Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 898 - Ronnie Loves Watching her Husband with Other Women and More

Episode Date: August 19, 2024

Ronnie loves watching her husband (Sam ep #894) hook up with other women and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the first threesome she set up for her and her husband and why it led to them breaking up, the couple swapping she did before she met him and the one swap that stood out and why, how and why she loves watching her partners with other women, how she was never a very jealous person and how she does deal with it if and when it comes up, how her husband got her back and their first mff threesome they had and exactly what went down, how and why it’s hard for them to find couples to hook up with and how that led them to start throwing their own parties and created venue in their backyard, what goes down at their parties. how and why she loves pleasing women, how and why she only cums with her husband, how her and her husband also have threesomes with guys, what she looks for in a woman and what she looks for in a guy, how and why she told her daughter about the swinger parties and how she reacted, the times she has bumped into people she knew In the lifestyle and how everyone reacted, her fave swapping experiences she’s had in the lifestyle, the crazy experience she had with a stripper who wound up squirting in the back seat of her car and what went down plus a whole lot more. To find them and their parties online go to https://www.kiwiswingers.co.nz/ their screen name is Funfourall and their parties are called Live Entertainment Lifestyle Parties To see anonymous pics of RONNIE AND HER HUSBAND and see pics of my previous guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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nice reviews. Thank you to everyone that wrote a review. Okay. Today I have on. Ronnie. Now, I aired her husband's story last week, Sam. Sam called in and told the story about him and Ronnie. They're a professional swinger company, a couple. Sorry, they have an open marriage. They've been swingers from like very early on. And then they started hosting parties. They host very famous parties out in New Zealand. They're from New Zealand. Sometimes they do couples different, separate. I had Sam call in first and he gave their whole backstory and he gave their whole story. And he gave their whole story and then I decided to have Ronnie on and let me tell you her episode is a whole other side to their story which you're going to love. Ronnie's super cool. She's as open as he made her

out to seem. She's as hot as he made her out to see him and she's got a lot of hot stories and a lot of interesting stories as well. You're going to love her take on their relationship as well as just being in the lifestyle as a female and her take on all of that and her and being in the lifestyle as a female and all that kind of good stuff. Like I said, she brings so many new stories and information to this episode that you didn't hear on Sam. So it's such a great part two of Sam and Ronnie. You're going to love it. I have pictures of her. She talks about how curvy she is. She's hot. I have picks of them, both her and Sam and their sex parties in the club, the sex club that they built in their backyard. Okay, it's all on my Patreon. Anyway, I'm going to get right to it and be right

back on with Ronnie. Hey Ronnie, welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good, thank you. And yourself. I'm good. So listen, Ronnie, I talk to your husband, Sam, already. And now I'm going to talk to you.

Now, sometimes I air the guy first, then I air the female. I don't know. I mix it up all the time. So who knows if we've heard your husband already or he's going to come after you. But I have a little bit of your story. What's interesting about your guy's relationship is you did open up your marriage when you were together and you guys are full-fledged swingers. you throwing parties at your house. And when I say you throw parties at your house, like they're

very professional. I got pictures of them. Okay. You got like a whole fucking club being that was built in your, on your compound. It's like a real thing that goes down in New Zealand where you guys are from. Your guy gave a shout out to your parties, which you will give at the end again. So if anyone's in that area. But what he did tell me I remember is that you had a little bit of a history of swinging before you met him or doing something in the lifestyle in your relationships before you met. Sam, so do you want to, like, start there? Because you had a first marriage before him? No, no, no.

My first husband. Okay. I was in a relationship prior to my husband. Uh-huh. And he sort of got me into that lifestyle. I was a little bit curious in all fairness. I always liked the idea of that Roman Toga, get on in, touch everybody sort of style. And then, of course, he sort of heard about that.

And actually, it was a funny story. he, when you first meet the people that you're dating, they say things like, so how many people have you slept with? Oh, thank God. No guy should ever say that to it, girl. I know, right? And I said, how many of you? And he was like in the teens.

And I'm like, yeah, yeah, sure, sure. Close, close. And eventually it sort of came out that I was nowhere near the teens. And he was like miles away from what my total was. And then, of course, I started talking about the swinging. Yeah. Obviously, being a guy, 99.9% of guys always want a threesome. And so we eventually started talking about, and I said, well, look, I'm happy to give it.

Because when we met, my biggest thing was, don't cheat. Give me options. So if you think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, cool. Let me know. And I then can say, well, you go across the other side of the fence, come back and tell me what you think. or, hey, listen, do you mind if I join you on the other side of the grass, or I got the option to leave. I think all of those, but I should actually have that option to do that.

