Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 859 - Lucy is a Young, Bisexual, Cuckquean in an Open Relationship

Episode Date: June 27, 2024

Lucy is a young, bisexual, cuckquean in an open relationship and she called din to talk all about it. When did her and her boyfriend open up their relationship? And, when did she realize she was into seeing her partner with other women? And, when did they start having threesomes?? Tune in for all the details which include all the baggage her and her boyfriend had going into their relationship, how they were able to turn their jealousy and distrust into a sexual turn on, how she had been with a ton of women before dating her boyfriend and how turned on she's always been by them, how she started role playing the cuckquean scenario with her boyfriend and how that led to their first threesome and exactly what went down, the rules they set up regarding their threesomes and how and why they broke them, how she got her boyfriend into pegging, how and when he revealed he had the cuckold fetish and how that led them to their first full swap, how they found the couple they had their full swap with and what exactly went down, how he copped tot he fact that he now wants to fool around with another guy and how they're going about finding another bisexual couple, how being super young in the lifestyle has some disadvantages plus a whole lot more. (REPEAT - originally aired 7/22) **To see anonymous pics of LUCY plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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good stuff in your area and you're going to get a free trial so just go to the description click on the SDC link or go to stc.com and put in my code 37712 now i did beg for reviews recently because it was like really close to a thousand and so many people listened i've never begged before i always felt weird about it but now i just should do it all the time because i got so many people giving me really nice reviews. Thank you to everyone that wrote a review. Thank you to everyone who just pressed five stars. I saw I got a ton of them. So keep doing it. It really helps the show. I love that. And I read all of the reviews and I love them. So thank you for that. And keep doing it. Like I said, even if you can't write a review, just press five stars. So today I have on Lucy. Lucy's great. She's super

young still, but she has done a lot. Okay. This is a girl who has from the get go been super open with herself and others about what she's been into. She's into a lot of kinky things. She was always into girls. She's been straight up bisexual from a young age and always open about that. She eventually met the guy she's with now and they had a lot of back and forth in the beginning of the relationship that she talks about. And during that back and forth, they created some baggage. And that baggage was jealousy. But they were able to take that jealousy and that baggage that they had and turn it into a hot scenario. Okay, they are turned on now by watching each other get it on with other people. Now, how did they transition into the couple that was like super

jealous of the couple that's like totally down? She tells that whole story. It's not a straight line. It's messy, but it's real life. And that's what I love. I love stories like this because I think that you could really learn from them. She talks about how they first started. with threasons with other women. That's where her whole cuck queen scenario came in. But then her guy started to fantasize about him watching her with a guy. Then they decided to do full swapping. And they had some issues with full swapping because they're a very young couple in the lifestyle. They're exhibitionists. He's bicarious. She's very bisexual. She's very down with girls. They're now looking for a by couple so her guy could fulfill his fantasy.

But anyway, like I said, it's a super interesting story because it's very real. It's not perfect. And I think that you could learn from it. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Lucy. Oh, and she sent me in pictures. So if you want to see pictures of Lucy as well as pictures of all my past female guests, anonymous pictures, go to my Patreon. Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. That link is in the description. I'll be right back on with Lucy. Hi, Lucy. Welcome to the strictly. Unitlamous Podcast. How are you today? I'm great. Thanks for having me on. No, thanks for coming on because you found me and DM'd me, I think, on Instagram. You're very young, but you got into a lot. You've done a lot of things, not got into. You are into a lot of things. You've done a lot of things. You've been with a guy since the get-go. Because like I said, you're still super young. You've been with this guy a long time, but you're like only like in your early 20s. But you guys have really dabbled in the lifestyle, quote unquote,

cuck queen, queening, all kinds of stuff that we're going to talk about, threesomes, right? And I know that you said you feel like you guys are like in the swingers scene, you guys are like super young or always like the youngest people out there. Are you guys going to clubs and stuff? Or how do you know that you guys are the youngest quote unquote swingers around? So we haven't been to any clubs or anything like that yet. We've kind of like dabbled in, like looking into a few, but really just the opportunity hasn't popped up.

Where we live is pretty, like, religious, I would say. So there's not a lot of opportunities outside of private parties and stuff like that. So we haven't dabbled in clubs yet, but we do have an invitation to one. We did just move. So it'll it'll be happening within the coming weeks, probably. but mainly just online in our little society, we've kind of realized how much older the community tends to be. Yeah, definitely.

