Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 842 - Chad and his Wife Recently Started Swinging

Episode Date: June 4, 2024

Chad and his wife recently started swinging and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why him and his wife and what went to Desire resort and what they did the first time they went, the hotel takeovers they went to and what went down at those and how far they went, the rules they had going in and why, their second trip to Desires Resort and what went down that time, the couple they met their and exactly what went down with them, the super naughty couples massage they got and exactly joe naughty it got, how his wife got him into fisting her, how they’re met up with the couple they met at Desire when they got home and exactly what went down with them that time, what’s ok their bucket list for the future plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous a pics of CHAD and his WIFE plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Now, today I have on Chad. Now, Chad and his wife started swinging in the... They've had some super hot experiences, and he called in to talk all about it. Chad is married to a much younger girl. That's what he talks about. She's super hot. He, and he talks about how they tiptoed into the lifestyle. First, they went to a nude beach.

Then they wound up going to the lifestyle resort desire. And he talks about what they did the first time they were there. And then they talk about their hotel takeovers that they went to and exactly what went down there. and then they went back to Desire, and they met a couple there and hooked up with them, and he talks about exactly what went down with them, and then they had, while they were at Desire, like the hottest couples massage that I ever heard.

Like, you're not going to believe what went down during this couple's massage at the resort, okay? It was like a professional legal couples massage, but it got down and dirty. He talks about that when they came home. The couple that they met at Desire's, they wound up hooking up with them and went way far.

even farther with them when they met up with them again. And he tells you exactly what went down. At that hookup, they did cross some of their boundaries and some of their rules. I love newbie just crossed over episodes because I think you could learn a lot from them. I told you the couple of massages. A super hot story. You're going to dig it.

I have hot picks of them over on my Patreon. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Chad. Hi, Chad. Welcome to the Strictly Non-Mas podcast. How are you today? I'm good. How are you? I'm good. So listen, Chad, you're here to talk on behalf of you and your wife, your much younger wife. I know that she is a lot younger than you, but not like 60 years younger, like almost 20 years younger.

But you guys have been married for a while. And you recently got into the lifestyle. And you're going to talk about that journey. You guys have been with a couple recently, I think. You've been to hotel takeover, some parties. You've been to some resorts, lifestyle resorts. And so we're going to get to all that. But why don't we, like, start a little bit back? I know you guys have been married for 18 years. Is that correct? Or are she 18 years younger than you?

She's 18 years younger. And now how long you guys been married for? We've been married for going on almost a year and a half, but we've been together for six years. Okay. So been together six years. And now is this your second marriage? Her first marriage? Her second marriage?

Her second marriage? What's the deal? Second, both. Both. Okay. Cool. All right. So you've been together six years. When did you guys start talking about doing other things? Were you guys always freaky from the start? How was it between you guys before? Yeah, we were pretty freaky from the start. Both of our previous marriages were pretty vanilla.

Yeah. And we, well, we dated for about a year. Then we took a little break. And then we got back together. And when we got back together is when things really turned up to eat. When we first dated, we had great sex. It never went outside the bedroom, the house, so to speak, for the most part, though. So when we got back together, things started getting a little freaky. Yeah, that's when we started talking about it. And we actually, without any experience at all, I'm like, let's go to a nude resort. So we went to desires. And the first time we went there, we didn't hook up with anyone really.

She had a woman that was very interested in her. My wife is very beautiful, extremely beautiful. And so then we liked to travel, and we started listening to your podcast, and that's what really sparked our interest in the lifestyle. I've always been a very open, free kind of person, not afraid to get naked. And with my first wife, we actually went to a resort that had a nude area, and we spent some time in there. Nothing ever happened other than just laying.

in the song. But yeah, I don't think I really ever had an interest in a lifestyle until I met somebody that we both knew that we were really into sex and we like to fuck a lot and we do and we did. And it just kind of developed. Okay, so you bring up to your girl. Let's go to a nudie resort. And she was totally down. Had she had any experience beforehand herself? Not. Well, yeah. We would go like. to beaches and get fine secluded areas and get naked yeah yeah so yeah she was she she definitely had an interest she didn't block at the idea at all she's yeah let's do it but her and her husband though had never been in the lifestyle had never had an open marriage you're both been vanilla okay cool so let's get

to that first nudy resort you go there now you've been to nude beaches before now to me nude beaches and nude resorts are totally different because on a nude beach you're not supposed to have sex it's you know, it's not that kind of a scene. It's just kind of like, you know, being naked outside. I think people do have sex on those beaches in private places, but you know what I'm talking about. I would assume at a nude resort, there is sex going on. Paint the picture.

Like, what was going down when you guys got there? Desires is you can be nude pretty much anywhere. There's only specific places where you can have sex. It would be up, yeah, up in the playroom or in the hot tub area. So, yeah, we went there and. We did have sex up in the hot pub area and also in the playroom, but just with ourselves. We watched and we had the couples watching us and it was a really big turn on. But we never went beyond that the first time.

Okay, but that was the first time though, because listen, I think it's a big move to have sex in front of other couples as well as watch other couples have sex too. Most people have never even done that in their life. So that was like the first time for both of you. and you both found it to be a turn on? Yes, very much, very much. And your girl was into it, too. I mean, she was always, like, on board. You didn't have to talk her into it?

