Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 921 - Mark and his Hotwife Love Being a Bit Degraded

Episode Date: September 17, 2024

Mark and his hotwife love being a bit degraded and he called in to talk all about it. How and when did him and his wife decided to play around online with exhibitionism and hotwifing, how doing online customs and private chats led to them hotwifing in real life, how and why they’ve never had rules before they started, how how wife randomly had sex with their neighbor and what went down, the content creator she met up with and had sex with and how he felt watching her with another man, how and why they’re decided to stop making content and became lifestylers instead, how and why they’re started looking for well solely for well hung black guys at the beginning, how and why they’re both enjoy her being dominated and used when she’s hooking up, how they’re enjoy being degraded as well and sometimes use no protection, how and why they started seeking out blue-collar guys and truckers at trucker bars, how they got the bartender in the trucker bar to start hooking them up with truckers, the handyman she fucked and how that led to a gangbang with 6 of his friends and exactly what went down, how and why they love stranger sex and what his wife gets out of it, how their relationship has changed since they opened it up to other men plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of MARK'S WIFE plus see pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Listen, I can talk to a million hot wife couples, and you always think it's going to be the same story, but it never is. And they have a little twist to it. I mean, this is a couple that are into hot wifing, and he likes to sit back and watch his girl. girl be with other guys. They're married like 20 years, but they like it real dirty raw. The more used, it seems like she's being the more they're both into it. She's had gangbangs. They love blue color guys. They go to like trucker bars and pick up truckers. He loves nothing more than a little bit

of degrading going on in their scenarios, but not on him. On her a little bit. She's really into sex too. They are both on the same page. Everything, of course, is consensual. He does talk about how they were before, how and when they decided to change things up. It's only been a couple of years, but they've done a lot. They did get into OnlyFans and then Twitter and then ManyVids and some, I think he said, camming early on, but they eventually got out of that. Then he talks about that whole journey and explains it, but that was kind of a bridge for them getting into the lifestyle. So his story is super interesting. They're very hardcore. Too bad his girl is shy or else I would have had her on. He did send me pictures. I have pictures of her over on.

my Patreon, he'll be on my Discord. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Mark. Hi, Mark. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm well. How are you? I'm good. So Mark, listen, you're, I don't know if you're a cock, if you consider yourself a stag. Everyone has different names when we're talking about this kind of scenario. Cuck and Hot Wives, Vicks-in. You do thoroughly enjoy watching your girl, your wife with another guy. You guys have a lot of experience. Do you consider yourself a cock and her a hot wife? Or like, how would you label your guy's relationship? I grew up while thinking that this is the only way that this is that I'm a cuckold

because I like to watch. But then as I grew up and as we especially got more into it, I realized that it's not really what I'm looking for. It's more like I'm just watching somebody, but I'm not into humiliation. I'm not into cuckolding. We've never had this situation. So yeah, I don't think this is my thing. Yeah.

I use the term cuck very freely in that I would still consider. you a cuck because I don't necessarily think my version of cuck means you have to be humiliated and made fun of and that kind of a thing. When I do have a guy on that is that way, I call him like a true cuck or an extreme cuck, but a guy who just loves to watch his girl, fuck another guy, I do call them cuck. So we'll just say you're a cuck, but you're not into, you're not like a hardcore cuck. Because, yeah, I agree because I'm definitely not a stack. I don't like to participate. We're not swinging. I'm more like I like to watch for a year, if you will, and that's like where I get my enjoyment.

Yeah, I like it. It's very specific. That's why, listen, I'll talk to a million couples that kind of are doing the same thing, but everyone's doing it a little bit different. So listen, let's go back and find out, like, how you guys started and everything. First of all, how long have you been married right now? Like, how long you've been together? We just closed 22 years, actually. Okay. In 2002. Okay. We were together for two years before that. And then, yeah, we've been doing it 22 years

together, but as I told in my introduction email, like for the most part, we, until actually 18 years until COVID happened, we were not into this at all. So this is a little bit new to us, but it's very exciting. Yeah, I love it. So let's go back to before COVID. What was going on in your marriage and then how and why did things change? So I thought about how did I want to tell you because in a way it makes sense to me and when you look at it backwards and when we met we were wild but within ourselves we thought that we're a little bit different we like different things not just in our sex life but in general we were a little bit odd in society but we were happy together so but then when we got married we just had a normal life she was in a relationship before and she did have a

daughter she was six years old when I met her and this is part of my attraction to her because I was really into moms and like older women, even though she's not that older than me. But then when we got married, we kind of settled down. And we still played. We still did our thing in the bedroom. But for the most part, it was only all of us just alone in our house until COVID happened. And that's when we discovered a whole new world. How did you discover it?

So like I told you, I always enjoyed that, like watching what, like I always fancied about being in a bedroom. someone having said just looking at them, seeing them enjoying it and we're not doing it. But I didn't really get into it that much because I thought, no, I'm not a cuck. Again, that's when I didn't know what it really meant. But then we did OnlyFans. That's when we were locked down and she mentioned it to me as a job, but at the same time, I could tell she was a little bit serious. And for me, I was, I get very excited that I thought that this is great.

And then we started posting and from OnlyFans, we wanted a Twitter page to promote the page. And that's when we get to see a lot of other couples who would do what they call exhibitioning or hotwifing, which this is where I felt like, okay, this is what I was looking for because I'm not a cock and this thing actually exists without the humiliation part. But we only started on only fans. And I think like most people, we said, okay, we will start slow. We're only going to show boobs. We're not going to show anything else. But once we started doing photo shoots and taking more pictures and posting and seeing everybody online, And we realized that a lot of people show more.

