Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 979 - Natasha and her Husband Started Swinging and it Went Totally Wrong

Episode Date: December 2, 2024

Natasha and her husband started swinging and things went very wrong and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how she was always into women and how that led to them opening things up, how and why they’re wound up at Naughty New Orleans and exactly what went down there including her first hook up with a woman ad what they did together, how and why when they got home they went online looking for couples to hook up with, the first couple they met and what they liked about them, how and why she didn’t want to hook up with the husband but was okay if her husband hooked up with the other wife, the first time they hooked up with the couple and exactly what went down, the second time they hooked up with them and exactly what went down that time, the third time they hooked up and exactly what went down between all of them that time, the confusion that surrounded their last hook up before they even met up with the couple, what went down when they all hooked up in the hot tub and how and why things went south, how and why both her and the other women weren’t happy and how they both reacted, how the other husband and wife got in a huge fight and how things ended, why she can’t let go of hem but should plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of SAMMIE plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order https://www.magicmind.com/sac  You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one-time purchases with code SAC20 at checkout Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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They're all over. They're worldwide. So, you know, you could go on there and meet like-minded people in your area or if you're traveling and you want to hook up with someone on vacation. You're going to be able to find people there. And what's also great about it is not only can you meet people on there, you could also find out about all the swinger events and swinger parties and hotel takeovers and swinger clubs and gangbings, you name it. It's all on that site. And you get a free trial, like I said, just use my code 37712 or go to the description and click on the link and you'll be taken right there. Now today I have on Natasha and I say very early on in this episode, I love like a swinger's gone wrong story. This really is

a swinger's gone wrong story. But first, it's also a really interesting newbie story. This is a couple who's been together since the dawn of time. She copped to being into females. They started to, like, enter into the lifestyle. They went to, like, naked New Orleans. She hooked up with a woman. She talks about that experience, and they

went on to SDC, and they started looking for couples. They met a couple, and then they started hooking up with that couple. She talked about all their hookups with the couple and all their communication with the couple and their whole relationship with the couple. They got very close with that couple and then, you know, maybe fourth or fifth time of hooking up with them.

Things went really wrong. And we talk about that at the end, you know, and she feels really bad about her about it. It was a pretty bad sort of ending to their last hookup. I think it's an important story to hear because I think you could learn from like the mistakes that were made during that hookup, mostly from the other couple standpoint,

but from their standpoint too. They're both newbie couples hookings. up. People make mistakes. I think that's why I love a good swingers gone wrong story because I think you could learn from it. To me, when things go wrong, it doesn't mean you have to abandon ship and never be in the lifestyle anymore. You just got to like communicate and learn from it and move on. So it doesn't happen again because shit does happen. People do have feelings. Things do go wrong sometimes. That's fucking life. Hopefully they'll make it through. They're not really, you know, that's life. Okay. But it's a super interesting story. Natasha sent me

in hot picks of herself. I have them over on my Patreon. They are looking for a hot couple to hook up with. She's sad that she lost this hookup. So if you live in the Panhandle, Florida area and you're listening to this, you might want to hook out with her. Email me. I'll put you in touch. But anyway, and they're also on SDC. So anyway, I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Natasha. Hi, Natasha. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Doing great. How are you? I'm good. Just so everyone knows we're both sitting in our walking closet, it's talking to each other. We are, yeah.

Except I'm in the city in my walking closet. You're in the middle of like a mountain or something in your walking closet. I know, yes. Yeah. Okay, so listen to Tasha. No offense, but I love a good swinger's gone wrong story. And that's kind of like what you got here. Or like a threesome gone wrong story.

That's what you got. I don't know. You and your husband are married. You decided to hook up with another girl or something, right? Like you had a threesome with another girl. And then you hooked up with a couple. and you were hooking up with them and then something went very wrong, right?

We're not going to start there, but that's what we're working up towards, right? That's correct, yeah. Like a couple swap that went wrong, correct? That's it. Okay, well, let's... I wouldn't call it a... Yeah, we'll just get to it later.

What do you mean? Well, no, what were you going to say? I was going to say, it wasn't like a full swap. It was just her with my husband, but yeah, it all went bad. So you weren't fucking her husband. It was just a girl, single girl? Was she with her husband? No, she was with her husband.

He, well, I'll just, get to it later. It'll get to later. So many details. Okay. Well, let's go back to, first of all, how long have you married for? I've been married for 20 years. Okay, 20 years. You're a husband married 20 years. How was your sex life before you decide

to open it up and bring some women into the bedroom? Oh, it's great. I mean, and I think that's kind of how we got into the lifestyle. You know, we've, we have a great sex life and we talk about everything. And, you know, I've been with him since I was 17. So I have, like, no experience really outside of him.

Yeah. And so he's older than me. He's seven years older than me. So he had, he did his wild time, you know, before me. But once we were married, then, you know, we started talking about it. And he's, he's more of the wild one, I guess. And he kind of taught me into doing it. So what did he talk you into doing specifically?

Like, what was those conversations like in the beginning of you deciding to open things up? Like what did he lean over and say one day? So I'm attracted to females. I like females always. You know, we'll go to the strip clubs. We'll do different things like that. And he just kind of leaned on that. And at first I was like, I was just a man.

You know, he wants another female. You know, whatever. But then I was like, oh, maybe it's cool. You know, we watch porn together, do stuff like that. And then, you know, whenever we started talking more serious about the lifestyle, he brought up the naughty New Orleans, which that. He had been talking about that for a while. And I kept saying, no, I don't want to do that.

I don't want to do it. He's like, let's just do it. It's our 20th anniversary. Let's go ahead. Let's go and do it. Oh, okay. So in your email to me you put in there, we went to N-I-N. And I'm thinking you went to a nine-inch N-N-N-N-N-N-N-N-Els concert, okay?

Because that's what N-I-N-I-N-N-N-E means to you. It means to me. But N-N-I-N-N-E-Rleans. And I think, just so you know, what time of the year does Noddy New Orleans take place? Do you remember? June July-ish. Okay, because I went to New Orleans once and I was in the Lowe's Hotel, I think it was. And I went to another floor to get a toothbrush from my friend's room and there was like all these half-naked people running around.

And I was like, I think we're in the middle of like some sort of swingers convention. And it must have been naughty New Orleans. Yeah. So, okay, so you decided to go to naughty New Orleans. Is that, that was your first experience, correct? That was. And it was great. It was not even, we didn't, like, do a lot of the playrooms.

