Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 846 - Venus the Cuckoldress Loves to Cuck Guys

Episode Date: June 10, 2024

Venus the cuckoldress loves to cuck guys and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she got into the lifestyle, what was she into at first, the first guy who she cucked and how she felt after the first time she cucked him, what she enjoyed about cuckolding the most, the shame that surrounds being a cucks and how that adds to the trouble of finding one, how cuckolding seems unfair but why it’s not, how she explored her sexuality and all the things she tried along the way including going to sex parties, group sex, fisting and more, where she would find her cucks and how and why they are hard to find, what she looks for in a bull vs. what she looks for in a cuck, what a cuck is to her and why cuckolding in real life doesn’t have to include humiliation, how and why cucks are not weak and the studies that prove they are the opposite, how a cuckold should bring up being a cuck to their partners and how she actually helps cucks on her podcast now plus a whole lot more. To find links to all her stuff, click here: https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress **To see pics of VENUS plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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slash strictly anonymous podcast. So today I have on Venus Calcutra. She's got her own podcast. Some of you may know of it. Other people that don't, you're going to want to go listen to it because she's big time into the whole cuckled world. She's a cuckled dress.

When she found out about cuckolding, she was like, that's the world for me. Before she got into that, she was into the whole swinger world. She really went out and figured out her sexuality and played around in like the lifestyle as a single girl. And she's kind of been there, done that. She talks about being a podcast.

part of the big pussy club and you'll have to listen to figure out what that means. But when she did hear about cuckolding and she was going out looking for partners, some guy proposed it to her. She was like, wow, this is for me. She loves nothing more than to play out that dynamic with a partner. And she realized that it's like a lot more than just like hooking up with the bull. And she explains all the layers that it brings to the table and what turns her on so much about it. We talk bigger picture as well because she's such a professional.

on the topic. Like she breaks down what cuckolding means to her. What kind of guys are cucks in the real world, not what people think. And how it's different than what people think. She does talk about her relationships as well as, like I said, bigger picture. She offers, she's got a podcast where she talks all about it. She offers private readings. She has a matchmaking company where she hooks up single women with cucks. Okay. So if you're either or, you might want to go get matchmake by her. She's also available. She's also a cockledress herself, and she is always looking for the perfect cockle. She's out and proud.

I do have picks of her over on my Patreon. She's got a website with all of the information to find out all of her stuff. I'm going to put it in the description. But you're going to love her story. You're going to love everything she talks about when it comes to cuckolding because she's sort of been there, done that. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Venus. Hi, Venus cuckoldress.

I don't know if I should just call you Venus, but you are a cuckoldress too, which I think is a whole hot name together, Venus cuckledress. It's also the name of your podcast. Yes. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. I have had many guests at many times say, oh, I don't you have Venus on from your show. And I've seen your podcast around. And I'm like, I should invite her to come on my show and tell her story because we all know, well, I'm in the know now that I do my show that cuckolding is a hot kind of thing. But before I did my show, I didn't know. I didn't. I didn't. have one clue that guys were into this at all. I mean, seriously. And I had a lot of guy friends. Not one of them ever copped to me that they wanted to see their girls fuck another guy. And my guy friends were always very open with me. I always see this. Like I was a very non-judgmental person and I kind of talked to my guy friends like a guy. So they were always telling me everything, but no one ever copped to it. And then I started doing my show. And there's all these guys coming out of the woodwork. And then, you know, we see our numbers in the downloads, right? And so when I do have

cuckolding or hot wiping anything to do with that episode. It's highly downloaded. I'm like, who knew that so many guys were into this? I know. Right? I know. How did you get into it? I want to hear your story. I mean, let me just give a quick shout out. And then we'll also talk at the end what you do. And I'll give links to all your stuff. I mean, you do have a podcast. It's called Venus Cuckledress. It's like your stories. You also get other people's stories, right? You do a lot of what I do too, talk to people about their stories in the kink world and all that kind of stuff. You also, which I think is really cool, you do private shots, but you have a matchmaking service for singles that are into cuckolding, whether you're the woman, you're a woman or a single male,

correct? Which I think is actually really cool and interesting that you have that service. Yeah, it's so funny that you said you didn't, you didn't know what cuckolding was before you started to show. I had no idea either. Like I, and this is the thing. It's not like I was vanilla. I was into, okay, it was 2009. I heard, no, I read Dan Savage's column Savage Love. I learned about non-monogamy. I had no idea that that even existed. And I was like, mind-blown.

What do you mean? There's this other thing you can do. And so I kind of ventured into the swingers world as like a solo woman. And that was so fun. And so I learned about swingers and non-monogamy and all that sort of stuff. And I had lots of really fun sexual experiences with girls. groups and stuff like that. And but even in that many years that I was doing that, I'd not heard of cuck holding.

I had no idea what that was all about. I never even heard the word. And then so when I, I was on, I was on an app, a dating app. I was on Tinder. And at the time, I knew I did not want to be monogamous. Like I just, I just didn't want to be. But it also didn't really want to be in a swingers relationship because I had lots of friends who were swingers and I it's normal for them to like want to have lots of rules,

boundaries and limits and make sure that everything's equal and everything like that. And I just it sounds selfish, but I didn't want that. I just wanted to continue to do what I wanted to do and have lots of fun in the way that I wanted to do it. And so I thought, well, I'll never find a guy that was okay with that. But so I was, I put on my tuner profile, I'm not into monogamy. So there's that. And so this guy that I matched with, he must have seen that and been like, oh, well, maybe she'd be open to cuck holding. But he didn't say that in the beginning. He was just asking me a lot of questions about like other people that I was sleeping with and stuff like that. And at first, I was just kind of like, oh, this guy's just kind of weird. Like, you keep

