Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 900 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS w/Layla: She Jerked Off Where?!, He Got Pegged by a Lesbian, He's Hooking Up with a Naughty Couple from Vegas and More

Episode Date: August 21, 2024

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Kathy and Layla's critique of them. First, you’ll hear from a guy who got a naughty massage that led to something he’d never experienced before, then from a guy who accidentally hooked up with a guy and now considers himself pansexual, then you’ll hear from a guy who got pegged by a random lesbian he met, then you’ll hear from a guy who has been hooking up with a very naughty couple for years and then you’ll hear Layla’s confession about the naughtiest place she secretly jerked off. Then you’ll hear Kathy and Layla discuss Layla’s fisting experience and what she enjoyed about it and her prostate orgasm tips and tricks, what pansexual really means, how and why just because you suck a dick every now and then it doesn’t mean you’re into guys, how and why being pegged by a female doesn’t mean anything about your sexuality either, how and why the stigma around guy on guy action perpetuates cheating, how your sexual fantasies change over time and why it's super important to discuss them with your partner, Layla’s golden shower experiences and what went down, all the places both her and Kathy secretly rubbed one out in plus a whole lot more. To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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then we wrap about it. And now, moving forward, I thought of a really great idea is I'm going to ask my co-host, who's ever running the Confessions episode with me, for them to confess to me something that they've never confessed before. And I got something out of Layla that she was, like, really embarrassed to share. I leave that towards the end, for the end, of course. I'm going to tease you for that. But we do start out with a guy who got a naughty prostate massage, and he talks about how great that was. And then we hear from a guy who accidentally started hooking up a guy. and now he believes he's pansexual. He does other things too. So you've got to listen to that that confessions. Then we hear from a guy who got pegged by a lesbian, okay? He met a lesbian couple

and they got pegged by one of them. You're going to hear that whole long, detailed confession that he left. And then you hear from a guy who was the craziest confession. Okay. He's a guy that drives back and forth from, I think, L.A. to Vegas. And for many, many years that he's been driving back and forth. He has been picking up a couple, a guy and a girl, a couple, and he has been having sex with them, the both of them, all over the place, doing all kinds of crazy things. And he talks specifically about all the things that they do. And they've included others in their meetups. Okay. So you got to listen to that one. And then after you hear that, you do hear Layless confession. And then I wind up deciding to confess to something myself. Okay. What's fun about these episodes is

not only do I post these confessions afterwards, me and Layla talk about it. So me and Layla do get into her experience with fisting guys. She has a lot of anal action experience with guys. Like I said, she's fisted guys. She's given guys prostate orgasm. So she talks all about that. She has no idea what pansexual means. So we do go over that. We do talk about the whole erotic orientation versus sexual orientation debate. I explain that to her. It's super interesting. You're not want to hear that. We also talk about how. stigmas around guy and guy action only lead to cheating. Of course, we all know that. We talk about the advice she talks about on her show to help couples reveal their fantasies to each other.

We do talk about pegging guys. She's very into BDSM, Lela. Okay, so she talks about her anal experience, like I said, with guys, she talks to her golden shower experience too, because that did come up in one of the confessions. And then we talk about jerking off in inappropriate places, because that was Layla's confession. I'm not going to tell you exactly where she jerked off, but it was very inappropriate, and she talks about that in her confession. And then we talk about other places that we've jerked off.

I name one. She names a bunch. And then I give my confession about something that I heard on a podcast recently that I was like, oh, that sounds hot that I decided to buy. And you might think it's hot too and want to go out and buy it too. I don't know. You're just going to have to listen. It's a super interesting fun episode.

So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with the first confession. Hey, Kathy. I'm curious about prostate massage. So what I did is I went to my local massage parlor that I frequent quite often. And I went in there this week and got a massage. And on the flip, when she had me flip around on my back, she started working on my cock, I said, hey, can you put your finger up my ass? I was prepared.

I brought a leg to a glove. And she said, yeah, that's wrong. And like she's done it before. So she put it on the glove, she moved it up and stuck her finger at my ass with her right hand, jacking me off the left. And I tell you what, when I came, it was like nothing I've ever felt for in my life. My body was tremoring. My heart was racing. I was breathing heavily.

It was so, so hot. It just felt so great. I'm kind of hooked now. So anyways, I thought I'd share that with you. you and the rest of the guys, dude prostate massage. That's what's that, man. Anyway, Kathy, love your show. I love you.

You're so wise and smart, funny, and I just enjoy listening to you every week. All right. Have good night. Bye-bye. Oh, my God. So the first thing I'm just going to say, and then I want your opinion and maybe your experience with us.

I don't know because you do a lot of, like, ass play with guys. I rarely have met a guy that lets me play with his ass, but I don't understand why not because let me tell you, besides this confession, And this guy saying it was like the most craziest orgasm he ever had. Every single guy who has called into my show who says that they've had a prostate orgasm, say it is like the most craziest best orgasm they have ever had in their whole life.

And I do have a sponsor of Butter Wellness. And I say this in every ad because it's not fucking not true. It's true. Like it really is. And like the Butter Wellness thing, the reason why I like to promote it is for guys that are afraid to put anything inside to get off with a prostate massage. Like with Butter Wellness, you just press it on your taint really hard. and it's like a vibrator and could give you the prostate massage. But it is like a thing and more

straight guys, quote unquote, should get into it if you ask me. Do you have any experience on this or what do you think of this confession, Layla? Well, I'm not surprised at all. I have seen this in action. Everything he's talking about, I have seen it in action. And yes, I concur with you. guys absolutely lose their minds when they have a prostate orgasm. I've given several. And I've never seen the guys come so hard. Their body convulses. It's a ton of cum that's pouring out of them, like more than they've even ever seen. And they all tell me, like, it's just the most amazing experience and strongest, most pleasurable orgasm of their life. So I, I'm all for them. No, but, okay, but you got to, let's get specific here, Leila, because you're a girl and maybe

