Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 799 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS- "Daddy" Tells her What to Do, He's Into Public Masturbation?!, He's Into Interracial Porn and More

Episode Date: April 3, 2024

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Kathy’s take on them. You’ll heard from a woman who has a “daddy” who doesn’t allow her to wear panties, a guy who is into public masturbation (?!,) an alpha guy who is into men, women and pegging, a black guy who loves race play, a guy who is cheating with his neighbor who is also his wife’s friend and a guy who has the opportunity to cheat but doesn’t want to. Then you’ll hear Kathy talk all about how and why playing out your fantasies with your partner is great and could add a lot to certain relationships, how and why Kathy couldn’t date a controlling guy, why masturbating in public is the wrong thing to do on every level and how and why the guy should stop, how to rewire yourself after you’ve been worked to dig something that’s not healthy, how people can live out their exhibitionist side in a healthy way, why every guy should try anal action and the move that works to get either a woman or man into anal play, how and why a lot of women wind up liking pegging their guys, degrading sex and how and why its hot to certain people, why some guys cheat and some don’t, how flirting and chemistry doesn’t necessary have to equal cheating plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. That's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The links to everything and the number, the phone number and all that good stuff is in the description. So like I said, a million times today is a confessions episode. I have a bunch of naughty confessions here. The first one, oh my God. The first one I kick off is from a woman who loves to talk about her daddy, and her daddy's her husband.

Her daddy's a piece of work. You got to hear what her daddy's into and what she does for him. That's the first confession. The second confession is from a guy who loves jerking off. And when he's jerking off, he's crossing a line. You got to hear about it. What he's doing is definitely out of control. Then we hear from a guy who loves men and women and pegging.

And then you're going to hear from a guy who digs interracial porn and scenarios. That's a real interesting confession that he has going on there. And then I have two confessions that I ran back to back because they kind of are similar. One is the first one is a guy who's cheating with a neighbor. He's been cheating with her for a long time, and he talks about that story. And then you hear from a guy who called in because he has insane chemistry with someone, and he doesn't want to cheat. And that's a super interesting one.

Two, the way these Confessions episodes roll is first, or the confession, and then I give my critique, and I wind up confessing to a lot of things and talking about a lot of different interesting topics along the way. People have been asking me to keep my intro short, so I'm going to, if you want to know more about what's going on in this episode. Read the description. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with the first confession. Hey, Ms. Kathy, first time caller.

But Daddy says, I ate no pennies, no undies when he's home. He's a trucker and no panties, no undies. So when he's away, I go out to the bar, no panties, no undies. And I take pictures and show him the reaction. Daddy always approves. Daddy wants a three-thum. I'm a little iffy. Daddy calls me the higher help.

I am. I accept it because I know he's an asshole. But let some bitch step up in. I already told him. But anyways, my step down inside, I feel like I'm doing something bad, but then at the same time, I like it. It turns me on. It's exciting.

And when I'm with him, everything is good. Honestly, I trust him. But only with him. He tells me when he's the way, he's a trucker. So he's away on the road. He's take pictures, go to the bar, no panties, no bra, take a picture. Take a picture of my guy hitting on him. Video.

And then I can't, I don't feel comfortable without him, but daddy, he wants it. So lately I've done it. Okay. Now, I don't know if you could all hear, daddy quote unquote in the background there were parts at the end of each time she called in because she had to call them like three separate times you could hear daddy instructing her oh my god and did you hear when she said daddy says I'm the hired help oh my god daddy if I marry daddy I'd be chopped up in a fucking garbage can somewhere because I wouldn't listen to a guy like that so rude but she does

Okay, this is her guy. Daddy tells her not to wear underwear, go out and take pigs. Listen, if this is what they're into, there's nothing wrong with that. Like, how hot is that? He's on the road. He's out and about. He obviously is like a lot of guys that I know that are really into their girls being wanted by other guys. That totally turns them on. Obviously, Daddy is into that. He wants to have a threesome. I'm assuming that's not with a woman. I'm assuming his threesome is with another man. and he wants to see his girl, fuck another guy, because he's obviously, like I said, into guys checking his girl out. He literally tells her, go out no bra, no panties, and take pictures of guys watching you. So I'm assuming she's like flashing guys, I don't know, or telling them she doesn't have panties and then taking pictures of their reaction, turns them on.