I think most people have an idea of what swingers are. And they typically skew old when you think, if you're thinking about the swinger couple, right? You're not thinking about people in their early 20s, though I always say on my show, and I think it's very true that the younger generation is way more open-minded. Look, here you are super young, and you've already tried. so many things and you were like open enough to share them with your boyfriend from the get-go and then he started to share things with you. So why don't you start from the beginning and tell

me how it all started? Sure. So my partner and I actually met in church, funny enough, when I was a freshman and he was a junior in high school. And we dated for about six months. Obviously, it was like we were both very young and it just didn't work out. So after about six months, things ended and we kind of went our separate ways for a few years, but every time that we caught each other, like not in a relationship with someone else, we would hook up. And I ended up dating one of his really good friends and he hated me for it. And then we tried to reconcile a couple times before we officially got back together.

And it just never worked out. We both just didn't trust each other. I was a very free-spirited and sexual person from a very young age. And he was in a committed relationship on and off again. And then after I graduated high school and he was out of school, we both found ourselves single again and started chatting online. and ended up meeting up and hooking up. And I kind of just never left his house after that point. So we officially got back together about four years ago and just immediately started to live together and stuff.

And it was super toxic at first. We were both very, there was a lot of mistrust in the relationship. There was a lot of baggage that we were trying to work through while also being like, like basically horny teenagers together again. And so the the whole relationship at that point was just a struggle. And after a while, and he's also very vanilla. I've always been more of experimental. The first time we ever had sex, it was anal.

And I just had a lot more experience. Yeah. Yeah. So, and another thing is I'm also bisexual. I've been very open about my sexuality since I was very young. And I've actually been with quite a few more women than I have men. Have you been with more women than he has? Yes.

There you go. Richard. And it's a push in a poll. He has been with other people. He's just had sex more in. relationships and I when I wasn't in a committed relationship I was fucking around so right and so when we got back together officially it kind of felt like he was a little bit jealous that I had more sexual experiences than he did and and felt a little bit threatened by the fact that I do have a

pretty strong preference for women from a physical standpoint I love eating pussy I love tits I love ass and I just it's hard for me to find a guy attractive to be quite frank so I think that that was a little bit of misalignment I'd also had threesomes with two girls and two guys before and he'd never had that experience and so we were just like not quite on the same level and it did cause some contempt yeah I can imagine mm-hmm Because you were very open about all the stuff with him. Oh, yeah. Yeah.

He knew about it all. And I was very jealous and protective over him. And he was the same way over me. And so the communication about like even wanting to explore those avenues with each other and not just have a peace. Something of the past was very closed off. But what were you jealous of? So the first time we ever dated when we were like kids, basically, he ended up cheating on me is how that relationship ended.

Okay. So I have a lot of trauma from that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Of course. Yeah, that's hard to trust somebody who has already, you betrayed your trust. Yeah. Yeah. And I would find, like, fake accounts on his social media profile, like fake social media

profiles, just where she would be adding random girls and stuff like that. And I never really got an explanation as to why. and so I just, I had no trust. And I do think it was in part because of that difference in experience. I think he was speaking out those different experiences because he knew that we were committed again. Mm-hmm. And that's totally understandable in retrospect. But in the moment, I was pretty pissed off.

Yeah, it's interesting that you guys as a couple went from that place where two people are both really jealous about their partner, wanting or being with other people to being a couple that is allowed to be with other people and has an open relationship. Yeah, it's interesting that you're, you guys as a couple went from that place where two people are both really jealous about their partner, wanting or being with other people to being a couple that is allowed to be with other people and has an open relationship. Yeah. And, and it didn't happen overnight. Eventually, we, We took a break and we both thought it was like it. We were like, we tried the whole relationship thing again.

It didn't work. We didn't trust each other. We just want to be done. So we did. We took a break. I was sleeping around. I had a girl that I was pretty interested in. And I knew that he was, he was seeing someone as well.

And I saw that he had messaged me a couple times and I messaged him back. And we ended up hooking up that night. and had a really good sex for a really long time, honestly. Yeah, unfortunately or fortunately, that kind of sex, like the one where you're not supposed to or you just broke up and you're like trying to not be with each other. It's just always super hot. That taboo aspect definitely made it like very naughty, dirty and it's fun. Yeah, totally.

