Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 871 - BONUS EPISODE: Boris and his Wife Have an Open Marriage

Episode Date: July 13, 2024

Boris and his wife have an open marriage and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he met his new wife and how things started with them, how and why they decided to open their marriage and went looking for a unicorn, their first MFF threesome, and what went down, the rules they had going in, the clothing optional campsite they went to and why they never hooked up with anyone there, the swingers clubs they went then went to and what went down, the couples they met and hooked up with up and what went down with them, how and why his wife is now into cuckqueaning, there strip club experience he told her about that led to her cuckquean fantasies, theft massage she bought him as a gift and exactly what went down and how their reclaiming sex was afterward plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I love the comments, the commenting that goes down about my episodes. We do a lot of that over on my Patreon. They're going to do it now on Spotify. So if you're listening on Spotify, make sure to comment. Now, today I have on Boris. Oh, my God. This is going to be a bonus episode, okay? Because I give him a real hard time.

I don't know why. I couldn't have just called like bummer Boris. Okay. Like I started to see like a pattern in all Boris's stories. At some point, I thought he was like lying. I don't know. I gave him a little bit of a hard time. Poor Boris when he spoke.

So I'm airing this as a bonus episode. But it's still an interesting story, Boris. his girl opened things up. They've fooled around what unicorns. His wife's a definite cuck queen. He talks about why. He talks about their experiences with other women. Their experiences at a nudie resort, their experiences at swingers clubs, and as well as with other couples. He talks about all of that. It's an interesting story. But like I said, I do give them a hard time and you might agree with me about giving them a hard time. I don't know. So that's why it's a bonus episode. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Boris.

Hi Boris. Welcome to this strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing good, Kathy. Long-time listeners sporadically enjoy your program. Oh, I love that. I love my long-term listeners. I've been podcasting forever. I'm like, am I 12 years, 13 years, 11 years? I don't even know. And I was doing it way before anyone was right now. Everybody has a fucking podcast. But thank God I did do it early on or else I would never be able to get an audience. It's so hard now. But I do have a big audience. Glad that you're one of my listeners. You have some stories. right? You are married to what you call a cuck queen. You guys are in the lifestyle and you have played around. You've gone to like lifestyle events, I'm assuming, lifestyle vacations. You've done all of that kind of good stuff. So why don't you give me your story, Boris? How long have you been married? The five years coming up very shortly, we've been celebrating five years.

We've been together for seven years. I just celebrated my 50th wedding anniversary, so it's the second time around for both of us. And we're just old enough that we just want to be ourselves. And it's worked out really well. Yeah, a lot of times those second or third marriages are where you get it right. You know what I'm saying? And I think that people marry for very different reasons when they're younger. And then when you're older, after you have kids, it's different.

And they go, and people go into it, I think, more open. Because you're like, this time I'm just going to be my fucking self, right? You had, like, you went, like, this girl and you went into it just being who you were. Did you, were you guys like kinky from the get-go and very open? Yeah. Yeah. No, it was pretty straightforward. She and I met on a dating app.

Of course, everybody does now. Uh-huh. But was it a vanilla dating app or was it like a adult friend? It happened to be a vanilla one. It just happened to be. Yeah. but we were on all the usual ones, the TikTok and the Bumble and all of those. Sorry, but TikTok is not a dating app.

Sorry, not TikTok. I meant Tinder. I meant Tinder. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, sorry, Tinder. So, but we were pretty straightforward in our, in our profiles, just basically saying, hey, got out of a big relationship. I'm not looking for anything serious.

I don't expect exclusivity. All I expect is respect. Interesting. So you're just saying basically I want an open relationship. Yeah, we just wanted to be friends with benefits with no labels, but like an ongoing friendly friends with benefit where we'll see where it goes. And she had she put it out there that don't expect this, don't expect that. Don't be calling me and thinking you've got me at the drop of a hat. If I don't text you back, I don't text you back.

Don't don't think don't think you own me in any way. and vice versa. But then we would say, hey, what are you doing Friday? Well, I got a date. Oh, okay. Well, good luck. Hope you get late. It was, there was no jealousy right from the beginning.

But no expectations either. But eventually, if you start liking each other, you kind of like want the person to text you back. I feel like those are people go into something like that being very guarded. They don't want to fall for somebody. Those are very guarded moves. Like, I don't give a, I'm not going to text you back whenever you don't own me. Like when you really like someone, all of that flies out the window, right? Like eventually you guys.

falling for each other. Absolutely. We wanted, we wanted to want each other, not need each other. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I got it. I got it. So at some point, I just lost interest in my other dalliances, my other connections. I just lost interest. And then at some point, we became anonymous. And I think because in our heads, society tells you that once you have this primary thing that you're supposed to cut off. And we did. But the reason why life, this was like a double-edged sword because at the beginning, we're like, what do you want to do?

