Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 944 - Lara Loves Women, Threesomes and Orgies and More

Episode Date: October 17, 2024

Lara loves women and threesomes and orgies and more and she called in to talk all about it. When did she realize she was bisexual and hooking up with women, when did she start swinging with her husban...d and what exactly did they like to do, why did she start cheating on him and how did she find out he was cheating on her as well, how one of the guys she was cheating with enjoyed watching her have sex with other guys, how one of the guys he set her up with became her new boyfriend, how her and her current boyfriend started swinging and doing kinky things right from the start, how he made her squirt, how she can orgasm from giving a blowjob, their orgy with a lesbian couple at a swingers club and exactly what went down, how their extremely open communication is the key to their great sex, how they’ve tried golden showers, the second orgy they had with 5 couples and exactly what went down, how she’s dated a woman and why that dint work out, how and why their completely open relationship works how she’s going to school to be a therapist and why she wants to focus on sex therapy and a whole lot more. **To see pics of Lara plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:01:44 I don't deal in the X-rated stuff myself, but that stuff goes down on my Discord. So if you want to hang out and talk to people and post stuff with like-minded people, post stuff for like-minded people, join my Patreon and then you'll get on my Discord. Just go to Patreon.com. slash strictly anonymous podcast. It's petri-on.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The link will be in the description. Now listen, if you're looking to get on an app and look for people to have a threesome or hook up with or a couple to, you know, have sex with or you just want to open up your relationship, I can now
Starting point is 00:02:19 offer you a free trial to SDC. Okay, that's a free trial. You want to check it out. It's sdc.com. Use my code 37712. that's 3-7712 or just go to the description and click the link. SDC is great. I've always been wanting to partner up with an adult dating site.
Starting point is 00:02:38 I chose SDC because that's the one that most of my callers are on and the one that most of my callers like the most. They're all over. They're worldwide. So, you know, you could go on there and meet like-minded people in your area or if you're traveling and you want to hook up with someone on vacation. You're going to be able to find people there.
Starting point is 00:02:56 And what's also great about it is not only can you meet people on there, You could also find out about all the Swinger events and Swinger parties and hotel takeovers and swinger clubs and gangbings, you name it. It's all on that site. And you get a free trial, like I said, just use my code 37712 or go to the description and click on the link and you'll be taken right there. Now listen, let's get to my episode today. Now, if you heard my last episode with Sam, then you know that his girl Erica was
Starting point is 00:03:29 coming on and I told you she does not disappoint and you're going to see why. She doesn't disappoint in her pictures either. I have pictures. Anonymous pictures of Erica. If you want to see her anonymous picks, you could join my Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. Now she has an interesting backstory. She got married super young, had a lot of kids, was cheating like crazy. Her husband was cheating and she was always into S-E-X, like from the get-go. She was swinging with her first husband. She was really into girls, but she was cheating on her husband. And one of the guys she was cheating on her, like, got her into hotwifing. He was like, hey, you should like bang my friends. I would love to like see that. And she talks
Starting point is 00:04:14 about a couple scenarios of that, you know, that guy set up. And one of them was a scenario with the guy she's with now, Sam's. And then she winds up having this relationship with Sam. And they do all kinds of stuff. They are really like sexual soulmates, but they're also like soulmates on every other level. They've had orgies. They do golden showers. She hooks up with girls. They have like all kinds of stuff going down and she explains it all. She's
Starting point is 00:04:41 great. You're going to love her stories. You're going to love her. And like I said, if you want to see her, go to my Patreon page. But anyway, I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Erica. Hi, Erica. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing well. Thank you. How are you? I'm good. I'm a little excited to talk to a hot wife, only because I know it's like a hot topic. You know, and you want to tell me your whole hot wife origin story. You're in a partnership. Is this a husband or a boyfriend that you
Starting point is 00:05:14 have? It's a boyfriend. Okay. Cool. Okay, cool. Now, how long have you guys been dating? We've been together about 15, 16 months now. Oh, okay. So that's brand new. I love it. You sound super young. I'm not. I'm almost 40. No, you're not. Well, you're very immature because you sound super young. And that's because that's why not immature, but you're young at heart because you haven't been married yet. You have no kids. Do you have kids? I do. Oh, you do? I have four children. Yeah. Oh, wow. Interesting. Okay. So I'm so wrong, but that's like really, you sound like you're 25, but I'm going to change your voice. So you might sound really old when I change your voice. All right.
Starting point is 00:05:58 So you're almost 40. You have four kids. I don't even want to go there yet. So you've been dating a new guy. Were you ever married before this guy? Well, yes. I was married when I met my partner. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:06:11 So where do you want to begin? Okay, because I feel like there's a lot here. So I'll just begin at the beginning about the, the around 2021 January of 2021 I began hooking up with a family friend okay but you were married what was going on in that marriage at the time okay um so back up for my marriage my ex-husband was quite a bit older than I am and when we first got together I was only 20 years old and we began swinging almost immediately. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:51 How are you not going to tell me about that? You have to start there. Sorry, but we can't. We'll get to the hot wife and, but let's talk about swinging with the first husband. So we started swinging within maybe a couple months of dating. Uh-huh. And it started because I told him that I was bisexual and I enjoyed, you know, sexual experiences with women.
Starting point is 00:07:16 And I hadn't had very many of them, but I knew, like, I've known forever that I was bisexual. Right. So he brought up the idea of, like, going to a swingers club. And the first time we went, I actually had to use a fake ID. Because you were that young? Why, you had to be, like, 20 to get in? I was, yeah, and I was 20. Oh, my goodness.
Starting point is 00:07:37 And so for about six months, going to the swingers club, I was using a fake ID. And we only did kind of girl on girl. play. We did some soft swap and we're like, you know, partners would swap and just go down on the male partner. But like primarily it was only you with the girl, me with the girl. And then he and the partner would be watching. Or we'd just have three sums with another girl. He didn't like me being with another guy. But, and he pretty much, you know, he would look at couples online if we were like meeting them for dinner or drinks. So we did that for. we got married 18 months later when I was 21 and we did we did the lifestyle stuff probably for
Starting point is 00:08:24 about three or four years together and then we started having kids and life started getting busy and we just stopped doing it and about nine years ago I left him for the first time I had been seeing someone else that I met and I realized I didn't want to be married anymore. And things were never great between my husband and I. Like looking back, I realized way too young, just didn't know what I needed in a partner. Of course. And just the marriage wasn't great. The sex was not good at all.
