Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 995 - Ginja Hooked up with a Bull and Filmed a MFF Threesome with her Husband

Episode Date: December 24, 2024

Ginger hooked up with a bull and filmed a MFF threesome with her husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including what she requires in the bulls she hooks up with, how she’s a size queen and how her guy enjoys bigger guys too and why, how long she’s been with her husband and when they started hotwifing, the hotel party they tried to set up and how many people showed up, why the one bull she did hook up with was a disappointment, the next bull she met and how and why he rocked her world, the aftercare she has with her husband after that hook up and all of her hook ups, how they tried to hook up with people while in Vegas and why it didn’t work out, her recent hook up with a female and exactly what went down, how her husband joined in as well and what went down with him, how and why she filmed her husband with the girl, the websites she has been using and why they haven’t had any good luck meeting people, the Blewchew experience her husband had and how and why he loved it so much, plus a whole lot mor Her Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/ginja_queen **To see SUPER HOT anonymous pics of GINJA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order https://beducate.me/anonymous40 Get BEDucated! For 40% off PLUS a FREE 24-hour trial, click the link and use code: anonymous Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Ginger has been on my show before. I'll put the number to her first episode in the description. She talks all about how she became a hot wife or her husband that also got into content creating. She does do that on the side as well. But she was in the lifestyle way before. So, and that's what we discussed. We just discussed what she's been doing since she's been on the show last. And there's a lot of interesting stuff.

There's a lot of stuff you could learn from with her today. Like, you know, because it's not easy. Like being in a lifestyle and finding people is like no different than dating. Okay. It could be really annoying. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Ginger. Hi, Ginger. Welcome back to the strictly anonymous podcast.

How are you? I always think of you as Ginger. Ginga queen. Ginga queen, but you're ginger, right? Ginger queen. What do you want to be called? Ginger's fine. It works for me. Ginger, you're a hot wife. You've been on my show before. I do have your whole backstory. I'll put the number of your episode in the description. So if anyone wants to get your whole backstory, it's there. I'm kind of don't know exactly what we're going to be talking about this. On this episode, I do know that you have some updates. And then you put like in my calendar, like, oh, plus looking for some advice. I was like, oh, that's kind of interesting. So, you know, I kind of love getting on a call and not knowing where it's going to go. So why don't you start it off, Ginger?

Like, you know, last we talked about, like I said, we got your whole back story. You're a hot wife, which means your guy loves you to fuck other guys. Like, that's your thing. That's what you were doing. But when we last spoke, how long had you been doing it with your guy? Oh, off and on over the years, over 10 years, honestly. Oh, okay. So for 10 years, you guys have been hotwifing. At least, yeah. Okay. And somewhere along those lines, you did start an only fans and stuff. That's what everyone does eventually. But I mean, you were doing it before there was an only fans, right? I was, yeah. Only fans was just kind of a thing that I decided to do during the pandemic because we had a whole lot of photo and video and things like that and nothing to do with them. So here's this opportunity to potentially put some of it out there and make a little bit of money off of it at a time. where everybody was looking for a way to make money, so why not?

Yeah, totally. And then what's your bull of choice? Like, do you have a thing? Like, what kind of hot wife are you? Or is it just like any kind of guy? Do you have your bowl, like your regular bulls? Do you like variety? I like a variety, but I do have one requirement when it comes to looking for a bull in the

hot life scenario. And, Kathy, I'm a size queen. I love that you could raise your hand and admit that because I think when me and Layla talk, all we do, we talk in circles where we're like, we're not size queens and then we're like, we love big dicks, you know what I mean? Just like cop to it. You're a size queen. Yeah, that is when I'm looking for a bowl.

That is the number one requirement. And then things after that just, there are certain things that are, I would say, preferences. Like I prefer guys who are well built. and not necessarily like big and mussely, but in shape, they got to be able to handle me. Right. Now, can I ask you a quick question about your husband's size? Like, is he well hung as well or not? Well, above average, definitely, well above average, but not quite to what I would put

as my size queen standard, which is kind of why we got into this. he was really interested in seeing what I could take and how that would go. After the first couple of times, he was like, okay, but that was hot. And we should stick to that because you seem to enjoy it. And he does too. I mean, that's why I asked that question, because typically it's a weird thing, right? It's the opposite of what you'd ever think. But a lot of times, the guy that wants to see his wife get fucked by another guy,

he wants that guy to have a bigger dick. And I think it's very surprising for people to hear. Oh, absolutely. And I think for some guys, it kind of comes from being a little more open in the bedroom early on in the relationship, playing with toys and things like that. And kind of seeing how their woman reacts to something that might be a little bit sizier than what they're able to offer. Oh, and seeing the pleasure. Because really what those, I think you're right, because like really what those guys are digging the most. is it's compersion, right?