So that was my big thing. So we ended up, I said, okay, let's do this. And I worked with a lady who I was friendly with. And I put, floated that option with her and she was quite keen. At that time, however, my husband didn't quite understand the different. between lust and love. So he sort of got in contact with this lady, texted her,

became very full on. And I said to him at one stage, he listened, Sweet P, you need to stop. This is about like sex, not about feelings. And I don't think he quite understood at that point. And then it was sort of like, every day, and I'm like, so I actually took that option.

off the table and I said to him, I'm sorry, but that option's off the table. Still happy to do the threesome, but that option is off the table because you're getting too close. Yet, meaning this particular lady, not the actual threesome, just her. I said, well, I'm happy to still go ahead with that, but he felt like I dangled a carrot and I ripped that carrot out from underneath him and needless to say, we ended up spitting up for 18 months and he tried his hand and worked out that that wasn't. quite the case. I remember the pivotal moment where he realized he'd lost me. He came around one day

because he wanted to get me back. He was still with this other lady. And I turned around and I said, listen, it's over. We're done. Goodbye. And I think that was a massive, massive wake-up call. Because in between this, he's going back and forth, back and forth, not really knowing what's going on in his own brain. And I understand that he was a little bit like screwed up, not knowing quite where it was at. But I think when I decided that was it, I'm done. Good. See, later have a nice day. I think it really was a big wake-up call and then he spent the next, God knows how long, busting his gut to get me back effectively. Yeah, and it took a while. And we're going to get back to when you guys get back together and everything. He told that story

like he went on about that story a little bit more, which was interesting because it was more to me, I think, interesting to hear his side because he was the one that really fucked up in that situation. But let's go back a little bit before we go forward when you guys get back together and talk about what you did before you met Sam. Like you did say you had a partner and you guys played around. What did you guys do during that time? Did you have three sons with women? Is that when you started hooking up with women?

No. No. Funnily enough, it started with more couples. Oh, okay. And then we went to a couple of parties. Okay. And I remember going to this particular party. And it was when I realized, gosh, I guess I quite like women.

and there was one particular woman there who I'll never forget, and I was highly attracted to her. Her husband was a sleazy mofo, so we didn't go there. But it was one of those missed opportunities. And so I guess when I split from that guy, and that's a whole other issue, he was a pedophile, let's move on. I think when I split from him, I was still very curious about the by-side.

So, of course, when my husband said, I think when my husband said, I'd like to try a threesome, that was kind of like, Oh, actually, that's a real good opportunity for me to try and get into my byside and see whether I really like that or whether it was just a one-off or that sort of thing. But I did have some, what you would call, couple experiences before I met my husband. Were they full swabs or soft swaps? No full swaps. One particular one, though, which I thought was particularly hot, was one particularly lady she liked DP, double penetration.

and I got to watch that hottest thing I've ever seen, literally standing off to the side right there. It was like home porn, if that makes sense. Yeah, of course. And that was a really hot experience for me. So I just remember thinking that that was pretty cool. I wasn't into that particular woman, but that experience itself was pretty hot.

Yeah. So that's how it was sort of. So obviously, though, it proved to you that you were down seeing, like your partner with somebody else. because sometimes people don't aren't into that. That's like a big no-no. Who knows? But you were into seeing your partner with another girl.

Absolutely. Yeah, yeah, no, absolutely love watching my husband with another woman. There's just something about it. There's just something about, and they come back afterwards. That's right. That's my man type thing. He's got a great cock. I know that.

Yep, he's really good in bed. It's almost like a puff-out chest situation. And so I personally love it. And I also think that variety is. is the spice of life. And I also truly believe that sometimes when they go off and sleep with someone else, they realize how good they got it at home. So they get comparison.

And they get to, oh, well, that was good, but my wife's better sort of type thing. Not because I'm better, better, but it's just that when you've got love involved, it's a whole different way of making sex is sex, but making love is making love. So even though you have sex in your marriage. Yeah, no, listen, do you not have the jealousy gene in you? Or do you like, because it just sounds like very early on. And I don't know when you're with this guy, but that you were pretty secure in your relationships and in yourself to sort of give your partner free reign and knowing that he's going to come back. I think that that's everyone's biggest fears that they're not going to.

You just sound so confident that, listen, I give him free reign. He's not only going to come back to me, but he's going to realize how much, how great I am when he does come back. What a great way to be. You just sound so confident that, listen, I give him free reign. He's not only going to come back to me, but he's going to realize how much, how great I am when he does come back. What a great way to be. Yeah. Before, obviously, the incidents that we've previously talked about, I had never had a jealous bone in my body.

I can say that there has been, since obviously this incident, I've had to work through quite a bit. The green-eyed monster has popped its ugly head out every now and then, especially when he gets very close to woman. I sort of get that feeling. But I think, and I did have some issues. I've got to say, that never took away from the actual act itself. Whenever I was in those situations, that was never a jealous thing. It was more outside of that with communication and what I felt was getting too close.

It was like a sort of thing coming to rear. ugly head. So I have had some moments. Yeah. I'm not going to sit here and tell you I haven't. And I think anybody in this lifestyle will have moments. But yeah, I think for the most part, I love the actual watching of the act. I have no problem with that whatsoever. I'm not jealous in that respect at all. But can get and have had, not so much recently, obviously, but I have had my moments that have probably done my husband's head in. Yeah, I've heard it all the time, especially even with the most professional open couples. It could just be a day where, depending on the way the wind blows,

your emotional is just a certain way that you just something bothers you for, who knows why. Yeah, you're a human being. It happens. It's really what's most important is how you navigate through and what's great about you is that even though those times have come and when. You've never changed what you're into. You know that when you're in the moment, that's not how you feel.

