Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 764 - FETISH FRIDAY: Max is a Masochist into Cuckoldry, Femdom, Huge Breasts and Butts and More

Episode Date: February 9, 2024

Max is a masochist who is into fendom, cuckoldry, huge breasts and butts and more and he called in to talk all about it. When he realized he was a sub? When he forts tried cuckoldry? How and why he got involved in the lifestyle? Tune in to hear all the details including how he lost his virginity while on a leash and how that sparked the sub in him, how he was always into anal play and how it progressed into pegging, how he bottomed for guys when he was younger and why he’s not into bottoming for me that much anymore, how he started exploring munches and play parties in his twenties, his first female led relationship and the kinks they got into together, the doms he dated that got him into cuckoldry and the hot experience he had walking in on his girl banging another guy, the masochistic interests he has including paddling, flogging, caning, certain aspects of cbt and more, how and why he is so obsessed with voluptuous women with big breasts and big butts, the exact kind of woman he/s looking for and why its hard to find, the dungeon parties he goes to and exactly what goes down there, the femdom events he also goes to, how and when he started creating femdom art plus a whole lot more. You can see his art on twitte here: https://twitter.com/bowB4GYNARCHY  **To see pics of MAX's artwork plus see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's patreon.com. So, strictly anonymous podcast. Links to that and the number and everything are in the description. So today I have on Max. Max is an interesting guy. He's very into being a masochist. He's into cuckoldry. He loves Femdom.

He loves, he's an exhibitionist. He loves nothing more than to be naked walking around on a leash. And he talks all about it. He's also into BBWs and huge. breasts and huge butts. He's got a fetish for that. And he happens to also be an artist. And he creates BBW kink fetish art.

It's really fucking cool. We talk about it on there like he told me. And I'm going to put some picks on my Patreon. The stuff that he does is really amazing. The art. But what he does in real life is actually really amazing too. He's very hardcore. Like I said, he's a masochist.

He's into flogging and paddling. He's been caned. He's into CBT, which is, ball torture. He's very into femme doms. He is heteroflexible. He has hooked up with guys, but he talks about how when he realized he could just get girls to peg him, he wasn't so interested in being with guys anymore. And that's like an interesting thing that he talks about. But we really start at the beginning when he realized he was into all these different kinks and fetishes. And we work our way up through all the things that he did and all of his experiences. When he got into

BBW women. He loves to worship big breasts and big butts. He talks about that. He gets very specific about all the things that he's into. And they're all fascinating. As is his art, it's amazing. I'm going to put a link to his Twitter so you can see it.

His episode is super interesting. You're going to love his story. I'm going to be right back on with Max. Hi, Max. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you today? I'm doing pretty good. So listen, Max. You sound a little hardcore to me.

You sound like your voice doesn't sound hardcore, but your story sounds a little bit hardcore. You're a masochist. Yes, I am. You're a cuckled. So that to me, oh my God, you're probably on the extreme side of the cuckold thing. You have a huge breast and butt fetish. And so much so, and I guess you're an artist. And so you combine the two.

You do do these erotic illustrations of very buxom BBW babes, right? Is that like your thing? Fetishy stuff? Yes, I do BBW-related extremely buxom, yeah, like you put it. Yeah. Characters, but it's oftentimes depicts dominatrix women and sometimes it involves cuckoldry, different aspects of female domination. Yeah.

So tell me your story, Max. Or let me just start where you're at now. Are you a married guy? Are you a single guy? I am single. I'm occasionally dating. I mostly date very dominant women, sadists, female sadists in this case. Sometimes switches.

Weirdly enough, sometimes I end up dating women who turn out to be subs a lot. So how old are you, Max? I'm 42. Okay, so you've never been married, right? Like you've been single? I've never been married. I almost got married once. Never married.

Okay, cool. So when did you realize that you had all these kinks and which one came first? Like what was the gateway drug to all of your fetishes? I knew I was a sub for the time I was in high school. My very first girlfriend put me on a leash and put me up to her room and took my virginity. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. You met the girl of your dreams right out of the get-go.

Kind of. You should have married her. You should have married her. She was the girl for you. I later met another girl who was part of the same friend group in high school who I started dating. and she was also a dominant. And then I dated another girl part of the same friends group who was a switch. Yeah.

And I didn't know she was a switch when we dated. She just kind of came out with it. She was, hey, I have handcuffs and the rest is history. Yeah, yeah. And I've just run into women that turn out that they're very kink friendly. A lot of times they're dominance. A lot of times there are switches though at the same time. Yeah, yeah.

But before that girl put the leash on you, did you know you were subworld? that's what clicked it into you. That was like one of your first experiences. Like which came first? You being interested in that kind of thing or that girl doing it? And then it was like so supercharged that you got wired in that way. What do you think happened first? It was, I think I was already interested in it, but I'd never experienced it.

Like I'd seen Femdom porn in like a playboy or on the internet at the time. But I really never thought about it as much. Yeah. But that's the moment where I knew for sure I was a. up. Okay, so you're into all this kink when you're in high school and when did you start to get into the whole cuckolding thing? I got into cuckoldry on the same time that I got in the lifestyle. I was kind of dating women that were mildly kinky on and off for about 10 years, but I didn't go to my first lifestyle event until I was in my late 20s. Oh, okay. And then I didn't know what

cuckoldry was at the time. And then I dated a dominant who I met on Craigslist, ironically. And she basically said that if you want to date me, you have to be cuckolded and you have to be in chastity and you have to do all these things. She was really into clothed female, naked male, which is like an acronym. And she explained all this to me. And before that, I liked being a domic or being a submissive, but I didn't really experience it on that level. Like on a professional level, you mean? Or like a real hardcore level? Like a relationship level where my partner was just very dominant and enforced me being nude and collared around her. And I was wearing a chassis cage all day long.

