Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 825 - FETISH FRIDAY: Jay and Julie are in a Female Led Relationship and she Loves Humiliating Him

Episode Date: May 10, 2024

Jay and Julie are in a female led relationship and they BOTH called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they were always vanilla and how and why their sex life at one point totally changed, how that led to them taking vacation that focused on constant s*x for her and ruined orgasms for him and how and why they both enjoyed it, how she loved getting all the pleasure and started humiliating him when they got home, the ways she humiliates him including making him wear panties and taking pics, showing them to her girlfriend, putting him in a c*** cage, doing crazy things to his toothbrush?! and more, how and why they also started using a penis extender and how and why that tuns them both on, how they’re both are down to eventually bring in another guy for Julie to hook up with, how Julie wants that scenario to go down, how she felt about humiliating him and denying him pleasure in the beginning when he copped to being into it, how she can humiliate him now and stay horny for him at same time and how this dynamic has made her feel closer to him plus a whole lot more. **To see a pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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with Jay for a little bit, I'm like, I need your wife. on the show because she is a unicorn. Okay, Jay put it out on the table to his wife. During COVID, they like went on a vacation or they did something where like he put on the table that he just wanted to be like humiliated. And they got hardcore into it. When I say hardcore into it, the things that his wife does to him is out of control. You're going to have to wait for the details. If you want more of the details, you can look in the description. I give more information there. People want me to keep my intro shorter and not give out all the information. But anyway, he talked about all the hard core things that they've gotten into. And not only is she into it, she like fucking loves it.

This is like every cissy guy's dream girl. Okay. And that's why I was like, I have to get her on because some of the things that she has thought up to humiliate him or like I said, out of control. They have to do with a toothbrush. Okay. Anyway, I'll leave it at that. You're going to have to listen. They are into chastity, pegging, humiliation, like I said, all that kind of good stuff. And they both talk me through the whole story. You hear it all from his side. He's the Sisi. He loves nothing more than to be denied, have ruined orgasms. And we hear the whole story from her side. She loves nothing more than not doing shit for him and humiliating the shit for her. She, I say she's like the lug-y his woman on the planet because the more she doesn't do for her guy. The more selfish

she is, the more into her. He is. That's what adds to their relationship. relationship, they are very successful at this type of setup, which I think is fascinating. A lot of times I think that a relationship can't sustain a woman, humiliating a guy, but it has only brought them closer. And she talks about that. So it's a super interesting episode. You're going to love it. I'm going to get right to it. You're first going to hear from Jay 30 minutes in the 40 minutes from Julie. So I'm going to be right back on with Jay. Hi, Jay. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing well. So listen, Jay, you have a really interesting setup in your home in that you are wound up marrying.

And I don't know that you knew this going in. A very dom, dominant kind of chick, right? Because all of a sudden or recently, your relationship dynamic changed. And now she is doing all kinds of dumb things to you. She makes you dress up. She makes you take picks with cock cages on. She puts you in a cockchaise. She denies you.

She pegs you. She fucking tells her friends about you. She makes you dress up. She pees on you. She also has a free pass, so you might be cuckled down the road. You really are her bitch. And at some point, like this happened, it wasn't always set up that way, correct? Yep, that's correct.

Okay. First of all, let's get your backstory. So how long you guys been married? Yeah, so we've been married about 20 years. Okay. So we're both in our late 40s. I would say our marriage was pretty normal, pretty stereotypical. We both had corporate American-American-type jobs, got married, had kids, all of those types of things. And I'd say for the first, I don't know, I'd say we're married for 20 years, the first 17, 18 years, it was a pretty

vanilla relationship. We talked about some things, but really didn't have a very active sex life. So I think maybe like a couple times times a month we'd have sex and probably were caught in the vicious cycle many couples are where I wanted to have more sex and but she wanted more emotional support for me and neither was providing the other because we weren't getting what we wanted. So I would say it wasn't the greatest sexual relationship. Okay, interesting. Now let me ask you, how did it start? You said you're married for a long time, pretty vanilla sex, really not that great. You're like most couples in that there's a disconnect there. How do things change? Yeah. So what's interesting is every once in a while we try and we can never find something that that works from a female-led perspective.

And then I'd say what changed is COVID hit. And when COVID hit many people, my job from being in the office five days a week where I was getting up early, getting home late, going to kids events, turned into me being home a lot more. And at first it was the entire family and that didn't really lead to anything and then it turned into the kids went back to school and her and I'd be at home working and I started making time during the day for us to have sexual sex quite frankly during the day and so that gave us more time together and I think generally the kids just started to get older and so we started to try some things and and the sex life started to become more active then what happened is that led to about two years ago we were we were going on a vacation and

And I honestly, I'm not sure if I suggested it. We probably talked about it together, but we said, we agreed, I should say, that that vacation would be about her sexual pleasure. So what that meant was each day I would get her off until she, in essence, waved the white flag, so four or five times in any way she wanted me to get her off. And then she would, in turn, not allow me to have a pleasurable release. And so by that, she would either give me a ruined orgasm, which quite frankly, we probably became aware of because of your show or at least I did.

Or if I was able to have human touch, whether I jerked off or she touched me and got off, she would make me consume. So we had tried in the past, like full denial and that wasn't something that motivated me, but this motivated me to please her. And just the thought of her wanting me to focus on her was exciting. So she probably got off 20, 25 times that week. And while I got off four or five, whatever the amount of time was, we were there, was all in the way, way I described.

So we came back from that vacation and maybe surprisingly to me as we started to spend our time together, she didn't want to change what we had done on vacation. And then, you know, after a couple of weeks that she made to comment like, hey, I'm not sure you're going to get off with pleasure again. I like this. And my sexual attention was up because of how things were going. And so from there, it just kept getting more and more. And that, like I said, that was probably about two years ago. Okay, so yeah, you realize you're so into pleasing her.

And that's very submissive of you. You like the ruined orgasms. Let's go like chronologically. Like what came next as far as what you experienced? Yeah. So I'd say when we got back and we started doing things, she started taking more and more pictures. So she would have me maybe wear women's underwear. and get her off in an outfit of her choice or.

