Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 907- Jane and Thor are Into Hotwifing, Threesomes, Swapping and More

Episode Date: August 29, 2024

Jane and Thor are into threesomes, swapping, cuckolding and more and they called in to talk all about it. How did they meet up? How did they first start hooking up with others? And where did they go to meet the people they hooked up with? Tune in for all the details which include how they were both married and cheating when they first met each other, the MFF threesomes they met at and how that threesome eventually led to them both divorcing and staying together, how and why Thor was immediately attracted to Jane, how they went crazy at first on swinger dating sites and swinger house parties, how and why they eventually became more selective as well as started to play alone, why they now prefer spontaneous hook ups over set up hook ups, the women they met that they both were totally into, the foursome they had on their staycation, their hook up with her co-worker that a started at a strip club, why they’re not into hooking up with other swingers, the types of guys Jane is really into, her affair with a famous sports star and why that ended, their DVP experience and exactly what went down and a whole lot more. *REPEAT Originally aired 10/2022 To see anonymous pics of JANE AND THOR and my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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But the interesting way they met was like there was like a threesome going on with Thor. or this other woman and Jane. Now, the interesting thing about it, okay, because threesomes aren't that off the wall on my show. The interesting thing about their threesome is these were three people that came together and got it on with each other, and they all had husbands and wives. Okay, every single one of them was cheating in this scenario.

It's pretty salacious. And then they get into how they eventually got together and kept going with their threesomes. They've had foursums. They've done it all. They went for a little bit of a free-for-all when they first got together doing swingers clubs and parties and going on to websites and stuff. They have been with people separate together. They get really specific about a couple hot stories.

This episode has it all. And it's super interesting because it's a little bit different. They like to do things a little bit different, even though they're doing all the same things as a lot of my other couples. They're still totally into each other. They're totally hot. If you want to see them, go to patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. That link is in the description. I'm going to be right back on with Thor and Jane.

Jane and Thor. They're both on this episode explaining. I'll be right back on. Hi, Jane and Thor. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you guys doing today? Hi, we're doing well. Thanks for having us.

Thank you. Oh, thanks for being here. And you guys have like your own mic. You are ready to talk together on the show. I'm super excited because I feel like you guys have a lot of stories. And I really had so many questions about your first story, which is how you guys all met at a threesome. And the threesome was like you, her, and another woman, I'm thinking, right? And you were all married to other people.

Were you all cheating? That was my first question. Yeah. Unfortunately, I was doing some personal training at a large club, married, met. a female. These clubs are kind of predestined for affairs and just a lot to go together. And then in comes Jane. How does Jane get involved in a threesome?

So I was new at this club, married, and walked into a class and took one look at Thor and there was just this electricity between the two of us. It was felt bright. up to that. And this other woman will call Lou felt it as well. She became very territorial and over the next several weeks became a fixture. Wherever Thor was, Lou was, especially when he was around me. She was married as well? She was. Okay. So when you see how was her guy still kind of weird CD situation goes. It doesn't matter. Yeah, of course you're going to be. It doesn't matter. She was banging you. You were hers. I get it. You don't have to be a marriage,

someone. You could be cheating with them and still feel ownership. That's the way it goes. And they had a long-term relationship. I believe at that time, they were together about five years. So it became kind of a keep your friends close, your enemies

closer type situation. They befriended me. They could tell I was extremely vanilla. I was in a not super great marriage and I at the time was looking for something different, a little excitement. And it started off very vanilla, very friendship-oriented. Let's go out for a run altogether. Let's grab drinks after a while. And then it slowly, they slowly started letting me into

their situation. They informed me that they were both married, not to each other. They'd been together for quite a while. And they went to sex clubs and they went to parties and house parties. And me being very vanilla and not aware of this type of situation at all, I became extremely intrigued. Oh, I didn't know. I didn't know that in that five years, you behind your wife's back, that other woman were had a swinging lifestyle together? Yeah, she, she was pretty vanilla, minus just seeing other men. I, I guess together we started dabbling and dabbling a little more. And mostly, I'd say, threesome, maybe with other women and or soft swap things.

