TED Talks Daily - What I got wrong about changing the world | Malala Yousafzai
Episode Date: April 14, 2026Malala Yousafzai has spent her life advocating for girls' education — surviving an assassination attempt at 15, meeting with world leaders and then watching hard-won progress collapse when Afghanist...an fell to the Taliban in 2021. That moment of despair forced her to completely rethink what it means to create change, and what she discovered replaced her shattered optimism with something more powerful and more honest. Hear how to keep fighting for the future you want, even when hope feels lost.Learn more about our flagship conference happening this April at attend.ted.com/podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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It was August 2021.
I was in the hospital, recovering from one last surgery to repair the facial paralysis I suffered after the attack.
I picked up my phone and saw the Taliban had taken control of Afghanistan.
That's Malala Yusuf Zai.
She's one of the most recognized beacons of her.
hope in the world, the youngest Nobel laureate in history, a global advocate for education,
the girl who survived an assassination attempt by the Taliban and kept on fighting.
But when Afghanistan fell to the Taliban in 2021, hope collapsed.
The mission she had dedicated her life to, a world where every girl could go to school,
took a step backwards.
My foundation had been hope and optimism.
But then, in a single day, my belief in progress shattered.
In this powerful talk, Malala shares a sight of herself that the world doesn't often see
what it feels like when the person everyone looks to for hope has lost her own.
She shares how her theory of social change has evolved,
what she's learned that's kept her going even in her darkest moments,
and how we can keep building the future we want, even when hope feels lost.
Because the Afghan girls are not giving up on learning, even if it means risking their lives.
It is far from the education that they deserve, but it's a start.
Malala's talk is coming up right after a short break.
And now our TED Talk of the Day.
When I was a child, I thought changing the world was simple.
I would tell the people in charge all of my problems, and they would fix them.
I know how naive this sounds now.
But at 9 or 10 years old, it made sense to me.
I lived in a remote mountainous region of Pakistan.
The prime minister was more than 100 miles away from me.
In the capital city, he couldn't see the trash polluting our rivers
or our broken school bus or hospitals without dated equipment.
I was sure that our leaders could solve all of these problems
if only I could get their attention.
At age 11, I faced the biggest, most devastating problem of my life.
The Taliban took control of my town
and decreed that girls could no longer go to school.
I knew what life would be like for me without an education.
Marriage in my teens, two or three children, by the time I was just 20,
it meant I would have no choice, no control of my school.
future. If I was ever going to get people's attention, this was the moment. I decided to become
an activist. I gave interviews at protests. I spoke on television. I wrote a blog for the BBC,
and I appeared in a New York Times documentary. I did everything I could to reach to our leaders
and ask for their help. Simply for the crime of speaking out. The time of speaking out, the time of
Taliban tried to kill me,
shooting me in the face at point-blank range.
I was 15 years old.
But with the help of many doctors and even more prayers, I survived.
Millions of people heard my story.
Presidents and prime ministers all over the world wanted to meet me.
I was finally in the rooms where decisions were made.
And I could bring attention to girls like me
who did not have the opportunity to be in school.
And that's when I realized
that changing the world wasn't as simple
as pointing out the problems.
You had to argue for every policy change
and budget increase,
and you might have to get the support of as many people as possible,
and you might have to advocate for months or even years
to take one step forward.
Eventually, I came to believe that change was slow but steady.
Incremental, but thankfully, inevitable.
My foundation had been hope and optimism.
Faith, that people would do the right thing.
Trust that when leaders said they cared about making our lives better, they meant it,
even if it took longer than I wished.
But then, in a single day, my belief in progress shattered.
It was August 2021.
I was in the hospital, recovering from one last surgery
to repair the facial paralysis I suffered after the attack.
I picked up my phone and saw the Taliban had taken control of Afghanistan.
I was stunned, shattered, terrified, angry.
How could I continue to have faith that things would improve?
How could anyone believe that leaders were committed to girls' education
when they handed over an entire country to the men who pointed a gun at my head
and pulled the trigger?
From the recovery room, I called Afghan women, I knew.
who were working around the country.
They were frightened too.