Extreme, a little extreme. Right. It was pretty extreme. And she also introduced me to tagging and stuff like that too. Now, had you ever on your own investigated that area of your body? Yeah, I'd done that before. I had played with Dillard. build those before and I liked it. It was something I was kind of new at with a partner. Yeah. But, you know, I was very open to it. So it was just, it was like something I never, I never really thought about pegging. I remember I saw a pegging video, porn video years before. And I thought, well, that's stupid. And then I did it. And I'm like, wow, this is amazing.

I should do this more often. Yeah, yeah. That's right up your alley. And now it's, pegging has become like my preferred form of sex just because it does that much for me. And it's, I can have a orgasm or I can have an orgasm while being pegged and it's a hundred times more powerful. So before you got into the lifestyle, all of your 20s in high school was just playing around and doing these kind of kinky things with these girls that you met. Now, had you ever hooked up with guys as well during this time? I had in especially my early 20s. And I've always mildly interested in men to a degree, always as a bottom. And I met a couple of guys and I had a guy that had taught me. And I really liked it. A lot of times it was just really awkward meetings. But once I've kind of discovered

that women were actually into Femdom and especially into pegging, I kind of lost interest in playing with guys because I really just wanted someone to fuck me in the ass and dominate me. And I wanted a woman doing it. Because if I'm interesting, yeah, I consider myself to be heteroflexible. I can play with a guy, but I don't really seek it out. It's if I'm with a partner, like I met a lot of dominant women that are into force by. And they tend to want when I'm with them. They want me to be more by than I actually am. And usually I'm willing to do it because I'm dating them and I like it.

But I like when they lead that and make the decisions there too. And then because then that's a part of it. But really on your own, it's not really totally your thing. It's not top of the amount of for you. Top of the mountain for you is being topped by a woman with a cock, right? That's your thing. Right. Yeah, that kind of makes sense.

That's just what I, what I've always liked. But I like when women take the lead in a relationship. And when they lead me into a forced by situation and everything's consensual about it, then yeah, then it's a lot more fun. Of course, because that female's there, she's forcing you. That's a big part of you being a sub. I can understand why that's a different scenario than if you're just with the guy on your own. Yeah.

I just like a lot more, yeah, pretty much. Yeah, yeah, makes sense. So you consider yourself heteroflexible. Now, so how did you wind up getting into the lifestyle in your late 20s? I met that girl on Craigslist, and then I discovered, I discovered Fed Life like many people, and just kind of looked around on there. I made a profile, and unlike probably most guys, I had pictures of my face on there and what I looked like, and I wasn't just a bunch of dick pics. And I had women that approached me on there that were Femdoms and talked to them, and I dated a couple of them. I ended going to a couple of munches that were exclusively Femdon based, and there was a dominant who I had dated and who I kept seeing at munches, and we kind of dated on and off.

We're not dating anymore or anything like that. And then eventually I moved to a different area where there was a much bigger scene, and I just kind of explored that scene on my own, although I'm very introverted. So it was really hard for me to get to that first munch and to that first scene. but eventually I did and then you know I'd go to actual play parties I met a couple of dominance at play parties and I was recently in a three-year relationship with and I guess you could call it a female had relationship with a woman who I introduced to kink but she was already very kinky she just never explored kink she just she knew what it was to a certain degree but when I brought her to her first dungeon party, she was just in heaven.

Did you meet her at a munch or did you meet her in the regular world? I met her on a dating site. But we had actual mutual friends and she used to date one of my friends. And I had no idea who she was. And it's just a coincidence. And then she just dived into the lifestyle. But she wasn't really into cuckoldry so much. And so we never did that.

She was really into pegging and she liked disciplining me and a lot. number of other things and she really liked because she was very busty and liked having her tits played with like crazy and lots of things like that that I'm into but we didn't have every single thing in common like she didn't want me to do any forced buy stuff like she wouldn't let me suck on a strap on for example because she thought that was in her opinion too gay I'm like okay well that's fine with me yeah but but she loved pegging and and since then we've broken up and she's off a going to different munches and play parties on her own. And I go to different parties because I don't want it to be awkward. But I haven't gone to a play party in a year to be fair. So, but yeah.

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Shop the Memorial Day sale now and get up to 20% off at avocado-matress.com or select retailers nationwide. Visit avocado mattress.com. That's avocado mattress.com. Okay. So now when, so when did you get into the cuckoldry thing with one of the girls that you were dating? Yes. I dated a couple of doms that were in a cuckoldry. And I haven't done as much as I would like when cuckoldry. I dated Dominates who would send me pictures of some of their friends with benefits while we were just dating. They're like, oh, I couldn't talk to you last night because this was the dick I was fucking and things like that. But I did date a Dominate who I met at a hotel room after dating for a while and she had another submissive.