asking me all these questions about these people that I like to hook up with and stuff. But then I was just kind of weirded out by it. Yeah. Yeah. He was getting hard. Yeah, exactly. And then the more we started. talking and and he was like saying yeah I really like the fact that you sleep with these other guys and and he's like but I don't I don't want to sleep with other women and I'm like what do you mean you don't want to I'd never heard of this before you don't want the same privilege I've never heard of this kind of like unfairness aspect right and he's like no I don't want you I just want you to tell me all about these other guys and I'm like what I had no idea and I don't ever want to be with another woman that's what people don't

understand these guys that are really into it, they don't even give a shit about other women. They want their girl to just be with tons of guys. Yeah. And it was like the more slutty I was with other guys. Yeah. The more this guy just loved it. And not just loved it, but like really celebrated that side of me. Like being a slut to him is he even suicide to me is like women who are bloody, those are the most

amazing women. Like really put you on a pedestal of like. just a goddess level. And I was like, this is so different from what I have never, ever come across this. I usually guys are real jealous and stuff like that and they don't want to hear about you sleeping with other guys. So I was kind of weirded out by about it because I was like they've never come across this before. But then he started to explain it to me and I was like, wait a minute, this sounds way too good to be true. This sounds like I get to have my cake and eat it too. like what? And so that's where it started. And I just, I couldn't believe that I found that kind of

relationship. But I was kind of mad that I'd never heard about it before, that I didn't know, because that I felt like that was the kind of relationship that really fit who I was. Well, listen, I'm sure that guy was feeling the same way about you too, because I don't know that every woman is made for that lifestyle. And I think so many guys are looking for that slutty girl who is really in touch with that part of her personality and wants to live it out. A lot of women are just too repressed to even get to their or they're just not wired that way. So trust me, that guy was equally as like, holy shit, this girl's my dream girl. Don't you think?

Did you couple? I did. Oh, my God. Okay, because I'd like, I'd never done that before. It was a long-distance relationship, so I cut him on the phone. And I'd never done that before, but I remember, like, I had, we booked this hotel room. I had this guy who, who was a bull. Like, he knew this dynamic.

Yeah. Already, I'd never met him before. So I was, like, on the phone with my boyfriend and I was walking up into the room. And I was like, oh, my God, I'm so nervous. Be like, because I'd never done that before. I'd never had somebody listen on the phone before, right? I was nervous. I walked into that hotel room thinking that this was just going to be a fun sexual encounter.

and something new. I was not prepared for how that would affect me. That was, it was so much more thrilling than I had anticipated. I think because my boyfriend and I, we fell head over heels for each other really quickly. And so this was very intense relationship as it was. But then bringing this a layer into it where,

oh my God, next level hotness. Like I've never experienced anything like that before ever. He was listening on the phone. I was stuck in the sky sick. And I was just like, the noises that I made, I could hear him reacting on the phone. There was this amazing combination of just like,

I'm really turned on doing what I'm doing. The guy, the bull knew what was going on, because I had the phone next to me. And so he was saying things to me and I was saying things to my boyfriend on the phone. And it was just something else. There was so many layers. But it was like just like hotness building upon hotness upon hotness. And then the thrill of it was just, it was, it was insane.

And it was so, it was so crazy hot. Afterwards, I remember my boyfriend saying to me in a very vulnerable way. he was like, I feel like I trust you now more than ever. And this was a very, very honest thing that he was saying. But there was something about sharing that experience together in that way that was very bonding. And it was very like, it brought us very close in a way that I had not experienced in a relationship before. So afterwards, I was like, what the fuck is this shit that I have found? This is amazing.

But wait. So how long into that relationship? relationship with that guy did that scenario go down with that bullet? I think it was about a month in that that it was it was that but I can't remember exactly now but oh man that that was it was mind blowing for me and I've actually spoken to some women since then who you know they something similar happened where a guy brought this up to them a boyfriend brought this up and they tried it out and it was mind blowing like that it was really like you were on it was like you felt like a natural high for days afterwards. It was just so thrilling. And then the women have said, I feel like I

cannot go back to a regular relationship again. Like, once that relationship doesn't work out, they're like, well, now I'm fucked because now I need that kind of relationship again. So it's like a blessing you find this kind of relationship that fits you. It's kind of a curse too, because finding it again is not that easy. Yeah, but that's why it's so smart of you to set up a matchmaking service where you get these people because they exist right for sure i get a lot of guys that i could send your way that are we're going to go find you after they hear this episode okay and there's women that are wired just like you who are going to be like oh they're going to listen to your story and be like i want all those layers too added to my life right so i think it's a great it's a smart little service that

you offer people that you match make them and hook people up because it's very specific in its niche but it's out there people are into it for sure and they're looking for each other. How else are they going to find each other? Well, this is a problem. There's some very unique challenges. I didn't set out to create that matchmaking service at all. This was something that I wanted someone else to do. I did not want to do it myself. I didn't know how to do it. Plus, I also didn't think there was enough single women out there who were looking for this kind of relationship. Yeah. So I was like, I don't know. But I literally, I just got so angry and frustrated at what it was like dating online.

trying to find a guy with this, that I was just like, you know what? Fuck, fuck it. I'm just going to do it. I'm really glad that I did because it didn't exist before then. Yeah. But there's some very unique challenges. Like I said, there's just not a lot of women that know about this kind of relationship, this one-sided open relationship where she gets to have the extra fun.

They both love it that way. It's just, women just don't know about it because it's very much invisible. You go on dating app and you'll see 30% of the profile. will mention some form of non-monogamy. That's not unusual. You'll see poly folks. You'll see swingers. You'll see open relationships and stuff like that.

