Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 707 - Paul is a Super Straight Guy who's Now Into Prostate Orgasms and Pegging

Episode Date: October 20, 2023

Paul is a super straight guy who got into prostate massases and pegging and he called in to talk all about it. Why and how did he get into prostate massages? How did he wind up having a prostate orgasm? And, how did he then get his wife into pegging him? Tune in to hear all the details including how his erectile dysfunction started it all, the specific issues he was having and the different solutions he tried including vitamins, pills, exercise, hormones etc, to solve his issues and the results he found from implementing them, how is ED issues effected his d*** size, what he did to increase his “volume” as well as his performance time. how and why he then started doing his own prostate massages and how uncomfortable it was at first, his first prostate orgasms and what it felt like and why he then started chasing them, how and why he never told his wife about any of his issues or any of the things he was trying, how he brought being into anal action to her and how she reacted at first, how and why she eventually got down without and totally got into pegging, they toys he prefers/recommends for achieving a prostate orgasm and why, how prostate orgasms have increased his pre cum status and how his orgasms are now hands free and can happen when he’s not erect, how having prostate orgasms not only fixed his issues but also increased his size and girth, instructions on how to find your own prostate, what it feels like when you find it and own to achieve an orgasm through it plus a whole lot more. Get 15% OFF your Butter Wellness prostate massage, us code: STRICTLY here:https://butterwellness.com/ **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The link in the phone number and all that good stuff will be in the description. So if you're driving, don't you worry about it. Today I have a great episode. This guy made me laugh mostly through the whole thing. And I love his story. It's super interesting. His name is Paul.

He is a guy's guy. A true straight guy, guys guy. That's what he calls himself a guy's guy. But what I love about Paul is he's a problem solver. He had an issue when he was about 40. He started to notice that he just couldn't get it up and keep it up for as long as he could when he was younger. And he went out searching for, solutions to that problem.

And he didn't f-and-stop until he found the solutions. Let me tell you, you know what the solution to all of his problems were? Prostate orgasms pegging. He's into that now, too. I mean, it was anal action. That's what got him back to being, I would say, better than when he was when he was in his 20s. But his story about how he got there is so fucking fascinating.

And why I think it's important is because, you know, he's like any other straight guy out there. He bought into the whole stigma of like no anal. This is a guy that if you asked him any time in his life, would he ever be shoving things up his ass? He'd be like, no fucking way, okay? But because he had these issues, he was having a little ED. He started Googling.

He tried a lot of other things. He talks about hormone therapy and taking pills and stuff like that. But eventually he started to go and try to work on his prostate. He bought a couple toys. He's used my butt. wellness toy, my prostate massager that I talk about all the time that I want everyone to go by because you use it on the outside. Okay, he talks about that, how to do it, how that's such a great first thing to use to get to where he's at, which is like being a guy that has all this new

enjoyment that he didn't have before. He was doing this all behind his girl's back. He didn't want her to know. Like when I say he's a guy's guy, he didn't want her to fucking know he had a problem like most guys, right? You don't want to be vulnerable and weak in front of your girl. So he hid it all. So he was like doing all this private stuff playing with his. prostate, he explains the whole process. It's super interesting and important to listen to because he talks about how at first it wasn't even pleasurable, but he just kept at it because he was trying to fix his issues. And then one day, he had a prostate orgasm. And he talks about how it blew his effing mind. And then he went and chased it. Okay. And eventually he started playing with

different things. And then eventually he brought that shit to his wife. And she was like, the fuck? Are you into guys? Because you got to think about it. He never told her what he was doing. She didn't know this whole process. So he was doing it all on the DL. So all of a sudden he goes to her and he wants her to put things in his ass and she really questioned it. But she's cool. His girl's very cool. As much as she questioned it, she did go there with them. And it turned out over time. She got really into it. He eventually got her to put like on a strap on and peg him. And she didn't like that at first, but now she effing loves it. And he's here to say he loves it too. At one point he even said it's like a great quote. He was like, oh my God. At one point I was like, now I know why gay guys are

gay. Like maybe I'm gay. Maybe I should do this because it's like the best fucking thing. He gets very specific about how to find your prostate, how to have a prostate orgasm, how to get into begging, why it feels so good, how any straight guy should do it. That's what I'm here to say. Okay, remove the stigma. Listen to Paul's story. He's fucking funny. He made me laugh. through the whole episode. His story, though, is very inspirational for anyone that's having any kind of issue because he solved his problem and it's going to give you a lot of information. If you have that problem to solve it, it's also a lot of information. If you just are somebody that wants to up your game and have more pleasure in your life, fucking try to have

a prostate orgasm. I pitch my butter wellness toy. It is something that you use on the outside. So it's the perfect thing for beginners to use. There'll be a link in the description if you want to get yourself one. He used it. He uses it with his girl. He talks about it. But you're going to get so much more information on this episode. It's super interesting. He's funny. Uh, so anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Paul. Hi, Paul. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Oh, Kathy. You're doing great, Paul. Because you're what I would call a problem solver, not a problem haver. I like problem solvers. When you were about 40, and I'm like you, I'm a problem solver. If I had some sort of issue and I have had issues. I like fucking Google and find out ways to solve my problem and I don't

