Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 860 - Jay is Bisexual
Episode Date: June 28, 2024Jay hooks up with mens and women and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was bi, when he started hooking up with guys and what would go dow...n, what happened when he tried to date a guy, , his slutty college days and what he did with guys then, how and why he stopped hooking up with guys when he met his wife and then went back full force after they divorced, how and why he always tells the girls he dates he’s bi and how they react, the adult bookstores he goes to and what goes down at them, the places he goes to cruise guys. the young guy he met on a work trip on Grindr and what went down with him, the crazy gangbangs the guy would set up for him and exactly what would go down, what he digs about the gangbangs, the older women he loves having sex with, why he prefers to hook up with younger guys plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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and I included his confession in a recent Confessions Hotline episode because his confession was crazy
it was like hi I just love big black cocks in my ass and my guy set up a gang bang for me
and I love large insertions I don't know he just went on and on it was so fucking dirty
but I did air it and I did accuse him of lying because I'm like I'm sorry but gangbings are
really hard to set up is this guy talking shit?
like in just explaining a fantasy or is it true?
Well, let me tell you, it is all true because Jay emailed me after you heard his episode and he's like,
hey, I want to come on.
And so we do get the long story from Jay.
Jay is a bi guy.
He considers himself bisexual if he had to label himself.
We talk about that.
He started hooking up with dudes when he was younger.
He had a friend that he would hook up with and he talks about how that progressed.
And then when he got a little bit older, he started really hooking up with guys in college.
He was always into women though, too.
Okay, he was always hooking up with women.
He was definitely hooking up with a lot of guys in college.
He does talk about gang.
He was slutty in college, he said, and then he got married for a time,
and he was able to keep the whole guy thing on the side.
And then eventually they got divorced.
Now he's living his best life because, listen, this guy is the type that will put it out on the table when he meets a woman.
He eventually wants to wind up in a relationship with a woman.
Again, he talks about that.
But he's dated women and he's told them that he's by.
They haven't been into it.
but he's definitely now at the point in his life where he would be open about that to his next female partner.
He's definitely hooking up with a lot of dudes.
He talks about the black guy that he talked about on the naughty confessions episode.
He talks about how he met him.
It was many years ago, like they met seven years ago when he was on a work trip and they had a hot weekend.
He talks about that weekend and what went down and why he was so into him.
During this time, he does go to adult bookstores.
He talks a lot about the adult bookstore in his neighborhood and what goes down there.
but then he talks about where this guy and him hook up.
You know how we all hear about these places where men cruise?
There's no real cruising anymore, but there definitely are these places where guys are doing it outside someplace in your area.
And he talks about that.
And he talks a lot about the other kinds of things this guy sets up for him.
Besides the gangbing, we end with the five-guide gangbing that they set up.
But he definitely talks about another experience where he is tied up, okay, blindfolded.
and they just invite as many guys as they want to come over and screw him.
He gets pretty freaky with this guy.
He's totally into it.
He loves this guy.
He likes young guys.
He likes older women.
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But I'm going to get right to it and get right back on with Jay.
Hi, Jay.
Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast.
How are you today?
I'm well.
Yeah, you're also.
into really big dicks, okay? And I know that. I'm sorry, I'm just got to get right into it because
you left a Confessions message on my Confessions hotline. That made it onto an episode because it was
extra dirty. That was like the first thing. I was like, oh my God. And you just told me off air that
you made it extra dirty because you wanted to stand out. And it did. You were a guy who called in and was like,
oh my God, I have had gangbangs with guys. I love big dicks in my ass. I mean, it was like
almost too much. I was like, oh my God. And then when you heard your message, you email me.
Let's get this guy's whole story, right?
I mean, you kind of sums it up.
It was a short message, but now we're going to get the long story.
Now, my first question for you, Jay, because I didn't get much in that confession besides your naughty details.
Like, are you a married guy?
Are you a single guy?
Are you a gay man?
What's your deal?
Divorced.
Dvorced.
I'm bisexual.
I don't, I'm not big into titles, but I'll go for either.
Okay, cool.
So bisexual.
Okay.
So, we're back.
we're going to end with all your gangbangs
and all your guy action and stuff.
But like how did you get there?
Were you like, do we have to go all the way back to when you were younger
when you figured out like you were into guys and you were by?
Yeah, I think I kind of figured that out when I was a teenager.
How old were you?
14.
Yeah, I had messed around with a buddy.
We used to walk home together from school.
And then we didn't have a parent home for a couple hours.
So then it kind of turned into looking at play.
Playboy together to jerk it off to magazines together.
And then it kind of went from that to jerking each other off to sucking each other.
It just kind of was like a gradual.
Let me ask you this.
How far did you go with that buddy?
Did you guys wind up?
Did you wind up having anal with him like bottoming or topping him?
It was just oral with him.
He wouldn't go.
He wouldn't do anymore.
Okay.
So then after that, do you continue to hook up with guys?
Do you start dating girls?
What was going on with women, though, at that time?
I tried to date, but it's kind of at the age before you have a car yet,
so it's still kind of relying on mom and dad or something.
But I didn't have a sibling, so it's kind of like,
mom's not going to give me a ride to take some girl to a movie.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But did you know that you were into women then, too?
Yeah, oh, yeah.
Okay, cool.
You're looking at Playboys with that guy.
