Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 891 - Gangbang Betty is Swinging with her New, Much Younger Boyfriend

Episode Date: August 8, 2024

Gangbang Betty is now swinging with her new, much younger boyfriend and she called in to talk all about it. How young is her new boyfriend? How did they meet up? And, when did they start swinging? Tune in to hear all the details including her hookups as a unicorn after her divorce, what she liked about being with couples, where she met her younger bf and what exactly went down during their first hook up, how and why they both decided to have a non monogamous relationship right from the get go, how they got involved in swinger house parties and what exactly goes down at them, what she didn’t enjoy about being a hotwife in her previous marraige and why she prefers swinging, the couples party they had at an airbnb and what exactly went down, what she loves about people in the lifestyle, how and why her new guy won’t let her play solo and how she feels about it, why she believes in being upfront about your sexual needs is the way to go, why she prefers dating younger guys, the apps they use to meet people for hook ups, why they prefer swinger parties over clubs, how she recently learned to squirt and her tips on how to squirt yourself, why she digs variety when it comes to sex and whats her biggest turn ons, how her boyfriend loves being with other women, how she enjoys watching and why sharing her partner makes her happy plus a whole lot more. Her first episode is # and second episode is #457. REPEAT **To see anonymous pics BETTY and most of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Betty from last week, Gang Bang Betty. Gang Bang Betty was like a hot wife. She was hot wifing and gang banging for her husband and she ended the episode meeting another guy and was like banging it behind her husband's back but yet they had an open room. relationship. It was a little confusing. They were going through some marital issues. And this is the next chapter in Betty's life. Now, she did call in once before this episode, just to tell me if she was

divorced, banging a lot of young guys. And then she called again, like a year later, and she had met a young guy, and she was in a relationship, and she was swinging with him. They're in a very non-monogamous relationships going to swing her parties and all that kind of good stuff and having fun. And that's what she talks about here. It's a super interesting update to find out where Betty wound up, what she's doing, why she's so much happier. It's really interesting. She does reflect back on all the hot wiping she did with her ex-husband and talks about how she sees that now that she's out of it and why she prefers swinging with her partner as opposed to hot wiping like she used to do with her husband. And it was interesting to hear her answer to me. So it's a super interesting update. Betty does

not disappoint. She's still having a lot of fun. This time with a much younger boyfriend, her much younger boyfriend. I think he's 15 years younger than her. So I do have picks of Betty. She calls herself a soccer mom. She talks about having a mom bod. She's like the everyday woman. I don't know if you want to put a body to the episode. I got more from my Patreon. But all the links to everything's in the description.

I'm going to be right back on with Betty. Hi, gang bang, Betty. Welcome back for an update show. How are you? Thank you. I'm very good. Thank you for having me back. Oh my God.

Gang bang, Betty. How could I not have you back? And how could I forget about you? And if anyone has to listen to your first episode, and I think that there was a second episode, but things come in three. So this is your third episode. It's not like you were on recently. It was a while ago.

So I feel like probably a lot of people maybe that are going to be listening to this one haven't heard your first one. So if you have not heard Gang Bang Betty's first episode, the reason is where she got her name Gang Bang Betty, you need to go listen to it because in that episode. It was a very popular one. Yes. And it was so interesting because, listen, I have it. anonymous picks of gang bang Betty over my Patreon. So I know that she is like the soccer mom lady next door. Okay. But behind closed doors, her and her husband at the time,

we're having effing gang bangs. All right. But it ended kind of sad that one because at the end of the thing, it was like they were doing it anymore. You were with your husband. But by the time I talked to you the second time, you were divorced from your husband and you were just banging young guys. Okay. Now that's exactly where I left off. That was your last episode, that's what you were doing then. But I know that when I reached out for my where are you now episodes, you have a new update. I know that at one point you told me and emailed me back saying that you were with a guy and you were dating somebody and you guys had an open relationship and you were doing all kinds of things. I did as your listeners will know. I talked about

how when I was married, I had a cuckold husband and we enjoyed, I enjoyed a lot of big, I think We both enjoyed a lot of gangbanks. I did them and he watched. And then I sort of fast forwarded to at the time, I was sort of, I had a little fling with a co-worker. Oh, yeah, I forgot about that. I was still married. And that was sort of the one and only time I didn't tell my now ex-husband about anything.

And I knew then that that was sort of, there was many, many reasons why the marriage came to an end and it really had absolutely nothing to do with our lifestyle. But matter of fact, that was the highlight of our match. That was the best part. Yes, it really was. So anyway, then I also, in the next episode, I think I might have mentioned that I had met somebody. I liked them, but that didn't work out.

And so I was just, at that point, I was just, yes, I learned later that I'm not very good with the terminology, but I learned later that I was a unicorn. And I was just out there. like I was going out with lots of different men and some couples and I just had them lined up. And I think that's the last I talked to you, I was like, like I had doubles on Thursdays. You were definitely doing double guys, but I don't remember the couples. Yeah, there was, there was throwing a couple. Well, so at one point, I sort of just meeting people online.

