Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 693- Brent is Into Gangbangs, Hooking Up with Men, Couples, Pro Doms and More

Episode Date: September 20, 2023

Brent is into gangbangs, men, women, pro doms and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did he realize he was into guys? When did he start attending booking up with couples and attending ga...ngbangs? And why did he start recently using a pro dom? Tune in to hear all the details including some of his early trauma that he experienced in his own household, when he started hooking up with guys and what exactly went down, the first couple he hooked up with and what went down, the numerous mmf threesomes that followed and what he enjoyed doing with the men, the swingers parties and swingers clubs he went to and what went down there as well, the gangbang coordinator he met and where the events took place, all the different kinds of gangbangs he attended including all male ones and what exactly went down, how and why he is interested more into women but still has an interest in men, how eventually got married and stopped hooking up with guys, how his wife would peg him at first but joe and why their life sex went out the window, how and why and when he eventually started cheating on her with guys, the bbc he started seeing and what goes down with him, the fending he found and how and why she got him totally into bdsm, what exactly goes down at their sessions, the stunt cock she brought in and did forced bi experience he had and enjoyed, the trans female she is bringing in for him next and how and why he’s super excited about it, his sexless marriage and why he has zero interest in fixing it but why he should, what he has already tried to do that hasn’t worked, what he can do moving forward plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:03:02 went on Discord. At the end, when I told him to go on and post some ProDOM stuff because he does see a pro DOM now, he was like, oh, I already posted some videos on Discord. I'm like, oh, he's already there. He's going to repost some stuff on Discord. His name is Brent. He's got a really interesting story.
Starting point is 00:03:19 It starts when he was like 8, when he realized he was by, and then he had a really bad thing happen with his brother. We talk a little bit about that. Some crazy thing that happens, unfortunately, to a lot of people when they're young. It's kind of crazy, though. And then we get into, like, his naughty stuff. Like, he was like 20 years old. One of his coworkers invited him to have a threesome, okay? I'm like,
Starting point is 00:03:40 how the fuck did that happen? He explains what went down. And then he got married, divorce. And then after that, his first divorce, he started to get into swinging. And he started meeting couples. He got really into pegging. He met a guy who owned like a sex pad and a penthouse in an apartment building closed by and there were all kinds of things going on at that penthouse. There was a lot of mail get-togethers, a lot of gangbangs. Like sometimes there would be a girl there and they all gangbanged her. Sometimes it would be an all-guy experience. Like when he first emailed me, he's like, I've been in M-M-M-M-M-Ms, not MFF, M-FMs, and M-M-M-M-M-S because this guy had just by guy scenarios and he talks about all the parties that went down there. He's been gang-banged.
Starting point is 00:04:28 of those parties. He talks about that. Eventually during that time he did meet his wife that he's with now. After a while, after years of being married to her, sex went out the window, unfortunately, because she got older. She's a little older than him when he married her, and she went through menopause. And typical thing, she's not into sex anymore and hasn't had sex with him for many years, and he's still into it. She doesn't know that he's into guys, but she did know that he liked pegging, and he is a guy that would have been able to remain monogamous with her, not see guys if she would just peg him, but he's had no sex for three years.
Starting point is 00:05:05 So what did he do? He started seeing guys behind her back. There was a BBC guy that he met online. I mean, he was bringing this guy home to his house and having sex with him. He's versed, so he's the top and a bottom. He'll do anything. He likes it all.
Starting point is 00:05:21 He started seeing that guy behind her back, and then he started to see a pro-dom recently, And he talks all about that. I mean, he sees her for three hours at a time. We talk about prices. I always love prices for all those things and add-ons and all that stuff. He really got into being a submissive. He loves BDSM.
Starting point is 00:05:41 He loves getting into subspace. He explains what that is all about. He talks about the time that she brought in a stunt cock. He explains what that is, but he's been able to, he's had forced by experiences with. with her. He's going, she's going to set up an experience with him and a trans woman soon. That's like next on his bucket list. And we talk about his sexless marriage and what he could do. I mean, this is a guy that has thought about leaving her, but he'd like to stay with his wife. If she would
Starting point is 00:06:14 peg him every now and then he believes he could remain faithful, he's only going behind her back because there's zero sex over there. So we do talk about what he could do to try and get her back in action. We talk about hormone replacement. We talk about, he talks about how they've talked about going to therapy and how they need to and all that kind of good stuff. I think that part of this story is very relatable. A lot of the other stuff isn't relatable, but you'll dig it, okay? He's had some really crazy experiences.
Starting point is 00:06:43 They're super hot. He gets into details. But then, like I said, the sexless marriage is something that I think a lot of guys in a certain age range can relate to. And we do talk about that towards the end. So anyway, it's a great episode. he's posting stuff over on Discord, patreon.com, slash strictly anonymous podcast.
Starting point is 00:07:01 The links and number, phone number, and everything is in the description. I'm going to be right back on with Brent. Hi, Brent. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm great. Hello, Kathy.
Starting point is 00:07:14 How are you today? I'm good. You sound like you have a little salacious story, Brent. Okay? You are, I'm going to give the short story. Then you're going to give me the long story. You're a closeted bottom. verse bisexual male
Starting point is 00:07:28 in a sexless marriage you're doing all kinds of guy stuff behind your wife's back okay you pay a pro dom you're a sub you're into BDSM obviously you've been to swingers clubs private by parties you've had every kind of
Starting point is 00:07:46 MFM I think you put in their hookups and shit like I mean and this is all a very secret life so like where do we begin Why don't we begin when you said that, like, you knew ever since you were, like, eight years old that you were by? Let's start there. When I was about eight, I found my dad's porno stash, his magazines, and they weren't just your normal penthouse playboy.
Starting point is 00:08:11 They were actually hardcore, showed everything. And I kind of got interested in the male genitalia and the female when I was eight, but I liked both of them. So I was... I don't know if I was confused. I just thought like both of them. Well, because it was hardcore. You saw actual people fucking.
