord. She might go on there as well. We talk about it at the end. But in this episode, she tells me her whole whole story. Like I said, starting out when she was in high school, to all the fun she had, then to her marriage and how it turned on conventional and then how she opened it and then all the sex she had after that and all her play partners and how she met them and everything that

they do. So it's super interesting story. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Lady M. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. How are you? Good. So Lady M, I was thinking I was talking to a dominatrix, but you're so much more. than that. I think you do have like a whole BDSM thing going on. But what you also have going on is like a poly thing. You've done a lot of threesomes, group sex, swapping. You're currently in an open marriage and you're polyamorous. But you really started out being poly, like back in the 90s without even knowing that you were poly, right? I mean, you were like, you had a boyfriend and a girlfriend in high school, correct? I did. I did. I had the same girlfriend for many years, but the guys, they switched in and out.

So you guys had a rule you and your girl like, hey, like we could date other guys. And did the guys always know that you, I mean, I'm assuming? Absolutely. Absolutely. That was the first thing. I was like she's my girlfriend. We are together. That's the only girl I'll ever be with. Well, we're together. Don't ask me to do anything else with anyone else because that's not what I want. Well, and I do know that one of your ex-girlfriends wound up to be your sister-in-law. Is that this one? I mean, I know that's jumping ahead. It is. It is?

It absolutely is. Okay, so your girlfriend in high school wound up marrying your brother. Does your brother know? Not my brother. Oh, your husband's brother or something like that? My husband's brother. Oh, my God. How incestuous.

This is like already I'm confused, but interested. So she married him first. And that's how I met my husband. Right. Okay. But let me just ask you a quick question about high school because, you know, it's the 90s. I think it's still a long time ago. Things weren't really that accepted.

What was it like being the two girls that were dating in the 90s in high school? Like, what was the word on the street about you guys? I think, to be honest, everyone in our group, they knew. Right. They didn't judge. They were like, yeah, they're. That's just them. That's just the girls.

Let's let them be. Right. But did it fly out there and the rumors? Like were people like... After a while, yeah. After a while, yeah. But it was just kind of like... So I can tell you exactly who is who and who is a lesbian and yet they've got

boyfriend. So don't judge me. I give you credit for being out and proud about it. I mean, you weren't hiding it like you said, like these other girls. You weren't in a secret lesbian affair. You were in an open lesbian affair. And what was even more hardcore is that you were not only dating a girl, you also had boyfriends and you were out about that too. I mean, there was no hiding anything, correct?

No, no. And honestly, I didn't care then. I just knew I was happy. I knew it wasn't, I knew it wasn't, you know, going to be accepted, but whatever. Well, I always used to say, because I was always kind of like just who I was. And the way I would explain it to people, and I think it's the opposite for most people. I would always be like my desire to be myself is greater than my desire to be liked. And so that always won out.

And some people wouldn't like me because of who I was, but I couldn't not be me. You know, and I think though that for a lot of people, they roll the opposite. Their desire to be liked is way stronger than their desire to be themselves. And that's why a lot of people could walk around with a mask their whole fucking life and be happy. I mean, I wish I could because, you know, the people that are really themselves, you take a lot of slack for being your fucking self sometimes, but like, you can't, what can you do? You gotta be you. You're like, that's the way you roll. I mean, you're currently in a poly relationship now, but I know you've done some like crazy things in between, like you did swapping, group sex,

like, when did that all come about? Was this like in high school or after high school? Okay, so my first three-sum was in high school. And then my second, third, fourth, I don't know, Love count after a hot minute. We're in my 20s. And then I settled down. And then of course, you know, group sex kind of went out the window because I went the whole heteromanogamy route with my husband. Now, fast forward to 37.

And I thought to myself, am I really happy? It had been like five months. We hadn't had sex. I was not even sure that his parts did what they needed to do. Wow. And that's young. I mean, is your husband around your age? Is he way older?

He is. He is a year older than me. Okay. And I just, I knew that he was an experience when I met him. Did he know that how experienced you were? That is where the ex-girlfriend, sister-in-law, scenario plays in. She is how I met my husband.

Okay, so he knew. So he knew because she told him horror stories and warned him. I was like, you don't want to be with her. She can't be monogamous. She's this, this. So I was like, you know what? You believe what you want to believe. Yes, I have done those things.

But you are vanilla. you have your routine and apparently I interest you. So who's telling, why are you going to listen to what she has to say and find out for yourself if I'm worthy of your time? And not only that, I'm assuming you put it on the table that even though I'm into all this stuff and have done all these things, I can be monogamous and live in your vanilla world. Absolutely.

Because monogamy and non-monogamy, those are choices. you make. You're not tied into the societal norms. There's no reason. So why not? Give it a try. So the joke was I was the rainbow sprinkles to his vanilla. Right, right, right. But you guys lived a pretty vanilla life for how long? For probably, about a good seven, eight years. Okay. That's a long run. Yeah, you know, monogamous random sex here and there. But like I said, you know, it got you the point where... Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

Monogamous random sex with who? Okay, my husband. It was never, it was never consistent. You never had like hot sex like even in the beginning. It was always just kind of... Oh, in the beginning, it was a whole different story. I didn't know he was a virgin. Oh, my God.

So the slutty girl from high school that is open and intense. the men and women and all this threesome's dating is marrying the virgin yes how crazy is this i don't even know how you got horny for him how did you get horny for him i don't know that was something of that okay first of all he's a very handsome man he's six foot two okay when i met him he was toned and he has a stable career i mean he's like how old was he at the time 27? And he was a virgin? Yes. Oh, that's a little.