So after that night, we basically got back together after that. that night and it was great. We were having crazy sex. Like it was just reigniting our passion and I started to be a little bit more open with him about some of my different kinks that I knew that he might not be into, but he at least deserves to know that I like it. What kind of stuff did you put out that to him? I told them that I really like to be like very roughly dominated so not just like a little spanking or anything. but punched in the face. Oh, yeah, yay.

Yeah, like really rough play and stuff. And that's a turn. Wait, but that's a turn on to you? Oh, yeah. And then also I told him that I was interested in pegging him and playing with his ass if he was open to it. And eventually I told him that I missed having sex with girls. It was like four months after we had gotten back together.

Right. And I was like, I really miss pussy. I can't even deny it. I've been watching nothing but lesbian porn and it's not doing it anymore. Like I need a hall pass or something. You're like I need my facts. Yeah. And understandably, he was like, well, if you're going to fuck someone else, can I? And I was like, no. And that mindset, that like kind of childish, honestly mindset of I want to have my cake and eat it too. But I don't. even want you to look at cake. Yeah. Was another source of contempt where I was like, I, I deserve it, but I don't want you to have the same pleasures in life. So, so I kind of dropped it. And I was like, you're definitely not fucking anyone else.

And then I started watching a lot of recent porn and stuff and trying to get myself comfortable with the idea of another girl joining us in bed. and I discovered something that I had never heard of before because it's not quite as common as a cuck, so to speak, but cuck queening. And I, it's honestly a really positive way to channel your jealousy. Yes. Yes. On your jealousy, that's, you won. You won over your insecurities.

Yeah, I think it's super interesting that you could funnel it in a way that you make it a turn on instead of. jealous. It's the same kind of energy, but you're taking it someplace else. Yeah, exactly. You're taking it from your furrowed brow, your furrowed angry brow and putting it in your click, which is really a positive experience. Yeah, send that energy down to between your legs. I love it. Yeah. Yeah. So I did that for a while until I was the only thing I could even come to was like thinking about him fucking someone else. Wow. Okay. And then I brought it up to him. I was like, that conversation we had that like maybe we could try a threesome and he was like you're you're kidding and he didn't believe it at first obviously just coming from such a jealous place originally and then

transitioning to all right let's do it so we we agreed and then it definitely took a while we laid out ground rules and i had to become comfortable with seeing him turned on by other women so we started like watching a lot of porn together and role playing honestly it was like the best part of it all I suppose until the real thing happened is I would have him say things in my ear like imagine me fucking another girl like this or something like that or pretending I was her yeah and and I was getting off to it hard as fuck so after after a few months of that I was like let's let's do it And we didn't really know where to start, which is actually how I did find your podcast as I was looking for threesome recommendations on Spotify.

Oh, no way. That's awesome. I love that. Yeah. And eventually, we decided to try it. But again, didn't really want to sign up for websites and stuff. We were still working through some of those insecure parts in our relationship. And I don't know.

It just, we felt like. we wanted it to happen organically, like meeting someone at a bar or something before we went searching online because it almost made it like too real to be searching online for that. I totally understand the difference. Uh-huh. I understand that. Yeah. But as it turns out, it's really hard to find a girl who wants to fuck a couple organically

when you're not in like a Slears Club or something. That's a regular bar. That's why they call it a unicorn. corn because it doesn't exist. Yeah. Yeah. So our first experience, what actually ended up happening, it was a huge mistake. We had a couple of really good friends who I had introduced him to, or we'd been introduced

to his girlfriend, the friend's girlfriend. Yeah. And her and I really just hit it off. There was obviously some sexual tension between the two of us. And we were all drinking. her and I got a little handsy, and then that was kind of it for that night. But then her husband went out of town, and I went over there, and my partner did as well. So we were both over there drinking with her, and her and I started to get a little handsy again,

and then it went a little further, and then we kind of pulled him into it. we didn't want him to sit on the sidelines and not be involved. But again, it was like we were all very, very drunk. And so a lot of the evening is a little bit hazy, but I do know that we, well, I engaged as much as possible with her. And he, hands, mouth, whatever, everything but the penetration. Could I ask you a quick question? Was that a part of your guy's rules at first?

like no penetration for him with the woman? No, he just got a little shy in the moment, I guess. Okay, cool. Yeah, it was, we were all super drunk and the soldier would not stand at attention. I totally get it.

