Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 974 - Sammie is a Hotwife Into Black Guys

Episode Date: November 25, 2024

Sammie is a true hotwife into black guys and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when her and her husband decided to bring a woman into the mix, Sammie’s h...istory of hooking up with women including the one woman she currently hooks up with, how they started going to swinger parties and why it was hard to find couples and unicorns, when and how her husband asked her to start banging guys solo and how she felt about it at first, the first hotwifing event they went to and exactly what goes down at one, the super hot guy she met at housewife party and what went down with him at their first hook up, how they’re wound up dating afterwards and how her husband felt about it, why it eventually ended, how and why he husband is fine with her having bf and playing solo but doesn’t want a gf or to play solo himself, why couple swapping hasn’t worked for them, how and why she prefers black guys, how her guy prefers guys she hooks up with have bigger dicks, how and why she decided to do onlyfans, how both her and her husband love putting her content out there, why she’s not into unicorns, the rules they have and how and why they still stand, hpw she protects herself from STIs, how and why she loves dvp, what’s on her bucket list plus a whole lot more. HERE'S A LINK TO ALL SAMMIE'S STUFF: https://linktr.ee/sammiesworld1 **To see anonymous pics of SAMMIE plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order https://beducate.me/anonymous60 Get BEDucated! For 60% off PLUS a FREE 24 hour trial, click the link and use code: anonymous60 https://www.magicmind.com/sac  You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one-time purchases with code SAC20 at checkout Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:02:52 The link will be in the description. Now, listen, if you're looking to get on a. an app and look for people to have a threesome or hook up with or a couple to, you know, have sex with or you just want to open up your relationship. I can now offer you a free trial to SDC. Okay, that's a free trial. You want to check it out. It's sdc.com. Use my code 37712. That's 37112 or just go to the description and click the link. SDC is great. I've always been wanting to partner up with an adult dating site. I chose SDC because that's the one that must. It's the one that most of my callers are on and the one that most of my callers like the most. They're all over.
Starting point is 00:03:33 They're worldwide. So, you know, you could go on there and meet like-minded people in your area or if you're traveling and you want to hook up with someone on vacation. You're going to be able to find people there. And what's also great about it is not only can you meet people on there, you could also find out about all the swinger events and swinger parties and hotel takeovers and swinger clubs and gangbings, you name it. It's all on that site. And you get a lot. And you get a free trial, like I said, just use my code 37712 or go to the description and click on the link and you'll be taken right there. Now listen, today I have on Sammy. Sammy's fun. Sammy and her husband after being together for a really long time decided to open up their marriage. They were going to do
Starting point is 00:04:15 like the typical threesome with a girl thing because she's into girls and had some experience and she was down and then they just like couldn't find a unicorn. So it turned out that her husband brought up like her fucking another guy. And so they started to get into the that they were in the lifestyle they've been to hotel takeovers and swinger parties and stuff and she talks about like her experiences there and then she talks about how she got into hot wife and she talks about her one bowl that she wound up in a thruple with uh she talks about how she met him you know what was so great about him that she wound up like hooking up with him multiple times and eventually he started seeing him consistently and it got to the point where he was like sleeping in bed
Starting point is 00:04:50 with her and her husband in the middle she was in the middle she keeps making a point to say that So husband's not into, you know, hook it up with the guy. But he was down for her to even have a relationship with this guy. And she did for a while. She loved having that consistent bull. But it didn't last afterwards because of the feelings. And then she eventually started seeing other people. She eventually started to create content.
Starting point is 00:05:09 She got super successful online. She's got all her content links. She gives them out at the end. She talks about what she does on her videos. She's really into black guys, her husband's black. She, you know, typically with guys are really big dicks because her husband has a big dick. But what we'd get on this episode is her whole backstory and her husband's whole backstory of how they worked up to becoming like a hot wife, stag cuck scenario. Her guy's not into humiliation, but he really does enjoy her getting pleasureed by other guys, even when he's not there.
Starting point is 00:05:47 Like he's like, go out, do what you want. She talks about some things that she doesn't like to do, you know, she has some rules. they, you know, for her, as well as for him, some rules in the lifestyle compared to when she creates content and she talks about all that kind of good stuff. It's a super interesting episode. She's super hot. I have pictures of her over on my Patreon as well as all the links to all of their content in the description. So I'm going to be right back on with Sammy. Hi, Sammy. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Good. How are you? Good. So listen, Sammy, you're a hot wife, right? Do you call your god? Is your husband a cuck, a stag?
Starting point is 00:06:22 Does he get involved? Does he have a title? He's the husband. He's the husband role. Does he like to watch or does he like, do you play solo? A bit of both. It depends on the dynamic in the situation. We very much operate kind of in a stag and vixen way
Starting point is 00:06:41 if we're at a party that there is something that maybe both people are interested in. But we don't, we're not a full swap in the sense that it's a requirement for us. So a lot of times he doesn't. like me to go out and play and come back and tell them about it, but not in that traditional cuck way. It's more of a, my pleasure is his pleasure. Yeah, yeah, that's typically what it's all about. It's very rare that I talk to the guys that are into the humiliation. I always call those guys like extreme cucks. I'll still call regular guys cucks, you know, just because it's easy. Yeah. But, and I think that it's more rare to find the guys that are into the humiliation and all the
Starting point is 00:07:18 denial, but there's so many guys that are into what your guy is into. So let's go all the way Back. How long of you guys, well, how long have you got, are you guys married up until now? Like, how long you married to your husband for? Or with? 17 years. 17 years. Okay. And so were you always like really open-minded from the get-go? Were you very vanilla and that decided to open up your marriage? Like, you know, how did you lead into or get into the lifestyle? Yeah, it's funny. I would, it's funny these days that because I would say I've always felt that I've been very open. Yeah, not your husband. He has not. Yeah, he was not.
Starting point is 00:07:54 But then I, because I'm, I'm buying. So for me, it kind of started in the idea only maybe five, six years ago where my husband suggested, maybe we, you know, find a third or, you know, a girl that you could play with in type of environment. And I kind of, I feel like a lot of people start there. I feel like it's kind of this like safety net. Everyone always wants the unicorn, you know? Yeah, totally. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:21 It's a typical thing. Yeah, it really is. It's like the easy, you know, transition for people to, it's okay because it's a girl. But then it just kind of evolved from there. And, you know, it's funny because we would sit and say things like, I can't even imagine letting you just go, you know, play with somebody else in another room. And now that is literally every time. But he as the one that came to me kind of once we started the lifestyle journey and he had asked me, what would you think about being kind of a hot wife role? So he actually was one who brought it up. Right. So he eventually pulled it out and said that was something he was interested in. I mean, I got to tell you, like, I'm doing my show for 10, 11 years now. I mean, that was one of the, like, the first things that I was, like, so shocked to hear. Because I always, and I say this a lot.
