Syd & Olivia Talk Sh*t - Rating Men (with Becca Moore)

Episode Date: December 14, 2021

Syd and Olivia talk to deadpan legend Becca Moore (@becccamooore) about dating mistakes in college, rating our exes, and why to never date your boss. Listen here or watch on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/SydOliviaTube Follow the podcast on social media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sydandolivia TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sydandoliviatalkshit Twitter: https://twitter.com/sydandolivia About Pierced: Pierced is the first creator-led podcast network that’s making podcasts for the girlies. We’re tired of every man on the face of the planet having a podcast and decided it’s time for a new era of podcasting - it’s time to give the girls the mic 🎤 Pierced podcasts features all your fav content creators in a new light. We collaborate with creators to produce podcasts that speak to the complex and unique experiences of the girls and young women of today – the podcasts we wish existed when we were younger. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I mean, that's at least a lovely place to get it. It was absolutely worth it. It was absolutely worth it. So, great show. So I'm Sid. I'm Olivia. Together we're Sid and Olivia. And today we have a really lovely guest.

Yeah, we're making up for our two-week absence with like the best possible guest. Easily our favorite person on TikTok. Yeah. And probably yours too. A future world leader. Future president. All around a perfect woman. Kind of basically just like a golden stature.

standard for like a perfect woman. You're going to say golden nugget. You guys have to stop. No, I'm okay, we'll keep going. It's okay. Everybody welcome. Beautiful, stunning, wonderful Becca Moore. We're our own studio audience.

Yeah, we're our own studio audience. We can't afford one. Hi, Becca. How are you? Hi, thank you for having me. Thank you for being so patient. It took forever. Thank you for coming on.

So if you don't know of Becca Moore from TikTok, then you're stupid. And I'll hunt you down. You're a fucking idiot, eh. hunt you down, I'll wait in your car. And I'll lick your corpse. I'll lick your corpse. So watch the fuck out for that.

Becca Moore, you might know her as the person who like rates everything on TikTok. I feel like you were really like you started that trend. Yeah. Well, in my head I did. I don't know if that's. I think in my head you do too. Like you truly like started the whole like rating things that don't necessarily need to be rated. Let's make that canon.

Let's say you started it even if someone did it before you because I can't think of anyone. I don't know if I started it, but I think, well, I must have gotten the idea from somewhere, but I've never seen anyone, like, sarcastically, like, I've seen real ratings before, but, like, never, like, like, 12, I don't know. So maybe I did, when did you start TikTok? Um, less than, or around a year ago. So I made a, I, like, had the idea in my car of driving, and I had seen this girl, because I thought TikTok was all dancing and, like, yeah, so did we, like, 12 year olds. Yeah, and so, like, I was so anti. Kids, kids, kids doing, like, sexual dancer.

No, yeah. So, so uncomfortable. And so, yeah, I was anti-I for a long time. But then I, um, saw, like,

someone showing pictures of their Halloween outfits and doing, like, a green screen. And I was like, what if I, like, sarcastically, like, put my Halloween outfits, like, on a rating scale, but did, like,

completely, but only, like, self-deprecated instead of, like, actually trying to rate them based on how good they were. So that's what, and then the second I had that idea, I started, like,

rating, my dates and like things like that. Yeah. And it took me out a rabbit hole. And then of course, like, just all the loyalty test shit. I mean, you do like. It's better than reality TV. Some brilliant stuff on TikTok.

It's truly better than reality TV. One of my favorite things of yours is you do a series that's like, these are things for the girls, not the guys. These are things that shouldn't be allowed for men. It's just a lists of things that shouldn't be allowed for men. And there are things like utensils. It'll be like shoes. Like, you don't need those.

And it's. like incredible and it's just brilliant. Um, you have this like fun dead pan way about you. A dead pan queen. That is just, we stand a deadpan queen. Um, I didn't even know. Appeal to younger people. I did not even know how like sarcastic I was until my like TikTok comments. They were like, this is how I've always been like my entire life. And I never knew that it was so like, people called it like dry sarcastic era. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And it's just my person, like I didn't realize like I love that. Yeah. It's just, it's kind of a, it's kind of a brilliant persona. It's a blessing of a personality. Yeah, it's like, it's like a very brilliant persona. No, it's great. It's perfect.

You guys should see me try to talk to me. Yeah. We do, uh, are there, are there men on TikTok that you're like, I'm feeling them. I hope they love them. I thought you were going to ask if there were men on TikTok in general. Are there men on TikTok? They're not on my for you page, so I don't know. My either. I swear to God. Are you, are you, do you, are you have any TikTok nuances? No. Well, usually if I see a, okay, first of all, I feel like if I saw a TikToker, I wouldn't, I would be like, no, no, not you. Yeah. I like, I wouldn't be interested. I, but sometimes I do see. Actually, the other day I saw this TikTok that was like, his really hot guy. He like made a TikTok and it was like when I, when I find her, like, when I

like a girl until I find her TikTok, then it gives me the ick. And so I was like, oh my God, and I commented something. And then I thought he was. be like, except for yours, like, I love your TikTok. And he, like, commented back and was like, ew, you have like the worst TikTok of every, like, guys don't like me from my TikTok. Because it's obviously like making fun of them, you know? Okay, but you know what though? No, but that's what I will say.

Yeah. That weeds out the bad ones. I was just hard. And he messes it down so much because you, and this is just like the Beckamore pump up hour, but like you are like a objectively like stunning woman. So any guy would look at you and be like, yes. But then the problem is you have a really funny personality and sense of humor. Which for some reason for women, that's considered a problem.