Oh, I want to tell on threesomes and maybe an orgy. I don't do this. I want to do that. And but then you start developing feelings and there's a little bit of jealousy and guardedness. But, and this is where we both kind of screwed up because I then felt like it was a promise we were going to have a threesome. So then I started pushing for it.

And I was absolutely the wrong. way to go about it. I went the wrong way about it and I was very pushy. And she kind of felt, well, you're demanding something of me. And so we had a little rocky start to begin with. Definitely. We had a rocky start. It fits and stops. But, but we did eventually find a unicorn. Okay. So that's what you went looking for. So your first threesome you went looking for was with a female. Okay. And what happened with that unicorn? So it started off okay. But she was, she was married at like a little non-monogamy thing, but she wanted to be coming over every single Thursday and have sex, like every week. And it was just a lot. I think she wanted to have a triad more than just be a

casual friends with benefit. But how was the sex? Like, how was the sex? Before you, before you bring everybody down and didn't work out, what was that first experience? Because I don't know if it sounds like you were married before. Most likely you probably didn't have a threesome before. This is your girl, like with another girl in front of you. Like, what went down and how was it? Oh, it was awesome. Yeah, so we met at a local restaurant. We had a little chit chat, a little friend talk, a little dirty talk, went back to the townhouse. And my wife's the one that kicked it off because everybody was just sort of that awkward, who's going to make the move? And my wife just went for it.

And then we all ended up upstairs. And it was the first time, and then people are going to call bullshit. But the first time was like two hours. And it was fantastic. And all the possible variations you can imagine. And let's try this, let's try that. Ooh, how about that? And it was great because the unicorn was a three-unput girl, as you like to say.

And my girl's not. She just doesn't do that. And so I got to have a little something that was not normal for me, not every day. And it was awesome. We had about three encounters with her. But she got, all of them were great, but she got super, super clingy. and it was almost like work to be involved. Yeah.

And I was like, oh, man. So we cut, we cut our lives. We said, okay, we can't do this. Right. But let me ask you a quick question, though, before you, like, jumped into being open and stuff, like, were you guys pretty open with what was going to go down? Were there any rules on the table?

Because sometimes people are like, no anal, no kissing. I don't want you to fuck this person, but you could just go down. Did you have any rules going into that first experience with the girl? No, no. Like we've heard people having rules and rules if you break a rule it's bad, it's not a, you must be punished, that sort of thing, which some people that might be their cool kink, but it's like a, if you put up guidelines. It's not a kink when people have rules and nobody punishes anyone.

The rules are just to be respectful about maybe something that could bother your other partner. I don't hear people making rules to be for as a kink. You know what I mean by rules. Did you guys discuss we're going to do this? And was there anything off the table? Obviously not. There was, it was, it was, it was guidelines and preferences that were set out. Okay.

So what were those? So got one of the guidelines was like to not have close, intimate missionary sex with, with the, with the unicorn, it was too intimate, too personal. So that, that would be to be reserved for my wife. Like missionary sex, like in an operate position, that's fine. And also no after cuddles. No postcoital glow. No, no snuggles because that's too intimate. it. Sex is fine. Sex is a perfunctory experience, which is fine. But the cuddling, the romantic part of it,

the hand holding, like that was like, uh-uh, no, uh-uh. Which was fine. Which was fine. That was pretty much it. Like all the sex acts were on the table outside of pain and humiliation. Those are the things that were like none of us enjoy that. So that was fine. But she was okay with you banging the girl in the ass in front of her. Oh yeah. She actually really enjoyed that. She thought that was really hot. Of course, we were safe. We used condoms and all that. But I remember at one point, I'm banging her in the ass, doggy style, and her face is planted in my wife. And we're looking at each other. And she's got this big smile. And she's, wow. And afterwards, she told me that was the hottest moment of the threesome. So, now, had your wife ever been with girls before? Was this her first

experience? No, she had, she had one, sorry, she had two threesome with a specific couple. and they went well. And then the other couple was like, and that's it. And we're good. We tried it and we're good. And it was good. Like no hard feelings.

Like nothing bad happened. They were just like, okay, yeah, that's good. We're done. So she had hooked up with women before. And as a unicorn. So she was a unicorn at some point in between you and her ex-husband.

Does that when that happened? No, no. It was between her and a couple. No, I know. But when did this happen with her being with a woman? Like you guys hired this unicorn.

she do that pre-you and after her ex-husband? Yes. Yes. So between me and her ex-husband, she had a threesome. Two threesome, you said. Right. Because it's the same couple, but yeah. Okay.

