Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 767 - Phillip Begged his Hotwife to “Cheat” on his and Then she Did?!

Episode Date: February 14, 2024

Phillip begged his hotwife to cheat on him and then she did and he called in to talk all about it. When did his wife start hotwifing? Why did he ask her to “cheat” on him? And, how did he feel when she did? Tune in to hear all the details including how his wife wanted to hook up with a woman and how that led to them hooking up with a couple, how and why that hook up got him hooked on dating to see her with another guy, how he then got into cuck porn and got his wife on board, how they then started hooking up with guys and exactly what went down at her hook ups the first couple of times, the guy she met on Ashley Madison and exactly what went down with him, what sperm competition is and why he’s so into it, how and why he started begging for her to start “cheating,” how he found out she was actually cheating on him and how he felt, the guy with huge d*** they found at an adult bookstore and what exactly went down with him, how and why she plays solo, what they prefer when it comes to guys that she hooks up with, how he enjoys cleaning up only if she forces him to do it, how and why he’s becoming more cuck like as time goes on plus a whole lot more.  **To see anonymous pics of PHILLIP's WIFE plus anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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His wife is definitely a hot wife and he called it to tell his whole story. He talks about how his wife very early on in their marriage brought up that she wanted to hook up with a woman. They wound up having a little alcohol with some friends. She hooked up with a woman. But what he really was interested in what he realized is that he was Jones and, to see her with the other guy. Because that thought got into his head, he started Googling a lot of cuck porn, and he became totally into it.

He brought up to his wife. She was down. They went out looking for people. In the beginning, it was people that they knew. He talks about all of that. And then eventually she went on to Ashley Madison to meet guys. And she talks about all the guys that she met there. They've taken breaks in between, like, having children and just life happening.

But then eventually, he started becoming more cuck. like. He wanted her to go play solo and he started begging her to quote unquote cheat on him. He wanted her to go out without him knowing, but then he wanted to be in the know afterwards. And this is where it gets a little gray, okay? And make sure to comment on YouTube what you think about this thing. So you're begging your wife to cheat on you and then she actually really cheated. But it's like, you know, you were begging for cheating. And it's kind of like where you still turned on or were you upset or were you bold? He talks about that whole. He talks about that whole. whole scenario. So basically he gave her a free pass to quote unquote cheat on him. He didn't

want to know. He wanted her to just go out and fuck a guy, but he wanted to know right after. But she didn't tell him right after. He found out. And then that caused a little bit of an issue. But they got back together. They're still hooking up with other guys. They've been to adult bookstores. There's a funny story about seeing an ad or something written on the wall for a guy with a really big dick. And they went and found him. They both like guys with big dicks. That's what they're into. He talks a lot. He talks a lot. lot about sperm competition. He's very into sperm competition. He enjoys cleaning up, only if she forces him to. He's definitely got some extreme cuck behaviors, but he's not totally extreme

because he does reclaim her. So things are good between them. I got some hot picks of her. She's super hot. I got those picks over my Patreon. If you want to see them, go to patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Philip. Hi, Philip. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you today? Pretty good. Good. So listen, Philip. You're a guy who's in the lifestyle. You get a wife. And somehow, she cheated on you while you were in the lifestyle or something like that. I'm always amazed by people who have a free pass, whether it's a woman or a man, I've heard both kinds of stories,

that have a free pass, could fuck whoever they want and let their partner know, but they still cheat. It always blows my mind. You found that out, but it's not like you guys got divorced. You guys are now still living your best life. You recently had an amazing threesome. So that's like the short story, correct? Yeah. Actually, I kind of feel like now we come on the other side of this and we're in a lot better place than we were before this all happened.

I love that we know there's a happy ending, right? Because I feel like people could always learn from it. Like how does a couple who went through cheating? You had to get past it. She had to confront why she did it. and you guys decided to stay together. So many people, that kind of a thing ruins their marriage, but it didn't with you.

So let's go back to the beginning, Philip. First of all, how long are you and your wife married for? We've been married for this will coming up to be 15 years, but we dated for quite some time before that. We've been together for a total of 22 years. Okay, cool. So when did you guys decide to get involved in the lifestyle? Okay, so a couple of years after we had gotten together,

we were thinking about fixing things up and she had had a passing interest in possibly doing something with a girl or a woman. So we had kind of been seeking that out and she had a friend who actually took us to our first strip club. And afterwards, her and her husband made a pass at us. And so we ended up going back to their house. and we didn't really have a foursome. My wife and this girl, they had sex, and then afterwards we went to our own partners. I had sex with my wife, and she had sex with her husband.

