Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 844 - Hailey is a Hotwife

Episode Date: June 6, 2024

Hailey is a hotwife and she called in to talk all about it. When and why did she become a hotwife? What exactly does she do with the guys she hooks up with? And what kind of guys are her faves? Tune in to find out plus hear all about her husbands affair and how she found out about it, the threesome she had with her husband and the woman he cheated on her with, how and why she wound up eventually cheating on him and how that led to her being a hotwife, how she became a size queen and how that plays into her cuck husbands humiliation fantasies, how she tapes her hook ups and what she does with her husband when she comes home, they types of guys she looks for, what’s next on her bucket list when it comes to hooking up outside her marriage and a whole lot more.  **To see anonymous a pics of HAILEY plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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wound up having an affair on her end. And then they wound up really opening up the relationship. And then they were able to really figure out that what they really enjoy is her going out and banging other guys. And she became like a size queen. She never was before. Now she totally gets it. And she's totally into guys with bigger dicks. And he loves nothing more than for her to go out and get with guys of big dicks and then come home to him. But the journey, what's so interesting about this story is the journey to the situation and their open marriage. You won't believe it. She's very open and honest about all of it. I have super hot picks of her over on my Patreon. I repeated this episode because it's a great one. It's such an interesting story. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on

with Haley. Hi, Haley. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today all the way in Australia? I'm good. Thank you. How are you? I'm good. I love your accent. Do you guys like our accent or do we sound like shit to you? Is it always like the grass is greener on the other side? Everyone like someone else's accent or do you love your accent as much as I do? Oh, look, I think my husband says that I sound a bit like a Jack Russell. So I love the American accent. I think it's great.

You do. Is your husband American or is the Australian too? Because we're going to be talking about him. No, he's Ozzy. Okay. So now you have a long, interesting story because you, you know, You would say you're a hot wife. You would say your guy is a cock.

You've been together since the dawn of time. But how you got to the place where, you know, you guys are now in an open marriage is an interesting one. Because it started out with an affair and some affair. And then there was more affairs. Then there was threesomes. And then there was opening up the relationship. And here you are today. So why don't you start off where things change?

Did you start off like very monogamous? And how long did that period of your life go for? I think so, yeah, we. got together when we were 17, so we were very young. Neither of us had really been with, I think I had been with one other person and he had been with one or two other people. And we got married quite young as well. We were 21 when we got married.

And I grew up in a pretty, like, religious home. And so you never talk about sex or anything like that. It was taboo. And after we got married, we used to, like, just have, like, like parties at our place and people would get drunk and everyone would end up naked and we would probably go skinny dipping and play strip poker and all sorts of crazy stuff and nothing I think it was only like there was one occasion where we had a bit of a partner swapping thing happened and then that happened once and then we sort of had kids and then so it was 10 years ago when we had two children

that my husband went to the pub and he met this girl there and started having an affair with her after that. And I don't know, just being a woman, I just kind of had a feeling that there was something going on and then randomly, like, I checked his Facebook one day and there was this message that came up from this girl saying, I miss you, which was really bizarre. And then in the end, like I got it out of him

that he had been sleeping with this girl for quite a sudden. sometime and he'd actually brought her to our house and being like, oh, this is my friend. I met her at the pub. And it was, so he'd brought her to the house. Oh, my. You know. It was so weird. And then I found out about the affair and then I sort of asked him about it.

And he was like, he wouldn't really tell me anything about it. He didn't want to talk about it. And he still wanted to keep talking to her. And so then I rang her and she told me everything that happened between them because he wasn't going to. And then, I guess after a few weeks, I said to him, well, you can keep seeing her. Like, I'll just, you know, it makes you happy. Whatever.

We'll just see what happens type of thing. And then, I don't know, one thing sort of led to another. And then we ended up having a threesome with her. Yeah, but how does that happen? Okay. It's like, I know it's 10 years ago. So it's hard to maybe remember exactly, but it's such a leap. from one thing to another, like here you are a woman married to this guy.

You have two kids. Like your guy like was having an affair. It wasn't even a one time thing that he carved to. You kind of caught him. He had introduced you to the girl. So there's like massive betrayal. You decide to be like, okay, you could keep seeing her. Let me ask you that leap first.

