Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 774 - Samantha and her Alpha Husband Love Pegging, Guy on Guy Action, MMF 3somes and More

Episode Date: February 26, 2024

Samantha Loves seeing her alpha husband submit to another alpha male and sometimes she joins in and se called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear how her husband is very alpha in his regular life but can be the opposite in the bedroom, how and why she really loves watching him submit to another alpha, how pegging came up and how and why she loved it right from the get go, how she wound up hooking up with another guy in front of her husband first time, how and why she is the one who sets everything up when it comes to his hook ups with guys, how even though her guy is in touch with his sissy side and bangs other guys she’s never worried about his sexuality, how and why they both enjoy locking him being locked up in a cock cage and what he does for her while he’s caged, what he winds up doing with guys when he’s caged, their regular guy she found for her husband and what goes down between them, what she specifically looks for in the guys she picks for her husband, the rules they came up with early on and the boundaries they both have, how she was nervous the first time she hooked up with another guy in front of him why, his first hook up with a guy and how far he went, how she brought up wearing panties for him and how and why he now wears them all the time, the first guy they both had sex with and exactly what went down between all of them, how she loves getting “feedback” from her husbands regular guy and how it turns him on, how she got his gay regular into being interested in him wearing panties, what’ they’re looking to try next, what it takes have a successful open marriage and why it works for them plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of SAMANTHA & HER HUSBAND plus anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I've been doing my Patreon for years. You don't just get what I posted this week. You get all of the back content. So there's so much stuff over there that you could get access to. So today I have on Samantha. I said many times in this episode that I'm slightly obsessed with Samantha because I am and you're going to be obsessed with her too. She's just really fucking cool and open-minded and not complicated,

especially considering what she has gotten down to with her husband. Her and her husband have been married for a long time, very solid relationship. They were very open with each other. Everything was good with them up until a couple of years ago. They just started talking about their fantasies and opening up with each other about things that they were into. And when they started opening up, they started talking about pegging and her guy was thinking maybe he'd be into that. And by the way, she explains her guy. Very alpha male in his regular life, thick guy, manly man, man.

And she loves that about him. But turns out once he wanted to get pegged and then eventually he started wearing panties and he became like very in touch with a sissy side of himself and started hooking up with guys, she got totally down with it all. Like I said, it started with pegging. She talks about that. She was the one that brought up panties down the line. She definitely sounds like a little dom to me

When I brought it up she was like I never really thought about it She totally is She's not like a dominatrix in that She likes pain But her guy is put in a cockade She finds the guys for him She okays them She sets it up

She loves nothing more than sitting there Watching a lot of times in the room Or out of the room Depending on what the guy is okay with She loves videotaping it She loves watching it And this is a woman that never knew she was into guy on guy action at all until she saw her husband with another guy.

She has recently also joined in on the action and fucked a guy, two different guys at two different times with her husband in the room. One time both her and her husband fucked the guy and she talks about that and how that was like top of the mountain for them. There was another time where she got fucked by the guy while her guy was caged. She talks about her guy being caged and about how when she lets him out, how great that reclaiming sex is. They have a regular guy now that he's been playing with. The guy is gay, so she doesn't get involved in that scenario at all.

But he's been caged for three weeks while he's been hooking up with this guy. And she loves it. She videotapes it. She's in the other room. But there's nothing hotter to her than seeing her guy with another guy. She's not conflicted about it at all. She doesn't worry about her guy being into guys. And she talks a lot about how opening up their relationship and doing all this new stuff together has only brought them closer.

She sent me in picks. Her and her husband are really fit, attractive people. She sent me in hot picks for my Patreon. If you want to see them, they're over on my Patreon, she'll also be in my Discord. Her husband's in the know that she's calling into the podcast. is the total secret life that they lead. So you're going to be getting a sneak peek into it. And you're going to fucking love it.

You're going to love her as much as I do. I promise you. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Samantha. Hi, Samantha. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. Thanks for having me.

Thanks for calling in Samantha. You have an interesting story because it has some elements in it that I've heard before. I've actually heard all elements of your story before, but never all together in one story. You and your husband have been with each other for a long time. You recently, a couple of years back, started talking and being open about your fantasies with each other. And you came to find out different things about each other. It turns out your guy has like a sissy side that he was able to come to terms with and tell you about.

You were cool with it. You guys have now in the past couple of years and we'll get the whole story of how it happened. I don't know if this is in the chronological order, but you guys have played with men. You have played with men while he watched. You love, though, mostly watching him be with guys. That's your thing, right? You're kind of like a voyeur, but you do also get to hook up with guys. And that's what's going down between you guys.

So I don't know if you call yourself a hot wife and he's a cuck or is he a cissy. I don't know the term. Like I try to label it and then somebody will tell me that that's not really what it is. And so maybe I don't really know the term, I don't know what you would call it. But yeah, I have definitely learned that I may have a little bit of a voyeur tendency. not even May. I'm sure I do have a lawyer tendency to me. And you like, though, seeing your guy hook up with another guy, right? Correct. This, I like watching him submit to, he's very masculine. He's very manly. He's alpha male in everyday life. And I wouldn't want, I wouldn't want anything different. I

wouldn't want a feminine side of him to show in life. I want him to be my man. Yeah. But I do enjoy watching him submit to another man. But even then, the mental part of it, it needs to be another alpha male. Like I don't, it's got to, the man has to have a certain look. And when it's two alpha men and it's mine submitting, there's something about it that's really hot to me. Isn't that interesting? And I bet you if anyone would have asked you if you would be into that scenario before

it happened, you probably would have been like, no way. Because you were really into, quote unquote, alpha guys. You would think you would never be into. to your alpha being a sissy. And I think that that's every alpha male who's into being a sissy's biggest fear. And probably every one of those guys' wives' biggest fear is that she would never be able to handle it or she wouldn't be into it. But you're here to say that you probably didn't think you would, but you are into it. It's interesting.

Oh, yeah. I know. Yeah, go back a few years and I would have never imagined that this would be something that I would be near as excited about it as I get. But, and the, the, he is sissy and he is now, he wears panties 100% of the time. We've done away with boxers. So he's in panties 100% of the time. But even that, I'm the only one that knows other than him. So it's like our dirty little secret.

