Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 765 - Ariel and her Husband Started Role-playing & Posting Naughty Pics & Videos Online and it Totally helped their Sex Life

Episode Date: February 12, 2024

Ariel and her husband started role playing and posting naughty pics and videos online and it totally helped their sex life and she called in to talk all about it. How and why did her and her husband start posting naughty stuff online? What is it about the attention and "cum tributes" that they dig so much? And, how and why has it helped their marriage?? Tune in to hear all the details including how she met her husband and wound up pregnant right away, how and why their second baby led to her husband cheating on her, how she found out and how she was able to move on, how and why they eventually became even more disconnected, how her husband brought up his dissatisfaction and how talking about things and making the necessary changes completely changed the game, how that led to them to being open about their sexual fantasies with each other, how that led role playing and the hot scenarios they played out, her husband’s fave scenario of watching her with another guy and how they mocked it up with toys and then a f***ing machine, how they then went on to Reddit and X.com looking for guys, how they started taking and posting hot pics and videos of them together and how the messages and comments and cum tributes they got totally turned them on, how she now wants to hook up with a female and how and why they’re looking for a “clean up” girl, the female who responded to their “clean up” ad and what she was doing in the video she sent them, how she figured out to squirt and the toy that made it happened, how she got fisted by her husband recently and how and why she totally loved it, why he no longer has a desire to see her with another guy and how and why the attention from others is enough for them now, how and why they’re more attracted to each other even more now than before plus a whole lot more. You can find them here: https://twitter.com/satxfuncouple and here https://anchor.fm/satxfuncouple **To see anonymous pics of ARIEL plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it.

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Now, Ariel has a really interesting story. Her and her husband have been together for a while. She's 38 now, I think. But when they were younger, she met her husband, like on a one-night stand. It was like a one-night stand thing that kept going. They were just kind of like banging each other. And she wound up getting pregnant. So he wound up being her husband.

They stayed together. She had a very hard first pregnancy. She talks about how that impacted their life because the next time she got pregnant, she didn't want to have sex. She was really nervous about the baby. So she denied him for a really long time. And he wound up cheating on her. And she wound up finding out.

She talks about how she found out. He was so dumb. And she confronted him and she eventually got past the cheating. But it's not like their marriage, even though they stayed together, was great. They just like gradually grew apart. I mean, they were kind of like on autopilot. They had a lot of kids. They were working different work schedules and they were really not connected.

She wasn't necessarily happy with their relationship. So many years passed and just recently about a year ago, her husband brought it up that he just wasn't happy. more. And they decided to change everything up. Besides changing their schedule, which was a big key factor in helping their relationship, they also changed their sex life. Her husband brought all his fantasies to the table with her and started really opening up about what he was into. And that led to role playing and toys and fucking machines and Reddits and Twitter videos and come tributes and fisting and all kinds of crazy stuff.

And she talks about that journey. Like I said, her husband was the first one to raise his hand and say, hey, did you ever think about this or that? And one of his biggest fantasies was like watching her with another guy. So they mocked up that scenario in so many different ways and would roleplay it and talk about it while they were together. And she wound up realizing that she was like really into it. And then they started to go out and look for guys.

And that's how they wound up on Reddit. And while they were looking for guys, they wound up getting a lot of guys emailing them. Talking about their picks and how hot she looked. And her husband realized he loved that attention. And she realized she loved it too. And so they got really into that. They started having more sex. And then they started taking picks.

And she bought lingerie. And they started taking videos. And they started posting that. And they just couldn't get enough of all the attention. And like I said, the tributes that they got and they're so into it that they have never even met up with another guy. He doesn't even want that experience anymore. He just loves all the play that they get from everybody online. They don't have an only fans or anything like that.

They're not monetizing in any way. They just have fun on Reddit. And they're also on Twitter. She gives her shoutouts for everything. But they've also got into playing with couples and fantasizing about that. She talks about like videos that she's got. from women and what went down. She also talks about how her husband fisted her recently and how that was and how she learned how to squirt. Really, the whole point of this interesting

story is how just really opening up and talking about their fantasies and starting to roleplay has really changed the game in their marriage and their relationship and their sex life across the board fully 100%. She's going to be happier. She's a really good dirty talker. Okay, She's just going to dirty talk you through all their hot videos and pictures that they take and all their tributes and all their fantasies that they have and all the stuff that they live out in a very safe way. I think their life is very interesting for couples out there that are newbies that maybe want to dip their feet in the water, but maybe they don't want to cross the line and open up their relationship. This is a couple that hasn't even opened up their relationship yet. yet they are doing all kinds of naughty things in having supercharged amazing sex because of it. I do have hot pictures of her and her guy over on my Patreon.

They'll be on my Discord. Of course, you could also find them on their Reddit and their X. The links to those will be in the description. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Ariel. Hi, Ariel. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Hi, I'm doing well.

How are you? I'm good. So Ariel, you have a story. I've kind of heard it before. It's a story where you were with a guy. I don't know if it's your husband or not cheating was involved. And it led to you guys not only staying together or getting back together, you now have an open relationship or are doing all kinds of crazy things together. Yes.