How were you able to get past it so easily and just say, hey, keep continuing to see her? I think because it's so, it's so weird. And there's so many emotions. that went along with it. But it was like, it's betrayal, it's hurt, it's anger. And then at the same time, I'm like, well, he didn't really want to get married when we were young. I kind of pushed him into it, I suppose.

And so in a way, I guess I probably felt a bit like, oh, well, this is his way of having some fun because it made him settle down so early type thing, even though I didn't make him. I kind of, I looked at it from his point of view, and it made him happy. and he was like a better husband because he was more caring. Obviously he felt so guilty, so he was like really nice to me. I guess I kind of was like, I'm busy with the kids and if this makes him happy sort of thing, I just wanted him to be happy, I guess, in a way. And so then when he, like he, so he was seeing her again.

And then I was like, well, I want to see what this is. I want to see it with my own eyes. like you and her together and it was I just wanted to see it I decided and so then we organised that she would come over and we had a few drinks and then she and I sort of started getting it on a bit and then one like one thing led to another and then we ended up in the bedroom and then I saw them two together so so that happened a few times and then it sort of got to the stage where I wanted it to end then. I was over it. I didn't want him to continue this relationship with her. Oh, interesting. I just, I felt like I was done and wanted him to be done. And so then the thing with

those two kind of fizzled out, which was fine. And then life was sort of pretty boring, well, not boring, but you know, pretty vanilla, I suppose. But stop right there because I just have some questions about this part of the story that you just blew past too. I know there's a lot here because eventually the other stuff happens but first of all how was it seeing him with that girl was it like super hot for you and you're like wow that's interesting or was it like did it trigger you at all because this was the person that was having an affair with your husband yeah yeah totally it was so hot that's what i'm saying so it was hot but it was kind of both it was yeah but you were able to kind of turn that feeling and all that negativity about their situation and funnel it into your

horniness and that worked for you? Yeah, exactly. That's exactly how it happened. And I guess it was only because it went on for a few months then after I'd found out about it. The novelty sort of wore off. And then I think I started to think about things a lot and it just made me, it triggered me a bit. Oh, okay. So I get it. And I think that that's like very real life. Like here you are someone that was able to be like, yeah, I could sweep this under the rug. Maybe that was the right thing. And Yeah, and I'm fine with this. Go continue to see her. And then he's seeing her and now you're curious and maybe you have some weird horniness about it.

So you're like, I'm going to get involved. And now you're involved. And it's like fucking hot because it's so dirty and wrong. And this is the girl that fucked your husband and every super church. And then when that all goes away and you've had your fill, you're like, wait a second. This is fucked up. Yeah, exactly. You know what?

Now I don't want you to see her. Fuck off. Yeah, I totally get it. Yeah, exactly. I was like, we're done. This is over. Yeah, no more. Yeah.

I could understand it that way. It was harder for me to understand it the way you were telling it before. But I know you have to get to all the good stuff. But, you know, that I could understand that emotional roller coaster that you went on from your perspective. So anyway, so now you could go on with Shory. So then after, I think it was, and then it was, it would have been a good three years. And we had another, another two kids, would you believe? And then I picked up his phone one day, which I don't ever do.

but I just had this gut feeling that there was something weird going on. And I found all these text messages on his phone, and it was saved under a different number, a different name, but it was her. He'd been speaking to her again. Oh, no. Yeah, so he had been speaking to her because she had been in a relationship with a guy,

and he had been having an affair with someone, and she found out about it. So she had called my husband to be like, I'm getting what I deserve because of what I did to you and your wife and blah, blah, blah. And he says that it was just like a friendship kind of, they were talking on a friendship level. Yeah. But for me, I couldn't get past it. I was so pissed because I had said, don't talk for her again.

She's out of our life. I don't want you to speak to her. I don't want you to see her. And he had been talking to her on the phone for three months. This episode is sponsored by Blue Chew. Listen, guys, you want to know what girls dig. They dig guys with confidence. And that's especially true in the bedroom.

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And have been hiding it from me. Then one day we went out for lunch and we never go out for lunch together and his phone rang and it was her ringing whilst we were going out for lunch. And he didn't answer the phone, obviously. Anyway, he just couldn't understand why I was so angry and why I was so upset with him after that. and I kind of just got to this point where I was, he doesn't care about me, he doesn't care about my feelings, he doesn't respect me, I don't care any kind of thing.