I'm still kind of standoffish with it. I don't mind watching and hearing about it, but just talking to the people there and meeting other people. You know, we joked and we said we were a lifestyle adjacent because we hadn't done anything and we were just meeting all these people. There was a couple that we met on, I don't, it wasn't the SEC side. It was some other site. My husband got signed up to see who was going to the Nottie in New Orleans. And so we met the couple, and then we met them again in New Orleans, and that's the female that I, that it was only me and her, but yeah, in New Orleans.

We, that was my first time with them. So, but, and that was back at the hotel room. It wasn't even, you know, at the event. But, and that was the only thing that happened in New Orleans. It was great, which kind of sparked me to, okay, well, maybe this is fun. And it happened the night that everything went down. I was a little little liquor coming off the day parties, and her husband was the one chatting with us, you know, texting back and forth. He's like, where are you at?

We're back at the hotel. And my wonderful husband, who never drinks, decided to drink too much. So he was out. He was not feeling so sporty. So, and it worked out in my favor because I was not interested in another man. I told her husband that. And he was okay with it. And now, like I said, they are a little bit older.

How old are you and how old were they? So this is where it gets weird. So I'm 41. On the site, it said she was 44 and that he was 55. I was like, yeah, they're older, but I don't care about him. You know, I was just interested in her. And she was shot as ill. Yeah.

So whenever we got there, I was like, man, they kind of look a little bit older than that. I'm not a bad judge of age. Yeah. But then he was like, oh, that site didn't update with our age. And I was like, ugh. But they're really nice people. like I said, she's still hot. He's just older than what I anticipated.

But again, I didn't mess with him. He was just there. And so whenever we were in New Orleans, yeah, she came to the hotel room. We did everything. You know, she, and it was, I guess, because we were both little, little liquored and tipsy,

it was just like, hey, get your clothes off. And we did. And so we did our thing and we finished up. That was it. I didn't, you know, whenever we were in New Orleans, a lot of couples kept coming up and asking like, hey, do you want to, you know, do a full swap, do a full swap.

And I kept joking, like, that's all they wanted. They just walk up and go full swap. And I said, no. And they walk away. Oh, my God. Okay. Slow it down, though, Natasha. Okay.

We'll get to the bad experience you had. But like this experience in New Orleans, this is like your first time entering into the lifestyle. Like, what were your conversations like going into this event for the first time? So he always says it's based off me Whatever my limit is, that's it I was not comfortable with I didn't even want to soft swap with another man I was just I

At the time I didn't have any expectations I guess But I just knew that and I told him I didn't want to be with another You know with another guy at all Okay just because I don't To me with a man like I want to be comfortable Like I want to and I don't I didn't know anybody there Besides you know hey what's your name?

So it just, it wasn't, I don't know, it just didn't do it for me. You don't need to explain yourself. Most women are like that. They're not just going to like fuck a guy. But for women, this is something you'd been fantasizing for a long time. Like you were maybe open to hooking up with a woman, right? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.

Now, were you open to your husband banging a woman or was that off the table? No, I wasn't at the time because, again, I don't know them. I wasn't, I didn't have a problem, you know, was like any type of soft swap. But with that comes, you know, then I might have to do it. And so I didn't want to do it. And so he was kind of, you know, I don't want to go forward if you're going to have to go forward with him and you don't want to. So he's like, hey, I'm good with just watching. So he's really good at just being an observer in the room.

Right. So going into it, it was like you guys were going there and you were going to hook up with the woman and hopefully he was going to get to watch the action. But he was not going to participate. That's what you had on the table, right? Yeah, and I wouldn't even say like we had a plan of going there to hook up with somebody. It was just more of finding out more about the lifestyle. And, you know, is this something that we're going to do or not? Yeah, I think that that's great to go in without any expectations, right?

It takes all the pressure off. Right? Oh, yeah. It was. Yeah, it was. And it was fun just learning and talking to people. Yeah, but here you are a woman who's never been with any other guy. I mean, you married your guy like a really young age, right?

you were kind of inexperienced. You'd never been with a woman before? Never. Right. So I would think it's a little scary like your first time, right? But were you excited to maybe do something? Oh, yeah. Just the possible, in fact, whenever we went to the,

before we went to the hotel with the lady I hooked up with, we were at actually a strip club in New Orleans. And some of the couples that we met, the ladies, yeah, we were over there. We were, I think the husband's paid for us to get a lap dance. and then somehow the ladies and we started making out and they were trying to rip my dress off. I don't know. It was kind of crazy. And then the bouncer kicked us out. So, but it was a lot of fun. Well, because he said we were, people were watching us and out the strippers.

Yeah. So we had to leave. But it was. It was a lot of fun. And, you know, and like I said, the men didn't really, they just watched. They paid for lap dances. They got the drinks. And they, they, they went. watch. That was it. Okay, so you get to that night where your husband's kind of passed out. This guy is texting you about his wife. You show, they come to your room or do you go to their room? Like, where does the action happen? And where's your husband at the time? So they came to our room. He's there. He's not passed out. He's just in the chair. He just don't feel good. And so the husband sat in the chair and they watched. It was the other lady, the wife and I, on the and we went at it and I mean and it it was really good.

She ended up breaking the headboard. I don't know how. How is that I do want to know how. I mean, were you 69ing? Was she sitting on your face? Was she like, what were you doing that when it broke? I believe she was sitting on my face and she had her hands in there is what she said. And she like went to go lift herself up and whenever she did her hands went further down the bed.

underneath, I mean, behind the frame. And so she yanked it out and just like pulled the frame. Oh my God. Oh, my God. Yeah. She did. Her hands went further down the bed underneath, I mean, behind the frame. And so she yanked it out and just like pulled the frame.

Oh, my God. Oh, my God. That's hilarious. Yeah. nervous. Did you do a good job? Was it great for her to go down on you? How was she? She was good. They're in the lifestyle, that other couple. And so they have a group of friends that they're just like regular swingers with. She knew it was my first time and everything.

And she was really good, great. I think I get too much in my head about it. I was telling my husband, it's just so much to take in. It's like, it's overwhelming. And I mean, it was great, though. She, yeah, she sat on my face. She got off. I didn't because I think I was just too much in my head. Yeah. And then towards the end, her husband, he wanted to come up and get her, you know, to finish with, you know, he wanted to have sex with her.

And so she was actually going down on me while he was having sex with her. And then later on, he had text me. And he was like, I normally don't go that fast, but I'm sorry, it was really hot. And so it didn't last. I mean, me, with the females, me and her, it was, that lasted probably about an hour, hour and a half. With him, it wasn't that long. Right.

And so, but yeah, it was great. So now when, like, when they left, were you hot for your husband or did you have great sex the next day thinking about it? Because I get that you were in your head, but you probably were still very into the scenario, correct? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, I was. Yeah, in fact, he started feeling better, obviously, as the liquor wore off. Yeah. And so once they left, we ordered some food.

