Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 697 - GIRL TALK: Ginger and Luci on How to Hook Up with a Hotwife, Sexting and More
Episode Date: September 29, 2023Luci (ep #659) and hotwife Ginger (ep. #687) called in go oevr all the do’s and Dont’s on hooking up with motives or any female in the lifestyle. Tune in to hear the apps to use to find women int...o alternative lifestyles, how to set up your profile on those apps, what kinds of pics to post an what kind of pics you shouldn’t post, what to put in your bio and what not to put in your bio, what to say once the woman is interested and what not to say, the time Kathy threw all the rules out the window and why, what women want and need when it comes to foreplay vs what men want and need, how and why unsolicited dick pics are okay in alternative hook ups, how and why its important to read through a woman’s profile before you hot her up, how to get in the good graces with women on Onlyfans, how to navigate communicating with a GINGER'S LINKS: https://onlyfans.com/ginja_queen and https://linktr.ee/Ginja_Queen LUCI'S LINKS: https://linktr.ee/lucianalove instagram @strictly_sirens **To see anonymous pics of GINGER & LUCI plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ginger and Lucy, they both are only fans, girls.
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And that's what I have on today.
Ginger and Lucy.
Ginger was on my show recently.
She's a hot wife.
her episode was 387 and Lucy and her husband who fucked a stripper in the back VIP room.
It was like one of the hottest stories.
Lucy's episode is 6.59.
She opened up her marriage recently with her guy and both of them fuck men and women and they do all kinds of things.
Their episodes and backstory is super interesting.
Those are the episodes.
The numbers will be in the description.
But today we are doing a girl talk episode where we all chat.
Don't make comments that I talk too much because on these episodes I do fucking talk.
Okay.
That's the way it goes.
This is a conversation.
Three girls you're going to hear us talking about, or more so them at first, really talking about what to do and what not to do.
If you want to fuck a hot wife or a girl who's down to just fuck and looking for bringing in a guy into her relationship.
They both roll that way.
They roll a little bit different because Ginger is looking more for just a bull, right?
She's got a husband.
Lucy has a husband, but she's looking for a little more than just a guy to bang.
She's open to falling for that guy.
So they're on the apps.
They're out there looking for guys.
And they talk about what they like, what turns them fucking off, what turns them
fucking on, and what gets them to swipe right or left or whatever is the good one.
And what gets the guy to seal the deal.
You want to fuck a girl?
You're a solo guy looking to hook up with one of these kinds of girls.
They're going to tell you exactly what to do to get that.
Lucy even gets really specific and talks about how she gives like extra free stuff to certain
only fans members because of this.
they do certain things and she gives those tips and tricks.
In this episode, we talk about sexting.
I tell some funny stories, but mostly we're talking about the do's and don'ts of dating in the lifestyle,
as well as just navigating the lifestyle as a solo guy.
This kind of information to me is always super valuable, I think, because men and women are so different.
And if you're a guy and you're smart, you should listen to this ship because this is,
what girls like and you would have no clue of what girls like because you're not a fucking girl.
Okay, just like girls rarely have a clue of what guys like because they're not fucking guys.
But if we all knew a little bit more about each other, shit would be better. Okay, so listen and learn.
You're going to learn a lot about chicks on this episode. You're going to dig it. It's Girl Talk Friday.
I'm going to be right back on with Lucy and Ginger. I have two girls on today, two hot girls from my show.
Okay, we're doing a girl talk episode with Ginger, who is just on.
Lucy's episode is 687.
I mean, Ginger's episode is 687.
Lucy's episode, who I also have on, is 659.
Now, Ginger is a girl who is now a hot wife.
You want to hear her whole story.
It's super hot.
She's got the whole backstory, like I said, on 687.
And then Lucy and her husband, she's been dating her husband since the dawn of time,
like her whole fucking life with this guy.
And now they just started banging other people.
people. And Lucy not only wants to bang other people, she wants to date other guys. I mean,
she's, they're like completely open. Her story's super hot too. That's episode 659. But what they're
coming on today to talk about is we're doing a girl talk episode. We're going to talk all about
what girls like from guys. Like we're talking about guys, but we're giving you the girl perspective, right?
And we're going to start off with dating advice and not just like so much dating advice because
like, are you really going to date Ginger? No, but you might get to fuck her, right? And so this is like
advice from girls who are out there looking for guys to join them and their husbands.
Lucy looks for something specific.
Ginger has a different kind of setup.
So they're both going to talk about it from their perspective.
Like what to do and what not to do when you are on apps looking for a couple to pick you, right?
That's what I think is really important information because I think guys are clueless about a lot of things and definitely clueless about that.
So let's start with Ginger because Ginger is a hot wife.
not looking to date anyone. She's looking to fuck some guys on the side with her guy, right? You want to
give out some tips of like what to do, what not to do, what apps to use, where you guys are,
what to look for? Sure, absolutely. We recently got into some apps. There's three fun. There's a few
others that seem to be more looking for friends. Three fun has been kind of more an adult friend finder
vibe that you're able to go through and like people. And if they also like you, then you match.
Once you match, you're able to talk to each other. And that has actually been rather helpful for us
in our newest adventures, but also KIC, obviously, a lot of people have been on KIC for years.
And can you talk to me about KIC because a lot of people bring it up and I don't really know it that well,
but is it that it like disappears? Is that why everyone uses it? I mean, what is that one
benefit? Like, why is Kik the thing, the place where everyone goes to do all their sex stuff?
I was on Kik. Yeah. So, and we actually didn't realize this until recently. If you sign out of your
account and you sign back in, everything in your previous messages with any of your contacts
disappears. Okay. So that's why people use it. It's pretty and not, well, of course you could be
anonymous, whatever, but it also disappears. So there's no leftover clues or what would that be
called? Yeah.
Yeah, which kind of sucks because I lost some really hot pictures.
Oh my God, that's hilarious because you didn't know.
No, I didn't know.
And then I went back in there and I'm like, where was that really hot picture that he sent me?
Or where was that really hot picture that the chick sent us?
Damn.
Oh, yeah, so funny.
All right, so you like apps.
You like kick, right?
Right.
We use those as much as we can.
We don't have a membership in free fun yet.
