Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 888 - Amy is Into Hotwifing, Threesomes, Gangbangs and More

Episode Date: August 5, 2024

Amy is into hotwifing, threesomes, gangbangs, and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she brought up wanting to hook up with women to her husband and what went down with her when they all met up, their first experiences at swingers clubs and what went down, their first couple swap, the rules they had going in and what went down, why they stopped meeting couples and started having threesome with guys and hotwifing instead, how her husband has a long term female partner he hooks up with and how that all works out, how and why she’s not jealous at all and either is her husband, how many guys she currently has in her stable that she hookups with and how many of them are way younger, why she’s a size queen now and loves giving blowjobs, the gangbangs she had with 6 guys and what went down, the glory hole experience she had a club, how she figured out how to squirt and how she’s extremely multi-orgasmic as well, how she loves dressing up in thigh highs and corsets, how and why she told her kids about her and her husband's lifestyle and how they reacted, how they’re still so close and super hot for each other after thirty years of marriage and how the freedoms they give each other is a big part of it plus a whole lot more. To see anonymous pics of AMY and my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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She was on a Confessions hotline recently. And she talked about being in the lifestyle and getting her husband into it. She was a driving force. She and her husband have both been in the lifestyle for a long time. And they have like kind of been there, done that. They started off with her getting into hooking up with women. They were having three sons with women. Then they started going to swingers clubs and they did a lot there.

She's a very big into being an exhibition. and then she really got into the whole hot-wifing thing. And now that's like her big thing. She's done gang-bang. She's been with guys. She's with guys with her husband. She's with guys solo. She's with young guys, old guys.

She's been with two guys. She's done gang-bangs. And I say that she loves calm. She's multi-orgasmic. She could squirt. She's like I said, a hardcore. You're going to love her story. She's super open with her husband.

Her husband also has a partner or a female partner that he sees. she's down with it all. They have free reign at this point. They've been doing this for a long time, and she talks all about it. You're going to love her story. You're going to love her. She's super open,

and she's got a ton of experience, and she talks all about it. So I'm going to be right back on. And she sent me some picks over on my Patreon. You could see her, which you're going to want to after you hear her. So anyway, it's patreon.com. So, anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Amy.

Hi, Amy. Welcome to the Stricklandonymous podcast. How are you today? Good. Thank you for having me on. No, thanks for calling in. I recently aired one of your confessions on my confession line because you did call in and say that you're been involved in the lifestyle. And I guess that you were the one that brought it up to your husband. You didn't mention that you have a much older husband than you. And I think that you guys are into hot waiving. And I was like,

oh, that could kind of maybe work out when like the guys like way older for some reason. I don't know. This is kind of worked its way. in. Originally, it all started with me. And yes, I was the one who brought it up. I was the one who wanted to go play with other women. That was my first, like, I was very curious. I had never really fooled around with women. Always were kind of attracted to women when I was in college and everything, but that wasn't really where I was going to go with anything at that point. And so I just kind of put it to the side and when I met my husband, he was fantastic. I was just coming out of a really bad marriage. I had been married before and I kind of wanted to explore life and he was open to it. He's kind of calm and

laid back, which is a blessing because I'm not. And so he kind of let me sort of drive the bus a little bit. And I found a couple of single women. And one of them, we played once and it was okay, nothing great. And I thought, well, this is not all there is to it. So I want to find someone else, found another lady. And we played with her for a while. I would say on and off for about six, eight months. She went to a couple of swingers clubs with us.

She was a lot of fun and everything was going great, didn't mind having her around. We had kids at the time, so it was a little bit difficult, but they were young enough. They didn't pay much attention. And then she started sending my husband messages on the side and sort of trying to talk me down and talk her up. And so we had to end that. Let's just talk about that beginning, because here you are, second marriage, you meet your new husband. How early on did you bring up like, hey, I want to go like fuck other women. And it sounds like he joined in too. So what was that initial conversation?

Was he going to be allowed to hook up with women too? I really, at that point, we didn't really talk too much about him hooking up. I'm not a jealous person. So in my mind, it didn't come up because I figured if it happens, fine. I don't care. And I told him, let's just see what's out there. And when we started, you had to like put ads in magazines. There was no swingers. I'm in my 50s.

And we started this. I was about 30. So there's many years of playing and it all started with women. And after that bad situation with that woman, I kind of was put off by it. So we decided to go to some swing clubs. And we most of the time just watched and played together. There were several women that we did play with. He never fucked anyone at the club in the beginning part.

He just wasn't into it, wanted to watch me, enjoyed watching me. Were you fucking guys too or just women? No, just women. Just women in the very beginning. And after that sort of going to the club, being an exhibitionist, having a good time, we met a couple and we clicked really well with them. They were fun, love to just laugh, have a good time. So we would see them at the club all the time.