It's seeing their wife pleasure. So yeah, you make a good point, bringing it back to maybe you're playing with toys and you play with the one that's bigger than him and seeing how hot you get and how turned on you are. That's what he gets hooked on seeing you. Yeah, more into it. Yeah, that makes sense for sure.

It's the opposite of what you think, you know? Like I said, I said this before, but, you know, there's been guys who have asked me about other guys and been like, was their dick bigger than mine? I'd be like, no way. You know, just because you're like, you would never say yes. But I'm like, thinking back, I'm like, oh my God, probably four out of five of them wanted me to say,

fuck yeah, I was so big. He stretched me out. It felt so good. Right. Exactly. They love that. I know. And I think that's one of the things that people outside of the lifestyle don't really understand is they don't understand how you would want your partner to be with somebody else, first of all, or how you could tolerate seeing your partner with somebody who wasn't or who you weren't better looking then, right? Yeah, of course. You haven't you handled that.

Aren't you afraid that they, you know, are better than you or whatever? No, because that's not what it's about. It's at least for us. I know I can't speak for everybody, but at least for us, like, conversion is the number one. Oh, you're enjoying that? That's hot. I fucking love that. Right.

I want you to be happy. love seeing you happy. Yeah. Yeah, that's what's, and how long, just give a quick backstory to your husband's relationship before you started hot wiping. Are you guys like, oh, you know, dated since high school couple or like, how long were you guys married before you opened things up? Because you've been doing it for 10 years and you don't sound that old. No, I'm not. But we have been together since we were really, really young. But we were together for a while before we got married. we started dabbling a little bit in the lifestyle without really knowing what it was before we got married he knew that i was bisexual from the beginning of our relationship like that was something i put out there

i was like look this is who i know i am if you can't deal with that this isn't going to work and then everything just kind of evolved from there we had had experiences with with other women or like me bringing girls home from the bar and he just wanted to watch stuff like that and then over time you know he He was like, I think this is something we could try. I'm interested to see, you know, how this goes and how you like it. If you like it, in fact, by other men. And of course, as we've talked about before, you never know if it's something you're going to enjoy until you're in the situation and you're doing it. But you have to have the balls of the guts to do it.

Right. And also the trust with each other and the strong enough foundation to know that, you know that, you know, you could deal with whatever happens because I truly think that you really do not know exactly how you're going to feel until you're actually in the moment, right? And a lot of people just take that leap of faith because, you know, but they know, you know, that God forbid it doesn't work out or someone's like, what the fuck, I feel jealous, you know, that they're going to be able to work through that if it is a negative experience. And that's what's most important.

exactly and that just falls back to the number one most important thing in any relationship right and that's communication open honest clear communication being able to set boundaries with each other being able to you know discuss whatever about it and adjust as necessary you have to be willing and able to do that in order to actually have any kind of enjoyment as a couple in the lifestyle I think oh yeah if you're a woman dating a guy and you know he's looking over at other girls and you're getting like kind of jealous and you say something and he like gets defensive and shuts you down like you're never going to feel comfortable with that guy doing it right because he's just not allowing you to have feelings you know you have to be with somebody that is open and allowing of any kind of feelings that

come up whether they make sense to that person or not right because that's just the way you're feeling and sometimes no matter who you are you might feel a little jealous and you need to know that you can lean over and tell your partner and they're not going to be you know uh defensive or about it or be like, what the fuck, we've done this 100 times. Why do you feel jealous? Doesn't matter. This holiday season, instead of making a great first impression, why not make a great lasting impression? And that's where Blue Chew comes in. Blue Chew helps give men longer lasting and stronger erections so you can perform at your very best. Blue Chew is an online unique service that delivers a chewable tablet at a tiny fraction of the cost. And the good news is,

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We've done this 100 times. Why do you feel jealous? It doesn't matter, you know? Right. Yeah. Well, jealousy triggers are just highlighting things to you that I think that you need to work on. You know, those feelings, like you said, they come up with everybody. You have to be able to communicate with them and acknowledge that.

that those feelings happen because, you know, you maybe need to reassess or reevaluate or look at things a little bit differently. Or, you know, am I feeling this way right now because I feel threatened? Like, what's more present in the situation? Like, our enjoyment, do I actually feel threatened? Like, you have to be able to weigh those out maturely in your own mind as well as openly together. Yeah, for sure. A newsflash to any guy out there that does have a girl that's like super insecure and always like kind of jealous or saying things. Like a little, uh, reassurance to that girl goes a long way. And I think what somebody, a lot of times guys feel like it's the opposite. Oh, no. If I don't shut this down immediately, this is what, how it's always going to be. And then they act offensive. And that's going to make it last more.