I met a, I saw a couple that I thought looked interesting. And so I thought, oh, why not? So I did that a few times with a couple different couples. That was great. So kind of both, I would say that those were where we just kind of like, he fucked her, I fucked her. Like I played with her and he went and he fucked me. And it was just kind of like back and forth.

And it was just really nice. And I think one of the reasons I felt like I wanted to try that was that I was feeling a little, I was feeling a little lonely. And I thought, I don't. I don't know. I just thought maybe if it was a woman in there too that I would, I don't know, feel a little more, I don't know, affection in a weird way. It's not that I was really looking for that. But I just wanted something more. So I threw in some couples and that was really, really nice. And I really enjoyed that. I like the company of women, though I am definitely all about men when it comes to really having sex. I do. I like women. I love their bodies and I love to play around. So that was really fun. And all the meanwhile, in the background, the whole time was this one person that I had met early, early on, not the man that I had the little work affair with, but somebody else.

And we sort of finally kind of got it together. And I think when I wrote you a little update, I'm finally sort of with that person. So I basically, the story is that I fell in love. and I was we are both in the lifestyle together and we're having a blast oh my god gang bang betty take me back to that whole story with that guy because he was just like a side player at that time so we probably didn't get into it so why don't you tell me like how you guys met and then how you got into the lifestyle and all that kind of good stuff so it's been almost two years and really when I write around when my marriage was coming to an end at that same time I went on when I went

online and decided for the first time that I was going to find myself some people to have sex with, because I was like, I'll be damned if I'm not going to have sex. So I started, I met this person. He was one of the, I don't know, not the first person I ever met sort of through a hookup site, but one of the earliest ones. Yeah. And we connected and we had amazing sex. Like he, okay, so let me start with these 20 years younger than me.

Oh, I like that. that's a good fucking start. Okay, so wait a second, remind, can you just say the ages, the actual ages? Do you mind? Yeah, so I'm currently 55 and he's 35. Wow, okay, good for you, Betty. So, and he's, and I was attracted to his picture because he was, he was fit and

damn sexy and I was like, and he wrote to me first and he was like, hey, beautiful. And I even said to him, like, you realize how old I am, right? Because at this point, I'm like, I'm not lying. I'm just going to say what I am. And he was like, yeah, but you look beautiful. And so we started chatting and talking. We met for coffee. That lasted about two minutes.

And we were like, yeah, you're hot. And we just connected. And we had amazing sex. Throw me around the room sex. So he's big and not big, but he's strong. He's nice sized. And like, we literally fucked on every surface in that hotel room. And it was great because I had been married to an older man.

And he was like, we fucked. We kind of caught our breakfast. that we fucked again, he came again. I was like, okay, like three times in that afternoon. I was like, oh, my God, this one's a keeper. Yeah, gang-gmy-beddie needs a guy like that. Some older women are like, oh, it's good that their guy has slowed down too, but not you because you're like highly sexed up.

You need a lot of sex. It was great. So we were done and he kind of went, can we do this again sometime? And I sort of went, I don't know, I don't do second dates. And I really meant it. But then I was like, but maybe because it was awfully good. This episode is sponsored by Blue Chew. Let's talk about good effing sex.

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And that was April. And I'm just going to say by the end of the summer, both of our lives had sort of gotten messy. And we just needed, we just couldn't, you know, meet up. And I missed him because at that point, we had become very intimate friends as well. And so I really didn't miss him because it was clear that we had more feelings for each. other than just sex, but we had fabulous sucks. So kind of, that's what I went on, what I called you the second time. And I was just having, I was like, well, I'm just going to fill my free time with, and I was,

and I was enjoying myself, but all the while in the back of my mind, I was missing this guy. And we'd occasionally connect with texts, but not much. And then finally, sort of like about a year ago, we sort of decided that we should try to meet up again. And it was instant like fire. Like. Same thing. And yeah. And he had been married and divorced too.

And he had been in a vanilla marriage. And I was very clear from day one, very, very clear. I'm never going to be monogamous. I can never do that again. I never want to do that. And he was like, that's fine with me. And so, but the rules have sort of changed in the sense that he wasn't comfortable with me just kind of going off of my own.

and fucking guys that he didn't know. And like when my ex was like that was okay with him as long as like he heard about it later. Yeah, yeah. But with him, he was like, no, that's that I'm not comfortable with that. So he found us an amazing, I didn't even know these existed. This amazing group of people that this one person, couple in particular, that throws amazing house parties. And they like 50 couples there.

And we. We got us invited to this first party and we went and we just met, we've met so many fantastic couples. And so now that's sort of what we're doing. So we'll meet people. We talk to them. We like them. In this house parties, they'll be like room for playing games like in the bottle where everybody ends up naked or a hot tub. And there's a, there's a room where people will be invited in or whatever to have sex in there.

And so sometimes that happens. Sometimes we'll hook up with a couple right there. I kind of like being watched, so that's sort of fun. And I have absolutely no qualms with watching him have sex with other people. I think it's hot. I love seeing him with other people. I was a little intimidated that I'm definitely on the older end of the spectrum, but nobody even knows. Like, I tell him, and they're like, what?