And eventually we started playing with them. And we swapped. That was our first couple that we swapped with. Okay, did you have any rules going into that swap or no? Was everything on the table? Our rules were that we wanted to be together. Like we were in no separate rooms that was not on the table in the beginning. And the first go around, I didn't care.

Like, some couples didn't kiss or they couldn't do oral or whatever their rules were. We really didn't have a lot that we were like, you can't do this. But more like we want to be together for the whole thing. Nobody goes to their own, you know, room or another side of the room or whatever. So we were all on the same bed together. And that was really fun. Had a great time. It was a couple that we were super comfortable with.

And so we would go to the club and see them a couple times a month, had a great time. We stuck to clubs for a long time just because my husband had a job that we did not want anybody to find out. We had small children and everything. So the club was sort of our safe place to go. and had a great time. We eventually, though, that couple moved away. And we started going to a different club and met another couple, played with them quite a bit, met other couples there. But it was always in a club situation.

And it was, we were friendly, but never super close with anybody where they'd come to our house or anything. So we did that for many years. And probably about 10 years into it, meeting couples became difficult. There is an age difference between the two of us. So what is that age gap? 20 years. So it's it's quite an age gap for a lot of women to say, okay, I don't think I'm really down with that older of a man. And it became harder and harder just to find couples that we all clicked and worked well with. Even without the age gap, I hear that it's difficult to get four people on the same page that all dig each other. Do you know what I mean? It is.

How often, you know, you meet somebody and it's, oh, she's nice. He's a pain in the ass or whatever. I just, you know, I kind of, and I sort of went away from the body. I is much by play. I like women, but they, I have a specific type I seem to gravitate toward. And we just weren't finding it. And I love Dick. That, that, so we just sort of switched over to threesomes.

With men and with men at this point now. Mainly men. Okay. How did you like to hooking up with women? Because it was something that you were really looking for. That was like your first dip into that, into the lifestyle where you totally, into women and did everything with them? I did. I went into it fully trying to see everything and try everything and enjoy it and see where it took us. But ultimately, like, I like penetration.

I don't like it from a dill though. The real thing is a difference. Yeah. I just prefer the real thing. So that whole part of it, I don't mind meeting with a couple and playing with the woman's some, but when it comes right down to it, I want to get fucked and fucked hard. Oh, my God, you're hilarious. You just made some guys hard right there. I just, I don't want a strap on. And a guy fucks better than a woman. There's very few women with a strap on that just have the right movement and everything

else. So, I don't know, men, men are what I prefer. I'm not saying that I don't play with women anymore. it just depends on the situation and the woman. Yeah, that makes sense. Listen, you tried it. Like, you were curious. I give you credit.

You were curious. You wanted to go there. You went there for a long time, did what you did, and now you're doing this, and this is what you did. How else do you figure out what you're into unless you try? And it's a growing thing. Like, we all grow. You can't, anybody who says they go into something,

and 20 years later, they're doing the same thing. I kind of question, like, are you really? Because you change as you age or learn. We evolve and our evolution just brought us more toward meeting with single guys. And it was fun. We've met fantastic people. And he's been with me through this whole ride. He's supportive.

He's like, do what makes you happy. I'm okay. What makes you happy? Are you talking solo play now with guys, threesomes with guys? We still do threesomes. Male, female, male, most of the time. I do do hot wifing because it's just hot. He loves video, so I will play and take video and he gets to watch it. And yeah, we have sex when I come home.

and it's fantastic. It's just kind of morphed its own way. He met a woman and he has regular play dates with her. Oh, interesting. I love that. That's kind of interesting. Yeah, I didn't care. Do you mind if I go?

I'm like, hell yeah, do whatever you want to do. If it makes you happy, I'm good with it. Like I said, I'm not a jealous person. Yeah, okay, but do you like picks and videos or is it kind of like, oh, go have your fun and. I don't need to hear about it. I don't mind hearing about it. I don't really need the picks in the video.

And I tell him share how much you want. If you want to share, if you don't, if you want to tell me every last detail, fantastic. It turns me on. Whatever works for you. I get into the fact that he's happy and enjoys himself. And he's been seeing her, I want to say six years now. Wow. And what's her story? Is she married and has a free pass? Is she a single unicorn? She's a single. She's a single.

Divorced and just doesn't really want to get married again, but enjoys having a man come over and play. And they're friends. They chat back and forth and text. And if she ever needed anything, like her car was broke down or something, by all means, we'd go and help her. I know her. I've met her. I've met her. quite a few times, I just am not part of their dynamic. Interesting. So you're not, you're not horny for her. You never hooked up with them. You've never had a three-send with them. No. She's not my type. But I'm okay with him going and doing his thing if he's happy. And if they, for some reason, found a third, I'd be fine with that too. I don't care. Listen, you said 10 times on this episode, or maybe just twice, but you have said, I'm just not a jealous person. And you really aren't. Like,

Did you just never have a jealous bone in your body? Do you think? Is that just like the way you're wired? Because I feel like there's people like that. I don't think most people are like that. But you definitely hear from people that just don't have that, like, jealous gene in them. It's weird to me because I have it. But it sounds like you really don't.