But, you know, listen, if that's what they're into, why not? It's kind of like a hot role play thing. I'm sure the guys in the bar are happy to, catch a free glimpse and they're all for it and then I'm sure her guy loves knowing that she's doing it. It's all on the up and up. It's completely consensual. Daddy loves it. She's obviously into doing whatever he's down for. It sounds like she's into it too. I just wonder. Like I said, I know because I heard Daddy in the background kind of coaching her at times. You had to really listen to it, but I could hear it. So I wonder, does she do everything for daddy and how much does she do for herself?

The fact that he calls her hired help means she probably cooks and cleans and does everything else. Plus satisfies him by going out with no bra, no panties. Now, listen, she probably definitely gets something out of the attention she gets from the guys when she's out and about, right? Why not? And then she probably loves the fact that she's turning her guy on when he's out. I think it would be hard to be with somebody that's like on the road a lot. So this is a great way for them to stay connected and for her to feel like she's still pleasing her man when he's not there with her.

Right. So they're having fun. It's kind of like a really super interesting confession. But last thing I have to say is if someone makes you call them daddy and is telling you what to say when you're on the phone and is making you call someone miss Kathy. then it's good that you fucking listen to him because that's a controlling dude and like when I say I would be chopped up in a garbage bag

I would this is a guy that needs someone like you that listens to everything he says okay if you ever decide to leave him text me help I'll come save you because you'll be in fucking trouble you don't want to be a dateline episode all I'm saying is listen to daddy

Anyway, on to the next confession. Hey, I guess my confession is more of a kink, which I love it, but I feel a little uncomfortable like I may be on the pervert side. I love masturbating almost to the point where it's more enjoyable than sex. I love being caught in public. It is a major turn on for me. I love, for example, my neighbor, I make sure that my neighbor, I make sure that my neighbor and see me naked as much as possible.

I think she enjoys it. I love masturbating while driving down the road in my car, showing up as much as I can. I guess I'm just wondering if it's somewhat normal. I feel, like I said, I feel like it's almost on a perverted side where almost scolded for it if it was found out my friends, I guess. Creating is like, again, one of my priorities, almost on a daily basis, twice a day.

I do have a fairly decent side And I've never told you my partner's this or I'm a single now But it's something I would love to share with A partner, but it's almost on the embarrassing side But it's exciting Okay, yes, it's abnormal And yes, I'm going to scold you Okay, because it is illegal

Definitely perverted People use perverted that word all the time In the wrong way Perverted is something that is like sexually abnormal and unacceptable, okay? What you're doing is unacceptable because it's like non-consensual. You are like putting yourself out there in front of people who are not looking for you to put yourself out there. When I was younger and I would go into the woods, there was like a naked guy who would run after us and he would be jerking off the whole time. Five years from now, that could be you. Okay,

because the more you do stuff like this, the more you're going to need that thrill. And I get why it's hotter to you than regular sex because there's such a charge attached to something like this because it's so naughty and it's actually, I think even illegal. I would make a bet that your neighbor, quote unquote, is not loving seeing you naked. I don't know why you think that, but I would say there is a 99.9% chance that the woman that lives next to, you is not watching you walking around naked and is like horny for it. Okay. I don't know if she's not seeing it all and you just think she is or she's seeing it and she's horrified, but I don't know many women that would see that and get turned on by it. But maybe I'm projecting, okay? I don't know.

But what I also think is that you could get in a lot of trouble doing something like that. masturbating out in public, like I said, is, I think, illegal on a certain level, right? Exposing yourself to people. That's basically what that guy was doing in the woods chasing after us. Now, I know that sounds a lot more extreme than what you're doing, but it kind of is the same thing. You want to be seen by other people and caught by other people and that gets you horny, but that's not consensual. And it's fucked up. And it definitely is something you should keep to yourself, what I would say is you need to rewire yourself back into like in regular sex. And the only way you could do that is if you keep denying this part of you that goes out and drives around masturbating

with no clothes on, you got to cut that shit out. I know that the pull is so strong to go do that because you get so horny and it gives you a rush like no real sex can ever give you. I get it. But that's the reason why you can't stop. And that's also the reason why real sex will never. be good for you. But I do believe and promise you that if you stopped doing it and stopped giving into that desire to cross those lines, because you were crossing lines, you are pushing people's boundaries, you are doing something that is not cool and definitely, quote unquote, perverted, meaning unacceptable and abnormal, okay, and not right. If you stopped following that pull and stopped doing it over time, it would lose its appeal and second.

would become satisfying for you again. I personally think when you are addicted to stuff like that, but you're kind of like the hamster on the wheel. I don't know how you stop because like I said, I know there must be a real intense pull for it. And that's how you've been getting yourself off for so many years. I think it's good that you never put it on the table with a partner. Because if I, if some guy told me that he was into that,

I would, it would be like a deal breaker. I feel like, oh my God, you're almost like criminal. Do you know what I mean? Like it's not cool. Okay. But what you can do if you find a new partner when you do is instead of maybe going out and living out your masturbating in public fantasies, you could mock them up at home. Just start doing that. Let your partner know that you're an exhibitionist.

