Stuff You Should Know - Short Stuff: Bloody Mary
Episode Date: October 20, 2021In this edition of Short Stuff we may accidentally conjure a deadly spirt, so look out! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy... information.
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Hey, and welcome to the short stuff. I'm Josh. There's Chuck. And we're joined today by our
resident ghost, Bloody Mary. That's right. And we just did a weird thing and recorded our ads first.
So I just had the urge to say, if you like Bloody Mary, you're going to love this Bloody Mary.
Bloody Mary? You won't love Bloody Mary because that is a scary kids game. It seems like a lot
of girls do this, but I know some boys who have done it as well. I have. Where you stand in the
mirror and there are variations that we'll talk about. You look in the mirror, it's a darkened room,
maybe you've got a candle going. If you're lucky. And you say the words Bloody Mary,
a certain amount of times, it varies. Sometimes, sometimes 13 per region.
Sometimes you turn in a circle 13 times. I've never heard of that. I would fall over.
That's the Parma, Ohio method. And then depending on how skilled you are at your incantations,
Bloody Mary may kill you, may reach through the mirror and pull you in to the nether worlds,
may claw your face and eyes out. Yeah. Or you may just die of fright. Or maybe nothing at all.
Or she may just be standing there glowering at you, really mad that you brought her to this
mirror, but you can't do anything about it. Right. Like, oh, these kids. Yeah. Either way,
you're going to go running out of this bathroom and you're going to be talking to your friends
about what you saw. And we'll talk about it later, but in a weird way, like they're correct when
they say they saw something strange, right? Possibly. Okay. We'll go with yes.
So what's the deal? Where did this thing come from? So that's the other thing about it. It's
not just a game, but there's, because there's like a legend wrapped around it and the legend
is kind of evolving and changing regionally. And over time, like you were saying,
it actually constitutes a piece of American folklore. They're pretty sure it's American,
right? And they've actually been studying it here or there, like kind of sporadically,
but the first person to actually put it, pen to paper about it was a folklorist named Janet
Langloy. That's how I'm going with Langloy. Great last name, look wise, tough to say.
You know what? I prefer Langloy. You could say it like that. It's even harder to say.
Langloy. Right. It almost looks like Shammy, but with an L. Oh man. Shammy confused me for the
first 30 something years in my life. Why is everybody saying it like that? I knew it as
Shammy was, but I never put the two together. Yeah, I know exactly what you mean, but this
lady's last name is not Shammy, it's Langloy. That's right. She's a folklorist. Yeah. And I
think she sort of just, I mean, it was around, but she was the first person to kind of start
writing about it a little bit. And it turns out like because it's regional, there are a bunch
of different names besides Bloody Mary. Hell, Mary is one. Mary Worth is hysterical.
I think so. That's a full on comic strip. It is one of the weirdest comic strips ever.
Yeah. What was the deal with that? It's like Mark Trail. I don't know. At least Mark Trail
was appealing to kids. Nothing about Mary Worth had any appeal to kids. Like they would just be
like, what is this? I don't understand any of this. It was a comic strip, a soap opera
comic strip for grownups. Very bizarre. Oh, was it for grownups? Totally. And then there was also,
I think Apartment 3e was a very similar kind of comic strip. I might have the apartment number
wrong, but it was like that. No, thank you. Give me Garfield. Give me Beetle Bailey. Give me
Wizard of Id. Don't forget High and Lois. Bloom County. I can do this all day. Zits. Remember,
Zits did a comic featuring us. Oh yeah, of course. That was awesome. But Bloody Mary has nothing to
do with any of that, but we should do it on comic strips. It's a great idea. I can't believe we
haven't. I knew we did comic books, but not comic strips. We should definitely check. That is a
great idea. We'll wind that out here with a few more names that I like. Black Angus is another,
and then Svarte Madame. What did they say? Black Angus? Black Agnes. You're right.
Right. So all of them are just, they're different names for the same spirit that you can conjure
from your mirror if you do this right. And there's a few of those names kind of stand out. A couple
of them, really. The first one, Bloody Mary. That's the one I always heard. And if you read about
Bloody Mary, a lot of the people who are writing about Bloody Mary trace her to Queen Mary, the
first of England, who ruled from 1555 to 58. And she was actually called Bloody Mary because she
was a Protestant killer. That's right. She ordered the death of many Protestants to be burned at the
stake and other grisly forms of death. But here's the thing. It's probably not on account of her
that we say Bloody Mary because she wasn't doing the actual killing. And in the folklore, it's
really Bloody Mary doing the killing, and she bathes in the blood of children and stuff like that.
Right. So that doesn't really jibe. It more jibes with somebody else, a woman by a totally
different name, Elizabeth Bathory, the countess of blood, I think they call her, who actually
is reputed to have killed many, many peasant girls herself and actually did probably bathe in their
blood. And she may actually be the most prolific serial killer in history. So there's like, maybe
we're looking at like a mishmash of different names, traits, characters, or it could just be
totally coincidental or they don't really know where this thing came from is what I'm saying.
