Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 866 - Eddie and Ariel are Into Throwing Orgies, Couple Swapping and More

Episode Date: July 8, 2024

Ariel and Eddie are into throwing orgies and couple swapping and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they lost weight and how they both got super horny afterward and how that led them to enter into the lifestyle, their first meet and greet and the couple they met, their first swap with the couple and exactly what went down plus the couple swaps that followed, the first orgy they wound up in and how and why that led to them hosting their own orgies, how they would hunt for couples to invite and why having the right couples is super important, Ariel’s first experience with the female and what went down, how she felt seeing her husband with another woman as well as seeing him with men and why she enjoyed it so much, the all-female orgy she wound up in as well as the gangbang that went down, how being in the lifestyle increased their communication in all areas as well helped Ariel feel more confident about her body plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of LUCY plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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So today I have on Eddie and Ariel. You're going to love them as a couple. They're effing great. Okay. I included their episode recently in a Confessions episode. their confession. And the confessions episode recently because they did call up and said, hey, we're a couple. We lost a lot of weight and then we got in the lifestyle and now we're open and we've had some hiccups, but things are like, couldn't be any better. And I was like, okay, let's hear their whole story.

So I talk to Eddie first and then I talk to Ariel. They both give lots of details of a lot of scenarios. This is a couple that did lose a lot of weight. I asked Eddie about that in the beginning and he does talk real quick about like how they lost all the weight, which is super interesting because I always think everyone are it's not like they did like the shots that everyone's doing now and stuff so we talk about that but then we do talk about their transition into the lifestyle because after they lost weight they both became super horny like seriously this was a very vanilla couple they got super horny if they lost the weight and then they decided to open up they went to a meet and greet they talked about the couple they met there and after they met that couple it was just like on and they did everything they talk about

that first time they met up with the couple and the first time they did a couple swap and then they wound up an orgy at some point and they weren't really into it. So they started doing their owns. They started setting up lifestyle groups, their own group, and they talk all about that. How they set it up, the couples that they pick, how they vetted people, what they taught them to do, and why that led to them having the hottest orgies ever. And they talk about all of it. Ariel comes on second and she gives a lot of details. She's really open and into so many different things. She talks about the time where she was airtight. She did a gang bang.

She's done orgies with women only. She's very open. Eddie's very open too. He's hooked up with guys. They're both down for that. She's very into compersion. He is too. You're going to hear all about it.

There's lots of details. Trust me, I didn't give away the whole episode here in the intro. Okay? Don't worry about it. So you're getting to listen. You're going to love them. They're a great couple. I have picks of them over on my Patreon.

Links in the description. Anyway, I'm going to be back on first with Eddie and then I talk to Ariel. Hi. Eddie, Eddie and Ariel. I'm going to be talking to both you and your wife today. You guys made it to one of my confessions hotline recently. I did post your confession that you left on my hotline. You were a couple that started swinging.

You're in the lifestyle. We're going to get into all those naughty details. But what was interesting about your story? I just wanted to know real quick how you did lose a lot of weight. Like you were like I kind of tagged you guys as like the couple that started swinging after weight loss. You both lost a lot of weight together. Could you just tell me real quick? We're going to first, just so you know, everybody listening, we're going to talk to Eddie first like I normally do, and then Ariel.

So, Eddie, how did you guys, real quick, because we want to get to the juicy stuff. How did you guys lose so much weight? I had a, hey, Kathy, how are you? Oh, yeah. But we did a, I had a health scare pretty much, and I was forced to lose a lot of weight. And it was pretty much either do it or you die type of thing. And I did tell her that we needed to do this. whether she wanted to do it or not, and we got really, really serious about it, and we did it.

And it took us about four years to do it all. Oh, God, we started boot camp working out, and we changed our whole entire lifestyle. We went from eating unhealthy to eating the most healthiest way that you can possibly can. Yeah, amazing. So you did it with diet and exercise. So you did it with diet and exercise over time. Yeah, boot camp, and we went into CrossFit and we got really into CrossFit and did all that. At one point, we even owned a CrossFit gym, too.

Yeah, it was a huge lifestyle change, which we still follow to this day. But that's literally how our story started, though. It was all through the weight loss, and then it just kind of kicked off from there. Why? Because you felt so hot after you lost all the weight. I hope pretty much. But wait a second. Okay, so you lost all that weight.

And then how was your sex life before? Were you always vanilla? Had you been discussing, like, opening up your relationship or something? Or did this come out, like, strictly right after you lost the weight? No. were as vanilla as you can possibly be vanilla too we we didn't we didn't talk about it we didn't do anything we were the traditional couple missionary style get it over with and go to bed type of thing our sex life if you describe it and put it out of know look at it now and look at it

before it sucked pretty much i will say and i think in the confession that i left we we were had sex maybe once a week, once every two weeks, and that was enough for us. And then through this whole process, I don't know what happens to the human body, but it just skyrocketed our libido. Immediately after we started exercising, eating healthy, it was like we were horny all the time. It was like, what's going on? And it went from having that little bit of sex to it started twice the week and then three times a week and then every single day and then two, three times a day. So how did it come up to

start bringing others in or doing whatever you did? I will say sexually, my wife is a lot more open. She's had sexual experience with girls in the past, but we as a couple never brought that up. At that time, we were like 17 years into our marriage and we were just pretty vanilla. But me, I started to look into different avenues of making it more exciting. And I was looking into maybe doing boredism or having sex in front of people. And we live in Florida, so there was a club in town that we wanted to visit where I started looking into. And I started doing my research on Facebook. So because it started coming up.

