Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 753 - King is a Black, Bisexual Swinger who Enjoys Hooking-Up with Couples

Episode Date: January 24, 2024

King is a single bisexual black man in the lifestyle who enjoys hooking up with couples and he called in to talk all about it. When did he realize he was bisexual? When did he get into the lifestyle? And, what kinds of things does he enjoy doing with the couples he hooks up with? Tune in to hear all the details including how he started hooking up with strippers when he was younger and all the threesomes and moresomes he had with them, the young girl him and his gf started dating who introduced them to the lifestyle, how he started to get turned on watching women suck dick and how that led to him blowing a strap on, how he’s now super into orally pleasing both men and women, how and why he never hooks up with guys solo and how he is only into d*** when a female is involved, how and why he also enjoys a passionate hook up with couples as opposed to a one and done, the one couple he’s been seeing for awhile and what he enjoys doing with them when they meet up, what bugs him about other solo guys in the lifestyle and the things solo guys should and shouldn’t while in the lifestyle, how he earned how to deep throat and why he loves doing it, the hotwife parties he attends and what goes down at them, how he labels himself, what he’s looking for in his new relationship. how and why he keeps this part of himself a secret plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of KING plus anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Santa Paul or a Thailand. You can't not do it. The temptation is just too much. With real problems. Do your friend know that you're banging her or no? No, he has no idea.

And anything goes. The motto of the show, let your freak flag fly. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-harm. your whips and shame. Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. This is a guy that got into the lifestyle as a couple, but then stayed in it as a single guy.

He claims to be, or he calls himself a single bisexual, black guy in the lifestyle. And it's very specific what he's into and we talk about that. We, of course, go all the way back when he was younger. So we said he was like really into threesomes and stuff. And when he was younger, he started out with a lot of bisexual women. He lives in Florida and a place where there's a lot of strip clubs and he dated a lot of dancers and he had some threesomes that he talks about. Eventually, he had one girl, I think it was the girl that he had a long term relationship with.

After he was married, he met a girl. He had a long-term relationship with her. They brought in another girl, and that girl got them into going to, like, Swingers' clubs and Swingers' parties. One of his girls was very into strapping it on. And one day, he put that strap on in his mouth, and he sucked a cock, and he was totally into it. He loves pleasing, not just women, but men.

And he hooks up a couples a lot. Like, that's like his thing that he loves. He's not into being with a guy solo. He's not into that at all. He wants to be with a couple and not a cuck couple. He doesn't want the guy watching. He wants the guy involved. And that's exactly what he does.

And that's what he's doing now. He's very professional at it. He talks a lot about the couples that he hooks up with, what he likes to do, how he likes to suck a dick, how he labels himself, how he's very into pleasing, both the man and the woman. He talks about all of that kind of stuff. He does get into a lot of really good advice for single guys that want to navigate the lifestyle because he was in it as a couple first.

first, right? And he would see these single guys, single solo guys in the lifestyle. And he knew all the things that they did wrong. And he doesn't do those things now that he's a solo guy in the lifestyle. And so he gets invited to the parties. And he talks about what not to do, what to do as a single guy. He talks about a lot of his experiences with couples. He has one couple that comes into town every now and then flies in, a prominent couple that he bangs and he talks about them. And he talks about so much more. It's a super interesting because he's very specific about what he's into. He's very clear about what he's into and he goes after it and he's had a lot of it. So anyway, he sent me in picks. He talks about being in great shape. I have his picks over on Patreon. They're anonymous picks, but it'll also be on my

Discord. He's looking for new couples. You might want to bring him into the mix if you are a couple and you have a by guy in your relationship because that's what he's into. He's also into oral, very into oral when it comes to guys. That's a big thing and he does talk about that specifically. You'll hear all of his stories and all of his information. So anyway, I'm going to get right to be right back on with King. Hi, King. King is your name. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast.

How are you today? I'm very good. I've never had a King on my show. Well, you got one now. Yeah, yeah. So listen, King, this is the short story. Then you can tell me a long story. It's a little very specific, which I like.

You are a guy, a single bisexual black man in the lifestyle, which is rare to begin with. Solo guys are rare. Solo black guys are rare. Solo black bisexual or solo bisexual guys a lot of times is very rare in the lifestyle. At least they can't talk about it, right? It's a little still stigma there. But you are only by and only into guys when you play with couples.

Like you're never hooking up with a guy solo. And you do play with couples. You have a steady couple that you play with. You're like their, I guess maybe their bull. I don't know. I have a couple that flies into. town every now and then they have a home in in in this south florida area they have a home here and but they stay on the west coast you have one couple but you also play with other couples i mean

we're going to get the whole story so let's go back to the beginning like how did you get into the lifestyle well at some point in my life well you have all these fantasies all your life when you 18 19 and 20 yeah and my fantasy was three at some point i got away from it away from that I just thought it was something that was never going to happen. And I don't know if you ever really been in South Florida, but a lot of strip clubs, a lot of dances and everything. And I started dating dancers. After I got out my marriage, I started dating a lot of dancers.