So it's not like you're doing something that is going against who you are. You do sound like. a very like overall non-gealous person like you say you don't really have that gene and you that bad but of course because I think to me jealousy and relationships when it comes to partners sort of looking at somebody else or even sleeping with someone else it's not the fear of the sex because if it's just the sex that we knew for sure it was just the sex what does it fucking matter it's about like that it's like a big fear of abandonment that that person's going to leave you for the other person and that's why that girl from your work was a problem because it was becoming something different more than sex. That's why that triggered you. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. And I think that is the problem. I think that's why a lot of women don't like this lifestyle. I think they think, A, that you've got to throw the keys in and pray, but B, that their husband will find something better than what they are. And I think they forget that often it's, the woman is their

Viagra, knowing that their woman is in this and watching them, gives them that extra oomph to go, oh, this is awesome. And then they come back to you. And they are so in love with you because you've given them something that they, it's not normal. And I put that in inverted commas in relationships. It's very abnormal. Especially from a woman, especially that a woman is offering this up.

That's why it's so crazy that first story. Here's this guy who meets this chick who's so fucking cool enough to hand him like a free pass. Like I'm totally down with this. And he ruins it. I was like, what a dumb dumb. It's so funny when you hear stories like that. But I love what I love about the story is you guys went so beyond that. So let's get back to when you guys get back together because he winds up doing what he's got to do.

He finally gets you back. After 18 months, you guys split up. He comes back and then take it from there. Yeah, so initially, I said to my husband, look, it's not going to happen. I can't trust that you are going to be not the lust, love sort of thing. But eventually I was still very, very curious about my by side. So I said to him, well, look, how about we do the whole, we'll hire someone? Let's see if you actually enjoy it.

Because sometimes what you see and what you think and what's on porn videos and stuff like that, not necessarily what you actually get at the other end. So, yeah, so I, we hired a worker, obviously, and yeah, we had a threesome with another woman. I wasn't particularly attracted to that woman, but it was still, again, I wasn't adverse to doing the things with another woman. So I thought, I must have been more boy than I actually consider it than I thought. Did you go down on her even though, like, you were an inter, you tried it out? Yeah, I did.

I did, yeah, and then I, yeah, yeah, I just remember thinking, okay, I'm going to get good at this. I want to get good at this. Like, I want a woman to feel like my husband makes me feel. And that is escalating top of the roof type stuff, you know. So I thought, I can try that. I can give this a nudge. So anyway, we did that. And then it was like we joined up to the Kiwi Swingers.

And the problem is that we couldn't, it was really, hard to find it a female that was worthy of sort of thing. And then so my husband said, well, how about we try a couple? But then it became a little bit of a hard, hard thing because I had to be attracted to the male and the female. There was lots and lots of couples where the female was like ace. And I'm like, I'm going to get in on that. That is the bomb.

Digity. Move over. Move over. It's my turn. Yeah. But there was often guys that's like, please don't touch me. No, no. I'm not one for taking one for the team, although originally in our swinging, we did take, I did take a few for the team, but I had one particular experience where I did take

one for the team and I felt so gross afterwards that I said to my husband, look, I'm going to have to back off. You do you, but that's really rattled me. I'm happy for you to do your thing, but I just got to, I'm just going to have to take a step back. And I think from that moment, on, it's been like I'll do what I want when I want, how I want. And I'm getting, I became a little bit more vocal and went, no, no, no, no, yes, no, yes, no, yes, no, yes type. But that probably comes with my age, to be fair. Like, I certainly slept with one or two men, just one or two. Or ten, no, or five. In my youth. So I think, unlike my husband who has, you had, just one or two, I think, unlike my husband, who hasn't had as many as I have. I guess I did it a lot when I was younger and so I don't need it as much

as I get older and I'm very picky, which is a bit of a bitch for him because he loves watching me with other men. The problem is I'm very picky with those men. So it's very few and far a queen for him. But when it happens, at least it's, it's going to be like something that I want and it's going to be more pleasurable for him because if I take one for the team, he's going to know about it because he's very attuned to how I feel. So, yeah, he's going to get out, he's going to get more out of it and he's going to want more of that. So, yeah. So now when you say you decided, like after you decide, because I think he said this too, that finding couples that everybody is in line and everyone's attracted to everyone is sometimes like a really hard thing.

So did you guys make a decision to do like solo play or like what? Or did you continue to see couples or is that when you start to have your party so you can meet more people and find people that you were in tune with? How did you work through that? So I think, well, the parties came about from we went to some, a couple of parties that just were not okay. Yeah. Very unconsensual, very all on the floor, whether you like a lot. or not. And it was sort of like a, that really throw your keys in type scenario, but without throwing your keys in. And we got home from a party. And my husband said, that's it. I'm going

to run parties. And I went, well, good luck getting them in the middle of bum fuck effectively. But he decided, yep, I'm going to do this. And so he put together. And I said, all right, you do that. So he put together, I think the first party, they turned up and there was like 30 people. I thought, wall for the fact that we're in the middle of nowhere, that's pretty cool. And so we, we initially had one bedroom and a portable toilet, because my husband at the time decided, no, we didn't need a toilet. We're all good. Wow. Oh my God. Let me just say, after that first party and someone had chat in this portable toilet, even though we'd said, look, there's toilets over at the house. I would gone off because I was in a musical at the time

and I had a sound check that whole day and I just get this picture of this overflowing toilet and I can tell you the digger was out the following day to build toilets. So that worked better. But we had this one toilet, one bedroom and we came up with some rules because one of the things, we just wanted people to enjoy themselves. It didn't necessarily have to be about sex but the option was there.

