Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 939 - FETISH FRIDAY - Carter's is a Hoser Whose GF Wont Wear Pantyhose for Him

Episode Date: October 11, 2024

Carter is a Hoser whose girlfriend won’t wear hose for him and he called in tot all about it. Tune in to hear alll the details including how and why his girlfriend won’t wear pantyhose for him, why his girlfriend also won’t give him blow jobs and why he’s ok with it, when he started getting foot jobs from other women, how much her pays for them and what goes down during them, how he has tried to get his girl to wear hose for him in the past and what has gone down when she has, his tips for getting your partner to wear more often and how they have worked for him, what he should try next to get her to wear more often, why educating his girl about the fetish in general should be key, how he should position it so he can get her to be more open to it plus a whole lot more. **To see pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. That's Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. Make sure you go to the link and click on it. Now, today is a hoser episode. It's Fetish Friday. I'm posting Carter's episode because I think it's really good. Carter is a young guy who's dating a girl who just refuses to wear a hose. Okay.

Now, a lot of people think, like if you're a hoser and, you know, you got to tell your girl that you like hose and wear them, that's the hardest thing. Well, this guy doesn't even wear them, but he can't get his girl to wear them for him. Isn't that half the battle? Isn't that that be the easiest thing? But so many girls just don't want to wear them for their guys. And I give him a lot of great advice on how to do it. And that's what we discuss, his relationship with his girl, what she knows about his fetish, why she doesn't wear when she does wear for him. And what he's doing behind her back, because she won't wear for him. Okay, he's getting foot jobs. He talks about the foot jobs he's getting behind her back.

And then I give him a ton of advice. This is like a therapy session. It's really good for any hoser out there who's sitting around with this secret deep down inside them. And they haven't come fully clean out to their partner. This is a great episode to listen to. You're going to learn a lot. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Carter. Hey, Carter.

Welcome back to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm fine. I'm really good. You're all the way in the UK. You've called it before. You are a hoser who had a girlfriend who I think it was that she had once worn for you, but she didn't wear for you anymore. And we're going to continue to talk about that topic.

Again, and what's interesting about this taping of this topic right now, I just aired on my Patreon. Such a great episode. And nobody has commented on it yet except for this one girl, Melanie. And I don't understand why because it was like a bigger picture episode I did with this guy called Paneos King. And we talked all about, you know, how to talk about your feelings. fetish and bring it up to your girl as well as like how to get her to wear them and stuff you know and that's what me and you are going to talk about but what's going on with your girlfriend now she was someone who wore for you and doesn't is it the same girl that you're with you're same girl with

she's not she doesn't she doesn't she doesn't wear like um and she's not like like it's been like more and more like she's more not wearing it i don't push it i don't force her but i kind of make suggestion so what i do is i'll text her to say uh put your hose on so I can so come home so I can rub your feet yeah in them yeah but generally it does she does

generally she forgets yeah or she says that she's forgotten but I know she hasn't but it's just a way of getting out of it but yeah that's just how it goes with her but sometimes it has worked it has worked that tip has worked like a message it to say oh

I don't know if you because I know she likes foot rubs you know what I mean so if you've got a woman that likes foot rubs you could say to her yeah I remember that I remember I remember your whole episode. I think I actually talked about, are you the one that would buy her outfits and buy her panty hose outfits plus the whole outfit to wear?

Is that you? Yeah, yeah. Sometimes I'll buy it. Yeah, yeah. I don't know if you, I don't know it could be someone else as well,

yeah, but I know I've done that as well. Uh-huh. And sometimes, sometimes she would wear. And sometimes she would like, nah, I don't feel like wearing that.

She rather wear it. Is it yoga pants? Yeah. Yeah. But I don't think she understands the difference between them. Because, like, if you're, if you're into those.

sort of, if you're into nylon, you know, you know the difference. You're specific, you know? It's like, it's like, it's like women, in it? When, you know, when it comes to sex, women are very specific in what they're like sexually. Yeah, and what she's not understanding is you. She doesn't fucking get your fetish in the slightest

because the fact that, you know, you barely push it. You ask her every now and then. You'll just be like, hey, babe, like seriously, like, you're kind of just saying, just do it for me. Just put them on for me. Just throw me a bone like I would love this and she just will fucking not do it

It's so terrible It doesn't make sense to me No it's terrible If you think about it It's not like it's crazy because it's not like I don't ask for like I don't ask for a blowjog I don't get a blowjohn or nothing I don't get a blowjohns It's like I'm asking for a blow job

You know But like what what has been sad though About this whole thing is that to me I do feel bad about it But I've actually like Paid someone to wear a for me. Yeah, and you know, this is what fucking happens, right? It's no different than the

guy whose wife isn't banging him because she's in menopause for the past 10 years and she hasn't had sex with him and then eventually he caves and goes and pays someone to have sex with him. What are you supposed to do, you know, unfortunately, you give, you've been giving her all the options. I do

want to know, first of all, does she not blow you either or are you joking about that? Like, do you get no blow jobs from your girlfriend? No, I get no blow jobs. but I understand. I'm very understanding a bit because she said that. You shouldn't be. You're, how long have you been going?

