Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 964 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: He Likes Gaping Holes, She F***s her Nephew, She Found Out her Husband is a Crossdresser and More w/Layla

Episode Date: November 13, 2024

Tune in to hear Kathy and Layla discuss a bunch of naughty confessions. First, you’ll hear from a guy who is into big hair gaping “holes,”, then from a woman who is hooking up with her nephew, then from a guy whose wife found out he is bisexual and she’s taking it hard, then from a guy who is n open marriage that doesn’t seem fair and then from a woman (episode #950) who caught her husband crossdressing and he’s now angry at her?! Then you’ll hear Kathy and Layla discuss big, hairy p**** and how and why Layla doesn’t want one, why you shouldn’t laser off your landing strip, Layla’s naughty hook-up with her cousin, her interest in strictly taboo porn, Layla's relationship with a bisexual guy and how she felt about him being bi, the threesome with a bi guy they set up and why she didn’t show up, why people might be hesitant to date someone bisexual, which is worse; finding out your partner cheated on you with a member of the opposite sex xor the same sex, a threesome solution for a girl who isn’t into seeing her guy with another girl, Layla’s advice to the woman who caught her husband crossdressing, then reason most guys keeps their fetishes a secret plus a whole lot more. To find all things Layla, click here: https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com/ **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order https://beducate.me/anonymous60 Get BEDucated! For 60% off PLUS a FREE 24 hour trial, click the link and use code: anonymous60 Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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and swinger clubs and gangbings, you name it. It's all on that site. And you get a free trial, like I said, just use my code 37712 or go to the description and click on the link and you'll be taken right there. Now listen today, I have a confessions episode with Layla. We have some good confessions on this one. And as usual, you're going to get some confessions from Leila. And this son, sometimes I give out some confessions, but this one you're going to get some confessions on Leila. First, we talked to a guy who's like into really loose, big, wide gaping hole, hairy pussies. Oh my God. It's just so funny when I got his confession. He kicks it off that we talk to a woman who's like fucking her nephew. And that's when Leila kind of confesses to something that she's done.

You got to listen for that. And then we hear from a guy who, got caught sort of doing guy on guy action with his wife's best friend's husband. Oh my God, wait until you hear that one. He's like kind of out with his whole interest in sucking cock and his wife now knows and that's the whole issue. We discuss that. Layla confesses that she was with a guy who was by and she talks about her experience with that guy. And then we hear from a guy who is really like a swinger with his wife and they do a couple swaps and they do all kinds of like things. but he's, you know, his girl isn't really into him being with girls, but she's into being with a lot of guys. And now he didn't call up to say like, oh, I have a problem.

He just called up to discuss their scenario. But we talk about how the fact that she gets to fuck a ton of guys and she's into that, but she won't let him fuck a ton of girls and that's what he wants to do, how that could be a problem down the line. And we talk about that. And then we hear from a woman who found out some crazy shit about her husband. I already aired her episode. but I think a lot of people didn't listen to it because it had to do it cross-dressing, but it's a super interesting confession,

and then I'm going to get a really good update from her, but it's a woman that found out her guy was into all kinds of crazy things, including cross-dressing. She talks about what she found, how she confronted him, how he reacted, and then me and Layla talk about it. So it's a fun episode. You're going to love it. The confessions are really great.

Me and Layla talk about each one after it, and then we do another confession. That's how it rolls. If you want to leave a confession, to make it on to one of my confessions episode. Call my number 347.4203579. That's 447, 4203579. Anyway, I'm going to get right to be right back on

with the first confession. Hello there. I am really into loose, wide gaping pussies, hissing. I just love it. The idea of a tight pussy doesn't interest me. Give me a big, sloppy, hairy gaping pussy. They're just the best. It's like sinking into an overstuffed couch.

I got really into this kind of thing. I was first made aware of it by the Kevin Smith movie Chasing Amy. The girl in that movie mimes the action. And, you know, I'm 40 years old. I got the internet privately in my bedroom when I was a teenager in high school in the early 2000s. And I found that that's what I'm really into. And it's that community, that kind of scene has really grown, too. There's a lot more independent content creators and stuff now.

you know, when I was first getting into this, there were only a few sort of like specialty gals in the adult entertainment industry doing that. And my ex-wife, we got together and moved in real young. We were together 10 years and got divorced when I was 30. So during that time, I realized what I was into this kind of thing. And she made me feel real bad about it, judge me for it, you know. And once I got out of that relationship, I've just been very upfront. And I tell girls, you know, this is what I'm into. you're welcome to try it. I'd love to do it with you. If not, that's cool. It's kind of an extreme act,

and I can understand any kind of problem you'd have with that. I'm still jerking off to this when I look at porn, just so you know. I've been very upfront about it, and I'm with someone now that's just on a regular basis, and her pussy is incredible. So, yeah, you can make me up a fake name if you want to talk to me later. Thank you so much. Okay, Layla, welcome to the naughty confessions. I gave you a good one first. I think it's kind of funny. That's a good one. I mean, listen, you see these kinds of porn out there, right? So obviously there's people that are into it.

I haven't had someone call in and confess that they're into big, loose, hairy, gaping holes. I was like, oh, my God. I know. This is a new one for me. I was like, oh, whoa. I started to take a note. What are your notes? What are your notes?

Tell me. Okay, so I wrote down, gaping pussy, sloppy hairy, hot mess pussy. Internet in the bedroom with gaping pussies is how we got into it. So let's start with that because I think, you know, I think we're hitting on a theory that you and I have come up with, but it's actually true. It's kind of obvious, right? You get exposed to things and it imprints on you.

And this guy, you know, I would assume he's young. He sounded young when he had Internet in his room growing up. And this is what imprinted on. him and so it's hot to him. When you're young, you know, you're still forming all of your frontal lobes are really still forming and so this just got in there

and it's stuck. I don't like looking at sloppy gaping hairy hot mess pussies. I just don't. It makes me uncomfortable. I'll be honest. But like he said his girl

put him down for it. Like but maybe she just felt like inadequate because like if you don't have like a big like if you haven't had 10 kids and stuff like and your pussy's like kind of tight and pretty looking like how are you supposed to satisfy your guys needs like I don't understand how that plays into a relationship unless you have a big gaping whole pussy or is he just like saying to his partner hey I want you I'm going to make your pussy big and gaping by putting in huge things in there is that like what he's into or both things like I'm a little curious that's what I was wondering about myself like okay so

Oh, he says he has a partner that's into it. Okay, but how do you, your pussy naturally doesn't start. No, that partner he fists. He said the last, with the girl he's with, now he fissed her. So he's fissing her. So that's what he likes, right? Right. So, okay, so you just have to find someone that's into that.

