Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 638 - Kai Went from Super Jealous to Sharing his Wife with Other Guys

Episode Date: May 24, 2023

Kai got his wife (Nina episode #604) into the swinger/hotwife lifestyle and he called in to talk all about it. When did his wife become a hotwife? How did he get he into it? And, what does he love most about it? Tune in for all the details including how his wife first started talking about other guys and how he was very jealous at first, how his jealousy became a turn on how and why he initially kept it a secret, how he started googling to educate himself on hotwifing, how and why he realized he was stag instead of cuck, how he first told his wife he was turned on by thoughts of her with other guys and how she reacted at first, their first trip to an adult theater and exactly what went down, how they found their first bull, the rules they had set up, how and why she plays with other guys solo, the two guys she hooked up with on tinder and why they weren’t that great, the threesome they had with a couple at a swingers club and exactly what went down, how ad why their reclaiming sex is so great, how hotwifing has improved their sex life and all the new things they do now that they opened their relationships, her gangbang fantasy and how he feels about it, why they started an Onlyfans and what she does on there, how he wants her to hook up with one of her Onlyfans and how she feels about it, her first experience with a BBC and how they taped it for her Onlyfans, how he feels about guys who are “bigger” than him and what his wife prefers plus a whole lot more. You can find her on OnlyFans here: https://onlyfans.com/asnvixen **To see anonymous pics of KAI'S WIFE NINA + pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's only $5 a month. And you could cancel it any time. The link is patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. All the links to everything is in the description. Now, today I have on Kai. Remember Nina, Nina, the Asian hot wife, who was really into reclaiming sex. Her episode was 604.

Now, if you have not listened to Nina's episode, you're going to want to go and listen because she was super fun, super vocal, super open about what she was into. But what was, like, so interesting about her and her husband who I have on today is that they were, like, really intro. They were like a really young introverted couple who got into, like, the whole hot wife stag scenario. And after I heard her story, I'm like, I want your guy on because her guy, Kai, who's on today, her husband, was a virgin when he met her. He was also super jealous about her past. Nina had done some stuff in her past.

I think she talked about being promiscuous when she was younger and she would tell him about it. You know, they're married and he would like flip out. He wasn't into it. And every now and then he'd even like throw it in her face and fights and he was like super jealous. And then he was like secretly turned on by it. And he talks about how that kind of shifted and how he kept it to himself for a long time. You know, when he really first realized he was into it, he didn't tell her for like a year. He was like jerking off to other hot wives and the whole, you know, scenario.

But he didn't tell her because there was a part of him that didn't want to be into it. It was very against his culture and the way he grew up as well as hers. They come from a very conservative background. He talks about that. But eventually he did bring it up and he did tell her. And at first she wasn't really down for it. So they just like role played about it. And once she saw how fucking into it he was, she started to get into it too.

they had all kinds of experiences and he goes through all of them. You know how he felt when they first went on their first experience. They first did a swap. Then she started to get some bulls and then they went to like swingers clubs and they did all kinds of different scenarios. Like I said, some swaps, some bull experiences where she played solo. He explains why sometimes she plays solo. It's not what you think. They talk about the, he talks again about the reclaiming sexes.

She talked a lot about it. I mean, she was super into reclaiming sex, and he talks about how into it he was. A big part and the whole, not a big part, like the main part of why he's into the whole hot white thing is because he loves to see her pleasure. That's what he's in it for. So he loves nothing more than for her to be pleasureed and see her being pleasured. And he's into the reclaiming sex too. She's got a regular bull. They eventually just recently started to post picks on Reddit and then her.

The Reddit people were like, why aren't you doing OnlyFans? And they did an OnlyFans. And now she has tons of followers because of her last episode. I mean, after you go listen to her, you're going to want to follow her on OnlyFans. On her only fans, she has picks, not picks, but videos of her like having sex with her bulls, as well as her first BBC. And he gets into all of it. So if you heard Nina's episode, you're going to love listening to Kai.

You're going to get her husband's story on this one. If you haven't listened to hers, after you live, you live. listen to Kai's go listen to Nina's episode at 604 but on this episode we're talking to Kai he was literally a virgin okay a virgin a jealous virgin and now he's a fucking stag and he loves it and it helped his relationship and his marriage and they have like the best sex now and they're really super open and now she wants to do gangbangs and he talks all about it so I'm gonna be oh oh when you're gonna hear on the thing that he's sending me anonymous picks of her those will be over on my Patreon.

I think he's going to send some X-rated stuff on my Discord. So if you want to join my Patreon to see all that, join my Patreon. And the link is in the description. But I'm going to be right back on with Kai. Hi, Kai. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today?