Yeah, yeah. She's a bit of an exhibitionist. Mm-hmm. In what sense? Like I say, we like when people watch, and we like to watch. One thing, this is a cool story, and it does involve with being on a beach nude. We went to a beach, and it's not a nude beach,

but we found a secluded place and it was way off to the distance and by ourselves and all of a sudden here comes some people walking along and no shit they were actually getting married. So it's like, yeah, it was a wedding on the beach and it was a really small party, but, you know, we were like, fuck it. They came right by us and I asked the guys. You want us to put a good dress. He's like, no, you're cool. You guys were naked. Were you having sex? We were not having sex yet, yet.

Yeah, there's a little bit more of that story. But yeah, they got married. We were laying. land on Sunday and we did start having sex later on and there was a tour boat that came around the corner and so they saw us doing her thing yeah yeah we were and at first I was like first I was like fuck it and then I was like yeah you know what there's probably a caring on that boat we should probably get out of here yeah I mean if there's kids or something their parents are going to be fucking hard yeah it was far enough away where you really couldn't see but we could start

people with binoculars were hooting and hollering so Yeah, we've got to go. Yeah. Okay, cool. So that time you go to the desire, you just watch people have sex and you guys have sex. Right. And then what happens after that? That's like your first dipping your toe in.

Yep. Our next adventure, we went to a hotel takeover that was in a town near where we lived. And that was really comical. It was so bad. It was in a really bad facility. And it wasn't a complete hotel takeover. They had a floor. and oh it was it was there was like people walking through up and down the hallway that weren't part of the party and there was actually one time like a 10 year old kid was going room to room looking for his mom yeah it was bad

but where did you find this like when you got into looking into this stuff like where did you get your information just Googling how did you find this bad hotel takeover one of the apps we got onto an app okay as a couple like looking for things or just like looking for events. As a couple looking for things, looking, just exploring, trying to see where we want to go with it. Okay. What was the app? SLS. Okay. And so what's that conversation like with your girl as far as going to a hotel takeover? I'm like, let's do this. And I had heard about them before. I knew some other people that were in the lifestyle. Yeah. And so I found a hotel. I went online. I found this group, and they were having a party and I said, you want to go? And she said, yeah. So, and that's pretty much how it came.

Okay, because this is the first time you're going to a hotel takeover and there might be hooking up and stuff like that. Did you guys have a discussion about what should we do, what she we shouldn't do? Did you have rules and regulations going into things now that you're taking things to the next level? Yes. Yeah, we talked about we did not want to have any penetration. Okay.

She definitely had interest in hooking up with a girl. She wanted to explore that. Okay. And at the takeover, that never happened. We had sex with the door open. You leave the door open so people can watch and come in. And she gave me a blowjob on the end of bed. And there was a couple that came in and they watched it.

It kind of felt like they wanted to join it. But we were just kind of nervous about the whole thing and didn't know how to act and what the questions or anything. It's crazy. I know. That's why I do these, like I do certain episodes. We're just, I'm talking to sort of an expert who, I had Missy Bender on recently. We did a whole thing just on the Swinger lifestyle because she runs Swinger events.

And she went into all the rules and unspoken shit that goes down at these places because they don't have a sign. Okay. They don't hand you a sheet of what you're allowed to do, what you shouldn't do, how you get consent, how you don't like. So I think it's like hard to sort of navigate those situations because there are unspoken rules there at those kinds of places for sure. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, we just knew that we just knew that we just. didn't want to, we wanted to go slow and make sure that we were comfortable with whatever we are going to experience. And it was more about her to be. I really like to see her get off. And I'm

interested in anything that she wants to do to achieve that. Meaning would you be cool with her? I would assume you're cool with her wanting to hook up with a check. Is one of your things like, oh, you'd love to see her with a guy too? Is that a part of what you were open to? Well, yeah, that eventually did happen. And it, It was a little bit of a mixed feeling kind of thing. It was very sexy and it did turn me on. And yeah, there was a little bit of jealousy, but we could probably get to that. This episode is sponsored by Blue Chew.

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and the younger child that we saw walking through the hallway was with a couple that were at the party. Oh, it was their fucking son. Oh, my God. Yeah, I don't know how that played out. I don't know. It was really weird. That's a horny couple just leaving their kid in the room alone so they could go play with no fucking babysitter.

They were really horny or broke. Oh, my God. Okay. Cool. So you leave that one. You didn't do anything. But you do have these rules going in. So you know that like eventually hooking up with other people is on the table. She wants to hook up with girls. Are you open to doing anything with guys or you're down for everything else? I am not. I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, I never had any type of experience with a guy. We are interested in experiencing a DVP, however. So I'm not, I'm cool. I'm down with that. Right, and DVP is double Vag, like two dicks. So you're cool with crossing swords. That's what they call it, right?

Yeah, oh yeah. Yeah. You're just like down for some dirty sex. Okay, so let's go on. So what happens after that terrible hotel takeover? That's when we started doing a lot of traveling, and we found your podcast, and it really opened our mind. It really got us discussing things.