I have to say, I wonder why you weren't having sex regularly. I will tell you this. He works in the financial industry. So what are you trying to say he has a lot of money? No, no, no, no. He handles people's money. It's a different story.

Oh, okay. But what does that have to do with him being a virgin? I guess he just put his head in the books for, you know, all five years. college. I have no idea. No, but listen, the reason why I'm harping on this is because eventually this guy who was a virgin up until he's 27 stops banging you. So I feel like there's a connection there for the guy that didn't need to lose his virginity eventually isn't really even having sex with his girl. Like that's a through line in him. You know, that that's connected somehow. Most guys are overly

horny in their, you know, it's just horlobes. Right. So I was like, okay, well, the sex was great. And the day. beginning. I mean, we were having sex all the time for like the first year and a half to two years. Okay. We had our child, our first one. And then two years later, I'm sorry, three years later, we had our second one. And then we were done. And then all of a sudden, the sex just kind of stopped. And normally I'm talking to the guy and the guy is saying this story. It's like the, because the woman gets so involved with the kids and there's no more sex. But what happened is in this situation, he stopped wanting the sex. Absolutely. It was like, hey, I'm a woman here. You know, I've got curves that you used to enjoy. Hello. So I just got to the point where I had had enough. I had gone on my first vacation to go out to see my bestie in California for four days. And it was at that point where I realized, okay, she's out here, my bestie, live in her queer authentic. life doing her thing with her partner van and I was like what am I doing? Like you wanted her life.

Right. You didn't feel like you were far away from who you initially were. That girl in high school that was super open. A thousand percent. Yeah. And like being, okay, and I was, I went from East Coast to West Coast for this vacation. So this was like a whole new outlet. on the way back.

But the long and the short of that was I realized he only sees me as mom and wife. He doesn't see me as a woman anymore. Yeah. And I'm thinking to myself, okay, maybe he's asexual. And I asked him, I was like, do you not find my figure attractive anymore? Do you not find the female form attractive anymore? Right. Maybe you're not into women at all.

Do you masturbate? Do you find men attractive? What is your thing? And he could never give me an answer. Interesting. And I said to him, look, I'm not going to live the celibate life and be in this monogamous relationship. If there's not going to be any sex, I need you to see me as a woman. I need you to, you know, bang me out.

time bend me the fuck over the bed we've got a four post bed fucking use it you know and it was like he couldn't and i said then this is the option it's either you figure out if you want to do couples therapy and separate or whatever this could be the end of us or you could let me just be me and you can just be you and if you want to be asexual and you don't want to use your penis that's your your prerogative but i'm going to go do you do you may. And we stay together, but we stay together as a family. Okay, so that's an ultimatum. So one choice is we get divorced. We kind of try to make it work maybe together, but if it doesn't, we get divorced. Or we stay together and we could, it's status quo, but I get to fuck whoever I want.

Pretty much. I was like, I was like you, you can, you are the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have children together. I've built a life with you. Yeah. We've been together for over 15 years. I am not ready to walk away from everything that we have because you don't want to have sex with me. Right. Okay. Because you don't want to give me that intimacy. What did he say? So he said, you do you. You, if it's going to make you happy, I want you happy. So if it makes you happy to find what you need elsewhere, then that's what you do. I just, I just, just want you happy. Mm-hmm.

And deep down, I'm like, what fuck? Does he genuinely mean this shit? And here we are. Oh, God. 37, 40, oh, fuck. Six years later. Yeah, six years later, yeah. Like, and I'm living my best Polly life.

I have a boyfriend and a bedroom dominant, BBC that I just I don't know I don't know how I got here Okay Okay well we're gonna we're gonna get that whole fucking story okay so your guy tells you all right You go be you now do you wind up going on apps and put yourself out there and like did you have a lot of conversations with him about it? Did he know every step of the way what was going on? He knew every step of the way what was going on

The only thing he did not know was the actual details of the sex. So it was a don't ask, don't tell kind of scenario thing? It was don't ask, don't tell what you do naked. Right, right, right. You can tell me that you're talking to these people. You can tell me that you're interested in someone. You can tell me you're going to go out on a date.

But I don't want to know what you're doing. As long as you're having fun and you're happy, I'm happy. Okay, quick question, though, about him. I just want to dig a little in him because I'm a little curious about that man that has no drive for anything. I tend to not believe that, but maybe it is like an asexual thing. But I'm like, you know, you got to like something. Like you said, like what is it that you're into?

You know, there's got to be something you're jerking off to or getting hard for or something. I don't know. I mean, does he have a pass? Is he allowed to do anything he wants? Has he ever copped in this journey to any kind of kinky thing? Has he gotten involved? Or is he still like the same guy that he was when you started like just not into sex? It's a little of, a little of, uh, both, I would say.

Like, he's interested in some of the things. Like, he, he knows when I'm video chatting with my BBC. He knows when I'm on the phone with my boyfriend. He knows when, you know, I'm going out what I'm doing, you know, where I'm going, who I'm with, if I'm going to be spending the night. He knows all those details. And he's just like, yeah. whatever.

No, but what, no, I want to know, what is he getting horny for now? Or is he still the unhorned guy? Is he still that unhorny asexual guy? I think that he is. I think that he is. I mean, I can't check his browser history like I used to anymore because he clears it every day. Well, when you used to check it, what was on there? Oh, my goodness.