So nobody, nobody knows. Nobody even guesses that. They all think that I'm like in my, like, that I'm 40 or something. Nobody, nobody knows. So it doesn't seem to be a problem. Remind me with your ex-husband, did you, was he like a true cuck because you would go out and you were a hot wife? He never hooked up with other women, right?

Never. This is the first guy that you experienced that and you realize like you really like that too. I wouldn't, I guess I can't say never. There was with my with my ex-husband, there was a couple of couples and one in particular that we got very close with. And he was comfortable like fucking her. I had sex with her and we had four sums, three-sums in every direction and all that. And that, yeah, there was, but that just wasn't a regular thing.

He was very uncomfortable sexually having sex with anybody but me for the most part. So it just didn't happen. And he, he enjoyed me doing it. But I'll tell you the thing I didn't like about that whole scenario. I loved it at first, but then after a while I felt kind of used. like I was his personal porn star that he could just kind of farm out. If that makes sense. It didn't feel good after a while.

I was like, if you're not going to be involved and I'm just kind of doing this and then I'm getting off, of course, but you're getting off on it. I just didn't have the intimacy. I felt there was a piece of, if I'm just out there fucking, it's one thing. But this is my, was my husband. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. And I wanted to feel a little.

bit more connection and I did it. So I think that's a thing that works really nicely with what I'm doing now is that we're really in this together and we're going places with other couples and where we one night we, so we rented an Airbnb with two other couples and we we had we had this fantastic night with there were six of us. So like Orgy Central? Yeah, like it was we I played with the women played with each other. The men definitely kind of swapped around and fucked the women. There were no, there was no, I think there was, I think I probably had a little bit of like double, double ended like a cock in my mouth and fucking. But, but yeah, we just kind of like swapped up and we were super sexual and just we, we fucked in all kinds of ways. And oh, and I had a, I had, this is a

toy that I just, I just bought. It was one of those little roses that's the, does the sucky thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. With the air? I was so, yeah. Yeah. I was so enamored with that.

I was like, oh my God, because I brought some toys. I was like, oh my God, I love this toy. And they had, the other women had tried it. So I like went around trying it on them. It's good. It's like that kind of stuff. Like we just had a lot of fun. But it's really, it's an interesting kind of switch.

So now we're sort of like becoming friends with people and having sex with them, but also going out to dinner and go. go into sauna and go. Yeah, well, listen, I hear from people in the lifestyle. They're like, we also have barbecues and we go over and hang out. And you just, and a lot of times what they say is that the people in the lifestyle are just really open and really cool people. Just not even just for sex outside of that. They're just like the greatest people they've met.

I think that's true. And one of the things that I have found is that you really have to be. a good relationship to be able to do this. And so the people we've met through this are like really solid, healthy couples. And it's kind of nice to not be around like my girlfriends that are trying to complain to their spouses. Like these people are like into each other.

And it's awesome. Like it's just so fun. And we're both super sociable. And that was something I didn't have with my ex. So we're we're plotting out like every week And now that we haven't gone too crazy, but we're like this, there's talk about going to like a hotel takeover. Yeah. Down in Florida next year.

So that's sort of in the works. And so I'm really like kind of enjoying this new like lifestyle, like really being in it in a different way. So it's, it's interesting because I would have always said, I hope I was in the lifestyle, but it's just such a different aspect of it, which I thought was interesting and maybe worth sharing with your listeners. Is it like the lifestyle it can morph even for one person or one couple or like you can be a go from being like me in a cuckold kind of like relationship to unicorn to now with couples. Yeah. No, it's really interesting. Especially what you said about how, because you've been on all sides of things.

Listen, you're called a gang bang betty because you loved gangbangs with your husband. That's one aspect. You also had the true like cuckold kind of situation where your guy. you went out and fuck those guys. And what I hear from a lot of the cuckled husbands is, yeah, you use the word porn star. You felt used like a porn star. And I got to say, that's what they say is what is so hot about it. It's like their own personal porn store, but it's their wife.

I never heard somebody talk about how, talk about it in the terms that you did, in the way that you did where you felt used after a certain time because there was. that disconnect. That's really interesting. When you guys were at it for a very long time, was that towards the end that you felt that way? And was there no more reclaiming sex that was going on? Like, why do you feel like that turned into a situation where you felt like not cool with it anymore? There was reclaiming sex. I just, yes, I just felt, I just felt like I was always the performer. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I get that. Yeah. And that's like really hot at times. Yeah. But I just wanted, more. I wanted more from the person that I was with, from that person that I was married to or in relationship with. I wanted more than that. And it was like our sex later was good, but it was like

he was really into sort of replaying what he saw or what he thought he saw or what he wanted to hear what I did. And that was all, it was so hot. But it was also like, I don't know. It just one note. It's very one note. I mean, let's look at you. You like a lot of different things. I feel like that's the thing with you. It's just like you really want to do all kinds of stuff. To me, that's very one note kind of very specific. And some people aren't wired that way. Your husband, your ex-husband was wired that way. That's what he liked. That's all he needed. 100%. That was right for him, but not for you. And I think everybody's different. And that's the most important is to be with someone that's like-minded. You're lucky that you wound up meeting this guy because he's completely down