Oh, right. Slow that down a little bit. Okay, how does this come up? Okay, because this is like a major thing. Like, hey, babe, I want you to dress up in girly clothes and I want to take picks of you. You know, how does that whole thing come up? Does she bring it up? Do you say you want to wear panties? Yeah, so I don't remember like a specific instance of when this came up.

I'm sure I brought it up at some point. She knows that being humiliated is something that does excite me in my personal life. So I believe she was just thinking of different things. And so I'm sure at some point I put them on and then she knew that it humiliated me. So then she would suggest it at a different point. So she might say something like, hey, go buy an outfit to wear for me. And then I'd go buy that and put it on for her. And she would take pictures of it.

So that's likely, that's my recollection of how it can. came up. It wasn't something extremely intentional. As you said, it just keeps morphine. Okay, but, you know, I talk to cross-trusters and guys that wear panties and all that kind of stuff all the time. A lot of times that stuff comes out very early on in someone's life. If you went way back, were you like the type of little kid that was like stealing their mom's stuff or their sister's stuff or secretly dressing ever before this relationship? Yeah, so absolutely not. What's interesting is I'm not turned on wearing it on my own. So never something I would do without her telling me. Interesting. Okay. I'm glad I asked because I think that kind of specific thing is

interesting. Yeah, I'm turned on by her telling me to do it. Yeah. Yeah, that's right. So it's not, you know, I don't consider myself like a sissy that I would go do this on my own or I absolutely wouldn't do it on my own and I get no excitement from doing it without her telling me. Okay. Yeah, I get that. You're not a cross-duster. You're just into humiliation, which is another kink. You're no different than the cross-dresser in that. You do have a fetish, but it's a different kind of fetish. So you were never into dressing up or anything.

But putting on those clothes and her taking pictures, like triggers that humiliation kink in you, and that's the turn-on. Yep, that's right. Yep. Okay, cool. So you get back. She's like into taking pictures of you. And that turn-on for you while she's taking the pictures is that this is being documented. Yeah, I think just that it's being documented and that she can go back and look at them or again, if I went back and looked at them, they would excite me because she was making me wear these non-traditional things or a women's clothes or whatever it would be.

Yeah, interesting. Now, would that lead to sex like while you were dressed? Yeah, sometimes. Yeah, we would, that would be sort of the part of the foreplay. She'd have me do that. Maybe I'd eat her out wearing a pair of panties and then ultimately they would come. off and we do whatever. So yes, it would sort of be part of the foreplay. Quick question for you, though. So I, does she know you're calling into the show? I'm sorry. Does she know? Yeah. Yes. Because I'm like, would she ever come on and that we, because I'm like, I'm, there's parts of me that like, like, I do want to ask questions about her headspace. And I'm like, oh, but if I could get her on, I could just do all those questions to her. Would she ever come on and talk about this story from her perspective? Yeah, no, I, I believe she would,

would come on. Okay, good. So let's save her side of things for that. Okay, I'm not going to waste my time asking more questions about her. So then, like, when did the cock cages come into play and the pegging? Like, when did that kind of stuff come in? Yeah. So, again, just in that same humiliation theme, I'm sure I bought the cockcage at one point. And she was intrigued by it. It was, she's not generally out there doing research. She would ask me what types of things are like you've seen, or maybe I'd share stuff with her. So I'm sure I bought the cage. And then she started saying,

I want you to wear it these couple days or stay. And again, generally on the other side of that, it lands in sexual interaction. But she would be intrigued by them and find them funny and, you know, laugh about it and have me do those things. And the laughing is a turn on to you. That's why you're saying that. Yeah.

It's not like she's laughing at you like in her. I mean, this is all a part of the human, humiliation kink you're into it yep that's right okay so when did you guys start pegging and tell me about that i mean had you done anal play you know with yourself in your life uh did this come up did pegging come up during this time or had you guys always been into pegging yeah we had we had not and i had not tried that ever was not something that was desirable to me same same type of thing i would say i'm sure as we were talking about different humiliation things it was something that I brought up and asked if it was ever something she'd be interested in. Obviously,

it's a power exchange. And she said, yeah, I'd be willing to try it. So that's how it came up. I won't say it happens a lot and generally happens when we've had a lot of drinks or when maybe she's had a lot of drinks. That's like anyone with anal action. Yeah. So that's generally how it happened. And then in addition to that, she'll film that on her phone from a video perspective or something. and it goes along the same lines what we just talked about. So I think the first time she did it, she had sort of built up to it with different size dildos and then eventually got to a strap on

and honestly just did it as part of a normal hookup session we were having during the day where she pulled it out and maybe surprised me and went to town. So it's not something we do a lot. I would honestly call her a little reckless in that area, so she scares me a little bit that she might hurt me at different times.

So we're cautious. Well, has she ever been fucked in the ass? She is not. That's why. She doesn't understand. She just doesn't understand. If you've never had something in your ass like a dick, like you don't know, that's why a lot of guys just wind up pounding a girl in the

ass the first time she says, okay, and she's horrified for the rest of her life. Because you cannot do it that way. So I always say if you want to know how to do it the right way, start with yourself. And then you'll know. You can't just shove it in. Like you said, you can't be reckless. It's like you have to, it has to, all the stars have to align. You have to be super turned on.

You got to go kind of slow and all that kind of good stuff. So, but do you enjoy it when it happens? Yeah, not the physical act. I enjoy thinking about the fact that she wants to do it to me. So again, that's getting at the humiliation side of it. But there's not like physical pleasure. Now, some of that is what you just described. Like when I say to her like, hey, can you slow down and be a little more careful?

She's sort of like, fuck you quit being a baby. And I don't get that necessarily that physical pleasure from the act. So that's part of the reason. Like I, to me, it's always more exciting than thought. But when it actually happens, I think I'm scared shitless. She's actually going to really hurt me. So we sort of balance that one. Yeah, yeah, that's so interesting.