So, you're, you know, were you confused about your sexuality,
considering you're kind of doing this stuff with guys?
the DL and it's back in a time when it was way it's still kind of taboo for a guy and guy action right it's
ridiculous it's like the last thing for this to kind of be okay um but back then it was even more
tabo so did you feel confused about what you were doing and who you are and how to label yourself
or were you was it kind of clear to you no I really I think I'm still confused at 40
I don't I just have gotten to the point like I titles and labels
don't mean anything and I think they're arbitrary sometimes and we were so in tune as human beings
to categorize people like color or whatever about gender or yeah sexual I don't I don't get why
we even do that anymore but well I say this and this is what I always say about labels and typically
when I say people are like oh I understand it in that way like for me as a woman in her 50s I don't
need to label myself I know exactly who the fuck I am but when I was in my 20s and trying to
to figure out who the fuck I was, right? I always, you're an amoeba at that age. You're going to form
into us a million things before you figure it out. And when I was growing up, there was like only
three boxes you could live in in all areas of your life. It was like either you were gay or by or
straight. Either you were like single or married. There wasn't labels or places for you to exist.
It was very limited. And I feel like that was very limiting for me in my 20s. I think labels are really
fucking great for young people in the beginning when you want to figure out who you are.
And because I think at that time in your life, it's really important to know that there are other
people out there like you, that there's a place where you belong. And I think before there
were all these labels, people in their 20s when they were figuring shit out felt really terrible
about themselves. I didn't fit into the single or married category. I never wanted to fucking
get married. I wanted to fuck whoever I wanted when I always felt like a freak. Like I could have a
If I had these labels that are out now, like polyamory and heteroflexible, I don't know, all the kinds of
different things, I would have felt better about myself.
I just felt dysfunctional because I wasn't like the two people that were supposed to exist.
So I think labels are great for young people in a certain time.
Yeah, I get why you don't need them.
You're in your 40s now, right?
But probably when you were younger and you didn't know who the fuck you were, it would have
helped if there was heteroflexible.
You know what I mean?
Or another term that kind of explained it.
So that's my little PSA for labels.
That's why I do like them.
But let's get back to your story.
So you're dating girls.
Do you like girls or you're like into guys?
Do you continue to see men and women throughout that time?
Well, then I kind of backed away from that, from that too.
But then it was like there's no possible way at high school.
I played football and baseball and was an athletic kid and stuff.
There's no way in hell that I'm going to be able to openly.
hook up with dudes.
Seek out another guy.
And honestly, in person, I didn't even know how to do it because I had only been
operating behind a computer screen.
So I don't think I have the ability to even go up to somebody, you know, another guy
and ask him to hang out or do that stuff anyway.
Of course.
Especially at that time.
Come on.
Yeah, it was easier just to do it from a keyboard.
Yeah, of course.
Do you want to suck my dick?
No, okay, fine.
I'll go to the night.
I don't think I would have the courage to walk up to someone.
somebody and say that. No way, huh? So you took a break and then you start with women. How early on do
do you meet your wife? Are you one of those I got married? Oh, I was my 20s? No, I was 28.
Okay. So in your 20s, did you start? Did you pick it back up again? Like, hooking up with the guys?
Like, when did you start? Oh, I did in college a lot. Okay. And that in the dorms is that when you
started to actually be able to meet? People were redoing it through online stuff? Because that's a little
online, but it was a little bit easier at that time. Uh-huh.
And then colleges are a little more left-leaning.
So there was a little more, it's easier maybe to be a little more open about stuff.
So I found it a little bit easier to meet that type of stuff in person.
In college.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Well, I know that you wind up being like really into huge insertions.
You're having gangbanks with guys.
So you're obviously like a bottom.
You might be a top two.
I don't know.
When did anal action come into your life?
Were you always playing around when you were younger?
So you're obviously like a bottom.
You might be a top two.
I don't know.
When did anal action come into your life?
Were you always playing around when you were younger?
Oh, I was doing the stuff.
I was doing things to myself.
That's what I was saying.
Yeah, like you were when you were young, right?
Yes.
So do you consider yourself a switch or a bottom or top?
I'm versatile.
I'll do either.
I prefer to bottom if I had a choice.
And I know that you got into large insertions.
Was that just because you worked yourself up to it?
Because you're just shoving things in your ass.
And eventually you need.
bigger and bigger. Yeah, because eventually the average size stuff eventually doesn't please you.
Yeah, because you're so used to it. So you're doing all this. You're in college. Now you're
hooking up with dudes. Did you ever date a guy? I've tried and it just doesn't work. I don't have
that emotional capability to like have a relationship. It's just strictly about fucking.
Yeah, I got it. Okay. So when do you want, so you wind up getting married at 28. Now,
does your wife know that you're into guys? Do you ever tell her that you have this thing? Or do you lead a double life while you're with her?
Well, I was with her. I just kind of put it away. Oh, you did? Okay. And then we had our son and then I just kind of stopped for a while. Then when we got divorced, then I kind of picked back up. And that's actually where I met the black guy that I talked about my confession, it was after that.
So, but during your, while you were married, you were completely monogamous and you were able to put it on the back burner.
Like you never cheated it or anything?
Not with a man, no.
What about with a woman?
I ended up having a little dolly on to the lady that I worked with.
But I was already kind of at the point where I was ready to leave anyway.
So that was kind of the self.
So obviously I kind of used her to kind of get what I wanted.
While you're seeing this other lady, it's like, fine,
now there's enough for us to quit now I want to get out of your.
Yeah, it's like sabotage.
Most people, unless you're like the philanderer,
most people aren't cheating when things are great.
They're cheating because things are really bad.
And a lot of times it does, it's like some, a lot of people just can't fucking leave.
So they wind up doing shit like that.
Yeah.
And that's exactly what it was.
Yeah.
And I'm always like leave before you have to leave with your head hanging down low.
You know what I mean?
Caught cheating.
It would have been way better for you to leave without that.
But that was what got you out and probably was beneficial for the both of you, right?
Like that marriage was over.
So you end with your wife.
Is that when you do start to try to date guys?
Yeah.
