Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 885 - Betty Loves Gangbangs and her Cuckold Husband Loved them Too

Episode Date: August 1, 2024

Betty loves gangbangs and her cuckold husband loves them too. How did they go from having regular sex to having gangbangs? How did she set up the gangbangs? And how many guys at a time would she "do" and how many gangbangs did she have? Tune in for all the details which include how her second pregnancy led to better sex, how they became swingers and what they did with other couples, how swinging led to her being with multiple men and then how that led to gangbangs, how her husband enjoyed it and how much she participated, where and how she met the guy who helped her organize them, what was in it for him, how and why the gangbangs fizzled out, who is she having sex with now, where did she meet him, how long has she known him, why she hasn't told her husband about him and what fantasies they're planning on living out soon and a whole lot more. REPEAT - originally aired 04/21 To see anonymous pics of BETTY and previous guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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But what's also great about SDC is you could find information about all, the events, the meet and greets, the munches, the hotel takeovers, the swinger parties, the gangbings, all of that stuff in your area is listed on SDC. And they even like, if there's like running a gangbanger a party, like people sign up for it so you could see who's going. Okay. And the good news is, is I have a free trial for you. Just use my code 37712 or what's easier is just go to the description and click on the link and you're going to get a free trial for SDC. So, anyway, today I have on Betty. This is a repeat episode. When I do my repeat episodes, I make them so much better. I take out all the filler words. I cut out me interrupting a lot. And I re-er it. Betty called

it many, many years ago. There's been so many updates since this episode. But this was such a great episode because Betty is like the total soccer mom, the woman you would never believe is having fucking gangbangs. And she was. She's married to a guy. He was a total cock. He loved nothing more than her to go out and bang other guys and she loved it. I mean, she's claims like I she just loves dick. She loves to get fucked really hard. And then so after she was just like doing hot wafing for her husband, she was like, I need more. And then that's how she got into gangbanks. She did six of them. Okay. She's really super hardcore. And like I said, you'd never know it. And then she talks about how eventually she started to have issues with her husband at this point. She's still with him. But she wound up meeting a young guy.

She talks about him and she's hooking up with him behind her husband's back. Okay. She's one of those that has an open relationship could fuck other guys, but now she's seeing someone on the DL. And this guy and her are looking to do other crazy things together. It's kind of crazy. She was looking for advice about that. I know what happened after this episode and maybe I'll do my repeat episode next week

will be what happened after because it's super interesting too and she's just as naughty as ever. But anyway, this is her first episode. you get the backstory on the soccer mom that likes gangbings, okay? And I do have pictures of her. She's a total soccer mom and she talks about that, you know, on the episode. They're over on my Patreon. The link to the Patreon is in the description. I'm going to be right back on with Betty.

Betty, welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm very good. Thank you. So Betty, do you have a cuckold husband or a husband that's a cuck or a husband that wants to be a cuck? Why don't you explain? I do, or I have had, let's say, in the past we have had a lot of experiences around that.

Today, this day we're not really doing that, but we have in the past. How long you've been married for? Almost 30 years. Okay. And now how long have you not been doing it? Probably about 10 of those years. I would say the first 10 years of our marriage, we were kind of vanilla. I think I've heard this said.

We got married and sort of fell into that routine as well. We're married and I have to be a good wife and person and follow these roles. And it was really, it was okay because in the early years we were pretty hot and horny and did had fun. But then it kind of got kind of bland. And then we had a couple of kids. And during my second pregnancy, my husband got really turned on by my shifting body. Interesting. And the first one, I think he was kind of, like, freaked out by. And the second time,

I think he just kind of got like, wow, these things are growing and I like it. And so we started to have, and I think we both realized you could have some pretty awesome sex when you're pregnant. There's a lot going on there. Yeah. And so I started to get, like, really hot and horny again for each other in a new way. And while we were sort of in that stage, and then after the second child was born and kind of growing kind of transitioning into momhood, but also we were still really hot and horny. And he'd start to talk to me while we were having sex about how he'd like to see me with other people. And honestly, I thought that that sounded fantastic after over 10 years of being together. And I was like, I'd love to have sex with somebody else as well. And so we kind of started

thinking about this whole swinger thing. So we started on that truck. And we joined a website and started to try to find people. But it came about, of course, there's a ton of single men out there. And there's great couples, too, and we met some. And that was fun. But then over time, I started to realize that he was less interested in having sex with another woman or whatever. He wanted to watch me have sex.

And then eventually he wanted me to go out and have sex. Without him. And then come back and tell him? Yes, yes. So, and then we came back and had sex together. So it was, I, I loved it. Did you want to see him do the same thing, or was it strictly like him, you with other men?

No. I didn't mind. I was okay with if he wanted to. I wanted, because so I should say that we got together very young. It was the years, we got together very young. and he had never been with another woman. When I met him, I was his one and only. Oh, wow.

So that was sort of, so I was sort of, no, I had a pretty active sex life as a teenager. So he was definitely not my one and only, but I was his. And so I was willing and like saying, like, you know what, you deserve to get out and see what else is out there. You should do that. But in the end, it turned into really, I was always his only one and only. He really only wanted to be with me. And I really wanted to be with others as well.

