Tea at Four - 73 Year Old Escort Gives Virgin Island Star Honest Sex Advice

Episode Date: October 15, 2026

In this spin off Tea At Four chat, our hosts take a back seat while 27-year-old Marianne from Virgin Island S2 sits down with a 73-year-old escort for the most honest sex talk you've never heard. From body confidence to losing virginity, nothing is off limits.73-year-old Caroline has been an escort for 9 years after discovering her confidence in her 60s. Together they unpack porn addiction, good girl praise kinks, behind the scenes tea from Virgin Island, and what it really means to "lose" your virginity.This is sex education without the awkward textbook - just two women, 46 years apart, telling the truth.

Sexy BBW Granny and everybody wants you. As long as it fits, I'm happy. Happy sucking, favourite pastime. Welcome to Tea After Dark, where we talk about all things sex and intimacy. Today I have Marianne with me from Virgin Island. We've had very different journeys, so let's see what we can learn from each other and we can give people the sex talk they've never had. Hello.

Hi. I'm Marianne and I'm 27 and I was on season two. a Virgin Island. How did you get onto Virgin Island? On a drunken night, my friend showed me this Virgin Island thing and I forgot that I auditioned for it and then it's a couple months later they're like, oh we'd love you to send another tape and I was like, eh? Wow. And then I just ended up on the island. I blinked and there I was it. And that was it. So obviously on Virgin Island there was a lot of touching. Yes. How did you feel about it being on camera? The cameras to be I was like, I'm on a day and set.

Like I was sort of numb to it to a point. It was really connecting with my body and be like, okay, am I being truly freaked out by it or what's happening? And Bertie was incredible. He really helped me as the first person to truly help me settle and like connect with a man in that capacity because I always had this hang-up that men just want me to like rush. I didn't realize how much I disassociated

and how much I was just allowing my body to sort of go on auto response. Is there anything that went on that we didn't see on the television that you'd like to share? Oh gosh. We were doing sort of eye contact, touching, and it escalated, where he's like, can I pick you up? I was like, yeah. And unironically, he was like, hold on tight spider monkey,

which is from Twilight. And it was my secret fantasy, which I don't, he didn't know it. I don't know how he even, he just did it unironically and lifted me up. And I was happy for the rest of my life. And I still get letters from people sending me, hold on tight spider monkey from the island. So that was one of my favourite moments that didn't make. It didn't make it.

No. That's a show. But I dream about it, so it's fine. Yeah, well, this is it now. You can think about that. Yeah, I just quote twilight to me. You've got that memory, haven't you? Exactly.

Do you have any favourite moments recent? I've got a couple of my favourites and my regulars. You know, and I've got one regular one. He's only 47. I love that. But he's absolutely gorgeous and delightful. Yes, I do have the occasional dream about him. I must have me.

That's fun. I love that. It's more about like connection. Yeah. Everyone just wants more connection. Yes. Some of the young guys can be really affectionate and want to touch, you know, and kiss and just have that closeness together before they get onto the blowjob or the sex.

Others, yes. They just want a good bang and, you know, and that's fine. As long as it fits, I'm happy. I'm happy for you. Yeah. Happy Sucking, favourite pastime? What qualities do you need for escorting? None whatsoever.

I was like, I'm just picturing them be like, you know when somebody says it like, you should do escorting? I'm curious like what goes through their brain where they're thinking, actually this is what makes a good escort. Getting on with people and accepting people mainly for who they are. You can say what you would like, what your likes are so that if it's not in your likes,

then they know that you don't do it. They will try and ask, like, do you do water sports? No. So I've narrowed it down a bit. And they will all have fantasies as well. So a lot of escorts, they won't do kissing, won't do oral without a condom. Or those that will do it without a condom.

They won't do sex unprotected. And for me, that's like, what's the difference? You're consuming the liquid, whichever way you do it. So I do it. So I do all or without, but they have to let me know when they're going to come, and then it's pull out and shoot on my tits. So what's been happening since you left Virgin Island? It is the best adult decision I've ever made in my entire life.

I'm so happy I showed up for myself and really committed to the experience because my only goal was just to purely just be naked in front of someone else. I couldn't have imagined anything else happening. And since then I've been on a lot of dates. Lovely. It's been very nice. I've had weird dates. Who hasn't?

I didn't feel the trauma or the sort of tension that I did before. So that was my biggest shock because I really was like, oh, I can actually enjoy this for what this is. I don't have to put so much stuck into this and feel that someone's going to truly affect me. Getting naked, that was your main reason for doing it rather than the touching. That was my peak. I was like, that's all I can imagine. Maybe. You were happy.