At that point, at that point, I decided to try it.
And I met up with a couple.
It just didn't work.
I just don't have the emotional connection.
Like, how many guys did you go on dates with?
Two or three.
Two or three?
Like actual dates.
Yeah, I would say two or probably three.
Okay, none of it.
It didn't work out.
Do you think it was just like you didn't meet the right person or was it just not right for you?
This wasn't working, no.
You didn't dig dating guys.
And the other thing too
I'm a fairly conservative person
Outwards Leath so I don't
Want to show it off
I just like to have that part of my life
In the four corners of my room with the door closed
Listen I know that you got into gangbanks
And you've done them with guys
Did you do stuff like that in college?
I had a three way with two guys
Mm-hmm
And then
we did have a five way with four guys and a girl once.
It was after bar close at two in the morning,
and this girl just wanted to get fucked any which way she could,
so we just took turns on her.
So she was gang-banged.
It wasn't like you were with the guys.
It was like the girl was.
Yeah, but then the other fellow that participated in,
it was a friend of mine that I was on the DL with,
so I was sucking him off while this girl was getting fucked by the other two
in that way.
Oh my God.
We waited our turn to get in there and then we had sex with her,
but we kind of played with each other while we kind of waited.
Were the other guys freaked out?
Because I'm assuming you're all kind of friends and all of a sudden now they're seeing,
you're kind of blowing in.
I don't know if they noticed or cared.
Oh.
I think enough Yeager Meister.
Coors lights had gone on that night.
I don't think it mattered.
Yeager's disgusting.
Yeah, totally.
Okay, so let's get to the present time.
So, well, or like 2016, you get divorced, you start dating guys, you realize that's not for you.
And then do you continue to hook up with women too or you just hook it up with dudes?
Is there a preference for you when it comes to that?
At that point, I didn't really care.
I just took whatever would come.
You mean like after your divorce?
Yes.
Okay.
So it was like men, women, you were open and down.
Were you ever looking to get back into a relationship again with another woman?
I tried and then I went through a couple and just can't find one to stick and then I didn't want to hide
what I do anymore so then I was open up front of him by and I've done this and that and then women
tend to get turned off at that yeah but that's interesting that you decided to do that you're like
done with keeping that shit under wraps at least with your partner because the other thing too is
I didn't want to hide it anymore because then I figured if I was sexual with a woman and
she would understand me that I liked my butt licked and toys in my ass and stuff.
And that's kind of hard to ask for, I think, with a straight female sometimes.
Yeah, because the first question is going to be like, are you gay?
Yeah, exactly.
And I don't want to get on five or six dates of the gal and start having sex and then,
hey, do you mind going back and licking my butt?
I don't think a lot of women would go for that.
Did you ever bring that stuff up to your wife?
I tried to do Anna with her and she's like, no.
She's one of those that just was completely shut off to it.
But she goes, I'll let you do it once.
But then it's when I ask for it.
So I'm like, okay, whatever.
Well, it's some random day if she woke me up at 3 in the morning.
She was, now is your chance.
Is she drunk?
No, but I'm like, I think she just did it to prove her point.
Oh, yeah, to get it to check it off the box.
I told you, I gave it to you,
three o'clock in the morning. It's three in the morning. I'm tired.
Oh, I got you set you up for failure.
Wait, so, okay, so you decide, though, after your divorce to go in and be honest.
And mostly every woman you want to date with that you told was turned off.
Pretty much. That was kind of the run that I had.
Yeah, interesting. How long would you wait to tell them? Like it was a first date, fifth date?
third or fourth if we ever got that far.
That's the point where it started to get like intimate day you're coming over.
Yeah.
I just want you to know.
It's a problem.
I don't want to be too invested in her either if it's going to piss her off.
Yeah.
And what do you think is different about you now than when you met your wife?
Because listen, you were able to be monogamous with your wife for as long as you were with her.
And you were okay to put that stuff on the back burner.
Like how come, like what shifted in you that made you feel?
feel like, hey, you know, I don't want to do that. If I'm going to be with somebody else again,
I want to be exactly who I am and have anal stuff in the relationship and everything. What do you
think changed? Like, you just grew up and I don't know. Tell me. Well, I got to be a little older.
Yeah. And more, okay, you've had your first marriage. You had your children. Okay, we only had one
kid. That's what we wanted. So I've got my son who's a wonderful kid. And,
you're kind of moving on to that second marriage type situation.
Is that supposed to be the fun one?
Yes, it's totally different.
So it's kind of like, I don't want to be restricted this time around.
Yeah, you would get married, right.
Second marriage are so different.
I've talked about this before.
I always love to see pictures of the first wife and the second wife.
They're always so different.
Yeah.
If I'm going to be with a gal again or potentially married again, I want a freak.
Because that's going to be a big part of your relationship.
It's not about kids.
and all that other shit anymore because you got you check those boxes off already you got that yeah that's
very common so that's cool i think that that's great that you're open and up front and i don't know what
age range of women you date but i feel like there are definitely women out there that are totally open
and not only open to it into it i have had a string of women on i don't know if you heard samantha
okay who just called into my show listen to her fucking episode okay and she's me
maybe even older than you.
And you wouldn't believe the shit her and her husband are doing.
And she loves it.
And it's a lot of guy and guy action.
And I've had a lot of guys on my show that I've talked about sort of crossing over that
line with their wives.
And their wives realizing not only are they okay with it, but they're like turned on by it.
I'm airing a guy tomorrow on Monday, Jason.
And when they did a threesome with a guy, his wife was the one that put the guy's dick in
his mouth.
She was like, here you go.
And she wanted to see it and she likes it.
She's like pushing for it.
So women out there exist for sure.