No, no, no, no, no. Let me just have to ask you. Go, go, go, go, go. Do you mean, just answer the question. Does she never give you blow jobs? Well, at the beginning of the relationship, she gave me one or two, and then since then she stopped totally.

Why? Well, because one time she said to me something, this is what I thought was really strange, yeah, but I'd get it, though, when I think about it, yeah? So she said that she's been, she said that she's afraid to, she doesn't mind having my penis inside her, but she's afraid to touch it or suck it, yeah, because of the fact that she said she's been sexually assaulted in the past. Okay. Oh my God. I hope you're not planning on putting a ring on this one. I do, I'll tell you why, yeah, because I thought to myself. If she, if she'd been sexually assaulted, yeah, I get it, yeah. But it didn't make sense to me because I think if I'm putting my fucking. it's going inside you.

Like, say if a girl's being sexually assaulted and she didn't want sex with me at all, I would understand that more. I would understand that more. So it didn't make sense to me, yeah, but I said, alright, yeah. But just wear the nylons, yeah. Just wear the nylons.

But it's weird, though, because I rub it, like, what she likes? Everything that she likes, I give her. Like what? What does she like? Well, she loves it when I rub her breasts or stroke her in a sensitive way and all the zones and everything.

All those, I do it? Do you go down on her? Wait, do you give her head? Yeah, yeah, I'll give her head sometimes, yeah. But I've kind of lost, I've kind of lost the enthusiasm on wanting to do it to her. Because I don't receive nothing at all. I remember one time she said to me when she was intimate, she said to me, oh, I wish that your cot could just be hard without me having to do anything.

I'm thinking, that's like me saying to you, I wish your breast could be hard or I wish you could be wet without me having to do anything. Oh, my God. It doesn't work like that. I'm not a teenage boy. I'm a 36-year-old man. How old is your girlfriend? She's 44.

She's older than you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm just telling you, let me just tell you, if I was your mother, I would forbid you to ever marry this woman. Because she's actually very close to, like, losing all her hormones and becoming completely sexless. You got, like, a few years left in her, and you're barely getting anything anyway. I just don't know why you sign up for this. And listen, I don't think that sex is every. everything and anything. There's a laziness about her that comes across and sometimes, you know,

that could bleed into other areas of her life. Like the fact that she's like, I just wish, like everything could just happen and I don't have to do anything. You know, you ask her to put on panty hose and she just like forgets. It's just there's like this disregard and laziness that she just doesn't do anything that she doesn't have to do in the slightest. And, you know, that's a problem. it's a bit hard you know but like they're going wrong some of the tips that i have have worked in in the in the past from like you know i mean that's why i wanted to encourage okay but did we talk about your tips the first time you want to talk about them now because you can't even get your girl to blow you so who's

going to listen to your tips okay because my tip is yeah i'll tell you why my teach will work you i can't get past the fact that she won't blow you when you're still dating her well the thing is the thing is it i feel like as you know like i'm not like other guys you know I mean, I don't, like, if a woman doesn't want to blow me, that's fine, you know, because I understand. You're nicer than her. Listen, I get it. I get it. You actually sound more like the girl in the relationship than her.

You're very thoughtful. You're very considerate. You're, it sounds like you're, like, I heard 10 times in this conversation that you are always thinking about how she feels from her point of view. The problem is she's not doing that for you in the slightest. What she does in different aspects of our relationship. Okay. Let's hear it.

her now. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Kathy, like, yeah, she's like very, very, very loving towards my children, like, because she hasn't got kids, but she's very loving towards my children, caring, also very thoughtful about things, you know, in terms of like meals for me, she washes my clothes, you know, I can't ask for my, I can't ask for any more than that because it is nice, because some women don't do that. Yeah, I got it. Yeah, I don't cook. I don't cook, but I'll blow you, but I'll order food. Yeah, so everyone was different, you know. So I take that as like I'm lucky, you know what I mean?

And I do things like I'll cook. I'll wash up. I'll wash her clothes. I'll do things for her as well. You know, I help her with her business as well because she's got a business. So it's not like I help her like it as a financial stuff. But she runs a business from home and she has a bed and breakfast basically. And I help her with that as in, you know, setting up the beds with her and all that.

I don't get no money for it. But I help her. Of course. You're her partner. I get that. Yeah. and she's helping you at home a lot and you help her. I think that that's great.

I mean, but, you know, most women cook, okay, and most women are nice to kids. So keep going. Okay, okay. Basically, you know what I mean? So I'm looking at those things, you know, so I'm looking beyond that. But at the same time, for me,

it's like I try to avoid, you know, lusting over her in nylons or, or I know it's not going to happen, you know. But I've tried to, I've tried, like, loads of times. to try and, you know, keep it under control and so of that. I can't keep it under control, but, like, I've ended up, like, just finding someone to pay to... Yeah, let's talk about that, because I feel like it sounds like you feel very guilty about that, which I totally understand, you know?

So when did that happen? Well, it happened not long after, like, a few months after we started talking with you and stuff like that, happened a few months after that, after that, after a while, I just, like, kept trying it. It just wasn't working. And like, so yeah, I just had this friend, you know, known her for years, you know what I mean, and I've always spoken with her and all that, you know. And I always used to send her pictures of my lungs or whatever, and she used to comment on them. So I like those, I like this, I like that, you know, don't like this and this and that. And I just said, put the question out there, I said to, oh, can I rub your feet?