And she would sleep with her other submissive and fool around with him but wouldn't allow me to sleep with her in any way other than pegging. So one day I got to the hotel room and there was a note on the door that says, said my name and it said, just come inside. And it was like the door left cracked open. I could hear they were having sex inside. Yeah. So I come inside and they're on the bed fucking like crazy. And she told me while they were doing it just to take my clothes off and get on the bed with her and, you know, put on a collar and all that. It didn't last very long because the guy.

she was having sex with. As soon as I was in the room, he, like, came almost, almost immediately. So I was hoping it would last longer than that. Yeah. Yeah. But it was interesting. And I've had a couple of minor cuckoldry dynamics. I find it's kind of hard to find a dominant who's into cuckoldry and sadism

and the level of domination that I prefer, who also might be my type, who might be very voluptuous, example. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's usually kind of a mix. But sometimes I get kind of lucky and I find someone who's more or less like that and you never know. Right. Usually they check four out of five boxes. Welcome to the world. That's like dating. Welcome to dating. Yeah, yeah. It's like normal dating, but with a whip. Yeah, exactly. But, you know, that's why you're not married yet. If you had met a girl that checked off all those boxes, you'd be, you would have told me you were married already, right? I would have married. Yeah, I would marry her like that. Like I would, I would, I would, I would, I like to get married at some point.

Yeah. And I've met women recently who wanted the same thing. They wanted a cuckoldry-based marriage and they wanted lots of strap on and all this. But things didn't work out for one reason or another. Like I said, it's very similar to normal dating. But, you know, you're talking about kink as one of your interests. And sometimes it doesn't go there. But then again, sometimes they pop up later on and say, hey, I remember you and why didn't we go out?

Yeah, yeah. Who knows? So how far do you get into the? whole masochism thing like what kind of things crazy things are you into when it comes to that torture i am into i wouldn't say i'm a super heavy masochist i like being flogged and i can take the hardest flogging a woman can give me like really hard flogging doesn't hurt that bad in my opinion it's like a really harsh massage but it's hot at the same time yeah i i like paddling a lot but i i've been at a club where a dominant wanted to a dominant friend of

mine introduced me to another dominant and said she kept trying to tell this other dominant that I was a really heavy sub so this other dominant went at me hard with a giant paddle and I immediately screamed red because there's no warm up or anything yeah but I can be I can start kind of medium with a paddle and other things and then be kind of worked up to take it heavier but I'm not normally right off the bat super heavy with it but I can be paddled till I'm red and then I quickly the red goes away quickly. I've also been caned a couple of times. Caned? Caned? Like with a cane. Yeah. And I've been to the point where I broke down crying and I had like marks on my ass for like a year. And then after I stopped crying, the dominant had unrestrained me because she did that. And then

she asked me if I'm okay. And I was like, yeah, can we do that again? I was, I'm a little, like, this is where it gets confusing in your world, right? Us vanilla people are. are listening like so is crying a bad thing in this situation or is that like subspace for you i don't know it is so it's not normal with masochists most masochists they don't cry when they're being spanked or something some some do and i i get to that point where i will reach that point where i will it'll start hurting the point where it really does hurt and i know it's not doesn't feel as good but i'm enjoying the dominance and submissive level of it and the fact that i'm being caned that hard by somebody i really did

Generally, that's the point where I'm going to say, call red or call it a safe word. Yeah. But it's not necessarily the end of the scene. I really just kind of need a break, to be honest with you. But yeah, most subs or most masochists would generally take more pain than that. There was a play party that I would go to out here that was really big. And they had this thing called the spanking line where guys would show up. They'd get naked in front of women.

They'd put on collars. And there would be a light area, a medium area, and a heavy area. And I'd always go to the heavy area. And I'd be spanked really hard and was only bareheaded spanking. And then I'd have the, and I'd cry after a while because these dominant women would hit hard and as hard as they could go. And they loved it. And they, I would, the other male subs there would tell me that go to the medium line. You're, you're crying.

And I'm like, no, no, this is great. This is awesome. I love this. And they, but they weren't used to crying because it wouldn't make them cry. But it would make me cry. But you're okay with that. That's your thing. But you're saying like that's not typical in that world.

No, it's not typical. Most guys who like pain, they can just take that like that. Yeah, but the crying isn't your cue to like stop, really. Not really my cue. Generally, it means I'm close to that level where I'm going to need a break. But usually I'll just let them know if I think I'm at the point where I have to take a break. And then then I'll calm down, stop crying. And we can kind of resume at some point.

What's the difference between flogging? and paddling. I would think flogging is kind of smacking your ass with something, right? And so what's the difference? The difference is a paddle is usually a hard surface, like a wooden paddle that you would use for baking or something similar. Yeah. Not necessarily wooden paddle, but some sort of paddle where it's a hard flat surface. A flogging is done with a flogger, which is kind of like, it's like a cat of nine tails, but it doesn't have any sharp at the end. and they're like strands or flails, I think they're flalls, something like that,

of like leather or suede, and they're usually really heavy, but you can find like really easy starter floggers very easily. I prefer the larger, heavier floggers just because I can take it a lot heavier. And I've been at dungeon scenes where it was kind of a mixed party, so there's male doms, female doms, male female subs there. And I'm getting flogged.

And then afterwards, I remember this, one time this really heavy female sub comes up to me and she says, oh my God, I've never seen anyone get flogged that hard and you're just okay. And I'm like, I didn't think it was that hard. Wow. Yeah. I guess I impressed her. Now, listen, I've talked to other people. I don't know that they called themselves masochist, but they told me that they were into like ball torture and having women walk on them. Like I've heard some. Yeah. Are you into that kind of stuff too? Like how far do you take that pain thing. I'm into CBT but not really heavy.

CBT is caught. We got to explain these terms. Cod and ball torture. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, CBD. To people that don't know. It's a, it's a real thing. A lot of women who are sadists are into cock and ball torture. Right.