And that, that makes it really hot to me too. Like, we can be out just doing anything normal everyday life. And I'm the only person in the world that knows my husband standing there in panties. And we both work out. He's very, very masculine. We're, we're both very fit. We both work out. nobody would would imagine it. And it's just, like I said, it's a dirty little secret that also

excites me too. Yeah, I love that. You could turn it into a turn on. I think a lot of people can't, or don't think that they would ever be able to get to that place. And I just think some people don't even ever try because they just assume that they wouldn't be into it. I'm curious of how this came about between you guys. Like, how did you feel at first when he brought this all up? Yeah, so for us, it has been, there's been a lot of, I don't want to say trial and error because we don't, we don't go try it until it's been just talked about ad nauseum. We have a very solid, solid marriage and did before we ever started exploring. So there was no trying to fix something by adding something else in. We were, we've always been rock solid.

But it has evolved, you know, we just, we would try a little thing just between us in the bedroom. and okay, I kind of like that and it would lead to something else and then it would lead to some pillow talk. And so it's been an evolution that's been happening for a little while. The idea of pegging him came up first and I was like, I'll try it. And Kathy, I was blown away by it more than tried it. I was blown away by it to the point where I was like, when do I get to do that again? Oh my God. You're so funny.

It's like you, at only was he revealing stuff about himself. You were learning stuff about yourself. Yeah, well, that's what it's been. It has been such a learning curve for both of us, but it's been such a fun exploration. I learned so much about him. I learned about me, vice versa, and pegging him. I've learned if I do things correctly and have it rubbed just right,

I get off on it, and it's super intense because it's that kind of taboo thing, you know, that there's so much mental for me in every part of all of this. If the mental will play just right, I'm all in on it. So that we kind of started with the pegging. And in pegging, as that happened, a little more conversation would start talking, just talking dirty, talk to him. I'd be like, you wish this was the real thing, don't you? And one time he said, yeah, and I'm like, oh, okay, well, let's talk about that. So that's kind of what I mean by the evolution.

It would just be try one little thing, and that would lead to something else. I have just now been with my first guy just maybe two months ago. And even then I was scared to death. And it wasn't planned for me to be with him. The guy was showing up for him. But I had seen pictures of the guy and the guy was super hot. And I knew he was by. And so maybe 30 minutes before the guy got there, I said, if I'm in the mood in the moment and I ask him for me, are you okay with that?

And hell yeah, I've been waiting. Oh, I got so funny. And that's exactly how it played out. I guess I've, like I said, I'm not great with terms. We're not professional at anything, but I guess he fluffed the guy for me. And then, and then I was with the guy. And we were both just for hours afterwards, just amazed and blown away. And but I don't.

So we, I tease him about being a sissy slut. And so when he mentions, when are you going to find another guy for you? I'm like, well, I'll find one when I find one. Remember, you're the slut, not me. So that's kind of how we, how that works. If one just really turns me on and I'm interested, then I go for it. Otherwise, he plays, I watch, and I'm happy with that. You sounded like you have a little bit of a dom in you.

I feel like it's a dominant person that likes to peg and is getting off on it. And the dominant loves to see her guy be a submissive sissy and get fucked by another guy, right? Isn't that a little dom of you? Yeah, I'm sure I do. I'm sure that I am. I just, when I think a dom, I think of the whips and chains. And that's, yeah, the pain. And that's not me.

But any guy he's with is set up through me. There's no solo play. I set them all up. I approve them. It's a guy that I want to see him with. Yeah. So in that way, yes. Like I said, when I think of Dom, I think of some other level of it.

And I'm not that level. But I handle it all. There's no switching of phone numbers. Nobody ever gets his phone number. There's never. So I do let him play solo. only if I've approved of it and if the guy promises

to send me videos afterwards because some guys get freaked out and can't perform if I'm in the room so if they promise to share video with me afterwards then and I've got good feeling about it or whatever then he play solo but that's extremely rare

it's been a once or twice thing normally I'm right there in the room let me ask you this if I were talking to your husband and I was getting his side of the story because I'm assuming maybe you asked him this yourself Would he tell me that he was always into butt stuff and into guys before you guys started talking and into panties, but he just had never told you and brought it up then? Or was this something that it was new to him as well? Do you know?

I think it's been new to him. I think the panties have been an interest. I don't think he ever, to my knowledge, I don't think he ever experimented or explored with it, but I think there was an interest to it. I think until I made it comfortable for him to try it. You know, I listen to your show with the doctor, and I don't believe in any possible way that he's romantically attracted to guys whatsoever. Yeah. The big draw to him, and we, this part we have talked a lot about,

the big draw to him is that I, that I'm turned on by it. Yeah. You know, he knows, he enjoys it, but that I'm also turned on by it. And he's told me many times, if for, whatever reason I wasn't, this would not excite him near as much. This wouldn't be something he was as interested in. But knowing that he can explore it and turn me on at the same time, makes him feel much more comfortable about it. But he's got a few hard nose when he's submissive with a man and kissing is one. There's no kissing. That's not anything he's interested in, doesn't want to do it.

Like I said, I don't see him ever wanting to have a date on a Friday night with a guy. He just has this submissive sissy side that, you know, he's, he works a very high stress job. He's in, he's a supervisor. He's in control of people all day, every day. He's the main breadwinner of our house. So that's a responsibility that he carries on his shoulders. And I, I really truly believe the root of it is just, this is his time to just kind of turn the brain off and not have to tell somebody what to do, but somebody tells him what to do. I tell him who he's meeting. They tell him what he wants. And his brain is completely off and he's not checking boxes. He's at work and making sure everybody's in line and doing what they're supposed to do instead. The tables get turned on him and he gets to just

disengage from all the other responsibility he carries. And that's something we've talked about a lot and I truly believe that is the root of this. It just gives him a chance to be something other than what he is in everyday life in every way. He's submissive. He's sissy, whereas in everyday life he's masculine, muscular, responsible alpha. So I think it just lets him, you know, have an alter ego. Yeah, you're a smart bitch. You're completely right. I love, like, how did you know that?