In front of each other? Yeah, in front of each other. Okay. After the two of them had... How was that for you, that first experience? I really enjoyed it. The thing was, though, I... found myself really wanting to watch her have sex with him.

And we kind of had discussed that later on, perhaps doing a full swap or maybe even just having him, have a threesome with us. It just never really came to fruition. Okay. So I started watching a lot of porn. I discovered we just about around that time, finally got a computer in our house,

and I found internet porn. And then I started going down the rabbit hole of watching a cuckold video. And so I really put a lot of pressure on her. Looking back, I went about it all the wrong ways. But put a lot of pressure on her to maybe start doing this. And she was interested, but definitely not as interested as I was. So we did start finally having people, men, join us. But how did you do that back in those days?

This was a long time ago. There's no apps and shit. How do you wind up finding guys? we did try to go on some Swinger sites, but we live in a little bit of a rural area and there really wasn't a whole lot of good options. Also, this is kind of the beginning of all that

and of all that stuff happening and we were really nervous to meet somebody online. So most of the time there's people end up being people that we knew from our life, our regular life. So that led to a lot of me having to pretend like I really wasn't as into it as I was. And we were more doing it for her. But in reality, it was me that really wanted to see it happen.

So who's the first guy that you went up to and said, hey, buddy, I want you to fuck my girl. Well, it actually was a friend of mine. Yeah. And we were doing some drinking. And we had, we had ran through the scenario many of times in bed. She just kind of came on to him. and then it just one thing led to another, and, you know, we had a threesome.

Oh, so you didn't even, wait, wait a second, okay, because most of the time, like, guys don't just wind up fucking their friend's girlfriends. Or maybe they do, I don't know. Like, how is he getting, like, in the know that he could just, like, bang your girlfriend and with you there? So she knew, she knew that I wanted her to do that, and we had ran through several different options while we were having this fantasy and having sex with each other. So she knew that I wanted, wanted her. her to do it and that was one of the people that we had discussed and it was just the three of us at my

house drinking and she showed him her tits and then it was kind of on from there okay now let me ask you this real quick because i know you have a long story over only in the beginning i'll move it along i promise but did you guys though because you're fantasizing about it you're hot for it for sure you want it you said you kind of pushed her into it were there any rules going into that first hook up or were you did you just go in blind let's just fucking do this well we definitely went in We went out, we did all the wrong things. Right. Okay. You know, now that we're much more season, we realize how, how dumb some of the things we did were.

But we went about it all the wrong way. And we, you know, we didn't kind of went into it blind and didn't really have any rules except that we were just going to play together. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. So how was that first experience here you were like really into seeing your girl with another guy. Now it's actually happening. How was it? So, well, to be honest, the first, the first time was. actually not very good because he struggled to maintain an erection which come to find out years later

that is a very common occurrence yeah but we ended up like a couple weeks later we set up something and we went went and got a hotel room and that went much better so yeah the first the second experience was good but the first one was not really that great aside from the fact that i got to watch her be sexual with another person even though it didn't really go but the second time it did the second time it did that when that one popped off pretty good we in we just fucked all night in that hotel room at one point i had passed out and they woke me up and asked if they could go go go fucking the bathroom i said sure go ahead so it was just like crazy all night and was it everything you had dreamed it to be considering that you were googling for so i'm the kind of i seem like i'm just so nitpicky

i'm like well this could i could have seen this better or but no it was it was it was good it was was a little bit awkward. It wasn't exactly like I had imagined it was going to be in all the times I'd fantasize about it. But it definitely scratched the niche. And I was hooked from then on. And what about her? Well, that's the thing is she's always been kind of like a shy person and very conservative. I always joke with her that I corrupted her, but she was very conservative. So it was not easy going there in the beginning. It wasn't like we were doing it all the time. We kind of did it with that guy for a while, but then he was trying to hook up, ended up trying to hook up with her on the side.

And so we ended up cutting that off maybe not even a year later. And then we had some other people that we met along the way. But were they friends? How do you meet these other people, just in bars? Yeah, well, sometimes. So, yeah, so we'd meet somebody at a bar or there was a couple times it was her coworkers that would come over. Okay.