I, I don't want to be fisted. I like the more tight, pretty photogenic pussy. You know, I don't want. Yeah, but haven't you ever come across a guy that wants a big Harry Bush? I have. No. I have Jim from the gym. J.

I.m from the G. Y.m. J. I.m. from the G. Y.m. He was fucking hot. Okay.

He was like 25. I was begging you when I was 40. He comes up in a lot of my calls. I just talked about how he was such a slow fuck. You ever fuck a guy that's like really slow to fuck you? Like slow. And he had like girl lips. So he like kissing him was so nice.

And then he like fuck so slow. And he didn't even have that big of a dick, but it was so hot. Because he was like this big, beefy, huge dude, right? Like, that's what was hot about him. And he had a gorgeous face. He was like a hot job. Okay. Okay.

You're selling me on it. But he fucked so slow. I'd never been fucked so slow. I was like, this is like, and it was like super hot. He was great and bad. And he was like one of the guys that like let me put stuff in his ass. And sometimes he'd call me up drunk and there'd be guys in the background and he would say weird shit to them. And I really believe he was one of those guys that him and his friends.

were all doing circle jerks and shit with each other. Like he was into gay stuff, just not ever going to cop to it, you know? But why did I bring him? Oh, yeah, he was into hairy pussies. And I'm like, you know, shaved, I think at the time. I don't know if I was lazered at the time, but I don't ever think I ever grew it out.

But like, he was into that, for sure. You never had a guy cop to that? No. No, I had, no. I mean, I've had guys that think it's hot to come behind another guy when your pussy's been used, but it's not because it's just, I think, because another guy fucked you and left a bunch of comments. I do like that.

They want to get in there and fuck you and come in you too. I don't, I've never had anybody say they want the looseness, the sloppy, messy, visual part, I guess. I think he's also into large insertions too. I think maybe that's what he means, like gaping holes. Like he doesn't just want to look at them like just open with nothing, right? he, it sounds like he's into like fisting and large insertion kind of porn because he's got the girl he's fisting now. But listen, I think the best thing to do, and I sort of give this guy credit,

that he's like out and proud. He's like, I'm telling every girl, this is what I'm fucking into. You know, he told his wife and she like totally shot him down, which I think a lot of women would because like, like I said, you would kind of feel insecure if you're a woman and your guy's like, this is what I really love. And if you don't have that, like, what are you supposed to do? Or you can't accommodate him. Like, what if she had a little tight pussy and just couldn't imagine. imagine even more than two fingers, let alone a fist or a huge, you know, horse cock. You don't mean? Like, what she's supposed to do?

She's going to feel inadequate. And then maybe she's going to put you down for it, right? Like, I don't know. But I think it's smart that he puts it on the table now so that the next girl that he winds up with is going to allow him to live out his fantasies. Because, yeah, he is wired that way. That's what he fucking likes. No, I love it.

I love it, which I'm all for, you know, good on him. and then he'll find somebody that matches that. It sounds like he has, and his other wife wasn't into it. I don't think I'd be into it either. I wouldn't want to wreck my tightness. It's a very fine line because sometimes, maybe I'll put myself in the middle of the road on this one.

Like, I like to use my special occasion dildo. Yeah, the huge one. That's what it, explain what it is. It's a big one. It's a really big one with a suction cup on it. but you only use it. It's called special occasions. Like you don't,

you just don't want to use it. It's not, it's not your daily user. You know what I mean? You don't want to stretch yourself out to accommodate that. When you bust that bad boy out, it should be like, you should be doing your Lamas breathing to get that thing inside of you.

It should be some work. So, you know, you got to get in the right head space, all this, you know, soft music, candlelight, whatever the fuck can get you relaxed enough to get that thing in you.

I wouldn't want to use it every day, and I don't want to be gaping and stretched. And certainly, I can't do the hairy thing. Although, you know, because I'm lasered, I have tried, and I don't know if you've ever tried this, I've tried to sort of like, let's see what happens when I grow what I do have out. It just looks bad. It's not even, you know, it's all straight and wiry and weird. Well, I got to tell you, I love a landing strip, and I kept it when I lasered. And the guy was fucking at the time was like, get rid of that shit.

Like, he didn't like the landing strip. So I wound up lasering it and I've always regretted it. Oh, you lasered it all. Okay, no, I left my, I've only, I've lasered to the landing strip. And so what I'm saying is if you try, if you try to make your landing, so when you're working with what you have left, which is the landing strip. And if you let that get wild, let's say, it doesn't look right. Yeah, no. But you can't grow back.

I lasered it off. I can't grow back. It's gone. Yeah, no, I know what you're saying. I can't grow my sides out either because that's it. I laser them. Yeah, but that's a good thing. You don't want to fucking grow them out.

No, I know some, and I know some other women that have done the same as you, like, they have lasered the whole thing. And so they can never, it just can't grow back. I'm glad I still have my landing strip at least, but. I think proportionate-wise, when you're naked, it just adds something and it looks better. I don't know. But I regret it.

I'm used to it now. There's nothing I could do, but I should have never fucking listened to that guy. Leave the landing strip. I like the way the landing strip looks, but laser the rest of it off. Unless you meet this guy and you want to marry him, you're going to have to have a hairy fucking pussy because that's what he's into. And that's what he's into. You know what I mean? And I'm sure there's tons of women out there that, you know, would gladly leave it for him. Imagine. Think about it. Like before you lasered everything off, like, how easy you could just be so lazy and just like your guy, because your guy, like, loves it. I mean, I feel like I'd be like, okay. sure. It's no problem. I'll never fucking shave again. Do you know what I mean? It's not a bad thing if you're not lazered. But I know, but don't you feel like it makes you, you know, in the summer, like it's hotter and sweaty. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't remember I've been lazered for so long. I don't even remember. It's like leaving, it's like leaving under air, under arm hair. You know what I'm saying? Like, ew, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I'm going to do that either. I will say too. No hairy pits. No hairy fits. No hair. crotch. Yeah, I will say, yeah, I laser my pants, my armpits too. I will say that when you do laser it off, you feel oral sex more. I think you do when there's like a bunch of hair down there. You know, it adds to your sensitivity. It's more sensitive. Yeah. But sorry, Guy. We're talking about a guy. Like we're totally cock blocking his poor confession because we are talking about the antithesis of what he's fucking into. I know, I know. He wants loose hairy pussies. And I say, you know what? High five you. You're letting your fake flag fly. That's what you. That's what you. You're you're into, I think it's a small, you're fishing out of a very small pond, but where there's one,

there's many, there's women out there that are into it. Look, you have a girl that's like into being fisted. I don't know if she's not shaved, but like I said, I think if a woman hasn't lazered it off, why not not shave for your guy if that's what he's into? So, but anyway, you know, I'm down for it. I don't know that, like, I think it's bad when women insult their guys when they are into something that they're not. Like, I get if your, your guy is into something that you're not into, you don't have to, like, put him down for it. You know what I mean? He said, like, she really put him down.