And it was also a good opportunity for us to meet people because unfortunately in the lifestyle or on the site, there are a lot of fake profiles and a lot of guys pretend they're in a couple or that sort of thing or a lot of guys cheating on their wives and things like that, which obviously I don't do. And so we sort of, it was sort of a, it was really good for both benefits. We got to meet some beautiful people. We got to see what couples and we went, well, actually, there's a couple we can align with and oh, oh, look, they're really good. And it also meant that we had these parties and we could bring people into the lifestyle

and not be scared off by their first party because you can be. You can be scared off. Whereas we're sort of like, you do, you can come along to six parties and do nothing. And we've had that. And then after their six party, they literally get in. Yeah. But yes, I have tried the, I have sent my husband off by himself. It did bring up a little bit of jealousy for me.

have to say, being really frank with you, but it also didn't do a lot for me. Interesting. As in, yeah, I'm a visual person. Yeah. So seeing is amazing. I love it. Go, fuck everything that walks, knock yourself out while I'm there. But I guess when he was away, it was like you, it was more of a, and what if, and what

if. And so it was still like it took away from the whole experience for him, which is sad. and I'd like to try it again, but slow steps, because I think it would be, I just felt a whole lot of emotions come up, which it shouldn't happen because he came back and it was all good. But, yeah, I guess. So I think, you know, definitely something I will try again if he's wanting to. He's a bit like me. He likes to watch anyway. He likes me to be there. But, you know, there could be other experiences where that might happen. And hopefully I won't have the green-eyed monster come up and smack me in the face again. Yeah, but even. if it does. Listen, you said, like, when you saw that DP right in front of you, it was like your life

porn. Why not always be there? Tons of couples don't ever play solo, too. Really, you do what you want to do and it's fine. Basically, you guys have a lot of free reign in your relationship. So it's not like he can't fuck other women. You just like to be there because you want to see it. And I totally understand that. Yeah. Yeah, no, I'm a real visual person. Yeah. Yeah. I get that. And so do you guys, like when you did start, like after that first couple and that first girl, I do remember your guy talking about how good you are when you go down on girls, right? Isn't that your thing now? Like you did say you want to become really good at it. Aren't you really good at it now?

Look, I hate boasting my own ego. He did. So I'm not going to say that because every woman is, yeah, he did it for me. Every woman is very, very different. But every time I am with a woman, I try my hardest. to get them off, to at least give them a good experience because I've had women that have said thereby and really, really, really not. And so I don't ever want a woman to feel like I'm not 100% invested. I'm not 100% trying to give them the best experience that they can. So they can

walk away and go, wow. And I've been fortunate enough to get a few women off. So whether that makes me good, not good, the best, whatever. The fact is it made me feel good because these women are literally excited or have an orgasm. And in one particular case, I got one lady off who, who never got off this particular way and literally came up. I had to taste my own vagina. It was lovely. She gave me the big kiss afterwards. And it was like, oh my God, that is amazing. I felt so vindicated that I tried so hard. And I think that in the lifestyle, if you're going to do this, you should be putting your best foot forward.

And because I love women and I want them to have the best experience, then, yeah, that's what I try to do is give them the best experience. And because I love women and I want them to have the best experience, then, yeah, that's what I try to do is give them the best experience. Yeah, no, listen, I'm going to say, and if people haven't listened, to his episode yet. He did talk about how good you were going down on girls. Now, obviously, you let them go down on you. He did say this one little thing that took me for surprise because I was like, what? Because he's telling me all about you talking about it. I hear you talking now. And he was

like, oh yeah, but she never really comes from certain, or orgasms. Like what, no? No. No. Never. No. I never come in this lifestyle. No. No. The only, I've only had, yes, with my husband. Yes. You come with your husband. But nobody. else? No. I've only come with one other guy and that was the last relationship and that was only a few times but my husband is the only one that has given me the orgasms that I am getting now. So I am really, really fortunate. He is exceptional with me. But he's also exceptional as in he's one that puts his best foot forward and is a bit like me. We're both givers. Now, yes, I've had a couple of women go down on me, but they haven't been the best of experiences for me.

One lady was pretty good, but yeah. As for men, I guess because I'm a very dominant lady, to be fair to you, I tend to take over. And so unless you're a very, very dominant man, which I haven't quite come across yet, I tend to take over and want to give them a good experience. Yeah, to give them the pleasure. Yeah, yeah. So like I aim to give them all a good blowjob and I aim to make sure that they're getting off. And sometimes I forget about myself.

Yeah. I don't, but I do because I'm obviously, and it's not that I'm not enjoying it, but no, my husband is the only one that has managed to get me flying towards the ceiling. It's his goal to have some other guy. Yeah. That's so interesting because I remember him saying, but I know guys who are pleasers and they typically, they don't really care about them having the orgasm.

That's more they want you to have them. That's what's getting them off. So I'm assuming that in all these occasions while you're doing all this crazy stuff because you sound like an open-minded, very kinky person, right? You're watching DPs. You're like, I fucking loved it. You're obviously wet and into it, right? And it's just that orgasm when you go home.

home or when you fuck your husband? Is that how when or do you come like later by yourself? No, no, no, no, no, absolutely. With my husband and probably the next day or that night or depending on when the experience is. We have a really, really good experience together. Yeah. Okay. So you are coming. It's just that maybe you won't be with that woman, but it'll be after and with Sam. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. Yeah. He's phenomenal in that. respect and I guess because he knows my body, he knows what to do. So of course, and then you've got all these visions in your head and you think, oh my God, this is a maze balls. And then he's touching all right things. And then next minute I'm touching the ceiling and it was really good. After all

these swinging experiences, once you've often had them, you fuck like rabbits for two days because you're so into each other and it's such a cool experience. So yeah. Yeah, people talk about that all the time. They always say, oh, it's reclaiming sex. Some people call it something different, but people do say you kind of get high off of it and you could use those thoughts, right, of everything that was going down for days after. Some people say it lasts even longer. You guys have been doing it for so long, but still even to this day, it'll still last a couple days for you. I don't know that lasts for a couple of days. But yes, we, yes, we become very loved up. Yes, I would say for a couple of days, like really loved up. It's like that, oh, my God.