And I asked her if she was interested in doing something like that and having sex in front of other people. And she was like, oh, let's talk about it. Let's think about it. And we never did anything about it or even until the day, we haven't even gone to any clubs yet. but that led to going to nude beaches that led into and i think facebook also their algorithm once you start looking into something it starts throwing you ads about other stuff i got an ad of a group that actually meets in the downtown area where we live and i asked her if she wanted to do something like that it was kind of like a meet and greet at a bar

and then from that time on we i asked her if she wanted to go we went of course of course were both scared as fuck because we have no idea what we're going to or getting into. Sincerely, I thought every guy was a creep and everybody was like a sex offender or some sort. And I just didn't know what to expect. Yeah. So we got there. We get there early. We didn't know that the party starts a lot later in the meeting greet.

And we literally sat on the corner and just kind of like observe from the background. And I was really over protective over my wife. and I just told her if nothing happens, nothing happens, if something happens where we talk to somebody, like, hey, the cool thing about it is there was a club right next door that we were able to dance and pretty much have fun to tool us. That same night, we got very, very tipsy, and we were about to close the bar tab,

and we meet a couple. That couple was, like, hey, we've been looking at you guys for a while, but you guys haven't been, like, hanging out. It's just been kind of going back and forth, and we got to connect with them. And that's kind of where our story starts. That particular couple, we did hook up about a week later. They were kind of like the ones, my wife says they're the ones that popped our cherry.

And then from that point on, it was just like amazing. The first time that we met with them, of course, we're driving over to their house and we're just scared at hell. We don't know what to do, how to do this stuff or anything. everything has been like research that you see online of what to do what how to do it but we met them they made us feel very very comfortable they they they just made us feel comfortable with each other and my wife out of nowhere starts playing with the wife of the other couple and I didn't know that she had that in her and they both started and the stuff that I was seeing it was just wow

I didn't know that she was that open. We never even discussed it. Yeah, because you didn't really probably think you were ever going to move forward with anything. Even when you were meeting that couple, did you think, oh, we're going to sleep with them, but you guys just didn't discuss, like, what you can or cannot do? I thought we were going to probably go to first base, maybe second base, and that's it, and, like, broke around or anything. It ended up that we started in the kitchen.

Of course, we were all drinking. and we were having a nice discussion, talking about our lives. And then all of a sudden, one hand moves to a boob, the other hand moves to the other boob, and dresses start coming off, and a booty jumps on the countertop. And my wife starts going down on her, and I'm like looking at the other guy, which now he's my personal friend. Am I seeing this? And, of course, they've been in the life house for a while now, and he's relaxed.

Just enjoy the show and go from there. And I'm following his little. lead it was like okay cool I'll just relax and just watch and they were the ones that kind of lead us into this world of I call it fun and relax and being open with each other from there we jumped into the bedroom and the night just seemed like it went from I don't know two hours it felt like it went for eight hours or so it was just the most amazing night that we've had we all pretty much fucked each other we all did every It was just an amazing night.

By the time we left the house, me and my wife were like, did we just do that? What do we do? No discussion of how or when or if we were going to do it. The main discussions that we were going to, we knew that we had to do as use condoms as safe as possible and go that route. But it was just, I think it opened up something in our brain

that we were just, did you like it? you like it? She was like, yes. And she asked me the same thing. And I told her, yes. You want to continue this type of lifestyle? She was like, yeah. So we met them a couple of more times after that. And she asked me the same thing. And I told her, yes. You want to continue this type of lifestyle. She's like, yeah. So we met them a couple of more times after that. From there, actually, on that same night that we joined the club, the host of the party, she gave us a little business card with one of the sites they should join and the site was SDC. Oh, wait, I got to give a shout out to SDC because now that is the one app or the one website

that I promote and I do have a deal with them. Like my customers, my listeners get 14-day free trial with them. So I'll put the link to my SDC, 14-day free trial in the below because most people talk about SEC, they love it. Like, it's a great place to find out about events and groups and meet other people and stuff like they have everything you need right there. So anyone that wants to join. to see after you hear, just go to the link in the description.

Anyway, go on, sorry. We did join that about maybe a week later where I started like putting our profile and setting our profile together. And oh my gosh, from that point on, we started meeting couples left and right. And it just became friendships that we started making with these people. From one, we went to the second to a third to a fourth. And little by little, we just had a bunch of different friends throughout the area that we live in.

