TED Talks Daily - How entrepreneurs can unlock their full potential | Jay Bailey
Episode Date: August 16, 2024Jay Bailey says so many ideas never see the light of day because entrepreneurship has a problem of belonging. He shares how a chance encounter kicked off his own journey to becoming an entrep...reneur and advocate for Black-owned businesses — and shows how anyone can unlock untapped potential.
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Entrepreneur Jay Bailey says so many ideas are never seeing the light of day
because of a problem of belonging.
In his 2023 talk,
he shares his journey to entrepreneurship that started when he was just 11 years old
and explains how it became a catalyst for Black-owned businesses
across the United States. It's coming up after the break.
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I've got this new definition of hell that I'm still testing out.
My theory is this, that when we leave this earth, the vast majority of us are actually going to take the elevator up. But when we get there, whatever God we believe in
is literally going to show us every single thing that was possible in our lives while on earth
had we only believed. See, our biggest regrets are never rooted in our actions or the things that we did do.
It's in our inactions, the things that we did not do or even try.
And it's usually because we didn't believe we could.
I'm not good enough.
I'm not smart enough.
I'm not rich enough.
I didn't have time.
Beliefs are generally formed by two things, either our experiences, our environment,
our inferences, or our own deductions, or by accepting what other people tell us to be true.
And most of our core beliefs are formed when we're children. Now, I was a horrible student.
I was branded gifted in kindergarten. I was a really smart kid, but I hated school,
but I was always enterprising. I was the kid, y'all, that used to make popsicles in the ice
tray and sell them for a dime in my driveway. I was so cold with it, y'all, that I used to charge people 50 cents
to fight in my backyard so they wouldn't get in trouble fighting in the front yard. And that is
a true story. That is a true story. I love the transaction. And I was riding my bike to the
barbershop one day, and I'll never forget this day. I was 11 years old, riding my bike to the barbershop one day, and I'll never forget this day. I was 11 years old.
Riding my bike to the barbershop.
And you got to understand, when I grew up in the 80s, you could have put a Bentley next to a Ferrari.
And I would have taken a Ford Mustang GT 5.0 every day of the week.
So as I pull up to the barbershop on my bike, I'm frozen in my tracks.
I'm talking deer in headlights.
Why?
Because, oh, my God, there it was. A black on black on black convertible Mustang GT 5.0 parked illegally in front of the barbershop, and I lost my mind.
I ran into the barbershop and screamed, I'm 11. Whose car is that? And so I see my barber in the corner of my eye,
just chilling in the cut, just, then he gave me the nod. That's the universal soul brother symbol for that's me.
And so because of my environment, my examples, my inferences, my deductions, there was only one thing that he could have possibly done to afford that car.
And because it was so normalized in my community, I didn't think anything of it.
So when I got in his chair, as a matter of fact, as I'm asking about the weather, I asked him, I said, John, I didn't know you were a dope boy.
Click, turned off the clippers, screamed at him, shut the F up and turn around and count how many chairs you see in this shop.
I said, I don't know, 10.
He said, well, each one of these barbers pays me $50 a week to cut hair in my shop.
Jay, you're smart.
Do the math.
So little Jay Bailey started tabulating.
And he stopped me.
He said, you got to realize I got two more shops just like this.
Finish the math.
So now things got interesting.
Remember, this is the early 80s, and I'm an 11-year-old kid, and I had never seen zeros like this.
I was like zero, zero, zero, comma, zero.
And then he said it. He said, I am an entrepreneur. I own this business, and I own those other two
shops. And what you need to do is go find you something you love and go make money doing it.
Two very powerful things happened in that one moment. For the first time in my life,
I had ever heard the word entrepreneur and it's what I had always been, but I didn't have a name
for it. And so literally once I started to understand what entrepreneur really meant, my life started to make sense and I had direction. And the second thing was that nobody
had ever explained to me the whole concept of ownership. And those two things fundamentally
changed my trajectory. I can't understate or overstate the power of that chance encounter that lit a fire in the belly of an 11
year old kid that became a 12 year old business owner who now stands before you leading the
largest center in the world dedicated to growing, scaling, and developing black businesses.
Touching thousands of entrepreneurs.
Wow.
And so for what we did there,
and for now touching thousands of entrepreneurs,
I knew that we lose GDP every year because the brilliant ideas that reside on the south side of the tracks
of every city in America never reach the marketplace
because they don't believe they belong.
And I'm also a firm believer that the only difference
between that north side of the tracks and that south side of the tracks
is access, opportunity and exposure.
And that's it.
You want to talk about innovation?