Now we do everything together. So we are, he is my husband. We're still together. We've been married now 15 years. And I would say when I first met him, we met at a bar on a sloth. slutty Sunday and it was only supposed to be. That's what they called it. It was slutty Sundays. I like that. Yeah, I met him like at the very end of the night. I'm just like dancing with my friends and he came up behind me and started grinding behind me. And then we ended up going to the parking lot and we

ended up going home together. It just kind of happened that way. And I woke up, I think the next day, probably thinking like okay i'm never going to talk to him again and going into that i had always been in a relationship so that was like my first one-night stand and then we kind of would just chat on the phone he would be texting me and we met up again and it just happened really quickly i actually ended up getting pregnant a couple months in so really early like before we even got to fall in love with each other i think i was already pregnant oh my god okay Yeah, so that was, and that's my first child, right? Mm-hmm.

So it's totally new to me. Now, do you guys decide, oh, because you're pregnant, you're going to get married, or do you just decide you're going to be boyfriend and girlfriend? We just decided that we were going to be committed to each other. Like, we were going to really take our relationship, I guess, to the next level. I didn't think that we were going to get married right at that point. We just kind of wanted to move forward. We knew we were going to stay together.

Yeah. So I would say that into our relationship, like, he was wanting me to have another baby. And with my first, my first son was born at 23 weeks. He was born super early. Oh, wow. You're kidding. How tiny was he? He was one pound four ounces.

Holy, what does that even look like? He was not even fully developed yet, like literally. Well, was he stated, did they keep it in the sack then? Or how do they keep it alive? How did they keep him alive? No, no. They, he was intubated. So he was in the NICU for four and a half months.

He was on oxygen and things like that for almost the entire four months. And then kind of like at that half period where he was actual like baby size, he kind of they winged him off of everything. Oh my God. But I literally saw him like developed because his skin like even the skin was super like transparent. Yeah, yeah. I've seen pictures of it, but it's always in utero. Like you don't see it outside of the body, but you got to see your baby outside.

That's crazy. And scary. I can't even imagine. That must have been the longest four months of your life and your family's life and everybody's life. That's nothing more horrifying than that. No, it truly was. And I think almost having our premature baby is what brought us closer together. Yeah, I can see that.

We shared a lot of, I guess, traumatic experiences, just the ups and downs of being in the NICU and him being okay one day. not the next. So we definitely bonded over that and we became closed and we had our own place. But you're at the point where now he wants another baby. He's asking you, pushing you for another child, right? How long, how old was your baby when he wanted another one? At that point, my son was already about four years old. Okay. Okay, cool. Yeah. But so yeah, four years later and we're doing all kind of the same things, just living our life and things like that. And then he wants to have another baby. And I was dead set on not having any more kids because that was just, I think, all the heartbreak or heartache I could take. And so finally, after some time, he ended up

convincing me to have another baby. So we had planned this child now. And so I get pregnant right away. Super fertile for whatever reason. Now going in just as a heads up, I have four kids. Oh my God. Yeah. So we go and we have our second baby. And I'm pregnant. And I think with this pregnancy, I was just so scared of everything that I didn't want to do anything. So, of course, I'm not going to be partying, drinking or anything like that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I didn't even want to have sex.

Like, I was nervous to do anything that could cause my next baby to come early. Yeah, that makes sense, though, because of what you went through, of course. Yeah. And so I think that caused a lot of problems in our relationship. And he would feel like, I think what I've been. discovered now is like his love language is sex. That's where he feels the most loved. And I never realized that. And especially in this time where we're having like our second kid and I'm pregnant, I did not see it. I'm like, stop being a jerk. Why do you want me to have this baby early?

Just to get your dick wet? You know, it's like, yeah. Yeah. So I would constantly kind of like turn him down for sex. I maybe give him a blowjobber here and there. But it was, I was just not sexually charged at all. was not in my head. And so we were really stuck there. And I would say like about seven months in to our relationship, I remember laying in bed and I was going to bed early and he would stay up and he would maybe have drinks or whatever on his own, like a couple beers at night. And I remember him going and taking a shower and then going back out, right? Yeah. And I stayed asleep. I didn't really think about it. And then I noticed that maybe two hours later he comes back and takes another shower and gets in bed. And I think at that moment, that's what, like, sparked my head like. What the hell are you doing?

You got to take another shower, you know, an hour later just to be sure. How dumb was he? That's like the biggest obvious sign of cheating. Right. And I totally remember that. And so then that very next morning, I wake up, right? He's still sleep. And I'm like, just having that feeling in my head. So I grab his phone and I start looking through his phone. Mm-hmm. And he had all these messages from random girls, like on dating apps.

He was talking to like, he was on a bunch of different dating apps, right? Oh, my God. How many months are you pregnant, though, by this point? I just want to know how long you've been denying him sex. I'm seven months pregnant. Okay, so seven months in. Listen, I think it would be worse if you said one month, okay? Because in one month, if he had been on tons of apps already, I'd be like, what the fuck?

You work fast. But seven months in, after all this time, right, you find out that, I don't know for how long, but he's been literally on tons of dating apps, like messaging women. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Yes. I lost my shit. Oh, my God.