Did he have to explain that to you or did you just understand that? Like, it really is the truth. That's what it's all about. Yeah, no, it's been both. He has explained it to me. And then I know him well enough. I know that he carries a ton of responsibility on his shoulders. And he's just, he's a super responsible.

guy. And so when he told, I say I believe, because when he told me that, I know him well enough to know, he's telling me the truth. This really is an outlet for him. He's, this isn't blowing, this isn't blowing smoke up my ass so he gets what he wants. This really is an outlet for him. I believe in him when he explains to me, right? Yeah, but he's so lucky to have you as his wife because I feel like this story is a lot of times so much different. Listen, a lot of times women do eventually get to this place. But it sounds like you guys got to the this place a little bit, like a lot more easily than most people do. And I think that that's just a testament probably to just who you are, you know, maybe just very open-minded and very trustful. You don't think he's like lying. I don't know. I just think a lot of times it's, it's not this seamless. And I think that that's great. Your guy is like the luckiest sissy on the planet, because everything you're saying is right. I believe your husband. You believe your husband. A lot of the women wouldn't believe their husband and they wouldn't understand. And that's why I re-aired that Dr. Joe Quartz episode recently. He even wrote a book for women specifically just to explain this whole

thing because the first thing a woman's going to think if her guy says any of the things that your guy said, fuck me in the ass, let me go fuck another guy, let me wear panties. All of that stuff would have some other woman going, oh my God, you're gay, quote unquote. You like men. Like, what is this all about? but he wrote a book to tell women that it's not about anything except what it is like what your husband says. And I believe him because I've heard it many times from other guys that are into guys on occasion that there's got to be certain things to it to make it hot. And for your husband, you have to be a part of that. Even if you're not there, it's the fact that he's coming back and telling you. It's not just him as a man with another man.

What's erotic to him is him with a man and letting you know. So you are involved. But I think some people don't understand that all of that could be true. They're just like, oh my God, he wants a fucking other guy. That means he's gay or he's not into me. Yeah. No. And I don't, I've never felt that way.

Like when we, when we do reconnect, when him and I have sex, it's mind-blowing sex. There's, we're still good there. It hasn't affected. It's not negatively. It hasn't negatively affected our sex life. It has positively affected our sex life. It just, we were talking about it the other night. We're kind of in a stretch right now where he's, so he, I guess a part that I may have not mentioned throughout this is that he does lock up in a cock cage when he's, so he's never out of his cage when he plays.

That's on his design. That was his idea. And I'm okay with it. It just, it takes his focus off his penis and reminds him, I'm here for the other person right here for me. So anytime he plays, he's locked up. And we usually will go through stretches where he stays locked up for a few weeks, months, whatever, while he's playing because then his mind just gets fucked up even more. He just, he gets a little more in, all in. His brain kind of turns to mush a little bit when his cock is locked up and he's having to go please other cocks.

I just, it's a mind-fug part there. So that's where we are right now is he is locked up. And he's kind of got a regular. The guy comes to our house. I just step out of the bedroom, let them have it. But there's a camera set up. The guy knows it. I know I'm getting the video when it's over.

Everything's good. It's a really good arrangement. The guy just has my number. He doesn't have his. There's no extra conversations happening. The guy calls me, asks if he's available, if he is. I say, sure, come on. And that's the arrangement.

And so that's where we are right now. but when the guy leaves, I don't reclaim. There's no reclaim happening because he stays locked up. Also typically after, yeah, so typically after the guy leaves, he eats me. I get something out of the deal because I'm all worked up. Yeah. From knowing I've sat in the other room while he was in there. And so I'll come to the bedroom and then tell him, here's a toy.

You got to play with me or eat me or whatever. And it's just my mind gets blown all over again. And for him, he's just serviced that other guy too. And that's the role that he has played as well with the other guy. With this guy, is he just performing oral with him? And then he comes and then no, more? Oh, no. It's oral sex or oral anal.

But how can he do it if he's in a cock cage? I don't get it. He gets. Oh, duh. Yeah. So he's bottoming. He's the bottom. He's 100% bottom.

Absolutely. Yes. Absolutely. 100% bottom. Yes. 100%. So he's doing oral on the guy. He's also bottoming. That's what's going down with him and the guy. Like that's the, that's the scenario with the dynamic that they're playing out. Correct. How long has he been in a cock cage recently? What's the longest he's been in? This one, he's, he's three weeks in right now. Wow. Interesting. When do you have any plan on ever letting him out? Like, when do you plan on letting him out? You little dumb? He will probably, I told him this last time, the guy. So the guy was there Wednesday night at the house.

And it was it was really fucking hot. My videos are amazing from that session. So I told him like, you might as well get comfortable for a little while. You're going to be, especially now that we have a regular, it's a lot of work to be the one that sets it all up, to find the guy and go weed through all of this.

It's a lot of work. It's worth it when it pays off. But it is a lot of work on my end to set it. But we have found a regular that are, really like the guy. I really trust him. I trust that he is respecting our boundaries as far as there's nothing between the two of you outside of what I know about. I really do trust that this guy understands that. And he understands my need for the videos. A lot of a lot of the guys have not been receptive to that. And I'm like, okay, that's fine. You're just not a fit for us because this is my

way of being involved. I'm giving you my husband and this is my way of being involved. I want, I'll let you have it. But you have to share back with me too. I mean, I can. I can get him fucked every day, but that's not what I'm, you know, I need the mental part for me. I need it to be a guy that I want to see fuck him. There's all kind of boxes that have to get checked before the guy passes my approval. So it's no fun to lock him up and then I can't make things happen. And he's just sitting around in a cock cage and nothing's going on. I'm sorry, I'm slightly obsessed with you about that because like you just revealing more about like your guy's interesting and has a lot of layers.

But so do you. What is it that you look for in these guys? I think it works. Yeah. Yeah, totally. What is it? Like, what kind of guys do you dig or do you look for for your guys? Is it the alpha good looking dude that you want? What is it?