On TV, experts and politicians were saying that the Taliban had changed
that this new version of the Taliban wouldn't ban girls from school
or oppress women.
The Afghans I spoke with didn't believe it.
And they were right.
Today, in Afghanistan,
girls are not allowed to attend school past sixth grade.
It is a crime.
Women who five years ago were doctors, politicians, engineers and artists
are not allowed to go to university or pursue a career.
A woman speaking in public is a crime.
But do you know what is not considered a crime?
This year, in 2026, the Taliban decreed that it is legal for men to be.
for men to beat their wives and daughters.
The Taliban have imposed a system of segregation and domination,
a gender apartheid on millions of women and guns.
For years, I thought the purpose of my life was to serve girls.
After Afghanistan, the optimism I had as an 11-year-old activist was gone.
but I couldn't walk away
because I knew exactly what Afghan girls were going through.
When I saw pictures of little girls
standing outside the locked gates of their schools,
I could not stop thinking about them.
I know many of us feel overwhelmed and lost today.
Like the obstacles are too big,
and there's little we can do to fix the problem.
But there's a lot I have learned over the past
and I want to share with you how to keep fighting for change when you have lost hope.
First, you have to start with something.
While I couldn't undo the catastrophe that had just happened in Afghanistan,
I knew I had to get out of my hospital bed and find a way to help.
I started by supporting underground schools
because the Afghan girls are not giving up on learning,
even if it means risking their lives.
Across the country today,
they are listening to lessons on the radio,
discreetly passing cassette tapes and books to each other
and trying to keep studying in secret.
It is far from the education that they deserve,
but it's a start.
The second thing I learned is the importance of working with others.
And that has led me to some unexpected places,
like movie theaters and football fields.
I have produced two films about Afghanistan,
bread and roses and champions of the Golden Valley.
Stories of Afghan men and women who are resisting the Taliban's oppression.
And I have joined the campaign of Afghan women's national football team
to push FIFA to allow them to compete in exile.
The Taliban are erasing women from public life.
But I am here to do the opposite of what the Taliban want.
That is why I am taking every opportunity to show Afghan women
speaking, singing, kicking a ball, and standing up for their rights.
Because the artists and athletes that I work with
help connect the world to the women and girls who are living through this crisis,
into the belief that every life carries equal worth.
My final lesson.
Stay ambitious.
I know it might sound foolish to be setting high goals
when you are losing a battle,
but the bigger the fight, the bolder you have to be.
What is happening in Afghanistan
is a wake-up call for all of us.
Because the Taliban's cruelty against women and women,
girls did not begin in 2021.
They tried to silence me a decade earlier in Pakistan.
And before I was even born, they were stopping girls from school in parts of Afghanistan.
Yet, we have no international laws against gender apartheid.
No way to hold the perpetrators and their sympathizers accountable.
That is why Afghan women are campaigning.
to add these abuses to the UN's Crime Against Humanity Treaty.
And I have joined this movement
to ensure that we change things for women and girls everywhere.
It is a big goal.
I know it may take many years
to see the Taliban brought to justice.
But I will keep fighting
so that these crimes are not committed
against another generation of girls
anywhere in the world.
When I think about the 11-year-old girl I once was,
I want her to be proud of who I am today.
I want her to know that although changing the world
is not as simple as she thought,
I will not give up.
Here is the truth.
I don't have all the answers on how to change the world.
And I don't believe anyone else does either.
If I have learned anything,
it is that progress is never guaranteed.
There isn't one speech or one story, one moment or one person that can bend the arc of history on their own.
But if we start with something, work together and stay ambitious, hope stops being the thing we wait to feel and become something we create.
Thank you.
That was Malala Yusuf Sae at TED-20206.
And that's it for today.
Staley is part of the TED Audio Collective.
This talk was fact-checked by the TED Research Team
and produced and edited by our team,
Martha Estefanos, Oliver Friedman, Brian Green,
Lucy Little, and Tonica Sung Marnivong.
Additional support from Emma Tobner and Daniela Ballerazzo.
I'm Elise Hu.
I'll be back tomorrow with a fresh idea for your feed.
Thanks for listening.
