Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 917 - Sheila is a Super Hot Hotwife

Episode Date: September 12, 2024

Sheila is a super hot hotwife and she called in to talk all about it. When and did she become a hotwife? What kind of Bulls does she prefer to play with? And, how involved os her Stag? Tune in to hear all the details including how her partner Jay (episode #560) brought up the whole hotwife scenario to her and how she reacted at first, why she’s not into sharing him with anyone else and why he’s totally fine with it, what bringing in other people into their relationship does for them, what she needs sexually to feel pleasure and why it’s important to her, why she’s only into BBC ad has never really dated a white guy, what about the hotwife scenario turns her on the most, how they find their bulls and how and why Jay’s past is so helpful in guiding them, what she needs from a bull to feel attracted to him as well as what turns her off, their first bull they met in Vegas and exactly what went down him, how much Jay participates and why she loves when he joins in, how and why they have always taped their threesomes, how and why they decided she should go do a solo date, what happened on that date and how and why she enjoyed it so much, when and why they eventually started an Onlyfans and what they post there, how and why anal is one of her big time kinks and what kind of anal play she enjoys, how and why she would love to see Jay penetrate a guy, what they love about going to swingers resorts, how she once watched a video of her guy with an ex and how she felt when watching it plus a whole lot more. *REPEAT originally aired 5/23 Her Onlyfans is: https://onlyfans.com/sheilaexposure Twitter: https://twitter.com/HotwifeSheila **To see anonymous pics of SHEILA and most of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's episode 520. Now, if you've been a listener for my show, you'll probably remember him. He was interesting and unique in that this was a guy, Jay, used to be a bull, like a professional bull. He was a bull to many couples. And then he transitioned into being in his own relationship with his girl, Sheila, and being the stag. Okay, he's not a cock. He doesn't like that word. He's a stag.

And she's a hot wife. She's a total hot wife. He loves nothing more than to get bulls, to bang his wife. and she's down for it. Now you get his whole backstory on his episode when he called in, and that's 520, and you'll want to hear his backstory because he was doing a lot of stuff.

Stag Vixen Hotway bullshit before her. But she wasn't. This all started when she met him, and that's the story we get on this episode. Sheila met Jay. She talks about how he brought it up, what he was into. He told her his whole backstory,

and she was down. She explained why she was down with it. And right from the get-go, they decided to set up the hot wife situation. Stag, he's a stag, the hot wife stag situation. She always picks the bulls. She's very specific about what she likes and what she's into. And because she's very specific, they have turned down a lot of bulls. She wants her bull to be very complimentary, to take his time, her sessions that she has with her bull. She likes to drag it out. She loves the foreplay, well, he loves the foreplay before of setting it all up and the buildup. And then she has her session. They started videotaping from the get-go, eventually over time, because she's younger. She's only in her 30s and her friends are super young and they all have Onlyfans nowadays.

So they wound up starting to put all of their videos of her with their Bull on and OnlyFans. I will put links to all of her stuff in the description, so you'll get all of that information. She's also a white girl who loves black guys. BBC is her thing. She's only ever dated black eyes. Her bulls are all black eyes. She talks about her anal kink. Her guy is a little bi-friendly and kind of open, and she talks about the stuff that he will do and what he won't do and what her fantasies are that she would like to do.

in the future. One thing Sheila doesn't do is share her guy. Okay. She is not down to see him with other girls. We do get into that because I know a lot of people go mental about that, but she explains that's the way they have it set up. They recently started to do a little solo play. And then she talks about how they've been to Swingers resorts and what they've done. And there's just so much in this episode. It is super interesting to hear her side of things because like I said, she had never done any of this before she met Jay. He had a whole backstory and it's fascinating. Go listen to it, 520.

But on this episode, you're going to get her whole backstory from her perspective. And it's super interesting because it's very different than his perspective of things. So anyway, she sent me in picks. I have them over on my Patreon. On my Patreon, now I have a Discord where people put like more hardcore stuff. She's going to do that over there. If you join my Patreon, you have access to all of that. Patreon.com slash strictly.

Anonymous podcast. Link is in the description. I'm going to be right back on with Sheila. Hi, Sheila. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you today? I'm great. Thank you.

How are you doing? I'm doing good. Listen, I'm excited to have you on the phone because I've already had your husband on. He came on a while ago. His name is Jay. He had a lot of backstory of stuff that he had done before you, right? People really need to go listen to his episode because it was, pretty unique. It's number 560. Jay was a BBC bull and now he's a BBC stag. Okay. And that is the story.

He was doing a lot of stuff before he met you. And he was like the bull. And now you're a hot wife and he's the stag. Correct? Yes, yes. I love that he has changed over. It's quite a story that he tells. I listen to his podcast too. And I loved it. I still love listening to him. He interviews so well. Yeah, he's great. And And he was like, listen, we've done some new stuff and we love to come back on. I'm like, I want your girl on. I want to hear the whole story from your perspective, even from the start, because you, unlike Jay, didn't do any of this kind of stuff before him. He was the one that kind of turned you on to this.