And then, like, and I'll pay you. And she was like, cool. And then, like, was like, I would like, you know what? You know what I mean? Why not? You know what I mean? And like, she's getting something out of it. I'm getting something out of it.

And like, it's not like I meet her all the time. It's not like I meet her every week. It's like once in a while, you know, a couple months here, a couple months there. You know, but like, yeah. And I could rub her feet for a couple hours. Okay, but wait. Let's just hold on right there. I want to ask you a million questions about rubbing her feet.

So this is a girl that's a friend of yours. Now, does she, like, have a boyfriend or anything? Or is she a single girl? Or is she married? I think she's a single girl. She's a single girl. Okay. From what I know, I don't know.

I don't know. How do you not know? She's a friend of yours? This is a friend of my idea, but it's not like on that deep, like, it's not like. It's not like. Okay, but you know she's not married is what I'm saying. Like she's not married. Yeah, I know she's not married.

Yeah. Okay, cool. So you say, hey, I want to pay you. How much do you wind up paying her per like these foot jobs you're giving her? Like 100, 150. 100, 150? Okay, so let's walk. So walk me through that first.

time. Like, did she have any questions? Like, why are you paying me to rub my feet? Or was she, like, down? Because she just didn't care. She wanted the money. And she was, like, totally into it. No, she actually asked me. She actually asked me. And, yeah. What did she say? She went from, like, okay. But the thing is, I didn't mention that I had a girlfriend. That's the thing. Yeah. But, but, yeah, she was okay with it. Like, at first, you said that at first, like, when I first started sending these pictures, she was like, oh, you talk about them a bit. Yeah. But. After a while, she feels like, okay, or whatever, yeah, that she said to me. And then she just said to me, like, you know, she likes her feet rubbed. Okay. Yeah, she likes her feet rubbed, yeah.

Yeah, but did she wonder why you were going to pay her to rub her feet? Did she have any questions? No, no, not. She didn't care? She just, like, it's money, in it? So it's one of those girls that like money, isn't it? When you get a funny woman that likes money, somebody will just, like... You should pay her to blow you.

there's that saying that there's that saying that would be crazy that will be crazy I think actually what you're doing with her is just as scandalous as a blowjob for a guy who likes nylons and feet and that's what this girl doesn't understand like I remember like having this foot fetish guy Jim Norton actually he's kind of famous he's on opian he was on opian anthony he has his own show and he was like really he's like got a major foot fetish and he just like hound me for pictures of my feet and I was like no No fucking way. Like that's no different than me sending you pictures of my tits because a guy that's

into feet as a fetish, that's a sexual thing. So I'm sorry, there's no difference between her blowing you or her letting you rub her feet because when you're rubbing her feet, you're getting a fucking woody. You're doing that for sex. You're not doing that for relaxation purposes. Of course, of course. Yeah. So it's no difference than having a blowjum.

It's just a sexual. well. Yeah, that's true. That's true. And I think that's why I do feel, I do feel guilty. You know what I'm saying? Well, so what, walk me through what went down? Like, did you bring the pantyhoes? Did she have them? Like, you know, tell me, tell me that whole experience. Oh, I would like tell her what ones I want. Yeah. And then she would just lose them. Okay. Now, talk me through the specific first time. So you said, hey, do me a favor. Go get these exact pair of pantyhoes off of Amazon or something. Like, what did you tell her to get? Oh, I started to get like some nude, nude dialogues, nude ones.

Because like she's, like, she's, what would you call it? Okay, so you know how you've got African American? Yeah. Yeah, she's black? You know, black. You could say black. Yeah, like, yeah, she's black. Yeah, I'm black as well.

So we're both black, yeah. Okay. It's okay to say black, right, as a black person? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I understand. It's just different terminologies in America. Yeah, yeah, I think we could say black here too. Okay, so she's black. You wanted her to wear nude hose.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Ones for black women, there's nude hose for black women. Oh, really? Why? Are they're just darker? Yeah, they're darker, but they look nude. Like, if you look at a black woman's legs, you'll think, oh, she's got, like, are they her legs kind of thing? Or she's wearing something?

So it's the same as like white women as well. Yeah, yeah. Okay, so you're like a typical hoser. You want the nude. You say, get a pair of nude hose. She's like, okay, you go over her house. Now. No, no, no, no.

It's not even in her house. Where is it? In the car. Oh my God, just like where all the other cheating sex is going down. This is what's me. It's so funny. Yeah, it's a bit crazy. Yeah.

Yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's crazy. Yeah. So that's what's what's gone down. No, but walk me through that experience, Carter, Carter, okay? Sorry, I'm going to keep you on track because you're just like glossing over things. Hoosers want to hear this. A lot of hosers love this too.

You know, you've been getting the pleasure of being able to rub a woman's feet, you know, that's wearing panty hose in a car, you're getting hard, like, what's going down? What happens? So, like, I'll just sit there and rub with me, and we'll just have a casual conversation. It's like, you know, when you're sitting on the couch and it with someone? Yeah, yeah, that's how it is.