So we started slowly, slowly showing more. And my breaking point is when one time we put a really, really attractive photo, if you will, it was from behind for Ferris and she was like bending down. And when I saw this online on Twitter and everybody commenting and repost it, it gets me so excited that I'm sharing her instead of being the protector. And it's not that I don't protect her, but that moment to see. others enjoying it and doing something extremely inappropriate in my mind was my biggest start on and yeah that was

i want to say the beginning of it did you tell her that you were feeling that way i could not so it not not in the beginning so we just continued but i was kind of letting her know and giving her some hints that oh we're not the only ones and a lot of people like to show their wives or themselves and to play online in front of everybody. So I could feel she was not against it, but I felt like we still were hesitant to actually open up and tell everybody. Let me ask you a quick question

about her. Was she hot for the fact that guys were giving her attention? Did she have an exhibitionist side? What was she getting out of it? This is it. So she has always been curvy, and this is one of the things that I got attracted to her. when we first met.

But she always wasn't insecure about her body. And as we got married and the years went by, she got really big. So, and she had a scar from C-section from having her daughter. So for that, that was her biggest insecurity. And then when we went online, she said that a lot of people are attracted to that,

that into that. And there was this particular guy who just couldn't get enough of her mom part. So that's when she, it was crazy. wanted pictures of that. So this is, I think, when we got, she got her confidence that, okay, and that's when I told her that for everybody,

there is something. Totally. Yeah, I was always into it, and now you have thousands of people into it. Right. Where there's one, there's many. It's not you're the only guy that's into that. I mean, come on, but girls are so much more paranoid about their bodies than guys will ever be. We just,

we're more critical of ourselves, for sure. And I think a lot of girls don't understand that guys like a lot of different types of girls, most men. Yeah. Yeah, for sure. So I think that was like the turning point for her that she knew she got something. She still got it in her own way. Yeah. And yeah, and it proved that I was always telling her getting away. Yeah, of course. All right. So now you guys are just like literally in the beginning, it's just her putting herself out there, right? And then when, now that you notice that

people are like getting into it, checking her out and they're into it and you notice that you're getting turned on by that. Like how do you guys turn it up a notch? What do you wind up doing? So from online, we went into, from OnlyFans, we went to Twitter, from many brids, from many bits to start the famine. And the top thing for me that always hit the spot for me that when she goes on private sessions with somebody or she sends a custom video or she gets a custom request, this for me that she's actually doing what she's doing at that moment for somebody else and they're enjoying it, probably jerking off. So this was the kick for me.

And then she got one of the Twitter guys who had a huge page and was always promoting other pages. She connected with him and she kept trying to entice him and send him a lot of pictures just to get his attention. And this was hot for me as well. I enjoyed it as well. So then they built a relationship and he asks us to send him a fun sign so he can feature us.

And honestly, we didn't even know what a fan sign was. So we had to Google it, we created one. And one time in the bedroom, I saw his handle on a postage that we used so we can write it on the fan sign. And this is when I told her, this is so hot. I like, I love that. And I like it was a fantasy while we were having sex. But she actually agreed with it. And that's how we were able to open the conversation.

When I told her, this is so hard, I like, I love that. And I, like, it was a fantasy while we were having sex. Mm-hmm. But she actually agreed with it. And that's how we were able to open the conversation. And then was she down with it right away, or did you just roleplay it more? So it was mostly about them. And we fantasized about him a lot.

I imagine if you're with him right now just to get that feature. It's kind of like we're selling ourselves to get him to feature us. Imagine if we do, and we started looking at his photos. And then she started to flirt with him a lot. and tell him that she would love to do this, would love to take it to the next level, not with him. And he kept actually come and get it down. He was in different state, about three hours flight from us.

So anyway, we said that, okay, we're going to do it. We're going to meet him, try to just do something special for him so we can get more features. And honestly, it's not about the features. At that time, our page was big enough. We just wanted to do the act so we can get, as if we're offering her, so we can get his feature. That was the thing for us.

But, so we decided on that, but we couldn't find the time. And one day out of nowhere, so we had a neighbor. We lived in an apartment building. We were on the ground floor on a corner. And we had a neighbor who was on the corner, and we always, we knew he was looking at us while we were filming content. So she just one day out of nowhere after talking to the Twitter. guy, she just went to him. He was moving. He was moving, packing his stuff, but we could see him in his living room. And she just went there with her clothes on, and she just sat on him. We never

spoken to the guy. And she fucked him, came back as if nothing happened, and he moved out two days after, and that was a whole different level for us. And now, did you have any rules going into that first scenario at all? No, it wasn't even planned. I didn't even know she was going to do that. She didn't know that. We were just inside. And we were looking at him back and stuff and we said, oh, here's our guy who's always watered.

Now, we did have the conversation before, and she was with the other guy on Twitter trying to set up something. And she just went. They never spoke a word. She just went. He was sitting on his couch with the balcony door open. And she just started riding him, sitting on him with the close on. And she left, no protection, no nothing.

Oh, my God. We didn't even know. And that was the first. over 20 years that she was with somebody else but me. Yeah, crazy. So now... We were in a shock, but at the same time, like, feeling good, but feeling strange.

Yeah. And then, so what happened? What was that conversation like, or do you just hop in the sack because you were both so turned on? What happened immediately after? We just went inside, and we just had, like, crazy sex right after him.