But I think sometimes women do this, and I think I've done it in the past when I was younger, when you sort of feel inadequate or you know that you could sort of never offer it up, so you, like, put it down. But it's really coming from your own insecurity. Do you know what I say? Yeah. Because why put him down for it? Yeah, don't yuck anybody's yum.

Yes, that's a saying. Okay, that's a mic drop. Let's end it there. Let's go to the next confession. Yeah, I just wanted a. my little nasty fuck confession, I've been fucking my nephew. He's not my marriage through blood. My brother-in-law, through marriage, had a relationship from someone else and they had a kid.

And just, you know, I've seen him looking here and there. And, you know, I one time just walked in on the, him on the restroom. Instead of asking me to lead, he asked me to stay. And, you know, we've been kind of like sneaking around here and there. and, you know, he'll finger me here and there. And if I see him, I'll, you know, I'll grab his dick and, you know, just kind of play with him. I've actually run into him in town and we snucked away and got lost somehow and we fucked. And, you know, I make him a little bad boy, make him do anything I want him to do to me.

I love it. Nobody knows. And, again, he's my little secret fuck. Okay, you want to take this one? Whenever I hear stories like this, I'm kind of like always like, are they true? Is this true? I know, I know. So wait, they're not blood related.

No. Exactly. Not blood related. Nope. Okay. So I can kind of get behind this. Like I think that's hot too. I wish she told us the age.

Don't you? I know. How old is she? How old is he? Yeah. So that's what I'm kind of wondering. Like, are we talking about, you know, early 20s? and she's early 30s or mid-30s.

Like, you know, I think we're okay. We're still in the realm of possibilities. I mean, how old is this woman? What's the age gap? But I don't know. Yeah, something about this is hot to me because I love to watch the kinky family porn or strictly taboo. They call it. That's a genre, you know, where it's, yes, I do.

It's like stepdaddy. Oh, we got Layla's confession here right now. I love this. Confess some more. Oh, yeah. No. No, I love it. Or like stepson, stepmommy.

Like, you know, they're not blood related, but they're, you know, it's naughty and you should be doing it. And it's forbidden. No, I love that. I'm like, I have a guy that did his stepmother, like a Mark fucked a stepmother. It was like a really good episode. And it was really real. You knew for sure.

And it was really super interesting. I've had a lot of cousin episodes like, oh, I fucked my cousin. But in my father's religion, like, you're allowed to marry, even your first cousin. so, you know, I don't know how taboo it is, but it's very taboo here in America. So people do, I mean, it's not like what you just confess to is like that odd. A lot of people are into it because those episodes are super like highly downloaded. Fucked a cousin, fucked a niece. I just got to put, you know, she fucked her nephew in the title of this one.

People are going to tune in. They want to know shit like that. Yeah. So I tend to think like, come on, is that true? But you totally believe it. yeah no I do I mean I you know I made out with my cousin when I was like a freshman in high school just just kissing are you fucking serious yeah yeah wait okay but who's explain I blame him he's older yeah you always blame everybody else wait not really but I don't know if that's your

thing but wait a second can you explain who he is in your in your thing is it your mother's sister son, like, who was this guy to you? It's not, well, I'll just, I don't want to get too into it, but I'll just say on my father's side. Okay, so it's, so, but it's your cousin on your father's side. Okay, how old was he? How old was you? And then just tell us exactly what happened. Be a little bit more specific than her.

Well, how old was he? But it's not as exciting as her. No, I get it. You just made out, but how old were you? I was probably a freshman in high school. And how old was he? And he might have been a senior in high school. Okay.

So just a little bit older. Right. That's a big enough age gap. You know, when you're, and, you know, we were up at our family cabin and I don't know, something, one thing led to another and we're just making out. But wait. So this guy, though, because he's your cousin, you've obviously kind of grown up with him. You've seen him at family functions before.

Did you always think he was hot? No, no. Okay, that's honest. So never, like, did you ever think of something like that? So how does it come up? Was it alcohol related? No. Oh, no.

I was such a straight arrow in high school. Like, I didn't do anything. You really weren't. I know you were when it comes to like that, but not with sex. Every time I talk to you, a new thing comes up. I, I, but no, I didn't get to sex until I was 17. So I really, you know, and then when I, I guess when I did finally, go all in, I went all in.

No, but go back to this guy. So you're, you know, how does he wind up making out with you? Well, we're up, you know, where all the adults have gone to bed. We're sitting there and we're just kind of sitting next to each other. And, you know, I could just, you know, when someone's flirting with you, you could just kind of tell. And so I was very passive at the time.

And so he just kind of was sitting real close and, you know, kind of like starts. rubbing me and stuff and we're under the blanket watching TV or whatever and one thing I'm like another we're just making we're just doing the hot and heavy groping makeout wow and did it ever happen again after that was it weird when you saw him or was like who the fuck cares like on you know never talked about it never felt weird never did it again it was just yeah it was just at one time we never you know it's very strange though I feel like he still has a crush on me like to this day like I feel like

he would go there again if I want to. Well, talk about wiring. Imagine how hard he got through that scenario. Because like you said, I mean, that right there goes into that category of porn that you're watching. And here's a young guy who's like, Dick gets hard when the wind blows, right? And he's like suddenly making out with his hot cousin. I'm assuming you were hot at the time, right? And there's nothing naughtier than that.

