Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 818 - GIRL TALK: Brandi on Threesomes, Hooking Up with a Couple, Murder, her Sugar Daddy and More

Episode Date: May 1, 2024

Brandi called in to talk all about her ex baby daddy who is in jail for murder and how and why she was with him for so long, the guy she married after who wouldn’t go down on her and why, how and why after her divorce she went crazy looking to just hook up, the threesomes she had with her friend and her boyfriend and how and why it ended so badly and what was aired about her online afterwards, how she caught herpes form a married guy, how and why she decided to become a unicorn for couples, the couple she met up with and what went down and why it eventually ended it, how and why she then went out looking for a sugar daddy, the older guy she met and hooked up with and what went down with him and why things ended with him, how she’s hornier than ever now, the guy she met who is into being pegged and all kinds of other kinky things and how much she digs him, how he’s still married and why he’s still living with his wife plus a whole lot more. **To see a pic of BRANDI plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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She leads or lives a very interesting life from the get-go. Literally her baby daddy story involves murder or murderer in jail and rape. I mean, it's like a crazy story. It's something that like she actually never really talked about. She talked about it here, though. so we go that far back. But really what she called and just talk about is like where she's at now. In between her baby daddy and where she's now, she was like married, divorce.

After she got divorced, so she started living it up. She had a threesome with a girlfriend. That was a whole drama story. Lots of threesomes with her girlfriend and a guy. And she talks about that and why it ended really badly. And that was a crazy situation. And then we talk about herpes. And that's a whole other conversation.

And you're going to have to listen to hear how that comes up in this story. Then she started to go and look for couples to become a unicorn and the couples she found. There's drama there too. Then she went looking for a sugar daddy. And what she found was super interesting and why that ended was interesting. And now she's with a guy. He might be married. He might not, but he loves to be pegged.

She's super open. She's really actually looking for a new guy. I'm trying to get her a date on my Patreon because she's like, I would love a guy that wears panties, pantyhoes. I think Brandy's like a good catch for some guy. I'm like, send me in some hot picks on my Patreon so I could get her a date. Because she is with a guy now who might be married, might not be married. You're going to have to listen to the episode to see what you think. I'm going to put those polls over out on my Patreon as well as on Spotify because I was curious of what's going on with this guy.

She tends to believe him, but I'm like, I don't know. So you're going to have to listen to hear all the details. Her whole episode is super interesting. If you want to see hot picks of her, go to my Patreon. They're all there. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Brandy. Hi, Brandy. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast.

How are you today? Hey, Kathy. I'm good. How are you? I'm good. Brandy, listen, you're calling in. This might wind up to be a girl talk episode. I don't really know.

This is what I know so far about you. You're a grandma, but you're only 47, and you say you're still hot. And I get that because women nowadays could be fucking hot and they're 47. You know what I mean? Probably you're super horny. You did say you're trying to get in a lot of stuff before you dry up. And your ovaries feel that way too. And that's why they do make women in their 40s super horny.

Man, something's fucking going on. Yeah, yeah, that happens. It's very common. And so you've tried unicorning. So you've fucked up with couples. You did the whole sugar daddy thing. That I'm very interested in. What was the mindset behind that?

You're also with a guy now that you're like pegging him and doing all this kind of good stuff. You did, we'll start a little bit when you were younger. Like you did say to me, oh, when I was younger, I was like you. I was very promiscuous. You did like sex when you were younger. and you did like fuck around a lot, right? That's who you were before you got married. Considering the fact that you're a grandmother now and you're younger than me and I only have an eight-year-old son and you probably have an eight-year-old grandson,

you obviously got married really young. Oh my God. How old were you when you got married? Well, actually, I wasn't married until I was 28. I actually had two children when I was like in my early 20s. But you didn't get married the guys. You didn't marry the baby daddy's. No, thank God I did not.

He's in prison right now, but that's a whole different story. Oh, my God. Did he go to prison like early on? How long's he been in prison for? He's been there for 22 years. Oh my God. Is he a murderer? Yeah.

What? Yeah. Your baby daddy murdered somebody. Oh, my God. Like when you knew him? How could you just, I need to hear this story. I watch a lot of date line. Oh, I know.

I'm obsessed with that kind of stuff probably now because of this. But no, talk about meeting like just that hot man that makes you all the promises and all that. And you find out once you're pregnant, way too late that he's the wrong kind of person. So I got pregnant, maybe six months in. And then it all just was very controlling and just like obsessive about things and terrible person. And then when our son was born, he was one. And then he threatened that he was going to shoot me just like he shot the others. And I was like, what are you talking about?

Come to find out, his family didn't tell me. Nobody told me his first baby mama, he shot her. But nothing happened. Like she didn't die. She's still alive. And then I didn't know that. Got a restraining. the whole bullshit, whatever, and ended up getting pregnant again.

By him. Actually, it ended up being a time I was dropping our son off to him to watch him because he watched him during the day. And he was a decent dad as far as that went. And he pretty much raped me. Oh, my God. And I got pregnant. You're kidding.

Now, did you put him in jail for that? No. Okay. And you still let him watch your son after that? This is where you're so dumb when you're young. Like this guy shoots people and stuff and you're still dropping your kid off at his house. Here I am. A single mom didn't have any other choice of whatever. And he was, it wasn't so terrible then as far as I remember. No, but listen, when you listen to the story outside of yourself, it's any, everyone's like, how is that not so?