Starting point is 00:09:08 Like, I have a lot of guy friends. And I'm very open-minded. And I talk to my guy friends like, I'm a guy, right? And they tell me everything. Right. But not one ever copped to the fact that they wanted to see their girl, fuck another guy. But it turns out that so many guys are into this. but I don't think that they just, you know, they lead with it.
Starting point is 00:09:24 I mean, here you were married to your husband for a really long time. Right. Just like five years ago, he brings that up. But first comes the girl. Let me ask you about that because you said you always knew you were by. Had you hooked up with girls in the past, like before you were even with your husband? Yes. Right.
Starting point is 00:09:40 So when did that take place? Like, just when you were like hanging out, like, did you ever date a girl? Or was it just strictly like you would have sex with girls sometimes? Yeah, it was more of just kind of that. You know, I always like called like the college. experience, but it wasn't intentionally in that setting. I think that a lot of girls, it was, I think, something different for me, but I would, let's say, you know, we'd be somewhere I'd make out with the girl, you know, so it's, you know,
Starting point is 00:10:05 pity or two, you know, that kind of a thing, but I think it was more for them the, that I'm drunk and this is a show for anyone who might be around, but for me, like, I actually enjoy it. So it was, I think, for them different. Yeah, don't you remember? I don't know how old you are, but in my day, there was a moment where, like, girl on girl action became all the rage. And every girl was like, oh, my God, I have a girl crush. Right. And they're all like, like, you say, it's all those girls that, like, doing it for a show.
Starting point is 00:10:37 But, like, would they really, like, go down on a girl? Probably not. I was going to say, yeah, are you really going to go down if I open up my legs? I don't know. Probably not. Yeah, it always be, like, to my friends, they'd be like, I have a girl crush. I'm like, oh, really, you're going to eat her snatch? And they'd be, like, fucking horrified.
Starting point is 00:10:50 I'm like, then shut the fuck up because you're not. really into girls. I'm sorry. Yeah, you're not really here for it. You're here for the show. And that's okay to say that part so that I don't look like an asshole. Yeah, but that became all the rage. But you were really into it and you like, you were into it. You would go down on a girl. Yeah. Absolutely. Love it. Yeah. Okay. So cool. So now did you got, did you and your husband first start out going and getting some unicorns five years ago? Is that what you started out doing? Honestly, we never really even could find one funny. Well, that, you know, kind of, we We have, you know, mixed feelings now that we travel down this for a little bit more of our feelings of, you know, unicorns.
Starting point is 00:11:26 That's just a personal preference. Okay. But it's funny because it started out. And the best we could, I would say, quote, fine. Yeah. Is this girl who is the manager at a bar we used to go to all the time. Okay. And her and I would literally go out to my car or we'd go in the back.
Starting point is 00:11:44 And, I mean, she is completely by as well. And we would fuck around. Oh. I mean, your husband knew about it? Yes, he loved it. He was like, she's waiting for you. I saw her go outside. He loved it.
Starting point is 00:11:57 Oh, my God. That's hilarious. Yeah. So that's kind of like where it was like, okay, this is fun. Okay, we like this. He wasn't a part of it, but he would know about it. I would come back. I'd be turned on and be all the things.
Starting point is 00:12:11 So that kind of is where that led to. But that was really as far as we honestly got with unicorn type situation. We just never really found someone who wanted, I guess, maybe more of the girl experience. A lot of it's like, we want your husband. You can be here too. And I'm like, yeah, that's not what we're doing.
Starting point is 00:12:34 Right. You really wanted to be with the girl too. But did you, like, what, like the thought of your husband, like fucking another girl in front of you, did that turn you on? Were you down for that as well? No.
Starting point is 00:12:45 No. I was not. This is all, I have to say, we still joke about it. at this day. I'm a little bit on the selfish side. If I'm there, if I'm there and we're, you know, in a lifestyle situation, I love it. It's great. I don't mind. I encourage him to do so. But the way that he likes the dynamic for myself to go out and come back and tell him about it and be turned on, that does nothing for me personally. If I'm not there, then I don't, I'm not interested
Starting point is 00:13:14 if that makes sense. Come back and tell him about it and be turned on. That does nothing for me personally. If I'm not there, then I don't, I'm not interested if that makes sense. I'm just, I'm a very much a visual person. I'm just, I'm in the moment, you know. So I enjoy watching him if I'm there, then it's great. We, we love it. But other than that, I'm like, no, like my situation that he enjoys for me, I do not enjoy it for him. Right, but he's into you. You could play solo and you worked up to that. So let's go back. Let's just stay though where we are chronologically. So you're deciding to go out and look for a unicorn, but you don't find one. Now, what do you guys do to go looking for people?
Starting point is 00:13:54 Are you, like, on the apps or something? Did you go online? Yeah, so we started on Cassidy, like, you know, the website. It's very big on West Coast Wides. Yeah. For SDC and those kind of sites and stuff like that. And just kind of started looking for parties. Oh, swing or parties.
Starting point is 00:14:11 Yeah, just kind of swinger parties. You know, these people, they do meet and greets, and they just don't really ever kind of amount to anything. A lot of it, we have found to, when we first kind of got into lifestyle that it's, it's kind of clicking. And I don't think that people mean to, but I think it's a comfortability. Oh, really? Because it is, you know, such a vulnerable, it's a vulnerable place to be, right?
Starting point is 00:14:30 Your spouse, your partners. And people tend to be a little bit clicking. Yeah, I would assume probably, especially parties, because it's not like there's hundreds of people there, right? It's a small group of people. They probably all already know each other. Right, right. Or they kind of have their idea of who they want to play with.
Starting point is 00:14:48 Right. And then it kind of is now, you know, I'm staking my claim that, you know, we've been talking on my, it gets a little awkward. But that's kind of where we started. And we found some good, we have amazing friends that we've now been friends with for years in lifestyle. And we're friends with them outside of lifestyle. I mean, we have friends that we've never even played with in their lifestyle. Well, you know me, like I got in touch with you somehow we connected because you're friends with Brenna and Brian from Front Porch Swingers, right, who have been on my show. So I'm assuming you met them in the lifestyle.
Starting point is 00:15:18 correct yes we started going to their takeovers in Vegas yeah so and my husband listens to their podcast and just kind of got to know them and now we you know we do collapse not together but like they will put together shoes we just got back from Denver together so they're they're great and yeah we exactly we found you through them yeah essentially yeah so you're going to these parties and they're kind of clicking
Starting point is 00:15:48 so you don't have like any full swaps or anything at that point and at that point had your husband brought out the fact that he wanted to see you with another guy no so that was still like another year later but it was just kind of you know there was some playing there was some things here and there a little bit there was some swap situations just kind of sporadically but no I would say even it still took another year even to kind of suggest that and ask me what would I think about doing that. thought he was full of shit. It's like, you're telling me that you want me to go, fuck another man and come home without you and come home and tell you how fantastic it was.