We already figured out that you got wired into. being like a cupcake because you fooled around with like your cousin's friend, sis, I don't know who, when she was sleeping right next to you. You know, it's the same kind of shit, you know,

so I think he could have really got wired into you in that scenario. I think he did. I'm not kidding you. I think he really did because still, like I said, still to this day, he, um,

flirts, you know, so yeah, he does. And, you know, I'm like, his name,

it starts with a J. His name starts with a J. And I was just like, you know, I always just sort of avoid it, you know, but I can tell us, you get that vibe. I know he wants to. Right. Well, because it was there. It happened. I wonder with this girl, because she says that like she walked in on him in the bathroom and he's like, don't leave.

I mean, he's kind of ballsy if you ask me because this is like his aunt, right? And she walks in and him in the bathroom and then he sort of makes the move, which I'm like, oh, that's why I was like wondering the age because that's like pretty ballsy. but I've heard of guys like that. Some guys just have fucking game, you know. Because he got game and got his aunt. It's a fuck him. Clearly, no, clearly this guy has game because usually it should be her sort of leading the charge.

But if he's the one that was like, no, don't leave and wants to get it on with her, then yeah, he's got game. Yeah, totally. Yeah, I need more details for this one, but it is super naughty. Yeah. I think it's interesting. I don't never really watch that kind of stuff. What is the stuff that you like?

Like anything not blood-related? or like step mommy, stepdaddy, like that kind of thing? Yeah, so it's called strictly taboo. You know, if you type that in, like, if you type that search in, like on Porn Hub, you'll pull up all that, all that stuff. So there's not, they're not blood related, but, yeah. But they're naughty. It's strictly taboo.

But they're naughty. Oh, my God. There's, yeah. I have a favorite one that we should analyze. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Who is it? Who's fucking good?

It's a stepmom, stepson, and the dad comes home while the stepson and the stepmom are fucking, and the stepson hides, it's like this whole cuck. It hits on all cylinders. It gives me the cucking thing and then that, you know, that naughty sort of taboo incest type of step, right? Where he goes and hides in the bathroom. The dad comes, fucks her, comes inside her, leaves, and then the son resumes. where he left off and then comes in her again. So she's got this double cream pie. You got the taboo stuff.

And then you got the step son in the bathroom, like kind of being cucked and watching it and getting turned on by watching his dad fuck the stepmom. Oh my God. I think you just like out confessed and out like made people hard that our last caller. With that little thing right there. Let's end it there and go to the next confession. I got to dig.

Yeah. Yeah. I got to dig that one up. Okay. I got to pick that one up. We'll do that next on our next porn review. Oh, my God, Lila. Okay.

All right, not to the next confession. Hey, Kathy, love the show. I wanted to call and let you know that she just came into a situation with the wife, had to explain to her after she saw some text messages involving her best friend's husband that I am bisexual, like, curious. That was kind of tough. I wasn't expecting to do that, but she found out the hard way, and I had to open up to her and playing everything.

She knew that I wanted her to fuck. other men and she knew that I wanted to be a part of that but she did not know that I wanted to also be with her sharing that man's cock, bigger cock would be ideal. I just basically opened up everything to her so she's been taking it pretty hard. He's not a fan of the situation but I mean it is what it is at this point and I basically confessed to her that I would suck the cock and I would try things and married with her for a long time. We have kids and just needed to try to something new. I've been curious for a long time, but this is all recent news to her. So she's trying to cope with it, comprehend what's going on, and, you know, hopefully it all works out. So far, so

good. But in reality, I really would love to have fun. But I doubt that's going to happen. I wish it would. But at least you know, you know, where we stand, try and love the show. I figure at this point I wanted to share the news and, you know, do you have any pointers? Okay, with this guy, oh my God. First of all, says that she found out. I mean, I like the way she found out. That's like the most interesting part of this is like he was like she found out stuff between me and my best friend or her. Her best friend. No, her best friend's husband. Right. And I'm like, what the fuck was going down there? And I have to tell you, Layla, because I get so many guys that call into my show that talk about like doing shit with guys on the DL because there's still such a stigma attached to it that they can't cop to it. But, trust me, it is going down and shit like this is happening all the time. And women just don't have no fucking clue about it because it's not like just because a guy wants to suck a guy's dick, like he presents as a gay man. Like tons of guys are into it. Just like tons of girls are into like hooking up with girls. And it's unfortunate. But I hear these kinds of stories a lot.

And like, I wonder, did he hook up with his wife's best friend's husband or what were they doing? Sending dick pics to each other? Like, I have questions. I know. We don't know. I know. I'd love to ask him a bunch of questions. But, you know, I can kind of, it's interesting. I can give you like a full circle point of view on this. Because when I started doing all of this myself, one of the guys in the very beginning that I was with that was real kind of like a steady, a steady guy for a long time, he was bisexual. And I, that was the first time I was with somebody that was that way. And I, and I, I, I had to sort of get used to it. And there were things about it that made me uncomfortable in the beginning because I didn't just understand, like you had said in the very beginning of this one, was just, yeah, there's just some guys like, dicks are hot. It's a masculine thing.

It's sexy. And other guys can be turned on by that. That doesn't mean they want to have a relationship with a man. A sexual encounter is different than actually bonding to and wanting to have a relationship with a man. And that kind of was the thing I had to sort of understand myself. Because at first, I was a little like, whoa, wait, what does this mean? And it did.

You know, it made me uncomfortable, you know, at first. I think this wife could find her way to it and it could eventually end up being hot. But at first, it can be shocking. And you have to sort of, I don't know, work through the biases that you have. or the lack of information that you have because women, we relate a sex act to being in love with someone and an emotional connection

and guys are wired like that. And so, you know, we have to sort of, we have to first kind of understand that that is strictly a sexual thing doesn't mean that he's gay, but I think for her it could be shocking because, you know, I mean, imagine your partner says, yeah, I'm gay.