Starting point is 00:09:03 Like looking back, I realized the swinging was the hotness in our relationship. And then once that was gone, there was nothing. That's interesting. There was no real physical connection there. But we ended up getting back together for the kids' sake. I had two more kids. And things were just pretty shitty all around. And he actually has his own place just due to some work situations.
Starting point is 00:09:33 And I had gone to drive him during COVID and dropped him off at his apartment, went inside and fell to wine glasses. in the sink. And I realized. And I had seen like a couple things on his phone. He had had a surgery and I had his phone and I saw a couple things on there that were definitely questionable. So at that point, I was just kind of like, all right, if you're going to fuck around,
Starting point is 00:10:02 I'm going to fuck around too. And so the opportunity presented itself in January of 2021 and I started hooking up with a family friends. Now, was this a guy? This is your guy now. I know you want to call him Sam. Now, was Sam? So this is not the guy. Oh, this is not the guy. Oh, okay. This is a different guy. Oh, okay. So I'll call this guy Tim. Okay. So Tim and I start hooking up January of 2021. And in March of 2021, he brings up hot-wifing to me. Oh, okay. And he, I hadn't really heard of it before. I didn't really know what it was, but I, one of my kinks is just like anonymous facts. And I had not really done it, but I always thought it was really hot. And he was like,
Starting point is 00:10:53 I'm going to have my friends just come fuck you. And you're not going to know them ahead of time. And it could be a guy or a girl. And at first it was just like bedroom talk. But then he ended up setting it up with one of his friends. And his friend came to the house, came to my house. We banged. He left. And then Tim and I, like, it was really hot for us. Like, the next time we were together just talking about it.
Starting point is 00:11:25 Yeah. So then he ends up setting me up with Sam. And Sam and I start texting, which I hadn't done with the first guy. So this is interesting. So Tim, the guy you're just like hooking up with because he's like into you begging other guys, he winds up connecting you with Sam, the guy you're with now. Yes. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:11:50 So Sam ends up texting me and immediately we hit it off. Just on a very, you know, surface, sexual level. Like, you know, we're sending each other news. And he is a daddy dom. And so he was talking about that. And I didn't have any experience in BDSM, but I was curious because I'm into rough sex. So I said we started texting for about a week before we met. And we set the date.
Starting point is 00:12:25 He came over to my house. And we had like the most amazing sex of my entire life that very first time. and we set the date. He came over to my house and we had like the most amazing sex of my entire life that very first time. Now, are you living with your husband? I mean, or is it? And you just do it in the house when your husband's out. Oh, you're rarely nodding.
Starting point is 00:12:55 Right. Yes. Yeah. Yes. So we have, I mean, the most. amazing sex. He makes me squirt for the first time ever, our very first time. Oh, wow. And you had never squirted before. I had never squirted before. Interesting. Uh-huh. And we, you know, started off with a blowjob. He fucked me. He made me squirt. We had anal. I mean, we did it all
Starting point is 00:13:27 the first time. It was amazing. And afterwards, we were both kind of like, what the fuck? Because he was also in a relationship. And Tim was actually on the phone listening to us the whole time. Okay. That first time. So I kind of realized right from the start that, wow, this was something a lot different. And Sam and I just continued texting, and then we just started hooking up any chance we could. Oh, without even Tim being the Wrangler.
Starting point is 00:14:06 Yes. Oh, okay. Yes. So things with Tim went by the wayside pretty quickly after that. Yeah. And Sam and I, like, we started talking, you know, talking on the phone, texting, and it evolves past, like, the hookup into a relationship. Oh, okay. And we still, you know, continued to see each other and bang as much as possible. and then we went to a swingers club like two or three months in.
Starting point is 00:14:41 Because I had told him, look, same thing I did with my husband. Like, I'm really into girls. Yeah. And he had done some lifestyle stuff in a previous marriage. So, you know, he was down to explore. And so it's really just taken off from there. Yeah, but let me ask you a question because you got four kids, okay, and a husband. and you're cheating.
Starting point is 00:15:05 Like, where do you find the time? Where do you tell your husband you're going when you go to that Swingers Club the first time with him? I was watching the kids. The kids were with him. Yeah. I just told him that I was having a girl's night for my birthday. And I don't like lying. I don't, it's not something I like to do.
Starting point is 00:15:27 And primarily the cheating I was doing was during the day, like when the kids were at school. Right, right. And I'm in school full time, so it was conducive to that. So from there, so we went to the Swingers Club the first time and just had a very natural time together. That was kind of our first big date out. And we had gone out for drinks and stuff, but not really spent a whole night together before. And I actually had my first experience with a lesbian couple that night. Where? At the swingers club?
Starting point is 00:16:04 At the swingers club. And how did that go down? Normally, I mean, I haven't heard that one before. I know. I had, so when I had been swinging previously, I had never seen lesbian couples. Yeah, that's what I mean. Yeah, that's pretty rare, right? I think it's more common now. Oh, interesting. I don't know. I mean, 15 years later, 17 years later, I think it's more common. Oh, yeah, you're right. Were they younger? Yeah, they were younger.
Starting point is 00:16:31 I would say 20s. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And we kind of just ended up in like an orgy situation. Like they had actually brought a guy with them. Uh-huh. So it was the two women, the guy, and then Sam. And we all, we ended up in this playroom that was just a big round bed. And I was sucking off Sam while one of the girls.