Starting point is 00:08:31 So it wasn't just like a Playboy magazine where all you saw were naked girls. This had men and women. And you found yourself visually attracted to both people. Yes. In the pictures. Okay, cool. So that's when you knew you were like sexually attracted to men too.
Starting point is 00:08:46 Yeah. And then when I was 10, my brother who's older than me, he molested me. But I don't know if I really called. molesting me because I enjoyed it. Well, that's, listen, I mean, it is molesting. It doesn't matter if you enjoy it.
Starting point is 00:09:00 Sometimes it's the physical act you can't help that. It's just the physical part of it you're enjoying, but this isn't consensual. That doesn't mean anything. That happens a lot of the times when that's actually what makes those kinds of situations so horrifying because you could get confused by that. Yeah. Well, and all we did was oral. He was trying to penetrate me.
Starting point is 00:09:21 Yeah, yeah. I can't even. My mom caught us. It's so sad. Listen to what you just said. All he did was oral. I mean, it's a sad sentence that you say, but I think it's typical of victim sometimes. You don't see it as bad as it is. That's horrifying. Oral sex on your brother being forced. But I enjoyed it. I don't care. How old were you? I was 10. Did you go up to him and hit him up? What do you mean, hit him up as far as asking to do? Yeah. Did you say, hey, I'm horny. Let me blow you? No. He forced me. Me, you do.
Starting point is 00:09:54 it. I mean, come on. Yeah. Listen, yeah. I'm just going to tell you, I get why you have it filed in your head this way, but if you heard this story with somebody else, you would feel different about it. But it's because of you and you had to protect yourself and you had to file it a certain way and you had to live with this person and deal with it at 10 years old. And so this is what you did with that story. You put it in a place that isn't as horrifying as it really was so you could fucking survive. But that's a horrifying thing to go through.
Starting point is 00:10:31 Yeah. So go on. And then from there, I'd have the typical friends he messed around with a little bit. And when I was between 10 and 13, other boys. Yeah, well, listen, this is what happens.
Starting point is 00:10:47 You start acting out because this was what happened to you. A lot of times, it's just like it's a vicious cycle, right? And now you as the victim now becomes the perpetrator. Yeah. Because you're acting out because now you're fucking damaged goods because what your brother did to you, even though you quote unquote liked it, it fucked you up. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So then when I got 13, I had my first girlfriend and lost my virginity at 13. and the bisexual side of me was pretty much quiet until I got to about 20 years old. I just was dating girls going through high school, typical teenager stuff.
Starting point is 00:11:35 Yeah. And when I was 20, I had a co-worker that approached me. He was 30. He approached me, want to know if I would have a threesome with him and his wife. Oh, my goodness. How does it? But can I just ask you, like, but I don't know. I think sometimes people smell things, right?
Starting point is 00:11:51 there's a lot of subconscious things that are going on and signals that are going on, I think, at all times. And that's how people like your coworker find people like you. Like, how does he know that he could approach you and you're going to be down with it? Do you know what I mean? Most people would be like, what the fuck? I don't know, but he did. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:12:11 I guess he just got up the guts to do it and ask me. No, but I mean, you were like there was, you were oozing that kind of energy because he's 30 years old. You're really young at that time. You're fucking 20. And he just comes out with that. How did he know you're the one person at your job that would be the taker? Because I think that stuff, there's undercurrents. There's an energy. We smell it on somebody else. He knows you're going to act out sexually and you have this part of you that would be okay with that at a very young age. Possibly. I'd say I don't know how he felt it or he just did it. I know. I know. I know. I like to analyze things.
Starting point is 00:12:52 I like that undercurrent stuff anyway. Okay. So he comes straight up and it's just like, hey, do you want to fuck me and my wife? No, just his wife. He didn't present himself his buy or anything like that. Oh, okay. He wanted to have a threesome with his wife. Okay.
Starting point is 00:13:08 So we went over and had a few beers and we start this threesome. Well, I'm on top of her doing a missionary style and she's sucking on his cocks. He's like basically right in front of me. And she's sucking on him and she's, my face is right there. And I told her, I said, I want some of that. And she pulled it out of our mouth. They shared it with me. So he was by two.
Starting point is 00:13:36 Yeah. So come to find out he was by too. We never did any anal or anything like that. It was all just oral at that time. Wow. How many times did you hook up with that couple? Well, we were going to hook up again. But she called me out of the blue like a week later.
Starting point is 00:13:50 and wanted me to come over and not tell her husband. Oh. And I'm like, no, I'm not going to get in the middle of this. Yeah. I didn't want to. And then at the same time, I was dating a girl that moved in with me. So that kind of puts the kibosh on that because I wasn't, didn't have any free time to get away to go do it.
Starting point is 00:14:11 Yeah. Oh, my goodness. And you didn't want to fuck over your coworker. I mean, because you weren't cheater. You cheat on your wife. But it's like brocode. You didn't want to fuck over that guy at work. Yeah, I wasn't going to go and not tell him that wasn't right.
Starting point is 00:14:24 Yeah, okay. So then I had, I went with the girl for a while, and nothing crazy happened with that. It was all just normal vanilla sex. And then we split up and I met my first wife. And she was wild, but she wasn't, I never told her that I wanted to be with a guy or like looking for a guy or as interested in you guys. But it's talk came up during sex about inviting another guy over and having a threesome. But we never acted out on that. It was just all talk.
Starting point is 00:15:01 Okay. But did you cheat on her at all? No, didn't cheat on her at all. Okay. How long were you married to her for? We were together three years. We were married for about six months. Oh, why did you divorce?
Starting point is 00:15:15 Let me just tell you, if I went to your wedding, I would have been like, give me my fucking present back. I can't stand people that get divorced six months after they get married. Why do you take everyone on that ride? What happened six months later? It was a JP, Justice of the Peace. There was no big wedding. Oh, okay, okay. But what happened six months later that you decided you don't want to be married anymore?