What would you be interested? And that's when my wife really, I really think I want to be with a woman. Oh, I love. that she'd like yeah and had she had never she has never been had never been she'd never been okay cool no no so yeah we did a lot of travel listen to podcasts and we would have just the best sex we were we're big adventure people up in the mountains and and i can go on and out about that but eventually we decided we wanted to go back to desires and so we did okay and that time we talked about the same thing the rules as far as what we wanted to do and

She definitely wanted to have, if possible, maybe with a woman. And it was really by chance we met this couple at lunch one day. We were taught, and we just spoke up conversation, and then we ran into the hot tub. They said, you guys want to meet up later out the disco, so we did. And we were dancing, having a good time. And then we sat down, and the two women sat next to each other. And I could see that they were very, they were do-eyed with each other. And I actually encouraged them, pushed them together, and they started kissing in.

and the other woman, she said, you guys want to go back into the playroom. You want to go back to a room. So we went into the playroom. And I'm trying to think how the wording, yeah, they got together. And her husband. They went down on each other? Yeah, it started out where they started kissing and she went down on my wife. And then my wife went down on her.

Yeah. And then we were, myself and the other fellow were. giving my wife a lot of attention. She likes to have her boobs played with. She loves to have her nipple squeeze. She has nipple orgasm very easily. So, and then I went down on his wife. He went down on my wife.

And that was pretty much it. You still had the rule no penetration, even going into this, right? Correct, correct. And let me ask you this, was she, but it was cool for you to be with the woman, too. I mean, she, because a lot of women don't want to see that. guys don't want to see their girl with a guy I mean you she had given you the okay to hook up with another woman in front of her as well like that was on the table no no we I told her I had no interest in hooking up and yeah but now you're going down on the guy's wife so how to

I mean was that a well I shouldn't say I had no interest in fucking that other woman yeah at the at the time at the time I didn't really think that I wanted to go down I wanted to enjoy my wife experiencing her And things just developed and happened. And yeah, it was awesome. But was that, but had you discussed that beforehand, where she was cool with you going down? That was like, we did. Okay. We did.

We talked about, we were okay with touching. And one thing we did, and oral, yeah, we did talk about that. And we did say no eye contact. People are so funny. No eye contact? That's so weird. Like you look up and the guys like looking at the ceiling. You're like, are these, like, going down on you and he's, I don't know, looking to the right because he can't look you in the eyes.

Well, one of the hottest things for me was when he was down on her and his wife was down on me. And my wife and I were making eye contact with each other. Yeah, I could see that. But you, though, had both of you. Whose idea was that? I need your wife on the phone. Whose idea was like you're not allowed to make eye contact with the other person? it wasn't really that it was more like an intimacy thing does that make sense i guess i think it's a funny

one i've heard i don't know that i've ever heard you're not allowed to look at the person it seems a little extreme because how do you not look at someone at no no no not that not that you're not not allowed to look at it when you're coming i don't know basically what you're saying is don't be fucking intimate. Was there no kissing rule there in place? No, there was kissing. No, eye contact. I love it. Listen, I'm just going off on this. I haven't heard it before. I guess it would be more like the, it would be more like an intimacy thing

instead of the dirty raw sex. Does that make sense? Yeah, yeah, I guess. I guess. Yeah, I guess. Listen, listen, I get that when you're looking at your wife and you guys are looking at each other and you're having that eye contact moment, there is so many layers to that because that's your fucking wife. But if you're looking at somebody that you just met two seconds ago and you're banging them and you're looking at their eyes, like there's no intimacy there. You don't even know them. I don't know. That's why I just think it seems a little, I think it's like a projection.

And that's the same thing with kissing too, I think a lot of times because it's, you're thinking like if you guys look at each other to this other person, it's going to be what it means when you look at your partner. But it's not. You know what I mean? When you and your partner look at each other, it is intimate. Like, you're, you said, that was like probably the hottest part of it, right? You're looking at each other. A lot of people talk about that. But I don't necessarily think that's the case when you're doing it with someone else. So I think you brought that up because it is very important to you guys with each other. Yeah. It's more that long, deep, intimate eye contact with what I'm trying to get. Yeah. No, I get it.

But what I'm going to tell you is that, listen, there's a lot. It's very, I love like newbie stories like this. So it doesn't have to have so much sex, but like the lead up and the talking and the rules and the why you did things and why you didn't and how you felt and reclaiming sex and all that stuff is like super important but let me ask you this because this is the first time you did a couple swap you saw her with the woman now that guy went down on her was that hot for you to see your girl with another guy at that it was yeah it was yeah it was I wasn't sure how it would feel about it to be honest yeah yeah but what it happened and I could see how she was into it and yeah it really did turn me out

It turned me on. And what about her seeing you with the girl? I asked her later on, and she said that, yeah, she said it was hot, and it didn't bother her, and it did turn her on. I know she got off a lot, so. Okay, and then how was her, I wish we had her on the phone. How was her experience with the woman? Like, that was her first experience, and she did everything.

She went down on her, like, the whole shebang, right? She went to town. Yeah, the first time they went down on each other. and she said she loved it and I asked her, I said, what was, what did you like? She said, it's just different. She's soft and, and smooth and it's just, she liked her boobs and she really liked her boobs and she said, it's just different. Right.