A lot of dominance in general are. I am into certain aspects of that. Like, I have a huge interest of things I want to explore there. Like, I love it when the woman grabs me by the balls and just like pulls in just any way, she wants or digs her nails into my balls while she's grabbing them. And it's not much the pain that I like. I just like the feeling of a woman taking control like that. But I also, you know, I have a couple of different toys that like, it's like they have this

weird glass case thing that you, a woman would put around my balls and then it kind of crushes them. They turn screws and it slowly crushes them and it puts pressure on them. I don't like to go too far with it because just for safety. but it adds a lot of pressure. I'm also very interested in playing with like electric play with involving both male chastity and CBT where a woman will have a shock device around my balls

or there's like a chastity cage out now where it'll shock the head of your cock. And I like the idea of being in a relationship where my Dom can push a button and if I talk out of line, and she could push a button and shock the head of my cock to discipline me. I've heard that even for masochus, it's not very pleasurable at all, but that's kind of the appeal to me, that it's just a very intense form of pain and just in such an intimate way that appeals to me, like that kind of stuff.

What about, because you like BBWs and you're like very voluptuous women, do you like to be smothered? Are you into that whole thing? Sort of, but I haven't been, I like, I like face-sitting a lot, but I haven't gotten to explore too much faces, face sitting, a little bit here and there. I like women that are, like I said, extremely voluptuous. So, like, I'm really into what's called breast worship and also butt worship and thigh worship, where you just, as a guy, you just go to town on that area, you kiss every inch of her breasts or whatever.

And then I suck a girl's boob for half an hour straight in different ways. And I need somebody who's particularly voluptuous to do that kind of play. Because you have more area to play. Yeah. It's also, yeah, it's also the only area I really switch at. Like I'll, like I enjoy causing a little bit of pain while I'm sucking on a girl's nipples. And I had an ex-girlfriend who was actually more of a sub. We were, we were trying to both be switches.

And I was playing with her, her tits. And they, you know, they were huge. And I was just leaving marks all over her boobs. And like, I left geometric bite marks all. all around her boobs in this intricate pattern. And then later she told me that I had left so many marks on her boobs. She had to cover herself up like she'd never been covered up before. And she complained about it.

And she wasn't really as much into pain it turned out. She was more into way more into being a sub. And I think she thought because I was kinky that I might be willing to dominate her. But I was only interested in switching in that one area. But just because someone's a sub, it doesn't mean they're a masochist. Right. I was going to ask before when you were explaining about the masquist and the crying, I was like if there was a Venn diagram and you have all subs in one circle and massacus and another. It's not fully on top of each other, correct?

A lot of male subs are, or a lot of subs in general, are just submissive and they're just like a dominant partner. Yeah. There's a lot of dominance, both male and female and everything in between, that only like being dominant. In fact, most recent woman I dated was only into being dominant. But there's a lot of people, there's plus there's switches all like crazy. Yeah. But there's a lot of people who are just into, there's a lot of women that are just sadists. They're not necessarily dominant.

They're just, they like causing pain. They're really into CBT. They can toy around with dominance and submission, but it doesn't do as much for them. And then there are people that are really into cuckoldry. Sometimes you get people that are like a dominant really likes cuckoldry or a dominant who's also a sadist. It's really actually kind of hard to find someone who is both a dominant. a sadist and into cuckoldry, though I do find them on occasion. That's your person you're looking for.

It's like if they got to check three boxes there, then they got to be very more voluptuous or BBW there. And it's a lot of boxes. It's a lot of checks too. Yeah, yeah. When did you realize you were into BBWs or like into huge breasts and butt worshiping and all of that stuff too? Did that happen early on for you as well?

Kind of early. Some of the first women I dated were fairly busty. And I didn't date a girl who was really curvy and voluptuous until my early 20s. And then I just happened to date this random girl where she had extremely large boobs and she was BBW. And we had sex and she said, she told me that she had to be on top. Yeah. It just flat out, got on top, rode me for a half hour straight. And she was just extremely aggressive.

And we never did any real kink stuff. But she would like to pin my arms down or she'd tell me. me to put my hands under her knees while we had sex and things like that and that kind of was an eye-opening experience because I'd never been with someone, a woman that was that aggressive, but also that voluptuous. But I also had never been in with a woman who was actually good in bed or anywhere near that level. And she was all three, those things. She was good and bad.

Yeah. Yeah. And I regret to this day ending things with her. And who knows? But since then I kind of look at back and I'm like, wow. I, you know, she was, what kind of started a lot of this where I started realizing just how much of a sub I was and I just realizing what I liked. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And that was a very early experience early on.

I think sometimes our early experiences definitely shape us for the future, don't you think? That's why I wonder where that came from. My first girlfriend, like I said, was fairly curvy. She wasn't like a BBW, but she had a big butt and she had, you know, sizable breasts. They weren't huge or anything. And again, she could be very aggressive. And since then, that every girl has been some variation of that that I've dated, at least the ones I've really enjoyed dating.

And I just realized it more and more that I have a specific type that I like. And there's a specific type of woman I like personality-wise. Because the women I date, they're not just dominant in the bedroom. They're oftentimes very outgoing dominant women in general. A lot of the women I've dated are very alpha. And business women, lawyers, and they're very, very alpha dominant in real life. And they come home and they want their nude, collared sub to rub their feet and make them dinner and then take a strap on. Yeah.

Interesting. Yeah. Not every woman's not every woman who's very alpha is like that. Yeah, for sure. The vast majority are probably more, oh, they come home and they want to be the submissive or they just want to be more relaxed. Yeah. It's never going to be 100%. No, no, it's not 100%.