I literally lost my shit. And because I think when I read the very last message that I could have read was like, oh, I love sucking your dick last night. It was so good. Yeah. And that to me was like, oh my gosh. So I just fucking caught him. Like I just caught him cheating.

And here I am pregnant with the baby that he asked me for. Yeah. Like I just lost my shit. I think I threw his phone at him. And that's how he woke up. And I was like, I'm done. We're over. I never want to see you again.

Yeah. And I made a huge thing of it. I had told my parents because I think I just, at that time, I really did feel totally done. There was just no way. could be with this kind of person. Of course. So it does that to me.

And so I did not talk to him. I think for like almost a week, he went and he stayed with his parents, hopefully. Who knows for sure? But so we didn't talk for a week. And then finally we ended up coming back together. And he's like apologizing, of course. And he's wanting to work things out. And at this time, I've cooled down where I was able to hear him out.

And he was like, tell me what you want to know. And I'll answer you. So of course, I asked him, what else did you do? And he never really admitted to anything else because who knows if anything else really happened. He said that a lot of it was just talking except for that night. But who really knows? I'm not a dummy either. So then I tell him, okay, we can go to counseling.

And that's going to be like the only way I would possibly consider working this out with you. And so we went to marriage counseling. and we were there. We probably only did four sessions. And then I kind of was like, you know what? I don't want to. I come from divorced parents.

So I was like, I don't want to have my kids be in that setting. So I just kind of said, I'm going to drop it. And I have to totally forget about it. Otherwise, it'll eat me alive. Like I'll never be able to move on with him

if I don't just let this shit go. Yeah. So. Were you? Able to? At first, it did not work. Yeah, of course it's hard. Trust when you lose it is hard to get back. But I give anyone credit that, especially when you have kids and all that stuff that works through it, I give anyone credit to go through that because I think it's really hard. Yes. No, it really is. And it took me probably some time after I had my son, my second one, after I had him and probably

almost like six months later. And of course at this time, I'm still having sex and things like that, but I'm not in it. I'm just kind of like, okay, I know what happens if I don't. Yeah, I better fuck him. Oh my God. Yeah, I felt more of an obligation to do it than me even wanting to do it. Yeah, that's sad. Yeah, I got it.

Yeah. Yeah. So then as things progress, we continue with our life. He always worked on a separate schedule than me too. So he would always work. night shift and I would work days. So we would not really see each other unless it was like the weekend. We were just on different schedules for years. Years and years. Yeah, that's hard. Yeah, it was super difficult because we were not close. So for years and years, we live like this,

where we were just together, happy, but not connected. And finally, I think I just started getting tired of it. And I started kind of just not really ignoring him, but I just started, I guess, I don't know how to really explain it. I just was maybe like giving more of an attitude towards things, less of a tolerance to deal with him. I was just kind of like done. And we had a night, one night in the garage where we're drinking together because I never wanted to drink with him. I never wanted to do really anything with him aside from family things. And so I would just keep my distance. And one night we go to the garage and I agree, like, he buys me drinks.

And so I go in there and we start drinking together. And he said, I don't want to live like this. And he said, I don't want to live like I don't have a relationship with my wife or I'm always alone. He goes, I don't want to cheat on you. And I don't want to do that to you again. But I also know I wanted to be like this. Yeah, listen, I give him credit. A lot of guys aren't self-aware enough to ever bring that shit up and they just wind up going and cheating because they feel that way.

It's like interesting that he was able to put that in words and actually bring that up and say. Because listen, typically it's the woman that winds up raising her hand and talking about the elephant in the room. It was obvious you guys had these issues. You knew it on some level too. But it's interesting that he was the one that brought it up. Yeah. And he just said, I want to be. connected to you. And I, and once he, once I heard that, I felt like I softened up. And I was like,

I want to say, I never wanted to divorce him anyways. Yeah. But I did realize I wasn't in a happy marriage. Yeah. And so I told him, if we're going to make it work, there's, we have to be on the same schedule. Mm-hmm. I feel like I'm doing everything all day long for the kids and you just come home, drink, go to sleep. And you do it all over. all over and the whole day I'm doing everything. Yeah. Working, taking care of the kids. And so that kind of worked out the way it did.

And the very next day, he went into work and he put in the request to change his shift. Wow. I love your guy. Yeah. And it took me off guard because he was so used to his schedule. He'd been doing it for years. He wasn't used to waking up early. So from going in like at 3 in the afternoon to now having to go to work at 4 in the morning.

major change to save his relationship. I high-five him. Yeah, and so that night we did end up going back upstairs and we ended up having sex and it was like a really almost like of a love-making feeling that we were actually making love. And like I said, the next day he went in, he changed his shift and he started that following Monday. And that entire weekend we spent together, we were drinking together. we went out, we just focused on each other. And it just kind of changed my feelings towards him. Yeah.