I just think eventually you 100% will wind up finding a woman that is open to it.
The unfortunate thing is, because a lot of times in this story,
the woman doesn't know she's into it until she sees it, you know?
So, and I just think a lot of women don't know that they're into it
because they've never watched gay porn or whatever, you know.
So what you really need is just an open-minded woman that would be open to maybe trying, you know,
Because even if she's not into it when you meet her, if she sees it, she might change her mind
because I've heard that story many times.
So most likely eventually you'll wind up meeting a chick who's a freak like you and you'll be fine.
But, okay, so, you know, you're still seeing guys at this point, right?
And you're just like, is it just like all online hookup, sex?
Like, pretty much.
Yeah.
There is an adult bookstore in the vicinity of where I live.
So I'll go there and cruise.
And what goes down there?
I've heard it all, but you tell them your stories.
Mostly, it's mostly oral.
Right, like glory hole stuff?
So the one, that particular one doesn't have a glory hole, but there's two booths next
to each other.
And then if you push a button, like it opens the glass is like opaque, but then it turns
to the clear so you can see the guy next to you.
Wait, so wait.
So you walk it and it's like there's a glass thing, but it's dark.
You can't see through it.
And then if you press a button, it clears.
And now you could see what's in the other room.
Pretty much.
But the guy on the other side has to hit it all sort of.
Okay.
I was going to say, can you cock block that if you don't want it.
You can.
But then oftentimes, too, like what you see on the other side.
I don't want to fuck that either.
It's like, yeah, I'm not.
Yeah.
It's let's make a deal.
You're either getting a fucking car when it opens or.
But there's been times where it's been a, there's been times where it's been an
athletic black man with a third leg too so it's worked out in my favor a few times too yeah it's like a
flip of a coin right 50 50 so why not press that fucking button but i went through a phase where i was going
there two or three times a week and i was sucking dick almost every time yeah and it's so interesting
all guys like you the the guys whether you're straight or by the guys who like to blow guys they just want
to blow guys they don't necessarily care about being blown are you that kind of guy
I've never ejaculated from a blowjob in my life.
Isn't that interesting?
Do you hear all the other guys on my show just like you?
Yeah, I've never, it's never gotten me to that point.
But you, but a dick in your mouth, you like that.
Like, that's what you're into.
Absolutely, and I love to swallow.
So that, that's my favorite.
You do?
Yes.
But you, but a dick in your mouth, you like that.
Like, that's what you're into.
Absolutely.
And I love to swallow.
So that's my favorite.
You do?
Yes.
You should listen to my episodes with Trey.
He was like he would do like parties where he,
because he's just like swallowing common.
He did 25, like two day events, three days events.
I don't know.
They're really interesting.
So you were going two, three times a week now in those,
that bookstore when you would see the other person,
there was no hole in there.
Like it wasn't a glory hole experience.
You're just like watching.
Pretty much.
And if you want the guy to come over into your booth,
he just kind of can do a hand signal or whatever.
And then he kind of gets the idea of that.
you want him to come over there.
Oh, interesting. Now, sometimes when you would press that button,
would they press the other button and would be two guys in the other room and you'd get to watch?
Was that ever going to?
Oh, yeah. I've seen, yeah, I've seen a three-way in there before, like,
a guy getting fucked in the ass while he's sucking a guy.
I've seen that happen once. That's a rare occurrence.
But yeah, there's been times where guys are having sex and blowing each other.
Yeah, and then they press it. Wow, that's crazy.
How big are those booths?
They're big enough to fuck in.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, interesting.
Are there theaters in there, too, or is it just a bookstore?
It's just booth.
Yeah.
But they're in the back corner, and they're fairly secluded, so you have to go all
way through the store and then through the back hallway.
Right.
So you have a lot of privacy back there, and they have one shitty little camera that's
not going to catch anything.
Right.
And I think they know what goes on as long as you're...
Oh, they 100%.
That's the business they're in.
I had a friend who owned, like, adult video stores and bookstores and shit like
that when Times Square was Times Square. So that's that's the business there. They know what's going down.
That's how they make their money. Yeah. So you were going two or three times a week. Listen, it's somewhat
easier. Like I tell my guy friends a lot, my straight guy friends. Like you'd just be way happier if you were
by or gay. Because look at how much action you could get. You could just go to an adult's bookstore
and be sucking dick two or three times getting what you want all the time. So much easier than
getting what you want from women. Sometimes I would prepare.
myself and I would be ready for me is that somebody that I was interested in would want it.
So most of the time I would be ready for it, but I wouldn't always do it.
Really? Because you weren't attracted to the person?
Yeah, or that or they have a small cock or it's an older guy that's not going to get it up.
I feel bad. I've seen that happen to it. I feel bad for him.
Oh, really? And I don't want to embarrass the fellow either because that's going to be me in 20 years too.
That's nice. Yeah. I guess.
You know, and it's like, I don't want to make this guy feel bad, but it's, that has to suck.
Yeah, and you're like, I'm probably going to be there one day.
The last thing I want is some young buck laughing in my face or being rude.
Yeah, yeah.
And those are the guys that probably are married and are hiding and sneaking.
They use, those guys usually are the ones that are.
Yeah, yeah.
Listen, that's a-
I typically like to go for younger, to be honest, for men anyways.
How come?
Because of that or for just be aesthetically, like, what's the reason?
just their bodies and they're rock hard.
And horny all the time.
They're horny all the time and they can get it up three, four times in a row.
So yeah, there's a big difference.
Now, because you're divorced at this point and you have your own place.
Besides the bookstore, are you like going online and meeting guys
and having them come back to your place now because you can?
I was kind of picky about who I let to come over.
If I really connected or felt like the person wasn't going to come back and rob me
or was not.