I don't have it. Maybe when I was, like, early, early 20s with my first husband, there was some sort of, like, jealousy thing with him. when we had first got married, he had gone to see a stripper for some bachelorette that was going on where we were working. And he got invited to go watch. And we were probably married like a week. And I think that was the first time that I really understood jealousy because I was like, what the fuck does she have? We're newly married.

I don't know what the heck this is all about. So that was about the only time. But with my husband, I feel secure, I guess, because we always have talked. We've always been real open with one another. And we don't hold back how we feel that I don't feel like he's hiding anything from me. And if there was something more that he needed to tell me, I feel that he would. So I guess that's where the, I don't feel that type of jealousy because of that. Because you have a secure.

You're just completely secure. secure with him. And do you feel like you were that way right from the get-go? Very early on, yes. He gave me the security that I needed. He was very open with me when we first got together and he was in the process of a divorce too. So we had to talk about a lot of things. And it was kind of funny. We were friends, really good friends before we had sex. And we were both well into our divorces before we decided to have sex. Did you, well, when you guys were friends, did you ever like side-eye him and think, oh, maybe I'd wind up with this guy?

Or were you just like friends, not even thinking about that because you were going through a divorce? For a long time, I just thought he was friends. Yeah. And I saw him one time and I was like, damn. He's hot. Yeah. And he was a sweet person. He's a kind man.

And my ex was a real dickhead. So I appreciated the fact that he was so kind and caring about how I felt. And he just, he was a good man. I felt secure with him from the cat. He obviously felt very secure with you too because he has given you just as much free reign as you give him. That's really both sided, right? So he obviously has full trust in you. Do you guys still go to the SWIFT?

fingers clubs or what else are you guys like I know you have so much more to talk about so keep telling me some more stories yeah 25 years in the lifestyle in one form or another yeah there's a lot of stories we we have gone to clubs probably in the last year or so maybe a couple of times he's not that into it anymore and I it's not that he is he can get hard he gets off all the time We have sex at least, I want to say at least four or five times a week. Wow. That's incredible considering you've been together for all this time, considering his age. But it really goes to show if you stay connected like that, right?

Like you don't necessarily have to lose it. No, not at all. And he's pretty active. Usually like, hey, you want to go? We probably like when I was. about 35 to 45, we had sex every day. Right. Every single day, I don't care if I had my period, not, didn't matter.

We were always having sex. That was just how we were. And it went on for 10 years like that. And it was fantastic. I have a very high sex drive. Uh-huh. And always happy. Menopause was a bit of a change, but it is what it is.

But you didn't lose it, obviously. Oh, no, I didn't lose it. I just had to find the right hormone replacement therapy to figure it all out. Yeah. What worked for you? I'm on estrogen and testosterone. But is it pellets or injections? No, I take it orally.

Okay, cool. So that's what worked for you. Yeah, I tried it all. And to me, it was testosterone, estradi, and some progesterone, of course. But sometimes you don't need that. So that helped you through that phase. Listen, you went from every day to four to five times a week. Yes.

It's not that much less, really. It's not the end of the world. No, we still are really, we enjoy fucking period. Of course, the guys that I play with a fair amount of single guys, and the young ones have been coming out of the woodwork lately. So that's been fun. It's been interesting. I had to get over that.

Guys in their late 20s are always sending messages. And it's okay. They got the memo, okay? You want to just fuck someone and you're not ready to get married or have kids and you don't want a girlfriend and you don't want to deal with all that. Go for an older woman. She's going to just fuck you and leave you. Like, she's not going to give a shit about anything else. Well, that's kind of how it is.

Yeah. Okay. We're going to have a good time. And it's nothing serious. And some of them are really sweet. they'll have to cancel for whatever reason. And they're like, you're not pissed. And like, I could give a shit. Exactly. I'll just send a message to the next one that I know wants to fuck. So we're good. No big deal. Yeah. I've definitely told younger guys, listen, if you're looking for no strings

attached, great sex without any kind of nonsense, like I said, because maybe they're not ready to like get locked down and do all the things that they're eventually going to do. An older woman is perfect. It's very well-suited. for a young guy, especially a guy in his 20s. He's super horny. The older woman's super horny, and they just both want to hit it and quit it. Yeah, it's quite nice. It's been a lot of fun. I probably have three or four that are regular, meaning like probably every other week I see them. So I stay occupied and there's always new ones coming around. We're on some of the sites. So we get fair amount of messages. Actually, one of the guys that I played with, I met, I met him.