girls are listening like, oh, I want to, like, get my guy off like that. Or guy at home is like listening is like I want to do that to myself. What move did you do or how have you gotten a guy to have a prostate orgasm? Be specific, maybe about one or two scenarios. Well, one of them was I was fissing. So I don't think a lot of people are in. Oh my God. I mean, did you work your way out? Wait, did you work your way up to the fist? Yes. I know. Sorry, I just dove right into the fissing. Yeah. Because that's, that was actually my first experience was the fisting. A guy was like, like, will you fist me? I said, I've never done it. But yeah, let's do it. So anyway, that was that. But you don't have to fast forward with that. I mean, it is kind of interesting. I mean, were you

doing other things with that guy? And then eventually he was like, I need something bigger, like putting in your whole fist. No, he went straight for the fist me. Yeah. Oh, my God. Yeah. But the other guys, you can, you can start with the, like you said, stimulating the taint. That will get them. And it's putting pressure on. the taint. And the taint is like the place. Explain where the taint is for people that don't know. Yeah, that's in between their balls and their ass. Yeah. Yeah, asshole, I guess. And you can kind of feel, if you feel your way around down there, you can kind of feel on the other side. There's a little, it's kind of like about the size of an almond is the prostate. So you can feel it. It's

easier to feel when they're on their back. And if you put a finger in, obviously, you can feel it. But anyway, so yes, you can do the outside stimulation. You just kind of, I just kind of push, put pressure on it and then move in like a small circle and just kind of, I mean, feel around and see how your partner's reacting to it. I mean, you'll get a response pretty quick. One guy, he just literally, I touched, I started touching him down there and he just came. He was like, whoa, what did you do? I mean, so I'd love that reaction. And again, don't you love giving you.

your partner great orgasm. That's one way. Just on the outside. So for the guys that don't want you stick in your finger in there. And I don't recommend surprising them with it either because if you're a girl and you don't want somebody sticking something in your butt, you know what I'm talking about. Especially if Layla's around, but she's going to put her fist in you, so you better make sure you got permission for you gave her permission first. Yes. I mean, I wouldn't normally go for that, but that's what he wanted. We agreed on that. But okay. And then the other thing is you stick a finger in there. Just make sure you've got a lot of loop, nice and nice and looped and get a finger in there and feel around for that one thing. But let me ask you this because

and I feel like I have done this poll on my Patreon. I'm going to do it on Spotify. Because I mean, I've hooked up with a lot of guys, okay? And I've known a lot of guys in my life because that's just the way that I've rolled. And I have tried to stick my finger in like most guys assholes because I'm always trying to get them to push the boundaries, give a great blowjob. I know that a little knuckle goes a long way in the ass while you're blowing them. And most guys I could sneak a knuckle in there, right? But God forbid, you try to put a finger in there. And I do believe that most guys at home by themselves have been curious enough to sort of

explore that area. But do you find that most guys that you hook up with are very anti-put-anything in my back door? Or do you find that most guys that you hook up with are like, okay, like, how do you get them to allow you to put your finger in their ass? Okay, most guys, yes, I find the same that you. Most guys are like anti-backdoor. Please don't put anything in my ass because they still, it still has this gay stigma attached to it. And it doesn't, you know, it's kind of ridiculous because everyone's got a prostate.

It doesn't signal which way you lean sexually. So you may as well play with it. It's there. It's a pleasure point for you. And I'm surprised guys that are really, really horny won't do it. Now, maybe they just do it and they won't admit it. I don't know. That's what I think.

And as a girl, but like literally, like for advice for guys out there, like, I know that there's a stigma in your own brain. But if you're doing it secretly at home and you've gotten past a stigma yourself, is there a stigma with women? Like, I would not think twice about a guy that allowed me to do it. I wouldn't think anything different of them. Like maybe they're thinking like, oh, if I let a girl do that, she's going to think I'm gay. Well, do you think that about a guy if he allows you to do it? No, right? No, I don't.

Not at all. And I think there's probably also something that goes through guys head, like where they might, feel like they're in the submissive role if they're letting a girl essentially penetrate him in some way, shape, or form, right, even if it's with a thinker. Do you know what I mean? I think, I think, yeah, I think a lot of guys have a hard time with it from their, from their masculine male, alpha male standpoint, but they prefer to be the doms. Yeah, they are just, I think instinctually, I don't even know if they're even thinking of it that way, but they just. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, just like most women like to prefer to be subs. It, like I always say, you're like super hot,

a girl because you could really tap into your dominant side. And a lot of girls can't. They're very sub. So I think like the flip, like you're saying, is probably true about guys. Most guys feel much more comfortable just or are very in touch with their dom side and not so much their subside, though both of us probably have both sides in us at all times. Yes. Yes.

Yes. Yeah. Yeah. You make a great point. What's up, Kathy? Love your show. My confession is that I am a guy in my 40s. I'm married, but after listening to the show for a long time and learning about these new labels,

I think that I'm pansexual because I definitely love women. I'm attracted to women, but every now and then, I love playing with a good dick. I for a long time was in a dead bedroom, and one time I asked my wife for an open marriage, and she said, I just could not operate knowing that's what was going on. And so in my mind, I was like, well, don't ask themselves. And so I travel and back in the Craigslist days, I would find a woman looking for a hookup here and there and have my knees met that way. And I had a couple affairs with people and friends and things like that. And one time I stumbled upon fucking guys by accident because a guy responded to my Craigslist ad and said, look, you don't have to do anything.

I just want to give you a good massage and suck your dick. And I was horny and was in need of a release and said, well, let's just be a little. be if this guy's any good and it was really good but I was like well that was a nice one-time thing and a couple years later I got a similar reply to an ad and I walked in and the guy said you mind if I get naked and I said no that's fine and he dropped his pants and I don't know what came over me he had the best looking cock I've ever seen and I just walked over got down and started flucking his cock I'd never sucked the cock before and I just couldn't believe how good it felt And then he sucked me off.

