Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 935 - Lexi is into Swinging, Group sex, Exhibitionism and More

Episode Date: October 7, 2024

Lexi is into swinging, group sex, exhibitionism and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune inn to hear all the details including when she realized she was so open sexually and interested in sex with multiple partners, her first threesome with two guys and exactly what went down, how and why she never repress her sexuality and has always been out and proud about what she is into, how she got into the lifestyle on her own as a unicorn, her first time at a swingers club and exactly what went down, how and why she loves being the unicorn that pops a couple’s cherry, the first couple she hooked up with and what went down, how she became the girl at the swingers club who directs the group sex, how and why she loves playing solo while in a relationship and how her boyfriends have dealt with it, how a lot of guys have been intimidated by her sexuality but how and why she refuses to change, how she now coaches couples and singles who want to enter into the lifestyle plus a whole lot more. To learn more about her coaching and her writing, click here! Lexisylver.com **To see pics of LEXI plus see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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like helps you know and she tried it all she does talk about her life story on this episode how she was curious all the like naughty stuff she tried uh before she found out about the lifestyle and then all the super naughty things she tried when she found out about the lifestyle and got into it. Like I said, she was a unicorn. She's into glory holes. She's into orgies. She's into everything. She's super open. She's got a really interesting story. And like I said, a unique perspective. She does do coaching for people now. She also writes erotica and the links to everything are going to be in the description. But you're going to love her and you're going to love her story because she's super unique. They don't make women like Lexi. Okay. So I'm going to get right to it and be right

back on with Lexi. Hi, Lexi Silver. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I am Lexillant. Thank you so much for having me, Kathy. Yeah, thanks for coming on. Listen, I know you through SDC, my new partnership with SDC. I've been promoting the shit out of that website. You work for them too. And then when I found out you were like in the lifestyle and have a whole unique backstory, I'm like, why don't you come on the show? I love it. I love the invite. I love that we're collaborating all these different ways. Yeah, why know? And I hear that someone's got a good story and it's a salacious story. I want to hear it.

I mean, basically you're a woman. You were always super curious when you were younger and you got into the lifestyle. You've been in a lifestyle for a really long time. What you also do, and I'll put links to everything in the description is besides working for SDC, you write erotica and you also do lifestyle coaching. Correct. Correct. Yeah. I also, I mean, the coaching that I do is not just for lifestylers, but I do coach a lot of people who are open or thinking about being open.

And, you know, it's really amazing. Even with my monogamous clients, like there are so. many things to learn about the open lifestyle to really spice up your relationship. So it's been a ride. It's a privilege and it's been incredible. Yeah, I love that. I think a lot of couples could use that kind of counseling or whatever you want to call it, coaching when they're just starting out because I've heard some gone wrong stories, you know. Oh, yeah. And you also write erotica too. I do. I've been, that's been my passion since I was in my teens. And obviously the content has evolved over time and with my experiences. And yeah, it is something that I've been doing forever and I think

I will be doing it forever. It's just something I'm so... And do you write about your stories? Is it like your personal stories or do you write like fiction, nonfiction? What is it? Oh, well, all of my stories, all of my erotica is derived from hardly my personal experiences. In some cases like almost exactly what happened in my personal experiences, except protecting people's names, locations, and all of that with their permission, of course, right? Letting them know that this is about them and they know they're aware and they love that I write about them. And some of them are just pure fiction, things that I just came up with or, you know, ideas

that I had fantasies I might have wanted to try, I guess, at the time that I then maybe ended up trying or doing. So yeah, it's a nice mix of the two. I love when people try to guess which ones are based on my real life and which ones are. It's fun. Well, we're going to get some of your stories on this podcast. You'll send me a link. Do you have a website or something where all of this information is and they could see your books and your coaching and all that stuff?

Absolutely. I'll send it to you after. It's Lexi Silver. Lexi with an I, Silver with a Y.com. Okay, cool. So I'll put a link to your website so people go and check out all that stuff that you talked about. We'll talk about it again at the end. So let's get your story, Lexi.

I mean, I know you were into writing erotica when you were younger, but when did you decide to start living your lifestyle? Oh, my God. Yeah, let's go all the way back. I've been curious about sex for as long as I can remember. And I, I remember, like, I was always sort of that person, you know, in high school and, you know, university that people came to for sex advice. I actually used to have a column.

sex column in the newspaper back in back in college. Yeah, I did. It actually caused a little bit of a bit of a mini scandal on campus because the administration didn't love articles like, you know, how to have, you know, safe oral sex or the difference between pay-by-the-hour motels versus back seats of cars for, you know, hookup spots. So they didn't love that, but it was so fun.

I love stirring the pot when it comes to that. making people think and provoking them to think more deeply about sex and sexuality and the possibility. So I, I've been experimental, I would say my whole life. I've always had a lot of fantasies wanting to try a lot of things. And as I, I just didn't, for a long time, I thought monogamy was not right for me because of just, I couldn't imagine that one person could fulfill every desire or should even fulfill every desire, every facet of myself, of my very complex personality. So I always was interested in what, you know, like the idea of being with multiple partners of not just sexually, but even, you know, romantically, I had a lot of ideas about what

might feel right for me. But I always felt like nobody else really understood that until like my mid to late 20s when I discovered, oh my God, there are people not just like me, but there's a whole community around the world of people who are open-minded and also don't necessarily feel like monogamy is right for them. Or maybe monogamy is right, but they want to explore and do new different things and experiment with different kinks. And I just, once I learned about the open lifestyle, I finally felt like, wow, they get me and I am going to be able to express this whole part of myself in a way that I could never before. So before your 20s or like your late 20s or when you found the lifestyle, you had it like I mean you had all these thoughts but you haven't,