Yeah. So I would say as soon as he did that, which was almost a year ago now, we are together every night. Right. Every night, whether we're watching something or we're drinking together, we like, we'll go into our own space once our kids are asleep. And we just talk. we drink and it just started happening where little by little we started opening up to each other and he's tell me things about your past tell me about your exes or tell me things about what what turns you on sexually and stuff like that and I was kind of sexually closed as a person at that time right I didn't a whole bunch of experience and so I would tell them I would be like my past yeah he'd be like so we'd done everything at that time we'd had anal and whatever but just regular sex and he's like did you ever have you know with anyone else and it's like well just my

ex before you and he's like what would you be open to he's like I want to tell you something and I don't want you to get upset and I'm like okay go ahead and he's like he had had a lot of sexual partners before me he was just really raised with that almost of that machissimo background where they just meet women and there's no real anything. There's lots of have sex or whatever. And so he would tell me like different things like, okay, I met this one girl and she didn't really know how to suck dick. So I helped her learn.

And he's like, would you be willing for me to show you what I like? And I'm like, okay, yeah, tell me what you're like. I want to do it the way you want it. And so it just started off with those things like that. Almost every night, a couple nights he would bring up a new topic. And he would be like, tell me something that you, like, when we go upstairs tonight and we're going to go have sex with each other, can we try role playing? And he would say, like, I'm going to give you a scenario. And I just want you to get into it.

And so I'm like, okay, yeah, I want to do that. What kind of scenarios would he bring up? So the very first scenario. And I kind of skip through it because right before this, I was trying to really. get myself going sexually. So I started listening to erotica. Like erotica audio. Yeah.

And then I started sending him the stories that I felt were super hot. I would share with him that same story so he could listen to it too. It was like erotic novels. And then he would start sending me a podcast. And one of those podcasts was yours. That's what we would listen to you. We would listen to your stories. And then we would come back later and we talk about it.

And that's also what helped me to, like, hear other people's thoughts sexually. Because usually, for me, sex was never anything that you really talked about to anyone. Yeah. Yeah. So we would listen to your stories. We would listen to the erotic novels. And I was really, like, in a good place, actually, where I'm like, oh, okay, I even want it. I'm enjoying it.

So when he asked about the role playing, the first one he said is he said, is, what sounds super hot to me, is you sucking in a another dick. Oh, someone else is not even his. Yes. And this is coming from somebody who is like a super jealous guy. Yeah, crazy. He would never. So I almost thought he was like tricking me.

He's like, how would you feel about sucking another dick? And I'm like, oh, no, I don't want another dick. But, you know, at that time I was like, oh, that does sound kind of hot. But I don't know how to. Yeah. I don't know how to tell him. Yeah, you always. I think any girl is going to think that's a trick question.

Yes. So I was just like, like, oh, if we're role playing, yeah, I would like to suck another dick. And he, yeah, so he's like, I want to be fucking you. And I wanted to see you sucking another guy's dick in front of me. Wow. And then, yeah, so he was really, we went upstairs that night. We had sex. We role played.

I think he put his fingers in my mouth and he's put down your sucking a dick right now. And it was super hot sex. Mm-hmm. the next day we're working and he's texting me and he's like how would you feel if I would and I found I put up a post for a guy to join us. Wow. He was on a mission. He knew what the end goal was here. Yeah. And I'm like, what are you serious? And he's like yes. But the only way I'm going to make it happen is I want you to be wearing like I want your eyes covered. I don't want you. I don't want you to talk to him.

Like, I'm going to be doing all the communication. It's just going to be like him come in, do what we do sexually, and then leave. You're so fascinated by your guy. He's kind of interesting the way his brain works. He really has this, it's a very specific kind of scenario that he wants. He's got it all in his brain already. And he's like putting it out there for you. It's fascinating.

Yeah. So he's like, I'm going to put a post. And I'm still feeling like I'm being. tricks. Yeah. And it's just like, okay, if you want to and you're willing to do that, sure. And you were down to do it in real life. Like you were, yeah, yeah, I probably would have really been down to do it for sure. And so he puts up a post and we make a Reddit account. Yeah. And once we start that account, like he joins all these subreddits and we see a lot of people posting just like picks together, picks of the girl. Of course, like a lot of nude pics and things like

that. And then we open an X. And he starts putting posts, but of course to put a post, you got to put a picture. So I ended up getting like a bunch of lingerie and he started taking pictures of me. This episode is sponsored by

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and just things like that, right? And we were getting a lot of comments on the picture, right? And it was just a one post at first. And it's just me, lingerie. He did not show my face. And also when we were doing that, it was also super hot because I never had dressed up for a man before like that. Sex was just kind of something that we did.

It was in the dark or it was never anything where I would put on lingerie and get ready for him like that. So when I started dressing up, I feel like things also really changed for us that he saw me also in a different light. And so he would pick out what I would wear and he just started taking pictures or taking videos. And that became something that he also liked to do before we had sex. And then he would always say, is it okay if I posted? How would you feel about it as long as I'm not showing your face? And at that time, I'm like, okay, yeah, go ahead. And we would get so many messages and so many comments like, oh, your wife's so fucking hot.

Like, you're the luckiest man. I would love to fuck her pussy or just crazy things like that. And he would tell me like, that is that you turn on to me. Yeah. To know that so many men are wanting my wife, but I have her. Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah. And so he liked that.

