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Hey, me, welcome back to the 85th South episode.
Yeah, man.
We're doing our big food today, man.
We got none other than the super talented.
We got to get more good.
Give them a good.
The super dope.
The super instrumental.
Part of one of the hardest rap groups and rap history, man.
Hey, man, multicultural kid.
Make music all across the boy, whether it be for the hood,
whether it be for South America, whether it be for Haiti.
He didn't ran for president.
I got one of the highest grossest.
selling albums of all
times, man. None other
the legendary Haitian
Mr. Wycliffe.
Mr. Whitecliffe,
Mr. Whitecliffe, Mr. Whiteleff.
Give it up. Come on, man.
New York, you know, that was when you first
touched down, but, like, how did you feel
when, were you already Wyclef,
when you got to go down to Miami
and see the presence that the Haitian people,
have down there like were you already famous or did you get to see that
prior to you becoming a superstar so it's a deep question so you had two sets
brewing at the time so we was in Brooklyn Jersey the refugees and the thing is
now if you look back at the refugees John Forte who got the first pardon now
hold on that I got to ask you this yeah yeah I had no hug an idea who John Forte
was until he just showed up on the Wycleft song,
but we was rocking with your shit so hard.
We're just like, oh, it's Wycliffe button.
Yeah.
Like today, like, say somebody you feel has talent,
you're gonna put them on a feature, you know what I mean?
So John was those, John was always in the studio,
he was part of doing the beats, he was part of the,
John was part of the brain trust or the Hoogis.
So, and automatically, definitely John had the vibe.
So I was saying, like, when we look at it,
John historically,
was one of the first rappers that got a pardon from a president for his charge.
It was George Bush, right?
So now I bring you there to show you like when we say like the refugees,
it was literally taking a negative and making a positive out of it, right,
without having a top move.
Right.
So we was there.
Then you had the Zopalm that was in Miami, right?
So, so let me tell you the story, the real story.
Give me a lighter.
Right?
So, don't want to get a lighter.
So, blood clot lights, I want.
So I remember we was doing a show with Buzhou, Bonta, in Miami.
Salute to the General.
We was doing the show, and I'm downstairs.
And keep in mind, we're bubbling, but we're still not.
And then my man like, yo, my man Shyam and say,
yo, there's these dudes upstairs, you know?
Like, they're not going to get off, you know,
they're on by the stage because my role manager has to get them.
I say, yo, it's not going to get off, man, to you.
You know, they're just like they got to see you.
So I go and we kids.
And the minute I see Makazzo,
Maca Zoh looks like my brother.
Right.
So literally, see, the thing about Hayden,
It's tribes.
Right.
So me and Mac just start to hug each other,
and it's just an energy with kids.
Right.
So the idea of the refugees and the idea of like Zopown,
it was a movement of struggle,
and like we're going to show like the world
that we're on top and we could do better.
So I was the first dude, no cap,
that put a festival together in Miami
this is long before
Ultra and all these festivals
I'm the first one
the carnival
the carnival was the name of the festival
Aaliyah you could Google it
Timberlin
Usher that's the first time
if Usher's watching this he knows
that's the first time people thought
Usher was Haitian
that's where the room started
it started on my festival
because I had Usher say
sac passe and every time we see each other
he'd be like yo you know it's because you had me
say endless. I keep going and going and going. So, and I remember being in the audience with
Makazzo, when we both looking at each other. And he was like, yo man, this is, this is the vision, man.
Like, we're going to take this music thing to the next level. So he's a big inspiration because
it was like brother talking a brother. So we like in the middle of this festival, we're talking. So
I'm going to show you how deep it is.
So when you watch a video I have,
which is called MVP compa.
MVP compa, you spoke about
the Crayal music that I do too.
So in the intro of that video,
now if y'all go back and watch it,
the minute the songs start, that's me and Macazo.
In the very intro.
And it's in Crayal.
So again, we was
celebrating the idea of life, the idea
of music, red eyes, all
these guys. It was an idea
of positivity.
This was the start of everything.
This is what it was going to be.