You guys were perfectly matched. Yeah, that worked really well. And it was, I never felt jealous. I wouldn't have felt jealous if he had gone out. And like when we did swing with other couples, I was happy for him to sort of have whatever he had. But honestly, he loved sort of putting me out there. And I liked being out there.

Right. And then you had better. It did add, like other people say, it added to the sex that you had also with him too. So it's not just others. You're also now having even better sex with your husband. Absolutely, because then I would come back. And so here's the thing about my sex drive. The more sex I have, the more I want.

So if I had sex with one guy, I still want to come home and have sex with another. So this is what started to happen. I couldn't get enough of it. So then we started like adding in more than one X. guy. So then I started to have gangbangs. Oh, no way. Yes. And they were so fun. And he would come and take pictures. Okay. So wait a second. So now you're having gang bangs. It's like it's more than one and then it's more than two and then it's how many people are the most you had in one night? Six. Wow. So so I tell you how that's how that kind of got to go in. Yeah. So,

So we were on a website and I somehow met a guy through the sort of sex app website where he was, what he would do, he was an older man. And what he would do is he helped women sort of realize their fantasies. And so he had a slew of men that he could tap into, that were willing. And you'd tell him what you wanted. And he would vet them and make sure that they understood, what you felt comfortable with, what fantasy you wanted. And so I, I wasn't, I have to say, I don't think I'm terribly creative in my fantasy life.

I just wanted to have a lot of men and have sex with a lot of men. Right. So I would say that's very creative. Is that creative? Yeah, it is. So, you know, they, you know, they, I would put on something sexy, like a nice corset and heels. And we would meet, he would organize it all. He'd play for the hotel room.

He'd bring me a flower. He brought me a rose every time. He was very kind that way. And he'd always get me, I like tequila, so he'd get a bottle of tequila. And then we would, I'd go in the room. I'd meet the guys with their clothes on. I'd step in the bathroom, and I'd wait until they were ready, undressed. And then I would come out.

My husband would make me a special soundtrack. And some of it were like electronica, whatever, but they were really sexy songs. And he'd make me a different song. soundtrack for every time. Although I had a favorite one that I really liked. And I still listen to that one sometimes just to sort of remember the good old days.

Seriously? Yes, it's so fun. It's a great soundtrack. I can't wait to ask you the question, why don't you do that stuff anymore? But let's not get there yet because let's just stay where we are right now. So wait, so the first of all,

what is it for that guy? Is that guy being paid by the men? He must be. There's no pay. There's no he just, all as he'd get out of it was like, he'd say, well, can I join you or he'd watch. He didn't even have to join, but I was like, you know what, I don't really care. Yeah. Because to me, it was fine. He was a polite man.

He wasn't older and he wasn't like anything great. But I was like, you know what? I'm here for the sex. Right. And it's fine. So he's usually just, he just really wanted a blow job. So that was cool. So that was fine.

So I would do that as well as everybody else. And I've liked having them all on me, like going on me. Did you realize before you started doing this and before your swinging progressed that this was something that you wanted to do? Or did you realize it after you started to have multiple partners? So that's a great question because I think in my back of my mind, you know how like you have your fantasies and you think about them? Yeah. But I never really brought it completely. I never thought it was a possibility.

early on in my, you know, 20s, let's just say through my 20s, I never thought that living out those fantasies was something that actually could happen. Right. So then as I started to tap more physically into some of the fantasies, like having sex with another man, it started to make, it started as I just finally said, I want more than one. I want more. And it just kind of came on. And so I just sort of, it just kind of grew on itself.

Yeah. And at some point I knew that I just, so I knew that, I knew that, I, I wanted to be with two. I love the idea of having given a blowjob and being fucked from behind or something like that. I thought that sounded great. But then I was like, well, then I still have a couple of hands left or I started to like think about like, what else could I do? And I just like I just really. And the thing, so I have played with other women as well in the past like when we were couples.

But the truth is I'm very, very into men. Right. I'm just very into men. And so while I admire women's bodies, I've liked some of the women I've been with, I've enjoyed a lot. I mostly like them as persons. Uh-huh. Whereas the men, I don't even care about their names. Hilarious.

I have no interest in a relationship with them. I don't want to, I don't even care what's like above the belly button, really. Strictly like, it's their cocks. That's what you're like, that's what you want. You want them to service you. You want them in your mouth and your pussy. Do you do anal too? doing dog part.

Some of, yes, I was a little, I'm not, I just say I'm not as experienced as that, at that, but I did want that and I did get that. And it was fun, yes. I was a little nervous about it because it's not something that I did on a regular basis. My husband and I never really, we did that a few times, but it wasn't part of our regular sexual relationship. So I was a little nervous. But I made it clear in one of my fantasies that I wanted that and that I wanted somebody that would, you know,

really know how to do that well. I think you need to kind of know what you're doing. Yeah, yeah. Especially if you already have something in your pussy, you got to make sure that you have, you know, something, somebody that's, you know, good. So this guy set that up for you in one of the gangbangs or when you were with two guys? Yeah, he set it up. He set up with a gangbair.

It was a gangbrag. Right. So, yeah, he set it up. He was very, and so he was like, he really vetted them. Like, I didn't, I didn't, I wanted people who, I like to be treated nicely. So I don't want anybody calling me like a dirty slot. Call me beautiful, sexy, hot. And I want to be in control.