And then we were like, okay, what just happened? And it took us a minute to realize it, and we could. Just, I remember we were in bed and we just kept saying, what just happened, what just happened, and stopped for like maybe two minutes. And then she said, that was awesome. And I said, that's fucking great. I loved it.

But how did this happen? And then we texted our guy on Twitter and we were like, guess what she just did? And he was like, you're crazy. How could you do that? He was laughing. But we were just, we were just over the moon with it. And then was that like floodgates are open? Slowly though. So this happened when, so we did OnlyFans in COVID mid-year. So this happened, I think, around March, April of 2021. And then nothing happened. And then we met the Twitter guy in June. We actually met somewhere in the middle. We were closer to him. And that was the first time. And like we had dinner. And he told us all about like all about the community, what's popular, what's being done, how to

promote how to do this. And then we went up. He had a room. We had a room. But he came to our room. And we just went at it. I don't know how to explain it because I feel weirded out that I'm wrong. But at the same time, it felt that this is what I always wanted. But it just felt weird that I don't know that I should be doing that. But I know it felt good. So we just continued. And we stayed there for two nights. Oh, wow. And so now it's like a thing. So that it's stuff, yeah, and that's when we know, okay, we're going to do that, confirmed, we're happy with it. And we said we wanted to have rules, but we never did. We really don't have any rules, but she likes to be out. She has always been into sex. She liked sex. I like sex. I like

pinky sex and when we found each other we thought we're perfect because we're not judging each other we can say everything that we like and do whatever we want the only thing we didn't say is this part sharing we thought that this is okay a little bit of limit but now in hindsight we know that we could have done that a million years ago because we were always on board yeah just we never felt we could do it yeah totally it didn't feel like this is something that anybody can can do. Yeah, no, I get it. Now, did you ever, I mean, is everything that you do for content, is this now a part of your regular life too? Or maybe you see your content as your regular life? I don't know. Like, how is it set up? So we continued with the content, but at that time, we were,

we were open. So we still were what we consider ourselves full time in content. And just, if we meet somebody on the side, that's going to be okay. But what happened is slowly, slowly, we like this lifestyle better and less content. Because we found out that just running our pages were a lot of work, a lot of work, networked, and we weren't in it just to make money, mostly. We just wanted to be outside and show ourselves. And I wanted to see her out there, and she wanted to show herself and get that attention. But yeah, we realize that we wanted the actual sex.

Yeah, I think that a lot of people don't understand how much work, like building a platform and keeping it is. It's like going to the gym. If you stop going to the gym, you lose all your muscles. It's like an every day for the rest of your life. It's like it's something you have to tend to all the time or else it goes away. And that's what that kind of stuff is. And I can't tell you how many times I go back and check out like previous guests, only fans

of my listeners will be like, oh, they're not doing it anymore. They disappear. They have a bit. I'm like, yeah, because most people, People are not going to have it in them to put all the time and effort it takes to keep it going all the time. And it's like a 24-7 gig, right? It's 24-7. It's really nonstop.

At one point, we stopped having our onsets. Everything was content, content that we lost that moment just to be off the camera. And, yeah, we realized that we just wanted the sharing more. Yeah. And just to have more fun also because of work, because of our family. I just we don't trust online as much. No, listen, I just talked to sexy soccer mom. She's a podcaster who's also a hot wife girl and her and her husband do it.

And they're very out there. But they're anonymous. But someone found out who she was and went to her job and told on her and she lost her job. I have a whole episode on it coming up. Super interesting. Yeah. And she was getting to the point like you. And I've heard it before from Ember, who is the serious hot wife, sexy soccer mom.

told me this the other time, exactly what you just said, that eventually a lot of people kind of pull back on the content mode because it starts to take away from the sex. And that's not what they want. I mean, most people that are doing this are doing it because they're highly sexed up, right? And they are into what they're doing. You're not just doing it for the money. And so at a certain point, if it starts to get in the way of that, I've heard it many times from people that, like, they don't want it to just be about the content. It's really about your intimate life with each other. Yeah. I'm going to. honestly like we were always extreme and that's one of the things we got we had sex we fucked on

day one on our first day with condom with day two we fart it was no condom we were just barely seen each other yeah no condom and everything i asked her she was always done and i come in your mouth yes can i come on you on your body yes we did annel on the on the second date right but then when we got married we started to slow down but we kept our stuff like we like the end of together. We like finishing on each other. And I was happy because I said, I don't have to go pay someone to do that. I would never cheat on anybody, but I'm glad that I found somebody that I can be comfortable with. So when we, when we started our content, we kept it in the same pace that we like the extreme. But then we realized that if we go too extreme, we don't want to

get the risk of being exposed. No, I know. It's scary. This girl was not. This girl was anonymous, and she was very careful about not being exposed, but somehow she was. And it's like when you're online, you're putting yourself out there. There's always that chance of it. So, you know, I think you're smart. I don't want to make it long, but like my family is also, they're kind of prominent. We're back home and they're big. Everybody knows them.

They're a fancy corporation company, family, and I'm really the exact opposite. I'm the rebel of the family. She comes from a different background, completely different. So for them it was to marry someone who did not have all her studies and was not as educated, not alone that she already had a kid. It was like a big no-no, and we had to fight a lot to do it. But that was also me. I wanted to be different.