That's it. Yeah, exactly. They've got to be somebody that I find physically attractive. So like I said, we're both, we're both very into working out and staying fit. So I don't want, I hate to be, I hate to be mean to anybody. But I don't want you to be fat. I don't want you to be slobby. I don't want you to be.

I want somebody that looks. I want somebody that looks. like they work hard to take care of themselves like we do we put a lot of work into it and when I see somebody that looks like they I know hold themselves to the standards that we do that I'm interested when and I get all kind I just get all kinds that are just it wouldn't be interesting to me it just so I like I like somebody that I like a dominant person with him that's it's no fun if they just you know if they they they don't take control of him because that's the point yeah submissive If you're not going to take control of him, that doesn't do me any good.

He's not going to do anything unless you tell him to do it. That's the point of being submissive. So I like somebody that's dominant with them. I like somebody that, like I said, is in shape, looks good, is attractive to me. And I like, because I do think of him outside of the bedroom as alpha male. There's something about the dynamic of two alpha males and one has to submit that turns me on to. Yeah. So I don't like skinny, wormy looking guys either.

I don't want them too fat. I don't want them too skinny. That's okay. Like you said, you get your pit. It makes me feel so vain. No, no, no. Why not? If you're going out and picking and being, why not?

Get exactly what you want. I'm sorry, when you go to a restaurant, you're doing the same thing. You're looking at a bunch of things of picking what you want. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. So is it like very easy to find somebody? It's not for a few reasons. One, because, like I said, we're always a package deal. So he's never just looking for it on the side without them knowing that I'm in the mix.

Yeah. And so I get a lot of, well, do I get to have you too? And that's not always what I'm looking for. So I don't want, we've had this happen where somebody told me he was a top. And but he, in the talking to him showed a lot of interest in me. And I kept redirecting and redirecting. And the guy showed up and basically pretended to be a top with the goal of thinking if I, if I do this, I get her.

And then everybody just leaves disappointed. That's not. That wasn't what you were here for. So when I kind of realized the conversation's going more towards do they get to do something with me, unless I'm very interested, it has happened, but it's happened twice now. The first one I told you about. So it's happened twice that the guy shows up for him. And then I'm like, hey, you're by and I want something too.

Yeah. But that's super rare. And it's always I'm very upfront and saying that's a. in the heat of the moment thing. Don't show up if you think that that's a guarantee because it may not be. And most of the time it's not happening. Correct. Correct.

Like it's, I'm, I'm taking care of myself just fine with enjoying the show. Like I, and that's typically what I do. If I'm, if I'm not interested in having the guy for myself, I'm over in a corner with my toys and I'm perfectly fine. And he's always down with whoever you vet for him, whoever you picked, he's cool with it. Right. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. So let's go back, though. What was that first experience with you guys with another guy? When did that happen? That was just a blow job. And it was just pretty low key. Leading up to the actual first guy, we did a lot of talking. We talked about me being with another guy. We talked about him with a guy. We talked about him with another woman. And I'm like, nope, nope, that's not going to happen. That's never going to happen. So I feel I have no, I can't explain it. I can't explain any of this, the science behind why.

any of this works or doesn't work. I don't know. But I usually just try to tell myself not to overthink it's sex and we're having fun and we're on the same page. And it does. So the science behind it doesn't matter. But when I, when the conversations were happening about what would be okay, what wouldn't be okay, what boundaries does he have? What boundaries do I have? We've talked about all of that in great detail. But when it got mentioned about me being with another guy, which has been a couple of years ago and it just happened in December. So it wasn't like, oh, he said I could do it and I ran out and did it. I still wasn't ready for that.

But we mentioned him with another woman and I'm like, see, I can, I can imagine that I'm perfectly okay with you submitting to a guy. My jealousy would kick in watching you with another woman. And I'm not really a jealous person, but I don't think I could, I don't think I can do that. I don't think I can handle that. And so that's always been off the table. That's never been another topic of discussion.

And he didn't push it. It wasn't even, and I don't even know that he brought it up. I think I just, in the moment of all the talking, I think I said, I don't think I'm ever going to be okay with you being with another woman in any, in any fashion. Yeah, yeah. Of course that would come up because you're like, you're like, you're exploring everything and you think about that scenario. And you're like, I would have wanted.

And I always say, know thyself. If that's not what you are into and you don't think you can handle it, don't fucking go there. And big deal if you don't, because look at all the other shit you guys are doing. You're having a lot of fun. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it's never come up again and never been.

I mean, he knows where I stand on that. one and we're done there. And we have both always said if at any point he tells me, I'm not, I'm not good with this anymore. Or I say, this is run its course. I'm not good with it. We have both said, that's it. That's when it's over. Like, so yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So yeah. So yeah, it, it, there were there were a lot of conversations that happened before the first guy for him and even more conversations. Even the, the, the, the, that I was pretty sure. I, I was going to ask the guy to be with me too. I'm in the bathroom getting dressed and I'm like,

are you sure? Are you sure you won't look at me differently tomorrow? Are you sure? We've been married. We've been together 19 years. We've been married going on 18. Yeah. And the idea that if I, once it's done,

I had already watched him be with other men and I knew I don't look at him any different. Anything I find him sexy or because he trusts me this much. He lets me into this place with him. And so I find it insanely sexy. But as I was getting dressed 30 minutes before the guy got there, I kept saying, no, once it's done, I can't undo it. So please tell me now. If you have any bad thoughts, if you think you're going to, if you think you're going to sense any jealousy, if you're in a bad way, like I'm sure. There's some jealousy, but jealousy that doesn't turn you on.

Or if you think tomorrow morning, you're going to look at me and be like, something's different now. Please tell me now because I can't take it back. Once it happens, he's, I'm all in. I want to see this. And if he had not given me that reassurance, I wouldn't have enjoyed it near as much. If I had gotten any sense of hesitation from him, I wouldn't have been able to let go and enjoy it like I did. So, so yeah, it has, I think I was going to say this at one point. With him being locked up, we're not having sex with each other right now.