Yeah. It's like that. It's literally like that. And we're just talking about random topics. I'll probably compliment her on her feet and legs and just rub her legs in it for however long. It could be for two, three hours just sitting there rubbing their feet. Wow.

And she's cool with that, and she loves it. Like, she loves me rubbing her feet. Sometimes she said to me one time, I wonder where Carter is, yeah? Like, you know, so I need my feet right. It's got, she likes it. So, wow. It's like, it's, it's like, you know, and like, it's not that expensive,

you go compared to what probably, you probably get for a blowjob or full sex, you know what I mean? So it's not like that. You know what I mean? And it's better than only fans as well. So, yeah. I'm not saying, I'm not saying I've been on the only fans. I haven't.

I'm just saying this. You're getting a real deal, in it. You know what I mean? Oh no, it's way more hardcore. You're like in real life with somebody. It's totally different. Yeah. Yeah.

It's more salacious too because it is a real thing that you're doing. And if your girlfriend found out, you know, would think it's cheating. Of course. Of course. You know what I mean? Right. You know, it's not like, yeah. But like, let me ask you this.

How many times have you asked your girlfriend to put on panty hose and let you rub her feet? Loads, man. Loads for about five years. Yeah, it's loads. It's loads, man. It's like, message after message. Message, I've actually said to her during intimacy, I'll put these on. And she's like, I don't feel like it.

And this and that. I'll actually work to work out to get really, really aroused and everything, really, really horny and everything during intimacy. And she just doesn't want it. Okay, but what about when you're sitting on the couch watching TV after the kids are asleep and everything? Did you ever say, can you just, like, throw these on and we'll just relax here and talk? and I'm just going to rub your feet while we talk. Have you ever said that?

I've said it once, yeah. She just said, oh, like, you can just run my feet by it, but, you know, without it, you know, kind of thing. No, no, no, okay, this is, listen, we got to fix this fucking situation for once and for all. And we're going to go back to the foot jobs that you're getting behind her back. I don't feel sorry for her that you're doing this because you got to give this girl a couple more chances, but you have to, I do think that you have to stop asking, and you just have to start telling her that this is what you want and you need this to happen or there's like a problem here because it is

a problem. You're starting to actually stray. You don't sound like the type of guy that like the fact that you don't feel good about it isn't cool. Do you want to like do something that you feel bad about it? Like there's one thing when the guy's cheating and he doesn't feel one ounce of guilt, that's fine. But when you're feeling guilty about what you're doing, it's not healthy for you. Because on some level, you don't feel like what you're doing is right, right? Of course not. Of course not. Of course not. No, but some people would feel like they're totally justified. They'd have no guilty feelings about it.

But when you're doing something that you don't feel right about, that's not good for you. You have to do something about it. And I think what you have to do is go to your girl and stop asking her and tell her, like, let me just, like, you have to, first of all. And this is what we said when I did this whole episode recently with this panty hose king guy. And we talked to bigger picture, how to, you know, get your girl into hose, tell her about it, all this stuff. We talked all about educating the women about this, right? Because what you don't understand is it took you your whole life to figure out what your fetish was, what it meant, right? I mean, this started early on, right?

Like any other hoser, you're like, what the fuck? But like you've been dealing with this fetish your whole life. So you understand it. It's a part of you. By at this point, you know, everything about it. You know, but she doesn't, obviously, okay? 100% she doesn't. I do not believe she is coming from the place like I know.

that it means so much to you and that this is a fetish and it is like it's not just a need it's not a you know it's not just a want it's a need she doesn't like she's not coming from the place where she totally understands it and is like fuck you i don't care right i don't believe that but it's coming across that way because i don't believe that most hosers really educate their women on the fucking fetish. And that's what you need to do. You could pass her, you know, podcast episodes, articles. You need to get serious with her and educate her, okay, because she doesn't fucking get it. Okay? Seriously, I do not believe most of these women that will not put on a pair of hose for any hose or out there and won't do what they want. I don't think they understand the fetish in the

slightest or else they wouldn't be like so flipping about it, you know, unless you're dating the biggest, most selfish bitch on the planet, which I doubt you are because like I said, you sound like a very nice, thoughtful guy and like attracts like, you know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, like seriously. And you need to say, hey, you don't blow me and maybe you don't say this, but the fact that like you are okay with that and you understand that about her, she needs to understand this about you. And I believe it is your fault for not explaining it

to her. You're asking her. Hey, can you do this? No. End a story. You don't explain. Like, I need this. This is not just something that I want. I need this. Or else, this is a part of who I am. Do you get it?

That is true. Yeah, I get it totally. I get it totally. And I do think it is about time that I had that serious conversation with her. I think maybe it was a bit of fear of rejects not rejection yeah rejection and also make none we're not rejecting it but in the sense as in rejecting in a way of weird seeming weird of course but i talked about on that episode with that guy because he was like

really focusing a lot on um you know guys who are hosers who also wear you know but i was like what about the hoser that just wants his girl to wear he's like oh well you know how hard is that I'm like, no, you don't understand. A lot of hosers don't really feel comfortable, really putting everything out on the table, even, you know, just in regards to that. And that's like a no big deal. And why I believe that is is because you as a hoser from the day one that this got into your head and you realized you had this thing, it was so overpowering and overwhelming to you.