So it was a lot of, you know, just regular vanilla sex. But then every once in a while, it would be like this, like, piss play or like um like like like then it wasn't like asphyxiation it was it was something it was something else that's a little scary it was like it was definitely consensual non-consent stuff that like kidnapping yeah and i was like okay all right all right whatever that's fine oh my god lady my hope our next episode is not like you know you're you're where like date line episode like God no. God no. That man, that man could not hurt a fly, okay? Could not hurt a fly. He does not get angry. He does not curse. He does not drink. Yeah, that's not normal. That's none of that is normal.

I don't see where you think. He is straight vanilla. Maybe he's on the spectrum, but somebody, like, this is what you're trying to tell me. No, no, no, listen. I love that you love him and that's fine. I'm not saying, but I'm just telling you that what you are describing, okay, you are describing a human being. You had kids. You know how they come out. Okay. We all know anyone that had a baby. We know that men, women, boys, girls, human beings have fucking feelings. They're there the minute they pop out, right? And they're there all through childhood. People tend to get disconnected from them as they get older, but they're all there inside everybody. But you were trying to tell me that you have married a man who is not into sex, who never gets angry, who never says a bad word, who has no feelings.

What else was on that list? I mean, like, I just don't understand. Like, he doesn't sound like a a human. He might be on the spectrum maybe, I don't know, because nobody rolls like that. I mean, how could someone not? I know. I know. It's not normal for someone to never get angry. I'm sorry, like, that's not normal. Like, he does get angry, but it's so few and far between. Okay. Okay. And I can honestly say there's a lot of emotion that he just shoves down. And I think it just kind of just dissipates. I think it just doesn't care. Yeah, that's why he's like watching porn where he's like strangling girls. I don't know.

I don't know. Because he's keeping it all inside. I'd want to fucking strangle people too if I wasn't allowed to express my frustrations. Right, right, right. I don't know why I'm so interested in your husband because we got to get off of him, but he does fascinate me what the picture you're painting. But you actually have so much more to share.

So let's get back to you. I do. I do. I mean, so wait. So you go, how does it start now? You go on. apps. Is that how you started to meet people? Yes, I started to go on apps and meet people.

And, you know, everyone's in a while. I would find somebody who peaked my interest. We'd start having conversations. And I'd set up a meet to like have like coffee or whatever. And sometimes it would become a nooner. It was never like a thing. And then I met my first BBC. And you would never think to yourself to yourself after all these years of dating and sleeping with nerdy white guys that you would go from a nerdy white guy to the BBC because you don't know you're like hmm but you were curious to me uh-huh I was I was so I'm I'm a curvy girl and I did not think that I was even on the radar of of any man that was outside of what I'm used to dating right but black guys love curvy girls that's a good.

learned this and I learned this and I have embraced this. Yes. So the first guy spoke French, naughty, dirty things in French. Oh my God, super hot, right? I can imagine. Amazing. Never knew it. So it started there with the apps, just meeting people.

Were you meeting women too or just men? I was trying to meet women. Meeting women seems to be the hardest thing for me. How come do you think? I don't know if it's because I'm bisexual and I've never been like a strictly lesbian, like, oh, she's been tainted by cock. We can't be having her.

I don't know if it's that or if it's just not every woman is attracted to another curvy girl. Me? I love curvy women. Right. I don't know. I don't get it. Right. I was trying to find women.

Mm-hmm. But I kept finding men. Okay, so you were open to both and you were like, I'm down to me. to meet men, you met no women, but all these guys were popping up. Absolutely. Absolutely. So it was like the tonic lovers and just nothing, anything.

And then I joined Kick and I got into the online BDSM community because here I am realizing that I'm Polly. And I'm like, let me find my people. This is like the pandemic we're talking here. Yeah. So I was like, I need to find people. I need, you know, I want to learn more. I want to make sure that, you know, I'm doing this in some type of way that is not going to be offensive to the community.

Yeah. Because I know I can't be the only one. So, you know, I met a whole bunch of people there and I joined FetLife and then I met more people. And I have never been to like a public munch or anything like that. Yeah. It's always been like an online thing. And so. that leads into what the hell do you call yourself in these online communities?

And I'm thinking, okay, I was always told, and this harkens back to the Golden Girls, is be a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. And that's why I was like, I'm a lady. I'm not a ma'am. I'm not a mistress. I think I'm a lady, because I know when to be a lady. lady, you know, not to be like the whore that's in, you know, I just, so I went with Lady M. Oh, that's where you got your name.

Exactly. Because I was like, you know, it works. When did you do? Because, I mean, you do get into like swapping and group sex and MNF threesomes and stuff. I mean, is this happening with all these random guys you're meeting or do you wind up settling down with somebody and then that kind of stuff happened? I wind up settling down with somebody. So I'm on fat.

And I noticed, you know, a bunch of likes and some pictures and there was this name I didn't recognize. And I clicked on it. I was like, okay, they live about 40 minutes for me. Okay. But there was no pictures on the profile. I get a message on Facebook. And it's one of my ex-boyfriends, the boyfriend who I lost my virginity to at 16. Wait, wait, wait. Are you going to tell me that the person, without the picture was your ex-boyfriend from high school? It was. He found me on FetLife.

And so he messaged me on Facebook and he's like, is this your profile? Wow. Like, girl, I knew, but really? And so we get into this long history and I find out that over the years he's, you know, been swinging and doing gangbangs and this, that and the other thing. And I'm thinking, we went from V-card to having sex in the fields in the middle of the pine barons to now you're doing this. No, now you're both doing this.

You're both on fucking fat life or whatever looking for each other. Right, right, right. So I was like, we could be each other as wing men. Yeah. Was he married? He's not married. He's been single this entire time. Okay.