That's funny. Now, okay, so like we have water works. We have waxing. We have telling the friends. We have a lot of other things. Like, why don't you continue? on and just take it from there, like what happens next? Yep. So a couple things. The waxing had been happening for a while. She, even before we went on that vacation, it was maybe one of those

tradeoffs and probably goes in line with her personality where I wanted her to wax and she said, fine, but I want you to as well. So that had been something that had been going on for a little while and that continues. That's just a must have for her right now. So I get waxed on a on a normal basis. There's been other times where, as you mentioned, she has pissed on me. I think the first time that happened, we were actually at a hotel. And again, seems to always be alcohol involved, but we were drinking pretty significantly. And again, I'm pretty open to whatever. And she's getting there, obviously, right now. So I think I asked her if it was ever something she would want to do. And she was like, let's try it. So I went and laid down in the bathtub in the hotel.

She didn't hold back at all and just pissed all over me. So probably easier being in a hotel where it wasn't in her home. Yeah. So again, I wouldn't say it's something that happens all the time, but certainly something that she is open to doing. And it's interesting. It seems, you know, ebbs and flows. Like she's interested in it and then okay, not doing it for a while.

And I try not to push things on her because this is about how she wants things to go and the more I push, at least my fear is like this becomes about me as opposed to about what she wants. She's done other things with with with pain. So just recently she had told me that look, for the next month, I want you to keep your toothbrush on the back of the toilet. And when I wake up at night, I'm going to pee on it. And you have to keep using that toothbrush for the whole month. Holy shets. Yeah, there are things like that that occur. So that luckily that just ended. But that was example. So again, it's like whatever pops into her head that she thinks is funny, she's up for. Wow. And the great thing is, is we are going to be talking to her. Okay,

this isn't a very creative bitch. Okay. I love her. It's a fucked up shit. She's bringing to the table. Oh my God. Like the fact that she, so anything she says kind of goes. So she had you literally pee on a toothbrush and use that every day for a month. out of control. She would pee on it. I would never know when she did. Yep. So when she'd get up at night,

I'd wake up the next morning, and then I'd use it, and then I'd put it back on the back of the toilet. Oh my goodness. That's hardcore. Yeah. Yeah, she surprised me with that one. I could put it that way.

She surprised me with that one. Oh, my God. I can't wait to get into her head. Okay, so now I know she told her friends. And now a lot of times this is a part of the story because people are like out and proud, but this is a part of your story. because that's a, that's just an extension on you being humiliated, correct?

Like you were, you're into her friends knowing because it's like they know you're acting like this and doing these things. Yeah, so not multiple friends, single friends. So for, for my job, this is not something that can be public and quite frankly, we have kids. Of course. Of course. Yeah. Nobody's business.

That's right. So, and so we had, she had a friend that we knew wouldn't be judgmental or at least we believed wouldn't be judgmental. about this and maybe it's a little crazy in her own right. So that helped in this. So that would be me if I was your friends. Yeah, maybe. Maybe. So it was interesting, about nine months before she actually told her friend, we agreed, yep, I was okay with it. Obviously, you know, to me, communication is very important in these relationships. So I was, I was good, good with if she wanted to tell this friend. But it took her a while. I think my wife was concerned about how the friend would react or just

has been not not completely confident despite all the things I just said about about her. So she did eventually confide in her friend and it's interesting. I'm not sure you're going to talk to you're going to talk to my wife. I'm sure she'll be able to fill you in in that conversation or at least what she's comfortable with. But the friend I don't think believed necessarily all of it initially. I think there's like some misconceptions. Why I'm open to this. I'm why it's all about pleasing my wife. So she she told the friend at first it was just her going out with her having drinks and telling her about it and confiding in her, and then it turned into her showing her pictures of me. It's interesting. The friend's only been aware for maybe five or six months at this point,

and it needs to all remain confidential, but the friend hasn't, we haven't been in the, we haven't talked about it, I guess. And at one point I said to my wife, look, if she wants to come over and ask questions, maybe like you are, to try to understand it better, I'm open to that. And the friend hasn't been, that hasn't happened yet. I don't know if the friend will ever do that or not. But so that, yes, you're right, it became like another level of humiliation and that continues to grow. I'm not sure where it'll go or what the friend's up for or any of those types of things. But at least right now it's another lover. My wife has from my humiliation perspective.

Now, would you be into her eventually, like, showing her picks? Yeah. Yeah, and she has shown her picks. Oh, okay. It's interesting. Like, never with nothing that could be passed around, but picks that are clearly me and picks of my, my dick and sometimes my wife will have me wear a penis extender so she'll take you know picks of that because I'm not the most endowed person in the world so yeah I'm open to whatever my my wife wanted and

obviously whatever the friend was comfortable with yeah but you know obviously not my call and what that is and we'll see where that where that leaves I guess well maybe you're gonna have to let the friend listen to this episode she'll be more in the know but I would say the what I mean listen if I was the friend and I knew as much as I know from doing my show if I don't want to to get into a threesome with you guys one day, I might not come over and ask you questions, because I do feel like on some level, if that friend comes over to ask you questions, you're not going to be answering her just like because you want to educate her. That's going to be a turn on for you. She's turning you on, right?

Yeah, I guess you could say that. The friend's in a relationship. I doubt this whatever, and I don't even know that my wife would be interested, right? Yeah, no, no, that's what I mean. Like, it would be a sexual thing her asking you those questions. That's the whole part of it, correct? That's what I think people don't understand. Like I used to talk to this guy who had a foot fetish and he was like a friend, but he'd be like, send me a pick of my feet. I'm like, no.

Like feet are not any big deal to show anybody. You walk around the street showing your feet to everybody. But if you're sending picks of your feet to a guy that has a foot fetish, you're giving him a fucking heart on. So to me it's no different than you're sending a shot of your pussy. It's like you're doing something that's turning that person on. So I'm just saying like that friend, you ass saying to the friend, you could come over and ask me questions.