stop until I fucking solve it right and that's what you did at 40 you started to get erectile dysfunction issues and you started going online and looking for things you started to use Viagra but that's not something that you want to use every single day right you're married you want to have sex all the time so you needed something more than Viagra so you started really looking online started taking supplements, different things, and then started getting into prostate massages, correct? Well, one of the things I found is that doctors are actually recommending is massaging the prostate to help with any issues. So I read into it and everything I was doing, I was getting slight gains. So I thought, well, I tried this. I was always looking for the instant fix,

something that would really make a difference. And everything I would try, I would get improvements, but I would never find that, you know, a feeling that you would have when you're in your 20s and 30s. That totally rock hard, I'm good to go on my own kind of thing. Right. I mean, I don't have a dick, so I don't know. Yeah, because when you're younger, I mean,

you get aroused just, you know, randomly for no reason. Yeah. Two or three times a day. Mm-hmm. and now I'm in my mid-50s, so things change. And I was definitely chasing the answer to try to find where I was 20 or 30 again. Yeah, you wanted to get back that feeling. I understand as a woman who's gone through menopause and I hear from other women as well.

I mean, I'm on hormones because I don't want to not be horny ever. I think some people give it up and they don't fucking care. I don't know. I wasn't one of them. And you're not either. You wanted to still be. vibrant. I mean, nowadays we're living a lot older. You're married, right? You still wanted to

be able to get hard and stay hard and be pleasure like you were when you were younger. Oh, yeah. I've been married for almost over 20 years. And, I mean, we always had a great sex life. She is exactly what most guys would dream about

happen. And she is everything I've always wanted. So when I started having issues, I was personally freaking out. Here I've got what I dreamed about having and I'm having problems. Normally it's the other way around. But I love that you, but like I said, but I like that you went about and really

try to solve the problem. And I'm just going to give people a quick preview into the ending of this story is that like now you and your wife are back to having the best sex life. She's fucking you in the ass with strap-ons all the time and you're having massive prostate orgasms, best thing you've ever experienced in your life and you're going to talk about how you got there. Right. exactly so i mean just you know a little start of the beginning is when i originally had issues

i went to the doctor normal and did all the tests and he's they tell you're fine there's nothing wrong and this is common and i didn't like that answer he basically said oh let's try see out here let's try ride to me that wasn't the answer i wanted to flip a switch and be like i was so I did everything from nutrition to vitamins to certain exercises that they say that this helps and everything even testosterone so you hear about people saying oh my god I have a drastic you know morale's like I'm 18 taking testosterone yeah yeah of course that is some all the things that you're talking about sometimes are the fix for somebody but none of these things were the fix for you. And even

let's just talk about this. So for my penis size, I'm not huge. I'm not any porn star type, but I'm fairly, you know, endowed. And when I was having erection issues, I'm not near as long,

and I'm not near as thick. And that's, and that is really, it's devastating for your mind. Totally. Oh my God. Dick size and men's ego is like one thing. Same thing. Oh, yeah. It's devastating. You lost your big dick energy.

Yeah, and to compare my size, I'm big enough to where I can bottom out if everything's perfect. Oh, my God. I mean, that's the power thing. You feel like, holy shit, I mean, she's running from it. And that's excited. And you just know what you used to be like. And have it working again, you want it to be the best of possibly can. I would say I got it working without Viagra for Seattle.

No problem. Okay. But, you know, I'm on this journey and I'm like, I want more. You know, you don't want to stop. I mean, I want the best direction and use Viagra on top of it. Here I've got a, here I've got a partner that I've unlimited of whatever I want to do. I want to keep things going. So I would say everything I would try, I would get, let's say, a 5% or 10% increment.

increase better erections, last longer. But nothing was like this is the one thing that fixed the whole problem. It was a matter of doing everything. It's a matter of being on testosterone. It's a matter of eating healthy. It's a matter of doing exercises and staying in good shape, staying a healthy weight. You have to do it all. And once I got to that point, I mean, I think I almost got to where I had the feeling of, you know, a 20-year.

Wow. Okay, that's amazing. I love that. You're going to help a lot of people with what you went through. That's a great advice. Yeah, and then I got to the point where I could outlast having an orgasm. So that's where I got into where they talk about delay sprays and items like that to numb up your penis. I started looking to that.

We even have sex for constant long periods of time. I'm able to give her three, four orgasms after another, just by penetration sex. Yeah, I have, listen, this is going to be an infomercial from all my fucking products, because you're going to hit on all of them. ProMassin is my favorite company. They're my longest sponsors, and they have a delay spray. And it really works. I've gotten a lot of people who have emailed me that use it, and it's fucking great.

And it's not just for guys of PE. I mean, you started using that shit when you were back. at your peak again, correct? Just because you wanted to go longer? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. For me, I'm one and done.

Once I have my orgasm, forget it. It's over. There's a waiting period of an hour, two hours. I'm done. So if I can, as long as I don't personally come, there's no limit. We've had sessions up to four hours. Exactly. That's what it's for.