So she was slowly doing more and more. but going back to what Jane said. So even at the club, we'd mess around with some other people. But when Jane walked in and it's two-sided here, I was rough to bat-knit with her. And I can tell you, coming from just a life of separating my loves with people I've been with, I was floored. And for sure, the other girl knew right of way, simple as well, because she had seen me around other women,

and I never had the reaction that I had with Jane. And the behind all the seediness is the next of this day, which was a lot of love and layered underneath it. So it did set off a lot of things in our lives and their lives. It wasn't just that you looked at Jane and was like, oh, I want to have sex with her. It was more. There was like something else going on,

that kind of chemistry that's even more. more than just sex. And I think that a lot of people when they meet the one, you hear stories. I love those stories where a guy just knows the minute he sees somebody. And sometimes the woman, too, it's some sort of electric vibe that goes down when you meet that person that's the one. And it's not, like you're saying, it wasn't just about sex because here you were. Like that girl knew it was something different because you guys had been banging other people the whole time. Correct. Yeah. So wait. So what goes down at that first threesome and then we'll move on because I know there's so much more that you guys wind up doing together.

But had you, because like I know that Thor and that other woman had been with other people. But Jane, here you are like pretty vanilla. And you're about to cheat on your husband. Is this the first time you're cheating on your husband? And the second thing I want to know is this the first time you're with a woman? So, yes, this was the first time I had cheated on my husband. And yes, first time with another woman. And I had fantasized before about being with another woman, but definitely the first physical time doing both.

So they invited me out for drinks. They, it turns out, had a full on plan for me. And so we went out for drinks, and then we went back to Thor's house. And I think we just started watching TV or maybe playing a video game. guitar hero that's right and then Thor came up behind me and started kissing my neck and the other girls started to join in just touching and feeling and before I knew it we were all just messing around it was fun but I will say it started with if as we're kind of playing guitar hero she was playing a

song or something. Like James said, I kind of came up behind her and I started taking her clothes off. And whether it was premonition or what. I remember, I think she complained about her getting mad. But it was a fun time. We all had a great time us around together. But

I think literally starting right then and there she knew she was in trouble. Did everyone fool around with everybody? Was it, is that how it all went down? Oh, for sure. And with me being the guest in their situation, I was very aware and I made sure that I knew my place. So I wasn't, I absolutely wasn't trying to take over or monopolize the situation. I kind of just fit myself into where it felt appropriate. I remember to this day, it's crazy. She had the white button down shirt on.

I kind of went behind her and I unbuttoned her shirt and and start changing her tits. And of course, the third, who she realized right away she was going to be the third and this kind of joined. And we went on the Bing bag, right? Yeah, so I'll just, I mean, it was especially for Jane's first time. If you would have seen it, recorded it, watched it, you would never guess it was the first time. It was girl on girl, me going back and forth. I think even at one point they were kind of on top of each other kissing, and I was just fucking one of them, fucking the other one.

And it was as normal and natural as it could be. And it's, like I said, super, super hot time. Now, I know because you guys are together now that obviously, because these are three married people, all of your relationships go bust somehow. mean did you get caught? Did it blow up in your fucking face? Like how did you, how did that what happened? Well, before this, I broke up. We went along. We started doing more things together. I think we had her in a couple of situations with us a couple more times, but it was ending.

I left my wife, got my own place. And honestly, one day, Jane's like, time for her to go. And I was like, yes, ma'am, she's gone. So I break up with her. Fast forward to our jobs together. We could both travel. So I'd plan business trips along with her business trips, and we'd be together. So I bring Thor along on a work trip with me. And the third, Lou realizes that we're both gone at the same time.

So one night I called home. home to talk with my husband and he informed me that he had had a conversation with Lou while at the club and she let him know that she believed very strongly that Thor and I were away together. Oh, what is that saying? Something like nothing's as bad as a scorned lover, you know, that saying? Oh, yeah, yeah, for sure. she got you guys she hurt you guys as much as you guys fucking hurt her she got you back except we weren't married to her it doesn't matter it doesn't fucking matter you know what i'm talking about i mean she was really she was vicious she called your fucking husband she

she she talked yeah she could find him in person and so that night i admitted my husband what had been going on and and then I let him know that as innocent and as scorned as Lou might have sounded that she was actually the one that initiated the initial threesome at the very beginning so I wanted to let him know that she's kind of the one that brought us all together yeah but she also had a husband did you guys call her husband I mean wasn't she worried that someone that would go do the same thing? Maybe. What do you mean maybe?