I had a hot wife profile for a while and he, he's, you need to listen to this podcast. That's how I found your podcast. Oh, no way. The guy, your little guy that you were begging. And one of the guys. Yeah, one of the guys. Oh, my God. He's going to hear your episode.

He was so funny because he said, you need to call in. You've done a lot of shit. You need to tell your story. Yeah, sure. All right. And he's, several of them are like, you need an only fans because they all know that my husband takes video of a lot of it or I do. I'll set something up. And they're like, you need to get an only fan.

Because all the guys that are friends with me and talk to me on a regular basis, they're like, okay, who would you play with now? Do you have any picks? Have any videos? Oh my God, they like it too. They like to see you with other guys too. Oh, yeah. They're, they always are curious about it. So it's, it's pretty funny. Each week I'll get several of them. They're like, hey, what'd you do this weekend or who'd you see this week? I have any pictures or video for me. Oh, my God. That's hilarious. So what kind of guys are you, do you look for? Are you like a size queen? Does it not matter? Do you have a specific type? I would say I'm more of a size queen now. Really? Yes. I didn't start out that way.

Like I really didn't care. Not saying that a guy with a smaller dick, I'm going to say no way. You're right. Not at all. It just, a lot will come down to then how he looks and his personality. But why do you think you changed into more of a size queen now? Did you have one long-term guy that was really big? And now you're like, that's what you did.

Yeah, there was one that once you have that full stretch like that, I don't know, it's addictive. And I love come, so I like it on my face and tits. So that was always our tagline. What do you want your tagline? What's your tagline? Well, you have a tagline on your profile. Yeah. And I'm like, who has a big load for my face and tits?

It's a smart tagline to have because I know from my downloads, if I put an episode up of a woman who loves come, okay, forget about it. Every guy who wants a woman that loves come. I like it. Don't mind it. I love to suck cock. I've been told many, many times I'm really good at it. I don't have a lot of a gag reflex, so deep throating is not really a big deal. Wow.

So these thicker guys. Yeah. Yeah, I really enjoy sucking cock. And it just, as the years have gone on, I've just gotten better and better and better at it. And it's fun. Guys that tell me, oh, I have never gotten off with a woman sucking my cock. I'm like, all right, game on. We're going to make this happen.

So I've always been into that. And a lot of women aren't. I think that's one of the things that I'll have guys contact us that we've played with years ago. And they're like, I can't get that blowjob out of my mind. Just for the fact that you love it goes a long way because guys could sense that. And that's what that's, of course you're going to be good because you fucking love what you're doing. It's like a guy that goes down on you and is like really into it as opposed to the guy that's going down on you because he's got to. You know what I mean?

Exactly. Like a big difference. And you do know the difference. And I really do enjoy it and have just gotten even more so over the years. Well, because now you're getting two cocks at one time, right? Like you're typically there, your husband, the guy. Do you ever bring in three? Have you had multiple guys at once?

We've had gangbanks. Max was six guys. Oh, my God. You got to tell me those stories. It was, we actually did the first one at a club. We were in a playroom and the door was open and people come in and watch a lot of the time. And there were several very attractive men and I just, I'm like, come on, let's do this. So I basically let them take turns.

And it was, it was hot as fuck. It was a lot of fun. I've done a glory hole. Where do you do the glory hole? Like at a club or a party or a bookstore? It was at a club. Okay. It was at a club.

I haven't been to a bookstore. There was a glory hole there. There's no freaking way. Too sleazy? Like dirty or something? Yes. It just was not. It's, yeah, no, I'm not just randomly sucking some guys dick.

that comes through the whole absolutely not and i'm i'm real smell oriented too so smells around me also will play into it so it was like yeah no not doing that at the bookstore but we did fuck in the like room where the video was on in front of people watched yeah yeah that i'm good with never a problem with that. Plus, you enjoy it because you got that little exhibition. Oh, yeah. There was a club that we would go to that had a room where there was a camera, and then the projection was out on a screen out in, like the lounge area, and we would go in there periodically and play. I can be self-conscious in everyday life, but when it comes to having sex, I just get in that mode and go for it.

That's interesting. And you were always that way? Or did? I was heavier when I was younger. So I was always, I think that's where some of that self-consciousness came from. But even when I was younger, yeah, as long as once I got into the sex part of it and I'm fully immersed in it, I don't really pay much attention to what's going on. around me. As you shouldn't. That's the key to having good sex. That's the problem that women have a lot of the times is they're two in their head and they can't sort of let go and just get lost in it. And that's what it's all about. That that's exactly what I figured out for me to just forget about everything and enjoy it. I probably about 10 years ago I figured out I can squirt. Oh my God. I'm so jealous of you. You could deep throat squirt all the things that I'm just like,

oh my God, I wish I had those party tricks in my back pocket. How did you figure it out? Did your husband do it? Did a guy do it? Actually, my husband and I were, I was sucking my husband's cock and the guy was fucking me from behind and there was a gush. And I was like, what the fuck? Did it feel like you had to pee though before or anything?