you hadn't had any experiences at that point? Well, I was a, I mean, besides the, the boyfriends that I had like over time, um, when I was open like when I had like periods of time where I was non-exclusive and I had a chance to experiment with quite a few. few things. My first threesome was before I even discovered the open lifestyle. Um, my so many exhibitionistic experiences, voyeuristic experiences that happened even before I knew that, you know, of the open lifestyle. And those were all in like my early 20s. And so I did experience a lot of things, just not within the context of the open community, I would say. Yeah, yeah. And so was that threesome with a part, a guy and a girl or two guys? Oh, it was two guys. Oh, it was, I think,

that was an incredible, incredible experience. And I just felt like a goddess being worshipped by two extremely sexy men at the same time. And seeing how I completely wore them out made me feel good. Oh my God. You're professional. Who set it up? How was it set up though? Like were you dating someone and he said, hey, can I bring a friend in? Like, how did that first threesome come about? Oh my God. So I've always wanted to have, I mean, I've always wanted to have all kinds of different threesomes, which I have by now done. But that first one, it was sort of like I had, I had a fuck friend at the time. And he and I were, we were out. He had a friend in from out of town. And I, you know, we started, you know, we started, you know, joking around or not so joking around. And I was like, oh, you know, like, you know, you're both so sexy. I'd love to experience that together. And I fully trusted him. Like, and, you know, his friend was, you know, seemed super, super sexy, super cool. Very, very, very intriguing. And I don't even remember

exactly the conversation we had, but it really did not take much for all of us to agree to it. And, you know, know, at the time I just remember we had been out. We were at a bar. We didn't drink very much. I'm not a big drinker, but we ended up going back to one of their places and sorry to my my friend's place. And we, it just started so slowly. We were both on the couch. I had each guy in front, like on either side and one of them kissing my neck while they made out with the other one. They're both undressing me. And I just, I couldn't believe it. It felt like a moment, even just at that point, it felt like it felt surreal. Yeah. That I was experiencing something that I had wanted to do for such a long time. And that really, you know, getting attention like that from two people, also two men who really knew what they were doing with my body at the same time. Wow. It was, it was incredible. By the time, By the time, before I knew it, I had both of them, you know, one of them was between my legs, you know, devouring me.

The other one was, I was just enjoying, I was just enjoying. I don't know how, I mean, graphic I can be, but if I can be graphic. Yeah. I was just enjoying, like, taking turns enjoying each of their clocks while they were both taking turns devouring me. And then I just needed. I just needed to feel what it would be like to have like a cock in my mouth and a cock in my pussy simultaneously for the first time ever. And that was on such a different level. I love oral sex.

I love giving blow jobs. I'm quite good at fucking giving blowjobs. That's because you love it. Nobody that loves it can be bad. I mean, you know what I'm saying? You know, I agree with that. I feel like the more you really enjoy something. something, then also the better you get it and the better you get at it and when you get people

who, you know, really enjoy being on the receiving end and tell you, oh my God, that's the best head I've ever gotten. That's the best you have the best mouth I've ever been in. It feels really good. There's something about the feeling of having like sliding my lips over a pock and then also having a dick inside me in my pussy at the same time. It's just I cannot explain the sensory. overload that that it's just it overtakes you or it overtook me rather. It's there's something about

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How long ago is this? Like, how old are you now, Lexi, do you mind saying? Oh, my God. I must have been like 20 at the time or 19. I can't remember exactly. And now I'm 39. Okay. So that's a long time ago.

Like back then, women weren't doing things like that. Like, were you out and proud with this stuff? Or were you like, oh, my God, I hope nobody finds out or anything? Or you were just like, this is who the fuck I am? Oh, I've always been very much like, this is who the fuck I am. Even when I was in my late teens and experimenting with some of my friends didn't get it. They're like, oh, you're, you know, they're just using you for sex. I'm using them.

Like we're using each other. This was my idea. It was my idea. I've always been out and proud with that. I've always been shameless about the way I approach sexuality. I feel like there's so much bullshit out there. People who, you know, say, well, you know, especially as a woman, right? How, you know, we shouldn't dress a certain way.

We shouldn't talk about sex openly. we shouldn't want to be sluts. You know, oh my God, I have been called a slut so many times. And you know what? I fucking own it. I am a fucking slut. And I love that. I love it.

I love it. I have no guilt, no shame whatsoever. And I have met a lot of really incredible women who all, like over time, who also feel the same way. And it's just incredible when I hear from other women like how they've been repressed and all the things they want to do, but, you know, they don't want anyone to find out or they're, you know, they carry around so much shame about their desires and their sexuality, but all of it is healthy.

It's not healthy to repress all of those desires. It's not. Right. And women have them too. But, you know, back in my day, you would have been called a slut and that you would have been shamed, you know, it would have been bad, bad news for you. I was. Yeah.

And I was. I was. Yeah. People talk shit about me, you know, as far as like my, you know, me being a total horror. And I loved it. I was like, you know what? I'm sorry that you don't feel like you can do these things. I'm sorry you have so much shame about your body. I feel, I felt bad for them. Yeah. I felt bad that they were so jealous because I was so open and free with myself and who I was and who I am and my experiences. And they didn't get it. They were so stuck in their own shit. And they, you know, so I, how should I say this? I'm not going to say it didn't take it personally because obviously who wants to be, who wants to be shame like that. But also, I just, it didn't change my desire to do things.

