Stuff You Should Know - Short Stuff: Exclamation Points!
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On the podcast, Hey Dude, the 90s called,
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Hey, and welcome to the short stuff.
I'm Josh.
There's Chuck.
There's Josh.
This is short stuff with an exclamation point.
I thought this was super interesting.
I feel like we've talked about this before.
Yeah.
Do you remember on our little one minute explanation videos
that have been scrubbed, I guess from the internet,
because I don't know where those things are.
I don't know if I remember those.
Yeah, we'd be like, we'd explain something to one another
in one minute.
Really?
Just in standup videos, yeah.
Yeah, I sorta do.
We've done so many dumb videos over the years.
I think the only thing that was worth anything
was don't be dumb.
You're sweet.
But also internet roundup was pretty great.
And again, this day in history was wonderful.
Yeah.
Wonderful.
Anyway, I think we talked about this,
but it is super interesting and I love it.
Yeah, I think it's interesting
because there's a lot of tendrils.
We're talking about the exclamation point.
And there are just lots of weird
and interesting facts about this.
Yeah.
No one knows where it came from exactly.
It was introduced in English as far back
as the 14th century, where it was called
the point of admiration.
That's pretty sweet.
I like that.
And the theory of what it, how it came about
was that it was used for the Latin exclamation of joy,
which is capital I, capital O.
I-O.
And the I above that O looks like the exclamation point.
Yeah.
Like they think that somebody was using that
and started just, I guess, saving space.
I don't know.
But instead of putting I then O is I above O.
And yeah, that looks a lot like an exclamation point.
Yeah.
They also think the question mark came from that too.
Q-O, quo, to question somebody.
Sure.
That they just put the Q above the O
and that's where that came from.
It's pretty,
Look at there.
Pretty good explanation if you ask me.
Yeah. And so if you want to talk about
like the actual rules of grammar,
cause it's different than how we use it today,
in some ways, you can also still use it this way,
but is obviously an exclamation
to exclaim something in a sentence or an interjection.
Right. So like if you're like, I stubbed my toe.
Yeah.
That would be an appropriate place to use an exclamation
point without people making fun of you or saying like,
Yee-haw.
There you go.
If you say that without an exclamation point,
you just look kind of like a jerk.
Your cowboy who's dead inside.
Right, exactly.
So people kind of long understood,
like these are the two instances
that you could use an exclamation point and that was that.
Everyone just knew like you just don't use it
unless you are say like bad at writing.
Like if you come across a book
written in like the 20th century
and there's a lot of exclamation points,
that book was roundly laughed at.
Because one thing that you'll find
if you start to dig into the history of exclamation points
is we used to use them way less than you see today.
They were used in the 19th century.
I think yellow muckraker journalists used them a lot
to kind of get people on the edge of their seat or whatever.
It's kind of a poke.
It's like a, it's an emotional poke.
And so it can get kind of worn out very quickly and it was.
So people used them sparingly,
starting around the 20th century.
Yeah. And here's another super cool little fact.
I'm an old typewriter in my room and I've never noticed
but there is not an exclamation point
because up until about 1970,
they didn't have its own key as a punctuation mark.
Sure. You had to retrofit it.
Yeah. I didn't know how to make one.
And this is pretty interesting, isn't it?
Yeah. So what you do is you type a period.
Step one.
You backspace. Step two.
And then you type an apostrophe on top of it.
And that would be the third and final step.
Yeah. Not bad. It's a good little solve.
But your exclamation point looks a little like lazy or crooked.
Yeah. Agreed.
You know, I guess it gets the point across.
I mean, you could, if you wanted to try and get tricky,
you could roll the thing down a little bit
and try and type an L, I suppose.
Sure.
But that's your really gambling there.
Yeah. But think about the trouble that people went to
to type an exclamation point back then.
Like you really needed to mean it.
Yeah. That's true.
You know?
Like wanted. Exactly.
So back in the day, apparently they didn't call them exclamation
points. As recently as the 50s, Chuck, they called them bangs.
Yeah.
And that's a longstanding tradition.
And I think in the 19th century, printers,
like where they actually spelled out like each letter
of every word in a newspaper, they called them bangs back then.
Pretty cool.
It is pretty cool. You want to take a break?
Yeah. We'll take a break and talk about how things have changed.
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OK, Chuck, we're back.
It's kind of funny, if you listen to this episode
and just imagine an exclamation point
at the end of every one of our sentences,
I'll bet it'd be a little more enjoyable than normal.
Yeah, I mean, surely we'll call it something,
exclamation point, and use an exclamation point.
I don't know.
I don't know, we could also zig instead of zagging.
That's true.
Go for the subtle joke.
So if you are aware of the world today, in the West,
at least, you are aware that exclamation points are everywhere.
They're dripping from the ceilings, the walls.
They're in your cereal everywhere.
There's exclamation points.
And this is a fairly new thing.
And for a little while, especially when it really
started to take hold in, say, like the odds, the 2000 odds,
people made fun of these.
I remember distinctly writing a blog post saying,
like, this is ruining the world, basically,
this overuse of the exclamation point.
I was.
Now, and I warned against this in my blog post,
now you can't not use an exclamation point
or else you seem like you're being mean.
That was the ultimate problem that I foresaw way back
in the day.
Yeah, so that is what has changed everything,
is ecommunication.
And there's a linguist named Gretchen McCullough,
who really very succinctly ties a bow on exactly what this is.
And that is this.
It is a sincerity marker, not an intensity marker now.