So we really only talk to the people that we mutually match with.
Mm-hmm. But what are you looking for in a profile? What stands out to you and what is like a fucking no-no and is a red flag to you?
So the ones that I automatically swipe away from are pictures that are not of a human.
That just kind of makes sense. People put pictures of their dog or their car or their boat. And that doesn't really tell me anything about the person.
Yeah, but don't you think that some people are trying to be anonymous? I mean, what is the guy that?
that wants to be anonymous,
do what if he showed you just his body shot?
Would that be okay?
Typically,
that's okay.
I generally would prefer profiles that,
or I'm more interested,
I would say,
in profiles that have more than one photo.
Because one photo,
you can only kind of get a sense for a person.
Two,
three,
that works a little bit better.
You don't have to show your face,
but at least give us an idea
of what your overall person is like, right?
Not like the vibe.
Right, exactly.
It shows that you're,
a real person and that actually brings me to the other thing number two no no is a one sentence bio
you say something like here for friends and fun yeah okay next i really don't care you don't have to give me
your whole life story and biography but i want to know at least why you're there a little bit about
what you're looking for and something that can again give you a sense for the person
person themselves before you actually decide if you like them or would even want to talk to them.
So you want them to be specific. I mean, you don't want to hear their whole life story, right?
I mean, you don't want to fucking blah, blah, blah. You want to, though, know what they're looking
for, what they're into. Be specific as far as what kind of scenario they want or what they're looking
for because this is a sex hookup, right? You're not looking to date someone. So I think it's different
than a regular dating app, right? Oh, absolutely. And then some kind of a sense of honesty.
You know what I mean? And if they're up front about who,
they are and what they're interested in and things like that.
That makes me feel like they would be more honest about what they like and other things
in any situation.
Right.
I get it.
It's a respect thing.
But let me ask you this.
And this is just like honest, straight up girl to girl.
Like if there's like the hottest guy and he's showing his face, he's showing his cock,
like he is really like your fucking type and he is hot as shit.
And he just wrote, hey, just looking for a good time.
That one sentence guy.
Like wouldn't you, wouldn't you get past the one sentence and say, okay?
did I mean like would you need more if he was like the hottest guy I just think it always comes down to if someone's really hot all the rules go out the window
okay for me they do yeah for me too I once was it wait I'll time in yeah I wait I have a funny my space story remember that fucking thing my space so I've always been a very anonymous person and so on my space I had this picture where I was in a bikini and my friend had this big bear it was like a huge bear stuffed animal and they threw it on top of me and my legs were spread and it looked like the bear was
fucking me and someone got a picture of me that way.
It was like a really cool hot pick.
I wish I still had it.
I would totally air it because you can't see my face, but you see my legs and you see
and that was my profile pick.
And I put on there, like my name was I fuck bears.
Okay.
So it was like my picture of me with I fuck bears.
And I had so many guys like hitting me up.
Even like I had some famous guy hit me up.
And what was so funny was that I was always like complaining.
Look at these fucking assholes.
Like everyone was like, oh, you fuck bears?
You want to fuck me?
Like I got every kind of
hit up
DM from every guy
because it was like a hot pick
I loved it
and then and I was always
trashing them like whatever
like I'd fuck you like come on
like this is my space
like not gonna happen
and then this guy
that was like the hottest guy on the planet
like model material.
I knew him from the city
lived in the city so I knew who he was
kind of and he was smoking hot
like a 10 point of 50
and he hit me up
and said the same dumb shit
that every other guy
said, you know what I mean, about the picture, about me, and I wound up fucking him.
So that just shows that.
A guy, if he's super hot, he could give you a cheesy line.
He could give you nothing on his profile.
He could say, oh, you fuck bears like every other fucking guy, and you're going to fuck him
because he's hot.
Right?
I mean, if they look that good, I would probably at least give them a chance at conversation.
And then if they can hold a conversation,
then it kind of makes up for their one sentence bio, I guess.
Yeah, I don't know.
I think the, well, for me, it was like the looks made up for it,
but I guess maybe you're not that way.
But it sounds like Lucy is.
Lucy sounds like she's roles like me.
She'd go down.
Yeah, 10 guys could say the same thing.
And you're like, oh, that's so fucking creepy.
And then one guy says it and he's hot and you're like, oh, I'm what?
Yeah, you're like, who cares?
You're hot, right?
It doesn't matter.
And you know what?
I think it rolls like that for guys too.
Guys are the same with girls, right?
It is what it is.
We're all shallow to a point.
But anyway, so let's go on with your critique of the guy.
So they can't have one line.
They need to be specific.
They need to show that they're real.
Anything else?
After you start a conversation, it would be best to choose things other than, how was your day?
Nice and all, but super generic.
No personality, especially when you respond.
and then they say nothing for a few days
and then just repeat that again
and you're like, I don't know
if you can't handle a conversation.
I don't think that we can vibe very well here.
I don't expect to be able to talk to them
constantly all day, every day,
but at least be charming, be interesting,
be somebody that I feel like we could vibe with
and have a good time with.
Yeah, and I think that's something that guys don't realize
because, listen, like I said,
you're not looking to date someone, right?
You're just fucking them
and you got your guy already.
You don't need another guy.
But this is where I think guys and girls are very different.
If a guy was out looking for a girl, it's just to fuck.
He could care less if she can't even speak English, okay?
Actually, it would be preferable, okay, if she can't speak English, right?
But for girls, we're so different, right?
It's just, even if it's just a fuck, you want to know that you're going to be comfortable with that.
And that's what guys need to know.
That's how girls roll.
It doesn't matter if they're a girl like Ginger and she's going to fuck another guy
she's completely open-minded,
she still has to have a little bit of that comfortability, feel comfortable.
It's very important to girls.
And I don't think guys roll that way so they don't realize.
No.
I have an analogy.
Would they like it if we came and sucked just like the tip of their dick for one second
and then walked away and then didn't interact with them again for three days
and then just come back and just do these little crumbs over and over?
No, like you got to stick around.
You got to see it through.
Like at least have a solid conversation in exchange that goes back and forth.
And that's going to go.
So far, whether the guy's enjoying it or not, put in that little bit of work, act like you fucking care, whether it's even true or not.
