Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 883 - Evan Went From a Sexless Marriage to Swinging Solo

Episode Date: July 30, 2024

Evan went from a sexless marriage to swinging solo and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why his sexless marriage ended and how he was able to move on, how and why he decided to enter into the lifestyle as opposed to remaining vanilla, the site he went on to meet women and couples to play with, the first couple he met and exactly what went down with them, the woman he met online who only gives the best bjs while her husband watches and what exactly went down with them, how the guy joined in at the end without permission and how he felt about it, how he got outed in the lifestyle by his son-in-law, the couple he met that he set up a date with at a hotel and how and why it didn’t work out, the swingers party he went to and the two women he hooked up with at the same time and exactly what went down with them, whether air, not he will ever be interested in being monogamous again plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of EVAN plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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If you're looking to get into the lifestyle, I want to know about the lifestyle events in your area and the swinger parties in your area and you want to hook up with people, you need to join SDC. And the good news is if you use my code, 37712, you get a free trial. Now, you don't even have to use that code. You could just click on the link in the description. So either use the code 37712 at SDC.com or just click on the link and you're going to get a free trial for SDC. Today I have on Evan. Evan's got a real super interesting story. He was in a sexless marriage.

He was monogamous the whole time. Like he was very monogamous for like over 40 years of his life to his wife. She kicked him to the curb. They had a bad falling out actually because I've talked to him in the past. but now he is living his best life. He went on to SDC, the site that I could give you a free trial for, use my code, or go to the description. And he went on there looking to get into the lifestyle. And he has.

And he has had some crazy experiences, some hot experiences, some bad experiences, some crazy experiences. Some crazy experiences. You name them. He's already have them. And he's only been doing this for a short time. And he goes through all of it. He gives you a little backstory on his sexless marriage, how and why. he left and then he talks about how and why he entered into the lifestyle and decided to live a very

non-monogamous open, non-monogamous, non-vanilla lifestyle now moving forward. He's an older guy and he's living his best life. He just might be jealous all you guys stuck in sexless marriages when you listen to his story because he's really changed things up and he's not a young guy, he's older, but he's having a great time. So I'm going to get right to it. And I have pictures of him, okay he talks about his big dick and he talks about how fit he is at his age and he is i have pictures of him over on not only on my patreon but he's also on my discord so you can see all his everything he's talking about over there patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast but anyway i'm going to be right back on with evan hi evan welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast we've talked

before evan haven't we yes we have your episode hasn't aired this is the thing this is the absolute truth and i'll tell people this like i am always running like 50 episodes deep right I have so many episodes, and then I'm always taping episodes. So I'm always like, so people take, some people's never make it up because it becomes so long and it never went on. And if it's not salacious enough and I got more salacious ones, it just doesn't get posted. And like yours got lost in the shuffle someplace. And it really was a whole, but a whole story about your relationship with your wife and how it was very sexless and how you left that relationship. But what's interesting about your story now?

And we'll talk a little bit about the end of that and your sexless marriage and stuff because I think it pertains. so what we're going to be talking about here, right? It did lead you into living a totally opposite life now. Since me and you have last talked, you have entered into the lifestyle as a single guy. I know you look fucking great for your age, chicks like you and dig you. You're, you're virile. You're still horny. You lived sexless for so long. And now you're living your best life. That's true. Yeah. So you were in a marriage for a really long time and your wife just didn't give it up. And you were always monogamous, correct? Yeah, 46 years.

I was a teenager when we hooked up at 19 and having sex four times a day. It was enough for me. I didn't need to go anywhere else at the time for most of my marriage. And then she hit about, I say about the mid-60s, lost interest in sex, refused to go on hormones or anything. just became miserable. So when she hit her 70s, it got to a point where I was contemplating. Some of your guests have said that they cheated like you had the cheater.

That was my thinking that maybe I should start doing that, but I wanted to remain faithful. Part of that being the religious upbringing. And just your character, who you are, that would have been going against what you obviously believed in, because you were a monogamous guy for a very long time. And let's note that you did marry a woman much older than you, right? And I think, unfortunately, and I don't, but I totally believe in age gap marriages. Who the fuck cares if 30 years from now, the one who's older gets dissed by the one who's younger because the one who's younger is still young and the other one's really old? Who cares?