I sent her husband an email and let him know that they had had at this time a seven-year relationship. Yeah. And that spurned their divorce. My divorce came about a year and a half later. So everything blew up. Everything blew up that day, that night. So a sexy story.

that almost led to this. We go out one night, the three of us. I set up a date with a couple. Jane said by this point, her and I were kind of talking, we want to do this, we want to do that, want to do this. So we meet this couple out at a bar, and a couple of invites back to the hotel room. And it was kind of funny.

The third turns to Jane says, are you sure you want to do this? Not knowing that we almost had set it up as it was, and she's a percent. We're walking back to the room. James are ready between the husband and wife with a couple we met, and the third's constantly saying, are you sure, are you sure? And she couldn't be more sure. Go up to the room.

It's a super, super hot situation. This couple is really good-looking. Everybody's messing around. at one point. So remember, we're still married to other people. Jane looks at me and says, can I fuck him? And the third started crying. Oh.

Because, and that started off. I think the next day she calls Jane and says, you gave him everything he's ever wanted. And she was right. Yeah, listen, I mean, you could understand everybody in this situation. I feel for her, too. You got to like, it's not like she fucked you one night and she was acting like a crazy jealous girlfriend. I mean, you had a very long-term affair.

There's no way she didn't have feelings for you at that point. I don't care that she was married. You were married, you were married, you were feelings for Jane. Feelings just sometimes fucking happen. And sometimes they're not reciprocated just because you weren't feeling that she was. So we feel for her, but it doesn't mean that you guys were wrong. You guys met each other. And it was like, whoa.

You guys were meant to be together, and the whole thing went fucking bust. It happens. But I don't see that she's so bad. I mean, she must have been cool for some reason. You were with her for five years. Yeah, I don't want to come across as portraying this woman as a horrible human being because she's not. What you just said is absolutely correct. Yeah, it just happened.

You guys were meant, and you feel for her. Stronger. Yeah. I mean, it was time for you to meet somebody that was right. It wasn't going to be her. Jane was the one for you. But I can understand her being so upset at that point because the writing was on the wall. When I just think that crying was her, she just knew she was losing you.

She obviously had something wrong in her marriage that she had this ongoing thing with you. So in a weird way, you all wound up better that it all fucking blew up because you guys weren't all with each other because you were happy at home. Yeah. And talking about writing the wall. Like I said, it wasn't that she was a bad person. It's like you said, writing was on the wall when Jane, I remember, I mean, again, vividly. I looked over, I see Jane riding this guy in the hotel room. I, like, jumped up from what I was doing, walked right over and kissed her.

And I'd already to this day, it's one of the greatest kisses we've ever had, just because the whole situation was just absolutely. perfect and there's like a light and strike. Yes. Set us on our journey, honestly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you got, you get divorced and because I, like I said, I know from your email, you guys have done swaps and

clubs and cuckled situations and all that kind of stuff. So you guys wind up together. You don't live together now, I know that, but you are together as a couple and you've been together for a very long time since. So now I'm assuming since you've been open from before you were a

When you were just cheating, you remained open. You know, what, start telling me what happened once you guys got together as far as, like, the clubs and the cuckolding and all that kind of stuff. So when we had free reign to be with each other at any point that we wanted, we weren't sneaking around anymore because we were now both divorced. Yeah. I would say at the beginning, we went a little crazy. We were on a couple of swinging dating sites, and it was. It was probably at least once a week that we were meeting a couple or a guy. We had a guy that we met who became a little bit of a regular, and we would meet him every so often.

But, yeah, we kind of went a little nuts with the house parties and the meeting of people, just because for the previous couple of years, we were sneaking around so much. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And then we kind of just fell into our comfortable routine, I guess, our non-routine. And we became a little more selective with who we saw and what we did. And one point we both started experimenting out on our own. Oh, interesting. Or with Thor with other women, myself with other men.

Definitely some cuckled situations where Thor watched. and we met a woman who became irregular for a little bit. It was just a super aggressive, super good-looking, super-comfortable third that was funny. We both kind of fell in love with. It was someone that you could literally go, we could have this one girl for the rest of them. And again, not because it's a girl. I could have a super-referral. regular boyfriend of James, but this one was just different.

