Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 782 - Nina had a Threesome with a Couple and it Wasn’t Ideal but she Kept Going Back

Episode Date: March 8, 2024

Nina had a threesome with a couple and it wasn’t ideal but she kept going back and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she decided to start looking for couples to hook up with, where she went looking for the couples. How long she researched it before she met her first couple, how going on hrt got her super horny and definitely played a part in her becoming a unicorn, the first couple she met online, the rules they had going in to their first hook up, exactly what went down during their first hook up, how and why she was disappointed, the second time and third time they all hooked up and exactly what what went down during those two additional hook ups, what the husband did and didn’t do that turned her off, how far she went with the wife and how much the wife participated, how she realized she needs a guy who is well endowed to get off, how and why she could have communicated her needs better, what she should include in her profile now so that she attracts exactly what she’s looking for, why she can’t meet someone where she lives, why she doesn’t dig older guys, what she enjoyed about hooking up with a couple, how and why she is now interested in meeting a younger guy to hook up with plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I'm giving out so much and it's five bucks, you know, and you are also supporting the show, which is great. So all of the links and the emails and the numbers and the websites and all that shit I just talked about are in the description. So you don't have to worry about writing it down today. I have on Nina. Nina's kind of funny because she's an older woman. She's in her 50s, went on some hormone replacement therapy, got horny. I've heard the story before. And she started to seek out a couple.

to have sex with. This was a woman who's always been very vanilla. She started really doing a lot of research figuring out what she wanted. She decided she was into a couple. I don't really know why because she's not into women. And we talk about all of this like in the episode. She wound up meeting a couple like right off the bat. So she became a third for this couple. She wound up screwing them three different times. She talks about every experience. It wasn't good though for her. He wasn't good in bed. His dick wasn't big. Turns out she winds up realizing she's a size queen. She wants a guy with a big dick. We also figure out what she should look for moving forward. So this is a really interesting episode because to me it's not so much a cautionary tale. She didn't do anything wrong. The couple really

didn't do anything wrong. But it's more of a story that shows you what you could do to improve your situation, what you learn from situations that aren't so great and how sometimes you can vet and we threw the bullshit on the apps to get what you're really looking for. She just is starting out on this journey. So to me, she needed some help. And I wound up giving it to her at the end. I think I kind of changed your mind of what she should be looking for. She might be what you're looking for.

She's hot at her age. And she sent me in anonymous picks and I have them over on my Patreon. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. So you got to listen to the episode to find out what she's looking for. She is a size queen though. So big Dix only need to apply. But anyway, you got to listen to her story. Like I said, it's interesting in that you could learn from it, I feel like.

That's why I like to air stories that don't have happy endings or aren't so perfect because that's real life. Okay? Not everybody hooks up on apps and it's great and it's so fucking hot just because it's dirty sex. That's not always the case. A lot of times it's a mismatch for one reason or another. And that's what we discuss in this episode. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Nina. Hi, Nina.

Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Hi, I'm good, Kathy. Thank you. Yeah, listen, Nina, you're hiding out in your car talking to me on the DL about your DL unicorn life. You are what people call a unicorn. I know that when you left up me a confession on the confessions hotline,

you were saying, like, I met this couple and I'm hooking up with them. And I guess maybe it's rare for them to find a third because they're so into me. It's like, yes, it is very. very rare. That's why they call it the unicorn. You are a single woman and you wound up meeting a couple and you've hooked up with them a bunch of times. We're going to get to that place and you're going to go into details with your stories and your hot threesomes with them. But like you did a lot of research and everything beforehand, right? It wasn't something that you just jumped into, correct? Correct. So I was making sure that I knew what this was.

It was a couple of videos that I had seen and I had heard something about rules and, you know, everybody being on the same page. And that's just kind of how I wanted to do things. Yeah, but let's go back even before that, Nina, okay? Because I don't want to get to start, like, start where you started looking for it. Like, let's go a little bit farther back because you don't sound like you're 22 and you're doing this. You know, I think you said you were married already. Have you been married? I was a long time ago, yes.

Okay. So you're married, divorced, your kids are grown out of the house. I remember you said that, same with the couple. So what was going on with you before this happened? And what change that you decided you want to do something like this? Because this is kind of like a late in life decision, later in life decision, right? Like how does it come up for Nina? So I just realized that I wasn't really living out my life due to different circumstances,

the way that I wanted to. And I was finally single, single, and researching some things, catching some video just while I would be cleaning the house. And there were some things that piqued my interest. And first it was from a psychological standpoint, like, how does a couple come to the decision in their relationship that they want to open it up or they want to welcome a third or and what does that look like for the third person? What does that look like for the married couple?

So I was really looking at it really intrigued by just the psychological standpoint. Yeah, I get it. That's what my show's all about. I love that kind of stuff. Yeah, and so I was really like listening to everyone, and it was case by case. There was no book to follow. There was no, it really was couple per couple or a unicorn per unicorn, whatever their rules were. And I really found that it would be important just.

so it's not a mess, to discuss those with each other before anything went down. And so I was researching that for a long time and just different dynamics that I wasn't into. But I knew that that would be something that I could possibly do. If you would have asked me that years ago, there would have been no way. Had you ever done a threesome been with a woman or had multiple men or anything like that? No. Did you even ever have any booty calls? No.