They have 30 years together. You know what I mean? I don't believe that people shouldn't be with people because maybe one day someone's going to leave because of something like that. Because that happens in most relationships. Somebody leaves all the time anyway. So, you know, you had many years with her that were okay. But eventually, I think that age gap played a big difference when you guys hit a certain age because women do go through menopause. I think men slow down around that time, too, but they got these pills out there for guys that are no big deal.

And what they have for women called hormones, they scared the shit out of women. So most women, I don't think she didn't want to take them. I think she's afraid to take them because the word on the street is hormones give you cancer and a story. So many women believe that there was one study done. and they scare the shit out of woman yet. They pass out Viagra to men who get old. They don't scare men out of taking testosterone, but they scare the fuck out of women.

So she's not horny anymore, and you still are, and you were way younger than her at that point, because you already were starting there. So therein lies the problem. And it happens in a lot of relationships. I think you nailed it. You nailed it perfectly. Yeah, it's unfortunate.

But you're living your best life now. You did get divorced. You never cheated, and you're like, what did you do? Talk to people. Because I think what's interesting about your story is there's so many guys that are like you stuck in that sexless marriage. And nothing's, and they don't know how to leave. They're afraid to leave.

You're on the other side of it. How did you decide and get into the lifestyle and start living the way you are now, which most guys are going to be drooling over? Fortunately, being that I was an athletic type of person, I gave up a basketball, sky. scholarship to get married to her a full ride to a major college. So I've always been extremely healthy and fit. So that was an advantage for me. But then when I had to, when I was entering the lifestyle, I had to take accountability on my part in the marriage failing and getting to that situation. So I stopped the blame game. And once I did that, Kathy, that's when my life changed forever for the better.

So once I took accountability, then I came with a mantra from a song. I don't know if you remember Lionel Richie of the Commodores. Of course. He had a song. He had a song, and part of the words went, I gave you my heart and I tried to make you happy, but you gave me nothing in return.

I'm throwing away the blues. I'm tired of being used. I want everyone to know. I'm looking for a good time. So sell on, honey. That's my new model. Music is so powerful. Yeah, I love it.

So that was like the thing that got in your head. Yeah, and that's the motto I lived by. I'm looking for a good time, baby. Yeah. Man, about have some good times. All right, let's start getting into your good time. So you make this decision, I'm going to live my life the way I want to. And why, like, the lifestyle, why do these alternative things?

Was it something that you were always like, totally into, but your wife wasn't? isn't into it? How come you picked like a non-vanella lifestyle? Because you could have just went on dating apps and met one woman. Why choose something so extremely opposite? That's an interesting question. And I'm glad you asked that. I wasn't anticipated, but I'm glad you asked it. I did go on regular dating sites. And again, I have to take accountability on why things are happening to me. What am I doing wrong? Or what is the other person doing in their expectation? Why? their treatment is wet. So when I'm on these sites, and they work for a lot of people, but when you're my age, there are women out there that assume that you are extremely horny

and that you're willing to do anything for pussy. And so I got women that were texting me, and they're like, oh, yeah, you are hot for your age, blah, blah, blah, let's do this. And then they want money when everything's set up. I'm like, oh, no, no, no, I'm not a sugar daddy. Oh, my God, that's funny. I think that that's somebody in another country. I think that that's a male in another country, not even a woman anyway. I've had that happen, too.

The Nigerians, the Nigerians send those out. But there are women in this country that do that, too. Here's the ones that do it. These women, they're in the 20s and 30s, focus in on guys my age. And they think that you're going to. going to fall for this. And a lot of guys probably do. So yeah, there are those that do that. So I had to get away from the idea of just hooking up with one person again. Once I made up my mind that, okay, periodically I'm getting a date here, a date there. I want somebody, I want to be

in a situation where there's just people just rolling. They know what they want. And then we're open about it. Yeah. I mean, when I listen to people like Crimson, oh my God, I'm like, this is the kind of woman that I want to hang out with. I don't want to play these games. And so where did you go when you decided that that's what you wanted to do? Like, you went on to

absent stuff as well? The SDC. I ran into a Crimson. You are not going to believe this. Wait, wait. I just got to give my shot. out to SDC because we're going to be talking about that's where you went in to start your lifestyle thing. I have a free access, like a free trial period for people if they want to sign on to SDC use my code 37712 or just go to the description, click on the link and that's going to give you a free trial. What's great about SDC is you not only could meet people and you're going to tell us about the crimson lady you met, crimson like lady you met on SDC, but you could also see like

events and stuff, meet and greets, events, hotel takeovers in your area, which is great. So you met like a hardcore woman on there. You're going to tell us about the crimson lady you met. Crimson like lady you met on SEC. But you could also see like events and stuff, meet and greets, events, hotel takeovers in your area, which is great. So you met like a hardcore woman on there? Oh, yeah.

