Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 775 - Susan Bratton on What You Need to Know and What You Need to Use to Squirt

Episode Date: February 27, 2024

Susan Bratton called in to talk about what you need to know and what you need to use to squirt. Tune in to find how and why all women can squirt even if they never had, what the fluid that comes out is and what it definitely isn’t and where it’s actually coming from, how and why pushing out as opposed to clenching during orgasm is important, how women’s erectile tissue needs be fully stimulation to squirt and how long that takes, the supplement you should take before you’re intimate to increases your blood flow before your’e intimate, the specific toys that are you should use for foreplay and exactly how you should use them to squirt, why lubrication is important and the lubrication ad how to use it, how and why expanding your orgasm is important as well, how once you figure out how to squirt you can always squirt, how you can control it once you mastered it plus a whole lot more.  Check out SABedroom.com to access everything you need to squirt! **To see anonymous pics of of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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So for five bucks a month, you get all of that. Plus like episodes early and every. So go join. Okay, it's a great deal. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The links to Patreon will be in the description. Now, today I have on Susan Bratton. Susan Bratton is here on the show to talk about how to squirt.

If you listen to my recent episode with Alexis, She talked about the fact that she learned to squirt from Susan Bratton. I was like so jealous because I'm always dying to squirt. Everyone listens to my show knows. Alexis learned how to squirt through taking Susan Bratton's program. Female Liquid Orgasm. That program is going to be available on sabedroom.com. Links will be there.

That program liquid orgasm, she took it. She used the toys that she told her to use and she learned how to squirt. So I was like, oh my God, I need Susan back on to teach me and to teach you. how to squirt. Whether you're a female or a male, you're going to want to listen to this. Because if you're male, I even said it on this episode. If a girl has never squirted or you would come into her life and you're the one guy who made her squirt, she's never going to fucking forget it. Okay. I would never dump a guy who taught me how to squirt. Now, one guy has been able to do it. So whenever that guy shows up and can do it, oh my God, he would be like the king in my book.

So you want to know how to make a girl squirt. And if you want to know how to do it, you're going to need to listen to Susan. Me and Susan not only taped this conversation, she video taped it as well to go up on my YouTube channel. Susan is a professional. She looks fucking great. We decided doing a visual with this episode would be killer because she talks about so many different products. Unfortunately, my YouTube recently got some strikes and I have to wait those out before I upload. because I don't want to lose my whole channel. So I am not posting her video yet on my YouTube. It is up, though, on my Patreon.

So if you want to see the video of Susan now, you could go to my Patreon. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The video of this episode will be there. You will hear her reference some pictures and talking about toys that we're both looking at while she's talking. But by no means do you have to see the video. to benefit from this episode. So it's not really that big of a deal. But if you want to see everything that she's talking about,

you could join my Patreon. And it definitely will be up on YouTube in about three months from now. I'm waiting out my strikes. It takes 90 days. So check back in 90 days on YouTube. Anyway, I'll be right back on with Susan. Hi, Susan, Brett. And welcome back to the Strictly Anonymous podcast.

How are you today? I just can't get enough of you, Kathy, Kay. I can't get enough of you. of you. You are my in-house sex expert. I don't really have experts on often, but I have to say, the reason why I keep bringing you back is because I've had you on a bunch of times and you're killer, you're very professional. You don't only do this for a living. You live it for a living. I know your whole backstory. But I always, after I tape you, I have guests on that will be like, oh, Susan Bratt and taught me how to have multiple orgasms. And why I'm having you on talking about

squirting is because literally a girl I just aired her episode recently. And she could never squirt. Everyone that listens to my show knows that that is a big thing on my bucket list. And I have a real issue that I can squirt. And she was just like me. And she said, I figured out how to squirt by Susan Bratton. I took her course. I bought all the stuff she told me to.

And I learned how to squirt. And then it turns out, and I know you're going to talk about this. Once you know how to squirt and you could do it, you could always do it, right? That's like the thing. Yes. Yeah. And it's funny because so many people, I think there's things that are, like really prevent it. There's obstacles. And I want to go over a lot of those today because they're

common. And I think once you realize, oh, okay, I had a limiting belief or I got misguided somewhere about it. And I didn't understand it. I heard some misinformation. That kind of clears those obstacles. But then it's also, okay, what are the steps? What do I do? How do I make it happen? And then knowing that, I think really the place to start is what's the benefit to female ejaculation? So I know people call it squirting because they hear about it on porn or they see it on porn. And squirting is an okay term. That's fine. But I think that in some ways, that makes people think that they have to be like shooting this fire hose of liquid out.