That's what I was thinking. Yeah, like always in a relationship or married. Yeah, relationship or single. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. It was never, well, that's my friends with benefits right now. I just, I was never friends with benefits. To me, it was either relationship or not.

And I think that's where everything started to unravel for me is that I was researching my own personal attachment style. Why was I attached that way? why wasn't I more whimsical about sex or more whimsical about just dating or sharing my body? It was always these rules. It was never any guilt around any of my, if I dated somebody for a little while and we didn't see each other anymore and it was an intimate relationship. There were never any rules around no shame about. Well, that didn't, you know, I never had a concern about like numbers. So, but what I wanted to do was make my life more fulfilling and how could I do that?

And yes, I am on hormone replacement therapy. Oh, I love it. Which kind? Which ones? Like injections, pellets or patches and cream? I do the pellets. Okay. I am on estrogen and testosterone.

Yeah. No need for progesterone because apparently, yeah. If you don't have a uterus. Yeah, yeah, you don't need the progesterone. Uh-huh. And that was a turnaround for me. But now how to tame that. How to tame that beast when it started to really, my numbers started to go back to normal.

And how do I remain in control, I'll just say. So a lot of self-pleasure and still researching my videos. And there was one person that I was involved with, I'm going to say casually. And I think I had decided not to date that person anymore because, it just wasn't going anywhere. And I think we both just came the conclusion that we adore each other, but he's just not going to settle down. That's just not where he is.

But did he know, but you didn't want to tell him that you were like looking maybe to have an open relationship or something? Is that what you were saying you didn't want to tell him about? It sounds like if he didn't want to settle down, he was probably would have been so down for the open relationship. Yes. Well, I think that he would now. Like if I want to say that, too, I think he'd be shocked because we've told each other

for almost 20 years. but I think that He was thinking you were trying to lock him down He had no idea that you were looking to bring in a third He would have been so fucking happy At that time I didn't know that I could do that with him Yeah yeah I got it So I think I'm better off right now

Where I am in this journey is to Engage in it with no attachments Yeah yeah I love that That's very specific I mean you listen All of this is very intentional on your part I mean you didn't go into this You didn't just jump off the ledge I mean, you really looked at it from every different angle to figure out what would be the right way for you.

Yeah. So my hope was that I would find a couple who were like-minded like me, perhaps maybe the same socioeconomic background or classy about intentions and rules and stuff like that. So I got on the app field and within zero time at all, like I don't think I closed the app. And there was already messages on there. I had no idea that it was this desired or people trying to find a third. But what did you put on there? Like a woman looking for a couple? Now, I need to know, are you just going to hook up with the guy?

Are you looking to hook up with the woman? Yeah. So, you know, you can click the boxes on what it is that you're desiring. or what it is that you're looking for. And then, you know, the app helps match. And then in my bio, I didn't think I wrote a bio. I really didn't. I really wanted to stay discreet.

I didn't write anything about me or what I was looking for. But so the one couple who live nearby me. But what were you looking for? Were you looking to just hook up with the guy or were you also looking to hook up with the woman? Are you by or are you just strictly into guys? No, not by. Okay.

So, yeah, just a couple. Just a couple that was looking for a third. And then when that couple appeared, then I would discuss with them what I was, you know, familiar with. So the first couple that replied seemed really cool by their bio, really laid back. I think they've been in the lifestyle for quite some time. I know they've been a couple for 14 or 15 years. And she's not bisexual either. And so I explained that to them.

I told them I was brand new and that I had never, but that I had been interested in in doing so. And so he said that was okay with them, that she wasn't really either. She probably wouldn't be doing much but watching. And then if the mood strikes her, she may just lightly engage or lightly touch. And that part I was okay with, but I was not okay with oral with whatever. So we decided on a place to meet, and which I thought was a good idea, that way I could decline or go through with it or not. And they seemed very, very nice. They just were very well-spoken and cute and really.

They're really seasoned in the lifestyle. So I thought I would just let them take the lead. And then we discussed some of our rules and stuff where we met in this bar. And I just had like wine or whatever. And that helped because I was super nervous getting. there and even while sitting there. And then I just kind of settled down and, and they were really cool to talk to. They were very open about their rules and stuff. And everything was very consensual with them. So, so we finished up, had a couple glasses of wine and then went to their

house. But what were the rules? Can you just tell me like what those rules were? They really don't have any. My rules were no anal play and that I really didn't want to engage with a woman at this time. This is where I am. This is my level of comfort right now. And so they were okay with it. I think really it's just they really love to see each other pleasure because they also have male partners that come into their relationship with play.

And he, of course, he's not by and he doesn't mess with the men, but loves to see her pleasured. But he's always engaged. She's never like in the corner watching. She's never just in the corner watching. They want to engage with their third person. Quick question. And I remember exactly where we're at.