And you kept it a secret for your whole life that you have it framed as this like horrible thing. Not horrible, but you know what I mean? As a secret, illicit, I can't tell anybody kind of thing. And I have to tell you, if you let it out and put it out in the open, it's not that big of a deal. You're framing it in your head as a much bigger deal because the way you've been living with it. There's no shame in the fact that you want to see your girl wear pantyhones, that she looks fucking sexy in it, that you feel you get a heart on just rubbing her feet, wearing them. There's no shame in that and you have to like fucking own that.

Yeah, yeah, I do because like, I thought about it. You know, you know, you talking just now? I was thinking maybe I can explain to her like and you know how other men like knickers or they like bras, you know, or something like ch-aise or lingerie or lingerie. I'll say that that's my lingerie, you know, because that is because like, for example, my girlfriend sometimes has showed me her black bra. I say that's sexy or knickers and I'm like and I'm thinking to my head. That's not what. That's not what gets me going. But that's what you have, instead of keeping it in your head, you have to tell her.

Like that's not what gets me going. I tried. I tried to, but she got upset. So I left it, yeah. Wait, what do you mean? What did she, what happened? Like, she was like kind of like saying, I look sexy and whatever. I say, yeah, you do.

But like, I said to her like, no, she was like, I said to her, that's not really turning me on. So it was the wrong way I said it though. But I could have said it maybe as in, like, But that is sexy. But you know what's even sexier for me is like put these on. Like trust me like for some reason like seeing a girl wear that ever since I'm like a little kid. Like that is what I fucking love. That's it.

Yeah. No big deal. And you know what I also said on that episode because I've tried it and it's like, you know, I don't know if your girl likes lingerie and stuff. They do make these like really hot like full body panty hose. outfits that are really like sexy looking, you know, and it's not just like a panty hose that comes up to your waist and

you know, you feel it on your stomach and you have a panty liner, you know. It's like a whole body suit and it's see through, you know, and it's got like crotchless, but it's panty hose. So you're kind of like in case, but it's hot. It's like a hot sexy outfit. I know, I think

it is, yeah. I bought her one before. Oh, you did? Okay. And? Yeah, yeah. She she wore it, yeah. But then, like, she kind of didn't like it after. She kind of got a bit funny about it, you know, so. What did she say? It's like, she was like, oh, like, he didn't feel comfortable or he didn't feel comfortable.

And also, I think it was how, like, she, yeah, she felt, yeah, she didn't feel comfortable because she's all about she wants to be free. You know, you got those women that want to just be free. And, you know, like, hippieish. Is it hippie? Who care? Well, you know what? I mean, listen, at a certain point, who cares what she wants? this is what you want. You want blowjobs too, but you're settling for never getting them again in your life by dating her. So, sorry. You know, me, you know, unfortunately, you might be going to live with someone who's never going to fully into it, but do it for you, but she should do it for you. Because, you know, it shouldn't always just be about what she wants. Great. She wants to be free, but you want her to wear that. So who wins, you know? Most likely she's going to win most of the time and she's going to be free most of the time. You're not asking.

asking her to do this 24-7. Be free, you know, 27 days out of the month and three days, take it for the team. What's a big fucking deal? Yeah, it's not a big deal, like, you know what I mean? Because, like, even, I was going to say, it's my birthday coming out. It's my birthday coming up. Yeah. And I was going to drop this line.

This is one of my tips. Oh, yes, he dropped this line to her. No one's taking tips from you, okay? You're a failure. I know, I failed them, but, you know, but I was going to drop these. I was going to drop this too. You know what? I'm going to run these tips back because I thought of it.

but okay let's hear so everybody sits by you so one of them is like it's my birthday or it's like a present that you want your girlfriend wants to get you yeah so are you in hose

like buy me buy me you in hose yeah buy me a you in hose present yeah let me rub your feet yeah for the whole day I'll be happy that's my birthday present yeah perfect yeah or um yeah so I was gonna drop it like like that to her sorry my coughing okay because

because I think that will kind of make her feel like okay she's like she'll like I feel like it's a resistance, yeah. And I think on that day, I was thinking maybe I could explain to her how deep it is. Because also, she sent me a pornography video, yeah, the other day, yeah. About what she, what more stuff she likes me to do to her, yeah. Like what? And what was in that?

It's basically what I'd do anyway with her, like rub her breast. She loves her breast, we rubbed constantly around her body. And I do it all the time. But I think she wanted it when the blindfold on whatever. Yeah, great. But you need to explain to her, like, you know how you like, this, well, that's how I feel about rubbing your feet in panty hose.

So I'll give you your fantasy if you give me mine. So what I said to her, yeah, what I did with her, that's a good idea. So I will say that to her as well. But what she, what I also did with her is I sent her a video of that same thing, but the woman was wearing hose at the same time.

Oh, okay, good. Sorry, I cut you off because that's important. Okay, and what did she say? And then she was like, oh, I like, I like the tights. I like the hose, yeah? So I'm going to, I'm going to Next time we do be intimate, yeah. I'm going to do the same thing in the video. I'll say, so I put these on first and let's do what we did in the video.