I mean, I just, I want to be with a man, not with you, a woman, you know, and you can't compete with that. That would be kind of awesome. awful. And so she's probably just sort of wondering, where are we on the spectrum here? Yeah, and I think what happens, and this is what I've heard from a lot of people that are totally not down with someone that's bisexual. And bisexual can mean a lot of different things. It's not just because they're afraid that they're going to go have a relationship with someone else. I think what happens

is, listen, we all are biggest fears is that our person's going to go cheat with us, cheat on us, right? If you're with a straight man, that means like 50% of the population is up for grabs. But now, if this person that you're with, whether it's a man or a woman, cops to the fact that they're down with anyone, now it's 100% of the population that they could be fucking cheating on you with. And so I think it just doubles the paranoia for people. And that's what it's about. Because think about it, right? If you have to worry that your guy's going to go and fuck another girl behind your back and now you have to worry that he's going to fuck guys and you're going to have to worry more because think about it, you can't give him a cock, right? So you're going

to always be like worried that he's going to go to do it. Unless you're like, it's, It's almost like you feel like if you find that out, that you're going to have to give your guy a free pass because if you don't give him a free pass, how is he not going to ever have Dick again if you know that he likes it? So I think it is a hard position for a person to be in. Like your guy, okay, when he told you, did you allow him to go out and fuck guys? Like, how was your relationship set up? Yeah. So he wanted us to explore that together. And then when the time came, we'd found this couple.

and it was going to be my first female experience and then it was going to be two couples, right? Him and I and then this other couple who was very hot, very sexy, both of them equally. And when it came down to it and we were all supposed to get together, I said, you know what, I'm not going to be in town. You just, you go ahead and do it and you have fun because I wasn't ready to see him with a second adjustment.

dude's dick. I mean, honestly, I just was like, nope, I'm not, you know, and I didn't want to tell him that and I didn't and I never made a big deal out of it. But that was what was really what's going on there. I was just like, I don't know how I feel about this yet. So I understand that's something that he needs and wants to explore and I'm going to let him do that. But it did ultimately turn me off to him. So when I think about what this wife would have, what is going through. You're married to somebody. This is a big secret. You kind of feel like I could feel like I could feel. like where she might be scared going, okay, holy shit, he hasn't told me this. What else? You know, what, do I even know this person? You know, it can, it can really kind of rock your world. So I think she can get, come around to it, especially if they're going to do things together. And it does kind of, you know, a lot of times women fear when a man is like, oh, I want to see it. Another guy. Fuck you. There is also that hidden fear that he's gay. Of course. Yeah, no. And maybe he is by, like, who knows? Did he say he's not? I forgot. He said he was. He said he was. He just likes dick.

I forget what this guy said. He said, no, he said bye. I would say he sort of sounds like he's kind of realizing that he's by or getting comfortable with that. Yeah. And I think that that's the fear. Like, what if he goes and starts sucking dick and then he does wind up falling for a guy? It really opens up Pandora's box.

So it is a very hard predicament. But listen, when you're faced with that in a relationship, like you, now you, there's no option to like deny it anymore. You kind of have to go with it. or not, you know, like she's kind of out of crossroads, right? Like, does she either sort of work this out with him and either give him a free pass or get down with him and go do it with him? I personally think the best scenario is, like they say, keep your enemy closer, right? Like, I would do it with him. Yeah, do it with him. Yeah, close enemies closer. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

You want to be there and see what's going on. I just don't want to send him out and be like, okay, do what you want and then have to get the information secondhand because there's always going to be that little bit of doubt wondering like, okay, is he telling me everything? Is it really what he's making it out? Right. What if he's falling for this guy? What if he does start like? And I will say, I have talked to a lot of women who were never into by guys. It was never something that they were into. It was never porn that they watched or anything. And then their husband brought this up in whatever way. I've heard every kind of story out there. And I can tell you how many times I've heard that the woman who never thought she would be into it was totally into it when she saw.

She didn't, like a lot of times the fear is, I'm going to see my guy with another guy and I'm going to like not respect him. I'm going to see him as less than a man. Yeah. And it's the opposite of what happens. You know, I just had Brooke the hot wife on. I think I told you about her last time because you were like, oh, I don't want to see that. I feel like it's not like a manly man does that.

But, you know, she had that worry, you know, and she's married to a guy named Blaze. He's going to be on my show. We're taping tomorrow. And he's like a big alpha dude. raised car driver guy and he sucks dick and she was really nervous like because she liked his alpha manly man man thing that's what she was attracted to and she was really afraid to see him with another guy but she went there and it was hot as fuck and she she saw him as more manly it didn't take away from it at all and i've heard it many many times so i feel like this poor woman is in a really bad place but

if she wants to sort of see if her relationship could work instead of just like leaving it without trying. Maybe you need to try to allow him to have those experiences, be with him. Maybe it'll turn you on, you know, because what's the other option? I don't know, you know, but maybe she would be into it. It's hard when you have kids and stuff. They sound, they've been married for a long time to just throw everything out because of this. But now that you know, you can't say no, you can't do anything, right? Because how are you going to trust that person? You know he's been craving this as sort of he's doing. He's secretly testing, texting your best friend. Your best friend's husband. He's on the fucking verge. Does the best friend know this about her husband as well?

Oh my God. You're right. That's a good question. What the fuck? Did this just blow up, you know, like between the couples? Like what the hell is going on? Oh, there is no way. There is no way that that best friend that got the information about her husband that didn't call up her best friend and tell her too because she didn't want to sit alone with it. Think about it as a girl, right? Like, wouldn't you want to be like, oh, I got to tell her too? So she's like, I have someone that could relate with me like, hey, best friend, like your guy likes a sick dick. Now you have someone to talk to about it. Like there's two girls in the same position.

I think that that's actually helpful for each other. I would assume she went and told her best friends, don't you? I would think, oh, yeah, for sure. But here's the thing. Now, this scenario could be way worse. It could be the best friend that the husband's texting, and it's not. So, you know, at least we have, at least, I mean, there's a sort of a silver lining here. Because if it's another woman, oh, shit.

You know, that's totally different, right? I'm going to do that. as a page, I love doing Patreon polls. That's a good Patreon poll. Like, would you rather find out that your partner's cheating on you potentially with like, you know, your best friend or your best friend's like same sex partner, you know, whether you're a girl or a guy? Because I think, you know, you could kind of see it both ways. It's kind of like bad in a way. Like you see it like, oh, at least it's not the best friend. That would be way worse. But I think it's way worse that it's the guy because it's something she can never really give him. And now she's got to kind of have to let him go there. It just,

I don't know, they both are kind of like it's a bad position to be in, but I got it. All right, let's go to the next confession. Hey, Kathy. This is Hobbs. Love the show. Yeah, I just wanted to call up and tell you all about how my girlfriend and I, we've been together for about four years. And we kind of opened up our relationship about a year and a half ago. Started going to sex clubs, BDSM clubs.

We have a great time there, play with each other. show off to an audience and so on. And that's a lot of fun. And then we started having MFM, threesomes, and those went well. And, you know, we did DP, DP, spit roasting, all that sort of thing. And I made about once a month, usually different guys. My main interest really was to have more of a swinger or a couple swap. And we've done that a couple of times.