And then I realized that sex was just sex. So over the years, I've had affairs with women. I feel like sex with women is more intimate. And, you know, I've had kind of some long-term affair partners that I've had stuff going on with. But every now and then I get the hangarling for a dick. And so after this new show, I learned about Smithies. And so here and there, I'll, when I need some quick, dirty sex, I'll find a guy on Smithies and have some fun. But, you know, when I see guys walking around, I'm not attracted to them, but I just get that urge every now and then.

So, let's say I guess I'm pansexual when I have my knees met. My box is checked in a variety of ways, and I just love having sex with people of all sex, shapes and sizes and genders. So that's my confession. Thanks. Okay. My favorite part about this one, and I titled it on my Patreon, like, he accidentally found out he was pansexual. Because I love, like, he kind of like, in a lot of top. times this confession, he kind of like passive aggressively takes leaps forward, you know, that's

fine. He's like, oh, by accident, a guy responded. So I'm like, why not? He's like, oh, my, my, I told my wife my fantasy. She said, no, I don't want to think about it. So I figured, oh, I could do it without telling her. Like, I mean, he just like, I don't know, he just kind of goes with things. It's kind of funny. But I do have to say that I understand him rolling the way that he rolls in that he's kind of horny he was looking it was like a guy he wrote that wasn't what he was looking for but he's like why not what's the kind of difference and he came to that place like i just did a poll on my patreon if you were stuck in jail after three years and you're there for 10 years you know what i mean and you couldn't be with anyone else would you hook up with the same sex partner and i can't tell you how

many people said no and i just don't understand that mentality like i'm just kind of like what's the difference i don't know i understand his pansexual mentality a little bit more now than i do somebody that just takes the whole half of the population and says never ever would I ever. I mean, I don't know. What do you think? Well, first of all, I'm ashamed to admit. I've never really known exactly what the definition of pansexual is. Should I Google it while you're talking?

There's my confession right there. Okay. I know, the girl with a sex podcast doesn't know all the terms. It's okay. I'm going to do a labels episode coming up soon. Thank you. I might need to listen to that. I actually know several guys that when I was listening to this, the way he was describing it,

I've heard this said before. It's that these guys get really turned on. They love women. They don't consider themselves gay or homosexual, but they love dicks. And dicks are masculine to them and dicks are sexy and which I can relate to as a female. And so he, he just, he likes dicks every once in a while, but he doesn't want the emotional bond like, he's not going to fall in love with a dude. He just wants the animalistic sex part. And this just helps me understand how men, I guess, break down the two. You know what I mean? And listen, I had a guy

on named Dr. Joe Corton. I've repeated his episode many times and talked about his episode many times because he really broke down exactly what you just said, but he had actual terms for it. And he said there is a big difference between your sexual orientation and your erotic orientation. Your sexual orientation is like say you're a guy who does like guys and you are attracted to guys and you see them walking down the street for a fact that they do turn you on or you're somebody like this guy where you walk down the street you're not attracted to men at all you're not interested at all but when you are warning and in the moment just because you're like living through this like kind of erotic scenario or moment you go for it because it's there kind of thing

when it's that. And let me tell you, when he explained that, I was like, oh, my God, so many guys fit into that category because I can't tell you how many guys have called into my show and said, listen, every now and then I might suck a dick, but I'm not into guys at all, just like this guy. I know. And I've heard, again, I've, I have run across so many guys that say the same thing. And I've always been like, for a while, I was like, huh, how is that? But now I get it. The more, the more I understand guys, it's like, they just separate the two. I mean, it's not, he's married to a woman. He emotionally, he loves her. That's who he wants to spend his life with. But sexually, it's like, it's like when I flip around and I'm masturbating and I don't know what kind of porn. Sometimes I start watching something that I never thought I'd start watching. And I'm like, this is fucking hot. And I go with it in the moment. And I'm like, I would never do that in real life. But that's your erotic orientation right there at that moment. Right. Right. But yes, but right here in the moment, this is going to make me come and I'm going for it. And I do. Yeah. So yeah, I get it. I totally get it. But hey, I didn't know. Is Craigslist still a thing? No, no, but he's just, listen, what he's saying right there, what, you know, if you read between the lines is he's been cheating on his wife for a long time with guys. And that's like the fucked up thing. And that's why I believe the stigma that is attached to guy and guy action needs to be fucking.

gone already, okay? Because the girl on girl thing went away in my lifetime. I was alive at a time where it was a big stigma on that kind of action too. And then it all changed in like the 80s. When every girl had a girl crush and things really flipped and now it's

cool for a girl to be into girls. And even some people will still say I have guy friends like it's natural for a girl to be into girls because they're so hot, but it's not natural for a man. So the guy guy thing, I think with the younger generation it's different. They're all like fucking pansexual, they're down for anything. But there is still a big stigma attached to it. And what that

breeds is this kind of shit. So many guys doing it behind their girlfriends or their wives' backs. And that's the thing that's fucked up. That's the thing that these kinds of stigma breed because people are who they are. They're going to do what they're going to do. And because they can't be out about it, they do it on the DL like this. And that's the fucked up thing. And maybe it's not the case with this guy because he said he's cheating on his wife with women too. He might just be a fucking cheater. What are you doing on Craigslist looking for all this kind of stuff? And then you stumbled upon guys. But I think the bigger thing here to talk about is my dick fell into his mouth. I don't know what happened. Oh my God. I love that. He accidentally found out he was pansexual.

I think that's how I titled it. But I just think that that's the problem with the stigma because I can't tell you how many confessions I have of guys saying I secretly suck dick on the side and how many episodes I have. And that's the last thing you want your partner doing is, cheating because of STIs and all that kind of stuff. And it happens more, I think, because guys can't cop to it. That stigma is a terrible thing. Like, be done with it. Yeah. Yeah. The other thing, too, that I want to point out about this is just my last and final point is our sexuality evolves. We change and grow as human beings. We also change and evolve sexually. So if he's been married a long time, it's, I think it's unrealistic and people need to stop thinking that their partners aren't

going to change sexually over time. There's a high likelihood of this, and that's kind of what's going on here with this guy. And what do you mean by that? Your sexuality is going to change. Think about how you had sex when you were younger, how it's evolved. I mean, for me, anyway, when you look at most people, it progresses as you get into it. And so over time, you're going to be exposed to different things. You're going to be turned on by different things.