It didn't change who I am. It didn't make me want to hide it. It didn't make me want to be any less free. If anything, it actually helped encourage me to continue being a fucking slut, enjoying my life and also helping other people get over their own shame. Obviously. Like in so many ways, you know, so they could experience that. And that was, that for me was, I think, a big turning point back in high school,

knowing that at some point I wanted to help people get over their sexual shame to help them live the open life that they wanted. And by open, I don't necessarily mean like relationship wise. I meant like, I mean, freely. Yeah. I love that you were not only born that way, but like you went on to help others because most people, I don't think, you know, experience it the way you did, you know? So you're definitely the right person to be helping people. I love it. I love that. Thank you so much for saying that. It is true. It's true, though. I mean, and I've done a lot of work on myself over the years, but something that's

always been constant is that, you know, my, my desire to, like, to show people that they can have and live the life that they want. And they don't have to be stuck in, like mindsets that were passed down by other people, their family, their friends, their teachers, all shaming them for being sexual creatures. Men don't,

men get shamed too, but not quite the same way. Yeah, and like, I mean, you know, it's, it's a celebration

when a man is able to have multiple partners or, you know, is promiscuous or, you know, a fucking manhor. But with women, it's so different.

So it's just, like, it's magnified. And it's absolutely. bullshit. So I definitely have always wanted to live this way constantly and not feel like I don't, it took me a lot of work over the years to care less and less about what other people think. I am at that point now. I do not care. If my family is aware as well, like of my openness, they know that I write erotica. They support me in my endeavors. Obviously, I'm not. I'm

like sitting at dinner or talking about the recent orgy I had, but still, like, you know, but my point is always, but vanilla people don't talk about their vanilla life either, sex life either. You know, a lot of times people will be like, oh, well, would they tell their kids what they do? I was like, no, but you know what? Vanilla people don't tell their fucking kids what they do sexually too. So why are you asking if that person does? Same shit. No one talks about it.

You know what I mean? Well, even, yeah. No, you're right. You're right. But, I mean, when it comes to vanilla people and like, you know, the sex that they're having, sometimes they don't talk about it because they're not even excited about their own sex life. They're bored. They're stuck. They have like fantasies. They want to express. They don't know how to talk to their partner about it. Their partner doesn't seem interested about it. After a long period

of time in a monogamous relationship or any relationship, people lose some desire for each other. And it's it and these things are normal, but also it leads them to want to talk about it less. So I'm very open about talking about my sexual experiences. I've written, I've written about them. I've been on podcast like this one to talk about the crazy shit that I've done and that I celebrate because of how awesome it was. Yeah, let's get more of that. I cut you off because you sound like a unicorn the way that you are. I love it.

But let's get. So you so you find out you're also like. a little bit of an exhibition. So you're doing all kinds of crazy things. And then you realize that there's this whole community out there and it's the lifestyle. And you're like, oh, those are my people. Is that what happened? And then you got into it. Totally. I didn't. So once I discovered that this was a thing, like the open light, it was a lifestyle. There was a whole community. I'm from Montreal. So there's a whole community here of like sexy, open minded, voyeuristic, exhibitionistic, bloody people who like playing with each other and enjoy, you know, shamelessly empowering others to do that.

And for someone who really, you know, for myself, who's always shamelessly explored and wanted to explore and help people really get over their shame to explore on their own, even if it's just getting them over their shame of their own body so they could masturbate for the first time, because my God, I can't believe that. people who couldn't even masturbate because of how much shame they experience with the idea of touching their own body. I, you know, being in a lifestyle where people were just openly fucking each other and, you know, and swapping partners or just enjoying a glory hole. Like, I love, I love being in a gloryhole booth and seeing all of those dicks. I love it.

It's, there's a, there's a power that comes, this feeling of power and control when you were really shamelessly opening up to whatever possibilities are there and you take control of your own pleasure, your own sexuality, and you can choose the partners that you want. You say, you know, you can, and as a unicorn, like in this lifestyle, I can say, I want you now like this. fuck me this way and they will fucking love it. They love it. They love an assertive woman who knows what the fuck she wants and isn't afraid to get bloody about it. Yeah, for sure. So I've definitely enjoyed a lot of experiences like that. But what was your first experience though in the lifestyle? Like did you say, okay, you know what? I'm going to go to a swingers club and you went solo or did you go with a partner or did you go to a party or like how did you get into the lifestyle then once you realize it like existed?

So when I was introduced to the lifestyle by a friend of mine, and at the time, and we were working together, like through, you know, multiple levels, like, well, working together. He, we were doing like a little project together through somebody else. So I met him through somebody else. And he told me, you know, hey, this is a whole thing. And I was like, what is the open lifestyle? And as he started talking about it, I was like, oh my God. I cannot believe this isn't just like a fantasy. And keep in mind, given my age, at the time that I was doing this, the internet was not what it is now. So it's not like I could just openly like search for people like me or even knew what terms to use at the time. It wasn't as easy as that. Now it is easy for people to discover that this is a thing. But I didn't know that at the time. So as I started learning more about that and he told me more about what it entailed, he said, you know, there's a party going on or a meeting greet going on at a local club. Why don't you just come and check it out? You don't have to do anything. Just come and check it out. Now, naturally, knowing myself, I obviously was very much ready for action already even before I got there. But I had no idea what to expect at all. I'd never been to a swingers club before. I,

I didn't know if I was just going to walk in and everybody would be fucking each other. I had no idea what to expect. And he didn't really give me much detail. I think he wanted me to discover for myself what it was going to be like. Yeah. So when I walked in, it was like a regular bar. There were just people talking, you know, some like, like myself, like I was wearing a short little skirt. I can't remember exactly the top that I wore, but it was definitely slutty, very revealing and very free in terms of like my choices.

fashion-wise, but I didn't see anybody fucking, but I felt like this eroticism in the air. Like, there was something so sexy about the fact that I was in a place where people could, you know, just be themselves and be free to fuck and do whatever they wanted with consent, obviously. And so in this club, the ground floor, just a bar area, dance area, there were, I don't know, 10 or 15 other couples when I got there. And as I spent time talking to people, because my friend was there introducing me around and to different people, I was learning about their stories and how they got into the lifestyle and how long they'd been doing it. And they told me about some of their adventures.