Starting point is 00:16:30 And sometimes they want them to have a bigger dick. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, and my husband is not small. So he just likes the reconnection. Yeah. I was like, you're full of shit. That can't be a thing. because in my mind, I don't want to see that. So I'm like that. You've got to be crazy. Yeah, of course. Because we're always projecting however you feel you're going to project them to him, right? Right.
Starting point is 00:16:55 You can't imagine. You can't understand why he can. But when you did some of those full swaps at the parties and stuff, like, or like you had some, you said you guys did a little swap here and there or whatever. Like, did he see you fucking other guy? Is that where he got it in his head? Or was this something that he was always into? I think so. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:17:12 I mean, maybe that's, I mean, honestly, now that you say that, I guess I've never really, I don't know where it came from. Or if it was like one of those, he's always had it, but this was kind of like his intro to see if he did like it and then just kind of keep traveling down that road. I mean, I could, I mean, I could really fuck with you right now and tell you at that point, then we went completely off the deep end, did a throuple situation and I had a boyfriend for a year. Oh, you're kidding. Yes. How did that happen? We could go there. Just go there.
Starting point is 00:17:41 Tell me that whole story. Right. So once this all happened and I became out more of a hot wipe, it was literally the first event. We went to a hot wife event that one of our friends was hosting was a pool party. And he showed me the list of people. And I was like, there's really no one there that I'm interested to accept this person. Hopefully he comes because sometimes people check in that don't really show up. Now, could you do me a favor real quick? Because I just want people to understand like what a hot wife event is. How is that different than a swing event? Like what's a hot wife event? So, right. So a lot of times hot wife events, the difference is, is we typically look for hot wife events because in the lifestyle, people tend to be very put off by single males. Right. It's this horrible stigma. I really think that it's such a stigma that needs to be changed and talked about because,
Starting point is 00:18:33 you know, they let single females in, but not single males. Yeah, it's crazy. I'm going to just tell you real quick. No, I'm going to tell you real quick. When I was getting SDC as a sponsor of my show, they were like, oh, we'll give your guests a free trial, but not single males. I'm like, well, then I'm not working with you. Like, if you don't give my single males a free trial, I'm not fucking signing up. Like, I'm sorry, but I'm not going to tell my listeners like, oh, the girls and couples can have it, but single guys can.
Starting point is 00:19:01 Like, that's fucked up. And so they gave it to me for everybody. But at first they were going to say no. And I'm like, well, then I won't work with you. Sorry. Yeah. Well, and that's the thing. Like these single males, one, they charge them astronomically more than the average couple
Starting point is 00:19:16 or a single female hell. I mean, should half of the single females are either free or $10. Like, you know, they get this whole pass. Yeah. And it's like these males come. They pay so much money to be there. Do you really think that they're going to fuck it up by coming, you know, in here inappropriately or being disrespectful?
Starting point is 00:19:36 One, they paid so much to come. And two, they're going to be banned forever. because you guys are already kind of waiting for them to fuck up, right? So, yeah, so, I mean, I just, to me, it doesn't make sense. And I have never had my husband and I actually laugh. I have more bad encounters with husbands with husbands than I do with single males or, or single females. That's interesting, isn't it? They've always been respectful.
Starting point is 00:20:03 I've really, I mean, I'm not saying that they're not out there, but that has nothing to do with them being single. That's just they're probably assholes. Right. So the hot wife event is it typically like, so that's a place where single guys are allowed, right? Because they're the bulls. Exactly. And so that's why we tend to gravitate more towards hot wife events, you know, or just events in general where people are open to single males attending. I prefer single males. I don't like the drama of the wife, especially as, you know, more of a hot wife situation. I don't necessarily need the wife and, you know, around. So I mean, if it happens, great. But typically, I, I don't. I prefer single males. I like to get in, get off, and get out. Obviously, because you end up in a thruple. So let's go back to that story.
Starting point is 00:20:45 So you go to this hotel, a hot wife party event. Yeah. Okay. So we went to this pool party event. He happened to be there. I was like, that's the guy from the website. I saw him. I walked up.
Starting point is 00:20:59 I, we were there for maybe 20 minutes. And I was just like, yes, yes, please. Paint the picture. Like, what was it about him that you liked? Oh, he was just beautiful. You know, there's some people you see that are just beautiful men in your, and you wonder, how are you this pretty? Like, he was just beautiful and flawless.
Starting point is 00:21:18 He was just so gorgeous. And the lifestyle, it's definitely hit or miss of what you're going to get. Right. So he was very much, he was my male unicorn in the sense that I've never seen anyone that beautiful in the lifestyle at a party. Yeah, I get it. Yeah. So I went up to him and I asked him, of course, some stupid question.
Starting point is 00:21:42 And he said, well, when are we going to play? And I said, you tell me. He said right now. And this is why I have to those stick up for you real quick because sometimes people will be like, oh, how come these people in the lifestyle, it's all about looks and stuff. It's like because she's got 10 fucking minutes to tell whether she's attracted to this guy or not. You know, in the real world, typically sometimes girls wind up attracted to guys that aren't that great looking. because they got gaming over time,
Starting point is 00:22:08 you get taken by their personality. You know what I mean? It's so much more than just... Right. In that event, there you are a fucking good guy in 20 minutes. So all you're going to go by is the way he looks.
Starting point is 00:22:17 Okay, sorry. 100%. Or even more so, let's say I see someone at a party and I'm like, oh, he looks fun or, oh, he was nice. And respectfully, I see him play and let's say he couldn't get it up
Starting point is 00:22:31 or he was done. Okay, well, then now I know. and it's not personal, but like you said, we don't have much time. We're not dating. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're there to fuck. So it's going, yeah, you're there to fuck.
Starting point is 00:22:42 So what's going to attract you the quickest? Yeah, so this guy, you're banging him 20 minutes in. Right. Okay. And now does your husband follow you? Like, is he going to go there or does he want you to go play alone at this point? Well, at this point, I said, hey, I'm going to go play. He said, okay, great.
Starting point is 00:23:01 He'll kind of pop his head in sometimes. The particular place we were at, they only have open rooms. I mean, there's kind of like a dividers, but it's open. Right. So, I mean, he could see. So I think he kind of popped in and, you know, watch for a minute from afar. But he's not the one that kind of stands over the bed or sits in the corner and watches, watches.