And same with Viagra, too. People of all ages now will use Viagra because they just want to make it last, longer. Oh, yeah. Once I started research more, I'm hearing like every porn star guy. You hear of old,

you hear of old porn star guys that were proud that they can get an erection in front of a group of 20 people. I don't think I could do that. And they're saying that nowadays, all the new porn stars, they don't have that issues. They take Viagra or they take an injection

and they're good to go. They're good to go. Yeah, that's my other way. But no, no, I got to say, I'm sorry, I'm just going to drop my stuff because that's my other sponsor, shameless care. They're like a big sex positive company.

They're very involved in the lifestyle community because besides porn stars, people in the lifestyle, they face the same thing that a porn star faces, which is having to perform and get hard in front of a lot of people. And a lot of times, their stage fright in that community.

That surprised me when I started talking to a lot of swingers and stuff that there was those kind of issues because I wouldn't think that would be the case, but it is. A lot of lifestyle people can't get it up. and they're all taking Viagra or C Ellis because that helps.

That's what they don't have to worry about it. And it's not, and it's cheap nowadays. You don't have, like, shameless care, it's like a couple bucks a pill. It's not like it used to be, and it's not just for old men. It's for anybody that's, stay up, keep it up, no fair fact, they're not going to have any issues.

You're good to go. Oh, yeah. I mean, it was a miracle drug when they found it. You don't even have to have issues. I mean, even when I felt like I didn't even need it, I took it to, if I knew that she's willing, we go down at our, playroom at noon on Saturday, I knew that it's going to be a long session.

You know, I need having that extra insurance knowing that I can be soft, 20 minutes later get another erection, and just keep going all day, walk out at 5 o'clock that day. Yeah, you're putting on the show. I talk about the show. I don't want the show all the fucking time, but guys love to put on the show. There's certain guys that like to please their woman. And a woman takes a little bit longer to come, but if you really want to see your wife pleasure, like five times, you're going to have to, you're going to need a little pill.

to last that long. Yeah, for my situation, it's hilarious. So when I was younger, I was like, oh, okay, I just want to get it on and get to come. So I get a partner that is just like a man. Yeah. She wants to have sex to come, and then let's go do what we've got to do. Yeah, that's me. I don't want the fucking show.

I don't want to, please don't make me come five times for you. Yeah, so when I had what you dream about having, where you have a girl, you have to have your head floor playing, kiss. Yeah. You know, yeah, I mean, she's, let's get to it. I'm ready for more organ. As soon as I had that, I wanted just the opposite. I wanted to tie her down and pleasure it for three hours straight. But you just, you want whatever you don't have.

I mean, that's just. Yeah, but now that she's strapping it on and fucking you in the out, she is the guy in the relationship. Oh, that was a long journey. We'll have to get into that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's get there. Let's get there. Let's get back to where you're at because you're going to eventually get there.

Okay, okay. So I read an article about prostate massage, really improving and healthy erection and orgasms. Yeah. Increasing. I had an issue with semen ball. Here we'd have a great long two-hour session, and she's looking for an exciting cum shot, and I get two little drifts. And she's, what the fuck? That's just part of aging.

So let alone that, I had to research. I mean, and there's just basic vitamins and things you should be eating. and I got right back. I can have seven. I mean, I could fill her chest up now with as long as I'm taking the right vitamins, you get into the right nutrition, I could produce as much as a possible.

And she just loved. Wait, what are the right vitamins? Can you list them real quick? I'm not going to go in there because if you search for it, there's a lot of companies that promote, they call them volume pills, and they charge you in the same prices. And you research what's in them,

pills, you can buy the individual ones from your local grocery store for no price. Oh, okay, cool. All right. So that's what people should Google. Like volume pills and then look at the back, what's in it, and then go get those vitamins separately and take them every day. Oh, God, yeah. It's crazy that the difference.

I mean, she's disappointed. She thinks, oh, he's not even enjoying it. If he's looking for a nice gumchat all over her tips, and here's a look at two gerbils. Yeah. And now you're making her go blind. You're shooting it in her eyeball afterwards. Oh, God, yeah. And it's insane.

I've got a swallow her. Just anything I want. She won't let go of it. I mean, I'm like, get the fuck away. You know. So it's hilarious. Okay, so I think it's, you know, cool that you looked into prostate massages

because I feel like so many guys are very anti-thing or anti-that or that's where they draw the line because everyone thinks, oh, prostate inside your ass, Anything over there like a gay shit? I look at it as like I'm reading a medical issue. There's professional doctors. We're talking about prostate massage. They're talking about they do it in the medical office.

Well, I'm not going to pay somebody $500 to stick something on my ass. I mean, you research it, prostate massagers. So, and I'm still at the same time, I'm looking for that one thing because this is it. This is the fix. And I never found it. So I'm still chasing that instead of doing 10 things, I want to find the one. So I research it and then figure out, okay, what's going on with the prostate massage. Your order, I think, is a good one.

And the first time I tried, it was horrible. It was hard to insert. It's painful. And I quit. I'm like, I'm done. This is a waste of time. So, and that's probably the first time I've ever inserted anything on my ass. I mean, over the years, maybe a girl touched down there.

It felt good. That's as far as they ever went. So later on, I research it again, and I'm like, fuck, there's huge reviews, huge talks about this. So I wanted to have invested the time and money again to buy something that costs a little bit more, that it really had monster reviews. And once I purchased that, totally different feeling. It was comfortable. It was, you just insert it.