We're not typical sex. We've got toys and there's all kind of play that happens, but there's not actual penetrative sex happening between the two of us right now. but when the when the guy leaves and we are done playing around and then we just lay there and talk it's like we're on a we're connected on a whole different level the physical is a side right now and we're on some other level of connection and I think women are doing themselves a disservice if they don't explore a little bit deeper and get to know their husband on a different level yeah isn't that amazing it's and that's what I've that's the answer that I've got from a lot of people successfully open up the relationship and whatever kind of way a lot of times people think intuitively

oh it pushes you apart a lot of people think that anyone that people especially people that have never talked to anybody in the lifestyle and they don't know fucking anything about it this is what they assume I've talked to so many people I've talked to people that it's ended badly but the ones that are really evolved and the ones that are really on solid ground and the ones that have been together and this is working for them they always talk about that at intimacy that it has brought into their relationship. It's done the opposite of what people think. And I think it's because like you're in the know about a part of your husband that he doesn't

share with anybody. Does that make sense? Nobody knows and nobody would suspect. We're the most vanilla looking people you ever meet. So I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure people would just fall over if they knew. Especially with your guy, right? Because would they ever know your guy, your alpha supervisor?

Breedwinner is wearing panties and blowing guys on the side. No, and that's the big stigma, right? But see, that's so amazing that I do know it. And that's what you love. You love knowing that. Yeah. And it's a big fat turn on to you. Oh, yeah.

It's one of the, it probably is the biggest turn on. So when he locks up, I'm always like, okay, game on. Let's go. Yeah. It is a huge turn on. And then I end up with quite a library of porn to watch. later with my favorite porn star in it. Yeah, all your videos.

We'll get to those. But quick question, because you have a moment where there's that first time where you see your guy blow another guy. Did you know beforehand that you were into guy and guy action? Or was this the first time you were going to experience it? Uh-uh. And no, I didn't know. We had watched leading up to it.

We had started watching a little bit of porn. And I'm like, that's pretty hot right there. And then, like I just said, it started, I started imagining it being him. And I'm like, if I get turned on watching two strangers, you're going to be my favorite porn star. Oh, my God, you sound like the guy in all my hot wife episodes. You sound like the stag or the cuck. But until the conversation started happening between us about it, it was so far out of my mind that I wouldn't, I never had thought to entertain it before. I'm a very open-minded person.

Obviously. I and gay and all of that. none of that has ever phased me. I don't think, I don't think that deep into what other people choose to do in their life. So I've never been like, I had a judgment against anybody. It's just, I just don't think that far into other people's lives. So I've never, I won't say I've ever been thought to be turned on by it, but I've certainly never been turned off by it either until I started thinking of it being him. And then, yeah, some mind shift happened. And I was like, I think I could handle watching that. And I have been able to handle it.

very well. And so what happened that first time with that guy, the first BJ? Did you walk me through that scenario? Yeah. So I was, I was in the room. I was all set up, like I said, a lot of times I just set up in the corner with my toys. So I was set up. Yeah. I know it makes me sound a little creepy, but whatever. The guy, the guy, he was no nonsense. He literally just came in and told him he wanted his dick suck. My husband dropped through his knees. And as soon as it went in his mouth, I'm like, oh shit this is real and fuck that's hot and grabbed a toy and I think I was coming about the same time the guy was coming. Oh my gosh. Yeah it was it was very amazing it was very amazing it took it took me all about five seconds to be like oh my god this is really happening and then

and then I was just completely turned on by it but it was it was very no nonsense a guy just literally just walked in told him what he wanted he would give him some direct as he was sucking. He was very new to it. The guy knew that. So he would give him direction, guide his head, do whatever. And my husband took it like a champ and did his job. He was there for. And then we left and I said, how was it? He was like, it was a mind fuck. But I would do it again. And I'm like, okay, that's what I needed to hear. And was he wearing panties that time? Is that one? Was it not? Okay. The panties have come about probably in the last six to eight months. And I'd love to tell you how they came about, but I don't even know. I think it's just been a, I think I picked him up a pair as like, let's see what he does with it. And he ran with it. And in a couple of his hookups, the guys have asked for him to be dressed up.

And like I said, he's submissive. So he's got just a few hard boundaries that we won't cross. And when somebody mentions, hey, could he do this if it's not one of those hard boundaries? And I think I'm interested in seeing it. I'm like, sure he could. He's laid out his boundaries to me. So I don't go back to him. Be like, so he doesn't kiss.

There's no blood piss at like that no, that's nothing like that. And I can't, I don't know why I say that I can't believe. I mean, everybody has a kink and everybody's kinks are different. But I get asked so much for foot worshiping. an armpit worshiping that I've had to now list those in his he will not do. Well, all right, I got to say something. Okay. First of all, well, feet, yeah, there's a huge foot fetish thing out there.

It's very real. But I'm just going to tell you something about the armpit thing. Okay. You're an open-minded person. One day, just allow your husband to go down on your armpit. It feels like he is eating you out. I swear to you. I used to be into this, but somehow I got some guy to go down on my armpit once.

And it was like I probably could have came from it. And then it was like my thing. I used to always be like, let me go down on your armpit. It wasn't like a fetish or anything. But I just realized that there's so many nerve endings, right? And they all go straight to like your groin. Like they just go right to your vagina. I'm sorry.

There is something about an armpit that is hot. It's not about the smell or a dirty thing. There's just like nerve-ending. So I don't know what these armpit people are coming to you for, but don't knock it until you try it. Okay, I'm just telling you. I get that. And you'd like when you say it for him to, but to me, I probably would not, I'm super ticklish,

I don't know, but I probably wouldn't mind it. But like I said, so much of this is about what I want to see. And the idea of his face buried in a hairy armpit would not turn. It just wouldn't turn me on. You're right. You're right. And I am, I don't go get, I don't get pedicures on my own. I can't stand to have my feet touch.

Like I'm a, I would never, I would never work for somebody with a foot fetish. because I can't stand ahead. He doesn't get to touch my, I don't touch my feet. I love that. Listen, those are your, those are your boundaries. And you're a big part of this scene.