I never thought I would ever be with a woman. I was with a woman. There's a lot of shit I never thought I do, right? But you are going to like different things over time. And that's what keeps it fun and exciting and how you can have a healthy sex life. Trying to stifle somebody or expecting your partner to just, you know, stay in this box, always in forever, stay in the vanilla box or we don't stray outside of this. That is going to be boring if you think you're going to spend your life with them.

Right. But what's the key to changing that? The key is like continuing to talk about sex with your partner and what you're into. Because how is someone going to understand even? what you've grown into being interested in. Most people keep that shit to themselves because of all the stigma. But don't be shocked when your partner. Don't be shocked or take it personally when your partner's sexual needs are changing.

It doesn't have anything to do with you. It's just natural. Right. But what comes before that, Layla, that I think most people have the problem with and is actually being honest about it, bringing those new desires to the table. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. It's a really, it's a toughy.

People just don't have, it's interesting, they don't have that verbal intimacy. I don't know what the right word is for it, but they just can't open up and share that side of themselves, which to me is always really strange when this is the person that you should want to know you better than anyone else. No, the saddest thing is that sometimes the person that they're cheating with or the escort that they hired is the person they could feel more comfortable with. And in a weird way, I understand it because really exposing your sense. self to somebody that you really, really know is a lot more hardcore and exposing.

Yeah. Then exposing who you are to a stranger, to a stranger. Who cares? What a stranger thinks of you? You never see them again. Exactly. But your partner that you live with, that you're stuck in this box with, what if they turn around and look at you and say, ew, that's fucking gross.

And I think that that's everyone's biggest fear. But what's going on right now with podcasts? I think it's really good because I hear it all the time with more of my younger colors. is that they are getting in conversations with their partners about what they're into by listening to podcasts together, sharing episodes and saying, hey, listen to this. What do you think about this? And you got to create those conversation starters, even if you don't have to come right out and say, hey, listen, I'm into getting fisted.

Would you fist me? You know what I mean? I get that. It's scary to put your shit out there. But start light. Just start talking about sacks. Yeah. Oh, my gosh.

I say that all the time. Like sometimes people call my, name you have a voice. voice mail and say, how do I get my partner? I'm into this. What do you say about that? And I'm like, play that episode that you were referencing that you listen to of mine a couple weeks ago, play it with her and just say, hey, let's listen to this and just see what her reaction is. I'm going to start easy. Just see how it goes. Yeah. Just get the conversation going because the more you talk and the more you push the boundaries, the easier it is. And then you could work up to the more hardcore stuff. Don't start at the hardcore stuff, right? You don't have to start there. Don't

with the fisting. I'm still obsessed with the fact that you fisted the guy. Can I just ask a quick question about that? Did you wear gloves? No. What did it feel like in there? Did you feel like body parts or is it just feels like nothing just tight? Um, it yeah, it feels weird.

Inside of an an anus feels weird. It's kind of bumpy and just kind of like, I don't know how to explain it. Oh, that is bumpy? Well, yeah, it's not, I mean, it's not, it's not, it's smooth, but, you feel like the wrinkles, like you feel the, you feel like your hand encased in it. I don't even know how to explain it. But I will say, no, no, no. He planned on this.

So he prepped all day long. He gave himself an enema. Like, he was clean as a whistle. There was no poopies in there, nothing. Of course. Okay. No, I just wanted to make sure. I just didn't know.

But my last question, too, about the fissing thing. And then I promise we're going to go to the next thing is, do you enjoy it? For you? Like, I know he enjoyed it. But did you enjoy the act of doing it. I did because it was amazing to watch. I've never heard the sounds that were coming out of him that I've never seen a man react like that. So I was just, it was almost like I was floating above and watching the whole thing. It was

really crazy and intense. Yeah, I loved it. Yeah, okay. Well, I did tell you to bring up one of your confessions on this episode. That would have been a good one, but we've already talked about it. I know. I'm going to have to think of a better one. Anyway, okay, let's go to the next confession. Yeah, okay. Well, I did tell you to bring up one of your confessions on this episode. That would have been a good one, but we've already talked about it. I know. I'm going to have to think of a better one. Anyway, okay, let's go to the next confession.

Hey, so I have a concession. This concession changed me from, I guess, considering myself straight male to bi-curious or bisexual male to set the presence. You know, I am business, young business professional. The white male, I am about 5-8, 160 pounds, very athletic bill, very in shape, very athletic guy in general. I keep a ball head and beard. And on this instance, I was traveling with business.

But in the United States to Europe, answered it specifically. And the flight I got to sit next to this lovely couple, a black woman and an Asian woman, both in their mid-40s, both looked great, both very cool. Sort of all three of us kind of hit it off instantaneously, instantly having harmless chit-chat, just smiling and laughing, getting ready to travel very easy.

They were clearly stoned, and so they had given the end of it. edible to join their little vibe they had going on. And so one woman had kind of tuned into a movie and the other woman and I continued our conversation. And the conversation was all around polyamorism and open relationships and sort of, yeah, asking questions about that and stuff. And so although nothing happened on the flight, we did exchange numbers and we sort of

texted back and forth for a couple of days before we met up. And we had decided to meet up and in the decision to meet up, we both sort of set our intentions and I made it clear that we were to be physical during meeting up. That'd be really cool with me. I'd be all right with that. We sort of said how far we'd be with what the stipulations were around that. And we didn't make any hard commitments to hook up or go home with each other or anything like that.

But we did make it clear that that was something interesting for both of us. Now, this woman is married. She does consider herself queer. She has had relations with guys and girls before, but it's been a long time that she had a guy. And one thing that she made clear to me in the evening over drinks was that the way she was intimate with guys was by trapping on a dildo and taking them from behind. And that was something very interesting to me. It sort of called me by surprise, but I guess the mood was right, the vibe was right. We had great conversation.