with all the stuff. So you're more aligned with him. We are. We're really aligned. And like I said, he's not quite, is he doesn't want me to sort of go off on my own. And that is really okay. I am like, that is, if that's the worst thing in my relationship, that doesn't want me to go on my own and fuck somebody. But even that, I said, well, maybe eventually if we're like, there's a particular couple that we've become really close to and have fucked in lots of scenarios, I'm like, it might we both agreed that that could happen. And I've told him, like, I would be okay with you, too. So who knows? But I do, I think I do like to change and shift things up. But I'm definitely enjoying this sort of stage of my life. It's awesome. And also, like, these house parties will have themes so we get to dress up, which is fun. But it's also, like, really sexy dress up. So it's like a chance to wear your lingerie and things that you might not get to do just generally.

So like we're walking around in lingerie or less. So really, really fun. What's his backstory now? Was he ever in the lifestyle or open or was he monogamous beforehand with his ex-wife? I think with his ex-wife, it was completely monogamous and eventually very non-sexual. So which was kind of what led to the end for them. And I understand that earlier on in his dating life, there was like never a really, open, but there were a couple of opportunities with another woman or something, but, but not much.

So, yeah, so it was sort of like, I kind of like dragged him in fast, but he was completely, I didn't even drag. He jumped. Let's just say he jumped right in with me. Let's just say, he was like, I'm in. And that's, I also, it's been interesting because I will tell, I would say that to me, getting involved in a relationship with somebody from day one that you're like, this is what I want sexually is so great. And I see on like other chats, like people will say, I'm single, but I'm looking to get in a relationship.

Should I tell them right away that I want to be in a lifestyle? Yeah. And I think personally, I am, I have known to give great advice, but my personal experience is be up front from the day one. Because that person, if you want a relationship with them, should know what you're looking for. Yeah. And I always, we always joke that like, we met on a fuck site.

So, like, we both knew what we wanted. There was no bait and switch there. Because a lot of times that's what happens. Because people think that they have to. I think it's a lot of times you find people going into, like, second and third marriages being more upfront than they were the first time. Like, you learn. I think so, too.

You do learn. And you're, unless you're dumb and just are going to continue to cycle through the same mistakes, but I do think that for us, we're trying to not make those mistakes again and to try to sort of be, be clear about everything. And it is, it's been, it's been great. And despite the 20-year age gap, it works. We're working. Now, let me ask you this, do you guys live together? No. Okay. Are you guys like going over to family dinners for Thanksgiving? I'm assuming, yeah, like you guys are together that way, too, correct? Are you guys like going over to family dinners for Thanksgiving? I'm assuming, yeah, like you guys are together that way too, correct?

So I don't live near my family. So he hasn't gone to my family dinners, but I don't go either. Yeah, of course, right. But my children, my adult children have know him, met him, like him. He's definitely a part of my social circle with my vanilla friends. Yeah, yeah. For sure, he's, we're, we're over. open about the fact that we are dating, but not the fact that we are in the lifestyle. But he, I guess for me, I needed to for now maintain some independence. We don't live that close together. He's about two hours away. So he usually comes up on the weekends and I own my own home and I want to keep it that way for now. Yeah. So it kind of, and we sort of talk about how it's better to miss each other than it is to sort of jump right in and live together and start worrying about bills and all that kind of stuff.

So this way we're like planning what we're going to do on the weekend and how we're going to have fun and we're really keeping it fresh that way. And I really do like it. And we've gotten really good at the like FaceTime sex time. And he's though, you wouldn't mind, I mean, because he's far away. Like would he be, he's able if he wanted to play with someone else during the week. want you wouldn't care but he doesn't want you to do that correct he doesn't want he doesn't want to do that without me yeah he doesn't want me to do it so for now we're that's who we're at and yeah that's fine yeah you know i am just like just let's just keep being honest with each other and keep letting us but yes he

he and i both work a ton on that monday through friday so we don't actually have a lot of time for with you else. So we're both just working all the time anyway. But yeah, if there came a day where there was a couple that we had been playing with and I really have told him like, if that couple ever wanted to invite you, just you over because you were nearby, I would be okay with that. Right. So we'll say maybe something like that'll turn out someday.

But at this point, we're not doing that. You don't need to, it sounds like. We really don't. We really, and we're just really enjoy. meeting lots of sexy couples of all ages. And it's interesting in the lifestyle. There's so many body sizes and shapes. And it's just really a sexy, fun thing.

It's amazing. And you weren't in the lifestyle in that aspect with your ex-husband, correct? No, not really. There was a group that we had been a part of for a little bit. They would kind of meet at a hotel like kind of place. or rent a place or rent a nightclub out kind of thing. So it was kind of a little bit of a takeover. But it was not that often.