First I put in on my profile that I'm new to the lifestyle. I'm looking for a unicorn to guide me. And so this woman, not the woman. that I'm talking about, this unicorn gets a hold of me and she's teaching me all the ropes and so forth. And so I'm like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

She says, sign up for the next splash mocha. I said, what's that all about? Oh, those are Crimson's parties that she goes to. She says there's black guys like you, good-looking black guys like you, that you're going to be

the hill of the party because that's all black guys, that's what they're coming from, the hot wives, the queen of spades and so forth. I'm like, oh, yeah. And so I signed up for that. And then as I go on the sites and all I needed was somebody to validate me. So I met this couple, they're in the 70s. But because of their problems with age discrimination, they lied on their profile about their age.

And so they contacted me. What I didn't know was that most of the times the men are the ones that you're talking to on these sites. I was thinking I was talking to women each time. These guys, I'm telling, I'm talking like I'm talking to the woman. Yeah, I want to do this. I want to do that. And finally this guy goes, look, man, he says, I don't normally do this, but he says, I showed my wife the picture. Usually I make all the arrangements and so forth.

She don't know anything about the guys, anything like that. But I said to her, you got to see this guy. This guy is 66. And look at this guy. And so she's like, oh, yeah, yeah, you got to hook this up. So they were like a six out, almost a six hour drive away. And I'm like, oh, do I really want to do this? Gosh.

Are you flying or driving? Driving. Oh, my God. So I thought, I'm retired. I ain't doing nothing. I says, yeah, I'll go down. So I go down and I meet them. And right away, man, she came on me like I was a T-bone steak,

and she was a dog that ain't eight weeks. And so the guy does this. He's watching me screw his wife. He says, I don't know, he said, I've never done this before, but he says, do you want to spend the night? I go, what? He goes, you got a fire drive, man. Just spend the night.

And so I'm like, okay. So I spend the night. and we double teamer. And she's laying all on top of me after we're done. He's in the shower. And I'm thinking, oh, man, he's going to come out of the shower. He's going to be pissed and kick me up. And he's enjoying seeing me like this.

And I'm like, wow, this is really strange to me. This is unbelievable. And so we wake up the next morning and I'm hanging around the next day. And this woman, she's having, he books like three to five guys a day. with her. She does gang bangs. I'm going to give you the lowdown on her and him. She stopped having sex when she turned 50 because, I don't know, hormones, whatever. And she didn't do anything for a year. He's like getting pissed. He's, this is crazy. You got to do something. So she started taking testosterone. I asked her, I said,

long did it take for you to get your libido back? She said a week. And she said, I was fucking everything in sight. She says, that was doing gang, babe. I think I've had her at my show. I thought about that. And so, I'm like, wow, this is, this is amazing. She says, so for the last 20 years, that's what we've been doing. He books them, and then I just fuck them. They send them up. So for you to tell me that I'm staying the night, and then the next day, your shows, this 30-year-old guy comes in, and you boot this guy out because you've got to fuck me. I'm like, wow, this is, this is incredible. This is unbelievable. Is she hot?

What is she, what's her body like? Is she just like the average soccer bomb you'd never know? That's typically what I hear. She's got big tits, big natural tits. She used to be a playboy buddy at a club in the upper, I won't name the state because I don't want to give her away. Right. But in the upper New York area, New England area. And she was high because I was telling them that I used to be a stripper.

and they're like oh well you two will get along well he shows me her pictures and they're like oh hell man she was hot too and so he's he's he's he's he's pretty good shape too he's his body is showing his age somewhat but he's he's he's a great guy so you stayed and he double teamed her with you how many times did you fuck her during that like overnight Just a couple of times because I needed to get back on the road. And it was funny because on the way out, I told him, I said, I got this long drive ahead of me. And I got another call from a woman saying that, hey, I'm in Miami. Are you anywhere near there? I said, as a matter of fact, yes, I am.