Always men, right? Because I know that she had that hook up with a woman. she had always wanted to be with a woman. Was she still into being with women? Or were she now you guys were just looking for dudes all the time? Well, it did occasionally. We would hook up with a woman, but it was almost exclusively men. Okay.

And it was few and far between. It wasn't all the time. So it was not as often as I would have liked. Yeah, it sounds like you're like a little extreme. Like now it gets in your head. You want to do it. push her to do it, you know what I mean? And now you want it all the time.

Yeah. Exactly. But I tried to respect her the way she wanted to go about things because I did know that it was about her. So I wanted her to experience pleasure beyond what I could give her. Well, was she enjoying it? She was. She was enjoying it.

There were some times where she did it. But she also, even though I was kind of pressuring her a little bit to get into it, she was enjoying it, but she was just not a very sexual person. Not as much as me anyway. She's not, so I always thought back then that she would go, could go a month without sex was outbatting and I. So it was, it didn't happen that often then. Okay.

So keep going. So we did that. We occasionally would do that. Sometimes I would be there, most of the times I would be there, but sometimes she would play by herself because it just seemed like every guy that ever came over there. Oh man, I wish I could have one time with you by myself. So you eventually allowed that to happen?

Yeah. Occasionally, but mostly I was there. Sometimes I would just watch. Sometimes I would be involved. And we did that until she got pregnant with our first child. So then once that happened, we stopped altogether. And that was two years after we had gotten

married, she got pregnant. So I remember then on our five-year anniversary, we went and got a hotel for our anniversary, and we were having a very sexual evening with each other, sexually charged evening. And I brought up the fact that maybe I'd like to start doing that again. So we decided that we were going to start seeing people again. And this time, she was much more into it than she was originally. Okay. So this time was a little bit more active than it was before and she was the one doing more of the choosing of who we were going to play with. She did it before, but a lot of times before was also me picking the guy. So this time,

she was much more into the selecting of the person and she was way more into it. Where'd she find the guys? Well, a lot of times she would just go to the bar and bring home a guy from the bar. There was also, again there was one co-worker and this is also when she started having sex with black men. So she also met a guy through her job that was a black man and she had sex with him a few times and that was honestly really great for us. Some of these encounters I would, we would use our baby monitor, our video baby monitor and I'd hide it there. Without the P and you didn't tell the guys you were taping them. No, we would, did not tell them that we were watching them.

That's fucked up. Well, I know it is. You can't do that. You got to tell them. I understand. No, you don't understand. But it just seemed like every guy, every guy always wanted to have her to himself. So this was a way around that where they could feel like they're having a story.

You still got to tell them. You could say you want my wife by myself, then I got to fucking videotape it. That's what you do. You don't just sneak around. It was like closed circuit. This one, particular one, did not have the capability to record. Although I will admit that one time I did record one on my phone. Okay.

It was only one time. Okay. I did record one on my phone once. Okay, well, that's fucked up, but move on. I'm sorry. No, apologize to that. I had a guy once. I noticed a video camera in the room.

Like, what the fuck is that, you fucking asshole? It's just not cool. You got to get permission for stuff like that. I don't like anything non-consensual does not fly. You get it? Especially when it comes to this kind of thing. Trust is across the board with every person, especially the third that's coming in.

I agree. We don't do that kind of thing anymore. Yeah, let's keep moving on. Okay. So we did that for a while. So that was our five-year anniversary is when we started doing that. And then we do that for a while. And then we decided we're going to have another child.

So this is five years later. We decided we're going to have another child. So we stopped again. We had a experience right before she got pregnant and it was really bad. and then she got pregnant. So we stopped again for this time for about four years. Then four years later, which is about one year ago from where we are now, I decided, I asked her if we wanted, if she wanted to try it again because I was really getting horny for it,

because that was my only fantasy was to see her with other men at this point. So she decided that we would go for it again. and this time she made an account on Ashley Madison. I don't know if I can say that. Yeah, why not? But it was, okay, it was Ashley Madison, she made an account on. And it was like one of those internet memes where the girl is just getting hit in the face by a bunch of hot dogs. So her inbox was just going crazy.

And on her profile, she said, help me cuck my husband. So that was, so it was right out in the open there. And this was much more effective because the people, that were, the people that were contacting us knew ahead that that's what we wanted, that we wanted me to be there. So it was much more effective. We had on New Year's Eve, last New Year's Eve, we went and met our first guy off of Ashley Madison, and it went absolutely fabulous. He fucked her so good. She came like 10 times.