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That's avocado mattress.com. And every experience was just one bigger than the other, bigger than the other, bigger than the other, bigger than the other. One couple that we met, which they were also going through the same lifestyle experience as us, we had an experience with them on a major football holiday. And we were supposed to have that and watch it and he wings like everybody else does, but we did not do any of that. We literally had a marathon night of pretty much sex all night long. It started around, I don't know, 6 or 7 p.m. And I don't think we stopped until 6 in the morning.

And it was just crazy. When I tell you crazy, it was just a connection that even the guy and I and the girls had and everything was just so mutually hot and euphoric. That same couple one time asked us, they were like they were coming to. our town was like hey we're staying at a hotel do you guys want to come over and yes that was our first time that we've ever pretty much had sex continuously for 24 hours wow of course with breaks yeah yeah but sex the whole time crazy yeah it was we we all four of us prepared we all took like gallons of water we took food we were designed to not survival you're in survival mode we're

We're going to. And we did it. And it was just an amazing time. And every time we were, we finished a session or a playtime with somebody or a couple, we both looked at each other. Did you enjoy it? Are you okay? Communication between the both of us just skyrocketed.

No way that we've ever communicated the way that we communicate now on every single subject. Before, I will tell you, that wasn't even there. just talking husband and wife type of things. But now my wife notes my deeper inner sexual wanting, not only that, but pretty much every little thing that happens in my life she knows. We're very, very open with each other now. So communication is just so much clear.

And I think LF has pretty much helped jumpstart that. It's amazing. From that point on, we decided to start, oh, but within 30 days or 40 days after we started doing this crazy stuff, we landed our first orgy. We went to that same bar that I was telling you about, and we were all dressed in costumes and stuff, and all of a sudden, that hottest girl ever comes and kisses my wife out of nowhere, and she just tells her, you are so hot. And I'm like, oh, yeah, she's hot too.

And they were like, I want you to come to our house. We're heading back home. Do you guys want to come over? my wife looks on me I look at her and I'm like it's up to you she's just like yeah let's go within 30 minutes there's five couples if I'm not mistaken

in the house we're the last ones to get there the only downside to that is we're brand new we have no idea what to expect what to do that was probably the even though the whole experience was nice and hot that's what guided us

to do our own thing because we couldn't connect with people I think it was way too fast, way too soon, and we didn't know who else was. So what we decided after that experience is we're going to be doing this. We need to connect and have that connection with that other, either couple or single. So we started hosting our own parties. And the people that we started meeting through that app,

and we literally started connecting couples with couples that we knew that will play together well, and at one point we started okay let's start this we started with like couple a we'll join us with couple B and we'll join us that went fantastic and was like oh my god it's amazing now we all know each other how about if we include couple C into this thing and then all the sudden yeah next week came we do that and we all interconnect and then all of a sudden within a year we become this I call it leaders of a group that we were weren't even a year late a year before we weren't even part of and now we have 10 couples that are constantly in some sort of a rotation but I think we were just going really curvo and really really fast on what we were doing we're the type of couple that once we decide on something we're comfortable we're doing it we're we're just go 100 miles an hour and just go full hot full look pretty much forward with it that's why you're the leader of this group. You guys were the perfect people because you do like to take the reins and do it.

And all those other couples probably totally appreciated because it's probably not their thing to set it all up and do it. But that's how you guys will. The kinky, or I call it kinky, but the cool side of things is we were focusing, we call it hunting. We were going for couples either on a half or at a bar. So we used to hunt for couples that were just like us, new in the lifestyle. They were pretty much, they didn't have any type of experience. It was easy enough for us to train them our way and letting know how we work. So when we do do this party's connection is hot and mutual between everybody and everybody has a great time. We learned very, very, yeah, early that if

nobody has a connection, yeah, everybody can have sex, but you really don't have that central, passionate, euphoric environment if nobody. knows each other. It's just a quick transaction. So these parties is starting and being very, very exotic and erotic where once it started,

we call them marathon sessions where it's just constantly for 10, 12 hours, people were just having sex. And it was just ongoing without stopping. It was just mind-boggling of, wow, this exists.

People actually do this. and it just got better and better. Then we started playing. After all of that, we opened up to playing with singles. So we discussed it and it was like, it's just something that we want to do. Both my wife and I, we agreed. So we started playing with single girls and single guys.

That was a lot easier than playing with couples because it's a lot easier to just communicate with one person instead of three or four or five different people. singles became more of a number one play factor over the couples. It was a lot easier to schedule. It was a lot easier to get them to our either hotel, wherever it is that we were meeting. So it was just way, way easier to set up meets with singles than actual couples. But yeah, everything that we did was just phenomenal.

And then, of course, we started buying pineapples, everything. every without our house. It became a pineapple haven of everything. Oh, my God, hilarious. You guys really do commit. We commit. I love it. Oh, we commit 100%. And we're the type of people that we own our own business. So it doesn't really matter. We don't hide. We always tell people we don't hide it, but we don't advertise it. Yeah. But if anybody asks, we will literally tell them. We don't, we're not afraid. We're not scared. We don't, we're not a shame of it. It's what we do. So that's And it somehow radiated because even our close friends started asking, what do you guys doing?