And I can't say that we ever really connected personally with other couples that way. This, we were more like meet them online individually. And back then, I would say that AFF was better for that kind of me. Now it is definitely not so great. But, but it was all I do. now. Yeah. Right. It was all I knew. So, and I know that a lot of couples are on SLS and I know that my guy now is on SLS for us, but he doesn't use it very much. We really don't need to. We really got, we got enough. Yeah. I feel like once you get tapped into the lifestyle and the events and stuff where you're at, like you're good to go, right? Is that, isn't that how it kind of works? I think that's exactly. And then some couple will say, oh, have you been to, So, like, we've gone to some of those nightclubs where you pay, like, a membership. Swingers clubs.

It's kind of like, it's kind of like one of those house parties. Yeah. And so that was, that was interesting. I didn't like it as much as a house party. How come? I feel like, I guess it just felt a little, like, everybody was kind of in their own world. There wasn't as much interaction personally. And maybe you just, maybe everybody kind of already either knew each other or I don't know.

I think that the club. would be really fun to go to with some other friends. Yeah. I think that would be like a great thing to do. We have a couples together and then all go down. But we sometimes, sometimes we joke, we're getting better about it, but we do joke that we're a little bit of failed swingers because we're so into each other still. Right.

Because it's only been a year. Yeah. Yeah. Like we're still so into having sex with each other that sometimes we're just like, let's just go home and fuck each other. Oh my God, that's awesome. Well, that's how it should be in the beginning, don't you think? Yeah, I love it.

But we do joke that we're like, I think we might be failed swingers. I'm so lucky because I'm like with the hottest guy in the room. He says the same about me. But I'm like, but look at you. You're young. You're fit. Did he always like older women? Did he say that?

Did he have a thing for older women? Yes. His ex-wife was, I think, 13 years older than him. so it really wasn't, I'm that much more old, but, you know, but yes, he has always liked older women. And he likes him for the very reason that they are more comfortable sexually and more out there and more confident people. Yeah. And I know that kind of when he became single, he dated some younger women as well. He kind of went through the gamut of different age groups.

And it was somebody that was 10 years younger than was just like, oh, my God. No, I think it's apples and oranges. You're a guy and every guy's different. That's just what he likes and that's what he's going to want. And look, he had the, his wife before you was 13 years older than him, correct? Yeah, yeah. And he said, now he didn't have children with his ex-wife, but, you know, he, like, one of the first things he said to me was like that he loved my, he referred to it as my mom bod.

He's, I love your mom bod. Interesting. Yeah. Yeah. So it was not made me feel like, wow, like it was one of the first times anybody ever really said that to me. Yeah. And it made me like kind of look down at myself and go, okay, this is a type and people like, some people like this type. And I should just embrace that that is what I have, because that is who I am. A mom. Like I said, I also look like at least 10 years younger than

than most people my age. I do zero to get that. Like I don't dye my hair or wear excessive makeup or anything. I don't, I try to eat well and get some exercise. But I'm not. I'm not. I. I'm not. I'm not working hard. No, but I think that age sometimes is more than just how you look physically. It's how you feel emotionally and that comes through. There are just some people that are ageless. Yeah, I think, yeah, thank you. And I do think that is true.

And I kind of joke that I'm sort of a goofball. Like I'm just sort of, I like having a good time. And like I said, I am sociable. And when once I get sort of like going turned on, I'm just. so comfortable, like, being in that mood. Yeah, it just does. I love, I just love sex. I love being around sexy people. And it does. I just kind of like spark right up. And let me ask you this, because you're in your late 50s. Did you, do you take hormones? Are you just like completely still into sex and you went through menopause and you're totally never lost interest or lost the desire?

What's your story when it comes to that? Yeah. So I am completely through menopause. I'm, I, actually continue to have an IUD partially just because it got stuck in there. It won't be coming out any, ever. Oh my God. That's a little scary, but hilarious. But I don't know. We did our research. And apparently that is just fine.

Oh, okay. Oh, I know what I wanted to tell you. I've literally wanted to tell you since this happened. Yeah. I learned to squirt. You are kidding. And because that's on my fucking bucket lesson. I know.

I know. I know. And it never happened. Fuck the menopause talk. Tell me about your squirting. This guy, he got me to do it. You're kidding. Yeah.

And now I do it all the time. Wait, tell me exactly how that happened. Okay. So I would say the first thing is, and I had read that I was supposed to, I went to the bathroom before I had sex, which I usually do. And then I go afterwards too. So we were having pretty hardcore, like banging sex. Like it was going on.

changing positions on the counter, on the bed, off over here, kind of on the floor. Like, we were just kind of banging all over the place. And then at one point, he, like, pulled his hand out and he pulled his dick out. And he put his hand in there. And it was like, he just kind of like, kind of went fast in there. And I let go. I mean, it was water everywhere. Like, oh, my God.

And you had never before in your life. Never, never, never, nothing like that. Okay, but had you ever tried? I had tried on my own. I tried kind of thinking through it when I was having sex with other people. I had read about it. Okay, this gives me hope. Okay, so you had gone in there with your own fingers, tried to touch the right spot, do all the right things.