Starting point is 00:16:58 was beating me out and I was kind of alternating between Sam and this other guy and it just kind of turned into like a no whole bar everyone's doing everyone that like everyone's messing around yeah and did the lesbians fool around with guys during that little yeah so sam was like fingering the one and she was sporting all over and um and sam's just like an incredible lover like I can't I can't even begin to go there. You know, like it's just unbelievable. Definitely, we're on the upward pleasure spiral because every single time we're, I mean, we're a full on couple now, you know, 16 months later.
Starting point is 00:17:48 Yeah. And we, you know, are fucking all the time. And it's just as good every single time. Right. It's not better. Yeah, yeah, yeah. How's not. So that lesbian.
Starting point is 00:17:58 couple orgy. So it was the two women, you and then the guy they brought and your guy, all just getting it up. Uh-huh. Yes. So that was a great first experience with him at the Swingers Club. Definitely wanted, left to be wanting more. And throughout the fall, we just started doing other stuff. Like we started bringing in single guys and having three thumbs. We started doing this more BDSM play and developing our relationship, like, as the month went by. I ended up leaving my husband in October. Okay, so what happens, like, is it because you're, like, so involved with Sam emotionally at this point, and you want to be with him?
Starting point is 00:18:49 No, it was really just a culmination. Like, you know, Sam was maybe a little bit of a catalyst, but. Yeah. My ex-husband and I, we had been in counseling. We had been just actively trying to kind of save our marriage and it was going nowhere. Uh-huh. And so we separated and it's very amicable. There's no, you know, animosity there or anything.
Starting point is 00:19:13 He did not know about Sam at the time. And so everything on that front, it was just the marriage had really run its course. Like it was the wrong match from the jump. Yeah, and you know, listen, I think there's always going to be people that can get married in their 20s and last forever. And they're the fucking lucky ones, you know, but most of the time, I would say the majority of people, the thing about being in your 20s is that you really like grow a lot and very fast. Like every year you could be like a different person. You're really not formed yet into who you are. So the chances of, you know, staying on the same path with somebody that you meet very early on and grow up.
Starting point is 00:19:56 Each person grows and changes in life. That's what life is about. It's just natural thing that happens. The chances of you growing and changing and still being on the same page or wanting the same things is easy. You know, it doesn't happen all the time. So I think that's the reason why people just grow apart. And I love that you don't put a negative spin on it. You're like, it's just like what had happened.
Starting point is 00:20:16 And there is no animosity. Like it was what it was for the time that it was, but it wasn't meant to be forever. Like you were a different person 10 years later. Agree. Right. And we were married, you know, for 15, 16 years. It's a long time. It was a long time.
Starting point is 00:20:31 And I just, you know, I didn't know what I needed in a partner when I was young. Because you didn't even know yourself. You don't even fucking know who you are yet. You have to figure all that out. That's what your 20s are all about. And that's what's great about it. You're just trying out different things. I was in my 20s.
Starting point is 00:20:47 I understand if I married anyone in my 20s, I would have been divorced five times, too. You know what I mean? I would have had all the lovers too. it's because it's but listen there's always going to be people that can do it and I'm not saying every person that gets married in their early 20s isn't going to last but I think a lot of people wind up looking across them and be like who the fuck are you and why did I marry you 10 years later because you're a different person and a lot of people stay together because they have kids uh you know and because it is very hard to do that kind of thing to your kids and I get that's probably you probably
Starting point is 00:21:18 stayed an extra seven years just for your kids right I mean you 100% yeah so anyway So you left him. It was time to move on. And now you're dating Sam. Now, did you say that Sam was in another relationship as well, or was that Tim? He was. Oh, okay. Yes.
Starting point is 00:21:35 And that also has ended. He was not married. How old is he? So he's older than I am as well. He's 16 years older than I am. So he's 55? He's 54. Okay, cool.
Starting point is 00:21:48 All right. So he's 54. He was in just a relationship. He wasn't married anymore or anything like that. Mm-hmm. Okay. Right. And that relationship, I think, had also, I mean, I know had also run its course.
Starting point is 00:22:00 It was just one of those things where there was a lot of comfort and convenience there. Yeah. So, yeah, we just, you know, we continued just going deeper on every level. And it's continued throughout this time. I mean, sexually, it's pure fire, but then emotionally, spiritually, spiritually. it's equally that intense. Oh, interesting. So you're really like met your right person for you.
Starting point is 00:22:31 And you knew that immediately, right? I knew it. The first time we kissed, I knew it. Yeah, interesting. Uh-huh. And did he, does he feel the same way? Like it was, he knew right away. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:41 He does as well. But we've maintained an open relationship this entire time as well. Interesting. And now how, so, because you met like in a different kind of way. It wasn't like you met. Match.com, you know, you met just as a hookup and then the feelings came later. And I've said this before my show that a lot of times that's the easier way to get into things because you're not really thinking, oh, I got to, you know, lock this guy down. So I have to hide who I am because
Starting point is 00:23:08 maybe if he thinks I give too good ahead, he won't bring me home to his mom. You know what I mean? Like you're not, you don't care. So you went in fully like, I'm into all this shit. And he was too. And you've been having like the best time. Yes. And that's, that's it. And that's it. And And we've talked about that so many times because if you meet someone in a vanilla way and you have all of these fantasies, you're so sexually open to many different things, you're going to have that guard up like, well, what if they think, you know, I'm a whore. What if they think I'm a slut? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:23:42 What if they think I'm nasty? Yeah. Whereas he's like, I think you're a slut and you're nasty. And he loves that. It's positive, right. He's positive. Yeah, exactly. And I feel like I can bear my entire self to him in every way.
Starting point is 00:24:01 And there's zero judgment. It's just deepens our connection. Yeah. And how great is that? Because you don't have, and probably for him too, he's older than you. So, you know, he doesn't, he also, I mean, I think a guy that's really into the lifestyle and into all these kind of kinky things would also have the same trouble sitting across from a girl that he met on Match.com and saying,
Starting point is 00:24:25 hey, like, I want to see you fuck other people. You want to go to Swingers Club? I mean, she'd run away, you know? Right. She's like, what's wrong with you? Right. And for us, I mean, we do do lifestyle things, but we keep it limited.