So the embracement was like this, because we all was reping the flag.
And it was sort of like, it's like one set, meeting another set, but part of the same set.
You know what I'm saying to you?
It's a big same flag because we're all up on the one.
Yeah, so I take Freemakazzo.
You mean that.
I mean Freemakazzo.
I got to ask you this.
What did you learn when you ran for president?
Like, because you, this is real, this top office over there.
What was some of the lessons that you learned or some of the things that you didn't know about government that you came in?
Well, I remember calling like my closest friends and I was like, yo, I'm going to run to be present in the Haiti.
And all I heard was, nigga, you're crazy, click, right?
Okay, nigga, I'll be at the funeral, click, right?
Nick, I got me at the funeral, Clay, right?
You got my blood?
Congratulations.
You did it.
You think I got Snoop on the Whitecliffe.
Barack, you next.
You know, oh, I can't wait and tell my son,
but you know your dad smoked Snoop Dogg and White Cliff, right?
Man, there's some good shit.
I feel good.
I feel good.
Salasi.
Sao passe?
Not right here.
Yeah.
So here we go.
On a real talk.
Right.
So when I ran for president, here the real talk.
Right.
So we seen Kanye run.
Did.
Jordan.
Trump, I go way back, like, saying, like, with Trump, I'm just showing you, like, I remember one of my early shows that I did, like, was for Donald Trump.
This is before he was president.
And I have, like, a picture.
I'm just showing you this is, like, at a time.
when I was running, right?
So I was on the apprentice.
I'm just giving you a different thing.
The idea of a celebrity saying like, yo, I'm going to run for office of a country.
They're like, yo, what you want?
Right.
What you want?
Right.
So there was like, yo, Clef stole money from his country.
Right?
So they start this smear campaign.
That's how they try to get you.
Right.
What made me run and what made me think I could be president is the most important thing.
Right.
So let's get into it.
There's what you see on camera and there's what you see behind the camera.
I'm seeing.
So before I ran in 2005, when George Bush gave the order for Colin Powell, RP to the general,
had to go to Haiti and literally kidnapped the president at the time, Aristin, and take them out the country.
Right?
It's 2005.
I remember watching, I was in Paris.
I remember and this was like past those dates and I remember I'm watching TV and a kid comes on the TV in Paris and
He says the only person that could make us put our guns down is why cleft jump
Now why he say that because even as a Fuji the score the Grammys put up my flag
even when I'm on doing music for Sony
I'm still doing music in Crayall
and I'm sending it back to Haiti
the same way Biggie would do music
and Brooklyn feels like that Biggie is a Bible
so I would do music like that
I don't know so there was always that connection
with them so
and that kid his name is Haitian
Tupac. Now let me show you
how the gangs was working in Haiti
you have to be a hell of a nigga right? Yeah
it's a street name for your head. Yeah
you hear me and then I need
everybody after this to go watch
the ghost of Cite Soleil and get deeper.
All of the kids that was in the Cite Soleil at the time
was inspired by hip-hop.
So they gave themselves hip-hop names.
So go watch the doc.
You're going to see 50 cents.
Like he calls himself 50 cents.
He's a Haitian.
And it goes on and on.
So we got a chance to do a doc.
You'll see it on these kids.
So I want y'all to get deep into the gang culture down there, just to understand where it comes from.
So just to say that touched me when he said that, and I said, you know, I'm done with music.
Like, what other record can I possibly break?
My people need me.
Slumdog Millionaire.
I came from that village, and I'm going to go back and put my entire heart into that.
Now, what didn't y'all see behind the cameras?
Me in Haiti.
with all the gangs at the time
saying look
I'm gonna put this
if y'all see any of these trucks coming
and they have a yearly Haiti sticker
don't rob them right
they're here to work for us
they're here to work for you right
I was inside of these communities
with like women
giving money out
and having them start small businesses
I was the one that was getting on the plane
going from Haiti to Washington
in D.C. to negotiate
what the gangs wanted
with the U.N. at the time. This is all
me. This is before I ran for president.