I think that's why they asked us to do, we wanted to do skinny dipping. When I skinny dip, I don't care. I can get over myself. So they were like, do you want to go skinny dipping? I was like, show up yourself. You know you don't care. And so that was really lovely. That's brilliant.

Is naked attraction the next thing on your list? Everyone says that. Have I watched naked attraction? Yes. Did it teach me a couple things? Yes, it did. But no, I don't think I need to see someone's body naked to date them. No.

You know what? Never say never. I don't know. Who knows? Who knows? But now you've got the confidence to do it, haven't you? Exactly. Exactly. I'll show up there and be like, this is nothing. No. Watch me have sex. What is the best advice you have for getting over intimacy, fears?

Share everything, how you feel, what you're comfortable with. I mean, I get clients, they say, do your mind, if I. And I can say yes or no. I make you clear sometimes the things that I don't like. I don't like munching. Munching. Munching. When they try to eat your pussy.

No, no, no. No. So what's the difference between munching and then oral? If they go in there and start munching, but firstly, it's uncomfortable. Teeth? Teeth. Okay. Or really sucking it up.

Okay. I've never heard it called munching. I call it munching, but I think the official term is eating. Eating out? Well, no, they just say, I'd love to eat your vagina. And I'm thinking, no, I don't think you do. Well, I certainly don't want you to. Okay, okay.

Because eating involves chewing, doesn't it? Drinking involves swallowing. If you want to lick it and make me come and drink all my juices, that's a good, all different ball game. Men are all different. There are so many men that don't have a clue how to do it right. I feel sad for people who don't talk the way I talk with my friends. How I am in general is I'm always open.

If I'm in a bad mood, I'm like, I'm in a bad mood, I communicate. That's just how I am. Because it takes the anxiety off me or feeling I have to act a certain way or be this type of person. Absolutely. And even with being so open, I still struggled with the intimacy, because when it's come to men, there's always been such resistance, or they get very scared that if, just because you say,

no, I don't like that, they take it as a personal attack. Absolutely. And then that makes, as women, we go, we hurt your feelings. Yeah, so sorry. Sorry I had a foundry. When did you lose your virginity? And did you feel like you were fully ready? I would think I was 16 and it was a local lad.

We went round back to his place and no I wasn't ready because I didn't know any different. My sisters were older and they'd had boyfriends come back to the house. But they never allowed upstairs and any hanky-panky. Keep the door open. Yes. I just didn't have a clue. You know, we don't have the internet and Google now. You know, we didn't talk about it in school. So yeah, so I just ended up crashing my way into sex.

Pretty much I'd say, safely say, 80 to 90% of my friends growing up, all their first times were not good. It just shocks me. And I think that was such a major deterrent from me, because I was like, why would I put myself through this if I feel like I wasn't mentally ready or who I wanted to be? To be?

I became very self-aware. I was like, I know I don't want to do this until I'm 100% sure, because it will impact me. What was your first time like? I was very, very lucky in terms of my dream has always that seemed far-fetched, but it was always to be, had my first time with someone I could communicate with

and truly trust and not just like say I trust them but don't. With Andre he was my surrogacy partner. I was very fortunate that I could trust them and I had a great time. Even though it doesn't look private it felt very private and it was I didn't feel as if I was being watched in any capacity and I wasn't in my head. The way I viewed I was so in control and in my body that there were no barriers by that point. I mean that's brilliant actually to have that opportunity and it worked so well for for you and I hope it worked as well for all of the others too.

Not many people can have it recorded and refer back to it. Yes, because you have. You've got that for life now, haven't you to look back on? When I have kids, I'll be like, well. Are you going to show them? Well, yeah, I probably will. I'll be like, there's your sex education. This is what mum did.

Exactly. 20 years ago. Now we're going to move on to the sexual dilemmas on the phone, people ringing us up. Oops. got someone on the line, let's see who it is. Hello, this is Caroline. How can we help you today? Hi Caroline.

My boyfriend wants us to become nudists, but I'm really uncomfortable being completely naked around other people. I feel guilty that I'm holding him back. What do you think I should do? If she's not comfortable with it, then the answer's no for her. I spend a lot of years working on being comfortable nude.

I think the issue with being nude now is it gets over-sexualized. You feel people are really looking and judging. You're just trying to live your life and you get that, where people like, oh my gosh, you know, I can see all nipple through your shirts and they freak out. Because everybody is self-conscious, aren't they, about their bodies? I mean, let's face it these days, everybody's got something to say about somebody else's body, haven't they? Too fat, too thin, too tall, too short.