He started feeling better. We ended up, we ended up fucking until like three in the morning. They left her room at like seven or eight. Oh, my God. So, yeah, it was forever. Right. So that kind of reclaiming and. Exactly, yeah.

Yeah. Okay. So your first experience was good. Yeah, it was. So you come back and you decide to get into the lifestyle. Now you go on SDC, which is my. my site that I always promote and I do have to tell people that you can get a free trial to SDC if you use my code 37712 and there's a just there's a link in the description of people

want to join for free you could get the trial but you guys went on to SDC right afterwards looking for more what were you looking for on there when you came back so whenever we came back that couple that we met in New Orleans I still regularly text them and you know he was saying like why don't y'all try to find a group in your area because they live other side of country and so we were I was like, okay, he's like, check out this site, this site, you know, telling me different places to go. And so, we joined SCC. And this is, so whenever we first went to New Orleans, my mindset was just a female. That's all I was interested in because I didn't, you know, I think of like, Dick, I get that at home.

I want something different if I'm going out and looking for something else. But whenever I was with her seeing, like at the end, whenever he's having sex with her and she's eating me out, it was hot as hell. And so I was like, well, maybe, you know, we could do a couple. And I still put it up on SEC, female or a couple, just to see. And, I mean, it was no time at all. There was a couple in our area that reached out and contacted us. And so we ended up meeting up with them. And that's the couple called wrong.

Yeah, okay. So now this couple paint the picture of them. How old are they? What do they look like? Are you into her? Oh, yeah. this is it's still they are the perfect couple I swear they were they are around my age you know right around 40 him and her they're hot as hell gorgeous couple and see I'm I'm I'm the picky one

and so I want you know I'm 5 8 and so most I don't I don't want a short guy you got to be like six foot at least my husband's 6 4 so in well really that's well for a female I like tits and ass So, and that, that's it. But so she was well stacked in both areas? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Okay. Very much.

And so, and, but again, I really don't care so much about the husband because I'm still not interested in having sex with him, but this couple that we met very slow. I mean, we started talking and the things that they wanted to text on an app service, because, you know, normally on STC, I'm the one responding because my husband, he likes to call me the gatekeeper of the site. And it works out great because I'd pick the person, you know. And so all I would do is he'd go on the site and he'd look at who I looked. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's good, you know. And that's it.

Yeah. Well, this couple that reached out, you know, their face was blurred. so we really couldn't see. We saw the body and it was good. Well, we started texting on the app service, all four of us. And at first it was kind of awkward, but then it was just like, like, I mean, we went daily texting. It was a good morning, you know, blah, blah, and it was all throughout the day, just like good friends. And that thing with them, it was whenever we started talking, it wasn't awkward, you know, silence or, you know, what are we going to say?

it's just conversation. It was flowing. It was like I knew him my whole life. And so I started Googling about, you know, because I was telling my husband, you know, he's like, if you want to make this work, then we'll do it. And I'm not a big textor. So I was like, damn, this is out of my, I'd rather talk on the phone to you than text. Yeah. And that's just me. And so I had to make a point to do it. And even my kids will tell me my texting is like, okay, all right. I'm very simple. So I had to make a point. You know, there's no tone and text. So I would go out of my way to try to say what I was trying to say. And I was sort of reading articles about how do you make this work? Because I wanted a friend. You know, friends with benefits, but I wanted, I wanted to be friends for somebody I could be comfortable with. And I mean, it was like, ask these questions. So we did. We asked, I mean, I was like, hey, are you all up for this? And they're like, yeah, normally we're the ones that ask the questions. I was like, okay. And they had been in the lifestyle, I think they said, about two years. But they're a fairly young couple.

And I will say, I think that might have some issues. But fairly young. Like, they've only been married, I think, five years. Okay. And, you know, I've been married for 20 years. I've, you know, the good, the bad, the ugly. I've seen it. So going into this, I wasn't worried about my husband leaving me, per se,

because if you want to go, you go now. I don't care. Yeah. But it's, I mean, and that's what he's like, why the hell would I want to leave? you're willing to do all this. But I, you know, if he wants to go, he can go. But I wasn't worried about that because we have, I mean, communications, the thing with us. So, and that's what I wanted to do with them.

And so we did. We asked all these 20 questions. Anywhere from, if you had to pick between a massage and somebody cook you a steak dinner, which one do you want? What's your favorite position? What's this? I mean, everything under the sun, we asked each other. And it was a lot of fun getting to know them. And now in doing so, it does bring out other things where she was saying, you know, they're asking, what's your limit?

Well, I said from the beginning, I was like, hey, you know, you're a nice guy, but I'm not interested in having sex with you because I'm just not there. I'm not saying never, you know, never say never, but at this point in time, no. Right. So I always like to say that because I don't want to give him hopes that we're going to do a full swap or, you know, I don't want people thinking that that's what we're going in there doing. and we're not, it's not going to happen. So I just said, you know, if it had, if something happens later on, okay, but at this point in time, no. Yeah. And she's like, that's fine because his dick is mine.

She had her previous husband had cheated on her. And so she had some insecurity, some issues with that, which totally understand that's fine. And I told her, I was like, that's actually great because I don't want to have sex with him. So win-win. I had said that I was okay with her and my husband, have, if it came to that, if they did. We weren't there. I mean, it was, like I said, it was a while before.

We were, well, I say a while. The total time that we had talked to them, it was three months before we stopped. But, I mean, it was probably a month and a half or so before we met up and we finally got together. But this is, I mean, everyday conversation. But now let's get to the point, I guess, like, where you're going to meet up. Like, what's your first, like, meet up? like what goes down at that time that time well the first meetup was actually just dinner um i kind of wanted to make sure they are who they say they are and you know things are you know

behind a phone they could be somebody different and we went for dinner they live about an hour away from us and so we met them it was during the week we went over there and we had dinner we showed up i think it was like six or so we ended up staying until the restaurant closed just talking Wow. Okay. Nothing happened. It was, we hug goodbye. Nice to meet you. And we went on. I mean, we were both. I mean, we got in the car. My husband and I were like, oh, they're great. They are, I mean, I said how, they're so comfortable just talking to them. It's so easy to talk to him. And he said the same thing. And the second they got in the car, she's like, I can't. She's texting us. I can't believe, you know, we talk so well, everything's so good. We can we meet up. Yeah. But let me ask you this. Had they hooked up? Like, did they? tell you about like how much experience they had in the lifestyle like had they hooked up with a lot of couples they hadn't so there was a couple and i don't even know they might have still been talking to them while they were with us i don't know i think so that lived at a state that they had met prior to us

but from what they said is it was just the females that hooked up and then each spouse was with their partner they did not do a soft swap and did not do a full swap So they had not done that. She was actually looking for a single man. So she wanted a, you know, and this is something, but the couple that we were with, she wanted like a, she wanted to go off and fuck some young guy. But she was into women too, though. Yeah. And see, this is where it kind of got confusing.