I was the one that went to Congress and was
like, yo, dog,
like at the end of the day,
I need you to pass this bill
so that the textile
can be on point and we
could bring more job creations. This is
me. This is not on camera.
This is what's happening in real time.
So when I ran,
I knew I could do it.
Because I felt like I was the face of the country.
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I got one of my OG guests here.
He's been all the way back to the Steve Harvest Studio.
He got a hell of the office.
I didn't know it was the studio.
Exactly.
Exactly.
Just, the studio shit upstairs, but we just missed the body.
Yeah, I went up and there that first time, I was like, okay.
But if you could feel the energy, you could feel something that's blowing up.
You could feel it that it was some people that was passionate about it.
Exactly.
Look from the office to a whole goddamn, goddamn fucking production spot.
Look around.
A whole studio.
New Netflix special on the way.
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Out.
Right now.
You can go watch it right now.
It's going on their shit.
Huh?
They're watching it right after the interview.
Oh.
They might have watched it before because he's out.
Birds flying high, you know how I feel.
Come on, man.
Breeze drifting on by, you know how I feel.
It's a new dawn.
It's a new day.
It's a new life for me.
You know him is Escher Larry.
I call him motherfucker Donnell Rawlins in this bitch.
New day.
You're here with us today.
And I'm feeling good.
Yeah, a lot of them, it's a lot of talent
that's just going to be some great local talent
because they're too lazy to lead that motherfucker
and build a profile up and go be seen in them room.
Workshed things, man.
Yeah, a lot of motherfuckers hold their self back with this shit.
You got to go be uncomfortable.
Yep.
You be getting comfortable at the spot you go to
because you know there's one thing.
The more uncomfortable you can get,
the more everywhere is fucking comfortable.
You know what I'm saying?
What niggas need to do is shut the fuck up
and write some jokes.
I mean, that's the first thing.
I mean, I don't know what else to say.
I don't know what else to say.
Niggas need to shut the fuck up
and write some jokes.
There you go, man.
Niggas need to shut the fuck up
and get in the streets.
Niggas need to stop talking about
what the fuck they're going to do and go do it.
And niggas need to stop talking about
what everybody else is motherfucking doing
and go and go do it.
Yeah.
Niggas need to stop making motherfuckers' excuses.
And I ain't talking about anybody in particular
but it could be somebody in particular
but motherfuckers
Not anybody in particular
In particular
I don't know who the fuck in particular
It's in particular
But this nigger Nicholas particular
Particulars
It's particulars
It's particulars
It's out here
They everywhere, son
It ain't one nigger
It's a whole bunch of niggas
That particular niggers
That just talk
And talk about what another
nigger doing and don't want to do it
their self.
Now you're going to
make me ask you about the shit
because we only got to see
the fucking cut in.
What happened?
I don't know what you're talking about.
The laugh factory is shit.
I'm talking about particulars, man.
I'm just, I don't know who you talking about.
I was talking about that particular.
I was talking about all these things out here.
And the funny thing about it.
You're talking about, okay, particulars in general.
Just all around particles.
Okay, and using these particulars,
they talk about everybody else
that used to be a particular.
Because you grow from it.
They talk about everybody else.
And these particulars usually go for the most successful motherfuckers.
They usually go for the motherfuckers that's doing it.
They usually go for motherfuckers that broke down walls for everybody.
They usually go and deal motherfuckers.
They don't fuck with motherfuckers that's like, Lord, they go for the big dogs.
And they make excuses for those people.
They make excuses.
Oh, he got this because of this.
He got this because he did that.
And this is not anyone in particular, but this goes for the industry.
motherfucker so often when to sit back and talk shit and don't realize the way you make it is by
have work ethics the way you make it is by doing what the next nigger won't do and i ain't talking
about no sexual shit i'm saying going harder you got too old i just i got to say this because
niggas be taking words and flippin the oh he did this and that man he wong o wong o wong up
and i'm thinking this man i'm just trying the world to the world no dickers you ain't
got this this is all i'm trying to say man for all your young actors and comedians that's coming
up right now. You don't have to suck a dick to make it. Can I say it any clearer than that?