Hi, Kathy. I'm doing great. I'm very happy to have you on because you are hot wife Nina's husband, right? your girl, Nina, was just on my show, episode 604. Nina is an Asian hot wife into reclaiming sex. Nina was so much fun. Now, people who listen to my show will for sure remember Nina because she was just on.

And also, I felt like she was different than most hot wives that I have on in that she was super young. Like, I feel like you guys are a very young, a hot wife couple, like hot wife. And what do you call yourself a bull, a stag of it? Like, well, what are you? The stag? Yeah, I'm more of a stag. Yeah, you guys are like a very young

Stag-hot-Wife couple. Her episode is 604 if people want to hear her take on your guy's relationship but you're coming on to talk about your guy's relationship from your point of view. And a lot of times I find it very interesting

to talk to the couples like each person in the couple separately because a lot of times it's a totally different story. So, you know, how and why did you decide to be comma stag. Like, did you always know that you would have that, that you had this thing that you enjoyed watching

your girl with another guy? No, I've never had this. So what happened was my wife was telling me about her past. And it's always bothered me. And then it's kind of strange because the more I think about her in her past, the more I realized that it turned me on. I remember that, right? It was like the type of thing where you were very jealous,

but you were able to eventually funnel that jealousy and make it and turn that into a turn on. I mean, it's kind of like the same energy, right? You just kind of transform it into something else. Yeah, pretty much. Like I told her, I'm always like a positive person. So I try to turn negative things into positive things. And I guess this is one of them. Yeah.

So would she, was she like really down with telling you stuff? Like was that a part of her kink or like, because I do know. I remember her saying she was pretty promiscuous or when she was younger. I mean, why was she like throwing her guys in your face so much? Was she like, was it a turn on for her or would just come up and you would be jealous? Well, we got into like talking and we wanted to be open and honest with each other and she wanted to put everything out on the table. and I told her I had nothing because I was a virgin pretty much. Okay, wait, there's something.

So wait a second. So was she, like why so much talk about her past relationships? Like, what was that all about? So she wanted to talk about like everything and just get everything out there. Mm-hmm. Like be open. Yeah, just be open and try to communicate. Like work on our communication because we're, like she said, we're like introverts and stuff like that.

And this was my very first actual, I guess, serious relationship with her. Mm-hmm. Or with anyone, sorry. And so I just told her that, you know, I really have nothing because I'm a virgin. So, you know, if you have something, you could tell me. And then, of course, she said that she was pretty bad when she was single. And she told me about her past. And then it bothered me a lot for, I'd say, about two years.

And then it's just something that I thought over and over. And when we fight, like, I did use it against her a couple of times. Mm-hmm. That's honest of you. Yeah. But then eventually I just found it kind of kind of hot. Like, just thinking about, you know, a guy doing that with her. And then I'm like, this is almost like watching porn.

Like, I mean, but I'm imagining my wife feeling it. Right, she's the, she's the creature person in the court. Yeah, she's so pretty and it's just such a turn-on. Like, why would I be watching porn when I would rather watch someone that I love, I like, I find it very attractive, do it in front of me, and it's just so much better. But let me ask you this, because here you are, I forgot about that thing, too. You guys are introverts. You guys are very, like, shy, quiet couple that no one would ever.

imagine you guys are doing this, right? Which is fascinating. Then here you are a guy that's very jealous. I mean, you were a virgin. This is the first girl you've ever been with. And she's like talking about all these guys. She's experienced. She's so much more experience than you. And you're super jealous for a long time. When did it start changing over? And was that surprising to you at first? I started changing like I said, two years later and to our marriage, actually. do you know why like was it like one day you were jerking off and somehow that thought popped in and you were like oh that i'm kind of horny for that i mean how how did it go from like you know after two years how does it go from jealousy to a turn on So like I said, I was imagining it. And then basically I just, I was curious.

I was like, you know, why might turn on from this? So I looked it up on the internet and then I found out, I first found out wife sharing. So I was searching up like a bunch of wife sharing porn. And then I came across a term called Hot Wife and I was like, what is this? So I clicked on it. And then the first, the very first Hot Wife video, I've seen was a very popular hot wife. I'm not sure if I'm allowed to say her.

Of course you can. Yeah, I don't care. It's Holly Hot Wife. Holly Hot Wife? Should I get her on my show? You definitely should. She's very popular. She is. Holly Hot Wife. Okay, so you came across her when you were Googling for Hot Wife scenarios.

And she's a popular one. Yes, I came across her. And then I'll watch her video. And I believe her most famous video or popular video is, The Pizza Dare guy, and that was the very first hot-wife media I've watched. Who was her famous hookup with? With who? A pizza dare guy.