It's like an erotic thing. So if she's in a relationship, relationship, it's better that she doesn't because it's not like she's coming over for informational reasons. That's all I'm saying. Yeah, I understand the point. I don't, my wife is sort of trying to balance that and figure out the curiosity side of it and friends asking lots of questions. So yeah, I hear you. I understand your point. Okay, so now you have this potential free pass because I would assume that humiliation thing would extend to having your wife go to fuck someone else and her tell you about it.

Do you guys role play that? Have you talked about that? Is that something that's in your future with the free pass? Yeah. So we absolutely have talked about it. And my wife, you know, again, talks about me not being that well endowed and being interested with someone with a bigger dick. And that's obviously plays into everything that we've talked about.

So we have talked about it. And it's interesting. Now, I don't know if it'll happen. We're not getting any younger. And so it's one of those things. that I don't know if we'll ever get to that level of comfort, but she, I have told her that if that's something she wants, again, along the same lines we just talked about, I'm willing to do whatever she wants that if she wanted to have a sexual relationship with someone else. I don't know

how comfortable I would be like, well, I don't know. I'm open for anything, but I don't know how comfortable I'd be with her without me being there. So it might be more of a cuck situation, at least initially. But open to whatever, that just takes an extra level or effort to get to that point with someone you're comfortable with and all those things. So we'll see if that plays out, but she absolutely has the, has my okay if that's something she's interested in. Yeah, interesting. How has all of this stuff and trying all this stuff out and opening up to all of this in your relationship with your wife changed your relationship? Yeah, I think it's made it stronger. So first of all, I said this before. I think communication is really important in these types of

relationships. So if something happens that either of us aren't comfortable with, we got to tell each other. And so that's, that's important. But, you know, she said to me that this, she wishes we would have to this much earlier. Like, she likes the idea that she doesn't have to worry at all about how I'm thinking about things or how I'm feeling like it's her getting off. And then she still gives me a release, but she doesn't really give a shit how I, if I'm enjoying it or anything like that. Oh my God. She's the luckiest wife ever. Yeah, you can say that, I guess. So for me, it's made our relationship stronger, and I think we both look forward to spending more time together.

And we've been able to do that with the kids getting older and the COVID stay-at-home work and those types of things. So I think it's a fun arrangement we have, I guess, like you said, especially for her. Yeah. And there's really, in her mind, she likes the fact that she can tell the friends. She likes the fact that she doesn't have to worry about what I'm thinking. and so it's all been positive and certainly made the relationship stronger. Yeah, I can imagine. And you're happy to.

She's getting more pleasure. You're getting a little bit less, but that turns you on. So everyone's happy. Yeah, but you're right. I'm not getting the sexual gratification because of the ruined orgasm, but the sexual energy is way up from what it used to be. Before, you know, having sex once or twice a month, even though in those times I was getting sexual pleasure. and that release, it just wasn't fulfilling until when your partner's not exactly into it or they're not, it feels like work maybe sometimes, like with an objective in the end and this being more fluid.

And like I said, having sex twice a week and I'm eating her out. I'm eating her ass. I'm having sex with her, but making sure I don't get off and using penis extenders and all those things. Like, that gets my sexual energy up. My mind's excited about it while it's going on. It's just the end that's not the greatest thing in the world. But you're edging the whole time. That's what I think people don't get.

You're fucking horny the whole time. It's added so much. And I think sometimes that's what people don't understand about guys that are into tease and denial and this kind of stuff. That it's actually prolonging the turn on and making it last longer, especially also like with the same thing with the guy pleasing the woman. He's getting something out of it, even though it seems like it's an affair exchange, right? She's having five orgasms here. Maybe not even having one. But that whole time, that pleasing is your turn on, just like her five orgasms are for her.

You're getting something out of it, too. Yep, that's, you hit it on the head. That's exactly how I feel about it. Like, I'm excited about it every time. And sometimes she'll come home from hot yoga and say, I'm not even going to shower, come eat me out. I'm excited by that because she wants me to do that. So, yeah, it's all, yeah, it's everything you said. And then I would say the second it's over because I, it's a ruined orgasm, like, you don't get that.

full gratification. Like I'm ready to the next day to do it again. Like I'm excited. So you're stored up. Yeah. So it's a good energizer. So that's, it's been a good thing for us.

Yeah, I love it. So interesting. I think people are going to learn a lot from your story. And it's very specific. But you explained it really well. And now I cannot wait to get into the head of the woman that pees on her husband's toothbrush and makes him brush his teeth.

And came up with that idea herself. I love it. We're going to get her on now. Okay. Thanks so much for calling in and I look forward to talking to your wife. And then you guys are going to send me in some picks maybe for Discord. I'll talk to her about that. Okay.

Sounds great. All right. Thanks. All right. Great talking to you. Thanks. Hi, Julie. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast.

How are you today? Good. Thanks. I was excited. Well, I am excited to talk to you because you're one crazy bitch because of you are. I was like, oh my God. She's so creative, the kind of things you have thought of to quote unquote, humiliate your guy.

is super interesting. The most craziest one is the peeing on the toothbrush thing. Okay, everybody heard it already because your husband called in first. I always leave the female towards the end. And it's always super interesting for my audience. I think to do it this way where I get the story from both people, the same story from both people, because it's always a little bit different. Before we get to the point where you come up with this whole thing of like him, you peeing on a toothbrush and him having a precious teeth. Let's go to the beginning of that first vacation where you guys talked about everything and things came up because that was like a very pivotal time in your marriage. And I'm wondering what you thought about it at the time. I was intrigued. Yeah. And it was not

anything ever I thought I would be a participant in. But just the ability to let go and not necessarily. This sounds so cold, but not to care about him at all when it comes to this type of thing is so freeing. And so it's just such an incredible feeling. And it makes me feel so good. And when I did it for that full week when we were on vacation, I was just like, wow, holy shit, this is empowering. And I was like, okay, I'm all in on this.

And yeah, it's just been going from there. Well, I think I did call you the luckiest bitch on the planet because really, basically, the way it's set up is you get to deny him, you do all these things. You definitely hold the cards. And so it's always about pleasing you. And you could basically not give a shit, right? It's like every married woman's dream. Most of the time when a woman treats her husband like that, he's pissed off. It leads to divorce.