I can understand, yeah. But she was, she was into it. She was into it, yes. Now, did you, so afterwards, did you, was the reclaiming sex great because here you are the first time you guys have been with other people and now thoughts of that as adds to your sex life like when you go back to your room i don't know you tell me yeah yeah well the first time was at desires and i was i was down on his wife and he was down on mine and as i like i got to the point where i got to fuck my wife i got to and so i i i felt i was if i didn't do something quick, I was going to lose the ability.

Right. And not that that's a problem, but this has been going on. We've been in there for a while. So that was a relatively, the very first time was a short one. It was just up in a playroom. And it was, yeah, it was great. And afterwards, we went back to our rooms. Yeah.

And yeah, we had amazing, yeah, reclaiming sex. And we laughed about it. And we knew that terminology from your show. And she actually laughed. She's, did you reclaim me? I don't know. You didn't right it did. Both him and her.

And now, did you see that couple again on your trip? We did not. They were actually leaving the next day, but we did get contact information. Okay. And we got together probably about a couple months later. I got a hold of him or no, actually his wife got texted my wife and she's like, hey, let's get together. So we went and visited them where they live. Okay, wait, I know you have another experience with them.

But before that, like, before we get to that experience, you're at Desire. They leave. I'm assuming you're still there. Does anything else go down on that trip? Yes. And honestly, this is a big part of it, and I can't believe I skipped over it. There was the morning we met that couple, we had a massage at Desires. And I don't know if anyone's ever talked to you about the massage, the couple's massage they have there.

but it is over the top. You're kidding. Yeah. So this massage, they put us both in the same room. Actually, they put us in a room with a hot tub and a bottle of champagne to warm you up. And they brought us in. And her on one table and me on the table next to her. And you got to choose if you wanted a male or female.

So she chose a male and I chose a female. And I was glad she did because, again, this was before we had met the couple that we hooked up. So you sign a release when you go in there. says on there that you will be touched in intimate areas. So we got in the hot tub and I told her, I said, did you see that on the form that they're going to touch us? And she's like, no. I told her, I says, look, I honestly don't know what's going to happen here.

But fuck it. Whatever happens, go with it. Just go with it. She's like, okay. So, yeah, we went into the massage room and they put a blindfold over both of our face. And they had you on your belly first and her laying in your front. They did massage your back and your legs and all that. that and then they flip you over.

Wait, did you know you were going to be blindfolded? It's kind of interesting. Well, it was just a towel. They blindfolded you when they rolled you over on your back. And I think it was probably more for maybe they think that you want to be because I pulled it off. Oh, you did? Yeah. But they put it over your eyes just a part of their like vibe.

That's what they do to everybody. But you were allowed to take it off. I think. What happened was she started, she put oil all over my body. And I had no idea what was going on over the other side. They couldn't see. Yeah. A point.

Yeah. But she squirted oil all over my dick. I'm like, okay, I know what's going to happen here. And I assumed the same thing was going on next door. So, but then after a few minutes, I could hear my wife moaning. I'm like, so I reached up and I pulled the towel off my face. I'm like, I want to watch this. Yeah.

And the girl, she kind of readjusted it, and I don't know if she didn't know, maybe she thought it fell. So then I just grabbed it and I threw it on the floor. You're like, no, bitch, I want to see. This is the whole point. I want to watch this. Yeah. She doesn't know men are very visual. It was really hot because she was stroking my cock and with another hand she was putting a finger up my ass.

You're kidding. Yeah, I was watching him. I mean, he's rubbing my wife's tits and all over her body. And then he would bend down and put his face right in front of her pussy and, like, breathe really warm air. She was really getting turned on. Then he started fingering her. And so by, and she stroking my cock. And I was about ready to, I was about ready to come.

And I'm like, you got to stop. Yeah. And so then he was doing, it was kind of like a yoning mishazz, I guess, because then she, he started. finger banging her really hard and she started squirting all over the place and it was awesome. So then I was reaching for her and they both stopped and she still had her blindfold on. Yeah. He turned her body to the side and the girl stood me up and they spread her legs and she grabbed me by what she took, grabbed me by the cock and guided me in and she put my cock inside her pussy and then I started

I'm talking about the masseuse. First of all, all you know, all you fucking assholes on iTunes that get mad at me for interrupting people. This is why I fucking interrupt. Because this whole story, you would have never told me.

You were ready to leave desire, okay? This all went down before you even hooked up with the couple. This is like the naughtiest legal massage I've ever heard. So wait a second. So she literally, you're hard. You didn't come from her hand job like you're still like hard? Correct.

Okay. So she brings you over. They're still like massaging and they're there. And then they like have you fuck your wife. Yeah. They turn her sideways on a massage table. And one, the male masseuse held one leg. Oh, my God.

One of her legs, the other. The female masseuse held the other. And then she guided me. She took my cock with her hand and put it inside. And I started fucking her. And he had his hands all over. He was rubbing her. And she was rubbing her the female masseuse was rubbing her boobs.

She had one hand up my head. Their hands were everywhere all over both of our bodies. Wow. And it was just it was yeah, it was great. And I'm fucking her and she's just squirting all over me. And then they left. And they said, you guys can stay in here as long as you want. And I didn't even notice at the time.