Which was honestly like a good thing for that evening. Otherwise, it definitely would have happened and it probably would have been a worse outcome. Okay, wait, so you wake up the next morning. And yeah, we kind of like get the flashbacks of what happened and we're like oh my god we fucked up so bad our homie's

gonna hate us uh we're fucked right and she she ended up telling him because she felt really guilty and he honestly wasn't that angry like he he had been hinting at them to go for a little bit more of an open relationship because we had told him about what we were exploring But he was like, yeah, I just don't do that behind my back, kind of out. So we're actually still friends with them. The relationship's like a little bit weird, but we only all hang out together now. It's never just like her and us. Yeah, I don't think he'd let her.

But yeah, that was the first experience. And as fun as it was to pluck her, it was definitely like a mistake because one of our rules that we did break was like, No friends. None of our friends that are monogamous would be involved. So it was like that first experience was an automatic rule broken. And so we had to adjust accordingly and write down more rules about what went right with the evening, what went wrong, stuff like that. And about four months later, it was my 21st birthday, and we went to a big city, big party city, very different from where we're from. And I remember maybe 12% of the trip. I was just off my ass for the whole time at 21st birthdays go. And we went with one of my really good friends who I've had a crush on forever,

and she was like very sexually open as well, very like free-spirited kind of way. And she was sleeping on the sofa sleeper. And we were sleeping in one of the bedrooms. And we asked if she wanted to just come sleep in our bed. And she said, yes. So she came into the bed and we honestly weren't really like planning on doing anything. and then I was in the middle. I was like spouting her and then my boyfriend was spouting me.

And I felt him like kind of starting to cough a feel. And I like swatted his hand away a little bit. But she was like scooting her butt back into me. And so I knew that she knew what was happening. And she was like down with it. And then he went under the blankets and started eating me out. And she started kissing me. and the whole the whole thing just kind of happened very fast and absolutely no communication about it whatsoever

but we were just all kind of going at it in the next minute also a little bit tipsy just yeah having fun together and that was the first time that he had sex yeah with another woman well had you ever had you ever fooling around with this friend before or fooled around with her before or was this the first time you and her hooked out. And that was the first time that he had sex. Yeah. With another woman. Well, had you ever, had you ever fooling around with this friend before or fooled around

with her before? Or was this the first time you and her hooked out? It was, it was the first time we've made out and stuff before. We've known each other since we were very, very young. Right. And so it had always just been like, oh, I like you. Like, we'd slap each other's ass and we could be naked in front of you. other without it being weird or anything and yeah we'd kissed a few times but it had never

gotten like that physical per se yeah so so that happened that was really fun and we all just kind of agree that that was a a one-time experience i'd be down to fuck her again but she's she's got a partner now that doesn't doesn't share unfortunately right so yeah just being very respectful of their boundaries together. I didn't want to push for that anymore. So that was like our second experience that way. And then after that, because unicorns are so hard to find, I kind of brought up the idea of, well, maybe we should just swap. And he was not into it at all at first. He was like, I don't know that I could handle that. Wouldn't want to see you with another dude. I don't want another guy's dick in you at all. And I was like, all right, that's fair. Just because I'm into

something doesn't mean you also have to be into something. So we really kind of put it on the back burner for a minute just because two experiences in a short period of time. Both of them were a little bit outside of what we had set up for the rule. Yeah. So finally, we were just role playing one night. And he said something that I definitely did not exactly. expect. He said, I want you to imagine another guy in your pussy while he was fucking me. And I, like, looked up at him. And I said, what the fuck did you just say? And I, like, stopped the whole thing. Crowed out from underneath him. Because I was absolutely in shock. I was like, what do you mean? And I could tell he was getting off on saying that. And I was like, where did this come? Do we, let's have a conversation. Like, pause on the. sex Olympics for a second. And so he was very embarrassed that I like paused it and didn't just go with it. But I was like, I have questions, dude.