Did you have any warning? It felt a little bit like I had to pee, but not quite the same. same. It was sort of that, okay, do I have a full bladder? What's going on? Why? But I was like, I didn't think about it. We just kept going because he like just really started pounding me. And I just started squirting. And once I kind of figured out, just let it go. Don't fight it. Because I would fight it sometimes, almost like I could feel almost like I had to pee. but then I'm just like, just let it go. And it's not pee.

So, and it's been fantastic. Like most of the time, though, I really, really gush when I'm getting it from behind, doggy. Right. So somehow that hits you the right way to make you squirt, right? I feel like that's different for everybody, but that makes sense. Maybe it's somehow they're hitting the exact spot that they need to. They're hitting the spot that seems to trigger it.

And yeah. And it was very sporad for a while, but like I said, I think I got too much in my head about it. Yeah, of course. And once I just kind of let that go and I'm like, whatever, it'll be what it'll be. So I don't even think about it. The thicker the cock, the better, the quicker that will start happening. And I am multi-orgasmic, so I can come so many times. If I'm into it and turned on, I can just one after another. You're kidding. Wait, are you the one that said like you had a lot of in one time? I just got an email recently from a woman that said she had 127 at once.

I don't think that's you, but you're still. No, that's not me. Okay. I think I would be catatonic if she was. I think that's what she said. I don't know. Her episode will be up soon. But wait a second. So this is another thing I'm jealous of. I'm like one and done. And then I could wait a little while and go again. But, you know, I've never been able to. But I feel like it's a breathing thing. And I learn from Susan Bratton, if you don't push so much out and like just let it sort of happen. I don't know.

I feel like I'm getting closer to be able to do that because there is some sort of control that you have to have. I don't know. Once I have a strong orgasm the first time, I can. I can't, like, I can't be over-stimulated on my clip. Like, I have to move to a position. Otherwise, it'll be too intense and it'll be done too quick. So I kind of, like, will move just so I'm not getting my clit directly stimulated. Yes. I have to kind of be careful about it because there are sometimes, if it's too intense and I have

three or four or five within a very, very short period of time that are real super intense, I'm done. It's, yep, that's going to happen. Yeah. And how long could five happen, like, in within 20 minutes or an hour? It can be sometimes in 10 minutes. It just depends on the situation and if I'm being hit the right way. And it depends on how turned on.

If I'm really into it with the guy, it can happen rapidly. And their cock does play a factor into it. Like I said, the thicker they are, the easier it is. Yeah, I had a guy on recently that he literally is this very famous plastic surgeon that can make guys dicks bigger with filler. It's like a real thing and it really works and it lasts a really long time. It's kind of expensive. But please, the shit that women pay for it.

And all these guys were like complaining. Oh, women don't care about something. Like says no man with a thick dick ever. Like I'm sorry, but no woman is going to complain if your dick is thicker, okay? There's not one woman out there. And I don't think women care as much about length or maybe that's just my own projection. But thickness does make a difference. A little thicker is always better.

Sorry, guys, it's a fucking fact. Thick is great. I did play with a guy when we were first, like, playing with men. Yeah. And I don't know. The older I've gotten, the tighter I've gotten, if that makes sense. Yes, that happened to me. I'm like, what the fuck is that all about?

Yes, the older I've gotten, the tighter I've gotten. So we played with him early on, and he was thick as shit and fairly long. I want to say eight or nine. He was large. Oh, my God. And it was a fun challenge, and it was great. I got it in. He fucked me.

It was fantastic. dick. Well, he surfaced then probably about 10 years later. And we got together to play and I'm looking at his dick like, there's no fucking way you're getting it in me. And we tried. Yeah. Isn't that weird? What is that about when you get older? I feel like that's a thing because that's what happened to me. And I'm like, I used to, I don't think that could. And I'm like, oh, that's kind of great because you don't see a lot of guys with like really big dicks. I'm like, if you're dating, you don't have to find that big. And I'm like, I'm like, if you're dating, you don't have to find that big. And I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I don't have to find that big.

anymore because if you're a little tighter, it still fills you up. So that happened to you too. That's interesting. Yeah. And it's been, I don't know, I started weightlifting. Yeah. I don't know if that made a difference because when you lift, you have to tighten everything up. Yes, I think I'm a big weightlifter and have been in my whole life.

And I worry that it's like a tight pelvic floor kind of thing that happens because like I'm always working out with weights and stuff. And so, yeah, it might be that kind of a thing. But, you know, you could still take dicks. You just can't take that huge one. That huge. Yeah, that huge. I just forgot how big it was.