You were kind of vanilla. I mean, he said you had lots of friends and stuff that were pretty open and you were open-minded person, but you had never been a hot way for anything like that prior to him, correct? Yeah. No, I feel like my most. relationship, it went really terrible. Like, he really wanted it. And I wanted it for him. And every time that he got close to a woman, I was just like so turned off and my skin crawled. And I was like, don't touch my man. Like I can't share that all. And like he said, yeah, I have lots of friends

that are in open relationships. I have one of my closest friends that actually, when we became friends, she was very cautious and shared it with me. And she's like, my husband likes to share me. And I'm a hot wife and it was like the first time I ever heard about it and I was like that sounds really cool oh that's so funny so it like you were like kind of oh into it when you heard about it yeah I mean it's a one-way share it seems very selfish in a way where I'm like so I don't have to share you right this is not going to be like come back to me one day and be like well I shared you now you have to share me and he's like no I don't want that at all I've done that I've been there and I know this is what I want And this was something that he hadn't done with anybody else.

He had kind of tried to dabble with it with his last girlfriend. And it didn't really pan out the way that he envisioned it. And so this time it was really just about figuring out how do we make his kink come true since he had been thinking about it for so many years. And I was like, as long as I don't have to share you, I'm good. Let's figure it out. And it's really, you know, the tricky part is that I've had the best sex in my life with him. Out of all of my partners, out of everybody that we've played with, like, he's probably the only one that I would want to play with consistently.

But we play with other people to bring in this extra, like, energy, I would say. Like, the week that it builds up, I love having a long buildup. Sometimes we surprise, like, oh, let's do it tomorrow. And I'm like, I don't really like that as much. So we played around with, like, how do we get the biggest bang for our buck? because for him it's about thinking about it, psychological torture in a way. You know, he gets to masturbate at home and, you know, have fun with that and really think about it and play it up. And that build up for me, he gives me extra attention that week.

I can tell he's horny. I mean, I think that in general makes it worth it. Not even the actual act of having sex. I think the act of having sex reminds me a lot of having sex with a one-night stand. you go home with somebody from the bar and you're like, oh, that was okay. Yeah. Oh, that's interesting. I personally find it hard to have really good sex with something that I can't be

100% comfortable with. And we've only probably played with three partners and probably missing one somewhere, maybe four. And the most recent one was we played with almost for the last year. And so we played maybe six times. And the funny part is that I met him while I was pregnant. And a lot of people think that's incredibly taboo. And a lot of people were like, I can't believe you're doing that. And we did get a little bit of judgment.

And we started our only fans while I was pregnant. And I found that, like, from a friend that I had met who does OnlyFans, she did it while she was pregnant. And she was like, it was the best thing I did while I was pregnant because it motivated it. They kept me sexy. I wanted to take photos, like posting them online and getting all that attention. It just kept me feeling very sexy no matter how big I got. And so I absolutely kept that up. I loved it. And I actually love taking pictures of myself being pregnant more than I do postpartum.

And I think that's normal probably. But what I was saying is that sex has always been very difficult because I have to have that connection 100% comfortable in order to have an orgasm. And so a lot of these guys are like, no, I want you to come with me. I've been with this guy six times. I'm going to make you come this time. I'm like, okay, let's try it. And so it's tough for me to get completely out of my head with somebody. So this last time we played Jay, he's like, I don't even want to be there. We've done one other play session where he didn't come and then he joined us later. But this time I'm not coming at all. I just want you to go and play. And it was like the first time that I felt like very different energy, very, being very comfortable. We didn't really record as much

because we record a lot of our stuff for only fans. And I just got to be in my own head and play with my own kinks and I got incredibly close, incredibly frustrated that I couldn't, but it was like such a more enjoyable moment for me because I feel like I'm not having to perform. I like to be on camera. I like to enjoy that. It's fun for me, but it's not fun in the way that I'm like, I'm going to orgasm on camera. I'm not a porn star and so that doesn't come naturally for me. So that was the first time and that's recently that you played solo? Yeah. That was like two weeks ago. Oh, okay, cool. But let's go back to the beginning because you were someone that never had an open relationship and never played with others or anything.

Like, do you remember when Jay put it out there to you? I felt like I remember him saying that he was very upfront because he wanted to be, correct? Yes. I want to say within the first two, three weeks of dating, he mentioned it. And I was all on board because my friend had mentioned it before and I was like, this seems like the best kind of place to be. being in the lifestyle. I don't have to think about sharing. There's very, there's no jealousy. We really just, and I get to pick the guy. I think that's the biggest thing that sometimes couples run into when you're trying to find another couple. It's why like the guy, but you don't like the girl. We seek out only male blackmail balls. And that's, yeah, that's all I've ever played with. That's all I've ever really dated. And yeah, I had a hard time switching over to dating white guys. I just for some reason don't find them as attractive for some reason.

I think there was one white guy and honestly he acted more black than white. You know, and then I've dated a mixed race. He looks more white than black that acts more black than white. And so I feel like, yeah, I can't, I've definitely never had a long-term relationship with anybody. I may have hung out for a week or two, but I can't really remember it. It's never blossomed into anything big. So I strongly attracted to black people in general. Right.

I just find them way more attractive. I feel like even if they're not like a 10 out of 10, I'm still like way more attracted to a 6 out of 10 versus a white guy. They have to be like a 10 out of 10. I'm like, oh yeah, he's good looking. That's so funny. So way higher standards. If you're white, you got to be a fucking 10 for you to be looking at him.