We've just shared this amazing experience. I guess no different if you want to go into the vanilla world and say you go over to Bali and you have such an amazing experience. And for the next two weeks when we come back, you speak about nothing but barley. It's the same sort of thing when you go away and do these experiences. You have these experiences. And then two days, you're just like, oh, my God, that was amazing. You've got these visions in your head.

Oh, my husband's cock looks so amazing going in her vagina. And she orgasm, when I ate her out, that's just like, hot for me. So yeah, you have these days afterwards that you get really loved up. Yeah. Yeah, that makes sense. Kind of like you said in the vanilla world when you come back from your vacay. It's like such a great sort of analogy. Now, okay, so you start, I remember your guy saying the same thing that you said when you went online. It was like hard to find people and stuff. And so you do find a lot of people right at your parties. Because when you are having your parties, you guys are kind of working. It's not like you're hooking up because you guys are the

posts, correct? Yeah. That is correct. Yeah. No, we, when it comes to the parties, we made a decision that although we get our flirt on and look, my husband's probably had his tongue down most women's strokes most times, I was getting his flirt on and I say get in. We, when you've got supper, you're cleaning up rooms. We both sing so we're entertaining. We get a lot of newbies that come in and for us it's really, really important that those newbies have a really good experience and they understand they don't have to do anything they don't want to do. I don't want them to feel obliged sort of thing. So we look after them so that they come back.

Between everything that we end up doing and then towards the end of the night, I'm so naked. So even if half the parties left, I'm like down in and I'm still trying to pick up people's shit all off the floor and cleaning up and getting that first load of washing on and knowing full well that in four hours time I'm going to get back up to look after all these people and continue cleaning. So to be fair, there is just not a lot of time. But it is a very good time for us to see who are not tire kickers.

People can take photos and you might think that they're El McPherson, but they turn out to be nothing like El McPherson. And that's not a problem because I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But we just be honest type thing. Then we get others that downplay and they arrive up and you go, oh my God, they're absolutely beautiful. And or you sit down and talk to them. and their personality is just makes them so beautiful.

So we can then arrange more of a private to get together, which we do at the parties. So although I should say my husband arranges, he does everything. Like he is, I do the clean up and that sort of stuff. When when comes to the parties, my husband does 99.9% of it.

I do the cleaning and I host with them and a bit of supper. That's basically where I'm at. So if we're attracted to someone or if someone comes along, we always have a sort of minor chat, two minute. Are you into them? Yep, they're good. Okay. And so he'll go off and he'll organize something. And they'll either come down the night before our parties or we'll organize something on another weekend.

Right. And now are you guys hooking up with people from your party like couples as well as unicorns? Like because I know you're into women. So typically is that what you're looking for? Couples that maybe you're both interested in unicorns? Yeah. I think it's either way. We have a couple that are absolutely beautiful and they're my jam, so we get in on them.

But we do single female, single males. It just whatever each of us is feeling. And that doesn't discount like females that are not bisexual. If my husband is particularly attracted to a lady, you'll come up to me and say, you know, look, such and such. I'm like, yeah, you get in as long as. they don't mind me watching and or I'm not really one of those I have to literally stand over you like a I might come and go as depending on what's going on or if I know them but you know for the

most part I just love watching or being there and as long as they don't mind that that's cool if there's a guy that I'm particularly attracted to then my husband will literally go and be a wingman and say hey listen yeah you want to come down and because I have a single profile I tend to invite the guys to these parties. So I get to know their personalities and get to know them. I don't tend to judge people off photos. Yeah, that's more. Yeah. So I like to get to know them if they got a personality, if they got a nice cock, whatever. At the end of the day, he's my wingman and he does 99.9% of everything, which is pretty cool to have as a husband. Yeah, I can imagine. Now, what is your type when it comes to women and when it comes to men? And does,

Does, you know, your guy Sam have the same taste or no? Yes and no. Yes. Look, personality is huge for me. Okay. If they've got half a brain, I'm usually quite attracted to that. In fairness, I like a really nice chest and nice arms, short back inside, to that clean-cut look. I'm not much for the long beard or whatever.

But I think personality is a big one. For females, I. because I am quite curvacious, we will say. I tend to like women that are not curvaceous, quite small. Petit. Petit. Yeah, very petite. However that does, I can't say that that has been the everything,

because again, personality, I've been with ladies that are bigger and have been amazed balls. I've loved them. So, yeah, again, personality is big. But if you ask me, line up, what would you go for? then I'd probably go for a very petite-looking lady and not a petite man, a muscular, but quite thin, but not overly thin, not skinny, just, yeah. But as again, I'd probably go with personality.

