Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 718 - Julien's Wife has Been Sleeping with his BF for Years and he Set it All Up

Episode Date: November 15, 2023

Julien’s wife has been sleeping with his best friend for many years and he set it all up and his called in tot talk all about it. When did he decide he wanted to see his wife with someone else? How did he set her up with his best friend? And what goes down between the three of them when they hook up? Tune in to hear all the details including how his wife told him about the mfm threesome she had before they met and how it made him feel, how he asked her for threesome with another female and how she reacted, how an why he then decided to try to set up a threesome with a guy, how his wife and his distant cousin kind of hooked up and how it made him feel, the girl they met girl at club and what his wife did with her the first time they met, the foursome they had with her and his best friend the second time they met, how he set up a hook up between his wife and hi9s b east friend for her birthday, how and why he loves recording all their sessions and how and why each time they hook up is hotter to him than the last time, than the next, the issues they were having before they opened up their marriage and how and why he believes opening it up helped them, how and why it made his wife less jealous, how his wife and his best friend sext every night and how and why he loves that they do plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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So sign up now to get locked in at $5. It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The link and the phone number and the email to call into the show, all of that shit that I just gave you or talked to you about is in the description. Now, today I have on Julian. Now, Julian's not sending in picks of his wife because I don't post picks of anyone unless they know, right? His wife has no idea that he's calling in and sharing her story. Julian is a fake name, but he has a real story. And his story is that he got his girl, his, he calls her old-fashioned girlfriend, who is now his wife, into having sex with his friend. And she's been having sex with his. And she's been having sex with

best friend for the past four years. He talks about how that came to be. It started a long time ago when she admitted that she had had a threesome with two guys, like a one-off thing. And he was like, what the fuck? And he was like super competitive. And he decided, I want to have a threesome too. And he was trying to hook her up with a girl. And then she had a little thing with a girl. It didn't really go anywhere. But then he started talking about her hooking up with guys. They tried to hook her up with this one guy. It didn't work out. But eventually, she did have a one-night thing with his best friend and a girl.

And he sat back and watched and they all hooked up. And he was really into her being with another guy. He always thought the female-female threesome is what he was looking for. But when he saw her with the guy, he was like, uh-uh, that's what I want. So fast forward. It's his girl's birthday one day. They're married. He decides to bring that guy over, the friend who she had already been with, and offer him up again so that she could hook up with them.

And they've been hooking up ever since. Four years of her sleeping with his best friend and only his best friend. They're not like lifestyle people. They're not on any apps. They're not looking for anyone else. That guy does have a girlfriend who has no clue. okay, about what he's doing. This is a very private thing.

There's no only fans or anything going on. He does, though, love to tape. He has hundreds, he said videos, have videos of her screwing the friend. He does get involved, but there's no crossing of swords or cleaning up or anything like that. He's not into any kind of guy-on-guy experience.

What this is about for him is seeing his girl have pleasure. What's interesting about this episode to me is the fact that he's really here to say that this really helped his marriage. I was like there's no way you should get into this if you have trouble going in. I'm like, it worked for you because you were solid. He was like, no, we actually weren't really that solid and it really changed the game. And that's what he's here to say. That they like used to fight a lot.

They had a lot of issues, a lot of trust issues and opening up their relationship in this specific way, which is just with that one friend and that's it has really changed their relationship. They never fight. They're better for it. They're reclaiming sex is off the charts. He's still totally into it. He loves nothing more than watching those videos that he has. And she loves it as well. She's totally into it.

They're both super happy. And he said she would also say that this really helped their relationship. So that's an interesting part of this episode and his story. The whole thing, though, is, of course, interesting. So anyway, I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Julian. Hi, Julian. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Well, thank you so much for having me. Thank you for coming on, Julian. You're Julian in quotes, not really your name.