I want to be worshipped. And I will totally give it back. The more they do, the more I will do. So that's what I enjoyed. So the guy, it was a fake rose. He'd bring little silk rose. So I still have them and I have six of them. So you did six gang bangs with him.

I did. I did. As far as like physical features of the guys, did you have any preference or was it kind of like whoever wanted to show up could or what kind of specifics did you give him? Start, started with nice. And then I definitely am into more fit guys. I didn't really want to be with like kind of fat and chubby or even like big and bulky. I like kind of more lean. So that was like the one thing. I was like the more fit is better. That was interesting. Uh-huh. that was the one thing. I kind of, you know, but I, but I kind of had a lot of type, I do a lot of types. I didn't really, again, I didn't care whether it was like facial hair or not. I didn't care. Just clean and fit were sort of my, you know, parameters and kind. Right. So, what about dick size? I was pretty open with that, but I didn't really, I never had one that wasn't, wasn't like a good size. And there were a few. There was like one guy in particular that was fantastic. So there were a couple of them that came out of it that we had over at our house privately later.

So that did happen too. I can't remember whether it was two or three guys. I think we had three guys over plus my husband. My husband didn't participate in any of the gangbangs or any of that. He just watched. He cheered me on. He'd bring us water. So he'd be there in the room.

Absolutely. He was in the room. So now is he jerking off? Is he like getting or does he wait? Is it just a ton of foreplay for him and then you guys go home and he fucks you at the end of it all? That's what it is. That was what it is. When it wasn't like I made him not do, I wasn't like you're not allowed to jerk off or anything.

It was just that's what he wanted to do. He really loves that delayed gratification anyway. He likes that in his life with all things. And so he was really like, he was interested. in that delayed gratification. And I was, I honestly, even after a gang bang, I didn't mind taking a quick shower and hopping in and fucking him really hard. Like it made me really happy.

I didn't want to do it without taking a shower first, I have to say. And that would just delayed him. Yeah, but that just delayed him even more, so even better. Exactly. There was a lot going on with my body at that, at those moments. Would you use condoms? Oh, yes. For sure.

Okay. Always with all those. Always, always, always. That was something that was a parameter that was not going to be. Now, there were guys that we did become more friendly with, that we knew a lot about in their history and their, whatever, in their, you know, current state. There were a couple people that we have gone with that didn't use condoms. And to me honest with you, one of, those one in particular, they're a part of a couple.

And we adore that couple. To this day, we're still friends with them. though we don't swing with them or anything. They became family friends. Like we had kids the same ages and occupations that were similar and we became friends. Oh, my God. Now, did anybody know about this whole life that you were having? Did you tell any of your girlfriends or was it a total on the down low?

On the total down low. Nobody would suspect it of me. I work of a job that you have. It's like a prudish job, let's just say. Yeah. And I don't dress prudishly, but I don't dress prudishly, but I don't. super provocatively. If I worked with you, I would have no clue. This is what I love about my show. Because a lot of times people are like, oh yeah, I was doing this or that. And we met up at Starbucks

first when we talked in the corner. And I'm just like, this is the shit that's going down when like I'm in Starbucks and there's a couple over there or in a restaurant or in a parking lot. You don't know what's going on in those cars. Or the people that you're working with are the people in your family or your partner. You just don't know what people are doing. But this is the kind of stuff that people do that you would have no idea about. And it's not the people that you think you would know. That's my whole point. And it's so important for people to know that this is actually going on. I think that that's a thing that not to share your secrets, but that everybody in the world should know that like having sexual fantasies and desires that are sort of what outside the

quote norms is happening. I think it's, that's why I wanted to call because I'm like, if you saw me on the daily, I'm a mom. I'm, I work a professional job. I, I, I dress, I'm cute. I'm I'm not, I'm not, I'm not a 10. I'm short. I'm curvy. I'm cute though. And, but you know what? I never. I love sex. And there's nothing. Yeah. And I never had a man say no to me. Well, because you're probably sexy. Like, they could smell that from a mile away. You know what I mean? I think that that kind of thing emanates from somebody, right? I feel like you must have, the right person could have got that from you from a mile away. Yes. I hope so. Because I think that's how it works. Because I think that the whole stereotype, too, of that women have to have some kind of perfect body to be out doing this. Because I started after I had children and I got stretch marks from children. My stomach did not recover completely. And yet nobody complained.

Like everybody was like, you're hot, you're sexy. And at this point, I can't tell you the amount of men that I've been with. I totally couldn't. Count, you know. No, I could never, never count. I couldn't even begin to count. So, and I've never had, and I've had so many handsome, wonderful, wonderful men that I've been with. That's the saddest thing that I think that women don't get about men.

I always had a lot of guy friends and I was always, like, had a lot of booty calls and I'd be, like, really super open and talkative with them and be like, oh, are you looking down there and does that look weird to you? And they've been like, who the fuck cares? So I just learned very early on the way guys were in that. they didn't care about the stuff that we thought that they did. So I was always super comfortable because I knew that that's how they operate. They're not looking at your stomach. Okay. They're looking at your tits. They're looking at your pussy. They don't give a shit about a little fat on your stomach. And I would always try to tell some of my girlfriends these kind of things because I think if you don't have good guy friends, you don't know. And that's the truth. Like you said, here you were not a perfect 10.