Show me somebody on the planet more innovative than a single mother
with two kids making $17,000 a year.
The way she thinks, the way she problem solves, her grit, her determination, her resilience,
how is she able to smile and still spread joy to her kids at Christmas when there are no gifts
under the tree and there is literally no food in the pantry? But somehow, she still makes it work. How does she do it?
In this example, she feels like a warrior.
But what does she believe when she stares in the mirror?
And now back to the episode.
Drug dealers.
I don't condone them.
I don't celebrate them, but I did grow up around them.
And I got tons of my friends that are twice as smart, twice as sharp, 10 times as charismatic as me.
But they made different decisions and choices in life and they came with severe outcomes.
But I'm still enamored by them.
Why?
Because we can go to any hood in America and find me the biggest, baddest dope boy on any block,
and y'all are going to have to convince me
that that kid doesn't understand import, export, wholesale, retail,
supply, demand, customer retention, customer support,
loss prevention, all with a gun to his head. And the cops and his competition literally trying to
eviscerate him from the equation every single day. What if that kid had different experiences,
different exposure, different income inputs, better role models? If he did, he'd run circles around everybody. What was whispered in
his ear that he believed? And what were the environments that he was placed in where he felt
like he belonged? That's the power of what we are trying to do with the Russell Center.
Because when I started to think about an opportunity to create this safe space, where literally I started to tap into the most powerful examples of economic mobility in our
community's history, Motown and historically black colleges and universities, our HBCUs.
We wanted to be disruptive to the typical incubator accelerator model because statistically
they just haven't worked at scale for black entrepreneurs and the thing about Motown and
HBCUs the beautiful similarity is that you were surrounded by black brilliance every single day
your ideas matter you saw value in your own reflection. Literally, you understood
greatness at a higher level because you experienced it every moment of every waking minute.
And so we got started. And you can read it in my bio that I have the high honor of leading the H.J.
Russell Innovation Center for Entrepreneurs right here in Atlanta, Georgia,
in honor of one of the greatest entrepreneurs this city has ever produced, Mr. H.J. Russell.
So when we started to think about HBCUs and Motown and what made them so special,
we thought, what could make us so special and different? And so with our platform, we got started creating this space that was rooted in
belonging, the undergirded self-esteem, self-confidence, and belief that literally
looked at looking at the whole entrepreneur and not ignoring the loneliness, the depression,
the isolation that goes along with any entrepreneurial journey, but also making
wellness just as important
as learning about a P&L or a balance sheet.
In just four years from getting started,
we support now 360 entrepreneurs full-time
that have created 1,500 new jobs in our community.
We touch 10,000 annually through our network of partners,
and our stakeholder companies have generated over $450 million
of new economic value in our community.
We created the space where our ideas mattered and we had the freedom to believe. We created the
space where we knew without a shadow of a doubt we belonged and we're just getting started.
I'll close with this. If you are black, brown, or a woman, without ever having a single conversation with you
individually, I can assume this to be true. But if you are black, brown, or a woman in some way,
shape, or form, you have heard the speech that you've got to be twice as sharp,
three times as smart, five times as perfect, just to sometimes compete with mediocre. And so every day we put
on the mask. Every day we put on this heavy suit of armor to protect ourselves. And it gets so heavy. Never being able to show up as your
true authentic self. Never being able to take off that mask or take off that armor. And the world
suffers because of it. Because the world never gets to meet the real you, the authentic you,
the you that is brilliant, the you that is full of ideas, the you that is powerful,
that gets hidden every single day. So I'm asking each of you in finding this place,
the you that gets hidden every single day,
the powerful you that never gets seen because guess what? There's a beautiful you that maybe
even your best you that you've never even met yourself. When we started this journey,
there were no seats for us in these spaces, so we started to build our own. We had to surround
ourselves with the people and the places that allowed us to believe.
We started to ignore these seeds of doubt and only started to plant seeds that would grow
trees whose shade you may never sit under. Owning your space, believing in you, your best self,
and introducing yourself to your best self because literally the world suffers every day.
It does not have your full self in it.
The best you.
The real you.
And we can't wait to meet you.
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They make my family feel most at home when we're away from home.
As we settled down at our Airbnb during a recent vacation to Palm Springs, I pictured my own home
sitting empty. Wouldn't it be smart and better put to use welcoming a family like mine by hosting it
on Airbnb? It feels like the practical thing to do, and with the extra income, I could save up
for renovations to make the space even more inviting for ourselves and for future guests.
Your home might be worth more than you think.
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That was Jay Bailey speaking at TED Women in 2023.
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