But then she gets a little jealous, I would say. So we usually end up in an argument after that, even when we're having a lot of fun in the moment. And, you know, I hear in some of these episodes that the cuckold guys really, what they really enjoy is all these guys, fucking their wives, girlfriends, whatever. And, you know, in our case, that's a little different. I enjoy it okay, but it's always like MFMs. And it's like I'm really focused on fucking her. And the other guys is kind of, it's fine. is there. But, you know, like, but she really loves it. So that's the main reason why we keep doing

these. Yeah, I'm one of these guys. I'd rather be doing more, more couple swaps and reacting with more other women. But she would rather that was just as many men as possible. And so in our case, some fairness issues do come up. And sometimes we argue a little bit about whether we should be trying to find another couple or another single guy. So I just want to say that that does happens sometimes. So anyway, love the show. And yeah, I got, I got hurt into listening to it a little bit. So maybe it will touch base later on. Have we go. You know, this is, this could be more potential fights down the line. If you hear what he's saying, like he's saying a lot of hot stuff, like they do a lot of fun things. But there is this inherent problem in this little relationship here, right? Because, you know,

when I do hear from guys who are Cox, a lot of times their girls are not into them being with women. And the cucks could care less. A guy who really loves hot wifing, that's how they get the variety. They don't give a fuck about banging other women. No desire, no interest. So whenever people say, oh, it's not fair. I'm like, it doesn't matter what's fair or not. If they weren't into that, they'd be swingers. People who aren't into that do what this guy wants to do, which is couple swapping and all that kind of good stuff, you know? And it sounds like she would be way happier with a cuck because she is a woman that does not want to see him with other women and he's like fine to see her with other guys but that's not what he's into he's into couple swamming. This guy's like a swinger. He's not like a cuck hot wife guy, you know, or even a stag

vixen. He wants like couple swaps. It's a problem. Don't you think? Yes. Yeah, they need to get their kinks straight. They're blurring, they're blurring some lines here. The fact that they're still, you know, doing this things that she gets upset about makes me believe that they're not quite on the same page a little bit. Yeah. She does not want to do couple swaps. She doesn't want to be doing that. She wants two guys and kind of all the attention on her.

I can relate. And she doesn't want to see her guy with another woman, but she is fine with another guy in their environment. So I think they just need to get that nailed down. I mean, I can relate. I don't think I want necessarily my guy fucking another woman. maybe, you know, but it doesn't, it does not turn me on the way two guys on me at the same time and him watching or even just him watching in the cuck position.

He can be in the stag bixon position. He can be in the cuckhold position. Any one of those genres is good with me. But the couple swaps, yeah, I don't know. It doesn't do much for me. Yeah, I feel bad that he's not into the cuck thing because he's in a little bit of a pickle because I feel bad for him. I think it's not fair.

I get that she has those feelings, but it kind of sucks for him and it's great for her. She, like he said, she's like the guy in the relationship. She wants as many, as much dick as possible, but he's not allowed to get pussy. And I believe in this scenario of people who are listening and they would say that's not fair. I'd be right there with them. It's not really fair because what is he supposed to do? Like, I get that you can't handle it, but then, I don't know, like, then maybe they

shouldn't be doing it at all because I could see it causing problems and him getting resentful. over time if she's getting all this variety and he's not when he wants it. It would be one thing if he didn't give a fuck like most of my cucks do, but this guy is not a cuck. He wants variety just like she does and she can't accept it in him, but, you know, he can accept it in her. And I think that that's a big problem. Yeah, I have a possible solution though for her because here's where I've sort of like,

yes, here's where I've found my way too is I think what they need to do is if he wants pussy, they need to go into the sort of the power couple mode and Dom a submissive girl. And so she can be in control kind of of of what's going on. I think what comes up is her fear of, you know, loss of control and loss of power in the situation. And if she, they have a girl that's submissive, then she can be like, you know, decide when his dick goes into her, you know, and she can kind of be directing the scene as far as what's going on while that woman still has to pleasure her while he's got his dick in her or whatever

you know it just it's kind of a different thing because it still says to this other woman hey you know I'm in control this is my man we're the power couple and you're here for our pleasure and a lot of women like that and I think she might be comfortable more comfortable with that than just everybody's freewheeling it willy-nilly swapping partners and you know off you go with someone else's wife. I love that advice because you are her, right? You are a woman. I am her. Yeah, you are her. And this would work for you, which means it would probably work for you because what you don't like in this scenario is that loss of control, right? That's what you wouldn't want. But having that control would make you feel better about it. And you are like her and that you want all the attention with you with the

guys. You want that, but you don't necessarily want it for your guy. But in this specific way, it would work for you. And I love that as a solution. You're exactly like the perfect person to give this guy advice. And they need to implement that or something in because I do think over time this little unfairness that's kind of there. I mean, they're doing all this other stuff, spit roasting, DVP, D.P. D.P. I mean, these are all like crazy things. They're like pretty hardcore. But I think over time and down the line, he's going to become resentful if he's not getting as much as she is. And it sounds like he's not. spit roasting, DVP, DP, like, you know, it's all hot and stuff, but I think he wants a little bit more variety himself,

and maybe this is the way he could get it. I don't know that he was looking for advice, but I think he gave him great advice. There's so many scenarios they can explore it with another woman that's submissive, and they're the power couple. That would be a lot of fun for her, I think. I mean, she could even have, she could even be put on the strap on, fuck her while he's, you know,

while she's, the submissive girl stuck in his dick. I mean, there's just a lot. There's a lot of ways to go on this. That would be very fun. So I think that's what she needs to explore. Yeah. Because I think she does need to figure out a way, though, to give him what he wants. I think it's only fair that she would actually try something like what you said.

Because like I said, I think that over time this little thing that he touches upon very slightly in this. He's not calling to complain about it really, you know. But that's what I heard and I heard it very loudly. And I feel like it's something that over time would become a. big problem and I think if they go down this route maybe it could help things so I think you gave him great advice I hope he listens to this episode I want him to follow up with us if you know so we know if he pitches that idea to her and what her thoughts are and if they do it how it turns out yeah I love it I think it's a great I think it's great advice okay on to the next confession hi Kathy I am a female

listener if you couldn't tell by my voice I sent you an email and you had suggested that I reach out and possibly have me on the show to talk about some things that are going on with my husband. We've been together for almost 20 years and he is very secretive. But recently, you know, the past few years, it has come out that he is cross-dressing, that he's using a bunch of sex toys, that he is into transsexual porn, all of this, which is like kind of spiraled because I've been super open about it and wanting to talk about it and be involved. And he just like continues to be incredibly quiet about it to the point where he's getting angry about it because there's so much shame involved with what's going on.