And with our texting and stuff, like he sent a picture, obviously he addressed it to. my husband and was like isn't this hot as hell and it was two guys with the girl and i was like so i went to my i was like this kind of where do i fit in because i'm not in that picture yeah and i mean if they if that's what they're interested please say but i'm not interested in that and and i know it's not me with i know he's not sitting that thinking it's me with him and my husband because you know that's not it and so i I clarified. I was like, hey, I just want to, I'm kind of confused. What, what's this about? And he's like, oh, no, no, you know, I want, I like that. I'm interested in that. And so is she, but we're also interested in, you know, having a, like a friendship, friends with benefits with a couple. I was like, okay. And I kept telling my husband, like, at times, I feel like I'm third wheeling because he wasn't allowed to do anything. And I didn't, I mean, this sounds. so sad but I felt like he he was very in love with his wife and that was one of the things that

turned me on about it because he wasn't a threat like there was one time we were playing around and he's like y'all are hot as hell he's like I mean my wife I love my wife it's totally different I was I do dude I know I know what's your wife you don't have to explain it to me he felt like I guess maybe it was an insult because he was complimenting us but I didn't want her to think like I'm trying to take your man I'm not trying to take your man and I wanted her to feel that way because I knew he felt that way. It just put me at ease, I guess. Yeah, I get it. And also because she had that pass of someone cheating on her.

She'd probably be very protective of her guy and probably, like, had some abandonment issues and trust issues with him. So you did fool around with them before it went wrong. Like that time, you said, oh, while we were in the middle of things, he was like, oh, do whatever. Tell me about that first hook up with them. Like, what went down? Okay.

So after we had dinner, it was a couple weeks later, we went out to, I don't know, we went out and did something. And then we ended up, because they're about an hour away, we were drinking. So they got a hotel room. We met them back at their hotel room. We were out at a club then. And then they said, come on back. We went back to the room.

Now, and this is where I was totally honest with them. I was like, hey, Mother Nature, it's that time of the month. I am sorry. I'm out. And they knew this that night. I was like, there's nothing, you know, the bottom is off limits. And I was like, but, you know, I could still do something for her if you want. And they're like, hey, we got a hotel room.

Let's go. And so we went back to the hotel room. And it was just, I went down on her, you know, made out with her, played around with her. And then her husband came up and he had sex with her while, you know, me and her were kissing. My husband was just, like, touching on me and did not touch her. And it was. It was super hot. She's gorgeous.

And they are like, it was at first I was like, what the hell are you doing? They kept talking like the whole time, like they're whispering in each other's ears. I was like, stop talking. They just, they talked the whole time. Well, what were they saying? Could you hear what they were saying? I don't know, because they whispered. I think he was just like, I asked my husband, I was like, could you hear what they were saying?

He's like, sometimes he's just like, oh, it's hot as hell. You know, oh, I like that. Oh, okay. But so that was the first time that he whispered and stuff. Then later on, he was, he was very vocal with stuff. But, and again, the communication, I mean, that first time we were there, like, she's talking. And whenever I say, like, we could talk about anything. we're in the middle of I'm sucking her chest and she's like oh no no go this side and this one this one is uh you know is very sensitive she had implants and so my husband's asking her well how did it go and why does this you know and they're talking about implants and the feeling and the sensitivity that went away and when it came back while i'm sitting there going down on her and it was totally comfortable though yeah yeah and so my background I grew up in a very religious household so

anything outside of marriage is just wrong. And so for me, it's a big mindset, I think, just to get over. And so being comfortable enough that I'm not the one to strip down naked or anything. But my husband's like, I've never seen you like this so comfortable where you just, I mean, they're like, take your clothes off, boom, take my clothes off. And the next time to that first time, it was, it was great. I mean, even though it was just her. but it was, I was on my period.

So, and then the next time was, like I said, our visitation every two weeks it seemed like, they were actually doing a home project thing and they're like, no. And she's like, you know, I'm on my period now, so I can't do anything. And they were in the middle of painting and cut and stuff, all these boards. And I was like, well, you know, Saturday night, we don't have anything to do. We can come over and help y'all. It don't matter because part of it was just hanging out and being friends. and so we went over there

what I thought was just friends, just hanging out, we ordered some pizza, picked it up, you know, and I thought we were just going to, you know, drink, have some pizza and help them do some projects. But it turned into more than that. And that was, so she was on her,

that's when it was cooking, so she was on her period that time. And so she ended up going down on me. And. I mean, next time you're with a girl that, like, can you just put a tamp on it

and let someone go down on you? That's what I do. I'm not going to miss out. You don't want someone to go down on you with a tampon? No, there's no blood. No, you're crazy. No, no.

Are you so horny on your period? It's like you have the best orgasms on your period. Just put a tampon it. No blood comes out. It's just a fucking string there. Any guy will go down on you. Anybody's going to go. Like, who cares?

There's no blood. I'll take your word for that one. You try it one time. Never say never. Never say never. One day you're going to be so horny. You're going to think of me. you're going to be like, okay, well, like, you can have a tampon and just be like, go down on me.

There's no blood coming out. I don't know. When I have my period, I'm like hornyer than ever. And maybe it's just because I think like, oh, I'm not supposed to and I do. But I don't know. I would just put a tampon in. Like, what's the big deal? But anyway, so now she's like you.

She's like, I wonder, I have to do this poll on my pageant to see what other women do. Am I the only woman that will let someone go down on them with a tampon in? Because this girl's just like you. She's like, I'm like off limits down there. I have my period, right? Mm-hmm. Yeah. Okay.

So no going down on her. She goes down on you this time, though. How is it for you? She did. Oh, it was great. Okay. And see, like I said, I have no, like I was with one guy before my husband. Yeah.

And so my husband's more of the, I mean, our sex is a little, it's great, but we go forever. And they are more of a sensual type. And it's different, totally different than what I'm used to. And so I think that's part of the appeal of it. Yeah. They brought out a massage table and they're like, we're going to do a massage on you. And I was like, okay, I didn't know what this was about. Then they got restraints for my hands, like my wrists. And just those were back. And then they put a blindfold on. And it was amazing, amazing. And they say if you take away, you know, one sense, like the other senses get heightened. Oh, it did. And one of the turn-ons too was with them.