So she was, she found a couple. She was a unicorn for a couple. So that was her first time hooking up with a woman in her whole life? Yes. Okay. She digs women. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Definitely. Yeah. So she couldn't have a relationship with one. She says that she needs the dick. So she can't just be with a woman. So, but definitely happy to engage in all manner of behavior with a woman. Okay, cool.

So you have that first unicorn. She got clinging. And then what came next? Well, there was a little bit of a break. But a very, very good friend of mine had told me about a clothing optional resort not far, a few hours away. And we would go in the summer. And it was, I find out now, probably 80% of the people there were.

were what? Were what? So we just You broke up. You broke up. Or what? There was a lot of people that were lifestyle. They were there were swingers.

It was like a swinger resort, but it wasn't. Okay. It was a nudist camp site and 21 and up. And it was basically all a whole bunch of swingers. And the first few years, we didn't realize they were, they were lifestyle. But we went and we enjoyed the nudity and the camaraderie and the fun and the flirting and everything was great. But that came to an end with COVID. COVID pulled a plus.

But did you ever hook up with anybody while you're there? Everyone's walking around naked. They're all in the lifestyle. Did anything go down? Well, we got a proposition a couple times and we did a little kiss and tickle and sort of that thing, but nothing, nothing serious. Nothing. How come? Nothing outrageous. I think because we were cautioned by some of the attendants that said, hey, it's like a really great environment, but it's also a lot like high school. So if you start playing with friends and feelings get involved, jealousies, and. anger, you're then ruining this one oasis of sexual freedom, this one place where you can have freedom and express yourself with nudity. And then if you make the wrong step and suddenly you're on the out with the cool kids, then it's a really awkward problem for you. That's the weirdest thing I've ever heard. So you go to this lifestyle place. It's a nudie thing. Everyone's walk around naked. Everyone fucks other people. They're all in the lifestyle. Somebody that work there says, make sure you don't fuck anyone here.

Oh, no, no, no, it wasn't a worker. It was another person that enjoyed that space. And they didn't say don't do it. They just said be selective of who you do it with. Okay. But no, you found, so you found everybody to be like high school, petty people that you didn't feel like you could trust. I just said, typically you hear like lifestyle people being just like open and cool. It's weird that that place had a sort of a vibe of, I wouldn't play around because there's clicks and stuff.

Not a good place. Not a good place. You can go, but just there was long time. There was sort of like this hierarchy. It was very much like high school. And these were the cool people. These were the long time. These have been members forever and ever and ever. So it was sort of like a social pecking order. So just walk carefully. So we didn't go very often because it was hard for us to get right. Remember in high school, like the people that talked about the other people, those were the people you should stay away from. You should have fucked all the people there. That person that was telling you, that was telling you, that That was the person that had the problem, okay?

That's what you didn't fucking get. Okay. It's not the people that they're talking about. It's the people that are talking about the people. Those are the people you don't want to hook up with. That person that told you that is weird. That's weird. You probably could have had some fun times.

Anyway, you go there. You don't ever hook up with anybody, though. You're just like walking around naked. Okay. But then we did end up because we're here in Ontario. And we're about an hour outside of the Toronto, the GTA, the Greater Toronto area. And so there are several lifestyle clubs there, swinger clubs,

nudity clubs, whatever you want to call them. And so we tried a couple. Right before COVID, we went to one. And we had no idea what we were doing, Kathy. We had no clue.

Very nervous. Very, very nervous. And there was a little dance floor. And then at like midnight, the dance floor emptied. We're like, where'd everybody go?

Well, they were all in the back fucking. And we're like, are we going to do this? Yeah, let's try and do this. And I'll be honest. with your very first time with people around and everything. I'm like, well, now what?

Well, now what? And my wife's trying to get me hard and she's trying to suck me off. And it's not going well. It's up. It's down. It's up. It's just not working. And my wife's very nervous and we're just like, do you want to go home?

Yeah. Let's just go home. So that was a total disaster. It didn't work at well for us in that moment. And then COVID hit and the world shut down. And so we just, we started going online, looking for people on. on, I don't know, not adult friend finder, but something other. We ran on Fat Life, and we went on a whole bunch of things.

SDC, that's my new place, SDC. That's the place I recommend on. SDC, yes, we did go on SDC. Well, listen, I have a code. I got to give up my code. SDC is the people that I recommend now to everybody. And because you could not, there, you could not only hook up with people, but you could also find out about all the events in your neighborhood.

You could advertise events that you have and all that kind of good stuff. So anyway, my code is 37712. and you get a free trial so you could check it out. So anyway, okay, so you go on these apps, like adult apps now looking for. And now what are you looking for this time around? Well, so we started finding, looking for unicorns so impossible. They are unicorns for a reason. So we got around to the conversation of getting with a couple.