And so we started out like that. that and our page got a lot of followers, I guess, especially like our ex page. We started putting out like more videos and just more doing it for the content, but the enjoyment of what we get from the content. Like we can talk about it. We're enjoying like the sexual experience, but we're also enjoying the communication with others, I guess you could say. Yeah.

So what was in the videos? What were in the videos that you were putting out? The videos would be like of me dressed up in like a song or whatever, some sort of outfit. He would be like slapping my ass or he would be kind of like touching my pussy or it would be like with him, maybe giving him a blowjob or something like that. Just like short snippets of what we were doing anyways, like of our sexual encounters. Yeah. And so then he started getting me toys, right? and we started playing with toys, which is something that I never had.

He even got me one of these machine dildos, the ones that move in and out of you. Oh, a fucking machine. Yeah, a fucking machine. So he got me one of those, and I roleplay that night was, of course, the other guy. Tell me how you're going to do it with your sucky my dick. And he put the machine in me, and he's, I want you to pretend that it's him behind you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And wait, and he was blowing you, you were blowing your husband, and then you're,

He was a fucking machine. So it's like he's picturing you're with another guy getting fucked. Yes, exactly. And it was like so super hot for him and me, right? Because I was really into the roleplay. Yeah. And we also put that content out and we got a lot of feedback on that. Oh, that's so hot.

I'd love to be behind her. I'd love that to be me. Yeah. And we would just talk about it, things like that. And then we even started, I would say once I started really feeling. more sexually charged, we had even started trying supplements because we would listen on the show. So my husband actually got promescent, right? Uh-huh.

And he gets the drink. He drinks the drink and he got the delay spray, right? Because I want to last longer or whatever. And he has not even had to use the delay spray. He never has, yes. Why? Because of the drink? No, I'm not kidding you.

I really think that drink works that I'm going to get me the girl once. Thanks. What's the drink? Could you just say it? Because it's a good plug. The vitipus? Yeah, I think it's called like Mito. Yeah, Vita Plus.

And it's a drink. And he drinks it twice a day. And I have noticed a huge difference. The fact that probably his dick stays harder, longer. Because there would be periods where we would be having sex, but it would kind of go a little, not soft, but just not hard, hard, hard, hard. Yeah. And now it's hard, hard, hard, and he lasts so long.

sometimes almost I'm like oh my god can you just come already because my pussy hurt yeah so yes I'm not kidding you and so he had orders them both but he has not even had to use the delay spray oh I love that I should start pushing the the drink for people because that's something new they change it it used to just be a capsule and now I know that it's like the drink so I really should be talk about that even more I love that you just gave me a good recommendation I'm going to get it for the women too because they only had it in pill form before yes yeah they have it for the women in the powder and I'm going to get it for me next because I really want to try it. I'm like, damn, if it does that for him, like I want to feel I had ordered me some libido pills that are, I think,

from Ollie just to kind of like help boost our, I just want to keep it going because I feel like once we connected so much sexually, our relationship has never been better. Think about it. You're not just connecting sexually. Like you're doing so much more because you're having so much more sex, it's all that talking and communicating about getting dressed up and taking the videos and then posting them and seeing what people are saying. And I've heard this before that the over communicating about sex makes you feel closer just because you're just talking to each other besides the sex that's going on. Does that make sense? I think I'm saying it properly. That's true. That's true. And I think it's so awesome that we have these

platforms where we talk on. And there's even girls that will message us like wanting to collab and things like that. And I feel comfortable. Everything that we're on social media wise, we share everything. So it's a one account. Yeah. That goes all the way down through our Facebook. But so. And you'll give a shout out to all that stuff at the end, right? You'll give me your information. Yeah. For sure. Yeah. We want to do that. But so everything is super transparent now. So all my previous fears, I think of like the cheating and having to be like the private investigator. I just lost all of it. So when you say collabs, you just said, oh, with collabs, do you do collabs with other people?

Or is it all your stuff that you're posting just you and your guy? So right now, everything that we're posting is just him and I, but we are in the process of setting up collabs. And now that's more with women. Now, have you ever been with women? Do you want to be with women? What's that? You know what? But I have never been with a woman other than in high school kissing my friends at parties just to make the guys, make the guys have a good time or just give them something to watch jokingly.

But never, I never felt like bisexual, I guess. Until I started kind of seeing more of being sexually, like just watching porn or watching videos on X or seeing other women where I began finding like, oh, she's a. where I really like her tips or things like that. And so at that point, like I told my husband, I was like, I think it would be super hot to play with the girl in front of you, but I don't want to see you actually do anything to her. I just want you to watch. And I would be okay having the sexual experience like that with you just watching us. And so he was really into that, right?

Who wouldn't be? And so he said, okay, how about we start posting for that? Like when we post up our videos, why don't we say we're looking for a girl? And I'm like, yeah, let's do that. And so we started getting a lot of messages, of course, like from different girls. And prior to us talking, even at this point, I still have him like doing most of the communicating. I'm not one of those for responding to messages. I just like to read them and get hot off that.