You're about to go back to their house. But question for you, because you're not into hooking up with the woman at all. You just want to hook up with the guy. Why did you want to hook up with a couple together and not just go out and fuck random guys? Like, why a couple? What is it about the couple? You want a woman watching? Was it just like you saw it in porn and you got horny for that scenario?

What's the appeal for the couple? So I think the appeal for me was I didn't want someone over in the corner just watching. No, but why not a single guy? You know what I mean? If you want to go out and you're so fucking horning because you got it on pellets and you want to get fucked, right? You don't want to go down on a girl. It's not about being with women. You want to like fuck a guy.

Why a couple and not just random dudes? There was just something about enhancing. a couple's experience. And I love to make out. I'm very sensual. And I thought I would just try it. If it would have been a one and over with, then that would have been fine with me. But it was really just about me experiencing it and then and then maybe enhancing someone else's experience too. Okay. So we get back to their house and we have another glass of wine. We're chatting some And then he takes the lead, right? He starts walking back toward the bedroom.

And then they had already started touching each other while we were in the living room and stuff. So just to kind of get things going. So once we got back to the bedroom, it was, I was really relaxed. It wasn't anything out of the ordinary. It wasn't anything crazy. I think they started making out. And then we and then they wanted to kiss and make out with me. And then slowly the clothes started peeling off.

She gets him warmed up. So she basically goes down on her knees and she sucks him off first, gets him hard. There's a backstory to that too. And then once we lay down, it just kind of flowed. What's the backstory to her blowing him? So I think he has some health issues. So, you know, I think there's maybe. some of a Viagra that comes into play or something like that because I feel like I know this now

by engaging with them three times but I feel like I need a little bit more warming up and I don't mean chit chat or conversation or laughing or anything like that but more making out more feeling and touching and groping and I love all that that ramps things up for me and so but they just want to get down to it and so I just want to wasn't, I was like, oh, okay, okay. So this happening now? Well, am I? Hey, people wet? Hold on a second. So there were some things there, but they're very open to suggestions or mentioning different positions during their game. They're ready to try whatever, but it felt very mechanical. Like there wasn't any oral before sex. There wasn't any. So she basically lays,

beside me and we get into missionary. He and I did. And then I think it's someone's style of having sex or someone's, there was a lot. There was a lot I was taking at the moment, right? Okay, I'm not used to this, but we'll get into our rhythm. We'll learn about each other and we'll get into our rhythm. And she was okay. She was rubbing my arm and she was kind of cuddling up to me. And he was, he's used to that because they play all the time together. They never play separately. played together. And I think they explained to me that they, they had a point in time in their relationship where they did play separately. And it did not work for them. So they went back to playing together only. So she was rubbing my arm. And every once in a while, I know she's rubbing

all over my chest and my torso. And he likes to talk to her while he's fucking me. So he would say to her this feels really good and she goes does it babe and then he would say yeah she's really wet and he's like yeah well he's because your cock is in her that's why so they get off on that so that was something new for me and i just let them do their thing because that's what does it for him and i laid there and did my thing so i have a lot of hip movements and just trying to get into a groove and i wasn't sure that first time if i was going to be able to climax or not because I was so nervous, but I figured if I get into it and if it's good, then I know that I will. So, yeah, then I flipped him over and then I was riding him and then she'll sit up and then

she'll rub my back. So she really is like a light touching coach. She just was in there, but they didn't do a whole lot of dirty talk that the first night. I don't think any, oh, she came. She did come. So he'll go back and forth. Like one minute he'll be inside me. and then he switches over to her and then he'll switch back over to me so it's kind of like back and forth but is any of this hot to you are you like having any kind of fun here you're like this horny girl on pellets you when you are like a stranger to this world you were so horny that you sought out couples to go fuck them okay so this is like a naughty scenario and you're not even turned on by it at all because you're nervous disappointed on many levels yeah it doesn't sound hot

To me. Yeah. Okay. Okay. So come to find out, I like size and he just was not the size that I was hoping for, but I was willing to work with it because a couple of other podcasts I listened to, a lot of women like average size because it really hits a lot of their spots. It did not for me. It just maybe it's that quote unquote filled up feeling that I was missing. But like I said, I was going for it because. he was eager. I told my girlfriend the other day, it kind of reminds me of someone, if you've seen those sprinters like at the Olympic and someone's like bent over and they're waiting for the gun to go off so they can just take off running. That's kind of what he's like. There was no relaxed, sensual hip movements, no good stroke. It was all like G.I. Joe on top of me and out and out and out and out.

And it wasn't really pound town every once in a while he would feel the need to do that. Did he go down on you? The second time we were all together, he did. But it was after penetration because he realized that I'm over there now for the second time. And I have yet to climax. So he was now determined, right? And that wasn't any good. Oh, God.