I bought one of those vibrators with a little double, like the rabbit kind of thing. I did that. I was like, I'd be up there. When I'd had great orgasms, great. but inside and outside great organisms, but it never, and I'd get really wet and juicy, but never, never squirted. Well, this, so then it was, so one of the things I can say, I kind of said to him, I go, I feel like my pussy just got so confused because there was so much action going on that it

just kind of like, let go. And then I started to pay attention to it. And what are the things I will tell you that I learned, okay, so usually when I'm having sex a lot of times I'll like kind of like flex my kegill muscles right yeah because it kind of it feels good feels good to me feels good to them so I do a lot of that and in this moment I did the opposite I sort of like pushed down almost like not like you having a poop but like a little push down like I was opening that passage oh instead of tightening it up and so that's what I learned is like when I feel like I'm in that moment when I'm like wanting to tighten you mean like when you feel like you

want to tighten and maybe push yourself over the edge instead you relax and open yes push it open and it's never really relax is a little bit of a push oh okay so not relax yeah and then boom it comes it's boom that's it because i think what i've always done is tightened it way up and instead it's let that go push that out push it out kind of like you're gonna pee push but not like that extreme but kind of like that like you have but i've already emptied my bladder so there's really nothing there any it's not that we know that it's not pee, right? Yeah. But it comes from the same place, so it's that same push. Like you could somebody had said to me before it happened, this was actually one of the lifestyle people.

Somebody had said to me, well, something like when you, it almost feels like you have to pee, just let it go. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But, but I actually give it a little push. And it's, and it's, it comes, and it felt like we, just the other day we were having sex and he was fucking me from behind and I started to squirt and he literally pulled his dick out and watched me. And he was like, I saw it. I'm like flogging out. Oh my goodness. I'm so jealous.

Now let me ask you this because this is what I've heard and this is what I think is the case that once you do it and you could do it once, then you could do it all the time. Correct? That's exactly true. It doesn't happen every single time we have sex, but yes, I would say that it's, yes. Now that I figured it out, it just happens. At first I was worried like, what if I'll never be able to do it again? But then it just became more and more normal.

Right. And somebody told me too that like it's more common in older women. So I think that you're in a good spot. You're going to nail this this time. Yeah, because I had another friend who told me and she was older than me and it was something that she had never experienced before. And she didn't wind up squirting because she thought she had to pee and she had that feeling.

And her guy was telling her to squirp. but she was like, she got freaked out and she didn't squirp, but she was about to and she had never experienced that before. So, yeah, maybe it is an older, that it can happen when you're older or more. I think maybe things are loosened up a little bit more. We're kind of more comfortable with everything. But, like, it was so much, that first time, it was so much. It was like the classic, oh, my God, we wet the mattress.

Like, oh, my gosh. And now we have to be a little more careful. Does the orgasm feel different? or are you going to be one of those people because I have had some people tell me like it's not even that great doesn't feel that great. No, I would say it's not like the intense orgasm part that you have. It was like is almost separate to that. I think it's almost like a party trick for the dudes. Yeah, that's what I think so.

Because I think some guys really like that for sure. Yeah, I think so too. And I feel like it's in some ways it is because it's definitely not as heightened is like a good orgasm like when they're like, a dick or a dildos deep down inside there and you're like really it's not as intense as that. And does it happen at the same time as your orgasm or no? It doesn't happen at the same time. Interesting. Oh, and the other thing about it, oh my, this is so funny.

But the other thing I noticed is that once it happens, it does, if we're still fucking, which a lot of times we are, because he isn't gone. But it does kind of wash away some of the lubricant of the natural. Oh, the wetness that you was already there. Yeah. Yeah, so we find that it's a little dry around the edges for a bit. And so we have to sort of like kind of get a little bit more of that mucusy stuff kind of down around the edges. Because it kind of, it changes the viscosity.

That was something I have noticed. Oh, wow. Yeah. So sometimes you like just kind of like spit or lick down there a little bit to sort of really kind of get it going again. Now, do you swear with other guys? That's the big question. I have not. Just with him.

I have not. Just with him. Oh, that's interesting. Yeah. which I think is interesting, and I want to keep practicing. Yeah, so it's only when you're like a fucking him that it happens. But you're fucking other guys. You just haven't gotten down with that.

It just hasn't happened with other guys yet. But I think it's just like he just really knows like where that button is now. Yeah. So he's really on it. And I think I need to sort of keep working with other guys. You know how it is. Like one of the things I love about having sex with people I've never. had sex before is the awkwardness and the oddness is like kind of a turn-on to me.

That's interesting. No, I don't know how that is. That would be like my, that's like the worst part of it for me. But that's why you like variety. I think that that must be a part of it. It is. It's kind of like, it's kind of like meeting a new person for the first time. And that's how I want to meet them.

Yeah, that's interesting. And you like that. That awkwardness is the turn on for you. It is. It is a turn on. And it's also like a, it's like a chance for me to sort of just be like my true intersexual self, like just kind of letting that go and, and there's no emotions attached to it. So there's no, there's no big problem with it.