And then we called him back the next morning. So he fucked her on New Year's Eve. We wake up the next morning. called him back to our hotel and he fucked her again and let me take a video of it. Okay. And that was wonderful because now I had this, I could, before I had to act like I didn't really, wasn't really that into it. And now I could really be into it.

And he was even letting me videotape it. So I took it home and had it to per posterity. Do you get involved in these hookups or are you just watching? Sometimes I do. Sometimes I do. Most of the time I just, I just watched. Okay. Sometimes I do get, the thing is so.

she's a lot better looking to me. So objectively, I would say she's probably like a seven, but to me, she's a 10. Yeah. She's got all the curves and all the right places for me, for what I desire. I am maybe like a four, so she is way better looking to me. How does a four get a seven? Are you funny or do you have cash? Those are the two things.

It's just, to be honest. You have a big dick or a big dick. It's either you have a big dick, you got a lot of money, or you're funny. how you get a girl out of your league those are the three ways you get a girl out of your league how do you get her she was had the ugly duckling syndrome in high school oh okay so she was of four when you met her yeah well she's I always say that she's like the movie she's all that where she took off her glasses and all of a sudden she's hot yeah yeah yeah she didn't realize how hot she was is what you're saying right okay so she got hot two years after we got together

yeah oh my gosh I got really, really super lucky. Well, maybe not. Maybe that's why she cheated on you. I don't know. Okay, so go on. I joke with her all the time that if I was one of the guys trying to hook up with her now, she wouldn't give me the time of day.

But you still got her. So that's good. I'd high-five you. So keep going. Keep going, fellow. So after that first hookup on New Year's Eve, this time is completely different, even more so than the last time. She's now in her 40s.

She's had three children. I think she's getting into her sexual prime. Plus, somehow she got even hotter. And she just dives right in. And she is loving every minute of this. This is like the complete opposite of when we first started. And she really dives right in. So she's meeting people left and right on Ashley Madison.

A lot of times I end up just having to stay home with the children. But I don't mind her going and meeting these people. Most of the time, they're taking video and bringing it back to me, but sometimes they don't, which I actually like both ways. I kind of get off on her telling me that I can't see. Yeah, yeah, being denied. Yeah. And I'm begging her to cheat on me and then just tell me about it later, like literally

begging her. I want you, if I want you to do this so bad, it turns me on so much, if you would just go cheat on me and then come back home and tell me that night, that's what I really want you to do. So, I mean, I gave her a free pass. Okay. So she did what you wanted. Okay, I'm a little confused, but keep going.

So, but the whole premise of that was that I had to be in the know. So, like, she could go cheat on me and then tell me directly afterwards, and that would be okay. I told her that she, I don't ever want her to have to be like, well, let me ask my husband. I say, if you're in that moment, just go for it. The answer is always going to be yes. But how does it be, how, okay, but how is it cheating as opposed to what you're doing anyway, which is like she gets to play so low anyway, is that you don't want to know ahead of time. You want it to happen without you being in the no and you want to find out immediately after.

That's the cheating. That's how it works to be like this cheating fantasy for you. Right. Well, it doesn't have to be like, call me the minute you're done. Okay. But just recently, you know, shortly after. And became cheating was I discovered that she was. I discovered that she was doing this behind my back and not telling me.

Okay, let me ask you a quick question, though, Philip. This whole time, you said my wife comes out of this last pregnancy, she looks even better, she's super horny, she's in her prime. Are you banging her a lot at this time, or are you turning more into the cuck that wants to be denied and wants her to fuck other guys instead of you? Oh, no, we are fucking like crazy. Oh, okay, good, okay. We're fucking like crazy.

Okay, good, right answer. Yes. We are fucking like crazy. Okay, good. So it's not to necessarily be denied. Okay. I told her that if you don't tell me right away, you can maybe kind of tease me like, oh, you fuck me tonight, but you can't have me dealt tomorrow.

Yeah, yeah, I get that. That's a, yeah, you're not a hard, you're not like an extreme cock where you want to be denied itself, but the little bit of that goes a long way for the fantasy of it. Okay, I get it. Yes. So, but we always do have the reclaim. It may not be directly after. Yeah, but it's there.

But it's there. And it is intense. Yeah, yeah, that's good. That's good. That's what you need that. You need to come together. That's very important. So I've always heard this thing called sperm competition.