I did not know that that was what we, that I did not know that that's what we were going to incorporate for the evening. Because usually I'm just like, I want you to talk about fucking another girl or something. And he was like, I don't want to talk about it. And he felt super embarrassed. Like we were a little bit tipsy. So we just kind of stopped and then a couple days later I tried to bring it up and I was like, were you what did what was that? And he was like, I don't know what you're talking about. And then

about a week later it happened the exact same way again, but I just kind of went with it and didn't pause the sex and he got off on it. And so I was like, well, there might be something here after all. And so I tried to very gently bring it up a couple times, but I knew that he was conflicted because he was like possessive. And also it's a lot easier, I think, for a bisexual woman to be like, yeah, I'm down to watch you fuck another girl because I'm also into girls. I get it. And it's a lot harder for a man who's not necessarily into men like that or not comfortable with being into men like that to admit that same kind of thing because it's like that. that masculinity cut thing. Yeah.

The whole stigma, yeah, we talk about so much of my show. I know. It's so stupid. And also, it's stupid that more men aren't willing to admit they're bisexual. But definitely there just is that stigma. And he was raised in a very like, men or men are men household. And so I understood that he wasn't comfortable with coming clean with that. But I was like, all right, whenever you're ready.

Yeah, right. You know it's there. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And it was also during this time that, like, I started pegging him. Like, he became open to me, like, full on wearing a strap on and pegging him, which I am super into because I'm a total switch. I love being submissive as much as I love to be dominant. And I tend to be more dominant with women than men.

But just kind of that, like, power swapping dynamic. was really fun. Mm-hmm. And we were both super into it. So just another fun little avenue to explore together while we're exploring 85 other avenues. Yeah. So, so, yeah, I was kind of experimenting with him annually and really enjoying that. And eventually, he was like, all right, I think I could probably be down with a full swap instead of

just trying to find a girl. And I was like, all right. And again, I'm not super into men. Like, it typically takes an emotional connection or you have to be, like, really hot for me to be into you as a guy. Okay. And I've also never considered myself, like, much of a size queen, so to speak. But my boyfriend's got a large penis. And so that's, I'm a customer that I would say.

Yeah. So I definitely don't want to go much smaller than what I'm accustomed to. So it was really hard to find a guy that was up to both of our standards. But we did end up getting online and making a profile. And we messaged with a few couples. But one of the hard things about being so young and being in the lifestyle is you're either fetishized for your age because they think you're like innocent and yeah yeah i don't even know it's like that age that yeah a little gross it can be a little gross yeah i don't know a little creepy yeah and there's like 75 year olds trying to hit us up because they see that we're in our early 20s and we're like

and also there's not there's not a lot of people our age in the lifestyle yet it's becoming more normalized to not be monogamous even as you are very much very much. young, but for the most part, these couples have been married 10, 15 years. Totally, yeah. And it's, we just don't fit in that way. We don't have a lot in common with people who are 25 years our senior other than. So, so it took a while, but we did find like a younger couple. They weren't exactly our age, but I don't really have a problem with older women,

as long as they're not that fetishizing us being super young. Totally. How old was the couple that you wound up meeting? They were in their early 30s. Oh, okay. That's not bad at all. I know that when you're like in your early 20s, everything seems old, but that's not really that old compared to early 20s. I don't really have an age limit.

I just find it harder to find people that I would sleep with that are older than like 45. And there's some fine ass 45 year olds. Like I got to admit there are some beautiful, beautiful. men and women out there. And typically people in the lifestyle take care of themselves, take care of their bodies, and they do their best to look appealing for the people they're fucking. So I also appreciate that. What was it about this couple? Was it mostly their age? Was it that he had a big dick? What was it about them? So for our first swap, our, I guess, requirements were a little bit different than what we would look for now. We would,

We're looking for people we wouldn't feel intimidated by. I don't know if that's mean, but. No, that makes sense. Yeah, just very down-to-earth, not super attractive at first. I don't know why that was one of our rules, but both of us felt the same way about it. So, yeah, we wanted someone who wasn't like a looker, but also wasn't ugly for the first experience, making sure that we're both okay with it. And like, your first experience always brings up some jealousy that you might have thought you were over or even into that, you know, got a little bit of hurt feelings. And so that was just a way to mitigate it, I guess.