I would just sit there, not aroused. and watch a show. Insert it for about 15 minutes. Had it on low. And I'd probably do it like once or twice a week, no big deal. So after using it for a couple weeks, I mean, it became really easy. I figured out to do it, what type of loop to use,

the basic things. And the device I got is extremely powerful. And it's not pleasurable for the way I was doing it. And I'm just sitting there, I've inserted it, and turning it up as high as little go, try to get the best results I'm thinking I'm giving. I'm not aroused. It gets the feeling where you almost feel like you've got a urnage. And that's not even pleasurable.

So I'm sitting there with a soft penis watching some stupid show. And here I go had meltdown. I'm not sitting here, soft penis, and I have the biggest orgasm. I've ever had in my entire life. Were you, like a woman where you could not stand up. I'm sitting there shaking. What the fuck? I had no idea.

I couldn't even explain it. I've had some of the best sex ever and never had anything like that happen. The orgasm comes from inside. It's usually your orgasm is from rubbing the head of the penis and you have that 30 seconds of going off into Never Never Land. This is this insanely different. It's from the inside. It throbs throughout their whole groin area down your legs. It's insane.

Well, let me just stop you there too because I'm just going to tell you. This is my other product that I love because I am on a mission to get every guy to be comfortable with anal action, have prostate orgasms, be fined with being a two-input guy. I don't know, a one-input guy, what do you call it, when a guy is just open for business in that area of his body? so many guys aren't, right? And I think it's kind of ridiculous. I'm a three-input girl. I've always felt anal action is super pleasurable. I think all assholes are made alike, right?

Except you have a prostate. And when I hear people talk about prostate orgasms, any guy, even the straight guys who have gone there, okay, they have all talked about exactly the way you have. So I was so excited when I signed up with Butter Wellness because they have, And this is why and why I love better wellness is because they have a prostate massager that you use on the outside first. Oh, I have one. You have the butter wellness for the outside, right?

Yeah, I use that device with my wife. And she uses it on me and it feels awesome. You don't have to insert it. You just place it between your anus and the boss and move it back and forth, apply it. little oil on it. You feel the vibrations on your prostate without inserting a device. Right. So you could get that sensation. And to me, what's so great about it is, because I think eventually guys need to be brave enough to go inside, right? I didn't know whether you could put that inside or not, but eventually you do want to be able to be okay with doing that to get

to where you're at, very comfortable, having multiple organisms, having your wife peg you. But I don't think a lot of guys will make that jump from not doing anything to their assholes to just like shoving big dildos inside there. Getting the insertion is a whole different level. Right. That's what I think is so great about the butter toy. This is a thing for all you guys that are listening that are jealous of Paul. Okay, Paul's a straight guy that loves anal action. You didn't do it because you were into guys or anything like that.

I mean, you did it because you were trying to solve a problem. And you found out that it's like the holy grail. And this is a product, the butter wellness prostate massager is a product that is such a great first step. You don't have to put it inside. There's no inside action. You just put it on the outside. Do it like Paul. Use your girl, push it in so you could start to feel that sensation and start to activate your prostate and see how good it feels, right? Oh, definitely. So, and that's why I have tons of toys, but that is a great toy if you're not. I mean, you can't always do insertion. I mean, It's just there's issues with insertive.

You know what I'm saying? So when you can't, that's a toy to pull out, and it's the time to use. Yeah, and you said you use it on your taint. Yep. Yeah, I'll put a link to all the stuff that I'm talking about. Because, like I said, this is like an episode of infomercial for my sponsors. But no, but bladder, I'm like, oh, my God, I'm going to make it. I want to, I don't know why I want every guy to have a prostate orgasm or get into anal action

just because they don't want to. It's such a weird stigma. No, and I would have never thought I would end up with this situation. Really? See? That's why I like, yeah, that's why you're like the poster boy for every straight guy. That's why I asked me for you, like, you before. Do you like guys?

It's not about that. It's just, it's not. Yeah, I'm not against that. I mean, I'm just, I'm not attracted to it. I'm not attracted to men. I do not watch, enjoy watching any gay porn, and I've watched it. I mean, everybody's viewed stuff. It's just, it's not my thing.

You know, when I get my arousals, it's over a woman every time. Right. But a woman fucking you in the ass with a dildo is great. And that's why you're such a great poster boy for the straight guy to have prostate orgasms, to go, search that part of your body, experience it, open up to it, be okay with it. Let go of the stigma. Try it out. Put the massager on the outside first.

Get that as your first step. And then start shoving shit in there. So now that, so after that first. orgasm was like did you tell your wife about that was she there with you oh hell no i'm not i'm embarrassed about having ed i'm a man's bad last thing i want to fucking talk to her about is not my god i love that i love that you're that guy because you're more relatable than if you were so like out of the box and open and communicative which you should guys should be but most guys aren't so you're like the regular guy oh yeah she didn't she barely even know so my cover up all the

time is I've had some back cane issues. And if we had a problem doing sex and my shit's not working, I would just use that as the excuse. Oh, my back's written today. I'm really sorry. I ain't fucking tell me shit. I love that. Yeah, that's how guys are. So go on. So now you had that crazy experience. What did you do? Of course, chase it. You know what I mean? If you had something like that, you're like, what the fuck? Well, and to be honest with you, I could. I could. duplicate. Playing by myself, it was, I did the, I looked at it as doing therapy. I probably did it 20 other times.