Yeah. So then, like I just had a baby and I'd been looking after myself and was feeling a lot better about myself and I noticed that this co-worker of mine was showing me a bit of attention and noticed that he was, he seemed quite attentive and he would send me messages that asked me how I was, I was like, oh, yeah, I think, I think he's flirting with me. I think he might be a bit all right. And then I went, messaged him. And then I was, I went to a girlfriend's house for a few wines and I sent him a message.

And I was like, oh, hey, what are you doing? And he's, oh, I'm just at home. And I said, oh, I might come over. And so I'd had a few wines and I went to his house. And he was actually in bed when I got to his house. And so I just said, while I'm coming inside and I went and jumped into his bed with him. And the next thing you know, I was half naked and I had his big penis in my hand,

which I had never, ever had a big penis. Like it was huge. I'd never seen a penis that big because my husband's not very big at all. And I was just like, how big? Yeah, yeah, yeah, how big? It would probably be eight inches and like quite girthy. Right, right, right. And my friends had always talked about how big cocks were amazing.

And I was always like, no, they would hurt. They'd be no good. Nah, no, not interested. Yeah. Because I'd never experienced a big cock before. Mm-hmm. And so he made me come three times in that night. And it was like an amazing experience for me because it was just like,

just like, carefree and fun and yeah, I'd never experienced any sex like that in my life. You're also like cheating for the first time in your life. And so do you have any sort of guilt about it right after or are you kind of like feel good because you was like payback? Yeah. For me it was 100% this is revenge. He deserves this.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're revenge fucking. Yeah, revenge fucking. And I didn't feel bad about it at all. That's why I got caught. Oh, no, he caught you? These are the little details I don't know. Yeah, so my husband caught me because obviously I'm not too good at hiding things.

And he just knew. He just knew from the way that I was acting that I was up to something. So how does your husband catch you? Because he knew this guy. This guy lives down the road. And he was a friend of ours because I had been messaging him. Oh, okay. So we saw you guys.

So he was blowing up your phone. Constantly, like messaging me all the time. So then it was suck. And then I was acting suss. And so then I wasn't going to tell him, but he like baited me into telling him what had happened. Then he was like, oh, well, you can go and you can go and fuck him one more time type thing because then we'll be even. But then when push came to shove, he wasn't, he wasn't cool with that at all. so then I never got to have the second go

with the guy that ended but how was your was your guy able to get over the fact that you now had cheated on him was it kind of like you both were like all right we're even I think I think for him he was really angry he was far more angry than I thought he would be because

I don't think he ever thought that I would do something like that to him and so for him he was I've never seen him that angry. And he was so, so angry with me. And it was a really, really hard time. But then at the same time, like I was saying with the girl that he had slept with and how it kind of turned me on, even though it was so, you know, it was so taboo to have me.

Yeah. And he kind of said he felt the same way, like thinking about me being fucked by this big guy with this big cock. And so after a few months, he. There was obviously a lot of hard times that we went through, but after a few months, he said, hey, there's this adult website on the internet and you can go on there and you can find people that, you know, looking for a bit of playtime on the side or whatever, like an online dating thing for adults. So my husband actually put us on these two sites and was trying to find a guy, like for me.

to fuck. Yeah. Yeah. And you were down. Yeah. Well, at first I was like, no, I don't want to do that. No way. And then I was like, oh yeah, once I had a look on there, I thought, yeah, this could be pretty fun. And so then obviously, like I was looking for, we were looking for someone for me. But at the time, he was also looking for like a girl to play with as well. Oh, okay. So you were both going to now cross the line and be more open in that he could screw girls. girls, you could screw guys. Were you looking for guys with big dicks now, or now you, like, suddenly a size queen because of that one experience? Yeah, I didn't want anything small after that. I definitely knew that I was going to be a size queen. Okay. And they had to be girthy, too.

That was super important to me. And so, so the first, I'm trying to think then the first time. So then that was a few months later. Mm-hmm. And so then I had this. experience with this guy that I'd met on there. And he was quite, he was quite big as well. And it was quite an interesting story because it turns out that we actually went to

the same high school as each other because it's a small world, I guess. We really hit her off and we had a really good time and he came through with the goods. He was well hung. He was well hung, yeah, yeah. So I think I saw him like two or three times maybe. and at the same time my husband had seen this other girl that was like probably not someone that he would usually go for in the outside world but he sort of hit it off with her and it was a case of well she's doing it so I may as well have some fun as well. So then that happened and he had this one meet with a girl and then we sort of like got busy with life and kids and all that sort of thing. And then we sort of didn't really go online for a little while.