Yeah, because she was just so great. I mean, you guys are both. He loved me as much as he loved him. Yeah, it was a really good situation. Oh, and even to this day, we talk about our comfort level. We both, and I think she'll agree with me. We really like the spontaneous. We really haven't, we haven't been on the site in years.

we haven't been to like a house party or club in years just because it's, I don't say it's not a challenge or not even fun for us anymore. We enjoy, and honestly, the best time we've ever had is when things just pop up out of the middle of nowhere and things roll. So tell me some stories of how things have popped up out of nowhere for you guys. Where do these spontaneous things go down? So every summer, we take a long weekend and do a. a staycation here where we live. We find a nice hotel with a great cool, a great scene, and we spend a Friday night through Sunday morning at this particular hotel.

Yeah. And one day we got a prima spot at a cabana near the cool. Right. Just hung out. We were drinking, and there were several other couples and groups of friends that were within our age group, probably a little bit younger than us, but within our age group. And a couple hours later after drinking, there are now, two, three, five or six of us on our cabana, men, women, couples, and everything was rolling and fun, and neither one of us had any

inclination that something was going to happen. Zero. But I ended up giving the woman half of this one couple, my cell phone number. And at the end of the afternoon, we all packed up and go to our respective hotel rooms to get ready for the evening. And the woman text me and said, I think you left your hotel key in my room and gave us her room number. And I kind of looked at Thor and we both just got this big smile on our face. So we both kind of walked over to their room. Door cracked.

The doors cracked. They're both naked on their bed, messing around, and they look up and invite us over onto the bed with them. And it just turned into this spontaneous, for some swap, crazy hot situation. They knew you guys were like one of them. They could tell you guys were down. I think you could smell that shit, right? Well, yes, I know. And we've been out before.

And yeah, there's times when we throw it out there. And it's times that we don't. We literally don't. And we're at another one of our hangouts one time. And I think it was like middle of the week. And we're talking to three sales reps that were in town at this hotel. And we're just talking to them. I mean, we're not, there's zero vibe, zero this going on.

And this is kind of a sad note. But also, one of the guys goes, you guys are swingers, aren't you? And we're both kind of taken back. We're like, why do you say that? And that's what sucks. Because honestly, I will back up and say that we do this, at least I do. I love her power and her confidence and who she is. Even when we talk about cuckold situations, I don't watch her because it's a cuck situation.

I watch it because the power blows me away. And this is why we're together. And so we asked this guy, like, why do you say that? He says, because you, this sucks, because you let her talk to us and you don't get mad. Yeah. And this is why we're together. And so we asked this guy, like, why do you say that? He says, because you, this sucks, because you let her talk to us and you don't get mad.

Why does that suck? You kept saying, oh, but this is terrible what I'm going to say. Like, how is that bad? I don't understand. That I have to allow her, that I control her. We've talked a million times the process of getting to a hotel room or a bedroom. It could literally end right there because my turn on and comes from watching her go through the motions of control and controlling these guys at the bar. and get into a point they come to the room with us.

And before I met Thor, I wasn't the person I am today before I met Thor. He saw and knew the person that I was deep down, but I had always been in relationships where I was kind of kept down. We're talking to other men absolutely wasn't allowed. And all of a sudden, he allows me to open up and blossom into this confident, powerful woman and so I think that's one of the reason he loves it so much because he

has over the past several years has seen me grow from a meek kind of insecure beta woman into a more powerful human being. Yeah, you're lucky. I mean, I got to tell you that's very rare.

A lot of guys would be very intimidated by that and they do keep that part of most women down and I think that every. And sometimes this is subconscious thing. I think a lot of women's biggest fear is that if they were all of themselves, their guy would be like, what the fuck? It's too much. It's a

stigma that's definitely surrounds women and I think it's great that you happen to meet that rare breed of a guy that not only allows for it but fucking loves it. I mean, that's like really that's only going to motivate you even more to get more into it

and be more of who you are. And that helps you and him. You're both lucky. Yeah. And it's really helped me in my professional career as well. Yeah, I push her to treat clients like there's someone at a bar you're picking up. I'm like, you're too strong. Don't let them bully you. You be the, you be the champ in this. Yeah, that's great. The best story though. Yeah. And this is talk about a just off the cuff. My birthday a couple years ago, we go out, we go to our normal watering hole, high in hotel bars here in town.