And anyway, but the downside of that is that they don't necessarily know all your buttons, right? They don't know quite how to press them all, whereas when you're with somebody that you have sex with on a regular basis and you're close to and have good communication with, you can really like explore those things. So both ways are great. And that's what I'm really loving about this new relationship that I'm in, is just really exploring all those things that feel good. And it's so easy to just be like, oh, yeah, keep doing that. Totally open.

But yet also in love, you also have a great relationship outside of that, right? Yes, yes. We really do. And it really is, I really feel very much in love. And in love and in lust. It's great. It's just great. Now, what is he like the best?

Does he know that are you still into gangbangs? He knows all about them, but I don't know how he feels about him. Like he, I told him about the podcast. He knows about the course podcast. And I think he kind of basically listened to a part of it and was not able to hear the rest. So I think it's a little bit of like kind of still a tender thing for him. Yeah.

He really wants to do things together, but he's not really comfortable with the that. And maybe it's in the way, like, okay, I've never, I mean, I don't know, the first, my, my ex-husband, he and I were, like, got together at 19. Yeah. I never really had the whole, like, oh, that was your former girlfriend or, but now I have, I am with somebody like that, and I realize, like, it still doesn't bother me. Like, I don't care that he had girlfriends before me or a wife before me. Right. And literally have no jealousy or problems with that.

but I know that other people do. Yeah. Have it, you know, like feel some sort of uncomfortableness about that. Yeah. So I think maybe there's a little of that, you know, thing. Like recently he came face to face with that person that I worked with that I had that little flick with. And he knew and the other person knew too about each other. And there was definitely like a little bit of, I could tell for him he was a little freaked out about having to meet that person.

Yeah. Listen, I think that everybody's different. And I think the guy who wants his wife to go off and fuck another guy and come home and tell him and videotape it or call him is a very specific type of guy. And I don't necessarily think that's the same type of guy that's in the lifestyle. I think it's just two different types of people. And your guy is not into that. He's not wired that way. It's a different thing.

And I'm like, like you said, I like variety, so I'm happy to sort of change it up. This is great. Like I get everything with this deal. No, because you also, I think like you said in that other relationship when it was just that one thing where you were going out, yeah, you had all the variety. But you also enjoy seeing your partner fuck other people. Right. You like being an exhibitionist.

There's a lot of things that turn you the fuck on and you're into it. And you like putting yourself in that position. So this is way more more in line with who you are than your pre-examination. previous like gang bang betty scenario. This guy is better for you, I think. Yeah. And I think if we really wanted, if I really wanted to have two, three, four men, we could certainly put that together eventually through the lifestyle and other couples.

Like if that was something, but I'm okay with not. I'm really like, gee, for God's sakes, I have five or six gangbangs in my life. I know, please. Five or six men. I'm not like going, I feel a little bit like, yep, I've checked that off the bucket list. Of course. I totally get that about you. You've been there, done that.

You're like now onto new things. You're squirting. Now you're having like foursums, six sums. You're like living life. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm not that experience with women. So I'm still like intrigued by doing more with them.

And I love women. Like I love women as friends. So I love the idea of learning to explore their bodies more. Now, what is your guy into that? Is that his thing? what is he into the most? And he likes, he likes women of all shapes and sizes. Right.

He just, he just loves women. Yeah. And I, he's not sitting around going, gosh, I can't wait to see you with another woman. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I think, you know, he would be, he has seen a little. And I think that he's totally comfortable with that. But it's not, I know for some guys, that's such that turn on. They just can't wait for that women to be with other women.

Yeah. And that's certainly not his thing. I think that he's sort of like just wants that sort of like kind of swap. I think he really likes to swap. That's what I'm going to go with. He's really comfortable with that. And that's really fun. I love looking over and seeing him fuck some other women.

I also think it's kind of funny when I don't know. I get a little happy for him when it's like maybe a younger woman. I'm like, oh, you got to have a little bit of a younger woman tonight. And he's always, yeah, but you're the best. And that's what we all want to hear in the end anyways when we. Yeah, but how amazing is it that you really, and you could sense by the way you're saying it, that you're really just so open and to, and love seeing him have a great time with whoever. There's just zero jealousy attached anywhere.

You're a rare breed. I love seeing him happy. Like, I love seeing him happy. And I, and sex makes us both happy. It makes people happy. And I love that. And, like, I love looking over and seeing him happy, me happy. I think it's great. It's just so great.

Yeah, so we're really enjoying, we're enjoying that whole scenario. Yeah, so like, Gangbanks, Betty is now like Swinger Betty, Swinger Betty, Swinger Party. Swinger Betty, that's right. Swinger Party, Betty. What title you give this one? I think, like, guys are salivating listening to this because it's like everybody wishes, I think a lot of guys would love to meet someone like you, Betty. I think like I said, you're a very rare breed. Most people are not wired to have zero jealousy and be so open to variety and want to be with different people that make them feel uncomfortable.

