Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 758 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: A Guy who Blew his Former High School Bully, a Straight Guy who Bottomed While Drunk and More!

Episode Date: February 1, 2024

Tune in to hear a bunch of anonymous guy on guy action confessions plus get Kathy’s take on them. What does bisexual mean? If a guy hooks up with guys every now and then are they considered bi? And, why are so many guys hooking up with guys on the down low? Tune in to find out ad hear from a guy who’s wife divorced him due to the stigma surrounding guy on guy action, another guy who’s wife knows he’s into guys but doesn’t know about all the seedy things he’s actually doing with guys while bareback(?!,) another guy who is into hardcore guy on guy action that no one knows about, a guy who wound up accidentally sucking his high school bullies d*** years after high school, another guy who was never into guys but got drunk and wound up going all the way with a male stranger as well as a bisexual guy who came clean to his wife and she not only accepted it but she’s now into it and they’re living their best life. Plus Kathy discusses the stigma surrounding bisexual men and the stigma attached to it, condom usage, living a double life and why it’s not worth it, why you dont want to “peak” in high school plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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to everything that I've ever posted. I've been doing my Patreon for years. So, you know, you don't just get what I posted this week. You get all of the back content. So there's so much stuff over there hiding out that you could get access to. Now, listen, today is an anonymous, naughty confessions episode. These are all by guys. Listen, I get a lot of confessions about a lot of different things. And guys blowing guys and guys seeing guys behind. their wives' backs is one of the most common confessions that I get. A lot of people think that, oh, so many girls are into girls, but there's not that many guys that are into guys.

And that's just because there's a stigma still attached to it and most guys don't cop to it. But there are as many guys into guys as there are women into women, okay? Wait until you hear these confessions. What is crazier than the next? I do start out, though, first with a guy who is like specifically ranting about the stigma attached to guy and guy action, how he got divorced because of it, because his wife found out. He talks a lot about the definition of bisexual. And I start off with that because I think that that is an interesting way to start off because

I have got the definition of bisexual confused many times. I think I'm still confused about it. I don't fucking understand what bisexual means. I don't think. I don't know. I used to think it was one thing. And then people would write in and be like, you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. And then I change it.

And then when I changed it, people would be like, you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. So I kick it off with that conversation about what bisexual really means. What does it mean also if guys are just into blown guys, does it even mean that they're bisexual? And why is there a stigma? We talk about that. And then we kick it in after that with all the crazy confessions. The first one is a by guy whose wife knows he's by, but he still does crazy things behind her back. And he's doing like naughty things, hardcore things, seedy things behind her back. And he's doing them bear back. How fucked up is that? That's the first confession. Then I talked to another hardcore guy who loves being watched. He's another guy who's doing it on the DL. That's his little kink.

He loves doing like really naughty, dirty things and he likes to be watched. He talks about that. Then there's another confession from a guy who wound up by accident. He says, sucking his high school bullies dick. Okay. It didn't happen in high school. It happened way later, but like way later in life, he winds up somehow in the bushes, blow in the high school bully's dick. He talks about that. That's an interesting one. And then I talked to a guy who, it was a straight guy, never realized he was into guys at all, was out on a business trip or something like that. I don't know, got drunk and wound up with a dick in his ass. There's more to that story. I'm not going to give you all the information on the intro, but that's another story. Super

interesting. This was a guy, like I said, that wasn't ever really into guys. It wound up having anal and loved it. And now he doesn't know what to do about it. And then I talked to a married guy who did wind up copping to being by and his wife accepted it. And now they are living their best life. I ended with that one because that is a happy ending story. That's a guy that is open about it, came clean with it, and is living his best life. What the guys before him wish they could be doing. They're all living like these DL lives. Because the first guy says there's a big. stigma still attached to it and I touch upon all of that shit. I give my critique at the end of all of these confessions in each one. I talk about the definition of bisexual. I talk about condom usage.

I talk about living a double life. I talk about why you don't want to peek in high school. That one goes after the high school bully thing. And I talk about so much more. The confessions are crazy and interesting. I think my two cents is interesting too. So sit back and relax and I'm going to be back on with the first confession. Hi, my name's Alan. I'm a bisexual man and I believe many bisexual men. I have a problem with relationships with women, not us per se, but the women have a problem with it. There's a major distrust and revile of bisexual men. It's because there's a general misunderstanding that bisexuality means you date both sex as you

fall in love with both sex. You don't. Bisexuality is on two courses, on two levels. First, the sexuality, and second, the romance. I'm bisexual, but heteroromantic. I could never fall in love with a guy. We were very reviled in our society, and I've had a support group for bisexual men on Facebook, and none of them have told their wives, none of them. And one of them, his wife found bisexual porn magazines. She divorced him. So he was starting a new relationship with no plans to tell her at all, for fear of the same reason. I'm divorced myself. And I have to have a little bit of a relationship. And I have a admit being bisexual admitting to her that I was bisexual was a big factor in our divorce but yes I enjoy I enjoy sex with men and women but I'm very much a heteromantic and only I can only date I can only fall in with women I'd be glad to talk to you about my whole journey and my sex life and how I became aware of this and how my my sex life evolved thank you