That's as terrible as I could get. This guy's a murderer. threatened to kill you. He shot his other mother. Like, you can't trust him with your baby, but I get it. You're really young. You're in the middle of dating someone who probably had a lot of control over you. And most of the time, like, people get into these things. And you just lose your mind. You're not thinking properly. I'm saying like, but if you look at it, it was as bad as you could get. It wasn't not that bad. It was very bad. He fucking raped you. He raped you. This is like the kind of person you were attached to, but you just were probably mind fucked by him.

It happens all the time to women. Terribly. Yeah. Terribly. Yeah. It's unfortunate. And people always don't understand. Like, how did you stay?

Why didn't you just walk away? But it's just, it's not that easy. You hear it all the time. It's like psychology 101. You're lucky. Listen, you're lucky that he didn't kill your fucking kid. His kid, too. But you're lucky and that he didn't kill you.

Because I'm sorry, anyone that's killed the mother. It doesn't mean they're not going to kill their child. Those people are crazy. Something's wrong with him. Oh, he's majorly crazy. And our son's first birthday when I was trying to get birthday parties stuff together and whatever, he wanted me to come and pick him up and take him to work. And I wouldn't.

Long story short, he split his wrist because he was mad at me. That's what I'm saying. Something like that, if he's so obsessive with you, he would do something to your child to get back at you. So I just, the thought of giving him your kid. So after he raped you and you got pregnant again, did you get, how did you? How did you wind up kicking him to, like, when did you ever get free of that relationship? Well, we weren't even together then when I got pregnant with my daughter. And almost nobody knows that he raped me and that's how I got pregnant.

Because people assume they're baby mama, baby dad, we were fucking, whatever. We weren't at all. He was whatever. Yeah. And so I was pregnant. Again, we were not together. Come to find out he's dating a girl that I went to high school. with. And I was like trying to warn her. Don't, this is bad news because he's that guy. He's so

hot and he's got that charm and everything. Anyone's going to fall for it. Yeah, you did. I tried. Yeah. Stupid as fuck. You couldn't warn her. He warned you. He told you straight to his face. He's going to shoot you. He did. You still went right. Yeah. So, yeah. I find out he's dating a girl that I went to high school was. We tried warning her everything. My friend even tried to. Don't tell me. This is the one he kills. Yep. Oh my God. Wait, so it's a girl. You guys go to her and you say, listen, this is what this guy has done. And the poor girls, oh, no. Brainwash just like me. He, it's terrible. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, especially when you're really young like that. This is what's so scary for people when they're younger and how scary it is to have young daughters and stuff because young and dumb. I'm sorry. I wasn't thinking the

way I think now as an adult when I was young too. I mean, I think some of us are very lucky when I think back to the shit I did when I was younger that I was never raped or never drunk driving, killed somebody or all the crazy things I did, all the crazy places I put myself in. I wasn't murdered. We have to consider ourselves a lucky ones. Oh my gosh. I think now all the stuff that I've done in my life and I'm only 40s. Wow. Wow. I've lived like five life. So that's starting with him gets even better. No, but tell me, though, this girl, though, you go to her and you guys tell her like this. Yeah.

At this point, you guys knew that he had shot the other girl. Did you tell him that he shot that girl and she still stayed with him? And then how did he kill her? He shot her? So this is like a year and a half later after I did leave him, like, in the middle of the night, pretty much. So then a year and a half later, he hadn't even seen her daughter. like nothing and he was arguing with her

and beating her in the head with the gun and he says it accidentally went off I say bullshit you shot her yeah shot her in the head wow and she died while his son saw it his other baby mama that he shot that relationship

so his son actually saw it he didn't even know that until five years ago wow who didn't know that the guy Didn't know that his son saw it. Mm-hmm. His son never told him.

Mm-mm. Wow. No. So when you say this story gets better, is this the part that you were getting told? So my kids are now older, like 25 and 23, and they, well, they wanted to meet their dad like 10 years ago. Yeah. So I got it together and went to the prison and saw him. a couple times and then I let my kids go there and whatever so now they do go there like my son

actually just went there yesterday to see him so I've seen him a few times and then he this guy is still so delusional he thinks he's going to get out of prison in six years which he is supposed to and he thinks that we should be together and I'm like you're fucking nuts never I don't even know if I'll stay in the area or let him even know where I am because that's It's just. Yeah, that's a little scary. It is. Very scary.

Yeah. Yeah. I feel like that's part of my life. Like I didn't talk about to anybody. Some of the people didn't even know that about me. Sorry, I had to go there because I, you know, I like all that kind of stuff. So anyway. It honestly is something that I don't even think about.

So even to talk about it, it's like, yeah, it's real. It's real. Yeah, that's a real crazy story. That's a crazy fucking story. That's a really crazy origin story. you can't leave that out. So now how does this girl have had that kind of? All right.

So you're young, you're dating wrong people and everything. You wind up to you. So then you do, though, eventually get married when you're 28 to a new guy. Now, is this guy a good guy that you stay married with for a while? I know you guys are divorced. Yeah. Yeah. He's a good guy.

I knew him for a long time. Like, he had been married. She passed away. And we started dating. And it was like one of those instant. relationships. He had a daughter and I had my two kids and I was like, oh, who's going to want to be with me? I'm young. I have two kids already, blah, blah, blah. But yeah, it was like one of those situations. You just get together and then we're married for a couple of years and I'm like,

what the fuck am I doing? Oh, how long do you wind up staying married? We were over 10 years. Okay, well, that's not a couple years. That's a long time. Well, oh, yeah, but a couple is two. I got a couple of years in. Oh, my God. Two years in, you're like, I got to get out, but you don't leave for eight years. Yeah. Yeah. Well, we had another, I had another baby.