You like to be watched and play out scenarios with your partner in the privacy of your own home in a consensual way that she could pretend she's a stranger, right? There's a difference. If you're watching porn and you're watching like an act. exhibition is someplace and getting caught. On porn, that's not real life stuff. That's made up, right? But you couldn't do those things in real life because they are illegal. You can't be out in public masturbating. You can't expose yourself that way. That would be wrong. But you can mock that out and give in to that part of you that likes that kind of thing that's into that kink. But if you do it in a way that's safe and consensual and legal, like in the privacy of your own home, with your partner,

instead of flashing yourself to your neighbor who like I said I do not believe she's interested in seeing you but I need more details I don't know that you're calling me for advice it sounds like there is a part of you that knows if this is quote unquote wrong I personally think it's very wrong and I think that you should kick the habit before you get in trouble because you can get in trouble and how fucking embarrassing would that be Okay, like how embarrassing if you're like on the side of the road pulled over by cops naked for jerking off and you have that on your record. What would you be labeled? Like what would that say on your record? I don't know. It could like literally ruin your life. So think about that next time you're going to do it.

I know that that's a cock block and that ruins the fun, but that's the point of it. You need to ruin this fun. You need to kill this fucking hot wire that you wired yourself. into because it could really seriously get you in trouble because it's illegal, I think. Now, I don't know if people are going to disagree with me or not, but I don't, I don't really care. I think that I'm right. And I think that you should try to kick the habit. Like I said, do not do it anymore. Abort plan. Don't go. And then eventually you'll enjoy sex. I mean, like what partner that you're with in the future is going to be interested in being with a guy that's not that into sex.

sex, people could tell when someone's not into it and when somebody's someplace else. And if you're like not there when you're having sex with someone because you're thinking about driving around masturbating to strangers instead of being present and intimate with the girl that you love, it's not going to be that great and something's going to be missing for your partner. And that's going to get in the way of your relationships too. So I think for so many reasons, the obvious reasons as well as the ones that I just stated so you can have a better partnership so that you don't ruin your life by getting busted. You should try to kick the habit and rewire yourself into more mainstream things.

And if you have that exhibitionist in you, mock it up in Fantasyland, stay home, jerk off to thoughts of jerking off out in public. Also, you could go to a nude beach. I went to one once, and I think that's when I first realized. Like, there's something kind of hot about being totally naked in front of people. So when the summer comes, if you're not in a warm place like I am, and it's not summer yet, when the summer comes, look for a nude beach and go there. I don't care if it's an hour or two away. Just get in your car and drive there.

And don't masturbate on your way there naked, okay? You don't want to get stopped by the cops and get busted in decent exposure. Make it there without masturbating. And then go there and take your clothes off and walk around naked. You're going to be so into it. That's a place where it's cool and it's legal and it's consensual. and you're allowed to do it. And people walk around with hard ons.

Okay, I've seen, I've been to New Beach. People walk around with hard ons. It is a place where I think it's perfect for an exhibitionist to go to take the edge off. Now, listen, it is a community of people who are very respectful. They have signs like, go naked or go home. If anyone's like a squatter and they're walking around just trying to, like, leer at women who are naked and stuff. Like, they're very anti those people.

So don't act like a fucking creep when you're there, okay? But walk around naked. get a little horny, and live out your exhibitionist shit there. Okay? Do it. Anyway, on to the next confession. Hi, my name is Jake. Love your show.

Listen to it while I'm on the treadmill at the gym. My confession is I'm a very, very masculine alpha male guy. And I am definitely bisexual. love men, love women, love to get fucked by either. My perfect night is when my wife puts on her pegging panties, gets me on all fours, takes control of my ass, and fucks me for as long as she wants. There's nothing better than to offer my ass to my wife

or a very masculine man can have me for as long as he or she wants. Okay, now listen, I say this all the time, but I'm always into getting guys into anal action and knowing that it doesn't mean anything. This is another alpha guy that is into anal action. He loves to get fucked. his ass. He was very explicit in that sentence, right, by anyone, his wife, a guy, and he's an alpha guy. I think the biggest thing about anal action for guys is they feel like it's just not