It's probably 80% are more submissive, my experience, and then 20% are the more dominant ones. And everyone else is in the middle somewhere there. I have another girl, podcaster, Layla, London. She's on my show a lot. And she's definitely an alpha chick. And she was talking about how she started domming a guy. And she fucking loved it. I'm like, wow, you're like guys would love you because a lot of guys are looking for that dominant woman.

Yeah, there's a tremendous amount of men that are submissive or they're just bottom. and they are looking everywhere for dominant women. Yeah. I think a lot of guys that are kind of get into playing with other guys that are normally straight are really just looking for dominant women, but they just can't find it that often. Yeah, that's always so interesting about what you said in the beginning that you were hooking up with guys for that experience. But once you realize you could have a woman give you that experience, it made up for it.

I really just wanted to feel someone dominating me sexually. and I also realized I enjoyed anal sex. And I had some experiences with a couple of guys that I actually really enjoyed, too. Yeah. I think back of it. I'm like, oh, that was amazing. But I can easily get that from dominant women, not every day, but if I meet someone who's really into it. And then it just kind of made playing with guys a little bit obsolete, although, like I said, it's something that I'll enjoy on occasion.

Yeah, it is. I mean, listen, most of the straight guys, that I'm talking to that go out and every now and then suck a dick. They always want to be the person sucking the dick. They don't want their dick sucked by a guy, right? So it's a very submissive kind of act. So you're right. A lot of those guys are looking for just to be submissive.

And what they tell me is that it's hard to find the guy that just wants the blowjob because every guy like that guy wants to give the blowjob. And that's why I made a comment on a recent podcast. Straight men, like get in on this action. There's a lot of submissive guys looking for. guys that want blow jobs. If you open yourself off, there's a, there'll be a line. There's so many.

Right. There's so many guys that just want to suck dick. I'll give an example. I don't really like receiving blow jobs at all. Exactly. That's what I hear. Yeah. Same thing.

But I'm open to giving someone sucking a dick on occasion. Yeah. And same thing. Like with a woman, I like women who just want oral. It's actually called oral service. Yeah. I just go down on them and there's, that's its own reward. That's something that's something that just really works with me.

And a lot of women like that. Yeah, I like to please, but I also like pleasing outside of the bedroom. So like I like clean. I'm like the guy who I like to clean the house and I like doing the dishes after dinner. I like making dinner from women I'm dating. I love, I don't heavily have a foot fetish, but I love rubbing women's feet because I like, I like to be on my knees while they're like sitting up in a chair or in comfort and just getting to serve. in that way. Right.

Knowing that I'm doing something that they enjoy. Let me ask you this. Do you like to fuck the shit out of a girl every now and then, too? Once in a while. It's usually, if I want to just fuck the shit out of a girl, it's usually somebody who's very voluptuous. Then I enjoy it a lot more. I've dated some dominance that weren't so voluptuous.

And I had very little interest in actually having sex with them. I just would enjoy being pegged by them. But they're very voluptuous, like that girl who climbed on top of me and told me she had to be on top. She was so voluptuous that I wanted to fuck the shit out of her left and right. It is kind of the best of both worlds. I only ask because listen, the way you're describing yourself, you're like, I want to just orally please a woman and I'm not so much into feet, but I'd love to rub a woman's feet and I want to cook her dinner. And I'm like, if you wind up fucking her two, what girl wouldn't want that? I get that you don't want. That's why I

just wanted to see does a guy like you that's totally submissive. will you also fuck that girl? It's not really the top of your list. That's where... It's not the top of the list. It's more pegging or having sex with a woman or eating her out or playing with your giant tits, whatever. It's like a different option. Yeah.

And I don't want the same thing every time. I may want to have sex maybe one and every 10 times and the rest of I could do all kinds of other things. I'm happy if a woman flogs me and paddles me and then uses a strap on and things like that. But then once in a while I do like sex. But, you know, I generally prefer women who want to be on top most of the time. But I do like to be on top sometimes and enjoy that as well. It's just not the number one thing that I'm into. Yeah, listen, there's somebody for everybody.

Sometimes when somebody's a hardcore into cuckolding, and they're kind of like you in that they don't really need to fuck their girl, right? They like all this other kind of stuff. Sometimes that could create a disconnect because in a very intimate, relationship when it's more than just sex, that kind of sex with the woman is, it's, you know, it's more than just sex, right? Yeah, I think that with a lot of cuckolds, a lot of times they want a dynamic where they just watch their partner have sex and they don't really have any intimacy with them.

I know, but those are my, I don't like that. Okay, good, because those are my cuck gone wrong stories. Those are the stories that end so bad and it's for a reason. Yeah, because they don't have any intimacy. And to me, I like, I like when I'm doing cuckoldery, I don't want. one thing. Like I like being part of the scene. While the woman I'm with is getting fucked, maybe I play with her tits, or I could be in a cage, I could be on the edge of the bed, I could be under the bed. It doesn't matter. I have so many like different ideas that I like there.

But I like to be part of it to a degree, but I also still like being intimate with my partner. I just prefer in a cuckled dynamic that I'm not the number one when it comes to penetrating her. Right. But you understand that the connection needs to be there too. And you're not totally. 100%. Yeah, because when I hear with the chastity and then the cuggledry and then it gets so extreme that they're not connecting anymore, there's no reclaiming. You're just waiting for your girl to find somebody one of those guys. Yeah, to wind up.

Yeah. I think a lot of those guys, if they, if they, I think a lot of them, maybe if they just tried pegging, they'd find out there's a lot of intimacy there. Or maybe if they just went down on their girlfriends or wives and continued that as intimacy, then they might keep that. I was to say, I've also dated a lot of women who are very kind of nymphomaniacs where they want to get fucked all the time. It's great to be a couple then because I don't necessarily want to have sex in that way that often. Right. They have a bull. It's like, oh, it's amazing.