That's interesting. But so you meet him, right? Are you guys married by the way? I forgot. You have a baby, but are you, are you married? married or not? We are not married, but we do say that we're married most of the time to everybody when we play and we keep my husband in that kind of realm because we treat it like that. Okay, so now he drops it on you very early on. Listen, what did he say? Listen, I'm into sharing my girls. What was

his like terminology? Oh, man. Yeah, I mean, I think it was really hard for him to share this with anybody, it's, it still brings up a lot of shame. Even to talk about it when we're going to go play or something, I'm like, why haven't you talked to me about this? I just feel uncomfortable. So I think it was very difficult for him to bring this up and even to say it because I have to start it from the get go because I'm not going to, he, he knew it was like such a strong kankies. I can't have a relationship without this. Right. Like I have to. And so yeah, once he told me, I don't really remember his specific terminology, but he's, hey, how do you feel about? sleeping with another guy and I was like, what are you, like, why would we do that? And then when he

unfolded like his history and how he transitioned into from watching and being the bull and then watching these guys and he's like, why do they like this so much? He really was like psychologically watching them like they're so turned down. And to have that flip and to never really be able to fully get into his kink, I mean, it's the only thing that I think that I think. he thinks about when he masturbates. It's so strong. Even like when we're having sex, if I get right into that kink with him and start talking like dirty talking, it's level 10. We're going from enjoyable to like, oh my word, he just laid up my life. And you find it a turn on too, correct? I mean, you enjoy thinking about it as well. I think that I really enjoy turning him on. Yeah. I,

when he is into it and he is like moaning and he's like so turned on yeah that is really what turns me on it doesn't matter what's turning him on yeah yeah or how it's turning him on it's just that i'm like i can push your button and it's super easy to push it yeah and so i enjoy that part of it when i can speak those that language to him and know that he's going to give me everything that i want back like i can't orgasm without some kind of audible noise like i love to have doggy but if I can't see his face and I'm like, get into my head and I'm like, he's so quiet. Is he doing this? I'm like, you have to moan.

Like I have to know you're doing it. Yeah. Yeah. And so I think that because I know that makes him do it, it's like that's the turn on for me. Right. Now walk me through that first time though. So he puts it out there that he's into that. You decide, okay, I am too.

When do you wind up having that first experience of what exactly went down? Yeah. So we planned it out in Vegas. We were on Cassidy, and he kind of put Steelers out there on Cassidy, and he would always be on there looking for different bowls, and he'd bring them sending me pictures, screenshotting me in the middle of the day, and be like, hey, what do you think of this guy?

Is he attractive? And I would either say yes or no. And then he did most of the talking with the bull and just kind of like asking questions. And because he was a bull before, he had learned through this process that he's a very, unique ball. You know, he would look for them to ask questions. Hey, what pleases her? How can I get her there? And I would say 80% of them never asked us one question.

Like, Jay was teasing the other day. He's, I feel like I should create a class for bulls. He should. Because he told me, I remember, the thing of why he stood out and he was very popular as a bull was because he gave the girl, the G-F-E, the girlfriend experience. He really knew how to make that woman feel really good about herself, right? That was like his whole thing. Yeah. It's true because we've gone through so many and we have let a lot of them go because it was really hard to find a connection. And I'm like, I really need that connection. I need you to make, you know, I send you a picture and you like heart it.

I'm like, say I look sexy. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm in lingerie, my ass is out. Like, if you're not interested, then just tell me. me. But like I'm a hot wife, hot wife. Like I'm not just like a, I'm the guy that we play with consistently. I don't know if he was just like blowing smoke, but he's, yeah, like, I don't think I've ever been with a hot wife like you. Like I mean like you're, I would fuck you all day. Right. Right. Like you're the hot wife, hot wife. Yeah. So I was like, I don't get it. Why is it so

hard for these goals to show some attention to act like they're interested. I'm asking you a bunch of questions about what your kink is and what you like and how I can please you and somehow it's not reciprocated. It gets kind of frustrating on our side of things. So we've gone through a lot of like interested bowls that we've just let fall flat. I actually went on a date with a guy that's local and the date was so just like vanilla. And then we had good conversation, but he never complimented me or anything. And then after the date, he just never text me. And I'm like, I don't get it. Like we can have sex. Like I'm saying that there's no strings attached and you're just like,

well, all you got to do is give me three compliments and two texts and you're good to go and they can't even do that. You're offering like you said, no strings attached sex, but you do want a little bit of what you need as a woman, which is women love compliments. They need a little attention. They want to know that they look good. That's just going to make you feel more confident and more relaxed, right? Yeah.