A who? Pizza dare. I don't know who that is. Is that a person? I am not understanding the term. No, no, no. So there's a thing called a pizza there where a couple or girls would order pizza, and they'll open the door to the pizza guy, like naked.

or something like that. So it's a pizza guy. Were you saying pizza bear? Pizza guy. Pizza guy. Okay. I knew it sounded kind of like that, but I'm like it doesn't understand.

Okay, so the first guy she's with is like a pizza guy. Like that's the scenario that you saw that turned you on. Yes. Okay. And, yeah, so I watched that video and I was like, yeah, that was very hot. And so I did more research. research on Hotswife and I did Google and I learned the definition and everything and that's when I found out that I had that kink and then eventually I heard about the word kuk code and then I looked

that up too and I'm like I don't think I'm into like you know humiliation or degradation aspect of it so I don't think kukk code would like you know match what I would be And then eventually I found out the proper turn for it is a stag. Yeah, the stag. Now, during this time that you're looking all this stuff up, are you being honest with your wife that you're having these thoughts? Or have you still not told her about it? I haven't told her anything yet until probably a year later.

Wow. So for a whole year, you're secretly looking up like hot wife porn and jerking off and like getting totally, and thinking about her experiences with guys. Yeah, pretty much. Were you asking her questions at all, like to get more information, or were you keeping it very on the DL? I kept everything on the download. Okay, right. So you still, like, not that you had shame around it, but you didn't feel comfortable yet telling her that this is what you were into.

Yeah, because at the time, I was kind of conflicted with my feelings as well. I was like, this isn't normal. Yeah. At the same time, I liked it, but at the same time, I did not want to like it, if that makes sense. No, totally. I think that this is all very honest. And I love this kind of information because I think it probably a lot of other guys can relate to this depending on, you know, where they are in their story, right? I mean, you've already gotten past all of this stuff, but maybe someone who's stuck in this place and still kind of knows that they like it, but feels weird about it. It's interesting to hear how you went through that. So for like for that whole year, even though it was a real turn on for you, you still kind of wanted to keep it at bay, right? Like you weren't thinking you were going to go there and do it. Yeah, yeah. Most of it has to do with my culture, my, my religion and stuff.

And if it ever got out, you know, I didn't want it to get out at all. And it'll basically ruin our, I guess. Your family lives with all your family. I mean, you would lose everything. You guys live in America. You guys live in the States, though. I mean, you guys met in the States, correct? Yes.

We were actually born in the United States. Right, right, right. Okay. But you still both, your families are probably first generation, correct? And they're still, right, okay. So you were keeping it on the DL. And I would think, like, listen, I mean, I just think it's like kind of crazy. And this is what was interesting about your wife too. I mean, she did have a promiscuous past, but she was also an introvert and she comes from this very religious background too. And you guys are like married at a super young age for you to be even contemplating. you know, sharing your wife with another guy doing all these things must be really crazy for a guy that was just a virgin before he got married. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. So you're just jerking off to Holly Hotwife for a whole year and then what happens? So basically, we got to like a big argument. Like it's really irrelevant.

And then we were thinking about separating at this point. And then for our kids' sake, we decided, hey, you know, let's break it through and, you know, talk about things over and talk about our feelings and stuff. And then I told her, that's when I came out and I told her that, you know, I had these feelings that I have for a while that I would like for us to try. And maybe like from what I've researched, it's helped a lot of relationship. And I know I know it sounds bad for, you know, a bad relationship to use this to fix the relationship. But we were actually being open and honest. And I told her that, you know, it's okay if she don't want to go through with it. I totally don't understand.

It's not a deal breaker. But I would like for us to, you know, talk about it. If you were interested, you know, we could give it a try. So that was when I came open and honest and I told her everything. And then she said that she's very grateful that, you know, I'm open to tell her these things. And then she was not okay with doing it because she don't know if I'm just testing her loyalty because I have used her pass against her before. Exactly. You're the guy that was like throwing it in her face and was super jealous. I think it would be very scary for a girl to then think that that same guy would flip and be the complete opposite.

Yeah. So I told her, hey, you know, ever since like a year ago, since I discovered this kink, I've never, you know, throw your pass against you anymore. So I kind of, I was kind of hoping that, you know, that would help me, you know, convince you a little bit. But it's okay. You know, I totally understand. Right. You were kind of trying to prove to her because you hadn't brought it up.