And yes, I'm like a mad squirder. I learned how about 20 years ago, and from Tallulis, who created female liquid orgasm, which is the program that we have now taught thousands and thousands of singles and couples how to do what we call releasing her feminine waters or releasing her divine nectar. Because I like to move the conversation of squirting from kind of the porn performative party trick part of it into more of the incredible pleasure that your body feels when you kind of step into a level of female ejaculation. There's a couple of things that I want to say about it. And why I like to call it female ejaculation instead of squirting. One is that all women can do it. So the first obstacle is some

women think I just can't. And you can. It's just a learned pathway as you found out from your recent guest. So that's number one. Number two, when you think about it as releasing your feminine waters, then it's almost like you're taking yourself away from this kind of porn star performative, oh, I'm going to be Cytheria and squirt across the room. Everybody get out your raincoats and your umbrellas, you know. And then I'd like to. And then I'd like to. to talk about kind of how it first starts and then how you develop it because I think understanding the journey of exploration is really important. The other thing that women are really, really worried about and their partners honestly is that it's P and

it's not P and I want to talk about that very very specifically and I'll just clear that out of here right now by using a really really good example and that is that men urinate and ejaculate out of the end of their penis. And that tube is called the urethral canal. And a female body has the, has the, the, the urethral canal comes right out to where your urine comes out is basically inside, if you open up the inner labia and you open that up, that's called the vestibule, like a doorway. And inside that doorway, the clitoris is kind of at the top of it. The vaginal opening is near the bottom of. And right in the middle is the urinary exit.

And the urinary exit or urethral canal can ejaculate and urinate just like the penis-owning body. So all bodies have the ability to urinate and ejaculate out of that tube. We have the same parts arranged in, you know, different order or different places or what have you. we have inies and penises are outies, but it's the same thing. And there's a muscle, like a sphincter muscle, at the top of the bladder exit in both the bodies that closes to hold in urine. And then what happens for the female body is that there are these periorethral glands, also known as Skeen's glands.

But since that's named after a man and it's about women's bodies, women today are like, Buckskeen, who the fuck is he? What do they call it? So it's called parietral glands. And they're these little web of, let me show you a picture. So for those of you who are going to watch Strictly Anonymous on the YouTube channel, here's what it looks like. It looks like, you might as well go over to YouTube and see all the pictures because I've got Susie's sexy show and tell here today.

This is what the tube looks like. This is where the urine and ejaculate come out. There's like a little rosebud of spongy tissue that surrounds that, essentially that tube, that line where the urine and ejaculate come out. And there's all these glands, parurethral glands. And just the same way that the vagina lubricates from blood plasma seeping into the pelvic bowl

and coming through the layers of the vagina, so the vaginal mucosal lining to wet it to give us lubrication, because the vagina is a muscle, not a gland, so it doesn't self-lubricate. The same with these parahorithral ducts. The ducts, the blood plasma seeps into the ducts. And then when you have this contraction, it expels this fluid, which is very similar to prostatic fluid. The fluid in the prostate that mixes with the semen, the sperm, if you will, in the testicles and turns into ejaculate and comes out the penis. It's the same thing in the pariorethral glands being fed by the blood plasma recruited into the pelvic bowl, contract, and you get a trickle, a wellspring, a little spurt, some wetness.

And then over time, as you learn to what we call birth your orgasm. which is push out instead of hold in. You know, a lot of women, they clamp down to come. They'll like, you know, they'll clench. Yeah, they'll clench. Totally. You want to push out to let the fluid go. And your body knows not to urinate.

It knows to ejaculate. Once you kind of get that pathway and you start to push out a little bit and you feel some initial wetness and then you feel a little more, your body learns that path and it will just let go with this incredible fluid. Now, there's a number of different things that we want to get into about how you make that happen and things I recommend that you don't do, which I think often are more important than what you do do. Yeah, for sure.

But the other piece of it is that, I don't know about you, Kathy, but when you eat asparagus, can you smell it in your pee? Do you have that gene snip? Yeah, for sure. When I take mucinax, I could smell it in my pee. You know, a lot of stuff that goes into your pee. Exactly. Yeah, vitamin B and things like that, B vitamins. When you eject, if you ate if you ate asparagus and then you had a female ejaculatory session and you released your feminine waters, it would not smell like asparagus. So it doesn't come from the bladder. And that's another, it's not pee. And there are. Some people over the years, a few couples have written to me and said, there's definitely pee mixed in with it. Why? And I tell them it's likely that that muscle that's holding back the bladder is weak.

And they probably are also having potentially urinary incontinence or other pelvic relaxation issues where they need to strengthen the pelvic bowl. And I send them to get the Femi-Wave treatments, which strengthen all that muscle, all that tissue, generate new tissue growth, kind of like make everything really young and strong and healthy again. So that's another thing that if you're worried or you feel like, well, I've definitely had it BP. That little muscle is weakened. Yeah, and that's common for women over menopause. Right? In menopauseal years or women that have had many children? It's very common.