So now I had three kids. You're so fertile. Why don't use condoms? Oh, my God. Yeah. But I want, I wanted, this is, you think you see, you get a house, you have the kids, you have the family. I did that whole mom thing and everything.

Everyone read that book. I know. And it was born. He just, I could look. look at them and just say, you're just not somebody I want to spend the rest of my life with. It was just like boring, boring sex. Wouldn't go down on me. Ever?

That's a big, nope. I don't get that. Nope. Nope, because one time, actually, this is how it stopped. I tried to give him the little direction and got offended by that, apparently. And then he's like, forget it. I can't do it right. I'm not going to do it.

No, no. That's a guy that doesn't want to eat your pussy to begin with. And he just uses it as an excurs. excuse okay i'm sorry pussy in a straight i'm sorry no no no i'm sorry in a straight man the pussy is stronger than her hurt feelings and no man would stop because you told him right he didn't like he didn't like pussy i'm just sorry to say something i don't i don't know what he's he's he's real stubborn and whatever that's crazy stubborn eight years he never went down on you just because you told him something that's not normal right sorry no it's not he wasn't into it to begin with

And he took that excuse out. Because if you really wanted to, he would have. Give me a break. Let's think about it. So you say if you don't go down, I'm not going to blow you. So neither one of you gave oral sex your whole marriage? No, nope. Maybe.

I probably did. I can't remember. That was a long time ago. But yeah, we would have, it was very vanilla, very vanilla. Right. So, yeah. So we separate, get a divorce, and now it's on for me. I'm like going out doing things.

My friend and I, when I was getting a divorce and still going through it and living with him and all that, figuring that out. My best friend at the time was doing the same thing. And we would go out. We would go out like three times a week, go meet young guys, go back to their houses, all sorts of stuff. I was just running around and we were just. having fun and stuff like that and it was finally free and I can do whatever I want. That didn't happen very often before. So I could go out and I'm not wanting vanilla.

I want to find somebody that's exciting. And then I'm like, I like girls because I had a threesome with a friend of mine. And then that turned into, oh, I really like this. And I was like, well, let me see if there's any like. couples why not what now that threesome with your friend did that happen when you were super young or did it happen after your divorce that happened in my little wild period after my divorce and it was like clear out of the blue never would have thought anything about it or that happening so I had a friend that she had a boyfriend or guy from out of town and he would come into town and

we would all go out and then it just ended up one night being out oh he brought a friend with him and his friend passed out that him and i were supposed to hook up or whatever and his friend passed out so that's when they were like well why don't you just come and join us so so um that started and i mean it was it would just i i had kissed girls before and you know that little whatever but this is the first time and whatever go down on a girl. And so that was just the basic kind of three-sum go down on her, whatever. And then, of course, this is the kind of stuff you hear. She was like she didn't want her boyfriend to fuck me.

But, oh, he would always fuck me when she wouldn't be able to see it. Like being that sneaky guy on the side, trying to just get it in anyways and thinking she has no idea. Well, how long were you guys banging for it? Like, how long did this threesome last? It was one threesome? No, it was probably like over six months, but maybe only three times. Oh, so you had many

threesomes with this friend and this and her boyfriend. And you knew that she didn't want you to fuck her boyfriend, but you would let him fuck you when she wasn't looking? Because I know you're saying he would do it, but you obviously had to allow him to do it. So both of you did it behind her back. Oh, my God.

if I was like going down on her with my ass in the air or something like that yeah yeah he did but she wouldn't know I don't I don't know that she did or didn't this is a while ago so my memory isn't the greatest either but I don't I'm sure she she must have known and he was just like that but then they wanted me to use a strap on with her and I was for some like never would I think, oh, okay, yeah, I want to wear a strap on and fuck you. And I did, and I really liked it a lot. I would be like, hey, you want me to come over? But that never happened on the site.

She didn't want that without him. But I would fuck her with the strap on. So you saw them only three times and all this went down? Yeah, it must have been. It probably was only like three or four times at the very most. But you enjoyed it. This was your good girl found, though, that you had known for a long time? For a few years and what?

not, but that was the end of our relationship, our friendship, though, too. How come? It just got messy, messy. Because she actually had another long-term boyfriend that was having her see this other other guy for, he kind of was like a cook. He wanted her to go and fuck him and do all that stuff. And then so her long-term boyfriend just is messy and got. dirty with it and was like then telling everybody what was going on as if i was that whole messing

around with them and all that stuff and he then aired some pretty personal information about me on facebook but why you why was he mad at you good question good question he was out there he wanted her to go and fuck this other guy and do whatever i was single i wasn't with anybody he was mad that you were involved in it? Uh-huh. Oh, okay. And then he just wanted to be controlling about it. So he aired some real personal information about me on Facebook to everybody. Like what?

So in my little wild period of time, there was a moment of clarity, like, to stop what you're fucking doing because somebody completely lied to me and I ended up getting herpes from him. Oh, God. And he, wait, and so did that guy know that you had herpes because you told your girlfriend and she told him? How would he know that you got herpes? That's your personal thing. Because you told your girlfriend's? Uh-huh.

Oh, my God. And she had it. She had it. Did he know she had it? Yeah. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Oh, my God.