Starting point is 00:15:37 Did someone cheat? What happened? She cheated on me. Oh, okay. That's interesting. And it actually kind of turned me on, the whole hot wife thing. Uh-huh. But she was into it more
Starting point is 00:15:51 She wanted to divorce And her hand Wow I mean what was she banging this guy the whole time Six months She's ready to leave you for someone? No I just started like the last Two months of our marriage
Starting point is 00:16:06 How do you find out? Through a neutral friend That told me about it And I confronted her And she admitted to it Okay so now you move on to this wife Or do you have some guys in between In between is when things got wild.
Starting point is 00:16:23 Okay. So in between, I start checking out Swingers' websites because the internet was getting big then, and you could add Swingers' websites, and I found a couple local clubs here in town that were Swingers' clubs, and I hooked up with a couple for, was a bisexual deal. It was known to be, going into it, it was going to be a bisexual three-year-old. So I met them at a hotel room and had a bisexual threesome with them. And still I had never been penetrated by a male at this time. I was wanting to, but it just never happened.
Starting point is 00:17:01 We just did oral. And his wife did me with the strap on, which I pegged me, which I really loved. I just something about that the whole scenario is a turn on for me. And we met up a couple times, I think two or three, and then she had some health issues. some health issues so they kind of bowed out of hooking up anymore. So I went back on a website and found another couple who were into bisexual. And I met them at a bar. We went dancing, had some drinks and they had some friends there that were there at the bar with them and then unknown to me,
Starting point is 00:17:40 there was a plan for all of them to go back to their house and have a party. So I'm like, okay, more than the merrier. So we go back to his house, he's got a hot tub. And next thing I know people are getting undressed and get in the hot tub. And they had done this before with these people. So they were all, soon as they walked the door, clothes started coming off. There was no. It's like a swingers party.
Starting point is 00:17:59 Yeah, it was definitely a swingers party. And everybody knew it was a swinger party. And we messed around her. I messed around with some of the people, the other people that were there. I found out one of my favorite things to do is being a 69 with the woman, why she's getting fucked. And I can lick on the cock or he can pull a cock out and dip it in my mouth and go back into her. That's a great position.
Starting point is 00:18:17 And then we paired off. The couple that I met, we paired out to their bedroom and proceeded with oral on each other and his wife. And that was the first night that I was penetrated by a real talk. So that lost my virginity. How was it? That night. It was good. Up until this point, I had been, I had my own toys to fuck myself with.
Starting point is 00:18:36 So I was, it wasn't getting hurt because I was used to it. Right. But I just never had a real one. And it definitely was, it was good. I liked it. Like them a lot. Mm-hmm. Better than the toys, right?
Starting point is 00:18:48 Right, better than the toys. Yeah, a lot of guys are intimidated by toys, you know, sometimes with their girl. And it's, listen, it doesn't matter how fucking big and great a toy is. Nothing's like the real thing, the warmth, the feeling, you know what I mean? Right. The real thing is always going to be better. Yep. For sure.
Starting point is 00:19:06 And then they parted with them and then they moved out of town. So I killed that hookup. And then I went to a local swingers club and met a couple there. And we went to the back room and had a three-stop. them but they were straight. There was nothing. It was just playing just a three. No buy action.
Starting point is 00:19:24 Yeah, a lot of times the buy action's not happening inside the club because there's a big stigma around. Unfortunately, there was a big stigma. Yeah. Yeah, look it. You go to the Swingers party on the DL and you're fucking that guy's fucking you in the ass. No one's supposed to know about it. And then after that, I met a gentleman on the Swinger's website.
Starting point is 00:19:44 And he had a penthouse here in town of one of the high-rise buildings that was basically a sex pad. And he would organize male get-togethers. Sometimes it would be female and male. And he had these big sex parties at his place. Oh, wow. But he was a by guy. Yeah, he was by.
Starting point is 00:20:04 And I'd been over there numerous times for all-male action. Sometimes there would be one female and it would be a gang-bang. And it would be no buy action. it was always kind of a mix, but it was always some kind of a... Let me ask you this. When he invited you, did he tell you what the theme of the party was, or did it just like sort of happen and to turn into a gangbang? Or would he email you and be like, hey, having a gangbang Thursday night?
Starting point is 00:20:31 He called me and tell me that, hey, this is what's going on. Are you interested? You want to come or not? Can you make it? And that was it. But you knew the gist. You knew if it was going to be an all-guy thing or a girl was going to be there, whatever? Yeah, I do the theme of the party and what the plan was.
Starting point is 00:20:48 Yeah, yeah, cool. He laid it all out if it was supposed to be a gang bang or if it was going to be multiple women and men or if it was going to, it was all laid out beforehand. So we knew what I was going into. Can you believe this shit is going down in like apartment buildings? Do you know what I mean? Like, I don't know. I just, it always never ceases to amaze me that there's like an apartment in probably every city, more than one apartment where somebody's like hooking up sex. parties where like all kinds of married men are showing up and fucking each other.
Starting point is 00:21:20 You know what I mean? It was funny. The door man or the, the security guard down the bottom floor. Yeah. Go linda told me going to such and such apartment number and he just kind of smiled and go ahead. The stories that door guy could tell about how many people went up to this apartment and there would be a lot of people going up so he would know what was going on.
Starting point is 00:21:40 If it was, if 10 guys went up to this apartment all at the same time and then left and then If it was five female and five guys, he knew what's going on. Yeah, they have nothing better to do than to analyze what's going on. I have a booty call that comes over every now and then to bang me. And I always feel like, oh, my God, my doorman knows exactly what's going on because we're not dating each other. He comes over and does his business and leaves. It's like short-term things. And I always think, oh, well, what lie would I tell my doorman?
Starting point is 00:22:09 And I think, like, maybe I could tell him it's my accountant and he comes over to do my books. I don't know. I just think of crazy things. Yeah, so anyways, tell me about like the guy parties. Would it be like what I said, like a bunch of married guys there? It was kind of a mix and a lot of times I didn't know. I didn't ask. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it.