He didn't, and this is where, I guess, whenever too many hands are going, I didn't even realize at the time that he had touched me or whenever. You know, he not like touch me, touch me, but just, you know, occasional hand on the back, boob or something like that. But there are so many hands, it's not like it was singled out that he was touching me. But whenever we were doing the massage stuff, like he would tell her, hey, you know, finger her like this here, do this. And so he's kind of guiding her where to go.

And he obviously knows what to do. And so that was a huge turn on for me. And he was involved but not involved. Yeah. And so we did that that night. In fact, my husband and I, we ended up having sex. And they didn't because she was on her period. But so that was the second night.

And then finally the third time, we both were off of our period. Finally. This is the bad time? No, no, no, we had good time. Oh, okay, good. Okay, so now you're finally able to, like, really go to town with each other. And we, it was great. I mean, it was mainly, it was just me and her.

We went to their house. They invited us over to their hot tub. And so we were out in the hot tub drinking and then we ended up going inside. and the one time that we ever had sex, it was, or the one time that we ever had an opportunity to have anything on a bed was the first time whenever I was on my period. After that,

we never had an opportunity. So that night we were on the couch. And it's just awkward. I mean, you know, our husband's six four, he's not a couch guy. So,

you know, we tried. And it mainly, it turned, you know, it was just me and her, which that was fine. And then,

you know, I was with my husband. She was with her husband. And now during that time, so she was, you know, at one time she was, she was, she was stroking. She was sitting there jerking my husband. Well, I was doing nothing and her husband's doing nothing. So at that time, I was like, do you want me to jerk him, you know? And she's like, no.

I was like, whoa, okay. And it wasn't like a no, you know, it wasn't no. Yeah, yeah. So whenever she said that, that was okay. So I wasn't going to ask again to do anything. Of course. After that, and I even, I had told her, if you want me to do something, you ask me. Yeah.

Because I'm not going to ask. Yeah, of course. Because I don't want her to think like, I'm interested in your husband, and that's all I want. But I just didn't want him left out. I don't like being left out, and I didn't want him left out. Listen, there was nothing wrong with you asking, but she let you really know that she was not into it. And so he leaned down and he said something to her, and I don't know what it was. And then she's like, here.

you can, but she was stroking it with me. I was like, hey, if that's what she wanted, that's what makes you, that's fine. You know, I'm not doing it for me. You know, I'm not, I'm not trying to take your man. I want her to be comfortable. So if that's what it is, let's do it. And so, and it was fine after that. We were okay, but I still, in the back of my head, I was like, I, I mean, I'm not going

to ask, you're going to have to tell me if you want me to do something. And so we went forward from there. Everything's great. Next time we were together, we still, we did it. there was another we played again we just we had great time but then that final time so the final time is the doozy so i think there was like leading up to it a lot of sexual tension because the last time we were together she uh she oh she she she had sucked my husband and again i'm not going to ask to do him so that was nothing happened between me and him i don't know all the correct right terms and

everything. But so yeah, so she was given him a blowjob and and it was just in the middle of us doing stuff, but I didn't do anything. Right. So where's the text sexual tension? You mean for her husband? Because he didn't get anything or for them. Like I mean, you're said by that, you know, after that, there was a lot of sexual tension. So right afterwards, so my husband had made plans. He had rented an air, like a condo out on the beach. We were going to go there. We had invited them. Hey, you want to go. We're to be away for this weekend. And they said they were going to be there for a day. Well, they were going to show up.

And it was like a Saturday. We were going to come over. But so leading up to that, that was after she had, gave my husband a blowjob. Her husband messaged my husband and was saying, hey, you know, we were actually up for a soft swap if your wife is interested. And so my husband showed it to me and I was like, that's not what his wife told me. Yeah. So I was like, I'm going to clear the air. So in our group chat, I was like, hey, I just want to check the pulse of the room.

What are, what's everybody's limits? Because I didn't want it to seem like I'm not willing to do something. But then I didn't want to ask and seem overly like, it's a weird line. I'm trying to balance, you know. Yeah, I get it. I get it. And what did she say? And see, this is the thing.

So at first she was like, no, he's off limits. I'm willing to fuck your husband to do whatever with you. But he's, off limits. And then like, and so I was like, so I told my husband, I was like, see? And then a couple hours later she came back and was like, well, thanks. And so I don't know if he's talking to her. Yeah, this is all red flags right there. Because look, even that time when she was like, you know, jerking off your husband and you went to do hers and she said, no, he talked to, he said something to her like, just let her fucking do it. And she listened to him. But she didn't want you to do it.

She wasn't doing what she wanted to do. She was like, you know, doing what her husband wanted, which is never the right thing in these kinds of scenarios. Same thing with the soft swap. It's obvious. She came back and said she wasn't into it. Her husband's making the choices for her, which is always a wrong move. Both people have to be into it.

I just, I think she might have just initially been like, no, because that's her. No, if you're initially no, okay, what changes one hour later? It's not like she's like horror. Like, what changes one hour later? He talked her into it.

I mean, that's like your initial reaction especially when it's so strong, as strong as her reactions are, that's what you go by. Know thyself. Women sometimes twist themselves into pretzels for their partners, and they shouldn't. And this is why this story is going to end badly. Yeah, it does. So that, so she came back and she was like, no, I, you know, dependent. She goes, we're situational, 100% situational.

And I'm like, well, I'm confused as fuck now, because. I've been told no, no, no, and now it's, I don't know. And so it's still, and I said, well, I don't care what they are interested in. I'm not willing to have sex with him. So I said, I'm willing to soft swap, but I'm not going to have sex. That's just, that's me. Okay. And that's only if things were great.

So you're situational too. You're all like going to be like, this is what's on the table and this is what might happen depending on what goes down. What actually went down? So it was a bad, bad day. So first error was my part, too much drinking. And, well, I later found out. I had a concussion that day. And I ended up passing out for like a couple hours whenever they first got there.

Woke up, they're drinking. My husband's there, they're there. And we go downstairs to a hot tub, a little bigger hot tub. And, you know, we're talking. Then we start playing around. well she was very aggressive to that this time really going at like making a point to go to my husband and i know i had been drinking but i was like just i felt out of place and is this shame on my husband too so he knows it too because he's like i'll take my licks he's he's apologizing and everything

but it just felt like i was a third wheel and there were some parts of it that were good you know like there was a part where she was laying on the side of the hot tub and I went to go like, well, her husband was going to go down on her. And he's like, come here. And whenever he did things like that, I like that. So he was like, come here. And so we both went down on her. But then she ended up having sex with my husband in the hot tub.

And to be honest, she didn't, she never said, can I have sex with your husband? She goes, can I? And maybe because it was too much drinking, but it's my fault. I didn't communicate. I thought she was just going to get him blowjob. I was like, okay. Well, then she started having sex with them. And it, I guess because it was the first time that they had done that and it wasn't, I wasn't anticipating it.