There's a couple players in this story. It's you, your wife, and your best friend. Okay, we're going to call, and you wanted to call your best friend Jay. We'll probably just call them your best friend. But basically the short story is that you have a girl. Is it your wife, right? Your wife or your girlfriend? My wife. Your wife. You have a wife and you have been sharing her with your best friend. It's like a little secret thing you have going on because your best friend is with a girl or he has a girlfriend, right? Not a wife, but he has a girlfriend. And that girlfriend doesn't know that on the side, for years, he has been hooking up with you and your wife. Correct?

Well, just my wife, yes. Okay, not you, but I mean you're there or something, right? We'll get all the details from you. Okay, cool. All right, Julian, so let's get a little backroom. You sound super young. How old are you and your wife now? We are in our 40s. Okay, so you're in your 40s. You're not really that young, but you're younger than me. Okay, so 40s is way younger than 50s, you'll see. That's good. Enjoy it while it lasts, okay? So you're in your 40s. How long have you guys been married for? Been married for 14 years now. 14 years. Okay. And so what's your deal? Like, when did you, start sharing your wife and how did that all come to big? Well, it all started when when we were still dating 14 years ago. I always felt like before I met her, I felt like I had experienced everything.

I never really knew anything about being a vanilla or anything like that. But I dated a lot of women and slept with a lot of women. So I felt like I was very experienced. And then I met my wife, well, my girlfriend at the time. And then she started telling me about her experiences that made me feel a little uneasy because I've always been a competitive person. And so she shared with me that she's had a threesome before with two males. And for some strange reason, I couldn't get a. over that and my competitiveness wanted me to have two girls while with her so I said you know what

I gotta have a girl also along with I mean with my wife because you're like sitting here thinking you're like the fucking player right you've been there done that in comes this girl who's like more of a player than you yeah yeah how it felt and I couldn't accept that notion so anyway we I know it's not going to be ideal, especially she's, I believe it or not, she's actually the old passion type very much into just one person. But there was a time where she had a threesome with her boyfriend and his best friend. And that was the only time that she's had any experience like that. So it was a one time thing. I mean, didn't you have a million questions or am I the only one that asks a million questions when someone tells me something?

I mean, like, here she is. You're trying to say she's like really old fashioned, but yet she had a time where she fucked her boyfriend's best friend. I mean, did you ask a lot of questions about that scenario? Do you know how that happened? Yes. Well, her story is that her boyfriend then was in another country. And so she visited him one time and they met at a hotel.

They spent a whole week in a hotel. And one time her, the boyfriend's best friend came to visit also and they had a few drinks and then the boyfriend offered her to his best friend and they all just started kissing each other and then one thing led to another they switched they had her one at a time so it wasn't together but one after another if that makes sense I guess so and it was a one time thing it was a one time thing Yes. Right.

So she told you you were a little competitive. Did it make you jealous? Didn't make you turned on or none of the above just like you wanted to now have a threesome? At that time, I think I was just feeling jealous. Very competitive. This cannot be. And all your playing experience, you had never had anything like that. You had never done a threesome or anything.

I had an opportunity before in the past I had a girl and her girlfriend that wanted me. But I only wanted that one girl. so I asked the other girl if she can just wait outside of the room. But I had an opportunity. I just didn't take it. Right. Now looking back, you're like,

oh, I could have fucked both of them. Exactly. I was too young. I was naive and stupid. Yeah, okay. So she tells you about that guy.

Do you say to her right then and there? Hey, listen, I want to now have a threesome and let's go find a girl. I mean, where does this threesome with another woman? What happens with that? So I talked to her about.

about it, I said, is there any chance I can have a girl with you? And she said, absolutely no, that's not something I want to do or interested in doing. And so at that time, I started reading blogs. I really made it my mission to see if there's any way possible way I can make this happen. But, you know, time goes on a year or two went by and we got married and it, it look bleak. So I'm like, this is never going to happen. But I kept reading on some topics about it. And then one of the blogs I read was it's very much possible if you make it about her first. And ideally, if you have a guy, if you share her with another man, it gets easier.