You guys seem too happy, too bubbly. And we were like, nothing, nothing, even though it started like leaking. And then one found out it was like, you guys are doing something naughty. And my wife told her. And then from there it's kind of like spread with wildfires. So we have even our close personal friends knew. And we're the type of couple if you like it. stay with us if you don't go away. It doesn't really matter. So that's kind of our story of

this whole entire selection of playtime and play sessions and how we got into this world of playing. If I go into each individual story and each individual will take way too long. No, no, no, we're going to get some of hot stories from Ariel and stuff for sure. But let me ask you this. It sounds like you've done it all, right? You've done the threason with the girl. You've done the threason with the guy. You've done the orgies. You've done the couple swap. You know, what is there anything that stands out that's like your favorite and why if i have to say something i will say the opening of both of us when we started doing this of course we went in being straight as an arrow and being only with a girl she's only with a guy she will play with a girl at the very

beginning that's usually how these kind of plays style go and all of a sudden a year into it when you're in those environments that everybody's just in this passionate ball of sex in one bad or two bads, I realize it doesn't really matter what your orientation is. What matters to me is the amount of pleasure you can receive at that particular moment. So I told my wife, and I asked her, like, will you be upset or anything if I do anything with a guy or invite versa? And she was like, you want to do it more than welcome to? So we started looking for people that were more bisexual or pansexual in a way. There was no written rules of you can't touch me, you can't do this, don't touch me over there.

We find a lot of guys that were pretty homophobic that your dick can touch my dick. We can't do DVP. You can't do this. You have to stand 10 feet away from me. Don't touch me. It was like those were kind of odd situations. when we started figuring out our sexual endeavors, I guess, or preferences, we started figuring out it's a lot easier when everybody's all in the same page and there's no discomfort of anything.

That's when I started dabbling and playing with guys. And at one point, I told my life, I'm doing everything. If everything feels good. If it doesn't feel good to me, I'll stop. But if it feels good, I'll continue. And guess what? Nothing ever felt bad. Everything felt good.

So I started playing with guys And little did I know a lot of the couples that we started putting together for these parties All the guys were feeling the same way as we were And literally we started saying to them It was like if you guys want to do something or wanted to play together Just let us know And a lot of them were like, I'm open, I'm open everybody was like open And it was like oh so these orgies became more of like bisexual orgies than anything

It was like all everybody was for everybody And it just became into this I don't know how to describe it It's just hotness when it was when we were in those situations That it didn't matter if I was with a guy or she was with a girl Or we were two girls one guy with three guys one girl It didn't matter didn't there was no judgment zone within the play itself So it was just amazing and that's how we

We kind of, till this day, play. We typically, if we are going to be playing, we like to play with somebody that have no inhibitions. And it's free sexually regardless of what their orientation in the vanilla world is. So if you had to pick, say tomorrow night, you're like Superhorn and you're like, we got to make something happen tomorrow. And you get to pick your favorite thing because it's your birthday. What do you pick?

M, MF3. Do you pick an orgy? Do you pick seeing your girl with another girl? I will say I will pick a bisexual single guy. A threesome with a guy, those are the best between us, too. Yeah. If I had to take. Yeah, that's your choice.

I'll ask her the same question. That's interesting. So you're kind of like, do you, now that you hook up with guys, you had never hooked up with guys before this? No, never. Right. So do you find, because listen, I've had a lot of conversations about this topic and some, a lot of times, and I've had a lot of different.

friend questions like do people do you consider yourself bisexual now do you or is it just like a matter of if it's like you're just so into sex that whatever it is it's like good like you're like hedonistic or do you feel like maybe you're bisexual you're one of my favorite podcasts to listen to and you've had a lot of people talk about this subject a lot yeah including a doctor guy so romantically i've learned that that romantically i'm attracted to a woman which is my wife but when it comes to having sex, I am open to anything. I don't know if it, what term or what category I fall in is just when I am having sex, I'm very, very open towards anything that gives or receives or gives pleasure. Yeah, I like that. And the communication thing I've heard a million times,

you did say that it just changed the game as far as talking about, not just about sex, but about everything, right? And that it made you feel so much closer because now you're so open. Like, you're like, she knows every little bit of me. And there's something to that that I think a lot of people don't understand. And a lot of people on the outside that look down on people that are in the lifestyle that open up their marriages, they just assume without knowing anything and without talking to any couples and without doing any kind of research that it's just your doom for failure.

It means you don't love each other. Even fucking Dr. Drew, I used to love him. He's such a fucking asshole when you hear him talk about shit. He's never talked to one person. I've talked to people for 12 years. 12 years. I have over 800 episodes. It's like, I go listen to my stuff.

I'll give you so many couples that they'll tell you why they're closer. Fucking assholes of people. And don't tell me, don't get me wrong. Even through the whole entire years that we've been doing it, we've had, we have one major hiccup. But we sometimes we don't agree in different things. And one gets upset over the other. But conversation and communication always gets us over that hump. Exactly.