And it was something that I didn't ask for. It just happened. I could get in detail. Because one of them is an amazing story. Like my first threesome was, I would say, was nothing like, what I ever thought it was going to be. It was just, I dated this dancer and she would call me when she wanted some, which basically I would just dick for her.

I know you're going to edit some stuff out. I don't edit a dick out. Have you listened to my show? Oh my gosh. Okay. Okay. Well, basically I was a dick for her. Okay.

Yeah. Yeah, I was a dick for her. She would call me late night and she would come over. And one night she said she's bringing a friend. And I got all excited. I was like, oh, I'm going to find my first three-sum. I'm my first threesome. But the girl that she brought, it was basically about her having that girl, not about me having a girl.

So it was just, it was for me and her with sex, it was the same thing. She wanted to have her three orgasms. Basically, the first one was always by, was oral. And by her third, when she would have her big one, when she had a bit one, she was done. And so I was trying to eat the girl. I was trying to get a voice. She said, no, you got to wait. And I remember we was literally trying to get the push at the same time.

And she was pushing my head out of the way while I was hitting her from the back. And so basically it was, I had to wait until she got her three. Then she let me have a girl. So it was like, okay, this threesome thing ain't no big deal. Because you were with a selfish girl. It wasn't kind of like a free for all. So you were really able to do what you wanted. Yeah.

Yeah. It wasn't that. But then I met this girl in online. though that was actually from Miami. And we was dating and we were talking, and she came back down to Miami, and she started dancing. And we was in a club. Matter of fact, the club was a club.

The club was a club. You heard of Rolex. You heard of different clubs. Yeah. Yeah. And I was in a club called Coco's, and she had me, because I would never come to the club because she would dance there. But eventually, I came to the club one day, and she said, well, she had me meet all the

friends and say, well, what do you want? And I told her one of the girls. And I'm thinking just to get a dance. And so we go back into the VIP room. And I'm telling you, it was literally like a porn movie. And it was like not only was it the girl that she brought, but it was some of the other girls end up coming in that VIP room. It was like she was giving me something, like she was rewarding me for some of the things that I have been doing. And at that point, I basically was only dating bisexual girls. And I spent most of my life just dating bisexual girls.

And one thing, I wouldn't say this is a sexual comment, but one thing, we stick to dating bisexual girls. I was in Walmart one night. Me and me and a friend was at Walmart. And so she sent me to go get something on the other side of the store while she was in another section. So go over there and I'm looking and it's this, oh my God, this girl is bad. She is amazing.

And I leave the aisle because I don't want to get in trouble. So I go back and get her and I say, well, you know what? You got to go over there and look for what you need. So she goes over there and she gets there and she's like, well, she comes out the aisle and she's like, oh, did you see, did you see the girl over there? And at that point, I only dated by a girl because it was just that concept. It's not so much about the sex itself or being with other girls. It's more about the freedom and the non-jellacy that's always there. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So you had all of that going in. And you're young. I mean, this is like a great way to start out. No, but I'm in my, no, but all this is like I'm in my late 30s. Like I was married at one point. And I got to this point later, later in my life. Yeah, that's interesting. So now, do one of these girls get you into the lifestyle?

Because this isn't really the lifestyle yet. I mean, you're definitely not leading a very vanilla life, and you're having fun. Yeah, I'm having fun because we're dating. Like, I got into a relationship. And what got me in their lifestyle was we started dating this girl, this young lady. and she was in a lifestyle and she invited us to a party. And, you know, from there,

I was in a lifestyle, a couple. As a couple, because you were with a girl. So, yeah, so I was, for years, I would say for five years, I was in a lifestyle, I was coupled up in a lifestyle. And we broke up. And I breakup had nothing to do with a lot of.

lifestyle. The lifestyle in some sense kept us together. That right sense. Let me ask you a quick question. When you were playing in the lifestyle as a couple, were you hooking up with guys yet? Did you know you were into guys at that point? No, but at some point, I did enjoy seeing her do some things. Okay. Like, I did enjoy seeing her sucked in. And it was weird because one time I'd see this guy come to the parties, to like to up to some of the house parties, and he would bring his girl. And all she would do, he would just film her sucking dick. And I thought it was, and I thought it was just weird.

And again, we're talking about a black guy bringing his black girlfriend to the party, and he's filming this girl sucking, and she was a good-looking woman. And he would never do anything. And, but he would literally film her doing it. And I think at some point, you're watching her doing it, and you're like, I want to do that. She's like, she's enjoying that. my girl used to strap up a lot with other girls.

A lot of time when we got females, I allowed her to go get them. She was a girl. She liked female. It wasn't like a lot of times you get these relationships in a lifestyle where it's the husband or the guy that's forcing this girl to do stuff, which I think is horrible. And so, but in our situation, it was like we both was in agreement.