I believe it or not, it can potentially be done where you can flip it around and make it a three-sumption. with two girls, but it has to start with her first. I read that. I just don't remember where, but I always kept that in my head. And so I kept planting the seed, like, hey, how do you feel about sharing you with another guy? I just have this fantasy where I think it would be hot. And she bought into it, but not right away. I had to slowly plant that seed in.

So I have this distant cousin who has a very hot wife. And I was just wondering if it may be possible that this can be an opportunity for me to have two girls. But at the same time, have her have two guys too somehow. Anyway, so I founded him to see if he's interested in swapping wise. And he was all for it. But he doesn't think that his wife would go for it. So one time my wife and that guy met up at a club. And that's when I asked him if there's any way you can just flirt with her and see where it goes

and see if she gets flirty with you back. And lo and behold, it worked. And I asked that distant cousin, if he can possibly start touching her at her leg and see if she reacts. react and she reacted fairly welcoming and so when I got back from the restroom my wife started asking me you okay where did you go and and she started squeezing my hand signaling me that something happened and I said it's okay and I right then and there I confessed to her that I wanted to share her with him And so we got in the car and started making out with her taking turns.

But then at some point, I said, no, I can't go through with this. This is not right. So I stopped it. How come? But I was feeling jealous. I was feeling very uneasy, nervous. And I know it's unethical. So I just stopped it.

But at the same time, there was this feeling of excitement that I couldn't explain. And I wanted later, I wanted to explore that some more because I was so turned on. I've never seen my wife in action outside from me and her, like from a third person point of view. So that felt really, really exciting to me. So years went by, I kept planting the seed to her like, look, whatever happened then really, really turned me on. Is there any way we can either find a couple to swap with or maybe another male? And she said, yeah, let's do it.

So I got her to buy into it. So one time when we met a girl first, they started kissing in a club. And she said, would you be interested in making out with me and my husband? and she said yes. And we became best friends. But I wasn't feeling this girl very much because she's not my type. I didn't think she's that attractive.

So at first, it was just going to be a threesome with me. But at the very last minute, I called my best friend to join us. And he met up with us. And then we were making out and we were taking turns. But then I stepped away. and started watching the three of them go at it. And at that point, that's where it changed my point of view from wanting a girl to just wanting to see my wife get fucked by another person, another guy.

But you were still, you saw her with the girl, right? I mean, she was hooking up with a girl in that scenario. She's looking up both the guy and the girl, but you realize at that point that you actually are more into her hooking up with the guy. Yes, because of all the action that was going on. the girl to me wasn't all that so I didn't want to interact anymore I wasn't that turned on but when I'm watching my wife getting pleasured it's just an unexplainable thing I kept wanting more so but she went fully into the girl though too I mean I thought she she had never this was her first time with a girl was she into it she was but they were just mainly kissing nothing okay oh okay so really there was that she wasn't really hooking up with a girl she was just making out with her. Correct. Okay.

Did the other girl fuck your friend, the guy? Yes. They ended up fucking each other too, but my friend wanted my wife more. So the girl and I just sat on the sidelines primarily just watched them go at it. Right. And so that went on and then it stopped for a while. I'd say we took a year break from that until one time we, we were in town where my best friend lived and happened to be my wife's birthday.

And we got a room. And I invited my friend over and I said, hey, I want you to give my wife a present. Yeah, but how do you wind up bringing that up to your best friend? Like, hey, you want to fuck my wife? Like, I mean, do you talk about it before? You just invite him over to the hotel and springing on him when he gets there. How does that conversation go? Well, my best friend and I,

would always just go back to the first time we, you know, we switch with those girls, well, my wife and the girl. And he would always- Oh, that was the same friend with that girl back in the day. So he had already fucked your wife. I'm thinking this is a new friend. This is the same friend that was that day. That's the same one that you saw fuck your wife the first time. Okay, sorry. I was confused. Yeah. So, yeah, he would always say how hot she is and he wants to have another go at her. And so I just made it happen. And since then, I probably have a collection of maybe a hundred videos. Oh my God. But always with the same guy, right? Always with the same guy. Yeah. But each time is harder than the next. How come? I don't know. Well, I guess I would make them do

different positions. I would say go slower this time. this time show more, more kissing year and there or show her pussy more, those things. I would be like a director to a movie. Yeah, it's like you're creating your own porn. Exactly. So if you want to take it further every time you can because you're the one in control, right? You're sort of creating these videos. Does she like watching them too?