Yeah. But I started looking around. There's sex furniture all over the room. It was, yeah. Oh my God. That is a hot experience, I think. Yeah. It really was.

because then I was fisting her. What? She just, she likes to be fisted. Oh, okay, that's why she, you guys are DVP

is on the table. She knows how to take two decks. She takes a big fucking fist. Wait, so wait, so she's always, your wife as, oh,

like you fisted her. This is, was that something that you guys, like that you always did with your ex-wife? Is it something that you brought in with,

there's this girl? I never, I never did that before, and I don't know. No, she never did, but she used, she told me,

that she would fist herself. She's like, this goes way back. She's, I want you to fist me. I'm like, there's no way. My hand is, I'm six, too. Yeah. Man hands are different. They're big, yeah.

Yeah. And it took some taking, but eventually, yeah, she loved it. So she had copped to always fisting herself. That was something that she was into. So she brought that to the table for you. Yes. She did. And so you guys were always fissing, but you wind up fisting her after that massage.

you know i i think i actually fisted her while they were in the room yeah i did i did because yes that's and then it was after the left um is when i fucked her again second time what so in that room but it was just when it was all done both of our bodies are covered in oil it's just a really with the music and the lighting and everything and the masseuse hands all over both of us. Yeah, that's a crazy true. She actually said to me, she looked at me, she's, that was the best fucking

sex I've ever had in my life. I would love to talk to those masseuse people, like with the shit they saw, like they saw you fist your wife. Like I imagine all the kind of crazy things they see couples get down and do. Like I never had anybody

tell me about a massage at, you know, desire. Listen, I've talked to people with massage parlors like under the radar like illegal shit so that's a different scene but this is like at the resort you would think it's going to be that kind of a hot massage but no one that's ever been to these resorts have ever told me that that kind of a story but that sounds like super hot for sure yeah if any i recommend anyone goes to desires definitely get the couple's massage that's how that's how we met the other couple is when we when we are at lunch and we were

supposed to go on a cruise, like a sailboat cruise, but it rained and we didn't. So that's how we end up going on the massage. And we were just chit-chating with the couple. And I told him, I said, you guys have got to go get this massage. And I kind of explained to them in detail what happened. I thought it was really hot. So that's how we ended up meeting up with them later on. Oh my God. That's so funny. And then you met them afterwards. So that couple of massage was first. Then you hook up with that couple. And then there's no other hookups after that, right? Like just more sex in front of people and stuff while you're at the resort? Yeah, that was the only time. And that was the first time that my wife had ever been

touched by another man other than me or her ex-husband. So it was, let alone get off and it was with me there and it was just a really hot experience. Yeah, I can imagine. Okay, so now you get this contact information from this couple. Do they live, is it turned out that they live close to you? Because I know you do wind up hooking up with them. Like, do you travel to hook up with them or do they live in your area? No, they don't. They live, we live in the southwest of the country, and they live in the eastern part of the nation. Okay, cool. Yeah, we flew and we traveled to, we traveled to go see them, which we do a lot, almost every weekend we travel. Okay, so you're traveling, you guys are people that just pack up and go anyway. So you wind up contacting, who contacts who

when you get back from that vacation? His wife contacted my wife to, I don't know if it was Facebook or whatever. And she told me, she said, hey, she, she, she contacted me and they want to get together. I'm like, yeah, let's do it. Yeah. And that's when we kind of had the discussion about what we wanted to do because obviously we knew we were going there to, you know, hook up with them. Uh-huh.

And my wife actually said, she actually said to me, she says, I don't want him. I don't want to fuck anybody else. And I'm like, okay. And I'm good with that because I'm, I don't really want to fuck anybody else either. We like the group thing, the touching, the kissing, the oral, and that's what we had experienced up to that point. Yeah.

And so we went out and had a great time on the town, and then we went back to our hotel room, and the two ladies got together, and Dee and myself, I'm going to call him D, we just went and sat in the chairs and watched, and it was fucking hot. because she started they they undressed each other real slow and she went down on my wife on the edge of the bed

and then just the full the oral and they were they were scissoring and kissing and my wife was having nipple orgasms she does this thing where she arches her back and it's kind of like the porno vision where she's grabbing the sheets and it was just I'm standing there jacking off watching them, not standing sitting, but he was doing the same.

Yeah, I can imagine. I love scissoring. I always wonder, do people really scissor? You see it, but they were. They scissored. Yeah, yeah. They were, and they were getting off. So, yeah, and it was really hot.

It was really hot to watch my wife with her. Yeah. So after a while, then they invited us over to join. So we went over, him and I. I went to the bet. And he went to my wife, and I went to his wife for oral. And it was great because I was watching. And I didn't know how I was going to feel about it at first.

But it really did turn me out. I was watching my wife suck his cock. And it was almost like I was watching a porno. And it was awesome. Yeah. That's what you probably hear so many people on my show talking about that, right? Now it's the same thing. That's what they typically say.

A lot of guys are like, if they've never saw their wife with someone else, they don't really get it. They don't understand what's the turn on. or whatever, but a big part of it a lot of times is that what you just said there is it is like watching a porn, and that's your girl, and that's the porn star is your girl.