And I had never seen my wife with a man. I saw her kiss a man once and it was fine, but I had never seen her with a man. So I was really curious how I was going to react. I didn't want to be upset, but if I was upset, I wanted to communicate in the moment. Like, it's, you go, you, you, you'll, you, you, you'll, you, you'll waffle back and forth, back and forth. At least I did. At least I did. But we ended up finding a couple that we had some energy with, but we just, it was the endless texting.

And then it just sort of evaporated. And we found that, that happened quite a bit. But we, the first couple we did hook up with, he was quite tall because I'm not tall. And, and so she, that's great. I can't be a tall person. I can't be many, many other things for my wife. So great, we'll find you a tall guy. And his wife was fun.

And we connected twice. I think we connected twice. And that fell apart partially because he was a bit of a starfish. He was a starfish. Oh, he just sat there? I don't understand. What's a starfish? Yeah, somebody who just, you just lay there.

A guy? Is this a guy starfish? Oh my God. That exists. Yes, it does. It was a bit of a starfish. I don't know what's worse. like a guy who fucks like a bunny rabbit or a starfish?

I would say the guy that fucks like a jack, jackhammer. That's the guy I'm talking about. That's the other end of the spectrum. Yeah, the word gross. Okay, because they go on.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. But that fell apart because he was needy. Every single day he would message. Every single day we were messaging on that. You don't see a pattern in your stories. Do you see a pattern of neediness? Like what are you guys putting out that you're getting all these needyness? these needy people.

I don't understand. Wasn't he married? I thought this was a couple. What did he need from you? He has a wife. What was it? How did he become? I don't know.

It was it was every single day he would message, hey, sexy people. Hey, what's up? Having a good day. Morning. And it was like, do you not have friends?

This is, and we were pretty clear. We want friends that we can occasionally get together with. But it seemed like he wanted to date us. Like we were like now four people dating us. Oh, man, this is too much. so but I did learn from from that experience that I was okay with my wife being with a guy well did

you ever hook up with him I didn't even hear that part of the things we did we did we did the four of us hooked up you got to give those details all you're giving is the bummer details I did it's not really you're just giving all the bummer details everything sounds like a big fat bummer where's the hotness of your story is there any well it's is it coming it's on its way oh okay it's all right go through the bummers then just go keep going So the sex was okay. There was good moments for sure. But all in all, it was brief and it was not satisfying for my wife.

And so then we cut them loose. And then we eventually did find another couple and very, very attractive couple younger than us. He was tall, he was a tall black man, very attractive, intelligent. And she was this petite, blonde German girl with a very nice butt. and but they understood because there was children involved so they're like don't we're going to hook up once in a blue moon if you don't hear from me for three months it's because we got life don't don't don't take a personal and that went great with us we went to a couple sex clubs with them we went to one sex club got a little room in the back had a had a we paired off in the room so I'm fucking her next to him fucking my wife and that was very hot it was cramped so would have been better in a hotel. We tried once to get a hotel, but then his wife got sick, and so we had to call it early. But then we did end up connecting a couple times, and it was very, very hot. But they broke up and now that's over.

But what was hot? What happened? Oh, God. Well, we went to, well, because I know you've had on the Toronto Unicorn on your podcast from Oasis. Yeah. And so we went to Oasis with them. and we went up to their third floor. There's a room called the bus room.

They have a mock up of a school bus and a mockup of the back of the school bus. And he's got my wife bent over the school bus fucking her. And there's a little padded divine little reclining chair and I'm bucking his wife there. And then at one point, both girls are on their knees sucking our dicks. And yeah, it was very hot. And there was an awkward moment because I always like porn with the squirting. I always thought that was great. Uh-huh.

And my wife was like, no, not good for me. Don't like it. Don't, no, uh-uh, don't even try. Well, didn't he make my wife squirt? He did. He never did before? He did. Well, because my wife told me don't try.

Okay. We never talked about it. It was never on the table. So he didn't know my wife didn't want that. Well, he ended up to be crass, finger blasting her, pressing just right on the, on the bladder. And she ended up, and I, tell you, I was, I was, I was jealous. I was a little hurt, a little confused in the moment. So what the? But I thought, but I was very confusing afterwards. She's, oh, my gosh, I'm going to tell

I never do that again. She felt very uncomfortable, very awkward. She didn't. So she tells me. And, and, and I do believe her, but she didn't like it. And, but then we went down the pool. We messed around in the pool. It was very hot. All the naked people around in the pool, making out. I had his wife up on the. of the pool and I was eating her out on the pool's edge. Like it was it was it was hot. I think it was hot. And we were going to connect again. We were really hoping to have some fun here at our house this summer. But they broke up a couple of months ago and I feel bad. I thought they really loved each other. And there was other things in their lives and their story is their story. So

I'm not going to share anything about that. But they've broken up. And then so we were out of play partners. We didn't have any play partners. And we were planning on going back to Oasis and start some stuff. But in the meantime, my wife has been discovering this cut queen porn, not the humiliation stuff, but this sort of, I think they call it stag porn with a, with a, it's like the inverse of a hot wife, like a hot husband situation. This Memorial Day, shop one of Avocados' biggest mattress sales of the year and fall in love with sleep again. At Avocado, Bellowsaint-Ey. Better sleep starts with better materials. Our certified organic mattresses are crafted without compromise, using high-quality organic

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Oh, and those are legal there? They're quasi legal. They are quasi legal. Okay. Kind of like escorting is quasi legal there, right? Right. Something of that nature. I get it.