Because a lot of, a lot of guys are basic. But it's like now the people who get your personality, they'll come through. And those people are going to be so much more fun. Oh, they'll be so much better. You'll have no fun about the people who don't get it. I think I'm right too, as I usually am. I think that whoever sees your TikTok and it goes like, this girl is brilliant and beautiful, that's the person we stick with.

Yeah. You know who I, who I do love on TikTok, though, who's a guy? That guy who does the ways to upset men. He's so funny. People, people have been shipping us together. I was just about saying. Yeah. He's just going to say, he's kind of like got you vibes. You both

upset men in, in like, the best way. You're kind of both, you're a feminist, you guys would be a feminist power couple. Maybe we can make that. Maybe I should. Like, I feel bad. I'm like, it's so obvious of a pair. because we do like the same content, but like guys perspective and girls, I don't know. Maybe I, but like, I don't know.

Maybe I should. And you're both like, you're both like traditionally attractive, uh, kind of like, like, like, with like very specific. Specific dry humor. I think it would work. And look, if it doesn't work out, then I take all of that back. Yeah, I do too. And so you're matchmakers now.

Yeah, we are matchmakers. The thing is, yeah, thank you, by the way for my, this entire like, first like 10 minutes is just complimenting me. But that's what we're doing. But like the thing, you're back to what you were saying earlier, guys say, oh, I want a girl that has a sense of humor and it's funny. What I've realized is they just want a girl that thinks everything that they say is funny. They want an audience. Like any joke.

I don't know. No, they want, right on the nose. When people are like, when guys go like, I want a girl with a sense of humor, it means I want an audience who, anything I say, they'll go, ah, you're so funny. Yeah. And I can be, because a lot of people aren't that. funny. And if a guy is like, I'm not that funny, but I want to feel like I am, then they say, I want a girl with a sense of humor so that they go like, I want a sandwich. And the girl goes like, ha ha ha, sandwich. And that is what so many people want, which is fine, but just not

for me. There are sometimes when men talk about the thing they want in a woman, and it sounds like they're ordering a pizza. They're like, I want this, this and this because it's going to make me feel good. I can, I can, I can understand though the appeal of someone who's a really good audience. Yeah. Because I've dated guys who were a good audience and I was like, oh my God, I feel great about myself, but they have to be able to do a bit back. I feel better when I date a person who is a really good straight man. And what I mean by that is not a heterosexual man. Yeah, but like straight What I mean by that is in comedy, you have like the crazy person and the straight man in like a basic comedy scene. Yeah.

And so the crazy person is going to say something like, oh, this guy is fucking purple and something insane. And the straight man is going to be like, no, it's not. You're crazy. She's described bad improv. Oh, yeah. But like the straight man, like it browns everything and basically reacts to the thing the more crazy character is saying. They have a grounded reaction to an other way. absurd situation. Which then grounds the absurd situation in a reality to make it funnier,

because if you're being crazy in a crazy vacuum, it's like, okay, but if you're being crazy and there's someone going like, no. For example, world's best straight man, Jason Bateman in Arrested Development. Yes. Everyone else is being like, I'm an insane person. Jason Bateman makes the whole thing that much funnier because he's like, God, damn it. You guys are insane. And if he wasn't there, it would still be funny, but it wouldn't be as funny because something about having that grounded reaction. It makes. just something insane makes something insane and it's just funny. Too many crazy characters.

It gets like, it's just like worked. It's not funny anymore. So someone on earth being like no. And like, so sometimes when you date someone and you're like, I'm being kooky and crazy, the person who goes like, you're fucking crazy makes me laugh so much harder.

To me. Like somebody who like kind of roasts me and it's like, you're fucking crazy. To me, the best relationships, friendships, anything have to be two people who can take turns straight manning the other one. I agree.

And I think we do that. I think Jake in the other room and I do that. Your boyfriend? Yes. I think it's great. Yeah. I think I also, I do think that you guys are assuming like the best in people's like comedic like senses or senses of humor though because a lot of times the jokes go straight over.

Not even in like the straight and the crazy sense. They go like over their heads. They just don't get it. They don't even know you're kidding. Yeah. Yeah. That's hard. That's hard.

Ridiculous. Well, today we really want to kind of go back in time. Go back in time. time a little bit. Look at our past selves and kind of rate what we could have improved on. Maybe like rate our past choices, rate our past like crushes or like types. Like what are things we could have improved on? Becca, I know you used to have a lot of interesting jobs, right? Yes, I did. Rate our past jobs. What are some of the jobs you did when you were younger? I worked at a pizza place and I dated my boss and I was 18 and he was 26.

or 27. Oh my God. We have so much to talk about. Yeah. We have so much to talk about. And was that bad? Yeah, I was age. That was bad. Bad, bad. Yeah, so bad. Yeah. I worked there all throughout high school. He was your guys's age now. So imagine dating like a girl that you had no, as a freshman in high school. Oh my God. Yeah. I wasn't a freshman. I wasn't a freshman. No, no, no, no. I'm reacting this way. I'm reacting this way because. Cid and I have so much to relate to you off that. You are telling us our own backstories. It's such a niche thing I thought.

I know. Telling us our own lives. We both have had experiences where we dated people who knew us when we were younger. And were authority figures. And then dated us when we were a little bit older. When we were 18. But it's not even that they're that much older than you. It's just that when you're 18 and somebody who's like 26, there's a big difference there.

Oh, it's so big. Like, and he was the general manager of the, of the only place they had. ever worked at. So in my head, he was God. I was like, I thought, and so we were dating, and so I had this weird obsession with him, and it gets crazy. That was like the weirdest thing. Yeah. Well, yeah, it got crazier. The general manager of a pizza place really is like God in a lot of ways. Okay, the thing is, if you're a guy and you're listening to this and you're above the age of 21, if you're 21 or older, don't date 18 year olds. Yeah, it's too big of a difference. And you know why? Because an 18 year old will see

a general manager of a pizza place and think he is God. That's why. Because it's not. You won't. You're not God. No. No. And a child will think you are.