And that is a sense of humor.
No, and what you're saying is completely true because you're like you're making the analogy to the blowjub.
And at first I was like, I don't see the analogy, but I do.
It's, it's perfect.
Because what it is is that for a guy, that's like foreplay for him.
But what they don't understand is for a girl's conversation is fucking foreplay.
Okay.
That's for play for us.
We need that first.
Okay, that's the first thing.
So you start with that and that is the way we roll for sure.
Conversation and compliments.
Oh, yeah, compliments.
I think that's every girl's love language, right?
Every girl.
I once had a podcast.
Wait, I had a podcast.
I had a host, his name was Tommy.
And I did an episode on this a long time ago and it was so good because it really was
like an episode and I think it was titled like how to get a girl who would never want
to fuck you to fuck you.
Oh my God, I remember.
Yeah, that's okay, but this is, this goes with what she just said.
Because, so there was this guy Tommy and he was so vile to me.
He was like old co-host.
He was a bar.
He owned this bar that I used to go to and he was so fucking into me.
He just wanted to fuck me.
And I was like never, ever in a million years would I fuck you?
And it was like a 100% done deal.
No, it was like negative 100.
Like it was never going to happen.
And fast forward a year.
He spent a year.
This guy was getting late everywhere else.
He didn't need to fuck me.
but he really wanted to, right?
So he worked me slowly.
He took me out to steak dinners every time I wanted,
and all he did was fucking compliment me.
And he never pushed me to have sex with me.
And you know what happened?
I wound up forcing him to have sex with me.
Like he got me to a point where I was like dripping wet
while we were like outside sunning by his apartment.
I'm like, we gotta go to your house and fuck.
This is a guy that I was like never would I ever.
Because he just complimented me and complimented me.
He put me in calves and give the cab driver,
like 50 bucks to take care of my girl, like that kind of shit.
Yeah.
And he wooed me his way.
And that can actually happen.
Yes.
Girls can change.
So her compliments.
Look at what I look.
And that guy would never fuck him.
But I did.
And then I fucked him for seven years.
So it totally paid off.
Totally paid off.
I was like the best booty call for seven years.
Oh my God.
I love.
Wait, can I ask, Kathy?
Is that pre pre sobriety or post?
That was that was the guy.
So in my sobriety thing,
I talk about how when you go to AA, they tell you right in the first year, don't do anything,
don't have any relationship.
That's what I started the whole thing with Tommy.
And there was a time after I started fucking him that I started liking him and we went on vacations.
Then I was like, oh my God, this is disgusting.
And it was a whole big fat mess.
And then we were able to have a successful booty call after that.
But yeah, that was right.
That was after I wasn't drinking.
So this was not, oh, I got drunk and fucked him.
This is no.
I was completely sober.
Yes, he did not even have alcohol on his side.
And I was like, I just have to.
No. And I have to tell you, I think he was the first person I fucked sober.
Like with nothing, the first person. I think that was him. So yeah, it had nothing to do with
alcohol and it had everything to do with his fucking game. It was game. He had game.
Is he the one that you didn't kiss though? Yeah, I never kissed him. I didn't like his mouth.
Oh, that's the one. Yeah, but he was a great lay. It didn't matter. It was like this. Hey, you don't need to.
No, it didn't. Not with him. There's different kinds of sex that I like.
like there's some guys that are like so passionate and they fuck so good and you're just like
lost in them and I love that kind of sex but with him it was like I always said it was like meat
and potatoes just a real basic thing but it was like so easy and good and satisfying and fine and
it didn't need anything else I would go on to his house during my lunch breaks and just fuck him
it was like a 10 minutes I could just sit on his dick get off see you later by it was that easy
and good and it was basic but it was great and I didn't need to
kiss him. But I do like kissing, but it just goes to show that all different kinds of styles work,
right? Depending on the person. Yeah. Right? Yeah. He became your steak dinner. Yes. Oh, yeah. Oh, my God.
Simple. I paid it. I paid it forward. That's amazing. Exactly. So wait, let's get back to you guys.
That was a side thing. But girl talk episodes, I don't mind going through different things because we're just like,
this is girls talk. I mean, we talk in the, we talk in. We talk in. We talk in. We talk in. We talk in.
circles, right? We go around and round. We can't stay on
fucking topics. Yeah, they get to be on a fly on the wall. I love
it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So Ginger, go back to
wait. So now you, now you swipe, you like the guy. You want him
to have good conversation, right? Be fucking interesting. Get Ginger
to be like, oh, I want to, I could talk to this dude, right?
Right. Give me a reason to respond to your message.
Do you want dick picks?
After,
typically after I decide that I like them,
but because there is that requirement in our dynamic,
I do want to see that fairly soon before we get too far into it,
because I don't want to lead them on.
I don't want to think that something's possible that I'm going to be like,
eh, actually.
You're right, it's not going to work.
But that's interesting.
Do you mind?
Let me ask you this.
So if a guy knows that this is what he's getting into and he,
would you mind an unsolicited dick pick or even in that scenario,
you want to ask for it or does it not matter?
Oh, no.
If I've already connected with them and seen their face and their body and had a bit of a
conversation with them if they just randomly send me one, I'm typically like, oh.
So it's a good thing.
Now we're in business or.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
See, this is why I think this information is important because in the vanilla world,
that wouldn't work.
But in this world, your world, right, it does.
You're like, that's totally fine because eventually you were going to get to that anyway,
right?
Show me your cock.
Right.
Exactly.
Random ones on Instagram or Twitter or anything like that.
I'm like, oh, God, please don't.
Please don't.
Right.
And I think that some guys think because of what you do, right?
You have an only fan and you both have only fans and we're going to give shoutouts to all your guys stuff and everything.
And we're going to be talking to Lucy too.
Lucy's in the background, but she's going to come on and tell her requirements as well.