This is the only couple you've hooked up with and has never been good. I just want to know if we're going. Well, this just all started like the beginning of January. January. Okay. So now we're, we're communicating back and forth by cell phones. And so I guess they both get the message whenever we're texting back and forth. So everyone's included. And what I noticed that he wanted to get together again, a couple nights later. So basically he's been in touch like every week once to get together twice a week. I didn't know that it was going to be that much. I figured it would be like every once in a while. But then again, I learned that each couple is different. Some people only want to have a third

person every once in a while. This couple also, all of our kids are grown and gone, so everybody has free time. But I didn't know that it was going to be every week, twice a week. I had no idea. That was a little bit more than I was willing, especially, I'm just going to tell you this right now. If it was good, I would be okay with it. I'd be okay with being exhausted the next day I work. I'd be on. okay with rushing home from work and taking a yeah but to me i just started saying to myself it's not even worth getting a shower and shaving my legs for i can't even so but they are very nice and i feel really grateful that this was the first couple that i had an exchange with because they're patient and kind and consensual and nothing crazy and it was good i just i now know what I am looking for or what I want. So the second time I go over there, I think each time that you with someone, it's going to get better.

Everyone gets more comfortable and more open and you learn each other's style and it's going to get better. Yeah, but let me ask you this because what makes sex better is not just like keep going back. It's communication. Like maybe you need to tell this couple of things. like what gets you horny? I mean, you can't expect him to read your mind. He's like just a guy that thinks he's going to get on time and on top of you and fuck you. Like maybe you need to say, listen, to make this a really hot experience, this is the way I get turned on.

I need more for play. Maybe you need to tell them. Like there needs to be more communication than what's the rules. There needs to be because this is just a sexual transaction. Like what you like sexually. You can't, you know, obviously he thinks. this is the way you roll. Like you have to maybe speak up for yourself.

Yes. I don't know. Yeah. I agree with you on that. Because, and now I know that for next time for the next couple. Yes. Be specific. Take care of yourself.

This is like one of those things. You're going in for sex, okay? Like you want the sex to be good. You might have to speak up and say this is what I enjoy. It's only going to help the situation. It's only helpful for everybody involved. That guy wants you to fucking come. He's probably frustrated that you're not climaxing.

Tell him what you want. Maybe he'll be more than happy to provide that so that he could get the pleasure of you coming. Like I think sometimes it's a matter of people not telling their partners what they want. Yeah, I think those two, I believe that. I think they've been the lifestyle long enough that anything that I would ask for or say whatever, they would be, you know, okay with or they just wanted to be pleasurable for everyone. Of course. So the second time I go over there, it was, we stayed home. We didn't go out. So we had drinks at their house first and chatted, caught up. And then the second time, I would say a little bit more relaxed because I know what to expect from them. They warmed up the same way. They started baking out. She sucked him off. I think that time I probably sucked him off after she sucked him off. And it was more open that time. And I figured,

okay, here it goes. We've got a good, a good start. Everyone's like licking and sucking and enjoying or whatever. It's just something about the minute. I think I got on top of him first, the second time we were together. And he likes to be written and he likes to be written hard. And so cool. That's the way you like it. And then he flips me around. There were missionary, and they have their own little conversation, their dirty talk going on. And I would say that was better. I was at least trying to get my mind in the moment of climaxing and just really relaxing and trying to enjoy it.

I couldn't help but wish the whole time that I wished that he was bigger. And they both have great physique's very fit body. So that wasn't anything that was unattractive to me. But he just not that big. But I learned the second time that we were together that he's had some prior health issues with an illness. And I think that's been very hard for him. It was, even though it was a decade ago, I think that that illness is making a return. And so he, he's going through some stuff right now. So I probably won't be seeing them much anymore because I think he's going to go down the path

of some more treatments and stuff. So. But you did see them a third time. Did you come the second time? No, I've yet to. I didn't come any. But you went back a third time. I did. Okay. Thinking that it was going to be even better. And I think because of his health issues. Even though you haven't said anything to them and you haven't communicated, you keep going back. No, he has. He has communicated. Did you? No, no, but you haven't. Did you tell him I'm not coming because of this and that? Yeah, don't worry. I will. I just need to get relaxed and get to the point where I can relax and then But you weren't really saying the truth. It's not what it's not really rolling the way you like it.

You're not going to tell him he's small. Okay. But I'm just saying it's more than that, isn't it? I don't want to say that. I do think that it would make a difference for me if he were bigger. Right. So that's something you can't say. No.

Mm-hmm. So I'm not sure what to do rather than just kind of like. Well, and he's bad at oral. You know, you can't get off orally? Yeah, no, that wasn't good at all. Here's what's bad. So second time he went down on me after he realized. he realized that I was not orgasming from penetration.

So he went down on me and it just, you know, wasn't doing it. I don't know how to explain it. He just is not, there's not a whole lot of pressure, not a whole lot of tongue movements, not a whole lot of, I guess it works for them maybe, I suppose. I don't know. But you didn't tell him like, could you do it a little harder? Could you move down a little bit? Can you do this?