That's not unusual. But it is very unusual to come across something that says it's one-sided open relationship. That part, as women, generally, we don't know that that option even exists. Or if we see the word cuckolding, we just think, oh, that's weird. And it has to do with humiliation and degradation. and I don't want anything to do with that kind of stuff. So unfortunately, there's just not a lot of single ladies out there who even know that this is an option. But the worst part, let me tell you, the worst part, and it took me years to figure this out,

is that there's guys who have cuckled and fantasies, many, if not all of them, carry a significant amount of shame around that. They are, they are, they, a lot of these guys, in fact, actually hate that side of them. the fact that they're into cuck holding fantasies. And so they may online come across as I'm all in. Yes, this is hot. I love it. I really want this.

But the way that that kind of shame manifests is it comes across as ghosting and not showing up when you're supposed to meet each other in person. And so after years of encountering this kind of behavior with single guys online and trying to meet single cuck who apparently you're, right. There's a lot of guys, they're thinking about this. They want this. They really want this. But when it comes down to it, they're notorious. Oh, interesting. Chickening out? You're kidding. Yes. The cold feet. Like, it's fucking ridiculous. Yes. Wow. I don't know. So they, they don't make it easy for the single ladies who are out there. They're out there ghosting them

like crazy. And so, I mean, it just sucks all around. It's a negative circle. Yeah, totally. And I hear a lot of times because sometimes I'm talking to people who are already in a relationship and it's a guy that's been with the woman, whether he's dating her or married, and he's into this. And he's trying to put it on the table. And the girl's like, this is a trap. I'm sure you know that. The first thing a girl's going to think is, is this your way of getting me to allow you to sleep with somebody else, right? That's one thing. Or this guy wants you to tell him about your other things that happen with other guys. They want to know that the guy was bigger and how hot it was. A girl is never going to think that's what my guy wants, right? She's going to say the opposite.

So I think it takes some prodding. Like you have to, it takes time to really get a woman to really believe that this does exist and that this is the real deal. And what I always say, because I'm talking to these guys all the time. And these guys do not give a shit about other women for sure. The real guys that are into this, that's their variety right there. Their girls, their porn star, they got everything that they want in front of them. They have no desire to go fuck other girls.

It's just, that's typically what I see. And if they did, they'd be like more swingers. But that's a totally different sort of setup. Don't you think that most cuckles, like they're not interested in going in fucking other women. They want to see their women. Fuck guys. That's what it's about.

Absolutely. Absolutely. And this is the part that women fail to even comprehend is that one-sided part because it seems so unfair. Like you're so used to. There has to be equality. Like I have to meet you in the middle. Everything needs to be equal.

Everything needs to be fair. Exactly. Because that's how it's how it. is in the swingers world or in a lot of like poly relationships and stuff like that. And so I totally understand why women immediately go to that thought of, well, you must want the same privileges. You can't possibly not want the same privilege. So I completely understand the skepticism around that.

But yeah, Cucks are beautiful, amazing partners. They absolutely love and adore the fact that you enjoy these other sexual. experiences with others. They just want to be involved in some way, whether they're not watching or you tell them about it later or that guy's dick was. Or you take pictures or videos. I love the phone calling that you did with your guy. I've heard of that scenario. It's all kind of hot, right? Yeah. Yeah. So it seems very, on the surface, it seems very unfair. Oh, what do you mean? He doesn't get to go have sex with other women, but you get to have sucks with other guys.

People don't understand. It's very much a two-way street. He's getting a lot out of it. He is enjoying all sorts of aspects. He feels so fulfilled by it. In fact, this is more fulfilling for him than sleeping with other women by far. Cucks are amazing like that. Let's go back to your story.

Can we go back a little bit like right before you got into cuckolding? Because you did try all kinds of other things too. I mean, like, how old were you when you were like, I don't want to be monogamous? I'm going to go into the lifestyle as a solo girl because that kind of takes balls. Like what made you sort of go down that path? How old were you at the time? Yeah.

So I was a very slutty all through high school. But I'm a bit atypical in that I did not carry any shame around with that, like at all. I really, I didn't give a fuck. I really didn't struggle with any shame whatsoever. I was slutty. People called me slutty. I had the reputation. But I just didn't give it.

give a fuck. And so, and then I was in a long-term relationship for a long time, like 13 years, and I really struggled with monogamy. I just struggled with it so much. And I felt like, this is hard. I was also with a partner that I felt like I was kinkier than he was. I felt like I wanted to grow and evolve sexually, and he didn't. And so I just felt like there was a discrepancy there. And so when I did come across Dan Savage's, uh, I think, I think I was 29 at the time when I came across his column. I was like, oh, fuck. There is another option.

I need to figure this out because I've only experienced jealousy from guys. And I didn't understand how these couples could have these other sexual experiences and it not be damaging for their relationship. So I was so curious to learn. And that's kind of when I jumped in at that time, there were lots of these kind of message forums. or chat rooms, online chat rooms online. And so I went in there and met a bunch of swingers, which, by the way, I was like, wow,

these people are the nicest people. They're so welcoming and so non-judgmental. And the women are amazing. I was like, these people are great. So that's kind of like where it started. But yeah, and as soon as I kind of jumped into the swingers thing, that is when I was like, all right, I ended that long-term relationship. And I was like, that's it.

I'm going to really explore my sexuality, which, from what I've heard, happens to a lot of women around that age of 30. That was the real sexual awakening for me where I was like, all right, I feel like I need to go and just try all of these things. And boy, did I try the things. I did all the things. Like what? Gangbp, DP, girls, boys, orgies. Tell me it all. Well, I mean, it started with, I'd never been to a sex club before. So I went with two of my girlfriends. We went to this club here in the city where I live. And that, I mean, you go to these parties and you kind of, you know, you read the description.

