Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 741 - Lou and his Hotwife Were Into Threesomes, Couples Swaps and More

Episode Date: January 3, 2024

Lou and his hotwife were into threesomes and couple swaps and he called in to talk all about it. When did they start having threesomes? Where did they find the couples they hooked up with? And, what exactly would they do with them? Tune in to hear all the details including how he had erectile dysfunction issues and what he did that completely fixed it, how he met his first first wife and the video he found of her and a black guy banging and how and why it turned him on, how he got divorced and moved in with a friend who was into threesomes, the threesomes they wound up having and exactly what went down, how he met his second wife and how he bright up having a threesome with her and how she reacted, the threesome they had with his former roommate and exactly what went down, how they went onto apps to find couples to hook up with and how friend found them, the couple swap they had with his friend and his wife and exactly what went down, the other friends they had a couple swap and threesomes with and exactly what went down, the hook up they had with on of his solo friend and what went down, the black guy she found on Facebook and exactly what went down when she hooked up with him, how and why their swinging ended, how and why he now wants to get back into swinging solo plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. If you have an interesting, naughty, true story that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or non-anonymous, you could be on my show. Go to my website, Strictly Anonymouspodcast.com. If you want to call into my Confessions hotline and leave a confession,

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Discord, but there's a big community over there. Over 1,800 people. You only get access to it if you join my Patreon and it's only $5 a month for all of that. I really keep saying I'm going to raise it, but I'm like, why raise it? So many people join for five. Why not keep it super cheap? So that a million people sign up and everyone has effing fun. The link to my Patreon will be in the description. It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. I I will leave all the links and the phone number and the email and all that shit in the description. So today I have on Lou. I liked Lou for the minute he got on the phone.

Lou's a great storyteller. Okay. I can hear me say practically one word. Okay. There was at one point where during the middle of the conversation where he was like, can you still hear me? Because he listens to my show and he knows that I'm always interrupting and I wasn't saying anything. I'm like, yeah, I can hear you.

But you're just like telling such a great story. He is a guy that's older now. He's 54. But when he was younger, he did all kinds of stuff. stuff. He was very much in the lifestyle. With his first wife, he realized he wanted to play, and he goes through all of that. Where he is now, right now, he does talk about the fact that he wants to get back involved in the lifestyle. He's a single guy. His wife died about six years ago, but now he feels ready to get back into the action. So we start there talking about that,

how he feels about getting back in, how he had some ED problems and how he fixed them. That's something that we talk about right in the beginning. That's super interesting, okay, because he talks about listening to a guest that I had on that helped him. And he talks about the specific thing that that guy told him about that actually worked. Okay. So if you have any kind of getting it up and keeping it up issues, you want to listen to the beginning. And then he gets into how he got involved in the lifestyle and he does a whole bunch of reminiscing. When he was very young, he was always hypersexual. He talks about how he had this friend that used to have threesomes with a guy and a girl and that turned him on and then he found a porn of his first wife where she was like fucking a black guy and he like realized he was like super hard like jealous but also super hard at the time and those were the things that made him realize like this is something that he's fucking into he wound up having a threesome with a woman with that roommate the guy who told him about threesomes and he loved it he loved banging a girl with his buddy and then when he met his second wife the one he got involved in the lifestyle they started talking about the stuff

that he has done and they started hooking up with his old roommate and started having threesomes. And they had a lot of threesomes and they hooked up with a lot of people. His girl was always finding people. He talks about very specific scenarios. They're all in this episode. He just went on and on. I didn't have to say anything. Eventually after they fucked all their friends and people that they knew, they eventually started

going to swingers clubs and that's when they started to do like their first full swaps. He talks about that. and all the good stuff that they did together. And then we come full circle to where he's at now, a single guy wanting to get back into the lifestyle because his wife has passed and he's solo. And that's the whole thing. He tells a great story.

He's very detailed. There's a beginning, a middle, and an end. It's a great episode. So I'm going to be get right to it and be right back on with Lou. Hi, Lou. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm fantastic, Kathy.

Thank you for having me on. No, thanks for coming on. You are a former swinger. You've been in the lifestyle. You've done a lot of things. I think we're going to be doing some reminiscing here. We're going to talk about your time in the lifestyle. I know you want to get back into it.

I mean, that's where you're at now, right? Yes, yes, yes. I've been out of the game in a while, so I'm trying to get myself back into it. Okay, well, how long? Okay, let me ask you this. Let's start with where you're at now and then we'll go back. How long have you been out of the lifestyle? It's been about six years.

Okay, and now were you in it because you're with a wife or a partner and that ended? I mean, how come you stopped six years ago? Well, it's kind of brings it down. I lost my second wife six years ago. She passed away and it was kind of sudden and I'm a single parent now. So, yeah, after she passed, I really just had to get some stuff together. It took me a little while to get back to where I was like, yeah, I really want to do it again. And that's where I'm at now.

I'm just like, okay, I've kind of got it behind me a little bit. I would really like to get back into it again. So, yeah. Yeah, I could see that. But like now you're looking to get back in, right? As a single guy, I think it's harder to do, don't you think? Oh, yes, it definitely is. Being a little older, there's other issues.

And I'll just go ahead and confess, I've had some issues with ED, and I've kind of worked through that. From listening to some people on your show, they actually had some pointers out there. and I've tried some of it and it actually worked. Which ones? Because I think that that's super helpful for other people. I love that.