It just, but that's you. And you're living your best life. And I think that's, like I said, I think that that's a big part of why people think you seem young and you're open. Just the way you talk, it's like, I have to change your voice a bit. But if people really, like the way you talk about it, it just, it really comes through your enthusiasm and your genuine pleasure that you're having and there's just nothing attached to it. No darkness. No. You know what I mean? It's really good. Yeah. It's really good. Yeah. Life is very good and I'm definitely living my best

life. And I'm so happy that I have a great partner to live our best lives together. Like I'm, I call them my partner in crime. No. And I think it's amazing because like you were, you're more a relationship person. Just because you want variety and you like all that kind of sex, you're more wired to want to be with someone. You had that time where you were doing your thing, but you start to feel lonely. And I think that's where we had left, last left off. You were looking for somebody. Yes, I was looking for that person, like that friends with benefit kind of thing. I didn't expect to fall in love, but I definitely wanted a relationship of some kind. So I'm super happy that I put it out there in the universe and it came, it came. It came. Yeah. It was.

I was open to it and and I definitely did. I jokingly told him like that whole fall and winter when I was just fucking lots of I was like I did my work. Right. I definitely did my work around this. Yeah. And he knows about all that. Like you were open during that time, right?

Before you wound up getting together. He knew what you were doing. You were out living in the, you were fucking tons of people. He was doing what he wanted. But then your guy's life got messy, right? And then you got back in touch. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. We just, yes, he actually was going through a divorce too. Oh, so that's when he was doing it. It just kind of, yeah, things just kind of had hit bottom and he, you know, just wasn't in a place where he wanted to, he just couldn't just, he didn't want to just jump into a new relationship at that moment. He was like, no, I need to process this.

And so it was wise. Like we both did what we needed to do for six or nine months. Timing. Timing makes a big difference. Do you think your husband knows what the fuck is going on with that guy? No, no. I think my ex-husband is vaguely aware that I'm dating somebody, but I don't think he has any idea of what that really is. Where I live, he's not far away. We haven't yet run into each other at the same time. Your kids know this guy, so don't they think they go home and tell you them, oh, mom's dating some young hot guy. Well, they've been really good about not doing that. But I think at one point, he pulled into my,

driveway and was like, oh, whose vehicle is that? And my kid said, oh, that's mom's friend. And he just kind of went, oh, okay. So I think he's aware. I have heard that he's now trying to date online as well. I don't know too much. I hope he finds what he needs. Right. I don't know what that is, but I hope he finds what he needs. So, but fortunately, my adult children are super, they don't know about my lifestyle. Nor do they need to. Exactly. I'm very, I'm not like, I'm not like, Nobody knows. Nobody, no kid wants to know about their parents' sex life, okay? Nobody. Exactly. Sorry. So, yeah. So my older child knows a little bit that she knows it through my ex-husband who told her that we were swingers in the past. And I think she has some inkling. Oh, my God. He told your daughter. Yes. Yes. Yes. I know. I know it's weird. I was like, really? You didn't like, oh, God, no. You're right. Nobody really wants to know what their mom and dad was doing. No. No. No. No.

And so I just don't share that, but I don't really, I'm not like lying. I just don't share it. Listen, I say this many times on my show because sometimes people make comments just to fucking dig at people and they want to be judgy douchebags and they'll be like, oh, does she, do her kids know what she does or blah, blah? And I'm like, does your kids know how you fucked your wife last night? No one knows about that. Exactly.

Your sex life is your own private business. Okay, people talk about my show because we're talking about these things, but nobody tells their family members about their sex life. even vanilla people. So why should swingers? It's not, no one's fucking business. Exactly.

And that's why we have wonderful venues like yours, strictly anonymous, where we can talk about it and nobody has to know. Exactly. And people, like I said, guys are going to be like salivating like, oh my God,

too bad gang bang, Betty is off the market because I'm telling you with your last episode, we put out your email and I was getting emails from guys. Every day I was like, forward you. Here's another one. Here's another one.

Yeah. There were so many. I did get some really sweet emails, and I did try to respond to most of them. Some of the guys were hard. I mean, they were sending picks, remember? I know. There was some great ones. I know.

It was too bad. Some of them were really far away. I was like, yeah, this is not. I can't fly across the country to meet up with somebody for sex. It's just not my lifestyle. Yeah. I think I've told you I live in work a very conservative sort of. Yeah, no, I know.

That's what I love about you. Like I said, if people would see you, they would. think you're like the soccer mom next door. You would never know that you were doing gangbangs before. Then now you're in the lifestyle. You'd like love to fuck younger guys and everything that you're up to. No one would ever have any idea. But I love this update.

I love a happy ending. Thank you so much for calling in. It's always a pleasure. Yeah. If you could send me like one or two picks, always anonymous, nothing X rated. You're good with that. We'll put it there. People can see, get a little bit.

of a visual for the episode. But thank you so much for calling in with the update. It was awesome. People are going to love it. Thanks, Ben. Good luck with your squirting. Thank you. Oh, I'm going to try what you told me.

I'm going to. If it works, I'm going to, it's, you have to, it's you to think. Yeah, let me know. I will, I will. All right. Thank you. Thank you. Bye.

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