okay so now I'm starting out with this one because I like you have heard different explanations for what bisexual means since I've been doing my show and I'm so confused. I used to think with this guy thinks bisexual means you like to have sex with either men or women but you don't necessarily want to date them. Then people wrote it and said no you're totally wrong. Bisexual means you not only will date and have sex with the member of the opposite sex. You will date as well as have sex with with someone of the opposite sex. So I'm fucking confused. This guy makes sense. He says he's bisexual and the way that I always thought it was in that he likes to hook up with dudes. But he's heteroromantic, meaning that when it comes to romance and dating, he's heterosexual. That makes sense to me. But I've

had people argue with me about that. So I figured I'd kick off the bisexual confessions with this guy. Now, listen, I feel for this guy because he is right. Telling a, a, a woman. woman of a certain age that you're bisexual and you want to go fuck a guy is not going to be met with open arms. But I think in the younger generation, things are very different. And that's the good news. I think many young people, both men and women, are admitting they're bi. And when they're bisexual, they're open to having sex as well as dating anybody. I think bisexual for the younger generation, to me, I think means that they date whoever. They don't see gender. Like a girl doesn't think, oh, I could only date a boy. She's like, I could date whoever the fuck I want.

And I think that that's what bisexual means to the younger generation. And the younger generation are much more open about it. I think if you're 20 and you tell your partner you're by, whether you're a guy or a girl, it's going to be met with a different kind of mindset about it as opposed to my generation, older people. This guy sounds old to me. And I get why he's divorced. He told his wife, and she's like, no way that does not fly. And there is a big stigma, not just for bisexual men, but for gay men as well. It's kind of like crazy that it exists and it does so much more so in the older generation. And thankfully that is changing and people are so much more open and things, it doesn't really matter. Because what you're going to hear after this guy's confession is you're going to hear from a bunch of guys that are blowing guys and doing all kinds of guy on guy action all on the DL. You're not going to believe the stories. Guys hooking up in the woods, blowing guys. And, guys, a guy getting drunk in a bar and getting fucked to the ass by accident. And so many more secret guy on guy hookups.

And that's because most of the time people don't want to cop to it because they know that this stigma still exists. It's changing because I have to say, I can't tell you how many guys I've had on my show that are married to women. And the minute their girl goes on a business trip or does something, like he's having all kinds of guy and guy action. I mean, it's not that uncommon. A lot of people, even my own guy friends, okay, will be like, oh, it's so much more natural and common for women to be with women because women are beautiful and they're sexy, but it's not that common for men, like men aren't into

other men. Yes, they are. They're as into other guys as much as girls are into having girl crushes on other girls, okay? I think women can be more open about it because there's no stigma. It's actually the opposite. Like you're hotter to a guy if you're into girls. They don't have to about telling their guy that they're into girls. No guy's going to be like, are you fucking kidding me and run? He's going to be like, get rock hard and ask for a threesome. It's not like that for a guy. You tell a girl, oh, I want another guy. She's like, what the fuck does that mean? So there's a big stigma. And because of that stigma, so many guys don't cop to it. There was a time in my life where even girls couldn't cop to it. I remember that shift where it became cool for a girl to be into

girl on girl action but there was a time where there was even a stigma for that kind of a thing and so and no women copped to it the minute it became a hot thing a normal thing and okay every girl's like I have a girl crush girls are making out with girls all over the place all talking about how they love lesbian porn but girls weren't copying into that when there was a stigma around it's the same thing with guys it's not like no guys are into guys tons of guys are into guys Tons of guys you know that you don't know are into guys. And a lot of them are blown each other. It's just a thing.

But they have to do it on the DL because of that stigma. So, you know, younger generation, keep being out and proud of who you are. So you don't have to live with somebody that's doing all these crazy things behind your back. That's the benefit of just removing these stigmas and letting people be who the fuck they are and not giving a shit. Because then people don't have to do stuff on the DL. A lot of these people that you're going to hear from are doing crazy things on the DL if their partners found out it would ruin marriages. And that's a sad thing. But anyway, this was like I said, a good starting point.

Now on to like the hardcore confessions. My confession is, I guess you would say I'm a bisexual man who has had lots of sexual experience or lots of sexual things with other men. I guess my confession is I'm very much into being watched. I was seeing a man for quite some time, and when it escalated to him, wanting to take me to a local adult bookstore where he would have me stripped completely naked in front of other men and let them do whatever they wanted to me or whatever they wanted me to do to them. And it just, it was something that I was afraid of it first, but once we started doing it, I became more and more into where I was craving it. I'm a married man. For many years, my wife knows that I'm bisexual, but she doesn't know the extent of my sexual prowess with other men.