And then maybe six months later, he was like, oh, I really want to have a threesome with you and another guy. Well, let me ask you this. Go back to that first time because you both have these really super hot experiences with other people. Would you bring those stories home to each other? Oh, yeah, totally. Sorry, I forgot to tell you that. So obviously, the deal is that we have to have video footage or photos to show each other. other at this point when we do this.

So you were turned on by watching the, so what did he do and what did you do, photos or videos? Well, he didn't give videos or photos. Like he, I wasn't really too fuss on that. I was happy with him just retelling the story to me. But for me, I had, I had to give him, he, like men are so visual. They want, he really wanted videos and photos. So I would have to come home straight away and show you. him the videos and the photos and then he would want to fuck me and use me after I had been with

another man. He liked that. And what about you? Did you find the stories of him with that girl super hot? Not really. Like I think I just sort of tolerated it so that I could get to have some fun. Oh, interesting. So you weren't as into watching him with somebody else as he was watching you?

No. No. Okay. And still and still I'm not. Yeah. Still, I'm not. But he, like, he just loves it. He just can't get enough of seeing me with someone else.

So fast forward back to that moment. You were just out again where he said, hey, let's set up a threesome for you to be with a guy and I'm going to be there. This is going to be the first time you have that kind of scenario. Because you had it with a girl. Yeah, exactly. Now this is the first threesome. Yeah, exactly. With a guy.

Okay. Yeah. And so that was really, yeah, this guy, this guy that we organized, we met him at a hotel. We'd met him online. Well, yeah, I had met him online and been speaking to him on and off for a few months. And then we organised to meet at a hotel. And he was huge, like massive, definitely massive. And I knew that it was going to be really good fun.

I could just tell by the messaging and stuff. Once you've been messaging people online for a while, you get pretty good at being able to tell how things are going to go. So we met at a hotel. My husband wasn't there yet. I met him first and we went and had a few drinks to start with. And, yeah, I was super happy with the person that I had chosen for that. And then my husband got there and we sort of went out for dinner. And then we went back to the hotel.

And we were sitting, we're all sitting in the room. And I was sitting on the bed sitting next to this other guy. and my husband was sitting on the couch just sitting there. And this guy that was sitting on the bed, he said, why don't you come and sit on my lap? And so he pulled me onto his lap and just started like making out with me. And it was so hot. And like he was kissing me and I was looking over at my husband who just had this, the look on his face was just crazy.

He was just loving it. Okay. Wind up, I mean, is he a true cock in that he's. sits on the sideline and just watches and that first experience did you just fuck that guy or did your husband get involved what did that scenario look like yeah so then so he sat there for a while just watching while this guy went down on me and then while he while this guy was going down on me my husband put his cock in my mouth and so i was giving him head at the same time and so he was he was kind of involved and when the guy the guy would fuck me and he would sit there and watch and sort

of like play with himself while he was fucking me. Yeah. Like he would just sit there and watch mostly and then when this guy like had to have a break obviously because he got tired then he would come and fuck me. So that guy that first experience now does does your do then is that then what you guys proceed with after you finally realize what you guys are down? for, which is this kind of experience. Does he continue to see other women? He saw one other woman after that. And then after that, we kind of just, well, we kind of came to the conclusion that I wasn't

really okay with him seeing other women because it kind of triggered me. But he was totally okay with me seeing other men, just as long as I don't exclude him from it, tell him all about it and take videos for him and share that experience with him. So did you continue to see that one guy or did you start to just find other guys online? Yeah, like I did see that other guy another time on my own without my husband. But that was one other time and that was pretty, that was really fun but probably not as fun as the first time being like with my husband there. So you liked having your husband watching you?