Just because you're not present, it still is your experience. So these are your rules, which is interesting. I love it. Yeah. Of course. Yeah.

So, and I never, I never ever thought to have to tell people that he will not lick their armpits. I get so many messages for it that I finally had to add it to the list. I'm like, here's what he won't do. Wow, I never thought anyone knew about the armpit thing.

I thought I was like the only one because anytime I ever brought it up to anyone, they're like, what the fuck are you talking about, Kathy? But I guess other people are into it, especially guys that are into guys. I don't know. Yeah. Yeah, like when you said it about him doing it to me, like I know before I would allow him do it, I know armpits going to be clean and it's clean, shave it. And so, yeah, I get that.

But him doing it to a man with their hairy arm, like, that's a turn off. I wouldn't just skip right over that. No, no, no. I get the whole setup that you're doing. You want it to be hot. This is your porn. You're creating it. That's not a hot scene for you.

And I can understand it, considering what you like. You're very specific. And you and your husband are very much on the same page. So I think that that's, I think it works and it's understandable. But let me ask you this. Are these guys that are coming and hooking up with your guy, gay, straight, by, married, single, do you know? I try to find out a little bit.

I really, if I can find a, like I said, what my ideal is, a masculine alpha male that is gay. Yeah. I like that because I know their interest isn't in me. I know there's not some slight of hand happening trying to pull a bait and switch on us. I like that if it's possible. if I'm super, super attracted to the guy, if he's just ringing all of my alarm bells, then I like for him to be by. And in case I decide I want to turn. Very rare. And I don't, like I said, I don't advertise it because it's more than likely not going to be what I want. But it's happened twice. So if somebody like that comes along that just my mouth drops open like, fuck, he's hot. Then I find out he's by. Well, that's a nice bonus. I don't know. I think he may have given a blowjob to one straight married man that it was secret and wife didn't know or whatever.

But I think for the most part, they've been gay by unattached from what they've told me. But let's talk about those two experiences that you have had with guys that you were like your jaw did drop and you joined in. At first one was like you said a couple months ago or something. You know how it was in December. And you said you had a conversation like right before. So you must have known going in that this was somebody that you were probably going to say, hey, I want to join in, right? Was that going in you knew, right? Oh, yeah.

Yeah, 100%. This guy when we had talked quite a bit, conversation was good, which for me, there's just such a mental for me. It's not for him. Tell him to suck the dude's dick. He's going to sit down, go down and suck the dude's dick. And it doesn't, him, it doesn't matter so much. He wants him to be clean and all that. But he knows that I've handpicked that guy.

Something about that guy was attractive for me to watch him do, but he doesn't care quite as much what the guy looks like as I do. Part of it is if he's a sub, he's got to do it for you. Like he's doing it for you. Correct. Yeah, totally. Yeah, absolutely. But for me, if I'm going to have sex with them, like a whole bunch of boxes have to get checked. There's just such a more mental side.

And I think that's the case for most women. I don't think we just. So for me, there just has to be. And so the first guy that that I did have for me was he just had the whole look. And we had we had talked quite a bit back and forth. So the conversation was really easy. It wasn't some of them come way too forceful at me. He didn't.

He seemed very respectful, which I always appreciate towards me. Now, if they want to be dominant with him, have at it. When they're talking to me, I like when they dial the dominance back and are respectful. And remember that they're talking to a lady or whatever. I don't know. Just I appreciate the respect if it's shown to me. And he did. So, and he just had the look.

He had the look that, that I, that I respond to. And so I had mentioned it to him. And I told him up front, I've never done this before, but it's always been a on the table for me to do it. If in the moment I decide that this is what I want, are you cool with it? And he was like, hell yeah. Oh, my God. He was a lucky winner. Yeah.

And then the more I thought about it, I'm like, you know what, I think if he shows at the door and he's everything that he hasn't been catfish in me, he's everything that that I'm seeing through. I'm actually, might go for this. And then, like I said, had the conversation with my husband. I think I found one that I'm, I may be interested in tonight or you good with it. And then like I said, went through the whole no, no, no, reassure me, promised me to help me. And yeah. And he did. And because he did, like I said, once he started once he started, once he started. sucking him. I was like, hey, you know what? I'm over here. Let's get him come to me. And so it was, it was everything that I had built it up in my head to be for sure. Being with two guys at the same time. Now, your guy, was your guy caged at the time or not? He was, yeah, he was caged. So he just watched. Oh, okay. So you got fucked by the other guy. Correct. He sucked him, got him hard. Mm-hmm. Yep. He sucked him, got him hard. And then he fucked me. Yeah. Wow. And was that a hot turn on for you on all angles, right? Like I'm assuming on all levels, right?

On every angle. Absolutely. Every angle. I would look up. My husband would be sitting there and I'd be like, oh, this just, yeah, yeah, it was, it was amazing on every angle. It was just talking about it again. Did you guys videotape that one? We did not, which is a shame. But we had, we did it again.

Yeah, tell me what happened the second time. We did it again, I guess, in January. And this guy fucked. both of us, which now is like the new, I hate to say goal, but is the new goal, is to find guys that we can, because that was so cool when the guy left that we got to compare notes. Oh, interesting. How was it for you? How was it for you?

So he fucked my husband for a good long time and came with my husband. And then he cleaned up and came back and ate me and then fucked me. And that was an amazing, an amazing night. So that's kind of our new thing now is hoping to find somebody like that again that we are both, that we can both be with on the same night at the same and share. Because the conversation after that was super cool. Just, you know, how it felt for him, how it felt for me. We just shared the same dick, that kind of thing.

So that's happened once, but that's kind of like the new thing now is somebody that I'm interested in enough that we both want to have. So that's not your regular though. You have a different guy who's your regular now, right? Oh, yeah. No, our regular, the regular is gay. He's only, he doesn't, like I said, I'm not even in the room. He's very, he's very okay with making videos for me, which I completely appreciate. Yeah.