Guess how you can make it. Okay. You got to kiss no, no, no. You ain't got to kiss no ass. You ain't got to kiss no ass. You ain't got to take it in the ass to make it.
What you got to do is go hard and have some work ethics and be motherfucking good at what the fuck you do.
That's what you got to do. I think of all these motherfuckers going out there. I'm sick of all these things, right?
I'm in here trying to be all calm, man. I'm sick of these particular ass niggas. The fuck out my face, man.
Jay Z said it.
Women lie, men lie, but numbers don't,
nika.
Ah.
No, I'm just sad, man.
I'm sick of it.
A nigga worked too hard, man.
So what's...
I don't know what you're talking about, son.
It is not one, isn't it?
It's these motherfuckers everywhere.
You've seen them.
You see them.
Comedy game is fucked up right now.
It ain't fucked up.
It ain't fucked up.
You've seen them.
It's these motherfuckers.
It's these motherfuckers right here.
always making excuses.
They don't want to fucking put the work in.
Put the fucking work in.
Knickers, stop making excuses and blaming other shit.
If you look at most motherfuckers in this business
that are really good,
you could probably, Carlos, you could probably say,
well, he didn't make it because of this
or didn't happen because of this.
You go of a life's choice.
A lot of times it's drugs, right?
A lot of times it's niggas get caught up in the bitches.
You know what I'm saying?
You can break it down.
But you tell a motherfucker that's focus.
Like, I get sick of motherfuckers talking.
They do this to Kevin.
And I ain't here to defend anybody.
They do this to Kevin.
They do this to Dave.
They want to fuck with these, what you understand is everybody's path is different.
I can't let nobody say when they say, Kevin Hart is a plant and everything.
To me, that's bullshit.
And the reason why I know is bullshit, when I was doing them nigger rooms,
Peppermint Lounge and all them type of shit.
Guess it was in them rooms?
Kevin.
Kevin didn't fucking start doing showcases shit.
That nigga was in nigger rooms
doing the impression of monkeys and cabarets and shit.
Wait a minute.
No, he used to one of his best jokes.
He used to do this monkey.
He looked little, so he sold it.
I don't know he did like this or something.
He sold it, right?
I ain't said a nigga monkey.
He'll tell you.
He had a joke.
He used to do this.
thing like this thing, he had a joke,
and it was a monkey currency, and he did his hands like this,
and niggas went crazy.
That's fucking crazy.
They didn't know that this monkey nigga was going to be
an international movie star.
That didn't know monkey business was going to turn in that shit,
said.
That thing was like this.
He used to do the joke like this.
He used to do like this stuff.
And then he would run.
I don't even, I don't know if he said it.
But he, I don't know if he said it.
It was his joke, nigger.
You look at me like,
he might not want you to see it.
I'm like, what the fuck.
That nigga proud of being a monkey.
Yo, he came up being that monkey, nigger.
They didn't know him until he started being the monkey.
Ask anybody.
Ask anybody.
Ask anybody.
Ask anybody.
I'm not saying this as race.
He was like this.
He would do like this.
Yo, he would do that.
Y'all think, yo, he would do like this.
This is what he did, nigga.
Nick, I'm telling you this.
I can't even look at this, man.
He did like this.
He did like this.
He did like this.
He did like this.
get like this, and then he throw his hands up
like monkey hands, and then
he'll do that again, and then he'd go back
over the corner like this. That's what
he did, and the nigger blew up.
Yo, he did that.
He will never do that joke ever again,
and he's like... I guess if he's seen this shit right now,
if he with his friends, guess what they're going to do?
The monkey joke. They're going to be like, yeah.
I bet. I guarantee you,
the niggins like, when they get mad at him
on the Jets, when they be on the Jets,
when they're on the Jets,
on the Jets and they get mad and jealousy like this.
Yeah, we remember you used to do monkey jokes,
nigger.
I don't remember the monkey joke, but I do remember the ostrich joke.
Here's the point.
The point I'm making, they try to discredit a nigga hustle.