A brain's huge for me. Now, listen, because girls talk and I'm assuming you've got girlfriends and I'm wondering, like your girlfriends that are out of this lifestyle, do they know about your life and what you're doing and all these parties that you're throwing? Or do you like live a secret life? I lead a secret life. None of my girlfriends. They don't know.

You got this whole swinger club. And listen, I have pictures on my Patreon. Your guys have me pictures. Okay. You guys have like the whole setup. Like when I say you guys are professional party throwers, you created like a swingers club on your property. So how do your friends not know?

Oh my God. So my husband built a like a three bedroom. It's in a woolshed. But we convert it to look like a house. But we also give away the space to anybody that wants to use it for community events. So, you know, it's not just a swinging thing. It can be converted to a whole lot of things. We've also had tiny concerts here because we've got the music equipment.

Right. Yeah. So it's not just, it doesn't just. look like a swing pad, we can actually create it to look like a normal house. In fact, we actually hired it out for the gold guitars when they were down here. We literally hide it out to people and they stayed in the three benjamin. It's just like a normal B&B. Oh, okay. So they don't, you don't, you just take down the swing and the cross and everything, because I have pictures. So I see some rooms that look like a fucking sex club. I'm like, how do you hide that? I'm like,

oh my God. He built, he built that. He built that. cross to be fair but yes my husband takes down like the cross the swing we move the bed over to where they are and we create that and make that look like a bedroom again and the end room doesn't have a massage table it just has a chair in the corner so yeah and obviously the shelves that would be for where people put their bags we have a whole lot of candles sitting over them and and we just turn it back to make it look and we make the beds as in normal duvet sheets that sort of thing because we do have people come down and stay and so it looks like a normal three-bedroom house along with another three-bedroom house that we live in.

If your friends only knew. Now, I do remember a part of Sam's story towards the end, he did cop to the fact that his kids found out what was going down. Now, did you have a daughter too, right? Like, you have a child too, correct? So did your child find out or it was only his family that found out? No, I had to tell her. Oh, you did.

So, yeah, well, so how it went down was one of his daughters found out because of the way that she is. I imagined that she would instantly message my daughter. Yes. And I went, okay, I'm going to cop to this early so that she doesn't find out by anybody else. Now, backstory is my daughter's a stripper, so really people in glasshouses. And she was honest with you about that. Like she told you, like mom. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.

Right. So you guys have an open. You're kind of very honest with each. She's honest with you. So you felt that you could be honest with her. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, no, no. I'm not judgmental.

If you look at her, you'd go, you're going to make a lot of money. And she does. But so I rung her and it was a really difficult conversation. If anybody has to tell their child, something like, hey, my parents, fuck other people. Yay. So anyway, I sort of did this, oh God, oh God sort of situation. And anyway, I ended up burning out. I said, look, I'm just going to burn it out.

She goes, okay, blurt it out. Because I think she was getting a bit worried. So I put it out. And she goes, is that it? And that is how I raised my daughter. Don't judge. Yeah, yeah. We walk tomorrow and someone else did she do.

So she knows exactly. And the only thing that she said to me is, please don't tell me the stories, mom. because I just don't want to. Fecal. Of course. So, yeah, yeah. So that's how that, um, do I did.

Unfortunately for my husband, his kids, being sort of like, yeah, look, they accused me of doing it for my husband. They called us dirty and disgusting, which is so, so, so far from the truth. I think they're sort of thinking of the old days where you did literally have to throw your keys in then you got landed with Bob and bad luck. And, you know, it's not like that. Yeah. You know, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's a very giving thing that you give. It's a very giving thing that you give your partner, husband's wife. It's a very giving thing. But they don't see it like that. So it's been, it's sad for him. Yeah. That he's had that experience. Yeah. Yeah, it's terrible and it's sad. But with your girlfriends that you haven't. told. And are people outside in your vanilla life? Is it the same reason why you wouldn't tell them because you feel like they might look

at it the way his daughters did, like just because of the judgment and everything? Because it sounds like you're so open-minded that would they be surprised if they found out you present as like this very vanilla person and then you'd be like, oh my God, I can't believe blah, blah, blah is doing this? Or would they not be surprised because you are so cool and open anyway, you know? I think a bit of both. I am very vanilla. I'm probably one of those people that you would meet me

and see me as quite innocent until I get my party on or my sex on. I'm a very, very different person all together, in all fairness, like I go from one extreme to the other. Interesting. I'm just not very, I'm not very open in those respects. My girlfriends lead to different parts of my life. So I have one girlfriend who's very spiritual and she leans to my spiritual side.

I have a one girlfriend that is really funny and she makes me laugh. But, you know, like she is always has issues herself. So I don't tend to lump onto her anything of my life. And so I just have different people in my life and I don't tend to share my, I believe I don't say anything unless I want it repeated. So that's how I live my life. and so I don't tend to tell them. And it's stopped with your kids knowing.

Nobody else found out besides that. Not that I'm aware of, but hey, listen, who knows? Like, they may not have actually said anything. And at the end of the day, if they wish to approach me, I'll be honest about it and say, well, yeah, it is what it is. But from what I can gather, it's just my daughter at this point. But look, we do run swinging parties in a very, very small community. So it wouldn't surprise me if people know.

they just haven't said anything to me. Yeah, well, with that said, has anyone ever showed up for one of your parties that you did know without knowing that you knew who they were? Like, tell me that story, because if it is such a small community, it's going to happen, right? Yes, so I've got two, actually. First time was one of the first couples that we invited over, not knowing who they were. And we were supposed to catch up for a drink. and it was my husband's cousin. So that was like interesting.