Okay, she said I like the hose. What was the difference with those hose? Like, what was it about them that she liked? Do you need to get her the hose she liked? Oh, it was patterned ones. It was patterned ones. Oh, okay, so that's what you need to get her. But the thing is, I've got a lot of pattern ones before.

So I don't know. Who cares? Start rubbing her tits while she wears it. She'll just get so horny as she'll forget. Yeah, that's what I'm thinking to do with that, you know, because I do think, yeah, I do believe it can work. You know, you said, explain to her how deep of a thing it is for me. I don't want to explain it to her senses, you know, how she likes me rubbing her breasts and she likes me doing certain things or acting certain, being a certain way in the bedroom. It's like, I'm going to say the same thing.

Like, you know how you got your thing? I got my thing, yeah? Yeah. Yeah. And, but you also need to let her know how common it is. you need to let her educate. And because I said this, because there's been a couple hosers who have been on, who had girlfriends, and they came on with their girlfriends because their girlfriends

were full-fledged into it after not being into it at all. And what happened with those women were they were very curious. They were built like me. They wanted to know a lot about it. And when their guy put it on the table, they went and did all this searching on the internet to learn all about it. And then they got fully like into it once they understood it. Now, most women are not going to be that aren't wired that way, right?

Not everyone is so curious about everything that they're going to go do all the research. So that's where you come in. You know, you have to also know that it might not be one serious conversation. There might need to be more. Think about how long it got you. It took you to understand your fetish for yourself, right? You can't expect her to understand it in one convo. But if she's not the type that's going to go educate herself, you need to do that.

and you need to go and find, like, you could pass her podcast, you could pass her, look for actual information so she could see that, how common this is. This is a fetish, okay, use the word, sorry, fucking own it. Use the word, and it's a common one, and a lot of guys have this. That's true, that is sweet, because I knew a guy that had it in real life. You have it in real life. Huh? You're the one that has it in real life.

What do you mean? No, no, no. I had a friend. I've got a friend. I've got a friend who's passed away now, yeah. But he actually, we were in a bar together. He was in the bar with me and my friend yet and a few other work colleagues. Yeah? And he just said to me randomly, he likes tight.

He randomly came out open to it. He loves it. He's talking about what colours, all the kind of things around everyone, around everyone. Yeah, he didn't care. But then, no, seriously, you've done it, yeah? And then after, I started, I started, I thought, oh shit, I've heard so that really likes what I like. You know, he's really interested in a dude, you know? It's funny, yeah?

And did one guy say something weird about him when he was talking about it? No, no, no, no, no one never gave a shit. No one never gave, no one never gave a shit. People were just like, at first they were laughing, yeah, but then after they just stopped and say, yeah, whatever. Yeah. But I think it's because they were laughing because maybe some of them might be into it secretly at that low. You know what I mean? And what was funny is that after, I actually told him that I'm into the same thing.

And then every now and then it was like, this was when I was like in my early 20s, I'm in my 30s now. Yeah. But remember every now of then, you know, we used to point out. the girls that we look and the girls who wore tight yeah like nylon yeah we like that color we don't like that color it was like it was quite interesting because you feel like someone understands you you know what right but you know you need to like wouldn't that be great to have your partner at home understand you in that way and you need to give her the time and space to get to that point like i said don't expect it to happen in one conversation even if you get pullback the first time you can't

stop okay this is a part of who you are and if you're going to why you're you're going to why you up putting a ring on it and you have like a lot of things not on the table with this girl you know plus there's no hose wearing or anything those hand jobs those foot jobs in the car might turn into something else five years from now if you're still with this person who's denying you everything you want and then some so you have to like be more proactive about it and you have to really be very honest about your fetish and I love that you're a hose because you don't wear right you just want her to wear right? You don't know where.

Yeah. Because Pantios King is like, oh, those guys don't have a problem telling them. I'm like, yes, they do. Like, there's a plenty of guys. Like, they just feel weirded out about the fact that they have that because you feel weird because of how you positioned it in your brain. It's not a weird thing. Like you said, it's no different than a guy who likes.

Some guys are boob guys. Some guys are ass guys. Some guys like you said, like bras. Some guys love lingerie. Some guys love a woman dressed in a lot. a fucking business suit. Like everybody has their things that they're like she loves her breast being rubbed. I don't love my breast being rubbed.

That's specific to her. So you need to let her. No, I don't care as much as she does. Like you said, she's like sending you videos of it. No, that's not very normal. That's not like a common thing. That's her thing. But everybody has their things.

And that's what you need to know. But you need to let her know this is more than a thing. It's a fucking fetish. That's, there's a difference. Because I try to, um, Because I tried to, I remember one time I tried to send her a video for like, this is wild, but I sent her porn, a woman in the, like, nylon's in it and all that kind of stuff,

having sex with someone and whatever. I don't know if I said, like I have a conversation with her and then send her some website that talk about those fetishes and why it's common and why it's normal and that majority of men across the world have it, because it is worldwide of all cultures or all nationalities because you can find pornography of black men, Asian men, white men,

all lacking women in nylon's light, you know? So it is a real common thing. And if it wasn't a common thing, you've got women on YouTube posted nylon content on YouTube. Oh my God, I have a girl you would love. Melanie, you know, you should be on my Patreon because you'd find, but I'm going to give you free access

to my Discord so you could talk to some other hosers. You need some help. I spoke to Melanie. Is it the French guy? I mean, I was supposed to be a French one. Yes. Why don't you date her? Where do you live?