And it's not as, not as stringent anymore just because we are a bit more experienced and comfortable with ourselves and relationship and stuff. But I think for the first experience, it was definitely maybe not necessary, but helpful in, you know, and having us gain. So we actually, we have a rule that still stands even now that we want to meet you in person first, go out to dinner or something with no expectations and just see if we get along if our rules are correlating the same kind of way and everything like that. And so we did meet them for dinner and drinks and we all got along really well. We were super fucking nervous and they were very understanding because we did tell them it was our first time. And a lot of of people don't want to, don't want to be with first timers. But just before we even went, we had all of

our boundaries, rules, everything like that discussed and laid out. So we didn't seem as, it wasn't like we just decided to do it and then went out and found a couple to do it with. Right. So what happened that first night? When you go out and meet them for dinner, is it like, okay, we like you, we'll hook up another time or is it if it goes down and dinner's okay, it's going to go down that night? So we decided not to not to sleep at them that night because we were again, both nervous and just wanted to like prep a little bit more mentally before it actually happened. But we did get along with them really well and we actually made plans to meet up at their house the next weekend.

So we went home and fantasized and did our thing together to like mentally. prepare us for what was going to happen and then went over to their house and I actually bought a swingers game online. It's not like cards against humanity but it's never have I ever swingers edition. Oh interesting. Is it good? Yeah. Honestly, it's pretty good. It was like whoever sucked the most dick. Take two shots or what was another one? Like you're oh the person who who has slept with the most people and the person who has slept with the least make out for 25 seconds. So it's kind of like a warm. It was actually really fun.

We were like four questions in before we started making our way to the bedroom because, yeah, we were just all super into it. So, yeah, we ended up sleeping with them at their house. We did, well, okay, we didn't full swap because her partner, came pretty quickly and that was like she was on top of me eating me out and he was fucking her and then my boyfriend was fucking my mouth and he he just was out pretty quick yeah yeah too much i was like that's okay and we just kind of kept going while he sat back and then my boyfriend was like is it okay if i if i fuck her and i was like yeah and so i kind of just sat back and watched for a little bit.

And I have a preference for him not to come just because I like to have him come when we're having like that reclaiming sex. Oh, interesting. Obviously, he prefer to come, but it's kind of hard for him sometimes in front of people. So, yeah, he fucked her really hard for a good minute and her partner and I were just laying on the bed. I had my vibrator on. and he was honestly just laying there enjoying the view.

And so it was kind of like watching live porn, but it's your partner and just other guy's partner. So afterwards, like, we all showered together. And then we ended up, I think we ended up playing like Uno or something before we left. Oh my God, I love the games that you guys play. Yeah. Yeah, we're all just nude sitting in their living room play Uno or some shit. hilarious. And then we left.

We went to go drive home and we were still pretty reared up. He hadn't come yet. So we pulled to the side of the road and into a little like business depot and finished up there. And we're both like pretty into public stuff too. So like pulling over on the side of the road and going in the backseat. It was really fun as well. Right. Yeah, so we finished up like that, and that was our first full swap experience.

We're probably going to do it again pretty soon. We did decide not to do the same couple just because we weren't as into the dude as we were into the girl. Oh, interesting. He's very much so, like, wants to see me get fucked with a guy with a big dick, because he knows how I react with him versus how I would with something. quite a bit smaller and he wants to see me get that pleasure. Now, didn't your boyfriend admit eventually to you? Because I know that you touched upon it,

but we didn't get into it totally, that he is into guys or he's not into guys? Is he into guys or he's just into watching you with a guy? So he's by comfortable. Like, I don't think he'd seek out a relationship with a man. He gets grossed out by the thought of kissing him. but he's admitted that he's buried down to suck a dick or fuck a guy in the butt. Right.

Which I don't understand when you're not into the kissing part, but you could do the other stuff. But yeah, he just, he's comfortable, like, finding them attractive and stuff now. And it took a long time for him to even come out and admit that just because of the household he was raised in and the social stigmas around it. But when we finally did, it kind of made it fun because now we're looking for fully bisexual couples that would enjoy both partners. It's not like she's getting just him out of it or I'm getting just him or vice versa. It's kind of like all of us, I don't know, it's almost more like an orgy experience than a swap. Yeah, totally. And that's why I was wondering if you guys had ever looked into that.