Actually, if you give that jealous girl a couple times, you know, some reassurance for the first 10 times, it most likely will go away and she'll learn to trust you. You could gain that trust, you know, but a lot of times I think the guy does the opposite and he shuts her the fuck down because he's like, oh my God, this is going to be a big problem. And actually that kind of a thing makes it 10 times more of a problem. So, yeah, so let's get to your update. Okay. So last we spoke, you're having hot stories, you know, like I don't know where you want

to start with your update. You know, I don't really remember where we're at, but you could start it off with wherever you want. It's been a crazy year. the last time I spoke with you was around this time last fall, I believe. And winter came and the holidays and all that craziness. I really had a terrible, terrible winter. I didn't feel like doing anything.

But once spring came around, I was like, all right, I think we can get back into the groove of everything again. So we kind of put ourselves out there again. And we're still looking for not just bulls, but other couples, that are like-minded. They're women that are open, whether they're unicorns or they play, you know, separately or with a partner.

We're really open-minded. It's more important for us to vibe with people and to know that we can get along and everybody's comfortable in the situation than anything else. Right. And sometimes that can be a little hard. You start talking to people and you think it's going well

and then they disappear. or like communication stops. That's part for the course and the lifestyle, I think. Any kind of dating. Oh, yeah, for sure. I mean, it's any. It's just people in general, even if you're setting up play dates with your kids. Everyone's a fucking flaky.

Yeah, I saw somebody complaining on Twitter the other day about the dating scene. They're like, you know, dating apps definitely didn't make it any better. And I was like, you know, try being married in an unconventional relationship. It's worse. Because there's so many people to tend to, you mean? I don't know. I just think it's bad across the board. I think it's terrible dating, terrible that.

Like I said, terrible making plans with friends. I think just people in general are kind of flaky and don't like, don't communicate well and don't like confrontation. And, you know, so you get a lot of that kind of stuff. And that's just people in general. So it just happens always across the board. It does. Yeah. Yeah.

And we had a whole lot of ups and downs with that. And then summer came along. We were kind of making plans for my birthday, which, I mean, it wasn't a huge number or anything this year. But I wanted to do something fun that we hadn't done before. And I was like, I think it would be fun to either find a couple girls or a new bowl or something like that. And let's, you know, let's throw a little party. Like you jumped on. I mean, I would have been okay with that.

too if we would have been able to make it work. I was fairly open to how things would go, but I wanted to be able to decide who was going to be there. Okay. I didn't want them to surprise me and just have people show up. Where were you holding this party? Was it going to be a hotel takeover? Was it going to be a house party?

We were just planning on getting a room somewhere. Okay, cool. And we did. You know, we had a few prospects and some people that we had vetted. And there were people here locally that we had planned on meeting up with. in the weeks before my birthday to see if they would have been good prospects. And nothing worked out, Kathy. Oh, my God, is this going to be like an update of nothing happening?

Not quite. Oh, okay, good. But almost. It was almost an entire disaster. Because about, I'd say, out of 10 people that we had tried to connect with in the two weeks before, only one of them worked out. Wow. One. Yeah. Were they all couples or singles? No, this was just a single guy. And it was a variety of people that we had been talking to. So one guy shows up and you got the hotel room? Well, so this was about a week before we went and met up with them because they were willing to shoot some content for my only fans. And I was like, all right, let's see how this goes. And we had a great time. It was a lot of fun. We took some really high. hot video, a couple hot screenshots and still photos, which I love doing, and put that out there. And then he goes to just. You're kidding. For the day, the day, so not, no one shows up

at your party? Oh my God. Well, the day of, it literally looked like nobody was going to show up. Right. Until one, we had two people. One of them had to work late. The other one was willing to show up. All right, cool. Well, we're just going to go out and see. some live music, see a band, party a little bit, have a good time before we go to the hotel. And that's what we did. The one who was supposed to show up didn't. The one who had to work late showed up almost an hour late and was absolutely nothing like they had described themselves to be.