She says, let's get together. So I ended up getting home late anyway because of that. It's hilarious. Another girl that you met on SDC? Yeah, yeah. Because that site, they have a section where it's called, I think it's called quick date or speed date is what it's called speed date. Okay. And anybody can post for the day and say, hey, I'm in the area for a day or at a hotel.

Anybody want to come between seven or nine or something like that. So. You take advantage. Yeah, that's a smart little section to have, right? Yeah. They've been in business for so long, so they probably really get at this point like what people are looking for what they need. Oh, yeah.

And here's one that you really going to appreciate. I get this one lady, I think she's probably in an early 60, her and her husband. And she says to me, she says, do you have any experience with, cuck holds. I go, no, I've been reading up on a lot and so forth. And she goes, she says, I'm looking for somebody that is in the area or close by that could cuckold my husband with me. And she says, when we saw you, we both agree that this is the guy we want, talking about me. I go, oh, okay.

So what does he, what the restrictions does he get from you? She says, you will be in charge and I will be in charge. We can make him wait in another room or make him wear a cage, humiliation, and so forth. I'm like, oh, okay. Now, in my mind, I'm thinking, man, I've never been cruel to anybody. I don't know if I could pull this off, but she seems so eager. Yeah. Man.

So we got a date coming up next Tuesday. it'll be our first meeting. We've just been online and she wants him to be even physically active with me and I'm like, I don't know. I never had

a relationship or a man. I'm definitely going to let him screw me but she's without him sucking my cock and me doing things like maybe jacking off on his face or something.

So I'm really have to work hard on thinking about that because that to me, I know that's what they like, he likes, but to me it seems like I'm degrading him. And I don't like the feeling of, you know, being cruel or degrading somebody. Does that make sense? Yeah, for sure. But that's coming up, right? Did you ever wind it? Tell me your other experiences with people. So you had that first couple, right?

And then you had the woman that you met on the way home. Did you ever wind up going to a splash mocha party? So I couldn't get to the splash mocha with the unicorn because it was booked up in the area that she was in. So I put in for the one in New Year's Eve. So Christmas. All right. So tell me about your other experiences that did actually happen. I know you have others.

Let me tell you this one first because this is hilarious. So I'm getting all these messages, messages. messages. Can you come today? Yeah, I'll be there. So I get to this address and I'm like, what the hell? So I'm looking around and I'm like, okay, where is the person? Where is this woman at? And so I see this guy walk out of his door and he's walking a dog. And he keeps looking over at me in my truck. And I'm like, wait a minute. So I dial the number hands free. And he answers. I says, really, dude? If he looks at me and smiles, and I'm like, damn, dude, why didn't you just tell me up front that you were pretending to be a woman? That is awful. What does he think you're going to do

now that you're there? Like, I just decide to change your sexuality. You know what I mean? It's happening to me on this SDC site as well. Listen, I got to tell you something real. And now I realize why. I had to push to get men a free trial for there because they're like, oh, we just give free trials to women and couples. I'm like, what are you fucking kidding me? I'm into fairness. I have a very large male audience.

I'm like, no, you need to give my male audience a free trial too. And so, and I had to push for it and get it. But people told me, because I was like, that's like really fucked up. but a lot of people have told me that it's like these bad apples, like really ruin it for a lot of solo guys because unfortunately, this is the kind of shit that guys do. And this is why they have to run a business like that. And they were a little not going to give it to my guy people. You know, I hope I'm sending them good guys that are going to go there and be fucking straight up cool. But, you know, we do know, and most people know by now that there are so many of guys like that.

I think on every site fronting. They're even on match.com, okay, I'm telling you. Like, there's a lot of bullshit out there. Online, you could pretend to be whoever you want. I'm glad you push for it. I really am. Yeah, of course. But anyway, to go on with your stories.

So that didn't work out, obviously. No, but I keep, if I was a gay man, I would be having sex. That's what I say to my guy friends all the time. Like, you would be so much happier. if you were gay because those guys are having the best fucking time of their lives, okay? They are with like-minded people

who are down to fuck all the time. Now, you wanted another story. This guy, and again, I didn't know that I was talking to a dude at first. This woman, I thought was a woman. She loves giving blow jobs. Loves it. She has orgasms from giving blow jobs.

And so I'm like, oh, okay. So I get over there and it's like, wow, you ain't kidding. And so they had already told me beforehand that she wants guys in rotation to come over and they have a hard time during the week because people work during the week. and so forth, I would be perfect because of my age and being retired, I could come during the week. They have guys, the neighbors, the two wives down the road, they would send their husbands over just to get blow jobs. They didn't mind. As long as they didn't fuck them, they said they're good with it.