You know, I actually meant to go back and look and see which episode it was so I could give him a shout out. But it was the guy that started doing the prostate massage. He was having some problems with the E. He really studied it. He started doing some prostate massages stuff. Then he started getting into his wife pegging him and stuff. I haven't gotten that far.

That was the best. But that guy was the best. His name was Paul. I'm going to give out his episode because I loved his episode. I thought it was so important. Yeah, because what was great about him was he was like this super straight dude that had issues and he kept it from his wife the whole time, right? And he was on a mission to fix his issues.

And on that mission to fix his ED issues, he got into like anal play and started having prostate orgasm. So to me, his episode was filled with so much good stuff. I mean, there was a lot of like interesting stories. but there was those a lot of solutions, right? He talked about all the things he did to help his ED. What tips did he give you that you used that worked? It was pretty much, it was the prostate massage thing.

It was the main thing. Yeah. And it was really funny. Now, I mean, I've done other stuff. I quit smoking cigarettes and I started working out again and getting in shape. And that helped a lot. But I really saw a difference after I first tried the anal massage or the prostate massage. And I didn't have any toys or anything, so it's crazy.

I just bought some gloves and some lube and just tried it out and watch some other videos on maybe how to do it. And I did it. Kathy, it's funny. I did it two nights in a row. And on the third morning, I woke up with a rock hard dick. I couldn't believe it. I was like, son of the beach, I hadn't seen this in a while.

And so I was like, oh, wow. So automatically, I started trying to do it. And I don't really get into it. I do it for the ED thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I really started seeing some progress with that. And it led me, and that's what kind of was like, well, hey, if I quit smoking, if you do this and you do that,

and that might help. And sure enough, before I knew it, I was kind of not my 30-year-old or 20-year-old self, but to where I felt confident, I was like, hey, man, you might be able to get back into the game and do this stuff and get back in the lifestyle. So it really motivated me and helped me. I love that. episode was 707. I think that that's awesome to know. I mean, listen, Butter Wellness sponsors

my show and they have this great prostate massager that guys could use externally. And the whole thing behind it is not just to have a prostate orgasm, but to help ED, right? Because it does change the game. And you just did it with your hands and it worked in three days. So I think that that is such a great tip. But let's go back to your history in the lifestyle. So, you know, when did you get into the lifestyle. Was it with wife number one, wife number two? Was it when you were single? Well, and I take some of these terms from listening to your show. I love you show and listen to it. And I've heard other colors use terms. But I think I was also a hypersexual person from as a kid. By the time I got out of high school, I'd already had sex with 10 girls.

Oh my God. Which was a lot. I would have sex in high school too. Yes. Yeah. And I mean, I knew other guys that I graduated with and they had never had sex with anybody. So I was kind of like, wow, I can't believe I've had sex with so many people. But some people are really picky about who they slept with. Yeah. So anyway, I get out of high school and I got my old apartment. Started playing in bands. I'm a guitar player.

Started playing in some bands. And somewhere in 1995, I met my first wife, Liz. And Liz was a beautiful woman. She was like 5, 7, long blonde hair, blue eyes. spares skin. She was five years older than me, and she already had a kid. And I don't know, we started hanging out. And she had been around.

I knew some guys, and they were telling me, man, she's been with a lot of dudes. She's kind of got a slut kind of reputation. And I was like, dude, I don't care. It's all good. I didn't care about it. I wasn't judging her. I liked her. I thought she was a cool chick.

And so, yeah, we started hanging out. And it was actually funny. My first wife was the one that probably actually, I have to give credit to you to taught me how to have, well, how to fuck just to say that. Yeah. Because she would do doggy style. She would ride it. She liked you to slap her ass and grab her and she loved to talk dirty. A lot of the girls I had before that, they were never like that.

It was all just plain vanilla sex. So, yeah, she's actually like, we're fucking. And it was actually playing into a little foreshadowing here. One night I was over here, we'd only be going out for a couple of time. couple months I was hanging out of her place and her phone rings she goes to answer and she walks into the kitchen and that's like a private conversation it was just like for a minute or two it wasn't long and she comes back in and she sits down and starts saying it's just it's a black guy I met at work and he was

talking about another job I could he was gonna try to get me to make more money she's a single mom so she's trying to make more money I'm like oh it's all good it's telling it's all good no problems and I never thought anything else about it So somewhere in 1996, she and I got married. We'd been married, I don't know, six, seven, eight months, something like that. Everything was going good. We were doing good. And she was going to go off on the weekend with her grandmother, her mom, or sister, and her daughter, like on a women's retreat.

They've got a house at the beach or something. And I was like, yeah, that's cool. So I had the house to myself for a weekend. And I get off of work on a Friday. And I've got some beers. I think I had a little bit of weed. something and I started snooping around and I get into her closet and I find a shoe box that's got VHS tapes in there and I look at it and I'm like oh it's porn oh sweet

it's porn and it's just some generic 1990s porn kind of it's a guy and girl getting it on I'm like oh cool and I'm just kind of hanging out and I start looking through the other tapes and I find it it was just a plain tape and on it it said marks I was like I wonder what this is So I take out the first tape And I put in this tape And it starts off and it's in our bedroom Because I moved into Liz's apartment When we moved in together and got married

And I noticed it's her old bed And Liz is sitting on the bed And she's wearing like a lacy bra Lacey panties and some thigh-high black stockings And a little lace thing Shaw or something, whatever you call it over her shoulders And I hear her voice When it says

Hey this is this is beautiful Elizabeth and she's hanging kind of giggling and stuff and he asked her she's ready and i'm just kind of like what's what's going on well the dude comes and gets into the scene of the camera and it's a black guy and he's a big black guy he's all ripped up musley he's got the pecks of the six-pack and he goes and sits on the bed and they just kind of are hanging out and they start making out and they start getting it on He takes her bra off and starts messing with her tits. He grabs her hand and makes him grab his cock. And you can tell this dude's fucking huge, man.

So anyway, they start getting into it. And you can tell the guys kind of concentrating on the camera and get good angles and stuff. And they start off missionary. And it was the thing I remember were the noises. The noises she started making. I was like, oh, my God.

And it starts off slow. They're talking to each other, this and that. She's telling them how fucking biggie is to go slow. And before I know it within five minutes or so, it's straight up, animalistic, hard fucking, man. They're just going at it. And this dude's putting her in all positions. She's making her ride it.

He gets her doggy style. and he moves her in certain positions like for one doggy sally's got her face facing the camera and slapping her ass talking shit she oh my god the noises this woman was making and i'm tripping out i'm thinking this is my wife i've made love or had sex with her a hundred times and she's never sounded like this yeah i just had never heard it before and this goes on this video is like 30, 45, 30 or 45 minutes long. And it's, and it never slows down. Every once in a while, it slows a little bit.

They change positions, but it is just all that. Body slapping hard sex. And she was on the peel. She was always on the peel. So he comes in her and he gets off in her. And anyway, they kind of do some talking and stuff. And he gets up and cuts off the tape. And that was all that was on the tape.

There was nothing left. And Kathy, it was crazy. I had a big mix of emotions. I was jealous. I was kind of mad. But at the same time, I was hard as hell. It was the sexiest. I'd never, even on any porn I ever seen.

So after a while, I started putting it together. I was like, oh, I bet you that's that black guy. And I bet you it was before I saw her. And then maybe I don't know what that relationship was. I never found out. I never asked. And so I remember stepping outside and smoking a cigarette and was just kind of thinking about it and I don't know

before I knew it I went back in there rewound it and watched it again and I actually jacked off to it and that weekend she was gone I think I watched that thing maybe six or seven times I was just it was such a big turn on for me and before I knew it I wasn't really mad I was

more just curious you know yeah but you know she came home I didn't say anything about it I didn't want her to know I was snooping in her shit or found out something about her or whatever So, but yeah, we had sex like Curry that weekend. She was actually laughing at me saying, you must have really missed me or something.

I got started going off more often. So I guess about a year and a half after that, I got sick. I had to have some surgery and do some radiation. I lost a lot of weight. Our sex life went down to drain for a little while. Got through that, started getting back in shape and getting my weight back on. We started having sex again. and it was actually funny during that time, I'm going to do another little foreshadowing here.

I was working with a guy who would end up being my future roommate. And on this job, it was just you and another guy, and you just had job after job and you worked until you got all the jobs done. So we had been working together all day. And on the way back to the shop, he starts telling me about a story about when he was in the Marine Corps and had a threesome with his wife with another dude. and he goes in the great detail and I don't know why it totally turned me on I was over there with a chubby

why he's telling me all this and I never said anything about the video or nothing like that and I don't know it was just weird stuff started getting in my head before I knew it I started from that story and probably from I'm sure the video

I really started wanting to see my wife have sex with somebody else and I really kind of wanted of us here with this dude, my future roommate. I was like, so I started trying to mention things about it to her. Just a little offhanded stuff here and there. And you ever thought about doing this? Have you ever thought about doing that?

And she would get pissed about it. So it was really going nowhere. We weren't really getting along. Before I knew it, I found out she was cheating on me. And I just, yeah, I found out she was cheating on me. It wasn't with the black guy. It was with a white dude. I didn't ask a lot of questions.

I kind of found out. I just packed my stuff. And my future roommate started hitting me up about me and him getting a place. So we start looking at some places. And we find a house and place. And it's a nice house, nice neighborhood. And he's really trying to sell it to me, man. He's like, geez, it's going to be put 50,000.

We're going to go out of here and doing some shit and running into this. I'm like, yeah, man, cool. So we moved into the house. And I'm going to tell you, the brother wasn't line. It ended up being everything he was saying that's going to be. I started playing in bands again, started to have some people come by, and it was kind of a big party thing. And I guess we lived here just a few months,

and he came home one day and walks into my room. And he said, no, what's up? How's your day? And this is cool. Yeah, we're talking a little bit. Would you be down to have a threesome tonight? And I was like, dude, I hadn't been late in a year since me and my wife split up. So, hell yeah, I'm down for a threesome.

And he's like, well, I got this shit coming over. And she says she's down to have a threesome with them. And I'm like, hell yeah. And it was actually funny. I didn't know what to expect of what girl was going to come over. So it gets later that evening, get a knock at the door. The girls, I'll call her Tracy. She shows up and Kathy C was fine as hell.

She had just long, straight brown hair, brown eyes. She was even wearing the yoga pants that a lot of girls weren't wearing back. And she was fine as hell. So we end up having a threesome. God almighty, I bet you we all screwed for maybe two hours. And she was doing it all. She would do anal. She did D.P.

I mean, it was just crazy hot sex. And I was hooked. That's where I was hooked. And I was constantly always trying to get into some sort of threesome or something like And it was usually with my roommate. But yeah, from that moment, it's when I was looking where I would say my lifestyle got started. Okay. So we're getting different girls over there.

And it gets to be kind of a pretty common thing. Um, uh, I don't know, some stuff got crazy. They had a, an ecstasy party. We made friends with some, some strippers and stuff. And they came over and before I knew, uh, uh, uh, uh, Me and Bert were having a threason with a girl and these other two strippers who were lesbians came in there in the room. And we were all just in this same room, just having sex. This is kind of crazy.

But anyway, somewhere in there, I ended up telling my roommate about my first wife and the tape I saw. And I didn't confess to him. I really wanted to watch you too far. After I heard you told me that for a recent story and this and that, I was really wanting to see that. And we just kind of talked about that. everything and I don't know I was lit he was my roommate for about five years so I'm thinking like in 2005 I decided to go ahead and move on out and then I met vicky and I was 15 years older than she was and she was the most beautiful freaking girl I've ever seen in my fucking life I couldn't even look at her

the first time I saw her and I really didn't want to talk to her yeah and she really played on that. She could tell. So she was constantly coming to talk to me, make me talk to her. And we got to be really good friends for a long time, but I never hit on her because I was like, man, I'm 15 years older and she is. She's fucking beautiful. She's no way she's going to want to have anything to do with me. So after a while, I decided I was going to quit the band and I was going to move again. And I was out of show. And actually, she comes to the show. And we went out on dance floor and we're dancing and we're just talking and I told her I said look by the way I'm going to quit this man so you won't if you come to the band room I won't be there and I'm also going to move

I'm going to get an apartment someplace and she was kind of down about it we're trying to talk about how we can continue our friendship and we were just talking and somewhere in there I said me and you would make some beautiful fucking children and she stopped right where she was at and we talked about having kids. Well, next thing I know, she and I are together. And we move into a place. It's not. Everything is going great. And somewhere in there, we start talking about each other's sexual experiences. And I'm telling her about the threasons I had with my old roommate and stuff like that. She had told me about some kind of, some sort of Halloween orgy that she was in not long after she graduated high school, kind of a hot story, but I can't remember all the details to it.

Anyway, so she had, she had been involved in stuff like that. And I asked her, would you be interested in never doing anything like that? And she was like, hell yeah. And I don't know, we started trying to maybe find somebody to somebody to swap with. She talked about some ex-boyfriend she had, and we tried to hook up with them. But nothing ever really worked out. So anyway, it was in the summer. We've been there for a while.

I was in the summer, and I get a phone call, and it's my old roommate, Bert. And he's kind of back in town. He's got an apartment for the swimming pool, and he invites me and Vicki to come over, and he's with another girl now. And so me and Vicki go over there, and we start hanging out with him at the pool. And I don't know, we got where we started hanging out a little bit more and more with him and his girl, and went out to some comedy clubs, and somewhere in there, I'm sticking out, like, she was doing something like that.

three some or something. I know Burke would be down to do that because we've done it so many times. And she thinks about I'd be down to do that. I'd be down to do that. So I call them up and set up something. He can come by the next Saturday. He's going to get away from his girl. And so he comes by and we're hanging out, having some drinks. We had a hot tub back then at our place, mine and Vicki's place. And we get in a hot tub. And one of Vicki's rules was when we get stark from your hot tub, no clothes. So everybody, we're all in the hot tub naked. And I don't know, we've been hanging out, maybe about an hour or so.

I was getting kind of anxious. Anyway, Vicki gets up and go and get her another drink in the house or something. I tell Bert, I was like, hey, man, won't you go on in here and start trying to mess with her or something like that? Get something started and I'll walk in on you. And he's like, really, you're cool with that. And I was like, yeah, man. So he gets in there, and I give him, I don't know, 10 minutes or so. And then I'll walk in.

And they're just kind of hanging out in the kitchen, both naked, just talking. So I kind of hanging out a little bit. And I bring it up again to, but to Vicki. And I was like, hey, I'm going to walk back here and use the bathroom. When I come back, I want to see something going on if we're going to do this. And I go, and sure enough, when I come back, they're sitting there kissing, and Vicki is stroking his dick. So we all go into the bedroom. And Bert, Bert says, I got it.

eat it. I got to eat the pussy. So he gets down and eats the pussy. It was just a, it was a really good experience. We did, I think we fucked for at least an hour. We both fucked her. I told him, dude, you can't come in her. Do not come in her. She's not on the peel, nothing like that. He actually, it was actually kind of funny because he was behind her doing her doggy at one point. And then he pulled out and went down. And I thought he was eating her pussy out. And Vicki was sucking my dick, and she pulled off and she looked and she said, he is eating the hell out of my ass. And I was like, what? And then she went right back to town even harder.

But, oh, my God, I don't know how many times she got off that night. But we all got off. He came all over, made a mess. She had to go in here and take a shower. He got dressed, decided he was going to go. He left. Vicki was kind of like, I can't believe you left. I mean, you're telling by, and I said, well, I'm sure it's not going to be the last time.

So it was a really great experience. And I don't know, maybe a month, we didn't see him for a little while. And I guess it was about a month or two later, me and Vicki were, we were pregnant. I guess for about a year or two or something like that, we didn't do anything. We just helped a baby. We bought a house. I had to do some work on the house. so we were really kind of busy with that.

And it was probably, yeah, two years, a good two years, just in the conversation. We were like, we were both really wanting to get back into the lifestyle. She was having a good time with that. And so we start saying, yeah, man, let's put ourselves out here and see what we can do. This Memorial Day, shop one of Avocados' biggest mattress sales of the year and fall in love with sleep again. At Avocado, better sleep starts with better materials. Our certified organic mattresses are crafted without compromise using high-quality organic materials that bring comfort and support into perfect balance.

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Visit avocado mattress.com. That's avocado mattress.com. So we got on SLS, the Swinger Lifestyle site. I think it's what SLS is the stands for, but we put a profile out there. And we're talking about it. We put some picks on there and we do a little profile on there. And I think it had been up. Oh, yeah.

And we did a lifetime. We were like, yeah, we're dedicated. We're going to buy the lifetime membership for $100 or whatever. So I guess it had been up for about a week. And I get a message on Facebook Messenger. And it's my old buddy. I'll call him John. It's my old buddy, John.

I was actually, I've known them since I was a kid. Friends is a teenager. actually his best man at his way. And he says, I think it was a link or a pick or something like that that he had took from there. And he was like, dude, is this you and Vicki? And I'm like, holy shit. He's got the SLS. He's on the swingler lifestyle thing.

And I was at work. So I was like freaking out. I didn't answer him. And I'm trying to call Vicki and stuff after I knew she'd get up. And I finally went home at lunchtime. And I'm like freaking out like, oh my God, my friend John. and somebody's found us on the Swinger lifestyle stuff and she's laughing at it and she's that was the whole point that's what we were trying to do yeah so um it was funny um

we start talking to them and it's mainly vicky setting it all up i wasn't real big on hooking up these guys just because i knew them and i really i wasn't attracted to my friend's wife so much. She was, she was attractive. She was, you know, when they first got married, but she had had five kids. She had put on a lot of weight. But like before, I never

was that picky. If it was going to be some pussy, I was down to get some. So anyway, we decide we're going to hook up with these guys. And they come into town. I get her room. We go out to eat. We go to a club. And I got to mention

when we started talking about doing the swinger thing. I was kind of worried about, I'm 40 about this time. And I was like, dude, I don't want to be the guy in the room that can't get his dick hard. I do not want that to be me. I don't want to be the first one to come, and I don't want to be standing around watching everybody's screw. So I go to the doctor and not giving a prescription for Viagra. And so anyway, you need up with these guys. And I take one of these Viagas with him for Justin Kach. And I had a couple of drinks, couple rum and coats, breakfast at this bar club kind of thing. and everybody's ready to go to the room.

And I'm like, yeah, let me go to the bathroom quick. So I'm going in the bathroom. And I've got it in this cigarette cellophane and stuff. So when I'm in there and I'm trying to take it out, it's making all this damn noise. And I start freaking out like everybody's thinking I'm in there doing coke or something. Yeah. So I accidentally took the whole damn by, I didn't mean to take all of it.

You're not supposed to? Well, you can. It's not going to hurt you or nothing like that. But I normally didn't need that much. So I could just take a little bike, a quarter off in one or something. It would do clean. But I was just a little buzz and got frazzled and ended up just taking the whole damn thing. So we get to the room and automatically we all start getting naked.

And it was actually funny. I was talking about how his wife had thrown all a bunch of way and wasn't that attracted to her. But when she got her clothes off, she was sexy as him. She was a big girl, but she was cut. just in the right way, like her legs and her ass were perfectly shaped. Her belly was perfectly shaped up to her chest. She was freaking sexy as hell. Oh, my God.

Clothes do you know good. If you could walk around naked all the time, you would get looks all the time. Yes, that's so interesting. Yeah. I mean, it was actually, obviously, like, wow, but she really was good, naked. But anyway, so me and her start getting it on. and Dickie and my friend John started getting at home and before I know it, me and his wife are fucking,

we're just straight over there fucking. And I had a big old drunk, dumb, hard dick. It was just no feeling. It was that full bag of grand. I was just over here killing it. And my man over there can't get his dick on. Oh, no. Yeah, can't get his dick hard.

Vicki's trying, Vicki's trying. Vicki's trying and it just doesn't happen. And meanwhile then his wife rode on the bed just porno having sex, slapping her on her ass, talking shit. And I start kind of feeling bad. I'm like, man, Vicki's not getting any action. So I kind of go over there with her and the wife goes down on Vicki while I'm fucking her from behind, which Vicki really wasn't into girls.

But yeah, she would definitely let anybody to cuss you out. Anyway. So after a while, it's just obvious. The husband John's not going to be able to do anything. So we decided to call him and on. And we went home. They stayed at the room. Dickey was pissed about it.

She was carrying on about it. He had a little dick anyway. Now I wouldn't get hard. You go in there and wash that bitch off of you. She was just carrying on about it. And me and her in there, Pat, and said, I never did get all that money. My day was so hard.

But yeah, yeah, we definitely had that experience. We never really got back with those guys again, which they're a fun couple because actually that wife is just like a BBB slut. She loves people with black guys. And he sent her out all the time. And we're talking about that stuff all the time. And I was kind of in a new conversation that he and I had for a while. So I don't know, we kind of have, you know,

a few more experiences. Dickey had a friend named Melissa, and that was another time. We did some swimming. She was married. And I think, actually,

these guys had planned something without me knowing. And it was Vicki, her friend Melissa, and her husband, I'll call them, Chatham. They all wanted to go out.

So we go out. And I don't know. Somewhere in there that, the girls were just being very, very extra. You know, just, and I could tell something was going on. When we went to one club, you had to walk through some bouncers and security. And they would check you out, be sure you didn't have any guns or anything,

no house or weapons. And I'll walk through. I'm the first one walked through and they check me out. And I'm like, okay, and I walk through. I'm standing there waiting for Bickey come through. And they pat down Vicki, and Vicki starts talking shit, you know, it's two big black guys. And she says, I don't think you check me out, good enough. I don't think you're looking out for security.

people, I think you need to be more thorough. Well, man, they start filling her up. And I'm like, oh, shit, here we go. It's going to be one of these nights. I'm back. They just got to the bar and get some drinks. So they had been kind of acting like that all night. I don't know.

It got late. We closed the bar down. We closed the bar down. We're on the way back to our house. Me and the husband were in the front seat. And Vicki and Melissa were in the backseat. And Melissa starts going down on Vicki and eating her pussy. And I'm kind of turning around watching Kevin's driving, kind of looking at it, and we finally get to our house.

And when Vicki gets out of the car, she looks at Kevin and says, I want you to come in here and fuck me right now. And I'm like, damn. So we go into the house. And Kevin is a very jealous guy. He doesn't like anybody messing with his wife. But in our house is kind of an open concept. You can go into the kitchen. It's like an open kitchen, living room.

It's just like a little small bar. that kind of separates it. So we all look in the house and Vicki on back, we start stripping off our clothes. And then we in the list of walking to the kitchen and I got us some waters or something. We're just kind of standing here. And Kevin and Vicki start fucking on the sofa.

And I tell you, I was really tripping out. This dude, he was a big dude. He was like 6, 5, maybe 250 pounds. He had a little dick. had a very little dick. And the d'rugger getting it on, and I start rubbing on Melissa, and before I know it, she goes down on me, and stuck in my dick, and I pick her up after a little bit, and her husband keeps looking over his shoulder at us,

like, what are you doing? And I bend her over in the little kitchen bar and started fucking her, and he didn't like it. He didn't like it at all. He starts huffing and puffing, so we walk over to the couch, and me and Melissa fuck some more and he's still getting pissed off about it so we decided to swap back

so then it's being in Vicki fucking anyway they finished up they're leaving and me and Vicki are still fucking on the couch as they're walking out the door and we're like hey yeah all right they had a good time and still fucking Vicki and everything

but yeah that was another time we tried to to do the swing and it didn't quite work out the way you know, we wanted it to you, but it was what it wasn't. I mean, that's reality. I don't mind, I don't mind you talking about those things too, right? It's like you want to show all sides. It's the truth.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. It was, we had a good time. There was a few times Melissa came over without her husband and we hooked up with her. Vicki was totally cool with it. But I kind of knew Melissa really just wanted to get with Vicki. And I was just kind of in the mix. And sometimes Vicki

was in the mood. Sometimes she wouldn't. and she would just let me and Melissa do our thing. And sometimes it was the three of us. Just here and there. It's not like that happened every day or nothing. So there was another time. There was a buddy of mine. He was actually a singer in some bands.

And I was working with him on some stuff. And in the band room one night, he was talking about some swinger stuff he was doing. All these chicks he was banging, and how he banged three chicks in one night and this and that. So I come home and me and Vicki are hanging out. I'm talking and I mentioned it to Vicki. I'm like, yeah, I'm a buddy Jay.

He says he's, he's into this and then that maybe we could bring them in or something if you'd be interested. And she's like, yes, let's talk to him. So Vicki actually reached out to him. And they want she told him, I want you to take me out. So it was kind of funny because I was kind of worried other buddies were going to find out. Jay was taking my girl out. And I was, I was cool with it. I didn't have a problem with it.

So I think it was the next weekend. Vicki gets all dressed up. She was fine. And a little mini skirt and a little cool ass rock and roll black t-shirt. But he picked her up and they went out for a while. And the plan was when they got back. We'd see if he'd be down to have a threesome or something. So he gets back and she's told him, she told me later,

she told him in a car that we were wanting to have a threesome when he got back. he was not down with it he didn't want to do it which kind of confused me i was like i understand dude he was just telling me all the stuff that he's down to do and all the sex he's had and everything well um he he refused to do it the first time we brought him over the second time he couldn't get his dick card oh my god it's weird that this does happen more often than it doesn't i mean a lot of people think oh you put a naked woman in front of a guy he could always get hard, but a lot of times it's hard for guys to perform in this kind of a way. It is.

And maybe he was under some pressure. I'm not trying to give him any flack or anything like that. It does happen. You know, so she tries and tries. He finally does get his dick hard. He fucks her for five minutes or something. It's no big deal. I think, God, Amani, I think I fucked her six or eight times.