Starting point is 00:22:32 I just wonder if you see wedding rings or indents from the wedding rings. I've seen a few. Yeah. Yeah. This guy was, he didn't have, he didn't care. If you were down to play, he was, he was, he was, he was, he was. invite you. Yeah, I think most guys roll that way. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:50 Especially by guys, because I'm sorry, but in that pool of people, a lot of guys are doing it undercover. Yeah, everything was on the download. I ought to be, discretion was at the utmost important. Of course. I mean,
Starting point is 00:23:05 if you're going to exclude married guys, no one's going to show up. Right. Sorry. That's a big part of the group of the people is married guys. Yeah, totally. Totally. So what, so is that where you'd have all these MMMs that you talked to me? Yeah, that's where I had all the MMMs that were.
Starting point is 00:23:22 So I think the most there ever was at one party was 15 guys. Wow. And would you get gang bang? What did you do with those parties? What went down? There was a couple times that I was gang banged by three or four guys. Wow. And at times that I'm adversarial, so I can do a top or a bottom. It doesn't matter. And there's times that I was involved in the top or started it as a top and ended
Starting point is 00:23:45 denied as a bottom. Yeah. So opened everything. He was probably always happy to get you to say yes to a party because he knew you were like one of the guys that would be a top or a bottom. Because I think sometimes it's hard to find tops and bottoms and you want you need a mix, right? Because you can't just have a party full of bottoms. No one's going to get fucked. What are you going to do?
Starting point is 00:24:05 Yeah. And just about I'd say 90% of the ad for buy action are male bottoms. Exactly. That's why you're like a great guy to have in your roll a down. for that guy. I'm sure he loved when you said yes. He invited me a lot. Yeah, of course. At the same time that I'm doing this, I meet my current wife and we're dating and I'm doing this on the side. Well, then I move in with her so that kind of shuts the whole male parties at his place off because I can't get time away. Yeah. I did have one or two parties with them after that were during the job.
Starting point is 00:24:45 middle of the day that I was able to go to. And then I completely quit going after that and ended up marrying my current wife. If you had to do Kinsey scale and put a percentage of the part of you that's interested in checks and the percentage of you that's interested in dudes, like what would it be? Would it be 50-50, 60-40? Like, where would you put yourself on that scale? It would probably be probably 65, 35. 65 women or 65 men?
Starting point is 00:25:19 Yeah, 65 women. 65 women. I love women. I love female. I love being in a relationship with women. When it comes to males, I just want the sex. Right. Yeah. I'm not interested in a relationship. I just want the sex. Yeah, totally. So you meet your wife and you're totally into her and you give up guys now during that time, right? In the beginning, yes. I give up guys. We get married and the sex is good. And it's slowly, the sex slowly starts to taper off.
Starting point is 00:25:49 She's a little older now, you know, so she's going through the cycle where she's, you know, going through menopause. And she just doesn't want to have sex. Doesn't, it's not interested in sex at all. How old was she when that happened? She was about 53. So your second wife came very later in your life. How old were you? When I married her.
Starting point is 00:26:10 I was 35. Oh, so you were into older chicks. No, she was seven years older than me. Oh, okay. So when you're 35, she's 40 in her early 40. So at that time, she's probably great, good to go, loving sex, because that's the last her offer woman. But over the next seven years, it starts to go downhill because she turns 50.
Starting point is 00:26:32 Okay, that makes sense. And now sex is going out the window. But you were monogamous with her all the time in the beginning? Yes. Okay. Yes. And then she's not interested in sex, so I start seeking out some sex with men. And I had one guy that I met, a black guy that was very well endowed,
Starting point is 00:26:55 that before COVID that he would come over about once a week and just pound the shit out of me. Oh, my God. In your house, where's your wife? She's at work. I can listen to this shit, girls. Okay. This is what, or even guys, people bringing their cheating partners into their own house and fucking them when their partners are out. I mean, you just, that's really bad.
Starting point is 00:27:21 Oh, my gosh. Noddy, okay? I couldn't do it in a car and it couldn't do it at his house. So, I mean, I guess we could have got a hotel or a motel, but it was just more convenient to do it in my house. Oh, my God. Can I ask you, though, as a guy who was like always sort of monogamous, it sounds like, you could do that. It was the sex went out the window. so you had to go seek it elsewhere.
Starting point is 00:27:41 In the beginning when you started seeing this guy, did you ever feel any kind of guilt? Because you had never really cheated before, it doesn't seem like. Yeah, there was some, yes. Okay. One of the things I didn't mention is in the beginning with my wife, that she would, every once in a while, she would pick me. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:27:58 So you were open about that with her. Yeah. In the beginning, yeah, it was only like once or twice a year. It wasn't very often. Okay, but she would. But she would. And she would want to know if I, she had to have to have to ever been with guys. And I said, no, because I just didn't want the, she's kind of hobophobic.
Starting point is 00:28:18 Yeah, you didn't want the 10,000 questions after. People just don't want a confrontation and they don't want to have conversations about anything. So it's just easier to lie. Okay, that's just unfortunately the way people roll. It's human nature. Right. Yeah. And then when she got where she didn't want to have sex anymore, I lost the pegging.
Starting point is 00:28:34 I lost any kind of, any kind of stimulation at all. So I Seeked out men to go have fun with One last question before we get into Keep going with the story Did you through that time While the sex was going out Did you have conversations with your wife about it
Starting point is 00:28:51 Do you guys try and work on it Did you guys communicate about The fact that there was no sex And she was going through her changes Or did you guys just not talk about it? We talked about it a little bit And I mentioned to her about maybe She would get
Starting point is 00:29:06 about getting on some hormone replacement therapy. And she told me she went and saw her gynecologist and they said that she couldn't take him or she wasn't a candidate for it or something. Yeah, that's sad because half of these doctors, I don't know why people believe their doctors so much. I mean, listen, I love medicine and I think doctors are brilliant and great. And like I said, I'm not anti-medicine or the stuff that they could do is amazing.