Starting point is 00:24:39 And we say, like, we're a couple in the lifestyle. We're not a lifestyle couple. Because we've found, you know, there's some couples where it just becomes their entire identity. Yeah. And he, you know, he kind of had a sense. similar experience, like his lifestyle experience came later in his marriage, but it was a band-aid over a dying relationship,
Starting point is 00:25:03 not something that we, you know, that you kind of enter in because you both think it's super hot. So it's been really, really fun and interesting. I am actually in grad school, would become a therapist and I would like to be like a sex and relational therapist because I think that, especially for women. women in our society, there's still just a stigma for women who love sex, who are empowered in the bedroom to know what they want, to know how to get what they want, to voice what they want. And there's so many couples that have either a deathbed or they have like a loss of
Starting point is 00:25:45 connection across their entire relationship because their sexual connection isn't strong. Yeah, it's a definite piece of the pie that has to be there. It's not the end-all, be-all. I mean, you know the opposite couple who like, all the sex is so great, but not any other part is good. So that doesn't laugh either, you know. Right. They're like toxic as fuck. Everyone is. Yeah, yeah. That's been my whole life. Okay. That was my relationship. The sex was the only good thing. Everything else was bad. But, you know, so it's, it's important. It's a big part of it. It's not, like I said, it's not the total. part and it shouldn't be, but you know, but it is a part of it and it does need to be there. Because what's the difference if you have all those other things but you don't have any kind of physical connection? Then that's like a really great friend. You know what I mean? Like the difference between your friends and your lovers is sex. What to enjoy stronger and longer lasting erections every time? Well then you need to try blue chew. Blue chew is a unique online service that deliver a chewable tablet at a fraction of the cost. And the good news is it's super easy to get.
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Starting point is 00:28:24 100%. And I think that men recognize that more than women do. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Well, listen, it's that whole thing. Like before when we and you talked, I'll just say like when you told me your name, I'm like, oh, Eric, like when you made up your name, Erica, I was like, oh, yeah, that's a good slutty name. And I'm like, oh, I mean, slutty, you know, in the nicest way.
Starting point is 00:28:42 And you're like, no, I love slutty. I mean, because, you know, slutty and slut, when I was growing up, I was growing up, even older than you is like it was such a bad connotation and that was that was every woman's fear because that girl that slut the girl that really likes sex was the girl that you never brought home and women had to I think repress that part of themselves for sure or else they wouldn't get what they wanted which was the white picket fence and the husband and all that stuff you know and there's probably a lot of women out there still just keeping it under wraps and they're just sexually repressed Right. Oh, yes. And I've just, I mean, my sexual ability has grown exponentially in my time during my relationship with BAM. I mean, I went, like I said, I never squirted before.
Starting point is 00:29:31 Yeah. To now I am very multi-orgasmic. Oh, my God. You're living my life. You're living my dream life. Those are the two things that are like I can't do that I wish I could. I mean, and I have every type of orgasm. I have, you know, just like internal like G-Sot. I have cervical. I have anal orgasms, clitoral, every type of orgasm. I even, I had listened to your gas Susan Bratton on a different podcast.
Starting point is 00:30:00 Yeah. And I can actually make myself squirt now from giving head because of. You're a fucking kidding. I'm not kidding you at all. So wait, nothing's touching you. all? Nothing is touching me like in the genital area at all. It's only from fucking dick. Oh, and I can full on squirt. I mean, I think a lot of guys just came in their pants hearing that. I think you just made a lot of guys that are driving, get a witty.
Starting point is 00:30:34 Yeah, so that makes, you know, doing blowjobs really exciting. Wait, what was the fucking technique she told you about? about or what I would have to be highly aroused so it's a technique that you want to do after what we normally typically do for this is I will start riding and like have a few orgasms squirt a few times either you know reverse calgary or just facing him with him laying down on the bed then I'll stop and I'll take his cock and if you go right past like it's a hard palette in your mouth. There's like a soft section right past that.
Starting point is 00:31:18 Mm-hmm. In the roof of your mouth. Mm-hmm. And I just kind of use his cock and stroke that area with the tip of his cock until I come. Wait a second. I got to tell you something. I'm taking my tongue to that area and like flicking it a little bit and I could feel a connection.
Starting point is 00:31:41 Yeah. It is connected to your. Pussy for sure. You could feel that. Yes. Oh my God. Susan Bratton, why didn't that bitch tell me that when she was on my show? I just listened to her episode a couple of days ago.
Starting point is 00:31:54 Did she say it on my show or somebody else? No, she didn't say on your show. She was talking about like squirting on your show and just like all of the erectile, like the tissue that have to get erect for women. And that's 100% true. Like I will, it doesn't happen. Like if I. you know, like this morning, we were laying in bed and I just gave them head.
Starting point is 00:32:16 It didn't happen then because I wasn't aroused to that degree. Yeah. But once I get to that degree, I can, I mean, I'll make myself for it like three or four times doing that. Oh my God. So wait till before we get it, I'm going to, you're going to give me some like hot stories, I'm sure. But I just feel like I want to ask you a million questions about your technique and everything because I think a lot of people are listening and like, oh, they want to be like you like for me. I'm like, how did you go? I want to know like before Sam.
Starting point is 00:32:42 you had never squirted. Were you never multi-orgasmen? Like, are all these things new? I was multi-orgasmic to a point. I was, you know, I could have multiple orgasms. I didn't have multiple types of orgasms. Like, I could have multiple clitoral orgasms, but not, I wasn't having like G-spot or cervical or coming from anal prior to him.
Starting point is 00:33:09 But with him, it's just been a lot of communication. communication is the number one technique to having hot sacks. Right, for sure. And a lot of times that comes from outside of the bedroom. And Susan actually talked about that in your episode with her. I know it was a couple years ago that you had that interview, but I just listened to it a couple of years ago. So it's very fresh in my mind.
Starting point is 00:33:34 You know, and she says women's arousal begins way outside of the bedroom. Right. And we need to be tuned in to our partner and feeling that desire throughout the day if you're going to have a hot night. You know, like you can't just be very transactional throughout the day and then have my blowing sex. Right. Right. It's just not going to happen. So one thing that Sam and I really focus on, we're very appreciative of each other.