Oh yeah. We watch it together and we fuck like rabbits almost every night with it. Can I just ask you though, and I'm going to get back to all the sex you're having with your friend. But is she good friends with this friend's girlfriend? I mean, are you guys hanging around each other outside of the bedroom? Not at all. They know about each other, but they don't know that this is happening. She doesn't know that this is happening.

No, I know she doesn't know what's happening. But are there ever times when you guys are just socially at the same place? And, you know, she's friends with the girl. And that girl has no idea. She's fucking her boyfriend. We've had dinners a couple of times before because we have the same circle of friends, but she doesn't have an idea. Right. Now, do you guys, like, you know, after the first time, ever wind up having any kind of discussion about having any rules or regulations or is everything on the table? So both my wife and I had besectomies? Is there a female term for besectomy?

Yeah. I think it's tying the two. tying her toes. Yeah. That's yeah. So I allow her to do anything she wants. So you're not using condoms. And do you like, do you know if he's screwing other people or he's monogamous in his relationship with that girl? He's very much monogamous with that girl. With that girl with the exception of my wife. Oh my God. Wait a second. Wait a second. Do you want like, do you put those videos on OnlyFans or anything like that or is it just no private conversation? Right. Right. Right. Right. It's just private. Right. You're right. And I know, because I asked you before we got on the call, like your wife has no idea you're sharing this story, right? So we won't have pictures of your wife or anything like that.

You don't share this content. I mean, this is really something that you guys are just doing for fun, very private on the DL. No one else knows about this, I'm assuming, right? Except you, your wife, your friend, and all of my listeners. Yes. And that's the part that kills me sometimes that no one knows because I can't talk to anything. And you love it. Like you want to brag about it? Is that how it feels? No, I don't want to brag about it, but it is definitely, if I could recommend it to any, any couple that's struggling with their relationships, opening it up like this sometimes, I think can help it tremendously. It's hard to explain it, but I've never, never loved my wife even more so than I have since then. And we communicate. well. Like I said, we fuck like rabbits every night and, well, almost every night. And I don't know,

it's just a feeling that I never thought I'd be in if this didn't happen. Yeah, it's interesting. I mean, that's a bold statement. And it's a statement I think that most guys who are not in this kind of relationship or who have never experienced it might be like no fucking way. Like, I can't believe that. They could never imagine. But maybe you even would say before you were involved in this relationship, you would feel the same way. I think it's really hard to know or to believe that sharing the woman that you love with somebody else and watching her and pure ecstasy with someone other than you could not only be a fucking turn on, but help a relationship. People just think the opposite. Oh, yeah.

And it's John is so close that we don't want to do anything apart from each other other than I allow her to go to a hotel with my friend and then come home the same night. Fuck you. Yeah. Reclay. Yeah. Reclaiming. Yeah. She has a few times.

Yes. She does. So you allow her to go solo with him sometimes. Yes. And you like that. It's not really allowing. It's like you set that up. Yes.

Correct. And how many years have you been, guys been doing this kind of a range? Four years now. Four years? Yes. And you have hundred, and you videotape it every time.

Now, are you ever getting involved? I like to capture everything on video, so I'm usually just behind the camera. Yeah. Now, is it always like sort of hit it and quit it? Do you feel like he's,

your wife has a relationship with him outside of the sex? I mean, when I say I allow them, I mean, I'm not controlling. I'm confident enough with our relationship. And so if they sex each other, it doesn't bother me at all. Right. Because you feel like you guys are emotionally invested in each other. And that's what you guys share together. It's not like you want her to have feelings for him or this is a polyamorous thing or anything like that.