Yeah, but she watching my wife suck his cock and the way she works her hands with her twist motion and I know what he's feeling. Right, right. And that's what it was. I know what he's feeling right now because she's really good at it. While

his wife was giving giving me oral and I was watching my wife give him oral and it's just a yeah I I had to stop so he was going to make me come yeah that's so interesting so so you like though watching your girl blowing the guy your your your wife's blowing you then what happened well I know my wife and I know she gets to the point where she needs to get fucked and I'm like I could see that she was she was needing some dick and so I'm like I don't I I lost my erection really yeah and it was i said okay so i went over and i i was trying to with with my wife trying to get hard again and i was i think it was just nervous to be honest with you and and so i asked her i was

like do you want to fuck him and because i knew she wanted to get fucked and she didn't really say anything but she shook her head okay turns out that she really did it but i thought she said yeah so i told you know i looked at him i was like yeah let's say do this. So he put on a condom and he got to the edge of the bed and he started fucking my wife and she was sucking my cock. So she was open for it at that point and it was really hot. And his wife and my wife were, I was getting a double blow job while he was fucking her off the edge of standing on the side of the bed. Wow. Okay. Yeah. And I still was not able to get an erection. Listen, that happens more than it doesn't happen. You'd be surprised. A little.

lot of times in the lifestyle there are those kinds of things that happen. Performance anxiety. Yeah, it's common. I used to not believe it, but it's very common. It's exactly what happened. And I think the more I thought about it, the worst it got. For sure. Because at that point, when we were with them, I was not.

I could not get an erection. But you were turned on? Like, how was it watching your wife get fucked by another guy? It was really hot. It was really hot. Again, at first, I was a little uncomfortable with it and probably a little jealous, but then I could see that she was enjoying it. Yeah. So at that point, it was really hot.

Maybe she wasn't really enjoying, but I could tell that it felt good. I could tell you, okay, that's probably a better explanation. I'm sure she was enjoying it. Did you talk to her after? Did she say she enjoyed it? Yes, we did, because after they left, we talked about it. it and I asked her, I said, how did you feel about that? And she's, I'm not really sure.

She said, to be honest with, I felt a little dirty. Yeah. And she said, how did you feel about it? And I said, at first I was a little uncomfortable. I said, but it was really hot for me because I could see that it felt good for you. And again, that's my goal is I love to watch my wife get off, whether she's masturbating. It doesn't matter. I love it.

And she said, yeah, I felt good. I asked her, I said, did you come? It looked like you. She said, yeah, it came three times. I was like, well, good. Yeah. I said, but she's, at that time, she said she was still a little uncomfortable with it. Just because she said she felt a little dirty.

Right. So, but we had amazing reclaiming sex. Again, I lost my erection while they were there. And then I ended up coming three times that night after they left. So, yeah. It was great. So I'm assuming that you didn't do anything with the wife. Like you didn't penetrate her or fuck her the wife?

I did not. Okay. I did not. Okay. I just she gave me an oral. And I gave her oral. And that was the extent of it. Okay.

And so the reclaiming sex was great, but you still couldn't get it up. I'm sorry? The reclaiming sex. That was great afterwards? Yeah, it was incredible. It was incredible. we probably fucked for another two hours after they left. Oh my gosh.

And I think it was because they left at one in the morning. I think it was probably after 3, 3.30, you got to go to sleep. Yeah. So, yeah, I mean, you kind of broke a rule without really realizing it, right? It kind of just happened in the moment. But it was like a positive experience, I'm assuming. Sounds like it. Yeah, and that's exactly what it was.

We broke a rule and it just happened. And it was more my doing because I knew that my wife needed a cock. And my cock was soft. And it was kind of a miscommunication when I asked her, when I asked her, said, do you want to fuck him? And she shook her head. But she said later on, she said, no, I didn't want to. But she did.

Right. And she said, felt good. But even now, she said she still does not want to be, I want to fuck another guy. Right. That's what I'm going to say. What's the conversation? should like moving forward now because it sounds like you'll probably meet other couples maybe this one again i mean does that rule go back in place and yeah because that the discussion we had is

she said it's okay if you're both fucking me at the same time she's done with that she wants to she wants to experience that she wants to experience a DVP and maybe even a DPP she does like anal she loves anal okay and that night we actually we told that couple that she wanted a DVP. So I was kind of hoping we were going to get to it. But again, I lost my erection, so it didn't happen. Oh, my God. What's going on, Chad?

Yeah, I know. Because he asked me, he asked me, he said, you want to try that you want to do the DVP? And I'm like, okay. Yeah. And again, nerves or whatever. But that's on the table, though. It is on the table. And that was a discussion that we had.

She says she doesn't want to fuck another guy. definitely no solo play in the separate room. But she said if you're both fucking me, that's okay. She wants, because she does want two cocks. Yeah, well, that's a big thing. So it sounds like it's still very much on the table, but not in a specific way. Like she didn't like it when it was just her and the guy and you're not like involved at all. Yeah, exactly.

That makes sense. Now, are you going to meet up with this couple again in the future? We are. We are. right now we're talking about in June. Again, it's difficult because we live at opposite ends of the country. But we've been trying to get together. And we had probably three times a weekend schedule where we're going to meet in the city.