It is, I'm not a, I'm definitely not a top. I am a very masculine man, but when it comes to being with other men, I am strictly about them. I enjoy rough sex. I enjoy being treated in more of a degrading way when I'm with men. I don't, I'm not into the intimate part of it. I'm into more of the, I want to be treated in extreme ways.

I want to be put on show for other men. I want to be pretty much degraded and put in my place. It's kind of weird. It sounds kind of messed up, but it's what I, I became liking and wanting more and more up to the point where it runs to my mind at all times. I frequent a bookstore that we have in town and a local bookstore that has a lounge. And I guess you can say I'm well known there. I don't go all the time, but when I've given the chance to get in there, I get off on sex with strangers.

And whether it's oral, whether it's anal or just mutual masturbation with others, the more the merrier. I like it when it's crowded. I've been led around in the arcade part of the bookstore by him, paraded around naked. It's all cool because he knows the owners and the people that work there and they allow it. They don't say anything. And I've sucked several, several men off in the process of doing this. I've had sex. I've been, annually, I've had sex several times with men in there. Most of the time they're back. I've done numerous things there. But it started several years back, kind of just dipping my fingers into things like that at other bookstores.

and I'm just, I'm addicted to them. I can't get enough of anonymous sex. I can't get enough of being completely naked in front of others where they could just see me and do things to me. Most people wouldn't want done in just in the seedyest, dirtiest places. It just, it's such a turn on. It gets me off so much. Maybe there's something wrong with me, maybe not.

I just wanted to confess that it's been on my mind for a while. I'm really into this. I mean, this is all 100% percent. truth. I've lived every story I've said. And thank you. Bye. Okay. Now, I have two words for this guy or for you.

And the words are bear back. Where's bear back one word? What the fuck are you doing, cheating on your wife? Bear back. That is the most messed up thing. And I got to tell you this, okay,

because a lot of times some people on YouTube will trash my guests and be like, because people will be like, they don't use condoms when people will be like, what the fuck? And the truth is, most people don't use condoms. I do because I am a hypochondriac. And I always say this, okay, because I had a booty call who was a hypochondriac. And I loved fucking him because he wouldn't touch my leg with his dick without a condom. And I wouldn't let him touch my leg with his dick without a condom.

Okay. That's the way hypocondriac's roll. But you want to know how everybody else rolls all you people that are judging people for going bareback. You all never use condoms. You know why? because it feels better when you don't use a condom. And most of the time, when people get horny, it's like an altered state of being. You lose all sense of logic and common sense.

This guy isn't thinking about his wife and herpes and AIDS. He's thinking sex, okay? He's in that mode. I think being horny is like being drunk and you do a lot of fucked of things when you're drunk. I haven't drank in 20 years. And my numbers went from a lot to like almost zero after I stopped drinking because I'm in my right head. I'm thinking straight. I'm very pro condoms. Not with like lovers and partners that you've been with for a while and that you trust. But when you're playing around and having

fun and having a booty call and they're allowed to go fuck other people, where are a condom? And the truth is like not just a condom to go inside. If you're a girl, like I won't let my booty call guys dick touch my leg without a condom because I have a friend who got herpes on her ass from a guy who had it on his dick. You could get herpes anywhere. There's certain STDs. that you don't have to go inside. Okay, so if you really want to be safe, don't go bareback. The fact that this guy goes bareback with men in an adult bookstore, in his town. Oh my God, he is so naughty. And that's a part of the turn-on for him. One thing I have found out about my show is there's a lot of guy-on-guy action, just people don't talk about it. I can't tell you how many guys

call me up on the DL and talk about the fact that they are blowing guys on the side. I remember one episode where the guy, I mean, the story he told me was like, oh, his wife, like the minute she leaves for her business trips, he has a guy that comes over, another married guy that has a wife that's, I don't know where the fuck she is when he goes over this guy's house, but what they would do is they would get together. Oh my God. When their wives weren't around, these are married men, you know, your guys who's ever listening, this could be your husband, okay? And he was going over with your panties to this other guy's house and they were sniffing each other's wives panties and jerking off and blowing each other.

They don't like the shit that guy's too. I mean, crazy. There's still such a stigma when it comes to a guy and got action that a lot of guys aren't up front about it. This is one thing I give this guy credit for, okay? Because he does go bareback and I'm trashing him for that. And that is very not fucking cool. Especially, listen, if you're going bareback with your booty call, I'm giving you a

warning for that. That's fucked up. You could get it SDD. But, you know, the only person you're hurting when you're doing that is yourself. The reason why it's worse when it's this guy is because him going bareback doesn't just fuck him up if he gets an STD or HIV. It fucks up his wife. That's the fucked up part of it. That's the thing that's so wrong.