We were really hitting it off. Me at this time considering myself a straight man, was intriguing. Yeah, it was exciting. And I think the whole presence around it was fun. I would sort of go it's manly man. The one that takes care of his woman that puts her on a pedestal, a public pays for everything, makes her feel completely comfortable and taken care of.

And then, you know, she basically, I took her back to my apartment and she basically strapped up and went to town on my ass. And it was absolutely spectacular, very erotic, very sensual, a whole lot of fun. It was an experience I walked away from and said, yeah, I'm definitely not straight anymore. F-N-Sum, you know, I'm by curious. So, yeah, that's my concern.

Cession, use it or lose it. Yeah, thanks. Bye. Okay, I love that confession. And now I don't necessarily, you know, listen, maybe this guy has always been kind of into guys. And now he realized he liked the feeling he'd want a real cock. But, you know, I don't necessarily think just because you got pegged and you liked it and you had a fake dick up of your ass and it was attached to a woman that that means that you are by. You know what I mean?

I know straight guys that are not into guys at all and are not bisexual at all. And we never want to do it with a guy. But they love getting fucked in their ass by a woman. woman, right? And it's kind of the same thing we were talking about before. You got a prostate. It might feel good. What is it? It's a guy or a girl. That depends on your preference. But I think this is such an interesting kind of question to ask people. Like, if you met a really hot woman, like really fucking hot, and she wanted to like peg you and that was like the only way you were going to hook up with it, would you like try it out? Because this was a guy that

had never done anything this before. But he wound up being sort of taken into this experience. with this woman who was a lesbian, which is so interesting, right? Because she's not really into guys, but she, like, fucked him in the ass. And I just wonder how many other guys would take somebody up on this. It would take a hot woman up on this offer. I know you've had guys take you up on this offer. Yes, I think a lot of guys would take a woman up on this offer. The way this is, especially the way this is premised, he's, that's the way he's going to get access to her. He's already excited. They've been, they've been teasing and texting. And so he's, he's, Yeah, he's going to go for it.

And a lot of guys would. I think a lot of guys that haven't been pegged before would jump into this scenario because that's how they're going to get access to her. Now, the other thing, though, is I don't think, I'm agree with you. I don't think that he's this maybe makes him buy. He's into ass play. That's what he's discovered. He just, he likes having his ass stimulated.

So it doesn't necessarily mean he wants a real dick. Maybe he does. But I just want to make it clear that just because you, Like if you're a guy and you like ass play, that doesn't mean that you're bisexual. No, because think about it. Tons of women who are full on lesbians, butch Dykes, right, who wouldn't touch a guy with a 10-foot pull, loved for their partner to strap them on and fuck them or they strap on and fuck them. You know what I mean? Like, they use fake dicks, but they don't want a real dick on a man.

Like, they're not interested in the guy. But they like that feeling. Being penetrated feels good. Right. Yes. I mean, as somebody who has penetrated a bunch of guys, like, you've done that before, correct? Okay, well, I haven't penetrated a bunch of guys. Okay, well, how many guys?

One? Two? Well, I guess penetrating them with what. Did you ever peg a guy? So I have not pegged a guy. I have a guy that wants me to peg him. And we're, I will absolutely do that. That's my little sub.

That's the one I do all kinds of ass play with him. but the pegging is sort of a reward for him so he has to earn that but let me ask you this about that guy is he by and into guys or is he just into into being a sub for women he's just into being a sub for women yeah he's not by so right there same thing right you got a guy who likes ass play is begging for it wants you to peg him in the ass but it's not interested in guys and obviously he'd copped to it with you right he's copying all this other stuff oh yeah yeah he would tell me And then I have other guys that are, that I engage in ass play with or have engaged in ass play with. And they are bisexual and they know it.

Or they just like, or they're like the other caller that sort of decides that Dicks are hot and doesn't mind playing with them every once in a while, but absolutely doesn't want to be in a relationship with a man. Right. So, yeah, there's just a wide range of stuff. And I don't know. I think these labels kind of sometimes hinder people. It's just because you like asking. play. Now this guy, he's, well, I guess I'm by curious. I mean, I don't know, is he? I don't, I don't know that we got to give him that label yet. Yeah, like one thing doesn't necessarily have to do with the other.

I think it was like a Venn diagram. There would definitely be an overlap, right? A lot of guys who wind up being pegged also would realize, oh, I am by and I want a real guy because they were into guys too at the same time. But that it's not going to be like every single guy that gets pegged and has a fake dick of their asses into real deck. No way. Not at all. Because I've heard plenty of stories from that are into being pegged and stuff, but they would never do it with a guy, but they like when their girl does it. When you're penetrating a guy,

besides your fissing experience, which I've moved on from, what have you penetrated them with? Mostly dildos or like anal beat, like anal plugs or what have you used? Yeah, like a tiny little vibrator that buzz is, something small that's a little bit long. It's like kind of,

mostly things around the size of your finger or your thumb. Nothing. Oh, so no fake dicks. No fake dicks yet. Oh, okay. I do have a harness and I have the dildas that'll go in that harness. So I'm ready. Oh, so why haven't you given that sub?

I mean, does he not live close to you? Like, why hasn't that happens? Well, no, because he has to earn it and he's been naughty. So he has to do certain things in order to earn that. What people don't understand is BDSM is a lot of talk, talk, talk and writing and earning and mental foreplay, right? There's a lot of mental shit that goes into like a BDSM relationship. right don't you think yes there's there's a there's a it's a wide range but somebody that likes

you controlling them a little bit more and that likes that they get the release from that turns them on you know they just they want that they want to be controlled they want to be denied they want to be teased and and it's up to the job to decide whether or not they're they're getting certain privileges so yeah so there you go okay so well when you do finally peg the guide and you'll bring it up on a confession episode in the future let's go see I will. Yeah. But you know,

what I, let me just say, the last thing I'm going to say about this confession that I don't know if you caught this or like the lack of this is I was wondering if that lesbian had the okay from her other partner.