and that's what you're looking into now so that he could be with the guy. He's never has since he's copped to it with you and he hasn't had any experience before you that was like on the DL or anything like that. Yeah. Yeah, I honestly, I was a little bit pushy in getting him to admit it

just because I always kind of had a feeling he's not feminine by any means, but he takes really good care of himself. He always compliments men's hair. cut stuff like that. He notices the things that a lot of men don't notice and he's got a lot of really good hygiene quality. He's just a little bit more taken care of than most straight men I've met. Oh my God, that's hilarious. And that's what you think is the tell. Yeah, that and he's a little bit more emotional. I tend to be very dominant outside of the bedroom in our relationship. And I have a lot of

the masculine qualities of being in a relationship and he's a little bit more submissive outside of the bedroom. Now, when it comes to guys, do you guys have the same taste? Sometimes. Sometimes. I'm so picky with, I like weird looking dudes. You have to have unique features in order for me to find you attractive. Almost any woman you put in front of my face, I'm like, yeah, smash. Like, love it. She's, beautiful. But men, I have to have, like, very unique, strong features to it, or I'm just not as into it.

I don't know. I'm very picky with men, and he recognizes, like, the same kind of attractiveness that I do, but he's also into, like, traditionally good-looking men more so than me. So, yeah, I honestly, like, even when we're. finding couples or talking to couples, my focus and attention isn't even isn't on the man except for his penis. I care about that a little bit more. The first full swap that you had, is that your last experience that you have had? And have you ever discussed like hooking up solo or is it always going to be with you guys something

that you do together? Yeah, that was our last like experience, I guess, so to speak. We've been talking to a couple couples and a lot of them just live far from us so it's hard to schedule everything but we we talked a little bit about solo clay i'm not super into not being there if it's with him and a girl yeah i like to watch i like to be there i don't i don't want like the aftermath of it or even a video though i don't think i'd be super into but more so it would be like if we found a girl that was a good play partner for me and her and I could play separately or play first and then he walks in on it get the party started kind of vibe that would be like more so what we do solo unless we had a girlfriend and that's something else I don't think I mentioned is we are monogamish

we prefer that term to swingers just because we are open to other avenues aspects and whatever but more so I would eventually like a girlfriend that's consistent and and he's open to that but it's hard to have more than two people in a relationship when you already have been together for so long and it's like the dynamic of you're in her relationship his and her relationship is it's nine relationships instead of just one yeah yeah and I you know I remember the first unicorn who I had on my show, talk about, you know, how she felt sometimes left out and not taken into consideration because when you're not part of that primary relationship, a lot of times, it just feels different for that person. And so there's a lot to consider there,

is all I'm saying, when I think that a lot of people don't consider that. I know I never thought of it until this person came on and started talking about it. I was like, oh, yeah, duh. So when you are that third person, even if it's a polyamorous relationship, if you come in late in the game, there's a lot of things to take into consideration from that person's perspective. Because you and your partner are together, the first, first and foremost. So where does that person fit in? We never want to date a girl and have her feel excluded or anything. Like her relationship with us is separate from our relationship because that wouldn't be like a true. girlfriend. It'd be like a side piece. And that's definitely not how we'd want to make anyone that we

would bring in feel. So that is that is a big consideration for us. And also that is definitely something that we'd prefer to happen organically. If we find a girl, we like the way she bucks and it becomes consistent that way. That's totally cool. But we're not like looking to date a unicorn just because we're open to having a girlfriend and we're also not looking to add one for sure. Like it's up for debate. It's a possibility of it happening. I would love it to happen because three sons are fun. And your needs, I mean, you have a strong sexual interest, right?

Attraction to women and you always want that in your life and need that. It would be a lot easier if you just had that one steady person that you, that was, within your relationship that you could share with your partner. Have you ever, because you did talk a lot about dating, fooling around with women, did you ever date a woman before you were with you, this guy or at any other time? Very loosely dated a couple of girls, but more so either I was being a unicorn for a couple or I was bringing a girl into past relationships, stuff like that. So it was more so like that where I had friends that I would fool around with.

It wasn't so much dating as girls would know that I was bisexual. Right. Because I've always been very open about it. And they'd be like, hey, I want to experiment. And I'm like, okay, hop in. It's more of me being a sexual awakening for a lot of these girls. Yeah, so now let's come full circle. We started the episode talking about all this jealousy.