Imagine you being 26 and just being a manager of a Jet's pizza. Think about that. Think about your life. And so in my head, he was everything. But also to think about the fact that I'm 23 now and I still feel in a lot of ways, emotionally immature. like not really ready to like settle. I can't imagine dating me five years ago when I was like,

fresh out of high school. That's disgusting because I was like so stupid. I was like a freak when I was like. I was just like the worst girlfriend ever. Like as you, I liked other guys. Like I was just messing around because I was like going into college. Because you're 18. Because you're a child.

Because you were a child. And he was yeah, he was like 26 and we were like on and off again. Super dramatic. Oh my God. And I was the only girl that worked at the pizza place. That makes it longer. Oh, no. That makes it crazier.

I know. And so I was so bored. Like, I hated being with all the boys. And, like, I was like, his, I don't, I almost said his name, but I don't want to get sued. I know, yeah. You can do. You're not going to get sued. But if you want to call him a fake name, what we like to do is just pick a sound.

Yeah, it doesn't even have to be a real name. Pick like something that's not even a real name. I called a guy Chut earlier. Yeah, if you want to call him Chut. Okay, I'll say Pizza Man. He's a pizza man. Yeah, pizza man. I said to Pizza Man, can I, can I have a friend work here?

with me. She really wants a job. And he was like, ew, no, we, like, we're not hiring. And, like, I don't even, like, I don't like her vibes. I don't like the way she looks. Talking about her look. And I was like, for a pizza place. Right. Anyway, so I was like, whatever. So he, he ended up hiring her because he was dating. And, like, he was like, fine, whatever you want. I go to some, like, I go to, I go to a college party or something. Anyway, long story short, they're dating now. And it's been five. Yes, my friend that I got the job. And he was like, I don't like the way she looks.

Yeah, well, I don't want to like, okay, she still follows me on literally everything. It's been five years. Yeah, that's okay. That's okay. No, no, but like, I don't care. Like, I talk about it all the time and like all, like, I tested out talking about it. And she doesn't say anything because she knows she's in the wrong because she stole my pizza boyfriend. Yeah, and he's the most in the wrong.

He's the most in the wrong. Yeah, he dated a child. He dated two children in a row. He dated a kid and then traded it out for a number. kid. He's the most in the wrong by a lot, by a lot. Oh my God. He negged her indirectly by through you. Right. And then dated her. And she was my friend and I was like, what the hell? It was like the most traumatic breakup. And anyway, it's been five years and now they're engaged and they're getting married next month. Wow. Oh my God. Is there a wedding themed pizza? Are you going to be the minister? Wow. Oh, my God. You should do a vlog.

Crashing the wedding. I love that so much. When you said that you were the only girl working there, can I tell you, isn't that the worst thing about working at a place? Because I worked at... JC Penney, which I used to refer to as JC Penis. Sorry, JC Penny. I don't think you really deserve that.

But I worked in the men's section when I was like 17. I was the only girl in the men section, and it was so bad because you're the only girl. So everyone is just going to... They just, you get targeted. Hit on you. And it's zero and they're like, that has a whole. It's gross.

And like people in the dressing rooms are weird. Like everyone's weird. And to the point where I was like one day during my break, I was like, I'm just going to quit now because I hate this. And I went to the kiosk where you check in. And there was a quit button. There was a quit button. Because so many people at J.C. Penny would quit.

It's a constant option. You want to quit. Yes. Okay, goodbye. A button that said, do you want to quit? And you say yes. And then my friend, Jack, who worked there with me from my high school shout out to Jack, who's lovely phenomenal person. He accidentally clicked the

quit and button. Whoa, one more time. He accidentally clicked the quit button one day just by accident and he took it as a sign from God and was like, yep, okay, sure I'm not. He was like, I guess I'll just quit. It's like this sounds about right. He accidentally quit and went, no, okay? And then left and never came back to JCPenus. Oh my God. Why would you ever work there though. I don't get it. Because I was young and I was looking up, yeah, I mean, I was like 17. I was looking up places that would hire somebody who's young and it was either there like Long John Silvers. Oh, well, that's another option. Or I'm sure some sort of illegal business. But I wasn't going to do that. No, yeah, yeah, totally. I mean, not yet. Not freely. Not yet. How would you,

okay, well, how would you rate that job and how would you rate that relationship out of time? Um, I think I was the problem in a lot of our relationship because I just was like totally talking to other guys and same time. But he did leave me for my friend. Now they're engaged. You also were a child. Yeah, you're a child. So you get points for that. Yeah. I was, but honestly, though, it's given me like my entire personality and like so much content. So I would say like 40. That's what bad shit does. Exactly. 40 out of 10. Okay. I love that. I love that. And then how much would you rate that pizza job? Um, not so high. It was like the word, like maybe like, like, maybe like, I did some crazy. I did get a lot. I got a lot of pranks in during my time there. But I would say like 12. Okay. 12 out of 10. Only 12 out of 10. That's not very high. Yeah. No. It is. So I mean, what I love here, because we're talking about rating our past decisions, like I feel like we should rate our past types. Oh yeah. Yeah. Like what was your type in college? So my type changed. all the time. For a while, it used to be like, at very beginning, it was like of me like

liking guys. It was like tall, skinny, lanky, like guys that looked like they're dying. So what's in right now? Yeah. Pete Davidson. Yeah, Pete Davidson. That would, like, not so much anymore. So then I, throughout college, I liked frat, douchey, like scary frat guys that, like, did not let me at all. Like, they're like, my enemies. Like, they hated me. Because I was just annoying. I was just like, oh. Not only did they just like you. They were your enemy. Your enemies. But I still like wanted to like kiss them all the time. I was like I love you. Yeah. But. But they like get away from me and you're being like, I love you.