They love that I was a writer. And then I continued the tour of the place and headed upstairs where there were some people who were starting to play with each other. And I, I, had never seen anybody at that point like that, like other than the threesome I'd had and walking in on other people having sex over time, but like never, never like that. In Montreal, it's a very European style, at least this club, it's very European style with like, it's made for exhibitionist and voyeur. So there are a lot of open areas, not a lot of closed rooms,

just open areas where people are just openly playing with each other. And you could just stand and watch. If you ask permission and everything, you could, you know, like go ahead and, you know, if they're cool with it, you could play with the people with consent, boundaries, all of that good stuff. But I was just standing there walking around, watching all these beautiful people just out outside of the norm, I guess. And just in this bubble of sexuality, touching each other, watching each other, even if it's, It was just couples who had come there together. The idea of somebody else watching them in some of their most intimate moments.

And some people really, I mean, were just wild. They'd have so many people around them just watching and wanting to join in. And it was like, I mean, I was watching people having threesomes in front of me. And it was just I couldn't soak up enough. Like it was, I just wanted to see everything. It was unreal. And when I finally, that first time. Oh, I did. Yeah, I did. I met somebody. I met this single guy there who was also there for the first time. And he was super hot. We connected. We were going around like after I met him like a little bit somewhere in the middle of the day slash night, whatever, we started walking around

and seeing people. We started making out while we're watching other people. And I don't really know how it happened. But other than that, I'm again, a total slut. I ended up like naked fucking him in the middle of this club with like, I don't know, at least 50 people who were watching. And after, you know, I like, as this is happening, I just was so in the moment. The idea that people were watching me and enjoying the performance, I felt like a little boring. star. I loved every minute of it. I didn't know the extent to which my exhibitionistic side needed to be expressed. I really had no idea. Like I had done a lot of public stuff. I, you know, like, you know, fucking in a car, fucking in like in, in public places, parks, like whatever. I

have always enjoyed that, the idea of getting caught or someone watching. But never had I, had I, you know, had sex like that. So freely, knowing people were watching, having them want to join in, I just kept it with him at that time. Because it was like, there was so much stimulation. It was such an overwhelmingly erotic experience. And as we were, like, as we were fucking and people were watching, I could see the desire in their eyes. And I had never experienced so much of that at once.

The like, see, watching them desire me or want to like join in or touch me. A lot of people asked and I just, I was just really focused on enjoying the exhibition. Stick part of it. I didn't want to add so many other elements all at once. You didn't want to wind up an orgy just yet. I'm sure you've had been in them before. Just yet. Yeah. Yes, I have. Just yet. Exactly. I did. didn't want to overdose on the experience so quickly. But I was after that experience and after, oh my God, afterwards people were clapping. It was crazy.

That must have felt good. Who gets a standing ovation? Who gets people clapping for them after they'd fuck a guy? You know what I mean? That's not bad. I know. It was crazy. I'd never experienced anything.

But I was buzzing for weeks after with the adrenaline, with the. the feeling of it. And it was, oh, my God, I just, I wanted to do it again. But I gave myself some time because I am a very, I didn't want to, I don't know how to say this, not get addicted to it because a lot of people really crave that adrenaline rush. So yeah, that was that was my first experience. That was a lot for first experience. Yeah, it sounds amazing. So did you then just like continue to start going to that club, that same club? And then just have the more and more experiences. And that's when you had like an orgy and glory holes.

Is that where you did your glory hole there or like in an adult bookstore? Oh, no. It was, yeah, it was at the club for the first time. So as I, after that experience when I started like venturing back into it. And of course, I was working and stuff too. It's not like I could. I had like all this crazy free time. And, you know, there was a lot going on.

I went, you know, I went back to that same club where then I saw and I went. solo, like as a unicorn. And it was really weird to me. You know, I met, so I, I saw a lot of people I'd seen the first time at that meet and greet and they knew me and then we talked and we were just hanging out. And, you know, as I was there, you know, I just, I wanted to walk around. I love the fact that I was doing this solo. Right. So I could just watch and I could, you know, just appreciate not having, like, just the independence of. it where if I wanted to do something, I could and I would. It was really something. So having, having that base of like comfort for the people that I sort of, that I had met before,

feeling more and more comfortable in that location at that same club, getting to know the staff as well. And in various ways, I became way more comfortable there. So as I, every time I would go, I would, and I was solo or I was with maybe a couple of my girls. friends who were also, you know, open who I'd met at the club, like another group of unicorns. I started to become so comfortable that I would love, like, how should I say this, popping the cherry of new couples who were coming into the lifestyle who had never had an experience, but wanted to have a threesome with a unicorn or women who were in a couple who their fantasy for years was just to fuck another woman or to, you know, all of the, I was that person.

That's interesting. They must have loved you. Oh, they did. I loved popping their cherry. It was because the fact that I was the first experience that they would remember. And I mean, like, again, I'm a free sexual, like, shameless slut. They enjoyed that. And having that experience where they didn't, it wasn't awkward. It was all, it was so natural. It felt incredible. And for them too, obviously, it was. really they just like had an unforgettable time. And probably for the woman too, it was great because I've heard from a lot of couples and the woman who's, you know, when it never fails. I just hear it a lot that, you know, when the woman is hooking up with another woman for the first time in that kind of scenario, she's kind of nervous. She doesn't know what the fuck to do or how it's going to go down. So the fact that you would just go in there and I'm assuming you sort of, you know, made things happen and took control, that was probably great for the woman in that couple. That is such a good point.