But guys found you super hot and attractive. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm kind of, I think as I'm short. I'm kind of cute in a sexy little package. Right, right. Well, you're going to try and send me an anonymous pick, right? I'm going to try. I, we'll have to talk about the parameters of what that has to... They could be sexy. They're just not, you know, not naked, not totally

naked. Like in a bra and a G-string, it's no different than a bathing suit. It's fine. I'll try to find one of those. No, were those with all the gangbangs you had with that guy? He was the one that arranged them all. There were six of them with him. Did you... Yeah, see, he arranged the biggest ones. And then, like,

I said, we had like, we kind of handpicked a few of them later that we really liked and we stayed in touch with them and we had them over to the house a couple of times. And so that was, because that was, you know, I did feel like we liked them enough that we could sort of have that arrangement. And yeah, and then there were also times like where, so those were like the big events, but there were a lot, there was like another week when my kids went away to visit their grandparents and we had the whole week off. And we literally scheduled an event like somebody for every day of the week. Wow. Your husband struck the lot. Like he hit the lottery with you. And especially because he's like cuckled, right?

Because this is, it would be one thing if he really wanted to be doing that too. You wouldn't care, right? And you saw him with other women, right? When you guys were swinging and stuff, you were down. But this really was the perfect match. It was a great match. It really was a great match. It really was a great match.

And it was really a, it was a fun time. And I will tell you, the end story is not quite as fun or because what happened basically, and I heard this from the episode that inspired me to call you with a cuckold male that you had on recently. Correct. Yes. Yes. Your kids get older. Yeah.

And when they start to become sort of more aware of your life and it's very hard to start to hide those events and things. And then to add to it, I had lost my job and we really were struggling financially for several years. And so we couldn't afford to get a hotel or go out or babysitters and just all that kind of stuff, that lifestyle sort of had to go away because we just couldn't do it. And honestly, now our relationship is kind of roommate status. It's very sad in a way. So we haven't even been intimate for a few years, which is really sad. Is that frustrating to?

Who's the one that doesn't want to be intimate, both of you? Well, that's a great question because I think it is both. I think it's both. I think to some extent it just hadn't been working real well. He hadn't been working real well. Oh, really? How old is he now? He's 56.

Okay. So he's kind of, he's not that old, but he's sort of like kind of dwindling in his drive and his length of time. So there's that. But that's just, I think. also we have we definitely have relationship issues that are nothing to do with our sex right yeah yeah just stuff we kind of are kind of going in different directions at the moment relationally i'm not really sure where it's going but if i could put i could put one extra little tibbid in there that sort of so i went a

couple of years like we went a couple years without sex i went a few years without sex yeah and i was just kind of like i'm in my i'm in my i'm 53 now so like about when i turned 50s i was I started to think to myself, well, I guess that's it. I guess that was sex. That was life. And I was kind of feeling a little down and not great about myself and things. And then recently I sort of met a, I have an old friend. I've known him for a long time, but not that long because he's 20 years younger than me.

And so we started a sexual relationship recently. No, your story just gets better and better. It's not so sad. Right. So suddenly it's not so sad. The last six months is not so sad. So we have started, so I've started it. But I haven't, now this is the part that's sad is I haven't told my husband,

and I mixed feelings about it because I think part of him would like it. And part of him would feel sad because I haven't given him any. And so I'm not really sure. I'm still trying to figure out what I should do about that piece. So let me ask you this, why when it's starting? started to percolate between you guys. You knew him and you hadn't had sex with him and you knew him for a really long time. And then now all of a sudden you're having sex with him. I wonder in that time where leading up to you guys were going to bang, why you didn't think to tell your husband. Is it

because you're having these relationship issues and there's not such great communication between you guys? Because you would think he wouldn't, you would be, you would feel okay to tell him. That's just it. I think that if I had told him early on, I have this sexual tension with this person and I think we'd like to do it. Do you think I should come on to him? I think if I had been in a better relationship place and I had just said that to him, he would have been like, whoa, that's hot. And then I think it would have been a good thing. But then I didn't. So now I didn't. And now I got this piece that's kind of hanging over me. And I'm not really sure if I should still fess up. If I should fess up in the current, like, or the past or sometimes like been together so long that I do feel a little

that like maybe I should just try one more thing to see to see before we call it quits or something because I've thought about that too. I'm like, do I just want to get out of this relationship completely? But, you know, there's, there are perks to our relationship that go beyond the sexual part. Of course. After 30 years together. But right. Do you think he, do you think, is there a chance that he's doing the same thing someplace else as well? No. No. He doesn't even really watch a lot of porn or anything. Like, it's, He just doesn't. It's,

it's, he wants me. And I, and that's, that's, that's a great feeling to some extent. He was, and because he was always,

let me go where I wanted, it worked. That part worked. So, yeah, so now I have, so now this, this new friend and I are thinking about sort of

adding in some more men. Because he knows about your history. Have you told me about the gang thing? and everything. Yeah, and he's interested in sort of like having another man join us. Okay, but wait, let's get the details about this guy now. So where did you know him from? I have to be very sly about those details. Okay, okay. Now, do you know him from work or is he like your son's friend? He was not my, he's much older than my own children. Okay, but you didn't meet him when he was young and you, but you stayed friends with him on some level. Friends. We've been friends.