But I think sometimes some people think because you're putting yourself out there that they can do.
stuff like that and it's no right of course and that's the liberties without respect and boundaries and really
understanding the ethics of the lifestyle right and in situations like this i mean you're me you're gonna meet
a guy that's gonna like just fuck you and he's kind of going to be like a stranger that you really have to
prove i think right that you are not boundary list like those would be those red flags that you would
talk about and you'd be like oh this guy's not safe to hook up with or go meet up with absolutely right you
have to, I think, prove that kind of stuff even more in this kind of situation because clothes are
coming off and people are going to fuck and you can't be vulnerable and really lose yourself
in that kind of situation with someone if you don't feel comfortable and you don't feel
like you trust them. For sure. Yeah. And that's why I don't ever talk to somebody and hook up with
them that day or that week or anything like that. We, I like to let things marinate. I also want
to know that they're serious and they're not just messaging me on a whim one night because they're
horny or whatever.
right now we are going to get to the point where we talk about sexting like what goes down when the like sexing is going on and after you've hooked up and how to keep that hotness going but maybe we should go now to lucy and see because we're at the point where you already got your guy right you're about to see him but then we're going to get back to you and talk about how sexting goes for you and that guy and your husband right but lucy why don't you give what you're looking for because you're a little bit different than ginger in that you have an open relationship and you fuck other guys your guy fucks them too.
but you are looking for more than just a hookup.
You're open for that and down for it.
So I'm wondering what you look for and what are the things guys should do
and not do different than Ginger.
Or maybe they're the same.
I don't know.
Yeah, I would say probably pretty different.
And a lot of that is me and personal preference.
But what's interesting is, as I did have my little experience on Hinge,
I would talk to other single vanilla women that I know.
and all the same things that I didn't like or did like were pretty consistent regardless.
And maybe that is because I'm looking to connect with people on a deeper level.
But I think it's pretty hard and fast rules that I think would apply to whether you're trying to meet up with somebody like me who may already be married or in another relationship or if you're just dating, you know, in any forum.
So for me, there was some kind of really specific things.
I don't know why guys like to look so mad in their selfies.
So I like a serious selfie, but what is weird is when you just look so angry, I want to see at least one smiling picture.
That's all I ask.
So, and every woman I've talked to has agreed with me on that one.
So I think it's pretty, pretty good advice.
Some other things are guys will put as their first photo, a group photo.
I don't know which one you are.
And my eyes go to the hottest man in the picture.
And I'm hoping it's him.
And then I swipe and I see, no, it's this other guy that was like two guys down.
But stand alone, that guy is hot.
But because he put himself in this group with other guys, it was like I was immediately let down.
That's a really good point, too. Girls do that too all the time and it's so done. Yes. Yes. And again, I mean, show you have friends. Show you have a life. If you like to do things and party and go to bars, totally fine. Just don't make it the first picture because you're just setting yourself up to let down. So those are two big ones. Another thing is, so I was using specifically hinge and I was only on for about a month. I decided it wasn't really for me just because I just meet people in person very naturally. But during that time I wasn't. We didn't talk about.
on my podcast, but Trey went through a major surgery at the end of July. So that whole month was
pretty low, but also we were hoping to actually seek something out where typically that's not my
vibe, but it was his birthday coming up. It was his surgery coming up. So like, if we can go out
with a thing, then that'd be really cool. So that was what was kind of the driving force there. And so
in my profile, I definitely had it in there that I was married, what I was looking for, that solo stuff
could be a possibility in the future that I would to connect with people, but I wouldn't be
meeting up with them solo at that time. And it was just amazing to me how many guys, I don't expect
you to read every word that I write. Totally, I get it. That's not really how men are wired,
but I feel like you should at least swipe through all of my photos before matching with me,
because I had a photo of both of us in there. So there were several guys who matched with me and were
hitting me up and then as we were getting into talking more had no clue this very,
very important element of my relationship that I was very clear about in my bio.
Right.
That you're married?
They had no clue that you were married?
Yeah, because they didn't read my bio.
They literally saw my first picture, thought I was hot, clicked it.
That's so guy-like.
I'm sorry.
It is.
And I get it, but I think it's just a word to the wise.
And especially I think this would, that advice maybe would probably even more apply to,
you know, any of the kinkier apps because there might be some really.
specific requirements that somebody has like ginger's looking for a bigger dick or i'm i'm looking
for that too i don't want i don't want a different experience than that but there might be some really
important information and for a woman if you've put that out there very clearly and they missed it
that's that's a negative for me yes absolutely but i mean there's the short story is no one
ended up checking all the boxes during that time.
There were a couple.
We got closed toward the end.
There was like one guy who called me and I watched him jack off.
And that was basically as far as anything went.
Was that hot to you?
It was.
What were you doing for him?
Because obviously I would think you're doing something while you're watching him jerk off.
Or do you show him your tits or something?
What was going to?
Okay.
So we were sending some stuff back and forth.
And at this time I was in a hotel room and Trey wasn't with me.
And so I was in the hotel room and I was getting horny as he was sending me things.
I'm like, I'm not trying to get on FaceTime and sex somebody that I've only been talking to for less than a day.
But I will give him the information that I was horny and I just came.
So he's, oh my God, can I come for you?
I'm like, I don't know.
I don't know if I'm like really going to reciprocate or do anything.
But I'm like, I'll watch.
And he's like, oh, guys, that's fine.
He was just so willing.
I don't know.
He was a young guy.
He just wanted me to watch.
Yeah, well, he was an exhibitionist.
He was an exhibitionist.
I mean, that's an exhibitionist right there.
Yeah.
You watching him was a turn on.
He didn't need anything else.
Yeah, he didn't even.
Yeah, and I was so upfront.
I was like, I mean, honestly, the mood has kind of passed for me, but I'm like,
if he does something for you, sure I'll watch.
I had a girlfriend that would do that with guys.
I'm like, I can don't know fucking understand your brain.
But she would meet guys.
And it was like a match.
com.
She's like, oh, yeah, I hooked up with a guy.
match.com, we just jerked off on cam.
I'm like, what?
You didn't even know?
Yeah, she loved it.
I was like, because she must have been an exhibitionist.
Oh my God, I love it.
Yeah, so go on.
Yeah.
So that was the furthest that anything went because I don't know.
And it was funny because Ginger, to your point of like we were talking about not messaging
enough, but then there's also the flip side of the guys that are too over-eager.
And I'm like, I don't want you texting me all day.
And so the thing for me, too, is I am keeping my.
my real life and my Lucy life very separate.
I don't ever intend really to meet anyone.