You're taking that back to somebody else. It's one thing you want to be careless with yourself. It's another thing when you're careless with somebody else that you love this guy's leading a total double life. The one thing I do give him credit for is he told his wife he's by. What I don't understand and why I need to talk to this guy is like, how did that conversation go? Did his wife ask him a million questions? Did she want to know if he fucks guys and he said, no, I totally don't? Like, why doesn't she know the extent of what he does?

I'm assuming it's because he knows she'd be like, you can't go to the adult bookstore and walk around on a leash, naked and fuck guys in the ass for the whole night. I think it's because he probably lied and said, I don't want to see guys and I just want to be with you. Like I wonder because I really think if you put that on the table, doesn't she wonder if you're really seeing guys? Doesn't she want to know if you have that desire? Like I would if my guy told me I'm bisexual. For me, I would be like, oh my God, then you obviously have this desire and how are you going to be just with me? Do you have that desire to be with a guy and you want to be with me? You have to have those kinds of conversations and negotiate that and see if everyone's cool because, but what I think probably happened here is he was like, I'm bisexual.

She was like, okay, she might have asked a million questions. but I have the feeling that he was like, no, I'm by, but I'm not with guys. And I just want to be with you. He most likely lied. I don't know. This is the problem with confessions over my episodes and why I love doing my episodes because I could ask him a million questions and really get down to the real story here. Like, why does his wife not know anymore?

Like I said, I don't think any woman unless she's down to do all the stuff with him. And she's going to the adult bookstores and she's into watching him get humiliated. degraded and that was like her king too she would be on board but most women are not going to go to that extreme and the problem with this poor guy is he is so he is so hardcore into this scene he has wired himself to be into this kind of sex i wonder does he get off on just being with his wife when they have like their regular sex at home like these are the questions that i have this is why i actually talk to people on my podcast longer because one little story like this leads my brain into a million questions and I want to know so much more. This guy gave me a mouthful. He is a

hardcore by guy doing all kinds of crazy things. Bearback. I totally don't agree with it. It's terrible. I would say that to him if I was on the call. But what I would also say to him on the call is I would just have a lot of questions to get to the bottom of it. I think he's in a rough place because he is so extreme. He has wired himself into getting into really hardcore stuff that I wonder how satisfied he could be when it's not that hardcore and dirty and degrading and all that kind of good stuff. That is good for him now.

And I wonder how he feels about the fact that he's doing this on the DL because I'll tell you this and this is true. Okay. And some people will be like, you're crazy. It's not true. But it is. And this is what I believe. The people who feel guilty about what they're doing are the people who get caught.

Whenever I have a cheater on or someone that's doing something on the DL and they feel bad about it, I always tell them, like, you better figure your shit out. Either stop doing it or come clean or do something because you're the type of person that gets caught. You know who doesn't get caught? The people that should, right? The biggest fucking assholes who could care less that they're doing it, who have zero feelings about it. They don't get caught. I'm telling you.

There's something about that guilt that just winds up sabotaging because it's like, Like you have that little devil on your shoulder and the angel. And the angel eventually wins out and sabotages and makes you get caught so you could clean up your fucking act. That part of you that feels guilty wants to be better. And that's a dangerous thing. So that's why I'd want to know. Does this guy feel guilty about what he's doing? Because if he does, he might eventually be caught.

And if he's caught doing the stuff that he's doing, that's going to be a real big problem in his marriage. So anyway, on to the next confession. I wanted to call and talk about my confession. My name's Drew. After my divorce, I was Walker for a few months. Started with my gay friend. I asked him if I could suck his cock. And he let me that lasted to a glory hole of random cock and got my cock suck.

I met a guy. A friend for a few months, I loved from a glory hole. My chance can be off. Thank you. Okay. He wants to confess. I thought he was going to say he wants to confess to his girlfriend. but no, he wants to confess to me.

Unfortunately, that's happening all the time. People are telling me about their secret lives, but they're not telling their partners. I wonder why this guy, because he sounds kind of young without the voice change, I wonder why people nowadays, if they're single and they realize they're by and they're into guys,

like why don't they try to find a woman, her partner, who's into what they're into before they get into another relationship, especially this guy. I mean, he's hardcore too now. He's into some pretty crazy thing. So it's very extreme. Listen, I know that it's hard to find women who would be down for these types of things.

And so I think guys just think, oh, I'm never going to find a girl who's down. So I'll just find one who I could do all the other things in life with. And I'll just do this on the side, right? Unfortunately, that's like the solution to that problem. But nowadays, with younger women, they're so much more open. And I just feel like there's a lot of times there might be a compromise. Why can't you go out and find a girl that you could be open and honest about you being into guys instead of like secretly hooking up and doing all this stuff on the DL? Because eventually it's just your girlfriend.