And so she would do it. And she had a strap. And I just one time, it was just like this time I told the strap up and I gave her, I gave her head. I sucked the strap. Oh, okay. But the strap was too big for me to take. I couldn't take it anywhere else but in my mouth. But I got a fixation for sucking the strap or just sucking in general.

Do you think it was because of that one experience? No, I think just seeing when you're watching, you're at a party and you're watching women doing it. Mm-hmm. And you see sometimes they get enjoyment out of it. Then you slip and you watch some porn. It just comes up. Yeah, yeah.

Yeah. You slip and watch porn. But one thing about it, I was never into gay porn. Mm-hmm. I was never into that. bisexual porn with couples just I think the fixation was

when you're let's say there's a you're in an origin. Yeah. Without being or you in a group setting. The woman can do anything she wants to. She can touch everything and anything that she wants to. But the guy

he's limited. And so you get to that point where, well, dang, she looked like she's having fun. And you want to do some of those things. And like I said, we had a friend and she was very good at what she did. When she was sucking and she enjoyed it, like it was like a turn on for her to something. And I wanted, and that you just want to do it. Because you saw how into it she was and you started to think like you want to see if you would feel that pleasure. Yes.

So at some point, as our relationship started, well, first of all, the relationship that we had with the other couple, that couple broke up. And then our relationship ended, we started ending. And I was with some, what you call the couple couples, a lot of couple couples. And at the end, they want to do this. But sometimes the guy is so limited in that situation. that you still don't get out to you don't get too much out of it. I will do a couple couple, but it's not as fun as truly as fun as a by couple. So I went from being with other couples to other cuckal couples to the point where I was with

by couples. It was really hard at first. It was hard because you could reach out to couples, but a lot of times those couples are either looking for other couples or you're dealing with couples that have they're playing like they're a couple but you got this guy that said oh we got to meet me and you have to meet first you deal with that stupidity

a lot as well oh that's interesting but eventually and I want to say it happened around the same time that I finally got to enjoy that part where I met with with a couple

and and I was able to do it. And it was amazing because I was, I was saying I was good at it right off the back because I did practice on on dildones. I did before I did it. I practiced on dildos. I practiced on cucumbers. Did you learn how to deep throat there because I know that that's a thing. My first experience was with with a couple. And in yes, I was able to handle, matter of fact, I've never not been able to have to afford it. I've been able to suck a full of it. time and I've been able to

completion every time. I'm very good at it. I like it. I'm more into oral than I am into anything else. Like I know, my experiences have mainly been a lot of times you deal with couples that are

like one of the first couples I was with. It was more or less about the guy wanting to be with a guy and he wasn't, every time I would trust his wife he was taking my dick out of pussy so he could suck it. He was more or less about me and it wasn't about it wasn't about me being with both of them. It was still about this. It looked more like a gay guy trying to be with another guy.

Now did you like that experience? No, at some point, no. It was because I wanted to be with both of them. And that's where I'm at in this where I turned on by the touches. Like I want to suck it with her. I want to, I want her to rob me while I'm sucking his dick. I want, I love the engagement of, of all, of all, everybody involved, whether it's multiple people, because I've been, I've been in about origin. I love the fact that everybody touch it and, and there's no rules and regulations to what's going on instead of being in the regular capacity of a normal lifestyle. Yeah, a normal orgy in a lifestyle club. The guys don't touch the guys.

Some of the women aren't playing. But you've been in biorgies where everybody knows that everybody is bisexual, women and men, correct? Right. And it's a free for all. And I love a romantic setting. I don't like it just to be a fuck. Yeah, yeah. That's not so interesting about you that I found when you emailed me at first.

It was very specific. You are definitely a guy that, like you said, you want to suck a dick and you want the dick there. but the woman has to be there too. And then now you're throwing a romantic setting. What do you mean by that? I'm not there just a pound and the hitting goal, pound and go. I like the touching. I like the kissing.

I like, you know, all the, I like it to be. Sensual. A more of a passionate matter. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, okay, I get it. The couple that I'm with is really very passionate. No, the guys don't kiss. We still don't kiss, but there's a lot of kiss on his body, but not tall kissing in the mouth.

Yeah. But it's definitely very passionate when I'm sucking him, when he's sucking me, when she's sucking me, when I'm fucking her. It's very, it's very passionate, very romantic. And I'm that guy that's in South Florida. I mean, I'm looking for more of that. How many do you have? Don't you have that one regular couple? And then you said I also play with other couples.

But it's, their main home is in California. Okay, so they fly it. Right. So they come home. They come here like once a month. He is, I heard you talk about celebrities. He's in his field of work, he is a big deal in this field of work. He's a known player.

Right. Yeah, he's a big field in his work. She is more or less, she's amazing. you wouldn't think that she would be with him. Why? She is amazed. She is at another level. He's an older guy.