I've never heard about that. I know, I've never heard it on your show, so I wanted to bring it up. Yeah, please. It's sperm competition. So it's like the theory is, is that men are instinctively, if somebody else have sex with their wife, and comes inside them, then the man has this instinct that they have to come harder and fuller because the sperm is in competition for the egg. Okay.

So I had some research on that, and I feel like that is like exactly what happens because when we have these encounters, then I have these like huge orgasms and just have this giant load that I fill her with. she's having unprotected sex with these guys though is that what's going down and not not always the ones that we know like would sperm competition be be there even if they're not like jizzing inside of her just knowing that their dick was in there

I believe so yeah yeah because I don't really feel like it changes it for me it's still right you still you still feel like there's that sperm competition going down where you want to get in there and put your sperm in after some guys some other guy has been in there. Yeah. Okay. So she dives right into this and then come to find out, I found out that she had cheated on me.

Well, when I say cheated, she had sex with three different guys, three nights in a row. How did you find out? Well, I worked third shift, so she had him come over after I left. And then there was one night I left and I saw a guy's car sitting out there. when I left and I thought that's kind of weird sitting out there across the street waiting to come in and I I put two and two together and I and then come to find out she told me later that it was three different guys three nights in a row where were you I was at work because I worked third shift and but did you find out on the fourth night how do you know she wasn't planning on telling you

I don't get I don't get how she was really cheating well I asked her if there was something she wanted to tell me and she said no and denied it and then finally when i got mad is when it all came out well how long after she fucked those three guys one time each did you find out and confront her i found out on the third night after the third night right after that's just giving you what you wanted did she wasn't really cheating i don't is that considered cheating was she like you're crazy this is what you fucking have been asking me that's like how is that cheating well come to find out there was also two other guys that were like a month ago.

So that she hadn't told me about as well. So what did she say? Like when you confronted her, why did she even cop to it? You didn't really have hard proof. You saw a car there. Why did she wind up confessing? How did that conversation happen? And what went down? Well,

it was more clues than just the car. What other clues were there? There was a couple nights previous. She was messaging me at 2.30 in the morning and I like, what are you still doing up? She never stays up that late. And then it was just all the things combined that made me realize that something was going on. And I confronted her about it and she did ultimately end up confessing. What'd she say? She just, well, she was at work when I called her because, of course, I worked

their shift and she works first. So it's hard to find time. And I was just so upset when I figured it out. So what do you say to her that makes her cop to the people before? I don't get it. Well, I told her that I knew, and I really didn't know, I just had an inkling, and she assumed that I had figured it out. And what did she say? Well, she said the reason why she did it is that she just wanted to have a moment by herself, have an encounter by herself without having to share it with me. She was having encounters by herself. She just didn't want to tell you about it?

Like the sharing of it ruined it for her? She just wanted to have the private encounter. I honestly still don't really. understand exactly why. I think part of it is because she had that ugly duckling syndrome. She's going through her sexual peak. I don't really want to villainize her because we did come out the other side of this much better. So I don't really want to villainize her, but I just feel like there's a lot of different factors. She's enjoying the attention that she's getting from all these guys. There's just a lot of factors, I think, that went into her cheating. Yeah, I feel like

this, this cheating. I'm going to put cheating. in quotes. I don't know. How do you know she wasn't planning on telling you about those three guys? Like I said, you caught her on the third night right away. It was like she fucked the guy the night before. She just hadn't told you yet. Like did she say, oh yeah, I was never going to tell you?

She comped to the fact that she was hiding it from you. Okay. And so, yeah, was that hot for you? I mean, now here's your real cheating scenario. Like, how does the guy who's been begging for cheating feel about the fact that she actually did cheat on you. Well, that's the whole thing. You would think that I would be really turned on by it,

but it was a total mix of emotions. Yeah. So my head was spinning. I didn't really know what to think. I'm like, she cheated on me and I'm feeling devastated by this. But at the same time, I'm also super turned on by it.