All it is is blow jobs. It's fine. And so they send me these videos before I meet them of her doing this with these. other guys and seen. Oh, my God. Did you get turned on? Oh, heck yeah. They were sad.

She was savage. And this guy, this guy was sitting there and he's watching his wife doing this in the films. And I'm thinking, man, I don't know if I could ever do that with my woman. And so I get over there. And it's like, okay. we started out kissing, making out, she's stroking my cock as we're kissing. And I hear him over there moaning.

So what the hell? And he's over there stroking his cock. Now, mind you, before I thought it was a guy, I thought it was her. The messages he were sending me was, damn, you got a beautiful cock. I'm thinking, wow, this woman is into this. And I've had a lot of women tell me that they've never seen a cot as pretty as mine. I'm thinking they're just saying that because that's getting them off.

But no, I've had a woman say, is that really your debt? Because it's not big. It's only seven inches. Is it thick? It's thick. And I got a giant. big vein that you can see. And I got little veins that go around it.

And so, and the head is proportionate with the shaft. And they said, everything is just lined up perfectly. I got to thinking, yeah, when you look at somebody that's uncircumcised, did I get that right? Yeah, uncircumcised. They had that extra fold. And sometimes the penis does look kind of odd. And so I'm being.

circumcised, maybe that isn't a pill. No, every most guys are circumcised. If these women are telling you that there's something about your cock that's a different. Seven inches is more than enough. And the fact that you're thick, that's big, okay? You're big. You have a big dick. So you might want to lead with that.

And when someone asks you that question, you're like, my dick isn't big. Yes, it is. I've had a couple women, hot wives in the queen of space, tell me seven isn't enough for me. I need at least eight or nine. Yeah, I know. Those are the extreme. And I forget that that is the world you're living in now. So, yeah, maybe you're right.

Are you going to put out, are you on my Discord? Do people, do you have dick picks there? Okay, people could go see your dick there. Okay, people could go see the dick you're talking about there. So go on. So she's blowing you. Was it like the best head you ever had? It's definitely in the top five.

So she's blowing me. he comes over and he starts rubbing my back. I'm like, hey, what the hell is he doing? I'm thinking. But I didn't lose my erection because I'm enjoying this so much.

Yeah. And she stops and he goes down on me. I'm like, oh. You're kidding. Yes. And I had like, I didn't sign up for this. but there's a distinct difference between the way a man can suck a cock.

And I didn't know this until then a woman. The jaw muscles, I guess, are more powerful. And they're more aggressive because they realize if you ever watch a guy masturbate, it looks like he's beaten the hell out of his cock. Whereas women, when they masturbate, they're real gentle until they're ready to to come. And so he's, he's really going at it aggressively. And I end up blowing in his mouth instead of hers. And he's like, okay, so are you going to do this again? It's about the week. And I'm like, I guess I'm committed now. Because he's, I really enjoy that. And he's going on and on about

how beautiful my dick is and how amazing it was. And Then on top of that, every morning I do a fruit smoothie and my cum is extremely sweet. Like with the 70-year-old, when he was, when her husband was hitting him from the back and she was sucking me from the front during that spit roast, she didn't let go on my cot. she after i came in her mouth she kept because i leave i keep leaking and she just kept licking the head and sucking she's like wow you taste so good and i says because of my diet i i i rarely eat junk food i never eat garbage and it's the fruit i'm sure it's the fruit and my my cup my cup is real thick but you see some guys they're shooting and like spraying all over the place

mine doesn't come out like that. Mine's a thicker. And she's like, man, she didn't want to let go. So, yeah, that's what, I think it was another young, you had a young girl named Crimson that didn't like the taste, didn't want somebody to come into her mouth. Oh, that was the recent one. Yeah, she had a real problem and she was really trying to kick the habit because there was something about it that she just could not do it. Even the thought of it was like freaking around. I love that episode.

Yeah, and again, I think I sent you a message saying that if she had somebody that had a healthy diet, but yeah, so I'm looking forward to mostly doing the cuck thing. I really want to see how this plays out. I want to get into BDSM. I got a couple that are saying, okay, let's do this and do that. but then when I looked at the BDSM site on your on your site it's like man that's a little bit too extreme for me walking a guy on his knees with a dog collar putting on the strap on and doing him from behind yeah that's a little bit too extreme for me so but yeah I get the feeling that it's going it's It's going to be a lot of experiences for me.