I'm assuming so because they were like talking about Polly Amory and stuff. So maybe she's Polly and that was like okay for her to do because it didn't sound like the other partner was involved. It sounds like he just met up with one of them and she fucked him in the house. But I'm wondering why the other partner was there and if she knew, don't you think? Do you wonder? But it sounded like they were traveling. So they were all in a place they didn't live at. So they were there just for that moment, for the moment in time, right? So the other partner would have had to know because her partner's not

around that night. I know, but she wasn't there. He didn't mention her. He said they started talking just him and that one. I just wonder. Oh, I think she knew. I think she knew. I think she knew. Me too. I think because he said that they were talking about Polly and stuff. But I wonder why she wasn't there to watch or that kind of stuff. I'd want more questions. I'd want more questions. But I did email him and say, hey, would you want to come on and talk about this experience? So maybe I'll get the long story. Because the other partner is the submissive one. And so she's not going to partake in that and be there.

What's her role? Right. I don't know. Who knows? Yeah. I know. All right. On to the next confession.

So hopefully this warrant says a good confession for you. I've listened to the show off and on. And so I've been a dumb probably last 10 years. I didn't really understand what that meant until someone I was looking up with. It said that I was a light dom, whatever that meant at the time. Anyways, to my confession, I drive back and forth from the L.A. area to Las Vegas for business at least twice. It's not three times a month on the weekend.

And I started hooking up a few years ago with a couple that are both. I would call the husband more of a cook, and I would think that the wife is definitely borderline submissive. So it's just really a fun relationship, no titles really. but every week, I'd say two out of the three weekends, I drive back and forth. Like I'm hooking up with both of them. I pick them up. I pick them in Vegas. We hang out.

In Vegas, we hook up on the way. We've got our normal spots that we hook up with. With the very dominant situation for me, whether it's telling those guys how I like things, them listening. It could be something as simple as her in the front seat, completely naked behind the limo tent, playing with herself, or the husband in the back, jerking on. for one of them driving and we're servicing each other.

This has been happening since 2015. There was a little interruption there when I was in a pretty serious relationship for a while, currently in a relationship with a female. And, you know, I'd say if you've ever been to the abandoned water park in between Vegas and California, I'd say we've probably been caught fucking there, whether it's me fucking him or fucking him, I'm fucked both of them at least a dozen times. We've watched porn in the car together. We've even made porn in the car together.

Not so much recently, but a few years ago we got really into golden showers where both of them enjoyed it. And it's, you know, it's been pretty fun. And the reason that I decided to call in tonight is I just dropped them off and I'm about 30 minutes away from home. Definitely therapeutic and I enjoy it. Don't plan on stopping. And so last week I just left Vegas and just got home. I'm in my driveway and dropped them off. I came up to Vegas after getting home earlier in the week.

I decided to drive back up because we reached out to an older gentleman who's a older bisexual porn star that just happened to have left his phone number to play with others on his Twitter. And we reached out to him, didn't hear from him earlier this week. And so then he had hit us back up. So then I made an excuse to go back to Vegas, pick them up, and then all four of us played around. So three of us guys, one of them being a...

very experienced gay and we'll buy porn star that I've been into for years and then her wife. And so it's a pretty hot time and figured it would be a worthy call-in. And we plan on hooking up again, hopefully in the near future. And it's definitely an experience that I will be thinking about for years. Thanks. Oh my God. I mean, to me, this is like what the Confessions line is all about. This sounds like a porn, right?

It doesn't even sound like real life. Like it sounds like, you know, hey, let's write this like. porn story and create a hot video of this guy who picks up couples and fucks him in the car and outside and all this exhibition stuff and everything right but this is actually really going down there's like a real guy who is driving around with a real couple for years and they're all like just fucking each other in the car it's so crazy no how come they don't get a hotel room that's what I want to know I think because maybe they get off on it right that is a part of it right there's that exhibitionist say they got He says there's some sort of, I don't know, he said that, and I guess people on the West Coast know about this, that there's some sort of park, water park on the West Coast that is abandoned and they've been there like fucking and people probably have caught them because that's where they're always at. And sometimes in the car.

Oh, I thought it was a water, is it a water park or a water treatment plant? Oh, I thought it was an abandoned water park, he said. I don't know. Something, yeah, something abandoned. No, but sometimes they're in the car watching. She's like naked while they're driving. I think that's another part of the kink. That is a big king. People, yes, people like public displays. They like the thrill of getting caught. So if they're getting caught when they're going there and they keep going back, obviously it's part of, it's part of their kink.

They enjoy it. Yeah, but like how did this all get set up? Did he talk about that? Like he just wound up meeting them. I just feel like this is a very specific thing. And he did say that he has a girlfriend now. And I wonder if she knows. I was waiting.

Me too. I have a feeling she does not. I'm going to go with no. Right. because that second call that he added in where they just brought in another guy. I mean, she wasn't a part of that. Now they're like hooking up with a gay man. And I'm assuming that he's been hooking up with the husband and the wife, right?

He said he was hooking up with both of them. Yeah, he said he hooks up with both of them. So I'm wondering in that threesome scenario or sorry, the foursome scenario, does the wife get as much attention if some of these guys are bisexual? I think so because she, probably is obviously into it. I've talked to a lot of women who are down with this kind of scenario, and if they're down with it, it is a big fucking part of their turn on. That's what I would assume, because they've been doing this for so long, right? Yes. This says 2015. That's what he said.

Yeah. So I would assume it's a big turn on for her. The fact that they both listen to my show, I'm hoping that they actually call in. I want either one of it. I either want the single guy who's hooking up for them to call in as well as the couple, because I love to know there's no way they're just doing this with this guy, this couple roles in like the alternative lifestyle scene, right? What else do they do? Right? Oh, my God. I know.

It's interesting, though. I've also noted that it seems like a lot of guys when they all get together, when there's a lot of guys involved, somehow that equates to golden showers. I don't know why. I'm glad you brought that up. I forgot about the golden shower reference. He threw that in there. Yes.