Starting point is 00:29:31 But a lot of times your doctor, like, I mean, when was the last time they went to school? okay like when they graduated 30 years ago half of them don't know anything anymore and you believe your doctor but you then need to go do your own research okay i don't know why people just take their word as it a final story i don't know don't always just listen to your doctor go get the information yourself get another opinion and go to somebody that's like current and up with the fucking times not your family doctor that hasn't studied medicine in 30 years 40 years they don't know anything especially somebody that doesn't specialize in hormone replacement therapy. You're talking to a gynecologist and their family doctor. No, and that's a sad thing for women. I'm going to tell you, and I'm going to do a whole thing on HRT. I've been on it myself. I have a place that I've been using.
Starting point is 00:30:16 I wanted to just make sure that they're fucking legit and they're really good before I promote the shit out of them. You know, I needed to make sure I'm not pitching garbage to my audience. I'm taking it for the team and investigating first, but it's coming out soon because they're great. but I have to tell you that unfortunately for women, okay, when they get to menopause, there are no doctors in network that can help them. Any specialist in any kind of distance from you that you could drive to, if there is one, if you're lucky enough to be close to a city where you have a menopause specialist that can help you, they will be raping you for your money, okay?
Starting point is 00:30:57 They will not take your insurance, your regular gynecone, delivers babies. They know nothing about older women and they're not going to fucking help you. So you need to go outside of that. And like I said, these doctors that specialize in menopause are all out of pocket. So now they have telemedicine and that's what I'm here to tell people about. But let's move on with your story. So you talk to her and she's not going to go hormones. Unfortunately, she's got the typical doctor. So you decide to start seeing guys. You had that guy. Are you like into size? I mean, is that important to you? Yeah, I'm into Gers. Okay. The biggest I've ever had is about nine inches. Oh, my God. And that was, I felt that the next day I was hurting. I mean, you had gangbangs.
Starting point is 00:31:47 You had a lot of guys at one time before. Yeah. So someone must have been really big to make you hurt the next day. You know what I mean? It was the length. That was the hard part. Gers was okay. It was the length.
Starting point is 00:32:03 Yeah. Length is hard. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So now that guy, though, that you're seeing the BBC, he's coming over your house, and that's the first guy that you start seeing behind your waist back? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:13 Yeah. Okay. And then COVID hits, and she starts working from home. Uh-oh. So that kind of put the kibasha and all that, killed it. Mm-hmm. Okay. So actually, during the middle of COVID, I started seeking out a Femdom.
Starting point is 00:32:29 Oh. This comes in the pro dom. Okay, okay. And found one local, did the communication back and forth, worked out all the details, and set an appointment, and went and seen her for a three-hour session. Three hours? Three hours. Wow.
Starting point is 00:32:50 Did she have the limit that you had to book out that time? Yeah, it was usually two or three hours. Right, right. Okay. It's not like you're like, oh, you know, maybe you would have been happy with one hour if you could have got it. but like she was like you have to do at least this amount of time because three hours is a long time to commit to. The first time you meet her,
Starting point is 00:33:07 there's a lot of preliminary things that have to be worked out, say for it, what you like, what you don't like. Oh, okay. So you're not actually diving in into the play immediately. For three hours, right. Okay, that makes sense. That's interesting. So that first session is three hours,
Starting point is 00:33:24 but you're really like discussing everything and creating the scenarios that are going to go down. Yeah, for the first hour, maybe hour and a half, depends on what you want to do. Yeah. For the first session, that's kind of what happens. And then you move into actual play. Mm-hmm. Interesting.
Starting point is 00:33:42 Okay. And she pegs me. She's got all the, basically all the dungeon tools, the cross, whipping bench, you've got it all. Yeah. It's a full, basically a house that's turned into a dungeon. And it's used just for that. So I go and she pegs me. It's light spanking.
Starting point is 00:34:02 I can't have any marks. Some chastity devices. And I was just in love. I just was head over heels with the BDSM and the sub life. Because you never had that before. This was new for you. It was first time I'd ever done that to that extreme. I mean, I didn't peg and tied up, but nothing like this.
Starting point is 00:34:26 This was. This was intense. So I go back after the first time, I quickly go back for another visit. And then I get into that subspace because it's a full three-hour session. Yeah. And it was just blew my mind. That was just incredible. Now explain to people what subspace is that haven't experienced it or don't know.
Starting point is 00:34:49 Yeah. You get to a point where nothing around you matters but pleasing your Dom. And you're just like, I don't know, it's just, it's. Just a- It's like a state of being, right? Yeah, state of being. It's just, you're just completely forget about who you are.
Starting point is 00:35:05 You're just that sub at that time. And that sub-space. Yeah. And it's not like you could, do you need, do people need like a pro-dom or a DOM to get into that space? Like. I think somebody that's just a professional or has done it
Starting point is 00:35:21 and knows how to do it. Yeah. Because there's a lot of, first of all, just the scenario, the scene, what's around. you the whole way out of what's around you get you in that subspace just being in a plain vanilla bedroom it's kind of hard to get in the subspace right so it's you're really like you're really submerged in like that scene is so realistic I mean you're going into this dungeon
Starting point is 00:35:46 she's playing a role you have it all set up so it's really like you need all of that to get to that place because it's not just like a horny turn-on place that regular people could get to Like you said, this is like something beyond that. Subspace, yeah. Right. Right. Yeah, it just develops your whole mind and all your thoughts are just focused on that particular moment. Yeah, and I think unless you're into BDSM and have been in subspace, you probably have no clue what that is, right?
Starting point is 00:36:19 And it's amazing. Oh, yeah, it's intense. So then the third time I go back and see her, I ask her if she can bring in. male oh which she calls a she calls it a stunt cock
Starting point is 00:36:33 not a dom yeah I'm sure it's one of it's one of her other subs or something that yeah she invited I think he's been on my show no I'm really serious I've had a guy who had this exact scenario but it's like opposite you know what I mean
Starting point is 00:36:50 like I feel like he's been on and I've talked now to the both of you and we do the kind of the role play of the forced by thing where she forced me to suck on his cock and that's all it was with him was just oral yeah but how was that experience for you it was i liked it it was intense being being spit roasted there she was behind me and he was i was sucking his cock oh she's pegging you while you're doing that yeah oh wow okay yeah and she's good at pegging and she's got a large
Starting point is 00:37:23 assortment of toys i could imagine is she hot Yeah, she's very hot. Okay. And he came in my mouth to finish him off. And she pegged me until I had a prostate orgasm, which was the first one I'd ever had. And it was, I still, it left me speechless for about 15 minutes. I had a guy on just recently, I don't know if you listened to his episode, John. And I was like, you got to do the PSA for pegging because a lot of guys out there.