something that men do or they think for guys into guys like he can't be like an alpha guy. But I have had so many guys like this guy on my show who are alpha dudes. I have pictures of them. I have two people recently. It was Joe, and I forget, and I think Joe and Jim, I think were the two episodes recently, and their wives were on too, Samantha and Mary and Joe and Jim, okay? These two couples, I have pictures of them. Their wives were hot, and the guys were alpha dudes, big, jacked, beefy, go to the gym all the time, muscle, guys. They had alpha dudes, and they loved to get fucked the ass too. It is a thing. And in their episodes, what they said is they didn't get into it until they were way older. So you never know. When I say my mission is to get everyone into a little

anal action, I say if you haven't yet gone to that part of your body to explore, if you haven't gone to that part of your body and explored it, explore it. I think more guys have explored it and don't admit it. I have said before that always when I used to blow guys, when I used to sleep around a lot more, I used to always try to stick my finger up with guy's ass when I was blowing him. It was like a part of the blowjob experience. I always gave great head. I knew what to do. And that was always going to be a part of my move because I do believe that if you're blowing a guy and when he's about to orgasm, if he has something little in his ass at the same time, he's going to come harder. And I know that for fact because any guy that went for the finger or the knuckle would be like oh my god that was like

the best thing ever okay now what i would do this was the move that i would do is i would put my knuckle there i wouldn't put a whole finger and i would just leave it there because i think if you're going to take a whole finger and try to shove it in a guy's ever done it before he's going to be like no way so even for a guy you could do this same move to yourself just take a knuckle like your thumb knuckle and just sit on it right there. Put it right there. Or the girl, if you're a girl and you're listening, when you're giving your guy a blowjob, just put your knuckle there. Don't you just tell the guy like, you're not going to put anything in. It's just a knuckle. You just put it there. He's going to feel a little bit of a pressure or whatever, but I promise you and guarantee you that the minute

your guy starts to get turned on or you start to get turned on, you're going to be pushing into that knuckle. It never fails. Like I said, any guy that went for the knuckle, by the time they were like almost orgasm and getting up to it, they were like pushing down on it to get more and more and have a go inside, right? Because it feels good. And it feels good for me. It's going to feel good for you. It feels good for this alpha guy like he said. It's going to feel good for you. I love that I'm sponsored by Butter Wellness. I'm always pitching their massager. You could use that on the outside to give yourself a prostate orgasm. Try it. All these alpha guys are doing it. Here's a another one telling you that you should go out and try anal action that it's good. Hey guys do you know that

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Their personal massager is designed to externally stimulate the male G spot. That's right. you don't have to put anything inside of you to have a prostate orgasm. You just take their personal massager and you put it right on your taint and you're going to have a prostate orgasm. And not only that, massaging your taint is going to increase your blood flow, give you stronger erections. And if you have any kind of ED going on, it's going to help with that too. And right now, Butter Wellness is offering my listeners 20% off your order. When you enter the code strictly at butterwellness.com, that's butterwellness.com. Use my code strictly to get 20% off your order. Go to butterwellness.com. Use code strictly to get 20% off and have yourself the best orgasm ever. I've always been a three input girl. So maybe a girl could try the little thumb, the knuckle thing too. If you've never had anything go inside your ass or you're leery about it or you're,

you freaked out about it too because a lot of women are as well because maybe a guy just shoved his finger in there or they're like how could anything fit in there it just feels so tight but it loosens up when you're really turned on so I say even a woman could use the knuckle thing and just see and explore that part of her body and then when you feel like the knuckle feels good go get yourself like an anal what is it called a butt plug okay a blood plug is like the way It's shaped. It goes in like smooth and nice and then it just stays in there. So you can put it in and then jerk yourself off and it's totally great. I had a guy once say okay to me to use one of those on him. He said it was his first time. Who knows? But I did bias matching anal butt plugs and we both use them and he loved it. And I think I put it in him and then blew him at the same time. You could put it in your partner and yourself and have sex. I know that I never did a DP in real life, but I always like to. to mock out that situation to feel like, oh, I was like really filled up. So that's like a good thing to do if you want to try a little DP action, but you don't have

another guy or you don't want another guy there. Have your guy bang you and put a butt plug in because what's great about a butt plug is it with the, like I said, the way it shaped it will stay inside. It won't move, right? So you'll feel like you have something in there and you'll feel like you have something inside you. And so you'll feel like you're having like a DP and it's all good. So anyway, that's my PSA about anal action.