Or it was based on Mary Worth, the soap opera comic strip for adults.
Right. She's got really boring as the comic strip went on.
She's like, no, I might as well start killing kids. Should we take a break?
I think so.
All right. Let's take a break and we'll talk a little bit more about some of the variations. And
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Okay, Chuck, you talked about variations.
One thing you can do is spin in a circle 13 times.
Another one is you can chant her name a certain amount of times.
Another variation is where you actually prick your finger and make it bleed.
And then you press fingers with the person you're doing this with and chant.
Don't do that, kids.
It's hardcore.
And then there's also saying, I believe.
I saw in a few variations that you say like, Mary Worth, I believe.
Mary Worth, I believe.
And that's the chant.
And a kind of matronly, well-dressed, animated woman appears in your mirror
and says, what's the bother?
And this is the kind of thing that's done at slumber parties and sleepovers.
The kids all think they see something.
They get scared.
Their imagination takes over.
But supposedly, there was a little real science to this in that in 2010,
a researcher out of Italy named Giovanni Caputto did a little experiment
where he had people stare into a mirror in a dimly lit room for 10 minutes
and write down what they saw.
And out of the 50 test subjects, very robust.
66% of people said they saw huge deformations of their face.
48% also saw fantastical and monstrous things.
And other people said they saw the face of a parent or the face of an animal
or an old woman or a child.
Yeah.
And I was looking at why that might happen.
And apparently one explanation is that your brain becomes sensitized
to the visual information it's getting.
And because it doesn't need, it's already judged this image at non-thread
and it's not food or anything like that.
It stops filling in the details.
And so visually a deformation occurs in your image of what you're seeing in the mirror.
Just because you're staring at it for so long?
Yes.
So there actually is science to this idea where the chanting of Bloody Mary
doesn't necessarily do anything.
Although I don't know, maybe it puts you in something of a trance-like state
where this happens on a deeper level or something.
But at the very least, we realize that the brain stops filling in details
so a deformed version of a face can see.
And then you also add in our innate need to fill in patterns
or to find patterns and to see faces in things.
So maybe we start inputting stuff in those missing areas
and it comes out all monstrous or baby-like.
But wouldn't you need for this effect to take place
to do it for like 10 minutes and not just say Bloody Mary three times?
Yeah, I think that's part of the game
is you're supposed to stay in there for longer than just however long it takes
to say Bloody Mary three times.
You know, like you maybe use chant Bloody Mary three times
and then you just stare until you just are scared and run out of the bathroom.
You know what game is a lot more fun than that at a slumber party?
How about that game where you go in a closet with someone and,
I don't know, kiss in the dark?
Sure, sure.
Or light as a feather, stiff as a board is pretty awesome.
Yeah, but I was probably more scared of kissing a girl in a closet
than I was of incanting Bloody Mary.
Right.
There was this great article on this.
Well, a couple of them.
I found some on Penn State University's like folklore site.
Mental floss had something good and Snopes did too.
But in that mental floss article,
they turned up a possible provenance of this game
and linked it to a Robert Burns poem from I think 1786
where I think the poem is called Halloween
and Robert Burns is basically giving you party ideas
at your next Halloween gathering in the 18th century.
And one of them is what girls can do to look in the mirror to see who they'll marry.
Right.
And the idea for mental floss and others is maybe
just the word Mary got kind of twisted up over the years.
And that's where that came from.
That's part of it.
And then another part is so you're looking in the mirror
and you're combing your hair and or eating an apple at the same time.
And then you'll see in the mirror over your shoulder,
the face of the person you're going to marry.
But you could also see a skull.
And that means you're going to die before you have a chance to marry.
And so it's possible that that and the Mary kind of turned into Bloody Mary
because of the skull.
That's one explanation for where this came from.
There's another one from 1998 that is super 1998.
Yeah, that it might have something to do with some kind of ritual
for when an adolescent girl enters her Minzies.
Which is called what Chuck?
Monarchy, right?
That's right.
That word really stuck with me over the years.
Yeah, I did.
We both learned that one together.
And it makes sense in a really kind of figurative way.
Like the whole game is really preoccupied with blood.
That's one.
Sure.
The age of the girls who tend to play these games kind of aligns.
Yeah, it's definitely considered a girl's game
and like a late pre-pubescent early adolescent age time frame.
So that would be the right time for this game to be played to.
Yeah.
And the last part of that one is something we talked a lot about
on our episode about that many, many years ago was we're kind of like one of the only
cultures that doesn't have some kind of ritual right of passage for girls
entering that phase of their life.
Right?
Yeah, and then this kind of suggests that like girls still need that anyway,
even if they don't live in a culture that has it.
And this stands in in some really weird roundabout way,
which I just find fascinating.
Very interesting.
Very interesting indeed.
So that's Bloody Mary, everybody, and we're one step closer to Halloween.
So beware in the meantime, short stuff is out like a bat in the night.
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