And when we started to take it full time and meet others, that's when we said, okay, we really have to move, start a new life. I was sick of my corporate job anyway. I didn't want it anymore. So let's just go and have fun. Like with the rest of our years, just go, we hit it for 20 years. Let's, it's time to go enjoy ourselves. Now, were you financially secure enough to be able to do that?

Or was the only fans paying for it? No, no, the only fans really was not enough. We did have our savings and I did have part-time exotic cards selling, buying and selling exotic cards. So this actually, I started to do it full time. and I'm always on the road because we're always traveling to pick up one car from our place, to let him in another state. So it just worked out for us, just to be on the road and away from our community, our other community.

Yeah, yeah, I get it. No, I get it. But I think that you were smart. Okay, so now you get into just heavily getting into the hot wiping lifestyle world. So tell me your guys' experience, like, outside of, like, just the content creating with those creators. Where would you meet your bulls? Where did you start hooking up with people? And tell me some of those. So when we met our friend and like the first time and it told us all the rocks of the industry, if you will, like he also introduced us to SLS, the website, Adult Friend Finder, and that's when we slowly started to meet there. We started looking for BBC's because we thought we said that this is the popular one.

Yeah. But we're not exclusive to that. And then the first time we just met somebody over there on Adult Friend Finder, and they actually lived close by an hour away from us. So we went, we went to a hotel, we had dinner with them, and just got to know each other. And he was really experienced. And he knew what he did.

And he wasn't worried out that I was there. We weren't his first couple. That was the first full night with a complete stranger. Okay, quick question before you, give me all the details. Now, did you know already at this point going in, that you were just going to sit there and walk? and not. Oh, yes. That was all with the plan. And then like when we put all of our cards on the table, I told that I just want to watch and I want to see you being destroyed. I told that it's not because

I don't love you. It's not because I don't care for you. It's just it's only in that session. And only if you're in real danger, I will definitely stop it immediately. But I'm like, I want him to control you and for me to be able to see that. Yeah. And we made it clear to him as well. That's why we're always looking for a dominant alpha person, not just because there's a lot of bullshit out there. Everybody just, any horny guy wants to mirror up. But we really, like if we said, if we're doing it, we really have to do what's right. How did you vet this guy in the beginning?

I mean, you were successful, the first guy you met. He was like cool and everything. And a professional, it sounds like. Yeah, this guy, we took a complete chance. Yeah. But that's why we had dinner with them and we got to talk. He told us about like his experiences, he shot us videos of many women's he's been with. So we felt that, okay, this is not a scam.

He's really in the lifestyle. He's into it. And that's when we went up to the room. Okay, cool. Now, what was his demographics? Like, how did he look? What was your wife into at that point? Or does she have a type?

Really not. No, I wouldn't say that at that time, at least she didn't have a type. Now, obviously, she prefers bigger. She prefers big guys, not necessarily muscles, but just big guys. Yeah. And we want someone, like really our preference is for someone who's dominant, who knows what they're doing, who knows that lifestyle. Because what we really wanted, and that's what we tell everybody, is we wanted to smash her, to do whatever you need to do in that moment and to have fun. And I want to watch that. So anybody who fits that criteria, who has that personality of being an asshole and like a mean dude who's going to just rip it apart in that hour or two, that's what we go for. What they look like, it's, it's more of a psychological dominance that we wanted.

Yeah. So anybody who can get us to that level. Yeah. Now, I'm assuming that this is what you're into is exactly what your wife is into, too, correct? Like, she's not just doing this for you. Is this her thing too? She likes to be dominated?

The head thing is, yes. She likes to be rough. She likes to have it rough. She likes someone who's like always squeezing it, being tough on her. One of the reasons she loves it just because of the pain she gets. gets and when they don't stop and now she starts like shaking at the end she loves that so she just wants to feel that she's a slut in that moment for that person okay so what happened that first experience so you meet him for dinner so that that was that was a huge boost of confidence because we can

meet people online and not everybody's a creep and we can bet them meet them and then do our thin so we did that then we did another one then we met another one since then we met another one on the same website, we found somebody else, we drove there. And I also enjoyed driving her there, but I was always with her. I would never drop her off and go and then come back. Part of the deal is that I'm always with her. So for me, I got a kick of just driving her knowing that. I'm taking it, taking my wife to somebody else at that moment.

So we did that twice, I mean, with another person. Then we met another couple who introduced us to another couple, but we only made them online. We got to talking. And the wife, the second couple's wife, she told us about a bull that she was with. And she told us how great he was and all the stories. So we got in touch with them and we also met in a hotel. The first year, I want to say, we were always in a hotel, meeting a hotel.

And a year went by and we're just, I mean, the first year, it wasn't that intense. And we were still running our online pages. So we were just getting what we get. Then after a year, we said, okay, we have to move. And that's when I quit my job. That was mid of 2022. I quit my job. And we moved really far to the other side of the country.

I know low profile place, neighborhood. And not in a fancy building. We were in a fancy building before. And that's when we wanted to unleash ourselves. Right. And now how did you unleash yourselves? That's when this year came that you were just telling me about, right? When everything started to really move fast?

Yeah. So this is when, so again, the first year, first year as in second year, but first year of actually going into the hot white thing. Yeah. We were on average like once, one person every three weeks, once a month, sometimes maybe two months. But that year we said, okay, we really enjoy it. We want to do that. And she told me, I want to be and have sex as much as possible.