Not at all. Right. But the solo thing is cool with you because, A, this is your best friend, right? And be you feel like so close with your wife that you completely trust her. Because listen, I've seen these kinds of situations go wrong. But typically they go wrong when things are amiss in the relationship to begin with, right? Sometimes someone does fall in love with someone and leaves. But typically it's when the relationship was in disarray before.

And that's why I think like your statement early on might not be the best statement sometimes for everybody. you guys that might have worked because you might have been on solid ground to begin with when you opened up. But like you had said, oh, I really recommend this for people if they're having problems. It brings you closer. I don't necessarily believe that's always true. I think sometimes if you go in and with a broken foundation to begin with, this can open the window of opportunity for somebody to find somebody else sometimes. I don't know that it's always the best thing for that couple. But I think It can work for couples who are very solid and then it could bring you closer. I mean, you didn't go into this with issues or problems, right?

Well, we did argue a lot more before. We did. Honestly, we had some problems. Actually, we had some major fights. Really? Ever since this relationship, yes. It's like I can count how many times we fought in a year, probably two. And it's not even a fight.

It's just more like a miscarriage. understanding. But what do you mean? So you're saying before this setup, you guys, though, used to fight all the time. About little things because she can be very jealous. But since then, since this situation came up, all that just went out the window. We just started trusting each other more. We love each other more. And we communicate better than before. I honestly think this changed And we both believe this, that this situation really improved our relationship at the highest degree. This is why I could talk to a million people in the same kind of situation and each time

get a different story, a different message, a different lesson. But you're here to say that my whole statement just now is totally incorrect in your life experience, which is interesting to me because I like to have all different kinds of stories, just when I think that, oh, if you go into something with a broken kind of relationship, it's less likely to work. You did go in broken. You guys did have a lot of issues and those fell by the wayside from opening it up. So you're proving me wrong, which is interesting. Yeah, 100%. Yeah, that's weird. So, well, not weird, but, you know, I think it's great to show all sides of things and when all kinds of stories, because if it happened for you guys, then that means that

could be true for somebody else. I mean, when you say she was like super jealous, I mean, you're married to her. What was she jealous about? Did she not trust you? Yes. Before she met me, I had a lot of female friends and I just had a lot of female friends hitting me up. And so she was very jealous of that. And since this situation came up, she told me that it doesn't bother anymore. And even when I watch porn today, I would start with whatever's online. But at the end, I'll just go back to watching one of her videos because that's what really gets me and excited. And I tell her that. More than anything.

And she sees it in action. So that made her trust you more and because she sees how into her you are. Like she knows she's fulfilling you 1,000% that you would have no need to go anywhere else. No, because she's the one I really want to be with. Now, let me ask you this. Were you someone to not be trusted? I mean, were you the type of guy that would consider cheating on your girl? I mean, is that?

No. Okay. No, not really. No. Okay. So you never cheated. You never had cheated on her. But she was just, listen, I think a lot of women can feel jealousy because there's

like a lot of women walking around and sometimes guys, even if they're not the type to cheat, they turn their head. A shiny object walks by and their eyes go. And girls feel insecure about that a lot for no other reason. Then it's like a thing that's put on them. They're in competition with other women at all time for no reason. It doesn't matter that you're not a cheater. She could still feel a little distrust just because girls see where their guy's eyes go. But now, because you have this thing going down, are you still ever trying for that female, female, male thing? Or is it, I think you said before that, you don't even care about that now because you realize you like this the best? She's very much open to it still with me because she knows