Starting point is 00:23:21 Yeah, yeah. Okay. He kind of lets me do my thing. So, yeah, so then we ended up playing. We were done. The whole rest of the party happened. We kind of flirt the rest of the day. And he was like, you know, he played with some other people.
Starting point is 00:23:33 and he had said, I want to finish with you. So we played one more time before I left. And then after that, we don't know, we just kind of exchanged numbers and start hanging out. And before you knew it, I had a whole ass boyfriend sleeping in our bed. Oh, my God. I was in the middle, of course. I need to be clear on that. I was in the middle.
Starting point is 00:23:52 So your husband's not into guy and guy action at all. No. I mean, you know what I love that? I'm here for all by guys. Yeah, totally. I think it's great, but it's not my husband's gym. Yeah, totally. Okay.
Starting point is 00:24:02 But so wait. So obviously he was good and bad. Like you had good chemistry with him. Fantastic. Okay. So that was like, that's what was going on. And then so how does it go to be like boyfriend? Is it that you're just like he's blown up your phone, you know, outside of playing with each other and you're just talking a lot?
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Starting point is 00:26:09 and navigating, you know, my husband was very supportive, like, you guys go on dates, you guys kind of get your found. I mean, he met him and we had all chatted that date. We had all met. And he was like, he's, you know, seems like a cool guy. You know, he's personable, those types of things. But you guys really need to kind of build a relationship if that's, you know, what you want to do and have, Like it was more at the time of just a consistent play partner. Yeah, like a booty call. As you know, like it doesn't happen often in lifestyle. I mean, it just doesn't.
Starting point is 00:26:37 Right. Where you find that consistent play person and it's fun and it's all the things. So we kind of dated and would just hang out a lot together or we would get our usual hotel once a week or twice a week. And we would just be there for hours. Sometimes that would start to kind of stay the night, you know, and come home in the morning and just kind of started from there. and we just, one day was like, well, have him come to the house, you know, and you can play well and at work. Yeah. I was like, okay.
Starting point is 00:27:05 And it just kind of evolve from there. And the next thing you know, my husband and my boyfriend are going fishing one day when they both had work off and I'm at work. Wow, that's so crazy. And your husband never had any issues with any of this, it sounds like, right? The only issue, funny enough that he had was I didn't fuck him enough. Your husband. Because he would be so turned, he would love, yeah, he would love me playing with my boyfriend, and he would be so turned on by it. He's like, now my turn.
Starting point is 00:27:34 Yeah. I'm like, I'm tired. Like, I can't, back to back is a lot. You're going to have to waste. Oh, my God. So other than that, no, he really, he didn't. Right. And I mean, he sounds very similar to Brian because like Brian and I don't know if you know, Brian.
Starting point is 00:27:50 Oh, yeah. Recently, like he's like, you know, pushing her to be more Polly and have those relationships. and he's just really down for her to be happy and be pleasureed and have whatever she wants. He's just like totally. Your guy sounds very much on the same page. Because listen, I talked to a lot of different kinds of couples into the same thing, right? I could talk to a million hot wives and a million cucks and they're all going to have a different story.
Starting point is 00:28:12 Everyone has different boundaries, right? And tons of people would never allow the texting in between or whatever because, God forbid, what happens is what happened with you. where you developed a relationship with the guy, you know, but for you, it was, for your husband, he was totally fine with it. That's like amazing. Right. And it was, and even more so, he kind of got to the point where he was like, hey, if this isn't,
Starting point is 00:28:37 you know, like we ended up basically, you know, boyfriend kind of caught feelings more than I think he wanted to. Who did? The guy did? Yeah. He was 10 years younger than myself, too. But he, I think he was kind of. kind of caught feelings and a little bit more than he wanted to or thought he was going to after 10, 11 months. And it was when it happened, my husband was like, let's just, you know, maybe we can
Starting point is 00:29:06 find another one. You know, let's just look and see, you know, what's out there. So it wasn't even like, oh, thank God, this is over. You know, we can resume life. He was incredibly encouraging of, let's look for another one then if that's not good work. We have not been successful in doing so. but he did encourage it. Right. He would have loved for you to have another boyfriend. Now, wait a second. Did you cop feelings for him and was that totally cool with you?
Starting point is 00:29:33 Yeah, it was. It was just very unexpected, right? Because I've been married for Madison for 17 years. I fuck people for fun, but not for feelings. I always joke and say, I have no feelings. I'm here for fun. But you like this guy. I'm here for fun.
Starting point is 00:29:46 Yeah. Yeah. I'm here for fun, not feeling. So that was kind of always my ongoing, you know, MO. So I didn't mind that I had feelings, but it was definitely, I was much more apprehensive. I kept checking you in with my husband and say, are you sure you're good? Yeah. Are you sure you're good?
Starting point is 00:30:03 Because to me, I'm like, this is crazy. Yeah. But he was fine. He's like, I want you to have feelings. If you didn't, I would think it was wrong, like something was wrong then because you do spend so much time together. Yeah, just natural. And even the guy wound up having feelings for you. And now he was uncomfortable with that himself.
Starting point is 00:30:22 Yeah, I think it was just he had feelings, but, and at first it was okay. And then it was like, oh, these are, these are feelings feelings. And then kind of didn't know what to do. First it was just the fun, good feelings. And then it became like real feelings. So he, but he still messages me and pretends like we're friends and sends me memes every day on Instagram. Oh, that's so funny. But you don't fuck him anymore.
Starting point is 00:30:49 Unfortunately, no. Right. So how did it break up? Like did you guys break up? No, yeah, I mean, kind of in the sense that it was just kind of like, okay, we can't fuck anymore. The feelings are too much there and I don't think I can handle it. It kind of basically was the gist of the conversation.
Starting point is 00:31:08 So we kind of went our, you know, separate ways. But we, I mean, I don't even really reach out to them much anymore because now, then I got into content and, you know, kind of took a different turn for me. so I don't really have time for all that. Yeah. But he still messages all the time. So that was your, was that your first time hooking up with another guy or just your first boyfriend kind of thing?
Starting point is 00:31:30 It was more of my first boyfriend kind of thing. I had played before. Like you had other bulls before him. Yeah. I would say maybe, there was maybe a handful, maybe five. Right. Not a ton. But again, I'm just very picky in my lifestyle because I do have a great husband.
Starting point is 00:31:47 I do, but I enjoy. fucking. So if you're hot, let's fuck. And now what about, and what about your husband? Is he typical in that? Because a lot of these guys that I talk to that are into the whole hot wafing thing, like he is, they don't really give a shit about fucking other women, really. They get the variety through their girl, you know? And a lot of times people will say, oh, it's not fair. You know, oh, she gets to fuck all these guys, but he doesn't. But typically the guy doesn't give a shit. He's not looking for it. They don't want to. Yeah. They don't. And that's what people don't understand. And even when I had my boyfriend, we would all go out with our friends.