You're like, okay, well, I mean, imagining all of these people having sex everywhere. It's just this wild. Like, I mean, I'd never experienced anything like that. So I was like, okay, this is going to be wild. And but I thought, oh, it's not going to be actually like that. But then, you know, I win. And I was like, okay, it's actually like that. Oh, really?

Yeah. I was like those people have sex all over the place. Okay. But, you know, I went with my girlfriends and just kind of watched and took it all in for the first several times that we went. So I didn't want to feel like I felt pressure, like I was pressuring myself to really jump in and do something. I just wanted to kind of feel a vibe and meet people and stuff like that. So I did that for the first several times that we went. And then, of course, when I felt like I was ready,

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And I thank Bluechoo for sponsoring the podcast. Yeah, totally. I was able to do whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted with whoever I wanted. And I got really used to having that freedom. And going to these parties was so fun because I would end up in these group sex situations, which I had not done before. And there was just a lot of really fun times like that. And then, of course, these are sexually charged events.

So you get to get all spelled up and you get to feel sexy and you get to kind of be a little bit more sexually adventurous than you would normally be. And so that was a lot of fun for me. But the group situations, they were fun. I remember this one time. Like I'm in big pussy club. and love it and I'm happy that way.

And so I went to like I love like get fisted and stuff like that. Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't know what you meant by the big pussy club. I was like, what is that? What is the big pussy club? Oh, big pussy club. Yeah.

So I have, I'm a size green. I enjoy guys with a big dick size. And but I can take it. Like so I'm, that's what I call big pussy club. Yeah. And so I've just always been that way. I enjoy it. what I like.

That's, I mean, for women who, like, most women don't like to feel that kind of being stretched out or that pressure against the cervix. I enjoy that. And so I don't find it too overwhelming. So I really like things like fissing and stuff like that are, it's done properly. And so I went to this one party, yeah. And there was, I was, I can't remember if I was making out with the wife or whatever. There was like couples all over the floor.

And the guy sort of like fissing me. And I was kind of lost in them. different world and whatever. And then I realized the whole room went quiet. And I kind of like looked around everybody was watching in awe. They were like, oh my gosh, she's getting twisted. And by a guy, we all know they have way bigger hands than women. Yeah. So I mean, that was just a really fun moment because I was just kind of like, oh wow, like here I am, the star of the show right now. But I've never been one of those women who buys into the whole like tight pussy thing. I remember I had one guy who. who I think he was just trying to talk dirty to me during sex and he was like, oh, your

pussy's so tight. I was so mad. I turned around. I was like, are you fucking kidding me? Don't fucking tell me my pussy is tight. I don't want that shit. I fuck big dick guys. Like, I don't want a tight pussy.

Oh my God. You wanted to tell you're so stretched out and loose. Yeah, but I was just like, no, I don't want a tight pussy. I want a big welcoming pussy that's going to be like. like, okay, you don't have to warm me up for 20 minutes before you can get your full dick in. Like, you can just go for it kind of thing. Oh, my God. How did you go from that world to just wanting the whole cuckolding experience instead?

Because it sounds like you were having a lot of fun in that world, swinging and at the sex clubs and all that kind of stuff, the big being a part of the big pussy club. How did you leave it all behind? Yeah. I have lots of friends in the swingers community and stuff. like that and and those friendships have been great over the years but it was it's interesting because there is something so and this is what people don't understand about a cuckolding relationship is not people just assume it's about her having sex with other guys and that is really quite insignificant

when it comes down to it and you mentioned before how a woman was saying a hot wife is saying this feels like a lot of work yeah right because that because a lot of these guys do focus about oh this has to do with her fucking this other guy. Yeah. What I realized from being in a loving cuckolding relationship was that's like really only 10% of the actual fun, thrilling, sexiness of the relationship. The rest of it is this mental game that you play. And that's the part that I could never get within a swinger's encounter or a regular, you know,

when I stand with a guy or whatever. That mental game is just what I really learned to love and appreciate about. a cuckolding relationship. And it's the part that I really love the most. So it's really not all about just me having sex with some other guy. It is about, and this is going to sound weird to people who don't understand it, but it's about kind of teasing my partner about it. Oh, interesting.

Okay. Yeah. People use this word humiliation and it's really tied to cuckolding. But of course it has this negative connotation to it. And people equate it with degradation and harm. harming your partner or you're harming your relationship, but it's really not what it is, is this kind of what I call a mental striptease. We all know what a strip tease is, where you're kind of flaunting your body in front of your partner without allowing him to

actually have it. Cuckolding is very much a mental strip tease where you're kind of rubbing it in his face a little bit, how sexy you are and how desire you are. are by other men and how you can't wait to have this sexual experience with this other guy. You know that by saying these things and doing this mental strip tease, that you're driving your partner wild and that he's getting so much enjoyment out of it. And by doing so, that really should feed your own enjoyment. So it should not feel like a job and it should not feel like work. When you're really kind of doing this emotional mental dance together, this teasing,

this should be fun for both of you and this is what you both get out of the relationship the most rather than just it being about you sleeping with other guys so yes i go fuck somebody else yes i tell my partner about it afterwards but really it's the whole seven days leading up to that where you're picking out what to where or you're screenshoting your text message with your bull and sending it to your husband and enjoying all of these other little moments together that this one little experience of sleeping with somebody else is actually so much more than that and so much more fun than just that 20 minutes that you're together or whatever. Yeah, totally. I mean, it's always it brings it back. It's more about the primary relationship. But now have you always been,