And it seemed like, I mean, the truth was the evidence was there if she really looked at it that you obviously were. are not jealous anymore. You were like secretly horny for it. Yeah. Yeah. So I told her, you know, I get it. You don't, you're not into it, but I may bring it up here and there and our conversations just because, you know, it's something that I like and I want to talk to someone about it. And you're, you're my best friend. Therefore, you know, I would like to talk to you about it. And she said, yeah, that's cool. That's fine. Okay. I don't want to do anything with this. I was like, okay, yeah, that's cool. So a year of, you know, me speaking about how much I enjoy it. Like, this is throughout the year. She was willing to, you know,

role play it a little bit like during our... While you were having sex. Uh-huh. Yeah. And then she, she eventually, like, found out, like, you know, how turned on I really get. And, you know, she, she really liked it. And then she eventually came, came around and said that, hey, you know, I realize how much turned on you on. Like, I'm so glad that you don't, you don't pressure me into, you know, trying this out and, you know, I think I'm ready to give it a try. And then I was like, okay, that's awesome. I was so excited.

And then that was when I didn't really know what you searched at the time. So I was just looking at, you know, I guess, I forgot what I was searching, but I was searching something about like sex clubs and stuff around our area. This was on Reddit, right? Because eventually you do become like big on there with this whole thing, right? Reddit. I haven't created a Reddit account yet. Oh, okay.

Okay, so this is before. So you just go online and you're Googling looking for like clubs and stuff? Yeah. Okay. So I found, I found an adult movie place. And so I found it interesting and wanted to try to test it to check it out. And so I told her about it. And then she said that it sounds like a, you know, like a unclean place and stuff like that.

I was like, yeah, it does. But, you know, we never know until we check it out. And then she agreed to it. And then we went to check out on the closest adult store to us or adult theater, whatever you call it. And that was when our first night we met the couple there. They were pretty much looking for the same thing we were. They're newbies as well. And then, yeah, that's when we played.

We connected with the other couple and then we played with them. And then she found it, my wife found it really hot. And I enjoyed everything about it as well. Now, so for you, was there any kind of like conflicting emotions or was it everything that you had thought it was going to be? It was better than everything I thought it was going to be. Oh, okay. Yeah. Yeah, so ever since the adult theater, we did go back one time.

And it wasn't. So, like, we didn't find another couple, but there was a lot of guys there. So we talked to one of the workers there, and they were telling us that there's mostly guys there, never any couple. And I guess the last time we went, we were lucky. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, for sure. And he said that it's mostly men that come play with other men there. So I was like, oh, okay.

Well, maybe this is not the right place for us. I should probably look into seeing if there's, like, clubs out there. So that's what I did. We went home and I did more research. And then that was when I found about Swing Lifestyle website. SLS? Yes, SLS. And that is where I was able to find all sorts of clubs where I live at.

And then that was when I talked to her about it. And then she was super excited about the club. and then we planned for a trip to the club. We didn't get to go to the club until probably a few months after we planned this. That first experience. Uh-huh. Yeah. So what I did was that was when I created my Reddit account.

Yeah. And then I posted, I posted, I think three or four ads on there looking for a bull for my wife. We had no success on Reddit at all. at this time. And then I did get a lot of messages of people talking to me and asking me and wanted to meet up, but they were all just trying to collect pictures or just want to waste people's time for some reason. I have no idea why people would do that.

Yeah, for sure. Yeah. And let's see. But you eventually do, though, get into that whole Reddit thing because you start sharing pictures and stuff there, correct? Yes, this is very recently, but I created the Reddit account like four years ago. Right. Yeah.

But it wasn't until recently that you really started promoting it and posting pictures and getting into that whole thing, correct? Well, I just recently started posting pictures. The very first time was a month ago. Oh, okay. And a few days later, I got a ton of messages telling me that, Well, they're asking if I have only fans or if my wife do start an only fan. They were totally support us. And then that was when I was thinking, I was like, you know, all these people message us wanting to, you know, pay for our content.

You know, why not? You know, we're already sharing it anyway. So why not get some, you know, money out of it? Yeah, yeah. So that's when you started to think. But that's recent. Let's go back, though, to the park. So you go on to Reddit.

For some reason, you think you're going to find people on there, but you don't, correct? So then, and so where then do you go and find your first bull? So we found our first bull. And the funny thing is he's our first bull, but he's became our regular bull till his day. Right. She went on to Tinder, and that was when she found him. And it was a success. She met up with him in public, and then they connected pretty well.

And then she was messaging me the whole time. I was making sure she was safe. Like, I was really worried for her too. But she had her fun. And when she came home, we did the reclaiming sex for the first time. And she found out that she was really into reclaiming. And she found it so hot. I remember that about her.

Yeah. And then she tried tender. for a while. She had a lot of communications, but nobody came through. We couldn't find any more guys. And then that was when we went to the club, the swinger club. Right.