Yeah. And what's good is that we can now use regenerative therapies like FemiWave to reverse the effects of atrophy and aging to strengthen the pelvic bowl and to get our, get our orgasmic capacity back, get our lubrication back, get reduce or get rid of the incontinence, get all that tissue really plumped up, which I think is like the next step of talking about how do you help a woman release her. Feminine waters. And I have a couple of things to show you about that. So the first one is that when you think about getting the fluid down into the pelvic bowl, there's two things to think about. The first is that just like when you're getting blood flow into your genitals so that they get plumped up so that, you know, an erection for the male body is very easy to see. You can see the penis get hard. So you can see it get big and thicker. It goes from small to pretty amazingly large for how it started. Yeah. Well, we have that same amount of erectile tissue inside our bodies as women, but it's wrapped in kind of nooks and crannies. I'm going to show another picture.

And I really think it's worth popping over to YouTube to see this stuff in all honesty, because I had this custom illustrated because there are so, there's just no good illustrations of the female erectile tissue systems. And the female erectile tissue systems, there's three of them. There's the clitoral structure, the urethral structure, the pariorethral and urethral sponge. That's what we call the G spot, but it's not a spot. It's a long tube like I just showed earlier. And then there's a little plump little perineal sponge underneath the vaginal opening

as well. And so the vagina itself is actually surrounded by erectile tissue. But if we don't have 15 to 20 minutes of nice kind of foreplay of manual stimulation, stimulation with toys, stimulation with fingers and tongues to get the blood flow into all that tissue to plump it up, we're dealing with basically a flaccid. I'm going to use. I'm going to use. the word yoni yon i and i've used that with you before yeah and so for you listeners who are just maybe for you know coming to strictly anonymous for the first time you haven't heard some of my my past episodes the um yoni is a sanskrit word and what it really means is the entire female genital system all the parts not just the clitoris not just the vagina not just the g quote unquote

spot which is really called the perioreithral sponge And I think it's really important to remember that women need as much engorgement to erection as our male-bodied partners do. But for men, it takes a couple of minutes for him to get an erection. For her, it takes 15, 20, 30 minutes, depending on the frequency of time that she's, you know, like if she's having loving manual stimulation and using her vibrators and her toys, three or four times a week, she's used to getting the blood in there. But if she's not that active and not getting regular stimulation, long enough stimulation, it's going to take her 20 or 30 minutes

to get that blood flowing. There's another piece to it too, and that is that as we age, the way we get the blood to go into our pelvic bowl and get this flu, remember the ejaculatory fluid is in the blood. It's in the blood plasma. It's watery liquid. So you've got to get the blood into the pelvic bowl. And the thing is that the way your body moves the blood in there is through a gas called nitric oxide. And by the time you're 50, you have half the nitric oxide production you had when you were 20. And so most women who are pursuing their release of their divine nectar, I like to use these kinds of sweet words. Yeah. It makes it's so much more beautiful for us.

They tend to be 35 to 60. Younger women are still like, oh, I'm just discovering sex, you know? They're not quite there, but the 35 and ups, they're starting to have nitric oxide decline. So they need to take a supplement. Now, my husband swears by this for me. He says he can tell the difference

between when I take a nitric oxide supplement and when I don't. The one that I like is a nitric oxide supplement. believe it or not, called Flow. And it's a nitric oxide booster made from real fruit and vegetables, not from a lab out of corn syrup that's a pesticide-laden crop from China, you know, made in a big vat. This is actually made from watermelon rind, spinach powder,

and some pine tannins and some bitter cherry. And you just take a couple of these about 20 minutes before you start your squirt session, if you will and you'll be able to recruit a lot more fluid into the pelvic bowl so flow nitric oxide booster is one of the things and i'm going to put this on sabedroom.com that's i've made that page for you in the past we've used that link before and i'm going to put a link to the flow nitric oxide booster on sabedroom.com as well as everything else that i talk about so you don't have to worry as you're listening just know that all the things i'm going to be talking about and showing you to aid you and releasing your feminine waters will all be at sabedroom.com.

And quick question about that because I'm big into supplements and I, you know, I totally believe in them and I love that this is more natural, right? Because not all supplements are the same. Most are garbage. But with this one, like you say, oh, you know, take it before you have sex. Is it something that if you take it on the daily even better? Yeah. Yeah. Right. Yeah. You take two capsules of flow every single day and you're just going to get more blood flow to your brain when you're thinking, to your heart when you're exercising and to all your parts when you're making love. Yeah, I take a couple of them every day and though I should take them at night because that's when you actually refill your nitric oxide stores. I forget so many times

that I just end up throwing it in with all my other supplements and taking it during the day. So in a perfect world, take two at night and take two additional before lovemaking. And that will help you recruit the blood capacity so you have more fluid to ejaculate. So it's easier for you to ejaculate. Then the other thing is that if you think about the vulva, let me show you another picture of the vulva. So if you think about the vulva, that's the outside of the genital system. The top is called the Mons, Mons Pubis. The outer area under the fur along each side is called the labia.