The, we're having our drinks, having dinner. And weirdly, it's kind of winding down. Like, nothing's going on at the hotel. And it's, I think, 945. And we actually turn into it. It's like, hey, you're ready to go home. So we're like, we're like at level one when it comes to party. Yeah. Out of the blue, she's like, ah, we should, we should

go to a strip club on a way home. Okay, I'm game. then we decide to invite a co-worker hers a guy that he by then he knows about us right a little bit so he's been kind of pretty to what we do and we've told him some stories and so he's always been curious so she texts them hey we're going to the strip club do you want to meet us and that text me back in seconds to meet you there so we stop and it's we're still up in one now we actually just it's a beat it's an all new place with b yob we get just i think one either a six pack or a two pack of beer wasn't even that much alcohol we roll into the strip club james wearing this gorgeous orange dress the it went from one to defcon 10 and

sentence. Like to the point, I'm, I'm walking around in a strip club trying to buy liquor and alcohol from other people. Is that the same night you took your dress off? My dress didn't come on. The stripper just pulled it down. So me and the guy are sitting there, and the place is packed, a lot of people in there. A really good looking strippers on stage. Jane walks up, starts talking to her, and I'm kind of just watching. I become in these situations a big watcher, because I just, I like watching her perform. And the girl kind of stops dancing and she's leaned down and they're having a conversation for a couple minutes.

I'm like, what the heck is going on here? All of a sudden, right in front of the whole club, she pulls her dress off her shoulders, pulls her boobs out and turns her around for everybody to see. It was, it was so cool. And I remember Jane, like she kind of like does like a hello to everybody and smiles. So by this point, this guy's going nuts. She comes over, sits down. He's sitting across from her. I think some girls are sitting there dance with us,

and she hikes her skirt up and almost kind of has her leg spread right in front of him. He's just staring at her. But I've been in a situation a million times. Guys get worried, get nervous. So I keep going to the bathroom. going, all right, I leave them alone. And it's funny because every time I need, and he knows what's going on,

but every time I leave, the only time he'll kiss her is when I'm not there. So she's in attack mode. And she's like, let's go back to your place. And still, as you go up front, we drove there. He Ubered there. And we're walking out there, and he's like,

okay, I'm going to get my Uber. And I'm like, dude, we go in the car together. You don't have to get an Uber, cancel your Uber. They get in the back seat together. And this is what's funny is. In my mind, they sucked in the back seat. In reality, you didn't really do anything, right? I think we made out of this.

But in my mind, my head's going crazy and this is so hot. We get to his place. And as you, I think it's a two or three-story condo. As Jane's in front of us walking up to the, up to the bedroom and she just takes her dress off, gets naked, just walks naked in front of us up to the, up to the bedroom. I'm like, oh, this is incredible. But again, just to make sure,

we've been with, we've been with a lot of guys that, and to this day we still argue, we've had a lot of men who can't perform. I mean, I'd say a majority of men who struggle. And we don't know, is it me in there? Is it what's going on? Is it nervousness? It's alcohol.

We, we, this is kind of our holy grail trying to figure out why sometimes men don't perform. So we've noticed before that if I leave the room or go to the bathroom or you'd even use the, I left their credit card at the bar and you go down and get my credit card, just to kind of let these guys get started, things tend to be better just because it's him and her. The problem with this guy is you didn't. He had some problems performing, which is fine. My best, trying to alleviate the situation, help him along. But at one point, good for him.

He just said, look, I'm sorry. I just can't do it. Why don't you guys, why don't you guys just have sex in front of me and I'll watch? Oh, okay. often came. Yeah. Well, it was the funny, at one point he goes, oh, no.

And like he knew that he was in trouble. You know what? It's the first I'd ever kind of admit that he was in trouble. But it still ended being one of the hottest situations we've ever done again. Off the cuff. A vanilla. And that's kind of our wheelhouse now, is that we enjoy

the meeting of people that go and roll. Oh, okay. That's interesting, Tate. I can talk to a million swingers and open people and different. So he's a new little twist because you guys do like to show someone like that guy, a first time experience. I prefer, I prefer the newbies only because to me, the experienced swingers,

the experienced swinging couple can be a little aggressive for me. Oh, okay. Interesting. I'm that's one of the reasons we got off the the dating site it was just it was just too much i wouldn't say well i definitely wouldn't say i'm a hardcore swinger i do prefer prefer the more natural situation so i believe that's why i like the newbie situation because it is organic and and it just flows a little bit more naturally. Oh, wow.