Glad that this guy loves it. I wonder how many guys he's been with. I don't know. He says like he loves whether his wife does it or a guy does it. Does his wife know that he sees guys? That's what I wonder. His wife is obviously into pegging him, which is cool. That's another thing that I've heard.

A lot of women who never strapped one on who eventually did because their husbands were into it. At first, it's a little bit weird because you can't. feel it. That's what people have explained to me and it makes sense, right? It's like this appendage that's like hanging off of you, but you don't feel it. So it's very hard to understand how to thrust with it and stuff. But once women have gotten the hang of it, they have gotten really into it. Women that never thought that they would be into it. They love that position of power, of being like the dominant one in the situation. And these were women that were very submissive. So you never know. So if you're a guy, maybe get your girl into Peggy.

you because you like it if you're a girl maybe try and get your guy into playing around with his asshole and either one of you go use the thumb go use the knuckle thing and let me know if it works for you anyway on to the next confession hey kathie i called in about the race play fetish i was listening to the joie panama episode and um you know you seem to low disturbed by that when he mentioned it and he didn't like it either but i love it i was watching porn one day some interracial porn. I didn't search for this. I never thought about it ever in my life.

But I heard her say that while he was fucking. He was just giving it to her. And she screamed out, yeah, oh, my God. Fuck me, inward. Fuck me with your big inward dick and hard heart. And I just got uncontrollably hard. It was crazy. And ever since then,

I got on career lists, and I found white women who was into that, especially older white women. I don't know what it is. I'm in my early 40s. Even now, back then, I probably was 30, and the first one that I had was 45, she was like 45, and we roadplay, and it was race play, and it was just, man, it's nothing better. So it's definitely a lot of black guys out there who are into that.

And I don't know what it is. It's not even really like a degrading thing to me. It's just, I don't know. I can't even explain it. But it's, man, it drives me absolutely insane. But, yeah, I've been doing that, been married for a while. That's just my thing. That's just my kink.

One of them, that's one of my kinks. It's part of the major one in my life. and I just, I can't get enough of them. So thank you again for your show. I'm going to join the Patreon, and I really love it. You know, you guys call in and get my story one day. Have a good one. Bye.

Okay, now, that right there that it keeps talking about. I don't know, to me, that's like being interested and being degraded, right? I do not like the N-word. There are some words, and I am, like, really into words. and just saying things because they sound good, and I don't put that much weight on words, really, at the end of the day. But there are just certain words, though, that I think are horrible. The N-word being one, me and the guy, like he said, the bull that I had on, Joey Panama.

He's a very famous black bull. He is not into the whole interracial slurs thing. I would say this isn't just he's into interracial. horn he's into, I personally think something called being degraded because I think that that's like that word has a negative connotation. So if he dig someone saying something like negative to him while he's getting banged, that's, that's him being into being degraded. And lots of people are into that. Okay. I used to do like polls because I was never into being degraded or maybe I was because when I was like really young and really off my rocker, I remember having one boyfriend that would call me like a dirty horn,

and whisper like really sick shit like that into my ear while he was like fucking me and would say shit like what if your mother knew what a horror you were and all that kind of stuff. And I remember being totally into it, right? That's degrading and I was into it. But like would I get horny for that now? No, you grow and change and that's cool. So that's why I would never judge someone for what they're into because what's certain times in your life for different reasons, maybe you could be into a lot of things.

Besides that guy that's into the nonconcentual masturbation in front of people, not cool. But this is like just to me, a guy that's into being degraded and likes to be called those kinds of names. And like I said, people are into that. Girls like to be called a whore. I used to ask women if they liked for like a guy to come all over their face because I felt like that's like a degrading act. And to some people, that's hot because it is degrading and being degraded as hot to them. They could turn that into a hot, dirty night of sex, which like I said, I could get into at a certain time of my life, so I get it. I had a friend once, brought him up before,

and he said the two things that he loved the most to do to girls were come on their face or fuck them in their ass and make them blow him right after. And I was like, wow, you really hate your mom, don't you? Because to me, those are two super degrading things to do to women. So I always think, like, that guy that used to scream in my ear, oh, you filthy whore, like your mother, blah, blah, blah. But like I know for a fact he hated his mother.

His mother was a psychopath. And he was taking it out on me. You know? And I think my friends who liked girls to eat shit, eat their own shit, because that's basically what you're doing, right? Like it's hot to you that you like fucked her girl in the ass and now she's like eating her own shit. That's a greeting too.