There's all kinds of problems. He goes and cheats on her. You get to do it. And your husband loves it. Like it adds to his enjoyment and his pleasure and his. interest in you, which is so backwards, but I could imagine how freeing that is for you. It really is. It really is. And just it was, like I said, it was hard getting used to because I think just generally as women, we are like caretakers, we want to, when you're always worried about,

oh, make sure this person feels good and I'm, blah, blah, yeah. But once I was able to just get past that and just like, fuck it, like, who care? He, I, I'm over this. Like, just it's all about me it's all about me and it was like a light switch and yeah it truly is freeing that's the only word that I can say to describe it and like the multiple orgasms and stuff I'm sure part of that has to do with my age and just my body changing but when you don't even think about or care about what the other person is feeling or you're just yeah yeah like you're just like, oh my gosh, just keep going. Don't it. Why are you even stopping?

There's no reason to stop. You're kind of like, wow, this is what it's like to be a man, you know, a selfish man. Because I really do believe that as women, women have this thing that I don't think men have. And I think it's because we bear children and we have to be this way with our kids. Like we do have that thing that you said, like this need to please to always make sure the other person is okay first. Like it's just in our nature. So I think it sounds so back. You're talking about it, that you're living in this other world.

And it's much more like maybe like a selfish guy would be. You could just sit back and do your own thing and not give a shit about whether the other person is feeling good or not. And how great is that? Because you guys were very vanilla before all of this was put on the table. Yeah. Yeah, it was pretty vanilla. We did. I don't want to do things like bondage and smack around and all that stuff.

But not anything this may be different. Yeah, yeah. So what were your hesitations? I would assume that before you were totally on board and were like, this is great. You did have some kind of questions or hesitations. Walk me through that, like your feelings about it. There were some, there was some hesitation about whether he really did, in fact, enjoy this. And whether he really did want what he was saying he wanted.

Yes. So I cannot grasp. in my mind, him just not ever getting off, not ever having any feeling of joy or the pleasure associated with getting off. And he just, he keeps coming back for more. I'm not going to say no, because he's certainly enjoying it. So there are certainly some questions around that and just how that all started in his world, but I'm not a therapist. And look, I'm happily married and I'm getting what I want. So who cares? Nobody's getting hurt. We're all happy. Yeah, you're sounding. Now you probably talk like the dumb bitch that you are. You know what I mean? It sounds very cold the way you

throw it. Like, I don't care. But that's like kind of like the role that you have taken in your relationship. And that really works. And I think it is hard to imagine that that can be something that turn somebody on. What I want to know, because I've had some like real cocks on my show. Now, I know that you guys haven't gone down that route yet. You might eventually at some point, but I have talked to other, mostly men who like to be humiliated for all different kinds of reasons. And I have had situations where that kind of thing has ruined a relationship. And I'm always like, how does a woman humiliate a guy and still get fucking horny for him. You're still super horny for him.

Obviously, you're having multiple orgasm. Like, how do you ride that line? When we first got together, I guess, a thousand years ago, there were occasional things like, hey, let's do something where you embarrass me. And we would do silly stuff. Nothing. Like, we hadn't even broached this subject or anything, but it would just be part of four-player or whatever. And when we were doing that, yes, it was not a turnoff, but I remember thinking, like, why does, I'm not enjoying this as much as he is.

Yeah. And like, whatever, that's fine. But then as, you know, like I said, that one week, just like realizing that this really is something that works for us. And thinking about him not getting pleasure makes me laugh, which then makes me like, oh, I can't like to do it again. He wears underwear and I do, it cracks me up. Like, I do laundry and I sit here and I find his girl's underwear that he wears the work. And it just makes me smile and it makes me think about him during the day. And yes, every time I go to the bathroom and I see his toothbrush sitting in there,

It just makes me smile and it makes me laugh and it makes me think about, okay, whenever he comes home or whenever we have an opportunity, we're going to do this and I'm going to feel great. I love it. Listen, I, you know, this is like a big part of way I love talking to people and I'm so glad you're on the show because you are a woman that is able to do this. And there are so many men that want their woman to take this role that are into this that like I said, have had problems. the woman doesn't know how to ride that line. So to me, it's super interesting how it kind of changed for you. When you really got into it and you guys really talked about it and at some point way later on, like you could totally do that.

And it turns you on. It does, right? Is it like the power in it for you? Maybe. I don't know. What do you think? I think it is the power and I think it's the trust as well. Obviously, there is a significant level of trust that we have with each other for this.

And yeah, that translates. It's a little bit to intimacy and a closeness that maybe a lot of people don't get. Or maybe they get it in other ways. Yeah, no, no, no. I hear it a lot of times with couples that are open that do a lot of different things. There's a lot of communication that comes into play when you're talking about these kinds of things. So that added communication or that added thing that you're talking about, like you just said, like, I'll be home and I'm washing his panties. And I'm like, oh, my God, it makes me think of him.

And it makes me think of him. You said that like 10 times. like this is all added thinking of him and talking about things and being close with someone that wouldn't be there if this whole new dynamic wasn't in play. So I think that that's a part of it for sure. Yeah, it definitely is for me. I think it is for him too more than just the agony of being laughed at. Oh, no, no, no.

He's got it fucking made. Okay, for a guy that has this kink and this fetish, he has hit the jackpot. You could deny him and not give him pleasure for your. your whole life and be in control. And he's never going to leave you because it's very hard, I think, to find a woman that not only is doing it for her guy and is okay with it, but you like dig it. Like you're like just as into it as he is, which I think is great. Well, I had to.