The motherfucker had enough sense.
He used to do this.
The nigga used to commute from Philly.
They don't, this story don't tell people.
He used to do the go-hard rooms,
then he'd go do the mainstream rooms.
He would mix it up.
He used to come.
I remember handing Kevin Hart $75 for a spot.
And he didn't really do that well in the room.
You know what I'm saying?
Because his comedy wasn't edgy like that.
He didn't do that well in the room.
But it was just like a brotherhood that we all had.
The comedians from the D.C. area, Philly and all of us had rooms.
We used to swap rooms.
You know how it is.
You go do a run.
And I saw, this is what I'm saying.
I saw his hustle, not just hustle for the streets.
not just hustle for the streets
not just like I'm in these streets
he was in the streets
but at the same time he was like
I'm going to cross that street
and I'm going to go talk to them motherfuckers too
and that's what people understand
they can say what they want
this business do is it gatekeepers
in this business you're motherfucking right
is there people that block
motherfuckers shit motherfucker fucking right
either you learn how to navigate
your way around it or you do your own shit
you ain't got to I'm not saying
you got to do what they do
but if you don't want to work
within what this system is,
then go do it yourself.
These niggas keep talking about Hollywood.
Fuck Hollywood.
Move, nigger.
Go to the country.
If you got a problem with Hollywood,
get the fuck out of Hollywood.
Why you want to stay in an
sessive shit like that?
And especially the day we and now,
you can do your own shit.
This show is an example of saying,
fuck Hollywood.
We're going to do it our own way.
And when you do that, and when you do that, guess what?
When you do that, guess what?
Hollywood comes to you.
Ms. Erica Banks is in the trap with us today.
First of all, how you doing?
I'm good, how you doing?
You're looking like you're having fun with it.
I am.
A nigger could never do enough.
Oh, please.
Never do enough.
Please, niggas don't do enough.
Why not?
What's enough?
I'm about to say, what is enough?
What is enough?
Niggas just don't do enough.
What is enough?
I feel like everybody has their own definition of enough.
So what's yours?
Yeah, we'll take yours.
My definition of enough
where I'm not complaining,
a scene where or a situation where I'm not...
Show me a scenario where a woman's not complaining about that.
What?
It's situations where women do not have to complain about nothing
and they're satisfied and their men is enough
because they're like, okay, I'm satisfied.
I'm never like.
Spazzing out, he is enough.
I don't have to, like, look any further.
Then he'd get up and go home to his wife.
What the fuck?
Well, that meant he'd be doing it.
Why the fuck don't we ever meet these men
that they be talking about? We know all the niggas in the world.
They are out there.
We got a whole underground network of the niggies,
and we never come in contact with these niggas y'all talking about.
What do you mean? What happened to the relationship?
Like, you know, you've had one, obviously, right?
Or you still got one?
No, I've had relationships.
I'm saying,
like with a guy like that
that you didn't have to complain with?
Yeah, but it was temporary.
Where is this nigga?
Why no, wait a minute.
Where is he?
Because that's what you've been looking for.
You think there's a lot of them.
You got to call that man in the podcast.
You ain't about to find two of them.
You found the one you was talking about.
No, I never found him.
If I found him, I'd be with him.
See, this is exactly what I'm talking about.
These women go out here and find the exact
that they want and don't want him.
So why would you put pressure on yourself
to change?
That is not what I said.
That's not what I said.
I did I say.
Don't you be out here.
You can't be this nigga.
She don't want him.
The nigger she won't.
You said it with Temple here.
I mean, you know, everything don't last long, you know.
You started complaining and he left.
He said, you know what?
I'm too good of a man for this shit.
I'm out here.
I'm out here doing everything.
I'm doing all this shit you're rapping about.
You still treat me like shit
You're still texting that
nigger
You still follow his motherfucking
Instagram
It's funny because
I had a
I had an ex like
and it was insane
Everything you just did
It was just like intense
You have flashbacks
They said that nigga loaves you know
Oh my God
But don't nobody want to talk about this shit
That shit is painful
But you see the facts
Even they know three niggas
who the nigger they like.