I just, I don't know how she said it. Like, she's the way like that, but she really wanted to be there. And for me, I wanted to explode from there. direction. I'm like, that's what I want. I want to push over limits. I want it to be extreme. Like, we wanted, I don't know if that's going to make sense, but that degradation. We wanted to degrade ourselves, be with as many people as possible. That's what we never did. Not never, but for the most part, we never did protected. It was always, you know, condom. We wanted him to come inside there. We wanted them to do a way. I wanted, I wanted that, that lowest level of giving

control to somebody. Yeah, I get it. Well, but how did you keep yourself safe? Because everyone's going to be mad if I don't ask you that question. Because you just threw that out there. You never, like, use condoms. So what the fuck? So that's the thing in the beginning. And all of the people we meet online, we get tested and we ask them to get tested. Nothing ever not tested.

Then in the beginning, the strangers, we would be protected. But as we got more into it, we have a lot of regulars. and we always get texted both of us on both sides. Strangers, sometimes it's risky. Sometimes we are protected. That's like the other times. Or fans, we also ask them to do, to test before they come. And fans, we did around seven fans in total.

But what about her getting pregnant? Is she on the pill? She's on the pill, yes. Okay. Okay. All right. So now, let me ask you this. Did your wife ever think about or get interested

or want to try hooking up with a woman, or was it always just this scenario that you guys did? No, just guys. She never wanted to be with a woman. And now what about you? Because a lot of times in these situations, the clapback that I get from guys listening are like, oh, she gets to fuck all the guys,

but what about him? Tell them how you feel about that, okay? I know what the answer is. 100%. I was never into that. I never wanted to. For me, The enjoyment is just saying somebody being rough with her and giving it to her rough and just pushing the limits, coming inside her, doing something that is inappropriate.

And that nobody that we know of, at least in normal society or like a popular society that would allow their wife to do. And for me, just to watch. And then when they leave, it's to go and just talk to her about it or have crazy sex just because this just happened. I would fuck her after he fucked her. That is the pure and general. I never wanted to be with anybody else. It's not my thing. I get turned on by other girls.

She shows me a lot of girls and her friends on Instagram, but not to have sex with them. My cake is having sex with her or watching her with others. Yeah, and that's always the answer. I mean, listen, and what I always say is that if that wasn't the answer, then that couple would be swingers. That's the difference between swingers and people that are into this. You guys would be playing together.

feel like everybody knows what they're into and it's a very specific thing and mostly every single guy that's into it like what you say exactly what you say their variety all they want is exactly what they have they have no desire for other women no not at all like it doesn't even cross my mind yeah exactly but people don't fucking get it and they always push back oh it's not fair she's so selfish she gets whoever he doesn't I'm like it's just oh my god I'm like oh god everyone just things the women selfish. Oh, and I like, she loves that. She's doing all the work.

Like, she cannot have enough for it, gang. Yeah, listen, everybody's different. And you know what it is? And this is why I like to talk to so many different people. Everybody has their own feelings about things. Even like with Betty's story, what was so fascinating is that she did come to that realization so many years later and she completely changed it up. That's cool, too.

That's who she is. That's her journey. But that doesn't, no one's right or wrong, right? It's just about what are you fucking into? and are you with somebody who's like-minded? It sounds like you and your girl are so perfect for each other because you guys are into the same shit. 100%.

Even when we first met, I love feet and I like to just suck on feet and toes. But again, I'm not into the BDAs and BD as and my mediation. So yeah, I don't mind. You can suck on my toes. So we were like kinking our own way, but again, that's all between us. And we were perfect. You don't want to have more kids. I was like, I was fine with that.

She wanted to be a slut. I get turned on by here being a slut. Yeah, that's great. We slowed it down when we got married, I think, because of my family, and she felt that she wanted to live up to their expectations. But, like, even inside the room, like inside the house, for instance, and that's, nobody knows that, of course, but she's always naked, especially after our daughter moved out.

And not naked because she wanted sex. Just that's her free type, like just to be out, naked, like, no bra, no nothing. She always says, oh, just like, like, the kids out outside. And I heard it one time that one girl said, I don't know at work, oh, imagine who would walk home around in that house naked? And in my mind, I was like, yeah, we do that.

I don't, she does. But that's what I mean. We were like weird in our own way, but it works for us. Yeah, no, and that's what's most important. When everybody with their judgment, shut the fuck up, because go out and find someone that's into what you're into. And like I said, if you want your girl to fuck other guys, but you want to fuck other girls.

And that's like a totally different lifestyle. That's like a swing. Yeah. Instead of conversion, I don't know how she would feel about it. I think we never spoke about it because we're never into it. So it doesn't matter. Yeah.

Let's go back to some more stories. So are you strictly on still like apps and stuff? And that's how you meet people. Do you have a bunch of regulars? I mean, we have still like we have a bunch of regulars. Yeah, we have a bunch of regulars. And then like different cities and we're always on the road right now. Like we do have a home base.

And home base is actually great. So we went to this place that was not that popular in an apartment. And we really wanted to be there. We wanted to be in a blue-collar neighborhood. We just found a thing for blue-collar men that they're rough, they're tough. They take more control. They're hard. They're bigger.

Yeah. I got to tell you really quick. I don't know. I'll probably edit this out. But that's my like the kind of guys your wife likes is like the kind of like the real manly, big dudes, like physical. little bigger guys. Yeah.

I love that too. And I don't see them ever in New York City because New York City doesn't have those blue collar guys. It's not a blue collar town. It's more finance and fashion and whatever. So I'm like when I go to New Jersey, I see the hottest fucking dads there because those are all the guys. Or when I walk by a construction site, I'm like, those are the guys I like.