Yeah. And from what I understand, there's tiers of legitimacy. So if the establishment treats their women well, it's all in the up and up, it's all voluntary, they're paid reasonable, safe, they're not run by organized crime, the authorities generally just turn a blind eye. And it's you can, you can offer a variety of services. And if sex happens to happen during that time, because there's no guarantee, there's no guarantee you're getting a happy ending. So I understand that that's, that's a byproduct. What you're buying is time with her and you're buying a massage. If you happen to release during that massage, oh well, that, that's, that's fine. So, so that's that gray zone. So they have a website and you can pick the women ahead of time, check their schedule. And my wife said, I want to do this for you. We're into the hotel room

nearby. And all the whole time leading up to it, my wife kept saying, I feel good. I'm not nervous. I'm just excited, nervous. I'm not, I'm not afraid. because there's this wall where it's a professional. It's not somebody that would normally I would have contact with. It's not like a coworker or a friend. Once you're in, it's sex and only sex, or in this case, massage and only massage. There's no personality there behind it. So she got more and more and more turned on.

The next thing is she's only watching Cuckbourne. That's all she wants to watch. and yeah, which is very hard to find. Nobody has polite, respectful cuck queen porn. It's always derogatory. This girl's pussy is better than you. You're old. You blah, blah, blah.

It's all derogatory and nasty. So trying to fight cuck queen porn. So if any of your listeners out there know where to find polite cuck queen porn, that would be fantastic. They need to create more because half the people out there don't even know that cuck queuing exists. Most women, whenever I post an episode about it. it, they're like, oh, I'm a cuck queen. I didn't know that I was. And they're always like, there's no content out there to find really. You can find a lot of cuck with the guys, but not with the girls. It's few and far between and they're always set up in a certain way. But I don't understand how the,

does the cuck queen tie together with the massage? Did she watch? Or what was the deal? Well, she wanted to, but it was more like she stayed back at the hotel and edged herself. Oh, okay. No one. Just. knowing that I was out there doing that. Right. And then you came home to her. What happened during that massage? Walk me through it.

Okay. So just step by step. So you show up. There's receptionist. You say hi. There was a door fee that you have to pay to the establishment, which is fine because they provide the security. There's like a buzzing door.

Right. You can't just walk in. You have to buzz you in. So I go in and I tell them I'm a little bit early, very nervous, very, very nervous and I say I have an appointment with this girl and so there's well hang on let me go get her so she comes in and she's gorgeous and she's as advertised no catfishing here she was five foot five half Spanish half Hawaiian 34 natural double these 20 inch waist with a 40 inch booty it was like serious our caramel skin gorgeous and probably about ballpoint

part guest, but 25, 26 years old. And she was in a slinky little outfit, probably something you would see like a script club by one of the dancers and takes me, takes me to a room and says, hey, I'll be right back. And there's a shower in the room, of all glass shower in the room. So they make you shower. So I have a shower. And she just wait there in your towel. So I come back. She comes back. I'm just standing in a towel. And she says, okay, I'm going to take this. She just takes my doubt from me, lays me down face first on the massage. Now, we got the VIP treatment, which means I got an opportunity to explore her body as well to give her massage. Oh, that's included in that, that thing. This specific package, because they have, they have packages

where one girl with a couple, they have a package with two girls with one person, they have a package where an hour standing in a shower with a girl. So they have different packages, different styles. So my wife chose the VIP because she thought it would be really hot for me to play with this naked woman. That would be sort of her cuck concept is to know that I was while she's at the hotel and I'm rubbing up this beautiful woman. And yeah, so she's giving me a massage on my back. And it was a pretty normal massage, but then she would lean forward and put her breasts on my back. And there's mirrors on three of the four walls. So you get to see her from every angle and she's naked.

And it was awesome. And then eventually she says, well, would you want to give me a massage? So it's okay, great. So then I give her a fairly normal massage. And then she flips over. And that point, I got to play. No insertion, no insertion. But I got to play with the outside of her pussy.