Starting point is 00:32:22 And, you know, my boyfriend, my husband, both would be there. And every guy, quote, lifestyle friend that we have would. So does he have a girlfriend? Is he going to get a girlfriend? I said, he doesn't want one. Yeah, because you have one. Right, because it must be in this, you know, fucked up world, I must, you know, need to give him a girlfriend because I have a boyfriend. Like, he doesn't want one.
Starting point is 00:32:44 Yeah, people think just because you do this and he has to. But, I mean, I think, listen, if if a couple rolls. like that. Like I had a guy call in recently and it was a confession. He was like, he was kind of pissed because his girl was like into hot wifing and into fucking tons of guys, but she was not into him fucking girls. But he wanted to. And that's a problem.
Starting point is 00:33:01 Because, you know, yeah, that's going to be a problem because it's not going to work, you know? But typically like in the real hot wife situations, it totally works. Everyone's happy. And if it didn't work, it wouldn't be a hot wife scenario. They'd be swingers, you know, and just be full swapping and having orgies
Starting point is 00:33:17 and shit all the time. You know, that's what those couples do. 100% like we had a couple one time that we went to an event in Vegas and I could take over kind of hotel weekend about a year ago. And this couple was just so bothered by the fact that we basically would not swap with them. And I'm like, my husband is free to fuck whoever he wants. But we're not into horse trading.
Starting point is 00:33:37 Like just because my husband's sexy or you want to fuck my husband or he wants to fuck you. I love that for you both. Right. Go fuck. Right. And Joyce, you know, say less. Have fun.
Starting point is 00:33:46 Right. But that doesn't mean I'm fucking your husband. And like, this isn't like, you know, my husband always calls almost training. He's like, we're not a horse traitors, you know, like, oh, I brought something for you, so give me something too. It's like, but that may not, you know, four-way connections are hard to find. No, that's what I typically hear. That's the hardest thing because everyone's got to be attracted.
Starting point is 00:34:03 It's hard. Right. Everyone's, yeah. I mean, you know, we like to call it a 10 and 2, you know. Oh, really? Typically there's a 10 and sometimes there's usually a 2. You know? And if someone's not willing to take it for the team, what are you going to do in those situations?
Starting point is 00:34:17 You know, I'm not a team player like that. Right, right, totally. I know. I've heard of some women be like, I tried to take it for the team, but like after one time of doing that, I'm just like fuck this. I can't.
Starting point is 00:34:26 Yeah, I just can't fucking do it. Yeah, and that's why I have heard some couples wind up going solo because they get so frustrated. I'm trying to find play partners together that everyone's sort of into, you know, does your guy have like a taste in your guys or is he just down with you being with whoever you want? Because sometimes some guys are like into interracial or
Starting point is 00:34:47 they really want the guy to have a bigger dick than them? Is your guy, like, particular like that at all? So my husband's black. Yeah, okay. So, and I, I typically prefer black men. Uh-huh. There's exceptions. I always joke, actually, with Brian that I fuck him just because.
Starting point is 00:35:04 But Brian, like, off the market now, kind of. Like, that's what he was telling me. I know, I know. I know. I'm like, damn you. I know. It was just what some two weeks ago here in Denver. And, but yeah, no, you know, I mean, there's exceptions, right?
Starting point is 00:35:17 We're going to Vegas this weekend. I have five shoots lined up. One is actually white. This will be the first time ever for me. Oh, really? Yeah, so we'll see how that goes. But, yeah, he, I mean, he has a big dick. My husband does.
Starting point is 00:35:35 So that's not really it. But he does definitely like for them to have big dicks. He likes kind of that, like, in his mind, part of that fantasy is kind of. of like that stretch me out like fill me up he does like that kind of aspect of the playing for me so yes that definitely does have a role in it you know that's sometimes but that sometimes hard to find sometimes people think they are entirely bigger than they are or they like to use the phrase of bbc incorrectly and they're not oh my god and they said the dick pick like they took it from the
Starting point is 00:36:12 bottom up and it looks way bigger right right and i was like oh that's sweet and i guess I'm like, oh, that's it. Okay, I got you. No problem. Wait, so now let's get to the where you start to make content. Somewhere along this journey, you guys are like in the lifestyle, your swingers. You're just doing this for fun. Like, when do you decide to put your stuff online and are you anonymous on there or do you show your face?
Starting point is 00:36:35 So I do show my face. I do. I was really actually very hesitant about I have kids, obviously. Yeah. That would be my biggest reason, which is most people's reason or their job. So that's usually the two reasons I hear. you know, either my kids or my job. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:36:48 My job, I don't give a shit. My job is fine. My day job. But for my kids, my kids are a bit older now, though. And, I mean, because things like Oaf or loyal fans, like, you would have to be a member, you would have to type my name specifically in there. The chances that I'm finding me are probably not great anyways, you know. But the content kind of started because, I mean, this sounds incredibly arrogant.
Starting point is 00:37:13 I fuck well. And it kind of became an. ongoing joke of people that I would play with. And they were like, you really have, like, just this, like, thing about you. And it just kind of became a running joke. And my husband said, okay, let's just put it up and see what happens. Let's just kind of promote and see what's going on. And I've got almost 2,000 followers in three months.
Starting point is 00:37:40 That's, that quickly, did you just start doing it? Yes, literally. Well, as far as promoting, like truly promoting, I kind of was building content since literally the beginning of the year. It's been just less than a year of content-wise. Right. But actually having like a Twitter and promoting that aspect of my content since July, like actively doing it. So from July to now, I have almost 2,000 followers just in that short block. Right.
Starting point is 00:38:11 It's a lot of work. But we love it. We've had so much fun. just kind of doing it and figuring it out and navigating this new world of, you know, conventions. We went to Exotica and that was a lot of fun and a different experience. We're going to go to the Avians. We got invited this year for January in Vegas.
Starting point is 00:38:31 So a lot of like good stuff and things are happening really quickly. But, you know, it's a big market. So there's, I would say people, there's room for everybody and there's a kink for everyone. Yeah, no, sometimes people get turned off. they're like, oh, like, why do you have people that have like Only fans? Right. Like, well, how do you not have people nowadays? Like, that is just like what everyone's doing.