Starting point is 00:34:06 and my love language is words of affirmation. And he knows that. So he will just constantly be filling my cup, not in a creepy way, but just like, if I cook him breakfast, he's like, you know, I really appreciate you making my breakfast. It was delicious. Thank you for doing that. Right. And just being very intentional, not just like thanks for breakfast, you know, being intentional.
Starting point is 00:34:32 And we are constantly touching each other, not even in. a sexual way just you know holding hands i stroke his arm um just just very connected all the time so that makes it a lot easier to have those connected sexual conversations with each other um and we will talk about desires either you know on the phone or via text if we're not together you know like we'll watch porn and i'll send him something that i got off to even if it's like really fucking nasty porn. Right. I'm like okay.
Starting point is 00:35:10 You could share it with him. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. That's cool. And we, I mean, we've done everything. Like, we had an orgy to, like, he gives me golden showers. And when we, like, it is, it's really, like, the sky is the limit to our sexual depth with each other. But at the end of the day, like, the hottest times we have together are the,
Starting point is 00:35:33 times where we just have three or four hours to connect and it's unbelievable every single time. Yeah, that's so interesting. So just the intimacy with you and him, all that other stuff though feeds that, I'm sure. Yeah, all of the other stuff
Starting point is 00:35:49 is in addition like sprinkles on the cupcake. Like if you eat the cupcake and the sprinkles aren't there, it's still just as fucking good. Exactly, right. If not better, like you said like that by far is always the best. thing is you guys together right yeah and so then when we're in the bedroom together I feel very
Starting point is 00:36:09 comfortable with you know not like a robot giving instructions right but what he's doing feels good I'm like yes baby like you know yes daddy oh you like that's good right yeah yeah um and he does the same for me you know like your partner is not feeling what you're feeling so if you don't communicate what feels good and what doesn't or what doesn't feel the best, then you're just like reinforcing something that's not working for you. Yeah, I know. And the weirdest thing is, I mean, I was never a girl that couldn't speak my mind. And so I always had great sex because I always told guys what the fuck to do. Like I was like, no, go up, move over there. Don't do that. I'm going to hold their dick when we're having anal sex. I'll put it in. You know, all this stuff.
Starting point is 00:36:56 And I just had so many girlfriends that would be like they never had an orgasm with the guy. And I just never understood it. But what I really came to understand is that just like, most women don't speak up. They don't tell somebody what they want. They just assume that this guy's going to know and they don't. Like you said, that they don't feel it. And you do need to have that kind of communication.
Starting point is 00:37:16 I just couldn't believe that so many women don't. For me, it comes naturally just to just be myself. That's just who I am. But I think, and I think women are much more like that now, younger girls, you know, but in my generation,
Starting point is 00:37:30 I think that that was a big problem. And I'm sure there's a lot of women that are listening right now that still don't tell their guy what they fucking want or what they like or just move it over or do this no don't do that right right I agree I agree and I think that is it's all about empowering women in the bedroom to like take control of their sexuality because men will have that orgasm right no matter what we do like it's going to happen right for women Right. For women, we need the connection and we need a communication to make it happen. Yeah, for sure. Let me do, let's tell, let's tell some, some good stories. You just like threw out there like, oh, we've had orgies.
Starting point is 00:38:12 We've done golden showers. Like, tell me some stories. Well, okay, so the orgy story is, it's not that hot, but it is. Yeah. We went to this. We've only been to this club, like, Three times. Uh-huh. Yeah, three times. So this was on our last trip there. And we had been communicating with one couple on an app just to kind of let them know, like, hey, you know, we're going.
Starting point is 00:38:38 And they said they were going and they had some friends coming as well. So we get to the club and we're just standing around having drinks. And the way the club is set up, there's a bar area, a dance floor. And then downstairs are all of the playroom. Yeah. So we were talking. And the women, they weren't really my type. I love Latino women.
Starting point is 00:39:03 I love long, dark hair. I have long dark hair. I have kind of a little bit of an ethnic look, and I love that in other women as well. I'm also petite, and I love petite women. I love just kind of being equally sized, if not a little bit bigger, just because I do like to dominate women a little bit. And so we're having, like we're chit chatting with this. There's like six people, maybe it's like three or four couples. And this woman walks by and she is just a fucking smoke show.
Starting point is 00:39:36 She's probably 45. She's got like large kits, short white dress, you know, Latina. I'm like, God damn, I got to go talk to this woman. And this is your honor Swingers Club, right? Yeah. Meanwhile, like Sam's totally into all the women that are there because he prefers. I'm not his ideal body type at all. Like he prefers like curvier, blonde, you know, athletic builds.
Starting point is 00:40:03 Yeah. And that's like his, you know, he's a black guy. Like, you know, it's just more in his real house to be, uh, just, I don't want to be stereotypical, but he likes the big ass and blonde hair. Uh-huh. Okay. So he's just kind of like, you know, he wants to make me happy. So he's like, all right, you know, we'll go talk to this woman.
Starting point is 00:40:24 So we leave the group. And we go to talk to this couple. And as hot as she is, she has zero personality. The only thing she said was she was like, oh, I saw you at the bar. And I came back and told my husband, like, there's this really hot woman by the bar. And I'm so glad you came over to talk to me. And that was like the only positive thing she said. Like, she was just a wet blanket.
Starting point is 00:40:47 Yeah, yeah. And so, and, you know, you've been talking to me for a little while now. Like, I'm pretty chatty. And I'm just trying to draw this woman out. out a little bit and just going nowhere. So I'm like, well, we're going to go get a drink. So we leave them, just watch to the bar. I think we went, no, we went to the bathroom.
Starting point is 00:41:08 And as we're like coming out of the restroom, like separately, one of the guys was like, oh my God, like we've been looking for you guys. We're going downstairs to a room. To a what? To a room, like a play ram. A guy from one of the original like six or eight people who were, who were, who were, we were talking to before Sam and I split off to talk to the Latina woman. So we're like, all right, let's go.