Nothing's perfect. but I will tell you it's probably the we now we've been married 19 but I will tell you it's probably been I feel closer to her now than even the first year that we got married yeah and listen when you left that message what I harped on with your story

because I knew I was going to get the whole story eventually was the fact that you said there were some hiccups and hiccups and that's important for people to know no matter how professional you are and how open you are and how close your relationship is like they're just going to be sometimes where it might get a little messy and there might be some hurt feelings. That's okay.

That's normal. That's real life. That's anything. And it's just a matter of like how you work through it and stuff. And I always think that that's important for people to know. But I love your guy story. Now I want to hear from your girl, Ariel. I know she's sitting right there.

So she's heard her whole conversation. She's sitting right next there. I'll give her the phone. Okay. Thanks so much for calling for talking, Eddie. No problem. Hi, Ariel. Hello.

Hi. Welcome to Strictly Not Us Podcast. Now you heard our whole story. I love your guy's story. I love how you guys roll. Are you both leaders? Is your guide the one who pulls in the reins and says, hey, let's lose weight.

Let's join the lifestyle. And you're just like right there with them. Who's the driving force? Are you just both that way? We are definitely both that way. Yeah, that's awesome. He had his health scares. And I told him it's time that we lose the weight.

be healthy. We have kids, so we want to be there for our kids as long as possible. And I told him, if we do this, the whole family does it. So it changed our whole lifestyle, not just the two of us, but even our kids. Yeah, I could imagine. Changed the diet, full exercise. I was the one kind of controlling the meals. And every time we needed to do up, let's say our protein. intake, I was taking if our weight kind of just plateaued and we weren't losing anyway or gaining

muscle. You had to tweak your diet a little bit and I was the one on top of all that. So you're both like the take charge people and that's why you make a great team, right? And you're setting up all these parties and orgies and stuff because you're both kind of leaders. Your guy though did say that in the beginning, like that you had, you were more. open than him, like you had been with people, women before. Was that like a college thing I made out with a girl? When did you hook up with women before you were married?

Yes. So it was like that college phase. I never really had a girlfriend or anything like that, but I, of course, experimented, but I prefer men. So I fell of madly in love with my husband and we got married. and it was he I was always open about it yes I've been with women it's not where I want a relationship but it was fun when I did it so when you got back in the life's always known what so he always knew that you had done it's all yes yeah yeah so when you got back in the lifestyle were you excited to uh hook up with women before or you're like you said like it's not really your thing but you'll do it in the moment excited that I could explore every avenue sexually. Right.

It wasn't like I want to be in the lifestyle because I want to be with a winner. It's I want to be in the lifestyle because I want to be as open sexually as I can and have fun. Yeah, yeah, totally. So now when your husband came to you and said, hey, let's go to the, well, first it was like, let's post picks, right? And then, but then you wind up going to that meet and greet. Like, how was that experience for you? And were you totally into that couple when you first met them? Actually, that whole thing was kind of funny because he came up to me and I introduced the whole voyeurism.

And I told him, okay, send me the research that you have and listening to podcasts and reading. I was the one that came to him and said, well, what if we just swing? I like the idea of that when he brought up the meet and greet, it was kind of scary because I didn't know what to expect. The crowd at the beginning wasn't really what I think we were looking for, but as the night got later, we met the couple. And I was nervous. She was hot. He was hot. And we had great chemistry and conversation.

We like to group chat. We like both parties and a couple to be involved so that there's no misunderstanding. There's also that connection between the four of us, so we're comfortable with each other when we get into those settings. And the chemistry between the four of us was amazing. So when we got to that first meet, it was nerve-wracking after a drink or two. It was game-od. I know. and he said that you were the one that hit it off, right?

So you were obviously attracted to the woman. And just tell me how that experience was for you or explain it in detail if you want. I'm still attracted to her. Actually, she's probably my favorite female partner to still play with. We just have very, very good chemistry. I am very much about energy.

Like that energy does have to flow from me to you. and what I gave, she gave back. So it just was very hot and intense. So if I go up to her and I give her a kiss, she kissed back, next thing we're making out for like good two, three minutes. And I think everybody has their sybleness in biplay. For me, I have always been completely open to everything. So I started kind of making out with her at the bar.

And next thing, I know I'm taking her dress off. She's taking my shirt off, her clothes come off, and then I pick her up and put her on the kitchen counter and just wear her legs and go at her. And that way, your husband was like, what the fuck's going on? was totally into it. He didn't realize that's what he was going to say. Well, honestly, I didn't realize that's what I was going to do either. But in that moment, like I said, the energy between her and I is very intense. So it felt comfortable at that moment to do. And we kept on playing, and then we, the girls, of course, I feel like in the LS women kind of lead the play. They The men may set it up, but see what happens during play is led by women.