And I've heard this a lot. Like when you get a bunch of guys together, they want to pee on each other. And I don't know if it's the dominant thing or I'm not sure. Because I've been peed on and it's, or I peed on a guy. It's not really that sexual for me, but it was just kind of fun and funny. We did it in the shower. But I don't, but I haven't had. I've never had somebody to lay down and then just piss all over them.

But yeah, I did it in the shower and it's kind of cute and you laugh about it. But I find when guys, when you've got guys around each other, like they want to piss on each other, I don't know what the deal is. It's like that male dog that pisses on the, on the trees. Mark is territory? You think, oh, that's interesting. Yeah, I think there's something to it. You think that, so you think that that's a big guy on guy action thing? Because I did have somebody call in recently a girl who was saying she was into Golden Chowers.

Now, I know a lot of girls are too, but I think that I hear this when groups of guys are together. There's more, seems to be there's more peeing going on. I don't know. I'm just wondering if you've heard that. No, not at all. But I've had, I love the Golden Shower conversation because it's not something. that I would try, but I'm like you. If someone said, hey, would you want to do this to me in the shower or me do it to you in

the shower? As long as it's not like in my face or in my mouth, like, I'd be down for it. Totally. I'd try it out. No big deal. Oh, my God. I know people that like it in their mouth. You do?

Like people you've hooked up with? Yes, people I've hooked up with. They like it in their mouth. Now, I've never, I've never peed in anybody's mouth. I don't know if I can go that far. I guess if they wanted me to, I would. I'd be like, okay. I mean, I don't need this.

In the moment, I mean, my diet's pretty clean. And like, here we go. While they're going down on you. Right. Think about it. I mean, if they're like, go into town on you and they're like, okay, pee in me at the same time. Like, why not? I know.

I know. But that's kind of where I draw the line. Like, I wouldn't let anybody pee in my mouth. You could pee on me if we're in the shower. That's what gets you off. It doesn't do much for me. But I would let you do it. But no, you couldn't do it in my mouth.

Right, right. And that guy that brought it up to you. It was just one guy that you were with that said, hey, this is what I'm into. Was it something that he was very into? something new he wanted to try with you? No, he was into it. That was kind of one of his things. Now, there's other people that will want to pee inside you. Oh, that can't be healthy. Thank you. I know. It's no. That's like a bad pH balance thing. I mean, isn't pee so acidic and the, like to put that inside your vag, like, it's going to give you an infection for sure.

Or your, yeah, no, I have, or your ass. I mean, no, yeah, I'm not, neither of those is an option for me. Oh, but I have heard about the guys that want a guy to fuck them in the ass and pee inside at the same time. I've heard that. Yes, that's what I'm saying. People want to, yeah. Yeah, I don't roll like that. But, you know, it's okay. Hey, Tweed is out.

As long as everybody's down with it, go for it. How far did that guy take it? Was it just a one-time thing, your golden shower experience or more time thing? We just did it a couple. It wasn't like he had to do it every time. It wasn't always part of our play. So just whenever it was convenient, we could do it in the shower. I didn't want to be, I didn't, I didn't want to pee on somebody when I was not in the shower because I need to rinse off too.

Not only that, I had a friend who's got, had a lesbian couple friend of hers and they were peeing on each other and they were so into it. They couldn't stop in their whole house and bed had to be like through it like their whole bed had to be thrown out because they just. Ew. Yeah, because they just couldn't control themselves. Yes. I mean, let's do this hygienically. I don't mind doing it, but there has to be some hygiene considered. Yeah, yeah, no, totally.

And I say this on every episode, but I don't know if you've ever heard of this, but this is like a move that I think you would think is hot. And I would do it where this guy said his girl would sit on the toilet, right? And she'd spread her lips and he'd pee on her clit while she was sitting on there. So it's very hygienic, right? Because it's going into the thing. But imagine having that hot pee like penetrating your clit if you're really horny. Don't you think that sounds hot?

down. I could think there is something hot about that. I could be down for that one. Yeah. So you're the bucket list girl. Go do that and then come back in the future and talk about it. Get one of your guys to do it. Okay. Now listen, Leila, what I'm doing moving forward is every time I have a co-host on, I'm getting a confession from them, right? And we're going to discuss it. So why don't you give me your confession now? Let's end with your naughty confession. I have one. I could confess to too, too. But anyway, you go. first. Okay, I do have one. This is super, super ultra secret. I've never confessed this before, but I'll let it, I'll let it out. I was, my mom and I were traveling to my sisters and we ended up, it was my sister was getting married. So it was a full house. My mom and I were in the same bed. And I woke up in the middle of the night and I was super horny. And so an orgasm will put you to sleep. So I rubbed one out with my mom in the same bed, but she was, she sleeps like a freight train.

Oh my God. This is like the best confession ever. I can't believe I'm admitting this. This was a long time ago, by the way. Oh, my God. I totally understand that because you're like super horny. You don't care. It's not about your mom being there. It's just about your moment you're like, I hope she doesn't wake up, but I got to rub one out. I woke up at 2.30 in the morning. I couldn't go back to sleep. By about 3.30, I was like, okay, I know what I need to do. And it's not like I was like vibrating the whole bed.

I did it really, really covertly. But yeah, I did. I masturbated with my mother in the same bed as me. Oh, my God. That is a really good one. And I feel like that leads to so many questions for other people. Like, where is the most inappropriate place that you ever jerked off? because sometimes, and I've totally been there, like, as a woman, and it's all hormonal, I think.

Like, you could just get horny for no fucking reason. And you just have to have that release, like right that second. And that's exactly what was happening. And I've had other places where that's happened, too. Okay. So bring those up. I'm making you bring those all up. I know.

Go on. A lot of times it's, you're out in public and you're just like, where can I go? So you go into the public bathroom. Right. A lot of times in the public. bathroom, right? Yeah. Or at work.

When I used to, when I was in my going to school and working my way through school, I was a receptionist. Sometimes I would sit there, I'd get so horny. I'd have to run into the bathroom. And it was a single one. You could just walk it yourself. And I'd have to just get off really quick. And then there were days that I'd have to do that probably five times.