So I had all of these mixed emotions. Actually, that's when I started listening to your podcast, because I was, didn't know where to turn because I don't know what to think about all this stuff. So I started listening to your podcast and listen to some of the advice you had given. And that's when I started to understand more about, I always called myself a cuckold. And I don't really think that that's actually the box that I fit in. I do now realize that I do

like a little bit more of the humiliation and the teasing thing, but only because I've only become to be understanding what the definition of a cuckold really is. And what do you think that the definition of a cuckold really is? Well, I used to just think is it's like somebody that watched their wife have sex with someone. which is actually now the hot wiping thing. Yeah. Which is probably more where we're at. But now that I understand what I cuckold is,

I realize that I do have some of those fantasies as well, and I actually come out a little bit to her about that. So we decide after lots of contemplation that we're not going to play with anybody without me there, at least for now, and that I want to have a couple experiences fairly soon because I am really, turned on at the same time about all the stuff that she did. So we had frequented this adult bookstore. And in this adult bookstore, they have a private room where you can like screen,

pick a DVD and watch the DVD. And then, of course, there's like a couch and a chair there and you can lock the door. It's not really in the arcade. It's separate from the arcade. So you go there and you can, you basically have the room to yourself. And we wanted to check it out because we had thought, Perhaps maybe we could meet a bull there from Ashley Madison or some other source and use that as a place to meet up instead of buying a hotel room because we have kids and we can't stay out the whole night. Yeah.

So we go there and the first time we went there, we had noticed that on the wall that said any couple looking for a big cock call blah, blah, blah. And we thought that was, hey, that's kind of funny that somebody put that there. I wonder how much action that guy gets. And then shortly after she cheated on me, we went there again. We were going to try to meet somebody there and they flaked on us, which over the years we've found that's a very common occurrence as well. So we had sex there both times. And then the second time, we took a picture of the number. And I said, let's just text it and say hi.

and just for fun. And so we did. And my wife talked to that guy for a while. And it turns out it actually might be somebody that we might want to meet up with. So we decide that we're going to go ahead and pursue that and meet up with him. This took a few weeks to get to this point. So we go there. And he actually shows.

up, which is right off the bat, that's a good sign because that seems like the hardest thing to do. And now remember, he said that for a couple looking for a big cock, so we get in there and first thing we start doing is he's kissing my wife from in front, and I'm kissing her from behind, and we start taking her clothes off. So then he pulls his pants down, and I mean to tell you, he was definitely not lying when he said looking for a large cock, because this is, is the biggest cock that either of us have ever seen. Now, it wasn't ungodly long, but I swear that thing was the size of like a liter pot bottle. Yeah.

Of a one. It was huge. And I'm thinking, I don't even know if she can handle this. So she starts sucking his dick. And I get right down there and I can really watch her go to town. And this is crazy for me because all these times before I've had to kind of pretend that I really wasn't as into it as I am now. And so I really get a good view of what's going on. And this is just like heaven for me.

So then he starts fucking her. And I can't believe it, but she can take the whole thing. I swear. And she's not even running from it. And like a lot of girls will run from it when she is not running from it. she's opening her legs and accepting it all. And I am just mind blown at how amazingly hot she is in this moment. So we kind of take turns fucking her.

At one point, she is doing reverse cowgirl, and I am kneeled in front of them, and I'm helping her, making her go up and down on him. And it is just amazing. And we're going back and forth, and then I come first. And she kind of rolls over. over and to my amazement, he goes down on her and starts licking the cum out of her pussy. He's the cleanup guy, not you. Yes, isn't that strange?

Because I've heard of it the other way, but I was totally mind-blown when he started doing that. So then he started fucking her even harder after that. And I was so turned on. And she's been over on me, not sucking my time. dick but she's like in my face and he's fucking her from behind and I'm just kissing her and rubbing her tits and he comes in her and then this is the most glorious moment for me is her her pussy dripping with his come she comes and sits down on my cock and I can just feel all the juices in there and her used pussy and oh my god it is amazing I can still I just can

still picture the exact moment that she sits on my dick with all of his come inside of her and she's using his come as loop for me and oh my god i'm just i take two minutes and i come almost instantly and then she rolls over and he starts using my cum as loob and we went back and forth like this for i don't know probably an hour she's being she's very vocal and she's being loud we can from inside the room we can hear every time somebody comes into the building. So I know that everybody out there is getting this great show of her being very loud in there, getting fucked very loudly by two guys.

And then, of course, afterwards, we have to all do the walk of shame out the door. Why walk of shame? Isn't that what everyone's doing in there? What do you mean walk of shame? You should be fucking proud. I mean, you're not on a Delta flight. What do you mean walk of shame? You're right.

We shouldn't be ashamed. You should have been like wearing a medal. I don't understand. Exactly. And I tried to tell my wife that too before we went there. I'm like, people come here and do this all the time. So it's not going to be anything strange for them.