And when I look at what's been happening as far as my situation with my family finding out, because I got one of my son-in-law's that's a pervert, and he's filed me on some of these sites, and he's exposed my pictures to my ex-wife, soon to be ex-wife. You need to tell that story, Evan. You're just like a lot, like you're talking like about this as if we know. You got 20 minutes and so you need more time. Can you just tell me real quick?

Like your nephew or somebody was online and saw your picture, you're putting your face on there, and he saw your picture and then sent him to your ex-wife? I got two son-in-law's. And one son-in-law, he's, man, go out there and screw as much as possible. The other son-in-law, he's one of these clowns that he's self-righteous. he's pretending to be holier than now but his motto is he wants to be a lesbian he calls himself a lesbian because he likes to lick pussy

and so he's saying this shit and in the meantime he pulls me over one day all of us are together when this first happened they took me out for dinner and he gets up in my face and he says you need to fix this with your wife you're making our lives miserable

and I'm like oh hell no who in the hell you think you're talking to what does he send you a picture of you on there listen I know and don't do this but what is he I'm sorry if you're he's married to one of your daughters isn't he concerned that now that he's on there is he fucking cheating what is he doing on that site

why would he rat you out you could do the same shit to him I don't I don't understand this story he just he just claims that he just looks just like he's full of shit so tell his wife tell him you're gonna tell anybody i'll tell your fucking wife you're on that site you think she'd be happy i don't think so no no she wouldn't be happy maybe they're both on there and you just don't know i don't know but i'm just saying they've been married 30 something years yeah they've been married for 30-something years just like my just like my brother-in-law and his wife she found me too

because my brother-in-law died about a couple years ago. She found me on one of the dating sites, and she exposed me to my wife. And so one of the times in the court... I can't get into this. This is like too much drama stuff. We need more stories. But let me just tell you, like, you're being outed by all these people.

What does it fucking matter? You're divorced, correct? Almost divorced. Okay, but you're separated. You're not together. You haven't been together for a while. I don't give a shit if you don't have the papers. You're not together with each other, okay?

It doesn't matter that you're on there. All these family members finding you on there. I don't know. It sounds really nutty and weird to me, but you need to tell them, like, shut your face. I won't tell anyone if you don't tell anyone. And what are they sending it to your wife, ex-wife? What does she fucking care? You're not even with her anymore.

It's none of her business. Unfortunately, the other men that are going through this, they are probably wondering what they're going to have to do. that they're going to be in this situation. No, they're not going to put their faces on their profiles, okay? I don't know what you're doing with your faces on your profile. Okay, keep your face out of it if you don't want this to happen. And I don't know, I think it's very rare that everybody in someone's family is going to find them on SDC.

It's most likely not going to happen. But I suggest until you actually meet someone and you know they're a like-minded person that you don't know who the fuck they are, be anonymous on these sites. And most people are. Don't put your face there if you don't want this kind of bullshit. So you shouldn't have put your face on if you didn't want this nonsense. But you're not doing anything wrong. Yeah.

You're not doing anything wrong at your age. Tell them to go fuck themselves. Who cares? Yeah. What do you have to live in my best life? What are you jealous? That's wrong. Who cares what?

Let them send it to your wife too. You're not with her. She doesn't care about sex anymore. Like what does she care? Does she even care? Yeah, she does. And she brought it up in court. couple times and the judge told her and says that's none of your business exactly it's not her business

doesn't matter and a story doesn't matter go on to more hot stories tell us more hot stories okay this is this is a hot story that went bad at the end okay I like those a gone wrong story listen this is real life stuff tell me that oh yeah yeah this woman 50 years old on her profile on DC site, she says that she doesn't want any single guys that is under that is older than 45. And so I thought, let me take a shot at this. So damn, she was hot. So I text her and I was like, sent her my pictures. And she's like, holy shit.