I live like UK, London, yeah, but she's really cool, man. She's really cool. She's fucking your girlfriend. You should date her instead. Okay, why don't you... This woman is too old for you, first of all. Okay, when she turns 50, I don't know, just start dating Melanie. This is a girl who's...

She loves... I know, I've heard. Let me tell you, she has given guys foot jobs, meaning she's taking her... She, like, literally gave a guy a foot job, meaning she put on pantyhose and then, you know, rubbed his dick with them, with her feet, okay? That's the kind of girl you could have with Melanie. Yeah, they're rare, man. They're like unicorns. They're like unicorns, like, because I've heard that podcast.

And I thought, you know, when I heard that podcast, I thought it was some, I thought it was a, it was a good of dream. Because I've never heard that before in my life. Like, normally it's the man that's got the woman into it, you know, but she's generally got her own self into it. Yeah, and let me tell you, she was one of those girls who was so curious. When she joined my Patreon, I was like, this is a joke. This is a lie. There's no woman. Like, she literally joined my Patreon to learn about hosers.

That's how her brain works. That, you know, and like I said, that's very similar to these other guys who have come on the show with their girls. And it was those kinds of girls that want to know more, that want to, you know. And then the more they know, the more they get into it. And then before you know it, like she's like fucking getting off on guys wearing panty hose. Melanie's whole story is so fascinating. But like I said, since most girls aren't that way, you know, and that's okay because everyone's wire different. You have to do what those girls did, which is, you know, have your girl learn about it.

And you're the one that needs to teach her. Sorry. No, I'm going to teach her. I'm going to teach her. I'm going to show her the ways. I'm going to show her. No, but why don't you let her listen to my podcast? You're not on there on the podcast.

Your episodes are my Patreon so she'd never know them. Let her listen to Hozer episodes. Be like there's this whole podcast I found. It's all about Hozers. There's millions of them. There are tons of them out there. Like this is a common thing. Like you need to,

it's not just a, you know, at this point the conversations are not just about what you want her to do. These conversations are about educating her on the fetish in general, first and foremost. Because then what she's equipped with all of the information and everything. And like I said, it's not one conversation.

and it might be 10, if she doesn't wear for you, for your fucking foot job, you should be like, bye-bye. Most women will cook for you and clean for you and take care of your baby. That's a very common woman thing, okay? It's not that rare. And most with those same women that will do all that will also blow you and touch your dick, okay?

It's not like you've got some rare breed there with, okay? Like, you know, so I'm just saying like, give her a chance. You really need to. I doubt, listen, most women, I don't know, I just see most women as like, nice. Like, most women aren't selfish. Most women want to please their guy. You know, most women want to make their man happy. I just think she doesn't understand it, you know, and I think, you know, if you give her a shot, you know, she'll come around.

I believe that's more likely to happen than if it doesn't. And that's why I say leave her if it doesn't because that's crazy. That would be crazy. If she knew, like, how important it is to you and all this stuff. stuff and she still was like, no. Like, that's fucked up. That would be as bad as you saying, hey, I know you were sexually abused

and it doesn't make you feel good to blow me, but my cock's going in your mouth because I don't give a fuck. You know, that would be rude, right? You would never do that to her. So I... No, no, because that's horrible. That's horrible.

Right. So why would she do that to you once you really explain it to her? I don't believe that's what she's doing to you now. I don't believe that's how she sees the situation now. She doesn't see it that way. She thinks this is just something that you're into and she's not into it.

So no big deal. And then the conversation ends and, you know, you're not seemingly that unhappy. What if she found out about these foot jobs? Can we just go back? We have like 10 more minutes. Can we go back to the foot jobs? How many foot jobs have you given to this girl?

So five. Okay. Yeah. But like, yeah, they've been for long hours. Just rubbing her feet. Of course. I can imagine. And that's what I'm going to say.

the tips for a lot of guys out there is to actually find a friend that you know she's comfortable with and talk to her, just talk to her about it, just introduce it to her. Say to her, oh, I like nylon or whatever. And just drop it to her friend and just say to her, look, yeah, I'll pay you, yeah?

Listen, if she, if you like soft rubs, she'll do that. Okay, well, why don't you throw your girl $200 to do it? Is she just your girl like money? Like, maybe she could go out and buy a cute outfit with it? No, no, no. She's not like that. Oh, okay.

She's well off, in it, yeah. Okay. But, like, but yeah, I'll just say to men, if you can do that, because it does work. It works. It works. It's like, that's proof in the pudding that it works, yeah? Yeah, with that girl, I mean, listen, I told you when that foot fetish guy was asked me to send picks, I was like, go after yourself. I'm sorry. I'm not like, to me, I'm not going to give myself sexually for money.

But some people will, you know? I don't know that that's such a great tip. I think what the greatest tip is, okay? and I talked about this on my last Patreon exclusive episode and I'm talking about it with you and it's so important. Work as hard as you can to get the girl in front of you, your partner to get on board.