I couldn't just do it just for him because A, that goes against everything that we would be doing this for. And B, I'm just not, I'm not going to just do stuff for him. You know what I mean? There has to be some, okay, yeah, like I can do little. stuff or whatever, but something like this, there has to be something in it for me, and it has to be something that I'm all in on, or else it just doesn't work. And it did. It took, it took a while to get there. It really did. But it, but it's all mental. And once you

get past that mental, the stigma and just, is this okay? Is this wrong? Is this right? Is this really going to work? And once you just let it go and see the end result, the end result is beautiful. And you feel closer to him now because this whole new thing that you guys have going on? Yes, absolutely. Yeah, that's amazing. And how long do you think it took you to sort of click into it mentally and get over that hump and be totally in? Do you know? Was it like a year? Was it six months? I'm assuming it wasn't two weeks. No, no. It certainly wasn't two weeks. I would say it was probably a year, but possibly even more. This was kind of introduced. slowly. Yeah. Because I don't even know that he fully understood what he wanted and where his head was with everything. So it's kind of been like a work in progress. But yeah, to get to get all in was was a long time, probably a year. But now I don't even look back. And you were saying about how he doesn't get any pleasure and for the rest of his life. It is so funny. Like I can say to him,

I'm like, seriously, think about the last time you got off. It has been so long and you never ever will again. Oh my God. And you laugh and he loves it. Yes. It's fascinating. And that's the point. I don't even care if he loves it at this point.

I don't even care because this is the lifestyle we have chose. Yeah. And like I'm all in here. So fuck him. If he says to me, I want to get out, fuck you, no. Oh my God. You could start an only fan to make a lot of money. Listen to me.

Okay, let me ask you a question because I know that there was a time. I can't wait to get to the, how you thought up like, because you come up with things to humiliate him, right? A lot of it is in things that you bring up for him. He loves that. But at some point you did tell one of your friends and he was like, oh, and that's a part of him,

that's a part of this too. Him knowing that somebody knows, it's a little bit humiliating, you take a lot of pictures, you show them, like you have one girlfriend that knows, is that the case? And then walk me through that whole process of telling her and how she reacted. She was very much in disbelief. And that's the hard part. Even before when he would just, when I would make him

wear underwear, like I was saying, we've done that for years. Yeah. And I would joke around with my friends, the girls all sitting around talking about their husbands and whatever. I'm like, I know my husband's wearing my underwear today or I make my husband wear these little sissy panties and thong. And people really don't believe it. Yeah. Even something like little things like that. And then it just kind of got boring talking about it. And then, yeah, I just wanted to find one person that I actually could, I don't want to use the word vent, but talk to and just say, do you understand, what is this? Why is this working for us? And just as a female, I guess you just like to talk to people. And when I, when I found my friend that I trusted and when I was telling her about

it. She really was floored and didn't believe it. And we show pictures. I take pictures and show her and with different things. And I know that can all be staged or whatever. But I don't know. It's just she slowly came around to believing it into realizing that it was in fact true. And it just, it feels good to kind of talk about it a little bit. Yeah. I can imagine. Just. But it's also a turn on, though, for your. husband for right that is a part of it for him he's getting something out of you doing that i mean you're getting something else out of it in that you you get that girl part of you to just you know sort of talk about things and and stuff but it is a part of the humiliation for him correct

absolutely we'll meet to see her it's it's i just know how uncomfortable it is for him and she and i look at each other and just kind of giggle because i know we're both thinking same thing. Yeah. It's really funny. I try to bring her around as often as I can when he's around in public places so I can make him feel uncomfortable because it is very enjoyable for me. Wow. And now, okay, so after a year, like, you totally get into it. It starts to be pleasurable, I'm sure, for you. Now, when did you start pulling, like, when did the whole peeing? Let's say this. Like, when did the whole peeing thing come into play? And then how? How do you start pulling? And then how? How did you come up with a whole toothbrush thing?

We always did stupid things with toothbrushes. Like I would rub it in his ass and then stick it in his mouth. Oh my God. He didn't tell me that. I don't know what's worse. I think that's worse. And every now and then I would pee on it and leave it there for him. But then it just became really funny.

And I said, I'm going to just leave it here. And you're never going to know. It's one thing to know in my mind. It's one thing to know. Yeah. Okay, I'm going to brush my teeth with a toothbrush that has piss on it. Yeah. But like, it just sits there.

And he has no idea if I pee on it or if whatever, if I clean the toilet with it or if I dunk it in the toilet or if I, he has no idea. And you never tell him. I don't. Oh, so the turn on is you just knowing and him never knowing he's getting, he's being denied even that knowledge and that's probably hot for him. Yes. And that's very exciting for me. Like that's a big turn on for me. Just, hey, you have no fucking idea what, where that shit has been and you're sticking it in your mouth.

Oh, my God. So you do, like you have, you put it in the toilet. You pee on it. Like, you do all kinds of things with his toothbrush. And never do you tell him. Every now and then I will. I'll be like, yeah, I pissed on it today. Or I'll tease him and say, I did something special.

your toothbrush today. Don't you wish you knew what it was? Yeah. But it's not, I don't tell them every single day or anything. And I don't do something every single day. I think that makes it part of the fun. Yeah. You don't want to do. You don't want to be predictable. Right. Yeah. And now I know that your guys are into pegging and cock cages and all of that kind of stuff. Are you turned on by those things too? Do you get off pegging? So you're going to have to clarify what pegging is. Oh, pegging? Oh, and you strap on the d. I'm not. I'm Oh my God, that's hilarious. You strap on the dildo and fuck him in the ass. That's pegging.

Okay. Okay. Yes, we have done that. It hasn't been a lot. I'm sorry. I love that you didn't know what that even meant. That's so awesome. Yeah, I just go with the flow and just see whatever happens.