Starting point is 00:37:57 don't understand that there is a different kind of orgasm that exists. And if you've never done any kind of anal play, you don't know about it. But those prostate orgasms are like out of this world. He was saying he squirted from it. They're intense. They start deep in your core and they just go to all your, clear your fingertips and toes. And that was the first time, even after all this sex you've had with guys and everything, it was only with her. that you had.
Starting point is 00:38:28 That's versa. Interesting. So that's kind of like a drug that you chase from then on. Right. And I haven't been able to do it by myself. And I'm going back to see her again here in a couple weeks. And we set it up where she's bringing in a trans female that is just dropped dead gorgeous and got a very large cock. And we're going to see if we can do a prostate orgasm again.
Starting point is 00:38:54 Wow. So now did you bring up the trans thing? Was that something that was like on your bucket list Or did she suggest that? Actually the last time I was at her Dungeon, she had some trans on the TV That was playing It was like a transsexual porno
Starting point is 00:39:10 Yeah And when I first got there And I was watching it And I said, you know How pretty this one woman is But she says, I got a friend Let me show her to you So show me some pictures of her
Starting point is 00:39:20 And I says, I'd like to have that She says, I can set it up She might be a very smart business woman Like she might have put that trans porn on. She knew exactly what she wanted to get you to do. So she went backwards and got you to ask her for exactly what she wanted you to ask her for by. You know what I mean? Yeah, she works me.
Starting point is 00:39:39 She played me. Yeah, yeah, but that's okay because you were into it and are into it. Yep. Listen, some trans women, a lot of trans women are fucking hot. One of the most erotic sites that I've seen is a female wearing a strap on. So, I mean, this is just. Yeah. a female with the real bitch.
Starting point is 00:39:58 Right. So it's going to be like we said before, like it's always going to be better than a toy, right? So this is going to be that girl pegging you, but with the real cock and it's going to be warmer and more real feeling. So how are you not going to love it? I think I'll love it. Now, are you still on like apps and stuff looking for guys separately or are you now just like into the whole BDSM thing? I'm looking for guys when I have a chance or when I look at the apps and some of the double list ads and I try to hook up with a few people. It never has worked out timing wise or it just hasn't worked out. But I'm still looking.
Starting point is 00:40:39 How long has it been since you and your wife have had sex? Three years. Three years. Has she blown you or pegged you in those three years or anything? Nothing. So in three years, what kind of like physical contact have you guys? had, if any. We've kissed, we've cuddled, we've
Starting point is 00:40:58 basically made out, but nothing really beyond that. No blowjob, she won't even blow you? No, no, she's just not interested. But does she knows you are? This is where there's a problem with men and women when it hits this place, where there's a sexless marriage. In the
Starting point is 00:41:14 beginning of that time, it's really important to try to solve that problem and figure out some way to make it work for both people you know what I mean both people because you're both dealing with different things I'm not just on your side and she should just fuck you or whatever I understand what she's going through too you know what there's got to be some kind of compromise because when a woman does hit manipause if you don't tend to that problem the more she doesn't do it and the more she's not interested the more
Starting point is 00:41:47 she's not going to want to do it and the more she's not going to be interested and then three years 10 years 15 years goes by and it's never going to change. So the thing to do is in the beginning to really try and figure something out because what do you say now? It's been three years. She hasn't done anything. Zero. You've allowed her to not do anything. You've been getting it elsewhere. So what are you going to say, hey, I really want a blowjob once a month at least. Can we try and work on it? No, you've kind of figured out how to do it over there. So what happens to your marriage? it's a good question i've thought about that a lot in the last year as far as is it something i want to stay in or do we need to move on
Starting point is 00:42:31 do you have kids with her no okay do you have kids with your do you have no kids so you guys don't have kids that you like raised or anything yes yes okay and you're close with them yeah okay listen it's not as easy it's not like you're 17 you're breaking up with someone you dated for a couple years you know when you are married and you live in a house together like I get that it's just hard to walk away and listen it's like the big problem in these
Starting point is 00:42:58 kinds of relationships and sexless marriages is three years went by and you guys haven't had any conversations about it you haven't even tried to make it work we've had conversations about it yeah but it was just discussing about hormone replacement therapy and that kind of got shut down
Starting point is 00:43:15 well that was one conversation but I mean in three years have you told her like listen I need to have some sort of physical contact with you like how could we make this work like where does she think you're getting laid like I always it always blows my mind what do these women think is happening I'm a part of some Facebook groups online and I see the shit that these women say like I can never fuck my husband in 10 years what do you think your husband's doing oh my god like eventually even the most monogamous guy is going to cheat and I'm not saying it's right. I feel for the woman too, but these things have to be tended to and talked about and
Starting point is 00:43:54 figure something out because does she wonder? Do you think she wonders where you're getting sex from? Because does she actually believe that a man would be happy with zero sex for three years? Listen to me, women. No man is going to be able to have zero sex for three years or more. Sorry. Sorry. Not going to happen. it's a conversation that we need to I guess work on more I did tell her about six months ago that we probably should go get some counseling yes yeah you need to yeah uh-huh but that kind of that was just talk that never went anywhere well listen the problem with these kinds of situations is when you do start cheating like you you decided to solve the problem by getting it elsewhere right then you're less likely to try and fix the original problem which is your sexless marriage I mean. Right. Right. Yeah, because I'm getting satisfied. Yeah. So you don't have, what's in it for you to fix it? You don't have to. It's a lot easier to just go over there, which I get. But you also have an whole other thing going on, which is that you are into guys and that's a 35% of you that does exist, even if your wife was fucking you all the time, do you think that 10 years from now you could only be with women and never be with men ever again if she was banging you all the time anyway? Maybe, but if she was pegging me all the time
Starting point is 00:45:19 Then you'd be able to get your fill, right? Yeah, I could get my fill. Okay, well, then what you have here is like a sexless marriage that you should try to work on. I don't know, it's hard. It's a common thing, and that's why I'm focusing on it too. I mean, you have a really good story with all this other salacious shit, and we'll get some more stories before we end. But I just think that this is a part of the conversation that a lot of people will relate to because...