like that guy that you started it with, the first cuck that you wound up dating. How long were you with him for? And how did you do that throughout your whole relationship? I'm assuming you did. Did you last a long time with him? Are you still with him? No, no. That relationship lasted about six months, maybe five months, I can't remember. And then it's interesting because like he brought that up to me, the cuckolding thing. I didn't learn anything about it other than what we did together. Like I never looked it up online. I never researched it or anything like that. I just simply lived my experiences with him when it came to that. After we broke up, then I was like, okay, well, I really want this kind of relationship. Then that's when I looked online and I was like,

oh my God, there are so many guys out there who want this. I had no idea that this was even a thing. And so I spent the next several months kind of just learning and shocked online that all these guys have similar fantasies and that this is an actual thing. And so it was about probably six months after that that I met my second cut boyfriend. And things were really wonderful with him. things were great. We definitely lined up with things as far as like fantasies and everything like that and relationship. But then he got sick and he ended up passing away. And after that, yeah, after that I took

a long, long break with things. Obviously, that was definitely the most difficult part of my life. And eventually I was like, okay, I think I'm ready to start dating again. And that's when I, that's when I found out how difficult it is to actually find the right guy for this because I would meet somebody that I would be like, okay, this sounds really good. I think this might work out. And then like I said, he would just like, like, like, like, break out and ghost and disappear. Okay. Whatever. And then it would happen again and it would happen again and again and again. And then I was like, oh, this sucks, Matt. I don't want to sign up for this anymore. This sucks. But then I would, so I'd take a break and then I would come back to it and be like, oh, but I need this kind of relationship.

Yeah. So it's kind of stuck in this terrible fucking cycle of wanting it, finding someone I like, and then them disappearing. And that happening over and over and over again. I listen, doesn't that happen in the regular dating world too? I mean, aren't just people flakes in general? I don't know. I mean, that's why I think actual matchmaking is really great because it's,

uh, it's, it cuts out all that bullshit. I think that happens all the time on online dating. but I, where did you wind up going and like finding these guys? Where were you going on at that time? Because there wasn't a matchmaking service you could go to. Were you typically going to Tinder or like FetLife or places like that? Like where were you finding these cucks that flaked out? Yeah.

So I did go on Tinder and put it on my profile. I didn't use the word cuckles. I just said it won on one-sided open relationship where we both love it that way. And that was interesting. I got some guys who were curious about it. Most guys would say, so straight off. What do you mean you get to do that? I don't kind of thing.

Okay, forget about it. But I, and then on Fat Life, fat life, Fat Life is a shit show. Oh my God. Yeah, so it is for people to go who are kinky, who want to learn about kinks. It's not really a dating site, but I put it out there.

This is what I'm looking for. And there's probably 50,000 cucks on there for every one single, woman who is looking for a cuckolding relationship. You can imagine what my inbox was like. It was like shit show. But unfortunately, there's a ton of guys on there who are married, but they won't tell you that. And they're just there looking to kind of waste your time with fantasy talk.

And they will string you along for a long time until finally telling you or admitting to you that they're married. And you've just wasted so much of your life. So there's that. And then there's the occasional stalker, harasser, guy who's psycho, when you politely tell him you're not interested. So it was, it was a, oh my God, a terrible fucking experience. But then what I noticed over time, and this is really bad.

And this is something that I tell a lot of guys out there, don't do this, is especially on these anonymous sites like Fet Life, where you can have no pictures of yourself, no information about yourself. And the one thing that they'll message you, they'll DM you, and the very first thing that they're going to say is I really love the same fantasies as you. I think we're perfect for each other. And it's like, I don't even know who the fuck you are.

I don't know where you're from. I don't really difficult to even get to know the basics about somebody because they're afraid to send a picture. They're afraid to discretion is super important because they're very scared that anyone else in their life will find out that they really like kind of thing. Yeah. A lot of shame that they carry, right?

So it's so hard. And I don't know how you are or how most women are for me. I don't even want to start talking or investing my time in somebody at all unless I know what they look like. Am I even attracted to you? I know. Do you look like an 80-year-old troll or are you what? So it's frustrating because, you know, you ask for a picture and then maybe they send it to you and you're like, well, I'm as far. I'm just like not attracted to you.

For some guys, they will use that as, oh my God, what do you mean? You're not attracted to me. What do you mean? You're a bitch. Like, fuck you. And you're just like, oh, my God. I don't even want to do this. Yeah.

Oh, my God. But where do you go? Are you in a relationship now? I'm not. I'm still single. Since the poor guy who passed, have you, after that time of like sort of not going with anyone for a while, right? Did you wind up with another guy after that?

Yeah. had a couple of relationships since then, but they didn't work out for various reasons. The distance is always really hard. There's just not a lot of guys locally for where I'm at. And so that's always been a challenge as the distance. But also, like I told you, there's a big challenge around the shame that that affects. It's so detrimental to being a relationship. But it's also really difficult to find somebody that you fall in love with. I mean, that's just like regular dating. Of course. It is hard. I felt. I just feel like, well, if you find somebody in, for this kind of relationship,

you both fall in love with each other, you don't have baggage and stuff like that. Like, you fucking won the lottery if you find that. It's just, it's just not, not easy. That's why people put a ring on it or paying their hat in one place because it is so hard to find that when all the stars align, I mean, that's why you have a relationship because you've been through so much. I mean, if it was so easy to find somebody, nobody would ever have a relationship because it was just like, oh, there'd be another one around the corner,

but everybody knows after they've been out there for a while, oh, if all those things line up, like you like them, you like talking to them, and you're horny for them, and they're like, cool, and they're good looking. You're like, oh, this is perfect because it's rare. It's not easy to find. Yeah, yeah. It absolutely is.