We have a common interest. Okay. Together. Okay. And so, We've known each other through this common interest for many, many years. And honest to God, I have known him, so I've known him 17 years. Yeah. Honest to God never thought about him sexually. Even he's a really great looking guy, but never thought about him sexually at all until like last October. Now, what about what's his status? Is he married?

Does he have a girlfriend? Single. He's single. How old is he exactly? He's 30. He'll be 33 soon. Okay. So he's third. Do you know his parents?

Not personally. Okay, cool. And so he's third. Does your husband know him? Very well. Very well. Yeah. Not as well as I know him, but he knows him. But he's known him all these years too. And now where do you guys do your, where do you guys have sex?

In hotel rooms at his house or? Let's just say my place of work. At your work. Oh. But I own my work. It's your own business. Yeah. So he comes over to wherever you.

you're working on. Well, he kind of works in my place of business. So he works for you? Not as an employee. Okay. We don't need to be more specific. So you guys do it during work time, like during, while you're at your business. Oh, after hours.

Okay. So wait, so, and your husband has no idea. Around the time that it started to happen, you never told him, you're doing it always at work now. Now, did you start telling him all about the gangbangs and you're swinging and all that stuff before you guys start out? sucks and is that what led to it? That's kind of what led to it.

Okay, so he didn't know before. He was kind of like talking about a relationship that he was in. Yeah. And with another, with a woman who was interested in another woman and whatever. And so I just started to talk about how people can be in open relationships. Yeah. Sometimes that can,

that can work fine for many people and whatever. And so then finally one day I just said, look, And I just told him straight up that they're early, like not all the details about the gang bang or anything. You found out of that later. But, you know, just like, look, we've been in an open relationship. So as soon as I said that, he said, I knew that about you guys. So in our home, we have a separate building.

And in the building, there's a second floor. And it has a bedroom up there. You could call it a guest room. Yeah. Uh-huh. But I guess at some point, and he knew about the guest room. And so at some point, I guess I must have early on years ago, made some comment about this is, I think when he was like in maybe his mid-20s, I made some comment about this being a guest room or something.

Like for the guests, quote unquote. Yeah. And he kind of picked up on some vibe that I maybe subconsciously wanted to send out, but not really. I don't know. Because he totally said, I knew that about you when you showed me your guest room. But he called it my boom boom room. Like he knew, he liked that. So he was always giving you the side eye. Like, he always knew you were kind of like a freak, not in a bad way.

Yeah, he clearly, and he said to me, he did tell me that he told me recently that he said, well, I definitely had a time or two had fantasized about you. Oh, my God. So there was that, like there was, so there was this old history, but I never, never, never, never thought about him that way. And so all of a sudden he had broken up with this person that was, you know, and we've been having these sort of conversations about, you know, my open marriage and sex and whatever. And it just started to become more and more heated. We were working very closely together on a project. And we were here a lot at night and the evenings and working.

And then one night I went to leave and basically we hug goodbye, but then we didn't stop hugging. And so then we sort of opened that door up. And did you have sex that night? Yes. And let me ask you this because I'm assuming this was the first time you quote unquote cheated on your husband, right? Because you guys were always so open. Like how did you feel afterwards? Honestly.

Well, I mean, mostly fabulous because you just felt so. great. So finally have sex again. So there was a small part of me that felt, I didn't really feel the guilt I felt is that I didn't tell them. Yeah. It wasn't that I cheated on him. It was that I didn't tell them. Yes. Because it was very different between you guys, because you were always having sex with other guys with your husband. It was, it wasn't like you were doing something that was so naughty, right? Because you had always been with other guys. Right. Right. I was. Right. I was, I didn't feel, I mean, I do feel like it's a quote, like you said, a cheat because I didn't tell them.

And I do feel like that's still not right. And I got to figure that piece out. Yeah. But, but like that night, I remember coming home. And I come in the house and my whole, my children are basically adults now, but they were around because it was through the, like, holiday time. And so there was like, they were all there. And I sat down on a chair and I remember just feeling completely fucked out, that feeling.

Yeah. Yeah, yeah, totally. And I'm sitting there, like, kind of glowing, and they're all talking at me. And I'm just sitting there like, between my legs are wet. I'm like, oh, like, my hair is a matted mess. And I'm just sitting there in a chair thinking, here I am, having this conversation with all these young adults and my husband. Oh, my God. Hallelujah.

And I loved it. Right. And so of course because now your kids are there, your husband there, you don't tell him that night, right? Now, it's been going on for six months. Do you guys start like banging every time you see him? No, no. So that we've been, I would say no, we haven't. Their timing has to be kind of right.

Right. Yeah. The timing has to be right. The time, the place and time. I mean, don't get me wrong. I would. Yeah. I would literally do it every single.

night. He is a little bit more, I wouldn't want to use the word conservative because he's not conservative, but a little bit more selective maybe with his timing and things and concerns for other stuff. So, but, and he is, he's single but dating. So there's that and that's fine. I mean, I'm happy that he's dating, but, you know, he's trying to figure out like where that piece falls in if like he's just still on the newly dating. So anyway, I don't want to get into his thing. But, you know, I don't know where our relationship, quote, is that part of our relationship is going to go and when it will end.