I got to play with her boobs. As long as I was gentle and I asked and I was polite, I got to play with her nipples with my mouth, with my hands. There's no kissing. But it was really, really hot. and then switched it back to me and I'm laying on my back and we're chatting and we're it was very comfortable it was it was almost like I was on a date and she laughed I'm sure I'm sure she thought my jokes were pretty lame but she laughed at all the jokes and she

pretended I was charming and she pretended I was funny and it was a lot of fun and then I asked near the end I'm like hey like how's this going to end just well you can release on my breasts or you can release with my hand. And I was like, well, whatever. So she gave me a titty fuck. And then switched over to her hand and just put her tits on top of my dick as she jerked me off. And it seemed like I was there forever. It seemed like I was just riding that it, the orgasm forever.

And then, well, then it happened. And she was great. She came with a warm, hot towel, wiped me down, gave me a hug, said, thank you. I had a shower. She had a shower. We had more chick-fat, another naked hug. Thank you. And that was it. How did you play with her? You said you paid for the VIP thing to get to play with her. What did you do to her? So she's laying on her back. And I'm standing on the side. And I play with her tits. I put her, put her tits in my mouth. I rubbed her nipples. I touched the outside of her pussy. I touched the outside of her pussy. I, I touched the outside of her pussy. I, I touched the outside of her pussy. And I could, I touch the outside of her tits. No kissing and no insertion.

That was the limits, right? And as she laid there. But after the massage, that's where really the cuck stuff really starts because I went back to the hotel. Fucked my wife. But the entire time my wife demanded, I give her detailed explanations, how she smelled, what did her pussy smell like? What did her tits feel like? How did her hands feel on my dick? She needed a play by play by play, a blow by blow description of it.

every single moment I had with her. And that's what got her off. That's what my wife just really, really got off on that idea. Yeah, for sure. And so, yeah, and so now we're exploring, going to another level, maybe do that one again, but I just go by myself. So she's at home by herself. I drive away.

I come back and she's at home doing her normal thing. She's at work or whatever. And she wants to soon get me the full experience with an escort where, I just go to a hotel. She doesn't want to be there. She wants me to, because some of the other listeners have done this, and I heard a couple of your episodes, and my wife wants to do the same thing, where they leave the phone running. So she's at home masturbating to the sounds of me fucking this girl.

That's what she wants to do. Okay. And I come home. That's what turns her on is the idea of me being away, and she's not there. And then I come home and tell her. Now, have you ever used any of the apps to fight with, well, the unicorns are hard to Fine. So you'd just rather do it this way. Impossible. Yeah. Right now. But we do want to go shadow to Oasis for June 22nd is

Unicorn Night. We plan on being there. So if any unicorns want to find a 50-year-old guy, well, I think I'm moderately attractive. But if you want to fuck or play with a 50-year-old guy with my wife's blessing, I'll be there on June 22nd. But my wife will be 50 in December as well. Yeah, I like to think that we're pretty well preserved, pretty active people. My wife calls me Farm Strong. I spent most of my life doing manual labor, and my body reflects that. My body reflects that. So I've done a number of jobs from Millwright. I've been a professional sailor on the Great Lakes, lots of manual labor item stuff. So my body's not. And your wife? I wouldn't say it's killer. My wife's got a great body. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, she's well put together. We are 50. and so for 50-year-olds, we have great bodies.

But for 20-year-olds, we have average bodies, I would say. If you're 50, you can't be 20. Sorry, I don't know. But right, you're looking for your age. That's cool. That's cool. Yeah. And so do you not have any other stories?

So what started this, what started this, really, really, really, really, that started this was probably two years ago. The cuck part, not the lifestyle part, but the cuck part. But two years ago, I went to go visit my family to, hours away. And while I was there, I visited a strip club. And there was an absolute gorgeous woman there. And I had, I had gone in with the intention of having a couple drinks watching a show. And that's it. But she was just gorgeous. She was French Congolese. So she was about 24 gravity defying boobs, like gravity defying with nipples like thick as a rubber eraser. She just gorgeous with a French, with a French accent.

I'm telling you, so sexy. So she wanted to do a private dance. I said, sure. And I went back there for several dances. And she let me play with her boobs and lick her nipples and bite her nipples. And the whole time, she's talking to me in that really sexy French accent. What do you want to do to me, baby? But I can't do the accent.

She did it so, so, so hot. And grind on me. And, yeah, I was there for a while. So then I got home. And my wife was like, you know, Oh, so what did you do? I did this and that. And then I went, I went to the club.

What would you do with the club? Oh, I was a little evasive because I, I, she said, she had a bit of an edge in her voice and I wasn't sure what kind of mood she was in. And she's like, why, why did you hide that from me? Why are you trying to hide that? Well, no, I'm just, I didn't really think it was that important. And I really didn't because I've gone before. I've had lots of lap dances before. And she, she didn't give me all her time about it.