I did tell him that at one point that he needed to go up a little higher more toward the clit. Yeah. Maybe I just told him, you can stick a finger in at the same time. And so he's like, okay. And it just wasn't happening. I just wasn't turned on by by anything that he did. But I tried. I really think that I gave it the old college try. And it just wasn't working out. So the third time I went over there, it was nice. He made dinner and all of us then made our way to the bedroom. He's very good down to business. I think it's the energy that I'm. following with him because I think that he's all about the fucking all about let's get fucking or and you feel that like his body his muscles are all engaged nothing's relaxed and the sensual part right just fall into me just lay on top of me and put all your body weight on there but instead he's like on his elbows like army crawling I do not explain it just wasn't very sensual so with me giving him some suggestions and stuff. So the third time I went over there, we started out with more foreplay, which I thought, okay, I said, yeah, this is great. So he said, sit on my face. So I did,

straddled his face, like facing the headboard. And then she mounted him behind me with her face, like facing the back of my head. So we're both facing the same direction. And I don't know. Maybe he hadn't shaved his face in a couple of days. I don't really like facial hair. No, it hurts, actually. I fucking hate that. It was hurting. It was hurting.

It was hurting. It was hurting. It's like, oh, my gosh. So it was hurting like the inside of my thighs. It was hurting my whole pussy. It just, it was whiskers everywhere. And I'm thinking, why do I go spend 100 bucks on a Brazilian wax? And you can't even.

So the second and the third time that I was over there, he just really struggled to he's having a hard time breathing and it just and then they and then they invite me over again like even after the third time and i just was really not only does my heart go out to him i feel bad for him but it wasn't this sexual experience that i i wanted or i desired i really tried to remove myself away from like okay get porn out of your head don't trump it up to be anything more just see what it is. And I would think that two people who have been in the lifestyle for a while and have lots of experiences with different people would be maybe a little bit more, how do I want to say it, knowledgeable or sexual or better?

Better, yeah, they weren't. And so they have taught me a lot through conversations about the lifestyle and things that they have encountered, they did say that it is very hard to find a female. But they don't care if it's a bisexual female or not because she's not going to engage, but most of their male partners that come in for her. I don't really care about them. This is a story about you. I would hope that you're not going to go back unless you're having conversations with them about their whole life story. Who cares? Move on to the next one. Did I mean like, what are you going to do next? Like, what's your plan? My plan now is to be more

open verbally, vocally, with what it is that I'm looking for. And whether that be through my bio, whether that be in person, whether it be through chat, I definitely need to say, I'm not sure how to say it yet. That's probably some Google searches or maybe some Reddit I'll have to do. Well, why don't you just, I don't know why you don't know how to say it. Just say what you mean. Like, just say what you're looking for. What size are you? That's what I want to know. So you say I'm looking, you know, I'm a straight female looking for a man, a couple where the man is well in doubt. Okay. I'm into sensual play.

I love foreplay both in and out of the bedroom. I need that. Blah, blah, blah. Be specific. Weed out the trash. As a unicorn, you're going to get a lot of people hitting you up. So you're going to be more in the power of position. You're not the couple looking for that single girl who's got to take what they fucking can get.

You're going to get a lot of couples. I don't know how hot you are, but a lot of couples are looking for a third partner to come in and play with. You know, I don't know if this was the only couple who hit you up, but I would typically think that you would get a lot of couples hitting you up. And the best way to weed through the trash is to be as specific as you can be up front. So you just the people that you do vet, you that you know that they're what you're looking for. And then you take it from there. Yeah. I also wanted to be better at that, to be better at verbally saying what I wanted and no shame in it.

This is what I want. This is what desire. Otherwise, I'm not down from eating up or whatever. I do like size. I do like a bigger penis. I do like sensual people. This is the kind of making out that I like, this kind of sex that I like. So I think moving forward, I probably would play more.

like in the next town over or two towns over. I don't know that I would play in the town that I live in. Again, just because of the choices, the options aren't there. Why? Why your town is full of ugly people or small-dict men? You live in a town with a tiny guy? How about if I say they're full of old people? Oh, you live in Florida?

No, I'm sure. Yeah. And so it's just not... How old are you, by the? away. I'm 58. Okay. And what age do you let? What was the age of the couple? They were 54. Okay. What is your age range? I would say, I don't think that I would go any younger than, let's say, 35. And what would you not go older than? I don't think I'd go over 55. Okay. I mean, if you were older than 55, and I would have to see it and examine and everything.

I think men run into complications and I've already dealt with that. So I just would prefer no complications. Okay. To make it a better experience as far as men run into some prostate issues when they get older. And it's unfortunate, right? But it's just not something that I want to deal with. I've already dealt with that. And so, and I think I even ran into it this time with this couple,

I could tell that he was struggling at some point in time. And it really delays play because he would pull out and he would sit back, grab some lube there in jack off or rub it out for a minute. And then he was hard again. And then he would. I know. But in all fairness, you didn't have orgasms either. You know, I mean, he could say the same thing.