Starting point is 00:38:52 It's like trying to find someone that doesn't have their own Instagram page. It's like, but I'm never talking to people who were like just started to do this because of an Only fans. It's always people that were doing it beforehand. And so, you know, it becomes something everyone else is doing. Why not do it? Like you said, you fuck good. You're doing it anyway. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:39:11 Like, why not? Yeah. I mean, I'm playing at parties for free. Why not get paid for it? it. Yeah, exactly. And you're like you said, you were getting all this attention. So why not? You put your right there and then it turns out that people really liked it. Now, do you get off on knowing that people are watching you? Is your husband totally into that too? Yes. My husband enjoys it much more than I do. It's fun. When I play at a party, I prefer a private room. Yeah. Maybe because I am on camera now so much that like
Starting point is 00:39:39 for me it's even if I'm not like intimately into somebody, but just the privacy factor. for 20 minutes of my day instead of being in front of a camera because not only do I do content, but my husband is the cameraman. So he's at every shoot with me and he's very up close
Starting point is 00:39:59 and personal in my space, which I get it, we're shooting for content. Yeah. But if I'm doing it for pleasure or for fun, I typically try to I prefer to play privately, but he very much enjoys knowing that everyone wants to fuck his wife. It's kind of
Starting point is 00:40:15 of the best way to put it, I guess. Yeah, that goes along. Most of those guys are like that, right? Because that's what it's about. And so how many bulls do you typically have like in your roster at one time? I mean, is it just, do you like to have like one good old faithful? Do you have three in rotation? Are you just doing content, other content creators?
Starting point is 00:40:34 I mean, I definitely have people I still want to work with. And it just hasn't lined up yet. I've kind of been in touch with some. And, you know, we're kind of booking out now to ABN time in January. this is kind of a slow time of December typically people you know I'm just traveling and other you know personal things but I like to have one or two consistent yeah that if I come up with an idea and I'm like oh that'd be fucking hot let's let's put that together let's shoot something like that I have people that I can kind of call to make that content with right
Starting point is 00:41:04 but there's also the variety right everyone wants to see the variety there but I will say there's people that we do know they only you know fuck their husband or the husband only is fucking just one girl. And they've made a name for themselves doing that. That's fantastic. I find though for me, most people want to see. Most of my messages are who's next or have you thought about, you know, this person. Like I have fans literally reaching out to me saying, have you seen this guy?
Starting point is 00:41:34 Do you think that you could fuck him so I could see it? Oh, wow. I mean, they get very invested. Oh, my God. That's interesting. They give you ideas. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:42 They do. Or, you know, sometimes. I'll even put in my DM, hey, what does everyone want to see? Like, tell me, give me ideas. Like, just to help kind of engage with them because you do run out of ideas. How many times can we play the hot wife in a hotel room? Yeah, exactly. I mean, they do come up with different stuff and different ideas. So I love it. I love interacting with them and hearing their ideas because they are, let me tell you, they're very detailed, aren't it? So they give you good, like, hot porn scenarios. Oh, yeah, they're playing it all out for me.
Starting point is 00:42:13 Yeah, that's great. And then you get to play it out. Right. And then I get to reenact it. So it works. But it's a lot, I mean, it's a lot of fun to hear their interactions and their suggestions just because they obviously sit around and, you know, kind of think about it. When you're playing private, like you said, or like just in your regular life, are you typically still playing at like hotel takeovers and swinger parties or do you have some bulls that you see at their house? I don't.
Starting point is 00:42:42 You know, I kind of wish, this is a part I miss about my boyfriend. Just kind of having that constant, like you said, kind of like the on-deck bowl aspect. Because it's just kind of fun. And then we would all play together as well. Obviously, again, me in the middle. I need to make sure if he hears this. He's like when you were not clear. When you guys slept over.
Starting point is 00:42:59 Yeah, totally. Yeah. So, but I don't. I kind of wish I did. I feel like that's a little bit of something that's missing for me. I don't know that I have the capacity to get for that right now because I just am. working so much on my content and all the new things, but I do miss kind of having that on-call aspect. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And now you said early on, oh, you know, you had different opinions
Starting point is 00:43:24 about unicorns now as opposed to when you guys first started out. Like, what happened with you guys with unicorns? And I felt that when, and my husband would agree, I feel we got into situations where there's this entitlement because they don't have to pay. or they are $5 to come into the club. And with that aspect, they come in kind of very, they don't have a lot to lose. If they decide they don't like something or they're bothered, they just kind of come and go and leave because it was no skin,
Starting point is 00:43:58 you know, they have no skin in the game, right? Right, right. And they kind of just float in and out. And I don't want to put a general label on it because we do have friends that are unicorns and they're lovely. but as a whole they tend to give entitled vibes a little bit to at least the ones that we have encountered in one-off scenarios. Again, we have friends that are unicorns and are lovely. But overall as a group, sometimes they kind of are entitled.
Starting point is 00:44:23 Like, everyone's looking for a unicorn. And they're not wrong because that's where a lot of people start. That's their comfort level. My wife's going to make out with a girl that's so hot and cool. Yeah, you always think that that's like every guy's biggest fantasy. But I think more guys are into the guy. two guy thing. Sorry.
Starting point is 00:44:41 A hundred percent. And it's funny because the same thing. My husband says the same thing is like, cool, you ate pussy. Now what the fuck am I going to do? Like just sit here. Like,
Starting point is 00:44:49 you know what I mean? Like there's nothing for me to do in this. Yeah. Because a lot of those girls will even say like, oh, I don't want to play with your husband. I'm here for you. Let's say,
Starting point is 00:44:58 you know, or whatever it is in that dynamic. And so he's like, well, okay, cool. Now what? You know,
Starting point is 00:45:04 like, what's the next part? So, and even my boyfriend, he felt the same. He's like, I hate three sons with two girls because usually the girls end up making out and then I'm just over here. Yeah, that's interesting.
Starting point is 00:45:15 So just a lot of them are kind of entitled, like everyone's looking for me. I had a girl one time at a party tell me you have no idea how hard it is to be a unicorn. I'm like, oh yeah, boo-hoo. The struggle's real. Like, cry me a river, you know. Yeah. But that's kind of where we are. That's why we just kind of took a, I do have friends.
Starting point is 00:45:36 It's funny. I actually have friends that girl-wise. that I could call more consistently than guys. I mean for hookups, like for sex. At this particular moment. I don't take them up on it very often, but I could if I, you know,
Starting point is 00:45:49 one and two type of thing. And that's just kind of where we're out with the unicorn situation. We don't ever feel like they're here 50-50 for both. Right, right. But you have girls if you want to hook up and you can and you do. Right.
Starting point is 00:46:02 Right. I've got a couple of girlfriends. And you're guys happy with you hooking up. Now, when you guys do go to like swing or events and stuff like that, does he sometimes hook up with other women when you're there? Does he ever find something that he's interested in? Right.
Starting point is 00:46:16 Yeah. It's usually that one because I encourage him to do so. Yeah. By all means, if you like it, I love it. It's usually my saying for him. Yeah. Go ahead. Knock stuff out.