Need us to say, that sort of didn't really kick off anywhere. And then we had a party here once and I was working for a particular firm. And I luckily left that firm. But I used to work with this lady. She used to literally sit opposite me. And I still worked for the firm but at home. So she arrives up to this party And I am literally looking at this woman

Who sat across from me A desk across from me And she got got in She came out She had a pop my cherry Like she was having lovely time We sort of got past the fact That we were working together

And then literally I had to email her on Monday And you go from I pop my cherry to hey listen Can you please do this? Yeah And it's just a whole different world So yeah I've I've, lots of people have turned up that I've even known or know of.

Certainly, my husband has known people and known of people. And it is just a smaller community than you think it is. But I always remind people because I think a lot of people that go along to parties don't actually know, you know, they're thinking, oh God, what if someone sees me? Well, they're in the same damn boat. If they see you. And out of respect, you don't mention that. You don't go out and say, oh, guess what, I saw Bob.

You just don't do that. You just don't, right? What they do in their personal life is what they do in their personal life. It is none of your business to go and tell anybody else. And believe you me, because people have done that to me, that is the reason why I am very closed off and I don't tend to share unless I want it known. Yeah. So I've seen both sides. Yeah.

Listen, what I always say, because a lot of times I'll hear some comments from people in the vanilla world who are like salivating over people's stories and judging them and they'll leave comments like, oh, would they, tell their kids or they tell so and so and sort of judging people. I'm like, who tells their fucking kids about their sex life? Even vanilla couples who are monogamous their whole life don't sit at the table and tell their kids, hey, by the way, like I fucked your mother doggy style last night. Nobody tells it. It's nobody's business about anybody's sex life. It doesn't matter whether you're having orgies or monogamous sex.

Most people don't discuss their private, intimate life with other people anyway. So why should you and why should your sex life be? anyone else's business. You know what I mean? You probably don't know about your girlfriend's sex life either. I just wonder, because sometimes girls talk, you say it. But like, most of the time, there's no reason why anybody has to discuss it. It isn't something that most people discuss. Totally with you. Like, absolutely, if you're in a monogamous relationship, and I do know that lots of females talk. I've been in netball teams and they all sit around and I've just never been that person to, oh, well, look, last night he did this and did that. I'm just, I'm just,

not that. So people probably see me as a very innocent, normal monogamous, get-in type person. And that's how I want them to see me. That's exactly how I want them to see me. And then if they're lucky enough to come along to one of my parties or end up being one of our swing partners, they will see a whole other avenue to me. Yeah, like you say, a whole other side, the total opposite end of the spectrum, which I think is like really fascinating. Yeah. That you. do live this other life that if you did talk to your girlfriends, the stories you would tell and they're missing out. You have all the good stories. I think I could pick them up off the floor. Yeah, yeah. So tell me, because we have 10 minutes.

What would be, like, what is your top of the mountain scenarios or tell me the hottest experience you have that come to mind maybe? Is it when you're with a girl or watching your guy with a girl? Is it a couple swap? What do you enjoy the most? What a while do you enjoy the most? Is there anything? or any hot stories that come to the mind, like the bass hottest? To be honest with you, I take every experience as it comes. So I think every experience would be good, bad or indifferent. I can say that I've had one particular experience where I had a guy that he put me up on a

St. Andrew's Cross, and I'd never had any whippings or anything like that. And I watched him with his wife first, and I thought, Jesus Christ, I'm not sure I can get to this level. He was giving her a damn good smacking. And she goes, oh, no, it's not that bad. And I sort of got on the cross and I thought to myself, like I said to this particular bloke, yeah, look, I'm not a human whipping. She'll just keep it like, type thing. But anyway, it turns out I really got off on that experience.

And he actually got quite hard because the way he did it and the way that it was done was very professional. I'd been doing it for quite some time. And he knew where to smack on the ass and it didn't actually hurt. and it sounds worse than it is. But it was also whispering sweet nothings in my ear and like feeling my ass and I'm like, oh, Lord Jesus, I was weird as they come, literally had to drag that couple straight into another room, let's get in.

It was really rock-solid experience for me. But in general, I take every experience as hot. I don't think there's one hotter than the other. There are some that are definitely not hot, but you're going to get that in any lifestyle play. Yeah. But I think there are some really cool experiences. I haven't had any.

Again, the DP was with another female because I don't do anal, so my husband needs to get in on that. And we had an experience where, again, he did that with another lady who liked it as well. And that was just off the chain because I loved my husband. So it made it even better. And he's having this experience. And I, yeah, literally he knew. And of course he went, he went and inserted his fingers into me and he knew I was dropping,

which got him off sort of thing. So that all in all was a good experience. And I guess off the top of my hair, the other top experience for me was the couple that I love and I play with. I keep calling her my girlfriend. She's just beautiful. She's stunning. I managed to give her an orgasm that she hadn't had before.

Yeah. And so I'm like that that was top of the charts for me. So they're probably my, yeah. Top of the bar. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, top of my experiences. I certainly got some experiences outside of the lifestyle that I could tell you about that would blow your mind.

But yeah, in the lifestyle. What do you mean outside of the lifestyle? What the fuck's going on outside of this lifestyle? That could top this lifestyle. Okay. Look, I'll tell you, Kathy, this is how open I am. Okay. This is a story that you're probably going to be here before.