And when I saw it, I was like, I don't know if this is going to work. It's kind of sad. I don't know why I used to like them really big. I kind of felt bad because it was like, you could do this before. Yeah. Well, I can't know. And I still got him off. I sucked him off.

But it was, it's sorry. And he wasn't too bothered by it because he had contacted us several times after that. And I'm just like, I know thanks. Yeah. You're great. If you just want to get fucked off, sure. But no way. I'm not going to rip myself open to fit that in.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. It happens. It happened to me too. So I totally understand it is a real thing. But I love the fact that you're still banging other guys. You just can't have that thick of a dick. Now, have you ever done? DP or DVP or any of that kind of stuff?

I have done DP, but I was really inebriated. You're not like into anal. I'm okay with anal. I just can't seem to relax enough to make it like something I can do on the regular. Yeah, I just, I'm not wired in that way, I guess. It's not for lack of trying. Just not, it's not as important. And double in my pussy.

Hell no. You're, I, no. Can't do it. I don't like to get that stretched out that I hurt for two days afterwards. So no, it's not something I really care about doing. Yeah, I got it. Listen, you're having a lot of fun doing so many other things. You love calm, like you like just them to jizz like all over your face and stuff or swallowing it or all of the above.

I don't swallow unless it's somebody that I, I am totally comfortable and trust that they're safe. Otherwise, I just let them come on my face. They can come on my tits. I like it anywhere on my body pretty much. I'm good with it. It's fun. I did, when we did have that gang bang,

they each guy did take their turn coming somewhere on my body. And it was hot. It was a lot of fun. I've done other gang bangs, probably like three or four guys. And they're okay. I almost feel overstimulated sometimes because there's so many dicks that it's like, okay, which one next? Listen, there's a lot going on at a gang bang. It's a real specific thing.

Some people are totally into it. Some people are not. What I was surprised about is that that's like actually something that a lot of women Google when it comes to like porn besides female. female porn. Gang bang porn is like number one for women to look at. Isn't that interesting? That's interesting. Very interesting. Yeah, a lot of girls' fantasy. Not that every girl's is going to have a gang bang, right? You've tried them. You've done them. Yeah. And if the situation came about and there was the right group of guys, I probably would again. I just, I'm not opposed to

it. It's just not something that I seek all the time. We've tried a lot of different scenarios. I've had a guy that liked to have his cock in a cage and he gave me the key. That was interesting. That's a thing. I've heard, I know those guys. Yeah, it was interesting. He was, he was a nice guy, but ultimately, sexually, he physically didn't do a ton for me. I prefer tall men and he was on the shorter side.

I don't know. I like big men, for lack of a better way to put it. Meaning like bigger than you kind of thing? Yes. I like that. Most men, I prefer a guy that's about six foot tall or taller. How tall are you? I'm 5'4.

Okay. But you just like to be overpowered. I get that. I'm that same way. Yeah. I am a super, I wouldn't say aggressive, but I am very, very forward. I'm a strong personality and I kind of like to feel almost overpowered or overwhelmed by a man. Yeah. Same way. Because I am such a strong type of personality that that's what. Yeah. You're,

like you're 5'4, but you feel like you're 6 feet, you're like a 6 foot dude. Like I feel the same way. So like the bigger, the better, I'm going to feel like I'm only 5.7 and I'm very thin and little. But like I want a really big guy to overpower me too because I feel bigger than I am because we're aggressive. I totally get it. It's the same thing. Yeah. I just, I prefer a guy that is bigger than I am. We've, we've met guys like they say that they're like five nine, five, ten. And then I beat them and they're like five five. And I'm eyeballing them. I'm towering over them because I wear platforms most of the time when I, I love stock. like thigh high stockings. I always wear thigh highs. I know there's a whole bunch of guys. I love that. I call them hosers, but there's a lot of guys out there. I love a girl and hose. I have, well, we get that comment a lot. It's, oh, I love a woman that wears thigh highs. And I love corsets too. I just enjoy dressing up very feminine when I want to play. And that part of that,

it is, I don't know, that's part of the turn on for me. And isn't there nothing worse? Because I like dressing up in like super slutty outfits or hot outfits, things that make me look super sexy. But isn't it like terrible when you're with a guy that could care less? Because some guys are really into that and some guys are like, ah, they just want to see you naked. I don't know. I like a guy that loves it.

I had a regular play partner that he could have cared less if I got dressed up. Yeah. Like he, it didn't matter to him one way or another. And I still did it because that's what I enjoy. I have a few people that I play with that they'll want to know what I'm kind of going to wear. Like, oh, are you going to have on, they know I'm going to have stockings, but they're like, are you going to wear a corset? Are you going to wear a negligee?