I never heard that, but it makes sense when you explain it. I'm surprised I haven't heard that from people before. So when you're with the swingers, they know what's going down, what's going down, like it happens too fast. Is that what it is? There's like less interesting. Yeah, it's a, it's a foregone conclusion. Yes, we are here together because we are going to have sex.

I like the lead up and the not. knowing of exactly what's going to happen and how things are going to happen or even if they're going to happen. It happens every time we've been together 15 years. We had sex last night. When it ends, it's literally, oh, my God, to this day. So we both know going in that sex is not going to be as deal with someone else. And we've, so the aura around the whole setup, like I said before, It could end at the door to hotel room. I'm good. Because you still know you're going to be together.

What happened when you guys experimented on your own? Did that go well? Was that not cool? Were you not into it? No, I think we were both into it. I think it's the dynamic between the difference between men and women in the situation. So when Thor goes off with a fairly vanilla female, it ends a little bit differently than it does when I go off with a fairly vanilla male.

Explain. I feel that, and I think we'll both agree, that when Thor goes off with a woman, emotions develop on the woman's side. And she sees how he treats me. She sees what we have, and she wants part of that. She wants in on that. Yeah. So it seems to me that emotions get developed and feelings get developed and we start treading into maybe some dangerous territory.

Another, how it started with us at the very beginning. Although I feel that that's not going to happen. I'm confident that's not going to happen. But when I go off with another male and it happens twice, the. Even though I talk about Thor and these men are very aware of the situation and know the rules of what's happening, they tend to forget that. And they tend to kind of start acting like Thor doesn't exist. And I become maybe their property a little bit in their mind.

But it's also definitely just sex with these men. There's not emotions behind it. It's just sex. So we've had arguments about this, and this is my fault, not definitely not Jane's fault. So she had an affair with a pretty, with a sports celebrity. Okay. While you guys were together? Yeah.

And he had the, especially since they traveled to many cities and all the time, all the time, he flew her out a lot to to different cities and we get arguments and not because of the sex and this is 100% my fault so going back to what

she said if I need a third I think I've spent the night one time in my life I I am there to give him a good time and go home yeah she does the exact same thing she's there to meet these guys, giving them a good time to go home.

But in my mind, when, and then again, this is my, this is 100% my issue. I got it. Don't worry. Keep going on. All I think about is I put, and I, and I, this is where she's right, I put myself in their position. I imagine what I would do if I were them. So I started getting freaked out about, they're washing each other's back. They're sitting there having coffee together.

It's a night. I don't even care about the sex. And I've got way better I freaked out about thinking that I'm the one sitting there running my hands through her hair and rubbing her back and of course in reality, no, that happens. It's sex, we'll over go to bed and she's gone the next morning. He thinks we're cuddling and I'm falling in love with this man

as I'm laying next to him when in fact it couldn't be more opposite. Because I put myself, I put me and him. Yeah, but listen, that's normal. I mean, you love her so much. That's like you just, it's your biggest fear. And why wouldn't you think that if she's being whisked away by a famous sports guy? And you don't know what's going down or you're not there. I mean, that's the insecurities that I think most people feel like would 100% come up for them.

And that's why a lot of people don't open up their marriages because they don't think that they could handle it. And here you are someone who's been very open with your wife. And you still have those insecurities. It's very real life. we say there's jealousy and it's none of as good jealousy wait whatever happened with your sports guy

I want to hear those stories do you still see him oh boy I'm gonna leave that one alone for the most part but it ended abruptly oh why did his wife find was he married

I'm assuming he was I don't know why he was married he was married but it's yeah details I can't I can't disclose here it ended fairly But why can't you?

I mean, I'll edit it out if you have to say something. But why, I don't understand you were not outing anyone's names at all or anything like that. But why do you have to keep the details out? Is it because it would make us know who this person was or something? Yeah. Yeah. It was a natural story. Yeah.

Oh, okay. So this affair and this thing with, and why it ended abruptly, was something that was national news. So we can't talk about it. Not directly associated. I got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it. But wait, so, Thor, I thought when you wrote in your...

I remember there's something being like a, you know, a famous athlete thing going on in your email, and I thought that was you, but maybe that was you talking about this scenario. Is that what was in your email? Or were you a sports guy at all? No, I've gone pretty far, and we've got a lot of athlete friends that are professionals.