Oh no. Catfished? In a lot of ways. Yeah. The photos were okay but vague, but still nothing. was this a male or a female because you had invited males and female? It was a guy. Okay.

It was a male. So he shows up and I was like, well, you know, it's not that bad. Until we got down to it, he started fucking me. And I was like, okay, yet this is not what I was hoping for. Why? He was done in like three minutes. Oh. And then after he got off once, he was done.

And I had just gotten started. I had just gotten warmed up. I'm like, are you fucking kidding me? What is going on here? It's my birthday, God damn it. Oh, my God, what a letdown. Did he, like, did he feel bad, or was he so selfish that he was like, I got what I wanted to see later? Yeah, no, he was like, I said something about round two.

He's like, oh, no, I'm good. And then a couple days later, had the balls to message us and be like, so did she enjoy it? Yeah, wow. And I didn't even respond because we had learned that if we were going to shoot content for only fans, we needed to make sure that people were verified on the site and had all that ready to go before we even started. Like, that's been a rule from the beginning. Like, we've already cleared that we're shooting content. We don't do shit until I know that you are legit, right?

Yeah. So we're in the process of getting that situated and he was good to go. did the deed he left we couldn't stay the night in the hotel so we literally spent money on a hotel room that we used for an hour and a half did anyone did you say someone else showed up i mean do you have any hot stories from just one person showed up i had a hot tub girl he went all out for this room for me okay i had a hot tub i had lights like i was all dressed up like i was not fucking around why didn't you and your husband stay there and fuck did you Oh yeah Okay Oh yeah That was

That was the rest of the time That we were there We absolutely took advantage of it After you left I'm not letting you leave This hotel room unsatisfied Yeah Which was great

I appreciated that And this was a couple of days Before my birthday So the day before The day before We got a message From this guy That we had been talking to

And I was super hopeful About Because he was like Hitting All the marks All the requirements Absolutely everything all down the line.

He messages us and it's like, hey, what, you know, what are you guys doing? You want to get to, do you have any free time today? He looks at me and he says, how quick can you get ready? It's like, give me an hour and a half and we can leave. So we drive about 45 minutes to an hour to go meet up with this guy at his house. And he rocked my fucking world. Oh, okay. Thank God.

Here's a good story. Oh, yeah. No, he saved. He saved my birthday, for sure. Yeah. And I had jokingly told my husband, I was like, the one thing I really, really need is a screaming fucking orgasm. I don't have to worry about how loud I'm being, but I want them to earn it, right? Yeah.

And it sounded like I was asking for a lot. Yeah. That's exactly what I got. From this guy. Why was he, like, just well hung and knew how to fuck? well-hung, well-built bodybuilder, like legitimate competitive bodybuilder, which I wasn't expecting, but I'll take it.

He was gorgeous, yes, and really quiet, but not in an off-putting kind of way. He had a good sense of humor. He's a single dad. You know, we were able to sit around and chit-chat between rounds, but it took him for three rounds, and I'll tell you what, Kathy, I'm working on my pro bowl riding card after that one.

Really? So wait. And that can be seen on my only fans. I put all of the video up on there, in parts, but it's hot. Now, you're hot. So do you always play solo or sometimes your husband's there? Are you guys down for both different, you know, both? Most of the time he watches in films, especially for creating content for

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But I know that if I were to ask him to participate, he would. Right. But that time he didn't. But does he like to watch the video? Like what's in it for him when you go and do that? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Afterwards, I would be willing to bet he probably watch.

those videos every day for at least a week or two afterwards. Yeah, I could imagine. Did you come home and tell him details too? Is he into that? What's that? Is he into the details too? Yeah, he likes to know what my favorite part was, and I like to know what his favorite part was.

But did he love that experience as much as you did? Yes. Yes, absolutely. And unfortunately, we haven't had the chance to meet up with him since our schedule just haven't aligned, but that's still a plan because I would definitely take that bull for a ride again. How long did that rendezvous last? Oh, man, that was a good solid hour and a half that we were there. Right. I think the videos all together a little over 30 minutes, but that's because we cut out all the stuff in between, you know, the videos, all the good stuff.