So, yeah, we were like, we could just be a chender swing event. No, that didn't happen. We ended up in bed and here we are two years later. And we've had MMF. We'd have FFM, swap, foursome. Okay, tell me how all that went down and give me some details. Like, I mean, did he start bringing you to swingers clubs and stuff? I mean, where are you getting all these other extra people?

Okay. We had never been to a Fingers Club together. We did go to an adult bookstore. Don't know if you're familiar with how those back rooms work. Well, I've heard. You're going to tell me. That was an experience to say the least. Tell me about it.

I didn't go to the glory hole or anything like that, you know, but I did give him a blow job in the porn booth. Why not? You're there, live it up a little. Right. You know, but that was as far as I got. I was like, this would be great for public sex, but this is not my scene. And so he's like,

okay well maybe you should try to find somebody to play with and I was like okay all right whatever because of course like I said he's from the swinging community he's open he's whatever he's like you do you and I meet my BBC my bedroom dominant and I was just had said to both of them I was like you guys should meet each other and they planned this evening in a hotel and then next thing I know, here I am with both of them. And I just was beside myself. Like, I had never had an MMF. I had fFMs. Like two girls, three subs, right. Two girls, one guy, threesome since I was 16. But this is the first one I've ever had with two guys and me. I love the attention. You love that. I was beside myself. I was like, okay, we're checking this off again.

But did you do everything with those two guys? I mean, are you a three-in-put girl? I am not a three-hole girl all the time. Okay. I had a really bad experience of anal sex in my 20s, and I was like, you know, nobody's allowed in there. Nobody's allowed in there. However, fast-forward to now, my boyfriend,

he's the only person that gets that hole. I am only his three-hole girl. He has a penis that is adequate enough that is, you know, comfortable. Right. He's not too big. No, he's not. He's a decent size. He works it.

But the BBC is, is, oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. You put that back. So you love that. Let me ask you this. After you have that threesome with the two guys and you love it, do you, do you, do you tell your husband those kind of details like that you're doing these kinds of kinky things or you don't tell him anything. Because I know there's no details.

Yeah. Right. What I had said to him is, okay, I'm going out tonight. I'm spending the night out with my boyfriend. We might meet up with, I don't even know what I would call him. Your BBC, but I'm going to tell you. The BBC, yes. Yeah, you're BBC.

Yeah. Right. And we're going to meet up with him and I'll be back sometime tomorrow after breakfast. And he's like, okay, have fun. Wow. And I come home. And obviously, I'm not doing the walk change. There was a hotel room, you know, the shower.

But I come home and I drop my stuff down. And the first thing he says to me is, did you have fun? And I said, yes, I did all the things that you don't do. And he laughs. And we just let it be. Wow. Your husband is so fascinating. I need to talk to your husband.

He just can't put it together. in words, like what his deal is? No, I have asked him over and over again. And I just get, I'm happy with what we have. Yes, it's unconventional. Yes, it, you know, we don't have sex. It's okay. He never wants to have sex with you ever?

We have had sexed. I want to say in the past six years, maybe twice. Right. Okay. But do you think he's seeing guys or something on the sex? Oh, God, no. I go out way more than he ever does. Right.

If he's seeing anyone, I have no idea when he does it. Maybe it's on his lunch hour, but he works an hour and a half away. So I don't know. Right, right, right. I mean, I'm just trying to figure out, you know? I want you to go back to the browser history. I can't tell you how many people, I can't tell me how people have had like this conversation. It was like, where is the deal with your husband?

I'm like, he just is what he is. I accept him for what he is. I love him and I just let it go. I'm living my best life. And you're like, Kathy, please let it go. I can't let it. You know what it is? You had years of letting it go.

I'm like, I can't let it go because I just found out about this like unique person that exists that has no interest in sex or any kind of sex. I wonder like if he's ever had his hormones. Now, I don't know if it's complacency or if it's compulsency or if it's compulsory. or if it's conversion? I don't know. No, because he doesn't want details. Like, that's what I was curious.

Like, is he going to get details? And maybe that's like his kink. I would think if he was secretly into guys, he would be asking you for details. And that's why it probably isn't a guy thing either. I wonder if maybe he has no, like, testosterone in him or something. Like, maybe he's got some sort of hormonal issue. I don't know, you know.

Yeah, no, I have asked him all these questions. Yeah, I believe that. Of course. You've been with him a long time. And listen, I don't necessarily. really think, I mean, I remember when I was younger and I would ask guys things and they wouldn't have fucking answers. And I just thought that guys were just like such fucking liars. And then I came to understand that they, when they don't know, they really don't know. Men aren't

sort of a- No, they don't. Yeah, they're not attached to their feelings and they're not as insightful as we are because they're not a lot to have feelings. They have to disconnect from them when they're very young. And I once read a book about that and how they really don't know. So I, you know, I believe a man when he says he doesn't fucking know, even though it's obvious to us, a lot of times, like, why they're rolling a certain way or doing a certain thing. And when they say they don't fucking know, they really don't know. They're not connected in that way.

And they don't analyze and think like we do. You know, for us as women, we look at your husband and, like, how do you not know? Like, explain, you know, and he can't give you the answers. But I just, I, tell me, is it me? Is it you? Is it us? Is it your penis?

What is the problem? Right. And when he says he doesn't know or he has no. He really does it. And that's, Therein lies the problem for him. I mean, that's like for him to figure out. And I said to him, go get help.

Yeah. Get help. Whether it's a doctor, a therapist, he's just like, no, I'm good. Yeah, that's where I'm like he might be on the spectrum. He might be, um, Asperger, you do you. Wait, he might, is he like affectionate? Yes. He hugs me.