They're hot. Manly man. Who's our favorite and we've been seeing him is actually like he lives in the neighborhood in our house? today, he's a handyman to the building next to us. Uh-huh. And he came more. So we moved to this place.

Yeah. And it's all like apartments next to each other on the street and all buildings next to each other. So he's a handyman plumber next door. Okay. And one time we had, we had a leak. So they called them. This week, this sounds like the start of a porn.

But no, that's how what happened. Oh, okay. So he comes, the, our, like, our maintenance thing, they call him to help because that was his friend apparently and that's when she was like wow he's great like she almost felled out and for me i got turned on to that she got attracted to him so they actually lived in the neighborhood and they always like him and his guys always sit outside drink beer at night and i don't know what the fuck they do so one time we just grabbed the six back and we went and we sat down with them and we got to talking so we became friends over a week we're always just hanging out with them when we invited them

once to our house. We became really friends, always like at each other's places. And then one time he comes alone and we had a little bit too much of drink. And that's when she just jumped him. And when she jumped him, he actually, he's married and he didn't like it that much. But so he was freaked out for a second. He thought it's a trap or something. I'm like, no, no, it's fine.

I don't mind. I want you. It's like, you want me? So he flipped it over and he fucked her in. And that was the beginning of the guy. Yeah. And for her, she was in so much pain from it, but she didn't want him to stop. And I was loving it.

I was jerking off. And that just took us to a whole new level. And the following day, he came back with the guys. And that's when I told me one of the two gangbanks that she did. They all, after drinking, jumped her. And that was her first gang band ever. And I was there for it. Wow.

Tell me about that. So he came back the following day with the guy, maintenance guy from our building, because they all live in the area. And we were drinking, more guys came, and they were all looking at her funny and, like, they were all making silly jokes. And he said, I told them. And then they didn't believe me. And it's like, let's do it right now to show it. He was shit-faced at that point. So they started fucking in front of them.

And I loved it. They were laughing, giggling, and, you know, looking at her funny. And he tells them the guy from the day before. he tells us, I told them and they don't believe me. So let's fuck right now on the couch to show them. Oh my God. How many guys are there? Total six.

Okay. With me seven, but I didn't participate. Right. You never. Okay. So, and then they started doing it, and they're laughing and look at me, and they're like, you're really fine with that. He's doing that.

And she's been very intimate with them and really enjoying it, not just robotic. Yeah. And I was like on over the top. And then they joined him. They were like, fuck, if you don't care, we're going to do the same. And then one of them took off their clothes, took his turn, and then everybody just followed. And that was our first gang band. It was all raw.

Oh, my God. And protected. People started to say shit about that. I know. But we, for us, it's, yes, the sex is a lot of it. But it's that kinky of being that dirty, hooded. degradated person, that's our kick. So I know we're taking crazy risks, but...

You're taking the risk for the turn-on, and you might regret that one day if something happens, because literally those were six guys. I mean, there was no chance for you to get them tested because this was impromptu gangmen. Yeah. Oh, my gosh. I mean, I have to say, you did start off saying you're a cock and you don't like humiliation or degrading, but you kind of do.

There is a little bit, not humiliation, but there's a little bit of degradation. going on. But I think it's from them, like the guys, not from her. No, no, no, but you like to see it. I mean, you do have that kink in a certain way. When I drive her to a hotel and I know that it's for somebody to fuck her. Yeah. When he, this guy

only fucks her in every single time. Yeah. And when I see him squeezing her, when I see him being mean, when I see her juice is just like flying everywhere. And or when I see her, not just with him, with anybody that when she comes when she actually gets her moment because I know she starts laughing like that's her

thing whenever she comes yeah and just see that when I see her intimate to somebody else or being just troughed or we're doing the absolute extreme as in just throw or to finish inside her I mean just finishing inside her or coming inside her or anal for me those are the top top So, yeah, the top extremes that just get me the most. Yeah. Now, okay, so you have this gang bang. It's totally raw. People are going to say shit about that.

But anyway, and does she, like, totally dig it? Oh, yeah. It was, like, it lasted. It lasted good four or five hours and, like, with stops in the middle and drinking and smoking and doing all kinds of shit. So we ended up, like, probably at five o'clock. And that's the thing we have to go to work. And that was like, wow, wow, wow.

that was extreme or just like talking about it for days he also came alone that same night he comes whenever we're in town he comes like four or five times a week whenever we're in town right that we're not we're that often in town so then um we just wanted more so we would be we would be on the road staying in motels trying to pick up somebody there uh would stay in like cheap hotels a because we were on a budget and b we thought that's our chance of getting blue color and uh We got to, that was a little bit weird, but we started going in the last six months to a trucker bar. Like this bar on the road that all always has truck drivers. And we tried to pick them.

They're not as easy and you don't want to get shot when you're talking to them in the wrong way. But once they know, and we kind of like let the bartender know, so whenever they see the bartender spreads the word and we just wait for our luck. I'll that back for a second because you're going to, I'm going to continue on. I know exactly where we are. But like, how does the bartender get involved in this? You just threw that out there. Oh, we tell the bartender. How does that happen?

Because we picked up. We went to that bar for three days in a row. Nothing happened. And the bartender got to know we're together. Then a week after, she got picked by somebody from that bar. She was looking to someone, flirting with them. I was like, come on. We have a hotel room not too far.