it's still something I want to do, but it's not a priority. I'd much rather see her in action, to be honest that that's to me that's what gets me off but it's it's hard to find that that girl anyway so for now that this is really something that I'm content with right and now do you guys ever think about finding other guys or are you just happy with this one guy we we love our setup right now because we we know we're all safe so we we thought about it but it's not something that we want to open up to but this right now we're just content with how it's set up and we don't want to mess it up like it really works but you're not looking to be like professionals with other people it really is just this specific dynamic that works for you guys does he ever like talk about

bringing his girl in i mean do you know anything about his relationship with his girl his girl is much older older than all three of us to be honest and is far from my type and so i would never never ever bring her in oh my god you're a little picky look you didn't like there's been so many women there's been so many would you maybe i don't know there's been so many women in this story that you're not into the girl at the club that she made out with another girl at the threesome You didn't fucking, and now this guy's girl. I mean, do you like girls? I told my wife, it has to be someone close to that look closely to you.

Right. I mean, how hot is your wife? Honestly, I think she's nine and a half, ten. That's hot. If you're really talking real stats. I mean, if she's a nine and a half or a ten, is she a nine and a half and a ten to anyone or just to you? To me. But a lot of guys.

Check her out. Right. She's super hot. Right. And like your friend's girl, what's not hot about her? They're like a five. Well, what about your friend? What is he?

My best friend? Yeah, the guy you're, she's banging. Looks like me, but skinnier. So I'd say he's like seven, I guess. Okay. Does he have a big dick? Does he have a bigger dick than you? Does that matter to you?

No, we're both. I think we're equal. You're equal. Is there ever any kind of like crossing of swords? No, not at all. Not at all? It's just no. So your friend who's a seven, what does he just have this kink for older women?

Like why did he go for an older five if he's like in his 30s? I've always asked him that he, I guess, yeah, he just, he's content with his situation. He doesn't want to get married, but so he likes his dynamic right now, and he's content with that. Oh, okay, right. He's at that age where a lot of girls, if he was dating in his age range,

they'd want to get married, and because she's older, has she been there, done that? Is she like a divorce woman? Right, right. Well, listen, girls, I mean, she got a hotter guy. Typically, girls get uglier guys than them.

I mean, you got a nine and a half, ten. What are you? You're a seven, but you trade it up. I think I was seven or six and a half I went to a I mean it's very rare that people rate themselves really high I just had one guy that was like oh I'm like a fucking 12 I was like finally somebody that thinks very highly

of themselves but most people always I think don't intend to give themselves such high mark so you're like a seven but you got yourself a 10 yes yeah listen I think a lot of times I'm blessed yeah I think a lot of times girls go for someone less than it's interesting that the five met the ten but maybe I don't know you sound really picky when it comes to girls I wonder if like most people consider these other women that you weren't into

maybe other guys would find them more attractive than you you just sound picky I'm just very picky picky I've always been so when it comes to girls you mean as far as who you're attracted to correct really and yeah I hate to say but sometimes I can be vain any little things that I don't like would turn me off. Yeah, that's interesting. I don't mean to be, but that's just, it's been for me. Right. Yeah, I know guys like that.

I always wonder if those guys are like, maybe have a little bit of more bisexual tendencies and maybe they're into guys. Have you ever thought that there is a part of you that is into guys? Not at all. Even though you're not hooking up with him. You are watching him, fuck your wife.

Not at all, right? When I watch the videos, I solely focus on my wife. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't even, I just want, I see her in action. That's all I ever see. I am that. So that's what gets me. Yeah.