Starting point is 00:41:36 So we walked down the stairs. We walk into this room. It's maybe like three beds pushed together. And there's four couples plus us. So it's five. All of the girls are five. So it's five, yes, five couples, ten people, five women. And, you know, just like condoms everywhere.
Starting point is 00:41:56 where also we had the shades open so people could watch us. Oh, okay. And we just get down there. And we're the last ones in because they had been looking for us. And it's just like, you know, everybody's already naked. I ripped my dress off. I just had on like a really sticky dress, like no bra or panties or anything. And Sam said, you know, he's still trying to undo his pants and I'm like sucking two cocks already.
Starting point is 00:42:24 Oh, my God. that's my girl yeah it was a great time yeah we tell you it was great one of the guys had a Prince Albert piercing
Starting point is 00:42:40 I actually didn't play with him he was the only one the only one of the guys that I didn't fuck me which I was a little disappointed with I did give him head but I wanted to experience that Prince Albert I don't know if you could feel it with a condom on or not
Starting point is 00:42:56 I was very curious about it. Oh, right. Yeah, I wonder. Yeah. And I also have, I have a clip piercing, a vertical hood piercing. And his wife had a bunch of piercings too. So I was like, you know, I was really feeling that. And it was just a great time.
Starting point is 00:43:16 Like I look over, Sam has a woman like straddling his face. But he loves giving oral sex. And he was going to town on her. her while another woman was sucking his cock and getting fussed by someone. Like it was just full on porn. Everybody was hot. Everybody was, you know, just hot bodies. All the guys were well hung.
Starting point is 00:43:40 You couldn't have asked for a hotter scenario. Okay, but you did start off this little orgy conversation thing. Like, it's not really that hot of a story, but it is hot, I think. I don't know. I don't think you know. how to explain things. No, no, no, no, you explain. No, no, no, you explain things.
Starting point is 00:44:02 You don't know how to title things, okay? Because your explanations are fantastic. It's the title. You, like, titled this next explanation. You know, it's not really that hot of an orgy, but I'll just tell you about it. Sorry, but it sounds kind of hot. I think everyone's going to love it. It was, well, you know, if you want to hear something funny, there was one guy.
Starting point is 00:44:24 Yeah. And he was annoying as fuck. And whenever we were talking upstairs. And I'll call him Dino. And he was just an asshole. Right. And we get down in the room and I see him down there. I was like, ah, fuck.
Starting point is 00:44:41 And one of the guys was like, is everyone okay with everyone? And I was just, my plan was just to kind of steer clear of him. We get done with the orgy. And we go back upstairs And I said this day And I was like That was great I'm just so glad
Starting point is 00:44:58 That Dino never fucked me Oh no I know what he's talking about He's like what are you talking about? I'm like Dino Like you're so fucking annoying Like I'm just glad he never fucked me He's like baby
Starting point is 00:45:09 He fucked you after so and so I'm like are you serious He's like yeah Like the one guy pulled out And Dino like strapped down the condom And like went right in Like right where the other guy took off or, you know, and I was like sucking another guy off or I was eating a girl.
Starting point is 00:45:26 I don't remember. So I didn't notice. Hilarious. Okay. That's a great story. Oh my God. That's like next time if you have someone, it's like if we're ever in that situation again, I'm like, yeah, I'm sure if that's going to happen again where we're in like a naked pile and there's one person.
Starting point is 00:45:52 that I don't want. Yeah, that he's going to tap you on the shoulder like, excuse me, this is the one guy. You don't want to fuck you. I mean, I was going to say, like, where was your fit? Where was your hat at in some, in between some girls' legs? You don't even know.
Starting point is 00:46:04 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, my God. Everyone was very safe. It was all like, you know, everyone wore condoms, you know, it was all, yeah. It was all very safe. It was just, I was, I was,
Starting point is 00:46:17 my squirting was like the circus trick of that orgy. Everyone was like into watching it and stuff you mean That's hilarious It was like the splash zone at SeaWorld You know like if you're in this zone You're gonna get wet Now I have been slightly disappointed sometimes I've talked to many women who squirt
Starting point is 00:46:42 And I always ask a lot of questions Because that's like you know I talk about how it's always been something I've wanted to do And I never can master And there's been it a couple times I talk to women who are very into squirting. And they're like, you know, it's not really that great. It's not that, it's not like the orgasm is any better.
Starting point is 00:47:00 Sometimes it's not that great. I mean, do you, and sometimes it doesn't happen at the same time as you have an orgasm. I mean, do you feel like when you squirt, it really pushes you over the edge? Is it as amazing as I think it's supposed to be? Or is it just not that big of a deal? I would say it depends. Sometimes the squirting and the orgasm happens simultaneously. please. Yeah. I am an ejector. Yeah. So when the squirting happens, I shoot the penis out of my vagina.
Starting point is 00:47:32 Wow. Along with the ejaculate. So it's a little, sometimes like, Sam and I are fucking, it can disrupt his rhythm. He doesn't mind. He fucking loves it. Yeah. But sometimes I'm just like, I get a little annoyed with myself because I'm like, oh my God, I just squirted a gallon. Like, I can't. can't do it anymore. So then I'll concentrate on not doing it, and then I can't come. So I just kind of just let it slow. It feels great.
Starting point is 00:48:01 It feels like a release. And, you know, I have read, I'm a researcher just by nature. So I have read like every squirting article out there, like, is it pee? Is it not pee? Yeah. I can stand as witness. I will pee right before. I will squirt a gallon and a half.
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Starting point is 00:49:53 Avocado mattress.com. That's what I mean. I was going to say, you guys do golden showers too, and this is like the perfect segue into that. So I feel like you would know the difference because you know, you play with P too, right? You would know. I remember there was, I worked with the lesbian girl once in it. And she was like, her partner and her were really into golden showers and peeing on each other. And she was just like, oh, the smell, we had to get rid of our mattress.