Oh, yeah. So he goes on Facebook. And he does that and puts that out there about you? Yep. Oh, my God. Talk about. You guys are grownups too. This is happening in your late 30s, right?

We're in your late 30s, 40s? Oh, yeah. What's wrong with people? My late 30s, yeah. And that was the end of our friendship because I'm like, I don't do that kind of shit. I am not messy. I do not. I don't air their information.

What were they doing? So, oh, yeah. It was a mess. So, yeah, so I got herpes from a married man that was lying to me. I'm sorry, but that sentence. Listen to it. Oh, I know. I got herpes from a very man that's like,

let me tell you, I'm going to say this to my audience right now, okay, because this is a true fucking story. And this is why herpes is so prevalent, okay? I had a friend when I was younger in my drinking days. And she got herpes from some fucking douchebag boyfriend of hers that like knew for a fact he had it and gave it to her in purpose. She remembers the exact moment that he like rubbed his,

herpes dick on her and gave it to her. Yeah, like this sick shit, right? But anyway, this isn't about him. This is about her. Okay. So this bitch used to constantly, because she's my really good friend, she used to constantly go out and fuck guys without condoms, okay?

Like seriously. Yeah. All the time. And she had herpes and she would never tell them and she'd fuck guys about condoms. And this is what people do. People with herpes will fuck you without a condom. Like this happens all the time. And I remember once her coming to me and saying,

oh, because sometimes if she got in close with the guy, like eventually she'd have to tell him. But any smart person would think back and be like, wait, you've been fucking without a conno all the time and you didn't tell me you had herpes and she didn't remember once she called me up she's like oh yeah and so the guy I'm seeing like that she's been fucking without a condom she told him she had herpes

and she's like he's so nice like he didn't even care I'm like I'm sorry that doesn't make him nice that makes him either infected with herpes or he has like something even worse okay because if somebody was fucking me without a condom and didn't tell me till two months down the line I would go fucking mental on them that's what a nice person does okay

nice person says you were fucking me all this time with herpes and you didn't tell me that doesn't make him nice i'm like that guy's probably has it too and he's a liar like you i'm sorry that's not i will tell you i will not have sex with anybody without telling them first because because how i got it i'm like that root i'm stuck with it for the rest of my life yeah i have to have that difficult conversation with every single person now that I have sex with us. It's horrifying. And that guy didn't tell you and you were having unprotected sex with him.

And this is why I'm not giving the PSA. All you people out there, most people, I can't say when people on YouTube think I'm not on there anymore, they used. So he'd be like, why don't you ask you condoms? You want to know why I don't ask people? Because most people don't. All you vanilla people, all you swingers, all your, everything. Nobody uses them.

Okay, that's just a fucking fact. The majority of people don't use condoms. But this is, I always did. And I was always like super protective because I'm a hypochondriac. So I just have to tell people like, listen, tons of people you're banging. Like they're not, if they have herpes, they're not telling you. Just like your guy didn't tell you, just like my friend never told any of the guy she was with. So the other thing, though, about herpes, this is, and I'm surprised that people don't talk about it more on your show because obviously it's all very sexual.

And this is reality. But the thing about herpes is like I could have it. It's not going to be like the condom covers just your dick. It doesn't cover anything else. So if somebody is having an outbreak, it almost doesn't matter if you, because you could have a nick from shaving and whatever. They're going to get it from that. It's an open, if they have an outbreak and they pass it on to your skin.

It could be on your balls. It could be on your face. Oh, yeah, that guy that gave it to my friend, his dick on her ass. That's where she got her first thing on her ass because that's where he put it. But yeah, it's just crazy. I'm just saying. So you meet this guy and he's married, first of all. He didn't tell you he was married. You found out later. I thought that they were separating. Okay. But he wasn't really. Yeah, but he wasn't. Right? He's lying about that. And then you're having sex with him without a condom. And it turns out that he gave you fucking herpes. Can you believe?

But I'm just saying this is why it's just, it's important to talk about it because this happens A lot of time. Of course it is because imagine your whole life like when my friend got out. I always felt really bad for her because every time she'd meet a guy that she likes it's like, when am I going to tell him? How is he going to react? It rules your whole life, the rest of your life. It does. It is a struggle and it is very difficult. Yeah, really bad. But it really made me, it really put my fucking sex life to a screeching halt then because I was out doing my thing, whatever. And I'm like, you know what? This is Carmen. This is kind of like coming back to bite me. No, it's not. You don't have to look.

What? Because you were having fun sexually for someone in your life. That's not how the universe works. Stop. Well, maybe because you were being unprotected or whatever. So that's not karma. That's science. Okay.

That's just irresponsible. It's not karma. Okay. Sorry. So now, so yeah, I have to have that conversation with everybody. And I've even shared it with my one daughter because I'm like, you got to be smart too. And she's way the opposite.

She's a hypochondriac. So she's not. worried about it. Those are the people you have to be, you want to fuck because those people wear condoms. She's not the doctor all the time. They're probably a lot of this chick. But yeah.

But wait, so, but when do you, okay, let's get off our herpes now. So you wind up that, that guy outs you. That's like horrifying. But anyway, like, when do you wind up doing the whole couple's thing and what happens with that?