Well, I did have having him there with him. And I think because I had met that guy with my husband, I just seemed a bit strange without my husband. Mm-hmm. Okay. And then we sort of, I don't know, I think we kind of, there was like a few months went past after that. And then it was like, well, I'm pretty, my husband,

he's pretty busy with his work and having kids. It makes it a bit hard to kind of get out together. And he's, well, why don't you be a hot white? type thing and I was like what's a hot wife so then I had to Google it kind of to find out to figure out what a hot wife was yeah explain it because there's other people that don't know and sometimes it's so confusing explain exactly what that means or that you find found out what it means yeah so I guess basically for us like a hot wife is is is where the wife is able to go and play with other other playmates or other men or other women and that's okay the husband knows all about it and then

it's all okay with the husband so when you googled it were you like yeah i'm down for this you're into it yeah i'm down for this i'm totally down for this definitely and so then obviously like with the the online the online adult dating space there's been quite a few people that i have met along away, some really good stories, some that I would rather not ever repeat again. But for the most part, it's definitely been a really fun, exciting little secret hobby to have on the side. And now in these situations, do you typically see these people with or without your husband, or does it vary? Without. Without. Is that what hot wiping is all about? Like you go out, you do it.

you come home or is the husband never there? Yeah. Yeah. For us, it's like he, the husband, he's not there. It's just me that goes and meets these guys. Right. And quite often, I will meet them, you know, maybe three or four times. It wouldn't, it's usually not just a one-off. Oh, okay. Mm-hmm. Just mainly because I guess for me, I, I, I have to also feel a bit of a connection with these people. Like I'm not just a not just like a one night stand sort of sort of a thing. And so when you do you tape these scenarios or photograph them or is it just depends on the guy? Yeah. Most of the guys are pretty good about letting you tape it. Like there was one there's one guy that I've been seeing quite recently actually since last year. And like he loves it. He loves to grab my phone and

take footage of what he's doing to me. He just loves it. Right. And it gets really good angles and really enjoys being on camera, which is always really good. There's some guys that are like, oh, no, like, I don't really want to do that. But for the most part, most of them are pretty good about it. Well, and they know that you're a hot wife. That's the story going in, right?

They know. Exactly. They know they're fucking some guy's wife and videotaping. it, I'm sure that's so supercharged for certain people. Yeah, so a lot of guys really love it. They really get off on the fact that they're fucking some guy's wife and that, you know, that's got a bigger cock than the wife's, you know, then this whole wife has at home. And that really turns them on.

And does that aspect of it too turn your husband on? Yeah, yeah. He really, it really gets him off. Like, he's kind of into the, the humiliation side of it too. I think he really, he really gets into it. Right. And so when you're on these sites, you're a hot wife looking for a guy who's well hung. That's a part of your criteria. Is that what it's all about for you? Yes, definitely. Yeah, 100%. Yeah, it's got to be different to what I get at home. What, how many guys have you seen since you guys have been playing around? Do you

typically stay with the same guy or you have a lot of different ones? So, Like in the last few years, like I've counted them. And there's probably been like 10, I would say, in the space of maybe 2000, when it was 2017. So, yeah, like four or five years, yeah. Now, let me ask you, have you ever, because you don't see them as one-offs, you typically continue to see them over time. Have you ever had a, like, copped feelings for anyone? Are you ever worried about that?

Not really. I think that I always go into it knowing what it is. Listen, I don't think that that happens to most people. You just never know. I just was wondering if it did. Yeah, I don't know. Like there is definitely some of them that you get along really well and you often think, oh, this is really easy. But at the end of the day, the only way that this sort of arrangement really works. successfully, I suppose, is if you maintain that level of this is just what it is sort of thing. And now has it strengthened your marriage? I think it has, yeah. I think that it's kind of like it's let the wild in me out, which sounds really funny.

But I just feel more content and more happy in my life. because I kind of have this secret, this secret crazy thing that happens. Between you and your husband, nobody knows. Do any of your girlfriends know? I've got a girlfriend that kind of knows a few stories, but she doesn't, she's not, she doesn't know everything. I think her head would spin off if she knew everything. Right.

And so do you have a guy you're playing with now? Do you want to tell me some of those, the great stories? I know that you said there's some stories that you wouldn't want to tell because they were bad. I sometimes like a kind of story that goes bad. Sometimes they're funny, but I don't know if you want to tell some of the good ones, some of the bad ones. Yeah. I could tell you a bad story if you like, like for a laugh. So I met this guy online and then we'd plan to go out for dinner and then see what happened. So we met at this pub and then we had dinner but he was doing some intermittent fasting thing and so he wasn't eating so he just sat there and watched me eat yeah which was

really really strange and then like on my profile i sort of say can't be a smoker or anything like that because i personally don't smoke and so that's one of my criteria along with a big cock and he we got outside of this pub and he lit up a cigarette and i was like oh okay and then we ended up going back to his house and I walked in the door and there was this massive big samurai sword on the wall and all you could smell was like, I don't know if I'm allowed to say it or not, but like all I could smell was marijuana. Like it was a grow house. Oh, interesting.