Starting point is 00:50:22 Well, we never do it into bed. It's always in the shower. Yeah, that's what I would think. I mean, but that's what I'm saying, like what you just made the point that when it dries and you're just squirting, you would smell it if it was pee. Yeah. Yeah. No, it's not pee.
Starting point is 00:50:37 I am here to say it is not pee. I'm here to say, ladies, if you're getting fucked or fingers. or being eaten out. I mean, I will, like, Sam will eat me out, and I will just overflow his mouth with squirt. I'm just here to say, ladies, let it go. Like, if you start feeling the urge to pee while you're getting pleasured, let it go.
Starting point is 00:51:05 Right, because that's what it is. That's what I never know. Yeah, that's what it's all about. And a lot of women don't know that, and they don't want to and they hold it in, but that's really squirting. It's not going to be pee. It's not going to come out as pee. It's not going to be pee.
Starting point is 00:51:18 Right. It's not going to be pee. Yeah, so Golden Showered. Yeah. Perfect segue. Sam had one woman that he plays played with for a number of years in the BDSM capacity. And she was really into them. And I was kind of like, I don't know, never done it, never really thought about it.
Starting point is 00:51:42 It's not really my thing. And then one time we just, I don't even remember the very first time. It was after, I think it was after like an intact scene. We were in the shower and he was like, get on your knees. And I did. And then he gave me a golden shower. Like peed on your face, peed on your tits, peed on your. It was on my tit.
Starting point is 00:52:06 Okay. It was on my tits. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And we've done it a couple times. Like he has peat on my face once or twice. It's not really, that's probably my least favorite. But what I am into, which we've been doing not regularly, but maybe like once every few weeks,
Starting point is 00:52:22 like we'll get in the shower together. And I will use his pee on my clip in the shower. Yeah, no, I've mentioned this before on my show. I once had a guy friend tell me that he had this girl and she would sit on the toilet, right? And this is like, sounds like, and I was like, oh, that kind of sounds like a hot move. I've talked about it on my show before. But like you sit down, right? And he said he would like pee on her and it would like hit her clit.
Starting point is 00:52:48 You know what I mean? And he would and he would make her home. And I was like, I kind of understand that it's warm. It's penetrating. You know, I could see. I was like, that kind of sounds hot. Like I could get it. I would try that.
Starting point is 00:52:59 You know, so that's what you're doing in the shower. Yeah. Yeah. That makes sense. And it's, you know, again, it's very erotic and hot. Yeah. It's everything. And yeah, it's just been great.
Starting point is 00:53:14 It's all great. Yeah, I mean, I don't even think that there's anything probably. Is there any, like, are you, are you like into two guys? Do you see people separately? Is it always together? You know, how does the open relationship besides these, like, hot stories? You told me, like, how is it really work out between you guys? So during, probably the first, probably right, until around the one year.
Starting point is 00:53:41 year mark. I was dating separately just because I had been in such a long-term marriage. And he really encouraged me like, you know, go out, do your thing. You know, I had a Tinder profile. I went on some days. I messed around with a couple of people, a girl and two different guys. And it was it was fine. I had fun. I enjoy people. I love, you know, I'm a social person. I'm great. You know, But as dirty as I am with Sam, I have my mom friends that we just have regular wine nights and all that. And I'm just 100% focused on my kids as well. Like this is all, you know, I'm not just banging 24-7. Right.
Starting point is 00:54:27 But I'm great. I read some great people, but there was no connection there. And I already had this like very intense connection with Sam. Yeah. And so I made the decision in May. Like, I wasn't going to see people on my own. Yeah. Sam had a couple, like, he has a couple that he's a third for that he still sees.
Starting point is 00:54:49 He recently went on a trip, and he, like, he has a friend from college or his 20s or something, and they banged while he was gone. And he lets me know ahead of time and, you know, faith, use condoms, all that. And I'm fine with it. Like, I am very able to see the difference between a physical situation and the deep connection. that we have. And I, you know, I'm fine with it. And like, just because I don't choose to go out on my own, he's fine if I wanted to. It's just I don't have the desire to.
Starting point is 00:55:24 So we've had, you know, together we've had like these couples experiences. We've had a few three thumbs with guys, one with another girl. And we just kind of, I dated a woman actually pretty early on. And I really, really liked her a lot. but she wanted more than I could give. And she was, you know, I was open with her about Sam. Everybody knew of each other. But, you know, I just didn't have the time, resources,
Starting point is 00:55:53 the emotional, physical resources to really give her what she deserved. And so I ended that. So, yeah, I mean, we're open. We're not looking for, like, emotional connections with anyone else, but we're, you know, we're fine with. physical hookups here and there. Right, but it's not like you, he's into you going
Starting point is 00:56:15 out with other guys and then coming home and telling him what happens. I mean, typically when you're playing with others, you're together? Yeah, yeah. Typically, we're together. I mean, we have some fantasies. Like, we really, one of our main fantasies is the way that my apartment is
Starting point is 00:56:32 you can see the bed from the closet, like through the bathroom. And so one of our fantasies is for me to like pick up a guy and break him home and, you know, have Sam be in the closet watching. Right. Uh-huh. Things like that.
Starting point is 00:56:45 And we've definitely done stuff where, like, the guy will fuck me and Sam just watches. Sometimes he participates. So that's kind of hot wifey, but it's not at all, like, there's no cuckolding or humiliation or anything like that. Right. Like, he thinks I'm a fucking porn star. So sometimes he's like, I like to just sit back and, like, watch you suck cock or, you know, get fucked because it's hot or, you know, hotter than anything else. And then afterwards, the, the sex that we have is so fucking hot.
Starting point is 00:57:15 And, like, you know, I'll be, I'll be fucking a guy and, or guy will be fucking me from behind and I'll just look up to him and be like, I love you so much, baby. Like, thank you, Daddy for giving me this extra cost, things like that. Oh, my God. So, yeah, it's very connected even when we're with other people. Right. And now, do your girlfriends that are not in the lifestyle know about all this stuff that you're doing is a total secret part of your life that nobody knows except you and Sam and the people you hook up with? So I have one friend who's been like my best friend for over 20 years.