But we don't frequent the adult bookstore. This is the third time we've been there. And this is the first time we ever met anyone there. So we don't really frequent it. So for us, it's something new. And that's why I think we were feeling like the walk of shame. But it was still very hot because, everybody in there knew what just happened.

She was very loud. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So since then, we've had a couple more experiences, and I've decided now that we're going to open it back up to where we were before, where she can do whatever she wants as long as she tells me. And I think that now we're in a place where she's going to actually follow through with that. In fact, just recently, she had sex with somebody when I didn't know. and then the next day's like, I got something to tell you.

I fucked so-and-so last night. And it was really hot and we had this really great reclaiming sex. And she's getting ready to fuck somebody tomorrow. And I can't wait to hear all about that. And hopefully she might even make a video for me. So how many experiences have she had she had that she told you about? Since she cheated it has been three times that she's twice. She made a video for me, and then one time she didn't.

And now where are she meeting these guys? A lot of times they come over to our house. Sometimes she goes to their house. Some of the people that she meets, we actually know personally, or she's been involved with for some time. So we trust that they can come over to our house. But where are you when this is going down if you want her to do solo play without you? Most of the time, I'm home and I watch the check.

children and she goes and does this and makes a videotape. So you're like downstairs with the children. The guy sneaks up the stairs and fucks your wife? No. When I'm home and I'm in the know of what's going on, I will stay and watch the children. She goes to their house and fucks them. And you trust her? I do trust her. And so how many guys does she have in rotation right now? Well, the guy that she's going to fuck tomorrow will be number three. He's not black, but there's the two other ones are black. Yeah, you never really did get specific,

except like that you love to, like, love to her to fuck other guys. Is there a type of guy she likes? Is there a type of guy you like? Is there a type of scenario that's the best for her? She likes black men. I also prefer her to have sex with black men. So she meets some black men online.

And usually they're a strong black man. Although I do feel like sometimes she gives people chances that I don't understand why she's letting these people have a chance and they're not as to me what I would find to be attractive as a woman. The guy she's going to have sex with tomorrow is a larger guy and I don't know what she finds attractive about him, but we've known him for a long time and he kind of found out about what we're doing. And so somehow she is attracted to him and wants to have sex with him. What about the guy with the huge dick from the bookstore? Are she going to go back to him?

We've never, we've never even contacted him since then, which is strange because I, I thought that we would. I feel like he wanted to have more interaction with me. I'm not necessarily, I am not, I don't want to have any bisexual encounters, but I'm also, I understand that a lot of times that that will happen. The bull might be bisexual in some way, and it's not like I'm nervous or scared that something like that will happen. I just would politely decline.

and I felt like there was a couple times where he was trying to get me to touch his penis, but I didn't. So you're not into that at all. What do you like for the guys to be like with your girl? I just like them to have a bigger dick than me. So that's what I really fantasize about is her getting fucked by a guy with a big dick. My dick is not small. I have an average size penis. It's six inches long and not terribly wide, but not skinny either.

but I find it funny because almost every guy we've ever played with always has a bigger cock to me and I always wonder why why that is if I'm the average size why do all these guys have big cocks and I think that maybe part of that is is just that they're more likely to spread it around if they have a big cock meaning those are the kinds of guys that are in Ashley Madison responding to ads that say I want you to cuck my husband yeah that makes sense because if the guy only has three inches I'm sure he probably doesn't want to show it off to everybody, whereas guys with big, huge cocks, we just want to let everybody see it and touch it and play with it. You said early on, oh, we went in with no rules, and now so long, so many years later, we realized we were so dumb back then. Do you have different kinds of

rules now? I mean, it doesn't sound like you ever had any rules. No, we really never really established. The rule always was, is what she felt comfortable with. She's not into anal, so I don't pressure her to do things that she doesn't want to do. So the rules are really all what she established. Our main rules are just that keep me in the know, keep me up to date with what's going on. So no more begging for cheating. Yeah.

Are you still begging for that? What do you prefer? What's like your top of the mountain for you? Well, if it was up to me, that moment where he came in her and then she sat down on my cock, that was the pinnacle. That was probably the best moment I've had in my cuckold lifestyle. Is this why you know so much about sperm competition?

Because you realize you're into this kind of, maybe you have this kink? Yes. You like other guys come? Well, not particularly. I do like it. I do like to have sex with her with another man's cum inside of her. Yeah. I find that very tantalizing.