It kind of, I don't know, it just threw me back because I was like, our whole thing was, you have sex with me first, not somebody else. I don't, I just, that was me. I wanted, I wanted them first. and so I just kind of sat in the back of the hot, and he said he was trying to reach for me. I'll be honest, I didn't, if he was, I didn't see him. I was just kind of, I was sitting back there, like, trying to get out of my head, and I had tears welling up in my eyes because I was like,

don't be the bitch. Don't be the bitch. Don't speak up for yourself, but that's not being a bitch. That's the sad. You know, you're just like, you're feeling really terrible. You don't like what's going on, but you don't feel comfortable enough saying, hey, you know what? Cut this fucking out.

Like, get off my fucking husband. which you should have said. Yeah. And well, and then I think her husband saw me sitting there. Like whenever we would play around and stuff, it was kind of a joke. I would always like, I would normally I grab like a pillow, a sheet, bed, whatever. Well, his arm was always there. So I'd just grab his arm.

That was, he was like my security person with his arm. I just hold his hand or hold his arm. Well, he reached over and just grabbed my arm and I squeeze this shit out of his hand. And I just think he knew like, oh, shit. she's upset. Yeah. And so he actually, I was like, I'm getting out of the hot tub. And so I sat on the side of the hot tub because it was just hot.

And, you know, so I was just sitting there. And they're fucking. And it's like, you know, you want to, it's like a fake smile. I guess I'm here. And then he's like, can I go down on you? And I said, no, because your wife, you know, no. And he's like, no. And prior to.

this happening to, okay, I mean, back up a minute. So before she had sex with my husband, we went down on her. And then he, the husband, she was giving him a blowjob, and he, like, put his dick in my face. I turned my head away because I'm not going to try to, mm-mm. And he's, he's like, yes. And I, I looked to his wife, and she goes, yeah, you can. And again, I said, how about you suck it with me? So, We are both doing this. It's not me with your husband. It's both of us.

I wanted to include her. I wanted to keep her a part of it because I didn't want to make her feel excluded because I know what that feels like. And so, and we did it. It was fine. Those are probably like the only good parts of that whole entire day. And then. It doesn't sound good to me. You're like really pissed off because she's banging your husband.

We're still at that place. But I know eventually she gets mad at your husband. So when does that come up to like? The thing is, I don't know who. So I don't think she got mad at him. So whenever I was sitting on the side, he came over and he was like, can I go down on you? I was like, no.

And he's like, no, we talk. It's fine. She gave, basically, she gave him permission to do that. And so he went down on me. And it was good. At first, it was hard for me to, like, I was, I just sat there like, uh, numb. And, but then I was like, fuck it. if they're over there fucking, how come I can't enjoy something?

And so, and my husband even said, how's everybody doing? You know, just checking the temperature. What's everybody like? And he's got a mouthful and he's like, uh-huh. And I don't know. I was moaning. She moaned. Within 30 seconds of that, she jumped off of my husband and started punching her husband.

Oh, punching her husband. because he's working up with you. You guys are all a fucking mess. All of you. You guys too. You're in your husband and her and her husband. You're no better because you're sitting there almost crying while she's banging your husband, not saying anything,

poor thing. And she's like so not interested in her husband being with another woman, but she keeps like saying okay and thinking she's going to be okay with it. But she's obviously not, okay? Like obviously not. And I feel bad for both of you. Both of you, you're not, you're both of you are not ready for it. And you shouldn't be doing it.

Well, it wasn't, I don't think it was so, and I told my husband, the only thing I wanted that day, I was like, we got a, no, no, it's not your, no, it's no one's fault. It's not her fault for fucking your husband, okay, because, and it's not your fault for letting him go down on you. It's all miscommunication. Like, as much communication as you guys are having on that fucking text message and you're so close, you're not really communicating that well for your own self. She's not really speaking up and being really honest about where she's at with this kind of hookup.

And neither are you. You're doing stuff that you're not comfortable doing, that you're not into doing. And then it's causing problems for you. And then same thing with her. No one's wrong in this situation. You know, it's just sad because you're both not really being honest about the fact that neither one of you, I think, is really into having the guys hook up with. another woman right now and that's okay yeah yeah and i mean that's what going forward i told my husband i was like if we do anything i don't i'm not i'm not there yet i don't want to do that again because

the main thing i felt like a third wheel i didn't want that was my whole thing i didn't want anybody left out i didn't want it and i tried to make a point to keep everybody included but i can't include him when i'm not allowed to touch him so we end up being excluded by default Yeah, but you also didn't like it when she was fucking your husband. Well, because I was excluded. It was... You think it would have been better if she was like you were like kissing her or knack while you were there? Well, why didn't you go over and hook up with them while they were together?

Why did you sit on the side crying? Because she was so aggressive towards them. And I later found out that whenever I was passed out, she went up to him and started stroking it. You know, trying to have sex with him, trying to kiss on him, trying to do everything. to have sex whenever I was She might have been getting back at her husband I'm telling you this is all like bullshit People not talking

He was there He was right there too And so that's why No but what I'm trying to say is that She was Matt Listen I'm telling you straight up This is just you know Women not speaking up for themselves

That girl being aggressive Like she was like Revenge fucking your husband For your guy She wasn't doing anything to you She was doing it to that fucking husband Of hers Who every time she said no

changed the fucking rules on her and didn't, you know, and changed her mind by whispering whatever he did to her for make her change her mind. Okay. He wasn't changing her mind. She was changing it for him. It wasn't really what she wanted. And that's why she was going after your husband to say she was like getting her husband back. But he probably didn't even fucking care. You know what I'm saying? Like it, he might have been into it. But that she was doing that I'm telling you because he was pushing for a fucking swap with you. So she was like, look at, I'm going to go fuck her husband. It wasn't against you. It was against that husband of her. I know how women work. That's what that was all about. That's what all that aggression was. It wasn't anything to do with you. It's a problem between them too, for sure, you know. And I think with you, you know, with couples and everything, swapping, you know, swapping is, like, everyone's included because you're, like, with the husband and she's with the other husband. I don't think you were okay with that because when you, I think you, when that guy was going down on you, you were kind of like revenge letting him fucking go down on you because they were fucking and,

in front of you and you were upset about it. Like it doesn't sound like happiness for anybody, except the guys, really. I don't think they had any problems with it. But both of you girls did. Yeah, I never thought of it like that. I mean, I really, I thought of it more of because he was always trying to find her a guy to go fuck.