If I felt a good vibe of somebody and they weren't creepy and we're going to come back to
my, do something stupid.
I would, it was just kind of a touch and feel thing.
Yeah.
Otherwise, it would just be hooked up or we go to a park or go to a parking lot or something.
So those places, quote unquote, I'm like, do you typically sometimes see other guys too?
Is that like undercover?
That's where you go.
If you want guy, yeah.
Yeah?
Cruising.
them live usually doesn't work because they don't, everything's on the phone and everything.
Now, like, you don't have to go wandering around making eye contact and hand gestures like he did
in the old days. Now, it's, if you were to go to the same places, you're not going to find one guy
by himself, you might find two that have already met up and decided to go there.
Yeah, but it's interesting because those places do exist, like that whole rest stop thing that
people say. I've also heard another one I heard, and maybe you'll know whether this is true.
or not because it sounds like you're very experienced is that Home Depot bathrooms are a big place
for Guy and Guy Action. Do you know about that? The one in the city I live and I'm not sure of,
but that doesn't surprise me. Think about it. Where else are you going to meet a bunch of guys?
There's a lot of hot guys in Home Depot. Oh, absolutely. Okay, so, so a park, like the park, you would go into the park,
quote unquote. Was it like a rest area park or like a, the right-o- It's a nature center type thing,
but then there's another tertiary park off the side.
There's like a pavilion in it with bathrooms.
Yeah, and that's where people are.
It's very secluded.
That's a very easy place to go and have sex in.
And so you would go there and then parking lots in like cars?
That's another big place.
Yeah, dark.
There's any parking lot we'll do when it's dark out.
Yeah.
Because you're out at least to women that you go and you meet.
Are you out to anybody else besides all these guys,
in your life that you're hooking up with. Do any of your friends or anyone know?
Trustworthy people that I know. Some female friends of mine know.
Huh? And how were they when you told them?
Not surprised.
Really? How come?
Well, because they know I'm a freak?
Freak. Yeah.
Because you're kind of openly a freak?
I am once I'm trusting somebody and like behind a closed door then absolutely.
And none of those girls, you never wouldn't date any of those girls that know?
I would like to
But then they either are married
Or have something else going on
And we're never single at the same time
Yeah yeah
But they're cool with it and they know
So but none of your guy friends
Not really no
Because the guy friends that I have
I wouldn't do these things with
So you but they don't know that what you do
Okay so now I know that like you've done gang bangs
And some like really crazy shit
That you've done
I don't know how recently or ever
Like how did you get into that
Was it somebody that you met that got you into it?
I've seen it on porn a thousand times and I just craved it.
I wanted it so bad.
And it is.
It's hard to coordinate.
It is.
That's what I said on your,
that's what I said on your confession.
I was like,
I don't even believe this guy because you don't know how hard it is to coordinate a fucking gang bang.
Because I've heard about it from people who really did it.
That's why I was like, oh, yeah, you said you had a five guy gangbang and your guy brought them over.
I was like, yeah, but you're going to now tell me that story.
So, well, let's back up a little bit before I met the black guy.
So I worked in sales at the time for a beverage distribution company.
We had our sales meetings in a different place and a bigger city.
And so there's more opportunities and stuff to meet people.
And then quarterly we would have to stay over.
And that's like a two-day deal.
Yeah.
So I've got the hankering one night.
And then there was like a, they would make you partner up with somebody to share a room so the company could save 20 bucks on a hotel room for the people that had to travel.
Oh my God.
Well, we had an odd number of men.
And I was kind of the senior guy at the time.
So I got the single room.
So I could, okay, I've got this hotel room myself.
Let's find something on Grindr.
Where I live, I don't, it's not as successful, but in a bigger place where we had to go, it was, there's thousands of people.
on there compared to 20.
And this really hot black guy was on there and it said he was 500 feet away because it's
on those location trackers and I'm in the hotel bar.
Well, he's in the place across literally across the street.
And we started texting on there and I said, I'll walk over there immediately.
So then I just walked over there and then the guy sitting by himself and we just sat and talked
and said, yeah, I've got a hotel room to myself.
He wanted to come back.
He goes, yeah, sure.
then we get back into my hotel room and he pulled his pants down and pulled his boxer briefs down and his dick unfurled like a hose
and then it just hung down there between his legs it's like halfway down his thigh wow and i couldn't get on my knees
fast enough to put that in my mouth i was like um wow how do you put that in your mouth you get the tip and
maybe like an inch or two past that.
That's about as good.
Like, I could grab it.
Right.
With both hands and jack it off while I was sucking the tip.
Oh my goodness.
Okay.
Yeah, it was that big.
And he's 11 and a half, like fully hard, like from, and measuring penises is kind of a deceptive thing because it depends on where you start at.
Exactly.
And how much you push in?
So basically I took the tape measure and he's got a flat athletic stomach.
So I took the tip, the start of.
the tape measure, I just kind of put right up against his, like right with the bottom of your
stomach and then the penis is right. Yeah. Like where it starts or like where it comes out.
So I kind of push that right up against this kind of the wall of this bottom of the stomach
and then extended it out to the tip and it was 11.5. Oh my goodness. And thick?
It's thick enough. Yeah. Okay. Definitely not narrow, but he was.
he wasn't like as thick as my wrist either but he was he was pretty good yeah it wasn't like
coke can kind of size not quite that bad but i've had both yeah yeah okay cool i've seen one
only one of those yeah so go on and you you have to be a complete you have to be completely
dedicated to receive and handle sex to handle a coke can oh my god i know when i saw mine i was
like what the fuck do you expect me to do with that shit it looked like a big
baby's arm.
It wouldn't even fit in your vagina, probably.