It will go away. Yeah. I don't know when and how, but it will. But now you still, though, have to do these other guys. So when did that come up? Were you the one that was like, oh, why don't we bring somebody else in? Or is because he knew about your history? He was like, let's do some of that stuff that you used to do in the.

past? Well, I think partially both. I think it was kind of both. We were sort of talking about it. And when he knows about some of my past and he kind of said, oh, those are like goals for him, like to be with more than one person. And I was like, let's just do it. Let's do that together. I would enjoy that. And so, yeah, so we've been sort of talking about that. We haven't acted on, physically acted on anything. That's a very new development. So we haven't actually acted by, I hope we do. It's definitely something I'd really like to do. And now would you want to do another gang bang or is it that you'd want another couple?

What is he looking for? Is he like your husband? Would he want you to be with other men or does he want to do a swap? What kind of situation are you guys going to set up? I think he's definitely interested in having at least another man. Yeah. And then I think that he's would be interested in the country. couple swap, which is okay with me, like I said, but I'm not that into women.

Yeah. But that, but it'd be fine. I'm fine with sort of playing around with a woman for the men's sake. Yeah. And also mine, but it's not my, it's definitely not my motivating factor. Right. But if he wanted you to do it and he was into it, you would go. Yeah.

Yeah. And if you wanted to be with another woman and two women, you know, me and another woman, I would totally do that. Right. I'd be absolutely down with that. That'd be fine. So, yeah. So I don't know where, I don't know where the story is going to end now because it's sort of taking a new twist and turn.

It's funny because if it was six months ago, I'd say, well, that was it. It was done. That just happened and my life is over. Yeah, that's so interesting. But now I'm starting to see that this time in my life is actually a very great time. Like, it's, and people should know that. Like, you should make sure your listeners know that, like, you can turn 50 and still be hot, sexy and have a ton of energy for sex. Like I didn't realize it was just like hanging out latent for a while.

Yeah, let me ask you because I think that that's important for people to hear because whether it's a man listening and his wife is going through what you are or it's a woman going through what you are. What you were going through. Were you going through that time because you were in your 50s where you weren't as horny anymore where you felt like you had lost touch with that part of you? And did you think it was never going to come back? And then all of a sudden it was like ignited in this guy and it totally and you're like,

oh, like you said, it was like there. It was, and it came back. So I never lost my sex drive because I definitely masturbated like almost every night. So I definitely never lost my desire. Yeah. So that, but I didn't know how to get it again physically. Right. From another person.

Like I wasn't, I never went out looking. Well, have you been through menopause or no? Yes. So officially I'm not, I don't, I'm, I'm, I'm infertile. I know that. So I'm either close to being done. I have the symptoms. of menopause, but I've had an IUD for so long when I still have one in right now, and it's

at the end of its sort of life. And so we're talking about potentially removing it, but she told me I could keep it until I was 55 and that it could help with a transition for menopause. Yeah, yeah. Oh, that's great. Yeah. Yeah. And so she, but she did test me.

There's a hormone level you can test. Yeah. And I'm completely infertile. That's kind of nice. Yeah. So you don't have to worry if you just. do take that out. But maybe, I think it's great. I think there is a definite thing of you don't use it, you lose it kind of thing that happens to women around that time that adds to the reason why

they completely lose their sex drive in that time. But maybe because you're just so horny and you're just like jerking off every single day. Like that helped you really stay in touch with it. I think that that's important and was actually really good of you to do it. I'm glad I did. I'm glad I took care of myself on a regular basis that way. Yeah. But it definitely was became like, and I would have just kept doing that if that's all I had. And I would never, like, I don't think I should have to stop that or wanted to stop that. But it's so nice to have like your needs met in a more physical way too. Like, I just really enjoy that.

Yeah, because it hadn't been from your husband. When was the last time you had sex with your husband? Well, we did have, we did have sex on New Year's Eve this year. Right. But it wasn't that satisfying. It was very short and quick. It was just the two of us. So I was trying to make the best of it, drinking some Prosecco.

And I was like, I made some comment. He said to me like, what, you want to have sex? And I was like, yeah, let's do it. And so he's like, okay. So we went up to the bedroom and we did. And it was like he's really good. My husband has always been great at foreplay. And he definitely still was satisfying that way.

But then when it came to the whole. Other part, it was just so fast and it was just kind of like, but see, I like the fuck. Right. I like to fuck. That's why I like multiple men because once one of them orgasms and they're kind of spent, I want the next one to jump on and get in his place. And now do you have multiple orgasms or do you just have one at the end of it all? No, I definitely have multiple, but they're kind of small.

Like I always thought it was kind of weird. Like I don't know if like, I always feel like I should have these big loud screaming ones, but I don't. And I don't, like, I was listening to your other guest there just recently talking about the squirting thing. I totally want to learn how to do that. Me too. I'm right there with you.