Like I've reached out or like I've had connections with some women.
That's very different.
And if it's like a collab situation,
we're going to make some content like just photos or whatever.
And there's no expectation of sex.
But I still haven't had a lot of experiences.
I had,
we'll have to do like a full update episode one day.
But I did have some fun experiences finally this past weekend.
But and I will say the guy that I was.
you know, with it's someone I've known for almost a year. And it's just kind of like, I like this
slow build. And the difference of meeting somebody in person versus online is I already know
their vibe and I already know that I like it. And a certain level of trust there too already.
Absolutely. And I know they're a real person. And so that's a thing. And I will say on only fans,
the guys who have gotten more from me, who I talk with the most, who I will send things. I mean,
I've sent even like I've let a couple people see my face because I just have that trust level with them.
But I see their personal Instagram.
They have their real name.
I can see their family.
I know that this is a real human being.
That's a very different situation.
Am I going to meet up with them?
No.
Right.
So that's still like my line.
But for that reason.
But that's interesting for the people that go on OnlyFans and have girls that they like on there.
I mean, if you really want to get to the top of the list or be that girl's face.
Dave, you're saying, be who you really are.
Put yourself out there.
Listen, there's no, and I think it's kind of safe to do that because it is kind of anonymous, right?
I mean, it's not open to the public, right?
It's just you and him know that kind of information.
So if the guy's listening and he's subscribing to a lot of OnlyFans, girls, you want that
girl to give you extra stuff, show you, you want to feel special.
Be yourself is what you're saying.
Yeah.
Yes.
And for me, so this kind of translates to both the Lucy life and the real life.
when I was on Hinge, I was very quick to move off the app.
I was not satisfied with just seeing what they had put out there there.
I wanted to connect on Instagram.
I wanted to text because I can always block somebody later if I don't want to.
That's exactly what I did.
But I want to see the full picture.
I want to see what are you doing on the weekend?
I want to see who the people you're associated with.
Let me ask you this, Lucy, because I really wonder, do you want them to see all of that about you?
I feel like you keep that hidden, yet you want them to show you.
Didn't you just say you keep Lucy life very different from your regular life?
I mean, do you let them hit you up on Instagram and see your fucking family in your house?
So this is the thing.
When I'm actually hooking up with people.
I'm hoping you say no, so I could call you a hypocrite.
No, I'm not.
No, so that's a clarifying statement I need to make is that my hookup life is my real life.
Right.
So I'm not Lucy.
They don't even know I have an only fan.
They don't know any of that stuff.
So it's very separate.
So nobody is fucking Lucy.
They're fucking the real me.
It's the real me having those connections.
So no, the people on my only fans aren't seeing my personal Instagram.
But the guys that I've connected with the most are on my Lucy Instagram.
So that's where I'm seeing their life and all that.
But obviously, I still have my anonymity on Lucy.
But you want that.
You want that kind of honesty.
even though you're like Lucy to get Lucy quote unquote into you and to feel safe you got to bear a little bit more than Lucy is right you're not letting them in the no on everything else but you like to see their shit yes yeah but but then as a as a not a reward but as a just cause and effect I become more comfortable with them because I know that this isn't just some random hacker behind a screen who's trying to get information out of me to figure out where you know what I mean it's just a different
connection when you see maybe there's a guy in an open marriage and I can see his wife and I see
him treating her well and that makes me like him better. So stuff like that. And I understand not
everyone who's an only fan subscriber is in the position to open up their life that way. Some of them
have that boundary and they don't. But I will just say the ones that are on my Instagram and my
only fans are definitely getting the best of me, the most of me. And then that also translated to my
regular real dating life, I want to see their life. And they are also then seeing my life as well.
So I feel like in the vanilla world, we all go fucking Google people. Right. You look at their stuff.
I'm always looking in the background. What kind of blinds do you have? Do you live in a nice house?
I don't know. Are you messy? Like, we're analyzing everything, right? Everybody is. Nowadays,
you get so much information on someone beforehand. It's kind of like bad because I feel like so many things could turn you off before you
actually even meet someone. There's just too much information out there.
It is true. Right? It's almost sad because I don't know. I think it stops you from meetings
so many people that maybe if you met them and you didn't see all their shit before,
you would have wound up liking them. I don't know. Well, and actually I have a very funny story
to that point. There was a guy who I was really into and I was like, okay, I think this is like
really the first guy. Like he was a solo guy. So it wasn't, it wasn't a threesome prospect,
But it was somebody who, again, like I just said, hey, I'm not doing solo meetups now.
But if you're willing to wait, if you're patient, like, we could start talking now.
I'm just not going to meet up with you for quite some time.
And he was one of the guys that was interested in that.
And it was so funny because we then exchange Instagram.
And he starts talking about this high profile person that he works with.
And I'm like, oh, okay, interesting.
And I'm like, who is it?
I'm like, you don't have to tell me if it's something that you don't share.
He's like, oh, no, it's on my Instagram.
You could see.
what the fuck so I go and I scroll and it's somebody that I do not fuck with at all like I won't say the name of this celebrity but it is not somebody that I consider a good man and it was such a turn on.
I need to know who it is. Could you just say? Can you say who it is and I'll edit it out? Tell me right now. Yeah for sure. Oh. Oh. Oh. I'm going to leave in the. Oh, my God. Oh, really? Yes. It was like entourage and like work. And I mean this so this man.
Are we back on?
No, I'm just going to edit out the name.
I'm going to keep the O's and the us, but stop saying his name so I don't have to keep bleeping it.
Okay.
We're on.
But yeah, so I was like, I don't know how I feel about that.
And he was like, tugged me like, oh, like I could bring you to events, whatever.
I'm like, no, that is not.
I'm not interested.
And so before long, he got the boot too.