And I know that that guy had issues with his mother. Now at the end of the day, like I said, many times already in my three minute rant, people are into these things because of those reasons, but does it make it wrong? No, I get it. Just because, like I said, I'm not into something. Doesn't mean somebody else shouldn't be into it. I know that when I posted this guy's confession on my Patreon, a lot of guys chimed in and said that they were into it too. And I was surprised. It's not because of the interracial thing. I think black on white, I could see why visually it's something that people are really into, I get why a lot of girls want to fuck a black guys because I'm sorry they do have bigger dicks and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. And women like that, I think there's something really hot about the color contrast, right, white to black. And I get that. And then you have these people that are into race play, I guess it's called. I don't know. I had a guy on once who did go out and have, was with couples who were into the whole race play thing. And it must be a thing

because this guy said he went on to Craigslist and he found women that want to do that. And I think that's what's like super interesting about the internet. You could go on there and find out. You're not alone. Right? Just when you think you're the only one that wants to be called the N-word while you're having sex, you find out that there's tons of guys into it and women that want to do it when they're with you.

I think most people wouldn't be into that kind of a thing. But of course there's people that are into that kind of thing. I hope they keep it down while they're having sex. I know. I heard that shit coming out of the apartment next to me. I'd be like, oh, my God, what the fuck is going on in there? But like I said, there are a lot of guys on my Patreon that understood and we're into it too. I get why you're shocked that me and Joey Panama aren't into it because you're into it.

And I think we're always kind of like think that everybody is like us, right? Because you're totally into it. Of course, you can't believe how someone cannot be into it because that's just what you dig. I'm not into being degraded, but I know that so many people are, and that's a definite kink that people have. And to each their own, I think as long as things are consensual, it's all good. I know I grew out of my desire to be called a whore when I fooled around with people. And so maybe this guy will grow out of that too. Who knows?

Does it matter either way, right? he's into what he's into. But I could never do that. I don't like that word. I think the majority of people wouldn't be interested in that kind of a thing. But, of course, people are. So anyway, on to the next confession. Yeah, hi.

My name is Casey. A typical serial cheater story. Yeah, I was early in my relationship and my marriage. I was out there in the streets, cheating a lot. But then I met my next door neighbor, probably. two years into my marriage. My wife brought her home and they became friends, but we became more. I ended up having a 15-year booty call, basically. We never went out. We never hung out. We only got together to fuck. And it was pretty good. We would get together where my wife would go out of town.

and a little bit about her. She was about four years older than me, but she'd been married. She got married at 19, divorced at 30, 31. I think I was 25, 26. So she had been just with the one guy for the most part and pretty inexperienced. So when we got together, I kind of blew her mind a little bit. I would bring porn, everything she would see in the porn. She'd want to emulate.

So our relationship became highly, sexual, very, very nasty, and she was willing to do it all. That's why I always say there's pretty much no man out there that could turn down what I had. Okay, now listen, anyone that lives next to a single divorce a woman. I'm assuming she's hot, okay? She's living next door to this poor married couple. This woman becomes friends with this guy's wife and then she winds up banging that woman's husband for 15 years. Oh my God. Every time that poor lady went away on vacay, these two got it on. This shit happens. So women, if you're listening, or even guys, if you're listening, if you got a single divorced person living next to you and they're kind of hot, keep an eye on them,

or maybe don't befriend them and bring them into your home. Because it's like, he didn't he say like his wife became friends with her and then this happens. It's kind of like hiring a hot nanny. You don't want to do it. But they did it. This guy had sex with him for 15 years. Okay? That's a long time. Now, he does end saying, you know, there was no guy that would be able to give up or not take what he had because it was just like so hot.

And listen, I definitely think that if you asked most guys and said, hey, if you could have like the girl of your dreams and never get caught and she would do every night. and she would do every nasty, raunchy thing that you ever wanted to do. Would you do it? Most guys would be like, yeah, I'll do that poll on Patreon. And every guy would say, yeah. But that's not like how it happened. I'm assuming you met this girl. You became friends with her.

Your wife became friends with her. And then you decided to start having sex with her. You didn't necessarily know that's what you were going into. And I think that's the difference between a guy who's definitely open to cheat. and a guy that would never cheat, okay? Not all guys are cheaters. Not all guys are monogamous, okay? But I definitely don't believe all guys cheat.