We cuddle. I mean, we have that. But that's really the level of intimacy that there is. But I mean, you feel like love from him. an emotional connection. So he's capable of that. There's just the physical thing that's missing. A thousand percent.

A thousand percent. Okay, back to you. So, okay, everyone's probably so mad at me. Okay, so you're, so he, so when, so when you have these threesomes and stuff, he just, like, asks about it, he's really not a part of this whole other life that you're living. No, it's a, it was a separate life until, of course. You had the boyfriend.

Yeah, before I got a boyfriend and, you know, before I started doing the multiple partner thing. Where the hell is I going? Shit. You're saying it's a separate life. Not really. I mean, it was like. Again, it felt like a separate life because he didn't know who these people were. Right, right, right.

He didn't know what these people meant to me. So, you know, obviously in this type of non-traditional thing, you really need to. to as much open communication as you could possibly get because you want to make sure that everybody's happy. Yeah. Because if somebody's miserable, then everybody's miserable. And then the whole apple cart falls over and you're like, well, shit, how'd we adhere? Right. So I said to him, would you want to meet these people? Do you want to know who they are? And he goes, no, not really. And I was like, well, just know that this person you are going to meet. And that was my boyfriend. And they've met each other in passing. Like my boyfriend's come over.

to the house a couple times when we've hung out. He hasn't met my kids yet. I haven't met his kid, but whatever. I digress. This man, he allows them in, allows my boyfriend into this house. Just no problems whatsoever. Wow. And I'm like, okay, all right, so he's not territory either.

So what the hell's the point? I'm just going to live my best life. Mm-hmm. Because you have this relationship. You, I mean, is it? You're Polly, right? So you're in love with both men? I am. I love my husband. I love my boyfriend. They are my people. And one probably doesn't take away from the other because your boyfriend has never been married. He's probably never really, he's not really looking for what you have over there with your husband, correct? So there's probably like no like jealousy on either side. Right? Because each one is very different. I mean, it's it's very different, but they're both very very. healthy non-traditional relationships. Yeah. And what's interesting is that you have like two guys on each end of the spectrum. You have the asexual and the hypersexual. You know, you have the guy that's

been fucking swinging all his life and can never settle down with one person. And you have the guy who was a virgin at 27. I mean, like, you could not get two extremes, you know? So you kind of have like somewhere in the middle of those two guys is like the normal guy, you know? Right. I, I feel like a girl who's got her cake and gets to eat it too. I feel very lucky, very spoiled. But at the same time, I feel the guilt of like, why can't I be, you know, the typical housewife, mom, you know, person? Well, no, no, no, no. You know why?

No, that's not true. Because, listen, you were that person in the beginning. You signed up for that. You were okay with that. What you had with him was not what you. just explained, okay? You had a sexless marriage. You had, uh, that's not, that's not normal. You know what I mean? You weren't in a, you weren't a regular woman in a regular monogamous relationship and you were like, I can't fucking take this. You weren't getting fucked at all ever. And you were like,

in your prime. So there was something, there was something missing in that relationship. And that's why you went out and straight. Now, if you were with another guy, maybe you could have rolled that way you did for a long time with him absolutely absolutely if i had met somebody that swept me off my feet and said okay you know i'm going to support you but fucked you too and you had kids with him and all that you might have it was fine the reason why you decided to stray from that idealistic marriage scenario that you think that you are not okay with is because it wasn't that anymore it changed like there was zero sex. And it was very extreme. I've got, I've got either two choices. Leave or being this. Yeah, you're an out of the box person. You were an out of the box person already. You had experienced this kind of lifestyle when you were younger. So instead of, you know, breaking up your family and doing that to your children, I think that's very hard sometimes to do. It was easier to do this. It made. It makes you. It

sense. I mean, listen, you didn't set out. You didn't plan for this to happen. No, I don't have scripted it if you wanted to like, oh, I'm going to marry this guy. No, you can't make this shit up. No, but it kind of happened. But if you trace it back to who you were when you were younger, it kind of like, you know, fits into a place in your life, you know, because you were very out of the box. So the fact that you did wind up in an out of the box relationship at the end of the day or scenario. It should be. It should be. Absolutely no shock to my sister-in-law. Right.

That here I am living this life. Does she know? No. Yeah, no one's going to know. It's a big difference in, you know, walking around with your girlfriend and boyfriend in high school than when you're older and you're married and, you know, there would be a lot more, I think, a talk around town about you and your situation. And I have to wonder, I have to wonder, am I living what she would consider her best life?

Right. You don't know. I mean, like, I don't know. You know she likes girls, but she's in a monogamous relationship. Like, did that just go away? I don't know. I do not know, and I don't want to know. We have a very strained relationship as it is.

We barely talk. It's a family. Like, if, you know, the family is up, you know, and we're all doing a family thing, then, yeah, I'll be pleasant. But that is she. You know, it's too bad that you guys don't talk because maybe, you know, maybe it's a genetic thing. and maybe her his brother isn't fucking her either.

I mean, who knows what's going on over there? Because look what's going on in your thing. And that's the brother, right? She's married to his brother. Yes. She's married to his brother. Yeah, I mean, who knows? So wait, so now your guy that you're with now, he's down with your husband.

Like, you know, do you ever in, like, with this guy when he's out fucking other people, like, do you like hearing about it? Do you see him with other women? Do you ever feel any kind of weird jealousy because you're falling in love with him? Okay. So I know I am in love with him. There is no doubt about that. Jealousy, not really.

Uh-huh. The first time that we had a group scenario where I saw him with another woman, I was more interested in making sure that he was enjoying himself, he was enjoying her, and she was enjoying him. Yeah. More than I was trying to enjoy him. joy whatever was going on with me at that time. So you were into that.