No, I was such a, because I knew I was like, okay, not to, how do she can I sound right now? I just knew that I was like. I yeah, no. Yeah. And I knew I was smart and I knew that they, I just like, I was messing around with fratboys for like four years. Then it turned into hockey. It turned into hockey towards the end of college. That is a shift. And I'm still into the hockey thing right now. Where did you go to college? I went to Ohio University.

Okay. Is that a big hockey school? No. How did you find these hockey players if they weren't at your school? Well, I got bar school smoke shows to post me on something. And then it was hockey from then on out. So, yeah. That's really smart.

Okay. Not to expose myself. But my entire thing, like I would do this every day. I would look up the rosters of hockey teams and figure out which ones are single and then decide which one do I actually have a chance with. And then I would, because you can only choose like one from each team. Yeah, yeah, otherwise it'll get messy. Yeah.

So I, which I made them. Well, that's so smart. Oh, you had made that mistake before? I mean, that's how we learn is by making mistakes. Yeah, that's how we learn that you can only go for one hockey player on a team per time. Well, yeah, so I'm from Columbus, Ohio. So it's a big hockey city. Blue Jackets is like the team that we have.

Never heard of any, never heard of Ohio. I've never heard of hockey. I've never heard of Ohio. I've never heard of Ohio. Where do you guys live? I heard of Ohio. We're in L.A. I don't know where Ohio is on a map.

Oh, yeah, L.A. No, for real, people, like, don't know where Ohio is on a map. I live in Nashville now. I probably don't know where Ohio is on a map. Neither. And I lived there. Like I was from it. Yeah.

Happens. Happens. So then you would go, you would go through and find the one that was single and then why you just like slide into the dance? No, I would play it. I would play it cool. I would like some old pictures and then make it seem like they're the ones pursuing me. I love that.

When you're just, you're putting yourself in their head. Yeah. Yeah. You're planting the seed. Yeah. I was like really pretty good. That's, uh, that's really smart. Those are some good types though.

Yeah. Well, you're Olivia, your type was pretty bad. Oh boy. My type's rough. My type was been rough up till about late 2019, mid-2019. Yeah, my type was rough. My type was the most damaged person I could find in the room, no matter who they were. Yeah, it was like, I grew up being like, I have a crush on Darth Vader and Prince

Zucco from Avatar because they are misunderstood. And the beast from Beauty and the Beast. And it's like, oh no, you like villains. Oh, no. And then I've mixed in with my like overachiever, like, I've never kissed. boy energy. I was always like, older, older, older. So I had crushes on all my teachers, all of my improv teachers for me. Yeah. And then, and I was just like, ugh, fuck dating. I don't want to touch anyone. I just want to have crushes on my teachers when I was in high school.

And then when I was in college, one one particular teacher, I guess, was like, hey, how about me? And I was like, you're damaged. Absolutely, I can help you. And then that is a thing that. I learned. Let me just throw out a guess. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You didn't help him. I didn't. Oh my God.

I did not. I did not. You couldn't fix a person? I couldn't fix an older man. Oh. And instead, I just got C PTSD. No. So really?

Yeah. Wait, do you like, actually, you hooked up with your professor or dated? Oh, um, yeah, dated. I dated a couple of my teachers. And so we've both. What are you going to do? It's that thing we're like, the first guy I dated, who was one of my teachers, like, chose me, I think, because I was very naive.

Like, I was very, like, I don't know, I was very emotionally naive. And I was a person you could, like, scream at. And they would be like, I'm sorry. So, like, that was my type for a while, I guess. Oh, no. Maybe. Oh, maybe that's, like, my type right now. Yeah.

I don't know. I would say, girl, the only reason. Like, I'm not just trying to be dark, but. Oh, my God. Girls. The only. Let's aim higher here. We have to aim higher.

You both are catches. Well, here's the thing. The only reason to ever date someone who is like a psychologically abusive moment. No, no, no, no, no. Is to stop other people from doing that. Olivia. There's no reason, period. No, there is.

Do not tell people to do that. No, no, never do it. But if you've accidentally done that, then you can justify. Don't do it. Just don't do it. Just don't do it. No, don't do it. If I were, God, I wish I had a time.

But I'm like, oh, that's a good way to justify it. No, no. Yeah. Yeah, run the fuck away. Run away, guys. There's a lot of, I have a lot of good advice of what not to do. Well, I do love bosses, though. I've dated three now, three of my bosses.

Oh, my God. And I've only had, like, six jobs. Boss. I like that you're using your jobs as a dating app. Yeah. No, I do. That's my real type. I don't know why I've been saying, like, no, my real type is like people with authority over me. Yeah. Yeah. Are like older, smarter, like richer, basically. Here's the thing. I'm going to say they probably aren't smarter.