And so I always thought maybe the talks that they had was something to do with like, hey, you know, you're okay with this. Because they evidently have different conversations in their bedroom. then maybe she wants to go listen lots of hot wives want to fuck other guys but they don't want to see their guy fuck another girl one has nothing to do with the other and everyone could be like listen it's so it's always set up and it's not like oh tit for tat like just because you're gonna fool

around with women that you have to be okay with your husband being with women too a lot of people don't feel that way they want to be with a woman but they don't want to see their husband be with a woman like it could be unfair i'm not saying that the other partner has to agree but Everyone has to agree on it together, but most people, it's not like, oh, just because you are like, just because she wants to go fuck a hot stud that her husband gets free reign of any girls. A lot of girls that are hot wives don't want to see their guy, fuck another girl. And their guy's fine with that. But her husband obviously isn't.

So they have a problem. Okay? They do. And with you and your husband, I think you should stay the fuck away from this couple. I know that they're so hot and you think that they're so perfect. But they're really not. They're actually, as much as you guys communicated, with each other. You didn't communicate properly because of like all this nonsense that's going down,

you know, and maybe if you go back, you have to be more clear. But it just sounds like she isn't really honest about what she's into and what she could handle. I don't think, you know, having a strong no reaction and then 10 minutes later being okay with it makes sense. I really don't think so, you know, and I think that's why you came into trouble. And I think you also have to really try to figure out like what things look like for you and your husband, forget about them, but like next time you're with a couple, what's going to go down? You know what I mean? And what you could handle and stuff. And if you're with a more experienced couple, maybe you wouldn't have these problems. But you both sound like your newbies. You know what I mean? And you're both making

newbie mistakes, which can happen. But I know that you said it turned you off to the lifestyle, but it shouldn't. I mean, these are things that happen. And listen, they're only together five yours. They may be on shaky ground because of what's going on between them, but with you and your husband, it's like, of course you could weather through this kind of stuff, no problem, right? Like, you're not mad at your husband or anything, correct?

We did have a little, yeah, we were, I think it was just hurt. I was hurt, like, and that's the whole thing, like, as much as we communicated, and I said to every fucking person what I wanted. What did you say your husband that you wanted

that, you didn't, that what, that he didn't do? Did you say don't fucking fuck her? And he didn't. No, no, no. Like the whole excluding, like, that's the big thing. Yeah, but he doesn't think that you're getting excluded. You're like there in the hot tub. You just went down with on her.

You're like, you know, you're jerking off the guy. Like, I don't think he thought of you as being excluded. Like, you were there with them. I don't think, like, I know in your mind that's being excluded, but maybe in his mind he didn't consider you excluded, you know? Like, you need to say, when I say excluded, I mean, if you're fucking her, I need to be in the mix. It's like it needs to be a threesome. I don't want to be over watching. You know, maybe you need to be a little bit more specific because maybe he didn't

realize that you were left out. Well, and that's the thing. So he thought I was with the husband at first. Of course. I wasn't. I know, but that's what I'm saying. So it's all about intention. Your husband didn't intentionally exclude you. And that is, if he did, then that would make him a fucking asshole. But he's not a fucking asshole. He just got the, like he just missed, it was a mistake. It was a miscommunication. You should have said, sorry, no. Like, you're allowed to tap out in these situations, and that's what it's all about. Being able to raise your hand in that hot tub and be like, get the fuck off her.

Like, I'm not happy, like, here. Like, I'm not, you know, instead of having fights about it later, because in the heat of the moment, like, I knew he didn't. Your husband, you guys been married to the dawn of time. He obviously loves you. He's not going to exclude you on purpose. He thought you were having fun, too. So he's not an asshole. He just made a mistake.

And those things happen in those situations. all the time and that's why it's so important to be able to use your voice even in the moment and say no way I'm not fucking happy with this instead of like jerking her husband off and now or letting him go down on you because you're pissed off that your husband's fucking her you know what I mean at this point now it's like everyone's like I don't know just doing shit to get someone else back that's how I see it yeah um I don't know I don't I again I don't know her motive at that time it just after thinking about like they stopped talking that night. I mean, when I say she hit him, it wasn't like a, oh my God, I'm pissed.

I'm talking. She pissed, punched him. And so, and kept doing it. So if she was pissed. This was a totally different side. And I, me and my husband, we were both like, what did we miss? Where did we go? Like, well, I thought we missed all the red flags that were there before.

Like, this isn't like, you know, there's. a lot of red flags. She comes from like a previous relationship. There was a war. There was cheating. You know, uh, she said no one time when you asked to be with her guy and she said it very strongly. You know what I mean? Another time she said no. Her husband said, let's do a soft swap. And when you checked it on her, she's like, what the fuck are you talking about? Like these are all obvious signs. Red flags galore. Okay. That would tell you that something's not right here. There are actions and their words are not matching up. So it's not like, uh, this doesn't make sense. It's does make sense because they weren't really operating as much as you think you were communicating

well with them. You didn't really know them. Now you do. Now you do. And they're not as perfect as you think. It might be perfect looking, but they're probably not a couple you want to play with moving forward. Because you guys are probably more stable than they are, right?

And your relationship and your stuff. And if you want to move forward and stay in a lifestyle, like, you know, maybe you have to, like, communicate a little bit more with each other so that you don't make these mistakes and find a new couple to play with and make sure this kind of thing doesn't happen again. Yeah, that's the thing. Finding a couple is very, very hard. Right, but you could go back to finding singles, you know, finding a unicorn, finding a couple. But, you know, I don't know.

Like, this girl's punching her husband. Like, I don't just say the fuck away. Like, you want that drama in your life? Got you and your husband in a fight? I mean, you don't need that garbage. I just, I really do feel bad. Like, I don't want to be the wife that causes an issue with another. marriage. I don't want to, and that's what I even

She caused an issue with your marriage, too. I mean, you both caused issues. Like, you didn't cause it. Listen, they have problems already, okay? The problem is he doesn't fucking listen to her when she says no. He changes her mind. He's that type of guy. I get it. He's like, she says no, but he wants what he wants. So he knows what to say to get her to change her mind. There's a lot of couples like that. That's their problem. That's, you didn't create that problem, okay? You didn't cause any problem with them. They have their own problems. Just like she didn't

really cause a problem between you and your husband. guys cause it for miscommunication you're not being able to say something in the moment that's it and that's not that deep stuff like that has to be able like you could get through that just by talking things out and learning from that mistake and moving forward oh yeah oh yeah trust yeah i've learned you've tried to communicate my last question is like have you tried to get in contact with them we did so i you know i feel like a mother hen of the relationship because i'm always like the good morning the i'm the one that's the social planner And so they had left some shot glasses at the beach house.