I had gone to. Right. There was all this smoking paraphernalia in the house and I was like, oh my God, what have I got myself into. Oh my God. And then at that point, at that point, I kind of felt like it had gone too far and I had to follow through with what I had said I was going to do. But I was pretty lucky in the fact that he couldn't get it up and so it was over so I could

leave. Because you weren't into him. You were turned off. He had. I wasn't. I was so turned off. And I felt, I kind of felt a bit unsafe. So I was pretty glad when that kind of didn't happen.

Yeah, but tell me some of the good stories. Oh, so the good stories. There was one that I saw really recently and I'd met him online and he's a little bit younger than me and we met at a pub and then we went back to his house and like he had just got the most perfect cock I have ever seen. It's just like beautiful and perfect size and he was able to fuck me for hours. And it was just amazing. It was just so good.

Now is your guy like a clean-up guy? Does he like to, when you come home, you know, to go down on you knowing that another guy was there? These are just the things I've heard from other people guys and like your husband. Yeah, yeah, yeah. He loves that. Yeah. Yeah. He loves that.

He loves to like to be able to go down on me after another guy has been down there. And he loves to like to come inside me and say, I'm coming inside you now. I'm going to reclaim your pussy. Right. And you have the videos or the pictures or whatever that guy has experience and he watches them. Yeah, yeah. And I don't always like to watch them myself because I always think I always get a bit like, oh my God. But he just loves to watch them.

And he's got so many of these videos on his phone that he can just, he's got it all there. ready for him to watch. And what is your type? Does looks matter or is it more so how big their dicks are? Or is it the whole package for you? Like for me, it's got to be like they've got to have a good size cock and they have to just not be a dick, have a good sort of personality and not be not just just be like a good person basically and just and be reasonably good looking as well.

look after yourself type thing. And what about age range? Is it all across the board, the guys that you see and around what age are you? Like, what do you like older guys, younger guys, guys around your age or all of the above? Usually like they're all around. They're all about my age. They're all like mid-30s. The one that I, there was one that I saw two weeks ago and he's 40.

He's 40 this year, I think. And so he's the oldest guy that I have played with so far. And as far as race, Is it all across the board too, or do you have a preference? I've only, I've never been with anyone that's not Australian, I suppose. Right. So white, always white. That's what I like.

Oh, yeah, always white. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. But I do have a thing for like men in uniform. There was a really, really fun experience with a firefighter in a hotel. And he also was very well.

hung and he made me come the quickest than every any man has ever made me come like i was riding him so it was just i don't know it was something that just came over me and i was riding him and honestly it only took 30 seconds and i have never come that quickly with him the man before ever was it because he was so well hung was it because he was wearing his uniform what the heck was it about that firefighter I mean, they do tend to be really fucking hot. I don't know what it is about firefighters. They are very good looking. I don't know what it is.

Yeah. They're super good looking. And he's a really nice guy as well. But it was like the best sex of my life. I would go out on a limb and say. I think it was just knowing he was a firefighter. It was just like all I needed. Oh, so right.

So just even knowing that he's not wearing his uniform, but it's the fact that he's a man that wears a uniform and that's what you dig. Yeah. Yeah. And the guy that I saw most recently, he's a police officer. And so he would send me photos of him in his uniform. And he just knew that that's what I liked. And now does your guy have a tie for?

Is it mostly, oh, they just want he, because he likes a little bit of the humiliation that he just wants these guys to be well hung. Yeah, yeah. He likes him to be well hung so that he knows that I really enjoy it. But then he likes them to be well hung so that they kind of, I don't know, I don't know if this is too much. information or what but he likes them to really stretch me out a bit so that when he gets a turn he can tell that it's been a good time for me interesting i don't know that i've ever heard that but i'm sure a lot of cucks feel the same way because that's what it's that's what it's all about for the cock right they'd want to know they want to fucking know and and and he he's disappointed

if it's not like straight away and it's not still fresh oh my god hilarious and how small is your husband but how small is your husband's probably i reckon five inches maybe and no girth not much no not much at all but does all of this stuff that you're doing outside of the marriage with these other guys like add to it so that because i would wonder if here you are getting stretched out by these guys that are super well hung sometimes it might be hard to then go home and fuck the guy that doesn't fill you up at all. But is it so hot with your husband? Because you have these experiences beforehand.