Yeah, I don't. They might be manipulative. I don't know. Well, yeah, you're right. Because they're smart. It's scary kind of. Like, I want to be smarter than the guy I'm dating, kind of. Yeah, I went for like, for just like anyone who I thought I could save. And then after the first just like bad, bad, bad relationship where I was like, it was just like comically bad, like so comically bad that it's not even for a comedy podcast. And like then after that I was just like, is this a comedy podcast? I have no fucking idea. I went back and forth between like one of my other teachers who was very nice to me and anyone who would just be. damage me for years and years and years. And then I was like, what the fuck am I doing? And then I met

Jake. And so my current type is Jake. Okay, well, that's great. It's good that you're, it's good that you're dating your career. Yeah, I am. Yeah, my current type is Jake. So you want to rate your past type and then your current type? My past type is going to be a negative 666 out of 10. Well, that's not nearly low enough. Um, and, uh, yeah, and my current type, all, you know what, I'll give it like a, yeah, like a 70 or 80. out of 10. 80 out of 10. I'll go with 80. Did you hear that, Jake? Jake, he gave us a little

woo-woo from the other room. It's, yeah, I mean, it's probably hired, but I don't want to like compliment myself. Right, right, right. Be like, I have a great tape. It's like I kind of just accidentally fell into it and went like, thank God. Yeah. My past type varied a lot. It was

almost like I was shoving my hand into a top hat and picking out a paper in a top hat of folded papers. You know how Woody Allen chooses what he's going to write for his next movie? He keeps a bunch of folded papers with ideas in a nightstand drawer, opens it up and reaches in and picks one. And we'll just open it up and it'll be like a magician steals an elevator.

And he's like, great, that's the movie. And then he writes the movie. And that is how my type was for a long time. You dated actually mostly magicians. Mostly magicians who were trying to steal elevators. Well, you know, my type when I was younger varied so much. It was like shocking. It was almost like a guessing game.

It was like a game of guessing. You were doing what my mom recommends. You were having a little taste of everything. Just start getting out. Like I would try somebody who was like really mean and awful. And then I'd try somebody who's really nice. And then I would try somebody who was like kind of just stupid. And then I would try somebody who is a threat to the world.

And then I would try to see, you know, you just kind of like, try it out. Yeah, take little bites. Take little bites. You know, and like I would ruin things sometimes and ruin things other times. And then sometimes I was fine. And, you know, that's always good. Two out of three times if you ruined things. But yeah, really fun stuff.

A notable one that was like a threat to the earth. Oh, yeah. I dated somebody who was two times my age. Maybe don't do that in the future, I would say. Don't do that in the future. Two times my age, a person who I was very much like, I am, yeah, dad, don't watch this. Oh yeah, dad morning.

No dad. I have to preface things with like, my parents can't watch this or else my dad will watch it and then go, Sydney. I'd be so mad that he birthed me. My mom watches every episode and goes, Sydney did such a great job. She'll call me. That's so nice. Diane, thank you.

Yeah, my parents can't watch this. And the reason why is because he had a daddy kink, the person, a person that I, you know, dated. And I was so conscious of like, I don't want a kink shame, right? I don't ever want to kink shame. I want people to feel very comfortable. And it wasn't like a little daddy kink. It wasn't like, oh, yeah, I like being called daddy, whatever. It was like, I am your father.

And I was like, oh, I don't know. My favorite story. My favorite, I think maybe Olivia's favorite thing. And I'm me. So I'm like, you know, this is what you get. Even when you're dating me, this is what it is. So this person who's two times my age, I come over to his house. And at some point he says, hey, I got you something.

I got you a gift. And I was like, oh, what? And he shows me a onesie, like a, a bunsy. like a baby onesie, but like for me. And I looked at it and I went, oh, I'm not wearing that. And then picked up my phone. She got a phone call that minute. I got a phone call that minute from like, I think it was like a business thing.

So I looked at the onesie and I went, oh, I'm not wearing that. Hello, yeah, this is Sydney. Like I literally, it was like one swoop. I became like a 45 year old businessman. Oh, absolutely not. Yes, this is Sydney. Absolutely not. I will not be wearing that.

Yeah, the stocks are up. I just did not miss a minute. It's my favorite thing ever. There were a lot of moments like that. He would, we would go to the grocery store and he would say to the clerk, like, isn't my daughter beautiful? And she'd go, yeah, and then he'd kiss me on the mouth. This is, this was, we've all had dark times. Yeah, it was one of those.

And he was very scary. He was very manipulative and did a lot of things that were truly like not okay. And I didn't realize that when I was in it. You don't, especially when you are coming from a place of like, I don't want to make them feel uncomfortable. I don't want to, you know, and then. Especially too, because I'm sitting here going like, oh, I really don't want to shame them for having things that they like. Yeah.

But at the same time... Double your age. Like, he should have the security to not worry about what you think when you're supposed be the kid, right? Yeah. And the other thing, too, is it's like, if I don't want to, I don't want to shame you for the things you like, but at the same time... That doesn't mean you consent to them.

I have to agree to do them. Yeah, exactly. Like, so, you know, it's like he would say things like, well, let me lick your corners. And I would say, like, what? I forgot about that. He would hold my mouth open and lick my teeth from the... each corner and I and I and he and I would say I don't like when you do that and he would be and he

would be like oh stop like shut up you open your mouth and I'd be like I don't like when you do that like it's like I would say I've heard this story so many times and every time I get the shock like I'm making it for the first time I really hope my dad's not listening to this dad I'm okay I'm yeah she's she's all good but it was just it was one of those things where I was like but it was not good it was it was not good it was but like it is one of those things where it's like you date somebody like that, but then I also dated people who were like, oh my God, you're the sweetest person ever. And you're just like lovely to me. Yeah, so, wait. Wait, okay, that guy, that guy is the threat to the earth. Yeah, he is. I agree. I agree that he's a threat to the earth. And he got very angry

when I was like, I don't think I want to be your girlfriend. And he was like, ah! Yeah, he's, he's a threat. It's definitely one of those things of like you kind of, so anyway, I'm going to rate that experience, like a negative, I don't know, like a million. Yeah. At a 10. Yeah. Maybe don't date that person. My stories were bad.

I'm blown away. I'm going to be able to my own. Becca. Move to Los Angeles. Oh, my God. Yeah. That's the most bizarre thing I've ever heard in my entire life. It gets worse, but I don't even want to say it on here.