And so whenever we got home, I was hurt. You know, like they stopped talking to us. They just left that night. And that was it. And so I even thought, like, even if there was issues of jealousy or, like, can we talk? Can we talk about it? Because, like, even after every time we played, we always talked. Yeah.

There was none of that. So it was just done. And they deleted their SDC site. So whenever we got back, the shot glasses. my husband, he's kind of, because he was like, is it me? Is it what, what is it? You know, I don't know what happened. And now he's more pissed than he is hurt.

I'm just hurt, you know. He has the most better reaction. Yeah, because you were pulled into their nonsense. They might not even be together anymore. You don't know. I mean, like, they should actually take themselves off of SDC. If she's, like, sitting there literally physically abusing her husband because of, like, this is going down.

Like, they're not the couple that should be doing any. anything anytime soon. Do you understand? Like, at all. No, I get it. Yeah. I just, you know, and so I mailed, my husband was like, here, take us, we have a set of shot glasses.

They're a nice one. He's like, here, mail them two of them. And so I just wrote him a card. And I said, hey, you know, I had fun getting to know y'all. Thank you for everything. I'm sorry the way things went down. I wish it would have been different. You know, I meant about being just friends, but, you know, I mailed it to him.

And that was it. He actually, I think the day he got it, he probably, he deleted the chat we had. So I deleted it too. He might not even be together anymore. You don't know what's going on with them. How long ago did this happen? About two months ago. Yeah.

Listen, I don't think that they're sitting in bed saying like, oh, let's never fucking talk to them again. I think they're both thinking about each other. Like, I never want to fucking talk to her again. And she's like, I never want to talk to him again. This is nothing to do with you guys. You guys are collateral damage, okay? they have these kind of issues. There's no way that's the first time she punched her husband, okay?

Out, I'm sorry. Probably not. Seriously, they've been together five years. She punched him. I'm sure there's other violent things. Most of the time that doesn't just come out of nowhere. That comes out very early on if someone's abusive like that. So they have these issues with them.

That might have been the last straw you don't know, but it has nothing to do with you guys. I get that maybe you felt a connection with them and your friends and maybe six months from now you'll hear from them. But, you know, if I were you, I just, you know, start looking again. Like, you know, you're no different than the girl who, like, met a great guy in a dating site and spent all this time. And then he, like, fucking ghosted her. And she's like, you know, what will you tell your friend? Like, sorry, like, move on. Go find somebody else.

You have to eventually, like, get back on the horse and try looking for other people. Because these people have already proven to you, like, stay the fuck away. It's over, unfortunately. Well, I mean, I do. I wish them the best. I don't, I don't wish them any. I hope they could get through their stuff. No, but I hope you can.

You should really think about you and your husband. Like, I just hope that. you guys continue on doing what you're doing and exploring yourselves together and you should just you know sort of chalk this up as a learning experience take from this situation whatever happened between you and your husband figure out how to make sure that never happens again and forget about what happened with them because it has nothing to do with you do with you do you get it it really doesn't yeah they're a fucking mess yeah seriously have you ever seen someone punch one in the face? I don't care whether it's a woman or a man. It's fucked up. That's like a psycho behavior.

Like those are the stay the fuck away. You're a grown adult. You do need that. You have kids. Like, I mean, you need that garbage. Like, you're not going to deal that with that with your eight-year-old, let alone a grown-ass adults that you're hooking up with. Sorry. Like, that's scary stuff that you want to stay away from them. Yeah. You sound like my husband. That's what he says. Yeah. He's like, I'm not going to their house again. Yeah. Your husband's. What the hell? Yeah. Your husband's. husband's rational and smart. You're like coming off of feelings. You felt close to them. And I understand that. I'm a woman. Like I get it. You know, but trust me. Listen to your husband on this one. He's correct. This is why men and women make good pairs, you know, because sometimes you need that rational mindset to get yourself out of a situation. You know, I like I get that you felt close. You're a kind person. You really like them. You feel terrible. You know, but trust me, let's go on with your life. They had, if you could be a fly on their wall in their life, before, this shit has happened to them before. This is nothing to do with you guys. Okay.

End a story. But good luck with everything. I love this story. It's super interesting because it's like a fucking mess. People are going to really chime in. You should go to Spotify and see what people say about this. I know they're going to feel like me and your husband. No one's going to think like, oh, poor them.

You should contact them anymore. Everyone's going to say, move the fuck on. They're crazy. And that's that. It's all like there were other couple. I mean, I know there's probably other crazy couples. But damn, there's like nobody. There are. And listen, I'm going to give you free.

Send me in hot picks of yourself for my Patreon. Anonymous pecks, right? Like you could do that for my Patreon. And then I'll give you free access to my Discord. There's all kinds of channels and there. People are hooking up over there. Like, where are you located? What area?

Northeast, Northwest, East Coast and West Coast? Along the, like, Florida Pain Handle. Okay, so you go in there. You might find people. Just stick on SDC. Keep looking. Put yourself out there. You're going to find more people again.

Don't worry. There's more people out there. Start going to clubs and go to more clubs in your neighborhood or an hour out of where you live. There's clubs. There's probably a party. Continue on. You're going to meet more people and, you know, forget about them for now. Okay.

Okay. I'll get a shot. Yeah. So go on my Discord. People are going to want to talk to you. Okay. Listen, Natasha. I love your story because I think it is like very, this is like rookie shit that goes down and can happen and does happen all the time.

You know, and it's important for people to. to hear because this helps people know like what not to do and like you know and but people do it. It's just that you're a human being like it's okay. You're very new in the lifestyle and this is the kind of stuff that people have to weather through and I think the difference between the couples

that are successful and the couples that aren't it's not that the couples that are successful never make mistakes or never do fucked up things or never get jealous or upset. It's that they could talk themselves through it and work through it and figure out solutions because of what happened. You know and then they move on. So that's who you could be. It's, it's, it's okay that you were not feeling right. It's okay that you got

upset. It's okay that you had a terrible experience with a couple, but it doesn't mean that you have to abandon everything. Okay. Yeah, just might take some time. I guess. I don't know. It doesn't have to take that long. You just jump back on the horse or not. You're nowhere fucking married to them. Like, get over it. Just get, I don't know. Now you really do sound like my husband. Yes, get over it. You don't need to hold on to them so much. I don't know. what your deal is, but like, seriously, you need to, all you need is a new hot check to get your mind off of her. If anyone lives in the pant handle, you know, and wants to meet this couple and get her poor mind off of this crazy girl, you know, go on to my Discord or go on to Spotify. But anyway,

listen, Natasha, thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story. I think it's a great warning for other people. And it's an interesting story. And I wish you all the luck in the future with your husband. I'm on your husband's side. Listen to him, okay? All right. Thank you. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback

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