That's the compersion, right? Like you were so horny to see your guy get turned on by somebody else. Even though I was being pleasureed at that point, I could not focus because I was more concerned than what was going on five feet for me. Right. But not in a jealousy way at all. Not in a jealousy way at all. It was more like, okay, is he having fun with her?

I've had fun with her. Is she having fun with him? I need to know this. Right. Now, do you enjoy all this group sex and swapping? Like, give me some of those details. That's what people always love. I have to ask more for that.

Okay. Okay. So the BBC, of course, we had the MMS with my boyfriend. Probably two, three months later, I had an S-FM with the BBC. Did he find the girl? It's actually his pet. He is, he's also in the BDSM community. He considers himself a dom and he has a pet.

And she's a beautiful, curvy girl like me. And she and I got to play together. He's like, you guys play together. And I was like, okay. And the next thing I know, he's having sex with both of us. I'm doing it. And then it was just a free for all. between the three of us.

Now, when you say curvy, is that BBW? What is BB, could you just tell me what BBW stands for? Big beautiful woman? Yes. I am. I am. Right. And so his pet.

I am a petite 5-2 little thing. But I also weigh like 240 pounds. And that's okay with me. I'm good with myself. And I'm sure you find that it's very okay with a lot of guys too when you get hit up like crazy, right? Absolutely. Absolutely. like body worship is a thing.

Yeah. I never knew that people thought that my curves of my tummy were beautiful. Yes, I think it's like the most downloaded porn category. How did I miss this boat too? It was the BBC's. It was the guys that love curvy women that want to worship their bodies. I mean, how did I miss that boat? But I got on the boat.

We're good. Yeah. And he's down and he had another girl like, you, right? And then you guys all did, got together. And we all had fun together. And he had said to me, okay, I want you to set up a date with her. And you two can have your own fun time on your own fun time, but you have to send me pictures. And I said, really? But she's yours. And he's like, yeah, you get to be lady M. You get to be her dawn for the day. And I was. And I was, I was like, okay.

So I got to have one on one with her because of him, which was fun. Right. And you domed her? Do you like being the dom? I did. I enjoyed it. And so most situations with the BBC, he's the one in control. He's the dominant in the bedroom, complete dominant.

Outside of the bedroom, he's just talking like anybody else. I don't have to use any protocol or any of the BDSM stuff at all. But in the bedroom, a whole different scenario. So, Donnie and the girl, it was like, I really wish I had more toys. Right. You realize, you know, you're a little inadequate. Like, I have, you know, in 1980s, 1990s, caboodles, you know, the accessory organizer from back in the day. that I have all of my toys in.

It just fits in one container. I do not have nearly enough toys to be in that situation again yet. Right. So that was a one-time deal with his pet? That was a one-time deal so far. The opportunity still exists. It's just a matter of scheduling. Scheduling seems to be an issue with everyone.

Yeah, it's hard with grown-up scheduling. You know, I mean, I got that. So scheduling with all of them to make all of this, work. If my husband wasn't so open and just was like, yeah, you go be happy, do you? Then I wouldn't have the freedom to do half of this stuff. And he's never come to you with any kind of jealousy or anything. No. No, I really would have thought by now there would have been some spark of something. and there hasn't been anything. I'm like, when is this going to fall?

When is my house going to crumble? When am I going to, you know what you mean? Well, listen, I mean. When's that she going to drop? But it's not. No, because where is he going to find, like, listen, it doesn't just work for you. It works for him. Nobody's getting the short end of the stick here.

And if anyone listening to this thinks that he's getting some sort of short end this trick, you're fucking wrong. This guy has got the perfect scenario going down because he knows on every level. that if he went out there and met another woman and kicked you to the curb and it was like, fuck her, she's begging all these guys, I want a woman that's going to just stay with me. He's never going to find that woman

because he doesn't want to fuck women, okay? It's obvious. So he is staying because someone like, you're the only, like what you guys have is perfect for both of you, not just for you. It's perfect for the guy who's asexual and doesn't want to have sex.

You're the perfect woman for him. No other, a monogamous woman. would not deal. When you were trying to be monogamous, you were like, fuck this, ready to divorce him. And it's only because you roll this way that you were able to stay. So you're actually both perfect for each other.

Why would it fall? I don't know. It's just, you know, you get that sinking feeling every once in a while, like, what is going to happen? Like, is this really my life? Like, I can't make this shit up. Like, I tell my story and they're like, what is wrong with your husband?

Where do you meet these people? Like, how do you get? And I'm like, I don't know. Is he a good dad? He is. Right. He is an excellent dad. Mm-hmm.

And he's a good partner? Like, he's a good friend to you? He is. He supports me. Like I said, he always says to me, if you're happy, I'm happy. I want you to be happy. You do what you need to do to be happy. Yeah, like I said, I mean, he definitely,

is getting what he needs as well. You know, I think men do have a inner thing of wanting to take care of somebody. They have a desire to take care of a family. You know, he has his, he has his children. You take care of his children. Right. Like he's good now. Like he's completed that mission, as it were, to have the kids, to have the wife.

to have the house, to have the car. Yeah. The, you know, the cats, the vacations. He has all that. Yeah. You too. And if his wife decides, you know, she's just going to go away for the weekend. He knows where she is.

He knows what she's doing. He knows that she's being safe. She's smart. She's not going to do something stupid that's going to jeopardize her marriage, her relationship with him, her life. Why would I do that? Right. So you don't really feel like there's this, any kind of window of opportunity for you to eventually decide to leave him because you felt hard for somebody else. Right. Right. I mean, it would really have to be someone who can step into that role. And I honestly don't think anybody could fill his shoes at this point.