I could never make it happen again. I simulated the same situation, got it in a perfect spot right to the edge where I feel like I'm going to have to urinate. And it just doesn't happen. And I'm, and I'm not, I'm looking for it, but I'm like, what the fuck happened? You know what I mean? And, and then a. Eventually, out of the blue, it happens again.

Once I was changing it, I couldn't make it happen. Yeah, because don't you think a little bit of that is because you get in your head about it? Maybe, I don't know. I mean, so after doing it for years, I can get into more detail of how to do it, but I just cannot figure out how to duplicate it. It's not like for my wife, if you go to a vibrator, I made it at the top of the clitor's orgasm every time in a short period of time. I couldn't, I could not make the prostate do that. I couldn't sort of massager and duplicate that every time.

It just didn't happen. The prostate is harder to have that orgasm. It really is. So I had a couple of them. So I wanted to introduce this plate of my wife. shit if I'm aroused and having the time of my life, I want to interview his anal play. Well, fuck, you know, no exact thing. Exactly. That's the big stigma.

Yeah, so here's what I end up doing. So the first time, I ended up getting a butt plug and inserted the blood plug before we start. And eventually, she notices it. And of course, like, her response is, what the fuck? You know what I mean? And that's as far as that time went. She was like, why did you do that? And I'm like, I felt good.

I thought you would like seeing it. She just, she didn't even respond. She was just like, okay. But she's pretty open. She's willing to do about anything. I think the next time we introduced a, I introduced to her like not a penis-looking massager, but a massager that is insertible, that has a base.

You definitely never want to insert anything. up there that doesn't have a base. Right. That's why you can't put the butter thing inside, right? Because there's no base. Exactly. Okay. So I introduced a massaging penis-like toy that did not look like a penis. And then I got her

using the vibrating toy exactly like what your Butterworth product does. The butter wasn't around that that time. You didn't have one. No, no. There's nothing like that. And it was more, I got them more to play with the anus and go around that area. And she's playing with it. I tell her eyes, like, hey, push it in. Of course, she freaks the fuck out.

And I'm like, no, no, no, try it, you know. And she does. I act like I really like it. And the more you show your partner, I mean, she's interested in making me happy. And she's no different to me. So if I showed I liked it, then she would do it. So that's where I started. And then each time, every other week, I would introduce something else. And this is the funniest thing. So I thought you would get kicked out of this. So at one point, I'm thinking about inserting dildos that look more like a shape like a penis. So I had dildos that I was used on her for years. And she always wished about it.

She said, oh, these are horrible. They feel like she had. They don't feel like a real cock. And I'm like, oh, let me play. I'll have my fun. Shut up. You know what I mean? And so we start with the toys that she used.

Oh, my God, they felt horrible. It wasn't enjoyable. It was painful. Right. And then you're like, oh, I should have listened to her before. You probably thought she was just complaining. Oh, exactly. They're not all made alike, and some of them are so awful.

You've got to find the right ones. It's true. Yeah, and that's what, oh, yeah, that's where when I went down that journey of insertion, you can't just use anything. I always found that premium silicone toys that are so soft. I mean, you want it as so soft that where you, it's almost soft. enough for it's not used for anal insertion. And them are the toys that you use for anal play.

Anything that you could, it's not very bendable, it's not for anal play. Yeah. I'm sorry, it's probably not good for a vaginal play either. Okay. Yeah. And that's what majority of the toys out there are. That's what I always bought. She always complained about them.

And here when I start using them, I'm like, this feels horrible. So that's a good advice. Invest in the softest, reusable toys that are out there. So when you brought the realistic one, and did you bring it into the bedroom and say, hey, this is for me not for you?

She used it. She used it. So for almost an entire year, I had to listen to. Every once, Washington was her back. Do you like guys? Have you ever played with the guy before?

I'm like, Oh, wow. You know what I'm like? He had this conversation multiple times. I'm like, no, I've always been to the girls. He's like, well, why about a sudden do you like,

handle play? I mean, Paul, I'm sorry, but this is where, like, if you weren't a guy's guy and so, like, into being a fucking guy and you didn't keep all this other shit a secret, if she knew the truth, she would have never once questioned you.

You know what I mean? Because if she knew the natural progression and that you had these issues and that's how you got there, she would have never once questioned your sexuality. But because you fucking lied, you'd have to deal with it. That's why lying always sucks.

This is a lot of work. More lies. And now she's asking, questioning you because it did come out of nowhere, right? Like I said, if she heard this progression like everyone else's hearing, it makes sense, but she didn't. So of course she's going to be like,

what the fuck is this? She's married to you for so long. All of a sudden you're into anal action. That's going to make any woman's intuition be like, what the fuck's going on here? Right? I mean, come on. Oh, definitely. And I mean, I think

I realistic would probably have to go through that for two years. I mean, the other questions would come up all the time. Hey, are you sure you never played with the guy before? Especially as the toys, you know, progression of the toys get more realistic. More real-looking. Oh, my God, hilarious.