Right. But let me ask you, you know, it's interesting that you cut out that stuff in between, but like I got to tell you, I had a girl on the other day that I taped and she does this, she created this porn site called Queer Crush and it's all lesbian porn. And she always felt like, you know, the porn that she'd watch lesbian porn would never really depicted the kind of sex she had. She wanted to make a, make porn that was real, you know. So when they edit the porn, like she doesn't take anything out, somebody going for water, somebody laughing, someone making a mistake.

I'm like, I think that's kind of like cool because it's like real amateur stuff. I don't know. Maybe you should sometimes like post a, uh, something just straight through that people really see everything, you know, it's like the real deal, you know, not so produced, kind of like real, like this is real. This is when she gets up and goes to the bathroom, what he's doing, blah, blah, blah, I don't know. I thought it was an interesting concept. That's just a little tidbit. It is an interesting concept. And that probably would have been pretty funny because there was, you know, a desperate search for water. That's what I mean. I think that that's

kind of interesting. A desperate search for another condom. There was the, where did the rapper go? Yeah, the, where's my Oh my God, hilarious. I was going to ask about protection. You do always use condoms? Yes. Mm-hmm. Yes. No, we always play safe and I'm not fixed yet. That is something that we want to have done, but I'm not there yet. Right. So we're up to be extra safe. When you're done, you know, does your husband bang you out? Are you guys in a hotel at that time with that guy? Or like, do you go home and do it? No, we were at his house. We were at his house. We went to his house, and then after that we went home and, you know, had kiddos and stuff like that to do and things to take care of. And that night, we went to bed early and locked ourselves in our room and watched the video over again and had a good time all on our own. Right. That's the reclaiming. Do you guys, are you guys into that part of things? Very much so. Yeah. I mean, everybody says that aftercare is necessary, but I think that reclaiming is, not just part of the aftercare, but it's just as necessary, right? I think. I don't know. I've never done this before, but I think that, you know, a lot of times it goes hand in hand. It's a part of that

experience. It's the whole point. Except when you're dealing with the cuck, you know, sometimes these extreme cucks, they don't want to get fucked after. They want to be in denial. You know, that's a totally different setup. But most of the time in these kind of typical hot wife compersion experiences, the reclaiming is what it's all about. It really is about you and the your guy, right? Even the experience of you with somebody else, it's for your primary partner, right? So coming together and sealing that typically goes hand in hand, right?

Absolutely. Oh, absolutely. And I've realized another difficulty that I have had is finding someone who can keep up with me, somebody who doesn't tap out before I do. Right. Well, this guy sounds like he did. Oh, yeah.

No, he was, He had some stamina about him. I definitely, I wouldn't say I tapped out, but I think we both kind of tapped at the same time. Right. And when you say you could just go, like, are you like multiple, like multi-orgasmic? Yes, most of the time. If they know what to do and how to draw that out of me, absolutely. Right.

Actually, if they are able to make me squirt, because once that happens, she just keeps going. Oh, really? So the squirting gets you multi? Yes, every time. And can you squirt from like the guy's cock inside of you or just a finger, like a hand, like the hands? Both. It all depends on how they do it. Right, exactly, right? You have to be in a certain position to do it if you're like to squirt when you're fucking. No, I don't think so. I, there's been multiple positions that I found it that I've been able to do it from. it just depends on how good they're working and if they know what they're doing and what to do

when they know that I'm going to and all of that. Plus, I do think it has to do with, you know, listen, some guy that's going to fuck you for three minutes is going to get you to squirt because, you know, you do have to be swollen. You have to get to a certain level right before you squirt. So it's got to be somebody that you're with for a while. You're not going to like go in one second squirt, right? I don't think so. Right.

I don't know. Yeah, no. I think, at least for me, there's always got to be at least one, like, good orgasm, and then I'll be able to do it. Oh, interesting. Right. So you're all, like, turned on and everything's, like, primed, right? You've got to get primed, I think, a little bit for it.

That's what I've heard. Yeah, for sure. It's not an automatic switch. No, I didn't think so. All right. So now I know that you do want advice and you've had some, like, more gone wrong stories. You want to get to that stuff? Yeah.