Then there's the inner labia. There's the clitoral hood, the clitoral tip and shaft, the vestibule. Here's where the exit of urine is right here. This is where that little rosebud is around the exit where the ejaculate and the urine come out. And this really loves to be stimulated. this erectile tissue right here on the inside, it feels as good as this clitoral tissue. And then here's the vaginal opening,

or what's called the entroidal sphincter, the opening to the vagina. But let's go back up here right to the top where we're talking about the mons, that fatty pad of tissue. The clitoris actually goes up between the pubic bones through that fatty tissue on the top of above the clitoris. That's kind of the top where your pubic hair is.

If you have pubic hair, I just shave mine on a long. I was going to say, yeah, your picture needs a waxing. I'm no word. Some laser. Well, I don't, I like to keep it natural so that it's not like my agenda, but my agenda is shave that shit off. No, I know. I do laser.

It's the best. Yeah, go on. Well, because it's slightier and you get better massage. But what's interesting about the mons here is that you can think about it like a dam. When you touch your mons and you aren't turned on and you don't have all that blood flowing, It's kind of a little hard and the tissue underneath the skin can feel kind of almost just constricted a little bit. And once you get it open and full of blood and plump, then the fluids are running through there. The dam has broken and you're getting a lot more fluid into the skin's glands and you're getting a lot more blood flow and lubrication into your vagina.

And so the very first thing that I like to do is I like to recommend using a toy as four play. And I brought the two toys I recommend for female ejaculation. These are both from Fun Factory. This one is a wand, and it's called the VIM, V-I-M. And this one is from Fun Factory, and it's called the Layap 3. And what I like about both of them is, usually I, if I'm solo pleasuring, I'll just do the wand and go for it. But when I can talk my husband, which is not hard, like I do not have to twist his arm to have a squirting session. I give him the laia. And what I like about it is that

he cups this in his hand and he rubs it back and forth across the mons. And then he rubs it up and down on each side of the outer labia. And then he rubs it right down the center in the vestibule. And then he can take the tip and he can kind of go right on the clitoris and right into the vestibule right onto that G spot tube. So we know that the G spot is a big part of the female ejaculatory pleasure. And that's because the G spot isn't a spot. It's that long tube that I showed you the picture of. And that tube actually goes, I'm going to show you again on this erectile tissue picture. So if this is the clitoral tip and this is the shaft and these are the arms and these are the legs of the clitoris,

these legs are underneath the outer labia. The Mons is up above the clitoral shaft here. And here's the G quote unquote spot, but it's a tube, the pariorithral tube. And what it does is it goes, it starts really close to the entrance to the vagina on the roof of the vaginal canal, but it quickly goes to the north and up toward the bladder. So everybody's pretty familiar with you put fingers inside the vagina to touch that tube of tissue right on the roof of the vagina. But what most people don't understand is that you want to get in and curve around and come almost back toward the front of the abdomen. That it's you if your partner is using their hands and I think that's the best way to

begin to learn, but I've brought some tools to show you as well. The program that I have been teaching people to have female ejaculatory experiences is called female liquid orgasm. Tallulis, who is, I love her title, she calls herself a scortologist. She and I created that. She wrote that for me and shot the videos. for me a few years ago and we've taught thousands and thousands of people how to do it using fingers, penises, toys, solo pleasuring, partner pleasuring, all the different hand movements that you can use and there are quite a number of them and how to do it with toys and how to

essentially do that thing I was talking about earlier, birthing your orgasm. Female Liquid Orgasm is at SABDroom.com. So you can go there and you can check it out. It's a program that's made for you to watch and learn how to make yourself squirt and for you to watch with your partner and learn how to have these female ejaculatory, incredible experiences together. Because what I've found is that partners love to see you, let it all go. They love to see you squirt your heart out.

They love to see you just in complete and total surrender to this wildly pleasurable experience that's just super hot. And I think one of the things that they love is that it's like visual proof that she's having this incredible pleasure. Like you can't fake a squirt. Yeah, exactly. You can fake an orgasm, but you can't fake a squirt. Yeah. The other thing that I think is really an interesting thing is that a lot of women say it's funny, but when I ejaculate, I don't necessarily feel like I'm having an orgasm at the same time. And that's because the orgasm and ejaculatory systems are separate systems in the body.

and there's a difference between the stimulation of that pariorethral sponge and getting the fluid to come out and the kind of sensation you would have from stroking the clitoris or maybe inside the vagina. You know, there's 20 different kinds of orgasms. We've talked about that before on some of our segments together. and it's a contraction with an expression of fluid. And when I explain it, I say it's just the same way that men can learn, or penis owners can learn to have full body orgasms without ejaculation. And then they can learn how to separate ejaculation and orgasm, have lots and lots of orgasms, and ejaculate when they want to, or when she's.

begs them to at the end. And so it's the same thing for the female body. You'll feel orgasms and you'll be having these ejaculatory contractions, but they may or may not coincide. You could feel an orgasm and then you'll have an ejaculation. So the number one thing is to start with a blood flow supplement. The second thing is to add on this outer labia mons vibration so that all that tissue just gets like super plumpy and full of blood and all this water is recruiting down into the pelvic bowl and getting you very lubricated. You can have as many orgasms as you want from these tools first.

And that's going to help you squirt once you start stimulating the sponge inside and the sponge outside. You're doing the sponge on the outside with this layer. Let me just give you a shout out for that wand. Okay, that's a good wand you got there because let me tell you, I was a woman who had never used a wand in my life. I'm not really into vibrators. You know, I don't like that kind of vibrational thing on my clit. I just never really got into it. So I always thought that a wand was like the same kind of a thing and I had one sent to me recently.

Holy shit. Any woman out there that hasn't used a wand, it is not like a vibrator. It is something totally different. It gives you the best effing orgasms I ever had. I am obsessed with my wand. I've been trying to find one that I think is effing great so that I could promote it to my listeners because I want everyone to use the one that hasn't because I was, I mean, I didn't know. It is not like a vibrator. It is a totally different thing.

you the most deep, intense, hardcore orgasms. It's like my favorite new toy. Good. I'm glad you love it, too. What they did with the VIM was they actually created it such that it sends, it sends waves into the tissue. It's not like the old Hattachi Magic Wand or even the new Hattachi Magic Wand, where it's strong, but it's like vibrating the external skin. What you want. You're not, you want. You're want is penetrating waves. And this will do that? Yes. Oh, I need one of those then. This is the one. And what I like about this particular one, and again, this is at saibedroom.com. I've got the links for you for Kathy. But what I like about this too is that I ride this like I have learned over time that I don't, I don't orgasm like a typical like patriarchal dude type of thing where I just go, uh, ha, ha, ha. And then I'm done.

and I want to done, no, I can come and come and come and come for hours. And one of the things that I do is I get, I have trained my body and everyone can, where you start to go into the orgasm and then you can stay in orgasm. And you can expand the moment of time of the climax. Yes. Like you're stretching time like to happy. And what that allows you to do is just ride and ride and ride and ride that. wave of pleasure for longer and longer periods of time and then as you get more and more blood flow

into all that tissue, it feels even better and even better. And that's essentially the notion of expanded orgasm, is that it's, I kind of sometimes call them quantum gasms because you're not only having like a longer climax, but they get better and better the more of them that you have. my number one tool for doing that without, my number one technique is expanded orgasm, a practice that is a manual clitoral stroking technique. But this is the like, do it with a tool type of thing. Yeah, add that on top. Because at first you have to learn how to like just not sort of clench and force it out. You have to learn how to drag it out, which that's what I do now because of your last episode with me. I could do that and it 100% works if you're not clenching and you're just allowing

it and you're not and and it it definitely has extended my orgasms made them 10,000 times better. And it was because of our last episode, we did all about the expanded orgasms. So people should go listen to that one too. And then they add the wand on top of it. Oh my God, I can't wait to get this one. Yes. And this Leah, what I like about this is that you're, you can really get all the tissue of the vulva.

And I really like it like just last night, yesterday afternoon, it was a Sunday. So this is a Monday. We're recording. my husband and I got into our position. He sits on this little tuft, this little pillow, like a, it's a meditation cushion. It's called a Zafu with his back up against the headboard. And my legs are butterfied in front of him. He's got one leg over my belly, and he can see my whole vulva.

And he warmed my whole mons and outer labia and vestibule and clitoris up with the laia. And then we went into the next toy that I have to show you. And this is called, so you want to start going inside and getting up inside to the actual your parioreithral sponge to stimulate it and get it really engorge so that it fills with fluid and you have these delicious releases. And my favorite in the vagina tool is the curve. from hot octopus. Again, I'm going to put this at sabedroom.com. So go there so that Kathy gets some credit for the links. This curb has a, can you see on the video how squishy this is?

Oh, once you start having this on your mons, your outer labia in the vestibule, on that squishy little rosebud where the fluid comes out. By the way, the fluid, as you begin to ejaculate and you begin to ejaculate you get better and better at it and you ejaculate more and more volume you get these gills that develop on the sides of the opening where your pee and your ejaculate normally come out and they're like extra carrying capacity volume so you squirt even more fluid out so those women who are doing those giant fire hose squirts it's not only coming out of the urethral canal itself it's coming out from beside it on these little gills that develop

That's so interesting, fascinating. It is so interesting. The human body's amazing. This is the softest thing, and what I like about it is that this, they call it trouble and base. This has two types of vibration. It has the buzzy and the rumbly in a single device with lots of range of the sensation. And what you can do, I recommend learning, like getting female liquid orgasm and learning all the hand movements that we teach. because she's going to want different things on different days.

Different things are going to feel good to her. And you want to have what I call a repertoire of fingering techniques so that she can tell you, oh, can you do the butterfly? Can you do the come hither? Can you do this? Can you do that? So that she can ask for what's feeling good. And then you can deliver that.

Because women, even after menopause, we're on a 28-day cycle. We run with the moon. And different things feel good to us in different days. There's always things changing down there. So this curve, when you put it in and you drag across the G area, it really starts the squirting. And one of the things I'm going to put on essay bedroom is a toy guide. And the toy guide, when you click and get that, if you want that toy guide, that's like an addition to the the female liquid orgasm program.

The toy guide is free. And when you go there and get the toy guide, I've created an explicit video. You won't get it immediately. You'll have to get a second email from me that says, click here to see the explicit video. And in that one, what I've done is I've created a video that shows you how to use G-spot wands inside a vagina

without hurting a woman. because the manufacturers don't give you explicit guides. And you should not be looking at what they do in porn because those are adult stars. And this is what they do every day and you can't get at it like they do on porn. You need to, you know, if you're doing this with your wife or your girlfriend or what have you, you've got to be a lot more gentle and really know what you're doing. And so I made an explicit video to show you exactly how to use it because it's a little counterintuitive. You wouldn't use it like, or even like, or any of that.

It's a different way. Yeah. So I think that's very important. And then there's one more piece of it that I also wanted to show you because I think that it's really helpful when you have the right tools for the job. So you've got the tool to wake up the vulva and get the blood flowing. You've got the supplement to get the watery fluid to get in there. there so you've got something to work with. You've got the G-spot wand to go inside and do some of the stimulation that's really going to get her over the edge. But you're going to need some lubrication

that isn't going to get squirted off. And I always say don't put something inside your mucous membranes that you wouldn't put inside your mouth. If you wouldn't put it in here, you wouldn't put it down there. If you wouldn't put it in your mouth, you wouldn't put it down there. Because you don't want your body to absorb the chemicals and things that a lot of lubricants. Lubricants are an FDA class two formulation, and they have to have preservatives in them that often are yucky chemicals that you wouldn't want inside your body. So I have a line of products that I recommend from a company called Foria, F-O-R-I-A-F-A-F-A-F-A-F-A-F-A-F-A-F-A-Badroom. And there's a triple system that I call my pleasure protocol. I'm going to have some of this sent to you, Kath.

Okay, awesome. So the very first thing is called the melt. The second is called the Awaken Arousal Oil, and the third is called the Sex Oil. The melts look like this. And I'm sorry if you're on the audio podcast, but they just look like a little, they're in a little single applicator and they're a little cocoa butter. Oh, suppository. A cocoa butter. They call them a melt.

Coco butter and CBD and they have different ones, extra CBD, not as much CBD. They have ones that have a hobo oil in them for their booty melts. which are fantastic. This goes inside the canal. And what I love about it is that it actually, so CBD is, it's a, it's CBD comes from the hemp plant and it's what's called a phytocannabinoid. And a phytochinavinoid triggers your own body's endocannabinoid pleasure, healing pathway to start sending these endocannabinoids into your body to feel more pleasure. So it's basically triggering your body's own release of your own cannabinoid system. What this melt does is it literally melts into that tissue and it's completely body safe.

And what's nice about it is that then you've got in that tissue a lot of a little bit heavier kind of amaliency up right inside there where you're going to be using the wand. You want that slip. And what's nice is that normally with lube, when you ejaculate, you're washing everything off. But what's great is with the melts, it's not washing it off. It's staying up in there because it's not the ejaculates not coming out of the vagina. So it's fantastic for female ejaculation. And then just before, so put that up there before you start your sash. And then you put this awaken oil.

And that's why I call it a protocol because there's three things you use together that are synergistic. The awaken oil, it smells absolutely fantastic. It's all botanicals, MCT oil, the phytocannabinoids of the CBD, and it smells so good. And you just take one squirt, maybe two, and you put it on the outer labia, the inner labia, the clitoris, inside the vestibule. and down on the perineal area. You just coat the outside of the body with this awaken arousal oil. And what that does, and this is going to help her squirt,

it starts, that endocannabinoid system starts the brain body, brain genital connection. It's like you put that on and you coat that on there. Before you start with the wand or the laia, before the vim or the laa, and you can put sex oil, on that I'll show you that next. You put the awaken on and all of a sudden your vulva, it's got the melt in there, now that's

nice and creamy in there. And then you've got the waken oil on the outside of the vulva and your vulva is going like, oh, no, it feels so good. And it's lighting up your brain and it's awakening your brain. which is what is your brain is your biggest sex organ because what it does is it processes sensation. It lets you know it feels good. And then as you like, as much as you want, you put your sex oil on top, liberally use as much as you need whenever you need it for all the glide that you want. Some people like a lot of glide.

Other people want less. If she squirts that stuff off, you put more on. But what I love about it is that you've got your internal lubrication. You've got your activator, your awakening, and then you've got lots of glide to go on top. So, I mean, between this kind of, God, it's like a pussy spa, you know? Yeah, definitely. You're doing your supplements. And by the way, that's going to make your brain work better.

Your muscles work better in the gym. For sure. Yeah, the oxide. Flow is just going to help with everything. Then you've got your, you know, your vibrational. and all these sensations. You've got your awaken oil and you've got your melts inside. And then you've got your sex oil and you've got your wand in there.

And the wand is vibrating and stroking the G spot. And pretty soon it's going to be like, yeah, right there. Don't stop. And your partner's just going to keep going and keep going and keep. And you're just going to be like, and it's going to be wet. and then you've got your pathway. And then from there, it's just how much do you want to squirt your heart out? Get your liberator and throw her down there because you need a waterproof something under you

so you feel good about just letting it flow and letting it go. And there's something about squirting where you just feel, you feel like a goddess. You feel like all of a sudden you're taking up space. in a way that you've been too good a girl in the past now you're like yes I am squirting all over this bed yes I am letting go yes I am making a little mess and there's something that makes you just feel so part of the universe in a way that nothing does there are many couples who like to capture the fluid and then like you know take it I had a friend who actually he he and he and

his girlfriend captured her ejaculate and they took it to the Vatican. Oh, my God, hilarious. And there's a tree in like the center. Yeah? And it's like poured her ejaculate, watered the tree at the Vatican. Oh, my God. They're so naughty. Oh, my God.

I mean, I wouldn't bother doing that kind of stuff. That's not, it's not my jam, you know, but there's something very reverential. there's something very ancient. It's an ancient connection to ourselves that when you are so deliberate and you've got the lobes and you've got the toys and you've got the squirty blanket and you've got the music gone and she's hydrated and you're pouring her another glass of water and you're telling her how beautiful she is and she's just really feeling safe and really feeling comfortable and she's just letting it go. There's, I don't think that there's anything more vulnerable and intimate in sex

than female ejaculation. You know, you could say maybe, you know, the permission of kink or maybe anal, but I don't think so. I think female ejaculate, I've done it all, and I think female ejaculation is kind of the pinnacle of trust, surrender, expansion, pleasure, confidence, and joy. And would you say that every woman can squirt? Oh yeah, everyone. Right? That's how our body, our bodies literally are made to ejaculate. Just like men ejaculate and urinate, women ejaculate and urinate. We just all do it. Right. And every woman has a G-spot. Yeah. Right. It's the tube that's surrounding your urethral canal. It's the spongy tube that's covering your urethral canal. It's not a spot. It's a tube. And it just, it's found right at the

entrance to the vagina right inside. And when it gets really big and swollen because it gets engorged full of blood, it gets an erection of its own, it starts to pop out and get bigger. And it's even more pleasurable. So the thing, I think the number one thing about exploring female ejaculation is taking your time to allow her to get all that engorgement and fluid flowing. And so that's why the flow nitric oxide booster, using the toys, the vibration and the penetration of the pleasure into the tissue to get it really plump are really big parts. of the process. It's not just I'm going to stick my fingers in the top of your vagina and you know, bang away, finger bang your G spot and make you score. Like, yeah, I mean, you can do that,

but it's not the experience that I'm talking about. And it's definitely like the 1.0 kind of porn type of thing where I think what I want people to get as a number one takeaway is that this is beautiful reverential experience of lovers. That's what it is, what it can be for you. It can transcend so far beyond just a party trick. Yeah. No, and I think that's important. Because after you do create that pathway, I assume, and I've heard, that it's really easy to squirt. Maybe it doesn't have to be so much, right? But for anyone that doesn't know how, this is how it has to start. This is how you're going to get there. You know, it's not going to be. Like you said, you just put your fingers in there and like finger bang and the girl who's never

squirt is going to squirt. I've had guys, you know, to work on me for a long time and they've never been able to do it. You know what I mean? Like it's you need, I think you need all of this, like to learn. And I mean, I've heard like my last caller who called in and said she learned how to squirt through your program. It's because she did it this way. And by the way, I checked out that program. and it is amazing, very detailed, lots of videos, explicit videos, yeah, but they're informative. You need to see it, and it really helps. And they're explicit because that's what you need. But they're also beautiful and reverential.

They're a little bit like they're goddessy. And when you're trying to help a woman, you know, achieve the bliss of releasing her divine nectar, like, that's the words I want to hear. I don't want you to make me squirt. I want you to release my divine nectar, you know? That's just, that's what we ladies like. We want that sweetness. We want that goddessiness. And so the Touloula really made those videos for couples to watch together without feeling embarrassed.

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, they're amazing. And it's a really good program. There's so much in there that people get if they sign up. And I will say, though, that, you know, I don't know. for me, if some guy could come around and make me squirt, you know, he's going to, he's going to be number one in my book. Like, you want to be that guy to some girl. You take this program, be the guy

that teaches the girl to squirt. She's never going to forget you. Yeah. And that's what I like about female liquid orgasm is that it has all the different fingering, it's like a fingering portfolio. Right. Because she's going to respond to different things in different ways at different times on different days. So I think that's important. And also the sex positions. There's a couple of really good sex positions in female liquid orgasm that actually help the fluid come out. And I think that's also very important because it's super hot when she's squirting on your cock. Come on. Yeah. No, totally. Now, last question. And then I want you to just plug everything again so everyone knows where to go and what they get. Once you can squirt, I'm not a squirter, so I don't know. Is it something that you

could control as a woman, like in case you don't want to mess up a new partner's bed and you don't have the blanket underneath you? Or is it something that just will happen every time? Do you have control over it? Yeah, you have control over it. It doesn't happen every time. You have to want it and allow it to come out. There have been times when I've been surprised where I've been with someone and I've been so turned on that I just start squirting all over them. They probably think it's hot. But I don't stop myself. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm sure they don't want to. But I don't make love without a waterproof blanket under me because I want to just let everything go. Yeah, I could imagine. No, I mean, I know it's not a party trick, but I need to learn how to squirt. So why don't you give everyone

all of the information? I'm going to put links to everything. If anyone's listening to it on the podcast, they need to go to YouTube. You can see everything over there, but I'll have links in both places for everybody to go. It's sabedroom.com. And why don't you just go over everything of what they're going to get and what they should sign up for? Yeah. Basically, there's, I'm going to put everything at sabedroom.com so you don't need to worry about what link was where. I'm going to put the all of the tools. I'm going to put the all of the oils and I'm going to put the program itself and I'm also going to put the toy guide with the explicit videos of how to use the toys correctly on there too. So everything will be there at sabedroom.com like strictly anonymous,

sA, sabedroom.com. You could go to the description. The link will be in there. Thank you so much, Susan for calling in. When you were talking in the beginning about Femi Wave and all these different things you could do to talk, I feel like we need to do an episode one day on on that topic for women who are of a certain age and for men who are with them, different things that women could use when they go into menopause to help rejuvenate their pussies, vaginas, whatever you want to call it. Because I think it's important information a lot of women don't know and there's so many new things out there that women could do. Well, and that's interesting too, Kath, because there are a lot of things women can do and most of them I don't recommend. And I don't recommend for a lot of reasons.

So I would like to come back and talk about that. And what I'll do is I'll put the links to FEMIWave and Gaines Wave for men on there because I'm a spokesperson for the company. And I went to them and said, I would like to tell everyone about this because it is so effective. And they make me a special link that I don't get paid when you buy a FemiWave or anything just so you know. But they gave me a seventh treatment free if you use the promo code. And so I'll put that on Kathy's page at SA Bedroom for you in case you're like, I've gotten continents. I'm having a harder time coming.

My lubrication is shit. My husband's penis isn't as hard as it used to be. He's got delayed ejaculation. You know, like if you're struggling with those things, go check out Femmy Wave and Gaines Wave because those are the best for that. But I'll come back sometime and talk more about what I call sexual biohacking and sexual regenerative therapies. Yes, that's important. I'm 62 now, Kath, and we've known each other for a few years now, but at 62, I'm having the best sex of my life, and part of the reason that I am is that I've

gotten more and more skills and more and more confidence, but also that I have done some of these regenerative therapies like FemiWave that really keep my tissue in great shape. So it's, it's, it's It's never too late to reverse the clock on aging. It's never too late to have the best sex of your life. Sex keeps getting better as you get older. And for two decades, I've been teaching people how to have the bliss of female ejaculation. It is one of the core advanced techniques that never gets old. It's like I am a better squirder today than I was 20 years ago and I've been doing it for 20 years and I'll tell you something.

my husband loves it. I mean, I think he, I swear, he loves it more than I do. Like, there's something, guys just feel like they just got something really good done, you know? And they're just like so proud of themselves. Yeah, I'm telling you. We love a squirting sesh. We just had one yesterday. Yeah, I'm jealous.

You're bragging now, Susan. Listen, thank you so much for calling in. We're going to do that other episode coming up soon because I think that that's super important information that I know my audience is looking for because I get emails. So we'll talk again soon. Thank you so much for coming on. Everyone needs to go to sabedroom.com. All the links will be there.

And the link to essay bedroom will be in the description so people could just click on it. Oh, thanks. Bye, everybody. Love you bunches. I hope you squirt your hearts out. Bye. Thank you. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly

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