Well, but does he have a lot of cash? No, I don't get anything. I don't know. No, no, no, no, no. Does he have a lot of cash himself? Is he a wealthy man? Because in his profession, you said he's very well-known. So obviously he's wealthy.

That's why he has a girl out of his league. Do you understand? That's why she's better than him. That's what happens when you make a lot of money as a man. You could be a five and you're going to date a 10. So in some sense, I'm that bull. Yeah. If you want to call it a bull.

I don't like the concept of bull of BBC. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But I'm that person for infants that satisfies her and that matter. And but I satisfy both of them and I enjoy it. It's not like I just do it for the purpose of so I can get with her. I actually enjoy what I do. I like the taste at the end of the day with both of them. Yeah.

I like to taste both of them. Now, are you a size king, by the way? Do you like bigger dicks? Do you not care? Is it a thing for you? What are you looking for when it comes to the guy? I would say that if it's larger, I do like it. Uh-huh.

I've been with a couple where the guy was just ridiculous. This was a black couple, and he wanted to end of me, and the shit, hurt, you know, to be real. Yeah. And I don't usually do, I don't do that all the time with couples, but that's what they want it. So I try, when I'm with a couple, I try to get a couple what they want.

Definitely, I definitely, and in the bisexual scene, believe it or not to buy couples, it's more or less about order anything. You don't get a lot of buy couples where the guy wants to be in it or the guy. There's no topping or bottoming. It's mostly oral is what you're saying. That's interesting. And that's what

you're most into, too, correct? I'm a versatile guy. As long as it's pleasurable, I can't be in her as long as it's pleasurable. As long as I'm not trying to beat my head in. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, I do find that pleasurable. What about with women? What do you look for in the women?

Are you pretty much open as long as, like, she's sexy in some way? Or do you have a preference? For me, it's so crazy. I think about so much stuff I want to talk about. For me, average is okay. Mm-hmm. Like the word love is love is a verb. People talk about love is being a verb.

To me, sexy is a verb. Yeah. Because sex is not just about what you physically look like. No way. It's a vibe. It's the way you conduct yourself, the way we talk. I don't like it. I don't want to walk in your house and just start fucking unless we've talked a lot before.

Yeah. And we've had that conversation about things. And then maybe I'll walk in. a lot of time with couples, they want to, they want to make sure there's a lot of guys that play like that by a couple, a bi male, just so they can get with the woman that get there and they're not. For me, the first thing I do a lot of time is walk in your house and I'm going to get on my knees and show you that I'm truly bad. Right. So to make you comfortable. But then in the same sense, I do want to talk. I do want to conversate. I do want to find out what your fantasies are

and what pleases you. So I can make it. And I'm that person that I find pleasure and pleasing. Obviously, it sounds like it. I nearly find pleasure and pleasing. Both men and women. I mean, that's why, right? I mean, that's...

Right. Well, with me being with a couple, I want the couple to be happy. Yeah, both of them. I want a couple to be happy because I want a couple to, you know, want me again as well. You know, so definitely, yeah. And what are you, as far as, like, the demographics, what do you find that that's hitting you up? Are they older, younger, white, black, all across the board?

And do you have any preference? I would say all across the board. Right. I would literally say all across the board. I wouldn't say that I want the woman to be obese. She has to have something to look at whatever. Like I say, average is okay. The guy can be a little chubby.

But he doesn't, like I said, he doesn't have to be. Like they talk about that Ken and Barbie. You don't have to be that Ken and Barbie. Yeah, for sure. Most people aren't Ken and Barbie anyway. I mean, that's all your, that's all you want to fuck. You're not going to fuck a lot, you know? Somebody once said on my Discord channel, they're like, oh, there's not as many hot girls as I thought.

I said, what do you think? There's not as many hot girls as you think anywhere. I mean, like, that's just life. Like, not everyone's a 10. Most people are not a 10. Most people are in the middle, you know. Well, what they got to understand is in the lifestyle is that when when the couple, is there. Well, you have a good looking couple. You have a good looking.

She's going to mix. She's going to mix herself up with other people that look the same as well. You know. They're going to be picky as shit. Yeah. So a lot of people get into the lifestyle. And they're looking for something that if you can't get it outside the lifestyle, you're not going to get it inside the lifestyle. We go to the exact same part. And too many times you get single men coming in there. Yeah. And, you know, what I had you talk about. I hated single men when I was in the lifestyle with as a couple.

Talk about why. Interesting. They pay, they pay them go to the parties. Yeah. They think because they pay extra because most house parties, they make them pay extra. Yep. And they go there and they think, okay, I pay to have sex. No, you pay to be let in here.

You still got to put in the same work that you have to put in outside the lifestyle. And if you're not attractive outside of lifestyle, you're not attractive inside the lifestyle. And that's not necessarily not attractive meaning on a physical level. If your personality is gross and you're a douchebag or your. or you're pushy, you're crossing people's boundaries. Like, none of that shit's going to fly. And that's a big thing. I know one problem that we do get at a five parties is that you get straight guys.