Does that add to it? I don't know. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. Because then it's all these fantasies that are realities and they kind of play out in your head. And then like when my husband and I are having sex, he will ask me to tell him things about my experiences with these other men. Yeah.

And it really gets him off. He just loves it. Yeah, I feel like there's a lot of women out there because I feel like I was once asked by a guy like, oh, does this person, he knew I had sex with somebody else and he was kind of like, is his dick bigger than mine or not? I was like, no, definitely not. But then I'm just thinking now that I've been doing my show so much and I hear all this crazy shit, then I'm like, maybe I gave him the wrong answer, but never in a woman's wildest fantasy

in the regular vanilla world think that the right answer would be like, yeah, he was so much bigger than you but yet there is this whole world that these that is the right answer when you would never think yeah yeah definitely that's what some men they love it they get off on the humiliation and and for my husband he has his own business so he's the boss and he is always in charge giving people jobs and things to do and so i feel like in a way for for him in the bedroom for what happens it's like his release kind of thing because the roles are completely reversed. Totally. They say that in BDSM a lot of times that really hardcore CEO is the guy that's getting

fucking whipped by the Dom on the DL because it's the only way he releases all of that pressure that's on his back during the day. So it's that switch. It's not always the case, but a lot of times that person is the one who is submissive. It's the opposite of what you would think. Exactly. Yeah.

Like your guy is the switch. Now for you, is there anything on your bucket list? Here you are doing all this stuff. Where do you go from here? Have you ever had two guys? Do you think about that? Is there anything like in your future that you're like interested in doing? Because now you've opened up this world and you have this open relationship.

Is there anything you haven't experienced yet that you want to? Yeah. Yeah. Like I think definitely like an MSM with two. guys that aren't my husband that are both like really like reasonably big size I think is definitely on my list. I've never like my husband and I both of us we've never experienced a swingers club. So that's definitely something that we would like both like to probably try at some point.

I'm surprised. And I think and I and I think that maybe I might like to try being a unicorn at one point maybe. Another girl you mean. on my list. Yeah, yeah. Like to a couple, to a couple. Oh, you want to be the unicorn. Yeah. Oh, okay. I thought you might bring one in. Okay, you're not into that. I think we've already established that. You're so, you're not so much into seeing your guy with a woman or

anything, but you would like to maybe go into a couple. Now, yeah, now, have you ever been hit up on any of those websites from couples? Not on any of those websites, really, because I guess what I'm looking, what I say I'm looking for. A hot wife looking for guys. Yeah. But like I have been to like when I was out with girlfriends one night, there was this Brazilian couple that I got talking to at a gay bar and they were like wanting me to go home with them.

Mm-hmm. But you didn't. And I was like, oh. Well, I didn't because I was with my friends and they didn't really want my side. My side hobby is. Yeah. So it's about indifference. circumstances I might have been open to it.

Yeah, totally. But I just think, yeah, I just feel like there's still so much out there to experience. And I've been pretty, I've been really lucky with the experiences I've had so far. And it's just been really good fun. And all those years of me saying to my girlfriends, oh, no, no, like big, big cocks are just so overrated. And I just didn't even know what I was missing. Right.

That's why I asked, was it hard to go back to something? Because I do think when you get your quote unquote fill, that feeling. Yeah. If you get off on that and then you wire yourself to feel that to orgasm. It is maybe hard sometimes. But I feel like you and your husband are doing such naughty things together that whatever, you got that guy before him and then you go home and fuck him so you don't need him to be big too. Yeah, exactly.

It would just wear me out, I think. Wear me out too much. Yeah, but you have, you sort of have your cake and eat it too. As far as your and your husband, and I hear this a lot from Cox, because sometimes people will be like, oh, it's not fair that she gets to fuck other guys. Why doesn't he get someone? But a lot of times, and most of the time what I hear is that that's exactly what everybody wants in this kind of situation. The hot wife just wants to fuck other guys.