Him and I talk afterwards, he'll tell me how it's, it's kind of weird getting feedback on how sex was with your husband, but he does. Oh my God, that's hilarious. Does that turn you on? He'll message me. It does. It does. Yeah, he'll message me afterwards. He, he, he, he, he, he,

Like I said, he was there Wednesday night. He came three times with my husband Wednesday night. And I'm like, three times. Oh, my God. That's insane. But yeah, so it's super cool and very big turn on, but also a little strange to get feedback from him afterwards about how it. But he'll do the same leading up. Like, I can't wait to get there.

And fuck your husband tonight. And he'll talk it up beforehand. And then afterwards, he'll tell me how good he was. And he can't wait until he can do it again. And so it's kind of a need. arrangement. Yeah. Oh my God. Your guy's never getting out of that cage if you're going to I know. That is what I'm exactly what I told him Wednesday night. I'm like you might want to just get comfortable for a minute. I'm enjoying this. Oh my God. Well, how come that other guy that you

guys both fucked like that was just a one and done? You haven't been able to see that guy again? Or do you have plans to maybe meet up with him again because it was so great? We moved. Oh, so that's why. Yeah. No, he was he was absolutely into seeing us again. And we definitely would have. We both enjoyed that night but we moved about four hours away at the beginning of the year. So it was a one and done, but it was amazing. Now, besides me and all my listeners, do, do any of your girlfriends know, like, what you and your guy are doing? This is a big, fat secret of your guys, of you, of your huge secret. So and your listeners are it. And that's, you know, it's, I do have, maybe it's the warrior part of me or the, I'm not an exhibitionist, but I feel maybe there is a,

side of me that wants to be but just can't. We have kids and all of that. It just can't happen. But there are times where I want to like, you're not going to believe what just happened. And I've got nobody and my husband talk about it. And I would never. I wouldn't.

That's just a trust I would never ever betray. Of course. But I was like, I could call in a strictly anonymous and Sharon cares. Yeah, I love it. And also I thought about that with his regular and how we talk about it the next. day. It's like that there's that that one person that I can say, you're not going to leave this part of our life that's happening, you know? So I, so I kind of got that with his regular and he's, like I said, that's the reason I'm kind of liking that he's got him right now because I'm in the

loop. He, the guy, you know, includes me. He understands our dynamic and what I want out of this. And he's very, he gives me amazing videos. I even heard on the video from Wednesday night, I'm saying, we've got to keep Mama happy. Oh, my God, hilarious. So it's cool. And I told the guy, I'm like, it's cool that you do that because I feel like I'm not completely left out. This is our experience together.

And so, at no point do I want to be left out of it. But I fully understand not wanting me right there in the room. And I'm okay with that as long as you always do this for me. And he was like, absolutely, 100%. You share them with me. I'll share you the videos. And I'm like, I'm cool with that arrangement. And so, and being able to talk.

to him the next day and have him tell me what he liked and what he tried and what he did and how my husband responded, even though I know because I saw it in the video. Yeah. It gives me that outlet of having somebody to talk to that, you know, is in on our secret. Yeah, of course. This guy really checks off all your boxes. You know, I understand now why he's your regular. He obviously knows he's got a good situation here.

Just don't fuck it up. Well, yeah, he did tell me that. He did tell me that. He was like, I don't want to fuck this up because I don't want to get replaced. So I'm like. Yeah. You keep me happy, then that's, that's your meal ticket. You're good.

Yeah, he's a smart guy. I'm sure he probably loves it. I thought it was like, you keep me happy. He'll keep you happy. That's how this works. But think of it from the gay man's perspective. Like, I don't know, I feel like that's like a hot fantasy for him. Like here he is fucking a quote unquote straight guy in front of his wife.

She's in the other room filming it. I feel like a lot of gay men. It's like their fantasy is to turn a straight man gay. I don't know. I just think that that's probably like super hot for him that he really. really understands what he's got and he doesn't want to ruin it. He's smart. So many people fuck stuff up, but I'm just like, they're so dumb. Like you had the perfect scenario. And then they took, you know, and they're stupid. And even him and I have had very, had some, so this has been

going on just a couple of weeks now. So I say regular, but they've been together three times in the last two weeks. Oh my gosh. It's pretty regular. This guy has a healthy appetite for sure. But so we've, in the couple of weeks that this has been going on, we have had some in-depth conversations about this is this is my way of being involved and this is all of that. We've talked about that in depth. And yeah, he has said, I'll do. I'm sure I don't mind doing that because I don't want to lose my. I don't want you to replace me here.

I like this setup. This is, I know I'm, I know he's clean. I know all of that. And this is he's, and the same thing. He likes that he's masculine. He's not so much about the cissy. Like he, he just were. So they were together on Valentine's.

That was, I said they were together Wednesday. day. That was Valentine. Yeah, you're right. So I asked him, I'm like, I said, can you indulge me on something? And just tell me if shit gets too weird for the wife to be happening in request. And he was like, what's that? And I said, so I bought him a pair of red crotchless panties. I know you're into the masculine thing. Could you? And I said, but, you know, the humiliation is a little bit of this thing for him too. So can he at least just start out in his red crotchless panties? If you, if it's not your thing, make a comment about him and then you can take them off. Just just for the initial humiliation of having to stand in front of you and is on

Valentine's and his red crotchless panties. And he was like, yeah, yeah, if I decide, I'll just slide them off. It won't be a big deal. Well, then the next day, he texted and he was like, I never took the panties off. Those were fucking hot. They stayed on the whole time. Like I said, I had already watched the videos. I already knew this. But so the, the panties ended up being a hit. And so he was like, if you've got any more crotchless ones, I'm okay with that. like this. Wow. So maybe he's learning something. Yeah. So and in the video I could hear him saying something about you dressed in red panties and he would just be in the hottest Valentine's pussy he had ever gotten. And I'm like, oh my God, I'm melting. This is amazing. I set this up and look at how the guy responded to it.

Yeah. Oh, now you're turning the gay man. Do you know what I mean? Who thought he, who thought he wasn't into into sissies and panties? All of a sudden, he's like, what else you got? Oh, my God. I'm obsessed with you. Yeah, so we're having a lot of fun. Yeah. I mean, what is on your list to do?