Yeah, which makes a tremendous amount of sense.
Yeah, I mean, it can be both.
You can still obviously say, get out of my way,
exclamation point.
Sure.
But if you're communicating with someone via text,
via email, and you say, thanks a lot for helping,
if you'd say, thanks a lot for helping, with just a period,
it comes across as not too friendly.
It just does now.
It does.
And it's sad because there's a very cool way of putting it
that's not excited or anything like that.
And if you, I feel like we've also gotten a lot more insecure
at the same time.
We've started to use electronic communication.
And so that those two have kind of cohabitated or coexisted
or co-evolved.
And we now require that exclamation point to say,
I mean this, like I'm being serious.
Yeah.
Which, because when we communicate electronically, email,
chat, text, what have you, we're missing like all of the verbal,
the audio, and the visual cues that come through when you're
talking to somebody or you can hear someone talking
or see them talking.
So we have to kind of adorn our communication now
with these other cues to let people know like,
I'm not being sarcastic.
Which makes people who use exclamation points
sarcastically, they are basically undermining
the very fabric of the new society that we're building.
Like we're holding on by our fingernails on this new system.
Right.
It's like, please don't pull the rug out from under us.
Like give it another 50 years maybe
before you really start doing that.
But it is an interesting thing with the sarcasm or genuine
quality, and that's the differentiator.
Like if someone gives you a lot of help,
you could say, thank you so much exclamation point.
If someone doesn't really help you that much,
you could also say, thank you so much.
Right.
And like you can hear my voice and clearly know what's going on.
But in an email or a text, that period is a signifier,
I think.
It's a message.
Yeah, it is.
It is.
So exactly how you take it, I think largely depends
on the type of person you are.
But I think what Gretchen McCullis said was, it's a,
sincerity marker.
Sincerity marker, beautiful, over an intensity marker.
The other thing too is that they have found through research
that women use them more than men if you're
communicating online to show friendliness.
And they've also found that young women and people of color,
young people of color especially,
are linguistic innovators.
They're often vilified in the early processes.
And one thing they mentioned in this House of Works article
is like Valley Girl speech, where as people say like all
the time now, some people point it out and make fun of it.
And I guarantee you those people use it all the time too.
But that stuff was really derided in the 80s,
but now it's kind of widespread in a lot of ways.
Yeah, remember I think it was Moon Unit, Frank Zepa's daughter?
Yes.
OK, remember she had that song Valley Girl that hit,
making fun of Valley Girls.
And like the whole world was making fun of Valley Girls.
And now everyone talks like a Valley Girl.
To a certain degree, that is true, I think.
So the idea behind this, according to linguists,
is that starting about in the 2000 aughts, again, 2005,
6, 7, around the time when texting really became
a big thing in America, younger women
started using exclamation points a lot.
And it just became an innovation that spilled over
into the rest of culture.
Yeah, and there are a couple of other theories
that it says a lot in a short amount of time.
And people are communicating so quickly these days
in shorter bursts that it kind of plays a valuable role,
which makes sense.
It does, because if you add an exclamation point,
it keeps you from having to say like,
and I couldn't believe it.
I really meant it, or I was very surprised.
Yeah, it says it all right there.
Yeah, for sure.
The other interesting thing too is that they've done studies,
and they have shown that if you use exclamation points
in the business setting, that it is more likely
that you are not a supervisor or hire.
Or perceives as such.
Right, and that is true, man.
When I think about like our bosses,
they don't use a lot of exclamation points.
That's for the kids.
Yeah, narrowing an exclamation point among them.
There is one person that I won't name on the air
in our company that we exchange emails with
that does the like two or three exclamation points.
Oh, I haven't noticed, I'll have to pay attention.
Don't tell me.
Okay.
I'm gonna see if I can figure it out.
I'll email you in the next few days about it.
I always draw the line with one,
and I try to use them as very much as sincerity markers
to display that I'm either genuine about something
or sincere about something.
Anything I don't do to,
you don't use them much at all, I've noticed.
I use them, but I've very frequently gone back
and read an email before I sent it
and removed an exclamation point
and replaced it with a period.
Not because I was coming,
I meant to like tone down my sincerity
or anything like that,
but because I don't wanna overuse them
so that it does mean something
or that it does come through clearly when I do use them.
Right, and tying into this,
the other kind of interesting thing,
how these sort of,
it's not really grammar,
but how these things evolve over the years
is the all caps thing.
It now means like you're yelling at somebody,
and it's always funny to see in some sort of thread
or forum where there are,
maybe people of a certain age
accidentally get that caps lock going,
and it just is like this angry old person
is just yelling at everybody.
That's right, it is, it's funny.
They don't mean it,
they just didn't know how to turn it off.
Yes, and if you have all caps and multiple explanations,
you're either super excited or really ticked off.
Yeah, so Chuck, I have to ask you something.
Because I don't use exclamation points
from an outsider perspective,
does it seem like I'm being tepid or cold or a jerk or mean?
No, I mean, you and I communicate
in as short a hand as possible at this point.
Yeah, yeah, but you're CC'd on just about every email at work.
I mean, like to other people?
Yeah, so to other people does it, how does it look?
I think managerial and refined.
Oh, that's exactly what I'm going for.
Nice work.
I have a computer monocle that I wear when I send emails,
so that's what I'm trying to get across.
Yeah, you're doing fine, don't worry.
Thanks, managerial and refined,
serviceable and workman-like.
Yes.
You got anything else?
I got nothing else.
I don't either, so that means that short stuff is away.
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