I remember that. Yeah, we went to the swinger club. The first night, we were just, you know, bribing, you know, exploring the club and, you know, see what, see all the cool stuff. Heather. And it was very new to us and we were like both fascinated. And then I think it was the second night that we met a guy. And that was that was when she played with another guy or the second time since we got, well, the third time since we got married. Now was that in the club

and you're watching? Because that first experience with that first ball, who is now your regular Ball, she played solo, right? I just wanted to ask you a quick question. Like, did you, before this started to happen, like, did you guys have any rules or regulations? I mean, were you worried about her playing solo, or did you prefer her playing solo, or did you prefer for you to be there? I mean, how did you set it all up? Yeah, so before everything, we did talk about all the rules and stuff.

So with her playing solo, we were okay with that. oh, I was like with that. And she wasn't sure because she felt like, you know, it's not safe. And I told her that, yeah, it's not safe. But I'm like, as long as you keep me updated, I think it'll be fine. Just meet up with someone in public first and stuff like that. Now, let me ask you this. Did you, like, was there something about her doing it solo that was like a turn on to you?

That you could be home waiting, the anticipation? Well, in all honest. Playing solo is mostly because we don't have a babysitter. Oh. Yeah. That makes sense. Yeah. Okay.

Yeah. You stay home and watch the kids. You're being cost of things. It's like you're efficient. Yeah. So it is still a huge turn on. But if I could, I'd much rather be there. The anticipation and, you know, waiting for her to come back is really intense.

And it's still still really hot for me too. Okay. Cool. But you do. as a stag, you like to join in as well, correct? I don't like, I don't necessarily like to join in. I like to watch more and then reclaim her after. The reason is because I'm not, I can't, I can't stay hard with another guy around me.

I, I just can't. That's cool. That's just how you roll. I mean, you just, yeah. Yeah, maybe you just get two in your head about it. Yeah, so from the club, we met, I guess the third guy should play. with. Yeah, so this is the first time at the Swingers Club. Yeah, the first time at the Swingers Club. So she

was like having sex with him in front of you? Yes. So they have all rooms in there where we could just go and have our private time. And he basically has sex with her and there and then everything was hot. I didn't have sex with her in there right away.

We waited until we got back to the hotel. And that was where I did the reclaiming part. Right. When were out of that whole environment. Yes. Okay. And then that was that experience.

And then we came back home. So we didn't go back to the club again until a year later. But throughout the time from then until the second club, she did met with, I think, two other guys through Tender. To me, it was really hot. Of course, I stayed home to watch the kids again. both times was a disappointment for her because the first guy was a Vietnamese guy and she was really into him because he was like, you know, very hot. But he, he was basically a virgin and he didn't really know how to work it.

And he was, I think, I think she said he was only like, I think two inches so she couldn't feel anything. She don't, like she's not king shaming or any. or, you know, shaming sizes or anything, but she was just disappointed that she couldn't feel anything. Well, listen, I think two inches, I mean, it's one thing to be like a size queen and you got to have like really big or really thick, but two inches is very below average that I think a lot of people, unfortunately, might not be okay with that because that's like on the extreme end of small,

don't you think? Yeah, yeah. It might be a micro penis. I think it is. Yeah. I haven't seen it. Yeah. I've Googled it.

No, and I've had them on my show. And they've sent pictures, so I know what it looks like. Yeah. So that guy, it wasn't good. But for you, because you're not really getting the visuals and stuff, is it still like kind of hot for you because you know what she's doing and stuff? You know, like she's still playing. I mean, is it disappointing for you when she's disappointed?

To me, it wasn't because still. It was still hot. Right. That's what I would think. Maybe you still get something out of it, not her. Yeah. Yeah, it was still hot. Yeah.

The reclaiming part was still very hot for the both of us. And then the second guy, she didn't enjoy that well. He was actually a police officer. And yeah, and I think she said that he couldn't perform well. So she didn't really enjoy that part, but the reclaiming part, we still have fun with that. And then, so this is our second year to the club, a second time. Sorry. And then that is where we met another couple.

And then this couple, we had a lot of fun with them, you know, communicating and everything. We connected really well. We had a, they had a thing where only, they only play with other girls, so they don't play with another guy. I was totally okay with it So So eventually My wife asked if they wanted to play And then

They had their threesome And then It was really hot to watch Because I love watching Girl on Girl as well Right And now was that your girl's first experience Or was it the first time

In the adult theater That she was with the woman In the adult theater Right I remember that right So she was with the woman there But you like So you like watching her and she will hook up with women too

and she was hooking up with the woman and the guy in the swingers club or just the woman? Both of them, yes. At first it was supposed to just be her and the wife but everything got really hot and heavy. Oh God, so the guy had to fuck her too.

