Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 734 - Mike is Into Guys, Girls, Gloryholes and More

Episode Date: December 20, 2023

Mike is into guys and girls and gloryholes and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did he realize he was so into guys? When did he have his first experience with a guy? And, what has he done since? Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he loves performing oral on both men and women, what first attracted him to men, when and where he had his first guy on guy experience and what exactly went down, the gloryhole codes he learned early on, the massage parlors he frequented and what would go down there, how and why he sometimes enjoys wearing panties, how he started going to adult theaters and what he would do while there, the hotel bar in his neighborhood and the bartender there he started hooking up with, how that bartender then started hooking him up with men who were staying at the hotels, who the men were and what exactly what exactly would go down with them when he met them, the first time he tried anal and exactly what went down, how he had sometimes wants to be monogamous to his wife but how and why he always winds up going back to hooking up with guys behind her back, how he stays safe since he does cheat with guys, how he confessed he was into pegging to his wife and how she reacted plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Okay, so that's going to be in my merch store soon. Stay tuned for that. But in the meantime, go to the description. All the links will be there. So today I have on Mike. Mike was a great guest. He was one of those guys where I didn't really have to fucking talk at all. This is a professional guy and guy action guy.

Okay. What should I call him? A professional oral worshiper. But he's done more than oral, okay? Mike does live a double life. he is married, he's been married for a long time, but he has had all kinds of guy-on-guy action since the get-go. We don't talk much about his marriage or anything like that. We touch upon it a little bit at the end, but we talk mostly about when he realized he was into guys. He's very into girls, too,

okay? He's not into guys for anything other than S-E-X, especially BJs. He loves to orally please guys, and he started to do that when he was very young, like 18. His story about going, to an adult, a bookstore, and watching a video. It was so fucking funny because he didn't really know what a glory hole was, and the dick popped out, and he didn't even understand. And ever since then, he's been sucking dick. And he tells a lot of interesting stories, you know, how it started at the glory holes and what he did there,

what he enjoys most about guys, which is like the variety of cocks. Like, he just loves the differences when it comes to cock. I was like, I didn't really know there was that much difference. I mean, I know in size, but for him, it's everything. He talks about his first video booth experience of glory holes. Besides being oral with men, he's also very into being oral with women. He talks about a girlfriend who he would like, who was like really into him banging her and then him going down on her and eating like his own come.

So that was one of his first like oral experiences with a woman. His first experiences with both women and men were super interesting because the men were at the glory hall place and the adult books were. and with the women before that girlfriend was like in massage parlors. He talks a lot about that, what he would do there with the women there. He does talk about how he's into wearing women's panties. We touch upon that. He's got that going on. But mostly we talk about the oral sex that he has with guys.

He has had anal sex too. He talks about his first anal experience, how that went down. One of the most interesting parts of this, his story, is this hookup that he had with a bartender in a hotel, where the bartender would pass on guys to him who were staying at the hotel, like married guys who were passing through that wanted a blowjob and he would come in and he would give him their hotel keek. He was like the guy that the bartender would say,

I got a guy that'll come up to your room and he was the guy. And he would just go up and pleasure guys. And most of the time they're married guys. He talks about that, how that would actually go down. And it's interesting because guy and guy action is very different than guy and girl action. I mean, they just get right fucking to it. Like I said, he does talk about the first time he had some anal action. He's very into that. He's a total bottom when it comes to anal action. When it comes to oral sex with guys, he only likes to give it.

He recently told his wife, this is when we start talking about his wife, only towards the end. The last time of minutes, we talk about how he recently told his wife that he was into pegging and she was down with it and she's been pegging him. He is a size king when it comes to guys when he hooks up with them as well as when it comes to anal play. His dildos with his wife and her begging him have gotten bigger and bigger and she's never questioned it. She's never found out that he's been with guys. This is a whole secret life that he leads. It's all super interesting because this is a guy like a lot of other guys that will say, listen, I'm not into guys at all. He's very much into his wife. He's very into women, but he likes to suck a dick. Not every now and then a lot. I mean, it sounds like he does a lot.

He does talk also, though, which is interesting about how he stays safe because he is cheating on his wife with guys. And he does talk about how he stays safe and keeps himself clean and not bringing anything home. But there's so much to this episode. He's great at telling his story. I barely talk. It's one of those kinds of episodes, which is always good for me. So, and good for you because no one will complain that I interrupt.

He might be sending picks in of himself, but he's definitely going to be on my discord. So if you want to talk to Mike afterwards, go there. He'll be on my Discord. The link to that is in the description. I'm going to be right back on with Mike. Hi, Mike. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today?

I'm doing great, Kathy. Glad to be on your show. Yeah, well, listen, I think maybe what caught your attention to my podcast or maybe one of the episodes that set out for you is my episode with Dr. Joe Cort, which to me was a great one because I found him on TikTok and he's this guy that talks about how sometimes a guy could suck a dick and doesn't really mean anything. And he's actually a gay man. Most time gay men or die or secretly think every other, every guy is gay like them.

But he's here to say that you can sometimes suck a dick. And it doesn't mean anything that just might be like in the moment. But so I'm assuming you're a guy that likes to suck a dick every now and then. You also like to wear panties. You said something about doing regular DL play. Is that diaper lover play or what's DL play? No, no. Just download play.

Oh, okay. Okay. Yeah, yeah, okay. And you're into Peggy. Okay, correct? Yes, I do enjoy pegging. And one of the things I've also mentioned on there is I'm really more, a lot of people would say you have either cock worship or pussy worship. Well, I consider myself an oral worshipper because I would do oral with anyone.