You get a lot of straight guys looking for that. You get them looking for that cuck and cook. They're looking for that cuck or the cuck or they're in the midst of that. And what is, but if a guy, if a single guy is pretending to be by, but he's not really into it. He's just looking for a cut couple. Is it what he's looking for as a guy to watch him fuck the wife, but he doesn't want to do anything with the guy? Is that the difference?

Because what does he look? Like, is that what it's about? They do that. And that's what makes it hard on, like, on my side, right? When you tell somebody, you really have to prove to them that you truly are because they've had so many bad experiences of

especially they have a great looking woman. And they have too many bad spirits of that guy just saying that. Because he wants to fuck the wife. Because he wants to fuck the wife. Yeah, okay, that makes sense, right? Mm-hmm. So that's why you get on your knees initially.

You get on your knees right away to let them know. Don't worry. I get on my knees. I'm real. And I enjoy this. I enjoy. Wait, quick question. How did you teach yourself how to deep throat with toys?

I'm going to say with toys, with porn, watching the throat open up. hearing the fact of we're just relaxing. And loving it. You obviously are so into it. And that's the thing. It's enjoyable. Yeah. And I actually like the explosion that happens not per se always outside my mouth.

But I like the explosion down my throat. You swallow, obviously. And I love to make them lose it because I keep, I don't stop. interesting and i and i had that done to me i had i had a girlfriend i said they used to do that to me and it would just drive me wild because instead of her stopping when i nut she kept going really and how long would it be until you came again like how long for me to come again man i would run because it's such a great feeling sometimes i feel like it's typically you you They push you away when they came because it's too overly sensitive.

Same thing for a girl's clit. Same shit happened. But you got to push through it is what you're saying. You got to push through. And you know what you just said. And it's the same thing with a girl. Yeah. When you, when I'm, when I love, I love all.

I love. First of all, the most exciting thing to me with sex in general is an orgasm. Right. So even if I'm when I'm having sex with her. and she orgasm, that's the most exciting thing. That is it for me. I don't, my orgasm is not the most excited thing. Their orgasm is.

And in the same sense, per se the couple that I deal with out of California, they get excited about mine as well. So I do have to give them that. Make sure I give them that because that's something that they want to see. But you like to push women through to when they're coming and they have kids? already and they're overly sensitive. You want them to come some more, right? Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, I do. Yeah, you're that crime. Because once you get them past that threshold, then it takes it to another level. Really? You know, because if I can get you past that first threshold, then we, it's like we get to, on the female side, we get to another level where,

my goodness, she is, now she's fucking the shit out of it. because you have, she came, she's gotten past that amazing feeling and that's not that feeling is not stopping. Let me ask you this because you talk a lot about like how much you, like these single guys that in the lifestyle you hated them. I mean, you are a single guy in the lifestyle right now, correct? And that makes me, and it makes me very respectable. Right.

Because being on the other side as a couple at one. time. Yeah. And knowing what aggravated me, I make sure that I don't be that, that single guy that's aggravating. And talk about that. What was aggravating when you were a couple to from that the single guys would do? I remember like, all right, let's say you're in a party. And this is definitely single guys that here. If you're going to approach that couple, you're going to put that female, approach that female while that guy's there. Don't wait until he go to the restaurant to her approach his girl. And in most cases, come to them. Make sure, if you're in a couple's party, you need to bring your, your girl over to us and let's meet

as a couple of couple. And this goes again where guys bring females that they're not in a relationship with or they're not with. They just bring them so they can get into the couple's party. Yeah, yeah, for sure. So with just respect. And a lot of times, this is what they do. If you're in a bed, you, you're involved, you're having sex with, with another couple, you're having sex with whatever's going on in that bed and here's this guy that doesn't have permission to touch. He's just reaching into the bed or he's trying to get involved in what's going on, but you haven't talked to anybody.

You haven't got nobody's eyesight. Get eyesight with the guy. Yeah, yeah. Don't just jump in and try to push your way in, you know. You know, the biggest thing about, and the most. pleasing aspect to me of the lifestyle was the party atmosphere before since. Interesting. Meaning that like for like when we're in the lifestyle as a couple, those were our friends.

We went to movies. We went out of the parties. We did vanilla things together as well. We watched games before we did. Sometimes we'll be at a house, but we might be there because there's a game on TV. So we, so after the game, during halftime or but it was always this nice cookout that would happen or somebody's birthday that was those were the things that was great in the lifestyle

for me that was a great and that was the thing that me and my girl at that time that we like that we love not just so much about the sets and with the single guys they come in there and enjoy that part of it if they're playing a card game or they're playing dominoes in space or something like that that's what we do but get be involved in that get conversate with everybody then you're more open to get in those just don't sit in there off of the fuck I'm gonna get me some off and I can't wait before and that's the mentality they come in so when I go to house when I go to house but I still go to regular house parties so I still go to

I've been on some hot wife parties as well yes I'm turned on by everything that I see the hot white party. I am turned on by it. But I do go to those as well. But the thing is that it's a lot more to the lifestyle than just the sex itself. It's more about everything being open. And when I hear you, when I listen to your podcast, it's a lot of the couples, a lot of people, it's just about the openings of it. It's not so much about everything that's going on, but everything It's so open that you have nothing to hide. You have nothing to conceal. And those are the greatest things about it.