But I don't know what set her off this particular time. But then later that day, she's like, you're going to come upstairs. You're going to fuck me. You're going to fuck me now. And I'm like, oh. And it was like mad, like angry fucking. And she better fuck me. And started saying things like, what does she talk?

What did she say? What did she look like? Did you like those tits? Did you like that? And she wanted to hear me say how much I like playing, how much I like smelling her. She wanted to hear all those details with this stripper. And I think that's really what triggered the cuck. portion of our lifestyle experiences.

Well, did she see that as cheating? When you say she got, like, upset, what was she upset about? Because did she, did you have a free pass that even when you're not with me? You could, like, kind of like, hook up with a girl? Because you kind of hooked up with her. No, it's just a lap dance. You were like licking her nipples. Sorry, that's kind of like hooking up in girls' land.

Okay, maybe in a guy's world, it's not. Licking nipples doesn't happen. I mean, if you're looking at other girl's nipple, most girls would be like, you kind of, like, cross the line. Was that cool for you to do? that was totally cool. We've gone to the strip club together. No, you went together.

There's a difference between you going with your wife and doing something than when you're not around and you do it and you didn't tell her before. You didn't tell her after she found out when you got home. Did she see it as you cheating on her or not? You did say she got upset. I don't understand. What did she get upset about? Don't know. Do you think it was?

How do you not know? You guys didn't have a conversation. Come on, most of the time, people. We did. Okay. So what did she say? What was her, what did she say she is mad at you for? What were her actual words?

There was, she, she didn't know. She didn't know. But definitely you don't think it's, so you guys, though, are allowed. If you're out, it's kind of like you could do whatever you want. Like she wasn't mad at that. Do you know that for sure? No. Yes.

I know that for sure. She wasn't mad that I had the lap dance. I know that. And if she was out and she went and got a massage. happy ending massage, I would be pretty okay with a lot of stuff that would go down there, as long as I knew ahead of time. So it's the knowing ahead of time, and you have to set your limits or your boundaries. You have to say, this is what I want to see, and this is what I don't want to see, and then go from there. Right. But you didn't do any of that. You didn't tell her before.

You didn't even tell her after. She's a cuck queen. You should have called her immediately when you got home. Well, I didn't know she was a cuck queen back then. Oh, this was a long time. Cochaine back then. Dad, this was years ago. Yeah, this is the, this is the thing that triggered. This is what triggered all the cuck feelings that just made it happen. Yeah. And she, and she admits that. And she hasn't been able to get that out of her head since. And so, so that's why the cuck queen's happening. Now, I've always been cool. It's always been cool for me to go to strip club and get lap dances. That's never been off the table. That's never been a restriction. I've gone lots of times before.

So that's not cheating in our books as me going to a lap, getting a lap dance. That's never been, quote unquote, cheating. I know, but a lap dance and sucking a girl's tits are two different things. I don't know where you don't see that. Okay, you didn't just get a lap dance. You kind of like crossed some lines.

There was physical contact. Lap dances you're not like fingering a girl. Like a regular lap dance, a real regular lap dance, okay, in a strip club does not involve you, like, licking a girl's nipples. Depends on the girl. Depends on the strip club. Depends on the city. No kidding. But a wife, most of the time, a girl, the guy said, I just got a lap down. So the girl doesn't think he's fingering her. Her tits are in the guy's mouth.

And I think a lot of women would be okay with just the girl rubbing up and stuff. But the guy touching the girl and with her tit in his mouth, that's probably a very different story. It's happened before and it's not been an issue. Okay. Oh, okay. So, but it didn't turn her on? either just that time did it turned her on yeah the two of us the two of us were at the strip club together i've gone in and then like how did it go oh i did this x yz at a bc she was like did you like it yeah i liked it it was hot and she likes paying for it she likes taking me to the strip club paying the dancer and sending me on my way she likes doing that when when i don't notice these things kathy but

when women eyeball me or they they clock me she says when they when they undress me with my eyes when they, what do they call that? Where they, I fuck you. Yeah. When women do that to me, I don't generally notice. It has to be pretty obvious for me to notice. My wife says, I think she's being kind. My wife says she sees it happen all the time constantly, everywhere we go.

Now, I'm not arrogant to believe that holy. I think every now and again it happens, I'm sure, but maybe not to the extent she claims it happens, but it turns around and makes her happy. when girls ogle me. So she has no problem with girls being into me. I get it, but she had a problem for that time for some reason. We just will never know why. Yeah, I think it was just me being evasive.

Okay. So, but so there were no rules that you can't like suck a girl's tit while you're not with her. That wasn't the problem for sure. Like that's really what I was trying to get clear about. Yeah. Like it doesn't, like you said for you as long as you know ahead of time, like it sounds like your rules are different. For you, you would want to know ahead of time. She didn't.