It's just a lot easier to get cock than it is to get pussy. It's just easier. You can easily find a guy that will meet you to get sucked off in a car or the glory hole or in a park or anything. of that nature, whereas a lot of women, they won't necessarily do that. They want to have more of a, oftentimes want to have more of a connection or whatever. Of course. As a woman, let me just tell you, there's nothing better to me than oral sex. Okay. It's like literally my number one thing that I love. But there is no way, especially with oral sex that I'm going to let a stranger go down on me. I think that's even more personal than just like banging a guy. So yeah, I do tell my guy friends a lot of the

times I do say, oh, you'd be so much happier if you were gay. Because when it does come down to it, whether you're looking for oral or any kind of sex, guys are more down for a variety and fucking people than girls. Oh, I agree. I think I don't, the thing that struck me, I guess, as far as with Dr. Court, once them saying that sometimes guys just want to suck a cock and it doesn't mean that they're gay or bi. I think that actually, I think that actually hits me to a, to perfection. Because I would not, I don't have a. I don't have. any attraction to dating a guy. I only have an attraction to dating or being with women in that sense.

But as far as sex goes, I'd love to suck cock. And that has always been the case since I first started having sex. Well, let's go back to that time when you first started. You knew early on that you were interested in either sex when it came to sex. I went well when I was a teenager and first getting to where I was maturing I the I saw a lot of magazines that were around whether it be from older siblings or or a parent and do and did enjoy looking at Playboy and Penthouse if they're around but at the same time I know going through puberty and stuff that I was

always fascinated looking watching whether it be in the gym shower or or whatever other guys that I was around and fascinated with seeing them. And so I would say, yes, I was always interested in both. And just the, I guess the biggest thing for me is the variety. That's probably the thing that caught my attention that you'd be somewhere and where you were seeing a lot of guys and they could be whatever the situation was and just the difference in in cocks to me and it's a lot of women from the front while they may have larger breasts or smaller breasts or whatever from the front they look very similar whereas guys

can be very different as far as what you're seeing presented to you so you're let me ask you real quick right now are you married and living like a heterosexual life but doing all this kind of stuff with guys on the dL is that what you mean yes okay so all right so now so we know where we You're like a lot of the guys that have been on my show. I've heard the story before. A lot of guys are getting guy on guy action behind their wives' backs. That's been going on since the dawn of time, I think. And I think it's still underwaps more so than women being with women because there's still some sort of stigma attached to it.

But there's just as many guys that are into guys as there are girls into girls. They just don't admit it as much. So you knew early on that you were into guys. When did you start actually hooking up with them? Like when was your first experience? Well, the very first experience happened probably the week I went away for college. I grew up in a fairly conservative area, so I couldn't, I didn't feel like I could act on impulses that I had, nor did I know people that I could necessarily act on those impulses with.

When I went away for college, it just so happened that down the street, I said I'd been looking at magazines and this and that from an early age. I had a friend that worked in a convenience store and he would get the mags that were being thrown away and he would share them with me or whatever. So I had lots of access to that. Well, down the street from where I lived in school, there happened to be an adult bookstore. So the afternoon, a couple of days after I moved in, I decided to walk down there to look at magazines, possibly pick a few up. While I was there, I noticed that they said something about having an arcade in the back or, peep booths and so i was curious about that i thought oh well maybe i can go in there and watch some videos and i can jack off and and just go about my day and so i went back to the video booths and

i started up a video and i was sitting in the video booth and i started to jack off to the the straight porn at the time and after a few minutes all of a sudden about just in front of me out of the corner my eye, I noticed this cock come through the wall. Now, I had never ever heard of a glory hole before or anything of that nature. How old are you again? I was 18. Okay. So needless to say, um, did you even know there was a hole in there?

No, I didn't, I didn't know there was. You know, everything in there, everything in there's painted black, so I didn't even, you know, and the booth next to me where this gentleman was, was dark at the time. So there was no, I didn't know. So I just sat down and I was starting to watch and I was literally sitting there. Well, and all of a sudden this cock comes through the wall. Well, I'll be honest with you, I kind of freaked out. So I actually zipped up and left.

And so I was, I will say that my pulse was racing just a little bit. But as I was walking home, I got to thinking, I've looked at Playgirl and magazines like that as I was growing up and things. And so I got to be curious. So I turned around and I went back. So I went back into the arcade and went back into the booze again and started stroking. And sure enough, within a matter of minutes, a cock poked through the wall. And so I said to myself, I said, you know what? I'm just going to start stroking this cock.

And so I reached out with my other hand and was watching a video stroking myself on stroking this guy. And he started thrusting a little bit of my hand as I was. stroking him and my adrenaline was rushing and so I was like this is kind of exciting and before I knew it without even really thinking it through in my head all of a sudden I was on my knees and I started sucking him and I was sucking this guy while the video's playing beside me and and he was thrusting into my mouth and and I didn't know again not knowing about glory holes. I didn't know any of the etiquette to glory holes or anything of that nature. Yeah. And all of a sudden, I hear this knock, and I think it's somebody wanting to come into my

booth thinking that I'm not using it, that it's empty. And so I just ignore it and keep sucking on this guy's cock. And next thing I know, he came in my mouth. And then he pulled out, and he went about his way. And so he was, but he was deep enough in my mouth that I got a mouthful. I swallowed some of it and tasted it and said, well, it's really kind of shocked. Yeah. And so I sat back down kind of processing it. And the video was still going on in my booth. And within a matter of minutes, another cock poke through.

And so I was like. How you go from being a virgin to like a professional? Well, yeah, I don't know if I was professional. Well, I mean, now you're on your second dick in your mouth. Right. Well, you know, this other one pushing. is through and I start stroking him and I said what the hell I'll just go ahead and suck him off too and so I started or at least suck on him so I started sucking on him and and again not knowing really

etiquette after a few minutes or whatever I hear a knock on the door and I'm saying like I want these people leave my booth alone or whatever is the knock wait wait is the knock to warn you that they're coming the knock gets to warn you yeah that they're about to come and I didn't know know that. So here I am sucking on the second guy. And sure enough, there was a knock knock and I didn't know any better. And I kept sucking. Sure enough, he came down my mouth and down my throat. And so I was like, okay, that's when I figured out that, hey, something is happening here when they knock that I should know whether if I want to take their load or not, I need to let them go or go ahead and take them and stuff. So that was my first experience.