Okay. I was asked to be a security guard for two strippers that were going to be doing a sex show. Of course, because I'm so open, I've seen everything before, and I'm like pretty good at that sort of stuff, and I can get their money and blah, blah. Anyway, we went along to this particular event, the event all happens sort of thing, and I'll blaze over it because literally it was just the event. We got in the car and one of the stripper says,

oh, do you mind if I use the dildo? and I'm driving because they were both drunk so I'm driving and the other sort of says yeah yeah get in and I'm thinking to myself that okay so I'm driving along and the girl on the back's using a dildo again not a big thing but like literally

squirting she's one of these lucky women that just squirt everywhere right so she's she's going hard she's filming it for her MySpace page and blah blah blah blah And she happened to be In my eye line So every time I was talking to one of the strippers Who was sitting in the passenger seat

Literally out of the side of my vision I'm seeing You know all over the back See I'm trying to keep a Keep a proficient Driving along At a hundred kays an hour

Along the motorway I'm like Holy crap I've never seen this before Trying to have a normal And the funniest thing about it Is I was having a really civil conversation like a normal, not even sexual conversation.

With the other one. With the other stripper. While I'm watching this gush, gosh, gosh, gush. So that's fine. We get back to the place and I say, are you guys good from here because we're on a big property and they just had to drive up to the other house? She goes, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, we're good.

So I get out of the car. And I go around and she goes, the stripper in the back goes, fucking hell, the back seat's a mess. And I'm like, yeah, no, it doesn't surprise me. Then she goes, oh, I'm so sorry. Here's your jacket in person. Oh, they were in the back?

I was literally covered. Here comes. Oh, my God. So I'm literally walking into the caravan and my husband's going, what are you doing? I must have looked really weird because I'm holding it and see it with my finger because it was saturated. So when I gave him the store and he goes, well, that's, that's,

something that I've never like I am the most open person in the world and that even that's that's something I'll never ever experience again so so I can judge her yeah and I think you said you've probably never heard this kind of a story and I have it and by the way I've been doing my show for 12 years I have 893 episodes I think as of today and I have 40 already taped so we're talking to over 900 people I've talked to no one has that fucking story Okay. No. No, nobody has that story, and I don't think anybody ever will.

It's as a story I'll never ever forget. Yeah, that's a crazy story. So listen, why don't you do me a favor and give a shout out to your parties? Because they are big parties in your area, right? So if people are traveling to New Zealand or I have listeners in New Zealand, right, or people that live close by, like, why don't you give a shout out as well to your party and where they could find you guys? because I think people might be interested if they are in the area.

Okay, cool. So the best profile to probably get in touch with my husband would be fun for all, as in the four F-O-U-R, so it's F-O-U-R-A-L, that's on KS. And if you look up live entertainment lifestyle parties, that's where you'll see the parties. Uh-huh. What are they called? The party on Kiwi Swing. would be look up live entertainment lifestyle parties.

That's what they're actually called. Oh, I thought that was a section. That's the title of your parties. Okay, I love it. That's the title of the party. However, if you wanted to know where to find it or get an invite, if you go on to Fund for All, as an F-U-N-F-O-U-R-A-L, and you will get to speak to my husband,

and he can direct you or give you an invite or that sort of thing. I do have a single profile myself called Southern Hot Wife. If you wanted to get in touch with me, and again, I can put you on to the parties myself. We've even got my husband's best friend and brother that actually worked a bar. So we're a close-knit family. I love it. So, yeah, and we are a very consensual party.

We have rules. We have regulations. You come along, you get a spa pool, supper, all the condoms, lube and all that sort of stuff. toys, cross, swing. It's all here along with, we both sing, we have a pool table. Should you want to pluck up the courage to talk to someone? You can ask them to play a game of pool. We have an outside area, smoking area, a place to put your bags. It's all here. So if you want to have a good party, a consensual party, a hot party, because we have some amazing people that come along,

this is the place to be. And it's growing in numbers by the day. We're sort of averaging around about 50 people. I think the next one it's up further than that. We have themes for every party. We don't expect anybody to dress up, but, you know, if you choose to, the next one is Halloween. If you choose to dress up, you do, you don't, you don't. Like, we don't care. It's not a, it's not a

prerequisite. We just like to have themes so we can actually decorate the place with the different. We've got a whole lot Halloween decoration. So it feels a little bit different, a little bit exciting. And yeah, and we have. When I talk to people in the lifestyle, they love the themes. I'm going to tell you that. People love a theme night.

I hear that all the time. So I think that that's smart to have it. I will put all the information to your guys' lifestyle events in the description. Thanks so much for calling in as well. And this is what I love about talking to couples separately. I talk to two people in the same marriage with the same story. But I got two episodes with totally separate stories, right? It's not like you spoke about everything he did.

You brought a whole different angle to your guy's relationship. And it was super interesting on a totally different level. Like I love talking to Sam and getting the backstory on you guys from him. And then I got a whole different backstory on you guys from you. So it's such a great picture of the both of you. So these will be aired like one after the other. I'm definitely going to post Sam first. And then you are going to come after.

And I already have amazing picks of you guys. They're over on my Patreon. And I'll give you access to my Discord. And thanks so much, Ronnie. Thanks so much for calling in. sharing your story tale. It's great. No problem at all.

Thanks, Ronnie. Okay. Thank you. Bye. Okay. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback

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