I'm going to download that information. Yeah. Because I'm really curious about that. But no, I have like small, like, definitely I have them and they'll have, they'll come through, but they're not like big loud screaming events. But you have multiples. I've heard that so, because I was never a multi-orgasmic person and I was always, like, wishing I could be because I'm like, it just seems if you could have one,

but instead you could have a five in a row. But somebody once told me that when you have all of them, it's not like every single one is like an intense orgasm. They're like less of an orgasm, right? If there's more of them. Does that make sense? That's exactly what I experienced. And also learning from your show,

I also, so I can definitely have a lot of, like when I'm just masturbating, I have a lot of clitorial orgasms. It's just a fast and easy way to do it. It's not to break out a toy or anything. But I love being on top. And then I do have a good. orgasm. Right. That's how you could orgasm, an inside orgasm. Exactly. You just got to be on top.

I got to be on top, yeah. And so that's kind of like my favorite sort of go-to, like to start. Of course. Yeah. So when you're having those gangbangs and you're with like those six guys, how long did those typically last? A few hours. Right. Maybe two and a half, three hours. I'd say, yeah. And then usually I'm exhausted by the end, but I don't, I am very tenacious, so I don't stop until everybody's done. Like I kind of think I like the challenge. Like I'm like, I'm rising above this. I'm the queen and I'm going to come out on top. Right.

And so you take care of everybody in there. Like they all get to fuck you. Like you blow them all. Absolutely. What else is going down? Everything. I would be disappointed if they didn't all come. Right.

Yeah. Yeah. At least calm. And then some of times, if they're young and healthy enough, they have a little reload which I love. I love that. Right. For them to go again.

So it's kind of like the younger men because they don't always spend themselves out so fast. Yeah, it's weird. Because I know some guys for many, many years and I know them when they were younger and they could do it so many times. And then, you know, when they hit like close, when they're getting towards 50 and over, they're kind of good for one time. They start to slow down a little bit that way. So now with your guy, I don't know if the boyfriend is the right word.

No, not at all. Yeah, what you'd call him. My friend. Yeah, your quote-unquote friend. He could do it. Like, that's probably what's really great about it too, right? Because he could go and multiple times. Yeah, he definitely can, yeah, he can go and then he can, like, reload and like, fuck again.

And that's great. Like, I love that. So, or like, he can orgasm and keep going. Like, he doesn't get like, I'm done. Oh, really? He doesn't get totally, like, he doesn't lose his heart on. Not necessarily. Not every time.

We haven't had, like, sex 30 times, so I can't, like, put a good average. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But, you know, I can say that we've had some great experiences. So, and I hope that continues. And I'll tell you, he told me about your show. So I know he's going to end up listening to this. Oh, that's awesome. Well, let me ask you this.

How are you guys going about making the, the, what are you doing to make your fantasies with each other a reality? I'm back on, I'm back on one of those sites trying to find somebody. Right. Which is the site that you use? Is it okay to say? Yeah, of course. Okay. It's adult friend finder.

Yeah, I know. When I first started my show, I couldn't, I'd have to find people to be on my show. So I'd post ads and then I'd go on Craigslist and I'd email people. And then sometimes I wouldn't be, I wouldn't have someone. for that week and I would go like when I really needed it I would then just go on to adult friend finders and I'd be like instant messaging people because I just needed gas this was very early on and so I know all about that site as well so now is that what you used in the past with your husband I did that's what we used in the past and I tell you like 10 years ago when we first used it it

was better right because because then now everybody has their own niche right so there's this grinder for the guys that want guys and there's there's all right there's a lot of guys and there's all these different niches. And back then, you could find such a cross-section of people looking for things. So it was more variety. Now, I would say it's almost all single men. And a lot of them are straight single men, which is fine. Yeah, that's fine. But I actually wouldn't mind if there was a I like guys that are comfortable being around other guys, too. Because you're looking for them to come into a scenario with you and the guy, right? So I'm interested in, and, that too. And so a lot of them are like on AFF, there are many of them are like straight.

They're like straight males. It's like a cesspool of straight males and a few couples. And then as soon as I logged back on as a new person, but as soon as I came back on, it was like, oh my God. Why? Because you're on there as a female, just a single female. Exactly. Exactly. And what do they call us a unicorn? Yeah, you are the unicorn. You're more than the unicorn because, you know, when I've heard, heard there's another guy that's on my show a lot and he's been on a bunch of times and he's a cuckled guy as well and his wife has long-term guys that she's been having sex with and he loves nothing more than for her to go and be with them and then come back and tell him his name is jim he's been on my show a lot like i said he always talks about how it's just so refreshing to hear women talk about how much they love sex that's what he loves about his wife when he loves women like that and it's hard to find it really is it really is and do you know, I have a lot of great girlfriend.

Yeah. Like, I am, I am blessed with wonderful women friends in my life. But there's, there's only one friend that I would confide some of my life to. Yeah. And in the rest of them, I, I just don't know if they could handle it. They wouldn't even, they wouldn't even be able to relate. No, they couldn't handle it. They would totally judge you.