Listen, I know that you're looking to do another guy. You did like that scenario where you both got to fuck the guy at the same time. You know that your husband didn't look at you differently. You're down for that now and you're open to it. Is there anything else that you guys want to do that you haven't done yet? He wants to have more than one. Oh, okay. Yeah, yeah.

So he wants his limits pushed a little bit as far as like how many could he please. But that's hard enough finding one. So getting multiples together is and the check all the boxes and that I know we're clean. Like it just there's just a lot that goes into it. So it's not just advertising, hey, come gang, make of my husband tonight. That's like it takes a lot. So that'll probably be something that gets, you know, worked up to over time. And as we get to know, maybe have a few more regulars or something, I don't know.

But I don't really know how to. Yeah, I don't really know how that'll work out because, like I said, I'm picky. So just finding a couple of guys that want to fuck them. I could probably do that easy, but I'm picky. So, and I'm picky for him. And he appreciates that I'm picky. Like he knows at least it's going to be a quality guy that he's got to take care of kind of thing. So, but that, yeah, that's one that we want to have happen.

But other than that, I think probably the most pressing would be finding another one that we can both share again. We really enjoyed that. Yeah, so interesting. Listen, there are a lot of guys listening to this so jealous that you're not their girl because there's so many guys that have these that are into the kinds of things that your husband's getting to do. Not only like in front of you, but with you, but you being turned on by them. That's every guy's fantasy. Like you really are match made in heaven. And listen, I think that. We knew that already going in. We knew that before. And we knew we were match made in heaven before we added this layer.

So like to your listeners, that's what I would say. If there's something wrong, this won't fix it. This isn't, if you already have trouble, this, as good as it sounds and as fun as it's not going to fix troubles. So if you're not already solid, this is going to add, it's going to add trouble. But if you're solid and conversation's good and you're open and honest and willing to hear what the other person is saying, like we talk a lot, but the big deal is that we're also both willing to hear. We're not just talking at each other. You can talk at each other all day long,

but if you're not listening to what the other one is saying and hearing and really taking it in and understanding that it's a thing that it's always stuck with me is like perception is reality. Just, yeah, like I said, it's just if you have problems, this this won't fix it. So be solid before you go introducing. And I think that's the case with anything. But, you know, fix the problems first for you introduce this. But if you, if you have a really good marriage and you're willing to open up and listen to each other and really hear the other person. And then I think it can be, it can add a whole new dimension, just be willing to say, yeah, I could try that or right off the bat like when he, the whole idea of him being with a woman, I'm never going to be okay

with that. I can never come on the table because I just, I know me well enough to know I'm never going to be okay with it. And that was it. We were good. And we can have plenty of fun without that. Yeah. You both respect each other's boundaries. You both are open to what both of you are into or not into and that's what's important as well. I'm curious. I'm curious as when your guy gets out of the cage, are you, are you waiting for him to get out to like fuck you? Is that going to be like a hot night for you? Like, is that a part of it for you? That's going to be a very hot night. Yeah, there'll be a whole, there will be a whole date night planned around. Yeah. Yeah, there'll be a whole thing planned for for that. And it, yeah, and it'll be hot. It'll be amazing. And we've locked up

before. And when we do reconnect, it's just with everything that had gone on while he was lost. up and the things that him and I watched or talked about or whatever, it just all adds into that one time that we get back together. Obviously, we do it more than that. But that very first time that we reconnect is just, it's a lot of pints up, just being let out. So listen, does he know that you're calling into the show? Because I do get anonymous picks of my guest for my Patreon. I feel like for this episode, it would be so great if we got anonymous picks of both you and your hot alpha guy so people could see him. Does he know you're calling it? I'm assuming yes. He knows. Yeah. Cool. So could you send me anonymous picks of you guys from my Patreon?

Absolutely. All right. Awesome. And so and then what was actually his idea? Because we were listening to your podcast one day and he was like, what do you think? What do you think? Oh my God. I'm obsessed with your story is what I think. And I kind of thought about it for a minute. And then like I said, I always had this urge to be able to tell somebody, you know, this huge thing in my life. But I don't have anybody else. I'm like, he didn't mention sent an industry. So when you wrote back the other day, I screenshot and sent him to him that. work and he was like oh my god how long did it take her to write back i'm like oh just a few minutes he goes i thought she'd like our story oh my god don't say that online because some people i don't email them back for three days oh no no yeah you can take it out but yeah but yeah but yeah that's funny yeah and when i when i got up this morning i'm like today i get to talk to kathy today and he's oh let me how it go so yeah no he knows no i was obsessed with your story when i saw it because like i said i had so many different aspects to it that i've never really had all in one and i love it

and I love it from the female angle because I think it's always really important. And I think it for men, men like your husband or men who might have these kinds of interests that they're keeping it under wraps, to know that there are women that would be down for it, be turned on by it, be open to it. You never know. I feel like yours is not only a hot story and a lot of guys will be turned on by it and guys will also be obsessed with you because of how you are. They'll also feel hopeful. I feel like it's inspiring to people as well because of how open and accepting you've been of all these kinds of things that your husband is into. And these things have stigma attached to them. There are things that have a big stigma attached to them a lot of times.

So I think it's great for people to hear your story. I will also give you access to my Discord so you could go in there. I'm setting up, there's a place where you could post pictures if you want to do naughty picks. But I'm going to set up like a Q&A channel in there for my callers. so that people could go in and ask questions and talk and stuff. So if you could take part in that, that would be fun for you. It's more people to talk to. There's over 2,000 people on my Patreon.

So it's a great place to chat. And those people will have heard you on my episode. And they pay to get in. So it's private. You know what I mean? Okay. Yeah, that's awesome. Yeah, cool.

So I'll send you that. Get me those picks sooner than later. So I just know that I have them. Okay. Just send them to you email? Yeah. Send them to me via email. Yeah.

Sure. Sure. I will do that. All right. Samantha, thanks so much for calling in. This was a great combo. Thank you, Kathy. I enjoyed it.

I love that. Thanks so much for calling in. Thank you. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book.

It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is. basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are

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channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This Stristly Anonymous podcast. Hey, everyone.

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