So that was like four years ago. Okay. And did you go, like, on an app or something? Yeah, I went on an app, and I went through people. I met this couple. they were really quote unquote normal couple professional good careers everything like that and they I started to like I listened to a podcast and stuff to ask the questions of have you done this

before what's your that stuff I felt like I was asking more questions about it than they were which should have been a red flag for me but so yeah they said they had experience and whatnot so I end up, we decide to meet for like drinks or whatever, meet them. They're really nice. We all really got along and everything. And we ended up just going back to their house that same night. And really just having a whole lot of sex, like everything. But he was the dictator of running the show.

You do this, you do this. It felt a little unnatural. But I continued with them for about three. three or four months, I think. Well, how was it? It was good when it was good, but then there's always that stuff that's not so good. Of the communication is terrible or they have issues that they obviously needed to sort out before they brought somebody else into their relationship. But the sex, though, when it was good, it was good.

Were you hooking up with her? Were you looking up with him? Everything was going down? Everything was going down. And were they hot? Were you attracted to them? Yeah. Yeah.

They were a good-looking couple. He was like early 50s, I think maybe 51 or something. And she was a little bit younger. She was like 43, I think. Uh-huh. And they were good looking. They both worked out and took care of themselves and fun. Like they used to do stuff and whatever.

But yeah, we all were just having sex. All of us, he had a really high sex drive and she was like, I can't keep up with that. Like you always say, here, here's another girl. Go fuck her. And she's like, help me out here. So, yeah, we would fuck like crazy, crazy all the time. I would spend three, four days there. They ended up talking about wanting me to move in.

Wow. But, oh, yeah. So it sounds like at the time that it was probably fun, but looking at. back you see like the problems well there was one time of course you're all drinking and whatnot we're all having sex and the wife went downstairs to go get a drink or whatever she's you guys just keep doing what you're doing or whatever and so we were i was riding him in the bed and she comes upstairs and she's like the fuck off of my husband what are you doing goes crazy.

Why? What the fuck? Wait a second. I'm sure you had rode him before, right in front of her? Oh, yeah. And she told you you could do whatever when you left.

Yeah. Yeah. Did she explain why she was bothered her? She just, I don't know. She must have went downstairs and had a conversation with herself and really. I was like, I was like, what do I do? Do I, do I, do I,

Do I keep fucking him? Do I get off? Like, do I? What do I do? What did you do? He was like, he's telling me, no, stay right here. And I'm like, okay, yeah, I'm sure. So, but then eventually, like, I did get up and I was like, I just gathered my belongings.

And he was, like, really defending me. Were you trying, though, to talk to her? Hey, listen, I'm so sorry. I didn't know that this would bother you. Were you trying to talk to the woman yourself? woman to woman? No, because I think he was trying to take charge of the situation before I even could find the words to get out. Like, I was so shocked. So I just went downstairs to the room that I would use and whatever. And I think eventually they both came in and talked to me and whatever. And what did they

say? I think that she had trust issues because he cheated on her earlier in. their marriage and this is how they were trying to work that out because they both were interested in a female and they figured this was a good way for them to both have their cake and eat it too but they had worked out for the major trust issues and everything else that goes along with bringing somebody else into that relationship well were there rules put in there okay listen I don't mind you. Did you guys all go back upstairs and fill around again? Or did you go home?

Was that the last time? That night I did not. That night I did not. But I stopped seeing. There was like probably a couple weeks that I didn't see them. And I pretty much was like, you guys, I talked to you about this beforehand. I thought everything was fine. We talked about it, whatever.

I came back probably for, started with seeing them for another six weeks or so. And it fucking happened again. What happens? The same fucking thing. She just went crazy, like in the middle of a big sex capade. Well, they didn't, but let me ask you this. Did they put any kind of rules in there that, like, he was not obeying? Like, it was a free-for-all, but every now and then, even in the middle of a free-for-all,

she'd get mad at something that you had done many times before. I don't get it. Yeah. She was like one of those drinkers that she was good until she, it was just that one. that went over the edge. And then she was sloppy and messy and bitchy. And that night, I got my shit and I fucking left. Three in the morning, hour and a half away from my house.

I was like, never again. Yeah, you don't need that shit. Yeah, she's crazy. And she shouldn't be, listen, they should not be doing what they're doing. She's not in the right head space for it at all. Or she shouldn't drink when she's doing it because she's not being rational, like you said. really the alcohol that would fuck her up, right? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. She was like, she was, her and I got along great. We were like friends.

Yeah, but she lost it when she was drunk, right? She had issues. Okay, so did you do any other couples after them? I didn't meet up with anybody. I had good conversations. A lot of those apps I did find. It is probably just the husband messaging you jerking off to your pictures and all that stupid ass shit. Yeah. And I was like, I'm so over this. because you built this like relationship, you're in line, you get this false sense of hope that maybe you can see that. Because I was open to traveling. If somebody lived in Atlanta, I'm open to flying there. I don't have any reason why I can't. So, and I want to travel, that kind of stuff. And that just never came to be. But that's when I ended up, I'm like, well, hey, I'm dating.

Why not see what I can find with a sugar daddy? Oh, yeah. I'm so curious of what the mindset is for a woman that's seeking that out? What is the point of that? Is the point like, because I know with my age, so this was just like a year to two years ago. I was, I'm still like young 447. I'm probably immature, whatever, but I'm having fun and I'm totally myself. And I like older guys. So I'm like, I can, I could date an older guy. If you want, if somebody's a widower, or he just is like a business guy that just doesn't have time. I went on a website. I was exploring my options of what's out there.