There's way more single guys who are looking for this kind of relationship than there are women. So there's that. But I have not found that it has made it all that much easier. Like I said, distance is always difficult. I'm in Canada, so I'm in a whole different country to most of these guys. Yeah, I'm surprised. But what about with your bulls?

Like, how is it different with them, right? Because with the guy that you're going to be with in the relationship, I'm sure you have certain things that need to line up. But when it comes to then, you find your guy, right? You guys are dating and now he wants you to go out and you want to go fuck other people. What do you look for in a bull? And how is it different? Is it just strictly like physical?

do you have to get to know them too? Is it hard to find them as well? Or is it a totally different experience? Oh, that's such a good question. Back in the day when I first started getting into cuckolding, I think I slept with whoever the fuck. It didn't really matter. There was a lot of random bookups.

This was like, whatever. I was like, it didn't matter at all. My first cuck boyfriend recommended it. Well, he suggested. He's like, what if you seek out some black guy to fuck? And I was like, well, hell yeah. That would be hot as fuck. I'll definitely do that.

So I started doing that and I had some really great experiences with that. And so now that is my sexual preference, is having sex with black guys. And I just have really enjoyed the experiences that I've had with them so far. But it was right before the pandemic hit that I was still hooking out, but just like random guys, very, very much like random hookup. And I had a really dangerous encounter. And after that, I have been very scared to just like randomly hook up with guys. Safety has been very much in the forefront of my mind now versus back then. And so now I'm very much more careful about who I am meeting up with.

And that's been, yeah, it sucks because it like decreases the number of times that you can go and hook up with people. but at the same time it's been, that's kind of safety has increased the intimacy that I've had with my bulls. So these are solid friendships. They always have been. I've always been very clear about that, that I'm going to love you platonically in that way, but still like we're going to have some sexual chemistry, but I still care about you as a person, as a human being, as someone in my life kind of thing, but that I don't own him, that he, I gladly recommend him to my girlfriend.

I understand that at some point when he gets married or gets on lockdown with him in a monogamous relationship that will lose this person and that's okay. It kind of honestly makes it more special because you really do feel like you love and care for this person today right now. There's no guarantee of them being around for the rest of your life. Unlike if you were to get married and have a partner, you're going to have them for. You know, you don't have that privilege with a bull, and it can make you really kind of enjoy them more today. So there's that. But, I mean, I do really like black guys. Like I said, I'm a size queen.

I like guys who are bigger. But I do enjoy gentlemen who are respectful of who I am and what I do in the kind of relationship that I'm looking for when it comes to a cuckold relationship. Are you out to everybody like in your world? I mean, is that your picture on your podcast? Are you like, is this a fake name? Yeah, so the podcast art, that is not my photo. That's a stock photo. When I first started, I was, I veiled my face.

I was, you know, not going to be putting myself out there. Yeah. And then about two years ago, I decided, you know what, fuck it. I'm just going to do it. I'm going to put myself out there. My biggest, and it's funny because guys just assumed that the reason why I never wanted to put myself out there was because I don't want people to never. that I'm into this kind of thing.

Yeah. Which couldn't be further from the truth. I really don't give a fuck what people think. Yeah. But what they don't realize is that my biggest concern has always been my safety. Yeah. And I have inherited stalkers and harassers who really go to great lengths to try to ruin my life and make me feel like I'm going to be murdered at any moment.

And I've inherited those over the years. And that's not fun. I don't enjoy that. That's actually really scary. And so putting my face out there has been, that was my biggest worry. But I just said, you know what? I'm just going to do it. It felt like the right thing to do.

And I'm glad that I did. I haven't had any major safety issues yet. But now I actually do. Yeah, now I actually do put my face out there. And I'm glad that I have done that because it's almost been inspiring for some other people in their lifestyle to be able to do the same thing, whether it be cucks or couples or bulls or whatever, people are kind of now, you know what, it's okay. We can do this. And so I'm happy that I have done that. I'm happy that it's worked out. And people can now actually see what I look like. I love people that are out and proud because it only helps others like you said for sure. You know? So wait, let me ask you this. Because another thing I learned about was like cuck queuing when I was doing my show. And I was like, oh, I think I'm a fucking cuck queen. Because I've always had a lot of booty calls. Like I like, they were kind of like my bulls. Like you were explaining your bull. relationships. This is like my booty calls. Like in between relationships, I always needed a guy to

fuck and I'd find one guy and just fuck them whenever. And a lot of times they'd be players, because I like guys that fuck a lot of girls because a lot of times they're good and bad. I don't want a virgin. And they'd always be like, oh, I didn't fuck anyone today. I'd be like, no, you don't understand. If you told me you did, that would turn me on. I've been fucking you for a long time. And then I, when I found out about Cuck Queen, I'm like, oh, maybe that's what I am. You know what I mean? Like I kind of understand that as a woman wanting to see your guy with somebody else. think I have that in me too and there's women that have that now do you have that at all have you ever had that experience no not at all no yeah yeah no I this is the thing I when my first

cocked boyfriend explained to me I don't want to sleep with other women I was like okay that's weird but okay yeah then I learned to really love that part I love that seemingly unfairness of it and I I don't, like I have, I have people like ask me like, oh, would you like share your cuck with other women? I'm like, nope. I love that. I just don't want to. Yeah.

I mean, everyone's wired differently. It's like everyone's into different things. That's the way it goes. If everyone's into the same thing, it would be really fucking boring. I always, and I'm always like super impressed with people who are wired completely different than me. I'm like the type of girl that all like fuck the same guy for seven years and be completely fine. I'm obsessed with women that love variety with men and we'll just like could fuck a lot of guys and be into it. Because I can't imagine that life.