I know plenty of guys that are monogamous. So what I would say in this situation is that a monogamous guy would never get to the point where they would even know that that woman was going to be the best sex that they ever had. Do you know what I'm saying? You know after the fact that no man would ever turn that down because you wound up sleeping with her for 15 years and living at all your naughty fantasies. I'm assuming you never got caught. That's a good thing. I wonder, was she friends with your wife that whole time? You think to yourself like, how could she look her in the face? But I think people can. Sometimes people could really

compartmentalize things. And that's what's kind of scary if you're on the other end of that kind of situation that you can never know, right? Like somebody could be hanging out with you, you could be best friends with them and they could be banging your person. The whole time, it's kind of Like scary, right? But like I said, I think this guy was faced with a situation and he took it. There was a window of opportunity. He took it. And not only did he take it, he made the best of it, 15 years of, like I said, the best sex he's ever had.

He got to live out of all of his fantasies to everything. But I don't believe that no guy would turn that down. Plenty of guys, like I said, would turn it down because they wouldn't cheat on their wives. and that's my PSA to this confession. I think sometimes people think, oh, every guy cheats, no guy can be monogamous. But that's not true. Some guys are totally monogamous and they would never cheat.

And that guy exists. And that guy would never take that bait. But a lot of guys do cheat and would cheat. And yes, if they knew that there was a woman living next door that was hot that would live out every porn fantasy they ever had, would they cheat on their wives to live out all those fantasies? Yeah, a lot of guys would say yeah. But I do believe a lot of guys would say, no, I'm going to run that poll on Spotify,

and I'm going to run that poll on my Patreon and see what people say. Now, of course, it's going to be split. It's not going to be all one way or the other, but I wonder what's going to win. I think most guys are going to say I'd go for it. But this is what I'll say. 20% of those guys that say that they would. maybe would actually chicken out. So I think it might be more guys would say yes as opposed to no.

But, you know, that's what I'm guessing. But I'm going to run that poll over on Spotify. So if you're listening on Spotify, answer that poll. And if you're listening on my Patreon, go answer that poll there. Anyway, on to the next confession. Hi, Kathy. I'm a big fan of your podcast. I've been listening for a few years based in Europe.

I was listening to your last confession podcast, and you said also maybe people should phone up if it's not necessarily like a sex or erotic-based confession. So here we go. I've been married for 25 years, three children, very happy, great wife, wonderful wife, who had a raps and downs for a special needs child. It's very demanding. But there's been something going on in my life. It sort of rocked my world about a year ago.

There was always someone at work for the occasional glance, and you have a little bit looking at you back. People are attracted to each other. It's completely normal. And I, ah, yeah, blindly. You don't do anything about it. I was the boss. She was the worker.

You never really know. You're never really sure, so you never say anything. But then one day last summer, out of the blue, she walked up to me and said that she also had, or she said she had deep feelings for me. And it absolutely shook me, shook me in the sense that you're walking around with teenager, loved up butterflies, whatever. And from that point onwards, I was just really ripped in this internal conflict of what to do. And I have to defend that because there was never ever.

any, we've never met privately, we've never contacted privately outside of work. We're talking one or two mini conversations in a hallway, or look, you could see it coming and you could see the feelings, you could see the emotions, the butterflies, and it's, what do you do, you take it home with you in your head. So, came to the conclusion, changed my job at the end of last year, 24, knew I had to move on, knew that it was all going to end up in a big, bloody, horrible mess, and that's just not something anyone wants and you've got a wife and you've got children and haven't done anything wrong. The other person also changed their job for the same reasons.

She's also married. And it was weird. It was, you put two people to each other like magnets and it was the most intense thing I've ever experienced. On the other side of it, I've got an amazing wife and I love her dearly and we've always loved each other and an amazing relationship. They're amazing sex life and all of these things and we just, I just knew that I had to put a stop on. The crazy thing is even now blocked each other on telephone, we end up in contact with each other, even if it's phoning me on my new work number or I have to phone where she's working because it's a related company and it's a related business feeling on the planet.

I actually no fucking idea what I'm going to do. What I don't want ever to happen is an affair and I don't want to have to leave my wife and a lover and it's just weird and mad and I have absolutely no idea what to do. So there you go. Wow. What a difference, right? First guy, second guy. Everybody's different. Here you got a guy who has the most intense attraction or connection chemistry with a woman who he met at work. It was so strong that both of them had to leave their jobs for it. That's pretty hardcore. I had to rewind it and listen to it again because I'm like, did he leave his job because of her? They both lost their job. for other reasons? No, he left his job to get away from her and her too because both of them are monogamous people that don't want to cheat. And so they both actually left their jobs, which to me is so hardcore and amazing if you think about it. Because these are two people that

have a connection and are doing everything they can to cut it out. But yet they still have to talk to each other for work. Oh my God. The torture of it all. If this was like a romantic, a rom-com, this could be like a movie, right? And at the end of it, they would wind up together happy. It's interesting that they keep trying to get away and they keep trying to have to talk to each other. I mean, he does say at the end, like, I don't know what to do. It sounds like you really do know what to do. You already did the right thing. I think that part of you that does not want to cheat on your wife, that part of you that made you actually quit your job so you would not cheat on your wife would be the same part of you that would never go through with something in real life with this woman.