Starting point is 00:57:57 She knows. Yeah. Just because I tell, like we tell each other everything. And she's like personally, it's not for her. She's only ever been with her husband. but she definitely appreciates the stories that I tell her. She says it gets added to her spank bank. Oh, that's hilarious.
Starting point is 00:58:19 So, yeah, I do tell her, but for otherwise, no one knows. Right, it's just your guys' private thing. It's all very private, yep, very private. And I think it's great. I mean, did you know before you started doing all this stuff? with Sam that you wanted to focus on being a sex therapist as opposed to just a regular therapist or did it change? No.
Starting point is 00:58:46 It totally changed me. I would say my connection with him have completely changed my life. Like it has changed the way I connect with my children. I just try to be very like intentional and deliberate with my children the way that I am with my partner and also just see them. I mean, I know this is a sex show. But, you know, just see them each as individuals. Like, how do they best receive love?
Starting point is 00:59:13 And it's just transformed my whole life, honestly. And, you know, it's been hard, you know, becoming a single mom and just huge life changes. But I wouldn't change it for the world because I am who I am supposed to be. Yeah. He doesn't make me happy. I feel happiest when I'm less. him. I feel my most whole when I am with him. Right. And he feels the same way about me. Well, listen, I think that there's nothing, I think the top of the mountain for anybody would be,
Starting point is 00:59:48 you know, being able to be fully exactly who you are and have somebody love you for that, right? Because what is the opposite of that? Like, that's everyone's fear. That's the reason why people are repressed and don't show people who they are because their biggest fear is that you would do that. And somebody would be like, oh, no thanks, or they'd never call you again, or they'd be like, oh, you're gross or you're weird, right? I mean, isn't that why most people are hiding who they are? Because it's that big massive fear of rejection. And it's rejection of who you are.
Starting point is 01:00:22 We all know who we are, right? But we're all so petrified that somebody else won't accept it. So when I think that the people that are really are able to show somebody that and that person receives them and not only says, okay, you're a good. the way you are, but like, I fucking love you. Like, that's the top of the mountain. That's what it's all about. And what I love that you just explained is that that doesn't only make you feel,
Starting point is 01:00:45 like you said, it's not just he makes you feel great about yourself. I mean, you're happier in yourself. And then that transfers to everything, your relationship with him, your relationship with your children. I mean, it's amazing. You're lucky. Yeah. I feel extremely grateful.
Starting point is 01:01:01 I mean, it's been a very hard road. But I feel. just immense gratitude that I out of the craziness it happened that I that I met him. Right. And I definitely think the universe, you know, is working in our favor. So many things had to come into play for us to ever meet. And I'm just so thankful that we did. Yeah, I love it.
Starting point is 01:01:26 Now, do you have any pictures that I could put on my Patreon, like anonymous picks? Sure. I can send you some. All right, cool. So you send me those. Those will be on Patreon. Yeah, I'll send you a Facebook just so that you can, like, put a face to the voices. I'll send you, like, some, um, like, like, you want, like lingerie.
Starting point is 01:01:44 Yeah, lingerie, for sure. Now, nothing X-rated. And poor Sophia, Sophia and Rod, I mean, she's like, my husband, she sent me a picture for, like, blowing a guy. I'm like, I can't use this. She's like, oh, my fucking husband told me to send you. I'm like, not X-rated, R-rated, like sexy lingerie things. That's what most girls send in.
Starting point is 01:02:01 And, you know, no faces. I'll cut the face out, whatever. So send me that I'll put those up on my Patreon for people to see All right thank you so much for calling in I feel like I could have talked to you for a lot longer And got more details I'm sure we'll have you back on
Starting point is 01:02:15 Thank you yeah have me back I will I will I'm doing it something in September And maybe I'll use you for that It's called Girl Talk where I just talked to a female Like I done it with a podcast or I did it with a person Who started a sex texting app And you know
Starting point is 01:02:32 Where I just talked to a girl about sex, but not like in the way I'm interviewing, more just about a topic, you know. So maybe I would have you for that. So, you know, I never know. But I'm definitely going to have you back on. Thank you so much. It was great. And we are just huge fans of your show.
Starting point is 01:02:48 Like we, it gets us worked up, you know, and like we just love you so much. So I love that. I'm super grateful for this. Yeah, that's great. And let me just tell you, you're going to get people worked up, okay? That now you're doing, you're doing it. You're paying it forward. I'm doing it.
Starting point is 01:03:03 Yes, yes, you're going to do it for other people. Thank you so much for calling in, Erica. Okay. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book.
Starting point is 01:03:26 It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories. taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so old. over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories.
Starting point is 01:04:09 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two, and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay. I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You can post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of
Starting point is 01:04:55 money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord.
Starting point is 01:05:27 So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. It's the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Good news. Strictly Anonymous Podcast is looking for people to call into the show. So if you lead an interesting, naughty secret life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud, that's cool too. Send me an email, Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com.
Starting point is 01:06:03 Or go to my website, Strictly Anonymous Podcast.com, and click on Bionombspodcast.com and click on be on the show. If you have a short confession that you want to get off your back, call my confessions hotline. 347-4-203579. That's 347-4-2-4-7. You could call that number 24-7. I change all the voices on the confessions too, so you remain anonymous. The number, the website, and the email address will all be in the description. If you want to follow the show, follow me at strict anonymous on either Instagram or Twitter that's at Strict Anonymous. And if you want to sign up for my Patreon, you're not only supporting my show, but you're going to get all of these episodes early and ad free. You're going to get anonymous picks of all of my guests. Most of the girls send me in anonymous hot picks of
Starting point is 01:06:53 themselves. And some of the guys are sending me in anonymous picks as well. You also get access to my private Discord where people are getting super naughty. If you sign up for my Discord, you could post whatever you want and talk to my other listeners. To sign up for my Patreon, just go to patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. That's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. The links and everything else I spoke about are all in the description. Thanks so much for listening.

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