So, and this is even funny. So we're both concerned with each other of, are you enjoying this or are you having fun? Okay. And we slowly introduce pagan. And, okay, prostate massage feels good. It's great. It's the miracle, the orgasm, if you can get it to happen.

But once you go into all-out peggy, I'm talking, you know, I understand why gay men are gay men. I'm not kidding. And I'm not going to like it yet. A couple times I was sitting there wondered, fuck, am I gay? Would I rather be with a guy? I'd fucking distance. That's great. Yeah, yeah.

It's hilarious. I love it. Yeah, then I sit back and I'm like, no, I'm sorry. I'm not tracking it. So it's incredible. Once you get to where we're comfortable with the insertion

and you have a toy that and it doesn't have to go in very deep, the prostate's not in very far. And once you have the head of the dildo rubbing on the prostate, it is literally the constant feeling of an orgasm the whole time if it's hitting the right spot.

And it's like the last five seconds before you come the whole time. So it's, and I didn't find that at the beginning. This was just slow progressions. Let's do a massager. Let's play with this toy. So let me go back to her. So I'm asking her at the beginning. And I'm like, do you enjoy this?

And I'm like, and she'd be like, I'm doing it for you. And I'm like, well, fuck. I mean, I want her to enjoy it. And she's, we do more. And she's a sport. She just, you get into it. And if I sounded like I enjoyed it, she would do it. But I'm sitting there thinking, I wonder what's on her face.

Is she going, oh, this is, I'm not enjoying this. And that really, in the back of my mind, ruins it for you. I kind of hated it. You're, I'm having. I'm chasing this incredible insane orgasm. And then back of my mind, I'm like, fuck. She's sitting there thinking, I was like, gay. She's sitting there not enjoying it.

I'm like, so it fuck you out. Yeah. So at this point, you've been going on for a while. And I tell you, the turning point for her. And I understand this, because I've told you about having a big enough penis that it's empowering to have somebody run from you, have somebody like, oh my god i can't take it even though they really can but you know what i'm saying yeah so at one point the harnesses you use the toys you use are sometimes difficult to put on and so they got multiple

straps shit like that so here we're doing a session we're playing around she's oh you want me to do it i'm like oh yeah and she's struggling to put this harness on and if you screw around too long of course you're going to run the move so i go to help her to put this harness on. And I'm putting it on. She's looking at me. Here I'm naked on the floor trying to clip this harness on. And she's looking at me and she starts playing with her

dildo just like if she had a real cock. And that time she's looking at me and I'm like, okay, what are you doing? She starts just like what a guy would do. She started to hit me in my face with her dildo. And I'm like, what the fuck? Okay.

And she just had this like empowering look on her face. Okay, I'm fucking in charge. And I get his harness on and I'm sitting there and she's, we're big dirty talkers. I mean insane. And she's saying, she's like my fucking cock. And of course, I got to play along. So this is the first time this happens. So she grabs the back of my head just like I would do her and shoves the deal on out of my mouth. And I'm like, okay. This is not really doing shit for me. But I know that I know that she wants it. You know what I mean? And she's a little. literally like trying to choke me with it.

Hilarious. Like I would be doing with her. This is payback. You know what I mean? And I'm like, oh, my God, fuck, you know? So I go along, you know? And I'm like, she's just literally both hands from the back of my head trying to shove this gildook on my throat. And this don't go on very long, but this is the beginning of the session.

So she's, she puts me up and she's pegging the shit out of me. It's a long session. We're going. And the whole time, for me, it's like being on the edge of coming the whole time. Insane feeling. Great. I'm loving it. She's going as hard as she can.

She makes me put harnesses on so she can hold on to me so I can't run away from her. And at this point, I'm like just about ready to come. And she fucking stops. And I'm like, what are you doing? I look back. She's having an orgasm. Wow. Oh my gosh

She's just sitting there She's like, shut the fuck up on combat You know So after that Yeah after after that She fucking Walks up to me

Just how I would Her Thrabs my ass And goes Hey You want to play So It's hilarious

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One minute, here I'm the one, being the dominant one, and then she goes from the submissive for her whole life to where now she's the doming one and loving it. Yeah, I love that, and I love that. It didn't just click in. It wasn't like she was a natural dom. She wasn't into it at all for a while, but eventually, at some point, she clicked into it and what she did, she was down.

And so that just goes to show that if you really communicate your needs, remain open, keep trying, different things. You never know what you'll wind up being into. Oh, yeah. And there's another situation with the anal play that we can talk about. We get to the point where you're using a sex toy to constantly pound on the prostate, and that's where it is. I mean, that's where the organes are.

But this is another, like, side note, as we bought more toys, you order them, you don't realize what you order. Most of the sex toys I use, they're not huge. They're not outrageous for size. But, you know, you order one. once in a while, oh, fuck, this one's pretty thick. And which led to, she sees this thicker dildo. She's like, fuck, I'm going to fuck him in the ass with this, you know.

And let's fucking try this one. So, you know, this one two I ordered, I mean, it's not huge, but it's pretty thick around. Even my penis size, I've got a thick penis, and this thing's substantially bigger. So we're playing with this, and the thing's not very long. It's probably a little length of about four inch, maybe five inch penis. And just from the insertion, I end up having an orgasm. Because from the huge insertion? From the stretching.