My first relationship, which I gives me so many of my issues and my nightmares. I did have the same nightmare every night for a year and a half. which is too many times but he also gave me a list of all the girls in his life that he knew that he jacked off to on the reg and I was like and he was supposed I don't know the purpose of it probably to make me feel bad so that I would feel have less of a personality and not even yeah I'm going to rate that um I'll write that like a like a I don't know like 300 out of 10 like maybe shoot me in the face out of 10 yeah that's not good yeah yeah And it would always be like, I'm going to cheat on you with this girl.

I'm trying so hard not to. And I was like, I'm sorry. Let me know if I can do better. And then he was like, you're not allowed to go to the gym because people will look at you. It was great. It's great being a girl. So guys, if you're confused about what we're talking about, we're upsetting Becca on a whole new level. We're telling you why to never ever, this is why you don't date an 18 year old girl.

Yeah. I mean, that's fair. Because you'll do that shit. You will. No, it's the guy. Those are the problems. Not the girl. It's not the 18-year-old that's, like, it's wrong.

Well, you can't. Yeah, they don't know. Yeah, girls always, they're always, I remember thinking when I was 18 dating a 26-year-old that I was the exception. And I was so much smarter than like all my 18-year-old friends. And I was mature. That's what he would tell me. It makes you feel special.

You're so mature and smart. Yep. And, no, that's like grooming. It is grooming. You're not, you're not smarter than all of the 18-year-old other girls. You need to get out. That's what I'm, I wish I could go back and tell myself because it would have saved me so much, like, anxiety and heartache. And like, like, dating older guys is like fun now, but like not when I'm, not when you're late.

No, because now you're a certain level of. Now what's your age range that you go for? Um, right now, like 30, around 30. Okay. Yeah. But, like, definitely older because just because money wise, like, I want them to have money, like, not even like selfishly, but like I have, I kind of have money. You don't want to support them. You don't want to have a guy who's like your age who's like...

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Yeah. Like $10. How do you do that? I do brand deals. Okay. Tell us how to do that. Eventually. We could have to do it on the podcast.

Oh, not on the podcast. Okay, I can teach you. Either way. Either way. Because we, yeah, we don't, I don't even know if we do make bank up with TikTok. I don't make money off of, like, the creator. I mean, I do. No, no, no.

No, we had a video that got like nine million views and it was like, you're $30 to share. Yeah, I know. It's so insane. Yeah, no, it's pretty. Not enough money from that. No, but yeah, no, but that, it makes sense, especially because, I mean, everyone always says, like, girls mature faster than guys.

It makes sense when girls want an older guy because it's like, oh, you kind of are on the same level. Like, my boyfriend's five years older than me. I am 25. He's 30. And it, like, if I was 18, it would be bad. But the fact that I'm 25, it's like. like, oh, I'm an adult human being now. I'm still growing up and learning stuff because

everyone is, I think, but it's not, it's not like, like I'm a, I don't know, I feel like I'm on the same plane of existence. I'm not like looking up and being like, oh my God, you're my teacher. You can never do anything wrong. I'm like, oh, I have a healthy, normal relationship. Yeah. Yes, and I feel like a lot of times when, when you realize that you keep attracting like bad relationships, do you think that's how all guys are forever? Yeah. And like you're like convinced. And so, like, for a while, I thought that way. And, like, that's, like, I hated guys. Like, I thought it.

They were, like, all, like, the worst people ever. But now I feel like I must be in a healthier place because I have, like, I do talk to older guys, but they all seem like normal now right now. Right now. And so now I'm, like, getting scared. I'm like, oh, my God. Like, I've never really, like, fell in love before. Like, I've been in love. But, like, it was, like, I always knew it was going to end.

And, like, I hated them. But, like, I'm always, sorry. You always knew it was going to end in that you hated them. But you love them. A little bit. Yeah. So like a toxic young love moment. Yeah, like young love.

Like especially with hockey players, that's how it goes. It's like toxic, hate each other but like love each other. Yeah. But the past like three guys I've met and like talk or like, yeah, three I would say have been like such normal people that I'm like, should I like, who do I choose? So like, I don't know. Yeah. So I'm in a better, so there's light at the end of the tunnel that I'm trying to do. I love that. That makes me so happy because.

Yeah, there's like an inspirational moment there. Yeah. I think, I think honestly, it's very common to confuse excitement and anxiety with like, oh, I have a big crush. Yeah. And you're, and it could just be this person makes me nervous. It could just be that maybe this person isn't giving you the things you need. And so you feel like you have to work harder for those things. and that that chase is giving you this anxiety. Yeah, like you're lab rat. You're tricking that anxiety that is confusing you, and you're thinking it's, I have a crush.

Yeah. And I mean, like, also, disclaimer of like, it's not that age gap relationships can't work. No, they absolutely can work. It's that, like, don't date a child. Or it's just like, you should be at the same-ish place in your life as somebody that you're, you know, trying to be on the same page with. Yeah, unless you're like just trying to,

I don't do like a big, if you're like, I'm doing a big fuck for me. Yeah. I'm like, hell of, yeah, do whatever you need to do as long as no one makes you wear a once in. Well, how long have you guys been doing TikTok and like influencing? Oh my God. Probably like a year. I think we've been doing TikTok for a year. Yeah.