And they wouldn't, I don't think that they'd be able to relate because I don't think a lot of women are in touch with their sexuality enough to even. it's just like the tip of the iceberg is what most people, women are feeling with their sexuality, I feel like. I feel like you just, it really opened up for you. That's why I think like when you were saying, like, oh, when I asked you did it, did you always know you want to do gang bangs or did it just progress? And you're just like, the more you kept doing things, the more you're like, oh, this is an option now and this is, right? It's just like the floodgates open. And I just think that a lot of women repress a lot of that stuff and a lot of their sexuality is so repressed that they don't even know it. And it's because I'm your age, I'm 52. And so your friends are around your age, right? And they just,

we grew up in a time where you were a fucking whore if you like that. Exactly. We were sluts. We were whores. And the thing is, is even in high school, I had, I had a boyfriend that I dated through many years in high school. And I saw him on Friday nights. And then he had hockey on Saturday nights and I didn't see him. And I had a different boyfriend that I saw that lived out of town. And I would have sex with both of them. And they didn't. know about each other. And I was like, so even then, I had, I had to have like a line of them. You were always wired that way. That was just it showed up really early on. It did. It did. And I, and I, I, I, I even did that.

The perfect partner. You guys really matched up well. That was a really healthy choice for you. And for him too. I didn't know, we didn't know that about each other early on. But it worked. That part worked. So I'm hoping maybe, I'm still kind of. hopeful maybe we can find some kind of common ground again because we have a lot of history. Although things have been really, really bad last few years, just kind of like, ugh, that just in the sense that there's nothing. Yeah. So now I'm like, well, maybe this spark of newness should, maybe I should play with this.

I think you really have to because like you said, what do you have to lose, right? The way that it's going now, it's not going in a good direction, right? If anything can revive it, even though I know that the problem isn't sex, right? It's all these other problems. But maybe this could revive that. This was something that you guys did together for so many years, but you haven't in so long. So it could ignite something between you guys. You just don't know, right?

That I think you should try to bring it into your relationship somehow. Why not? Because the intimacy for us sort of begins with the sex. At least for me, like the intimacy is sort of what opens the door. like the sex opens the door to other intimacies. Exactly. Exactly. So maybe other people need a different direction, but for me, I need sex and then that comes

intimacy after. Yeah. So I feel like if you, and maybe him too, I don't know, but if you introduce this, this could maybe bring you guys back together because it was something that you guys shared. And I think it can't hurt, but there's a chance that it can help. I appreciate this phone call a lot because now I just. feel a little bit like, yeah, maybe, maybe I should try again. And wouldn't it be great if I could be getting it from him too again?

Yes, I think that I really think. And listen, things are bad between you guys, but this is a man you've been with for 30 years and he's probably not so happy with the state of things or even with the fact that he's not fucking anybody. So wouldn't it be great for him to be horny again and his sex life being reinvigorating like yours is? Yeah. Yeah.

That would be great for him? It should be. Yeah. And that's the thing about it is like the always awkward thing. It says I still care about him on that level. And I do want him to be happy. And yeah, I'd like him to, I always wanted him to be getting laid, even though it was only me that he ever wanted to get laid with. So, yeah, there is that.

And so, yeah, it's interesting. So I like your advice. I might have to. So I'm now, what do you think? What do your listeners think? Should I tell him what I've been doing? what I should do next. Like, where am I at? What should I do with this marriage? Because I know I've been like on the fence. I didn't want to give it up. But at the same time, I really want intimacy and I want regular sex and I want to, I want my needs being met. Of course. And you know, I think. And I don't want to sneak. I don't want to lie. So I think, listen, you have, I think this is the perfect situation and it's presented itself. It's like in your lap. And so you could either find out whether you're going to be doing that with your husband. or maybe that'll be the reason why you decide that, yeah, it's definitely not over.

If this can't invigorate it, then maybe it's dead in the water. I don't know. I'm curious to see what other people say. But I think, I personally think it, it, there's a, there's, it might be 50, 50 chance. Like it's that it can spark things. And I think that what you have to try. That's what I say. Yeah, that's great.

I'm so glad I had this phone call. Please. I could wish. I was trying to get it off my chest and to talk about sort of my past life like that. Oh my God. My car is life. Yeah, we'll have you call in again and get more details about all that stuff. Because, you know, what I always try to do on a call is get like the whole story.

And we just have an hour and I know I was late with you. So you have to go now. But like, you know, there's so much that you spoke about. Because you said you fucked so many guys you can't even count. And I only know of six gang bangs with six people and a couple of swings. So there's probably so many. details out there. So if you ever want to call back again and relive some of that's your scenarios, we would always do a part two. But right now, let's see what everybody will say and

give you advice. Thank you so much for calling in. I think it's not only important for your relationship and stuff. I love a female voice like yours, which is you love sex and there's nothing negative about it. You're the fucking queen. The more the merrier. And you're also a mom. and you have your own business and your everything. And there's not just a lot of women out there that know that you own it. And I think that that's great. Well, thank you. And thank for your show.

I really enjoy it. And I'm going to definitely find some of those former ones, too, to listen to. I just discovered you recently. So yeah, go listen to Gang Bang, Christine. I'm going to. You talked to her. You'll say. You're competitive.

I know you're competitive. I am competitive when it comes to sex. It's definitely my thing. Don't worry. You topped her. Okay, Betty. I'm not a sports fan, but that I am. That's my sport.

I've often said, oh my gosh, I have definitely said that sex was my sport. Yes, it is. And don't worry, you won in my court, okay? Like, you're the fucking winner here. And you'll see when you see how many people listen to it. So thanks so much for calling it. Bye, Betty. Bye.

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