Now they can, this guy can deal with it. I'll fake that guy afterwards. Yeah, you're right. So that girl could go out and get her fill. You don't have to do it all. But you're going to be there one in every 10 times to fuck. and you're also going to give her oral and you're also going to rub her feet and cook her dinner. And so like, what could she ask for?

Things like that. Yeah. I should point out, I'm also into going to, like I said, going to dungeons. And I enjoy there being a public aspect because I'm kind of an exhibitionist. Oh, okay. So if I go to a dungeon and people are watching me be disciplined or get pegged or something like that, it does a little bit more for me because I just enjoy kind of having an audience. Yeah.

And so in the past, I've also made a couple of videos of me and me and my ex playing with different scenes. And the ex I was with for three years, she was really into exhibitionism, even more than me. And then I kind of realized how much I like people watching being with her because we would gather a crowd. And so these were at like dungeon parties? Usually dungeon parties where, you know, usually almost always they were Femdom dungeon parties. And what's a, could you just explain Femdom? DOM what that means and what that means. It means female domination. Yeah. So the women is almost exclusively dominant at least at a party like this. Sometimes there's switches. And if you go to a party like this,

it's usually all scenes are female led where women are topping or they're getting eaten out or in some cases at certain parties they're pecking their guys or in some way or another, they're taking the dominant role. Yeah. Although like I said, it might be a switch couple where they switch back and forth in their home life. But you go in there and it's a lot of times it's men who are nude being collared and pull around on leashes by women wearing black leather latex or sometimes just women wearing cute dresses pulling around a naked sub and or and then paddling them over over a bench and things like that. Yeah. So what would you and your partner do when you go? Because like for you walking around naked as an exhibitionist on a collar, that must be hot for you. Oh yeah. It's great. I love it. Yeah.

We do certain dungeons allow pegging. Some don't. So we were really into pegging, especially. She was probably more into pegging than I was in some cases. But we go there and she disciplined me with paddles of her choice. And she'd peg me, especially if we're in a big main room. She restrained me a little bit, but we never really explored that as much as we honestly both wanted to.

Both were interested in exploring rope. But we never really got the chance, mostly because COVID kind of got in the way in canceled everything for three years. Yeah. And then I think there was a couple times where certain parties were I would go down on her in front of a big scene of people and she would just scored everywhere and make a giant mess and things like that. There were times where we'd have sex, just her on top or whatever on top of a stage.

And just right in front of everybody, everyone would watch and things like that. But a lot of times we do, I'd be wearing a chastity. cage and she'd pull me around on it and we'd watch other people's scenes but a lot of times we would just end up doing a lot of pegging or a lot of stuff related to that. Why do you think that pegging is sometimes not allowed in a dungeon party? I don't get it. Some dungeons don't allow any sort of penetrative sex or any oral sex just because they're afraid that they're going to get busted for it. Yeah, that makes sense. A lot of them will allow pegging because it doesn't, it doesn't, it

evolve an actual penis and vagina or anything like that. It's a toy. And they're afraid that there might be, people might catch a disease from each other or something random might happen like that. They don't want, they want it clean, they want it safe. And they have very specific rules, but it varies by the dungeon. Some dungeons are just very open and they don't really care. And like I said, some of them are much stricter in general. And where I live, there's more than half a dozen dungeons. Some of them are little newer than others. Is that a lot? That's a lot, right, to have in one area? Yeah, that's a fairly large amount. I live in a city. Let's just say, it's fairly large city and there's scattered around the area. There's over half a dozen. In fact,

there's a couple of them that just sprung up recently that I've never been to. I've just heard about repeatedly, like two or three new ones. Yeah. But sometimes they come and go. Like they, there was a really big one that closed recently because of COVID and COVID reasons. Yeah. And then three more popped up in its place. And then I think in small cities, like you might get one or maybe two dungeons. And then a big city, in a big area, urban area, like where I live, you get a whole bunch of all over the place.

Even in sort of backwater areas, there's still kind of one, but they won't be as well known. Yeah. And would people be surprised at the demographics of the people that are there? Like, what do you say is the demographics of the people that are into BDSM, like hardcore going to dungeon parties? Everyone under the sun. Yeah. I mean, you get just everyone.

You get a lot of people that are, I will say this, there's a lot of trans men and trans women to go to dungeon parties. And many of them go to FAMDOM events as well as to kind of regular events, by regular, a general event. Because a lot of times when you go to a regular kink event, 90% of the people there are male doms and female subs. And then there will be sort of a smaller area that's more femdom or it's more sort of gender neutral. Right. So that's why they have fem dom night.

So you know that that's what's going down. So because listen, I'm a lot of times I'm talking to the guy who's into BDSM and we're talking about these dungeons with the dominatrix. So I forget that there's like male domes out there too. It's mostly male domes. Yeah, that's what's so interesting. You're saying that mostly at the parties, that's why you're specifying that it's a Femdom party because that's the,

they have a special night just for that because typically you're going to go to a dungeon party. It's going to be mostly male doms. Yeah. There's a lot of that. But then it's funny because there's a lot of male doms that say they can't find female subs. But my experience is there's tons of female subs.

They're just, they're all over the place. And I have a couple of them that I've met on just vanilla sites recently who I've just become friends with. Yeah. And they say the same thing. They're like, we're all the male doms. And I'm like, well, they're all over fat life. Yeah, you say, I'll take you to a party.