Yeah. So it's just, you know, you have multiple different ways of anal play from massaging the prostate, from just the insertion of stretching the opening. I end up having an orgasm. Right. So she's not even pounding you is what you're saying. I mean, it's just from just the stretching of it, that feeling. Just trying to get something that it wasn't big enough to where it didn't hurt.

I mean, it hurt a little. You're stretching past your limits. But just the feeling of, you know, right to your limits. Next thing, you know, we're not, we hadn't even got into pagan yet. This is just inserting it a few times. And I have an orgasm. And we're, but once I'm having it. I have an orgasm, I'm done, we're done.

And she's, what the fuck? Get over here, get back here. And quick question, and I'm assuming that when you say I have an orgasm, these are prostate orgasms, you're not jerking yourself off when she's doing that, correct? It's like hands-free orgasms, right? That's what you're having, right? And I'm not even a wreck. Wow.

That was another issue with her, is here she's pegging me for a long period of time. And I don't have a hard penis. And she's like, you're not enjoying them. And that's over the years One of the things that I had to explain to her Is I'm like, I don't need a hard penis It feels Don't play with it

I want to have a hands-free orgasm If you're getting pegged and you add a hand job to it Fuck, you're coming right away But let me ask you this if you're not erect And you have that orgasm Is there semen involved with that? Oh yeah Exactly

comes out of a soft penis? Yes. Interesting. Now, I wouldn't say I'm like, not like soft. I would say I'm like, semi-relect. You're naked. You have your clothes out. You're 30% of wreck.

How's that? Okay. Okay. Yeah. Paint the picture. You're ready to go with a little stimulation. You're ready to be aroused in no time. It's not like a walk around.

I've been soft after that. Right. It's not like a mushy. It's not like it to totally about to go to sleep, done for the day. It is like kind of half mass maybe. Yeah. Okay. Okay.

But you definitely come, but you come from it, and there's no hands included at all. No, I'm talking about like six, seven constant pulsations of come. And that's, that didn't happen just from the feeling of stretching. And I never experienced that before either. And then here's the other thing is that we know. always talk about pre-cum. Guys or girls on shows, oh, you pre-cum in my mouth.

I never had pre-cum. I masturbated my entire life. Everything. And I never had any leakage. Nothing come out. And so when you are getting paid and you are getting your prostate hit over and over with a sex toy, I noticed it one day

you can constantly be leaking cum I will look down and there'll be a stream of cum coming out of my pick all the way to the floor and I haven't even had an orgasm wow and that's every time that's like a no it's not every time but it's a lot of the time

it is a lot of time right that's interesting yeah and I'm and I've I already have enough pre-cum to come out where I thought I already had an orgasm. I'm like, I mean, you have a nice dream hanging out the end of your day. And I'm like, what the fuck?

And then go like another half and a half, 15 minutes or whatever, and finally have the real orgasm and still have enough to cover her chest and show off to her like, you just have the best time of your life. Yeah, that's amazing. A quick question about your wife. Is she a three-in-put girl? Has she ever had any kind of interest in animal play? Yes, but that's.

That's a hilarious story. So she's had over the years, it's a birthday thing. You know what I mean? Yeah, a lot of the girls. And she's always, oh, I don't like it. But every time I've had a soaked bed towards almost, I've never been over at her back her sport. She's just, I've just never been able to happen. But she will definitely soak the sheets.

So anytime that she's ever left anything completely soaked, it was with two inputs. it was with my dick and a small, real tiny ditto, or to me, we've had sex over the years. Every time the biggest orgasms has always been a two-input deal. And then every time it happens, I'm like, you just have the biggest orgasm, you're like, oh, it's all great. But I don't like anil. So I'll see you next year on your birthday. Oh, my God, that's so funny. She's never to this day knows about the backstory on how you got here, right?

She doesn't know you had E.D. at some point. She doesn't know you tried Viagra. She doesn't know any of that stuff, right? I mean, you never told her. Well, she doesn't know the majority of the backstory. If I ever listen to this, she'll have the whole story. But she knows about the Viagra, and she knows about it. And eventually she noticed, I mean, she definitely knows the difference in penis size.

I mean, she looked for that, oh, fuck me hard type of deal. And I'll throw numbers at it. Like, my best measurement, full-wrecked, was probably about seven and a half inches. And when it wasn't working properly, it would go all the way down to probably six inches. Wow, that's a lot to lose. It's a huge. It's really psychological. Yeah.

Had you gained weight? Was it weight gain two? Or was it just strictly not being able to pump enough blood to get you to max position? Yeah, I wasn't in the best shape. I mean, I was probably, I did a lot of stuff that I should have never did. I mean, I body told in my 20s. I took things that were good enough. I did recreational things that I probably shouldn't have.