Right. I mean, you're very entangled with him. I think that's why a lot of people stay in marriages. that aren't working and stuff, it's hard to unravel when you've had kids and you share a house and, you know, you have the same bank account. Maybe when your kids are older and they move out of the house, you know, 30 years from now, it might be a different story, but you're still young. It might be a different story. But right now, it's like I'm still young. Our kids are still young.

They're still, you know, not even in their teen years yet. So it's like everything is different these days. there are different relationships that your children see. Like, we have neighbors. It's a woman and her partner, and they have two little girls that they've adopted. I mean, there's so many different types of traditional and non-traditional families in our neighborhood that my daughter's just like, yeah, my mom has a boyfriend. Oh, your daughter knows. And my daughter knows that much because she hears me talking, and she knows what I'm saying.

She's not stupid. So, I mean, obviously, I'm not talking sex. You know, sex or anything like that. But if she's like, who are you talking to? I'm like, oh, I'm talking to my boyfriend. And she goes, oh, okay. And just walks out of the room like nothing, nothing's wrong. And what I've said to her is love is love.

It doesn't matter if you have only enough love to give one person or if you have enough love. or if you have enough love to give it to more people. It doesn't matter. You can love whoever you want, boy, girl, trans. I don't care. Just don't bring me home a toaster and say, Mom, this is my husband. I mean, humans are good.

It's pretty much is where I put it to her. I was like, whatever kind of human. Whatever kind of human is your thing is your thing because who am I to judge? Besides your kids, they don't really know about the sex stuff. And they know that you're in love with other, you know, that you have this boyfriend and stuff. So it's out of the norm.

But like, do you have any friends? No. My friends know. A lot of my friends know. Mm-hmm. And they're just like, yeah. That's just M. That's you. That's M.

That's just, it's just M. You don't ask. Yeah. And they're sick of asking about your guy. What's his fucking problem? And they're like, yeah. They're like, really, are we still there? And I was like, yeah.

we're still here. It's not changing. They're like, okay. And they just stopped asking because it's like, they're like, oh, how is your husband? How are the kids? How is so and so? Are you still with so and so? You know, and I'm like, no, no, we're, it's been two years that we've been together now, you know, so you get the updates because, you know, everybody texts everybody nowadays. So when you actually sit down and you talk and you shoot the shit, you find out the real, you know, you know, know needy gritty of it all but my friends they know um you know i've let some information out to my mother-in-law like my husband's mother about how i'm concerned about him and that she needs to try to force him to get some help um but as far as you know my extracurricular activities outside

of my marriage. My family doesn't know. They don't need to know. My dad. My dad is the funniest fucking story. So my father, I'm telling him, you know, this is what's going on in my life right now. This is what's happening in my marriage. What should I do? Because I'm really close with my dad. And he says, to me, kid, get more sex toys. And I said, dad, sex toys. Yeah, that helps. But what about the other things that I need in my life. And he's like, you do you, kid. So fast forward a year or so

ago, I told him I got a boyfriend. He goes, good for you. Does he, he might think that the boyfriend is a vibrator. Does he really know it's a real person? No. I don't know. I've tried to explain him that it's a real person and then I've had this

relationship outside of my marriage for two years and my dad's just like, yeah, whatever kid. You know, I remember. back when you were young and so and so and so and so and I'm like all right I get it dad I get it dad so when I talk to my best friends like about my crazy life that they think is insane I think it's just life but one of my old friends I was like why didn't you tell me that I was kinky why didn't you tell me I was a slide why didn't you tell me any of this and he goes well I was benefiting from it. So why would I even bother to tell you? And what would you think that having that information

would have changed anything? Like I said, I'm sorry. Like I don't know, maybe I would have changed my behavior a little bit. I don't know. Right. What was the bad behavior? I don't really know. I don't know. I mean like the untraditional things of like sleeping with different people all the time, I'm always having, you know, a different guy of the week, a different girl that I would date every once in a while after I broke up with my girlfriend. I mean. Listen, I think that you could try to run from who you are, but most people just wind up back to who they were. And I think, you know, in a weird way, why did the girl who's so sexual and open marry the virgin? I don't know, but you still wound up being who you were.

So it was actually right. I went around my elbow to get to my ass to be happy. Right. You're still there. You're still that same girl. Like here you are. And even though you, you know, you did it kind of backwards, but you still wound up having that open relationship probably that on some level you always wanted.

And that's where you are at. And everyone seems to be okay with it. Because, you know, you have that swinger boyfriend. He's fine. He doesn't want any more from you that he has, right? I mean, he's okay. He is content. What about your BBC Bull?

He always wants more of my time. Okay. But he, I don't consider my primary partner. I don't consider him. He's like a sex. A sex boy guy, right? Friends with benefits. Friends with benefits, right.

Yeah, that's a good label. And how many other people do you have? Anyone else? Or is that like, currently no. I used to have a few people that would just kind of hit me up. and be like, hey, what are you doing? But that's been few and far between, and I'm okay with that because, you know, I see my boyfriend twice a week, sometimes less, but usually on average. And I see the BBC like maybe once a month.

And that's, that's plenty for me. And, you know, of course, every few months, we all, you know, get a group text going and we were like, hey, are we going to go out? Like the BBC is pet me and my boyfriend. Do you guys have foursums? We've had a foursome. Mm-hmm. We've had a foursome. But they want to take they, meaning the men, they want to take me and his pet to a BBW swingers party.