Starting point is 00:46:26 But a condom on and I'll see you later. And does he? He just typically doesn't. I mean, if he's like this black guy with a big dick walking around, I would assume there's a lot of women like going after him now. there are and usually his complaint is they can't hang right the husband usually feels the type of way because you know either he wants to play with me or I'm fucking his wife more than he can't I told him I said you should really get into the cuck you know put them in a corner and you know tap into that because that's a
Starting point is 00:46:59 big market right now right and he could be the bull you mean that kind of a thing yeah your husband be the bull right right right Right. And I told him, I said that, you know, that way you kind of get best of both worlds. You know, you can be the BBC for them, you know, and then the husband won't be upset because that's his pink. So it works out. But in regular swinger parties, there tends to be a little bit of friction there with that. So it's harder for him to just find a girl where the guy's okay with that in a normal swinger environment. I like to call him vanilla swingers. Yeah. Right. They're very black and white, cut and dry. You give me this. I give you that.
Starting point is 00:47:39 We go in the room. We do our business and we leave. Yeah. Instead of the experience. So. And do you guys have any kind of rules or anything like that? Or did you start out and then they flew out the window? It doesn't sound like you did.
Starting point is 00:47:53 Oh, my gosh. We really actually did. You did? We did. We did. What were they? They still stand for me lifestyle-wise. Okay.
Starting point is 00:48:02 I do not suck dick. Oh, interesting. That's an interesting. In lifestyle. Yeah, I know. And here's my logic. And it's funny that people say, because a lot of my friends go, how are you going to fuck? But you don't suck dick. I said, when I'm in lifestyle, they put a condom on. I mean, I obviously test differently because I do content. But for lifestyle, condoms are mandatory. Of course, especially. And if you're putting a condom on, I rarely you put a condom on and fuck me, then me put my bare mouth on your bare dick and I don't know where you've been. Yeah, because you can get gonorrhea. Like, I mean, I think a lot of people don't understand that. Right.
Starting point is 00:48:40 100% you could get STI through that kind of, through oral sex for women. Exactly. Exactly. And so my big thing is I rather bend over a chair with a condom and let you fuck me versus me. I'm going to put my bare mouth on your dick. Yeah. No. I don't know you like that, you know.
Starting point is 00:49:00 Yeah. And that's just kind of my thing. But I made that my own rule, unless I really know the person. You sound like your husband said you can't suck dick, right. Right. And once I told him, he said, now I can't unsee this. I said exactly. So it's kind of, you know, this visual piece where he's like, you're right.
Starting point is 00:49:20 It's actually probably more sanitary to fuck with the Gotham. Yeah. Than to be doing this, you know, other option. So that's kind of more my rule. We had a huge rule of no makeout, you know, no extensive kissing. You know, that was kind of just something we wanted to keep. kind of for ourselves and that intimacy factor. But also, too, those rules get loosened a little bit.
Starting point is 00:49:42 As we all know, there needs to be usually some sort of four-play, especially for a female. I don't want to fuck. You can't just, we're not guys, can't just pull our pants down and, you know, our dicks hard. Yeah, totally. So there tends to need to be something. So we kind of loosen up on that a little bit. Content-wise, my only rule is I don't do anal. Okay, that's interesting.
Starting point is 00:50:02 But you'll blow the guy in content, right? because you guys are doing all kinds of testing, right? Right. Right. We test every 13 days. Oh, okay, great. And what kind of testing do you do? Like, I mean, is it with a specific, like they have certain companies, right?
Starting point is 00:50:14 Or it's like, and because the other person has to test too, right? Yeah. So how it works typically is we have, well, they have TTS or they have cleared. Unfortunately, TTS is this big talent testing services. Yeah, I've heard of it. Yeah. Which it's great. But, you know, that's great.
Starting point is 00:50:30 Unfortunately, there's a lot of people who you can only be TTS tested. or I won't shoot with you. But the problem is we don't, there's only five actual TTS locations in the country right now. One of which is in Vegas. They do have these satellite offices. But the problem is they charge you then to, let's say go to the satellite office. It's only private. It's about $350 to test.
Starting point is 00:50:54 Oh, every 13 days. Exactly. Did you imagine? And then they charge you extra because it's a satellite office and they have to ship it to an actual TTS site. Oh, wow. So now it's another $75. Right.
Starting point is 00:51:09 So, you know, for something that's every, on the 14th a day, I'm always being tested and then I take a week, make sure everything's fine. I don't, you know, play or do anything, you know, otherwise, and then shoot. And I book all of my shoots. But with that, $400 every couple weeks, I mean, that's just crazy. Yeah. I just do like quest diagnostics because I don't have a TTS site around that here. in Southern California, we don't have one.
Starting point is 00:51:34 So I just do quest diagnostics and they give me a full panel and I make sure to tell them all the things that I need to see on there and they run my panel and I just do it that way. But some people are really particular about it. Yeah, yeah, it's interesting. And then the people that you shoot with, they do the same as well. And how do you find them? Is it just like word of mouth once you're in that world?
Starting point is 00:51:57 A little bit. It depends. I will say that you definitely kind of go, hey, I saw this. you know, this particular person, have you shot with them? They're in Vegas too. Or, you know, like I'll ask, you know, my Vegas friends. Like, you know, I'll ask Brena, have you shot with him? Yeah. She's like, oh, yeah, he's great, you know, or no, I haven't shot with him yet, but I've heard good things or, oh, I wouldn't do that. You know, and a lot of it, because it is a, I mean, it's a big world content, but yet it's a very small community. And you make a name very quickly if it's not
Starting point is 00:52:27 great or if it is great. But there's those kind of in-betweens. And so, I'm I always like to ask if I can, but I will go on and typically they have kind of higher following numbers. I will reach out because I figure if they, you know, it's trial and air, I will say. I've had a couple where I'm like, oh, not again. There was this one guy. I mean, I just sat a little while ago with them. I mean, the man came three times in like six minutes.
Starting point is 00:52:54 You did? What are you doing? Oh, he did. Oh. And I'm like, wow. Okay. You know, he's just like, oh, I didn't expect. you'd be so tight.
Starting point is 00:53:03 Like it was just such an awkward moment. I'm like, I don't even know how we can piece together film with this. Like, what are we doing? Oh, my God. How are you so tight with all this fucking you're doing? But I feel like they say that it is the opposite. You don't get loose through a lot of sacks like supposedly. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:53:18 I've heard somebody say something like that either. You know, people don't do their homework. It's like your vagina is a muscle. Right. The more you use it actually, the tighter it gets. Yeah, that's what I heard. Yeah. That's what it's like the opposite.
Starting point is 00:53:31 So it's the complete opposite of what everyone thinks. Oh, she must be a whore because it's a loose. She's got a big loose pussy. No. I was like, no. That's actually the opposite. But yeah. Yeah, because you had kids in your tight.