But if it winds up being your wife and you have kids and all these kinds of things, if you ever get caught, you have so much more to lose. It's such a different story down the line. and when you're first starting out a relationship and you're already doing this stuff, what's going to happen 10 years from now? And like I said, I get it. Was he going to go tell his girl, listen, I like to do all these crazy things?

And she's going to be like, oh, great, I want to come with you and do it too. Probably not. But I feel like if he could be more honest with his partners, maybe they could play together. A lot of women, I have to say, I found this out through my show, that a lot of women are into gay sex,

like guy on guy action, lot of women watch gay porn. A lot of women, if you tell them you're a guy and you're into guy and guy and guy action, they're going to be down for it and turned on to see you hook up with a guy. I've heard it many times, especially from the younger generation because people are more open. So I just want to say to all you people out there to the single ones, because there's still hope for you. The ones who are living a double life already, I don't know, you've got yourself in a mess. And now what are you going to do? I think living a single, a double life, eventually becomes exhausting.

It's a lot to do. But to the single people out there that have, that whether it's that you're a by guy that's into guys and that's your thing or you're a girl that's into girls or you're a person with some sort of kink or fantasy that you keep to yourself, make sure where you get into your next relationship, you wind up coming clean about that in the beginning. I mean, not on the first date, okay? feel the person out. But eventually when you start having those conversations and sexes on the table,

you should start putting your stuff out there to see if you're with a like-minded partner. If you do that in the beginning, then you avoid being in the secret kind of situations. Now, unfortunately, secret kind of situations are sometimes kind of hot, specifically because they are secret, right? I once had a guy that was like, what if it wasn't secret? I don't know if it would be as good. And I get that. I think that that's a thing.

So that's the problem. Does this guy want to not do it secretly? Is he hooked on doing it secretly? I don't know. I don't know what this guy should do because I'm not talking to him, but I'm talking to all you buy guys that are listening to this that are single. If you are single still and you're the next time you get in a relationship, especially if you're going for a younger girl and you're in that age range, just be honest about the fact

that you're into that and see how she rolls and see if she's into it. Because I think a lot of girls are and they're open to it nowadays, especially the younger generation. So it's much better to be true to who you are. It's a much easier life to be honest and up front than to not. So I suggest trying it. Anyway, on to the next confession. I'm Steve. I'm 40.

This is just a story about how I ended up sucking my high school. bully's dick on accident. This happened just a few months ago. It didn't happen like in high school. That would be a great story if it did. Anyways, my sexual tastes really started evolving in my 30s. I had never even pondered homosexuality in it for guys, dicks. My really, the thing I like about guys is just the dick. Like I love suck and it was getting it. It's fun. Maybe I just got an oral fixation. So I'm studied development who knows but anyways we talk on grinder we're gonna meet at this nature trail i said i'll be on my bike and i don't know it's him so i go there and then see someone on the trail ride see that oh shit this is someone i know you know one aside from the craigslist grinder

hookups knows any of the fucking weird degenerate shit that i do so we have i it was really awkward I wanted to ride past it first and just abandoned it, but we saw each other. So I circled back to him. We talk. I say something about Joe Biden, spacing off in a press conference. You see this guy? Just bullshit conversation, just real filler. And then it's getting dark.

He says, oh, shit, got to leave pretty soon. And I just said, well, did you want to do that stuff? And he was like, yeah. And then we went into the woods and I got up against this tree and I had all the, I used magic shave on my whole body. And I was wearing these crotchless pantos under my sweatpants. So I dropped the sweatpants and I stick my ass out leaning against the tree and he smacks it. And then I dropped to my knees. I say something like, you broke my fucking leg in ninth grade.

And now I'm getting on my knees for him. We had a little laugh. I suck his dick. It's really fun. A few minutes into it, I just get up and then I push his head down and, you know, make him suck mine. And then I thought we saw some people, so nobody finished. And it was really awkward because I sent him like 20 fucking pictures. And we haven't talked since.

But, yeah, that was the story of when I suck. my high school bully dick on accident. Grinder. Things happen. Thank you. I do think it's funny how he keeps saying by accident. It's not like a dick accidentally slipped into his mouth and he started sucking it. I think he means like by accident, by accident, he didn't know he was going to meet his school bully. He was going to suck a dick.

That wasn't an accident, right? We all know he likes it, but it's funny. No one else knows about his degenerate goings on. that takes place except this high school bully it's funny maybe that guy was a big fat bully when he was in high school because he loved guys and he was hated them because of it who knows you know what I mean bullies are never bullies because they're happy maybe he knew he like suck a dick it's interesting that he got on his knees afterwards and blew him too typically when I hear these guys these buy stories everyone wants to suck the dick nobody wants their dick sucked

It's a thing. I think I said it on a recent episode. For straight guys, you should tap into that market. You want to blow job. Close your eyes. Pretend it's a girl. There'll be a line of guys. Married, straight,

lining up to suck your dick. So many guys want to suck dick. And you don't even have to blow them back. That's just the way these guys roll, these bike guys. It's funny, though, that the bully, after all that he did in high school, fast forward. so many years later, suddenly, by accident, now the bully is sucking his dick too. He didn't just suck the bully's dick. The bully sucked his dick, too.