We probably got on around the same time as you. So yeah. So the people that I used to talk to before or like the guy I was like kind of with right at the beginning began to like resent me as I got more successful and as I had. have like my career now is literally just on social media yeah yeah yeah nice fucking it's crazy i think it's just because i do the um things that aren't for you guys like i always people make me do that every like every day that's so funny that's so funny but it's funny because i'm also like a normal person though like i still like i'm not like a character you know that walks around

like i like i i don't know i still have to like go to the grocery store yeah yeah Do you, is, is your goal to do something related to, like, you know, being like a personality or like a host or like, are you doing, pursuing something else besides this? I, yeah, I want to do it forever. Just because it's like, like, I can't go back now. I can't have a nine to five because I like, all I do is talk about how I get fired from every job. I've been fired from, well, only one, but like, I'm really a bad worker. so I it's just so crazy that someone would like see you doing the thing that you want to do and be like fuck if they're like supposed to like you like that just always boggles my mind like I always just

feel like yeah I think I also was like starting to become the character that I am on six that's my real personality and a lot of a lot of times in relationships in the past I would kind of like be like the audience that we were talking about earlier. I would be like the audience for them and be like just like a quiet little blonde girl. And I would just like laugh and everything they said and not really do any like and be quiet. But now I'm like more, I'm say literally whatever I think. I think that's ideal. That's good.

And so yeah. And I think maybe that is why I've had like healthy relationship the past like six months. Yeah. I think that would be a definite reason. Yeah. You're more yourself. I feel like the more people do like. like unrelated to relationships work on themselves of like whether it's like I'm just going to speak

my mind and not be like as quiet or or like I'm going to go to this type of therapist or whatever like I feel like at that point that's when you start attracting the right people into your life because it is like if you're in a fucked up place like the times I've been in like a fucked up place and I've attracted fucked up people it's because they're like oh yeah this girl's fucked up and it's like they're not attracted to someone who's like I'm going to therapy and I'm like really I'm trying really hard to do good shit for myself because they don't want that. They want something like toxic because they're toxic and then, yeah, it just changes who's into you.

And I think it's also really common for a lot of women especially to feel like you have to hide part of your personality because personality isn't seen as this like desirable thing to men. It's different in, you know, like really relationships that are not heteronormative. Yeah, that's true. Or heterosexual, sorry. But it's like, you know, if, you know, when I was like in high school, I remember like if I had a crush on a guy or something, I'd be like, yeah, I have to like hide the fact that I'm funny.

Right. Because a funny girl isn't a hot girl is like how I thought of it. Yeah. And I don't even feel like I was truly myself until my first serious relationship. When I would date people, I felt like I was like hiding most of myself. This sounds judgmental and weird, but I agree. Yeah. Like I remember, I remember seeing you with people and being like, whoa, this is like the funniest person I know being quiet so that a guy can talk.

Yeah. And I was like always so like, I was like, I've looked up to this person and been like, this person's so funny. And then here she is just like being like really pretty and quiet. Yeah. Which is just crazy. And it's so much worse. Oh, it's so much worse. And then like when I was in my first like long relationship, uh, ended up living with them and it was.

like, you know, a full thing. I was like, oh, this person loves me because we were friends first. I was like, this person loves me for like everything that I have always been. And I can just be myself. And that was so much better. Yeah. And now I'm like, I don't have time to not be

myself. I have to be myself every day all the time. I have to. Or else what am I going to do? I can't do something else. Yeah, I don't know why what it is about guys being like turned off. Being funny isn't even like a equivalent to being like loud. It's more like, yeah, I think guys just want to feel in control,

which is fine. Like, I get it. Like, that's like their instinct. But being like, because they're just scared of being like outsmarted by someone, I think. Yeah. And then when, but then when you meet, like, especially when you meet a, a guy who, because like, I feel like women, when you date women, I feel like, women are just like, yay, woohoo. Yeah. Awesome. You're funny. That's great. Yeah. But I feel like when you date a guy who likes the fact that you're funny and interesting, and smart and like have something to say that's always a better guy. Oh my god, it's always a better person. If a person wants you to be less to make them feel like they're better or more or like to make them feel less insecure, like I had a boyfriend. I don't know if you can guess. It's the one I've been

talking about this whole time. No way. Really? Who like I basically, every time he'd get really mad at me about something like you'd be like, you parked in the wrong parking space. And I'd be like, fuck, I'm so sorry. I would just take elements of my personality away because I was like, I don't want to like step on an eggshell. I don't want to like step on a nerve and like make anyone upset and make anyone yell at me because I don't, I'm not used to being yelled at and I like, it scares me. And so I just ended up being like this pale, quiet, sad person. And it was like, whoa, you're so pale. Like people would be like, you're so pale. Yeah, I like lost all my life force. I was pale as all fuck. It was so weird and I just didn't talk. And now I, you can't stop me from talking. And I think I'm irritating, but at least I talk.

Well, okay. No, that's amazing. But I'm 23. So, like, I just came out of college. I just started developing, like, my career and my personality has, like, been like, like, I feel like I'm just, like, becoming alive right now or, like, the past, like, year. And so the first guy, like, not even to, like, be, like, cheesy about, like, a person I met, like, a week ago.

But the first guy that, like, loved my personality. I'm like, I think I love you. Now I'm like in love with like that's amazing. Because I can finally be myself. Like I just, I've never felt this way before. Like I don't know. Absolutely. Like, oh my God.

Like I'm actually like saying the things I want to say instead of being like a hockey girlfriend where like I'm because like hot like I'm just using them as an example. That's what you can show like a hockey because we don't even care about. No. I don't even know hockey if I meant it. Yeah. No. No, but I totally like a frat girlfriend and athlete girlfriend.

Yeah. You're like a frat girl. Like all they want is like a little quiet girl. So the second I started meeting guys that like really excited about my person. And like I feel like I'm like not wearing like a mask anymore. Yeah. Because I'm just myself all the time. Now I feel like so much more connected.

Yeah. So I feel like way more connected to the person I'm with. And I love that. That's exciting. So that's so exciting. That's amazing. Do you feel like part of that is attributed to TikTok like of just kind of like being able to come out of your shell and be like, oh, people love me. for like what I am.