We kind of came up for air with like, let's go to the bedroom. I like to say at some point, I love by play, but at some point, you just need a dick in you. So it was at that moment. Like, we looked up and like, let's take it to the bedroom. And we went in full slot while we got to the bedroom. I placed it a little bit, and then from then on it was full swap for the four of us. No hesitation. We didn't have a lot of rules at that moment other than we played together in the same room.

So how was it, though, for you? Because, like, you guys didn't really, I think it sounds like, and I think your husband said it. Like, you didn't really think, like, anything was even going to go down that the first time. But it went all the way. Full swap. Everyone was with everybody. Totally great, right? How was it for you seeing your guy with another guy, I mean with another woman because he was swapping.

This is obviously the first time you've seen your husband, fuck another girl. For me, when we first started, when he first brought it up to the first time we swapped with this couple, it literally was about six weeks. And we've never done anything before. So it was a little nerve-wracking thinking what would happen. Yeah. But it was the hottest thing I think I've ever experienced. For me, it wasn't about what he was doing with her as far as, oh, he's having sex with somebody else. For me, it turned out to the end.

It still is more of her, yeah, I know what he's doing to her, and I know it's driving her wild, and that is a turn-on. And watching him give her, satisfying her, it's such a turn-on. And it's still to this day where there's a woman or a man that he's with, I still, like, that's, is my turn on, is knowing he's satisfying this other person and that person gets to experience what I get to experience. Yeah, that's called compersion. And you hear it a lot when guys are talking about their hot wives and that's what it's all about for them.

And it's a lot of times for women, same thing when they're doing this. I've heard it from them too. Now, how about for you? This was the first time you were like screwing another guy. I know you were ready for a dick in you at that point you said, you know, what was that experience like? You've been monogamous to this guy all this time. 17 years. Now all of a sudden you're with another guy.

Was it just like super hot too? Yes. It was for me a little nerve wracking. Like it's our first time. But I think that we were just both in the moment. While being with him, I could hear my husband and the other wives. And that was just such a turn on. I would turn on. he was turned on and it was a very, it was a great experience.

There was no regret, no, once we got into it, it was like, no real, nobody was nervous, everybody was comfortable. We've been chatting, so we've gotten to know each other a little bit. I think that helped a lot. For us, I think we're not very much DTF. and that connection of at least, I know a little bit about you, helps with the easiness of play. The other thing is since we've been chatting,

we kind of already told each other what we like, we don't like, do them don't, I don't like my toes licks or my ears lick. So that experience, I think, was in part very good because we had already kind of had that talk. because I always tell the couples that we need is I need to know what you like, what you don't like, because our time is limited. We're here to have fun. I don't want to be guessing what you like, what you don't like.

If I already know, right? If I already know, we're going to have an amazing time. Yeah, totally. It's smart. And that's what you guys did because you did take the lead and start creating these groups and stuff, right? And you brought in a lot of couples. And is that just how you did things moving forward with the other couples just so you could recreate that same great chemistry you had with the first one? Yes.

Well, so it, I know he mentioned that we landed in a orgy like maybe 30 days later. And we tried, we landed on a second one, maybe another 30 days from that. And they weren't the best experiences. but what I learned from those is that, like I said, we're not DTF. So on our, actually from the last one, on our way back, I was like, if we introduced this couple that we've played with with this couple, I think there would be great chemistry because they play similar, and I think it would be great to just bring them to the house.

And, you know, well, we met first, introduced them, and then we spent a future day for all of us to meet up the house. house and kind of have our own place. Ordeal together, which we did that. And then what that allowed was the other two couples played together in between. And then when we met back at our house, all six of us knew each other, have played with each other. And it was one of those, like, time work.

Like you look up and it's five hours later and nobody has taken a break and you're like, what the heck is going on? It just happened that both of the couples, their husbands were open to explore their bisexual guys. So it ended up being just kind of like a free fall. And it was amazing. So once that set the tone of how we kind of like to group play, it just became that. So we started, okay, we've got three couples. next one that we can add.

And we met couples that were like, no, they're not, they're not the right fit. And then we would meet that one couple that we were like, that's our fourth couple. That's our fifth couple. And we also, it wasn't that we would invite them to the party. You know, it was more of, here's this other couples. You guys do whatever you want with each other. We're all playing. and then every so many months we would do one huge group play.

And with all people you knew. And it would be amazing. Yeah. Everybody knew each other. Opposed that, setting it up and meeting for the first time in group play. So it kind of became like a put-like kind of group play. Everybody would bring a dish. We would talk, hang out, and then all night long we watched literally the sun go down

and the sun come up during group. goodness how many guys in a night was like the most that you had sex with right so we did have one of those group plays where um we were taking a break and i kind of stepped in and said i have this fantasy of being tag team a bunch of guys oh okay you ladies be okay if i borrow your husbands for a little bit and let them have at me and the wives they were like yeah sure one of them picked up my husband phones to kind of take some pictures and videos for us to remember and they just watched.

Kind of like a gangbang, don't you think? Yeah, while the wife watched. Yeah, yeah. Which was after me, made it hotter. And it kind of became also something like we did during our group play, like little fantasies like that.