And I knew for a fact that this guy had dated a very, very famous top model from the 90s.
He would know her name.
She was that famous.
And I was like, wow, now I know every time I see her what she was fucking, because she was
with that guy for years.
I was like, oh, my God.
I don't know how she's walking around because that was like her regular.
So anyway, go on.
So basically, I'm just sucking this guy.
cock. Yeah. And I was so turned on. And I think he liked being sucked off. That was kind of his thing.
And I'm like, I just fuck me. I just, I pulled my pants down. I just bent over the side of the bed.
I think I had some Vaseline or some type of lotion in my bag, not prepared for sex. But I'm like,
this is the only thing I have. Just fuck me. And he went down and ate me out a little bit. Then he stuck the tip in.
And then he just went all the way in.
Right.
And it felt so amazing.
And he claimed my ass right there.
Like he owned it.
And he did not hold back.
Not that he was like violent or anything, but he was rough.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And you like that.
Oh, God.
He gave it to me so good.
And he had the entire thing in there.
Like where does, I don't understand how, are there 11 inches inside the body in that area?
that exists or does it start pushing up into like your it goes up into your stomach or it goes in yeah it does oh my god
i can't even okay but you loved it you can't get too much uh it depends on your body too but like your
actual anus is usually like seven or eight inches long and that's just kind of the tube for the
waist to come out of that's all it really does yeah i had a doctor lady explained
this to me. Yeah, yeah, interesting. And then you get up into the digestive system. There's
your intestines and stuff. Yeah. If you get too long in there, you can puncture your colon.
Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking. Could, is it possible because you're going into other
areas and you're going so hard and what's what's in between? Like just a little piece of skin. Can you
go through and fuck shit up? I don't know. You can go. I think I've seen porn where guys are putting 18-inch
horse penises in their butt. Right, but what happens if like you broke through that skin or whatever
that barrier that's there? You know, what did that lady say? You would get septic and you'd have to have
surgery right away. Yeah, yeah. I'm sure there's like your waist is like going into your blood.
You know, I don't think 11 and a half's not long enough, but if you've got, if you're putting like a
horse size thing in there, yeah, you could definitely hurt yourself. Oh my God. But you for this,
this guy was great. But this isn't the guy that you talked about that did that set up the gangbing for you?
that actually actually so it actually is oh okay so go on so we had a we had a one-time thing and
it was so good and then he fucked me again so i actually got it twice um you mean on the weekend
why because why you're because you're there for the weekend for so it was a Thursday Friday thing
so then he got it up right away so he actually fucked me good twice and then I got his phone number
and I said I really want to see you again he goes yeah he goes
He confided it's difficult for him to find a partner because of his size.
So he was appreciative that he found a good looking guy that could actually handle him.
So we kind of had that connection.
And then we kind of, we've stayed in touch over the years.
We're still kind of friends.
And he lives an hour and a half away.
And it's not always convenient.
So if we get together once a month is usually as good as it gets.
Do you know what his deal is?
Is he married and doing this on the side?
Is he a gay man and he's out and proud?
Do you know what?
He's a single guy.
The last I knew when I first met him, he was doing some type of construction work.
So he's a manual labor kind of a tough guy that played Division II football.
You wouldn't know that he liked men.
So this guy's pretty much a DL like I am.
Like he's a total unicorn on that regards.
Yeah.
There's nothing.
If you were to stand in front of him,
nothing that would give away that he's into fucking guys in the bud.
Well, I'm sorry, but that's the case with most of the guys who are doing it.
But it's not, it's just the way that it is.
A lot of Samantha, you're going to love her episode.
Okay, you listen to it.
And her guy is Alpha, Alpha, Alpha.
And I saw a picture of him because she sent them in to my Discord.
They're very into physical fitness.
This guy is jacked up.
Oh, I did listen to that one when I was out walking.
Okay.
Yeah.
Well, I have picks of him.
And as Alpha, as she explains him, is as, as,
alpha as he looks big buff dude not the type and it's so that's always the case that's what i'm here to say
on my show it's never no one's ever wearing it on their sleeve it's ever like uh a common and that's what's so
sad about the stigma because the stigma is like it's like it's like i feel like guys are
embarrassed or they can't admit that they're into guys because it makes you less of a man yet so many
manly man men are doing it yes there's no there's no less
than any man out there. Like it's such bullshit. And my philosophy is too, as I see it as a sign of
strength to be a bottom like that because it takes an awful lot of strength to take an 11 and a half
inch. You're more of a man. I'm a 280 pound black guy. I challenge anybody that thinks that a bottom
is weak or feminine to handle a 30 minute pounding from him. I would tip my cap to you. Yeah,
that's interesting. I love that. It's kind of... So I'm in control. And nobody
getting off unless I'm willing to receive. Yeah, that's interesting that to put it that way. That's how
you see it from your perspective because I think a lot of people assume it's opposite. Sorry to cut. I almost
feel like I'm in charge. Yeah, I love that. I think when you're sucking dick, you have all the
control. Yeah, I feel like I've talked about what what position that person is. Are they the bottom? Are they the
top? So you feel like in that position you are in control? I absolutely, because my
I have a good set of teeth yet, and I can do a lot of things with those teeth.
If you don't obey.
So I think if you have a penis in your mouth, you have an awful lot of power because you can really make that guy's life miserable with one movement of your jaw.
So you kind of have the most precious part of that man's body in a very vulnerable place.
Yeah, I feel like that's a good way to explain it because I feel like I've seen it the opposite way.
But I'm not you.