And I think it's like super interesting. So I think it's so interesting that that this dynamic is like so specific and works for you. And that's like exactly what you're into. Like you're made for some hot cuck out there to come find you. Yeah. Like I have no problem sharing my bulls. Like I just I'm like, yes, sharing is caring. Like go for a girl.

You're going to love this. Yeah. But like when it comes to. like my cuck hell fucking no no way but yeah cut cleaning is an actual thing it's not very common you don't hear a lot about it but there are women who really get off on that what i call that angsty feeling of kind of jealousy kind of uncomfortable but very much a turn on that cucks feel and it is this kind of like weird soup of emotions there are women out there who enjoy that kind of angsty feeling as well that and knowing like either knowing or seeing their

their partner sleep with other women. It's just we don't hear that very often. And I don't know if it's just because there's not a lot of spaces online where that's the thing. Yes, that's exactly why. Because when I run a podcast, I undo it. Like I had my first cuck queen on, Phoebe is a cuck queen. That was the title.

I got so many emails from women like, oh my God, this is exactly me. I didn't know there was a term for it. And there's like, it's so hard to find porn that sort of mocks up that exact scenario. And when I had like the woman on that created Afterglow, I'm like, you need to create more cuck queen porn. There are so many women. I get emails from so many women that are into this. I think that there's just as many women as there are men. They just don't know that there's a term for it and that it exists and what it is. Like I said, I only realized I had that in me when people started talking about it. I'm like, oh, I think like I'm kind of into that. It's kind of like you. You didn't know

this you were into being a cuckled dress, which is such a great term, right? You didn't know until you kind of heard it. And you're like, oh, my God, this is for me. But I think that there's a lot of cuck queens out there. Whenever I run an episode on it, so many people email me and they're like, oh, this is what I'm into too. And like I said, there's not a lot of porn out there for them and stuff. But let me ask you a couple questions, like just about cuckolding in general. Because I feel like whenever I do, sometimes I title things like, oh, this guy's a cuck, but then he doesn't want to be humiliating. They're like, oh, he's not a cuck. He's a stag. There's a lot of confusion about what a cuck cuckled is compared to a stag, compared to a hot wife, compared to a cuckled

just. Like, how do you break all that shit down? Yeah. It's so interesting because there's different terms that have popped up along the way. And I understand people recognize that there's a need to kind of differentiate between what this is and what that is. Because when you're meeting a bull, you want to be, you want to use the term that best describes what dynamics that you're into and everything like that. And I, you know, I understand that there's like hot whiffing and cuckolding. And they're basically both wife sharing, which I hate that word, because I feel like it's just sharing a piece of furniture or something like that. It's a wife sharing. But like then there's the people say, okay, well, with cuck holding, there's a level of power exchange or humiliation or teasing or whatever.

And with hot wiping, there's not. And so the cuck in a hot wife situation wants doesn't want to be called a cuck because he doesn't like to be. or whatever. And so he'll be a, what they call, a stag, thank instead. And she doesn't want to be a cuckoldress because that sounds mean.

She doesn't want to be mean to her husband. So she wants to be a vixen or hot wife instead. Okay, I get it. There's these different terms. And then, so that's fine. Everybody's comfortable with that. And then there's little me over here making waves saying it's all cuckolding.

That's what I do. Yeah, that's what I always get mad. People are like, no, it's not a cuckus. cuck has to be humiliated. I'm like, I don't think so. I mean, I always call those cucks like extreme cuckleds, right? Like I have some extreme cuckleds, right? Like I have some extreme cuckleds, and that's the same thing, but it's the same thing, but it's a more extreme cuckolding. But it's the same thing. So I always call it kind of the same thing, but I always get a lot of backlash. Like, oh, that's not because cuckolding has to have humiliating. Oh, yeah. But I didn't I never think so, but you know. Yeah, the very first time I said all stags are cucks.

Oh, I got some angry people about that. And I was like, well, okay, look, what is this really about? Is this about you not identifying as a cuckled? Or is this about you not wanting to be associated with the stigma around that was cuckled? Yeah, because of the humiliation. Yep, yeah. Well, it's because what you see in mainstream cuckled porn is,

degradation. This is all about extreme humiliation. This is all about extreme sexual denial. This is about emasculation. This is about forced feminization. This is about forced by. This is about all of this stuff because those are the kind of scripts that translate in cuck porn really easily. I mean, you can show that easily in a cuck porn script. Yeah. So this is what what you normally see online as portrayed as cuckolding. And so it's no wonder you get some guys who are like, well, I, I'm not into that. So I don't want to be called a cuckles. Like I'm not,

I'm not fat. I'm not weak. I'm masculine. So therefore I'm not a cuck. Yes. Which they don't really realize that that's all bullshit. That stereotype is bullshit. So they actually are a cuckled and they should be proud to be a cuckold because cuckles are not weak.

They are not dormats to be walked all over. In fact, the research that Dr. Justin Lay Miller did with his book, tell me what you want. And the research showed that actually people, guys who have cuckold and fantasies have higher levels of self-esteem than the rest of us. And they have, you know, higher levels of, higher levels of self-confidence than the rest of us. They just have what he calls sensation-seeking personalities where they really enjoy the rush of feeling these intense emotions.