Yeah, so I was like, hey man, why don't you jump in there and join them? Yeah. And then his like, like his eyes sparked up and he was like, what really? Are you sure? Like, are you totally okay with it?

I was like, yeah, I'm fine. You know, ask, I see your wife, and I'll ask my wife to see if they're okay with it. Yeah, and his wife was okay with it? Yeah, his wife was okay with it. And then I asked my wife, and she said, yeah, it's fine. Let him join us. And then, yeah, so they did their thing. And I was watching the whole entire time.

It was, like, hot. Of course, we didn't reclaim again until we got back to the hotel. That was our second experience at the club. the same club. And then I think after that was when COVID happened. And then we stopped, we stopped playing

completely because everyone was just home. Of course. Everyone was petrified. Yeah. We're all hiding in our houses. Yeah. So a year later, I think 20, 22 or yeah, 2022 was when

we reached back to her bull. I'm sorry. So since we met her bull up to COVID, she does, she has been playing with her bull regularly too. Right. But you stopped during COVID as well? Yeah. So we stopped seeing him during COVID as well. So a year later after COVID, we reached out to her bull.

But before that, we went to a different nurse club. This one is out of state. So we've never been out of state for this kind of thing before, and this was our first time. And it was done a Halloween party. And that's where we met two other couples, actually. And the first couple, they were in, I think, a Fox costume. They were really, really good looking. And her husband, I think he had a pretty big size.

And my wife was really into him. And then the guy's wife was really into me. because she's, I think she said she's never been with an Asian guy and she's always wanted to be with an Asian guy. So we did, we did a swap. Oh, now was this the first swap or did you guys swap at the movie theater that first time? So our first swap was over at the adult theater. Yeah, yeah, yeah, right. So, but this is really just the second time that you're getting to partake or swap or anything, right?

Before this, it was all just like the Hot Wife Stag thing, correct? Yes. Mm-hmm. So, so we did a swap with them. And then for some reason, I couldn't get hard because, I think it's because they invited two other couples into the room with us. So there was four couples in the same room like having sex. And it was probably too much for me. Yeah.

I've never done with a big group like that before. So I couldn't get hard. And me and her, you know, we basically just watch everyone. And she was playing, the wife was playing with, like, the other couples and whatnot. But I was mostly watching. And my wife had a lot of fun. How many guys did she hook up with that time? Just the one couple or like the rest of the couples?

Yeah, it was just one couple that day. But on the same, it met another couple. Actually, I did play with. the other girl, but my wife didn't play with the other guy because I felt like the moment I was, you know, penetrating the other girl, I felt strong vibes from her husband. And I turned and looked at him and he had like a kind of stared like he was like jealous or something. Oh, you felt like he wasn't into it. Yeah. So I like at the time, my wife was giving him a blowjob too. And then I looked at him and then I looked at his wife, his wife was enjoying everything.

And then I just, I just stopped everything. I just pulled out and I was like, hey, I'm sorry, I can't do this. Maybe next time, you know, you guys are a nice couple. We can hang out for the rest of the time we have left, but maybe we can play another time. So I cut everything short. Yeah, my wife was kind of, I guess, disappointed too, because that guy had, I think, nine inches and my wife really wanted to try it. Is she a little size queen now? Is her

bull well hung, I forget? Honestly, I, well, her bull is, I think, seven inches. I don't think my wife is necessarily a size queen because the nine inches was well, she wanted to try it, but

I stopped everything so she couldn't. I don't think he would have gone through with it even if you know i didn't stop it but yeah so that that was that experience and then we went back home and then we met another couple through i believe she met them through tender when they live close by so we actually play with them and i believe she told you about them this was a couple that has some issues oh yeah there was yes the ones that you were both like oh my God, they were like a mess, both talking behind each other's backs to you guys. Yeah.

Yeah. So we met up with them at their place, actually. And then we were all like, you know, just vibing, playing some gangs, getting getting some drinks in. They seem like a normal couple. Like, they really, they were really fun to be around. And then, so eventually, I think we ran out of beer. So I think they went to get a beer run. And then his wife was like, hey, you know, you want to take his wife with you?

And then he was like, you know, no, it's okay. You three could play while I'll take a beer run. And I was like, no, it's okay. Honey, why don't you, you know, keep in company? And then that's what she did. So she went to the gas station with him to pick up a beer. And then I was at the house in the bedroom with her. We started playing a little.

Well, we talked a bit first, and then we started playing a little. And then after a bit, you know, she started, you know, talking some stuff. But it wasn't really too bad. But it was obvious they had issues with each other. It was obvious that, you know, there's something going on. And then when my wife came back with the husband, she put me to the side and wanted to talk to me. And then that was when she told me that, yeah, on the ride to the gas station, he was talking like a bunch of bad stuff about his wife. Like he was saying how she was cheating on him and stuff.