He could be like, oh, this bitch couldn't come. And you're like mad if a guy can't get it up, but you can't come. No, I couldn't come when he was hard. I know. But I'm just saying that there's a lot of people in the lifestyle. It's not like uncommon sometimes for men or women to have performance anxiety because this is a stranger. You're fucking them. Sometimes it's in front of other people.

The wife is there. Sometimes like shit happens, but it doesn't mean that it's permanent. You're saying you would never deal with that, but they had to deal with you never coming the whole time. So I mean, people sometimes have issues. It's a, you have to be comfortable in these situations. And I think that comes with not so much, oh, how old somebody is or whatever. I don't know. I know some six-year-old guys who could get it up in two fucking seconds. And because there is Viagra, I just think that just because this guy had a little bit of

that issue, you should think that that's going to be across the board is what I'm saying. Oh, for somebody older? Yeah. How old are you? You're 58 and you won't even fuck a guy your age? Oh, my gosh. No, because I know that there's performance issues there. You have performance issues. No, I had problems with his dick. size. I'm going to promise you that I've never had a problem or I've never had a problem orgasm ever.

Yeah. I mean, the fact that you couldn't even get off on oral sex, how bad is he? To me, oral sex is like pizza. Even if it's not good, it's good. No, I don't know. How bad was his time? And some people just aren't good lovers. And no, but I love that you're having this reawakening and you're really seeking things out and you're doing things completely different and you've completely changed your life. That takes balls. I just think maybe you need to speak. You. up for yourself more because maybe a little can you do this and move down and go a little harder can you give me more pressure a little telling someone exactly what you fucking want goes a long way i was always a bossy bitch in bed i always had great sex with whoever i was with because i told them

exactly what i wanted because i have no problem speaking up with myself but it always amazes me how many women especially women unfortunately don't have that strong of a voice for some reason and so i think now that you're finding your sexuality, find your voice too. Be a little bit more ballsy with what you want and specific about it and ask for it. In the moment, beforehand, at all times, we communicate a lot.

And if you have no problem getting off, but the dick has to be big because that's who you fucker. There's nothing wrong with that. Plenty of people are like that. And there's plenty of guys out there with a big dick that's going to be happy to bang you out. So put that in your profile. Yeah, I should. And I wasn't sure that I would seek out another couple again or stay on field or not. I wasn't sure if I was just going to do some heterosexual hookups. Like I just don't ever do hookups. Maybe I would just do heterosexual hookups. Yeah, that's why I was wondering why couples. Like, is that what you're specifically into? Because it's like a certain kink. And there's nothing wrong with that. That's what I would assume you have. Because if not, why not just go out and look for guys with big dicks to fuck? I think for me, It was, like I said, leveling up or enhancing someone else's experience, plus getting a new experience myself.

Yeah, I mean, it should be about you. I mean, you're not, you don't know these couples. You're not Mother Teresa. You need, you know, I mean, it's like, what about that? It's more about, like, where you're coming from and what you're looking for. To me, it was interesting that a woman who's totally straight and not into doing anything with a woman wants to go out and fuck a couple. I would think it would be because there's something about watching a couple fuck in front of you, because there's going to be that.

Was that hot for you to see him fuck his wife in front of you? Is that a part of it? Yeah, it was because he had just pulled out of me and then stuck it in her. And I thought, okay, and she didn't mind, didn't flinch. And yeah, she's a squirter. So that was interesting. That was really cool to see. And then he would fuck her for a few minutes and then he would pull out and come back over to me.

So it was when I saw him fucking. her. It was cool because I thought, here we all are. We're comfortable. And I'm watching him fuck his wife. And she's totally cool with it because he just got done fucking me. And it was new to me. I'd never seen anything like that before. But it was okay to me in the moment. There was like nothing wrong. It was all consensual. Everybody was holding hands or everyone was touching each other. There was no one left out. And she she wouldn't care. And we don't have to be. touching her all the time. She just likes to see it and likes to see him pleasureed. That's her erotic thing. She likes to see him pleasured. And I could see that. I could see where that would be

a turn on. But it just, I don't know, I just thought it was going to be hotter or more satisfying or, I don't know. And you're right. They can't read my mind. I guess I do need to say. But I just think that moving forward, I probably would choose another couple to express those things. but then be more open with and make sure that I communicate myself better. No, listen, I brought that up because like I said, out of situations that don't go right, it's always like a learning experience. What did you learn so it wasn't not worth your time?

I think it's important that you have that experience because a big thing is, oh, okay, you know what? I am a size queen. And unless I'm filled up, because maybe your husband was really big, or you always were lucky enough to get partners that had huge dicks. So you're used to that. And that's how you rolled.

There's nothing wrong with that. Plenty of women are like that. You're like, okay, now I know that. You learn that. And I think the other thing you should take from this is that I think you should be more specific about what you're looking for. You want a lover and you want partners that are into your kind of plate. Like I just aired a guy who is into the lifestyle and he likes to hook up with couples.