Oh yeah. Why don't you go? Are you going to go? I want to go. I do. I really do. But I would feel so awkward. because I've never been to like a public kink sex lifestyle event ever.

Yeah, but I mean, you'll be with a lot of people you know. And the BBC, they have. Right, right. And so as the pet, I'm the odd man out here. Right. Well, let's end with what, let's end with the details of your foresome with them. Like what went down there? It was like a free for all.

Everybody like swapped and everything. Well, it started out with his pet giving my boyfriend a blowjob. Like he was, the BBC was standing there. And the next thing I know, his hand is on her head and she's on my boyfriend's cock. And I'm just sitting there like, hey, am I supposed to watch this? Am I filming this? I had no idea what was going on. We were all talking.

And I was down my bra on underwear already because it was hot. in the room because hotel rooms you never know what the hell temperature you're getting in those things either the sauna or the cooler but i look over and there's his hand on her head and cock in mouths and i'm like okay so eventually i get attention from the bbc and i am enjoying myself but i look over and i see that they're having sex and i'm like i'm so interested in what they're doing I'm not interested in what you're doing to me I'm sorry I can't do this but then of course the dominant comes out and he goes no you're doing this you're getting on all fours and you're gonna let me fuck you and after that everything was fine right that was your first force I mean it sounds like you were

had so many threesome why was the foursum like why were you gun shy for that one I have no idea I think it was because I was just overwhelmed as to who I was supposed to be interacting with. And if they're all interacting and non interacting with me, what am I supposed to do with myself? Yeah, yeah, I got it. That might happen when you go to the swingers club, but, you know, I bet you're anything you're going to wind up there. They're going to be, you know, those three are going to be out mingling and I'm going to be like, what am I supposed to do with myself? Right.

Oh, my goodness. I'm looking like the weirdo. Like, hey. Are you still? Let me ask you this. Are you still on the apps looking for people? or are you pretty much satisfied with what you have right now? I'm still on Fat Life.

I'm not looking for people. I've got a listed in my About Me that I'm not looking for people. Right now, right. You know, but of course, that doesn't stop. People from emailing you. Are you sending you dick pics? Yeah, dick pics. Those are fun.

You know what I send back? What? A picture of my cat. Like, you know, the furry one that meows. Like, here's my pussy. Here's a real pussy. So that's what they get when they get me dick pics. But yeah, I'm still on KICC.

I have online community friends there that I chat with all the time. So I probably not leave KIC because it's become a way for me to learn and grow and meet people who are like-minded. Yeah, I think that's always super important because, you know, you said a lot on this episode. Like you could tell that there's a part of you that feels like, you know, don't belong or you don't fit in and like you're doing this crazy thing. No, because I still feel so new. Right. So that's why I think that that community over there is something you should really stay connected to because those are your people. They can understand this part of you and can relate, you know, and so I think that is important to stay connected. I just think that, you know, in those

things of like lifestyle BDSM, Polly, that whole community, I really feel like if you're not conversing and learning and doing the research and delving into it, you can't really consider yourself part of that community. You're just somebody who plays for fun. Right. Yeah. So if I'm, if I'm going to call myself Lady M, then I better have the knowledge and the information at my fingertips to say, yeah, okay, I know about the lifestyle. I, you know, I'm knowledgeable enough to not be one of those people that bring shame to the community. Right, right, right. Yeah, interesting.

So listen, I don't know if you want to give out your kick, but you did give me anonymous picks for my Patreon. So if anyone wants to see Lady M and all of her curvy glory, she's on my Patreon. I have R-rated sexy picks of her over there. You could also, for you, Lady M, you get access for free to my Discord, which is, you know, regular people can only get it through my Patreon. but you feel free to go on there if you want to and you don't have to. It's just up to you.

It's free for you since you're a guest. To go on to my Discord and introduce yourself, that's where my Patreon members go and get to meet people a bit on my show. They also all share stuff with each other. It's like X-rated stuff is going down there. If you want to get involved, you more, you can. It's free for you, like I said. I will send you the link when your episode is up and you could go there if you want. Like I said, it's free for you to go on there and feel free to do whatever you want there.

but for everybody else if they just want to see the X-rated picks, I mean, our rated picks. I have those on my Patreon. There's a link in the description. Thank you so much for calling it and sharing your story. It's super interesting. I still need to know. Your husband is still the big question mark in my mind. I love it.

I love a fucking mystery. He's a question mark in my life. I love it. Yeah, he's interesting to me. But so thanks, anybody. Your whole story is interesting. Your journey is interesting. I want to know where you wind up 10 years from now.

But because where you've been so far. I hope I'm still living my best poly life. You will, I really believe you will be. You know, maybe like I think, you know, maybe when your kids get older and stuff, you might wind up. Maybe, I don't know, if you with a guy, if the only thing what would be better

than what you have now is if you had a guy who was like you, very open, you know, but also wanting to have that primary relationship. Absolutely. If I could find someone who, who ticked all the boxes and. And you could play with like this. Could play with.

Yeah. I would be a happy camper. But do I see that happening for me? Probably. I don't think you're going to give up your family in that stuff yet. No, I think that would only be. I'm not ready to give up. Yeah, I think that your kids would have to be older.

I don't think you would even be open to that until way later. So. Nope, nope. But they might have a crazy uncle that comes over all the time. I don't know. Well, they already have a boy. friend. Anyway, listen, Lady. Thank you so much for calling it and sharing

your service. It was super interesting. Thank you so much for having me. Yeah, thank you. And thanks for sending in your picks already. That was awesome. You're welcome. You have a good afternoon. You too. Bye. All right. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go

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