And just a bunch of bad stuff. And then my wife was like, you know, she don't want to continue this. And I think she wanted to go home. So I was like, okay. And she was like, I don't know what to say to them. So I was like, okay, I'll handle it. So we went back. We went back and that was when I told a couple, I was like, hey, you know, we, you know, it was a nice meeting you guys.

You guys were really fun to be around with. But I think, I think we're ready to go home. And, you know, maybe if there's the next time, we could probably meet up. But then after we left, we basically just took contact with them. Right, because they were like a mess. But let me ask you this, like all this playing around. Like, we know that your girl loves the reclaiming sex. We know that she really likes being with her bulls.

What is the top of the mountain for you? Like, what do you like the most? And have you had it yet? So the best part of this all for me is her pleasure. Like, for some reason, when I see her pleasure face or her getting pleased, it's just a huge, huge turn on for me. Right. Interesting. That's the part that I like the most.

Mm-hmm. And do you find that it adds to your sex life for like a month later? You know, and I've heard that before that. Like, you know, one scenario with somebody else could make great sex between the couple for a long time after, you know? Yeah, it definitely did. So before we started all of this, before I came out with this to her, our sex life was very, I guess, non-existent. we would have sex probably once every one to two months. That was it.

Yeah, pretty lame, considering you're young and newly married. I mean, pretty bad. Yeah, which, I told her, I understood because, you know, once you have babies, women's body do change, and they have a, what would you call it, self-conscious about their own body? Of course, yeah. Yeah, and the libido goes way down. Yeah, it's all connected. It's definitely changes things.

But you guys were so young. So how has it changed your sex life? You go from that to this. So it's a lot more exciting. We learn a lot of new positions and techniques and stuff throughout the whole entire time, the whole experience. Before that, we were all, we were both just vanilla, you know, just missionary and that is it. She's more open to try and do things now. She never really rode me before.

And now she's starting to, you know, ride me more. And she's always the person who likes to be pleased and never the pleaser. And she's open to pleasing me more, introducing toys to our sex lives and discuss about other kings that we would like to try and stuff like that. What other kinds of things have come up? Well, one of the things she's wanted to try was gang bang. Oh, right. Yeah, she's way too shy to try it. She says she's not ready for it yet.

Uh-huh. But she would like to try it one day. And what about you? Is that something that you think would be super hot to watch? Yeah. I've talked to her about that basically from the beginning. Like, I would like to watch, you know, multiple guys take her at once.

I know her very well. I don't think she could take more than three guys. So I told her, you know, she could, you know, start with, you know, just two, three similar two guys. and see how she feels. Do you have any other kinks that you've figured out that you're into since now that you've been so open and stuff? To be honest, I've been so into the hot wife that I've never gave any other kink any thought. I mean, listen, I have to tell you, a lot of the guys that I know that are into it, they're really not into other things.

A lot of the guys, though, that are a little bit into being a cuck, the thing that I see with those, guys, but you're not into it at all. They do like tease and denial and a little bit of that. Some of the guys that have a little bit of a cuck in them, but you definitely don't have any cuck in you. It's more so about you just seeing her pleasure. And so for you, you're not into any kind of tease or denial stuff

or anything like that, correct? Yes, unlined to that at all. Do you love, like, the attention that your wife is getting on her only fans and on Reddit and stuff like that, does that add to it as well? Yeah, I've been asking her to possibly meet up with one of her fans, like give him a chance to meet up with her. But she said she's not ready for that.

But she said maybe she may give it a thought, but for now she's okay with her bull and meeting people around here. Now her bull, does she see him on the, separately from you all the time? Yeah, she goes See him I say about Once a month Now do you ever have

Any kind of concern Of like any Kind of relationship Starting up or anything Or do you feel very solid In your marriage We're solid Yeah

Like Like you know Marriages have fights Of course Our fights never involved This stuff The lifestyle ever Yeah

Mmhmm Right It has nothing to do with it Like with that kind of stuff you guys are good on the same page she's into it you're into it you're both into like what you're into i mean your kinks are like very in line with her kinks correct yeah yeah pretty much she's down with you sharing her your her picks on reddit whose idea was it to get onto only fans was it because the people responded so well on reddit yeah that was the reason why yeah

Mm-hmm. And listen, I know when you were on my show, she must have got a lot of big people running over to her only fans. Yeah, so before your show, she had 100 followers. Yeah. And ever since her show, last I checked yesterday, she's up to 900 already. Yeah, there you go.