And yes, because there is a lot of nervousness. Of course. Because you don't, you know, like, especially, you know, I remember one couple that I just like adored playing with and I played with multiple times after. Like, she was really nervous because she didn't know what to do. And I was just saying, you don't need to do anything. And I basically just explained to her that, you know, she's a goddess and I'm just going to spend time exploring.

her body and worshiping her as she fucking deserves. And, you know, I add a little bit of my dominant personality and basically told her to shut the fuck up and lie down and do nothing until I told her otherwise and she loved that. I basically took the first, you know, I was the first to touch her and kiss her and lick her pussy and do all of that. I have like I always, in my little purse, I always have at least one little vibrator on me when I go to play. I always make sure obviously it's clean and everything and totally, you know, safe to play with. I broke it out and I really, really enjoyed watching her like have orgasm after orgasm. And at this point, this was just me and her playing while her partner was watching the entire experience.

And he was loving how much she was loving it. Right. Like it was this really, like it was almost like he was living vicariously through her. And she was just, it wasn't just her first time with a woman. She had had like really multiple orgasms. And it was, it felt so good. Like I felt like more power each time I made her come. And, but she wanted also to explore my body.

But she's like, you know what to do. I'm like, just do whatever feels natural. And I will guide you and I will tell you, you know, if I want like, a lot of women are free to communicate. I know. It's weird. I don't get it. I mean, I think some of it also comes down.

to confidence and also knowing your body. Some people don't know what they want or how to, you know, they don't want to make their partner feel bad. But then you're not feeling good. So like, what's the point? You know, if your partner cares about your partner wants you to feel good, so it's going to want as much direction as possible to help you feel as good as you can possibly feel. So I just, I like, I let her do whatever felt natural to her. And she was so gentle. And it was so, it was definitely like, it really felt like a new, like she was like a newbie. Like it was her first time. It definitely, I could feel that.

But then I was guiding her and telling her what I liked and she was getting more into it. And her confidence started to build. And as her confidence started to build because I was giving her a lot of positive feedback and moaning and showing her what I wanted or what I liked. And she, she was really getting into it. And I was loving how much enjoyment she was getting out of it. because this was her first time ever. And when you're doing your first time ever with anyone,

you want it to go well, but also you're afraid of, like before you even go into, you're afraid of having a bad experience. And if you're thinking about that or, oh, I'm not going to do it right or whatever, you're kind of, it's already tainting the experience.

It almost becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. So I was able to take her out of her own head so that she was able to just focus on being present in the moments and just, enjoying whatever happened. Like I explained, orgasm is not the goal. I just want to make you feel good.

Obviously, I made her feel very good. And I wanted, you know, I don't need to have an orgasm every time. It's all about the pleasure. It still feels fucking good. So once I explain that to her,

she didn't feel like the pressure, like, oh, I need to make her come. And I didn't at that time, but I really enjoyed the experience. And what was important, her takeaway, like an important takeaway that I wanted her to learn also as she was getting into the open lifestyle was that it isn't just about orgasms because a lot of people especially guys, sorry

guys, think that once you have an orgasm like it's over, especially like for a man, right? Because look at porn. Come shots and seen. Yeah. Right? And I've written a lot of scripts for porn, right? Go check out my IMDB page folks if you really want to. Oh, really?

That's interesting. Okay. Yeah. So once, you know, like it, but it's not like that. And even, even at that in the lifestyle, you know, a lot of guys, like they just, they want to, they want to be able to fulfill, to satisfy as many people as possible or their partner or partners as much as possible. And if they come too fast or they can't get or stay hard, it becomes debilitating for them. It takes everybody different amounts of time to come, especially if it's somebody else giving you pleasure and you maybe it takes you a bit for your brain to get. get into the mindset, you know, and it's, you know, or feel comfortable or for somebody to have, like, a sustained type of stimulation. Like, if you are getting somewhere and you're moaning and your partner stops what they're doing or, like, changes it up and you're like, oh, shit, I almost have to start from scratch again, you know, with the buildup. Yeah. Yeah. So, it's time.

So wait, so you became a unicorn, right? So you're doing couples. You're into women. You're into fisting. You're like, you know, at this point, during the. this time while you're like going to the clubs and everything, do you start dating and do you, you know, go into relationships telling people like where you're at or were you just like deciding to remain single so you could have all your fun? Like how, what was going on in that part of your life at that time? So at that time when I was opening up, I was, like I was partnered up and he was aware of what was going on. He was on board as far as what we were experiencing. We also experienced stuff together with other women, like three cents with other women. And it was really just, for me, it was, I love the

solo exploration. I've always been very independent. So that was for me a part of what we decided would be going on as far as our openness. It would just, I needed to have the solo exploration. I needed that. So yeah, it was, it's always been a part of me. And like I, I'm, I very much pride myself on freedom. Yeah, your free spirit. I. yeah, I mean, in case it wasn't obvious from all the other things I've said. But it definitely was important to me to have that part, that have that aspect of me going by myself. And with consent, right? With his consent, he knew where I was going. He knew more or less what I was up to. I wouldn't necessarily come back and recount all of the stories. And conversely, too, he was going out and having his own fun as well.

So it was, we both got, had a lot of different experiences under our belts as a result of this. But it, that those solo experiences, just because I was still like, I was in a relationship at the time, especially, you know, as I was, I was going through this open lifestyle journey. I was still a unicorn. So I was still fucking couples. Like you said, women, other people. Like every, I was, I had that freedom. So, yeah, it's, it really, it was. That solo exploration led me into places like the gloryhole booths into, like it led me into

orgies, led me into things that I never imagined. I could, sorry, I could imagine wanting and fantasized about, but that I never thought would ever happen in real life. And then it was happening in real life and often. And it was always so incredible. I just, I was just felt so free. And as someone who's written a lot of scripts for porn, I would, you know, I was sort of like in group sex situations, like directing traffic, telling people where to go, how to lie, what to do. And it would just work so well.