But it's very important for him to have it be very sensual and passionate. He doesn't want to just go in and fuck. And this is a guy. Okay. And that's just how he rolls. And he's very specific. I thought that was just me. That's cool. It's cool.

You're a guy. Yeah. Yeah, that's a guy. A lot of women are like you too. And plenty of people are like that. They want it to be passionate. They want they're going to be there in the moment. Some people are just, they want it to be efficient, quick, what and done, boom, see later.

But a lot of people are that way. So you just want to say that specifically because, you know, that then you're going to be more apt to find that exact couple that you want. And then you won't have to be like, go move to the right, move to the left. But a little of that goes a long way. I don't know why more people don't just fucking speak up. in the moment. Can you put two fingers in if you want two or more or one? Like you said, I'll put a finger in two or move up a little bit. Yeah, you have to do that as well because these are new partners. He would ask me prior to them doing something like say he was inside me one time and we were

fucking and she was laying beside me but she reached over with her hand and she was on my pussy and then she had her hands on his dick. She wanted her hand in there, which I thought that was really cool. I thought that was really hot. And then he said stick a finger in her while his dick was in there. And so he likes to feel her finger inside of me while his dick is inside of me. Okay. Did she do that and were you cool with that? And was that hot for you? She did. It was okay. It was a little distracting at first because you know, you're not used to it. I'm like, which one do I focus on? You know what I mean? The dick or the finger? Oh yeah. I don't know. Well, I don't know. I was like, okay. Well, how does that?

Does this feel? The closer she got to my clip, the better it was. She never really reached up high enough to get to the G spot. But I think that, yeah, I just, the whole thing just wasn't a good experience. Okay, but you didn't tell me before that she fingered you. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, she never did that by herself. It was only upon request from him to stick her finger in there while he was in there still. And then he would continue to talk to her still. Do you feel that? You feel how wet she and she would reply to him, yeah, it's because you're a cox inside of very fucking. You should go deeper. I think you should go deeper.

And none of this turned you on enough to come. Let me ask you this. Really, you turned on at all? You were wet if he's saying, oh, you feel how wet she is. I like to talk because it was new and it was hot. If it would have actually turned, if it would actually turn me on that much where I would have, like, when she said go deeper, I'm like, that's probably it. Barry that fucking thing. I'm not kidding you.

just go ham right now. He just, he won't. He just, it didn't do it. So I don't know. I thought, okay, this is not going to work. This is not going to work. And I was moving my hips around trying to help him get that spot or, or stimulate one of my spots. But I'm like, there's, I can't, there's nothing happening.

So then, like I, like I said, I'll go over there a third time, try to relax some more talk. and then really start making out the way that I want all of us to make out in the very beginning. And as soon as penetration starts, as soon as sex starts, he's in full-on sprinter mode. I don't know how to explain it. He just can't relax his body and really get into it. So I would say if I were to go over there a fourth time, I would definitely communicate that to them. No, no, no. Don't bother, please.

Don't go there a fourth time. His dick is not big enough. You already stated that it's never going to satisfy you. Just forget about them. You were disappointed that he had a little couple of issues. Why would you go back? Call it a day. Yeah, I don't want to.

And my girlfriend's like, that's where you, now, let go. You're not hurting my feelings. These people are part of the lifestyle. You could never talk to them again or never see them again. And they'd be okay. They're just going to get on the app and find someone else or find another connection. And not, I just didn't, I didn't have any plans on really quote unquote hooking up with someone twice a week every week. I have two jobs and an online business.

And so it's a lot, right? Yeah. And so that just didn't work out. Let me ask you this. Okay, have you up to your app profile? Have people been hitting you up? Do you have other options of other couples? I thought about, no, I have not to answer your question.

Okay. I have not changed my profile. I actually put myself into a hidden mode on the app. I may try another app. Why do you put yourself in a hidden mode? I think because they were still on that app. I don't know. Maybe I felt weird or bad about it or whatever.

You felt like you need to be faithful to them? No, I'm not faithful to them. But the people that were popping up and being matched with me or people that were available, like I said, this is a, this is retirement down here. It's time. It's gotten a little bit younger. but not a whole lot. So, but I would like to find an app where I could maybe seek some play out of my zip code or out of my county.

So that would be nice to see other options there too. And then I think that moving forward, I know now to be more communicative. I know now how to say how I like my foreplay, my fuck play, my desires, my dick size, my, I have no problems with now saying what I want because this journey was all about me and exploring this new thing in my life. And I had really been in an abstinent for a year and a half. And then before that, it was just the one partner that I was with. And so now it's free. I'm not attached to anybody.