Yeah. I know. Yeah, I had one hot wife, like, email me. She's like, I'm practically crying. You fed my family. Like, I mean, I do have a very big audience. I've been doing my show. a long time, you know, so I know that if someone comes on, you're going to get people.

Why don't you give the shout out to your only fans and tell people what they would see if they went over there? Because I do think she's kind of unique in her, you know, as an only fans person. I don't know, you know, because she is really still really young and she is like a little bit of an introvert, but here she is a girl that really fucking loves it and loves reclaiming. and I don't know. She was talking about being Dick drunk with me on the phone. I mean, she's like fun and funny, you know.

Explain what people like see when they go on your only fans. Are you ever in any of those videos or is it just strictly her and her bull? Yeah, so her only fan. Yeah, give out the name. Yeah, her only fans is ASN, Bixen. I'm never in the videos. Some people, well, a lot of people have requests for it

to watch the reclaiming sessions. I don't know if we will ever put that up there. That's something that we'll have to discuss. But basically what you can find on there is all the recorded experience that we had since we started the lifestyle. It's unfortunate that we never recorded more of it. But we did record the few sessions that these people did give consent to. Does she record with her new bowl? like with her bull that she sees regularly or no her new bull yes so so her new bull is a guy we met on

the reddit oh okay another another new one yeah he's the first guy ever we met the reddit and he's really much into recording and he's also married and his wife is really into it as well and then a regular bull he was never okay with recording but since we started only fans he actually wanted to be a part of it and he was okay with us recording. We said as long as, you know, no face is showing, then he's totally okay with it. And then also the video of her with her first BBC is on there. When was her first BBC?

Is her bull her first BBC? No, no. Her bull is a white guy. Right, right. And when was her first BBC? Her first BBC was at the club we met, I believe, two years ago. at the Swingers Club. He's the, I think, Army guy.

And he was very respectful. He approached us in a very well-mannered way. And it really, really turned my wife on because my wife really like respectful men. Right. That's important to her. So there's a video of that experience and that first experience for her on there as well. Yeah. So that was actually her first, I think, 9-inch.

It was that BBC, yeah. Last question for you, and we'll give another shout out to your OnlyFans, and I'll put links to the OnlyFans in the description. Do you get into the guys being bigger than you? Do you have that going on? Because I've heard that from a lot of guys that are into this. Okay, so that's a guess and also a no.

To me, I don't care what size the guys are, but the reason why it does turn me on also is because that's what my wife prefer. She prefers thicker or not necessarily longer thicker. Like if a guy is smaller, it's not a deal breaker. Like I said, she's very attracted to personality. But to answer your question is yes and a no. Right, I get it.

Listen, that makes sense. Like, you don't care, but if it's a guy that's bigger, your wife's going to enjoy it more. and then because this is really about her pleasure and that's what turns you on the most, then of course the bigger is going to be better for you too because she's enjoying it even more so. And that's really what you're in it for. Listen, it's so interesting that, you know, Kai was like a virgin, quiet, shy guy and that you're living this life.

Like if somebody would have told you this when you were like 18, would you ever think that this is what you and your wife would be doing? No, never. I never thought this would be like a thing I'll be into ever. No way, right? And imagine, I am sure every one of your friends and family members would bet money that you would never be into something like this. Would people be so surprised to know what you guys were actually doing? Yeah, of course. We got so many people in our culture that message us and they don't know us, they don't see our face, but even they're surprised. Right, because they know. Like your culture and what it's like, right?

Yeah. Yeah, I mean, like I said, here you were like a virgin. I mean, there's like a lot of guys drooling for your story. And there were a lot of guys drooling for your wife's story. Okay, like, listen, if you haven't heard Nina's story yet, people need to go listen to it. I will put the number in the episode notes. It was 604. Nina is an Asian hot wife into reclaiming sex.

You could join her only fans. Give the shout out again. Her only fans is ASN Vixen. ASN Vixen. I'll put a link to that. You can send me some more anonymous picks for my Patreon members. I have a Discord too that you could go on to for free and go post some stuff. If you want to advertise on there to my Discord people, that's free for callers.

I'll send you that link. Send me some, like I said, R-rated pictures for my Patreon members. But thanks, Kai, for calling in and telling your side of the story. I think it's super interesting and always like interesting to get the other person's perspective in the couple. Especially to me to get like a guy who was a virgin who is now a stag in, you know, talking about how that happens, especially a guy that's like a quiet introvert. It's just super interesting. So thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story. Yeah, Kathy.

Thank you for having me and my life. Yeah, no problem. I hope you get 900 more people signing up for your only fan. So good luck with everything. Thank you, Kai. Thanks so much for calling in and make sure to send me some, like, some picks. All right. All right.

Awesome. Thanks. Bye. Yeah, bye-bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book.

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