And they loved it. So people need guidance. That just came naturally for you? Totally came naturally. It came naturally. Yes, it did. It just, you know, I. Like I said, you know, you said you're very bossy.

You like telling people like what to do and what you like. And I'm very much the same way. And, you know, it's like it was very important for, you know, especially with having orgies, also with people who are less experienced in having group sex and then being really nervous about it. Like I must have, I don't know how many people I've introduced to group sex for the first time. Like it was their first time ever doing it. So because of how nervous they were, I would like sort of take them by the hand.

and other body parts and, like, lead them into it and, you know, telling other people what to do to them and having them feel safe and comfortable while I was also fucking other people and surveying the entire, I want to say, operation to make sure everybody was experiencing pleasure and were comfortable and enjoying themselves. So part of my satisfaction and my love of group sex situations was also knowing that everyone was having an incredible time. And that to me, I'm definitely a giver. I love when people pleased. I love giving. I love receiving too. I'm not like, fuck. I mean, I love both. You're not in an orgy if you don't like receiving. But listen, you started off talking about how much you love, you know, blow jobs and that threesome having everybody

there. Like, I mean, you know, it just sounds like it's, you know, and the way you always take control. It sounds like your pattern. It's just who you are. Yes, 100%. It is exactly. That's exactly right. And at someone I think also who's who's been writing erotica for forever. I obviously am very good at directing scenes and creating scenarios that I also find are just, you know, very sexy to me. Things I want to see, things I know other people want to see. Because people talk to me about their fantasy. So, being in a group sex situation where I have a very good idea about what everybody is into. Yeah. Even with the newbies, right, asking them what they want to experience. These are questions you don't really ask yourself in vanilla situations all the time, right? What do you want to experience? What kind of touch do you enjoy?

What, you know, what is a position you, you know, you always feel comfortable in? Not just your body, like in terms, like especially for women, sometimes they don't don't like certain sex positions because they don't like the way their ass looks or their thighs look or, you know, whatever the case, or they're not comfortable being all spread out. Everybody's different, but knowing the different factors that make them feel comfortable and being able to help them implement that within a group sex situation where then everyone is feeling comfortable and confident and sexy and engaged, it's, it is like a whole other satisfaction that is beyond orgasmic.

It's really amazing to be a part of that, to have the privilege of doing that. So, yeah. So you loved your orgies. Have you ever done a gang bang? No, that is one thing I have not done. Although, to be fair, I've had some, okay, I've never done a planned gangbang.

Let's put it that way where, you know, where it's just me and however many, you know, like dicks that I want to like have in there but I've had multiple nights where I've had multiple dicks but it wasn't like planned and it was and it sort of like went from you know fucking multiple guys and you know like and and you know like you know sucking multiple guys to eventually into an orgy later with other people not just guys so it you know I I won't say I had a gaming where I was the center of attention like that but I did have. have a lot of gang bang like experiences that way.

Yeah. And at that club, I mean, did that club become like your place to go to? Was it one club? Oh. Yes, it was that one. I've been to others, but that one for me was, it's where I found my people. That's where I felt the most safe. Also as a woman in this lifestyle, you want to feel safe.

Yeah. They always had security around, like making sure everybody was. you know, nobody was out of line or doing anything that they should not have been doing. I'm also about safer sex. So like not engaging without condoms, like that kind of a thing, testing, all of that. So knowing the people who I was at the club with, especially the frequent fuckers, I like to know like frequent flyers, but the featured fuckers. I'm sorry, knowing like what they were into and that they were, you know, also doing these safer sex things that made me feel more comfortable.

you know, like, you know, sexual health-wise. So, yeah, it became my place. And then my reputation started to grow, let's say, within the community. And then people. No, because you're not like the norm. And the things that you're, it's not just about what you're into. It's how you take control, how open you are to newbies, how helpful you are. I mean, like, anybody that got to that club was like fucking lucky because like in came

Lexi to like, you know, I don't know, do the things that most people don't take, do. I don't know. Like, they were lucky to have you in their club. And a lot of people that went there for their first time were lucky to have Lexi come in and hook them up. Oh my God. I don't think that there's a Lexi in every club. That's what I'm saying. You know, I think you're rare. Oh my God. Thank you for saying that. I like to think so. I mean, if there are other Lexis and other clubs or other areas of the world, come and find me. Let's swap stories. Let's swap other things too. but let's swap stories to start. It was always fun for me, you know, walking in and then people knowing who I was and then

people, you know, coming up to me or saying, wow, I watched you fuck last week and holy crap, you were just incredible. Do you want to play with us? You know, like having choices, being able to make, like having, you know, feeling powerful. Like I could make all the, like I could, you know, I won't say fuck anyone I want. but also fuck anyone I wanted. Or if I wanted to just go out and watch one night, I would, which rarely happened because I was like playing too.

But I could do that. It was whatever I wanted it to be. And I always felt safe and comfortable, confident. And I, you know, always made sure that other people felt the same way. But being, like having that, you know, walking in and people knowing me or, you know, seeing people and telling them like, oh, you know, we fucked in, you know, like an orgy last week and trying to remember in the darkness with all the body parts. Like, you know, like, be like, did you? Did we? Like I, you know, once you start losing track of people and it happens, okay, it happens to the best of a slut. It does. You know, you want to remember every little detail in everybody, but sometimes it's a bit of a blur, not because of alcohol or anything, because I always was sober when I was doing this. I don't require.

Yeah, it's very important. You like if you, like also if you're drunk or intoxicated, you are not able to consent. And they never, ever played with people who could not consent ever. Yeah. It's, you know, some people think they need to have like drugs or alcohol to relax and allow their inhibitions to just to open up like that. But I didn't because I've always been like this naturally. And it was intoxicating enough being in an erotic atmosphere like that.