No, I mean, listen, I think people explain it and it sounds like the same thing for you, especially because you're making the videos. It really is porn. I mean, most guys say what they really get out of these experiences and the watching. Like you said, it's not about the guy. They're not watching the guy. it's about seeing their wife as like their own porn star but and that's your girl that's right it's not it's like a porn star that you get to be with not only can you watch her she's yours exactly right and how does

she feel about it if i was talking to her would she say yes it's helped our relationship yes it's helped our sex life what do what does she think about the whole situation she would say exactly the same thing. It helped our relationship, improved it, our trust, our communication. And if we could do it over again, we'd do it again. Right. And does she ever have a desire for any kind of variety? Or she's like you. She feels very happy with this one guy. Right. She's happy with this situation. And she doesn't need it. and she's told me that several times, but I'll tell her,

I told her that it's more from me, I need it. I want it. Well, listen, I think women know that men are wired a little bit differently, and a lot of times what I find with guys who are into this kind of thing, as opposed to a girl-on-girl thing, or wanting to go fuck girls and are happy with just watching their girl fuck another guy.

Like that's where they get all that variety from. I mean, that's, that's, that's all they need. They're not the type of guys that need to go elsewhere and go fuck a lot of girls. Like a lot of guys are wired that way. It sort of fulfills that variety fantasy, right? Because you could, you have all these videos. She's going out and doing that. Plus you have her.

I mean, you really have the best of both worlds. I do. I, like I said, I wish. more people would open up to something like this just because it's it's amazing the feeling is undescribable and the only time you got jealous was in the beginning with that first guy that weird fifth cousin of yours or whoever he was yeah that was the only time i was super jealous at the same time excited it was those emotions were was crazy at that time i was angry i was jealous, but more so I was excited.

And that excitement is the one, the driving force that made me say, I want more. Right. And that's what made you not forget about it, right? And I've heard that a lot. It's like the same thing. It's the jealousy and you could turn it into the turn on. And do you share those videos with your friend or are they just for you guys? Once in a while, I'll shoot him a copy.

Right. And is he into it? He's very scared of getting caught. I was going to say, I mean, that's the last thing you want out there. I mean, this is the kind of thing you really want to keep underwrapped, especially because he's in a relationship. Yes, I know. It's still unethical in that part.

And he's been my friend for the longest time. And so I wouldn't do this with anyone else that I trust. It just came out this way that the dynamic. I wish if the girlfriend was hotter, then she'd be part of it. I don't think you're too picky. I don't know. You think that there's girls out there.

There's so many girls up there that you'd fuck on this. But I don't think there are. Like you said, you're very picky. You get turned off very easily. Little things, right? You're one of those. Right. I am.

Yeah. I mean, thank God your wife showed up. She has nothing to be jealous of. Does she know how fucking picky you are? She knows, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. How did she?

pass all your tests because she's a night and a half. I don't know. She just loved my personality and she's got a very, very sexy body, very creamy skin, beautiful face. I mean, what more can I ask for? And her personality is amazing. She's the only one that can bear with me. Yeah, that makes sense.

So wait. So now tell me a little like a couple of hot. stories. I mean, you say you're always like pushing it here and there. What's like the hottest situation that you got going on now, like your hottest video that you love to go back to? Do you have any? You could remember. Yeah. Just recently, I asked my friend to come by and and they, we just moved in to a new place and and I asked my friend to fuck her all over the house. And it was the hottest thing. Seeing her making out everywhere, the kitchen area, the floor, everywhere.

And you have it all on video. Do you have kids? Yes. Where are they? Are they older now? No. Sometimes we'd ask them to stay with my in-laws from time to time. Not all the time, but once in a while.

Every now and then. You get a little break, and that's when you play at the house. Exactly. Yep. Do you ever clean up? No. Okay, you're not into any of that kind of stuff. No cleaning up.

Does he come inside of her? Because there's no condoms being used, right? Correct. So, yeah, we've taken turns where I would go first and then him or vice versa. Do you have a preference? I want her pretty much right after. So I guess that would be the preference if it ever. Right.

And now do you ever tape you? and her together since you're so into video or is it basically these videos you're watching and someone else? I have, but I don't like seeing myself on video. Okay, well, at least you're just as picky with yourself as you are with women. See, I'm being fair. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're fair. Well, listen, I have to say, and this is just like a life thing. Most people, like critical people, anyone you know that's like super critical. That's how they are for themselves times a hundred, right? So the fact that you're picky with other people is always a sign that that's the way you are with yourself, if not probably more so. So that's typically the way people roll.