Because at the end of the day, you're going to stand true to how you feel. Like I said, I think it's honorable of both of you to have gone to such extreme lengths, to stay away from each other and go against that. intense pull, right? We just heard from a guy who, like he said, you got a girl that's like so hot living next to you. What guy would turn that down? You know what guy would turn it down? This guy, this guy with this hot accent, by the way. This is the type of guy that turns it down and it just goes to show that all guys are different. It's unfortunate that he feels this confliction. Some people tell me that's not a word, but it is a word, that he feels this confliction and that he

can't get away from her because he has done all the right things. Both of them have. Both of them want to remain monogamous. And they have. They have done everything to stay apart. And like I said, it's unfortunate that they still have to kind of talk to each other. Now, what can he do about that? Obviously, nothing unless he wants to change his career. And I think sometimes that's like super hard if you are invested in something. It's not like when you're 20 years old and you have a job and you can just change jobs. When you have a career, it's a different story. They're obviously both. in a career that is very aligned or they're doing the same thing and for some reason they are going to wind up talking each other regardless of where they go, I'm assuming. I don't know. But what I would

want to know from this guy, like the first question I would have for him is like, what did he tell his wife about why he was leaving his job and what did she tell her husband? And then would they talk about their attraction at work with each other? Would they talk about why they both didn't want to cheat? Would they talk about leaving work together? Was that something they both did? Because I would think if one left, why can't the other one stay, right? I don't know. It's interesting, though, that they both left. It's interesting that they both want to remain monogamous. And I think that they will. I think it sucks that he has to fight this urge and that he has it. And maybe, you know, if you're listening to this guy with that hot accent, what you should do is maybe reframe it and decide to

take the good part of things. Take that feeling that you feel with her and enjoy it while you have it when you're on the phone with her or when you have to deal with her and keep it there and then go back to your life. Because there is this saying like what you resist persists and because you have such a strong negative attachment to this strong positive chemistry that you have. I feel like maybe if you gave into it and said, okay, we have this and maybe see it as just a fun, healthy thing that is okay and it's not cheating to feel that way because you know you love your wife and you're not leaving her and you're never going to do anything and just allow for that feeling to be there. Maybe it would subside. Maybe it would even go away eventually. Maybe it's that thought of, oh my God, this could lead me down the cheating path one day that is freaking you out so much. Whereas if you decide and you know for a fact you're never going to cheat, which you do know, and you know for a fact she's never going to. But you know for a fact that these feelings exist, why not allow them to exist?

Because at the end of the day, is it that bad that you feel butterflies or excited when you see something like, you know, maybe we frame it as an innocent at work flirtation. It's not even at work anymore. An innocent once in a while flirtation that you have with somebody. If you frame it that way, maybe it's not so bad if you experience that every now and then. And maybe it doesn't mean anything more than that. and why not have that little feeling once every now and then? You're not leaving your wife, like you said. She's not leaving your husband. You're not cheating. Then maybe that's okay. And so maybe if you frame it that way, like I said, it will help. So if I had any advice for you, it would be that.

Take your flirtation, see it for what it is. It feels good. It's not cheating. Be okay with it and call it a day. that's the end of the story. It's not any bigger than that because like I said, the person that leaves their job because they are so worried that something's going to turn into something and they don't want it to because they really love their wife and they want to stay is a person that's not going to cheat. I don't believe that you're going to cheat. I don't think that that's in your

nature. So I think you're going to be okay. And if you just allow for that feeling to exist when it does and if you take away the pressure of it, of all these possibilities of what it could turn into and know that it just has its place and it's just going to stay there, that maybe it'll be easier for you. So anyway, keep me posted. If you ever do wind up cheating.

I don't think my bet is that you would never do anything anyway. So it's okay to just enjoy the little moments that you have with her. I think it's okay. Anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. if you have a confession that you want to leave on my confessions hotline. You could call the confessions hotline 24-7. The number of 347, 4-203579, 347, 4-203579. Now make sure you're in a quiet place.

Not like that guy that called in today. Don't be driving when you call my show, okay? Hold the phone up to your ear. That's the best way to get the best confession. Leave a confession. All voices are changed so you will. Okay, I just want to. I'm going to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession,

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