It's not a hard ask. You're not a guy that's into SCAT. You know what SCAT is? It's like pooping on people, okay? Yeah, that's crazy. Yeah, you're not into golden showers. You don't want to piss on her face and have her drink it. You're not into, like there's so many other things

that are so much more hardcore. It's a big, no big deal fetish. You know what I should do? I should give my friend your Patreon deal because he's into that shit. Of course. He would love it. Why doesn't he call into the show and talk to us? What is he into?

Scat or Panios? He's not. He's into pissing. Like, pissing. He's into all kinds of shit. If you heard my friend there, if you heard my friend, you think it'd come from two different parties?

Because the way he talks about sexually. Wait, I just got. got a great idea. Okay. Why don't you invite your friend over and you guys get in a discussion about fetishes with your girl and let him tell your girl all about his fetish and then you could tell her about yours. And in comparison, she's going to fucking be crying of happiness that you're not your friend. Okay. Oh yes. You watch you were like, oh. Yeah. Put it into fucking perspective. Okay. Invite your friend over to talk about his fetish with your girl. Okay. And then two days later, talk about

yours, hey, babe, you know, I just want to tell you, I got a fetish too. She's going to be horrified thinking you want her to piss on you too. And then when you tell her, it's going to be no big deal. I already knew that about you. I didn't know it was your fetish, you know, when the conversation goes on. Yeah, yeah, I should do that. And I said, you're a joke, yeah, mess around it. Yeah, of course, you know, or you could bring that up when you tell her, listen, you know, I have friends that have other kinds of fetishes that are so much her car, this isn't a big deal. But if you understand what a fetish is, it's like something that's very powerful. And it's not something that I could live without. And, you know, and you, you know, and you,

you need to know that. So you need to know that. It's not like I just want you to let me give you a foot massage. I need you to allow that to happen. And I'm willing to compromise with you. I don't want you to do it. It doesn't have to happen every single day. But I need this like a certain amount of time.

I just do. Yeah. Or we're going to have a problem. Yeah, I should do, you know, because sometimes you ask me to rob her feet and legs. That'd be quick. I'll be quick. But she asked me to rob her feet. feet and legs here. I do rub it yet. But I should say

to her at the same time, more at the time, man, like, oh, nylon's please. You have to wear nylon. We're both happy. You're going to get your feet rubbed and I'm going to get what I want. Why shouldn't it be equal? It's only there. That's what I thought was weird because, like, when I used to say that to me, I thought to myself, you know, when you think

logically, you think, like, you know, like, you like, if you take someone for dinner. Yeah. And then, like, you say to you're going to take someone for dinner. And then you both agree on what you both like to where to go to. Yeah. And then you say,

oh, I like going here, you like going there, it's a cool, yeah? Yeah. I thought it was like that as in like, oh, you like footbrubs,

put your nylon on. We're all cool. Yeah. But it's nothing like that. It's just so, I find it so bizarre. You know, she was like,

she was cold. I think you put the heating on. It's they put the heating on. You know? Yeah, I don't get it. Yeah, I don't get it.

I mean, listen, she might be selfish. I don't know. You're going to have to find that out. And like I said, if at the end of the day, you know, you have some decisions to make because, you know, any woman who comes from that place of, I know that this is really important for you. I know that you need this

with all of your being and that this is a fetish and that this is not going anywhere. But I'm still not going to fucking do it for you. I don't know. Who wants to be with that person? Yeah, I get what you're saying. It can be tough sometimes because sometimes you're finging it is off. As I said, like, you know, my friend, I can pay them and they do whatever. So I'm like, what's, what's so hard about you? You know, what's so hard? You know what I mean? But as you said, you're right.

She doesn't know the extent of it. She doesn't. How much I like it. Yeah. And you have to give her that opportunity. So my tip, I know you called it to give your tips. But like I said, no one's listening to your tips because you're a fucking failure with your girlfriend, okay?

You're cheating on her and getting foot jobs somewhere else. Okay. So let's start with you using my tips. and you educating your girl and taking the time to do that in multiple conversations, constantly bringing it up, really letting her know, and then starting to ask her to see. And then please do me a favor and let's get a great update. I would love to see this whole story turn around. Pass on podcasts.

Pass on, you know, informational, like, you know, like website, something. You know, let her really get her in the know. Yeah. And then let me know what happens. I'm going to play, I'm going to play Melanie's one to her. Yeah, oh my God, that would be the greatest thing. That's so smart. Yeah, I'm not playing hard.

Because that's coming from a woman in front of you. Yeah, and then, no, no, no. And then there's one, John and Roxy, okay? Remember them. John and Roxy, and they were more hardcore, like they started wearing together. But she was one of those girls, that episode, she was one of those girls that I'm talking about that started educating herself on it because she wasn't into it at first with him, you know?

Yeah. And then she started educating herself. And then she got, like, more into it than him. So you got to, yeah, those episodes, that's so smart. That's where you start 100%. It's such a great perspective. She's going to feel very comfortable listening to a girl talk about that, you know? Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, it's great. Yeah, I love it. Thanks, Kathy. I really appreciate it. Awesome. Okay, so keep me posted, do your thing. You have homework and then get back to me, okay? I'm going to give you free access to my discourse so you could go talk to hosers, okay?

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