What's the difference? What's a hot wife party? What is that all about? Where the guys are just watching their girls like fuck? And then they bring guys in to fuck the guys' wives. I mean, what's a hot wife party? A hot wife party is more or less couples come to the parties. They bring their wives.

The guys are not involved. But it's a bunch of guys already there. It's more or less a gang bang. But instead of being a one gang bang of 10 guys or one girl, it might be 10 women there and maybe 20, 30 guys. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Mm-hmm. And it can be, it can be wild because you, sometimes you literally have guys that please fuck my wife. Right.

And those, those can be fun. If you're a warrior, if anybody's a warrior, that's the best part is to go to. if you're a warrior. Because you could, you could just sit there and nobody's going to look at you weird because all you're doing is looking. And a lot of guys are there just looking. Because you can, eventually, yes, I'm involved, but it is exciting just to watch. Because you're looking at women, and again, here I am with the thing, well, I love to see

people getting pleased. Yeah. And you're looking at women that came there to get pleased and they're getting pleased. Mm-hmm. And what about seeing the guys? Does that turn you on or do you just like pleasing the guys? What's the attraction to men? Is it just like their cocks in your mouth?

Or is it like watching them pleasure? Again, yeah, when you see the, oh my God, I've just been in there where I'm fucking and I'm watching the guys releasing. Yeah. On the female. And I want to taste too. I want to taste it too. I want to suck it too.

So you like to, you like seeing that. Their enjoyment too is a part of it for you. Right. So, so their dick in my face while they're trying to nut or her does not run me away. I'm not, I'm not worried about the touch. Yeah. I've done DPs, but I do want to do, I do, I do want to do a DVP. Right.

Two Dicks inside. Because I want to feel, I want to feel, I want to feel the other dick while I love fucking her. I'm surprised you never have. It sounds you're such a professional. I haven't. I haven't. I've done DPs. I do have a friend.

I get with every now and then we go to some parties. And I've given her to D.P. Well, like, man, we're recently talking about giving her another D.P. But she's kind of scared of a DVP because they're stretching. You're stretching your pussy out so much. But I do want that DVP where I could feel him. Yeah. What is your dating?

lifelike. I mean, I know that at some point you were married, then all this stuff started and you had a, you were a couple starting out in the lifestyle. Have you been a couple in the lifestyle since? Or have you been solo since you've been playing? I've been a relationship until the last few years

ago, but my last relationship, even though I was with a bi-girl, there wasn't nothing, no play end up, there wasn't no lifestyle play. So I took a break off while I was in that relationship. When I came out, that relationship, then I came back into it. I've been a lifestyle

over 10 years at this point. Yeah. But when I came back the next time I did come by as doing, I would say pretty much doing bisexual things. I listened to you one podcast but you did at the doctor. Yeah. He was saying that that's not per se

bisexual. No. If you're just doing it. Remember you had a guy on and he was talking about, so I don't so so I don't know if you want to characterize me as, because I don't do it outside of sense.

And you don't do it outside of the woman being there. You're not turned on by guys. You don't want to be with a guy by yourself. It's in the moment if a woman is there and everyone's being pleasureed and you get to pleasure like you'll take that dick in your mouth. Yeah. You might not be. I'll take that dick anywhere. Yeah.

It's right. And your verse, so which means you'll top, you'll bottom. Do you have a preference when it comes to that kind of action? No, I don't. It's just in the moment. you're down, you could do it. But you do prefer the- I really enjoy.

I enjoy all aspects of it. It just is no rules and regulations. Yeah. Now, but what do you see yourself doing moving forward? I mean, now that you know that you really are into guys and you haven't had a relationship for in a while, you're eventually going to probably have another one at some point. Do you see yourself only being in an open, non-monogamous relationship?

Or are you down to give it up and be in a relationship? a monogamous relationship depending on the person? I mean, how do you see yourself in the future? The thing is that the reason that I'm not in one is because I do want to open-minded female. And I do test the waters before I move

into a relationship. So now you wouldn't be with a girl, even if she's by, like that last relationship you said you had. You said she was bisexual, but she wasn't into the lifestyle and you didn't do that so you gave it up. Would you give it up again? I would say, I would get, I'm not sure.

You know what? I would say I'm not sure. Yeah, okay. But I do want an open-minded female. I do, she has to be open-minded to multiple things. We have to have some fun outside of just me and her laying down in the bed. It has to be something else. I'm considered a good looking guy.