But I will say that the guy that finally actually got in my pants, the first person I've ever had sex with,
solo besides my husband. We've sat and talked deep conversations for hours. And by the time it came down to
Saksa, I was so uninhibited. I was so free. Like, I was so comfortable because there was all that
back end work and the fact that he wanted to spend time with me where we just went on a date and
had some drinks and kissed. Like, it felt like that I never had that dating experience. And maybe that's
why I want it now. But I was, I got married right after high school. So I never had that
experience that other guy takes you out and you meet up and you pay, pay separately or you pay together
and you don't really know. All those like different little things. So sure. Right. So now you're
getting it though. You get to have it now. Let's talk about sexting. Can we get to sex sting,
you guys? Yes. Sure. Okay, because I listen, we all know that guys love sexting. They just want
to send you a fucking dick pick. They want you to talk dirty, send them a pick of your badge or whatever they
want you know what do girls get horny for when it comes to sexing you both said you love sexting
and it turns you on what is it that girls want to get hit out like what's going to get them in the
mood to sext I know personally I don't know like the whole play by play thing that some guys like
to do that's not so much my style like I want to know what you like I want to know what you like to do
I want to know what you like done to you.
But not necessarily in a play-by-play, like, we'll do this and then I'll do this and then I'll do this.
Like that to me is just a little too much.
Yeah, but I think a lot of times we're always just projecting, right?
I think guys like that, they want you to like sort of sex them through like the scenario and make, give them like the sort of the scenario, right?
Give it to them in tax like what's going down and what.
what's happening and that's what's going to get them to come and go over the edge because you're
kind of like painting the picture and I think maybe that's why they do that back because that's
what they like? I don't know. What do you want? If you don't want him to give you play by play,
what's going to make you horny? So it's funny because I don't, I don't like a long winded
play by play, but I like a back and forth play by play. So if it's he kind of starts with saying some
things and then I say like my thing so it's like choose your own adventure kind of vibe so what I don't love is
when it's like this novel and it's funny because sometimes I'll get these really long winded
things from guys like I think like on only fans or Instagram and be telling me a story of not even
what they want to do to me but what they've done or have done or they're just talking game and I it's
probably turning them on so like I'll I'll play into it to an extent but that's not I'm not impressed by
what somebody's like all saying they're going to do to me in this like long paragraph.
But if it's like there's a banter where they say a few things and then I pick it up and add
my bits and then we're going back and forth, that is incredibly hot.
Then throw some pictures in there.
And I have a tip actually for the girlies out there.
And I have to give credit where credit is due because I first heard this on another podcast,
call her daddy very popular, but they said that if you're not comfortable with your pussy
or sending pictures of your pussy, put something in it. And it almost always makes you feel
more comfortable or like you're less analyzing everything about how it looks. Guys don't care.
You could send, I've learned especially now just being on Discord, being on Twitter,
I'm like, okay, pretty much guys will like jack off to literally anything. I can hold up my knee
and pretend it's my bat cheeks and like they'd be like oh yeah but we have to feel comfortable
with what we're sending or it doesn't feel as good so i've definitely used that trick i've also
gotten a lot more comfortable with i mean it's been amazing how much i've come out of my shell like when i
started the only things i didn't know what i would want to show or how you know far i would go or whatever
yeah and it was like oh like two weeks in i'm like here's that patsy everybody
so i really just did that for the first time recently like since my up
So it was the first time I ever shared pictures like that on my own fans.
And I had shared a couple of older photos.
And then I shared some newer photos.
And apparently they like that.
Yeah, they really do.
But then also what guy doesn't like to see you with your fingers and your pussy,
a dildo in your pussy using a vibrator.
So if you're, if you've never done it, if you're trying, somebody wants you to,
I would recommend.
I definitely think that's a way to kind of ease in to some.
sending the pussy pictures because it is a big step.
I mean, I don't, I still haven't.
I mean, my guy has seen my pussy in person now, but I haven't sent him a picture of that.
I don't, I don't sexed that graphically.
Have you ever used, like, if your iPhone to iPhone, you can do like the invisible ink and they
have to like swish it to see?
Oh, I haven't used that in a long time.
Yeah, so they get the picture and it's all blurred and then they're like using the finger to
unobsture it.
Oh, my goodness.
fun.
That's for people newly dating.
I'd be so irritated by that if it was like my regular guy.
Like, just fucking savvy the picture.
Don't make me work for it.
No, I don't think a girl would like it.
But I think a guy would like.
Yeah.
I have a guy that really likes graphic stuff.
And I don't mind sending it.
But like I was really, I think as women, you don't know how you rate is your pussy good.
Is it not?
There was a thing called rate your pussy.com that I was.
going to put my pussy on it. I've talked about this before because I was like, do I have
beef curtains? Do I not have beef curtains? Is my thing right? Is it not good? Like, how does it
fucking compare? Like, I had been to a nude beach and I realized like, oh, those tits look coming all
different shapes, sizes, different colored nips, you know what I mean? I never realized that until I went
there, but I never saw so many different pussies, right? And I'm like, I'm going to go on
my pussy and just see because I had no idea. I'm like, is it good? Is it not good? You know what I mean?
And then I started fucking the guy that I'm talking about that likes it. And he was like, and he was like,
And he fucked the world.
And he was like, no, your pussy's great.
I was like, okay.
But there is a place that you could go on there and people rate you.
No, I'm really serious.
They rate you.
And I was really going to do it because it's like a completely anonymous.
I like to know the truth.
I'm like one of those people and I'm like motivated by insult.
So if my pussy was terrible, I probably would have went and got it fixed.
But apparently it's good.
So we're all good to go.
So I don't mind sending pussy shots.
But I needed that kind of validation from a total player.
I would send him a pussy pick now.
what's that?
I said I would send him a pussy pick now.
I'm not opposed to sending pussy picks.
We just got to ease in.
You got to earn it.
He's already done that.
Yeah, he's earned it.
Yeah, no, that's fine.
But I think that that's interesting to put something inside it.
And then the girls feel more comfortable.
Yeah, I think so.
I mean, well, and it is hot.
Like, actually my favorite dildo that I have, well, it's actually the only dildo I have.
And I love it so much.
I don't know that I need another one.
But it's clear.
And so I really like that because it's like it is kind of like obscuring but not.
And if anything, it gives like this cool like view of like almost the inside as I'm using it.
So that that clear dildo is really awesome one from curved and peach.
You can find them on Instagram that I really, really want.
Yeah.
What is it?
There's a few of their toys that I really want.
But they have some of the clear ones like what you described.
they have a few made out of rose cords, I think.
Oh.
And then they have a clip massager that's like a rose.