Really, I'm wondering. I hear a lot of people talk about finding places to play and being able to meet up with people when they travel and stuff like that. And we went out to Vegas last month. And we were only there for a few days. We were there for a conference and had planned on playing while we were out there. And used our normal avenues, which I guess at this point would be apps like three fun and Reddit. What about SDC? I have free trials now for SDC.

you could go on there. And what's great about that is they say that you could like find people all over the world and there's like hotel takeovers and meetings and all that. Have you ever tried SDC? I have not yet. But that's why I'm glad that I brought this up with you because now that you say that, I think I'm going to have to do that. Yeah, try it. I actually partnered up with them. I waited a long time. Like a lot of apps always came to me like, oh, you want to do this with, you know, but most like this is the way, SDC was the site that most people who have been in the lifestyle for the longest recommended. And it's mostly because either worldwide, they have tons of users, you know, millions of people. So if you are traveling someplace, you could find it. But what's great is that, you know,

you could, you know, people are vetted, of course, right? So you could see ratings as well as, like, you could see if there is a gang bang going on in Vegas. And not only will you see, if there's a gang bang, you'll see all the people who have signed up for it, right? Of course, not every single person that signed up is going to be there, but you're going to get a good idea of the guest list. because people sign up through there. So you could add, you could learn about the munches and the meet and greets and the hotel takeovers, the gangbings, the house parties,

all of that is listed on there. So it's not just like a hookup site. It's also like four events. So when you were going to Vegas, you went on the apps to look for people to hook up with? We did, yeah. This is where it got a little frustrating because before we had had issues with people

just flaking out at the last minute, right? Yeah, terrible. Out there, we did run into that. But more so, we're very upfront with what we're looking for. So when we had posted about, hey, we're in town looking for such and such, you know, bulls, couples, you know, single females to hook up with whatever, we were very clear about with the bull situation that we would be looking to film for my content page. That was very clear black and white, must be verified.

all this stuff. And you have conversations with people and you get to the point where you're going to set up a meeting, you're like, okay, now I need you to go get verified. And a couple of them would go and do that. We had one person just straight up refuse. So, okay, fine, like, sorry, you're off the list. And then they kept messaging us like, hey, are you sure? Like, are you still in town?

Like, I'd really like to get together with you. You're just my type. And I'm like, we've already been clear about our boundaries. you don't fit the bell sorry well we had one who hit all the requirements everything was good and set up a time

he was late which I mean I don't care I'll sit there and get myself ready if I have to and then when he finally showed up says well what if I don't want to be on only fans and what if I don't want to be shown or shared on

on social media Didn't we just talk about this? Right. And we're like, well, if that's the case, then see you later. Are you serious? Bro, yeah. We're very clear about what we were looking for, and you got here, wasted both of our times. And now you say you don't want to do it.

You can leave. Thank you. So you kind of put up a stink on the way out and we're like, sorry about your luck. You know, you were the one who either didn't read. weren't honest and we're going to have to move on you know right and unfortunately that was our last night there that we would have been able to do anything so it was pretty much a flop yeah your whole this whole episode's a little bit of a flop now I'm just joking call your stories but let's get to something more fun because I know that you know with all of this stuff you had the good stuff then you had some

annoying stuff but then you just recently had a threesome with a chick right like that's something new It did. Okay. It was, well, not necessarily new. It was just something that we hadn't been able to do in quite a while. Okay, cool. Like a long time. So it did kind of seem new, you know, but it was this female that we had started talking to just casually through a group of like-minded individuals online.

And we liked her and she liked us. And we started chatting with her a little bit, trying to potentially feel things out, see how they would go. And she would message us and be like, hey, are you guys free this weekend? So we finally got the chance to make something work out. And she was so much fun. I tell you what, like I've met like a lot of other women in the lifestyle, but not a whole lot of true unicorns. Oh, okay. Well, can you ever just remind me? How did you, well, not remind me, but maybe you just told me about, like, how did you meet her? Like online and like it was just like a dating app or something like that?

No, this is actually a, it was a social media group of like-minded individuals in our area. So like a Facebook put like a Facebook Swinger group or something, Hot Wife group? Like what? It's got to, it's a sex group, correct? That's what I'm just trying to. Yeah. Right. Okay. So everybody there knows that everybody there is is fairly open-minded and at least in some ways looking for similar things. Yeah, I love it. So we had a chance to take her out on a date and I, I wasn't really sure how it would go. We hadn't booked a hotel room yet because we were kind of waiting to see we didn't want to waste money again in a situation that wasn't going to work out.