So I'd love some guidance because I don't know what else to do at this point. I love him dearly. And the things that are going on honestly aren't even bothering me. Your show has been very helpful in helping me learn more about these kinks and, you know, what interests people have. And honestly, I'm a little excited. And I really want to explore things with him. And he, you know, recently wrote a letter when a lot of this came out and I just kind of

confronted him with everything. And, you know, this was in February. He said he wanted to talk about it. It's now September. And it has not been talked about despite me trying to get him. to talk about it more. It's really affecting our marriage to this point, and I'd love some insight as to anything I can do. I think I've been incredibly open and welcoming in the process, but he is just so shameful about what's going on, and there's just so much, like, internal hatred towards himself,

which I hate to see him go through, and I want to fix it for him. And after listening to a lot of your other interviews with men who have been interested in similar kinks, you know, I'm I've tried to use that as guidance. And I don't know. He doesn't know how lucky he has it. I'm not going anywhere and I want to be involved. I want your advice on this one. And there's a lot of backstory of this one because I aired her episode already on a Fetish Friday.

And I think a lot of people don't listen to the Fetish Fridays because it's like so specific and niche, you know, but this one was such a great confession and such a great episode. I had more comments on this one than anything. And I was so curious to get your take. And then I'll give you something at the end after I hear your. your take on that whole scenario. Okay, so let me make sure I've got my, you know, I've got this. Correct.

They've been married 20 years. He's very secretive. He's using sex toys and he's into transsexual porn. And he's cross-dressing. I'll tell you, like she found a bunch of dildos first, then a bunch of her clothes, then a bunch of sex toys, then trans porn on his thing and Snapchat stuff. I mean, she found out he's completely living a double life. Now, I have a Fetish Friday series.

Like I said, a lot of people probably don't listen because it's really just for people that are into specific kinks and stuff. But I talk to these people all the time and there's so many men out there living these secret lives. You know, he just happened to get fucking busted. He's a cross-dresser that's into anal stuff, okay? It all came out in the service. Now, she was very accepting of it. That's what she said. She was very accepting.

Confronting him is like, I'm totally down. It's okay. Like, I'll go there with you. She was like not, she was like you could dress up. Like, I'll fuck you. like she's totally down to even going there sexually with him and letting him live out all his kinks and fantasies with her and just be free but he will not engage with her he will not open up about it he's very like holding his cards to so like he still can't come clean even though she

knows well i think that i kind of think a sex therapist would really help them i'll put that you know we can sort of put that aside for a second but i also think that what she should do is get a transsexual woman and have a threesome so that he can they just need to rip that band-aid off and get you know have a threesome let's all just get real about our kinks and what we like and she should just have a I would surprise him I would have if I were her I would find a gorgeous you know transsexual woman and say listen I I want to surprise my husband. He really loves transsexual women.

And boom, you know, and let's all get it on. And I think that he would like that. And I think she would like it too to see him. Sounds like she really loves him, number one. She's very accepting and clearly wants him to have the freedom to explore and express his sexuality to its fullest potential, which I think is amazing, good on her. So to me, I don't think it's a far stretch that she would be willing to. do this. You know, like, hey, let's, let's all go for it. Get a, get another, get a transsexual woman in there. Have a threesome. Let him experience it. That's just blow doors on all the shame

that he's feeling. And I think that, you know, they can start a new, a new trend. Yeah, but I think what you don't understand here is because you probably don't talk to cross-dusters that I don't necessarily think that him watching trans porn was him being into trans women. It was more probably about seeing himself as like a woman when he dresses up and stuff, I don't think that that's what his kink is. I think his kink is him being feminized, him dressing up as a woman sometimes and getting fucked in the ass and him just, you know, playing out that fantasy scenario. But he can be dressed up as a woman while they're doing this. Right. But I don't necessarily know that he wants to be with a trans woman. I think what he wants

is to be dressed himself and maybe like the trans porn was about, you know, sort of projecting himself into that video. I don't necessarily think he needs another woman. I think he needs to come to terms with his own fetish and come clean. I think his own shame for his fetish and his own not coming to terms with it because he's been keeping this hidden underwraps for his whole fucking life, as do most men who have fetishes. There are so many guys out there that women don't realize have shit. You know, secret lives, like I can't even tell you, they're hiding bags of panties and bags of panties and bags of women clothes, some place in your fucking house. And they're doing these things.

There's people that have these kings and fetish that and they keep it a secret. And they feel so shameful about it for so long because there's so much stigma attached to it, right? Because what's your first thing you're going to think if you're a woman that finds you're a guy dressing up and with a bag of dildos? You're going to think he's gay, right? He's into guys, right? He wants to be with a man. I said, I did start by saying, I think they should make a trip to a sex therapist to help to help them have the proper language. and just a neutral third party that can help them clear the air and dispel any concerns

and also hopefully help this guy just be a little more open about it and, you know, realize that, you know, he's in a safe space with his wife. She's not judging. I think she'd like to see him actually be able to live out whatever this is. Yeah. And what's super interesting. So I got a lot. I was curious to see what you would think in this scenario because I got so many different

comments and people guessing why he's not willing to go there with her because she showed up and said, hey, I know about what you're doing. And you know what? You could dress up tonight. I'll fuck you in the ass with the dildo. Like I'll engage with you in exactly the way you're looking to be engaged with. Like I'm down for it. And he wouldn't go there with her. So so many people made comments. Like a lot of people were like, it's probably because he's not into women. Like he doesn't want her. Like that's not what he's into. He's a sissy. He wants a man to like he wants to dress up and be a man. Like there was a lot of those kind of comments. Everyone had a different sort of reason for why, even though he's being faced, sitting across from him with a woman who's completely accepting of something that he has been hiding. I mean,

it really is like a gift. He's got everything he wants right from him, but why is he not okay with taking it? And I got so many comments. But what I'm here to say and what's great is that this Friday, okay, And that's why I added it in so that people actually listen. I got the answer. She had another thing happen, which is so crazy. I can't tell anybody. Okay. Oh, damn.