And arrest stopped nonetheless. Oh, my God. It's so funny. I know that he did say, oh, this would have been like a better story if I sucked his dick in high school. But no, I think it's a better story way later. I just think it's like, who would have known those two guys in high school, the bully? and I'm assuming if he got bullied and his leg was broken, he was like the nerd, right?

Who would realize that the bully and the nerd so many years later would wind up in the same place in the woods, sucking each other's dicks behind everyone's backs? I would assume that because I do my show and because I know that nothing stays as it is in high school. You know all those popular people in high school? They're most likely doing nothing 30 years later. I mean, there's nothing worse than being popular in high school. I always say, like, you don't want to peek in high school because there's no place then left to go, except downhill. Most people who are popular in high school, they live their dreams then that they have nothing to shoot for.

So a lot of those, a lot of people in high school that are like the nerds or the geeks or the people that everyone made fun of, fast forward so many years later, they're so different. I always say like high school is like literally like it's like being on another planet. Anyone that's listening to me if you're in high school, you shouldn't be listening to this show because you're too young for it. But if you are listening in high school and you're depressed because in high school you're not cool or you're not popular or you're not anybody and you just feel less than. Don't worry. It is not real life. Real life is opposite everything in high school. In high school, you're popular when you're like everybody else.

That's what is great. Like you're cool if you're like everyone else. Whereas when you get into real life, like that's not what rises to the top. Every other kind of thing rises to the top. some people are popular in high school and then popular later i think Oprah was like homecoming queen same with rosy o'Donnell those are people who peaked in high school and then just kept peaking the rest of their life i just think that that's not the average person so anyway i don't know how i got off topic but i don't find it crazy that the bully and the the the nerd are secretly by what's crazy about the

story though really is that they wound up going on to grinder picking a dick pick that they liked and then going and meeting that dick in the woods. And it turns out that it was the bully and the nerd that went to high school together. That is a crazy story. It's even crazier to me so many years later. So thanks for calling it and leaving me that message. This is like what my confessions hotline is all about. Anyway, next confession.

I love your show. First off, now here is my confession. I'm a married man with a child. and I was away on a business and I've never been sexually attracted to another man in my life. And I ended up, we were drunk, and I was talking to a guy. And we ended up going back to my room to get some beers because it was after closing time. and he ended up having relations with me. He was the guy in the situation, and it was weird.

I've never had that done before. And I'm going to be honest, loved it. Loved it. I don't know what else to say, but I just wanted to let that out. I kind of feel better after letting that out. It was my first time. It was my only time. and it has turned me into watching gay porn as of late.

I don't know anything about it, but maybe you can help me out. Maybe you can figure something out about that one. Maybe I had a weird little twin or something. All right. Love your show. Great. Thank you. Good night.

Oh, my God. This is another good one. This is really what my Confessions Hotline is for. this poor guy, never into guys this whole life. And I believe him because, listen, he's calling my Confessions Hotline. He doesn't need to lie to me. This is the only place he could be straight up, right? Because I don't know who he is. He doesn't know who I am. He probably called from a phony number. I don't look people up. I don't care. So he's being honest. This is a guy who has never been into guys, never thought about anything, gets a little drunk and winds up getting fucked in the ass. I'm assuming

that's what he meant when he said the guy wound up being the guy in the situation. He didn't straight up say he fucked me in the ass. I think that might be too much for him to handle. As a straight guy who wound up in that experience, he might not be able to live with that sentence because he didn't say it. He was just like, oh, he wound up being the guy. And he wind up having anal sex. And then he loved it. Oh, my God. I know why I loved it because it feels good. Everyone that listens to my show knows I'm on a mission to get everybody to explore their assholes and realize how many nerve endings are on there and how good anal action is. If your guy, you don't need to get a from a guy you could get it from your girl. If your girl, you could get it from your guy,

or you could just get it from your own finger or your own toy. But check it out and try it. This guy did while he was drunk. I know how that goes. I've talked about it before. Go listen to my episode where I got sober. I mean, when I was drinking, I did so many things sexually that I would never do when I wasn't drinking. This guy wants a little help. I would say, hey, listen, you're watching gay porn and now you're furthering that connection. And maybe now you're always going to be into guys moving forward. But, you know, that's not necessarily the truth. Maybe he was drunk. He did it and that's all that it was.

And that's what it can be. Shit happens when people are drunk. I don't think we do things that are really us. A lot of people will be like, oh, when you're drinking, the truth comes out. No, not at all. That's not true. I did plenty of things when I was drinking that I didn't want to fucking do that weren't truths about who I was.