And so I, after that second one that day, I headed back to my house and I was like, thinking the whole time, okay, that was really hot. That was really kind of a lot of fun. And so I went back to my house and I was just kind of hanging out. After the next afternoon, I decided, you know what I'm going to go? Go back. And so I went back the next day and kind of repeated the process. and to be honest with you, I don't know if obsessed at that time, if I could become obsessed that fast or not.

Yeah. But I went back probably almost every day for two or three weeks. How many dicks would you take each time around? Each time I went. Two or three. Yeah. And you always swallowed, I assume. Well, not always.

Sometimes they would, you know, they would pull out and pull back and stuff. But if there was a knock, you would. If there was a knock, I didn't hesitate. I didn't stop. You know, I didn't mind. In fact, sometimes I'd go deeper, depending on them. I'm not, at that time, I wasn't able to, you know, take a cock very deep in my mouth, but I could take it deep enough to where they were just.

Yeah, you were, you did become a professional overnight, okay? Because I've had one guy on recently. I forget what his name was, but he was like telling me he was blowing some guys that none of them could come. I was like he thinking my head, he must not be giving good head. But like straight off the bat, all these guys were knocking. They were all coming from a blowjob. So you must have been doing a good job. Well, either that or they were just so horny they needed to come regardless.

I don't know. He was in the same position. I'd like to think. I'd like to think that it did a good job. I think he did. And so that was really, that was really the first sex with another person I'd ever had. Even a woman. Even a woman.

The most I'd ever done with a woman up to that. that point had been kissing and fondling a little bit. There was never anything more than that. I'd never had a girlfriend when I was in high school and stuff. So I was, you know, that was really the first sex I had. Yeah. Yeah, I would say for the first three, four months that I was away at school, that was, that was the case. That the sex that I was having, no, well, I should qualify that.

I guess there was times where the school, where I went to school, there was quite a a few massage parlors and stuff in the area. So I would go to get a massage from women, and those always were happy-ending massages, but they offered a switch massage where at some point we could switch places, and I would massage them, in which case I would get to rub on them and pleasure them. You can't forget that. That's a big part of your story.

I mean, not only did you just first start hooking up with guys, also when it comes to women, your first hookups were with, what would you say? Massage therapist workers and stuff and things. And again, being young and naive, I didn't necessarily know much about these massage parlors, except that I would go and I would be on the table and with just a towel over my waist or whatever. And they would come in and the towel would be pulled off and they would massage. and the massage sometimes lasted longer than others and things, but they would always end up stroking me or playing with me to get to a happy ending.

And there was always the option if I wanted to, not with every one of them, but with many of them to switch and let me massage them and play with them. And so that was really, like you said, my first really experiences with women. And I did have a, I did end up having a girl that was a friend in school that was my first, the first person I ever, I would say was a girlfriend, for lack of a better word. That was probably my first experience with intercourse with a, with a female and stuff or with, in things. And so, and she was very much into being eaten out. So I would, she was probably the person that I really learned how to go down on a girl. Yeah, to go down on a girl and stuff and things.

And so she was, again, young and naive. There would be times where we'd be fooling around and we'd be, we'd be fucking. And, of course, I'd come. And then she would have me eat her out after that. I didn't think anything of it necessarily because I sucked guys cock and took come. so I didn't think anything necessarily about eating her out and ending up cleaning up my cum out of her and stuff. But that was something that she and I did as far as oral

several times a week. And so she was kind of the person that I was able to experiment or learn how to give oral pleasure to a woman with. And so sometimes that would carry over to these massage partners and stuff to where I would be able to, when we were switching, I'd be able to orally please them and stuff. You could go that far with those people that, that place that you were going to. I mean, sometimes happy endings, they're just going to jerk you off.

But these girls are the place that you went to, you could go way further with them. Well, it depended on the massage therapist. Yeah, okay. Yeah, you know, it was some of them there wasn't going to be any switching with some would let you switch and they would let you massage them and get them off with your hand. But on occasions, if you asked or the right tip was provided or whatever, then you know, you could, some of them would let you go down on them and pleasure them that way and stuff. And so when the opportunity presented itself, I would. So those were, that was really how my first experiences with, with sex with others started. And then I guess probably a year or so later after, of course, I'm a course,

like I said, I've been watching looking magazines and with these people. And I got very fascinated looking at women, especially in lingerie. And I always loved the feel of it when I was with them and things. And so one day I took a pair from that girl from school. And I put them on and I just loved the feeling of them. That's not something I do all the time, but it is something that I do enjoy because I think women's undergarments are far more sexier than men's. And I think the feeling of them, regardless of whether they be cotton or silk or lace or whatever,

just is far more appealing than men's underwear. So I don't wear them all the time, but I do occasionally wear them around the house or out. Sometimes I'll wear them out. Mm-hmm. Interesting. Okay. Now, does your wife know any of that? Does your wife know that?

Or does anyone know about that kink fetish? No, no one knows about that. Okay. Kink or fetish. So I've heard you talk to other people in the past about how they would acquire panties or underwear and stuff. And they would have their purge. And I will admit that over the years I've been the same case where I've acquired them and then gotten rid of them. Thinking, I'll get past this.

And the next thing I know I'm buying some more or whatever. Yeah, the purging is a big part of it. A lot of time with a lot of fetishes, especially when it comes to any kind of cross-dressing kind of thing. And I found some now that are made more for, well, lace underwear and stuff that we've made more for men. You can find them most of the time on, you're geared more toward probably gay men and stuff. But I found some on there that I can buy that. to me fit even better just because of the male form. Yeah, yeah.