I don't want any attachments to any of these people. I just want these experiences. And from what I understand, the community is very, very, welcoming and very nice. I just have to find someone that that I'm in sync with. Yeah, you've only tried once. Oh my gosh. I know. And you try the first people that came your way. Listen, there's also an untop market that you might want to get into since you like younger people. Try to be like the mill for the gilf, looking to fuck young guys. That might be a

that angle too. Yeah. Yeah, I have started watching some of those videos. I just I had to figure out how much younger that I would go, but it would be really nice to. Yeah. lot of young guys are into that. That's like a, that's like a niche thing that you could market yourself as, not just someone looking for couples. Look for some young, hot guys with big dicks to fuck you. There's a lot of those guys out there that are into that. It's like age. Are those specific websites? Are those apps or they? On the apps. Make sure you're, you're, that you're looking for either couples or with the, the man is well hung or young hot studs with big cocks. Just tell what you fuck I want. It's a sex app.

to be able to fuck over and over and over would be right. Yeah, you're going to find that with the real young guys. And a lot of those guys are looking for an older woman. It's like a kink or a fetish or whatever. Yeah. So you should tap into that for sure. Maybe try that since you're not into the girl and you don't really care. It was kind of hot that she was there.

But it doesn't sound like she added that much to the table for you because you couldn't even, right? So why couples? I don't know. Try another couple. but I think also open yourself up to really young guys that want a fucking older woman. No strings attached. No bullshit. No dinners.

Just let's fuck. Yeah. Yeah. Really, basically, that's about it. And then I think someday if I'm done with that. A 25 year old guy would love that. That's why they like older women because they're just like, oh, they know that they're not going to have to deal with all the stuff they deal with a younger woman who is

going to want to get taken out to dinner and go to the movies and want text and all that stuff as they should. But you're not looking for that. You just want to fuck. You've got a busy life. Yeah. I don't want to get married. I don't want any kids.

Yeah. Yeah. For a short time, that's great for a 25-year-old. He's not going to put a ring on it. That's not what you want. So it's a very transactional, great kind of matchup. The older woman, that's super horny with the younger guy that could fuck like a rabbit. Yes.

Not like a rabbit. Not like that other guy. He's just not going to get on top of you to stiff and fuck you. Like, you know, a guy that'll take his time. And listen, I think that. what you get sometimes with the younger guys sometimes, you know, because you're the older woman and he's a young guy and he's going to be so happy to be fucking you with no strings attached. Like I just think you might get a guy that's really going to cater to you sexually because he's really going to want to show you how fucking good he is. So he might perform better because he's less jaded.

He hasn't been there, done that. So I say tap into that on your profile. Try that for a little bit. Oh, my God. That would be great. It would. It would. Yeah, I think that would be great.

I think that is, that's it. I just, the no strings attached and to satisfy me, really. Yeah, you have to say well hung. I, one of my first boyfriends, I called him Big Dick Nick. He had a really huge cock, like a Tommy Lee one. It was like really big like that. And it was amazing. And when you get used to that, it's very hard to be satisfied by something.

that's smaller. Now, I didn't have a lot of those dicks after, so eventually I got used to smaller dicks and I'm okay, but I still like a little bigger one, but it doesn't have to be as big, but I remember after being with that guy for many years and just fucking him, like it was very, it was hard to be satisfied by someone that was way smaller or average because he was so big and filled me up so much. So if that's the way you are, that's the way you are. There's plenty of guys with bigger dicks out there that would be happy to fuck you. Yes, I need to look for that. I'll spend some time on it this weekend and see if I can't.

And what's like your body type and what are you on a scale of one to ten? Are you going to send me some anonymous picks for my Patreon? I'm going to. And where do you want this picture sent? You can email them, email them to me, please. And make sure they're anonymous. Okay. Okay.

I'm five foot five. I'm about 122 pounds. I am fit. I've worked out for years and long, blonde hair, blue eyes. So you're a hot milf, hot milf gilf. I don't even know what gilts are at this point. You're probably like, you can have great-guilf is a grandma. I'm not a grandma yet. But you could be. I'm like, yeah, she's 20, my daughter 26. There isn't, no kids yet. Yeah, I don't know how you market yourself, but if you're a hot, older woman, there's a bunch

of guys out there that are looking for you. So get those picks. Send me the picks, okay, because I have a whole audience that's going to want to check you out. Probably some young guys that are listening to this. I just offered you up. But send me some picks. And then when I do air your episode, I will give you access to my private Discord where you could meet some people. All my listeners go over there. I have over 2,000 people on there. So it's kind of like a dating app. People are hooking up.

So you never know. That would be amazing because I would be willing to travel for sure for the right situation. Okay. Make sure you put that on your app profile. Could you please update your app profile looking for a well-endowed younger guy who could satisfy me all night? looking for sensual play, love for play. You know, be very specific and post your hot pecks and you're going to find a guy. And say, willing to travel for the right situation.

Yeah, I would. Yeah, that's important to say. Okay, so are you going to send me the link to Patreon? When your episode airs, I'm going to give you access to my Discord and you'll go in there and say, hey, I'm Nina from the episode that just posted and you could start talking to everybody. I mean, you could, you know, I give you that for free. Sounds good. All right.

Nina. I wish you luck. By the end of this year, you've got to get back to me and tell me how many young studs you fucked. I will. I'll circle back around with some more experiences for sure. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Awesome. Thanks, Nina. All right. Thank you. Bye. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous confession. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers is now available, not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said,

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