And that you're into this. Right? You're not just showing up to do a service. Like, that's why we typically look for styles. I'm like, are you a sensual lover? That's what I need. I don't want to just be fucked hard. That's not going to do it for me. And so if that's what you prefer to do, then maybe we're not the right fit. Because not everybody likes the same things. And a lot of times Jay would show up and they would want that. They would want just to be fucked hard. And he's like, I mean, I can do that. But that's not exactly what I like to do. That's not the style that we are. We're very sensual lovers. long foreplay, get everybody ready, and then it's very slow. And I mean, that's an enjoyable part of sex for me. So the hard, Wham-Man, Thank you, ma'am, might be like 10% of it, which is like at the end for you or something like that had if they wanted that. So, but our first session was in Vegas. And it was so much energy. It's like New Year's, right? We get there early and we set this up for Thursday. And he, he had been communicating with me very, very well. He was complimenting me. He was super sexy in his pictures. And we met at this bar in the hotel. And I remember him, like,

walking over and seeing him. And he's like exactly my style. He's very muscular, athletic. And now is Jay there? He is. Yeah. So we're in this swanky, like, boozy, like hotel. just bar area and he's dressed really nice. He smells really nice and I'm dressed in this like tight red dress and he walks over. He gives me a hug. He kisses me on the lips. And Jay is sitting in the chair next to me and this is his first experience. He almost is like, oh my word, he just kissed my woman. He's getting a little jealousy, a little angry. He's like, but I asked for this. So you can, he, leading up to this, these moments, he has so many mixed. emotions. He's torn between, should I like it? Should I not like it? I like it. But I don't know why I like it.

And it's just like creating so much emotions for him. It's so high. So when we finally get there and he sees it, he's just like, oh my word, did I make the right decision? I like this. But. And so he ends up, Jay ends up going to the bathroom. And this guy buys his drinks and he comes down and sits next to me. And he listened very well. And Jay always sets it up. He feeds them exactly what they need to do. She wants you to touch her. Sit close to her. Be affectionate. Look at her, speak to her. Don't worry about affecting anybody. Be very sensual, like all of these things. Even like to the point where you, hey, when you initially penetrate her, go incredibly slow. Like you're teasing her so much, almost to the point where she's going to beg you to put it in.

And he just feeds them exactly what they need to do. And so he listened incredibly well. And so our first time was great. We always meet kind of like in a more like social situation because if it doesn't go good, you want to be able to like bail. Yeah, I just wonder if I was sitting close in that bar only because I do my show. I'm sure if I was sitting across the bar, I'd be like, I know exactly what's going on over there. She's with that guy and now this other guy comes in and now they're making out and he's with them. They're going to do a threesome.

Like I would just say it's probably obvious, right? I think so. I mean, it's not like a super packed bar. I feel like the couple across the way. I feel like we have actually seen that in Vegas. Yeah. We were at a swanky restaurant and the couple in front of us, they had their backs to us. And it was a black man and a white female older.

And she had the Queen of Spades tattooed on her shoulder. Oh, so we all know what that means. Well, we know what that means. Yeah. And Jay was just like he could not get over himself. He's like, oh, my word, like, this is it. going on right in front of us. And I was like, oh, it was too funny.

Jay was just like, he could not get over him. He's like, oh, my word, like, this is it. Going on right in front of us. And I was like, oh, it was too funny. Yeah, that's hilarious. Okay, so now this guy's there. You guys are still at the bar, correct? Your guy had gone to the bathroom, and then do you guys wind up going up to your room?

Yeah, so I feel like there was a very quick interaction, and it was so good. I mean, we, like, kissed down there, and he had his hand on my leg, and Jay is sitting in the chair kind of off to the side. He's, like, at the same table as us, but it's like a lounge area. And he's just having regular conversation. We usually always talk about his lifestyle history. How long have you been in it? What got you into it? They always have interesting stories.

I think he was a younger guy when he was, like, in his early 20s and met a couple at the bar. And the couple actually propositioned him was like, hey, I want you to fuck my wife. Oh, this guy, this bull. That's how he got into it. Oh, interesting. Yeah. Yeah. And so he was telling us that story.

And he's been in it for almost 18 years. He's been doing it a long time. And I was like, my experience. He's doing all the right things. And so we moved it up to the bedroom very quickly. And yeah, it was incredibly hot. I still remember some of the video that we took of just him taking my clothes. off and me giving him head for the first time and Jay is recording everything and we had such a

nice hotel room and yeah we had good sex but again it was tough for some reason I remember his skin was like super dry that's a funny it's such a weird thing because afterwards I had this amazing picture that I've tried to recreate before where the two men are like laying on the headboard after sex and you can see my legs between them. I'm kind of facing away from them and I'm like the queen. I've conquered all. I just, I love this picture so much because I was like, this is my first moment. Like I get to have two of you. Yeah. Two hands, two pairs of hands. And I just enjoyed the, yeah, the attention and just like all of the love that it created and it was so slow and sensual. And yeah, it was one of the best experiences that we had, which is funny because we went back and

tried it again with him. And he, I remember him kissing me at the bar and I was so turned off by his kisses. We didn't even go back. Really? You kiss him the first time, right? What happened the second time? Maybe my standards have changed. I don't know. Maybe he like shaved differently. Maybe his lips were just really dry. I was, I was like, no, thank you. I don't even want to do this. But wait a second. So go back to that experience. So it is, because listen, everyone sort of sets it up differently. In your guy's situation, you're not just having sex with the guy. Your guy, Jay, is the bull that also gets involved, correct? Like, he's not just watching. He's also, you get to do with them both at the same time. I would say, yes, most of the time he's always been

involved. And I would prefer it that way. We prefer to have somebody that is bi-friendly, somebody that's okay with, like, male-on-mail contact if it happens. But not everybody is okay. And, with that. And so we have to respect boundaries. And so it doesn't always happen that way. But most of the time, most men are okay as long as there's no male-on-mail contact. And it's been such an interesting experience because we've had all spans of it, you know, where we can be very friendly and then we have to be more cautious. Yeah, go on. No, you go on. This time, I feel like he was very open and he, we, there was never like a weird time where it was like, ah, don't do that. But. It's always been incredibly sexy. And, yeah, very long play sessions. I feel like they go for three, four hours and we do all the things. And now, I forget, is Jay bi-friendly or open to more than just crossing swords?

Is he a cleanup guy? Tell me that information. I forget from his episode. Yes, he is very bi-friendly. And he's okay. He loves the cleanup. Although he mentions to me that he's like, he says the word. I want to clean you up.

And then I'm like, well, did you taste the cum? And he's like, he's actually really grossed out by that. I mean, if it happens, it happens. Like, I want it to, but I don't want it to. It's more of like the act of reclaiming than it is about like actually tasting cum. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, he loves the cleanup and I love the cleanup.

I think that's one of the most important parts for me being the hot wife. Because at times it can feel like it's pulling from our really. And it's like, I almost like, I want to look over at him. Do you still love me? This is still like good for us. I feel like maybe there's going to be a moment where he's just like, oh, man, I made a bad mistake. And this is not what I wanted.

And now I don't want you because you're sleeping with all these eyes. That's interesting. So you still feel that way every now and then. Yeah, I do. I feel that way. Every time, I need the reclaiming part of it more than maybe he does. I want to feel that love. for him in that way.

And the buildup is for him. I don't feel like the buildup, besides getting more physical affection that week, is really that great. But the reclaiming part is the number one thing that I need. I need to know that you love me, that you want me, that we still have what we still had before. And nothing has changed. It's just gotten stronger.

Right. And that's what you do feel every time. It was weird. I had a woman on who was Gang Bang Betty. is her name. And she had called in the first time she was married and she was doing gangbangs a lot and her guy was a big cuck. She, all he loved, nothing more than to see her with other guys.

And recently they ended things and she's called in many times. And what was interesting is she told me what eventually happened for her as a hot wife is she felt like she was just performing for him and wasn't getting out as much and was doing it more. It was more about, you know, and then, and I was like, oh, I have. had never heard that and you never think that that would happen or that would be a thing. You know what I mean? That's why I ask, is it a lot for you? Because you don't ever want to get to that point where you're like, oh, just doing it for somebody else. You want to make sure you're doing it for yourself too. Yeah. I do, I do kind of feel like her. In some ways,

it is a performance. I truly love to turn other people on. It's if they're turned on, then I'm turned on. And so it doesn't really matter what we're doing. I love that attention. And I feel like the guy that we play with consistently now does that really, really well. He always leads up, sends me text in the middle of the week. Hey, sexy, I was thinking about you. He's like, when can we fuck again? That's the first time we've ever had anybody that's given me that attention consistently. Usually it's just like, set it up.

Okay, we're here. And then maybe they turn it on then. Yeah. But that had attention, that texting, the, hey, I'm thinking about you. And I also think, like, the cuddles afterwards are super important. Even with the person, that's the bull. Like, I enjoy that part of it as well. The sensual, the light touches, the afterglow, do you call it?

The pillow talk, which was really nice at this time because Jay wasn't there. And so we did get kind of have, the last couple of times we played, we have the baby at home and so we have to rush out. Yeah, yeah. We were like, oh, great. And Jay is like packing up the bag. I'm like laying in the bed. He's like, yo, we got to go. And I was like, oh.

So this time was really nice. that we just got to kind of like lay and talk about whatever and just chill and have that physical affection time. And now, were you nervous? Because this was the first time that you were going to play solo. I mean, had you guys discussed this a lot? Like, why make that leap now? So I've been asking him, I feel like Jay has maybe not been as vocal about what he was excited

about. And we had played with this guy probably two, three times recently. And it just seemed like it does. fireworks weren't there for him as much for Jay. He wasn't, like, excited about it in the same kind of way. And he wasn't being as vocal. And he wasn't asking for it again. And so I was like, what are we doing differently during these sessions that maybe are just like not turning you on as much? And so I was kind of asking him, I'm like, how can we make this better for you? What do you want to see? And so he, he was the one that made the suggestion. He was like, I think it would be better if I wasn't there.

Interesting. Yeah, I was like, okay. I mean, I definitely love having him there because I love looking over and having like that. He hates the word cuckle and that's not really what we do. But in my mind, sometimes I like watching cuckle porn. So a couple of play sessions ago, I asked him, I was like, can you keep her clothes on? I think it would be really hot. If you're like, the true cuckle would like fully dress and you just have like your dick in your hands watching us.

And so I asked for that. And he really doesn't like that. And so he prefers to be like the stag. And so we were trying different things out. And so this was just a way of trying to amp it up for him, I think. He gets to imagine what will happen and what happens in his head while we're there. And he gets to be at home and just like self-pleasureing and kind of like going through all of our old porn and edging and edging and edging to the point where he's just out there can edge anymore. So it was, yeah, I think this was the best time that we've had for him. Right. So you will be, do you think you'll continue to do the solo stuff now and now that you guys tried it that one time for sure? Yeah, I think so. It seems like Jay really liked it. And I was probably the closest to having an orgasm that I have.

So I think on both ends it was better than usual. Right. So you could, because you could get out of your head. Now, that first time you said, you're in Vegas and your guys, filming. Now, at that point, I'm assuming you didn't have an only fans or anything like that. Was he just filming for your guys' pleasure to watch afterwards, or had you already set up the only fans? No, we were just filming just so that we have our own porn to watch. And he always goes back through when he plays and by himself. And he just loves to watch our, he just goes through

video after video after video, like looping them all back together. It just kind of gets in his own. So your guys were taping, like when did he? Who came up with the thing of let's put this stuff out there and go in OnlyFans and let people see what we've been watching and doing? Yeah. So we were in Florida with a friend of mine and I think it came up in conversation and I want to say more than 60% of the room was like, yeah, I have Noly fans. Yeah, I have Noly fans. Millennials or I don't know what your generation is called. How old are you?

You're young, right? Well, I am going to be 35 for the third time. Okay. I get it. Coming up. Yeah. And so I want to say our friend range late 20s to mid to late 30s. We're probably the older people in the group. And so everybody was doing it. I mean. Yeah. And I'm just going to say something. I'm cutting you off just because I just want to say something. I had somebody recently that was like, oh, what's with these only fans people? Like, why can't you just get back on the regular people that are doing it for fun? And I'm just like, I had so much to say back to this person. I'm like, listen, first of all, I do have a ton of. I do have a ton of. of regular people that I have on that don't have only fans. But the other thing is, is that nowadays, like you just said, like more than half of your friends have one. I mean, it's just a thing that people do. Everyone has a fucking only fan.

But you were taping before. It doesn't mean that you're just doing it for that because you guys were living this lifestyle and doing all this stuff before only fans. You're not just doing it for that. Now you are putting it on there and more people could watch and maybe that's a part of the turn on too, right? but you were doing this before you had it. Mm-hmm.

Yeah, totally. It was something just for us. Yeah. And so your friends are all talking that they're on it. And so that's when you decided? Yeah, because we already had a lot of content. And so we were like, yeah, let's just make it happen. And he really was the driver behind it.

I was not super into being in like another social media platform, if you call it, that. And posting and being creative. and I would come in. It is. And so I was like, when it stops becoming fun and we don't want to do it anymore, then it'll just fizzle out. And so we just set a small goal and we're like, when we make it, then we'll reevaluate if we want to be here. And we've had such an outflowing love during my pregnancy that that's really why I kept doing it. I probably did more during my pregnancy than I did before.

Taking pictures of myself and buying lingerie and being creative. And it's just amazing to look back at all of that video and footage that we did. And it's only for us now. We can't really do much with it and share it with the regular, like my parents and things like that. But it was so sexy. Like I have never felt sexier than when I was pregnant. And now did you tell your friends, since your friends are super open and you all do, do all your friends know that this is a part of your life?

Yeah. I would say it's hard because I forget who I tell and who I don't. So sometimes like I casually mention it. And they'll be like, wait, you have an only fan? I'm like, oh shit. I shouldn't send that. Because I do just have two female close friends that one of them, she is really big on only fans.

And she's been in it much longer and made a whole lot more money than I have. And so she's one that I'll come to and ask questions and she'll give me advice on that. So she's kind of the one I go to the most. And I feel like there's been a few people that have come into our life that we've found out they had only fans and so they know about it that's in our friend's circle, but we try to keep it a little bit hush, hush. I think Jay has accidentally mentioned it to his friends a couple of times, but they think it's just me and him having sex.

Oh, they don't know that about the other stuff. Now, do you show your faces on there? Are you anonymous? Why don't you give a shout out, first of all? I will definitely put links to your only fans in the description. I'll also give that shout out in the intro, but because we haven't mentioned it yet, give your stuff right now just so that maybe people will Google you while we're talking. But what is your only fan?

Yeah, it's at Sheila Exposure. Now, are you anonymous on there or do people see your face? We show our face. And at first we were not going to, and we had our faces on Cassidy and somebody made a good point. We're like, well, people are like paying for your only fans, but you're putting it for free on Cassidy. Like, this doesn't make any sense. And so we were like, you know what? It's a small group of people.

people. And we blocked, we market on Twitter and Instagram. And so we would block the people that we would know or that would know us. And we wouldn't market to our local area. So just kind of like weeding out a lot of that conflict of interest. And so it's not a ton of people. And I feel like my face is like my moneymaker besides my ass. I have nice face, nice smile. I was like, I just don't think it would be the same without it. I do remember you bring up your ass. I mean, I do remember that your guy talked about getting you to orgasm through penetration as well as turning you on to anal, correct? Is that what happened with him? I have always loved anal.

I think it's probably one of my kinks. I would say, so not anal sex. Yeah. Because I feel like, yes, he is the first person that I've successfully done that with. Okay. And he's on the larger side. And so he had to be very, very patient. Yeah.

And it's definitely not something that we do very often. but in my head I love talking about it. Like I want everything, like just use your words and describe it. We don't even have to do it. I just want you to describe what you would be doing to it or how you want to do it. And I do think that the easiest way to make become is having vaginal penetration and then having some kind of anal play during that, whether it be just a finger, most of the time it is because it's most easily accessible and you don't have to get a toy or anything like that.

And that's how I usually climax in doggy style. with both and I would love to have DP and I feel like the few times that we've tried it it's it's more tricky than you think yeah I think so because I've asked people like can you just like actually tell me like the positioning that you're in that it works you know because sometimes I'm like how does it work right yeah usually there's a guy on bottom and he has his leg straight out and then I'm straddling him on top and then the other guy that's the hardest position is the guy the third on top, right? Yeah. He's trying to hit like a moving target and his legs have to be over everybody else's, correct? Because like you guys are under there, yeah.

He's like squatting and straddling in this weird awkward angle while he's trying to aim in a small hole. It just seems complicated. So you have, you've tried though. It hasn't worked out. So we probably have not successfully done DP. Yeah. In, you know, a male, female.

mail meal. He has been able to play with my ass. Yeah. In that sense, which I love. And that's probably all that I need. But it is a dream one day. I always think like it has to be like a very small white guy or something because I feel like black guys just don't come in that size. Yeah. I mean, it is true, right? I mean, BBC, right? I mean, is that just a true fact? As someone that only dates black guys? It's hard because I haven't really seen a lot of white dicks. So I haven't seen a ton of small dicks. I feel like the smallest was a guy that was white and black. And he was definitely on the smaller side. But yeah, I would say in general, when we go to these, what are you calling the swingers resorts? And everybody's just kind of like

butt naked. I feel like that's the time you get to be comparison. But not that everybody's always hard. So definitely when I look at those places, he's definitely on the bigger side. So what do you guys do when you go to the Swingers resorts. Do you guys like the same stuff? Like you look for guys to hook up with there? I mean, because I do know that you typically like to make a connection first. Yeah. So when we went, it was just the energy.

We saw maybe a couple couples or a guy that was in a couple. And sometimes they do play solo. So you never, you never know until like you have that conversation with them. And really it's just like the imagination, you know? It's the sexual energy. You know, you're at the pool. And there's a black guy over there getting his dick sucked by three other women. And, you know, I just enjoy watching.

And it was like, it turns me on to be able to see incredibly a few sexy people. Most of the time at these places, it's a variety of shapes and sizes. But the few people that you do, you like play it up in your head. You know, you go back to the room and you're like, oh, maybe we'll run into them. Like, maybe we'll have a conversation. And then nothing happens. But, like, it was still really hot. and it build that chemistry between you and your man.

Right. So it's a matter of you guys being voyeurs. Are you into being watched? I mean, do you have any kind of exhibitionist in you? It doesn't sound like it. No, I don't think so. I think it's just, yeah, I think because I don't orgasm from that, that's not my go-to. I do enjoy performing.

Like, if people are watching and somebody's looking at me and they're like, damn, you look sexy. I enjoy that attention. Yeah. But no, it's not my go-to. Right. So it's not like going on OnlyFans is hot for you because you're like, oh, all these guys are seeing me like fuck or when you're filming, like that gets you off. I mean, because I feel like an exhibitionist totally would. That would be a big part of it for them.

Yeah. No. I do enjoy like when Only fans send me a message and they ask me for a specific kind of video. They're like, I want this specifically. And sometimes they're just simple. I want you to ride him and make eye contact. with him and be very sensual and then look at the camera and speak to me and say these words. So I enjoy doing that specifically for them because I like to fill up their cup and it's easy

to do. Yeah, that's your thing. You really, like you said it numerous times, even with your guy, it would be no different with anyone else. I mean, you really like that validation that you're turning someone on. Yeah. Yeah. I think the little exhibition in you hasn't woken up to realize that when they're watching

you, that's what's fucking happening. You just need to hear the moaning or complimenting you. I do. It's a verbal, an auditory thing that I need. Yeah, everybody has their love language. I mean, that's definitely yours. And it's funny because he would be your guy, Jay. I mean, it is great that you have him because he coaches these guys for you. I mean, because he is the perfect bull for you. He happens to be your guy too.

But the way he rolls is the way you want a guy to be. That's probably why you do say, like you had the best sex with him, right? Why he was such a good bow because he's a great lover. He gives you all that kind of stuff. Correct? Yeah, I mean, he's been the only lover that's like really listened to everything and I don't have to say it over and over. Like sometimes in a relationship, you say it over and over and they like, they don't quite hit the mark and you feel like you're just having to repeat yourself and then nothing ever changes and you just kind of get frustrated and then a year later you're just having bad sex. Yeah, but you feel like he really listens and is in tune. Yeah, absolutely. He does all of the things every time. It's almost too perfect. But, but. Yeah, I told him the last time we had sex, I was like, it was 10 out of 10.

Which after you have a baby, like, I feel like so many things change. Yeah. You have to get back to yourself and figure out what works again. And finally, everything's back to normal. And I was like, yes, this is working again. This is amazing. Do you get into seeing him with other guys? Are you into that at all?

Seeing who with other guys? Your guy. Does he ever do any kind of guy on guy action? And if so, are you into it? I know he does the cleaning up a little bit. I mean, does he do, does he ever do any oral or anything like that with a guy? He will do that for me. I have a huge kink that we've never played into where I would love to see him penetrate another guy.