I work out five days a week. I'm in, I'm in the industry. I'm in the fitness industry, okay? I'm considered a great looking guy. I'll send you pictures later. You got a good body. How old are you, by the way? Are you in your 40s?

I'm actually, I just turned 56. Okay, cool. I just turned 56. But I am very fit. I make sure Walmart keep my health from being great. How do you do that? Well, you're just for me. It's great.

Oh, okay, okay, okay. of course, just the air die. Why not? Why don't more guys do that? I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Just for me and dark brown. You go, that's me.

It works. It works. Just for me and dark brown. Do you have any kids? Do you, because you were married at one point? I have kids. I don't want to give too many details

because I did tell us in South Florida. Yeah, yeah, no problem. Okay. You only were married once that first time. Yeah, I was married once, but I was in a relationship. The young lady I was in a lifestyle with it. We was together for a long time.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. But do any of your friends outside of the lifestyle? It sounds like you probably have a lot of friends in the lifestyle, but do you have a lot of friends out of the lifestyle? And do they know about what you do? Are you pretty open? Or is this like a very secret life of yours? It's a very secret life.

South Florida is unique because it is so many people that is in it. So you do want it to tell you. I see the black rings. I see people that I know are. What do you mean the black rings? What are you talking about? they have you have brains now do you have jewelry that you wear to represent yourself

in the lifestyle oh you're kidding i don't know that how come no one's ever told me that stuff yeah so they have some things and you they are so you have to wait to the right moment to ask some questions in my profession that i do i do run it to some people that are in there or run it to some people that i've crossed paths with before

but you're not like open about it because you want them to respect you in the same matter that you want to respect back and forth. I'm from the area that they found out that the sheriff was involved, and they tried to get rid of him. And they couldn't get rid of him because he had to be with somebody in South Florida. They talk about what goes on in Hollywood, California. What are they saying? You got the same thing. What do they say in Hollywood, California?

There's a lot of people. lot of there's a lot of professional people. Oh, I see what I'm saying. Yeah. Yeah. A lot of celebrities. Well, when they come to South Florida, they still do the same thing. Of course.

So this is this and this is a place that they travel to. Yes. You know, this is, this is that place that they travel when they're looking for to have fun. You're going to, you're going to dispense at your, what you call the matching parties. Not so much your basic house parties that, you know, but the matching parties. parties, you may run into some people. The mansion parties. You might see a celebrity is what you're saying, that kind of You may see somebody that's keeping their life discreet, you know.

They have the lifestyle clubs here. After what has happened at those clubs, it's kind of hard for those celebrities to go to those clubs anymore. So they'd rather go to a more discrete situation. And how do you find out about, I mean, you're so in the know, but if you were teaching somebody else that once again into the lifestyle like how to find out about all these things and get involved even if they're a solo guy is it going on to those apps

that you were on like SLS and SDC and stuff like that? Yeah definitely going on there being honest be honest don't give no old pictures if you don't look like that anymore and if you're into guys be into guys if you're not into guys

don't say that you are just because you want to fuck the wife be straight up right I mean because listen I think that there's so many different couples that are looking for so many different things. So, yeah. And the hardest thing is that if I put myself in as a bi guy, then I kind of limit myself to what I can reach out to. So you, I would say a straight guy can go on there and reach out to buy couples.

Mm-hmm. But you don't expect no couple, no buy couples to reach out to you. But it does open the door for both sides. Now, the last time I implemented myself into SEC, I put myself in as a by guy. And what did you notice happened? I noticed that what I was looking for more of anything, which is by couples, I got more, more, I got more people coming at me. More of what you wanted. I got more people in that field coming at me.

The biggest problem is, again, you still get the couples. And, well, she's out of town or she's sick or she just had surgery. You get those games. Oh, God. You know, I'm not going to play this. Really? We're not going to play this. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And they're probably 100% they're full of shit. They're just like, you think that's like a fake relationship that they put up and they're just really a solo guy looking to play with a guy. Oh, interesting. Guys are so dumb. But, I mean, I don't know. I mean, what, do they think you're going to fall for it? I mean, maybe they just think, oh, you're going to just go for it because you're desperate and you want to hook up with them or something.

I don't know. I've never failed for it. I'll be real with you. I've never failed for it. Yeah, that's what I loved about your story. I thought it was so interesting because it is very specific. You know exactly what you like. You have no shortage of it.

It's easy to find for you. You know, for a couple that wants a by guy who, I mean, you love to please. I mean, you're probably like couples are happy. that you exist and they meet you and you sound very respectable, like to them and you're cool. And you're not just there to hit it and quit it, which I think women especially prefer. Most of the time, that's the way they want to roll. So I think that they're lucky to meet a guy like you. I don't mind having that dinner or those drinks going and meeting somewhere and having those

drinks before. I don't mind that. And I always try to make sure that I don't intervene with a couple to give you another one. a few months ago, I was with a young lady and I met the couple. They didn't really want to be together. She just wanted to be with me. Yeah. And we met on the site.