But I'm not one to go back and forth and talk to anyone. So he does that he, are you cool with him talking to the women now? Yes, I am because I see everything. And it doesn't bother me anymore. Like I have no feeling, I guess you could say, of jealousy because I feel so fulfilled that I don't think of it like that anymore. Yeah, and you're doing this together. It's like you guys are partners in this. It's not.

Yeah, and there's nothing separate. Like everything's together. We talk about it. together. I can hear him say, oh, did you see her body or do you like her outfit or what would you think about wearing that? And I love being able to talk to him so open and freely that I feel like it's just a whole different dynamic. So him messaging these girls back and forth does not bother me. And he'll always even put in the message like, hey, this is a shared account. My wife can read it too. So we're both here and we'll both be talking to you. And do you get equally turned on hearing

what the girls say compared to the guys because I know that this is a part of the turn on for you guys, right? Not just people watching but hearing what they say. Yeah, no. And I think that's kind of what made me more curious reading some of what the messages say and a lot of the girls saying,

oh, I wish I could clean her up after you're done and things like that. And that was so hot to me. And I'm like, oh my God, I would love for a girl to fucking clean my pussy like after you come in me. That would be amazing. And so our post that we started posting was like for a girl, right, who wants to play with my girl or who wants to clean my girl up. And this one girl sent me a video and she was wearing a leash on her neck. And she was like holding her leash and she's like, I would love for you

to hold my leash. I was telling my husband like, I'd love for you to hold my leash while like your bitch's pussy and clean her all the way up for you. and that was like, oh my God, I want a girl that I could dominate in our bedroom and direct her to do exactly what I want her to do. And that's what I started looking for at that point. Because of that girl, because you got turned on by that scenario. That was like a role play for her. She was the submissive. She's like, I want to be on the leash and you guys direct me.

And she sent you a video of her. Was she fully naked with the leash? Did you see her face? Was she talking? You know, she sent me everything. Like her face, her everything. She had said like our, our username on her X page. And she was like, I just wanted, fuck you.

I think you're so hot. And I would love to clean you up. And I can be your bitch or whatever. And yeah, she sent me these videos. And that was just such a huge turn on to me. Was she hot? Yeah, she's pretty cute. She has red hair also super.

petite because I'm petite myself. I'm like five feet and I'm pretty pretty petite. And so she was also, which I kind of like a petite girl like that, like that to me. It's also kind of a turn on. Yeah. And so I was super hot by that video that I went and my husband and I role plays like fucking her that night. And the next day I sent her like, thanks for the inspiration. We really enjoyed it. And she's, let's make it happen in real life. So her and I are kind of in talks right now about setting up time to do that. Yeah, that's crazy. Do you give a lot of videos like that, like with men and women videotaping you besides the comments?

Oh, yes. Yes. I get a ton of men coming to my pictures. Like, they'll take a picture of their dick or a video of their dick where they're jacking off on one of our pictures or a post. What are those called appreciation posters? I don't know. There's a term for there.

No, I can't think of it. It's like a come. come oh my gosh it's okay i know that there's an actual term for it yes and i always a cum tribute oh come yes i'm something tribute yeah huh yeah and though a lot of guys will even ask hey is it okay if i give you a come tribute and i'm like yeah as long as i can post it on my page so i love getting those too because that's also super hot thinking that you're turning someone else on or that they're watching you and stroking to you i think that's super sexy yeah i can imagine now do you send videos to or all your videos.

There's nothing, is there anything custom going on? Or is it just all the stuff that you guys do together that you put out? No, it's just what we do together that we put out. Now, we're talking about maybe making like an only fans just because we have a pretty good volume of followers now that we really feel like, hey, maybe, you know, in a way we might monetize this or something. Right. But you don't now.

No, I don't now. Now you're just doing it. And it turns out that it's a lot of fucking fun. You guys just love it. It's like giving you guys the best sex life ever. Oh my gosh. I don't even know how I could have ever been any other way before. Does that regular sex without any kind of other stuff going on?

Yes, without toys, without squirting, without having an orgasm. I never even knew about these things that now, literally last night my husband and I were fucking upstairs and he was like fisting me. What? And I'm squirting. Yes. Like we're just open the door to trying so many different things. I have no boundaries right now. And it has been the best sex I've ever had in my entire life.

Who brought up the fisting? Like how did that come into play? And was that the way you wound up learning how to squirt? No. So the first time actually squirted was when he bought me some toys. So he had been toys. And my favorite toy that makes me squirt every single time. it's the rose.

I don't know if you've ever heard of it. No. No. Oh my gosh. You got to get yourself a rose. I will literally squirt like in 30 seconds. I'm like done. If him like the rose on my clit and him inside fucking me and I come in 30 seconds or less.

Wow. And you had never, you had never squirted though before this toy. No. No. Interesting. Yeah. And so that kind of opened up. I never even knew what it felt like.

So when I did it the first time, I was just like, oh shit. made a huge mess. I didn't even want to journey my beds like that. And it was just everywhere, but it felt amazing. It was like what best organs I've had. And then it was mostly always, I could only really squirt like that. And my favorite part is, is that after I'm done squirting, my husband likes to clean me up. And that's like a hot thing for us. And then last night, I had never, he had not fisted me before. I never even think my pussy would even get that big. But yeah, because my husband is like six, two, and I'm five feet. Oh, my God.

And we were just like, we had had sex, and he came, and I was still super horny. And he was like, you want me to get one of the toys? And I'm like, no, just finger my pussy. And so he starts fingering my pussy. And then I feel him like putting another finger and another finger. And it was just feeling good and feeling good. And then I started feeling like pressure. And I realized, like, when I went to touch him, I realized his whole hand is literally in my pussy, but he's so fucking hot right now.

He's just staring at me. He can't even believe it himself. Oh, my God. This was the first time last night? Yes, last night. Okay, go on. So he just starts doing that. And I'm looking at him, and I'm almost like so shocked.

But when I realized, like, started getting, like, super even more turned on. And I'm, like, do it faster. And so he starts doing it faster. and I would say within just a few seconds, like I was squirting all over the place. And he was like, yes, you even got my face all wet. He was like, it was so much. But it was the most like intense feeling ever. But today he told me he's not going to do that to me anymore because he doesn't want to turn me into a size queen.

He's worried that you'll need two fists in you after a while. I know. And so when we had sex this morning, I'm like, oh my gosh, just my place. Does he feel stretched out or is it feel normal? And he's no, it's back to normal. Oh, my God. That's hilarious. Would you want him to do it again?

Was it that great or you could totally never have it again and you'd be fine? Honestly, I probably would want him to do it again. Maybe if you don't do it all the time. Do it like. Yeah, of course, because I don't want to make it big. Maybe not a whole fist, but maybe definitely more than two fingers. But wait, now, have you, because, you know, like a big part of this role playing and all these things that you're into and all the things that you're trying. it all started with him talking about and fantasizing about you being with another guy.

I know that at one point you put videos out. You obviously never hooked up with another guy. Is that still something that's on the table? So we have been talking a lot about that and we moved from like another guy to me saying, okay, what about a couple to just a girl. And it's kind of come down to where he has no longer like the desire for me to be with another guy. Is it because you're getting all the attention, like, online and the way you guys have it set up? Because it's interesting.

You did go on to Reddit to find another guy, but what you found instead is super interesting. It's like he found his way of getting his needs met for the scenario that he's into through just all these picks, right? Yeah. Yeah, that's where he said that it just turns him on to get, like, those come tributes to hear the guy saying, Oh my God, you're so fucking lucky. Like your wife's so hot. And yeah, he's like, now honestly, I wouldn't want to see another guy inside you. Or I would never want to see like another man's dick.

That's my mouth and my pussy. You know what I mean? Yeah, that's interesting. What's interesting about it, I think, for other people listening. This is a very safe way of playing around with these kind of fantasy. It just goes to show that you don't always have to cross the line and do it. but you can maybe enjoy it in a different way. You guys haven't really opened up your relationship.

You're still a monogamous couple with each other, but you're doing all this play online, and it's very satisfying. And it's so satisfying that your husband doesn't even now need or want you to be with another guy. Like now he realized this is really what he wanted and this is enough and he's got it all the time. And he probably is getting tons of new tributes all the time.

It's probably like just an never-ending slew of dudes, whereas it would be a lot harder in real life to get all the action that you guys are getting online. It's a very different scenario. Yes, totally different. And I think it's like he said, the closer that we get and the more that I have everything that I need from you, I don't want to share you with anyone. Oh, really? Yeah. And that I feel like almost, I agree. Everything is so hot to us that we get to be.

play with these people. We can sit in a room together and be chatting like with another girl or a couple and talking about sexy things that we want to do with them. And then at the end of the day, we go upstairs and we fuck each other. And it's like a safe space. Yeah, that's what I like about it. I think it's a good way to roll for a lot of people. I think a lot of people might not be able to handle really crossing that line and opening up their relationship to other people. It just sounds like you guys went from zero to ten as far as your sex life is concerned because of what you're doing. And it's not like you're not like you're not doing anything. You are online talking to other people, but they're not in your bedroom.

At the end of the day, like you said, you go back to each other. So it's definitely an interesting option for other couples. I feel like you're going to put the idea in a lot of other people's heads. This is something you could do that's super safe in a certain way, but still very much out of the box. And it, yeah. Like I said, I feel like I feel like. I could never go back any other way that, like, my husband has opened me up so much that, like, now I crave to also please him. Yeah.

And I desire him. And I, like, he comes home and I'm ready, like, to like his dick because I have just been waiting for him all day. And it's a whole new dynamic that we opened up and, like, a whole new experience that it has changed our marriage. Yeah. Obviously. it sounds like you've been doing this forever, but it's really only been a year. You had a much longer time of being disconnected and you went through so much. And now here you are. It sounds like two people that just met each other and are trying all

these new things out with each other, but yet you were married for so long. And it's so interesting that you have this whole new life that you're living together, which is amazing. Because a lot of times what happens is when couples are in that place that you guys were at where they're very disconnected. They're not talking anymore. And it's just been that way for so long that the new life comes with somebody else. It doesn't come within the same relationship, right? Someone goes outside of the relationship.

It's not the primary relationship that all of a sudden gets a new Lisa life. It's typically someone goes out and fucking cheats or something. It's sad. But that's what happens a lot of the times. It's interesting, though, that you guys came together and now you have this whole new excitement in your own relationship with each other, considering you were so far away from each other just a year ago? Yes, exactly.

So it has been the best sexual awakening that I just want to keep moving forward. We just want to keep putting things out, want to keep on doing content, and just kind of like keep that momentum going, whether we actually really pursue anything with someone else or not. It's definitely just our new thing. Fun. Yeah. Now when you say, oh, we're, you know, when we're talking to couples, besides posting videos, are you like FaceTiming or camming with people? How far do you take it? We, so we keep everything pretty much anonymous. There's no any, like any kind of pictures or any kind of videos that we send. We don't show our faces.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, just because we try to be really discreet about that. So we have, you know, talked with other couples. couples on the phone and things like that. But we have not shown our face to them. Right. So when you are talking to people or tributes are going down or back and forth, whatever you're doing with people, if you're engaging with them, it's via emails or you are sending videos and stuff like that. Yeah. So it's like video communications.

It's on a lot of those apps that we have and things like that. We have a fake number that we use to talk to other couples and things like that. that that we'll text on if we're doing like a text between another couple would use it on there. So we don't give out any of our stuff. Yeah, you have a whole separate life going. That's how I work my show. So wait, listen, now I know that there's a lot of probably couples out there being like, oh my God, this is the perfect couple for us.

They're safe. They might never want to meet up with us, but we could have a little fun with them. And it's a great place to start. How would people find you guys? So they can find this on Reddit or they can find us. on X under SAT-T-X fun couple. We have the same username

across the board for everything. Can you spell that out? S-T-X? S-S-S-S-S-S-S-N-S-A. S-A S is in Sam A is an Apple T-X

Like for Texas Fun couple Okay Listen I will put the link I'll put the name and everything In the link whatever In the description for people If they're driving

But it's SAT-T-X Fun Couple And that's both on X Which is Twitter As well as Reddit That's how they find you Yes And we've also like

For people to even just listen to us We have a podcast too sexy talk with Ariel. Oh, how did I not know this? Did you tell me that? Yeah, we just started it. So we're about to put out our episode one because we're kind of like bringing people along with us just to kind of see how we start our dynamic.

And we talk about like the relationship. We talk about hot experiences, just different things in bed that we like to call each other or say to each other. So it's just a super casual like podcast where we're just kind of opening up because we do have other followers. and so it's nice to kind of like engage there too. So where is your podcast on any podcast up, but there's just one episode?

What's the name of it again? It's sexy talk with Ariel and it's on Spotify. Only Spotify, not everywhere else? How come just on Spotify? I'm definitely going to open it up to everywhere else once I start putting out some other episodes. But it's kind of just a platform that we originally created it on, but we want to definitely put it out there more. But for now, people could go and hear that one episode that you have out, right?

it's on Spotify. Yes. And it's sexy talk with Ariel. Now, do you have one link that you could send me with all links to everything? Yes, I can. Okay, so you'll send me a link to everything. If people want to see you guys, they could go click on the link in the description. I love your story.

I think it's super interesting, especially because it's very naughty and it's very hot. You're a great dirty talker, by the way. I mean, you know, it's very naughty and it's very hot, but it's safe. It's an interesting idea, an angle. for newbies to hear because maybe it's something that would be something that maybe people wouldn't have thought about doing, but they'll be like, oh, this is actually something that maybe I could do and I could handle this. Because I feel like a lot of people couldn't handle opening up their relationship. But this is a little bit different. Well, very different, but still super hot.

Yeah, dipping our toes in that swinger world just to see how it feels. And, yeah I agree yeah yeah it's great it's a great it's a really interesting idea definitely sent me some anonymous picks for my patreon okay and then what I'll do is I'll give you guys free access to my discord right there's over 2,500 people there now I think so you could go in there and definitely put links and stuff and tell people about all your stuff on there as well for sure I will give you free access to it everyone else signs up through Patreon but my callers get free access. So I'll give you that when your episode is up. So send me your pictures, your anonymous picks and stuff sooner than later. And then like on Discord, you could post anything. You could post videos and shit on there yourself. And it doesn't have to be R rated. But for

me, send me R rated picks, like sexy picks, but no pussy shots or like anything. If you show me your nipples, I'll just cover them. Laundre. Yeah, lingerie hot laundry shots, like stuff like that. Okay, definitely. Yeah. And I hope, I hope that the listeners go on and follow us. Like I said, We love come tributes. So please send me those. Those are always super hot to me. You're going to get a lot of cum tributes. Trust me.

I have a big audience. Don't worry. You're going to get some come. You're going to get some cum tributes because they're going to be able to go and check you out too. So yeah, send me those pictures. I will put all your links and stuff. And thanks so much for calling it and sharing your story, Ariel. Bye.

Thank you. Thanks. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly not. a misconfession, secret sex lives of total strangers is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th,

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