Uh-huh. Yeah. I think, again, it just plays into the anal kink that I like. It doesn't matter if it's mine or his or anything. I just love to hear about it and see it up close and watch it on porn. And so that's my ultimate thing that I would love to have happen. And I don't know if it will. I feel like we've kind of toyed around with that idea,

but it's hard to find the specific person that we need because he would prefer somebody that's more soft, more womanly, I guess, is a way to make it easier, at least to ask. And I find the men that are more athletic built to be attractive. And so it's like we want it to be a three-way share to find that mix and also to find the right type of guy that is open to that, it's hard to find. I think it's just tough to find the specific, even to find more bowls. It's hard to find.

Right. He would be the one doing a guy and you would be able to watch it. But you would never, I mean, a girl, another girl, that kind of situation is completely off the table. That hasn't changed, correct? Never really been interested. I find women to be very attractive and I am very sensual with women. But when it comes to having sex, it just, I don't know.

It's just never been a huge desire. I'll kiss a girl. We can like, and I find them to be more sensual genuinely. Like, naturally it comes from them. So we'll dance and we'll be very close and maybe act like we want to. But I have never crossed that boat and it's never been a desire. Right. And you're still, and you wouldn't want to ever see him with anyone, but you would maybe

like to see him with a guy penetrating a guy. Yeah, yeah. I've actually only curiosity like, because I see that he gets so. turned on by it. So I asked him to send me an old video of him and somebody that he used to play with who was married. And I was like thinking about it. I was like, oh, should I do this? And so I thought hard and deep and I was like, this is going to spring up some like serious emotions. And it's like somebody from five years ago. And I had him send it to me. And it's, it's really very basic. Like I feel like It was on the floor with like a tiny mattress.

But watching him be very, like, sensual, like, and kissing and, like, seeing her face and how much she enjoyed it. I personally would have so many control. I'd be like, okay, so no kissing. Okay. So she can't orgasm. And I was like, this is just not going to work. But were you turned on by seeing it? I can see how the jealousy can spark that in.

intense desire to be with your mate. Mm-hmm. But, I mean, you watch the video. I'm just saying when you actually watched it and you were seeing and do that and everything, were you horny in the slightest for it or zero? Zero. Right. It just made me want to reclaim him.

Yeah, yeah. With your mind, I want you. Yeah, no, I think that that was, I think it was ballsy of you to try it and go there. I mean, that just confirmed that that is very much not for you, right? for sure because you weren't into it at all when you saw it and you realize you would have too much imagine that in real life if you didn't like that from a girl from five years ago you know what I mean yeah it would be very very intense yeah no that's cool I mean like you tried it and listen I like I said I remember Jay Singh I mean he's completely fulfilled the way it is now he loves this kind of set up

you know that's what's always most important you will get comments on YouTube about people saying Oh, like, fuck her. She's so unfair. She gets to, now you're even going on solo dates with guys and your guys at home. But he's at home jerking off, having the time of his life. Right? Exactly. Yeah.

And the Bulls that I play with, I always ask, too, I'm like, what's the percentage that you play solo? Yeah. You're like, most of the time I play solo. Like, if the partner wants to be there, I'm fine with that. But most of the time, they're not there. And I was surprised by that. because you think of that cuckle situation as the most common, but I think this stag situation happens more and they're just more quiet about it.

Yeah, that is, I remember now, you just reminded me, but you said this before. Like, your guy really didn't want to use that word cock. Like, he's no fucking cock, okay? Yep. He's an alpha. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's definitely an alpha. But he's definitely getting a lot out of it. I remember him also saying that he felt like he had done so much work as the bull.

there's kind of like he doesn't have to do as much work now it's true you don't have to show up and perform and make sure you're giving them the girlfriend experience and giving all this energy out when he just gets to have his woman again yeah and you're the younger one in the relationship right how much older has he been you a couple years yeah so you're doing all the work Sheila

now my guys are going to love you give your shout out again to all of your stuff yep you can find us on only fans are at Sheila exposure. So I will give, do you have a link tree or is it like a place where all of that is in one place? There is a link tree. I can share with you. Okay, cool.

Give me that so people can find you there. Now, send me some picks for my Patreon. My picks for my Patreon are just like R-rated for those people. But I have now a Discord channel that you could go on to and you could have access for that. I'll send you access for it for free. You don't have to sign up for my Patreon, but you could go there and put like a teaser or something more hardcore stuff over there and promote to whoever you want to my Patreon members, I have almost a thousand people over there. So you definitely want to go do that

as well. I don't get involved in that. The, like the X-rated stuff and the Discord, that's like just for my audience, but I allow people now to go on there and do the more hardcore stuff. And for somebody like you, it's good because you get to promote yourself there as well. So I will send you that link when your episode

is up so you could do that. But if you could send me like a pick or two for my Patreon members, nothing X-rated for that. That I just do like R-rated. So it could be like hot pictures, but no. X-rated stuff. Okay, so it's good. All right. Awesome. Thank you so much for calling in Sheila and giving your side of the story. I feel like it's always such a different episode when I get these kinds of situations from each person. You gave a very different perspective of it. So now we have the whole story. I really recommend people going and listening to your guys episode first too because his backstory is great. That's $560. I'll put that in the description so people could go and listen to him. But thanks so much for calling in and giving your side, Sheila. Congratulations on your baby. Thank you.

Appreciate it. Okay, thanks so much. Thanks, Sheila. Thank you. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook.

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