As a society, we get so shocked at seeing normal bodies and not sort of an Instagram body. That puts more pressure on us and makes you feel like, I'm not normal when you just go through so many, you really put everyone's body under a microscope. Sometimes I just dance in my room naked because I'm like I need to be like not scared of my body. I spend most of my time at home naked and I just have to make sure I've got the dressing gown handy in case anybody rings the doorbell. It's like, oh fuck, why shouldn't everybody do it? As you say about not being sexualized, that's what it should be. It's a naked body.

You see another naked body and you can admire it for what it is and not what you want to do with it. Hello again. If you feel comfortable with it, give it a go. If you don't, then you take your time and wait until you're ready. So now we're going to move on to ask me anything. Mmm. I'm like, drum roll. What was your first experience learning about sex?

Me and my friend had signed up for Facebook. We weren't old enough, but we did it. We still had fake names. There's Christella Loveheart and Jessica, whatever. Still have them to this day. And we got messages from Army guys and there was a link. and the first thing I got was to a porn site. I literally remember my brain just exploding.

That messed our brains a bit. I was nine years old. So that's not great. Because I had developed a porn addiction from that because my brain just didn't understand. I was like, I need to chase this high, I made HD, I need this dopamine, I need this thing. After high school is when I really tackled it.

And then I just was like, okay, we watched that sport and try to use your imagination more. Because I do have a really active imagination, but I found that porn dampened a lot of it. Now I'm completely, I don't watch porn and just because I know it doesn't help me and I get too addicted to it. It is very addictive and that is one of the problems

for the young guys now. What do you think was the best thing about celibacy? To be honest, I was never frustrated or anything that I couldn't, you know, so it wasn't as if I felt like I'm... I'm the exact same, by the way. I was like, yeah? I had a life.

I was being tortured or anything. I was restricted if you can't do it. Because I hadn't enjoyed it. Yeah. So. You're not missing anything. Well, it is. It's like if you've never done something or if you didn't enjoy it, then you're not going to miss it.

Are there any kinks or desires that you haven't yet got to explore that you'd like to? See, I have a list. I've had a list for so many years. Is it a long one? It's always a long one. I know what I know, I know what I know what I want. I know what I like. So on the show I love spanking.

Okay. I want to play around with like dominance and like submissive stuff. Love a bit of good girl. Praise kink. A bit of that because I'm so open to so many things, not everything, just so many things that it just comes down to trust and having fun. Have you learned anything from your clients that has surprised you? I still tend to think that men have just got one thing on their mind, you know?

you know and that's all they want but to them meet guys that actually are not that blinkered and narrow mind and they can actually control what's in their pants and it's a really lovely thing to discover what do you think is different now in society what views towards virginity I've never been big on the losing virginity I even said that I haven't lost anything I think people get very hung up on virginity and that you're giving a part of yourself away and it's harsher on women but celebrated in men. Everyone thinks you have to be a certain type of person to be a virgin or and I just think that's so crazy or you haven't lost it by now. Like it I think there's so many other issues people are

dealing with and it really comes down to just true intimacy and trusting other people and feeling safe. Do you think that people judge you or others with about how much many sexual partners they might have had. Yes. How old you were when you... Yes, but it's so stupid. They still do that. That still happens today.

Oh, fully. It's always a question. Everyone wants to place a judgment on something so they can put you in some type of ranking or tear. And I just don't care. Good. Me neither. So has anything changed about yourself

since becoming an escort about how you feel about yourself? Oh gosh, yes. As I started to meet guys, I realised that you can have fun with guys of any age. Some are taboo, you know, like some of things I've done it, like, how dare she shag a 20 year old? Why not? Because I feel so confident in myself now. I can get my sexy outfit on, stand in front of the mirror while I'm preparing for my client and think, yeah, girl. Yes.

You got it. sexy BBW Granny, you know. I love that. And everybody wants you. Bring it on. So, it was great having you on. I hope you enjoyed it. I had the best time, really.

It was good, wasn't it? And we've got to know each other a bit. Any advice for my future sex life, what advice would you give me? Take things slowly, because there is no rush. You've got a whole life ahead of you. Said about all those, these ideas that you'd like to explore.

like to explore, go for it. You'll continually learn about yourself as you go through life. You know, I've learned a lot more in my latter years than I did in the beginning. So take all the opportunities you're given, you know, and you feel comfortable with. And I'm sure you will be fantastic. Thank you.