Okay, I like to call them desires because you are able to accomplish them. Fantasy is something that it'll never be able to happen. Like, my husband is in love with Chakita and that is his fantasy to be with her. Not going to happen. Yeah, in this group, plays, their desires

and the wives are like, hey, what if when we take a break, is it okay if we fulfill this desire of mine? And we were like, okay, and the rest of the lives just sit back and watch or husbands or whatever were happening. And those group scenarios, there weren't a lot of guys wanting to watch the women because we always started.

Usually the first, who got the thing started with the women with the women. So the guys got this amazing show of five, six, seven women with each other. We would get on the bed and we would just, I would, yeah, I don't know how to. it explained it's an orgy, but just women. Yeah. And the guys would just kind of sit back and watch until one of us was like, I need a dick of me, and then the guys would come over. How many women was the most in that, a five?

We had a group of seven women. Wow. We did have a unicorn that were still friends. but she's in a relationship now and she's taking her from the LS so we had a uniform and a bowl that we would also incorporate when they were available so sometimes we had an extra female sometimes we had an extra male and it was just I like things that you kind of I don't know see a movie you're born it was just very surreal for us but it definitely became part of obviously. life. As far of lifestyle, we really merged it with our personal life. For example, we, those same couples, we do vanilla things. We'll have beach days with our family. We'll go to a bar and just have dinner and drinks, all of us as a group. So it literally became our lifestyle. Right. That's interesting. Let me ask you this because of your husband,

started to play with guys and stuff. It sounds like you're obviously into it. Do you remember when he told you and how you felt about that? Or did it just come up during an orgy? So it was something from the get-go. I always told him, I, from the beginning, I explore my bisexual side. And I always told him, there is no limit on what you can explore.

So whatever you're comfortable with, I'm comfortable with. So if you ever feel the need to explore with the guy, go for it. The only thing is I will tell you after if I didn't like it or if it just wasn't something that I felt comfortable with. So you never put any rules for me for Badle and I never had any rules for him for Basley. you do what's comfortable for you. I feel like we're in this to explore our sexual side of us. Why am I putting restrictions on what you can do with another man if that's what you want?

And so, you know, he would make comments here and then I'd be like, whatever you want, whatever you want, until actually that first group play that we kind of put together. I think it kind of lit my, I don't, no desire is more of my kink to watch him. The girls, the girls and I, we were kind of dancing, touching and feeling each other, making out. And one of the husbands is going out on my husband. and no, sorry, my husband's going down on one of the other husbands and it's hot, but then he all of a sudden gets up, walks over to the other husband, and the other husband starts to go down on him. And I just froze.

It was like, it was so intense and hot that I was like, oh my God. And it turned me on so much. And I told him like, I am really okay with this. It's such a turn on. So I'm very big on the compression, so I will sit out and watch him play with another male. He will watch me play with other guys. I will sit and just watch the two of them play. And it's such a turn-on.

Is that surprising? Yes. I always knew I would be comfortable because it's not something that bothers me, but I didn't know that I would enjoy watching it as much as I do. Yeah, but it really is the whole compurgent thing. That's like what you're really, really into. Have you done like DP and DVP and all that kind of stuff in the middle of all these kinds of crazy orgies that you've had?

Yes, pretty much everything has been checked off the list even airlock. Really? Airtight, yeah. And another crazy night. We had a couple over, and one of our other couple friends ended up their date, play date early. And we get a phone call, and they're like, hey, I play date early to you mind. I know you with this couple that you might would come over. We're in the middle of play, butt naked.

I think I'm with the husband and the wife. We're having kind of like a three-time-minuteist, just kind of watching. And the husband's kind of watching. And then he picks up the father, hey, can we come over? We talked to the other couple. They said, yeah, sure, that's fine because we all know each other. And the next thing, he's like, oh, well, can you open the front door? And then my husband's like, I view here?

And they're like, yeah, next thing we know, all three couples are in the bedroom, butt-naked. And my husband's, hey, I've always. always wanted to see my wife with the two of you, see your mind if we borrow your husbands and let them watch them have a threesome. And the wife's like, yeah, that's fine. And next thing I know, it's D.P. I have one of them, Anilenele, one of a vagina. Next thing I feel is the bed moving. My husband jumps in the bed, gets in front of me. And- Oh, airtight. It's a crack in my mouth.

Nice thing I know. I've got one in every hole. Yeah. And one of the wives, again, picks up a phone and, like, you have to take a picture of this because it's something to remember. And it was amazing all the way around. And it's always been, we've always been very open about it. Uh-huh. It's not.

We're very shy. No, I mean, listen, that's why you've checked off everything. on your box because you guys are just open. It sounds like you never really ever had any kind of boundaries and were very okay and clear about everything right from the get-go. I know he said you had some hiccups and stuff, but how is it being in the lifestyle for you as a woman because so many women are so repressed when it comes to sex and stuff and you've just been like really open and doing all these crazy things and like how has it changed

you as a woman. As a woman, I would say I've always been a confident person. Like I always say, I am not a Barbie. I am a mom. And I am women. And I have my, what I call my life scars in my body. But there's always this, even in porn, there's always this ideal image. and what I found in the lifestyle is that that ideal image isn't set in stone.