There's other stories about that have guys that are high and out. athlete that would love to be with her. But I'm like, all right, so I have a three-some and they freak out. So it's, I'm in that world. Oh, okay. Now, is word on the street that Thor and Jane hook up with other fucking people? Is that, is it, are you guys pretty open in your circles? Yes. Yeah. Interesting. I mean, to the point they get,

to the point they get some, we'll be a friend of mine. And I'm sure you've been there with many podcasts you have. how the joke about if a woman fucks one guy she'll fuck a hundred guys I've had buddies of mine that out of the blue if I get a whole on one on this

on this on this par three James getting me a blowjob and we're like dude why would you say that just that's because she has sex with who she wants it is the means to have sex with you it's they can't sometimes they can't control themselves they don't know the line because they're not really used to it yeah

yeah and they just think oh she'll just fuck anybody like you guys say but you have have you done other people in that world that have worked out in the athletic world yeah not to that extent there's been conversations and and videos and pictures and and talks back and forth yeah with a couple of other athletes but nothing nothing that ever resulted in any physical uh sex together Now I know because I already have your guys pictures that you're both super fat, amazing bodies. Those pictures, anonymous pictures will be on my Patreon. But do you guys have a type?

I mean, do you look for people who are similar? I have a type, a physical type of man that I've always been attracted to. And it's, and my ex-husband and these two other. athletes would fit into this category of the tall, dark and handsome, dark facial features. Not me. Yeah. Is that interesting? I'm opposite of all that.

Yeah, yeah, interesting. So you like tall, dark, and handsome. Well, I do. They haven't ever really worked out for me. But what about you, Thor? Do you have a type with her? do you have that cuck thing going on where you like to see a man that's like bigger than you, better than you, or anything like that?

Nope. Nothing specific. Nothing specific. Honestly, it is a, well, I've told her bluntly, I would love, I, okay, I do have a type. I want to type that can pleasure her when we do this as good as I can. It may never happen, but we do these things. And it seems a lot of times the guy's not as good. And that's why, I mean, when she'd go meet this celebrity.

Yeah. It'd come home. Did he make you come? Do you do this? And she's like, no. And I honestly. upset. I wish I'm obviously. I wish she would

because even other day we're talking about she was out of town. I'm like, oh, you should meet someone. And and she turned and she's 100% correct. She says she wanted to do something. I'm like, oh, she needs me. I go, find someone and jerk them off or something.

She's like, no, I want to come. And she's right. Yeah. But at one point it becomes a holy grail. I laugh that I hear your advertisements on your podcast about the how men know they're good at sex so they come 100% of the time

that's kind of a joke that you're always forgetting about someone that's one of those ad you plays that hey girls want to have fun also Oh the orgasm gap yeah yeah the girl yeah My goal or my type is someone who would

honestly do a great job with stuff That's what I that's her I know that I will be here's a selfish part if we do this and she has a really good time we'll do it more it's a win win for me

right if we do it and we've been there we've done it it's been absolutely horrible and we won't even think about it for a year right so yeah I'm always in search of me another good lover. Because that woman was the last one that was, have you had any long-term bulls besides that

sports guy? We had a guy that we caught a lot and he moved. And he was reliable. Other than that, no. We haven't had any long terms at all. Now, I know you had that foursome in the cabana foursum. Have you had a lot of foursons? Have you had more than that?

Have you had orgies? Oh, yeah. Tell me some stories before we end this up. What's your best story? Well, I'm hoping that we've got we've got one on the hook right now. We can get back to you after Saturday. Oh, interesting. I feel like might be a good situation.

Met him on a dating app recently. So hoping that one turns out. At the very beginning, we met someone at a, hotel just randomly met him on one of the dating websites went to the hotel I believe he had a girlfriend come with him and he had a work call I believe that he hadn't you know the three of us Thor myself and this girlfriend were just kind of staring at each other and I just kind of shrugged my shoulders looked at Thor and and I started undressing the girlfriend and just went at it without her boyfriend there.

We got tired of waiting. And this was before we had three rain with each other. So we were kind of on the clock. So we just started, her and I got the bed together and started messing around. And yeah, the other girls kind of just walked up, stood next to the side of the bed, just was staring at us. So that's when Jane popped up and just undressed her. And I think we're in the throes of messing around when he finally came back in.