And life happens. But we haven't. So, yeah, we're definitely going to get together with them again. Do you ever discuss you hooking up with the woman? You don't have any desire for that at all, correct? I don't. I don't. I've thought about it. And we have talked about it. Yeah. And my, my position is, if it's something that's going to turn on my life, I'm down. Again, I'm, I'm bound for anything. Yeah. At this point, at this point in my life, I don't care. I'm not going to shy away from

anything. Yeah. YOLA, I'll try anything once. So, yeah. Sounds like your girl kind of rolls that way, too. She kind of went with it in the moment. So I have a feeling two years. down the line, you might be fucking other girls in front of her, too, and she might love it. You don't know. Yeah, I won't say nothing's off the table down the line. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Again, I'll try anything. Just right now, I don't have anything.

My wife is so fucking hot. I did send you a picture. Yes, I saw that picture. I got a bikini shot of his wife. I could take your heads out and put it on Patreon so people could see. She's got, like, a perfect body. She's very pretty. I won't show her face, but people will get the body shut over there.

That's like put on my picture. Yeah, she's got an amazing body. guess. And I will give you access to my Discord, because you could go on my Discord and post whatever you want there. That's where people show on. I actually already have it. Oh, you do. Okay, cool. So you could go into the guest area. I'm trying to keep it separate so that only guests go in one area and then everyone else goes in other areas. But definitely go in there and say, I'm Chad, and this is my wife. And you could post whatever. What I'll do on my Patreon is just do that picture if you, if I can of you and her in the bathing suits, but take out your heads. Yeah, that's fine. That's fine. Cool, cool. So yeah,

your wife is a definite 10 for sure. And she sounds like, listen, she sounds like she's fucking down to. She's got DVP and DP on her thing. She used to fist herself. She loves chicks. Like I said, two years down the line, most likely you'll do the full swap at some point, I just think, probably. But I love that you're taking it slow.

And that's the way it should be because I think it's really normal to have the feelings about things and you don't know how you're going to feel when certain things happened. Look, your wife didn't feel that right at first when she had sex with that guy. But she feels right thinking in her mind she thinks like if it's you and the guy at the same time, that's right for her. And everyone's very different. And those kinds of things are very important to figure out. And the only way to know sometimes is kind of like to do it and in the middle of it. You figure out what you're like, what you don't like, what you could deal with, what you can't deal with. But it's really success in what you're doing is really all about communication with each other. And I'm

assuming you guys have that. We do. We have good communication on our sex. And a lot of it probably goes, we both were raised in very conservative families, religious. She, I think there's like a guilt that she feels when she's doing these things because of her upbringing, which she's getting over. We both, we both are. Yeah. And so maybe that.

that's where it comes from. I don't know. But my wife is actually very quiet, very shy, very shy. But she loves sex. And she's open with that on me. But to broadcast that to other people, she's very conservative about that. That's cool. That's called being private. I don't even know that that's conservative. She's obviously, I wouldn't call your wife conservative. I would say she's private. And a lot of times I say this because a lot of people would say, oh, would these people, if they're in the lifestyle, and people hear what they do? Would they tell their children or their friends? Like, it's like, no, but vanilla people don't tell their friends what they do in bed either.

Most people don't talk about that shit. Most people keep their sex life private anyway. A lot of people roll like that. And that's fine. Like I said, she doesn't sound conservative to me. She sounds like a private, which I totally get. Yeah. That's a better word.

Yeah, for sure. Yeah. And we both are. We both are. Yes. Yeah. And I respect that. And I always say, no, they don't need to tell fucking anybody.

Nobody, most people don't talk about what they do with their partners behind closed doors. And it's nobody's fucking business. You guys are having fun. What's on your list to do? Are you going to do, are you ever going to try another hotel takeover or do that terrible one like scar you? Yeah, we want to go to a club. Yeah.

There's actually one pretty close to where we live right now. And we haven't yet, but we want to. We actually talk to the couple that we, that we've been with is maybe going to a different town and going a club together. Yeah. So we would like to do that. And she definitely has an interest in being with a woman again. She really likes tea, the couple that we met.

Yeah. She's very attracted to her. She's very beautiful as well. But we kind of just almost like play by ear, whatever is presented to us. And we talk about it. And this is something we want to try. Now that couple, do they have, maybe I need them on my show too. Do they have more experience than you guys?

Or are they newbies too? They do. They do. They've actually been in the lifestyle. I want to say for over 20 years is what they told us. Oh, cool. Yeah. Now, as far as experiences, they said they haven't hooked up with a lot of different couples.

They just been in the lifestyle a long time. Yeah, yeah. So they've had a lot of experience. Maybe they should tell them to call into my show. Do you think you'll let them listen to this episode? I'm going to let them know. Yeah, cool. So listen.

I definitely love them. I love when I have newbies on because I think there's a lot of people that are listening, just like you and your girl were listening before you did this, right, to hear other people's journeys because you learn from them. Like, how do you feel now that you cross the line and you've really gotten involved and done like a full swap and a lot of stuff I feel like, you know, for sure, even though you're newbies, you've kind of been there, done that. A lot of stuff you checked off.