They want to, they want to know. And or they'll request a color, the specific color. I love that. So I appreciate the men that appreciate that. Yeah, for sure. Now, what feelings, like, okay, because your guy has been seeing this girl for six years, you have all these guys in your roster, you see them like, or has there ever been any kind of feelings on anyone's end for anybody else in this scenario?

My husband, no, he has not. I have, I had a strong connection with a guy, but it was very, Like I told them from the get-go. It's like I am in love with my husband. There will never be an option for me to not leave my husband. Right. Because a lot of guys, they get talking with you and it's, yeah, no. Like, I'm not into it and I break it off.

Like I'm out. Yeah. We're not even going down that. I don't want to catch feelings. I've had guys that they got to know me and like they live in our area. and I have a unique car and he would seek my car out. Oh, God. And he would show up somewhere.

And it's like that kind of shit I'm not into. And I would say up front, like, this is not, it's not happening. I don't have those feelings for you. This is not that situation. But this one guy, yeah, I care about him. But it was never really to the point where he knew where he stood. and he kind of stayed in his lane. So it never progressed.

Do you still see that guy to this day? Yeah, on and off. I do. I don't see him as often as I used to, but yeah, on and off, I do see him. And he's respected that boundary. And he knows my husband. They know they've talked many, many times. Yeah, I was going to ask you that because you talked to his girl.

I was wondering, because I know sometimes he's there and he's videotaping, sometimes he's not. Does he have interest? So he does have interaction with some of the. of these guys. Oh, yeah. Most of them, he knows, most of the guys that I play with. And like, most of them, we had had thrusums together. A lot of the time, if there's somebody that I'm thinking that I'll see alone, I will meet with my husband to start with. Just, just to feel out the creepiness, because I've had guys, I know if my husband wasn't there, they would have gotten rough

is shit. They just, they were on that borderline, but because my husband was there, they didn't cross it. But you just get a feeling. Like, I go with my gut. If something doesn't seem right, I get out. I have no problem backing out of this situation that I don't feel good about. And I'm, I'm just careful. So he's, he's been there for most of them. I have met solo. by myself, he's never met them or anything. And it's gone okay. But it's been somebody that we've had interactions, texting back and forth. And they've been more than willing to meet in a public place, have a drink, sit down, chat before we even think about playing. So that's, that's how he's worked out. Okay. I have played with a couple solo. And that was fun. She was a cook queen.

Oh, okay. So what did she sit and watch? She liked to watch? Yeah. Yeah. She liked to sit and watch. And they weren't married. They were, I think, dating for several years. And they started to get into this. I was the first female they had for that. And it was fun. I've played with them several times. But she's just kind of quiet and timid. And so there's not a whole lot of interaction between. me and her. She's just off to the side watching. Yeah. Yeah. Or playing with the vibrator. Yeah. The last time we met though, she did, he did fuck her because it was like timeout. I had reached my max for a little bit and I'm like, you two go to it. So I sat and watched that. And that was fun. It was interesting. I wouldn't be opposed to playing with more couples as a solo. But we'll see. We'll see where life goes. I don't have any like, oh, I got to do this. You've done a lot. Maybe. You did tell me before we started talking because I was asking about your name and stuff and you're like, oh, people already know. My family knows, blah, blah, blah. Like, how do people know? And who knows? Our kids know.

How do your kids know? I told them probably about two years ago. How old are they? They're in their 20s. mid and late 20s. So wait, you sit down your kids and what do you say? Well, I had both of them together. My daughter was moving back from out of state. And she was going to move in with us for a short time until she got her apartment. And I just, I kind of felt, okay, I got to bring this up and let them know because if she comes across something that she might think, oh, mom's cheating or damn.

I don't want her to think that. And so I just sat them both down. We were at dinner and I said, I had something to tell you. Oh, my God, it's the funniest story. And they were just kind of like, okay, my son's like, high five, have fun, mom. My daughters, wait, wait, hold on. How long have you been doing this? Oh, my God.

And they were both supportive. Like, they both say it's nothing that they really think they would. do but you know if we're we're doing it and having a good time and it works for us have at it so yeah amazing that's been kind of freeing to it was very freeing yeah i i was kind of at first sort of scared because i'm like hair they're gonna overreact i i kind of figured my son would be fine but my daughter i wasn't sure because we're super close yeah and she was just like okay if that works for you, whatever. I've always been open sexually with them. We always talked about sex. It was never, there was nothing they couldn't ask. I was always that type of parent. And I never made it sex out to be a