So it makes sense that you would be picky of yourself as well if you're picky of other people. Do you know what I mean? That's where it stems from, right? And typically, like I said, if you got that critical friend and you're like, what a fucking pain in the ass, I could be a little critical. And like, I'm that way to myself like 10,000 times, you know, and you have to like sometimes feel sorry for those people. Because as picky as you are, you're probably the most picky with yourself. I agree. Yeah.

Yeah. So that makes sense. So you don't really like to watch yourself. So you have all those videos. And she likes them too, right? And you guys watch them together? Every night. Wow.

Did you ever think, listen, because everyone's cashing in on the whole Onlyfans things. Did you guys ever think about that for yourselves? Never, never. We would never do that. That's no. No way. And she would never go for it. I would never go for it just because I just don't ever want to be public.

Yeah, yeah, I get it. And I respect that. It's a private thing. It's a fun thing. And I think it changes the total dynamic. I think for some people, it's like an added turn on if they happen to have an exhibitionist side and stuff. But I think for some people like you guys, it's maybe it's more of a turn on because it's like your private thing. And it's very intimate.

And it's with a friend and it's very safe. The worst thing is that he's in a relationship and he's cheating. But besides that, you, him and her all have a good relationship. It's the same person you've been with for a while. It obviously works. It does. Yeah, that's interesting. And do they, do they sex?

Like you said, you don't care if they do they? And she shows it to you. Is that how it works? Yeah, they do. Every night they do. And I told her I like it because it makes everyone comfortable. and I want that. I don't want any awkward moments between them if they're not doing that.

I think the more they do that, the more it keeps the fire burning. Right. It keeps them connected. You like that. Connected. Yep. I do that a lot. Yeah.

You want to feed that fire because you don't want that relationship to end anytime soon. No. Because though she said she could live without it, you probably can't. Probably. I think it would be hard. I think it would be really hard if you get used to something like this to go back. I think I hear a lot of times for the woman, like they would be completely fine. But I think it's honest of you to say like maybe you couldn't, right?

I mean, to go back to being just monogamous with her. I mean, you do have hundreds of videos to go through. So you could probably last a couple of years. But maybe after a while you'd be like, let's do it again. Yeah. I just love seeing her in action. What can I say? It's addicting.

Yeah, I think of course, right? You're used to it at this point. I totally get that and I think it would be very hard to go back to where you were before. But it doesn't sound like you have any reason that you'd be going back. I mean, everyone's pretty happy. I love the story. Too bad your wife doesn't know. We can't have pictures of her, okay, on here because I don't like to post anything that's not non-consensual.

But I will give you Julian access to my Discord in case you want to go in there after your episode airs and talk to people. I bet you people would have a lot of questions for you, considering what you've had to say on this episode. Like I said, I find the part of your story is super interesting in that you did have problems before and it did bring you closer and you're here to say that and you stand on that. And that's, I think maybe people will want to talk to you about that. So I'll give you free access to my Discord to go in once your episode goes up. I can't, like I said, have pictures of your wife because she doesn't know that you're calling in. I will change your voice. So she never knows that you called in.

Sure. She doesn't really listen to. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Perfect. She'll never know. I mean, listen, I keep people very anonymous. Nobody, you're like, it could be live anywhere in the world. Your voice is going to be totally changed. You're not going to sound recognizable. We didn't use any names. No one's going to know who this is at all.

I make sure of that. So you're all good. I had a guy on recently who said some shit in his episodes. I should take a lot of stuff out. Don't say where you live. Don't say like things that would. would really stand out for something. And you didn't anyway.

So there's no way to trace this back to you or your wife. So your secret will be kept anonymous. Thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story, Julian. You're welcome. Thank you. And I will send you the discord when your episode's going to go out. That's perfect. Thank you.

All right. Thanks, Julian. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available.

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