I don't have words for whatever we do. Yeah, it's great. But they, we did it. We did do it a couple times. And it is something, I guess just the more and more open. get and the more freeing you get about different things, the more appealing things sound. And for the first couple of times, it was really hard just because I find you can't really find a good dildo to stick up somebody's ass because they just don't make them the way

they should. Apparently, that's my million dollar idea to come up with something that actually works successfully. But we've tried it and we've done it a couple of times. successfully. And it's certainly something that I'm interested in doing again because there is a feeling, a pretty significant feeling of power with that. Just the thrusting and that is a big tournament. Seriously like my thighs banging against his ass. That, the feeling of that, that turns me on. Yeah, that's so interesting. What other things that you guys do turn you on? I mean, like, does he fuck you? I don't know why I don't even. even know this. Does he get to fuck you but he can't come? Yes. Okay. Yes. I do enjoy being

fucked. He wears a, we call it an extender. He wears a thing that makes him bigger because he's very, very little, my little baby. Can I just ask you a question because he was very little before. Were you able to get off on it? Was it like, is it a micropenus? Was it? Is it a micropenus? Was Is it totally fine before, but now with the penis extender, it's great? He did a lot of, has always done other things. To make up for him. Yeah, it hasn't necessarily always been. Just getting off just by fucking was a little bit more challenging, probably, than it should have been.

But the extender, when we first started using it, it was actually, I don't want to say difficult, but it took some getting used to. And look, this has been half of my life that I've been with him. So I was pretty used to the little nugget. And once you start to get used to it, I even said to him, I'm like, we might need to get a bigger size because I'm really starting to enjoy this. That's what happens. I know. And I don't care what anybody says. Size does freaking matter.

It really does. Yeah, unfortunately. So you use the penis extender when he fucks you, right? Yeah, not all the time. Yeah. It's been more common lately. We've been doing it more frequently lately, but it's not like a requirement for every time. But does that help him not come?

Yes. Okay. Yeah. Well, I think it's a double-ed sword. Like, in his mind, he is so turned on, but physically he can't do anything because he's trapped in this rubber thing. So I think it's probably very challenging for him. Mm-hmm. But who cares?

That's the whole point, right? Yeah, you don't have to. And how long do you keep him in the cock cage? Do you get off on that power too of being the dom in the situation and having that kind of control? I do. I enjoy it. A lot of times we do it when we're not together. Like he'll do it when he goes out or where he's doing whatever, going to work or whatever.

And that makes me laugh when I think about it and I watch him in the morning get ready. Can you help me put this on? And it's just, it's funny. But when he has it on when we're together, that is really enjoyable. We went to a party once and he had it on. And every time he went to the bathroom, I had the laugh because I'm like, he's walking into a bathroom. And he hopes that nobody walks in next to him.

or he has to go into the stall so nobody sees it. It's just, it's funny. Oh, yeah, I didn't even think of that because they can look down and they're just going to see that cage right there. Right. Yeah. Men's bathrooms aren't exactly the most private places. What other kinds of things do you concoct up in your mind to humiliate him? And what is in, what's on your bucket list in the future?

These are my last question. On my bucket list, I do, we talk about it a lot about me being with somebody else. And it is something that's so intriguing to me. And I so badly want to do it. And in my head, I'm still a young, hot-ass whippersnapper that could get any guys you wanted, which isn't necessarily the case these days. But how old are you now? I'm close to 50.

Okay. the slim pickens and I don't know that I would want to do something like that with just anybody it would be somebody that would really have to physically turn me on yeah but don't let me just tell you it won't be it wouldn't be slim pickens if you went out and sort of put yourself out there as the situation that you have like lots of young guys and hot guys and tons of guys look into fuck a guy's wife okay so it's a very different world it's not like you're just outdating looking for some guy to marry you like to fuck someone and get a guy to want to fuck you in the situation that you would put on the table, it won't be slim pickings, I promise you. But I get that, yeah, I won't. But I get that most women are like you. I'm like you too. You're going to have to, like all the stars have to align for a woman to get to horning for a guy.

So it'll take work for you to find that right person. Yeah. And part of me wants him to be there to watch. I have this fantasy in my head where he's just sitting there in a chair with his little cage on. And yeah. I'm sitting there getting fucked by this incredibly hot guy that has abs that don't stop and a really big fucking cock and he just can't do anything. Like that that's on my, that's on my bucket list. That's not going to be that hard to find.

I'm going to tell you. I promise you that. I talk to people all day long. I never knew that guys, listen, you're a rare breed too. You're going to get off on your husband sitting there watching you. But there's tons of guys that love to be your husband. Okay, there's a lot of cucks out there. And there's a lot of, they call them stags.

A lot of guys are into watching their girl get fucked by other guys. And there's a lot of guys. They call them bulls, but a lot of people don't like that term. But there's a lot of guys that want to do that. Okay, trust me. It's a whole world I never knew about it. You don't even know what pegging is, so I'm assuming you don't realize that. But like I said, to find a guy that you're looking for won't be that hard once you guys

put that out there. But it might take a little while to find that right person. And you might have to get to know them well. go out with them a couple of a bunch of times before you feel a connection to want to feel for it to want to fuck them but that's easily found you'll you'll be you'll find it trust me well that's that's good to know just understanding how to get out there and do all that stuff i'm like i said i'm not necessarily i don't know the words i don't live in the world yeah you're not in a lifestyle but you don't have to be there's tons of apps nowadays it's this kind of stuff is it's it's

not like the olden days. Listen, I've been podcasting before most people started podcasting. I've been podcasting for 11, 12 years. So I started my show a long time ago. And when I started my show, you would have had to got on Craigslist to find shit. Nowadays, because the younger generation is so much more open-minded and they're into all kinds of things and people are out and proud and sexes. Like, there's a lot less stigma around everything. Nowadays, there's so many apps that you guys are just going to go up on and you're going to put up a profile and you're going to put on their cock husband with Dom wife looking to fuck a young hot stud. You're going to put on pictures without your face and you're going to get a lot of people

and you're going to weed through them. And it's like dating in any other world. The same shit. There's tons of apps for it. There's so many of them out there. So that's what you would have to do to make that happen. But like I said, it's going to be you choosing. But there'll be a lot of guys.

A lot of guys are into it. Nice. Yes. You can get me excited thinking about it now. Yeah, you should. because these are, listen, I'm a little bit older than you. And for a woman, your 40s before you hit menopause, you are hornier than you've ever been in your life.