Okay, I've heard good things about that.
Huh.
Well, I've been trying to make a click kisser.
I've been trying to make the click kisser that I talk about all the time of my show.
I had a manufacturer in China that makes custom sex toys.
And they made it for me custom.
And it fucking sucked.
And so I'm like back to the choice.
No, it wasn't what it was.
I can't even.
I wish I could have direct contact with Adam.
that I could ask them because you can't even Google and find it.
If anyone could find it, I could.
I'm a good Googler and you can't even find the original and I can't mock it up.
But I think clit massagers are great.
But my clit massager and the click caser just didn't just massage your clit.
It pumped up your vaj.
And I have to really recommend if anyone has never pumped it up to pump it up because I think
that that's hot.
It's like a big turn on.
Not that you get off on it, but the pumping and stuff is like a good like foreplay thing.
I don't know.
I mean, I've used it alone.
I think it's great.
But it was a pump and a click.
I'm going to have to add that to my list.
Chott, you've never pumped to your pussy?
I would love to try that.
Neither one of you have ever done it?
No, I've never had that.
Well, let me just tell you, I sent one to Waioli and I sent one to Lila.
I gave them both gifts, okay?
And Wai was just talking about how she was obsessed with it, okay?
Yeah.
So I really think a lot of girls haven't tried that, and I think a lot of girls should.
There's something very hot about it.
not going to come from it.
But the click kisser, the reason why you could come from the click kisser is because
it was, you were pumping up and at the same time it was vibrating the shit out of you.
So you would come and it was sick.
The sickest, most amazing thing.
It's so good that I had to throw it out because I thought my pussy was going to get ruined
because it was like hardcore.
You know what I mean?
It was like stretching it and making it big and then I'm calming and I'm doing it like 10 times
a day.
I was like, I'm going to throw this shit out.
But it was like amazing.
But now the one that I have the pump, it just pumps up.
but it's like just good foreplay for before you have something.
Yeah.
Because you're not going to come from it just from pumping it up.
But it's, oh, my God.
It's just very split to the surface.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But the sensation, I don't know if you do it like really like slowly and like a lot of little pumps and stuff.
I don't know.
There's like an art to it.
But if you get the hang of it, it's really good.
And I think some guys like that look.
I mean, it looks strange, okay?
Like just so you know, your pussy is going to look like those weird girls with a filter with the fake lips on them.
But your pussy's going to look like.
And it looks like a hot dog bun.
Yeah, yeah, it's going to look like, it's going to look freaky, you know what I mean?
But it's going to feel good, trust me.
I think I would like it.
I have like kind of small lips, so I'm like, I would be interested to feel different for
Trey or like whatever.
Pump it up.
Yes, try it.
Yeah, you should.
You'll both love it.
I mean, there's a good one.
I can send you a link.
I'm going to put the link in the...
Ginger, we have homework.
No, I'm going to put the link in the thing for the one on Amazon that I got.
You just got to get the small, not the medium.
I think I sent the medium to Layla and Wio, and they're both like, how big is
your badge. Like this is too fucking big, but I think I sent them the wrong side by accent.
I think you got to get this small, but it's really good. You should both try it. It's great.
We have five minutes. What should we discuss? We have five more minutes.
I should put that on my wish list, on my Amazon wish lists, my fans.
There you go. Yeah. Yeah, why don't we talk about all your guys stuff? Why don't you guys give
shoutouts to all your stuff? Because we're at five minutes anyway, so we only have five minutes.
So why don't we do shout out to where people could find you guys. And because, listen,
you guys gave them some good tips of how to get extra stuff from you.
I mean, if you know how you know how to work Lucy, okay,
and get her to show you all kinds of stuff.
I feel like Ginger gave some information.
What?
Yeah, sure.
To any single guy, and even this really applies to couples, too, or single women,
anyone interested in the lifestyle, near the lifestyle,
thinking about maybe dabbling in the lifestyle in any way curious about it.
learn the ethics not just online and how to make your profile attractive and things like that
but there are a lot of really well-written articles of advice out there like single guys if you want
to get into going into parties and things like that you're going to have to do more work to show
that you're trustworthy to show that you're not a creeper than a couple or a single female will
That's just the nature of the way things go.
But if you familiarize yourself with the proper etiquette of the lifestyle in general,
your interactions will go a lot more smoothly.
And if you're really serious, then you'll find what you're looking for.
Yeah, totally.
Listen, I've had a lot of solo guys who navigated the Swinger World successfully.
And I love those episodes because I feel like people could really learn from them
because there are a lot of tricks and tips.
that you could get about navigating because the solo guy in the swinger world is not very welcomed,
okay?
It's not like an easy thing.
You could just go as a solo guy and be accepted and everyone's happier there.
Actually, the exact opposite.
But I've had a couple guys.
One was Jason and he's married to Casey now.
And the other one was Antonio.
And I think Antonio was just a nice guy, like inside.
And I think people could smell that from the outside.
So that's why he rolled like well.
But these guys really had some good tips to go listen to their episodes.
They had some really good tips about navigating the lifestyle, what to do and what not to do.
Because I think a lot of guys don't understand.
Like I said, it's not a place where they welcome you.
It's not like you're a single girl going.
You're a single guy.
You're like the bottom of the barrel.
Right.
And to piggyback on that, I was thinking what we didn't touch on really at all, so I'll just do it very briefly, is you also have to remember, if you're dealing with a woman who's putting herself out there and she's letting you know that she has a partner or a man or whatever.
you need to also make sure that your communications are very respectful to him as well.
And especially in my case, I'm pretty out there that I'm extremely picky. I'm incredibly particular.
And some of these guys came in so hot of, oh, I'm going to fuck the shit out of you.