Yeah, so I started it as like, okay, the first I, the second I was on TikTok, the first video I made went viral. So right away, it was like, it was like an instant like start my TikTok. And I never really did any different. I've been doing sarcastic this entire year, but I'm never really like not been in character. But then it's like, I realized that that's like actually my sense of humor and my personality. Yeah. And just seeing the comments of people like understanding what I'm talking about for once, like in my life.

It's been, it's like, now I, like, feel like I can finally, like, say the things I'm actually thinking and be actually funny. And, um, they also point out things in my personality that I would never have known or, like, things about myself that I wouldn't have known. Like, like, like, things about my mom. Like, they're, because I, have you ever seen any of my mom videos? Yes, I have. You, like, you'll show your mom and you'll convince her. You'll be like, um, hey, do you remember this guy who I used to date? And it'll be a picture of, like, Justin Bieber, but she doesn't know who Justin Bieber is.

so she'd be like, oh, I think I remember him. Totally love my mom, but they were like, this is actually really bad. And then they, like, told me all the reasons. Well, like, not to, like, expose my mom. But, like, I realized because of the comments on my TikTok that, oh, my God, my mom was really distant from my life. And that's probably why I, like, do the things I do with, like, guys.

Like, everything connects with my TikTok comments. I'm not kidding. They figure things out that I would never have known. So now I feel like way. a way more advanced version of myself because they know everything at this point. They pick up on everything. The thing about TikTok that's so funny is like I feel like when we started, we started saying things like into the void of TikTok being like we feel this way.

And then when people would be like, yes, I agree, it just made, I don't know, personally, it made me feel so much more fucking sane. Like especially, like we had a jobs TikTok about how it was impossible to get a job. And like the whole thing was just like, you can't get a job. There are no jobs. You can't get one. and all these people were commenting like with their own stories and my favorite one was this girl was like I worked at Burger King for four years and I just reapplied to work there again and I got

rejected because of lack of experience because of what lack of experience and she worked there for four years prior she worked at Burger King for four years and then reapply right and then it's like okay, I feel sane. Right. Yeah. Yeah. No, but no, sometimes, well, one TikTok I posted that really made my entire political views different because of the comments was I said, I don't think girls should work.

I think they should go to the pool. But I was kidding because I just like girls shouldn't have to work because we already have like the worst lives anyway. And then I started reading the comments and it was like, actually, if you think about it, she has a point. And then they started like defending my like, even though it was totally a joke. And then I was like, yeah, you're right. Honestly, like, no one should work.

Like, why do we even force ourselves to do like to work? That's true. Human beings. So then, yeah, now, like, every, like, the comments on TikTok are like everything. Who became anti-capitalism? That's a good political stance. I don't think anyone should work. Working's not fun.

Honestly, I don't. Right. People, like, watch me on the surface, I think, and, like, they see, like, a girl with, like, long blonde hair and they're like, oh, she's going to say something about, like, or, like, when I say a girl shouldn't work, they're like, oh, oh, my God, what, like, like a stupid housewife, but like when you go deeper, you realize, no, it's like an anti-capitalist propaganda. You think about it. Yeah. So anyway, yeah. Absolutely. You have to go like into layers on my videos. I love the fact that you said something as a joke, then looked at the comments and we

yeah, I guess. I guess I am right now. Yeah, I'm like that crazy. That guy that like has those pictures on the wall and he's like trying to connect the, I don't know if you know it. Anyway. Yeah, I know trying to connect the nut. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You're like, you're like, a, uh, uh, I just picture the Charlie Day one. Oh, yeah. Pepe Sylvia. I was going to say you're like a beautiful mind. Yeah, you are like a beautiful mind. Yeah. That's, I mean, that's what that's parody. It's so funny. That's incredible. Yeah. Wow. Well, I love that you, you feel that you have like changed into this like newer, more yourself version of Becca. Yeah, you're, you're glowing. Oh, stop. Oh, my God. See again with the compliments. I'm like, anymore. It's, we do it. We do it well. It's what we do.

So then where's your podcast? Yeah, what's up next for you? Why can't we have a podcast from you? So we were with me and my roommate were with Total Frat Move. We ended up leaving two weeks ago. We had a podcast with them. And then you left. What happened?

Yeah, well, we did for, we had it for like six or four months. I don't know, but total frat move and we didn't. Wow. All right. Happens. Got it. Happens. Well, listen.

But maybe in the future, I would love to have like some type of, I don't know, podcast show, something. Yeah. I think you should have a podcast. I think, yeah, I think you should just have anything where you talk. I think I would love a podcast from you. Yeah. I think it would be so fun. I would love a podcast for you where you tell, where you tell guys what they're doing wrong.

Yeah. And then they could listen and hate me even more. Yeah, yeah. But it would be really funny. It would be really funny to watch them hate you. Yeah, I would all take your side. Yeah, absolutely. We could be like your annoying band that comes in halfway through and plays.

You know how podcasts have a half way band? They comes in and does drums and harmonica halfway through. We'll do that. Let me see if I can scratch that in. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You just let you live. Have your people go or people. Well, you're fantastic.

Yeah, you're just awesome. Where can everybody find you? Where can everybody find you if they want to check out your content? So I am on TikTok. my name is Becca Moore with three C's and three O's and then my Instagram is Becca Moore three C's and three O's and I might be started a YouTube channel soon so that's really exciting amazing well we are so happy that we had you yeah you're incredible today you are truly like just one of our favorite TikTok creators yeah you like truly have transformed the

TikTok game for us I'm like and girl that you guys no we love you I can't tell you how many people I've sent your videos too oh yeah no many people yeah well When people are like, what, when people are like, what's your feet? I'm like, Becca Moore. I'm so sorry. Okay. No, we love it. And thank you, viewer or listener, for listening or viewing.

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