That's the nigger they want, and they don't want him.
That's what I mean really think that's insane.
You just sat there and said you wanted a situation where you wasn't complaining.
He said, have you ever had that?
You said, sure, temporarily.
So then once you didn't say the rest, then let me know that you fucked it up.
Because I would like to think if you were in a situation where you're not complaining,
you want some shit like that for life.
You're supposed to shut the fuck up and just enjoy that.
I mean, you know, life happens, you know.
I don't know.
How many times you think you're going to find these people who are going to fit these standards and qualifications?
Maybe two more times in my life.
No.
I want the type of hope you got.
What?
Two more times in my entire lifetime?
That's like not crazy.
You were born in the late 90s.
You might get one or two more chances.
Yeah, I feel like I got like one of them.
One and two.
Yeah, I got faith in it.
He going to see this shit?
He's watching it.
He probably, I mean, I don't know.
He might not.
He might not.
It depends on what type of a nigga.
is, you know what I'm saying?
How you feel about relationships in the industry, though, like you being a star by yourself,
you feel like a relationship would be too demanding where you, you know, to get to where you're
trying to go?
Absolutely.
Right now, absolutely.
Of course.
I mean, it sounds great.
The thought is beautiful.
You know, at a later time, I'm definitely interested in doing it.
But at the time, like right now, probably not.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But I'm always, you know, an open book.
You're, like, open to finding somebody and just saying, fuck it.
I'm not saying fuck it.
I'm saying, like, I'm open to, you know, dating.
Like, I'm dating.
You know, I feel like it's cool to date.
Dating is fun.
What's a good date?
I'm just about to ask that.
What's a good date?
What's a good date?
For me?
Yeah, yeah, because you, man, you pick her up.
She showed up with her goddamn chain with her whole name, Mom.
I used to fuck out.
Where do you take her?
I mean, a nice restaurant, of course.
I can pick the restaurant.
He don't even have to pick the restaurant.
That's good.
Because I know what I like.
That's good shit.
He ain't got to be in one of the niggas that got the date I already playing.
No, but I would appreciate that.
But you just said he ain't got to.
I mean, he don't have to, but it's appreciated.
You know, but I pick the place if he don't know.
That's what I'm, you know.
And then, you know, I'm really simple.
I just want to eat.
I want to have drinks.
And I just want to have a good time.
By the time we're done eating because I'm going to order so much,
I'm going to be fool in the road to lay down.
Oh, so.
So you're going to eat your food.
Yes.
You're going to eat your shot.
You're going to eat this shit.
No.
what she said.
You need to lay down.
She's going to be ready to eat
and lay down.
God damn it.
She's going to be ready to eat
and lay down.
Oh, my God.
Hey, man.
Hey, they do sound fun when you put it like that.
You know?
Because it ain't, they got way,
you can't even order enough shit
that ain't, then I'm going to be like,
that's too much shit.
Go ahead, get something out.
That's the problem.
Niggins is taking these women places
and they ain't getting them full enough to lay down.
I would hate that.
I don't hate it.
I'd be meaning to eat these shouts.
Oh, hate that.
You were up, take them somewhere, get them for,
so they'd be ready to lay down.
They get their plate, and then they sit there and take the shit home
and put it in a half-hour.
That's why women don't never eat all their food.
You're giving up the game, Erica.
I just thought about something.
That's why a lot of these women go places,
and they be trying to get that shit to go.
Because they don't want to lay that.
Because they don't be ready to lay down.
Dirty bitch.
So fellas, you can just start gauging about how much food she eat.
Feed her first.
See if she get full.
Fuck the rest of that day.
She's going to be ready to lay down.
So what's a good restaurant to take with that fucking too?
Where they're going to want to lay down.
They're going to get full of nothing.
Well, they're going to eat the food so they can get full of nothing.
Just laid out.
Obviously, Papa Doles and Dan Tanners.
No, that's shit.
They don't get for you.
They don't want to lay down when they lead up.
No.
That doesn't have a red laid out.
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