No, but there's money involved in a quote-unquote sugar daddy. So that had to be a part of this thing that you're looking for. You're not just looking for an older guy. You're looking for an older guy that's going to pay you for sex. That's what it's about, right? I'm just understanding the mindset. Yeah. Yeah.

Some of the guys were just looking for... No, no, no, I'm not talking about the guys. It's you went on to a sugar daddy site. I'm just wondering, like, in your mind at that point, you're like, yeah, let me go look for an older guy that's got a lot of cash. The money has to be a part of it for you. Correct. I had just gotten out of a six-year relationship that I was pretty spoiled in.

And we traveled a lot and spoiled. I got, not that I got whatever I wanted, but I got nice. things and I like them. Is that like necessary for me? No. But, you know, I decided, let me just explore my options. I don't know. I may not find anything that I would want. But yeah, at the same time, if somebody wants a travel companion, whatever, with the right person, I'm open to it. Okay. So it wasn't like I was necessarily like, oh, I'm going to get somebody that's going to give me all this money and stuff. I was more like looking for maybe someone that, like I said, a travel companion or just somebody to hang out with or whatever and just to see what would happen or what

it would be like I had no idea but it's like available to you you're single you're like why not try this angle out it's interesting okay exactly and what happened there so um I met a couple guys one guy just the same thing just wants to talk and never meet up met this other guy we talked for a little while he seems like a nice normal guy and crazy as it is i met him at a hotel because he is in town for work so they all stay in hotels and stuff and he paid me like 250 i went there and literally talked to him for five hours and only kissed him that was that did he pay never saw him again yeah $250. And I was like, that was not bad.

I mean, was he nice? What else was I going to do? Yeah, very nice. He had two older daughters in their like 20s and stuff. He was like a normal guy that you would never think anything of. Yeah. I did not feel threatened with him. I felt very safe.

I didn't ever see him again, though. And I, but I feel like I wasn't getting the whole truth of. his life, but it is what it is. Then I met this other guy and he was a little bit older. 62. It sat on the thing. I met him for dinner the first time. And I'm waiting for him outside and he gets out of his car and I was like, that's an old man. He's not 62. And he's like, we're like 82. Well, he ended up being 69. But he was like an older guy. And I was like, I remember seeing him for the first time. And I'm like, oh, wow, can I do this?

Well, what were you? Well, okay, but what are you with this guy? What is, what did you negotiate ahead of time? Because in a sugar daddy situation, I, right? It's slightly transactional, right? So what is, what's going on with this guy? It's a little, it's a little, it was a little vague at first. It turns out he had been doing this for quite a while.

and he was a widower now. So he said that he had different situations with different girls. Some girls, he would just take them on vacation with him or just give him like pay per meat, like a couple hundred bucks when they would meet up and whatever. So we decided, well, let's just see if we hit it off. Whatever. I'm fine with it. Like I said, I wasn't really looking for the money or anything.

And he was a widower. So he would just, he liked him. companionship and I ended up really liking him. He was very like good to talk to that older mentors. He still works. He's very like active and stuff. But he was older and 69. That's almost 70. I'm like, oh my God. But I really actually liked him. So that first time you met him, what happened? Did you wind up sleeping with him? well we never have we never had sex okay he can't get it hard and he has a very small penis interesting okay and he tells you this up front or you learn this over time well the first time we

met up i'm such a hope first time we met up then i went back to his place and then he just he just wanted to go down on me i'm like i'm i'm not gonna tell you no how much to my god so you so you so you meet this guy he's 70 he lied yeah he's supposed to be 62 but he's 70 but he's like come back to my house I'm just going to go down on you and how much you're getting paid for that um like 300 okay and you did yeah yeah and then I would this is the funniest part of a not funny but it this is fucking reality here well your reality but he he could not get hard but I would suck his dick and he could come wow yeah no I've heard of that because listen, I think, well, no, ejaculation and orgasms don't happen at the same time.

But so he wouldn't get totally erect, but he was able to have, he was able to ejaculate. Ejaculate. Interesting. Yep. So you blew him too. Yep. Okay. How was that for you?

It wasn't, it wasn't as bad as you would think. I, but like I said, I really did. I liked hanging out with him. Yeah. He was fun. He was a little fun. But yeah, he pulls out some glass delos, balloons. blue, all this stuff. I'm like, who is this man?

He's a man. I don't care how old he is. He's still a man. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. He would go down on me for hours if I love it. And was he good? Oh, yeah. Yeah, it was good. It was real good. Yeah. And I'm a squirder. So he really, really liked him. How long did you see him for? I would say six to eight months. But it was like there could be parents. of time. I wouldn't see him very often. Right. He was really busy and stuff. Was it always $300? Not every time. No. Sometimes it wasn't always $300. Sometimes he wouldn't pay me. And then I would be like, what the heck? But I didn't, I did like spending time with him. So I was like, I was okay with it. The most he gave me at once was $1,000. So, because I was moving. And he just wanted to help all of stuff like that.

And so, but I think he was catching feelings and still dealing with his wife's death because his wife had died like a year and a half or so before I met him. And they were together for a long time. But, yeah, so I haven't seen him again. But he's. But why did it end? I'm too much of a distraction. For him?

Yeah. Not what he said? I mean, did he say, listen, I don't want to see you anymore? every once in a while he'll say he wants to see me but i haven't seen him since last summer i've talked to him a couple times but that's it but he yeah he's he's i'm too much of a distraction for him if if he's messing around with me he can he can't he can't think straight and he has like a real job so he's like i can't which i'm like wait a second don't you want that don't you want that in your life but it's fine.