These old pictures? I go, no, those are all recent. And I says, and I says, I just got. done with a contest, a bodybuilding contest, and I play second. I said, so here's that picture. She goes, damn, and you're 66. I go, yeah. So are you willing to bend your rules? She goes, for you? Oh, yeah. I go, okay. So she says, my husband likes to watch. Is that okay if he comes? and we can film but I can edit your face out

if you don't want to be seen I said I can live with that so we're batting back and forth forever before we set this date up she's working during the week and I'm getting her all worked up at work with texts and so forth and when the day comes

it's Friday night I'm trying to think okay, what am I going to do if she, because this has happened to me too on this site, where a woman says, okay, I'll meet you at the hotel. This just happened to me recently. A woman says, I'll meet you at the hotel.

And then they get cold feet are on the speed dating site because women are getting hit. They're getting bombarded by guys, thirsty guys. And so I pay for a hotel room and she doesn't show up. Oh, my God, terrible. Yeah, so I'm wondering, if this happens again with this girl, I'm in deep trouble. So I went through with it. She tells me, she says, I had this date set up originally with a 35-year-old guy.

She says, I'm only in the black guys. She said, my husband's white. She says, but she says, I've never gone over anybody over 45. She says, so I hope you're working. I said, oh, baby, I'm going to be worth it. Trust me. And so we set up to date. I told her the hotel near our house that I'm going to be at because I looked it up online and we'll meet at a certain time. My damn GPS kept sending me around in circles. I never could find the damn thing. And I'm stopping and I'm asking people, do you know this hotel? No, I've never heard of it. You know this hotel? No, I never heard of it. She didn't get me her phone number. So I couldn't call it and say, hey, I'm lost. I'm going around in circles. Finally, I got a GPS in my truck.

I said, let me put the number in this because it ain't working on this phone. I put it in. Ah, there it is. I get there an hour late. And she gets a hold of me on the site, on the CDSC site. What the hell is wrong with you? She lit me up. What the hell's wrong with you?

But you got me all excited? I passed up a date. Yeah, I'd be pissed too because there's an hour. I don't like people that are five minutes late, let alone an hour, especially if you're warning. But the truth is you didn't have her number. She didn't have it, but you could have reached out on the site. Oh, shit, I'm sorry.

I can't find the place. Like, she was probably the one that could have helped you. She was there. Yeah, I tried to reach out on the site, but she didn't look at it until she got to the board. Oh, okay. And she couldn't get mad if she saw that you had texted her or reached out. Did you tell her that? Yeah. And I tried over and over to apologize.

She stopped answering my messages. She was probably bad at herself at that point, too, because she probably should have checked the site. She hadn't given you the number. What were you supposed to do? You did the right thing. If I saw, like, I'd be pissed, right? But if I saw that you had emailed me at an appropriate time before, letting me know, like, how long into your one hour late did you text her, hey on SDC hey i can't find the place but i'm going to be there i'm looking i think it was 20 minutes

okay 20 minutes is reasonable anything longer than that would be fucked up so 20 minutes late you're like shit i'm sorry i'm lost like whatever i think that's reasonable did you and you told her that so you so you didn't wind up banging her yeah but the thing is on that SDC site i don't think there's a timeline on when it may be a timeline i don't know of course there is there always timeline 100% sorry yes for sure yeah so and again that's not the only time i've had don't tell me bad stories tell me good stories could you have any more good stories you only have 15 minutes some more hot stories i say one of the hottest stories that i've had so i'm at this they got these parties set up. And I go to the party and I'm explaining to these women that, hey, I'm new to the lifestyle.

I'm going to be dipping my toes in as deep as possible. And I'm a little nervous about it because I'm afraid that if I get inside my head and this is my first experience, that I'm going to either go soft, or I'm going to think that I'm cheating on my wife, and I'm going to have regrets. And they said they understood. So let's do just a soft kind of swap thing where they're kissing on me and we're touching and playing with each other and so forth. So I'm like, I don't think I can, I don't think I'm going to have a problem with this. So they leave me into this room where anybody can go take advantage of the beds.

So we're on the bed, we're playing, having a great time. One girl goes down on me. I'm on my back. The other one's riding my face. I'm like, oh, man, I love eating pussy. And this is great. So they switch places. The one goes on my face,

the other one goes on my cock. And I'm like, oh, man. So I'm going on and on. They're having multiple orgasms. I'm like, this is just crazy. So they're asking me, where do I want to come? Because I can't come inside.

them because I had to wear protection where you want to take this off and where you want to come I says do you have a preference they go ah not the face because too many guys shoot it in the eye I didn't tell him that I don't shoot like that out but they said how about the breast and so I say okay so I shoot on one and the other one starts licking the other one starts licking the to come off the nipples, and then they start kissing. And then they start kissing me. What to come. And after they were done, they're looking at me, and they're going,

you're full of shit. I'm going, what? There ain't no help. There's no way in the world. You are, this is your first time, that you haven't been active in the lifestyle. First of all, we never had a guy that would allow them to kiss them after they come in their mouth. I'm going, why wouldn't a guy do that?