I've offered. I have a female sub friend who I keep matching with on a dating site. We talk on and off. Yeah. And I keep telling her, if you want to go to a party, I can bring you to one. And I tell her, like, I'm not going to play with you because I'm not into what you're into, but we can go together and you can check it out. But there's also parties that are like.

male dom females have oriented quite a few of them and it's a great place to go for a woman who really wants to experience submission to a guy and there are you know plenty of guys there that are looking to play i don't know you know what the quality level of male doms would be there but there's there's a lot of parties like that yeah yeah yeah for sure before far less far less femon parties in general comparison yeah no that's interesting when did you start doing the whole art thing and drawing this stuff out and creating visuals. Do you have a website or an Instagram or anything? I have a Twitter account that I can give you the address for.

And where I post just about everything I do, it's bow before gynarkey is the name of the Twitter. Oh my God, you got to spell that, but I'll put a link to it. I just spell it. Yeah. B-O-W, B-4, G-Y-N-A-R-C-H-Y at Twitter. How do you want to do that with Twitter? And my post all kinds of stuff.

Why did you pick such a complicated name? Oh, my gosh. It was a weird web handle I used. Oh, okay. There's a lot of male subs that like the idea of gynerky, which is a completely female-led society, which isn't really a fantasy. And so I thought it would be a great title just to get kind of attention.

And it fit the theme of my work. And I started doing drawings like that. I would sketch things like that when I was in high school, but just throw them away or whatever. And then when I was in college, I just started doing more and more Femdom stuff on the side. But I wouldn't draw that as part of my college courses, like work I would turn in because I was an art major, basically.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. And then afterwards, I would, I would, started to build my own little repertoire of femdominated art that I just got better and better at and started building up a gallery of online. And it started getting a small following. I'm trying to find you. So, but it's like you just said it's so fast and I can't figure out what the fuck you're saying. Okay, submissionary. That's your name. Oh, look at these.

This is really cool. Wait, your stuff is really cool. Thanks. I put a lot of work into it. It's like very futuristic too. It's got like that kind of spin on it. Yeah. A little bit, right? Very futuristic. I like, I love science fiction at the same time. Yeah, it's got that. Yeah.

It's kind of a blend of everything I like all in one. And yeah. Do you sell your art anywhere? I occasionally do commissions or I've sold some original work. I mostly work digitally. so there's not really originals. But like I said, I'll do commissions when people approach me about it. And then I've got some older drawings that I'll sell.

And a couple of them are Femdom themed. Oh my God. These in a dungeon or at a party would be so fucking cool. If I had a place to sell them at a dungeon, yeah, they would probably. Oh, my God. If you blew this shit up and made huge posters all around a room and through a party, like I would put this shit up all around. Like, it's so cool.

It would be a really cool vibe. Thanks. You got a point there, actually. Don't you think? Picture it. Listen, I live in New York City. I'm surprised. You could have, I don't know what city you live in, but there's a place where you could do a little art, you could show this stuff at an art gallery. Like, it's really cool.

It's got an edge. It's, it's beautiful. It's art. And it's interesting. Yeah. I've wanted to show my work at galleries before. I've shared it at a couple of very small galleries. Yeah.

Uh-huh. And where I've showed a one or two pieces. it's funny because I've showed a lot of just kind of regular abstract work or some kind of vanilla art. Yeah. And then I squeezed like one Femdom drawing in. And guess what the Femdom drawing is the one that everyone liked the most and got all the attention. Yeah. People always, oh my God, that's so different and so unique.

Yeah. But it was also positive and negative attention. So there was like 90% of the people thought it would be amazing. And then it was just like one guy who'd be like, oh my God, that's just obscene. Yeah, and everyone listens to that one guy. Yeah. There's always that one guy. If this shit was glow in the dark, imagine how cool it would be in a place.

It would be interesting. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Let me ask you this about your, you decided to said the word vanilla. My last question to you is like, who the fuck knows about this whole side of you? Everybody or is this like people that know you would have no fucking clue? Like, how do you roll? Well, most of my family doesn't know. None of my family really knows.

Okay, yeah. My ex knows because we were all on the scene together and, you know, we're still close because we have a child together. When her family kind of knows quite a few of them. One or two of my friends know, but it's generally people I know that are more kink oriented. And because I'm a big nerd with nerd stuff, there's a strong connection between kink and like nerd culture. A lot of nerds are very kinky. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I would think. There's a ton of connection there.

Well, because don't you think there takes a little bit like of intelligence needed there to be, because it's like a creative part of somebody. It's like you're, you have to be kind of smart, don't you think? There's a strong connection between kink and intelligence. And I've heard a lot of people say things like that where there's a lot of that. And a lot of intelligent people just are just really kinky. You get really into odd kinks that other people just might not be into and things like that. Do think it tends to be more filled with more heady people because it's like on a

heady kind of sex. There are, yeah. I've heard, but I can't confirm this, that there are quite a few certain celebrities that will go to some different Femdom parties, but they wear, they wear masks. Yeah. They don't want people to know. Of course. And then I've met Dominance who said, yeah, I dated a celebrity who they wouldn't tell me

who it was, but they said it was really on the down low because this person was just really into Femdom, but they don't want anyone to know. It's almost like they think they're going to be outed for some reason, which is really... Well, if they were, they would fuck up their career. Look at it. It happens all the time. It's kind of so ridiculous because, first of all, it's no one's fucking business. And it's kind of gross.