You're the person that knows what that.
person feels like in what that position is. Yeah, that's interesting. And I take a lot of pride
sexually and being able to handle it. Right. 11 and a half inch pounding. Oh my God. More than once,
because this is the guy that's in your life and you see him all the time. Yeah. I mean, I
I wish I could, it was more frequent, but it doesn't work out. And so you have careers and I have a
athletic kid that's in sports and stuff. Yeah. So if I'm able to get a, even a Monday night at 11 o'clock
and we meet in a parking lot halfway
and just have a quickie over the back of the car.
You know, we take what you can get sometimes.
Yeah, so this is the guy that did create,
that did put together the gang bang for you, right?
Should we go there?
Do you have other stories?
I don't know.
So with this guy, like, we've done where he literally controls me.
So, like, I would stay at the weekend sometimes.
We haven't done this recently, but when we first started,
I would be tied up and ball gagging to,
blindfolded and he had his way with me. Oh my goodness. And sometimes that meant I'm literally
restrained arms and legs, ball gagged and blindfolded and other people have come over and fuck me.
Oh, so like stranger sex kind of. Yeah. So he'll put it on, he's put it on Grindr before and I'm
literally bent over from four to seven. You can come fuck this. Oh my God. I don't think you left that on
the confession. Yeah. So we've had that. Sometimes nobody comes. Sometimes you get a lot. Sometimes
maybe a one. There's been more times where we've had zero than anything else. What was the most you
had? At one time. Yeah. Do you remember around? I'm trying to, God, I don't remember.
Like 10, like when you say a lot, sometimes it's a lot. Is a lot five because you're typically getting
zero that's what I would think
I was trying to think the one time
over the course of the weekend
I think I maybe had 12
that's a lot but
but it's one here
four hours off one here
yeah but it's not back to back
to back to back the back to back the back
yeah over the course of two days
I think the record was like 12
yeah that's a lot
that's not like a full on gang bang
but it's kind of like an extended one.
Yeah.
And you're blindfolded.
But then that's my friend coming in and getting himself off in between two.
Oh my goodness.
Yeah, that's crazy.
Okay.
So this is like how this guy rolls.
He's into, he's as freaky as you are.
Yeah.
Oh, yeah.
So he's dominated me before.
He's made me suck his dick while he's driving.
Like, I, which I'm not.
a big fan of, but I didn't want to check a box for him.
By the way?
20.
I met him when he was 24.
And that was seven years.
So he's early 30s.
Okay.
Oh, so you've been hooking up with him for a long time.
Oh, yeah.
Okay.
Was the gang bang that you guys had recent?
I think it was, did I call you last week?
So it was like two or three weeks ago.
Oh, okay.
Is that the only one?
or it sounds like that other stuff you used to do sounds like gangbanks too and you're the most
recent one that i've had yeah yeah tell me a while since i had had one so yeah so tell me how that went
down does he like say to you like hey you want to have a gang bang this weekend you're like i'm down
so we had plans to hang out yeah and he has another where he lives african-american black
whatever we want to call it gay couple that he's friends with and
And then we were going to meet up or did have plans to meet up with this other couple.
Yeah.
And then I said, yeah, dude, it's been a while since we've had some group fun.
I said, I wouldn't mind taking all three of you.
And he goes, yeah, he goes, yeah, it's a good idea.
And then he goes, one of the other gentlemen had a friend that wanted to come along.
So then we had that just happened to fall in our lap.
And then we were able to get one off a grinder, which was a rare.
just to get one.
Yeah.
So we kind of were able to lock into this other gentleman's friend
and then one off of a grinder.
So it just kind of worked out that we had a couple extra penises.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And now does he wind up doing all the guys too
or does he just like to set it up and watch and be a part of it?
He usually lets the other guys go first
and then he comes in at the end and finishes.
But he likes to be the coordinator.
Yeah, he likes to jack off to it.
Mm-hmm.
And then he'll come to.
a couple times and then he's good and
the third or fourth time he has his erection
it's going to take him an hour to come
so he likes to be good and
long lasting for me so he'll let the other guys do their
business then he comes in at the end and then
finishes the night
and now during that experience
are you like blowing them too or just getting
fucked in the ass what's going to?
If they want to blow a job I'll give them one
yeah
so I mean if the guy walked up and put it in my face I'll
suck it for him but I don't like demand it no yeah but but because you said you were always like
watching porn and you always loved that type of porn like do you just like love gang bangs is there's
something about like just being taken by so many guys that you dig yes and I have a cum fetter so
I just I want all that come in me now how do you stay protected with so much if you're having if
they're coming inside of you right do testing and stuff beforehand oh I do monthly
usually when I'm more active, but like when I'm with this gentleman, he's trustworthy.
Right.
Of course, we're friends and we've known each other for a while.
So I know that he's taking care of himself and I know these other two guys are
taking care of themselves.
So I can trust those three.
So you kind of take a little bit of a risk with these other two.
But if, but if the other guy's buddy, I was willing to try the one off.
grinder I probably was a little foolish whiff but
right he testified on his profile that he was negative and it tested the month before
him was clean so I'm like okay I'll believe you well it's the chance you take but aren't
aren't there like pills now that you could take to protect you from it if you are having
unprotected sex don't there are they're they're out there they're awfully pricey yeah
like maybe it's great for a gay man who's really doing it but for you you don't do it enough
for you to... I don't have enough. And there's times where it's two or three months, six months.
I don't think I had had anal sex. Just the way that this worked out, I don't think I had
anal sex until July or August of last year. So it had been a while anyway. So I didn't have anything
to test for. Yeah, yeah. No, that makes sense. That's what I would think. If you were more,
if you were a gay man and this was what you were doing all the time and it was a part of your life,
it would make sense to spend the money on it. I know sometimes my audience is like,
like, why didn't you ask them, like, how they protect?