Oh, my God, so many guys are anti it. It's so weird. Yeah. And I don't understand that. I says because I can pull out of your pussy and I could have you suck your juices and kiss you. So what's the difference? And there's no way I would do it if another guy is coming in there. But that doesn't mean anything, but that's what I think people are afraid, the correlation.

Or they're trying to hide the fact that they are really into guys. Okay, I'm sorry. So many guys are into guys. End a story. It's a fact. Get over it. Stop hiding it. Be proud.

So we, we chat. I couldn't for the life of me convince them that I am a newbie. that I have always had a high sex drive and that I was just as shocked as they were, but they weren't buying it. And so I'm thinking when I go to these splash mocha events, and I'm wondering, and I hope it doesn't happen, that I'm going to see these guys with these big dicks

because I've had guys tell me that they froze. And I think I've heard you say, or talk to different ones on your site, even a guy that was a bull, and he couldn't get it up in a room full of people like that. So I'm hoping that that doesn't happen with me when I do these flash mocha events. So it's all new stuff for me. Any advice? You don't need my advice.

It sounds like you're doing great. Yeah, my advice is either take your face off your profile or own it. Don't be in the middle. You know what I mean? Everyone knows now, right? Your whole family knows. Everyone's seen you.

So I guess it doesn't matter anymore. But I say own what you're doing. It's no one's business. You're living your best life. And let's do a part two and you get more. What? Do you think that I will ever be able to go back to being monogamous with one person? Maybe if you meet,

maybe after you do a bunch of things like this, if you met a woman that was really nice, Maybe you could. You're definitely wired that way. What does it matter? Maybe this will be something that after you do it a while, it goes out of your system. Who knows? I've had people on. I had a really great episode with a young guy who got into the lifestyle. His name was David, I think. And he eventually wound up meeting a woman and being vanilla and he was fine with it because he spent like 10 years living it up and doing kind of been there, done that. So you never know. It doesn't matter. You do what you want. If you decide to meet somebody, if you meet somebody just like randomly, not. through SDC like at Starbucks and she's like a vanilla girl and she's like someone that you really like maybe you would give it up who knows you don't have that the great thing to me about life is like you make you make the rules okay Evan it's you not anybody else so if you decide that you want to go back to being a monogamous you can and good for you I'd high-five that too I don't think you need to I think a lot of people like read the book and they buy into being a certain way and they think they

have to be that way all the time. I think it's more natural to change and grow and be open to that. So right now, this is where you're at and you're living your best life. But if in five years or two years or 20 years, you'd want to be monogamous again, fucking do that and own that too. It's your choice. That's the beauty of life. You choose. I've thought over and over about not getting married again because I don't want to lose half my shit. I think you told me in the first time we met, that your brother, you have a brother that went through a bad divorce as well. I don't know if I want to take that risk again. Yeah, so maybe you never get married.

I understand that. You've been there, done that. A lot of people that have gotten married and got divorced don't want to do that again. I get that. But, you know, maybe if you met the right person, you would. And there's nothing wrong with that. It's going to be up to you. because the cuck the cuck situation and the 70 year old they both want me as their main to roam

and i'm thinking okay if i do that i don't have to keep going on the site and looking for new things i like variety but i'm not one of those guys that have to have variety exactly exactly you don't need to make any decisions now you're doing you're doing good you're having you know you're very popular obviously people really like you you're hooking up you're living your best life and do that until uh until you're done but thanks so much for calling in and sharing all your stories uh i i loved this i love this phase of your life this it's like a new chapter it's super interesting and keep me posted if you do wind up meeting somebody that's like a interesting update. Okay. Okay. And have fun at the splash mocha. Let me tell you,

Crimson, you might just wind up bumping into the Crimson, not a woman like Crimson. The chances of you actually meeting the Crimson there is great because she loves those parties. So let me know if you ever bump into her. But thanks so much, Evan. Thanks so much for calling in again and sharing your story. Thank you, Kathy. Thanks, Evan. Keep doing what you're doing. Thank you. You're the best. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August

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