Ideal image is what that other person finds as attractive and a turn-on. So I found myself a lot of the time with women who have that perfect body and we're butt naked, and I am being desired as much as she is. So for me, I think it's that I was one of those that I never wore a bikini. I didn't want to say I dressed conservative, but I did hide my body a little bit. Even though I was very confident, the lifestyle for me has taught me that it doesn't matter what you look like.

there's always somebody out there. My husband strikes me very attractive, but it's your husband. It almost feels, well, he has to because he's your husband. So it's different when it's another man. And I think it got my, it's solidified my confidence in my body, not just myself, but my body.

So, like, for me, I think as a one, that was very important. And then I also feel like because we're so open sexually and everything is on the table, communication, it's so open. And it's not just about LS, communication about everything in our life. And I also feel because a lot of the conversations about the L. rest. It's all sexual. It also, and I think it's one of the hiccups that we hit, that we have to learn that communication isn't just talking. Communication is understanding what the other person is saying. So then you really do have to listen to each other other than just few words out.

100%. That's what it's all about for sure. And I just have to say as a woman, I think that that is great that you got that sort of truth about your body and you feel sexier because of it and realize like guys like you. Because I think porn and the media, not so much now anymore because the media is so different and it's amazing that they just have all different body types out there. But I always knew because I had so many guy friends. Guys like a lot of different things. But I think so many women think like you got to be skinny and perfect for a guy to think you're hot. And that's not really true.

I think sexiness comes in all different shapes and sizes and it's just how you feel about yourself and it's a vibe and it's energy and it's so much more and I think it's so great that now you know that because I think that that was true before you got in the lifestyle you just didn't know because you're thinking oh my husband thinks of hot but he's supposed to but now no like a lot of guys think you're hot you are hot and I think that's great and I think I wish more women knew that because I think women do get so crazy about their bodies and stuff because of like society and everything but so I think that's great yeah yeah we've had a lot of single play so I've played We played with single men.

And at first for me, it was like, well, you're not going to want to be with me. Look at him. Look at me kind of thing. And next thing, I knew they were like, can we meet today? Can we meet tomorrow? What can we meet? Oh, wait. He is interested.

Okay. And it's not like I conceded. It's just it makes you feel good like, oh, crap, yeah. You know what? I thought that guy wouldn't be interested. He is. And I think a lot of it, though, is you have to be confident in yourself. Totally.

And it takes a little bit to understand that. And that confidence, I think for guys, it doesn't really matter what you look like. They like that confidence. 100%. I used to have a girlfriend who was like a slightly overweight. She wasn't even obese or anything. And she just was so like always covering up her body. She never felt hot.

And I used to try to show her picks of, you know, musicians and celebrities that had her same body but fucking showed it off. I'm like, listen, look at that girl has your same body, but she doesn't look like you because she feels fucking hot and she's presenting herself as hot. It's all that's what it's about. It's not about how you look. It's how you feel about yourself. I always say what is sexy. Sex is like people who love sex and who love themselves. It's like a vibe. It's an energy. And that kind of thing, you can't change. It doesn't matter. Like a girl that has like the perfect body of she feels. like terrible about herself is not going to present that way because it is how you feel the guys

could smell that and also guys are horny and they like to fuck a lot of different things and it's just the way that they roll yeah that's not another thing i've learned yeah they don't care they really don't care what you look like no all these little things you're having yeah a good connection and you're opening down and you're opening down like you're here here you're here you're you are, sorry to call you off, but like here you are this chick who's so open and willing to try everything and really effing into it. That's like every guy's fantasy. He's not going to give a shit if you don't have the perfect body. You know what I mean? I used to always be paranoid like, oh, and ask like my booty call guys. Do you think guys would see this like little roll when I bend over

here and like, you're happy. Guys don't look at that shit. Women don't understand that guys are not what we think they are. They're not looking at our bodies like we are. That's just like a society thing. But I love you guys and I would love for you to send me some picks for my Patreon. And I will give you guys free access to my Discord. There's a guest channel in there. You could upload stuff yourself. You could also do X-rated stuff. I don't do X-rated stuff on my Patreon, but if you want to send me some hot picks of your guys' self for my Patreon, to go with that episode.

I think it would be great, especially because you had such a transformation. And I will also send you free access to my Discord. Make sure you guys sign up to Be Ariel and Eddie. and let me know when you do it, and I'll give you the guest role so that when your episode airs, you could post pics. Is that cool?

Yeah, that's really cool. Yeah, anonymous pics. What you sent to me, don't send me any X-rated things. Like, no Dexon Picks, no Faces, no anonymous Picks. Your guy listens to my show, he knows what I look for.

So send away, and thank you so much for calling in Ariel and your husband, too. This is a great episode. It'll be up really soon. So send me those pictures sooner than later. Thanks, you guys. Bye.

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