really big deal. Like you shouldn't have it. It isn't. And my daughter was actually older when she lost her virginity just because it was no big deal. No, that's what happens. A lot of people when I first had my son and I was doing my show, they'd be like, well, what about your son? I'm like, the only thing I'm going to do to my son by doing what I do and being as open minded as I am, it's kind of like ruin sex, probably, if anything. It's like, it's like, because when you make it like not a big deal, there's less of a urge to do all these kind of crazy things sometimes. Because sometimes it's like, I had a father that was a priest. Like, they were so conservative. And I was like the biggest horror on the planet because it was like, sex is like so dirty and hot because I was doing like really bad things. I'm like, all I'm doing to my son. I'm like, all I'm doing to my son. son is like ruining all that shit for him if anything yeah you're putting it out there it's yeah go for it then yeah no big deal sex is no big deal and i think you wind up with kids who are super healthy and they don't they act out less okay like for real yeah that's that's always what happens and you think it's the opposite but it's not all these like religious people that are putting all this pressure and all these conservative parents that are telling their kids know about sex you don't know what

you're doing to your you're making them into weird stuff stuff even more. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I'm not supposed to like that. Yeah. Why shouldn't I like that? Yeah.

With my kids, I just kind of laid it all out there and they were fine with it. Yeah. Yeah. And their significant others know and it's no big deal. I have friends that know one that I'm particularly close with and I told her long ago and she's, yeah, okay, have fun. They probably live by, I don't know. know if you were my friend, I'd live vicariously through you. I'd always be interested in hearing your

stories, but that's just the way I am. It's fun. I'm sure she loves it. She's amused by the fact that the younger guys, because she's older like I am. And she's really. They really, and it's, you know, they're no big deal. She's like, I find that fascinating. So we always joke. She's like, anyone know? How many guys do you have in your stable, though, like right now, around? That I would see probably five. So you have a roster. Like you could just, if you need to get fucked by somebody else, you got a bunch of guys you could call on.

Yeah. There's always, and there's always new ones contacting us. So I basically know that if I wanted a date every night, I could have one. That wouldn't be an issue. It's easy enough to find men that want to fuck. God bless them.

Thank you very much. It keeps me happy. And my husband is super good about just kind of going with the flow. You want to go ahead. I got invited to go to a orgy. And it didn't work out because I had to deal with work. So it unfortunately didn't happen. But he was like, yeah, go. If you want to go, go. because I was going to go with one of the guys that I play with. Yeah. On the regular. And what he worries about mainly about all of that is something happening. Of course.

So he's comfortable if it's somebody that he knows and knows that they're a good person. They'll make sure everything's fine. So that's the only thing he would ever really worry about is, is everything okay. Otherwise, he's just to have a good time. Yeah, that's amazing. I listen, if you were right sitting next me, I'd fucking high five you, Amy. You're hardcore. I love how you roll.

I love how free and open your guys are with each other, you and your husband. It really sounds like kind of like a free-for-all, but it's so done on the up and up. And I feel like that's amazing. And I mean, it happened over time. Correct. But I typically hear that with people who have been playing for a long time. Like most rules go out the window. It is a free for all because once you've kind of been there, done that and you have that kind of trust and that security.

Like you ain't going anywhere. Your husband's not going anywhere. What does all that other stuff matter? It's just sex. You know what I mean? That's what it boils down to. Yeah. It's a good time.

Yeah. When we were first together, somebody said, you guys need to find a hobby that you both can enjoy. I don't think anybody ever thought this, but, you know, it did work out that it turned out to be a great hobby. so and we've been married 30 years so and you're still banging four to five times a week okay that's pretty major that says a lot right there and that kind of intimacy it's not just about the sex I feel like when you're doing that it's about the intimacy and the closeness that you have with each other that physical closeness that adds to a relationship and a lot of times that has gone out the window for people who have been married for 30 years when you guys are still connecting a lot we go out and

public and we still hold hands. Yeah. It's still, we're still close. He's basically my best friend. Yeah. And he always will be. I enjoy my time with him in and out of the bedroom. So we were compatible. And he gives me the freedom and I give him the freedom to go do what makes him happy. If you want to try it, let's go for it. Yeah, I love it. It'll either work or it won't. And we talk about it if it doesn't and figure out, is there a different path we want to take? Or is it just something we want to leave? And everybody asks, are you ever going to be done?

I don't know. When it ceases to be fun, we'll stop playing. Yeah. Until then, why stop? Yeah, why stop? Listen, Amy, you listen to my show so you know that I sometimes love to get some picks. Do you want to send me some, like, R-rated picks, since you do like to dress up, I'm sure you have some hot picks of you and you're on all the app.

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Amy. I love this episode. I'm jealous of all the things you could do. You could squirt. You could do all the things I want to do. You're like I said, if you were here, I'd fucking high five you. I think you're great. Thanks for calling it and sharing your awesome story. Well, thank you. And if I have any more exciting gangbangs or anything, I'll be sure to get in touch with you. Maybe we can chat again. For sure. I'm sure you're going to have more stuff to chat about. Anyway, thanks, Amy. Thanks so much for calling it. Thank you. Bye-bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secrets, Sex Lives of Total Strangers is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the

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