Like how do you feel it changed your relationship at in and or what is it like the experience is like? Have they changed you? I feel like it's made our relationship better. Yeah. Yeah. It's caused us to broaden our sexual horizons, so to speak. It's caused me to consider things that I never would have considered before. Like I said earlier, at this point, I'm bound for anything.

If she came to me tomorrow, like I told you, I am not bisexual. but if she came to me and said, look, it would really turn me on to watch that guy give you a blowjob or to watch you fuck him in the ass. Honestly, I probably would. Just because she wants me to. Yeah, like in the moment. I definitely have no interest. The hotness of it. Yeah.

If it's going to turn her on. And we laugh about that because she's, I have no way. She's like, I really don't want to watch you fuck another guy. And I'm like, I'm glad. But if she was, you would because, and that's compersion. That's like really getting off on your partner getting off. off and that just goes to show how far people would go for it. And I think that a lot of times that's what is going down.

I had that Dr. Joe Court on my show to say, sometimes people will suck a dick and doesn't mean anything. And that's, it's exactly what you're just saying there. It's like in the heat of the moment, it came up and you could see your wife fucking orgasming like the porn star that she is, that you love that vision and see it. And you had to get a blowjub from a guy to make that happen. You would do it because it's like in the heat of the moment. Yeah.

Yeah. And that's what I, and we want to, we talked about some, some kind of a group thing to, one of my fantasies is to be in a room where there's people fucking everywhere and hands going everywhere. Like an orgy. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I definitely want to experience that. And she's, yeah, she's down for that as well. Yeah, I think you need to go to more swingers clubs and parties and stuff like that.

Like I say give those, give other groups a chance and keep looking on SLS. I did have Mizzy Bender on to talk all about swingers parties and swingers clubs. Like she did say, listen, most people are going to have to travel about an hour to find a great club or a party. A lot of times you do have to travel, but there's probably a lot more swinger action in your area. Plus, you guys travel a lot, but I think that an orgy is pretty easy to find. You just got to go back to SLS and keep looking. Yeah, for us right now, and maybe it's because we are so new, maybe it won't change. is both of us feel like we need to have a connection with somebody.

I just can't fuck somebody that I just met. Yeah, that's cool. She feels the same way. She needs to have a connection. Yeah. And so that makes it difficult as far as to meet people or whatnot. And where we live, especially where we live, we're new. We just moved there not too long ago.

And we've kind of struggled to meet new people. But we haven't gone, we haven't met any. off the website or off the app yet. But that'll happen and it does take time. But it's great that you both rule that way because a lot of times it's just the woman. Women are mostly wired like that. But some guys are too. And it's all about making that connection.

But you don't need to have a connection to be involved in an orgy. And so that's what you could still go to those swingers, clubs or parties and just do what you've done before, which is just hook up with each other until you do have that connection. But also putting yourself up on more apps, maybe you might. me people and eventually get to know other people. But it's great that you have this couple already that you're connected with and you like because that could last a long time. Yeah. And we're hoping it does. We're hoping that you can stay friends with them and get together every now and not. Yeah, I get that. I always like long-term booty calls and people you could just go

for sex. But I need to know that person like that person. And then once I find that person, I stick with them. You know what I mean? And it sounds like you guys might roll that way too. Hopefully they could be your guy's couple for you to live out all your stuff. with and in the meantime maybe you'll meet other people that you connect with but listen you're going to send me if you want to send in more picks of your wife for my patreon members besides that one but anonymous ones you could do it you'll also go into my discord right and say you're chad when your episode airs i love your story i love newbie stories i think that they're always great because i think other people listening like i said that are like right there right about to maybe cross the line could learn a lot from these stories i'm sure

you learned a lot from listening to other people's stories right when you guys were listening to my podcast us and now you guys are going to other people are going to hear your story and learn from it so thank you so much for calling in and sharing your story if your wife ever wants to call in i'd love to get her side of things if she's down and tell that other couple if they want to call in they could call in yeah i'm definitely i'll definitely let them know and awesome yeah yeah but it's it's been it's been a fun journey and we're we're going slow and with open minds and again your show has been almost like a guide to us i love that i think it is Listen, that's what I say a lot of the times nowadays.

It's a great conversation starter podcast. People do use them for that reason, and I think that that's great. That's exactly what it has been for us as a conversation starter, and getting us on topic with different things. Yeah, that's what it's all about. And then everything gets put on the table, and then there you are getting a massage with the two people, fingered, banged, fisting.

I don't know. If you think about where you were and where you come, just from listening to things and opening, up. That's what it's all about. So I love that little addition to the end. Thank you so much, Chad, for calling in. Like I said, if you want to send me more pictures, do it. But if not I have that one, I'll put that on Patreon because your wife is a 10 and people will say you're not fucking lying. All right. So listen, Chad, thanks so much for calling in. I love your guy's story. Okay. Can be posted when you do 10 more thousand other things. We'll do a part two like six, seven months from now. Okay. That would be fun. That would be great. Awesome. And next time get your wife with you on the phone. Yeah, I'm going to try and encourage you to do that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it would be fun. I always love getting the wife's perspective on things. Even if it's the same story, it's always so different. So see if she's ever down.

I'd love to have her on. But thanks for calling in and sharing your guy's story. I love it. Thanks, Kathy. Thanks, Chad. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book,

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