So when you say, oh, I love all that common to me, I kind of have to say,
okay, so obviously you're not using protection and you're, listen,
getting fucked in the ass, whether you're a woman or a man,
that's like the riskiest kind of sex to have for because of the tears and the skin,
right?
That's the transmission kind of thing.
So that's why I have to ask.
Yeah.
And the other thing, too, like your, if you, the semen goes up into your colon area and
stuff.
So that gets into your bloodstream that way.
too. Oh, really? I didn't know. That's another, that's another way that it transfers. Okay, cool. But anyway,
let's go back to your story because we have just five minutes. So you just like, though, for all of them
to come inside of you. That's a big part of your turn on. I want their bear. I want their bear deck and I
want them to come in me. Interesting. And then what about it in your mouth too? You do like to swallow.
Like you get into that as well. Yeah. Yeah. I like to do both. Oh, my goodness. So this guy is like your
favorite guy, but you've never felt feelings for him or anything. Like you, because I know that at one point,
to try to dee guys this guy's like your friend you guys are kind of very much on the scene page
did you ever think of him in that way or no i i did for a little bit then it's i don't want to ruin a
good thing either yeah i had an older woman when i was 21 a lady that was in her 40s okay that i used
to just fuck the hell out of and i made the mistake of telling her i liked her and you learned
your lesson now you're been traumatized yeah i was gone she she was gone she
She goes, don't have you ruined it for me, you're done.
So I kind of after that, and I had, I tell you what, I had absolute freaky sex with her too.
I could imagine.
And she was sticking stuff in my butt and making me do all kinds of stuff to her.
And she was, she had a thing for young men and she was getting what she wanted.
Yeah, well, listen, a woman in her 40s is very well matched with a man in his 20s.
And I'll tell you what, some of the best sex I've ever had was with a 59-year-old lady.
Yeah.
Oh, really?
Where do you mean her?
Met her at a bar.
Uh-huh.
And just took her home once and she's just, I couldn't satisfy her.
She's, I'm going to do this, do that.
Wow.
Fuck me this way.
And she goes, God, I haven't had women this hard and so long.
And she was just getting into it.
Like, crazy, right?
She goes, can you go again?
Can you go again?
I'm like, well, I'll pry.
Well, it took me a couple hours.
And then I was able to.
And then I pleased her in the morning, too, after she got up.
This is why the older women that are.
super horny go for younger guys.
Like when a woman's in her 40, it's like the last hurrah for her.
So she does get overly horny.
And that's why a lot of them are fucking young guys because they could go three times
a night.
And the 40-year-old guys can't, you know?
Yeah.
I was banging a 25-year-old when I was 40.
And he did let me put things in his ass too.
And he was one of those guys that I'm like, oh, he's definitely a guy that likes
guy stuff, but just would never admit it kind of thing.
Big Vy guy from the gym.
Yeah.
And younger men is kind of my.
fetish too. So if I can, I'll be honest, I had about a year ago on another cruising app,
I had a 19 year old come over. Now is that illegal? Do I have to edit that out?
19 is older than 18. So yes, he's old enough. Okay.
One nine. One at nine. But he was really hot. He was not really big, but thick.
Yeah. I could tell he was really inexperienced.
because like I went down to suck his dick and I grabbed his butt and I was giving him a blowjob
and he grabs my head and like just shoves it down onto it.
I'm like, dude, that's not how this works.
Oh my God, welcome to the world of being a woman.
Yeah, quit watching porn, dude.
So I did that and then I got down on my hands and knees for him and he got behind me.
And I've been receiving anal sex for a long time.
So I'm huge.
Like I've got a big hole.
So it's like it's not hard to miss.
Right.
And like he's struggling like dude like I have.
Oh my God.
It's like right there.
And it's not like you're a woman in there's two holes and he's got to figure out.
There's only one.
What are you looking for?
And it's like I have a humongous anus dude.
It's like just get it in there.
And then a couple of times it slipped out and then he went to put it back in between my cheeks.
But he wasn't quite in.
And then he was fucking.
and he's like oh this is so good
like dude you aren't even fucking anything
oh my god
so I was like I finally
just made him sit down and then I sat on his lap
and bounced on him and got him off
and then basically had him
I'm like dude you need to practice a little more
or something so that's kind of the fun
it's kind of fun to have a younger guy like that
but they're so inexperienced
half the time it's like
yeah there is such a thing as too young
like that guy was like too young
probably
Yeah, for sure. And he wasn't, yeah, he wasn't slutting around when he was 14 like I was.
Yeah, well, that was like, I don't know, that's, I wouldn't, I don't know that you were sludding around.
You were curious, you were young, you didn't know what the fuck you were getting.
But, you know, listen, Jay, thank you so much for calling in and telling your story.
It wasn't as dirty, which is good, okay?
Because I was like, this was like what I like, all the details and everything.
It's super interesting.
Do me a favor if you want to say,
me anonymous picks for my Patreon?
Yeah.
I'll send it.
Can I just do just my butt?
Well, this is the thing.
What do you want?
No, no, no.
I only to deal with R-rated stuff, sexy stuff.
Typically, it's like better for the women.
They could do sexier things for the guy.
What are they going to send?
That's sexy, right?
So if it's X-rated stuff,
and that's all that you have,
that's why I started in my Discord
because that's like a place where people could put whatever they want.
It's not safe for work.
I have it locked down.
It's all okay.
And I created that so that people could put their own stuff there.
I don't deal with that kind of stuff.
And what I'll do is send you in a free invite link to my Discord.
So you'll be able to get in for free.
And you could post like your ass shots, all that stuff over on my Discord.
And then people will talk to you.
So you'll be on Discord.
I'll send you that link when your episode goes up.
It'll go up soon.
Thanks so much for calling in and sharing your whole story.
All right.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Bye.
Okay.
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