Starting point is 00:45:45 Yeah, it's very common, that's for sure. Yeah, and it's sad. And I just think that a lot of times certain people could just live in denial. You're living in, oh, I'm just cheating. And I just, like I said, you solved the problem by just getting it elsewhere. She's obviously living in denial or she'd be asking you every day. Oh, my God. Like, who did you fuck?
Starting point is 00:46:06 Yeah. I mean, what does she think? Does she ever ask you if you're jerk off or anything? Like, never like she just. She knows that I jerk off. And I have some sex toys to ask. knows about. Right. Okay. So she just thinks about it. She just figured I'd take care of myself and I'm okay. Have you ever in the three years like asked her to peg you one night and said,
Starting point is 00:46:25 hey, listen, that's my birthday? It's Christmas. The in 2020 for my birthday, right when COVID hit, we were stuck at the house. Yeah. I told her this is what I wanted for my birthday. Yeah. And, and I told her like a month before. So it wasn't like I just sprung it on her. Yeah. And I said, this is what I'd like and can we make it happen? And she, they came and she said, no, she went interested. Well, what did she say a month before? Did she say okay?
Starting point is 00:46:53 She said that she read it because I wrote everything down and she read it. And she said, she's just kind of said, well, maybe we'll see. Wow. And you went through the whole thing of writing it down for her and really explaining exactly what you wanted for your birthday? I mean, that's pretty great for a guy to do. I thought it was And it wasn't like
Starting point is 00:47:13 I spring it on her The night before that day Yeah, yeah You weren't just like chasing after her The day I'm saying Peg me It's my birthday I mean you
Starting point is 00:47:21 And you put it in writing I mean that's very Thoughtful And it really shows That it's something That was really important to you And it's sad that When we're in relationships
Starting point is 00:47:32 For a really long time That we just everybody Just takes people for granted Do you know what I mean? If you were her boyfriend And you did that She'd be getting her strap on ready and she would have pegged you the whole week for her birthday because you want to
Starting point is 00:47:45 keep that guy but it's so sad that and it's men and women that when they land somebody and they have them they're like uh i got them i don't really have to work that hard i don't know what i don't know it doesn't matter that he wants it for his birthday who the fuck cares and that's left the i guess that with the bitter taste in my mouth or just kind of left me and since then other than bringing up the hr t deal it's just kind of been hadn't been talked about yeah and i i i i i I bet you anything that bitter taste allows you to cheat and feel less guilty about it. Unfortunately, I'm not saying that's right, but that's the way people roll. That's what starts to happen.
Starting point is 00:48:21 You know what I mean? Basically, I went to her and asked her, this is what I need. And she wouldn't do it for me, so I wouldn't find it somewhere else. Yeah. So listen, you need to push with her to get into counseling and stuff. I'm doing a really great HRT episode with the people I'm working with, and they happen to be a telemedicine place that anyone can go to, and they happen to be very cost efficient.
Starting point is 00:48:48 Like the cost is really great because they see so many people. They're a well-oiled machine, and it's just a great thing for women now. So maybe you bring that up to her. Don't let her listen to it because you don't want to refine your episode, okay, because your episode's going to air before then. Right.
Starting point is 00:49:04 He's going to hear her story. And because she knows you like to be pegged, she would be able to pick you out of the bunch. but maybe you bring that up to her, but you have to keep having conversations and try to fix that. Because you did say that you have been thinking like maybe the last year,
Starting point is 00:49:19 maybe you would leave her. I think, listen, I think COVID, one of the good things that COVID brought out in people, I think is that it made people think, oh my God, I got to live my life. Do you know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:49:31 Like after it was shut down and you couldn't have a life. Once you got it back, it's like, oh, you know what? I got to take advantage of this. So I think a lot of people made decisions that maybe they would have never made before when everything was like Groundhog Day, but really shook shit up.
Starting point is 00:49:47 And so here you are thinking maybe you would leave your wife because of what's happening. Yeah. I mean, the thoughts have crossed my mind, but, you know, I don't want to. I hope things can get turned around or at least somewhat better. Well, I think that for the fact that you said that, listen, you're not a guy that would be seeing guys behind her back. regardless and you had to. You are a guy that is not a cheater by nature really, right? You could be monogamous. You do like things in your ass. You're willing to just take her pegging you. That would be enough for you. So you owe it to your wife and to yourself to try to make that work with her.
Starting point is 00:50:32 I don't think you've had enough conversations. I don't think you've been on the sexlessness of your marriage enough. I think you have to stay on it and continue to work on that and try to figure out a solution. Leaving her is last on your list, right? You don't want to. I mean, do you guys have a great relationship in every other sense? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, we have a great relationship. It's just a topic that never gets talked about. Well, listen, we have 10 more minutes. Let's go back to the guys. Okay, you don't see any women behind her back, right? Well, you do kind of see the pro dumb, but she's not really. Yeah, one thing with The pro dumb is there's no, I don't touch her in any sexual way. It's hands off.
Starting point is 00:51:11 She pegs me, but I don't feel her tits. I don't lick her pussy. I don't do anything like that. And that's because that's how she rolls, or is that how you roll, or is that just the way it's set up? That's the way it said. That's the way she rolls. She's there to perform a service, and she's not a prostitute. She's not a hooker.
Starting point is 00:51:32 Yeah, I get it. But let me ask you this, because you're not getting women. Sex from women and your 65% interested in women, have you been looking for women to see as well? Or are you always just looking online for guys? I've looked for a bi-couple here and there, but I never have tried to hook up with one. But I've looked through the ads for a bi-couple. And where are the places that you use the most to find people? What are the absent websites you use?