And being like, like, that passion, that desire, the fire of it, never needed any other real intoxicants to help get me there. But it was just this fully, fully exhilarating experience every single time, all of it. What a rush. Like, I don't know if I'm conveying. No, you are. I mean, I can tell you're a good writer because you're a good talker and you paint the picture and you're so fucking good.

And listen, you're like so many years later, I'm assuming you're still, like, you're very still involved in the life. lifestyle. Now that guy that you were dating that you talked about, like, was he cool with the solo play? Like, was he able to hang with the woman like you? I would think some guys would be super intimidated by a woman as open as free. I mean, listen, I think that there's somebody for everybody, right? And any guy would be fucking lucky. I just, you know, wonder, have most guys been able to deal with the absolute freedom and openness that you're looking for? So there were areas of, or in moments of intimidation in that regard and not, and you know, not necessarily feeling like, you know, especially because for someone with a monogamous perspective, the idea that your partner wants other people is tough. Yeah. It could be tough. Even though he also had his own desires and everything, things he wanted to explore, mostly with me, but also, you know, so, you know, we each had that freedom. I'm even without the sexual component of who I am and what I do and what I love, there are like other

elements of who I am as a very fiery individual and how assertive I am that have always like led people to feel intimidated by me. But that, you know, with him it happened for sure. Other other men, other people have like people in general have always been intimidated by me in like professionally, but also sexually. My experiences feeling like they could never necessarily please me or that, you know, I, you know, it was too much. Oh, I've been told that a lot. I'm too much. And you know what?

I'm sorry. You can't handle me. Right. Oh, I'm so sorry. You can't handle me. You know, that's, it's really, it's really been incredible to say to myself, well, you know what? I'm sorry you're intimidated. That is a you problem.

Not a me problem. I'm not going to be less. of who I am to make other people feel comfortable. Right. So yeah, it's always, that always has been a tricky one, of course, very tricky because it's, this has always been in me, this sexuality, the fire. And trying, anyone who's ever tried to, I guess, control that about me, it hasn't, it doesn't work.

No. It, you know, it doesn't work. There's just too much fire. So yeah, needing that liberty to be myself, like I mentioned that solo exploration, you know, I also gave him the freedom to be himself and to explore. Yeah. And, you know, so we both got something out of it. I would argue I got way more out of it because it really, I really evolved as a person once I was able to feel empowered and explore in ways that just were so different than the norm. So, so different.

So yeah, I mean, I have absolutely no regrets about how any of that happened, how everything was approached. Now I've learned, though, as I help other folks who are going from monogamy to open, things not to do, conversations they should have beforehand. Because sure, there were always, there definitely, as we opened up, we made mistakes for sure. And that's okay. We did learn from them. we grew, we did get stronger as a result, but, you know, they were mistakes nonetheless. So now that I have made those mistakes and then, you know, overcame them and like saw what was going on on the other side and how promising it can be once your partner and you are on

the same page about things, helping other people do that. But yeah, there are, there are challenges to every kind of relationship. And it's definitely sensitive when you talk about fucking other people. you know, consensually, it can be challenging. It can be hard to talk about. So, you know, different couples have different things that they do to help each other feel comfortable to navigate that sensitive stuff. But yeah, it's that intimidation part. I, it was definitely present for sure. I would say pretty much for everybody have ever been with.

Right. Yeah, unfortunately. Well, unfortunately for them. Yeah. It doesn't stop me from being who I am, right? And it's too bad. No, it's unfortunate, I think, for women in general, because I think it's a very double standard kind of a thing.

But it really is what it is. And I know when I was younger, I was like super slutty and I didn't do anything that you're talking about. I mean, I just fucked whoever I wanted when I wanted. I didn't date them. And I was considered a horror. And I can't tell you how many times guys said to my face. Like, seriously.

Like, you know what, Kathy? You're like not the kind of girl you marry. You're the kind of girl you fuck. Like, you know what I mean? Like, there's those two girls to a lot of guys. And so I think sometimes they can't put it together. Every guy wants that girl that fucks really good. But when she fucks really good or you give them the great blowjob, they're like, why are you so good at this kind of thing?

You know, it's like all that kind of garbage. I think that that is changing, thankfully, with the younger generation, you're younger than me. So I feel like it's not maybe so bad with the guys in your generation, but with mine, forget about it. A girl like you that loves fucking sex that wants to be open and can't be controlled. You know, it's slim pickings if you're, because guys are. just a certain way. And I do think, like I said, it's a double standard. I think if you were a guy asking for what you wanted and being the way you were and being as free, it would be a different ask for a woman and she'd be less likely to judge it in a way that a guy does. Whatever. But I mean,

that's just like a bigger picture story that we could talk about for fucking days. You know, it just is what it is. But I love that. Like, listen, you know, your desire, and I've always said this about myself, Like my desire to be myself is stronger than my desire for any of those other things. So at the end of the day, what does it matter? You know, and if it was the opposite, you'd fucking change. You know what I mean? Like if your desire to find 80 guys that would want to hang their hat with you and control you, if that was a stronger desire than you being yourself, you'd fucking change and go be a monogamous woman.

But it's not. Like, you, you're going to be you. And I love that. And I think that that's great. because that's what it's all about if you ask me. You're not twisting yourself into a pretzel to be with anybody. You're just being who you are. And listen, there's someone for everybody and there's probably tons of guys besides, you know,

ones that were intimidated by it. I'm sure you found guys that were like, oh, my God, I hit the fucking jackpot, right? I couldn't agree more. And that is really, that's always a challenge, right? And that you said something that really sparked something. You mentioned you want to take her home and. fucker, but you don't want to like introduce her to the family sort of deal. Yeah.