We have experienced a little bit with cleanup. I don't. it's weird I do not want to lick the come from her pussy but when she tells me to do it it really gets me going yeah that's a little bit of a humiliation kind of thing because it's something you don't want to do

but if she's forcing you to then that's what's hot about it because it's something you don't want to do yes we don't do that very often but man when we do it really turns me on it's strange for me because I do not want to do that But for her to tell me to, man, it just sets me on fire.

Yeah, because you're into humiliation. You're more of a cuck than you think you are. Or maybe you realize you are more of a cuck. I'm starting to realize. And I think that now that we realize that I am into that, we're kind of implementing that more. And I think that's part, maybe that's part of the reason why I feel better about our relationship now is because we've come to terms with the humiliation part of it. and now we're realizing that's why it's fun to involve me by telling me or telling me, well, I didn't take a video this time you can't see.

I'll just have to tell you. So. You like when she denies you of stuff like that. Yes. And she's into that too now. And I think that's why the trust is back because I don't, I feel like we have such a connection when we have that in that moments, those moments. that she wants to keep them.

And so she wouldn't do it behind my back now because we want to have these moments together. What about like, I mean, you started off this conversation saying you had a hookup with another couple and, you know, you didn't, and she was with a woman. She, you guys did do some threesome with women. Did you guys ever think about doing any kind of couple swapping or women, you know, bringing in a unicorn or anything else? Or are you guys just strictly into the whole cuck, hot wife scenario? So the problem is, is I'm a four and she's a seven. So in order to do the couple swap, somebody's going to have to take one for the team. I really think it's the cuck in you that loves talking about the fact that you're a four.

It's like humiliation. You're humiliating yourself. Well, that's part of it too. Yeah. And I know you're getting off on me laughing about it. You're right. Yeah, of course. You're fucking hard right now.

Sure. So we do have a couple that would potentially be willing to do a swap. However, in order for her to do that, she would definitely have to take one for the team. And I don't want to ask her to do that. It doesn't sound like you guys are interested in getting fully into the lifestyle and swinging or doing anything else. Even though it did start out sort of different. It wasn't like a hot wife scenario that got you involved. It was like almost like a couple swap and she hooked up with a chick. There's no more hooking up with chicks or hooking up with couples anymore and no planning on it. in the future, right? Planning for it in the future, correct? Okay, so I do have a couple that I go see. Okay, and you're telling me this at 55 minutes? I'm sorry. What do you do with this couple? So I am a bull for them. And honestly, it's really great because I go there and I do everything that I want the bull to do to my wife. And so actually the arrangement we have with them is actually very nice because I can go live out some of these fantasies that I want to do with my wife, but I'm too afraid to ask the bull to do.

We did a DV the other day, and that was amazing. And my wife would never do that. I've asked her afterwards if she would be into that, and she said, no. No way. There's no way. But she can take these massive dicks, but I don't understand why she can't take two smaller penises. But she's fine with you going and doing this couple solo. You go solo, correct?

Yes, I go solo. She doesn't want to see it. Honestly, most of the time she doesn't want to hear about it. Of course, I had to tell her all about the DV, though. I don't really feel like she was too into hearing about it. Does your wife know you're calling into the show, Phila? Yes, I did tell her that I was going to call into the show. And she's cool with it?

Yes, she is. She is cool with it. I know that a lot of times you ask for pictures, and I have to ask her if she would be okay with me sending pictures, Yeah, yeah, you could only send me in picks of your wife if she's in the no. I won't take pictures. Right, I understand that. No.

So, and it would be anonymous. Yeah, they would be anonymous picks. Like, I don't want her face in them. Do you know what I mean? No faces. So I don't see why she's not going to, no one's going to see her or, uh, or anything like that. So you could ask her, do me a favor send it.

I don't think I gave you a very good show. I'm really sorry about that. No, don't know. No, no, no. You want me to make fun of it? Because the cuck and you? Does the cuck and you want me to, Put you down?

No, you did fine. You did fine. Sorry. I'm not a sex worker. I'm not going to trash you just to make you horny. Listen, no, you did fine. Most people are nervous when they call in and stuff. You did fine.

Philip, thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story. Ask your wife if you could send pictures and let me know either way where they're going to send them, okay? Okay. Thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story. It was super interesting. Thank you. All right.

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