Starting point is 00:52:02 AFF or Double List. That's here we too. And you've had some success there, at least for meeting the guys, right? Yeah, for meeting the guys, I've met one guy off of there. That's the black guy. Yeah. So you can't see him anymore. I mean, after COVID came and went, did your wife ever go back to work,
Starting point is 00:52:21 or did she stay from working home? She stayed from working at home. And we've tried to hook up since then, but we just couldn't make our timing work. He used to work night, so he had days off, so it made it easier. But now he works during the day. and it's just we haven't been able to hook up right and what about that guy that you know i mean was it just so long ago with the guy with the in the penthouse apartment or did you move away from there so you know
Starting point is 00:52:46 if that guy still exists yeah i contacted him about three years ago and we hooked up him and i just hooked up one time oh interesting okay and he'd gotten married before he had a girlfriend and then he'd married her so he was kind of he'd let he sold the penthouse the sex pet and he's and he was kind of doing the monogamy thing he was getting older he was older guy he was now he's probably in his 70s oh so back then he was even a little bit older on the older side right yeah so he just settled down yeah that first time that you were with him was that the first time you had sex with him or did you used to do him at his parties yeah he was involved in the parties see he was involved in all the sex did that girlfriend that he had no yeah i'd actually
Starting point is 00:53:34 had a threason with him at their house at the party at the sex pad he was just into oral he didn't top or he didn't bother and he didn't bought him he was just into oral so question about your brother are you close with your brother that brother that you had that thing happen with when you were younger he passed away a long time ago oh really wow how old was he when he passed away he was 22 you're kidding what happened to him a car accident oh my god that's definitely Were you close to him before? Were you guys close? We were just brothers. I mean, it wasn't any tight bond relationship. I was closer to my brother
Starting point is 00:54:14 older than him. My oldest brother. Yeah. Then my brother right older than me. And I think it had a lot to do with what we were into as far as sports or hobbies. Right. Stuff like that. My older brother was into sports and I was into sports. My brother molested me. He wasn't. He was just kind of a nerd, bookworm.
Starting point is 00:54:34 Right. Now, did you ever tell your older brother about what happened, or did anyone ever find out what happened, or is that just something that you've never really told anyone about? Well, my mom caught us. Oh, your mother caught you. What did she do? She just, she didn't say much to me. She told me to go to bed and she talked to my brother. And it was kind of never talked about again. My family was religious growing up, so it was kind of like. Yeah, I get the mentality. It's just denial. I mean, your mother, the last thing she wanted to do is, see that shit. You know what I mean? As quick as she could get that out of her mind and forget about is as good. Yeah, she wanted to just hush it and sleep around the road like it never happened.
Starting point is 00:55:12 Yeah, of course. That's that whole generation. You know what I mean? That's just what they did. So I get it. And the religious, hardcore religious, it makes you want to act out. Totally. I say, oh my God. That episode that I talked about before with John, I don't know if you've listened to it yet. Yeah, I listened to them. Did you hear my whole thing at the end about religious? Oh my God. I just went on. Oh, finally. You tell me I can't do it, and I'm going to do it. But that's what happens.
Starting point is 00:55:39 That's why they're the freaks. That's why, like, in all these states where there's, like, lots of churches, there's lots of porn stores, too, right? The preacher's daughters, usually the funnest one. Yeah, that was me. That was me. Totally. Well, that's why I'm like, my son's going to be the opposite, because I'm no preacher's daughter. I'm like, I have a sex podcast.
Starting point is 00:55:58 Like, this is going to be fine. He's going to not be like that at all. So, yeah, what you resist persist. It's definitely a thing. And that's unfortunately why when your wife stopped pegging you, you're going and finding it elsewhere because how long could you push that side down? You know what I mean? Right.
Starting point is 00:56:15 So listen, work on your marriage. Help her get out of the rut that she's in because she will never be able to get out of it herself because what happens with menopause is she does not have the desire and she never will unless you help her find it again. She won't even think about it because she didn't. Of course not. No. I mean, listen, you have to think about nature, right?
Starting point is 00:56:36 It's all nature. And when we used to die when we were 60 years old, it's no big deal if a woman goes through menopause at 50. But now people are living really long lives. I mean, so these hormone replacement therapy and all these things that exist to help women stay attached to that are good things because what are you supposed to do? Especially the fact that a guy is still hornying. that's why you see a lot of middle-aged men get divorced and marry a younger girl or hook up with the of course start dating a younger girl of course because they're still good to go and that's nature too your sperm can still make a baby and that's the problem and that's where medicine is great because it does
Starting point is 00:57:18 come in and has solved the problem and listen men that are losing their erections when they're older too because they lose hormones and men have hormone issues that they deal with eventually too but there's uh you know Viagra. And so women need to be better educated about hormones and stuff. I'm going to have that episode. Make sure you fucking listen to it. Thank you so much for calling it and sharing your story. It's super interesting, Brent.
Starting point is 00:57:42 Thanks so much. It was fun. Yeah. Listen, if you want to send in any picks, I don't know. You're pro-dom picks if you want. I did post a video on Discord. Oh, you went on to my Discord. Are you a Patreon member? Yeah. Oh, okay. So make sure, listen, I was going to tell you, get in for there for calling in. Make sure when your episode comes up, it's going to be up very soon, okay, because it's a great episode. Make sure to go in there
Starting point is 00:58:04 and say, hey, I'm Brent, and my episode just aired and post, you could do whatever you want in Discord. That's the good thing about Discord. I wouldn't post a video of you there, but you could do that. That's how Discord is different. So make sure when your thing airs, I'll email you, though, and you know what I mean? And then you go in and say, hey, I'm Brent, and people will talk to you. But thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story, Brent. And thanks for being a Patreon member. Thanks. You're welcome. Okay. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly
Starting point is 00:58:35 Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like
Starting point is 00:59:26 that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get into my Discord. Any of way than getting the link from me. Okay. I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own
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