Like their first message, I was like, okay, absolutely not. And even if I was into that,
Trey would have not been at all. And so that's one thing that we've really navigated is that I love that
Trey always is like aware of who it is that I'm interacting with. Exactly. That's part of the
communication between you and your partner. Yeah. So that that's my last little bone to throw,
I guess, to the guys as don't forget that there's there's a guy on the other end of it who's
probably seeing every single message you send and is going to probably give the okay or not. And it's,
it's important to
if the husband is a cook
like there are
boundaries that guy what I hear from most
husbands of hot wives
the reason why you want to talk to those guys
and really make a good connection is
that guy has all the information
on that girl you want to get her fucking off
talk to her guy he's going to tell you her hot spots
he's going to tell you exactly how she fucking likes it
that's what the professionals say
to do. And that is right. They have all the secrets. So you want to go and bang the shit out of his wife
and give her the best time. He's going to tell you what to do, what she likes, how she rolls. And so yeah,
and I've heard it the opposite too. If you're going into a club and you're like just also be very,
if you're a girl, be very nice to the girl in the situation. You always want to remember that there's
two people in this situation and tend to both of them because they both bring different things to the
table and you have to get along with both of them or you're going to get next. It's not going to work.
I mean, listen, some people are playing in this lifestyle and they're doing it in a negative way because
they have problems. Maybe they are looking to be secretive to, but we're not talking about those people,
right? I like to have on people who are doing it because they want to expand their already good
relationship. Those are the people you want to try to hook up with. And if you are, you got to listen to all
the things you guys just said. Thank you so much, both of you for calling it. Now, you got to give all your
shout out so that people know where to find you. Ginger, why don't you go first?
Sure. You can find me on Instagram at Ginger Queen, and that's G-I-N-J-A-U-A-U-Skween,
and X or Twitter is the same thing. I don't think there's an underscore in that one, though. It's
just Ginger Queen. But I'm unsearchable, so you actually have to go through my link tree in order
to get to my X account. And then on OnlyFans, it is dot com backslash,
G-I-N-J-A- underscore clean.
Let me ask you this.
Ginger, is your link-tree have all those links on it?
Because I could just put your link tree in the description,
and then they'll get all your links right there, right?
It does, yeah, absolutely.
If you don't have that, I can message that to you.
Yeah, send it to me.
So what you guys know, if you're driving or listening,
you want to go check her out, just go to the description.
I'll put her link-tree link there.
Now, Lucy, why don't you give it?
Lucy, why don't you give a shout-out to all your stuff?
Yeah, of course.
So I do have link-tree as well, so that'll make it eat.
easy, but I love connecting on Instagram and my, it's where I can put tons of stuff out there for
free. So even if you're not into paying for OnlyFans or that's not your vibe, I still love that.
So that is.
I think your Instagram is hot.
Thank you.
So is yours, of course.
But it's Lucy with an I, so L-U-C-I-L-C-I-L-L-O-U-S-U.
So not I love Lucy, Lucy loves you.
And the word you is spelled out.
And then, of course, on OnlyFans, I'm Lucy Love 69X 420 because we're 420 from the other year.
There is.
And then on X, I'm Lucy and Trey.
So, easy to find.
Link Tree will make it super easy.
And I'm super excited to connect with some new people.
I love answering questions, elaborating on any of the stuff we talked about today.
It's super fun.
I like to hear like only.
No, no, no, but wait, listen.
Listen, could you do me a favor, though?
you guys also started a hot Instagram, right, with the hot falls for my show.
Why don't you guys give a shout out to that too?
Yeah, for sure.
I'll start it and then you take up the end of it, Ginger.
You got it.
Okay, cool.
So, yeah, so one day, Ginger and I were just kind of riffing and I think I had tagged
something and said, like, strictly slats or something.
And I was like, and Ginger and I started talking and we're like, yeah, we should probably
make a community for the female guests of the show.
I'm like, yeah, maybe something a little softer than slots in case someone doesn't identify with that label.
But we came up with strictly sirens.
And yeah, so on Instagram, we're just strictly underscore sirens.
And we are working on featuring as many of the female guests as we can.
So we just want to make sure we're building that community.
Yeah, with the other women.
So it's been really fun so far.
And we've had some really, you know, some of the really big past guests so far.
So we're just.
connections.
Yeah.
I'm going to put a link to that to you guys.
Okay.
So we'll give a big shout out and I'll shout out that stuff in the beginning of the intro
to this episode, you know, to your Instagram as well.
So some guys go over there follow because you're going to show some hot pictures of those
guests right over there.
They'll get more.
Yes.
Love it.
And what was like I said?
This is coming out this Friday.
So, you know, be around.
I'm excited.
That's what fun.
Yeah, let's see if these people listen.
There is still an exclusive offer on my only fans for your.
followers only. Okay, what is that? It's the same one I gave you last time.
Well, some people haven't listened to it. So you got to give it out again, Lucy. Do you don't know what
Ginger? It would be a link that you would have to put in your description. Okay, so you're going to send
me the link? Absolutely. Okay, so there's a link in the description, a specific link for a special
that you get for Ginger's only fans. Do you know what it is?
Or do they have to go to find out?
It's a surprise?
I do believe it's 20% off.
It's always so funny to you.
People don't know what they're fucking pitching.
25%?
Ginger, come on.
Yeah.
And you know what?
Let's go ahead and say that any new subscribers from Strictly can just DM me strictly
and they'll get a custom video from me.
Oh, now you guys are competing.
With boundaries, but we'll figure something out.
No, I love that.
So both of you guys came on and gave me a great episode and you're giving all my listeners like cool stuff.
Ginger's giving you 25% off, which I think is huge.
So go click on that link.
And Lucy's going to give you a free fucking video.
Okay, so go DM her.
Where do they have to DM you for that?
Just on OnlyFans after you subscribe.
Okay.
Just literally just send me the word strictly and I'll know where you're from and I'll hook you up.
Okay.
You guys, thank you so much for calling in.
Oh, this was so much fun.
Yeah, thank you guys for calling.
in putting up with me coughing.
This is going to be a great girl talk episode.
I think you guys gave out great information.
If people haven't listened to your guys' episodes, okay, they're both super hot in different ways.
Like I said, Ginger's is episode 387 and Lucy's is 659.
I'll put the numbers next to their names in the descriptions too.
Lucy will be on soon for a part two because she fucked five guys the other night or some shit like that.
I can't wait for that update.
Yeah, we'll be getting that update.
date soon. So stay tuned. Thanks, you guys. Thanks both for calling in. Okay, I just want to tell you
before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total
Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook.
It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically
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right, but these are true stories.
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They're really short chapters,
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You could read one or two and then skip around.
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