I just, I don't know, it was such a turn on for me a lot of times. And I just, I couldn't help it. I'd be like, I'm going to fuck her again. So, yeah, I had sex with her at least six or eight times that night. And I don't know, Vicki seemed to kind of really like this dude for some reason, which I didn't know how to take. Sometimes I was like, well, I don't know what you're, she was really just kind of talking to him a lot on Facebook, Messenger, things like that.

And I guess I was getting a little jealous about it because I told her a lot of times. I don't mind to share the pussy, but I can't share the heart. It's just got to be me and you and that. aspect. And I don't know, it was a little tension in there, nothing major or nothing. Anyway, we asked him to come over again. Again, he couldn't get his dick card. And we got kind of frustrated about it. Vicki was like, yeah, never mind. It's not going to work out. We've had him over all these times. And he's just, you never can't make it work. So we're just going to forget about it. And it was probably, I don't know, we didn't really do anything for maybe

about a year or so. And I don't know, it was kind of out of blue. Vicki was always on Facebook. She was on different groups and things like that. We hadn't done anything in a while. And she knew I had a little thing for interracial porn. I've watched a lot of interracial porn, which she knew. She could look at the computer and see what I was looking at.

I didn't try to hide anything. And I also like wife swap or fuck my wife, stuff like that, just crazy stuff. But anyway, she comes to me one night, and she was like, I think I found somebody I'd like to fool around with and then you have a threesome if you'd be interested in. And I'm like, okay, well, let's hear about it. And she starts talking about it, says, well, I'm going to call him Travis. His name's Travis. He's in the Army. And he's a black guy.

And I'm like, oh, okay, well, let's the scene. We go and she's showing me the profile and she's showing me some conversations they've had online and stuff. And I was like, well, baby, if you're down, I'm down. So, you know, she starts talking to him. We actually talked to him on the phone. And he was wanting to be sure he wasn't getting catfish and stuff. And so we talked to him on the phone. And in that conversation that came up, we were definitely going to hook up.

We're going to make some plans. And he was wanting to know with rubbers or without rubbers. And Vicki's on the phone talking to him. And she's asking me. And I said, well, I don't know. house's pullout game. And he said his pullout game was perfect. And I said, well, I'd say without rubbers in. And so yeah, we set it up. We made out a bar. He's a really cool dude. He's a good looking guy. I mentioned the black guy my first wife had been with. I was all cut up.

He was nothing like that. He was just a natural guy, not intimidating at all. Super cool. We hang out the bar for a little bit. And I had a, I had a room, a motel room. So we go back to the room, and he had just gotten off work at the Army, whatever he did, and traveled there. So he was wanting to take a shower, and I was like, all right, well, cool. And I mentioned to him, just from the failures we had faced, I really wanted this to be a good experience. So I was like, look, dude, I've got a Viagra. If you want to split it with me, just to be sure everything works out tonight, I'll be glad to give you one. And he was kind of hesitant because he was like, I don't know if I should take it or not.

And he said, I'll take it just in case. So he took it. And I took the other one. And we hung out for a few minutes. He was going to take a shower. Vicki and I were going to go down there and smoke a cigarette. And just before he jumps in the shower, he, he's naked. And he looks, he turns around to me and Vicki is we about to walk out and doing.

He says, is this stuff supposed to be working that fast? And we see his cock. He was fat as fuck. His cop was fat as shit. And I was like, holy fuck. I got shit and he gave him a damn by a act. I'm really kind of regretting this. I think I've just cut my own throat.

And me and Vicki go back down. They had a little bar. We get us a drink. You smoke us a cigarette. And he's, holy shit. Did you see his dick? And I was like, yeah, he's bad as hell. So we go back up.

And him and Vicki start getting it on. Vicki tried to get down to give him head. And she couldn't get her mouth open wide enough to actually get it all the way in her mouth. So she could come. kind of suck on the head a little bit and lick on it some. So, you know, I'll kind of give him her own time, and he goes down and eats her out. She starts it off with the sex, and she gets on top of him. And the whole time she's saying, holy fuck, your fattest, your dick is fat as fuck.

And much like that video I saw, they start off a little slow. And before you know it, they are straight up fucking, and it was fucking incredible. This guy would take breaks. He would hit it real hard for a little while, and then he might pull off and go over and get some water, and then I would go to there and start fucking her. But yeah, man, this dude, he had picked her up one time and was just slamming into her,

then kind of put her down on the bed, and Vicki was just shaking with orgasms. She was just, she could have multiple orgasms, and sometimes she would tell you, she couldn't tell you for one started and one end, ended. It was just a multiple orgasm. So, yeah, man, we hung out with that dude for, uh, God, I think about two hours. Just, just doing that.

Yeah. And, um, finally, you know, he got where we called in the night. He walked us down to the car. Me and Vicki get in the car and tell him good night. He's going to stay in the room and say they didn't have to drive back. So me and Dickey start driving back home. And Vicki looked at me and went, holy fuck, I'm never fucking another wife. boy again. And she realized what she said and she looked at me and she said, except for you.