So I haven't really been, but my sex drive over the last, like, year or two has been, like, outrageous. I'm like, I can't get enough sex. I want to fuck all the time. Yeah, that's probably menopause. Yeah. And so I ended up friends with benefits, very good friend of mine. we have the best friends with benefits

like relationship we literally can fuck and fool around and everything and if I saw him the next day nobody would know any different you're just friends but sometimes you hook up yeah I got I have that relationship huh yeah so that's good

but then I've dated off and on and guys that say that they could keep up with me definitely can't keep up with me but is your friends with benefits the guy you Peg? Nope. So who's that guy? This, oh, he, so I met him actually on Facebook on a stupid random group, whatever we, we meet. He asked me out right away. He's in my area. So we go to dinner and I'm like, man, I'm just not sure if I'm feeling this guy, whatever. Well, then we start talking

some more and I have to come out with my herpes situation. And I'm like, I don't know what he's going to say whatever i tell him and he's like okay we can deal with that whatever but he must have felt i'm opening up to him he opens up to me so he's like i really have to be fucked in my ass and i'm like okay so and back it off even a couple of years ago i'm like i need to find a man that's exciting i love margaret yeah i love dressing for a man you know that kind of stuff and I just can't find somebody. Isn't that so disappointing when you want to wear like hot sleddy outfits and the guy could care less?

It's like annoying. Or where's the guy that wants to wear the women's panties or wants me to wear panties? Interesting. Oh, I have all those guys. I can find you a guy. You shout that out. Put that in your, listen to me, you want a guy that is into wearing panty hose and you can wear panty hose.

You put that on any dating app profile. Okay. and you're going to see an increase in your DM. Yeah, because I'm like, whatever. So I meet this guy randomly. And by happenstance, he tells me this. And I've always, like I said, I use a strap on with the threesome. Yeah.

Love it. And I'm like, yes. Okay. So we are, it's fucking fantastic. I, you know, he wants to be pegged. He wants me to do whatever to his ass. He wants to, you know, play with my ass and all of that. And he's dirty.

Like the other night, he just wanted to pull my tampon out because that's whatever. And it's that's like where I'm at right now. The only thing is, of course, how my life goes, he's married. And there's. like they lived together. You never ceased to impress me with your interesting story. Everyone has a late twist to it. It never

fails, Kathy. It never fails. Wait, did he tell you this straight off the bat or did you wind up finding it later? Yes, because they are they do live together. They are not like together. They, he owns a business and it's messy

with that. So, and she, like she is seeing somebody even. But it's like this, of course, this fucked up situation. Why can't I just have what I want? No, but I don't listen. Okay, wait a second. Married and like in a relationship with someone is one thing.

Separated but not divorced yet and married on paper. It doesn't mean shit to me if you ask me. So he's actually separated from his wife, but they haven't sort of made it official, but she's moved on and she has other partners and she knows that he sees somebody else? They still live together. Okay, but does she, do they live in the same room?

No No But let me ask you this Do you know for a fact That what he's telling you is true? I don't know for a fact But like I've been to his house And he goes out with me and stuff

He's not worried him Well when you go to his house Is his wife home? No I only was there once The other night actually For the first time But he has cameras everywhere

I would think that she has access To that camera I could be And I have I was straight up with him yesterday. Actually, I'm like, I need to know exactly. Because then I can decide if I want to get myself more involved in this or not. And what does he say when you tell him?

He, he, it's been a two, three years that they've been definitely separated. She is seeing somebody that she was out of town when I went there the other night. That's, she was with that guy. That's an open thing. I did directly ask him, what would she say if I asked her or someone asked her and he said the same thing. Well, okay. Like, I don't know what a normal girl does in the situation, but I know what I would do in the situation. But I don't know if I'm very normal, but I do like investigating things.

Yeah. If I were you, I would have already done some intel on the wife. Look for her Instagram. Try to find out like if he's really telling the truth. Have you looked into her at all to try to see what he's saying? matches up? I tried looking her up on Facebook. I can't find anything. He doesn't have her

connected. Most people aren't on Facebook anymore. It's like 2004. Go to Instagram. You know her. They're hurting you. Yeah. And I doubt, I doubt that she does because it's very vanilla. She doesn't even know this part about him. What part about him? Like about him liking to be fucked in the ass or anything. No, no, you need to know whether this whole marriage

set up. Listen, I do believe. I do believe. that there are couples that are quote unquote still married by law but are completely separated but they still do live in the same house that can be the case but what also could be the case is that he's still with his vanilla wife that won't fuck him in the ass and that's why he's seeing you and he's just making up this whole story yeah and which is very very valid which is in my head for sure but you haven't tried to find her on instagram to see if she has pictures with her and somebody else or like family pictures with him? No, but I

will. Now that you say it. The fact that you haven't thought of it on your own, I don't understand people like that. Because I guess I don't know. Do you not want to know? Do you believe him? I believe him. He's very, very

open with me about stuff. He went through a lot of shit in his childhood with his with a family member and molesting him and all of that. He's been very open with me about stuff like that. And I don't think that he would lie to me about this. It's obvious about the marriage, you mean. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think so. Because he's, he's very unhappy. And he, when you ask him why they haven't separated houses yet, do you know why?