And you could stay that horny too if you go on hormones and stuff. I'm on hormones. It's fine. But I'm just saying that like now is the time. And that's why there is a perfect pairing between a woman who's like in her 40s and a guy who's in his 20s because their sex drive is like very equally matched. Your sex drive is probably like off the charts, right? still? It has been, it is interesting. It's significantly higher than it has ever been. Yeah, of course. That's

your ovaries last hurrah. It's nature. You got to go out and fuck and get us and pregnant as much as you can before all your eggs are gone. It's just the way that it goes. And that's why a lot of women in their 40s are banging 20 year olds. And a lot of 20 year olds want to bang 40 year olds. Like, trust me. It's a thing. And it's because it's just going to be about sex. You got your husband. You have your kids. You have your life. You're not looking for that. But you just want some guy to fuck you while your husband wants us. And then. There will be a line, I promise you. What other, can you tell me any other creative things you've done besides, like, the toilet bowl and the toothbrush thing to humiliate him? Or is that, like, as hardcore as you get? We've peed on him. We go places, and he has to, we will go to a hotel and he'll go stand in front of a window naked or just stupid stuff like that where there's a chance of people seeing him, but not

necessarily, especially when we're somewhere like really remote where we won't see anybody that we know. Yeah. I'll make them walk through the go get ice in the hotel naked or. You're kidding. In the hotel naked. Yeah. Oh my God. Yeah.

When we're places that there's no chance of us seeing anybody that we know. Yeah, but there is a chance of you seeing somebody. Yeah. That's the important part. Which is always just so funny. Oh my God. And how does your guy, because he's so, it's so interesting to me. I'm sure to you too, like it's still as perplexing.

It has to be that he's getting so turned on by all of this, right? For sure. Yes. That's what's in it. But he's never coming. And you're like, oh, my God. He never comes, right? Like, even does he release on his own?

I forget. What did he say? What's the deal? Yeah. He gets to release. It's never pleasurable. Sometimes I help or sometimes, like, he'll rub up against me. But it's not pleasurable.

And if there is any pleasure, like if it's not a real. ruined orgasm. If it's a, if it's a full-blown orgasm, he has to eat it. Anytime he wants to jerk off, he has to put it on a plate and eat it. Oh, wow. Interesting. And do you watch? And is that a part? I have. I have. But as of late, he hasn't been doing it as often. I guess he's getting his fill of come. I don't know. But yes, I certainly have watched him do it. And sometimes like we have a spoon sitting here in our bedroom like if if he gets off like I'll spoon it up and stick it in his mouth or time he actually flipped his head up his legs up over his head and like I this was before we stopped getting giving him pleasure yeah but he flipped his legs

up over his head and I jerked him off and he did it in his own mouth it was really funny oh my my gosh and like just splath oh my gosh it was disgusting, but so funny. And now when was the last time that you had to blow your husband? So many women are going to be jealous right now hearing, because I'm sure it was like two years ago. I mean, like, do you ever have to do? I couldn't even tell you. Wow. I couldn't even tell you the last time that I gave him a blow job. Like now and then I will tease him now and play with it and suck on it a little just to make him feel good. Yeah. And then stop because it's funny. And I know that it makes him excited and then you just, it's painful for him. You get all excited and then you stop. Yeah.

Yeah, but it's been a very long time. It's been, I couldn't even tell you last time he had a pleasurable orgasm. There's certainly released. He certainly gets released. But as soon as he starts to, as soon as you start to feel the thump in the, in the vein, I just stop and like he'll thrust into the air and it's just whatever he possibly can do just to kind of release. That's another thing that's very funny to watch him sitting there thrusting into the air. And you could laugh. It's not even like you have to hold it in, right? That's like a part of his pleasure too. He wants you to laugh. Well, and I don't know how you can't laugh. It's pretty freaking funny. Oh my God. I can't believe you send him out of the hotel. It's my last question. You sent him out of the hotel naked to get ice.

And I'm sure there's, it's the whole part of just walking through, even if nobody sees, it's probably a turn on to him because he's getting a little exhibitionist thing out. But has anybody seen him? Do you know? Not that I'm aware of. Okay. But I don't know for sure. And if somebody is like going into the elevator and they see him walk past, I don't know if anybody lives.

Right. But so far you got, you guys don't know of anyone that has, he hasn't bumped into. to anybody on one of his walks. No. A long, long, long, long time ago, I made him dress up in real girly clothes. And this was years and years ago and go get gas in my car. And we did see somebody saw him there and was very bothered by what he was seeing. And kind of like ran into the store and was like, look at that person out there.

We got call the cops, call the cops. So when that happened, I was like, oh my gosh, that really kind of scared me a little bit. Yeah, yeah, for sure. But that was decades ago. So I think things are a little bit different now. Yeah. Listen, public nudity and something like that, like you can get busted. It is against the law.

So you do have to be careful because, listen, this is something that is very consensual. It's something between you and your husband. You guys love each other. You're married. It's all on the up and up. This is like something you both enjoy. You don't want to get in trouble for it. There's no need for that.

You don't need to cross those lines. It sounds like there's a lot more you guys could do to add to your pleasure, you know, in your own home. Anything you think of is on the table. And I see a hot cuck. I see a hot stud in your future. Trust me. That guy with the abs and the big cock, banging the young hot guy, he exists. So go get him and come back on and tell me.

this story. People are going to be like raising their hand to be your guy, okay, to come and fuck you in front of your husband. And then there's going to be a lot of guys that are like your husband that are going to be like so jealous that he married you. Because I do think it is so hard for a woman to, like I said, ride this line and do it and be turned on by it and be into it. And you really are like a unicorn and so perfect. And your husband's lucky. And there's going to be a lot of guys, like I said, listening. And people on my Patreon that are going to be like, oh, my I wish she was my girl because this is what I want my girl to do. Thank you so much.

This is fascinating. I probably could have done an hour with you, but I had the 30 minutes with your husband. I think it's such so interesting to hear both sides of the same story, like I said. And thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story and being so honest. Thank you. Thank you. What do we call you again? Julie.

Thank you, Julie. Thanks for calling in. All right. Bye-bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers is now available

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