And I was like, well, that's good because that was really fucking sexy as hell. And of course, we had videotaped it and got home and I let the babysitter go home. And I ended up crashing, but waking up two hours later and Vicki was up looking at the video. And when I got up, she's like, oh my God, you got to fuck me again. I've been watching the videos. That was hot as fuck. So we ended up having sex again. And yeah, the whole time I was thinking, man, I may have really fucked up because what if Vicky gets kind of emotionally attached to this dude or something, but because he really gave her a pound. And I mean, I, again, I never heard her make sounds like that. It was just, it was really crazy, really hot. We never did get to

get hooked up with that guy again. We talked about it. And it never really worked out. But that, that was kind of sadly that was kind of getting towards the end of of of our lifestyle it was yeah it wasn't long after that it was kind of all over but yeah that's that's that's pretty much it kathie did your wife though at that time go through menopause i mean i don't know if you want to get into what happened because i know that she passed or did she get sick after that i mean was it like you had another baby and she was young at the time i mean what happened at that point that it stopped after that guy? Well, it was, we, we didn't see that and we really, we didn't do anything for, I don't know,

it must have been about six months after that. I did start to notice little things about her. She was getting anxiety. She would get anxiety real bad. Was she going through menopause, like perimenopause? I don't, I don't think so, no, because she was only, she was only like 35, yeah, like 35 years old. Okay. She was still very young.

Mm-hmm. And she didn't have insurance, so we didn't know what was going on with her. And it just kind of came quick. But ended up being, she had a problem with her liver. And before we could really get a hold of it, it was too late. Yeah, anything with the liver. I mean, because it goes out to the rest of your body. That's scary.

That's awful. Yeah. And it can happen like really quick. I mean, it was like no time at all. Wow. Crazy. And how, and that was six years ago. Yes.

Yeah. Now, so you have, so now you think, though, that you are ready to get back in the action. Like, how do you see yourself getting back into the lifestyle? Are you, like, looking to find a partner and then take it from there? Are you looking to go into the lifestyle as a single guy? I mean, like, what's your plan? We got five minutes. What's your five-minute plan?

It's actually fan. My plan is anything that works. I'm on some dating sites where I'm actually just trying to find the partner, maybe hopefully eventually we can get back to that point in the lifestyle they'll be down with it or I'm also on the bolt friend finder where I'm trying to find somebody if there's couples out there just I'm really down for anything just to be honest you know you know I'm not looking to fall in love I've already had that I doubt anybody that's going to compare to what I had with me and Dickey but yeah but you know I'm I still just feel like I got some some some some gas in the tank I've worked out some

issues and I'm feeling confident about my sexual life and I would just really would like to get back out there. So I'm really just looking for anything, anything that drops in my lap I think I'm going to take hold of. Right, right, right. Well, you never know. You know what I mean? Listen, how old are you now, by the way, Lou? I'm 54. Okay, you're 54. Nowadays, people could live till they're 94. Okay, so let's do the math. You could have 40 years. You could have five months. We don't, nobody knows how long they have, right? But let's pretend you're healthy and you're going to live your full life. You can live till you're 94. 40 years. That's a long time. I know that life goes by really super fast. Now one year is quick. It's quick, right? So you got to live life. So it's good that you're back

on it and you're looking to do it. You never know. You might fall in love. You might wind up with another woman who knows where what's going to happen with you down the road. I think what's great is that you're finally back in the game and you feel good about yourself and you've come full circle and you have your confidence back and maybe you will fall in love. You don't know. You never know. Or maybe you're just going to have fucking fun. You know what I mean?

And be a solo swinger. I don't know. Are you open to going to clubs and stuff like that? Yes. Yeah. I am. I haven't done it yet. I think there is actually a local swingers club here.

And it's kind of, it's on my bucket list, my list of things to do. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But from listening to your show, I've heard about the parties in the hotel taking. I think I'm going to try to get involved with that. And I don't just dip my totems in anything and see what happens. Yeah, why not?

Listen, I have some really successful solo guys in the lifestyle episodes. Those are the good ones to listen to because it's not easy to navigate the lifestyle as a single guy. Okay. Those are like you're like the bottom of the totem pole, unfortunately, in that world, right? Women are on the top. It's like the alter universe. It's like in the regular world it ain't that way. But in that world, women have all to say.

they're allowed to come solo. They're like the top prize. The single guy is everyone's giving them a fucking side eye. You know what I mean? But it's not impossible to be successful as a single guy in the lifestyle. And I think what I have heard or what I have found for most of the single guys that I feel like you have just from talking to you, I could get your vibe is if you're a fucking nice guy and you're a good person, like people are going to smell that.

People know that, especially women. Women have intuition for things like that. They know a fucking douchebag from a mile away, especially older women. know what I mean, then those are going to be your girls. But you're going to walk in there. I can tell you're a nice guy. And so I think that you'll be accepted in the lifestyle. Like the nicest guys in the lifestyle are the guys that get the most girls. It's not about being the hottest guy or the guy with the biggest dicks.

It's about being a nice guy because women, when it comes to men, they want to feel safe. They want to feel in control. They want to feel a certain way. So a nicer guy, I think, in that kind of experience where a woman is, being very vulnerable and giving herself to them. Being a nice guy goes a long way. And it's going to get you fucking late. Okay.

So keep at it. And let's see where you are a year from now. Now that you've come into your own and you're just starting, it's almost like you're right at the beginning, right? It's not like you've been trying for a year and nothing's happened. I mean, you're about to start now, right? Yes, yeah. Yeah.

So good luck to you. I really wish you all the best. Never say never. You don't know that you won't fall in love again. You never know. Maybe Vicky will help bring you. you another girl into your life. You don't know. I believe in that. So, but keep me posted and let me know what goes down. Good luck with everything. And thanks so much for calling in. I haven't had to say

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