Because of the business. And it's easy because he's got other properties. She goes and, stays at one of them or and I guess she's a teacher so I'm guessing when it's school's out or whatever she goes away that's what he says yeah okay so it is right now it is what it is

it's pretty new it's only been like a month six weeks maybe that I've been seeing him yeah I think it's a flip of a coin 50% chance he's lying to 50% chance he's telling you like I said there is a situation that that can be the truth that he is every but a lot of the times men will lie. No guy's going to, that's cheating on his wife is

most of the time is telling the truth when they're banging the girl that they're cheating on the wife. They're not going to that girl and saying, oh yeah, I just gave my wife flowers and we had dinner and everything's great. They're going to tell that girl, everything's terrible and this is toxic, we're not together,

blah, blah, I'm going to tell the truth. And I ask a lot of questions because I am that person. I ask a lot of questions and he doesn't like the pressure sometimes but I'm like listen this is the fucking drill if you want to explore all this stuff

with me I just need to know the truth so so he wants like he's been to sex clubs in Las Vegas and everything and we're definitely looking into doing that and seeing what we find out there

is he available at any time of the day whenever you want to see him any night or is he unavailable a lot he is i talked to him quite often during the day he runs talking on the phone i know in real life is he available 24 seven whenever you want to see him because those are like the little tells of whether a guy has a real life if he's got a real life at home and he's fucking lying there's going to be a lot of times he's not available to see you because he can't get away from his real wife at home that's what i mean they could text you when they're sitting next to their wife

they do that okay yeah no shit so talking and shit like that doesn't mean anything. I'm saying is he available to you 24-7 whenever you want to see him like a single guy would be? I think that he puts a good effort into seeing me. Yeah. Like at night time, he goes back to his shop and he has to get things ready for the next day and then goes to bed. I'm not stupid. Yes, that's a possibility that he's saying if she's at home. I don't know. I see him. I'm worried for you. It doesn't matter. Do you like, let me ask you this. Honestly, you really, obviously, he's kind of like on the same page as you when it comes to

SACs, right? You're like down, you have all these things on the horizon. You're interested in doing with him. And be very honest, because nobody knows who you are, including me. If he came out to you tomorrow and said, or like you went into the investigative research that I told you to, which you could probably do in two seconds and found out that, you know what, he is still married and he's got it. Like, would you still continue with him?

Probably. Right. So that's why you don't look because you don't like, right? Like, you don't like him. Like, are you looking for a relationship with him? Yeah. Well, that's where I'm there right now. I want a relationship because I've finally gotten to that point in my life again.

And that's the conversation we had yesterday. And what does he say when you say you want a relationship? well he said he he never was looking for somebody else didn't think that he would ever find somebody like me in the first place because he didn't think that women like me existed and it's all like a lot for him to process because like I said it is so pretty no no no no no that doesn't make sense he's saying you're just like so good to be true that it's so overwhelming that I can't commit to you I like this you make sense so well yeah because it's not like he can't just leave his, I mean, he could, yeah, leave his wife. But at the same time, there's a whole lot

involved in that. Yeah. I think if you, listen, I think if you're really open to being in another relationship in your life right now, and that's what you're looking for, and you just want everything that you want in one person, this guy's got all that sex stuff and everything, there's a big chance that he is still married and he's lying to you. And there's a chance that he's not. I'm not saying 100% chance. Right. If I were you, because you, because you, are looking for a relationship. Before you get in so far with this guy, I would go and force yourself to really make sure he's telling the truth because you don't want to wind up emotionally attached and attracted

to a man who's just straight up lying to you and has a whole other life that's never going to be available for you if you're really available and looking for a real partner. Yeah. And that's why I started that conversation yesterday because I do really like. him. I am like attracted to him. I love the sex. I love everything. Our conversations are great. He, he checks a lot of boxes and I don't want to get myself emotionally attached to something, to somebody that's unavailable to me again. And that is a big, big topic for me right now. So yeah, I don't, I don't think that he's lying to me, but, but I, I understand where you're

coming from. I need to be smart about it. Yeah, listen, it's good that you're being honest and letting him know that you're serious here. So if he's lying to you, then it's just an added burden for him. Like, how long could he do this with somebody that eventually wants to get serious? He's going to have to shit or get off the pot. And if he's lying, he knows he's going to get busted somewhere. So keep putting that pressure on him if that's how you feel. That's the best way to find out the truth.

Tell him you love him. That's right. Tell him all over. Yeah. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Listen, Brandy, I have to go. Like I said, there's a lot of your stories.

There's always one little tiny red flag that ruins it all. This guy, I don't know. I'm nervous for you with this one just because of your history. But listen, maybe keep your options open and keep dating. Yeah. Good luck with everything. I love that you called in. Your story's fascinating.

Like I said, each story has a little twist to it. That number one's all the one in my life. I always said. No. Oh, my God. Started out with a murder. There was herpes, peggies. Pegging.

Oh, yeah. That's a lot of stuff. So anyway, thank you so much for calling it and sharing your story. And listen, if you want to send me some hot picks of you, you like to dress up for sure. Send me some hot picks to go with this. I got a whole Patreon full of tons of people. And the fact that you're willing to fly, the fact that you like a guy that wears panty house, oh my God, like I have so many guys that are going to be dying to see picks of you. So, you know, I could probably get you dates.

Okay. So send me in some hot picks of you. No face. Okay. No face. Yeah. All right. Sounds good. Thank you. Thank you, Brandy. Bye. All right. Bye.

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