Of course. But we wound up sitting and drinking at the bar for a couple hours and then we brought it up, hey, you know, do you want us to get a hotel room? And she was jumped right on it. She's like, yeah, there was no, no hesitation. No, I don't know, maybe we should do it another day. She was all about it. And now she was a she was like positioned herself as a unicorn, correct? Yes, at this point in her experience in the lifestyle.

That is where she prefers to stay. Okay. Paint the picture. Was she super hot? Like what she your type? Do you have a type when it comes to women? I don't necessarily have a type per se for myself. I think women of all kinds are beautiful.

It's a matter of being able to connect with them. and their vibe and their energy and that I think is far more attractive than anything else. But yeah, I thought she was gorgeous. I knew she was gorgeous because of the pictures that she had sent us, but she sat down at the table and I was like, okay, this is actually going to work out. I like this. And then when we got back to the hotel room, it worked out even better. She was able to match my freak.

We'll put it that way. Oh my God, why? How freaky are you when it comes to women? And now your husband's there, correct? Because typically we're hearing about you with guys, right? But this is like your husband's there participating. Like, do you like to watch them with other women? Yes. And that hadn't happened in a while. So with this being a good opportunity for that, her and I actually played together for quite a while first. We started making out. And at one point I started going down on her. And she kind of jumps up and she goes, no, you back there. And I laid back and she hopped on for a good while of 69.

And I don't, I love that. I like watching it. I love participating in it. Meaning your husband and her are 60-9ing, correct? No, me and her. Oh, okay, okay. He's filming. And I look over at him and he's just like, yeah, we needed this.

I'm enjoying this. And that's really usually all the encouragement I need. Your husband being into it. Yeah. Oh, totally. And then it didn't take long. You know, not every female can squirt when she has an orgasm. But when you find one who does, some people don't really like it.

I do. I totally get off on that. So if I can make another female squirt, it makes my experience 10 times better. Yeah, that's what I would think. Even for guys, too, you know, that's why I'm always dying to squirt. Because some people say it's not like it feels that great, but I just think it's impressive. And probably a turn on to the other person, right? Because, like, you know, you know you really turn them on, right?

Completely. Completely. And, you know, guys joke that they love it dripping down their beard. And I fully understand that. Because of this, was this the first girl that squirted on your face? No. But it had been a very. very long time since I had found a female who did that.

Right. So we had a really good time together. And then after a while, I looked over at him. I was like, all right, your turn. So he comes over and her and I both started blowing him. And after a little bit, I just kind of excused myself for a minute. I went and adjusted the camera. And I come back and he's going down on both of us at the same time,

which I thought was super fucking hot. And the more she's enjoying it, the more I'm enjoying it, the more he's enjoying it. And when he started to get ready to fuck her, I just got up and went to the other side of the room and stood there with the camera and played director a little bit myself this time. Switch roles. Right. And that's a turn on to you seeing him with other women. Completely. Right. So there's no rules going into something like this. no just that everybody is on the same page and obviously that you know everybody is is able to to get off and have a good time yeah love it okay so he now you filmed that too oh yeah absolutely so that lasted for a while and after they were done her and i made out for a little bit

at this point it's like three o'clock in the morning and we've got to get some sleep so We let her stay in the hotel room, but because she had written with us from the bar to the hotel, we had to go back the next morning and pick her up and take her back to her car. Oh, you're kidding. That is so funny. How old is she? She's just a couple years older than me, so I'd say, like, mid-40s. Cool. Actually, her birthday was just yesterday.

Oh, interesting. Okay, so her birthday just passed, and so your husband was into her, obviously. And now is this stuff that you post on your only fans? You have only fans? So she's not super active on the social medias and the, she's not a content creator or anything like that. So it's kind of a fine line. You got to dance for a little while.

Yeah, but was she into being filmed and stuff like that? She was okay with it? Oh, yeah, absolutely. And right afterwards, she was like, no, make sure that I get copy. of all that. I really want those videos. And I sent them to her and she's like, those are so hot. I can't stop watching them and

getting off to them. Yeah, I would assume that she would want them at least. Like that's what would be into it for her. Yeah, I mean, that's the whole point. Yeah, for you too, right? Absolutely. Right. Oh, yeah. So now do you have any plans to see her

again? Not immediately on the calendar. Our schedules have been a little crazy this time of year, but that's definitely in the works. We've got a couple of couples that we've been talking to. And same thing, it's really just a scheduling issue when everybody has jobs and kids and shit like that. You just life takes precedent.