Like, you know, there is that double standard, that Madonna slash horror, like duality that is bullshit. Oh, and parents love me, by the way. I'm so good with family. I really am. I can, I can, you know, I can put aside the horror for like a little bit. But like, I also, you know, I can't deny there are multiple parts of everybody, right? And there is no, you know, that, that freedom to express like, who.

you are like you you know you pretty much nailed it i'm not going to fucking change for anyone i want to express myself sexually the ways in which i do that might you know change depending on who i'm with but i'm still going to always have desires wanting to explore wanting to express myself and i don't want i like i would never be comfortable in a situation where i felt like someone someone was trying to control my expression of sexuality my, you know, my desires tell me that I'm too much or they can't handle me, that would not work for me. That would never work for me. Someone who celebrates my sexuality is like, wow, I fucking hit the jackpot. Let's do whatever. Let's explore together. That is, that is a pairing. That is exactly

a pairing. Yeah, listen, the great thing is about like hooking up with guys or finding a partner is like, you only need one. You don't mean, you don't need a million. So who the fuck cares if the majority of guys are the way that we're talking about, right? There's a, there's definitely those more highly evolved guys out there that, like I said, you know, to me, they would be like, oh, my God, I struck gold. You would be their equal. And that's what they would be down for, you know. But listen, it's not like, you know, you're like into freedom.

It sounds like you're having your cake and eating it too and you're completely happy. You know, I, what I feel bad for is women that are like, why are a certain way that guys don't typically like and they're like desperate to, get married and have the white picket fence and it's just like oh that's a sad kind of pairing to having the same person because that might not happen because you know what I mean like I don't know I've never had the desire to be married and be with the same person for 40 years I'd rather fucking kill myself and that's great because my personality is like horrifying to most guys so it's all good like I'm like fine but if I was given the desire to like hang my hat with one guy I'd be

fucked I'd be miserable because it was not in the cards you know what I mean because I the way that I am. A lot of guys aren't into that. And that's cool with me because I like I like I like my life the way that it is. You know, so I feel like it doesn't sound like you're at odds with anything. You know, it sounds like you're so free anyway. So what does the fuck does a matter if some guys can't handle you? You're like not looking to hang your hat anywhere in one person anyway. You know what I mean? So who cares? Yeah. Yeah. I do. And you know, by being yourself unapologetically yourself, shamelessly. yourself. You're also weeding out people who just can't deal. And it's, it's great. There's no,

there's no fakeness about it. It's fully authentic. Like when you're like that. And it's really, it's important because ultimately at the end of the day, regardless of who you're with or not with, you are facing yourself in the mirror. And if you feel like you can't be yourself and you can't express your full self because of either, you know, bullshit shame that's like holding you back, not you specifically. Yeah, of course. Yeah. You know. feeling like, you know, you need to follow that formula of you're with someone for a while. You get engaged. You get married.

White picket fence. Kids. That is not the formula for everyone. And quite frankly, even for the people who do follow the formula, they're doing it because that is what is they believe is expected. They all read the book. I never read the book. I was like, I'm going to do it opposite, actually. I'm a contrarian.

I will do anything. You tell me to do something more. I'll do it. Fucking less. Okay. Don't tell me. I'm more like, yeah. So I get it.

Yeah, they all read the book. I'm like, you know, I never read the book. I just lived my life. And like at the end of the day, to me, it's like when you're on your deathbed, do you look, there's no way Lexi's going to be looking back at her life and be like, oh my God, I wish I didn't have as many orgies. You know, you're living your fucking life and that's what I love. But what's great about you is that this part of you, this thing that does intimidate people

and it can be an issue with some people. It all, it, it's, it's become your life. It's what you do. It's your career. It's your passion. it's your purpose. So it's bigger than that anyway. And I love that.

And like I said, I think that there's nobody better than you to be teaching other people, helping people remove their shame. Because you never even fucking had it to begin with. I think you're the person that should be writing porn scripts that are good out there because you've like been there, done that. And it sounds like you really fucking love sex. So you're probably like the best writer.

Like I could tell, like I said, just by the way that you talk. So give your shoutouts to everything. thing again so people can go read your hot books and get coaching from you if they want to and all that good stuff oh thank you so much so you can every if you're interested in all of the above and more go check out lexie silver.com lexie with an eye silver with a y and um my books and everything is on there so you can just reach out and find me in all the places um everything is linked in there and i can't wait to hear from you you like i just love it

I just love hearing people's stories. I love sharing mine. So thank you for giving me that opportunity today, Kathy. I love it. Yeah, please. I'll probably have you back on for a Girl Talk episode. I feel like you're full of like useful information. Like I do Girl Talk episodes where we talk like bigger picture stuff.

You know, like I did one with Missy Bender. She talked about you on her episode. I love her. Where we just did all about swinging and the rules and regulations and all that kind of good stuff that you could learn there. So I feel like there's like we definitely need to talk again bigger picture. I just wanted to get your backstory because it's. super interesting, right? But you really are an expert and I'd love to talk to you in the future again, you know, and break down some stuff and, and, you know, because I feel like you probably have a lot of

good advice for people as well. Thank you very much. I'd love to come back and talk about all those things. I love talking to you. I just, I love your perspective on things and how open you are. It's fantastic. I really appreciate that. Awesome, Lexi. Well, thanks so much for calling in. I'm going to put your your link to your website in the description so people can find it you're going to send me hot picks from my Patreon and thanks so much for calling in and telling us your story I think you're a super interesting unique person I love hearing from women like you oh my god likewise thank you so much for having me thank you Lexi bye send me all those pictures now okay if you can or if you didn't send them oh yeah okay awesome thanks I will I will thank you bye

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