Let's go hearing about me. When he said, yes. and he was into her, she said, by the way, my husband's here, it's totally cool, he doesn't care. And that guy didn't give a fuck about anything. It's fuck, I don't care how fuck him too. I was like, no, no, you don't have to do that. But I'm just going to be there.

So the bartender found out, and the next time when we came, he gave her a free drink. And I was like, oh, I didn't know if you're not exclusive. We said, yeah, we're not exclusive action. That's why we're here and we're far away from home, so we just want to feel a little bit naughty. and he's like, okay. And then we gave him like a really good tip.

And two days after, we went back there and he said, well, I want to be, I want to jump on that. I want to do that. We said, okay, come with us. We have the same room. But then we only fucked him once. And then he just pretty much sold everybody. Wow. Oh, my God.

You have a million stories. You just don't even realize that. I don't think. We've been doing it full time. on the road for two years, living our life. And it's just a dream for us because we never knew this thing existed. We're like, we just thought we're weird. We were different about it.

So slowly, slowly. No, but let's go back to the trucker bar. Okay, so you got this bartender's in the know. He's spreading the word out like, hey, this couple's down to fuck. And tell me about your first trucker experience. So remember, it's like, I don't care. I'll go with you guys. So we go there.

And he was, but all was drunk, most of them. So he's always just drunk. So he just rips her close off. Like she wanted to talk and cuddle and this. He just, he just opened her legs, start fucking, fucking, fucking, he was done in six minutes, probably. And he just left. And that also opened like another level of king that we're like,

wow, that is so cool for a total stranger just to come, boom, boom, boom, and out. Yeah, that's when we started digging the randoms of the strangers. once. So we'd always be like in front of our motel, always just like outside. She's dressed sexy. Before we got into all of this, she would never dress anything sexy or show a lot. She's more on the shy side. So we'll just be sitting outside looking for trouble. Looking for somebody to notice. And we and over the past three years, we picked a lot, not in one day, but over the days, we got lucky so many times. And most of them, they don't care. about us. We had a few people who freaked out. We have a, we have one person or two over the two years

that never showed up. But that's why we like adult friend find it because people there are vetted. We only go for verified ones. Of course. And they know what to expect. So it's no disappointing. Yeah. So have you, did you continue on in that world and other worlds? So this is, this is, get to a point, Kathy now. This is our lifestyle. Like I told them, we're in a hotel right now. She was with somebody that we met yesterday at the hotel bar. Sometimes we're in nice hotels, sometimes we're in shirding hotels. If it happens that at a McDonald's or Walmart, there is somebody we're going to do it. If not, we just continue. But online, we find a lot of annals. I love when I find a bull that says a trainer for a hot wife, not because we want,

really one training. It just we feel like, okay, we're paying someone or we're like contacting and someone just to train her and to fuck her and I get to watch. So mostly I'm the bull back home. That's where she does, you know, and anybody else is just like whenever we can. We never pass on opportunity, even for at work, even with the client, even with anything. And work, we've never done to the client. At work, we're always on the road. So we're always far from home.

Yeah, I remember when you were telling me all about these hotels and she never, I'm like, And you told me you were at a hotel today, so I knew there was going to be a hookup or something going on. Yeah. It just, it's like I couldn't explain it that I like when I take her to somebody or when I serve on somebody or when it's saying. And again, it's all that maybe humiliating. Like you said, parts when I see her juice is coming. I see like he's coming inside. I see it with somebody random. So for like for us, it's more of a lifestyle. right now and that's why we quit our job and went far away because that's what we want to do the whole time and that's what we like and yeah and the more rough she gets the more i enjoy it the more she likes it when i see her buying special lingerie or go into somebody or one time she was

telling this guy like i'm sorry i gained a little bit of wait for me to see her apologizing about that and talking about it and he's like no it's fine i like it for me it was just that's what that's what I enjoy. It's more the psychological control. Yeah. The psychological, that being inappropriate in a way. Yeah. What about her? What would, if you had to answer for her, what would you say is her favorite part? Now, would she be interested in coming on and telling the story from her point of view one day, or is she just not down for that? She's super shy. I don't know if I can ever get her to do that, but I did tell her that I went to do it, and it's like part of my game. Yeah. And said, You're on your own if you can do it.

Because I was also shy to say it. Yeah. But you never know. Four years ago, we were in a completely different place. So do me a favor and answer for her. What is it about this situation that she loves the most? Like I get from your perspective, like what's the hot parts of it. Do you know, I'm assuming you guys talk about it?

She loves if I were to answer for her and my understanding that she loves sex. Yeah. She loves being like in a slutty moment. In a normal life, she's not slutty. She was a great mother. She still is. But it just like me, I had a professional corporate job. I just want to go home, I like to see somebody mean fucking my wife.

She likes to have a normal life. But she, when it comes to sex, she wants to be a slut. The one who's passed around, the one that's come inside, the one who fucks anybody, the one who gets controlled by like blue-collar man. So, and she always loved sex. That's why from day one we had sex, they had anal. I come inside her.

I'm anal. She told me, she told me she broke up with her ex because she always liked to suck his dick and he didn't like that. He said it's like, it's not lady like to do so. And she just like, and her sex appetite was always great.

So that's one of the reasons it didn't work out. And she came to me and I'm a sex mimic. I was like, come on, let's go. Oh my God. You guys are so perfect for each other. Yeah. I mean, that's why you've been married 20-something years and, like, still probably having the best sex ever? Yeah, 100% every single time. Like, whenever we think about it, that's always, that's all what we do.