You do what you got to do and ride the waves when you can. Right. So any new guys coming up in your future? I've had a few potentials, a whole lot of fakes and flakes. I'm really just going to get on that, the website that you were talking about. about. SDC? Yes. Uh-huh. Because honestly, I think that's going to be our best bet because a whole lot of people are like, oh, we have great luck on Reddit. Not really. Yeah, I've heard of Reddit for people. I don't understand. Have you, you've tried it and just no luck? Yeah, I mean, we've had some luck on there,

but it's not great if you feel me. What was that? So, yeah, I really just rather connect with people that I know are already of the same mindset and have the same goals. Right, totally, totally. Hey, I got a question for you. Yeah. Are you, are you still sponsored by Blue Chew? Yeah. That shit is fucking amazing.

Can I talk about that really quickly? Yeah, of course. I love it. I'll make sure I air during a Blue Chew week. Tell me, tell me, what do you think? So we were given a sample of Blue Chew from a friend of ours who said, just try this. You're going to like it. Okay. It had been something we had kind of talked about and discussed trying out. We tried it. And the first night, both of us were like, yeah, we're

definitely going to get some of that again. So now my husband has a monthly subscription of Blue Chew. Oh, you're kidding. And so what did it do for him that like? Because he's a young guy, right? And I think that some people think, oh, that's only if you can't get it up or something. But it's not just, right? Yeah. He's in his early 40s. So about that time that, you know, guys want a little extra boost. But we've noticed longevity, for sure.

He never really had an issue getting hard. So for us, the benefits that we've noticed is the longevity and the fact that it's easier for him to get hard again after an orgasm now. Oh, that's interesting. We've noticed that sometimes we'll use it at night and go to bed. And in the morning, like, he has a really hard time not getting hard out. Right. You're kidding. That's like the 20-year-olds.

Yeah. Yeah, it really is. And honestly, I don't know if this is one of the listed benefits, but it does seem to actually make him a little bit harder. Yes, for sure, harder and longer. Yeah. Yeah. Get harder for longer because, listen, the same reason why you wouldn't be able to last for long or get as hard. It's like the same thing, right?

It's blood flow. So I think you're getting harder because the blood flow is stronger, right? Doesn't that make sense? Yeah. I mean, I'm the doctor. Sure. It makes sense, though. Yeah, yeah.

Oh, that's awesome. Did he use my code or no? Did he forget? I think he did. Initially, he was given a promo from the package that his friend had. Yeah, of course. think when we signed up for the full subscription that we used yours. Yeah, that's great. I love hearing stuff like that. I mean, I feel like the sponsors that I got for my show are all perfectly aligned. I really

love them all. Oh, yeah, we probably wouldn't have, we would have heard of it, but I don't think we would have been as driven to try it if we hadn't heard you talk about it and your guests talk about it. Yeah, I love it. That's awesome. Yeah, like I said, I think what I love about that, that, you know, your guy's story is it just goes to show. Like, it isn't something. just for like older guys that have a real issue. You know, it could be for anyone. And a lot of people know that and some people still don't. So it sounds like you guys were open and gave it a try.

And now you realize, oh, this could be for anyone at any age. Yes, definitely worth it. To anyone who might be considering it, just do it. Yeah, I love it. Well, there you go, Bluetooth. That's an extra added ad for them. My code is like strictly a non. I think all of my sponsor links are in the description.

But listen, Jinja, give a shout. out to all your stuff. Did you do that already? You haven't yet, right? Do give a shout out to where everyone can find you. All right. Well, on X or Twitter, I am Jinja Queen, G-I-N-J-A and Queen. And then my only fans is the same thing, but there's an underscore between Jinja and Queen. Okay, cool. And I will put a link to your stuff there. Get the Girl-on-Girl Action up there so people could see it. That's eventually going to be posted, right? And what are they get on your only fans? I don't do

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and all of those things. So they can follow me on there. I'm always open to suggestions. I do some customs with and reason. The only thing I don't do is video chats. I know that's a big thing that people like. I just, that's not my thing. What are video chats? Like people talking live to the person? Yeah. Oh, interesting. Okay, that's fine, but they have everything else. Okay, great. So I'll put your

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It's about you being smart enough to know that everybody else doesn't, you know, is very judgmental. Yeah. Sorry, that's just the way that it is. I mean... Yeah, no, it is. You're right. And you have to be realistic with yourself if this is something that you're going to do and you're putting yourself out there in any way. You know, you have to be realistic.

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