But they're made to look like women's panties. Exactly. Yeah, interesting. Okay. And things. So I do occasionally wear those, whether I'm going to work or whether I go, I'm going out somewhere. I do, I have one them to, when I've gone to bookstores, bookstores and stuff, have gotten fewer and far between since the age of the internet and stuff. but I have done that.

And the stuff at the bookstore progressed from going into the gloryhole booth to eventually going into the theater or actually going into at the time when I was 18 through 20, early 20s that actually had adult theaters that were old or run down regular theaters and been converted over to adult theaters. And I would go there and, and play as well. So it wasn't confined to a booth necessarily. I would play in the theater as well. And what did you do there? Well, most of the time I would just sit in one of the back rows or find somebody who was sitting by themselves

and I would go sit down next to them and we'd be watching the movie. And if I noticed that they were rubbing themselves or whatever, I would, reach my hand over and just kind of brush their leg. And if they didn't stop me, I would rub their leg a little more, and I would slowly move it up to where their cock was. And I would sit there and start stroking them for a while.

And a lot of times that was all they wanted was someone to stroke their cock and get them off. But after a while, if they were okay with that or whatever, and it wasn't progressing to where they'd come, I would turn and ask them if they wanted a blowjob. And oftentimes they would. So I would lean over in the chair or get down on the floor next to them and give them head while they were watching the movie.

Right. And so I did progress to that. And oftentimes if some people saw that you were willing to give head or whatever, more oftentimes you'd end up having when that person was done and left oftentimes you'd have somebody come sit down next to you again and it could repeat itself

or if you'd leave or whatever and stuff so but it was never I've never been forced in any of those situations if there was somebody I wasn't interested in I would just say no and decline or whatever and move on but oftentimes if I

If I was interested or whatever, then we're still feeling like I wanted to play, then I would go ahead and do it again. I guess the biggest thing for me is I've never been, I've always been the one to be giving. I've never, only one time I've ever gotten pleasure norily. Yeah, it's so interesting. So many guys that like to suck dick or guys that are to guy on guy action, you're all on that side of things. I don't know whether for like anal sex they have tops or bottoms, but everyone seems to be a, like I guess maybe that's the top person and oral. But everyone seems to be a top. That's whatever a guy says.

It's sometimes hard to most guys want to do the sucking. They don't want to get sucked. So it's hard to find. Yeah, I wouldn't necessarily, I certainly would not consider myself a top in any way, shape, or form. Oh, but you're, come on, you're an oral pleaser. I'm not talking about anally. I'm like, I'm just saying if we have to put a top or bottom to, oral or getting oral. You're obviously, and if I say that topping is blowing and bottoming is

receiving, you're a total top. You said you received only once. Yeah. If that's, if that's my definition. Yeah. If that's your definition of then yes, I would be, I would be an oral top. You're an oral top for sure. Yeah, but we haven't gotten to any kind of topping or bottom of anal. We haven't gotten to that part of the story yet. I don't even know what's going on with that. I haven't gotten to that question yet. Yeah. I understand. You keep going. You're doing good. telling your story. Just go. Yeah. And then after college

there wasn't, as I moved to a different town, it was a little more conservative. It was a little more challenging to find outlets as far as that goes. But they're, you know, for those of us that are wanting to suck a cock or whatever, there's,

if you search hard enough or look hard enough, you're going to find opportunities. Yeah. And as the internet developed there was always there was apps or things that you go to to craigslist that i know you're familiar with was an option yeah um as the apps developed there became more sites that had provided opportunities for what's referred to as cruising um where you could meet somebody in their car or it could be on the park it could be in a bathroom somewhere i'm not

I will say this. I'm not a big fan of having sex and bathrooms. I just don't. It's like I just a little bit too dirty. Not that a video booth and glory holders, the cleanest goes places in the world. Listen, everybody frames things differently in their brains. That's what makes that people unique. That's just how you roll. That's what you think and you stand by it. I get it. Everyone has their own rules. So one of the things that I did when I moved away and I was pretty much living off by myself, I would go after work. Oftentimes, I would go after work. Oftentimes, I would. go to the only place in the town that had a bar was a hotel. And so I would go to the hotel and just sit at the bar and drink and chat with the bartenders and chat with people around and stuff.

And as I got to know the bartender a little bit more, you know, we were chatting about things. And I casually mentioned to him that I'd be interested in meeting up with him after work. I could, I just got the impression, not that he was gay, but I got the impression from chatting with him getting no over the time that, that he was open to having, having some fun after work. Yeah.

And so over the time, we got to know each other. Oftentimes I would stay till closing time. I would meet up with him after, and whether it be in his car or whatever, I would get him off after he got off work. And then I would, I'd go home. Well, as I go in there on a regular basis, he told me that oftentimes there was people that would come in that would ask him where he could go to get some entertainment for the evening, for lack of a better word, people would ask him. And so he, knowing that I like the Succoq, he would oftentimes tell that person that if they gave me their room key that I might.

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and they needed a little relief if I was around. If I was around, he would pass my name over to him or get his room key and I would know where to go. I'd go up there and take care of them. How many times do you think that that would go down for you? Like how many guys that were coming through, that we're probably on a business trip, that we'll probably marry.

Like how many times that you get hit up at a monthly basis around? Oh, I bet if I bet I probably for every day, if I went there every day of the month, I would bet that on half of them, the opportunity would present itself. Wow. So a lot. If I was interested, yeah.

Yeah, interesting. If I was interested and they were interested, I think half might be a little bit much, but I wouldn't be surprised if it would be close to that. How many times did you wind up doing it, do you think, around, or can you not even count? I'd have trouble counting. All right, then let me ask you this.

This is a better question. I mean, give me some scenarios. Like, who would that guy be? Were they typically, like, married guys? Or tell me, like, an experience? I would say more often than not, they were married guys, traveling for work that were just, whether I wouldn't ask them their reason.

Girls, guys aren't like girls. You're not interested in talking. Like you get to the room. What goes down? Tell me like an experience. Explain, walk me through. Well, I'd knock on the door. If I had the room key, I would let myself in.

And more often than not, they'd either be standing there in their underwear or sometimes, or sometimes they'd be naked. Yeah. And I would walk in and they would, I would basically just kneel down in front of them and either take their underwear down or if they were naked, I would just go ahead and start stroking on them and give them head. There was no question as to what it was I was there for. And, yeah, and what they were expecting. Sometimes it would be, sometimes it would be the old expression of one pump, one pump chump. Other times it would be quite a, quite a longer blowjotter experience.

Yeah. And again, the whole thing for me, I guess was just the fascination that I had going back from when I was younger of just the variety and differences in Cox. Right. Each one was new and interesting to you. You love that part of it. Yeah, very much so. Because you just never know if they were going to be cut, uncut.

They were going to be long. They were going to be thick. You know, do they have big balls that when they're thrusting into your mouth, they're going to be slapping against your chin? or whatever while you're sucking on them. So it was just, that was the exciting part to me. And the getting them off and their release was the top of the, was the pinnacle of the experience. For you.

Now, can I ask you a quick question about mechanics of it all? Are you jerking off while you're doing this, like stroking yourself and then you come when they come? or do you wait until it's over and then go home and like you're edging that whole time and then go home and pleasure yourself? I would say more often than not I was edging myself and then going home and pleasuring myself. I mean, there's oftentimes where I wouldn't even take off any clothes. I would just be, I would walk in and take theirs down and that would be that. And I would, I'll say this, there was more than a few times there where I was thankful that I had a jacket or a sweatshirt.

or something to pull on over because you're walking out of the hotel with a raging heart on well or stains down my shirt oh oh and stuff and it was not that like I said the bartender knew that they oh I got that bartender but not but not everybody knew that I was into this and I didn't necessarily need to be walking through the hotel I wasn't so much of a I wasn't so much of a I wouldn't say exhibitions but I wasn't so much of somebody that wanted to broadcast things where I'd walk out, want to walk out and just like with cumstains down my shirt. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

That wasn't a part of it for you. Some people that would be, but for you, no. Yeah, no. So when I would go to, it was funny. Funny, I'd go to glory holes, even in the summertime, it's warm out. Oftentimes I would have a light jacket or something that I had with me just to be able to wear, especially on the way out in things. Oh, my goodness.

So that guy really hooked you. up or I mean they were probably you know tipping him well for that hookup right that's what was in it for him don't you think yeah probably and I for me most yeah for me most of time I ended up not having a bar tab right so he gave you free drinks and those guys probably gave him some cash I mean everyone was like benefiting from that scenario sure yeah probably yeah everybody was benefiting in one way or the other whether they were giving whether they were giving or receiving there yeah yeah everyone was happy. It's interesting that these kinds of things go on. I don't know that I've ever heard of that kind of setup, but I'm sure, you know, it exists with other bartenders and people,

whether it's women or men, you know, that are, that they're sending up to the room. I know that, listen, I know that there's some concierge that work in certain places that all, they're in the know of like how to hire someone to come up to your room, blah, blah, blah, that kind of stuff goes down, right? I just never heard of it from the bartender, Your specific setup, super interesting. Yeah, I mean, like I said, if you're in a place that you're unfamiliar with or whatever, or maybe it's a little bit more, I'll use the term conservative. Yeah.

Then if you look hard enough and you work hard enough, you can find options or opportunity. Oh, yeah. I mean, come on. Anywhere in things. And you work, if you're in the situation like I was, that I used my opportunity. and took the advantages that I could work and to be able to do so. Yeah, but think about those guys too. Every one of those guys that you came up somehow got in a conversation with that guy,

you know, that they just met some bartender, a random bartender and, you know, got to a place where they were talking about getting blow jobs from men on the DL in the room. How does that, you know, how does that? I don't know if they, they may have been talking about getting a blow job from a man, But I think, you know how people in bars are. They get a couple drinks and sometimes anything, like it said. Yeah, but not that shit. I'm sorry, that's a little bit like, listen, I think that there's still a big stigma.

But just like you smelled it on that guy, like you said for some reason, I felt like this guy was like whatever. I think these other guys felt the same way. There was something about that guy. He just reeked of, I'm the guy for guy and guy action, right? I don't know because I think everything he had set up. I think it came from him. But let's move on because you have so much more to say. because I'm really curious if you've ever gone any farther with guys.

Oh, well, yes, I have. Actually, I started actually, I would say the first time I bottomed was probably about a year after I went to the glory hole for that first time. Oh, so even before your blowjubs in the hotel. Oh, yeah, yeah. Oh, well, we can't skip over that. What happened then? Well, to be all honest, we're the first time that I ever, and again, when it comes to anal sex, I'm all bottom. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay.

The first time it ever happened, it was actually a roommate of mine. We were out, we'd been out at the club, and we only had one, we only had one bathroom in our apartment. And so we came home from being out at the bars one evening, and I was in brushing my teeth. and stuff and he walked in to use the bathroom and of course as my eyes wandered in the mirror over to look at him as he was going to the bathroom and I finished brushing my teeth and I walked up behind him and said to him I said would you mind if I hold it while you finish wow and he just took his hand off and I reached around and held it and while he was going I started to stroke him and thinking, okay, he's going to stop me at some point.

And he didn't stop me. So I kept stroking. And when he finished, I turned him around and I dropped down to my knees and stroked him a little bit more. And he just kind of looked up at him and he didn't stop me again. So I said, I'll go ahead and give him a blowjob. And so I started sucking on his cock and things. and he had me stand up and we walked to the bed and I laid down on the bed and he started

kind of straddled my chest and started, I would say, face fucking my mouth. And he, I could tell he was getting more and more excited and I could feel him reaching down and kind of caressing my leg and reaching around and grabbing my cock and stuff. And the As that night just kind of went on

He next thing I know really I turned over and let him start massaging my back And of course his cock was rubbing against my ass And the There was never really any conversation about it But he positioned his cock at my ass And I didn't stop him and I let him go ahead and enter me.

And it was right then and there was when we realized that, okay, we need to have some kind of lubrication. Quick question. I'm going to remember exactly where you are. Had you ever had any kind of solo ass play? Did you ever shove anything up your ass before? Did you know that you were into, you know, anal action? I had fingered. I'd played with my ass with my fingers, but I'd never.

I never used anything like a dildo or anything of that nature. And so we got some lotion that he happened to have by the bed table and put some on him and on me and went ahead and let him penetrate me. And it wasn't, didn't take long after the play that we had before when he penetrated me for, for him to actually come. and so that didn't that first time didn't last very long but that was the first time of anal sex and we he and I spoke about it once or twice but that was really the one time that ever happened with him I did blow him a couple other times but as far as anal sex that didn't happen the first time I really I guess well after that I'd Having gone to the bookstore, I did notice all the different toys and stuff.

And there was the variety of toys that when I was at that age wasn't like it is today. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now there's so much more. Yeah, but I could easily get a dildo, and I did start self-pleasuring a little bit with myself. And none of them were overly large. The opportunity did present itself on occasion for me to have anal sex with people. and I did experiment with it. At that time, I was pretty selective as to who I would let have sex with anally,

only because I was nervous about the size of them and whether or not didn't want to be painful. I wanted to be enjoyable or whatever. In that respect. So I was kind of selective as who it was. And this, of course, was long before there was. was really any concern, overly big concern about STD and AIDS and stuff like that. So how old are you?

Oh, I'm in my mid-50s. Okay. You sound younger for some reason. Oh, so anyway, this was long before really AIDS and HIV. Yeah, you started early. I mean, because this was like when you were young. This was right after that. I mean, you started doing anal pretty early on, you said, right? Even though it didn't go chronologically, yeah. Yeah, the first time I had anal, I was 19. maybe 20.

And that was with him. And then I really started probably having more anal sex within a couple of years from that as I got to know some people that I felt comfortable with. Yeah. Did you ever have a prostate orgasm? I've had them not. I did not necessarily have them then. Or if I did, I didn't know that that's what it was.

Yeah. I have had them since then in things. And so that's a completely different experience. Yeah. And things. And that's probably all things considered with all the time that I've spent with guys. That's probably the only way I've ever really come with them, actually in physical contact with them. Because like I said, I've always been a bottom and I was more about pleasing them and stuff than getting pleasure for myself.

Then I would always go back and masturbate myself. I think some of it for me, too, is the institution. I have with my own body. Oh, interesting. I tend to think I'm not, I've never been the super fit athletic person, even though I played sports. I've never been the super fit athletic person. And in all my time of looking at guys and in Cox and stuff, I've always felt and I would say that I have a smaller than average cock. So part of it was probably insecurity on my part.

Yeah, I get that. That's interesting. That makes sense. but it's not like you're not you're fucking edging that a whole time. So if anything, it just makes it even better when you get home, right? Because you just edged out for a really long time.

Depending on how long the whole thing, whether it be it at glory holes or a theater or with somebody individual, depending how long that was the whole time. Yes, I was rock hard. Getting more and more worked up as far as wanting to

come myself. So yes, when I got home, it was generally a great experience. A good experience, yeah. Yeah, yeah. All right. So go on. I mean, keep going. I mean, at some point, you do get married, okay? Yeah. And did you ever, like, after you got married and you wound up with your wife? In the beginning, did you think, okay, you know what? I'm not going to be with guys behind her back or were you never thinking you were going to be monogamous? I mean, how did you feel like that? There's been lots of times over the years that I have thought about I should just be monogamous and just be with my one. wife and that sometimes would last, I'd say, sometimes that'd be six months, sometimes it might be a couple years, but I'd always be drawn back and most of the time it was because I was

traveling by myself or that nature and whether I would see an adult theater or I would see a place where I could go and that whole attraction would draw me in and that would be the catalyst for me to break that that cycle. Yeah. Did you ever catch you ever? Did I ever get caught? Yeah. I've not been caught.

I've been, it's been close, not by my wife, but by another person's wife. What do you mean? Came close. We were at a, I'd gone over to their house to watch some sporting events on television. Their wife was supposed to go to, was going shopping. And they let to go shopping. and we waited a few minutes. Oh, no, I see where this is going.

Well, figuring there, she's gone. And so we're watching the ball game. And I start working on his cock and stroking him and playing a little bit. And we're in the entertainment room, which is kind of just off the garage. And all of a sudden we hear the garage door opening again. And the car coming back. again so all of a sudden we're scrambling yeah and fortunately no one had flows completely off yet he jumped up and ran into the bathroom and i sat back on the couch like nothing was going on

watching the ball game and and stuff and he he came out after a minute or two and as she was leaving again and stuff and was like oh i didn't expect you back and you know i forgot i forgot something did she look at you guys funny do you think she had any clue No, she didn't realize anything was going on. Because like I said, I was just sitting on the couch. And he was out of the room. Yeah, so. Oh, my God, thank God.

That's the closest I've ever come to being caught. Mm-hmm. And stuff, but no, never come close. I've always been careful as far as my down-low play to where either I was traveling or she was out of town or something that nature to where, the opportunity to get caught is pretty slim. Now, when it comes to STIs, I had a guy on recently. It was a great episode.

It's really interesting. And I just ran an ad for it. Again, shameless care. He has something called doxypep, which is like an after, a morning after pill for. Yeah, that episode was great. Yeah, yeah, because, you know, he spoke about how you could have an STI in your throat. And normal blood tests and regular swabs, don't check for that. But, you know, you got to get, like, the throat swab.

I mean, how do you know if you're clean? Well, I will say this. Since really AIDS and HIV and everything kicked in, I've, not to say you can't get other STIs, I play pretty safely. In what sense? Do you make them put a rubber on when you blow them? I can, yeah, sometimes, oftentimes I'll use a condom

unless I've been known them for a while. If it's somebody that I've been with multiple times, I may say, let's get tested together. So you're very safe. Yeah, because I don't, for that, that reason. I don't want to bring something home and be caught in that respect. And so again, though you're right,

the, they don't test your throat. And since I've, since that episode, you're like, what the fuck, right? I, I, I, it made me think, oh my God, I need a throat swab. I never been swabbed my throat. But I will say this. Yeah. It was great to have, to have that episode on. Yeah. To learn about that medication or that, whatever you want to call it. DoxyPep. I think it's great. Yeah. Why did anyone think of that

before? I think that's great because it does, make it a lot safer again as, as I said, I try to play safely unless it's been somebody I've known with or there's multiple times I've been with them to where they're willing to get tested because even not yet be careful even with that for results, not getting caught and stuff. But if I've been with them several times and they're willing to do that, then I feel comfortable playing without a condom or whatever, whether that be oral sex or anal sex. And all these years of playing with all these guys on the DL, did you ever catch anything? I have never caught anything.

Not even the crotch crickets? Say that again. Crabbs. Grotch, I call them the crotch crickets. Crabbs, nothing. Nothing. You've never caught anything. No, I've been fortunate that I've been, I think back even today, though, if I've gone to glory holes or whatever, I think back to those situations and go, this is really could have gotten.

something that nature. I know several people that have. Yeah, yeah, yeah, young and dumb. You're just lucky. It's kind of like the shit that we do when we're young. You were like 18, right, going there. It's no different than the people that are like drinking and driving when they're 18. You're getting smashed going home with strangers. I mean, anyone that gets through their 20s without getting an STI or getting in a car crash or getting murdered is pretty lucky because we all do dumb shit when we're little. Really stupid shit, right? I agree. I agree. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So listen, we're coming to the end. We're almost at an and you're so good at telling your story, but I know that you're really into pegging, too.

And so do you do pegging with your wife? What's your deal with pegging? Let's talk about that. Well, I've, I have, I'll say, self-pegged for many years. Okay. But I would say in the last couple of years, I finally got up the courage wanting to ask my wife if she would peg me. Wow. She said yes.

And so. That does take courage, by the way. Okay. It really does. Yeah. Because there could be a lot of questions from a woman. Oh, yeah. You tell him he wanted to be fucking pegged.

Especially when I asked her if she'd peg me and when she goes, well, do you have something to do this with? Yeah. Of course, all the all the toys that I have that are more for pegging all look like cocks. They're not just a dildo. Yeah, yeah. So, but there's never been a question.

Maybe in her mind she's thought it, but she's never asked. Yeah, interesting. I would love to be that kind of woman that just let something like that go. into her brain and just go out without any questions. I'm too curious. I don't know. But that's great. I mean, she was just like, yeah, let's do it.

Yep. And I guess the thing, I guess the thing for me that I've always wondered what's kept her from asking any questions is, I would say that I'm definitely a size king or size queen, however you want to refer to it. With your, with your dildos and you're asking me when you're being pegged? Yes. Okay. And, well, I also, even with a guy and stuff, I, not, I, I, I've never, well, I won't say I've never, it's rare that I'll turn down play with a guy regardless.

But if there's a guy that is definitely bigger or thicker, then I'm even more excited. But I have over the years gotten bigger and bigger dildos or cocks for myself, and now for pegging. And she's never really questioned the fact that how big some of these are that she's actually used. Let me ask you when she's pegging you, does she have a strap on and she's doing it that way? Or is she just taking a dildo and shoving in your ass? I mean, how far do you take the pegging scenario with her?

Well, we've done both. I personally prefer when she has a strap on. Yeah, yeah. That's what I was wondering if that was the answer, that I was wondering if she enjoyed that. I think she enjoys pleasuring me. I don't know.

I would say the strap on side of it is probably not as pleasurable to her as just using something on me. Yeah, yeah. It's probably harder to maneuver because you don't really feel it and you don't want to know what you're doing.

I've heard from women before that it takes a while before they get really into it because I don't, I think it's a bit awkward because you don't, there's no feeling in that cock, right? For her. Right.

So it's hard to kind of, figure it out how to do it yeah and if they're not using a a vibrator or something on themselves the stimulation on that is not is not necessarily pleasurable yeah yeah it's more just something pressing against them as they're pressing into you and so I think so in that respect I'm we're trying to get more I'm trying to get her to be more into it because the feeling of her yeah if I'm on all fours and she's behind me, the feeling of her hands on my hips, pulling me onto her, or if I'm on my back, her pushing my legs further up so where she can fuck me that way, that's exciting to me as opposed to just using something with a handler or just using what she has.

Yeah. But we haven't done a lot of that, but we have done some. And it's been enjoyable and pleasurable, and hopefully we'll continue. But I think, like I said, I've been kind of surprised that she hasn't just gone, really asked questions with some of the dildos or whatever that I pulled out. Yeah. Does she ever say, hey, fuck me in the ass for that? I mean, is she a three input girl or is anal only on the table for you? We have done anal with her with just myself, some. She hasn't yet really asked me to use the toys on her. But, I wouldn't be opposed. I don't think she'd be opposed to it.

Yeah, yeah. I just have to bring it up. I definitely would, I definitely would have to start a lot smaller. Yeah, yeah. Interesting. And let me ask you this, because, you know,

you have this whole side thing going down with guys and you're very into guys. Your sex life with your wife is like really great and everything really great over there. It's, it's been, yes, it is. You know, as we've gotten older,

of course, she's gone through. Menopause? Menopause. gone through later stages in life. And so testosterone dropping off and things. So there definitely was a period where, and with family, it just kind of dropped off because of things going on in our lives.