And this is why they gravitate towards these fantasies. So if people understood that as, okay, that's what a cuckold is. somebody who really enjoys that rush of those feelings and gets off on that and somebody who has higher levels of self-esteem and self-confidence than the usual people okay then that's not the stigma is bullshit when it comes to cuckolding they are they're actually a kind of what my friend crystal welch called as in-evolved species when it comes to to that they are they are not willing to be to fit into that stereotype they're actually so much more than that and so I really do feel like most guys who call themselves dags are cucks, but they just don't like that

label of what is what they traditionally see as a cuckold. And I just want them to know if they're listening right now, which they probably are, that you don't need to fall into that stereotype because that stereotype is bullshit. Cucks are amazing partners. They're the best partners a woman could ever fucking have. Okay. And we love you just the way you are. So just embrace the term cuckled and know that it doesn't mean that you're weak, that it actually means that you're a better partner than most. Yeah, and stronger than most. I have a great guy who's been on my show many times, Jay.

And he's like in his 60s now, but he's been, his wife has had boyfriends, two long-term boyfriends and their whole marriage. And he loves nothing more than for her to go and fuck them and come back and tell him. And I know everything about this guy because he's been on my show numerous times.

He's a super fan. He emails me. Like he's a manly man man. And he's a confident fucking guy. He's very prominent in what he does for a living. And, you know, he came on recently. We just did a guy talk episode where he did break this down. And he was like, I'm here to say, no, Cox aren't like these wimpy guys.

That's what you think. I mean, we broke it down and talked a lot about what you're talking about because that is the weird stigma. But that's why it's great that we have podcasts and people could learn. And people could learn a lot more about this whole topic on your show, right? Why don't you give like a shout out about what you do and like your episodes on your show as well as all the other. stuff that you offer people. Yeah, so the show is called the Venus Cuckoldress podcast. And it's funny, I started it in January 2020, so right before the pandemic. Oh, wow. And it was just me talking for 20 minutes on an

episode. I didn't have guests at all for the first year. I did it. I would get my stats through my podcast platform, but I didn't know what to compare them to. So I didn't know if that was good or shitty. Like, I had no idea. It wasn't a. until a year had gone by that I realized I finally got the what to compare it to. And I was like, oh my God. You're doing really good. There's a lot of people listening to this. I was like, holy fuck. That's amazing. How does that? I had no idea. How did that happen? I have no fucking idea. And then so after that I quit my day job. I focused just on the podcast and started having guests on. I have an episode that comes out every two weeks. It is just about cuckolding. I thought

for sure I would run out of things to talk about. It's been four years. But no, that's amazing. Strong. Yeah, that's amazing. And then, yes. So I also, I do private chats on venus cuckoldjust.com. That's where you can find the podcast. That's where you can find the private chats. There's also community on there as well.

I do live events. I have different subscription tiers and for people to get bonus content and stuff like that. I do not have an only fan. People are always shocked about that, but I do not. I have an only fan is not going to go down that road. Love that women are killing it, but it's just not for me. And then I also have my matchmaking service. for single men, single women who want a cuckolding relationship.

It's not for couples and it's not for both. And it is completely private. So there's no sharing profiles. There's not scrolling through profiles, all the dates or blind dates done on Zoom. And it's a very niche, very small kind of program. But it is for cuckolding, but there's also a program for female-led relationships. And so that's on venusconnections.com. Oh, I love that.

And quick question because I feel like I definitely hear from a lot of guys. who are married who want to get their girl into this. It's like your private calls that you have in your private chat is like perfect for that guy. Like you could give him advice on how to bring it up with his girl. Is that the kind of stuff that you do in your private chats? Yes. And let me just say to all the guys who are listening who are wondering how to bring this up

to the partner. Please for fuck's sake, invest in doing it properly because I'd say 95% of the guys out there, I know bless their heart, but they just don't know. how to do it properly. They're almost guaranteed to not bring it up in the right way and fuck it up. And then it's just going to be tough uphill situation from there for onward. So yes, there are ways that you absolutely need to bring this up properly and not just to bringing it up properly, but that going forward from there properly. So yeah, absolutely you can book a private chat with me and I'll be happy to talk to you about that. And I'm sure you talk about stuff like that on your

show as well, right? Like episodes on that topic specifically. Oh, hell yes. I've done a full episode on that. Yeah, I love it. Several times. I mean, people are looking for that information. I love that you have it. Oh, yeah. People are starved for that information because this is their two biggest issues in cuckolding. Number one, how do I get my wife into it? Number two, how do I find the right bowl? This is the two biggest things. And then maybe three is like, how do I find a woman who's into this kind of thing? But Those are the biggest struggle. So yes, I have lots of different resources, lots of different discussions on this and great advice. Yeah, I love that.

I get so many people looking for this kind of information. So it's great that I can direct them to your show. I will put all your links in the description. Send me whatever you want. Is it Venus Cuckoldress? Is it the other website? What is the best thing? Or do you have one link you want to send me to put in the description for you?

Yeah, just Venuscococcaldress.com. That has basically everything. on there. Okay, awesome. And then send me some picks for my Patreon. Just the hot pick of yourself. Since now you're out and proud. You won't be anonymous. You're not anonymous on my show. You are who you are, which I love. So send me some picks. I'll put those over there. Thanks so much for calling it. It was awesome. All right. Take care. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it.

The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gangbbing girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip

around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get in. to my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total,

strictly anonymous community. And you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private. Like I said, all you got to do is, email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous Podcast.

Strictly Anonymous Podcast is looking for people to call into the show. So if you lead an interesting, naughty secret life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud, that's cool too. Send me an email, strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com or go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on, be on the show. If you have a short confession that you want to get off your back, call my confessions hotline, 347, 420357.7.7.4.2.5.7.7.5.7.7. That's 347, 4203579. You could call that number 247. I change all the voices on the confessions too, so you remain anonymous.