And again, our fun has. has been just these spontaneous, just neat things that happen. It's more than, and I can tell you, and then I think she agrees with me. There's a lot of our setups, whether it's a party and this and that, they've been, eh. And they like, is it because it's forced?

And there's been times we met a guy and she's had sex with them. And she didn't like it. And another one of our ongoing arguments is, or discussions is, when we've met people on dating sites and maybe there's just us being both caretakers she's given me the I feel I have to have sex with him because we met up and I'm always like no

we owe nobody we don't owe anybody anything you can say no whenever you want but so that's why we've kind of stopped to set up things because it's then you feel like you're obligated so one last story and so I know she likes

the little more natural pickup. So for a couple months, we've been going out, and I've been, so I was kind of reaching out to guys on a swinger site, not showing up picture of us. Well, I mean, I guess we had body, no face. I would tell these guys, let me back up one second. We've had people hit on us that, or we met it in person, and they weren't, I'll bluntly say, they weren't at our level and looks.

and she's made the comment does he actually think he can get with me and I've told guys when they kind of said what's wrong with her I'm like if you can't pick her up

at a regular bar she's not going to fuck you on a swing date I mean but that's that's it's truth yeah of course I mean I'll put it out to these guys

we'll be at this bar between so and so and so if you can pick her up pick her up I'll just tell you that if she likes you it's going to happen a lot quicker than a normal

grower you will meet and try to pick up. A couple months go by, guys chicken out, guys chicken out. I find a guy good looking and I, same thing. Hey, me, this bar. Same thing. We have her hair looks like this. My hair looks at it.

That's the only detail they get. So again, I don't want it to be a four situation. Guy shows up to the bar. At one point, just naturally come and sit down next to us and we start talking

we go up to the room end up having great sex he's with her I'm with her we're going back and forth we both come and this is this is something that

she's never done before and it's kind of the hottest thing in the world she goes to the bathroom and him and I are just kind of sitting there talking and I was great and I watched them he watched us she walks back out of the bathroom

and she's wearing a like a night and she looks at we're kind of both to sit on a bed kind of like two dudes she looks at both of us and she says which one are you want to fuck me again and I was like whoa who was this

and that was our first DVP oh double DVD let me just let people know because I remember knowing what the fuck a DVP was. That's not a that's not like a DP which is a dick in both holes. That's

two dicks in one hole. Correct. Oh my goodness. Would that agree for you, Jane? It was intense. Right. Yeah. I wouldn't say exceptionally pleasurable. It was hot and intense and sometimes the intensity is

what turns me on the most. It's something we had never even talked about. But I going back to these stories are just these kind of off the cuff things that's been the best one for we have never even and we've DVP before we did it with a couple one time

it should be DP yeah yeah but this was your first DVP and even the next thing she's like why why did she was why did so when she walked in she said who wants to fuck me again and he started she climbed on top of him I was kind of sitting there

on the bench at the bed watching and I was I was like, huh, I just popped up there and did I even ask you? I don't remember. And I think it was, and we both came in at the same time, just like a porn. It was three hours. There you go. I want to hear about your right in, because I'll add it into the intro what went down at your little thing on this weekend.

Or if I don't air it, maybe I'll just add it in you because you have a guy you're meeting this weekend. Maybe we'll add it to the end of this. depends on how long it is but you know let me know how that goes I do have pictures so people can see how hot you guys really are on my Patreon

like anonymous pictures I love this episode it's interesting because you're very different than other couples that I've talked to and that's what I always love because like I said just when I think I've heard every Swinger's story and they're all unique and different I hear a different one you guys aren't so much swingers but you've tried

it all and you're very open and you prefer these kind of regular scenarios in the vanilla world as these kind of very professional open people, which and so I learned a lot. I just heard a very different angle, which I thought was fascinating. So thank you so much for calling in and sharing your stories. This was great.

Well, thanks for another guest. The therapy sessions, great. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I love it. It was interesting. It was a lot of different sets of hot stories. And like I said, a lot of interesting facts and situations

and angles that I have never heard before, which I like, which I always love because it's something new. It definitely works better when you love each other. It's no doubt. Yeah, well, it's obviously that you did. From the day you saw her, which I love. I love those stories. Thanks, you guys. Thanks so much for calling in. All right. Thank you. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in, paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until

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