Starting point is 00:53:44 I get that a lot. Yeah. I get that a lot. And then my husband always laughs and says, why do you break everybody? I don't mean to. Oh, my God. And now are you multi-orgasmic? Can you squirt?
Starting point is 00:53:55 Are you like all of the above? I am not a multi-commer. Mm-mm. No, and neither am. am I. I'm very impressed with people that are. It might change though. I'm not only impressed, but I'm jealous. Yeah, me too. That and squirting, I'm jealous of all the things
Starting point is 00:54:09 I can't do. I also can't deep throat. I'm jealous of people who can't. These are like tricks you can pull out of your pocket. I don't have them, but other people do. Right. I am a squatter. Yeah, that's great. I am a squatter if they do it right. If they can do it right, then I am. Uh-huh. I would say deep throat in my earlier years was a much better
Starting point is 00:54:27 experience for myself, but I mean, I can I can breathe through it. I can. But, you know, I also fuck some really big dicks. And that's just not going to get deep-throated. It's just not, you know? Some of them are just unrealistic. But I'm here to give an all-star effort.
Starting point is 00:54:43 Right. But you don't, obviously, don't do D.P. Right? Because there's no anal, right? That's something that's off the table for you. It's off the table. I was a very big DEP person for my husband and my boyfriend. But, yeah, I will do, I will DDP.
Starting point is 00:54:59 Oh, you will? Will you'll two dicks and your pussy at the same time. Those big dicks, you can fit two of them in them? Oh my God. Fantastic. Really? It's fucking topped here. How do you fit two huge ones in there?
Starting point is 00:55:11 You've got to be in the head space for it. You've got to be in the head space, but it's fantastic. I mean, it doesn't happen. It's not going to be like, hey, Bob and hey, Mike, come on over here. But if you're in that moment and it works out to be that way, I'm fucking here for it. Yeah, that's amazing. And to people could see that on your only fans? Yes.
Starting point is 00:55:29 Only fans, Fansley, loyal fans, many bids. Yeah, at the end, you'll give a shout out. And we'll end in like five minutes and then you'll put links to all your stuff. But quick question, you said you did DVP, no, DP, double penetration with your guy and your boyfriend, right? Yes. And that was that your first time doing it or had you done it before? No, that was the first time for a DP. Right.
Starting point is 00:55:53 I mean, I will, I do anal. I will do anal. Again, that's kind of one of those moments of just me and my house. husband. My boyfriend and I would do it. But it's definitely more of an intimate situation. I'm not, I'm not, you know, fucking Joe in the ass on a Tuesday. But I, but that was the first time for a DP and that situation. Yes. It was my husband and my boyfriend. Right. But you love the DVP, which is the two Dexon. I love DVP. Yeah, that's interesting. I like the DP. It was, it was good because I was in the moment and I trusted both of the people there.
Starting point is 00:56:30 Yeah. But I still, it's not my go. If someone said pick one, I'm for sure going to go DVP. Right. And now, so you, so I'm assuming if you're doing DVP, you're, you've been with multiple men at the same time, you know, what is the like largest about, like, have you ever had something that you would consider as a gang bang? Are you looking to do that?
Starting point is 00:56:49 Have you been with more than two guys at once? I have not. And that is actually on my husband's to do list for me. He's like, can we find people? Yeah. I would love to do one. Actually, I would love to do more of a gangbanks. I've done reverse gangbanks where it's three or four girls with one dune.
Starting point is 00:57:08 Yeah. I've got that on, I've got a couple of videos of that. But I would love to, but it's more of kind of finding that chemistry. Yeah. Because a lot of the guys are a little bit, believe it or not, are the ones who tend to be a little bit awkward about it. If they don't know each other well. Oh, no. There's a whole thing.
Starting point is 00:57:28 I've talked to gang bang girls, and they'll tell you, like, I mean, it is all about chemistry and finding the right group of guys to do a good gang bang is hard to find. I mean, there's gang bang coordinators out there, you know, like, that's what they do. Yeah. You know, it's hard to put together. Yeah, I see the posts all the time where we're like, we're just running this gang bang and this girl basically lays on it. You know, I hate to each of them.
Starting point is 00:57:52 But this girl literally lays on a bed and they just run through it. Yeah. That's not what I'm looking for. Right. Yeah, we're more of kind of like, you know, it's me, but it's, I would like probably three or four. The most I've had is just the two. I would, right. But definitely have people that I, you know, had picked or at least that even if I don't know them all, I want the guys to know each other.
Starting point is 00:58:18 Right. Because that's typically the better chemistry because guys can go either way with feeling comfortable or not. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense. Mm-hmm. So for me, it's more about are the guys comfortable, and do they kind of either know each other or they're comfortable in those situations because some guys are not? And then that's going to make it awkward for everybody. So that's more of what I would be concerned about when I look for, as they call it, like a team. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:58:45 Because they typically are friends or know each other or work together or something along those kind of lines. Right. So that's more of what I would look for, but I would love to. we just haven't found them all in one place at one time yet. Well, listen, you've done so much in your short time. I mean, it just sounds like, right? I mean, you're just like getting at your content too, but there's a lot for people to see, right? So why don't you give a shout out to all your stuff?
Starting point is 00:59:08 And I will put links in the description and then send me some like hot R rated picks for my Patreon. That's you. And then I'll give you access, free access to my Discord where you could put like teaser stuff and everything and promote your only fans and stuff over there. But give a shout out to where people could find you on all your platforms. But I'll put the link so people don't have to remember it. Yeah, perfect. So everything is at Sammy's World One.
Starting point is 00:59:32 So it's S-A-M-M-I-E world and the number one. My Twitter, my only fans, my Fansley, mini-vids and loyal fans. Oh, awesome. Sammy's World One. Yeah. I kept everything consistent. All right, cool.
Starting point is 00:59:48 So now do you have like a link tree or like a one-length page you can send me that has all of that? Yeah. Okay. Awesome. Awesome. So listen, do me a favor. Get me everything ASAP. So, because like this will maybe air either this Monday or the following Monday, depending. So, but if it goes up on this Monday, I will be posting it on Friday on my Patreon. So get me your pick, some hot picks. Not like, I say R rated for my Patreon. Like no, like, you know, it's not going to be your husband's dick picks, but no like pussy shots or nips in the picture. You know, women typically send like lingerie shots like hot like that. And then, but. But, you know, but. You know, but. You know, you. You could put X-rated stuff and teaser content and everything over on my Discord. I'll give you free access to that. And send me your one link so that I could post that as well.
Starting point is 01:00:35 Perfect. Do you want me to email it to your? Yeah. Do you want me just email it? Okay. Yeah, email or text either way. Okay. All right.
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