Like, that's always what's on our mind. And it's just a reaction to what just happened. Yeah. Let me ask you this, because the last question I would have for you is, like, how do you feel like opening up your relationship and doing all these dirty things and getting into content and then getting into more stuff? how did it change your, how did doing all this change your marriage, your relationship with your wife, if it, if anything? A lot and at the same time, nothing. A lot because we enjoy it a lot and we're so much happy right now. Nothing because it was never new to us. I always knew what she liked and to be out. She liked that sex. She liked all of it. It just, it was only between us. So in a way, it didn't change much because I always knew her like this and she always knew me like that. Yeah.

But once we get back high and I stay with others, natural, our sex is just way, way, way better. Yeah. So the sex has changed a lot, but your relationship with her was always great before, great now. I mean, because sometimes people say, oh, it brought us closer, blah, blah, blah. I don't know, but maybe you guys were close before.

We were, and that's why we were very comfortable and at ease. We transitioned into that because I told you, like, how we started. Then, for instance, I like breastfeeding. I like just always things on her boots and just second her boots. I never shied from telling her my fantasies and she never shied from telling me hers. Yeah, isn't that great? Yeah, but it's just now that we're actually doing that it's not a fantasy anymore.

It just becomes more like energized, more animal life, if you will. Yeah. Listen, I love this story. It's super interesting. Like I said, I feel like you have a million specific. specific stories that you know honestly one hour is never going to be enough but also 10 hours won't be enough like I can't talk forever no I mean just happy that I get to share it because I always wanted to say it out loud and I feel so I'm so glad that when I found the committee I was like fuck yeah I'm not

the only person yeah and that was my way to tell that I was just like fuck that's always what I wanted yeah and and then to see somebody online I'm like okay again it's not just me to listen to all your guess and like yeah it's out there and actually so at the other day on a post somewhere that how it's slowly becoming normal and like people more people join the community but at least they come out so yeah we get to a point but you know what we're almost 50 years old we just want to have fun and fuck everybody else yeah i'm going to tell you that i've been podcasting before most people started like for 12 years right when nobody was podcasting and but and i've been doing this exact thing since then, talking to people. And I 100% will tell you the trend that I see in the

past maybe two years is a lot more new people, not new people, a lot more younger couples calling in because though the younger generation is a lot more open to other types of relationships than the straight-up regular non-monogamous relationship when I think younger people are going in much more open-minded. Yeah, and I know a lot of people won't believe me. I know you do, but as lucky as she likes to be, as much control as I like to give, she is still faithful to me. I would never be unfaithful to her.

Our love is, if anything, is 10 times bigger. I don't understand that this is just a form of having sex. That's really easy. I hate that people can't. I always say to people, because people make comments like this, how could he love his wife? How could she love him? How could he trust? Like all the things that you just sort of said against it.

And I'm always like, I could send you a hundred episodes to listen to that would negate everything you think. If you really actually listen to the people and why would they be lying? They're calling it anonymous. Yet people don't want to believe it. And I think that both things can exist at the same time. And just because a lot of people, the majority of people, aren't able or not interested in sort of separating sex from love, right?

They don't believe that it can for other people. And it's just a, it's just a projection. Everyone's at different places. And listen, I'm not saying that the people that want to be monogamous and don't want to do it and don't believe it or wrong either. You know what I mean? That's where they're at, right?

But it's, I think, why I think it's great that the younger generation is being more open is because a lot of people are in, quote, unquote, vanilla relationships and they're not doing it. But you know what they're doing? They're cheating. And they're doing a lot of stuff behind their partner's backs because they're not able to be fully open to their partner about what they're really into.

And I love and I believe that my show sort of helps put this stuff out there to help change people's minds and be to be more open. I cannot say it any better. Right? I cannot say it any better. It's like just your points. Oh, I'm not saying this lifestyle is the only lifestyle. I'm saying that's what's for us.

We like it. you like to be altogether exclusive by all means so what as long as you're happy and definitely you're like your podcast just tell kind of sense the message to couples like us that hey you're not weird you just have your king and it's better to do it together and enjoy yourselves than cheating on each other and being miserable no and it is an example of you can be massively in love and fuck other people and all it does is make you more in love with each other. One has nothing to do with the other. Both things can exist at the same time. And I think a lot of jealous people just don't want to believe that. Yeah, 100%. You know what we are.

I promise you. Yeah, exactly. So listen, I love your story. I love your girl. Too bad. She's shy, but it's totally cool. I mean, you did really great telling all your stories. Now, because you did so much content, I would hope that you'll send me a couple picks. Yeah, of course. For sure for my Patreon. Now, the picks you sent for my Patreon could be sexy, but nothing are, nothing X-rated, but I will give you free access to my Discord. And there you can post whatever you want and you'll get people ogling your girl, which I know you like. So you'll get a link in the thank you email for my calendar system.

Like it'll send you like, oh, thanks for calling in a generic email. But in that email will be the free link to Discord. So sign in there. Make sure you use your fake name mark, okay? And then I will go in there and give you a guest role so that when your episode airs, you could post in the guest channel. But before that, okay, because it's going to be a little bit before it.

Send me the picks, okay, for my Patreon. I will. I'll send them to you today. All right. Awesome. Thanks so much for calling in. I love your story. I'm having a great time chatting.

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it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gangbbing girl story. Like I said, 17 stories, and they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person, and I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't

really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two. And then, skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there.

You can post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook,

the ebook, or the paperback. send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast.