Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 654 - Antonio has Been Swinging Solo for Years

Episode Date: June 28, 2023

Antonio has been swinging solo for years and he called in to talk all about it. How and why did he start swinging at such a young age? How did he navigate the scene as a solo guy at first? And, what kinds of hook ups has he had? Tune in to hear all the details including the advice/tips he received on what to do and not do when creating an adult profile, how he found his first couple of parties and what went down at them, how he started playing with couples and what he enjoys doing with them, how he feels about guy/guy action and how that has changed over time, the first swinger club he went to and what went down, how and why he stopped swinging when he was married, how and why he became super popular at the swingers party and why all the couples liked him, the time he was scammed by a hotwife with a paralyzed husband??, how he was almost set up with someone he knew and who that person was, how and why when he enjoys swinging even more in his forties, the 5 woman gangbang he’s going to and where he found out about it, the ffm threesome he had, his summer of lesbian love and what the lesbians he hooked up with taught him to do, the solo woman in the lifestyle who he hangs with and the stuff they wind up doing together, the dp and dvp they’ve experienced, how he stays safe while playing, the gangbangs he’s attended and what goes down at them, the girl he knows who just did 15 guys in one night, the shot he uses that works better than Viagra, shot, why he enjoyed taking part in bbc parties even though he’s Latina and a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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channel like and share my videos and if you're listening on a podcast up make sure to follow my show on there and if you love my show give me a five-star review that always helps now listen today i have antonio on now Antonio is one of those like male unicorns okay there's you female unicorns right the girl that's in the lifestyle that just wants to hook up with couples well Antonio is the guy version of that he's a single guy and he's always been a single guy in the lifestyle at one he did it when he was like early on and like young and then he got married for a bunch of time like for a really long time and he didn't do it at all because she wasn't into it and then he got back into it when he got divorced and he's been doing it ever since um but he is a single guy and you want to pay

attention to Antonio's uh episode if you're a single guy and you want to be successful in the lifestyle because this guy is successful he was invited back to parties he was called a couple's whisper and he was invited back and called that for a reason. And you're going to have to listen to the episode to find out the reason. Okay, early on when he first started swinging, quote unquote, he talks about the tips that he got on his profile that he had out there when he was looking for couples and people to bang. He got some interesting tips from a woman.

And then he starts talking about like the first party that he went to, how he found out about it, what went down, how he started playing with couples. And then he gets married for this long period time. gets divorced. We don't get into his marriage. We just pick it right back up when he's 40 and he starts back in the lifestyle and he talks about how he started swinging again. There is a difference and he talks about that difference more towards the end about like, you know, what was the difference of how he did things when he was younger in his 20s and, you know, how he did things and why it was better in his 40s.

So anyway, when he picked it back up, he has some really hilarious stories, okay? One where he found out some people were college students, another one, the one with the girl in the most. mobile home, okay, is unbelievable and funny. Okay, you met a girl online. She wanted to come over. She was a hot wife. She had a guy in the back watching and she was taking videos and all that shit. And he talks about that. He talks about, well, he almost got set up with somebody that he knew in the lifestyle. You got to hear that story. I'm not going to tell you who it was, but it was kind of funny. Because they were telling them all about this person and how freaky they were and blah, blah, blah. And turned out he knew them and who it was. It was super interesting.

he does talk about where he goes online. You know, he uses Facebook groups, vet life. He's going to a five-woman gangbang. He's been to a bunch of gangbanks. He talks about those. He talks about his threesomes that he's had. He talks about his summer of lesbian love, he calls it, where he like wound up hooking up with like these three lesbians

that taught him how to be like super great at going down on girls and, you know, how to not only enjoy it, but do it like really good. They also taught him to eat ass. He talks about that. He loves doing that now. He talks about how he feels about guy and guy action, what he will do, what he won't do.

He's got some couples that are his regulars. He's done DP, DVP. He talks about that. He's got a fucking hilarious story about tapioca pudding. Okay, I'm not going to give it away. You're going to have to listen, okay? But it is fucking funny. Tapioca pudding.

his code for something else. Wait till you here. Anyway, we end on him talking about, you know, some gangbings, but also how he stays hard now. I mean, he did try Viagra, but he found something that's better than Viagra, a shot. And he talks about that in detail and how it works and why he loves it and how to do it and all that kind of good stuff. He also talks about how sometimes he's like the relief guy at a BBC party, even though he's not black. He's a Latin guy. He's a Latin guy. He likes to take part at the BBC party and be like the relief guy. It's kind of funny. But anyway, he's got a lot of stories to tell. It's a super interesting angle because he is a solo guy in the lifestyle and that's not an easy thing to navigate. Okay, people are very leery about solo guys.

But like I said, he's successful and he does it the right way and there's a reason for it and you're going to hear a story and then you're going to understand. So anyway, Antonio did send me in some anonymous picks. They're over on my Patreon. Links to everything is in the description. and I'm going to be right back on with Antonio. Hi, Antonio. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing well.

Thank you for having me. No, thank you. I'm a big fan of the show. Awesome. So listen, you're like a swinger. You're a guy in the lifestyle. Are you like a, have you always been a single guy in the lifestyle? I have always been a single guy in the lifestyle.

I was married for a time, so I got out. Won't talk too much about that. You know, why I got out or. Yeah, we don't mean. Yeah. Yeah. I've told that story a lot and people might recognize. Yeah, no, no, that's cool. But I mean, I'm assuming, because a lot of times people think, oh, one has everything to do with the other. But plenty of times, it has nothing to do with the lifestyle, right? I mean, were you guys in it together or no?

No. Oh, okay. So were you cheating on her in it? No. Oh, okay. Okay. So after you and your, so you start out in the lifestyle after that divorce? No, I started out before I was married. Okay. I actually went to my 10-year high school reunion, and a buddy of mine was telling, you know, he had a few in them, and he started telling everybody about him and his wife, being in the lifestyle.

She wasn't too happy about that, of course. But he made it sound so, you know, exciting, and I wanted to try it myself. How old were you? That would have been 28. Oh, okay. Okay. I'm 54 now. So he told me to go to this website, Swingers, Lifestyle, SLS is what they call it.

Yeah. And I created a profile and started just, you know, looking through all the different profiles and seeing, you know, who I liked and started shooting off the messages. And, of course, no response because he didn't tell me that single males in the lifestyle are kind of parize. and there's a lot of people that just don't think single mail should be in it at all. So somebody gave me some advice. They responded and said, hey, look, you know, your profiles comes off as desperate.

You need better picks and just try to be more in your messages to people, try to be more like what you're bringing to the table. like don't just say you know you're a good guy and you're respectful with everybody's you know nice and respectful yeah but what do they want you to say besides that what do you mean what do you bring it to the table like what do you mean well well just like i i guess you know that experience if you have any experience you know specifically yeah be more specific yeah be more specific and so i changed it all up and of course still no responses But, oh, my God, wait, was it a woman or a man that gave you that advice? It was a woman. Okay.

That's what I figured. Yeah. And so I think I had a couple of dick picks in there, too. And she said, take that shit down. And so they, I found out that Yahoo had these secret groups, adult groups through Yahoo at that time. And I found one that it was a swinger group that had parties. And I got an invite. because they allowed single males to come to this.

And it was in a neighboring town. I came from a small town, and it was the bigger metroplex about a couple hours away. I went to this party, and it was $100 to get in. And there was two other single males there. One was drunk, and I don't drink. So I knew that that wasn't going to be an issue. Another one was just standing in the corner looking creepy, not talking to anybody. And I said, well, I don't want to be that guy either.

So I just started mingling and just kind of just like it's a regular party. You know, it just, it wasn't like what I envisioned it was going to be. It was just a regular party of people getting together, you know, having a few drinks and getting to know each other. And so that's all I did. It's just mingled. But I didn't try anything. I told them where I was from and they were like, you drove all the way up here for that. Don't you have anything like that in your town?

I'm like, no, not that I know of. And I just, they got used to me. And so it wasn't until the third party with this group that I finally played with somebody. And a woman approached me. And honestly, I probably shouldn't have gone with that woman because she really wasn't attractive. If I'm a good, my type. She was a lot older ladies than me. And nothing wrong with that because, you know, eventually I got there where if they look good, they look good.

Yeah. close of age or body types. When you're in your 20s or late 20s, like 39 is old. I mean, old is so different when you're younger than as you get older. You know what I mean? So I get it. At that age, like a 42-year-old is like a dinosaur, you know? Yeah.

And so people saw me playing finally at this thing. And then a couple approached me right after that. And then that's when I really started getting into where I like playing with couples. But the thing is that that right. the beginning, I had to pretend like the husband wasn't there because it was just too weird for me. It was new. It was something I had never experienced. Yeah. That a guy said there watching me fuck his wife. Yeah. I mean, back in those days, was it, did it blow your mind that there were people out there that were into this shit? Right? It really did. I said, because I was like,

I don't know if I could do that. I don't know if I could sit there watching another person and fuck my wife like that. Yeah. And, and I'm not. buying so I wasn't going to do anything with a husband anyway and luckily he wasn't trying to but another guy came over and was asking me if I needed help like he wanted to put me inside the woman and I was like that's okay I got it buddy so that's where you draw the line like you're not into that you're not into any kind of guy on guy stuff at all no I'm not into any but like I said it's going now at 54 being in this as long as I have I'll do DP with with a couple I'll do even DV people. Right. So your dick is like rubbing up against another one. Yeah. Yeah. And it's no big deal. And

the only time I have to set boundaries is if I'm playing with the wife and all of a sudden I feel somebody tugging on my dick. And it's like the husband. He's like, hey, is this okay? Yeah. Well, first you need to ask first before you just do it. You know, but so I have to reset boundaries at that point. But like I said, it was just, Once I got into that group, I just started meeting more people and became like word of mouth. That's what I was going to say, like is word on the street? Because like you wanted to be called Latin lover, right? Like was word on the street like, oh, you know, everyone wants that Latin lover guy, you know? Sure.

Yeah. Like a unicorn, right? I mean, it's no different than the single girl, right? There's a lot of people looking for that single guy. Sure. I think they call them bluefish. Oh, really? Is that what it is called?

I've never heard that before. I think so, but I could be wrong. That might be a buy guy too. I'm not sure. Okay. But, and of course, you got the bull, the term where the couple won a bull. Yeah. I actually had one couple call me that.

And I don't know. I don't consider myself that because I'm just average. I'm short. I'm a little chubby. I have an average. I have a six-inch average cock. So I'm not like packing eight, nine inches here. Yeah.

You know, you're like, you think. of a single guy, you know, messing around with a couple. Like, I'm sure, like, your other guys that you've had on the show that I've heard. But it's, that's what shocks me that about this lifestyle is that regardless of your shape or your size, people want to play. Yeah. People want to have sex with you. As long as you have that confidence and, you know, they know you're not going to be pushy.

They know you're not going to be creepy. And so I just started like a sense. had meeting people like that. And then I started finding out about the clubs. And there are several different kind of clubs. There's off-premise clubs. I think that was the first type of club I went to, where it's just basically it's a bar, but there's swingers there, and they're all there to hook up. And then if you do meet somebody, will you leave off-premise to go have sex? Oh, okay. Yeah. So I never, you know, hooked up with anybody. But, you know, I got to where I knew how to do the conversations.

I knew how to just mingle. And then I found that about the on-premise clubs where you go and, you know, you can actually go to the back room and there's beds and you can have sex back there or upstairs. If it's a two-story place and you go upstairs. But I accidentally went to one

that I thought was just a regular swingers club, but I don't know if I went on a men-only night. Yeah, yeah, they have special nights, theme night. They call them theme nights, yeah. But I walk in, they're like, okay, you have to put a towel. You have to take your clothes off and put a towel on to get to the back. And I go back there and there's just nothing but guys. Oh, my God, that's hilarious.

I think I saw two women, you know, in a hot tub and that was it. But everywhere you walk, there was just naked guys, either doing stuff to each other or just masturbating on a bed. Yeah, well, that was that, that was that theme night. They have different themes for sure. And I said, okay, I came on the wrong time. Well, listen, you know, listen, sometimes who you are is a theme too, because it's not like you're the norm at there either.

Like sometimes the theme night is single guys or single girls, right? I mean, you know? Yeah, that is true. And then so I did that for like a couple of years and then I wound up, you know, meeting my ex-wife and she didn't want to have anything to do with it. But you told her, though. You were cool and you were open about it. Interesting. Okay. So flash forward 13 years. Now I'm, you know, about 40. And I'm starting over again as a single male in his lifestyle. Yeah. So I got to find a group again. And I, you know, I find one not too far in between my town and the bigger town.

surprisingly, a group that hosts house parties. And I show up and they're kind of wary of me, you know, because, you know, once again, the single male bias is strong. And after the, I think I do play with a couple that first time I go. And at the end of the night, the host pulls me aside and says, hey, we got a lot of good feedback on you. Just want you to know there's only one other single male we ever, to come regularly and we're going to start allowing you to come regularly too because you're you're

you're a respectful and a gentleman and we got a lot of good feedback on you and i said okay so i started going to that uh groups parties uh every it was like every other week they would have a party and it was just a house in the country and the funny it was so funny one time there was a young couple there and I started talking to them and we went to a bedroom and this is where I started getting more comfortable being of course naked around other guys and everything she had me and her boyfriend basically hug while she took both of us in her mouth at the same time interesting yeah first she kind of started going back and forth but then she was like really trying to just put us both in her mouth at the same time so that was kind of cool so is that why the hug was

including that because you guys had to be super close or did she also want to see you guys hugging him you know i didn't ever think of it that way maybe that she wanted us to see his hugging on each other yeah i don't think so i think it's you guys needed to be close because she wanted them both and yeah you know it could have been that but i just thought it was neat i just thought it was kind of a neat and uh after the after the party was over the host pulled me inside and he said you know that couple you were just with and they said yeah they're freshmen at this college. No way.

What? I was like, oh man, why did you tell me that? I felt like such a dirty old man. Yeah, did they look that young? They look like they might have been in their 20s. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I didn't think they were 19 or 18. Oh, my goodness.

But see, this is like that exact part of you that just said that right there is the reason why you're the guy that's always invited back. You know, you're that guy that felt like, you know, you wouldn't take advantage. So there's a lot of guys that would be like, oh, I thought, like, they would tell that story and they'd be like, I fucking scored.

Like they were like hot, you know, they were only 19. You know what I mean? Like, that just shows your character, you know, and that's why you're so not intimidating and they allow you in these parties because you're like a nice guy. Yeah, and I, and it's so weird because I always think, man, you know, I don't, you know, I struck out at this party or, you know, I didn't, you know, get this one woman I was trying to go out with.

And I'll have a buddy of mine telling me, you know, you need to shut up. You get the most sex of any single man I've ever known. Yeah, like, I mean, your life, like, I mean, I don't know. Do your friends know, like throughout this whole time where you just super open about what you were doing? Because it's not normal. Most guys don't do this. Only to certain people, like my closest friends knew. Yeah, yeah.

And, oh, and that was one of the things I wanted to talk about is, like, I would tell my best friend where I was. going. Yeah. In case like something happened. Somebody would know where I was at because a lot of this stuff was real discreet and I would drive out in the middle of the country somewhere. Oh my God. And I'm like, okay, this is the beginning of a horror movie.

Yeah. You're going to be a sex slave to do an hour from now. So there was a one ad. Oh, well let me finish the thought. Yeah. So only my closest friends would know. And to this day, that best friend of mine, he's married and he's told his wife that I was doing all this and when we're out to eat

he'll ask me to tell him something I just did and his wife is just sitting there shaking her head like oh my god you're a wild man you know I'm not going to let you take my husband anywhere alone with you on a trip or anything yeah don't corrupt him yeah she even told me one time I think if he ever was single again he'd probably want to do what you do Well I was going to ask you if you ever converted To like any of your guy friends that you told

Say hey I want to check it out They have but you know Not to the point where I think they would include their wife Right right right And I'm not in that I'm not going to help you No but I mean none of them wanted to like join you Because it sounded like fun and like go to a party with you Or get into the lifestyle as well

Just like you listen you got turned on by a guy telling you about it. You know what I mean? Did any of your friends like following your footsteps? Not that I know of. I know like I said they've asked me it's like hey next time you go won't you take me. But I said well it's not unless you're going to tell your wife, you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's cool. They don't want to tell the wife, you know.

Yeah. See another part of your good guyness. Like you're like you're like no you got to be honest or it's no deal. Yeah, sure. Yeah. And but early on I answered. this ad for this woman that was, you know, looking for guys. And so I answered it and I drove out to her place and it was like, it was like, it was like once a two-hour drive to get to where she was at out in the middle of nowhere. And it was, she told me I needed to park not on her street or in front of her, her mobile home, but on this next street over and walk through a pasture.

And I'm like, oh, it's like in the middle of the night, I'm walking through this pasture. I fall a few Oh my goodness or whatever. That's scary. And then I get to the mobile home and knock on the door and she goes, yeah, come in. My husband is on the other end of the mobile home. He's paralyzed in a wheelchair. I'm over here on this bedroom and I'm going to videotape it for him to watch. Wow.

That was their cake. And I don't know if there was a guy there or not. I don't know. But she set up the camera. We started, you know, dressing around. We had sex. She wanted me to come on her. Was she hot? Yeah, I mean, she was like probably, I guess you would call her a milf nowadays.

She was probably like 37, eight maybe. And just, you know, a nice body. Just like a regular lady. Didn't, you know, not supermod or anything, but just a regular lady. And she videotaped it all. And then we sat and talked for a little bit and she goes, you think you can go again. I said, yeah, I can go again. So we went again, and she wanted another come shop, but I couldn't do another come shot the way she wanted. So that was the end of that.

And she said she had a nice time, and she wanted me to come out again. I said, okay. And I went out one more time. But then I found out that she was selling these videos online. Of course. I mean, because listen, after you, that first time when you're sitting there talking,

I mean, there's supposedly a guy in there, somewhere in the same little mobile. I mean, mobile homes don't have different rooms, right? So supposedly there's a guy there. Like, you never saw the guy. You never heard him? I never heard anything. You never talked to him?

She didn't turn on the lights and introduce you. I mean, like, no. Yeah, he wasn't there. There was no guy. Come on. Come on. Housewife, something. Yeah.

Oh, my God. How did you find out? Kelly or something. Oh, my God. I love that story. It's hilarious. How did you find out? I think I saw another ad of hers where she was like, uh, change your story.

Yeah, change the story or something. And it led to a, uh, a website. Wow. You're good. Yeah. And it said, uh, housewife Kelly, uh, selling these videos. And, uh, and I kept looking at them and I said, okay, am I in one of these? I never saw my stuff.

Thank God. I don't know. Maybe it wasn't hot enough to sell or something. Yeah, you didn't get that cum shot. She wanted. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So. But, but, but that was just. just one of the wild things that happened to me. That's a great story. You know, meeting people.

Yeah. And I just started going to clubs and meeting people at these clubs. And I just started being known, hey, that's, you know, Antonio from, you know, the small town, you know, and everybody goes. Everywhere I went, it was the same thing. Why are you driving all the way here? Why were you driving all the way there? Because you're from the small town. Yeah, because of small town.

Yeah. Yeah. And later on, I did find out there were other people in my town. dealing this, but they were doing things out of town. They didn't want to do anything in town. Of course. In all of those traveling, then we'll go back to your story, like did you ever, even before you met your wife when you were doing it, did you ever bump into anyone that you knew?

Well, I was at one party. When I did find a party in my own town with some people, they kept telling me about this woman that she was a Hispanic lady and they said she's wild. man, you know, they even showed me, I think, a picture of her. No face, just body picture. Yeah. And I said, oh, man, you need to introduce me to her. And I'm like, yeah, next time we see her, go, we'll tell her, you know, who will introduce you.

And one night, I was at one of their parties. And I go from the bedroom to the bathroom. Mm-hmm. And I bump into somebody that I kind of recognize. He kind of recognizes me, but we don't say anything to each other. and I thought I saw a woman that I recognized too and I'm not trying to put it all together but it was just real quick like a second flash of the person's face and later on they pulled me aside and they say Antonio you know I got something to tell you and I said what

you remember that woman we were telling you we wanted you to dis you to yeah that's your cousin No way. How did they know? How did they know? Because she told them. Oh, because she saw you. She saw me. Yeah. Oh my God. Wait, now this cousin, did you ever know she was freaky? Because they're pitching her as like the wild woman. Yeah. I never knew that about her. I mean, she's crazy. When we would talk, she's wild anyway. Yeah, yeah. She's just a crazy person that, you know, she parties and, you know, talks loud. and boisterous everything. So, I mean, I could see it.

But at the same time, it was, hey, that's my cousin. And then they're like, yeah, we fucked your cousin. Oh, I fucked her, you know, my wife fucked her. With the strap on. You know, it's just like, oh, I said, don't tell me all this. That's hilarious. And now she knows, too. I mean, you both know.

Yeah, we both know. I never said anything to her about it. She never said anything to me about it. Hilarious. But it's there. That's another good. story. I mean, you guys see each other to this day. Oh, yeah. We'll see each other at functions, family functions and stuff, but

is she married? Not anymore. Not anymore. She's not married to that guy anymore. They got divorced. Right, right, right. So she's probably still having fun. That's a great story too. Oh, I'm sure she is. Yeah. I'm sure she is. So this, this guy that through these parties of my town, he kept calling me the couple whisperer. I like that. Because it seemed like every new couple that showed up at their party, I wound up being there first. Wow. You know, I think, listen, I think with couples a lot of time, and I'm just like throwing this out there because you're like, you know, I'm kind of chubby. I'm not that

big, but like, I don't understand why I ever got, you know, I'm being passed around. But I think maybe it's because, you know, typically in a couple, it's the wife is the picker, right? You know, most guys defer to the wife. She's the one that has to feel comfortable, you know? And I think women feel very comfortable with you. You know, I think you're just not threatening. You have a vibe of a good guy. And I think that goes a long way. Yeah, I hope that's why.

I think so, you know. I mean, it's like you said, you're not, it's not like a, well, maybe you'd rather be, it's because you had like a big cock and that's what they wanted. But I think it's because you're just, you're genuinely a nice guy and that comes through. Women have that kind of intuition. And I think you are, you feel very safe. And that's great. You know, that goes a long way because look how popular you are.

You're like the couple whisperer. You know, everyone's choosing you. I mean, that's like, I think it's because of that reason. Yeah. Well, I appreciate that. I try to be. And especially with single guys in this lifestyle, your reputation is everything. Yeah.

Totally. And there's been a couple of times where people have tried to say something about me. And of course, you know, I have to defend myself. And but for the most part, everybody. knows, you know, like just kind of skipping around here in the timeline. Not too long ago, I was at my local, you know, a club that I'm actually a member with a friend of mine. I have a friends with benefit lady that we would have a standing Wednesday night date at the club to see each other. So we got a membership together just to kind of make it easier on the

on the cover charge. Because single guys going to these clubs, could be anywhere from $100 to $150 depending on you know, the night. Yeah. Yeah. And I think one club was even like a fancier little club

was even 175 one time for a single male. But anyway, I'm at this club one night talking to this couple. There wasn't that many people there that night. I'm talking to this couple. And you could tell the wife was just like loaded. I mean, she's just like really crazy loaded. And she kissed on me a little bit and let me grope her a little bit.

but I really don't try to mess with anybody that's out of it. Because, you know, you can't consent if you're not within your right mind. It's kind of the way I look at it. So she disappears sometime in the night and her husband and her friends are looking for her. And I help them, you know, I try to help them find her and everything. And they come to find out, they said they found her in the car out in the parking lot, passed out. And I guess I'm the last person she remembers, like kissing or something or whatever. when I see her again at this club

months later, she tells the manager she thinks she was roofied that night. Oh, no. And she saw me, and I just happened to walk up to them and say, hey, there you are. I hope you're okay tonight, and nothing like

happens what happens last time, you know? Yeah, yeah. Maybe that triggered something in her head thinking it was me, and so she told the manager, and he came up to me, he goes, dude, if it was anybody else but you, I'd already ran you out of here. You know that. Yeah, but he knew.

He knows you. So he knows that. He could further for the truth. Yeah, exactly. And again, that kind of goes back to what you were saying. Yeah. You know, that everybody sees me as non-threatening. And I try to.

Listen, you don't try. You just are. That kind of thing is just like in you, you know, or sometimes it's not. Listen, some, you know, fucking people that aren't that nice could change and grow to be better people. But, you know, a nice guy like you, that's just. who you are. You're not trying for that. You know what I mean? It's just your nature. Yeah. And it's

so weird because, and I guess because of the way I am, when I started out in my 20s, like my late 20s, it became real mechanical real fast because of how I was approaching it. Like I said, pretending like the husband wasn't there. Yeah. And I'm just there to get my nut.

And it's just like, okay, this isn't the way to do this. I could tell right the end. I'm not doing it right. Because it just felt mechanical. I'm not really enjoying it now for some reason. So when I started over again as an older person, I said, I got to at least try to be friends with some of these people. Yeah, yeah. You know, you still have the occasional show up with meet a stranger, you know, at an orgy or something.

But for the most part, you know, I get to know people first, either through chatting or even a small 20 minutes to 25 minutes at the club. love just, you know, talking to a couple, seeing what they're about and everything, before I ask if they want to play or they ask me if they, you know, if I want to play. Yeah. When you started to go back into it, when you were in your 40s, where did you go to find things and stuff? Like, were you back on any of the apps or anything? Any that you could recommend?

Yeah. Well, I went back to the swing lifestyle, the SLS.com. But then I heard of one called SDCs. dating club. That was the one that got me the most, you know, to find parties and events. Right. And I still use that one. I tried to use Cassidy, but I didn't really have any luck with that one. And I even tried vanilla dating apps because some people were telling me they were finding people on plenty of fish and OKCupid and Tinder was the ones when Tinder finally came out. That's the big one. That's the one that everybody said that they were finding people. Yeah.

I never really found anybody on those because it seemed like every person on there was like you got to be over 510, you got to be athletic and black or you got to be white. And I'm like, well, I'm not any of those. Yeah. So, but somebody told me they put that on there, but if you just respond, sometimes don't still go out with you. That's what they kept trying to tell me. But I'm the kind of person that says, hey, you're telling me what you want. I'm not that. so let me find somebody else.

Yeah, you're straight up. Yeah, and I do better in person. That's why I always said. I actually had a couple, turn me down on one of these abs, met them at a party and played with them. Did they know you were the one they turned down? No. Yeah, I had no idea. Yeah, yeah, I think it's hard.

I think some people are, you know, just present very differently. Most people present very differently than just on a flat screen. So it is always better to meet in person. Oh, yeah. Yeah. So, and now, because I'm part of these Facebook groups, there's a lot of Facebook groups, too, that, you know, that people start up and they're private, so you have to be invited into them. And those kind of groups throw lots of meeting, meet and greets, and they throw a lot of parties. Like tonight, well, this afternoon, actually, I found on FetLife, that's another, that's more of a kind of a kink website, but they still have, like, Swinger stuff on there, too.

I found a five-woman gang bang that's going to happen this afternoon that I'm going to. Oh. And then there's a house party later, late tonight that I've been invited to through one of these Facebook groups. So let's go there. Tell me some of your crazy experiences. Okay. So there's a lot of times they do hotel takeovers. Either the whole hotel, like if it's a small three-story hotel, then they take off all three floors.

If it's a six one, they'll do like maybe two to three floors. And you go and basically it's a free fall once you get up into the floors. Because people are running around naked. And there's one couple that they just open up their room to everybody that wants to come in because they like to have an orgy type situation. Yeah. And you go in and just people, automatically people just start, you know, they're already in lingerie or they're naked.

anyway, and they, you know, get on the bed and start going at it. And then another couple get on the bed and start going at it. And I've just been fortunate. I feel like sometimes being in the right place at the right time. And I'll walk in and I'll watch a little bit. And then somebody will say, hey, come on. Let's go. You know, pull it out.

Yeah. And so I've just, you know, been able, fortunate to do crazy things like that where I'm in a bed. with like four women at one time and it's I never thought I would just like penthouse forum type stuff yeah totally it's like well it's like what people watching porn you know what I mean it's like their fantasy yeah yeah I've had I've had one woman riding me while I'm laying down and another one riding my face mm-hmm and I like Givin Aural so I love that kind of thing and somewhere along the line I started eating ass

I love to do that. So. Huh? No, that's funny. Like, you never, even before that you had it, like, when did that start? I don't know when that started. I think, oh, I know when that started. I call it my summer of lesbian love.

Okay. Tell me about that. Okay. So there was one summer where I just happened to start hanging around a lot of lesbians. And they, before that, I would eat pussy just enough to say, okay, that's enough. Now I'm ready to fuck. Yeah. But I started hanging out of these lesbians and they wanted to try a guy.

And I said, okay. So I started eating their pussy and they go, well, you're not done yet. You got to keep going. And they kind of taught me how to do that for a long period of time to make sure the woman orgasms, you know, just all different kind of techniques. And one of the lesbians wanted her ass eating. And I said, yeah, I'll do it. You know, it was new, something I had. thought about doing before. And so I did it and she went wild with it. And I was like, oh, okay. I didn't know that was a thing. And so after I started like dating this one lady, I said, I want to try and see if

she likes that. And she liked it. So, of course, now I ask, you know, hey, are you into this? And they'll say, yeah, you know, I don't know. I've never done it, but I'll try it. A lot of women will just come in that way. And some women I know just automatically know that they're into it. already because they keep raising their hips in that way.

Yeah, you can tell. Okay, yeah, yeah, okay. I'll go down. And so I started doing that. Anyway, so at this one hotel party, I got one lady riding me, I got one right in my face. And I'm trying to eat her ass, and I bit her. She, the way, the way it was shaped, it was a little protruding.

Oh my God. You didn't mean to. I didn't mean to, but I bit it. So now it became, came and saying like, Antonio bit my asshole. That's what they're going to say. Did you meet that lesbian couple

in the lifestyle? No, no. This was just people I knew outside. Yeah, yeah. Okay, cool. Because I used to, because this was kind of going,

I was going back to younger, to younger again, that I used to go to this dance club. And of course, there's a lot of gay people with dance clubs. And I just got to be friends with a bunch of them. And that's how, once again,

people get used to me. I guess. Yeah. And I just started hanging out with these lesbians, and they just really thought it was just kind of cool that I was into that, you know, with him. And they wanted, you know, they wanted to try a guy. And one of it was funny because he's just like, there's no way you enjoyed that. And I was like, I did. I enjoyed it.

But she's like, yeah, okay, well, I tried it. It's not for me. Oh, that's hilarious. They weren't into the guy thing. No, you know, it was just like, you know, you like what you like, you know, in this lifestyle and everything, but, or in general, period. Right, because they weren't even in the lifestyle. Yeah, they weren't in lifestyle. And it was just neat. It was just kind of something different, you know, that they taught me how to eat pussy. That's what I always say. I credit those three women, because there was three of them in that summer that I messed around with. And I credit them for teaching me how to learn and love to eat pussy. Yeah, that's hilarious. That's your, what did you call?

it the summer of the summer of lesbian love yeah yeah yeah so wait so now your friend how did you meet that girl that you go to these parties with and does she do like gang bangs and stuff like what's oh yeah so she's an older lady maybe like a three years older than me and i'm i got invited to this pool party by another friend of mine that i was kind of talking to at the time that's what's kind of weird because i don't talk to her anymore she's actually out of the lifestyle. That's a whole other story of herself, that she was a unicorn that got kind of used up and thrown to the side, and now she doesn't want anything to do with the lifestyle anymore. But anyway, she took me to this pool party where everybody is naked in the pool and just having

fun, and then somewhere during the day or night, if they want to go into the room to have sex, they can go into the house to have sex. But we're all just in the pool and I meet this lady. and we just start making out in the pool. And she asked me, you know, do you want to go inside? And I said, okay. And we go inside and we have a good time. And then we just keep calling each other and talking to each other. And she goes to this club that I go to.

And she said, hey, you know, we come here a lot. Let's just get a membership. And so that's what we started doing. And, you know, sometimes we would play with other people, you know, as a couple. and that was the weird thing too because every time we'd show up either she'd show up there by herself or I'd show up by myself

they'd ask us where the other person was Right Everybody just assumed we were a couple And And we'd be the first one to say it Oh no, we're not We're just friends But everybody got used to us

Being a couple And so we swapped with a lot of other couples that way So that was kind of fun Yeah because you can't kind of do that if you're solo, right? It's a different experience, the double, like that in that scenario? Like, what's the difference? Like, what goes down in that scenario?

Well, because there's some couples that just flat out refuse to play with single guys or even single women to that. True, yeah. But they're only one other couples because they want everybody involved. And so it's different, the different kind of couples that you meet that way, it's different that way because they want to, they want to sit there and just talk for a little bit, kind of get to know you because most of those to me in my opinion those couples and they're always older too they they they want friends they want to be able to go on trips together they want to go

to dinner together besides just you know having sex yeah and so that so that's kind of a different vibe when I'm with her at the club and we're talking to people as opposed to when I'm myself then you know hey this is a couple where the guy just likes to see his wife have sex yeah or or it's a bisexual guy who he wants to hopefully maybe something happened between you know him and you too but you know like i said there's probably about half of the couples i played with where i know the guy was by but you know they did try it a couple of times they try stuff but for the most part you know they're respectful and they don't try the thing but i just think they like seeing it you know they like seeing the naked guy there and and being close and like i said i'll do dp and so they

they get something from that too. But that's the difference, in my opinion. You know, it's just different vibes. Now, what do you, so could you do a lot of crazy things? Like you said, you were going to gang bang later. I know you told me when I asked you where you're calling me from, you're like at a hookups house right now, you know, so you had someone last night.

You're going on a gigbing later today. You do DVP, DPs. Like, tell me some of those stories. Like, I mean, is that all going down through this group of people that you know? Or, like, do you find these things elsewhere? Well, like SDC, I'll tell you about this one couple. So this one couple I met off SDC. Well, actually, I met them at a party.

That's right. I met them at a party first. And then I continued conversations with them. So I met them at a party. They were from out of state. They just moved into my state. And I just started kind of just talking to them. And this was kind of a party where, again, somebody took me to it.

I was a guest to somebody else. and it was so funny because she passed out halfway through the party. And so I was kind of left on my own. And it was an older group. Oh, my God. Did you roofie her too? No, I'm just joking. No, I'm just talking.

That's funny. This was kind of an older group. And I've come to find out the older people are like the OGs of the lifestyle. They don't like to waste time like some of the younger people do. And I'll get into some of that too. Yeah. That they're there to play. And so they get naked.

faster, they play faster. And I'm talking to this couple, and they're from, you know, kind of a Midwest state. And we talk about that and how they move to my state and what they're there for and everything. And they said the husband was like, oh, I got to go to work, you know, and she takes them to work. And I said, oh, man, I wish, you know, we could have played. She goes, I'll be back. And so I said, okay, yeah, she's just saying that. But she came back, immediately changed into some lingerie.

and came up to me and just laid a kiss on me. And I'm 5'4, like I said, I'm just a short guy, and she's about 510, 5-9, 5-10-ish, something like that. And it always amazes me that, you know, that I can still, you know, meet women that are that tall and they want to play with me. But she lays one on me. We start kissing and we start making it out. And I said, let's go find a bed. And, of course, all the beds are taken. and there's not even even in the big bed there's not a space available because it's all taken up yeah

and we walk into this it's a room before the bathroom where this hostess had her all her makeup set up at a little table and stuff and they have this ottoman type thing but it's bigger than an ottoman that you can actually lay on it so we lay down on that and i fucked her right there Oh, Matt. Wow. And, you know, and I had her, you know, turned this way and that way, and then she even did anal. Mm-hmm. She went crazy for the anal. And that was, you know, and she was just yelling, fuck me.

And that's, fuck me. And everybody was walking through and just stopping and staring. And that was neat. I like, I've gotten to the point where I like that. I like people watching. Obviously. I mean, that has to be a big part of being in this lifestyle, right? Yeah.

And I've taken one of those. pink test where like I score real high on exhibitionists and not and so so anyway so now I'm in with this couple and the husband wants to make me their bull and this is the first time somebody's calling me that I'm like well I don't consider myself that but sure why not yeah and they've called me up one weekend to their house and he's got a bedroom set up upstairs and he's got a video camera set up and he says okay I'm gonna leave you to it you know y'all have fun and you know we start messing around and we start you know missionary her on then she gets on top and you know fucking her from behind and then he comes in and this is when he wants to do dp and i say okay

so i'm laying down on my back I'm in her ass and then he climbs up on top and gets in her pussy from the top. Now is this the first time you're doing this? Yeah, this is the first time I've done this. And, and I, because I was just fucking in the ass and then she, he rolled us over that way. I didn't, I was like, okay, this is weird. Yeah. And

he, and he starts fucking her in the pussy with me laying on my back and she's laying on top of me. And he comes real fast. And the whole time, his balls are stubbly. Oh, hilarious. And they're just, and I'm just feeling them just like,

you know, rub it on me. And so I'm like, okay, I'm just trying to get through that. And he finishes and he leaves. And so we finish up with me and her. And they're like, okay, you need to come back again next weekend. So I come back again next weekend. And this is when they want to do the DVP. So I'm like, okay, I don't know if I could do this or not.

Because the last time a couple wanted me to do this, I said, I didn't know if I could do it. And the guy flipped out on me and said, well, we, we, told you what we wanted and all this and so he didn't even let me come over oh wow yeah so so i said okay i'll give it a shot so we start doing it uh i'm he gets in first and then i go in so this time he's on the bottom and i come in from the top and we're both in her pussy and again it's just some stubly balls are just welcome to the woman's world yeah and i'm just like oh my God, this is just, and he comes again quickly again.

And I'm like, thank God. So as soon as he comes, I get out of her pussy and go straight in her ass. Hilaric. And so we have another good time, and they're filming the whole thing. And again, they say, we want you to come back again. I'm like, okay. So I come back a third time. But before I come back, she messages me during the week saying that she's having him eat tapioca

pudding all week long. And at first I wasn't understanding. it either. Yeah. But she said, I want him to get used to the texture. Of what? Of the tapioca. What's tapioca? I don't get. I'm still not getting it. Can you? Oh, it's put. It's pudding. It's like a Yeah. No, no, no. I know what it is. But what's the, what is the reference? So I guess she's saying, so the reference is she wants him to eat my cum out of her pussy. Oh, okay. First of all, I've, I've just taken a lot of jizz in my mouth. And it's not even close to pudding. I don't know what fucking cum she's swallowing, okay?

And what a trick what a trickster she is. She's telling her poor guy that it's going to taste like pudding. How shocked is he going to be when he puts it in and he realizes it tastes like I don't even know. And the texture, that's what I mean, like the texture is not even close

to pudding. Oh my God. Well, see, I don't know any difference. So I'm just like, yeah, okay. I mean, I understood what she meant after she said it, you know, but I was just like okay I guess so you know and uh so I go that third time and I come in her pussy and she immediately grabs him and pulls his head down and says eat it he like goes crazy I mean okay he loves

it yeah and that's the first time I had that happen he wasn't looking for pudding okay because there was yeah and I was just like okay I you know that was kind of my first for me that was kind of weird. And I've had it done since, but it's still kind of weird. You're not into it. No, I mean, I will sit there and kiss a woman who has, I've come in her mouth, you know, so, but it's not, I don't get off on it. It's not a thing to me. It's just, it's just kind of weird to me that another man would want to clean out of his wife. But that's, that happens a lot in this lifestyle. Totally. I'm surprised with all of your couples that, it hadn't before. Yeah. Right. Most of the time, I use condoms, you know, a lot of.

Right, right. I use condoms. Yeah, because there are a lot of people in this lifestyle that, you know, if you say you don't use condoms, they, you know, they'll blackball you. Yeah. But I'm up front about it. And I get tested every three months. I get tested every three months.

And there's some people that say that's not even really, you know, full proof either. Of course. But it's something. You know, at least, you know, I'm trying to be responsible. But you also, though, keep yourself protected by using the. condoms for sure yeah yeah yeah you know if I'm gonna go somewhere that I don't know anybody or anything yeah I'm gonna use condoms like this gang bang I'm going to it's it's a mandatory there's a lot of gangbings I go to that are mandatory

condoms so now do you enjoy that like is that like hot for you oh the gang thing yeah yeah yeah I really do it took me a while to get there but but it really I really like it a lot I was one a couple of weeks ago where it was just one woman and seven guys Wow. And we all just took turns. The first time with this, this is the second one I've done with this couple. The first time it was just five of us.

And I don't know what, I don't know if it was because I've been playing like the couple of nights before. But I couldn't stay hard. I was like I did one turn on her and then I couldn't go anymore the rest of the night. So I just kind of used my fingers longer, you know, the rest of the time. He just wanted her to be engaged. He said it doesn't matter. He didn't matter. if I couldn't fuck her again.

He just just keep doing stuff to her. I said, okay. Which I'm glad I did because he invited me back to the second one. And the second one went a lot better. I was able to go the whole time. And this one, they had a fluffer, though, at this one. And you could, you know, play with the fluffers, titties. You could finger her pussy.

But you couldn't fuck her. Right. And then they had two other women watching with their boyfriends, I guess, to see if they wanted to do something like it too. Oh interesting like they're like yeah they're just on the sidelines. Yeah they're just on the sidelines and I kept thinking well one of them left right away as soon as her husband came because he was part of the bang gang bang they left I guess I guess she wasn't into it but the other woman that was watching there was a couple of times she got close to the bed that I thought she was ready to jump in I really thought so right but but she didn't she didn't do anything but the

fluff her, she wanted up laying down the bed and getting eaten out, but never, nobody got to fuck her. Right. Because she must have been like, listen, if that's her thing and she's there finally and she's experienced it, she must have got super turned on. So how, what are you going to do with that? Right. Yeah, exactly.

So, and then there's this one club I go to that they have a ladies night, which basically is like about 40 guys and five women. And there's women there that they just want all the dick. They'll just sit there and

that's where I met the woman that I'm at her house right now. I met her friend there and her friend just sucked dick all night. She probably sucked about 20 dicks at night. And what about your girl? And my friend, she was like she fucked about 15 guys.

Yeah, listen, I just aired. I'm just airing. You know, your episode will be after this, but the one that's coming out on Monday is Kyle and Crimson. And, you know, they're both in the lifestyle and Crimson has been on before and she's an older woman and I mean she there is just not enough dicks in one room for her I mean oh yeah she's like does not consider a gang bang seven people like that is just not enough

for her it's got to be like you know what I mean these are the hardcore women that you're like wow where are those people like I can't even believe they exist I have a there's a couple I play with that uh the wife is like that too I mean she I'll go with them to a to a club in another town uh that's I'm between two big, you know, metropolitan cities. And so it's like, I'll go down south to the other one. And with them to their club. And she'll, you know, she'll fuck me. She'll fuck her husband.

She'll fuck, you know, whoever else wants to fuck her at the club. We'll go back to their house. She'll fuck us some more. And then she still doesn't have enough. She'll go into the special closet they have. Go online to that chatter bait. a website sit on a motor bunny

and watch guys check off while she's doing that wow she can't get enough yeah she can yeah she's on those hormone pellets I've had those women on I'm telling you I went on the pellets right after I'm like I gotta get these pellets I mean what a yeah I had one woman who she was like literally like never done anything in her life and she was like doing gangbangs after them yeah oh yeah that's basically this woman

And I know, I said I was going to talk about how an older guy like me Yeah, we have time in it. So let's do all that now. Yeah, perfect. So let me get to that. So during, I used to drink. I don't like drink anymore. I've been sober for 28 years.

But about the last, in that last year, my drinking, I had a deal where I was wearing a leather cock ring and I passed out wearing it. So it kind of affected me to where I. I needed to start taking Viagra after that. Oh, yeah. I remember this in your email. Yeah, okay. Yeah.

So I started having to take Viagra after that. And after a while, the Viagra really wasn't doing much for me anymore at all. And then this guy at a party said, dude, you don't want that Viagra anyway because it has all these side effects. There's a new thing called Trimix. It's a shot. And you just shoot it right into your dick and you're a porn star all night long. What is it called? Tri-Mix.

Does it work? Yeah, it's like, like if I'm going to go to, like, when I go to this gangbang later on, I'm going to use it because I want to stay hard the whole time I'm there. And I don't use it all the time, but for something big like this, I'm going to use it because it helps. And you'll stay hard for four to five hours. Wow. And you don't want to stay hard any longer than that because then it'll start. hurting and to have an antidote that you can buy along with it. But suitorate, over the counter of suitorisphid works just the same.

Oh, hilarious. Yeah. But a buddy in mine, he took too much. You're only supposed to take so much. It's a prescription. Some people get it online, you know, through an online pharmacy, but I went to my doctor and got it. I just told him that the Viagra wasn't helping as much as it used to and I wanted to try this and he gave me all the warnings and everything and I said yeah I got it and that first time though that first time to do it before I got my prescription was at a party and this guy was like here I got an extra one I'll let you have it do you want to put it in yourself or do you want me to put it in you and I said yeah I think you're going to have to put it in and he goes all right he goes this ain't no gay shit man I'm just put this I'm just put the shot easy

So he grabs a hold of my dick And he shoots it You know into my dick And I fucked about nine women that night Wow Yeah That's like the reverse gang bang That's you

That's your gang bang for you Yeah it was just crazy How much sex I could have And you could ejaculate And not even go down Right But a buddy of mine He took too much

I'm hung up in the ER It had to have this Dick drained Your kid Oh my God I'm the stories the ER people have. And I have to have an episode on that one day with all the crazy sex, you know, things in the ER. Oh, yeah.

You sex send me to the ER, yeah. So I'll go to these hotel takeovers, you know, and every guy my age is all hard. And that's why they're all on it. I didn't realize it. I mean, it's so common now. Yeah. You know, they call it the porn star shot or, you know. I feel like I've heard of it before.

Yeah. You probably have. Yeah. And just like, and so now it's like, you know, guys show up with their like these little gun things. And I need to probably get one of those because it is kind of hard to hit the right spot doing it by hand sometimes. And that's the thing too. If you don't hit the right spot, well, then you're just going to have a regular hard on that, you know, last. What is the right spot?

So they say if you're looking at your penis, it's like the 10 and 2 clock, like on a clock at 10 and too there's like a there's a part of the penis that has a muscle or something there that you just shoot into and uh and and and that's where it needs to be for it to work because if you don't put it in that spot is it just basically just goes into your body and your body absorbs it right right right and it doesn't do anything so do you use that all the time no not all the time like will you use it today? Yeah, I'm going to use it today for that gangway, yeah. Right. Oh my God. I feel like we should have spoke after the gangway. We could have left on that story. Oh, yeah. I'm sorry. It's okay. Maybe like before, if I have time before we air this, maybe we'll just get you back on and

give a little update on how that went down. But I mean, listen, like for you, that's, you know why you don't think of that because for you, that's just like a normal day. Like, it's not like, oh my God, like the first thing you're doing. You know, you've done these kind of things so much. that you would never even think maybe you should wait till after and then you could end with that. Because how many, you probably have a million gangbank stories. What's the difference? Yeah, I mean, just like a couple of weeks ago, I went to a BBC hotel party. And I never have signed up for one of those before because I'm like, you know, they're not there for me.

Yeah, yeah. But it just so happens. I knew some people that were going to be there. So I went. And, you know, of course, I had sex with the one guy's wife that I had sex with before. And that led to another couple, wanted to play with me, and then I played with another couple. So I wanted to play with three women that night, you know,

in a room full of, you know, 9-inch, 10-inch BBC guys. And I was like, all right, I'm going to start signing up for more of these. And the host invited me back. He's having another one later this month, and he invited me back. But unfortunately, I already have another party I've already accepted to go to. What did you enjoy about that? What was it that you liked? I like the fact that, you know, I, I guess I always say I'm the relief.

I'm the change of pace guy in a BBC party. That's all I got to do. That's interesting. Yeah, but you like being that guy. Yeah, I do. I do because, you know, because a woman told me one time. Who's that guy in the baseball, the relief guy, you know, he sits on the bench, then he comes and that's you. Yeah, I actually had a woman tell me one time that her.

Her husband was 9-inch and had a 9-inch cock. And I was like, well, why do you like me? I just allowed to ask her that. Yeah. And she said, well, because I don't want my cervix taking a beating every night. Totally. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I totally understand that.

So, but I guess that's what I liked about it, you know, because I've been looked over before at parties, you know, by women that wanted the bigger dick. So it was kind of, you know, I kind of felt a little pride that night. Okay. because it's interesting because I was wondering like would you feel the opposite of that but it kind of makes sense that that would actually boost your confidence if you were accepted in the middle of that right I think the biggest fear would be that nobody would even touch you because you're not but it kind of balzy of you to try it out because then it's why you end up experiencing the opposite thing which actually makes sense that because they still wanted to you felt like great because look they had that and they still wanted you yeah yeah Yeah. Yeah.

So, yeah. And it just goes back to, I guess, just the way I interact with people. And I met a couple there. Excuse me. I met a couple there that I had seen on another website called Reddit. And they were there at that party. And I tried to talk to the wife some. And I couldn't really gauge whether or not she was interested or not.

But the husband and I got along pretty good. And I saw him out at another club by himself. Because I guess they take turns. Sometimes they have kids, so they take turns sometimes going out solo. And it just so happens. I had a friend of mine there that she liked to give head. So I said, hey, would you mind giving this guy ahead? You know, I'm trying to get with his wife.

And she goes, yeah, I'll help you out. So now that, you know, now that he had that experience with my friend, he's been trying to help me get with his wife now. And I think his wife is kind of coming around to wanting to meet me. Yeah. Because he did. Yeah. So we'll see how that goes.

Yeah. For a nice guy, you're interested. Like, I love people that don't make sense, you know, because I think people that don't make sense or the real people, you know. I think a lot of people read a book and they follow it and they, you know, they do make sense. And that's when you're being fucking phony. I like the fact that you're like this really nice guy yet you live like this. botchrous lifestyle. It doesn't really go together, you know, in a weird way. Probably a lot of people would never think that you are doing all this stuff, people in your life. Like, no way would they

ever think Antonio is living this life on the side. I, that's how I feel. And I don't even know. Yeah. Yeah. And my coworkers just know I go out on dates because I'll say something about I have a date or whatever and they're like like oh man you know you know you should do go a lot of dates i go yeah you know i just dates quote unquote i said i said i said i find women who are busy and don't have a lot of free time and we just enjoy each other's company that's how i kind of put it there you like that i don't make it sexual those office yeah those office mates have no fucking idea because you don't lead with that at all it's interesting that's what i mean like you don't make sense it's uh but i love it and I love your story. I think it's like a great angle for a lot of reasons and thank you so much

for calling it and sharing it. Oh, thank you. Yeah, I've been wanting to call and I started hearing some of your other stories. Yeah, no, that's awesome. I love these kind of stories and I love stories that have to do with the lifestyle because I have a big audience for that as well. And so listen, if you want to send me in a pick, an anonymous pick for my Patreon, that's cool. But I also have a discord now that because you called in, I'll give you free access to. It's like for my Patreon members. They could go on there. There's like six. such of people on there. So if you,

but if you want to go on and introduce yourself after your episode airs, you know, and talk to people, you could post anything on there or do whatever you want on there.

I will send you that link once your episode is up, okay? Okay, and I sent a picture with, uh, oh yeah, you too, right, but with your face.

Yeah, but yeah, I can't put that. I'll just to take your face off. Like I'll, I'll, I'll make you anonymous. Okay.

Thank you very much. Yeah, yeah, I forgot. All right. Awesome. So I already have the pick. That's awesome. Thank you, Antonio.

thanks so much for calling in. Thank you. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook.

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