But I would say in the last four or five years, it's gotten back with her. I know you've talked about HRT. Yeah, she went on it. Yep, she's been, that's helped a lot as far as her goes. Yeah. I've gone and gotten, made sure that I have the proper. levels of testosterone and making sure that I keep myself active to where I'm not, you know,

I'm not, I can physically perform. The last thing, you don't want to be tired after a minute and stuff. And so you definitely want to stay physically active enough, even though, like I said, I've never been a physical specimen. You can at least keep yourself to where you can. Yeah, but the older you get the worst that's going to get. And if you take testosterone and you start supplementing, because listen, that kind of stuff gets worse and everyone's bodies get worse as they get older, especially if you're not working and

take care of yourself because you're losing all your hormones and you need testosterone to keep your muscle and all that stuff. So if you're supplementing with it, it's really going to help that situation. So that's great. I love your story. It's super interesting. You told a great story. I really didn't have to talk at all. And I feel like you could have spoke for another hour and probably have a million experiences. It's interesting that we spoke so much just about like your guy on guy action. We did a little bit about your wife. I mean, you are a guy that's been married for how many years? Quite a few. Like 20, 30? Yes. I just asked that because it's like interesting. I'm talking to a guy who's been married for 30 years yet we spent the whole hour just talking about all your guy on guy action,

you know, which is a whole part of your life yet you have this whole other life. It is interesting. I've not, you're not the only guy I've spoken to that is living. this kind of double life. It's happening more than I think women think that it's happening. I mean, look at all those guys you were meeting at the hotel. I think you've talked about it before, too. I think it's also an aspect of the generation that I was raised in. Yeah.

And I think if I was in my 20s now, I would probably just say this has all been, I like doing all. these things. Yeah, and your friends would be cool with it and half your guy friends would be the same and they'd be copping to it. My wife or partner would probably be okay with it as well.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And things. So maybe not. Maybe they wouldn't, but I think this, again, you've mentioned it before, this generation that's here now is so much more open and accepting of all sorts of things that my generation and older just couldn't

speak about. Yeah, and that's what's unfortunate And that's why so many people are living these double lives. And that's what's so great about the younger generation. People could say whatever the fuck they want about them. A lot of old people like will put them down. Oh, all these labels, all these things that they're into. Look at all this shit. But you know what?

40 years from now, they're not going to be living double lives. More things are going to be out on the table. More people, there's probably going to be less divorce because more people are being sort of real about who they are. Whether it's, I can't be monogamous or whether it's I want to be in love with more people than you, whether it's I'm interested in both sexes and you are two, everything's on the table. It's also why it took me so long to bring up the fact of wanting to be pegged. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, imagine. And look, but look how amazing, though, what I love about your story is that

little ending and that you did bring it up to your wife and she was like, cool. Look, you could have done it 20 years ago and she would have been fine. It's scary, I think, you know, especially the longer you've been with somebody. There's a lot of people that are hiding a lot of the secret kinks that they're into from their partner, especially because when you've been with someone for so long, if you've never told them about it, it's even harder, right? Yeah, and the longer it goes on. Yeah, it's worse. But I give you credit for, because you said, I finally got up the courage. It does take a lot of courage. That's a major thing to be able to bring up at your age after you've been with your wife and put it on the table. And how great that you did that because she was like down.

And how cool of your wife. And she didn't even nag you about it. I would have been like, what the fuck does that mean? Are you into guys? Are you who's positive? I don't know. Like most women would, but she didn't even side eye you. She was like, okay, she's down and she's there with you.

So I think that that's great. I mean, that's like a good thing. It's not great that you're living a double life, but, you know, we all know why because you are in your 50s and that's just what happens. But thank you so much, Mike, for calling in and sharing your story. It's super interesting because I think it's very relatable, okay? It just is. It's just a fucking fact. I see the downloads. I know that a lot of guys listen to these episodes. Well, I appreciate your, I appreciate your podcast and I appreciate the various things you brought up. I think the whole thing with Dr. Court.

Yeah. Just really struck a chord with me and everything. And I think it does with a lot of people, especially my age. That because, yeah, I don't have a, I don't have an interest in having a relationship with men, but outside of the relationship of me giving me. giving them head. When it comes to that moment in that sex, I forget what he said about it and how he distinguished the two differences, but it was very smart and it was a great episode and I thought it was very important because even before he came on my show, I was always perplexed and I, because I've been talking to guys like you since I've been doing my show, which is 10 years, but I've learned so much since I've been doing my show. When I have definite, different ideas and feelings and I've learned

a lot from doing my show and so I think differently now, especially about guy on guy action because of what he said, because before he said it to me, so many guys said the same thing and I was like, it doesn't make sense. Yes, I agree. When he made sense of it, I was like,

oh yeah, and then I put it all together for me and I was like so many guys have been trying to explain this and they couldn't put it into words, but he did and I think it was very great and I thought that was a very important episode to have on. So I'm glad that you found that. I'm glad that you called in Now, because you called in, if you want to send me picks for my Patreon, anonymous picks you can.

I don't know if you're into it. You said you have low self-esteem or whatever with your body. But you could also, though, go into my Discord. There's like over 1,800 people on there now. Everybody else pays to go on there. It's pretty X-rated and naughty. And people are like hooking up and talking to people, each other, and sexting and all that shit goes down there. I don't get involved in my Discord, but you will get free access to it for calling into my show.

Because what's fun for my Patreon members is to go in there and then. talk to the guests, you know, after they've been on. And on Discord, you could upload whatever you want. You could talk to people. They could send you picks, all that kind of stuff. So I will send you that link when it goes up. And just thank you so much for calling in, Mike. This was a great story.

Thanks. It's great chatting with you. Take care. You too. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers,

is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story.

There's a gang-bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct.

It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format.

back format. And finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay. I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to

my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at strictly anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at Gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strickly Anonymous podcast. Hey, everyone.

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