This was a pre-established rule that we've had since the beginning of the relationship that strippers were okay. And me licking a stripper's nipple was okay. For her, she's more concerned about like the germ factor, like touching a dirty doorknob would have that would be the same sort of like gross. Did you puerl at first? That would be more concerning than the fact that it was a nipple. I get it.

So now are you though, like you've seen her with other men, right? Like during your couple thoughts or whatever? Do you enjoy that or what's top of the mountain for you? It sounds like the whole cuck queen. I would be interested in an MFM. I'd be totally down for that. I sometimes fantasize about some guy drilling her from behind as she stuck in my dick. Sometimes I fantasize about those things.

So I don't have an hang up on that. I think for me, top of the mountain would be a five-person orgy. Two couples and a spare woman. That would be top of the mountain for me. and it's very specific and it's very difficult to imagine. But it's interesting, my best friend, that was his very, very first lifestyle experience. Was it at a club or a house party? I think you might need to go to more groupy things because then you're going to find a lot of people.

Yeah, yeah. No, it was it was him and his girlfriend, another couple, another couple, and a woman. And they were just hanging out, having drinks getting high in a hot tub. And then one thing led to the next. And suddenly it's a five-person. hot tub orgy and it was his very, very first encounter, very first foray into this, this world. And that's, I think, when I thought, oh, that could be a thing. Yeah.

And he and his partner did all sorts of lifestyle stuff. So is this like a vanilla friend of yours or a friend that you met in the lifestyle? He was vanilla when I met him. We met just as coworkers, just normal, ordinary people. And we were both single at the time and both trying to go through life at the time. So gosh, we've been friends for now, more than 10 years. And yeah, we've been through all the ups and downs together. And he's very aggressive on the lifestyle.

He's been to orgies and he's participated in an all manner of events. But yeah, for me, a five-person, five-person orgy would be top of the mountain for me, for sure. Do you ever hook up with him and his wife? So he's single now. and no we don't partially because he's just not my wife's cup of tea and he wouldn't heartbeat, I'm sure of it, but no, my wife is just just not down for that. With him. But there was a time where he was in a couple, right, where he did this whole orgy thing.

But you guys were actually. Yeah. Funny story about him, he asked me to fuck his girlfriend. Uh-huh. That she was, because she had had this, this unicorn thing happening where she was a unicorn to another couple where she would leave my friend behind and go be this unicorn. Well, that, that couple dumped her as the unicorn and she was feeling a little down in the dumps. So he said, can you do me favor and go fuck my girlfriend? And I, and I, this was before I'd done

anything seriously in the lifestyle. I was single at the time. I was single at the time. And I'm like, what do you mean? Oh, younger guy, hot, go fuck her, get her, get her self-esteem up, make her feel better about herself. So then she fucks me better. He wanted me to go prime her up and sort of be a I don't know what you want to call a pep rally for her and fuck her into happiness so that she would come back in a better mood to fuck him better. I did decline, but he

did want me to. He what? I declined. But he wanted me to fuck his girlfriend so that she would be in better spirit to lift her depression so that their sex life would improve. Okay. And how was that? Well, I didn't. I declined. I just

couldn't. I just couldn't imagine doing that at that time. I had not put my toe in the water. And they've since broken up. Okay. That really is your whole story. Let me ask you this. What is next on your list? Next on the list is unicorn night at Oasis. And then following that, it's going to be my wife's going to hire an escort for me and send me away for a night at a hotel. That's next on the list. Uh-huh. And when is that happening? And then, well, I've got a, I've got a medical surgery coming up. And, and, And so I'll be out of commission for some time. So it's probably not going to happen until this winter.

So it's going to be a little while. Okay. Well, listen, you already told me you're not setting me in picks, right? But that's okay. No, I can't. Okay. So thanks so much, Boris, for calling in. Your wife, does she know you're calling into the show?

Yeah, yeah. She does. She knows. And she was just, you know, don't use names, avoid anything that would give us away. And other than that, she's, yeah, for sure, give her a call. she's not a podcast listener but I tell her the stories on your on your podcasts and she really does enjoy those stories as I tell them to her well no I just asked because would you want to send in a pick of her if she knows oh gosh she would not she would not know she would prefer I mean they're

all anonymous by the way you do know that right totally I understand that's it's always interesting to me when people say no I wonder like I can ask her really true I can ask her but we'll see. She doesn't have any tattoos like me, so she might go for it. She might go for it. All right. Keep me posted, Boris.

And thank you so much for calling it to my show and being such a long time, loyal listener. Yeah, okay, thanks, Kathy. Thank you, Boris. Bye. I'm great. Bye.

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