Actually, it was like the opposite of who I was. And I fucked a lot of people that I would never fuck if I didn't have my beer goggles on, okay? This guy wound up, fooling around with the guy. And maybe, listen, maybe he's just open to a hot experience with a guy, and that's what he realized through drinking. But maybe it's a one-time thing and it never happens again. What I would say, though, too, is that because he's continuing now to watch gay porn

and relive that hot scenario, this is how we wire ourselves. This is how wiring goes. He is wiring himself. If he didn't want to be into guys moving forward after that scenario, he could have just called it a day, been like I got fucked in the ass, that was great, and just never think about it again. And it would probably be a one and done. But because that experience was so hot, and now he's like watching all this guy and guy action and he's probably jerking off thinking about that scenario. Now he's wiring himself to be full on into gay sex. So what do you do from here? I don't

know. If you're married, did he say he's married? I don't know. I think he is. If you don't want to cheat on your wife again and you feel guilty, like maybe you should stop going down that rabbit hole and instead try to work on getting your girl to peg you or something and mock up that anal sex scenario in your own bedroom with a female. That could be an option. I have so many more questions for this guy. Like I said, I don't necessarily think just because he fucked a guy when he was drunk, it means anything.

I believe him that he had never thought of guys before. I know this guy is going to get people like, oh, there's no way. He didn't. No guy that was not into guys, but just fuck a guy. Yeah, they would if they were drinking. Sorry, but alcohol is like a drug. It changes your brain. Think about how you feel when you're wasted. Like you're not in a normal frame of mind. Shit happens. Shit happens to this guy. It's a great story. It is a great story. It happened to him. It could happen to anybody. There's stuff that people that are listening to this that happened to you when you were drinking that you probably don't tell anyone about. Or maybe everyone's not as promiscuous as I was when they were drinking. Or like this guy too. But I feel like people do become more promiscuous when they're drunk. And like I said before, I don't necessarily mean, I don't necessarily think that that means that they're that way naturally. I just think that drinking removes your inhibitions.

And sometimes if you're acting out or shit happens and you're in the mood or the wind blows a certain way, you feel a certain thing. You just go with it. I know I used to live that way. But after I quit drinking, shit like that didn't go down. So maybe I'd say to this guy, when you go, if you don't want to cheat again or you don't want this to happen again and you just want to keep it a fantasy or just have it be a what had done thing, maybe when you go out and about when you're not with your wife, you don't drink. Because that's the kind of stuff that can happen. Anyway, on to the next confession. Hey, Kathy.

Mary 25 years, we had a couple of soft swapsed that. 25 years of marriage. I went into a dark place of alcoholism and my wife at 25 years divorced me. Got sober. We got remarried. When we got remarried, I actually started listening to your podcast because I have always been a pretty sexually driven person. Anyhow, so one night my wife was asking me what I wanted for a gift. I can't remember was my birthday or Christmas. She said, what do you want? And imagine she probably was thinking that I wanted some kind of cool toy or something. Anyhow, I told her I wanted to be pegged and I wanted to do a threesome.

And boy, I caught her off card. Anyhow, what it did is after 25 years of marriage of non-communication, it taught us how to communicate. And man, we spent many hours at the dining room table with our phones off, with just looking each other in the eye, learning how to communicate. Since communicating, we started some butt play. We did transition to pegging. It turned out so my advice, she was okay with butt play,

but she didn't want to actually wear a leather artist. That was where her hang-up was. And it took us lots of hours of communication and talking to kind of get to that safe place where she can talk. But since doing that, we've actually done a few threesomes. We have done them so far with just one guy where she was the focus of the attention and stuff. And man, it was just amazing. This is what I always considered an absolutely beautiful woman.

But man, her self-esteem was just different. And she started a new professional gig where she was leading a team. And she had that, I can't think of the term right now, but it's where she didn't feel like she deserved it belong there. And I kind of pursued it even more for the threesome. Because at one point she had told me that you're my husband, you have to tell me that I'm attractive.

You have to tell me these kinds of sweet things. And I honestly thought if she heard it from somebody else, man, I do. I think she's absolutely gorgeous. And anyhow, so we went to a few swinger clubs. We went to a swinger party. And I don't know, I just, I've always been a jealous guy, and it was kind of hard for me. And she was along for the ride.

And anyhow, she was willing, but I think more to scratch a box or check a box for me. She's traditionally a pleaser type of person. But anyhow, we ended up meeting a guy at a swinger party. She gave him head. And it was a really odd situation because I treated it almost like the band-a-had-a-had-be-come-up. And it turns out after that situation that what I learned from her was that the connection was altruly very, very important to her. It wasn't the sex act.