Here you were in the beginning of this relationship, both of you, a lot of baggage of distrust with each other. Now you've had full swabs, you've been with other people, you've really put everything that you're into on the table with each other. Do you feel like doing all that kind of stuff

helped you trust each other more? Oh, hell yeah. I think when you enter this kind of realm of your, deciding with your partner not to be monogamous you're also deciding that I have to trust you otherwise this isn't going to work at all yeah and if I don't trust you and I don't voice that to you then this is going to go wrong there's always going to be something that fucks it up one of us and I've heard that a lot from people in the lifestyle is a lot of young people don't last because they've don't communicate about their jealousy or they get in to save their relationship when in all

actuality our relationship was in the best place that had ever been when we decided to do that and the communication came the communication about adding people into our sex life came from both of us being more comfortable in the relationship and not the opposite and it's almost like being able to talk about or being open to talking about those insecurities only helps them to go away. Because even in the best of open relationships, people will always say, of course, jealousy will come up still. Even after years of swinging or being open, there could be situations that come up about it. You have to be able to feel safe enough to bring that up, talk to your partner about it and know that they'll be cool with it. And I think that that's just all communication.

I don't even think I just made sense. And it's so much easier to communicate now versus when we were holding our jealousy, like, against each other. Exactly. Yes. It's not a fight. It's a conversation. And you both cop to it. And you were always putting that on the table.

But, you know, you could really experience it with them. And maybe because he was really able to cop to it, there's more trust there because you don't have to be, there's no secrets. Maybe his fake accounts was him like looking at gay porn. Or something. Who knows? You don't know. But he doesn't have to hide anything from you anymore. Yeah, we're just very open with each other.

And there's still kinks and stuff like that that we're exploring with one another and like becoming more comfortable about talking about when it's, you know, it's maybe taboo, extra taboo or embarrassing. And we try things in the bedroom. And sometimes one of us isn't into it. Sometimes we're both not into it, but we're trying it because we're communicating about. wanting to explore. I fully am so thankful to grow up in this day and age because I never, like, of course, my family wasn't super cool with me being a whore. Yeah. So young, but I was cool with it and I never had their guilt and their shame around

sex affect my views on it. And I think that saved me a lot of trauma because I could only imagine being married right now to someone who is vanilla. And I would end up cheating. I would. I'm not monogamous. I have no interest in being vanilla and I don't want to cheat on someone. So to kind of avoid all three feet, all three of those things, I've, I've just accepted. I am definitely a slut and I do, as the motto of the show says, let my freak flag fly. There you go. Yeah. And that's the way it should be. I definitely think that kids are more evolved than their parents. That's just the way it's supposed to be. You know, you should be less oppressed than your parents. Your parents are grew up in a different time than you.

That's why they have that guilt. But you grew up so many years later and you don't have that. And that's great. That's the law of nature. And I always say I was born in the wrong time because I was more like how girls are nowadays when I was super young, but I was considered a slut in a bad way. I had a lot of repercussions because of the way that I was and I was I and I even just I put on myself because I felt like not normal because I didn't fit into the two boxes that existed and now you know I what I think is so great for you younger people and I say it all the times the labels and all the different people you could words you could use for yourself it does help because it makes you feel like you belong somewhere and there are other people like you and that's like wonderful so thank you so

much for calling in. I really love your story. I love how self aware you are. I love all the things that you're trying and doing and I love how real your story is. Like I said, it's not perfect. It's not the perfect story. I fucking hate those kinds of stories. This is bullshit. I like real true

stories and your story's great. It's super interesting and you're going to have to call in again when you have more experiences and learn more things about having an open relationship at such a young age. Yeah, I definitely really will. One of our goals is to eventually be part of an orgy and go to clubs and stuff. So

when we finally reach that goal. Yes. That's when you call back in for sure. That is awesome. And maybe when your guy has been with men, too, you have a lot to experience. You guys just started. Yeah. Yeah. And it's been a fun journey so far and it'll continue to be fun. Yeah, it's great. So listen, if you could send me any kind of picks, like I do like anonymous picks on my Patreon if you want to you could send me in a couple anonymous picks and I'll post it there but not of your face most girls do but if you don't it's totally fine yeah I'll send a couple in yeah not your face like I said you just take your face to not in I say not not X rated but they could be R rated like people the girls always send me sexy picks they could definitely be sexy

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