She doesn't necessarily want her guy with other women. Sometimes she does, but typically the cock just wants. her his girl with another guy she doesn't he doesn't really have that desire like to go out and be with other women himself i mean is your guy fine with just this i think i asked you that already before but what was yeah he's he's he's totally totally fine with it he just says that he doesn't really he doesn't feel the need to he feels like he got that out of his system when he was younger so yeah and then this is the variety that maybe he likes like i said a lot of people will be like that's not fucking fair. It doesn't need to be fair. It needs to be like whatever that couple is down for

and interested in. Whatever works. It works for him. You're probably giving him the best sex of his life because he loves this kind of stuff. So what more would he be looking for? You already established for you. It wouldn't work really for him to be with other women. You don't want that. And so if he's fine with that, who the fuck cares? Yeah. And I think a lot of people, you have to be very open-minded to It's a hard thing to try and get your head around, but you have to be pretty open-minded, and a lot of people just don't understand. It's just really quite different. I also think you and your husband being together since you were really young plays into it because there's a foundation that a lot of times people don't have or haven't yet established. You guys have been together since you were like barely formed as people.

And you've been through so much that I think, yeah, I think sometimes those kind of couples could weather through things more just because there's more time spent and there's more security in that relationship because you've just been together for so long since the get-go. Whereas a lot of times couples of three years in, you know, it could cause a lot of problems and there could be a lot of more insecurities because I think the biggest fear underneath sort of opening things up a lot of times is all the things that could happen. What if you do cop feelings? What if you start liking somebody else? What if I can't fucking handle it? What if you don't tell me? You guys have been through you guys actually besides being together for so long, you also had a lot of, you did go through issues and you resolve them, the affairs and the cheating and that kind of stuff.

So you kind of were like been there, done that everything. So now here you are totally opening up and it works for you. And there is no issues between you and your guy as far as what you guys are doing. it works. Yeah, exactly. And the key is just like honesty. You just have to be so transparent and so honest. But you didn't start out that way.

There wasn't, there was dishonesty. Yeah. It was dishonesty on both parts and mistrust. And like I think in a lot of ways, he, we both felt like our needs weren't being met in a lot of ways. Mm-hmm. And so being this honest and it's, it really is what you guys need. needed. Maybe that dishonesty was what was showing you what was missing. Yeah, I can't, I can't say that it would have opened it up to this if that had not been for that. So even though it was a pretty

shitty thing to go through at the time, I feel like without that, this would never have happened. That's interesting. I would always still be the church girl. So his cheating and then you're cheating and then the threesome and all that kind of stuff that you guys played around with because of the infidelity led you to being this open, which is something you'd never expect, but it happened. Yeah. Yeah, because a lot of people think if someone cheats, it's like you have to break up straight away. That's it. You can't work things out.

But, you know, you can get through these things and life can be pretty damn fun. Yeah, I had one of my most. favorite episodes was like this Mormon couple who his wife cheated on him and then I'm not going to tell the whole story but at the end and now they're like open relationship swingers doing everything so not only was able to get past it he was able to it it changed the game and no completely different people with a completely different relationship and it really worked and it's just everyone takes situations like that and they wind up in different places I love the story where it winds up like this because a lot of times is cheating and it does ruin a marriage and every situation is different and sometimes that's the

right thing for people to move in opposite directions but for you guys it wasn't I feel like it was very I could understand you saying listen we've been together for so long so maybe I could understand that he just needed somebody else because he hadn't really lived his life before maybe that's not going to work for somebody else because like I said it's different circumstances but for you guys this is exactly what happened and I think it's a great story because it does have to be happy ending. Are you going to be able to send me any anonymous picks of you? Just so people could get some sort of visual. Never a faces. I never want any faces. I'm sure I can send you a few.

Okay. So send me a couple. I've got a pretty good lab. I've got a good library happening. Yeah, that's awesome. Nothing X rated. I always say you can send me R rated like sexy picks is fine, but I don't do anything X rated on my Patreon. But if people want to see like a visual, get a little visual of a hot wife, Haley. That would be really great. They could go to Patreon. You send this in. Thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story and send me those picks.

I'll post them up. Awesome. All right. Thanks so much, Haley. Thanks for calling in. Thank you. Bye. Okay.

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