No kidding. I mean, just, I was so horny. Yeah, that's like ovulation time. Obulation time. Absolutely. Yeah. I remember being in a road trip with a guy of mine. And I was driving.

He was sleeping. It was my turn to drive and he was sleeping. And for some reason, the hot weather, the desert and the driving and me just sort of sitting there, like I got one of those waves of horniness. And I totally jerked myself off without waking him up. You know what I mean? Like he had no idea. But like that happens a lot.

I once went into a plane bathroom and did it because I was like it happened to me on a plane. I think sometimes it happens in places where when you're not thinking about it for a reason. Like for some reason, like your barrier isn't up to push it down, right? And you're not thinking about it and just takes you over. Did you ever get horny on a plane for no reason I have? Oh, yeah, I've absolutely masturbated in a plane bathroom. Yeah.

Yeah, right? I mean, I think it happens. It's like more common than not. Oh, yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. I mean, if I had a partner, he would have been in there with me, but I didn't have that option. So I had to just, like you said, take care of it myself. Oh, my God.

Your mother. Was your sister in the room, too, in another bed? Or you were on your way to visit your sister. No, no. We were at my sister's house. She was getting married the next morning. So we were staying with her and she had some other people there, right? So normally we would have our own bed, but in this instance, because it was a packed house,

we just had my mom and I shared a bed. And yeah, I had to. Let me ask you a quick question before we end this whole thing. I love your confession, by the way. It was really good. How do you jerk yourself off? Are you a girl that fingers yourself or do you like rub your clip? Because obviously you're not pulling out toys while your mom's there, right?

So you can't like use a vibrator. You're not doing that. But if you're using your hand, are you like, oh, you finger yourself until you come? or do you rub your clit or both? In this instance, it was just my clit. Because if I had two hands involved, then there'd be more motion going on. I did not want to wake her up. Right.

But what's your normal go-to? My normal is, it's 50-50 between fingers and me and just my clit. So you will finger yourself and you could finger yourself until orgasm? Or do you have to play with your clit while you're fingering yourself? Or do you know how to give yourself like a G-spot orgasm with your fingers? I can't put enough pressure with the angle with just my fingers to get a G-Sput. spot orgasm. I have to use a dildo for that. Right. But so I just do,

I just, if I put my fingers in me, I'll rub my clit too. Right, at the same time. So you'll do both hands. Yes. Yes. Yes. But the rubbing the clit is the fastest way. Absolutely. Right? Absolutely. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. Yeah. I mean, I can make that happen real fast. That's why

I just went straight to that because when my mom was in the bed, I didn't want to belabor it. I just needed that quick release. Oh, my God, that's so funny. I was thinking like, oh, should I confess something? And I was like, what could I confess? It's not like I could confess of more places. But I was thinking like, oh, I could confess that like I'm currently. And then this will come with a question that I'm currently in search of a spreader bar.

So I brought it up on my, on an episode. And I went Googling like, what is that? And I was like, oh, that's so fucking hot because I've been using this toy that keeps breaking and I keep buying it because it's only $18. And then it's like this sucking machine. And it's like kind of hands free because it starts sucking up your badge. And then you could just leave it there and have an orgasm. and just sort of being able to just sit there and do that, I've been like kind of like while I'm involved in this whole scenario,

hands free, I've been thinking like, oh, if my legs were tied up and my hands were tied up, I don't know, I've been going like down that path of being very submissive tied up and there's like this spreader bar thing where your legs are up in your hands. And this girl told me recently that I was talking to do that, that did it, that you could actually like use it to spread your legs even more or less. And I was like, oh my God, I'm totally going to try that. So my confession is I'm buying one today on Amazon.

Amazon. Have you ever experienced that or used one of those? Yes. You have? Oh, yes. Is it good? Yes. Well, I mean, anything, for me, anything to do with BDSM when I'm not in control and the guy's doing what he wants? Like, that's hot. So, yes, you will love it. Do you have one in your house currently? Do you have it or do you one of your doms bring it? Yeah, I don't have it. It was a toy that, yeah, somebody that I used it on me. And I was like, oh, my God, I love this thing. Yeah. Oh, my God. Well, I'm going to get one. And I'll. I'll talk about it on a future episode, but I loved your confession. It was even way better than mine. And I love that you came in and talked about these confessions with me. I have to say most of my callers will always be like, oh, my God, I love your Layla,

Girl Talk episodes. We are doing one coming up and we are taping it. I promise my audience and you said you're down where we're going to do one on perimenopause, HRT, pellets, injections, like all things. for girls and they're like 40s and 50s, right? Like that kind of thing. We're doing that coming up, right? And I'll definitely have you on again for a confessions episode.

You're always fun to talk to. And thanks so much for calling in and being honest. Yes. Thank you. I love your audience's confessions. They're fantastic. They need to submit more to you so I can listen to them. I love it.

Yeah. Well, now that they know you're on because my audience loves you too, call in and if you say, hey, I want you and Layla to critique this one. I'll make sure to save it for when you're my co-host. Yes, ask for me, please. Yeah, so why don't you give a quick shout out and tell people where they could find you and all your stuff? Yes, well, my podcast is one big old confession.

Easiest way to find me, and hopefully your listeners get a chance to listen to my podcast, too. It's The Curious Girl Diaries. Easiest way to find me and all my stuff is The Curious Girl Diaries.com. From there, you can link to my socials, and you can also leave me voice, I love to interact with people. So if you have any questions for me, there's a pink tab on the right hand side. You just click that and you can go for five minutes.

And I get back to everybody personally. All right. Awesome. Thanks so much for calling in, Lela. You're the best. All right. Thanks, Kathy.

Bye. Hi. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio.

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anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at strictly anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Good news. Strictly anonymous podcast is looking for people to call into the show. So if you lead an interesting, naughty secret life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud, that's cool too.

Send me an email, Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. Or go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on, be on the show. If you have a short confession that you want to get off your back, call my Confessions Hotline. [phone]. That's 347-4-4-203579. call that number 24-7. I change all the voices on the confessions too, so you remain anonymous. The number, the website, and the email address will all be in the description.

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