It meant a lot. It was the connection. So we actually met up with the guy a few more times and went out for drinks and got to know each other and stuff like that. And the sex is just incredible. Honestly, the first time I more sat and watched. And there was some emotional parts of just sitting there and it wasn't really my thing. So we did it a couple more times with him where I was involved, not in any kind of play between him and I, but more where she was the center of attention.

Anyhow, we ended up having a few experiences with that guy. Lots of toy play, which was never her thing before in our previous marriage. Today, we are, well, Thursday. Tomorrow we are actually going to meet another guy, and then we're going to party on Saturday. where there's going to be a fellow there for us to meet as well. And make a long story short, we opened it up that I also want to play with the guy. And it's funny hearing on your podcast how many people are shun. But anyhow, I posted it on a Facebook LS page that I wanted to play with the guy.

And it was amazing how our DMs blew up. There's more people out there than you think. Now, we haven't had that experience yet. Like I said, we're just meeting a couple of people this weekend that are willing to play with us both. Now, I'm not looking to be a top or a bottom. I'm not even attracted to guys. It's just when we're in the moment of heat and hot and passion and sucking a dick or having my dick sucked by somebody else and talk to me and he's okay with me having that experience. Oh, my God. This message is brought to you by avocado mattress. And if healthy, comfortable sleep

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Don't you love this one? I'm ending with this one because this is a happy ending story. Okay, listen, I know sex isn't the end-all be-all. Some people think it's just shallow bullshit. But the fact that this couple, after being together and being through so many things together and then leaving each other and then coming back and then getting to the point where he just threw something crazy on the table and it totally changed their relationship. Okay, change their sex life majorly, but I'm sure it changed their relationship for the better. Like completely. This is a couple that was at one time divorced.

and all he did was put it on the table that he was interested in some butt play. And at first it was like, what the fuck? But then eventually they started doing things. And now they're having threesomes and he's looking for guys and she's down for it. I mean, how crazy is that? And how much does that say that communication is key? I give him credit for having the balls to tell her that he was into butt play after so many years. I think that that's the hardest thing.

I was just telling somebody I have a booty call, and he happens to be like a good friend of mine. Someone I knew for a really long time. So sometimes I feel like I'm a little bit shyer about telling him all the things that I'm into. Whereas if I just met somebody a new guy, like I'd be completely open. That's just the way it is.

It's harder to cop to things after you've known someone for so long. I know how scary that is because I've been in that position. I feel like I am in that position. So I give him so much credit that he has, the balls to just throw that out there and something as hardcore as bud play i think that a lot of guys probably like butt play okay i know you're all out there but you're not copping to it all right there's a lot of stigma around it and so many guys would never put that on the table but this guy did and you know what now he's living all your guys uh fantasy life this guy is getting to watch his

girl with other guys they're having threesomes i get the fact that listen she doesn't want to be harnessed up. I get that. Maybe she finds it degrading and she's not into being degrading. Like that's degraded. Like that's not hot for her. But she's doing threesomes. They're having great sex than another guy. And now he has copped to being by. But I love the sentence he said though, which was I'm not even into guys. But you know, if a dick is around, I want to suck it. Like, I'm into it in the moment. And that is something that I used to hear all the time in the beginning of my show. And I would like argue with guys. Like, what do you mean? You don't like guys. Obviously So you like a guy.

If you want a dick in your mouth and it's there, that's a part of a guy. So that means you like guys. I don't know. I used to just go around in circles. But then I had a guy on a while ago. And I actually re-aired his episode. It was a Dr. Joe court episode, Dr. Joe court. And he talked all about how guys can suck a dick every now and then and still be straight.

It's exactly what this guy said. And I've heard it from so many guys. It's in the moment for sex purposes. That's it. He is into sucking a day. Doesn't mean that he likes guys. It is true. It's a true story.

What he says is true. I know so many people call bullshit on it. But if you listen to Dr. Joe Cort's episode, you will understand it. And it completely changed my mind on this topic. Like I said, when I used to hear it too, I used to be like bullshit. But when I heard Dr. Joe Cort explained the difference, you have to go listen to the episode to hear it. I'll put the number in the description. You will understand it to it.

It'll be eye-opening. And it's good to know. He actually writes books for women in case their husband is telling them, or they found gay porn on their husband's computer, or they found out that their husband has been with a guy, and they're so worried that maybe they're guys gay or bisexual. And he's here to say, no, not necessarily. Listen, some guys are.

Some guys that do like to suck a dick. It is more than that. But sometimes, a lot of times, it's like this guy. They're not attracted to guys. They're not into guys at all. But when they're horny and then out and about, If there's a dick there, they want to suck it. So this guy's eventually going to get there.

But I love his story. I love their story. I mean, they're like a success story. Married many years, divorced, then got back together, total vanilla people, and now playing with others and living their best life. Live and learn, everybody, from this guy. It's a great story. I'm glad I ended with a happy story anyway.

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