And she fit what I like. And the problem was is that as we started being together, they started having problems in their relationship. Oh, gosh. And she was having a problem that he liked a different type of female. He liked something that was a beat. As a matter of fact, the female, he liked the beast females. So, but he wasn't, he decided he wasn't coming home some nights. Oh, God.

So now she wanted to spend the night with me. But I had sat down with them as a couple. They went out to deal with them as a couple. And the thing was that that's not what me and you're going to do. I don't care what he's doing. We're going to respect your marriage. Yeah, I love that. I love that you come from that place.

That's the way you should. No fucking drama. Yeah. So I had to cut her off because she wanted to do something different in there. Than what you signed up for. Yeah, you didn't sign up for that. You were looking for a solo chick. You were looking for a couple.

You know, so me and her could have went and do some things that had some fun. We did have a good time with each other. She was everything sexually, everything physically, but it was just that drama of that relationship. I wasn't looking for that. No, I love that. You're very intentional. I love that you're very clear in what you like and don't like. And I love that you stick to it. You know what I mean? It's not like you say, oh, I only want couples, but then you'll go and fuck the guy's wife behind his back. Like, I think that's cool. Listen, I think across the board, I've talked to a couple guys in the lifestyle, successful solo guys in the lifestyle. And what they always have in common, and it's obvious you have this as well, is they're good guys deep down. They're not scumbags. They're not fucking players.

They're not users. They're not selfish. And women could smell that from a mile away. And the truth is, and you probably know this, that women are kind of like ruling that world. You know, if she's like, I don't like that guy. The guy's not bringing that guy in, okay? Most of the time, that's the way it goes.

So you got to get that woman to feel comfortable with you if you're a solo guy trying to hit up a couple. And women could smell a nice guy from a mile away. Like she could smell a douchebag. And when it comes down to these kinds of very vulnerable positions where you're going to be having sex with, a total stranger, a woman wants a guy that she knows is a decent human being. And I think that that kind of shit goes a long way.

They smell that. And that needs to be there because nobody wants that douchebag. And you're obviously not. And that's why you're another successful solo guy in the lifestyle. You're like a good dude. I just like to have fucking fun. But you like to have fun. You're having, and you're living your best life.

No one's getting hurt. You're not cheating on anybody. You're totally open. It doesn't matter that your vanilla friends don't know. Nobody, most people don't know about anyone's sex life. You know what I mean? So, but you're like, you're honest. You're straight up.

You're clear. You're not fucking. There's no drama. I respect your game. I think it's cool. Now listen, you're going to get free access to my Discord. So you're going to go in there and get some couples that are going to be hitting you up. I'm telling you after you put this episode.

So I'm going to give me. And let me tell you, there's over 2,000 people. people in there and on my discord you could post anything like x-rated stuff whatever you want you could hit people up i'm going to give you free access to that you could send me in like pictures of your body if you want like a body shop but no dick shots for my patreon i don't do anything x-rated for myself on my patreon but once you go into my discord when your episode goes up i'm going to give you free access you could do that if you want i don't care but for me if you want to send me a pick of you no face you could send me a body shot you're working out guys some guys have sent me shit like

that but just no no X rated things to me send me R right now I'm actually this question do you want my face pictures that you're no no I always tell people don't send me face don't send me dick pics and then people send me videos of them having a gang bang no I don't want any of that I don't need no I really don't need to know faces or anything no just send me you listen if you send me a face shot plenty people do I just will edit it out for my Patreon especially if you're like on the DL with this lifestyle You don't want your face even on my Patreon. I'm just thinking maybe you wanted to see. No, no, no, no.

Listen, plenty of people send me their picks and say, don't show anyone and it's fine, but I don't need to. And if you do send it to me, I will edit it out. If you don't know how to edit, I sometimes think people just don't understand it. No, I got pictures of already edited. All right, awesome, awesome. All right, so send those to me. What do we call you again?

King. How can I forget? You're the fucking king. King, listen, thanks for calling it. You know what? And this is what I had on SBC. had my name was because I haven't been on SDC in a long time yeah because I've actually have some relationships that's that's situated and straight but on SDC I was chance king

oh hilarious so you are the king yeah I like it I like a chance king or SDC yeah so listen send me the pictures thank you so much for calling in I like your story it's super interesting I always love a solo lifestyle guy story because I think people could learn a lot from this episode you know you gave some solo guys lot of tips, but I love that it was like very kind of specific and something I'd never heard before because you're very by and all these other things or whatever you want to call it. But anyway, thank you, King, for calling in and sharing your story. And anytime, anytime you want to reach out to me, let's if it's a different subject matter.

You definitely can. All right. Listen, King, thank you so much. Thanks. Okay. Bye. All right, bye. Okay.

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