No, I want to know. I'll tell you when we hang up. I'll tell you when we stop TV because you're not going to listen to the episode, but I'll tell you it was super interesting. She found something else about him, which was totally fucking crazy. And that was finally his bottom. And he came clean and she found out everything, why he was. hiding it and all that kind of stuff.

And it was like finding out something else about him that had nothing to do with the cross dressing or the dildos or anything, something even more crazy, okay, came out. And that kind of was the thing that blew everything up and got him to finally come clean and put everything on the table and explain why he's been holding back. And then things change. How did things change? You're going to have to listen and find out. It's so super interesting because so many.

so many people chimed in with their opinions and stuff, and including me, you know, and then we found out the answer and everyone will find out the answer on Friday. Is that rude for me to do in the last one? I just think it's an interesting confession. No, it is an interesting confession, and that's a good clip hanger. I love the way you did that. That's, you definitely, uh, what my appetite to find out what is going on here. Yeah, and what happened? Because why wouldn't he tell his wife? And I, listen, when guys were like, oh, it's because he's gay and he's, he's, not into her. I was like, listen, that's valid. I didn't think that. I thought like this is definitely because he is ashamed of it. It's his own projection. It doesn't matter that she's

accepting him for him. It's if he doesn't accept himself for his fetish and then he he can. It doesn't matter what you say it's like when you feel like your hair looks ugly or you look like look fucking bad and someone says you look great. It doesn't matter. It's how you feel about yourself. It comes from yourself, right? How he feels about the whole situation. And just because she's accepting it's not like he's going to be and a lot of these guys carry around shame about their fetishes because what happens is these poor guys their fetishes come out when they're really young okay like really young so they sit with this thing that kind of rules their life a fetish is not a kink it's not a want it's not a something that they're into it's a fucking need okay

it kind of rules their life and it's very ingrained in them and they sit with it most of the time it comes up when they're really young six seven years old and they're sit with it by themselves for many, many years. So they frame it as this secret, naughty, shameful thing that I can't tell anyone about because how do you tell someone about something that's starting when you're six or seven? You know what I mean? Like, how do you go to your mom and say like, oh my God? For some reason, I'm obsessed with, you know, my teacher's panty hose. Like, what do you do with that information? They don't. So they hold on to it. And listen, there's plenty of people that are out and proud with it. But most of them aren't. And I get why. So I just felt like, oh, he's been

carrying this for his whole life as a secret living with bags of dildos. I mean, if you heard her original episode and people that they should go listen to it, they haven't, about like what she found and then what she found next and then what she found next. I mean, it's even more hardcore than I explained. But it led to a whole like different path. And so I really suggest because it was such an interesting episode to me, the first one, like how she found out everything, how she confronted him and how he dealt with it was super interesting. I loved her. She's like every guy would love a girl like her to be married to her because she's so open.

But what happened after the taping is even crazier. And that's going to be my episode on Friday. So I told Layla, but I edited it out. You'll have to listen. It's super interesting. Everybody, you have to listen. You've got to listen. Yeah.

It's super interesting. But why don't you think, though, last question. Like, why don't you think he's not coming clean? I don't even think he knows. I don't actually think it has anything to do with her. I think it's, you know, when you just. get something, especially if it's just this deep-seated shame that you've been carrying with you for so long, it's something that you just don't want to tell anybody. And when you get into that mode, you know,

I think it's the same reason. Like a lot of people don't say, you know, talk about if they were ever molested as a child or, you know, bad things that happen. Sometimes you just stuff it down. It, you don't want to deal with it. And then, but, you know, you kind of carry it with you. Yeah. Well, you know, me and Leah, I want to. put this out there and like let's end the confessions. People have to listen to that episode and do it, but let's put the, if anyone listening to the end, right in and tell me if you think that this is interesting, because you just made me think, oh, we could talk about the Menendez brothers. Like, I really talked to Layla recently about doing some more like co-hosting episodes. And I was like,

we should do like a series like sex in the news and talk about like big stories that have to do with sex, you know, in the news. And I was like when you were just talking about like a lot of people don't talk about sexual abuse, like that whole Menendez brothers case is a really interesting one. Because I think it sort of taps into like whether when women are abused as opposed to men, you know, because a lot of people don't believe them. Some people do believe them. It's like kind of interesting. But if people think that that would be fun to hear me and you like breaks off that down,

email me and tell me what you think or email Layla and tell you what you think. Maybe we'll start that series. We haven't done it yet, but we have fun talking to each other. And I was like, you know, when these big stories come up that have sex in them, I just think it would be fun to talk about with you. So maybe we'll do a sex in the news thing. But I just want to hear if people would be into it. So write in, right?

yeah definitely no I think sex in the news would be a fun little series to do yeah because there were something in people recently I sent to you right it was about that it was like a murder and it was like the nanny fucking the husband and they responded to a BDSM and ad and called a guy in and he didn't even know and then they pinned the murder on him but it wasn't him I don't know it was like a whole crazy story but it involved sex and it was like super interesting I'm like I can talk I could talk about that shit forever I just don't know if people would be interested but let me know and thanks so much for calling in and going through these confessions with me. I love your confessions. I love your listeners. They have great confessions. I'm always like, I'm sort of a beat my listeners over the head with it. I'm like, Kathy's listeners are bringing the heat. Yeah, yeah, give them a competition.

Tell them, have them compete so we get some. I know. That's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to breathe some sort of competitive nature in my listeners. Yeah. So if you want to call in and leave me a confession three, four, seven, 4-2-0357-9 or call into Layla because then we could do some of your confessions, you know?

So Layla, give everyone a shout out to where they could find you. Yes, guys, it's super easy. Just go to my website, the Curioskill Diaries.com. And then there's a pink tab on the right-hand side. There's all my, everything you need to follow my podcast, like and subscribe to it, please. And then also if you want to just follow me on social media. But my favorite thing is just voicemails.

And now I've got a big push for confessions. since Kathy's listeners have amazing confessions, and I want to be able to keep up. Yes. Go do it on Layla's. Yeah, do it on Layla's. And she has to edit the episode for me. Yes.

I know. Yeah. And if you're listening to this on Layla's episode, you could find my podcast on any podcast app. Or go to my website, strictly non-hismodcast.com. And all my stuff is there. Thanks, Layla. Thanks for calling in.

Yep. Thanks for having me, Kathy. All right, bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show.

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