Like, recently there was that whole thing with Will Smith. Somebody came out and said, oh, I used to see him fuck guys. Like, why would you snitch on something? Like, why would you even say that? Even if he does, what is it anyone's business? That's what he does. And if he doesn't want anyone to know, no one should know. It's as long as it's consensual.

everyone's into it. It's no one's fucking business. And it doesn't matter, but these people have to wear a mask because, like, the worst thing that could happen is that that gets outed because the majority of people, I mean, it's the reason why I do my show to kind of like get people to be more open to stuff and realize that this is what's going down. And it could be the person sitting next to you. It could be your uncle that you don't know. It could be your neighbors. These are regular people are doing these things. Celebrities are doing them and the guy down the streets doing them and the woman that you're working with does them. You know, I have a woman named Gang Bang Betty and she's like, I've seen her. She's a soccer mom. You would never know. And she's having full on gangbigs. This is the shit that goes

down, but nobody wants to talk about it and no one can be outed because you could really lose, like nowadays, you could lose a lot. You know, you have to keep it under wraps. It's a fact. Sorry. Yeah. I mean, I was, I'll give you an example. Like I went to school with somebody who's in the same program as me. Yeah. That I kind of got the vibe that she was kinky. And she's very, very, very very dominant female. Yeah. And I recently came across her looking for subs. And I was like, wait, I went to the same program with her.

That's not that surprising. But we never talked about kink or anything like that because I didn't want to ask her because it wasn't that connection there. But I mean, I got the feeling that I was in grad school that if I had drawn, you know, erotic art or Femdom related art, a lot of the people I was in school with would not. have been cool with it. They would have been like, what is this? Why are you doing this? I wouldn't gotten kicked out of school, but they would have looked down upon me for doing that. So even this beautiful art that you do in these pictures, a lot of people that you know that you're friends with don't even know that that's your stuff. They wouldn't know. People in the program I went to, they might recognize the style. Yeah, that's what I was going to say.

A little bit because it's very very stylistic. Yeah. But they they wouldn't know those particular. pieces or that I did that type of art or like any sort of erratic art. But they recognize the very specific style of it, I think. Yeah, I love it. I think it's cool as shit and beautiful and like you're really talented.

Like I said, if I was like running a dungeon, I'd be like, could you make these glow in the dark and I'd blow them up and put them all over? Like, how cool would that room be? I'm going to approach some from your Twitter and put them on my Patreon so people could see them. There's one blue woman

Squish Tits of Tomorrow Huge Squish Squish... It's called huge Squish Tits of Tomorrow. Yeah, I love that one. It's so fucking beautiful. Yeah, it's so cool.

Yeah, you're really talented. It's amazing. I don't know what your regular art is, but this stuff is really cool and there's a place for it. You're very talented when it's actually very cool. So I'm going to post some of that.

I will put a link to your Twitter so people could see what we're talking about because it's super cool. I appreciate that. You lead a very interesting life. I wonder who you're going to wind up with? Like you said, you're kind of open to meeting someone now, right? Like, it's like your time. You're kind of looking to settle down, maybe? I'm looking to settle down. I would like to be

in a female-led relationship. And eventually, I would actually like to get married. And like I said, I have met numerous dominance, surprisingly, on a lot of dating sites in the last couple of years. And I was recently dating a dominant or woman who's very vanilla, but very dominant. And kind of mildly interested in kink and it didn't work out but the next one might who knows yeah listen I think it's all about timing I really believe that there's somebody for everybody sometimes if you don't have anybody yet it's just you haven't you're not ready for it you didn't want it but if you do want it now it's just a matter of time and you will meet that person like I said it's there is I believe there's somebody for everybody it's just a matter of like you wanting it right you're probably ready

you're in your 40s you already have a kid but you want to have a long term a relationship and I'm sure that's going to happen for you. You're going to meet somebody eventually. You probably weren't interested before. Yeah, I know what it will happen eventually. Like I said, I meet dominance more often than they would think. I think there's a lot of male subs in the world who think that dominance are super rare, but they're not as rare as you would think. Yeah, I love that. And like before, were you ever really looking for, like you've had long-term relationships. Were you looking to get married before? Or is it now you're looking for that? I was always interested in getting married, didn't want to marry somebody who wasn't at all physically my type.

Yeah. Or I didn't want to marry somebody who was very vanilla and then have a secret life. I wanted to have somebody who was into the same kings, at least a good amount of them that I was. Because there's some kinks that where, like in my last relationship, we didn't do any cuckoldry, but I still, it was a really fulfilling relationship still. Yeah, yeah. So I don't expect to find someone who's absolutely perfect. That would be amazing.

There's compromise. If they check four to five boxes, I'm probably going to be happy. Yeah, yeah, that's cool. Hopefully, you can have that kind of thing too, but, you know, fingers crossed. Yeah, well, listen, if there's any dumb women, listen, you're going to get access to my Discord. Maybe there's a list of my Discord's like Craigslist now. People are like hooking up on there.

Not really serious. I'll give you free access to there. Maybe you'll get hit up by some people. It might happen. Who knows? Yeah, you never know. But listen, thank you so much, Max, for calling in. sharing your story. It was super interesting. I'm going to put, I put picks up on my Patreon. I'm

going to take picks of your art and put it on my Patreon. That's cool, right? I could take some stuff on Twitter to show people. I'm going to. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm going to put a link to your Twitter so people could see your stuff as well. Your episode will definitely be up soon. It'll be on a fetish Friday. So keep, stay tuned. It'll be up soon. Awesome. Thanks, Max. Thanks so much for calling in. This was fascinating. No problem. Thank you. Bye, Max. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that My book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it.

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