So all the things probably affected. I caught up with you. Yeah. Yeah. So I never did get the answer, but I do know that you can reverse things. Yeah, that's amazing. Yeah, I mean, you can bring it back. And I do know, life gets a hold of you.

we're having a crappy year this year. We're not having the insane sex year. We had a lot of things. Life comes up. And I'm falling back off. I'm not on my vitamins. I'm not working out as like I used to the previous year. Last year, my body fat was great. This year, I'm probably 15 pounds overweight. I used to eat three cheeseburgers, and I eat a half a cheeseburger, and I felt like I had five. No, it's so fucked up. What happens as you earlier? But that's what I love about your story because I just feel like it's inspirational. You did the work because you are like I said like me like you're a problem

solver. You went and really research and look for all those answers. A lot of people aren't like that. I do that too so I'm always helping others by giving them information because I'm like don't worry I got it. I love researching and figuring things out and finding solutions. Most people don't roll that way and you're that way you did all the work for so many guys out there because so many guys are just not wired that way. A lot of people don't like to Google. They don't, they're not problem solvers. They don't want to look up stuff. But you did all that work. You're here to say, this is what you got to do. And it will work.

And it did work for you. I mean, you, like you said, reversed your ED. You reversed all those issues you were having. And you went past your anal stigma, got your wife past it to. In a very realistic story we got here. Okay, she questioned you for two years. Okay. She was like, what the fuck, but you didn't stop and you continued on and now she's like totally into it and you're living your best life. Yeah, maybe not this year, but eventually you will get back to it. You know, I mean, it's like such an inspirational story, I think, for so many guys. Oh, yeah. I never thought anything like this was going to happen. I mean, I obviously did feel like there was hope because you went looking. You were like not ready to accept the fact that,

oh, I'm just old. There's nothing I could do. I'm never going to get back. back to where I was when I was younger, so let's just call it a day. Like, it is what it is. And that's what I think a lot of people do. You were like, no, I want to get back to that. I'm going to do everything I can to try. So there was some part of you that believed it was possible. Yeah, I mean, I tried. I mean, with having a partner that I really wanted to be with, I really enjoyed my sex with, I was fighting for as hard as I could to maintain that. Yeah, well, that's great. Lucky her. I think that's great. And I feel like it sounds like she does the same for you. You know, I mean, here was a woman who, uh, didn't understand why you wanted to

shove things in your ass and didn't really enjoy it that much in the beginning, but she did it for you. Like you said, she's down for everything. She's always open. So it sounds like you guys are both super cool with each other and have a great relationship. And that's really inspirational too, because a lot of people get far away from that with their partners at this age when you're mid-50s after you've been with someone for a really long time. What happens? But not to you guys. You know, I think that that's great. And I love, like I said that, you're like, somewhere in the title, I need to put Guys, Guy, Paul is now into pegging and prostate orgasms.

Or like, really straight fucking Paul is into pegging and prostate organs. Because I love that. You are a guy that never would have ever thought of putting things up your ass. You're totally not into guys. And now you're realizing. What I think every guy should realize, what I'm always pushing for guys to realize, is that there is a whole untouched area. of your body that could add to years of stimulation and things that you never experienced before.

So how do they use the butter thing? Because you can't put it inside. You say start off with that, right, and just have your partner push it in really hard because that right underneath your taint is your prostate, correct? Yeah, and I think it would work well for ED issues at the beginning. I mean, it's a great toy that you don't have to insert it. You just place it. I mean, obviously, the harder you press it against your skin, the more vibrations are going to feel inside and by moving it around, you'll eventually find that prostate spot. You can't pinpoint it. It's not like a, oh, it's a top of a click. You have to move it around. You have to play. And how do you know when you reached it? What's the feeling?

To me, it was the feeling of urinating. Okay, that's good to know. Because I think people think, oh, they're going to feel a feeling of pleasure. No, you're saying at first the feeling is like, oh, I got to pee. Yeah, it's not a pleasurable feeling. Once you move into page, you know, that's a whole different story. Right. So that's where you go next. But to get used to your massage and start activating it,

it does help with ED issues and everything. But to get to know it and start activating it, figure out where it is, you got to get to the place where you could go looking for it. You could use the butter toy, right, from the outside. Don't want to push it in, move it around. Once you feel that feeling, you got to pee, you're in the right spot.

And then when you do find that right spot, even though you feel like you have to pee, what do you do? You just keep pressing? Like you just keep going there? Just hold it there. Do nothing. Don't move it. Just let their have the feeling.

And the disappointing part of it is, at least for me, I mean, I'm sure everybody is different, is to find that prostate orgasm just by that vibration. It's a difficult thing to happen. You got to keep it out of it. It's work. I mean, you didn't stop. You kept going. Yeah, I mean, I had a purpose. And then once I found it, I chased it.

Yeah, yeah, because it was like the greatest thing ever. Yeah, so listen, I'm going to put the link to the butter wellness prostate massager down below because that toy is a great gateway into becoming just like Paul. I think this is such a great episode. I love your story. It's super interesting. And it's going to help my cause, which is to get guys into anal action. I don't know why I have that cause, but it is something I stand for.

Sounds great, Kathy. I really do want to say I love your show. It's incredible. Thank you, Paul. I'm so glad. So you were just always listening for other things and then you just realized like, oh, maybe I should come on and tell my story. Yeah, I mean, I never hear anybody talk about it. I mean, I didn't want to talk about it. I would never let anybody know who I am. It just sounded so perfect. I thought, that'd be a good topic. Yeah, I love it. It's so great. And don't worry, no one's going to know who you are because I'm going to completely change your voice. We completely changed your name. Okay. So you're still going to remain anonymous. But thanks so much for calling in and sharing. your story. I think it's great. Thank you very much.

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